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| 5 | Where do we draw the line btw women independence and rights of a husbandSo she 1) cheated and showed no remorse, 2) convinced you the kid was yours when she suspected the kid wasn't actually yours and showed no remorse . 3) killed the child she convinced you was yours with no discussion and showed no remorse. 4) came clean about the first 2 just so she could try to say the 3rd wasn't just acceptable but tried ro argue doing that was actually a benefit for you having done that entirely behind and your back. 5) unless she had a paternity test done, the child could act… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/26 06:13 AM |
| 1 | The Feminist Tiger RidersTo be fair they don't only get backlash from other feminists and it isn't like a lot of men's right spaces are really welcoming when those on the tiger first try to get off. Even if they do successfully get off and get away from the tiger, they still have a lot of the people the tiger was attacking ready to come after them. I see it a lot here where feminists having believed modern feminism still had the initial ideals of wanting equal rights and is just sticking around to make sure women didn't… | /r/MensRights | 15/08/25 09:01 PM |
| 13 | 61% of Young Men in the U.S. Now Prioritize Career & Freedom Over Marriage – Cultural Shift or Just Common Sense?They may get different results if asking about romantic relationships vs career/independence. I'm surprised people still prioritize marriage that highly with how shitty the terms of legal marriage are. A life long committed monogamous relationship and raising a family together is definitely still a high priority, but I never want legal marriage and the family court system to be part of that. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | I’m Ending Modern Feminism & The Gender Wars in One Reddit Post. Any Objections? Let’s Hear Them After You Read This.I'm going to have to agree with this comment https://www.reddit.com/r/ThePolymathsArcana/s/JHo2spNqph on your original post. You bring up a lot of great points. But while being hateful toward women is entirely unproductive, there are a ton of systemic issues against men that need to take priority for where men direct their efforts before men can try to lead women. No one can effectively lead another while they do not have the authority to lead and are denied the rights and privileges necessary t… | /r/MensRights | 15/08/25 03:50 AM |
| -1 | What does "Patriarchy Hurts Men too!" and other feminist responses to discrimination against really men mean."When, in the course of human events, it becomes necessary for one portion of the family of man to assume among the people of the earth a position different from that which they have hitherto occupied, but one to which the laws of nature and of nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes that impel them to such a course." intentionally using very similar language to the Declaration of Independence, goes against the idea that… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | What does "Patriarchy Hurts Men too!" and other feminist responses to discrimination against really men mean.The issue is various different waves of feminism have different definitions for patriarchy there isn't a single definition all feminists agree on. OP seems to have seen the "patriarchy is men ruling for the benefit of all men" version and refuses to accept that a lot of people saying "patriarchy hurts men too" are referring to the men of the ruling class ruling for their own benefit over women and other men. I'd still say using the term patriarchy is needlessly divisive and just dismissive of th… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/25 06:10 PM |
| -2 | What does "Patriarchy Hurts Men too!" and other feminist responses to discrimination against really men mean.I am incredibly familiar with the narcissists prayer and did not misunderstand your post at all. "the patriarchy hurts men too" falls more under the "that's not my fault" part and often meant as it isn't any woman's fault, not really the "you deserved it" part. Most saying "the patriarchy" mean the male members of the oligarchy not all men and not saying what is being done is deserved. It is still just deflection ignoring the issue, using the fact that they weren't the one to set it up as an exc… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/25 01:20 AM |
| -2 | What does "Patriarchy Hurts Men too!" and other feminist responses to discrimination against really men mean.I agree with the post. However even though their needlessly gendered language is just divisive and often is not meant with this way, those saying patriarchy to mean the oligarchy hurts us too, not to mean only men or only the male members of the oligarchy are to blame, do kind of have a point. Even though there have been women in Congress in the US for over a century and women on the Supreme Court since before I was born so it is far from being a male exclusive ruling class, men do hold most of … | /r/MensRights | 14/08/25 12:10 AM |
| 5 | “Misogyny kills. Misandry just hurts feelings.”Aside from the ways more men are put in situations where they are likely to die from an accident or be intentionally killed by someone else than women are, men are more likely to be driven to suicide and kill himself as a result of oppressive misandry putting him in a hopeless situation than women are to be killed by someone else by either intentionally or accidentally. Despite 90% of suicidal men reaching out for help, 8x as many men die from suicide as women die from murder/manslaughter at lea… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/25 05:51 PM |
