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SCROTES MADCoffeecatssunnydays/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:57 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYCoffeecatssunnydays/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:23 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYCoffeecatssunnydays/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:21 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYCoffeecatssunnydays/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:37 PM
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Can you dm me where you chat? I keep running into your interesting posts about chatting, now I want to try it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 06:59 PM
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And they’ll show up as people you may know on Snap, Instagram and other apps that use your phone number
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 06:58 PM
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Hopefully thru her post she got some support. She did take the step to make a post so that makes me a bit hopeful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 04:56 PM
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So unbelievably petty for a measly 12g bonus that his privileged self “earned” because his wife takes care of literally everything and everyone else. And he knew her Etsy earnings were not that much but important to HER. So incredibly selfish for him to even insinuate he have part of her 200 dollars, my god. Imagine being tied to someone like this with no way to earn your way out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:53 AM
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I know we don’t want brigading but at a certain point how do we let this go? She needs help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:41 AM
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I had one whose first message was, you’re beautiful but I didn’t realize you had a cat 🤧 I just immediately blocked, the fuck do I care if this stranger has an allergy. As if I was planning to have him over to my home anytime soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:30 PM
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My ex husband got me a garbage disposal for Christmas. I asked him to take it back to the store and I moved out 5 months later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:50 PM
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When I was online dating, I snooped the bathrooms just like this! One guy’s cabinet was empty except had a bunch of toilet paper balls scrunched up under there and I still wonder why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 05:27 PM
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“the wife”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:15 PM
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They let him back in?? And now he is watched like a child in detention? This loser needs to be banned from all public places I’m done too sis, getting a Peloton
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:09 PM
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“I love that about him”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:17 PM
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Imagine an actual teenage child having drama and a 40 yo man comments about how it’s the drama that stops him from fucking her. These men in these posts need to be in jail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:33 PM
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The first guy said he found his 15 year old’s friends “sexually attractive”. I feel sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:28 PM
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“Fun to look at and maybe fantasize about” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:27 PM
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😂😂It’s no wonder they want to only do park dates. They are the size of children and can barely pay the bills with their Chick-fil-A salaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:38 AM
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😂 welp sorry, no men taller than a 4th grader with jobs exist guess you’ll have to settle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:57 AM
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No way he spent 3k on concert tickets. Maybe he is including room and travel. But he still got to do the trip and attend a show so no they won’t refund. Main act likely cancelled due to covid since we are in a pandemic and the variants are spreading worse than covid 1st edition. He sounds real smart and marriable You need different friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:52 AM
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Congrats!! And do not let him “come with you”. He wants that nice new apartment and hasn’t put in the work that you did to get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:40 PM
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Lol it costs 40/yr to do an oil change at vavoline and they think they’re doing God’s work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:38 PM
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lol imagine asking a man what he wants in bed? Somehow I know already he wants to come and have a great time!! How do these trash men not know what we want?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:27 PM
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They truly have nothing better to do with their time away from video gaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:25 PM
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Tbh lurkers can go to hell. Who cares what they think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:24 PM
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Truth. She let that go on way too long instead of just blocking, cooking herself a lovely meal, and using his shirt to clean the floors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:27 PM
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🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:16 PM
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They try to heal themselves through “dating”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:07 PM
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It took me awhile to stop getting on them and seeing who is on there. It was the same men from the last 3 years with the same old ass pics and dumb bios
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:06 PM
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Filling out divorce paperwork is easier than that shopping list sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:20 AM
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😂 his body is probably worse which is why there is more ceiling than man in the pic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:13 AM
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Ok so we are in hell and this is the bar. A balding thumb looking at a video game gun on a screen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:11 AM
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I think you could do something on redbubble.com
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:05 AM
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I could do that (I think it’s a great method to reach out) but I am not really trying to be a savior. Just putting my opinion and facts out there on this platform and that’s why I posted this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:26 PM
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It isn’t brigading. I am stating my opinion, thoughts, views on other sub posts without mentioning this sub. And I do it because my opinion matters and it isn’t useless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:23 AM
