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5

I’ll have to try them out sometime, thanks for the recipe.
/r/MGTOW213/02/21 05:22 PM
3

Awe, I see my problem. I used to be a big time gamer. So my time was always full. Then I saw how much time I was spending on it so I stopped, then I had way too much free time and nothing to do.
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 12:46 AM
3

I understand now, I really appreciate you insight. I will find more important things to spend my time on.
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 12:30 AM
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I appreciate it, I’ll try to.
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 12:18 AM
4

I see, the question now is how do I get in the state of not caring.
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 12:18 AM
3

Good for you, it’s encouraging to hear that there are men out here living their lives not enslaved to women.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 11:16 PM
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lol yeah,
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 10:40 PM
1

That’s basically what happened to me started out make towel by default and slowly transition to make towel by choice
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 10:15 PM
5

Way to go for you man. I relate the first 4 paragraphs.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 09:54 PM
3

lol 😂 too true
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 09:05 PM
3

Thanks I appreciate that.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 09:00 PM
2

Hahaha that’s the truth
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 08:55 PM
7

Yes, I’m thankful that that we have it, and people that are will to tell the truth.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 05:48 PM
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Yeah, my problem is the conscience dilemma, because I’m a Christian, so how do I get to the point where I don’t value the pussy.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 05:46 PM
7

Yeah it hasn’t worked for me in the past why I almost tried it again.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 05:40 PM
7

Too true
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 05:38 PM
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I’m working towards $0 debt, and enjoying life on my terms.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 05:03 PM
10

Yeah, they want to feel the butterflies early and often.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 05:01 PM
45

Too true on all accounts. Exactly, my family told me to give her this letter.
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 04:59 PM
1

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for every
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 09:05 PM
20

They always take offense when they feel attacked
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 09:02 PM
10

lol 😂 “I’m a queen” “I deserve servants”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 05:57 PM
1

All of Female nature in one post wow
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 05:04 PM
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I’m somewhat new here, I’ve made a few posts, gotten some feedback. I definitely agree with the moderators, there’s not only one way to go your own way, and you are going your own way. Thanks for the post.
/r/MGTOW201/12/20 11:09 AM
1

Too true. I’ve always got the females in my family that stick their nose in my business,
/r/MGTOW230/11/20 10:21 AM
1

Thank you for your time and advice, I will take it into consideration, I appreciate your insight into my situation.
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 03:23 PM
1

That’s what I’m saying I’m trying to stop myself from wanting to bargain, I don’t know why I’m not moving past this phase.
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 06:34 AM
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Let’s tell her that she does deserve half so she spends the money lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 06:05 AM
1

They could have gotten together before she was more attractive, he might be the bad boy, she might be emotionally damaged, he might be great at the horizontal mamba. They are many possible reasons she might have to stay.
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 05:56 AM
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Exactly
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 05:50 AM
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Thank you so much for your story of warning, it helps properly not more than you know probably more than I know. Thanks
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 02:48 AM
1

lol I dressed better for my sales job. Not sure what you mean by not “do” anything?
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 02:42 AM
2

Bargaining that there is a NAWALT out there.
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 02:37 AM
2

I’m asking if anyone knows how to get past the bargaining phase.
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 12:24 AM
5

Because that mean she only liked me for my job, for the status or money that job could bring her, that’s funny seeing hypergamy in my personal life.
/r/MGTOW221/11/20 11:35 PM
1

Bargaining that there’s a NAWALT out there. I’m trying to get past this phase, with my religious convictions I wouldn’t be able to do the horizontal mamba outside of marriage. Im having an internal battle, and I want to be able to go my own way without the strong urges to go the other way.
/r/MGTOW221/11/20 11:16 PM
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lol yeah that’s what they say, I miss understood that this was a woman, lmao thought it was a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/20 10:59 PM
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First of all almost everyone feels that way, all for different reasons. We all realize at different stages that we haven’t accomplished as much as we hoped. And secondly, you deal with it by making the necessary changes in your life to feel, and have a sense of accomplishment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/20 06:14 PM
2

Yeah, it’s unfortunate that he is.
/r/MGTOW216/11/20 11:05 PM
3

Yeah, I might have to get one anyway just in case. I am very grateful that I don’t think like everyone else in my social group.
/r/MGTOW212/11/20 05:32 PM
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Yeah, that’s the way it seems.
/r/MGTOW212/11/20 02:10 AM
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He sees that all of them are but says not to even worry about that, he is being willfully ignorant and wants me to be the same at my own detriment.
/r/MGTOW212/11/20 02:05 AM
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Trying to pull this type of bs is so disrespectful to those who are actually virgins. The ones who didn’t give it away to every Dick and Harry that walked by.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/20 12:15 AM
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Thanks. I appreciate your insight, I have a better picture of his point of view.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 05:14 PM
1