| 5 | Movember rips off men's health dollars - Feminists take over. "Look at this graph showing Movember’s expenditure in recent years, particularly since Michelle Terry took over in 2020. The big drop – see blue line – is from the initial major focus on prostate and testicular cancer research"Judging the women who seek to have leverage and be in positions of power in male spaces is not judging all women (although I would agree that judging all women would be a bad thing). Generally the only women seeking positions of power in men's spaces are feminists who seek to turn it into something else, it is a rare exception when a woman wanting to gain leverage in a male space does so to continue having the space that started out for men stay as a space for men rather than co-opt it as a spac… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if any of yall knew, just sharing some info I recently learned about laws surrounding marriageEven if that part where they can just say you are the parent for any purpose didn't exist, part e is wild. Cohabitating within 300 days of birth after at least 12 consecutive months of cohabitation when pregnancy is less than 300 days means even if you dumped her for cheating and stopped cohabitating the day you find out she is pregnant and are contesting paternity from the start, you are still automatically legally the father, you have no period where you can get a paternity test to confirm/ref… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/25 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Not sure if any of yall knew, just sharing some info I recently learned about laws surrounding marriageThis is just the tip of the iceberg of how bad family court is. The woman who gave birth to me tried to make me have to pay her alimony and family court was actually going along with it. My dad became disabled and I was his medical caregiver but instead of just allowing him to reduce or eliminate the lifetime alimony that he had already been paying for longer than their marriage lasted to have it ended, her lawyer tried to push for using filial responsibility laws to make me responsible for payi… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/25 09:56 PM |
| 18 | Not sure if any of yall knew, just sharing some info I recently learned about laws surrounding marriageYeah, the more you look into family court it just gets worse. While a life long monogamous committed relationship raising children together is a great thing, having that relationship subjected to the laws for legal marriage/divorce is just a horrible idea. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How has Tea App affected you?I usually wouldn't give a response to someone who is clearly just seeking to be hateful, but just in case it wasn't clear I as far as I know I have not been victimize by women posting me on that app, just you making false accusations about me here on a men's rights page. Name and shame is only good when it is actually truthful which is often not the case with stuff like your comment, or the tea app, or the are we dating the same guy groups. If I am being lied about on that app and people are avo… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | How will you sleep at night knowing that you might be on the tea app?Yeah, the concept of letting people share about bad experiences so other people can avoid cheaters, abusive relationships, or people who just lie about wanting a relationship to get one night stands is good, just like a men's only app to call out cheaters, abusers, gold diggers, baby trappers, false accusers, and drama seekers always trying to start shit you'd have to finish would be a good concept. Name and shame is good for when someone has actually done something horrible, but none of these p… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/25 05:41 PM |
| 7 | How will you sleep at night knowing that you might be on the tea app?The tea app is just a symptom not a cause of the already existing issue that is why it took off so fast. Banning this app or trying to go after any individual app that allows spreading false accusations won't really stop the issue so there really shouldn't be such a huge focus on the tea app. The solution would be trying to have policies in place making it illegal and have repercussions for employers and judges who use any unproven accusations on social media posts regardless of which platform a… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/25 03:54 AM |
| 23 | How has Tea App affected you?Any woman who would use an app that is mostly for hating men and spreading lies, like most of the are we dating the same guy groups have turned into, isn't a woman I'd really want to date anyway. If someone posted lies about me there and I ended up getting turned down by someone because they believe in a misandrist app even if they aren't telling me about it, I'm glad they are filtering themselves out of my dating pool. If it has affected me without me knowing it hasn't affected me in a negative… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/25 01:37 AM |
| 10 | What are your beliefs?Main reason I am in it is because of how horribly sexist family court is against fathers and children while claiming it is somehow in the interest of the child, being a man who was sexually abused by adult women as a child getting no justice and seeing how other men are usually mocked rather than supported if they report being sexually abused by a woman, seeing how family court not just enabled but encourages false accusations against men even if he was the one being abused and his abuser/false … | /r/MensRights | 20/07/25 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Serious question. So, we all know about the cheating scandal that took place at a Coldplay concert. Why is the man being dragged way more harshly on social media than the female cheater?Yeah since he already left they can act like she was somehow pressured into it and let her come back making him look even worse by pinning it all on him. If he didn't leave they more likely would have ended up firing both but since he left already he's going to be the one catching most of the heat for it. If they are letting him go for going against company values they really should be getting rid of her too. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/25 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Serious question. So, we all know about the cheating scandal that took place at a Coldplay concert. Why is the man being dragged way more harshly on social media than the female cheater?He is also the superior in a work relationship (although she is head of HR so she is supposed to be the person people in a work relationship could go to). His reaction was more exaggerated, she covered her face, he practically dove out of frame so initial assumptions where he was cheating she was just ashamed of being a homewrecker not cheating on her own spouse. The first person thought to be Kristen Cabot's husband was her ex who already divorced a few years ago. Kristen Cabot's current husban… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/25 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I’m in a “Silver Bullet” Divorce, and I need a lawyer who actually knows how to fight backHave you looked up "palimony" laws in your state. They won't be able to go after assets trying to split things if there is no marriage for anything to be considered marital assets, but may still be able to award ongoing support payments if there is no cohabitation agreement against it. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/25 12:59 AM |