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In my experience, it’s when they’re in their 30s or 40s and asking me why I haven’t aged and what are my tips. They’re clueless and I prefer to just tell them I do nothing, must be genetics 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:46 AM
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Some people have sensitive skin and get irritated by washes on their face so I understand that but if he is calling it a day after ONLY rinsing his face and body off then I’ve met him, was disgusted by his smell, and hate myself for ever being near him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:40 AM
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Lol but what?! They have gross lizard skin. I just can’t anymore. They barely wash, don’t use sunscreen or moisturize. And they do stress.. about their one household chore and finding the next video game system 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:23 AM
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Can you believe there is a woman alive who dated this ass garbage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:50 PM
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He can’t afford a plastic doll. Let that sink in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:47 AM
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They refer to women as “plates”. They refer to women as “plates”. They refer to women as “plates”. They refer to women as “plates”. They refer to women as “plates”. Yet that recent mainstream article seem to think we are bad for saying “ass garbage” (which I have never seen anyone say here but fuck it, they are ass garbage). And no woman is a god damn “plate”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:46 AM
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It’s disgusting. He has two children under 3 and is “playing games” like a child. This is unbelievable yet too common Edit: and you know she probably took time and effort to decorate the room which maybe included a place for her to sleep next to her baby (exhausted) and did NOT include a space for an unattractive gaming setup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:49 AM
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Parents probably blissfully oblivious. He either hides his atrocities or they realize and take no blame. Not all parents take responsibility for what they have put into the world, sadly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:29 AM
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For sure. For some reason, they have it in their minds (and this is their biggest downfall imo) that women can’t get or keep a man. Honey, child, baby - man from internet: let me tell you that getting and keeping a man is easy. Getting and keeping a rich man is easy. I could be unemployed, broke, desperate, ugly and whatever else right now and get and keep a rich man and it would be the easiest thing I did today. They don’t get it sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:25 AM
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We shouldn’t believe this. A grown man acting this way without anyone turning their heads in disbelief? It’s atrocious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:17 AM
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You gotta be kidding me, this grown man and father can’t just not play games for a few minutes? Baby sleeps in a bassinet, which is portable. Move the baby to where you are jesus. And that’s the absolute minimum for fatherhood, which he can’t do smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:14 AM
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Worst/best part, we will still be here for you sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:07 AM
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Don’t doubt yourself. His behavior is harmful and weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:53 AM
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“Except we won’t be airing this at all. We don’t want women to go around thinking they have a voice”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:52 AM
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They call us toxic. “Frightening” is another one I have seen. They call us fat women that can’t get or keep a man. They call us gold diggers. They call us desperate. Miserable. Ugly. Broke. They call us derogatory and racist terms incessantly. They can’t give one reason as to why except that we hurt the feelings of some men with our pragmatic and safety minded dating advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:28 AM
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❤️👑 you got this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:14 AM
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My main hope is.. the extra attention brings more people here and they discover what I did a long time ago. Many of us were brought here by curiosity from negative comments/press. A lot of us stayed because the fundamentals are rock solid. As we grow we will have more power. There has to be a queen 👑 here who will write a supportive and factual article for a major publication. If not, there will be soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:13 AM
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You’re right. I feel bad for her and hope she comes here. She has a beautiful writing style and talent, she is also naive and accepting the bare minimum from her life partner and father to her children. Tell your bro to load and put the groceries away too because you are to0 sloW 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:05 AM
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He, a husband and father, picks the easiest chores to do and does them. And she thinks it’s great Bar meet hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:54 PM
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You hit it on the nose. What was meant to be someone’s love letter to their significant other (I think) is nothing more than a depressing glimpse into the life of someone with no standards. Also don’t forget he unlocks the car door for her. So basically, he pushes a button. Bet he has to go to the bathroom for an hour as soon as they get home and it’s time to put things away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:47 PM
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He pushes the cart while she runs around the store grabbing items from a list she made for a week of meals she will be preparing by herself for the family. Since you know, he can only boil water The bar is in a different, more hellish, further down hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:41 PM
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“I only think of you when I masturbate” is not a subtle red flag. It’s deep red all over and waving right in front of your eyes. Who wants a man that speaks this way to the woman he supposedly loves and respects?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:18 AM
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“I have no interest in you or your child” and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:15 AM
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“I can’t reAd theiR mINDs”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:13 AM
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How long before one of you queens does a FDS podcast? We need this energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:11 AM
