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46

Even Wicca is kind of dubious...lots of men using "sex positivity/Great Rite" to get young women to sleep with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/22 11:30 PM
23

If a guy is planning on being childfree, it's pretty easy to get snipped. Kinda sounds like they're not as childfree as they thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 10:33 PM
48

Not an option for a lot of women - sometimes they come from parents who were even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 10:56 PM
12

If he's not willing to help her by getting legally married, she is smart to be covering her ass by asking for that money up front.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:27 AM
1

For a moment I wondered if we'd gone to the same coffee shop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:52 PM
9

Some people are just built that way. I had almost identical waist/hip measurements in high school (late 1990's).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 12:02 AM
17

Did you date my ex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:51 PM
38

I took night classes at my local community college and all my classmates were non-traditional students. A couple of them regularly brought their (older) kids with the permission of the instructor, they'd do their own homework or quietly watch the lectures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:37 PM
4

I knew an anorexic woman who didn't eat enough throughout her pregnancy. Kid spent months in NICU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:13 PM
5

Nope, he's not. Huge fucking creep. But the only media sources that were reporting on it were either rabidly right-wing or radfem sources like Feminist Current.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:10 PM
3

Yup. See his role in "Mallrats" for example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:46 PM
32

The DuggarsSnark sub has been having a field day with this case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 11:15 PM
36

YES you literally have people (both men and women) claiming to be full-blown communists while supporting sex work like what?! The notion that "there is no ethical consumption under capitalism" apparently doesn't apply to women's bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:54 PM
6

Gilbert from the CBC series "Anne of Green Gables". Or, for that matter, from the Netflix adaptation "Anne With an E". Or Matthew Cuthbert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:04 PM
2

Yes - this series is excellent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:00 PM
16

In my experience, this is not uncommon when someone is a HVM but there's no chemistry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:17 AM
8

feelings changing into more of a brother/sister type relationship (odd, I know, but it happens lol I don't think this is as odd as you think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:08 AM
117

Be careful in pagan/occult groups, the men there can be just as toxic as in Christianity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:57 AM
8

"I don't need to be with you. Yes, I could pack up and leave anytime. I choose and decide to be with you every single day I am here." That's love. Not having to stay in a dead or abusive marriage/relationship because you cannot afford to leave. A HVM will acknowledge this reality and make sure his spouse has what she needs to do that if need be (i.e., supporting her going back to school so she can get a better paying job).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:41 PM
3

Honestly even a lot of poly people I've met are like "yeah, I still ID as poly but damn if the vast majority of them aren't gross AF". Also, obligatory: https://youtu.be/DTsdKycVZZ4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 10:38 PM
16

You likely work with at least one poly person. If you're in the PNW, there are probably a few :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:57 PM
11

What's your profession? (if it's tech or tech-adjacent, you probably are)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:56 PM
26

There was a really good thread on AskReddit where people were being brutally honest about the downsides. I think it was about people who grew up with poly parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:48 PM
3

Lost? Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:32 PM
11

Apparently a lot of swingers' clubs have this policy too, but I doubt it really helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:55 PM
13

Could be a regional thing - there are definitely parts of the U.S. where 50k can buy a life that costs 75k+ elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:03 PM
9

I was thinking "Dolores Claiborne".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:48 PM
24

That's almost exactly why it won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:43 PM
37

Any guy with a bidet gets bonus points from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:20 PM
6

Does the same apply to women in cohabiting relationships, or is there something about marriage that turns men into babies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:12 PM
7

Isn't that portrayed in "Marvelous Mrs. Maisel"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:48 PM
1

Been trying over a year now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:11 PM
1

Living this right now :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:28 PM
2

You're not wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:25 AM
1

In my case, they're strictly 21+. Not sure why, but liquor laws are kinda weird and it might be because there's no physical barrier between the bar and the seating area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:58 PM
5

I've been to some good, non-chain restaurants in the price range of Cheesecake Factory that don't allow minors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:23 PM
2

I think (and this may vary by region), it would mean entrees in the $30-60 range.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:22 PM
26

Wait - self defense classes are illegal? Does that include martial arts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:14 PM
3

Sometimes credit card companies will have a "no interest for the first X months" special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:47 PM
6

How much do you need to get your car back?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:46 PM
33

I had an ex praise me for being "low maintenance". I didn't realize in those days it was code for "I can take you for granted and still get sex."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:27 PM
15