| 7 | We need to do our best not to become an echo chamberI'm all for listening to counter arguments made in good faith, but those who aren't already understanding the systemic issues against men and wanting to support men rarely come here in good faith. Most I see here who are not in already fully in support of what this sub is for are only here to hate men, insult those who support men's rights and then act like they won the non-existent argument that was really just a misandrist rant. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/25 03:55 AM |
| 3 | In Washington State a father who does not see his child ever pays the same amount in child support (relative to his income) as the father who sees his child 49% of the time. Does this seem fair to you?No. Any form of child support under the current system is inherently not fair since neither of those father's has any assurance that even a cent of what he is giving to the other parent is supporting his child rather than her covering the child's bare necessities through other support and pocketing the money he would want to use on his kid for herself. Both should have equal financial responsibility directly toward their child as their child's mother, not be held responsible to support the mothe… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/25 07:34 PM |
| 20 | AITA, where men’s grievances are “fake”While the topic of the post is a very real issue that a lot of men face, after a brief read through the comments it does appear a few people were calling out the poster for noticing that account has a habit of making up fake relationship posts swapping between stories about various girlfriends and wives and presenting them as current situations they are going though rather than posting real scenarios. That poster's profile is also blank besides that post and all the comments that poster made on … | /r/MensRights | 25/06/25 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Reproductive RightsI support human rights so the right to life shouldn't be so easily thrown out to allow abortions when it doesn't meet the same standards of the mother's life being at risk that would be needed for use of lethal force to be justified as an act of self defense in any other case with a doctor having tried other options and is able to say abortion is necessary to save the mother's life with enough certainty to be willing to risk their medical license. Once the developing human is already alive the m… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Reproductive RightsShamed by society in general, maybe but not necessarily shamed by their closer community often they are able to find plenty of people willing to support her using her child for her own financial gain. More important than the social aspect is the actual laws about it which say "child" support can be spent however the receiving parent wants and does not need to go to support the child as long as the absolute bare minimum needs of the kid are still met, which fully supports mothers who keep the fun… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Do Republicans pander to men?Which bill and which section of that bill are you talking about? | /r/MensRights | 10/06/25 06:46 PM |
| 34 | I hate being expected to be a providerBoth partners should be providers in ways that help their partner. Wanting a man to be a provider is good as long as she also plans to be a provider. The issue is men are often expected to be a primary or sole financial provider but share everything else equally, or are expected to provide something of value to her while she is providing something she sees as value added to the relationship that is not actually of value to him. A lot of women bring up free household labor as them providing value… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/25 11:49 PM |
| 3 | AbortionI say make abortion only legal in the extremely rare cases to save the life of the mother so fathers aren't helplessly forced to watch their own child get killed at early stages of life and so human beings aren't being killed and denied the right to life for convenience. And reform child support and custody laws so the default is 50-50 custody needing to prove with actual evidence not just a judge's personal bias that an alternate arrangement is better for the child and both parents equitably sp… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/25 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Just a random thought: instead of saying 'men are bad at sex,' why not say that women take more time and effort to reach satisfaction?The toilet seat shouldn't be left up, you should be closing the lid before flushing otherwise you are basically coating the bathroom in aerosolized toilet water. I've never had to be told to put down the seat but it is often a struggle convincing women to close the lid rather than having her leave the seat down but the lid up. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/25 04:12 PM |
