Coffee-Black Archive

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1	20 year old virgin (male); when I'm eventually about to have sex should I mention that I've never done it before or just keep quiet? It seems women value their virginity a lot more than men, generally speaking. That being said, I wouldn't tell her, unless she asks. Most men don't give a shit about their virginity, while most girls (in my experience) view it as almost a rite of passage. If she asks, tell her, chances are it won't come up. Get a few drinks in you, minimize the foreplay, bang it out.	/r/seduction	12/03/12 08:10 PM
1	What are some tips for a guy at the beginning of a relationship? Anything overly emotional, play the ball as it lays, be cool. It doesn't matter so much what you're talking about as how you're saying it, you can turn any conversation into something interesting by how you say it. Don't text her song lyrics. And while we're on the subject of texting, it is very important at least in younger generations of "texters" to establish your texting "persona". Unless you wanna send her smiley faces and long ass texts your entire relationship, don't do it to start with. …	/r/seduction	12/03/12 06:19 AM