As someone married to a HVM, the congratulations over my wedding were considerably greater than when I finished college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:24 PM
26

More specifically, Ron Swanson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:41 PM
2

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Belle_Delphine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:47 AM
4

That's some post-modern bullshit if I ever heard it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:44 AM
8

I encountered this shit in a Pagan community. There was an "elder" there who was notorious for his attraction to young (18-23, he was around 40) women. He had started grooming and pursuing a 16 year old and the rest of the community turned a blind eye to it...because they didn't have sex until she was 18. Never mind that she'd never so much as had a boyfriend before and was extremely sheltered - the fact that she was legal meant there was "nothing wrong with it" and I should "mind my own busines…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:41 AM
3

Yup. Guys, if you knew a girl before she turned 18 (and you're long past that point) you should probably always think of her as a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:35 AM
1

That's something I love about British television - actors and actresses don't have to be conventionally attractive at all, there are plenty that Hollywood would have never given a second look to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:16 PM
10

If I had any kind of decent relationship with either of my parents, I probably would. But doing that would be the worst thing I could do for my mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 07:43 PM
2

I remember my mom wishing at one point her ex would hit one of us, because it would be easier to justify divorcing him. Because apparently years of verbal, emotional, and sexual abuse weren't enough :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:30 PM
3

This is why I took the animals when my ex and I split. He was really bad about keeping litter boxes clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:05 PM
3

Yeah, my guy friends keep their houses pretty clean also. Some have things like lots of plants or bookshelves, or clutter along the lines of stacks of paper - but nothing that constitutes outright filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:03 PM
9

I'm surprised your school allowed that - mine wouldn't allow any guests who were 21+.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:59 PM
10

Makes sense. If you're in a situation where you need a 2nd income just to be able to afford some shitty-ass apartment in a bad neighborhood, you'll put up with more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:40 PM
8

Also, less fear (supposedly) of going to the police when assaulted by a john, since you don't run the risk of being arrested for prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:36 PM
1

As someone who was sexually harassed at 15 by a family member (and had my own stepfather use that same excuse, that I should have been 'flattered' because who else would be interested in my 'fat' 120lb self), I really want to hit this judge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:18 PM
3

Thank you - I have no objection to people drinking, but when you get to a point where other people have to make sure you're not going to hurt yourself or others it's gone too far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:41 AM
1

Yeah, same in my city. I think it's pretty common?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:45 AM
2

Ugh, my ex would pull all sorts of self-pitying crap. I thought that if I left I'd be the bad guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:48 PM
3

I'm not in NE but can you PM me if there's anything similar in the PNW?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:52 PM
15

In my experience it tends to be in the 17-20 age range though I've known some that were a bit older because they wanted to wait until they were in established relationships. The ones that lost it earlier in life were more likely to have seen it as a badge of shame and were more prone to wanting casual sex instead of healthy relationships. And no, not having someone interested in you by 16 is not a badge of shame. Children have no business dating, middle school and high school should be about lea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:25 PM
2

Me too. Family annihilators are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:36 PM
4

Also - I discovered if you offer a HVM a pre-nup before marriage, he'll refuse and say he doesn't think it's necessary (I did this because my spouse had way more money and earning potential than I did).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:46 PM
7

It's funny how the term "gold digger" is gendered, I've literally had LVM dump me for women who came from better-off families when they learned that I actually didn't come from money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:40 PM
1

Yeah - I mean, the idea of dressing up in formalwear to go somewhere fancy is just super stressful to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:30 AM
6

He'd basically cut her off/kick her out if she didn't give permission now that she's an adult. It's really sad how that kind of abuse/control can warp a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:11 AM
4

It also depends on what kind of relationship you have with whoever would be your legal next of kin (if unmarried, it would be your parents unless they're deceased, then siblings). If you trust that your family would act in your best interests if you were incapacitated, there's not much need to marry (spouse becomes NoK automatically). If you trust your partner more than your family, marriage would ensure he's the one with legal authority to act on your behalf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:54 PM
2

I don't necessarily read it as a male pick-me as much as a different level of shaming. Chances are, the "not wearing makeup" girl they're admiring is wearing at least some makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:11 AM
2

Same here, no one above 20 was allowed at any school dances, on or off campus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:12 AM
1

...did we go to the same HS? I know a couple years before I started there was a choir teacher that started dating a student when she was 18 (and hadn't graduated yet).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:12 AM
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