| 2 | What happens when radfemmes are allowed into men's spacesIt is a rule on this sub to keep out pedos who will try to invade any space they can to advocate for supporting pedophilia. It's the same reason a lot of lgbtq+ subs have to make rules distancing themselves from a very loud but small group of pedos who decided to start going by the title of "minor attracted person" and saying they are part of the lgbtq+ community for their sexual orientation. The sub OP mentioned that was specifically set up as a hate group against men and particularly this sub … | /r/MensRights | 24/03/25 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Gendered parenting duties and rights: I have a question about the law in western countries in general...An adult woman could rape a underage boy, get pregnant from having raped him, and then keep custody of the baby and sue the guy for child l support with back pay when he turns 18 and the statute of limitations on rape charges is passed. The baby's existence would be proof she is a child rapist but nothing would happen to her and she having kept the kid for several years would be awarded custody while the boy who was raped would now have to pay a child rapist for her having custody of a child. Th… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Even as a woman, I don't understand why anyone would want to get married.It seems like you are still entirely missing the point. That source says absolutely nothing about being legally married in itself being better for the kid. It just shows a correlation between couples who are married being more likely to be couples who are in a better socioeconomic position or correlation with other factors that cause the better outcome for the kid. If a couple with the same socioeconomic status and all other factors being the same just didn't marry but stayed together, what is t… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/25 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Even as a woman, I don't understand why anyone would want to get married.From your own source: "Research suggests the importance of distinguishing between cohabiting families with two biological parents and those with a biological parent and another partner. Some evidence indicates that school achievement and behavioral problems are similar among children living with both biological parents—regardless of marital status—and that children in both formal and informal step-families also fare similarly in these areas" Did you think OP or I were talking about a couple who … | /r/MensRights | 13/02/25 06:18 PM |
| 9 | Even as a woman, I don't understand why anyone would want to get married.Studies showed children do better when both their parents are living together and are in a relationship, whether they are legally married or not is irrelevant. Not being married doesn't mean they are separated. Also outcomes for kids raised with a single dad as their primary custodian are nearly equal with children raised in two parent homes, that is partial due to how difficult it is for a dad who isn't a perfect model of a dad to get primary custody, and how unwelcoming to men jobs that deal w… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/25 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Even as a woman, I don't understand why anyone would want to get married.It is likely because money is not an issue for me and I have been to several fun weddings, but I have no issue with having a party with friends and family and making a public declaration of your commitment to be together for life especially since your wedding is probably the only time both of your close friends and family are all going to be together. But totally agreed on the legal marriage part, especially since being in a position where money isn't an issue means I have even more to lose and … | /r/MensRights | 13/02/25 03:31 AM |
| 11 | Men Deserve the Truth: Why DNA Testing Should Be Required for Unmarried Fathers"It definitely is a children's rights issue just as much if not more than a father's rights issue. The father is losing their kid, but the kid is losing the entire paternal side of their family and basically being Stockholm syndrome bonded to some random dude who may not even know he helped the mother with kidnapping the kid from their biological father and also that kid is now going through life with half their family medical history being wrong which can lead to major medical issues not being c… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 06:51 AM |
| 23 | Tale of two picturesIt's both, some guys say the guy who was raped was lucky, and some women say the guy who was raped was just in an inappropriate relationship or if he isn't a minor will sometimes frame it as "had an intimate encounter" and not even say it was inappropriate. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 02:00 AM |
| 5 | Women subredditIt is hard to find actual misogyny and not just calling out specifically the women who are harming and hating men and the policies that allow it on male advice or men's rights subs. I really only see misogyny that isn't instantly downvoted to hell in dating advice subs from guys who are super desperate and actually fit the original meaning of incel. But generalizing the hate to show misandry toward all men rather than keeping it specifically directed toward only the few men actually causing prob… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 06:31 PM |
| 12 | Women subredditAnd women are very violent and abusive too, but that also is largely ignored. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 06:09 PM |
| 12 | An OP in another subreddit got graped by a girl at the party but his girlfriend thinks he cheatedHe should file a police report for the drugging and raping, and dump the victim blaming rape apologist girlfriend. Sure it is dumb to be at a party with a girl he used to talk to who never got over him and to leave his drink unattended at that party but being drugged and raped was not at all his fault. Imagine if genders were reversed and it was a guy saying it was her fault she got drugged and raped. I just hope the rapist didn't manage to get pregnant and would now be planning to baby trap him… | /r/MensRights | 19/01/25 06:26 PM |
| 3 | AIs will tell you that 71% of modern slaves are women. Here is what is wrong with the answer.I don't take reddit seriously other than when it comes to human rights issues. I'm just trying to help you get some much needed perspective yourself. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/25 03:37 AM |