Yeah, that’s true.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:47 AM
2

Yeah, he doesn’t see what men are going through, he is too focused on politics right now.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:30 AM
1

Yeah, I’m glad he already has around 9 grandchildren, so he doesn’t need to pressure me too much.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:29 AM
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Exactly, I’m already considered odd in my social group. An accusation wouldn’t be out of the picture.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:28 AM
1

Yeah, he wanted to research it a bit and feel how into it I was, but definitely fair point.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:26 AM
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Exactly mine too.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:26 AM
2

Yeah, it’s a little bit harder when in my social group they are shamed for chasing men.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:25 AM
3

Yeah, I’ve seen it in the few relationships I’ve had and in how women speak in my social group.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:25 AM
5

I appreciate your insight, and am thankful I don’t have to experience that.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:24 AM
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lol that’s what it sounds like he was thinking, like I was a “member” lol
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:23 AM
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Thankfully I have a few siblings with 2-3 children each.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:22 AM
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Yeah that’s exactly what he said.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:22 AM
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I see, yeah, I won’t be too hard on him.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:21 AM
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I’m a member too.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:21 AM
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Too true.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:20 AM
2

So maybe they do catch on after a while.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:20 AM
3

lol, another perfect reply.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:20 AM
2

Yeah, I will try and go easy on him.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:19 AM
3

Too true, they didn’t have to worry about false accusations and so on.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:19 AM
3

Yeah, we attract enough attention as it is not being “normal” veal.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:18 AM
7

Ok, fight club it is.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:17 AM
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Thanks
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 11:16 AM
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I’ve talked about divorce, and how so many of my friends have failed marriages, and how everyone of my siblings the wife runs the relationship.
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 09:23 AM
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I love it, perfect answer!
/r/MGTOW211/11/20 01:19 AM
0

lol yeah, I like your humor. I have heard of women poking holes, and some people still getting diseases.
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 03:47 PM
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Yeah, that does make me feel like it is the right decision not to date, because I really want financial freedom. And I would hate to look back and find out I could’ve gotten there way faster if I for went dating.
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 01:21 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 01:03 AM
2

Too true.
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 01:02 AM
1

I do still have the physical desire.
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 01:02 AM
1

Wow, I didn’t know it was that much worse over in the east. I don’t know what you mean by some social belief, but yes women in the west will go for you if you’re seen as her intellectual equal or superior.
/r/MGTOW230/10/20 11:06 PM
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You are an inspiration to me for sure.
/r/MGTOW229/10/20 04:23 PM
1

Very true, that is something to be grateful for.
/r/MGTOW229/10/20 07:34 AM
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Thanks for the advice, sounds like you’re where I’ll be in a few years, only recently have I started to get females’ attention.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 10:15 PM
1

Those were my thoughts
/r/MGTOW228/10/20 05:03 PM
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I’m 25 and I’ve already ruled out women any older than myself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 04:06 PM
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lol, I’ve been invisible for most my life, and recently I kicked myself into shape and started changing my life, I guess I’m addicted to female attention, now that I’ve gotten a lot more then I’m used to.
/r/MGTOW228/10/20 10:10 AM
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Yeah, I’ve done it nights and weekends before, it’s great to supplement, but not enough for a full time income. I will look into help for small businesses. Thanks for the comment and your advice.
/r/MGTOW227/10/20 09:30 AM
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I appreciate the advice
/r/MGTOW226/10/20 10:33 PM
1

We all have our own race to run, I always keep myself hungry.
/r/MGTOW226/10/20 10:30 PM
2

I appreciate the advice and encouragement.
/r/MGTOW226/10/20 03:57 PM
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Thanks
/r/MGTOW226/10/20 12:01 PM
2

Thank you for this reminder!
/r/MGTOW226/10/20 10:32 AM
2

“I already know that my age outweighs your money, so I get 100 carousel rides a year.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/20 10:06 PM
2

Yeah, they all think that romance and drama movies are what happens irf.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/10/20 02:00 PM
1

lol I see
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/10/20 01:55 PM
2

Thanks. I don’t understand why women think they deserve so much, when they abuse and try to take advantage of men all the time.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/10/20 01:45 PM
1

Yeah, I am fairly attractive, I’m simply not will to put time and money into a relationship. I have my future to take care of. I’m almost blind when it comes to females. I was told the other day about multiple girls that were crushing on me now married, and I never even noticed them.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/10/20 01:23 PM
6