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Keep your windows shuttered with curtains. Move furniture in front of them and the balcony if it helps you feel safer. Next, when can you move out? Edit: is there a woman office manager you can talk to? I’m sorry this is happening. I’m triggered daily by a guy who felt it necessary to tell me he had dirty dreams about me. He walks his dog constantly and keeps waving hello or trying to talk to me each time im out. I’m ignoring him completely these days and moving soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:05 AM
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Happy International Women’s Day to you! I am trying to get myself to reading more again but if anyone wants some free literature, this site owns http://radfem.org
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:13 AM
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👑 I’m buying silk pajamas x 7
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:07 AM
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You owe no explanation. He won’t understand it anyway and since he is a liar and manipulator, he’ll just use your words against you. Been there. It feels so much better to just remove a toxic person without explanation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:43 PM
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Hate that they feel the need to use our names like that. Fool, forget my name and leave me alone! Hope she didnt say anything though and just blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:36 PM
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So true. I’d rather have two amazing woman friends that I’d trust with my life than a social media profile or contact list or text chats filled with fake friends that are toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:24 PM
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Never pay for a man sis. Even if you’re printing money, never in the history of woman kind, has it been worth it. Buy yourself some beautiful jewelry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:18 PM
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Leave her to it. Don’t let her drag you down if you feel she isn’t ready or listening to sound advice. If it’s a woman and you care for her, give space and revaluation later but if it’s a man, block his ass and give no fucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:16 PM
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Nothing about you is basic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:14 PM
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Best advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:07 PM
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You can ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:07 PM
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❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:57 AM
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Spoil and educate your niece! I did that for a long time. We are learning so much here and can pass things on too. I don’t want to be one of those people who are like “work on yourself and eventually you can adopt”. That’s all up to you. You are working on yourself and I feel you will have so many options soon and can choose whatever path you want. Keep doing it. Keep going because I believe your aspirations will be limitless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:52 AM
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Enjoy your independent and beautiful life. If you aren’t going to adopt for your own reasons then good on you for recognizing that and on the flip side, good on you for any decision you make ever. Bringing up a child and doing it with all you have, is not easy. It feels like a a test no one can pass. It’s the hardest ducking thing. You are amazing and can make an impact in whatever way you choose and are comfortable with, no matter what it s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:36 AM
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Don’t blame or judge or anything when it comes to a woman not wanting children. I voted that I had children and didn’t want more. When I was younger, I wanted five children and thought I could have an amazing life raising independent, intellectual, creative, conscious kids. I have one daughter. I have one career. I had one lazy husband. None of it has been easy. It’s way easier now that Ive dropped the husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:19 AM
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It’s the lowest of the lowest choosing the easiest way of getting a date. Low effort. It’s not low effort when we do it, it’s let me try this kinda thing and give it my best. You can see it in their pathetic selfies and bios. And if they have decent pics, be warned: the same man will be there 2 years from now with the same set of pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:06 AM
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This is sad and happens all to often to pick mes that are naive. It’s almost too much to give them advice constantly. One of my friends in this situation did finally have it “click” in her brain over time though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:03 AM
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I wouldn’t give him my energy sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:00 AM
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It’s what I wanted to be too and I’m so proud of her in so many ways. It helps knowing about her choices. It makes me hopeful. Im raising a daughter and so far I think she is way ahead of me in every way. I hope it inspires and brings you hope too ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:36 AM
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But what aBoUT mUH dICk?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:45 PM
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He’s clearly hangry and doesn’t know how to make himself a balanced meal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:45 PM
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More evidence that they are brainless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:43 PM
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Gross to the max. My 23 yo niece is a proud virgin. Successful, independent, educated and living in a big city. It gives me hope that if she is living that leveled up life (we didnt grow up wealthy) at such a young age, then other young women are too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:39 PM
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Yet he has a roommate. The other guy sounds like he does real estate and probably has this guy as a roommate to make extra cash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:56 AM
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You might be right. I couldn’t tell. I found it disturbing when I was reading it Lmk if anyone thinks I should remove it. I was mainly trying to show the filling her glass part and “letting her talk about herself” until she is drunk enough to take advantage of essentially
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:04 PM
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I know, it’s horrible. I am thinking I should have added a trigger warning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:39 PM
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You know what you need to do ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:46 PM
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Stay here and soon you won’t feel broken, you’ll feel empowered
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:02 PM
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Block! He is probably getting off to your photos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:09 PM
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They never are sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:51 PM
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