| 3 | AIs will tell you that 71% of modern slaves are women. Here is what is wrong with the answer.You're the only one trying to compare them, I'm just saying both should be included. Your argument is basically like if someone was saying indentured servitude wasn't a form of slavery because chattel slavery existed. Also you once again showed a complete lack of understanding how that works by again comparing it to child support when I was talking about lifetime allimony which is an entirely different thing. Since you wanted to bring up that unrelated issue, yes there are tons of issues with ch… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/25 02:45 AM |
| 3 | AIs will tell you that 71% of modern slaves are women. Here is what is wrong with the answer.You very clearly have absolutely no understanding of any part of the family court system if you don't even know the difference between alimony and child support. I'm not saying abused children aren't being abused, I'm saying you shouldn't be so casually just completely ignoring and dismissing victims of domestic abuse. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/25 10:01 PM |
| 2 | AIs will tell you that 71% of modern slaves are women. Here is what is wrong with the answer.Sure an adult trapped in a marriage may not necessarily be getting abused and could want to leave just for being unhappy, while a forced marriage almost always involves ongoing abuse not just being forced to get married. But being given the choice of being forced to stay in the abusive marriage or forced to work to pay off a debt that won't end until one of them dies which they would go to prison where they can be forced to labor through the prison industrial complex if they don't pay and would … | /r/MensRights | 14/01/25 04:06 PM |
| 20 | AIs will tell you that 71% of modern slaves are women. Here is what is wrong with the answer.If we count forced marriage as slavery we should also be counting lifetime allimony payments or being stuck in a marriage because they would be unable to afford the cost of buying their freedom to get out of it as slavery. And do those forced labor numbers include the prison industrial complex? And does the forced labor also include men involuntarily drafted into the military? | /r/MensRights | 12/01/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | A divorce lawyer gives a few dating tips to young menNo idea how long it would take, but I've not seen much progress other than a few states adopting a presumed 50/50 custody as the starting point and very recently the Anti-Alienation Project starting to make some progress coming at it more from the angle as a children's rights issue since seeing how entirely broken the family court system is from my own parents' divorce when I was a kid over two decades ago, so it will likely still be a long time before any real change happens. I'd be confident e… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | A divorce lawyer gives a few dating tips to young menYes, the laws absolutely need to be changed to remove the institutional bias built into our marriage laws. The way it currently works makes it so married couples can never really be equal partners, one is not only free to divorce if the relationship goes bad but is financially incentivised to divorce even if the relationship is going great or they were the reason the relationship failed, and the other is not really free to divorce because regardless of the reason for the divorce, even if the oth… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 05:07 AM |
| 6 | A divorce lawyer gives a few dating tips to young menThis guy, like a lot of professions, likely has a surplus of customers so he is able to give advice that could actually solve the problem for some guys and still knows he will have plenty of customers. Plus, those types of lawyers also make money off couples setting up prenups to avoid some of the issues with the standard marriage agreement. As long as the default marriage laws don't change and couples who want to avoid the built in one sided incentives for one spouse to divorce are having to ge… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 04:08 AM |
| 4 | Angelina Jolie walks away $80 million richer after Brad Pitt divorceI would agree this is a distraction from what should be the focus since the focus should be on the men who are being forced into homelessness or financially struggling and having their kids kept from them because all the money they could be using to provide for their kids is being taken in support payments to their ex and court fees while their ex gets the house and doesn't need to work getting a full time salary between support payments being taken from him and him being forced to cover some of… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/25 02:56 PM |
| 12 | Angelina Jolie walks away $80 million richer after Brad Pitt divorceJudges almost never throw out a prenup or postnup that protects a woman and nearly all women that make more than their husband insist on getting one and men see it as reasonable because it is. But typically women choose to work lower paying jobs or fewer hours or not at all and will often say a guy has trust issues if he suggests a prenup while making significantly more than her, and if a prenup is in place that would protect the husband judges will at least partially throw it out half the time.… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/25 01:39 PM |
| 11 | Let's Resurrect MGOTW!TwoX and many feminist subreddits have far more vicious sexist hate but are still up and pushed on the suggested sub algorithm. The MGTOW sub was taken down because reddit admins are sexist not because there was a loud minority of people making sexist statements on that sub, otherwise other much more sexist subs would also be taken down too. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Let's Resurrect MGOTW!So people in MGTOW are still hooking up with women and looking to date? | /r/MensRights | 21/12/24 05:34 PM |
| -3 | Let's Resurrect MGOTW!Honestly, I had strongly considered it, but my issues were pretty much only with the family court system and laws regarding marriage/divorce and child custody/court enforced parental alienation. The vast majority of women I've known have not been at all like the gender war ragebait podcasts portray, and having been raised by one I've gotten very good at quickly spotting and denying the relatively few narcissistic women I've encountered. So I'm still entirely open to dating for a life long monoga… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/24 03:04 PM |
