CoffeeGainsDrums Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Still believe that women will leave for better The problem is you’re framing this question in terms of universal male and female nature, while it’s really about individuals. Some women would. Many women would. So what? Many women cheat, many men cheat, some men murder and are in prison, etc. The key to sanity in this regard is being able to separate women as a category and individual women.	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/25 02:52 PM
0	I still believe in the red pill even though it's harmful.But I don't know what else to believe in Seek Christ, brother.	/r/ExRedPill	23/12/24 06:01 AM
-4	What red pillers get wrong about the "girls love bad boys" trope Damaged women tend to find assholes attractive because their dad was one. Women who have good relationships with their fathers tend not to. There’s also a giant difference between short term hookup and long term relationship; those are two different men in many cases.	/r/ExRedPill	17/12/24 02:56 AM
1	If The Red Pill is wrong, why are so many women divorcing men and so many single mothers? The question assumes a basic fallacy. It doesn’t follow from the fact that x is true that the red pill is the only framework in which x is true. There are many reasons, one of which is a lack of shared values and beliefs, weak men and delusional women, etc. Some of the red pill’s diagnostic is right, but the prescription is retarded.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/24 05:50 PM
33	Advice on relationship with redpill guy Do you want to date a man-child or a man? If the former, stay, and if the latter, leave. Pretty simple.	/r/ExRedPill	05/09/24 08:11 PM
1	How can you un-loser yourself as a 36 year old virgin? If you think building masculinity and being less nice isn’t the advice this guy needs then I don’t know what else to say man. What other solutions? Therapy? Massive fail rate. Men need more than “therapy” and “finding something they enjoy doing” and all the rest of it.	/r/ExRedPill	16/03/24 04:08 PM
6	How can you un-loser yourself as a 36 year old virgin? A lot of the advice you’ll find here puts you in the opposite of red pill; this kind of weak, relativistic stuff that doesn’t help men either. The Red Pill is toxic trash, but so is the flip side. Focus on cultivating masculinity, genuine masculinity. Strength of body and mind, fortitude, kindness, assertiveness, honour, respect. If you’ve only been able to build friendships with women, it’s probably because you haven’t made a move or you’re too nice. Yes, too nice is a real thing. Nice ≠ kind. …	/r/ExRedPill	16/03/24 03:49 AM
-6	I just have one thing about red pill that kind of bothers me: it’s the women who fall into this trap men set Good women are attracted to good men. Toxic women are attracted to toxic men. No women are attracted to weak, simpy men. True masculinity is the answer. Assertive Protective Provisional Honest Honourable Kind Strong	/r/ExRedPill	31/12/23 05:09 AM
6	Who do we even date in this society now? Been down the RP rabbit hole; all you will find is hurt, insecure men who use the ideology as a blanket. My recommendations: 1: You need to cut the RP content. All of it. Cut it out. Period. Full stop. I know it’s hard; create a new Google account so YouTube doesn’t recommend the stuff. Cold turkey. This is non-negotiable. 2: Figure out what your values are and lean into becoming a good man, irrespective of what you think women want. Good men are assertive, kind, protective, provisional, confide…	/r/ExRedPill	20/10/23 08:00 PM
1	Is there hope?? Idk man, if you listen to JP and come away with a typical, Rolo-tier Red Pill mentality, you’re not listening to him carefully.	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/23 02:04 AM
2	If women want their male partners to be more vulnerable, why is it that there are so many stories of men who opened up and were ridiculed/dumped/cheated on soon after? Aside from the comments about things like selection bias, which is real, neediness is a giant factor here. Being genuinely vulnerable with strength and courage is totally different than being vulnerable and needy at the same time. It’s the difference between “I’m sharing things with you” and “I’m sharing things with you and want you to affirm me and need to know that you don’t think less of me.” One is, (on average, I’d say) attractive, the other is never attractive.	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/23 02:01 AM