Please help me understand, where’s the pun?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/10/20 12:48 PM
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Looks late 40s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/20 02:08 PM
3

Idk how they grow them I psychotic. She has lost her mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 10:59 PM
2

That’s really interesting thanks
/r/MGTOW223/10/20 02:17 PM
2

I am envious of your achievement to retire early, and nothing holding you back from being yourself.
/r/MGTOW223/10/20 01:53 PM
1

All true, that’s why I didn’t pursue girls with any vigor, then when this happened I decided I’m done. Especially the verses that talk about how the end of the promiscuous woman’s path leads to destruction.
/r/MGTOW223/10/20 01:51 PM
2

Good thing he agreed, because it’s the truth. I would pay to see the look on her face. lol. Got to play the part when needed, although I hate it, I wish I could simply be myself all the time. Not needing to put on a show to keep things flowing smoothly.
/r/MGTOW223/10/20 01:33 PM
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I don’t have to like her or anything, just have to be cordial.
/r/MGTOW223/10/20 01:20 PM
2

Yeah, unfortunately her husband is my boss rn. A little hard to avoid. 😂😂😂
/r/MGTOW223/10/20 01:09 PM
2

Definitely, we are desperate to find someone, we’re willing to trade everything for it.
/r/MGTOW223/10/20 12:34 PM
1

For sure. I just find it funny that she thought I was actually going to go for her
/r/MGTOW223/10/20 12:18 PM
3

I haven’t told her, no. But she is also the one that tried to set me up with a 40 year old that was recently divorced and has three kids. lol yeah right.
/r/MGTOW223/10/20 11:49 AM
3

I moved where I was sitting in church, I look around all the time, but no I don’t look at anyone impartiality. She didn’t tell me whom she was talking about.
/r/MGTOW223/10/20 11:46 AM
4

Yeah, they have a stronger sense of other’s intentions then men do. Literally yesterday my cousin’s wife told me, “I’ve had two girls come up and tell me “Toby is hot,” sense you moved.” They never paid me any attention before.
/r/MGTOW223/10/20 11:42 AM
6

Yeah, I’m not going to marry a promiscuous girl, that means that she doesn’t value her sanity enough. It’s a little different if it was in a long term relationship, but if it was with a rando, then no I’m not choosing that girl as my wife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 09:44 AM
8

Of course, why worry about your future spouse when there’s always a simp to foot the bill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 04:18 PM
16

Wow she wants the best of both worlds
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 01:00 PM
6

Absolutely, Feminism was never the answer. The politicization is what has brought us soo low. Feminism isn’t responsible for every problem. Women are definitely privileged.
/r/MGTOW219/10/20 12:10 PM
3

No you’re right, it’s not like I had a recently divorced 40 year old (with three kids one having autism) approach me through my cousins wife, both of them saying she has a lot going for her. She wasn’t trying to take advantage of a young hardworking man, and use me for my resources.
/r/MGTOW217/10/20 12:43 AM
2

Yeah I always move on, what’s the point in wasting my time.
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 11:38 PM
1

No 4 times in the past 2 months sense she showed interest
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 11:30 PM
2

Yeah, but they acted soooo interested in me then as soon as I gave the attention they changed their minds.
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 05:16 PM
3

Thank you so much for your advice.
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 10:52 AM
2

Finance 25
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 10:43 AM
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None just high school
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 10:41 AM
3

Thanks for the advice
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 10:41 AM
1

Currently I side houses, I get paid by the sf, but my coworker doesn’t want to work more. Experience; real estate licensed, life insurance licensed, can make videos, have old yt channels, 6 on computer skills, tried to start online stores, 6 on stock trading skills, worked at Chick-fil-A for 5 years.
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 10:35 AM
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I’ve been trying to, my work has limited hours. Thinking about starting something on the side.
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 10:24 AM
2

Three on my cousins that have 3-4 kids all got or are getting vasectomies, should I get one?
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 09:40 AM
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Oh my crying out loud, that is insane, I would not have done that either. And then to hold her in high regard after that. I am very luck my high income years are right around the corner, and I’m free.
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 09:37 AM
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Thank you for the encouragement.
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 09:33 AM
7

Long story short, I don’t express my interest in women, so they all think I’m not interested in them, one female got really interested in me then four, I talked to one four times then asked her to coffee, (mind you I’ve known her for 9 years) she said maybe, in a try harder tone. I never give any of them power over me, they like the power to see a man going mad to need her.
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 09:13 AM
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