| 39 | "Your body my choice"That's the point, other than possibly Nick Fuentes and maybe a couple of his followers, people are only saying "your body my choice" to point out that "your body my choice" is the attitude most people claiming to be for bodily autonomy are often taking toward any bodily autonomy of men and unborn babies not out of saying they should actually be making the choice of what a woman does with only her own body that doesn't directly effect another human. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/24 08:41 PM |
| 18 | "Your body my choice"I've only really seen it as a parody of people saying "my body my choice" when they are really saying "your body my choice" to their own unborn baby, or also pointing out the hypocrisy of people who support bodily autonomy for women but then are basically saying "your body my choice" about men's issues for the draft or circumcision, or sexual assault against men. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/24 07:05 PM |
| 10 | Is Feminism= Female Supremacism?When trying to understand what feminism seeks when it talks about equality keep in mind how few men women pay any attention to. When it comes to dating women practice hypergamy focusing on guys who are way above herself. When they talk about a patriarchy they blatantly ignore that a ton of women already have far more authority and gender specific benefits than the average guy and only consider the men in the ruling class. So when feminists say they want equality with men outside of discussing co… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/24 04:52 PM |
| 14 | Facing sexism in my friend group, but I don't want to leave them.Either they do mean you too or they are telling you they don't see you as a man, or at the very least they have absolutely no concern for your feelings, either way they have no respect for you and people who don't respect you aren't real friends. Go ahead and keep hanging out with them for the fun times if you enjoy it, but know that they already aren't your friends whether you stick around or leave. But be careful since women saying "all men are rapists" who you let get close to you then try to… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/24 02:53 AM |
| 25 | Anyone else notice how since Trumps election slander towards men has increased exponentially?The entire Democrat platform since Obama has been "we aren't Trump" and "go support one of our biggest donors and celebrate killing your fetus" | /r/MensRights | 22/11/24 08:00 PM |
| 11 | “Patriarchy hurts men too”Definitely not, women would still want to control the discretionary funding of their household but "patriarchy"/"matriarchy" are specific terms about having a gender based ruling class not about gendered cultural roles and relationship dynamics. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/24 06:14 PM |
| 44 | “Patriarchy hurts men too”Yeah, some men and some women in the ruling class hurt most men and most women in the working class. Female oligarchs have been no better than male oligarchs. The more we've seen women get in power the more we've seen that the gender of who is in power has never really been what mattered in their decisions to hurt the working class. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/24 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Imagine if, instead, Dad was cutting his daughter’s hairIf I had a kid bully someone for being bald because of cancer treatments, I would give them the options of apologizing and let the person they bullied know they will be growing out their own hair to donate for a wig and they would not be allowed to get any haircut until they have donated their hair as a wig for a cancer patient, or get shaven completely bald and apologize to the kid the next day when they go to school. I'd hope they opt for doing something kind to donate hair for a wig for someo… | /r/MensRights | 13/11/24 06:42 PM |
| 8 | "Your body my choice"Having absolutely no say in his unborn child being killed when abortion is rarely done out of threat to life and long-term health of the mother which every abortion "ban" law makes an exception for isn't exactly a great thing to have to go through. Edit: also for the men who would want to force a woman to get an abortion to avoid paying child support for a kid he doesn't want, him doing that already isn't legal. If she wants the child she can already choose to not abort and keep the child regard… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/24 05:59 PM |
| 7 | The correct counter to the 4B movementThe correct counter would be to deny access to the resources of society to those who cut off all their contribution to society regardless of who they are or their reasons for doing so, not hurt ourselves by not contributing to the society we live in. From what I see of 4B in the US it is mostly just saying they are now denying men sex not a full withdrawal from society. It's not like the women participating in it were wanting to have sex with conservative men anyway or that conservative men ever… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/24 02:29 PM |
| 7 | People saying "men cared about the economy more than the women in their lives" are peak female privilegeYeah, basically all the Dobbs ruling did was clarify that abortion is up to the states. The Supreme Court could rule that the right to life includes unborn humans having the right to life from conception, but even then states decide on penalties and exceptions to murder charges. States can have castle doctrines and stand your ground laws for self defense, so states would still have exceptions for the life and long term health of the mother and states that accept the bodily autonomy argument coul… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 12:38 AM |
| 3 | People saying "men cared about the economy more than the women in their lives" are peak female privilegeThe conservative side is moreso saying men should have access to opportunities to support his own family and be responsible for supporting his family, liberals say all men should be forced to subsidize women in general even if it means he is unable to have and provide for a family of his own. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 12:25 AM |
| 35 | People saying "men cared about the economy more than the women in their lives" are peak female privilegeVery different jobs where they are mostly sitting in front of a screen in an air conditioned room. Women are absolutely not taking the dangerous, dirty, and hard labor jobs that are needed for society to function at anywhere near the rates of men. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Jacksonville woman accused of having 'inappropriate relationship' with 15-year-old boy she was counseling. The word 'rape' is never mentioned and is even censored in comments.Just modify the term to mean forced penetration, her forcing the man to penetrate her is also forced penetration being inflicted on the man. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/24 08:25 PM |
| 3 | What are some of the stances and beliefs held by most of the sub that you personally disagree with?I agree with that during the relationship or maybe for a brief period after to give the one who was a stay at home spouse especially if it wasn't the decision they really wanted for themself. But after divorce an ex trying to keep getting support payments to use on themself is just being a leech. If child support actually had any kind of accountability in place to ensure it is used for the child I would support that, but I see no reason to force ongoing support of an ex especially an ex who chos… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 05:20 PM |
| 5 | What are some of the stances and beliefs held by most of the sub that you personally disagree with?Confused how it is a patriarchy when a select group of both men and women have been in those higher up positions in charge of those decisions and even when women couldn't hold power directly the wives of the small group of men in charge have always had more influence over decisions than the common man. It wasn't only men but also women making the decisions, although in the past and in a few parts of the world today it has been closer to a patriarchy where a very select group of only men had dire… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 05:01 PM |
| 6 | How to answer womens' objections to mandatory paternity testingYou are also just making assumptions about how the results would look if paternity testing was done for every child. And paternity testing isn't always done out of suspicion that the mother cheated and he is not the father, it is also done out of suspicion that he is the father. Paternity testing is required for a non-married man who believes he is the father to attempt to get any custody of a child he believes to be his so it is also done by men to prove he is the father not just to prove he is… | /r/MensRights | 29/10/24 07:17 AM |
| 5 | Why Should I Support Abortion Rights When My Rights Are Being Challenged?Yeah, I'm all for women being able to not be pregnant by preventing pregnancy from starting or through developing medical equipment that can serve as an artificial womb to speed up the earliest that the baby could survive outside of the mother. But ending a pregnancy by killing the baby, especially with methods that would be considered war crimes if done on any other human being, is not an acceptable way to go about ending the pregnancy early. I'd also support the right for either or both parent… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/24 01:38 AM |
| 14 | In spite of boys OBJECTIVELY outscoring girls on objective tests (especially math/science), they get grades lower. Eliminating teacher bias removes thatI answered what works better for teaching boys already, you chose to ignore it. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 10:34 PM |
| 17 | In spite of boys OBJECTIVELY outscoring girls on objective tests (especially math/science), they get grades lower. Eliminating teacher bias removes thatBoys are engaged by different things than girls, you can't just make a class designed in a way that is more engaging for girls and is known to not be engaging for boys then say boys should just find it more engaging and it's their fault not a fault with the teacher's methods. You have to actually engage the students in ways that are engaging to them for them to be able to pay attention not teach in ways known to repel their attention then just tell them to pay attention. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 10:29 PM |
| 14 | In spite of boys OBJECTIVELY outscoring girls on objective tests (especially math/science), they get grades lower. Eliminating teacher bias removes thatThis has some good advice: https://www.armyandnavyacademy.org/blog/5-teaching-techniques-that-work-for-boys/#:~:text=The%20element%20of%20competition%20kept,working%20toward%20a%20common%20goal. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 10:17 PM |
| 20 | In spite of boys OBJECTIVELY outscoring girls on objective tests (especially math/science), they get grades lower. Eliminating teacher bias removes thatIt means they know the boys don't learn as effectively that way and know there are better ways to teach boys, but are choosing to make the standard teaching method based on what works best for girls rather than what works best for the students they have. It's like you have a bunch of kids that can learn without needing to write things down while half the class still needs to take notes to learn so you make a rule against having anything to write with and then blame the kids who need to take note… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 10:03 PM |
| 13 | Google's gemini refuses to recreate the theatre scene from interview with the vampire because it would perpetuate harmful stereotypes. When the victim is a man however ...Yeah but Google also mentioned "objectification" so I'm thinking Google wanting to do the scene with a man instead of a woman was more for not wanting to show a woman being stripped naked rather than wanting to show a man to go against the stereotype of victims of sexual abuse being female and the perpetrator being male. If that was the stereotype they were trying to go against I'd expect they'd also want to switch the vampires for females. Also, you do know there are tons of instances where men… | /r/MensRights | 18/10/24 12:26 AM |
| 31 | Google's gemini refuses to recreate the theatre scene from interview with the vampire because it would perpetuate harmful stereotypes. When the victim is a man however ...I'm kinda torn on this. I do agree that actually showing that males can be victims instead of mostly showing the victim being female and the perpetrator being male would actually help break harmful gendered stereotypes. But that probably isn't what Google was referring to. Edit: very surprising to be downvoted on a men's rights sub for saying men are able to be the victims | /r/MensRights | 17/10/24 11:50 PM |
| 4 | Men’s Opinions on Feminism?I would also add, if the man wants his child alive he has no legal option to protect his child's right to life during the pregnancy. If she decides the kid should be killed before a certain point she can force a procedure on the kid intended to kill the kid and all the father can do is walk away from the relationship knowing his kid was killed by the person he risked trusting to be the mother of his child. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/24 02:55 AM |
| 18 | More Than Half of Men Can Not Be Recognized by the Law as Rape VictimsYeah, most a man can even attempt to get his rapist charged with is a much lesser crime of sexual assault that comes with much lesser punishment while women are already likely to be serving significantly less time for the same charges as a man. A woman can even come back at her male rape victim with a baby that a paternity test shows was from the victim with baby's age as proof she was an adult and he was a kid when the baby was conceived so it had to have been statutory rape and they can't even… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/24 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Is it easier for female or male content creators to make money online?Yes, it just isn't necessary for an attractive woman to have skill for the type of content she is creating to still have people watch the video just to look at her, there are far fewer people who will watch a video just to look at the guy if his content is low quality. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/24 01:02 PM |
| 18 | Is it easier for female or male content creators to make money online?Men can make more money by having more skill. But as far as ease of making money online it is far easier for women, she just has to be decently attractive and she can make money without having any actual skill or putting any thought into whatever she is saying, or will have a much wider audience if she just does porn. However, some very convincingly female looking femboys that can look like an actual woman through make-up/wig and or filters rather than look like a man in drag can also take advan… | /r/MensRights | 10/10/24 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Whatever happened to Joint Custody in divorce?There aren't really many federal limits on how the state can spend it on, in a lot of states the federal funding they get from it just goes to the states general funds which means anyone getting paid out by the state is incentivized to get more funding for their state. In my state funding is mostly limited to being used directly for programs intended to support kids or victims of domestic violence, which includes the courts expenses for adjudicating cases involving child custody or claims of dom… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/24 11:54 PM |
| 9 | Whatever happened to Joint Custody in divorce?A lot more progress has been made for 50/50 being the common arrangement, but the guy is usually still labeled the non-custodial parent and forced to pay child support while child support still has absolutely zero accounting to ensure it is used for the benefit of the kid once it is paid. But almost nowhere has 50/50 as the mandatory default custody requiring the judge to be able to prove another arrangement would be better for the child before they can change it. Where I live the default is sti… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/24 11:36 PM |
| 5 | The crooked child support systemAbsolutely nothing about child support ensures even a single cent of it is spent for the benefit of the kid. In my case every cent my birthing person received and took for herself was just one cent taken away from what my dad had available to provide for us. If it wasn't for child support I would have been supported a lot more as a kid. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/24 02:40 AM |
| 6 | The crooked child support systemMost of the utility bill will be the exact same whether she had the child or not, most try to argue their entire utility bill or entire rent/mortgage are for the child when they would be nearly the same for just her. Also, kid eating cheap chicken nuggets and bread while she eats steak dinners with drinks means very little of that food bill is actually for the kid. Salon visit where she gets her hair and nails done and just the most basic trim for the kid who probably didn't even need a trim. Ne… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/24 02:35 AM |
| 4 | This describes my upbringing perfectly. Why’d she have to go and ruin it by blaming the “patriarchy”?I noticed she also left out what I've been seeing is a very common reasons for not having a father present. Maybe she used the family court system to deny the father any access to his child after she left him or he realized he had to get out of the relationship for his own mental health or to get away from her bad financial habits so he could try to save money for the kids when he could no longer just take on more hours of work to try to fund her overspending. Maybe she threw tons of false accus… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/24 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Finally got evidenceMake sure she cannot get to the recordings to delete them or destroy whatever device they are saved on, make plenty of copies. If it happens again keep recording it and keeping the recordings safe, but above all keep yourself safe until you can get out of that situation. If your parents are married your dad needs to start talking to lawyers about getting a divorce and not be telling your abuser about it, it is well passed being able to save any kind of marriage and as a minor you'll likely need … | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 04:17 AM |
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