It boils down to a few things 1) no more competition anxiety from the woman 2) men need to marry down. Its in the husbands’ interest if his wife deems him the better catch
I’m physically unable to respond to her further comments because the sheer lack of logic. Your comments were obviously the truth that many folks hate seeing.
Stats? No need. All one needs to do is go to a public place (mall, amusement park, attraction etc) and you’ll see loads of women spamming pictures. The fact is the majority of women crave outside attention & validation more than dudes
Huh? Not sure how you concluded with that… but, look around in your day-to-day life. Social circles etc. Men are usually the ones cracking the jokes. That’s just the facts.
The reality is that if a woman asks, she’s more into him than he is into her - which bodes well for the longevity of it. Being in a exclusive, monogamous relationship has to be a woman’s idea.
I use dating apps quite often and well, being 27, I’ll get exactly zero hits with women 24-27. Ziltch. Nadda. But, 20-22? Sometimes 23? A different story. At least for me, the tried and true 5-10 year difference is real.
Nope. It is not. When you’re a guy in your 20s you should be min/max-ing; so in the meantime, it’s beneficial to date around and gain experience interacting with women.
Perhaps the influence society has on them - pressuring them to chase that degree (that zero dudes care about). They don’t want “most men”. Even the waitress thinks she rightfully deserves that guy that takes in six figures. Career-oriented women will hold out for a partner that makes just as much (or preferably, more) than them until her looks diminish.
Cool. You should also never ask a fish how to catch a fish. Beyond easy to make small talk at a grocery store, smile, then be on your way - never lingering. If she’s interested, you’ll know.
Relax. I can sense your temperature rising. To me, those “cells” count as a life. Furthermore, if you’re too inebriated to A) be on BC or B) not have a condom handy, you aren’t adult enough to be opening your legs all willy-nilly.
It’s not about liking or disliking women; it’s about being an adult and accepting the consequences of your actions. No need to take a life for your poor decision making.
I agree with this. Most “hangouts” are bars/clubs (Not my scene) or gyms - a place where a man shouldn’t really be approaching. Perhaps this is an issue where I am located, though.
The classic “who hurt you?” cliche. Face it: if a HVM sees you bust out your attention device in the middle of a dinner date to snap photos w/o him, he’ll smile, full-well knowing you aren’t to be taken seriously & will be treated as such.
Extremely rare. There’s a crazy amount of fear mongering regarding it, but 2-4% is the chance for lower libido, ED etc. Obviously, staying in great physical shape can help negate this even further.
Nice lashes. “Physical peak” i.e body composition; reading comprehension isn’t your strong suite, is it? Sheesh. What does that say about yours? Balding at 20 is a scary proposition, young lady.
Men that have lifted throughout their 20s will be at their physical peak in his 30s. Too many viable solutions for hair loss. Wrinkles? TRT will negate this for a prolonged period of time.
That isn’t too bad. Perhaps it’s a gym-related thing, but at 5’9”, I swear I’m always near the shortest in there haha; but you’re right: getting jacked is an absolute must for dudes like us
Correct! The answer I was searching for. The girl had him at her apartment…. she was looking to get plowed 100%. Tinder is a hookup app. He’s on the wrong app.
Just keep her at arms length. Hangout, have fun, hookup? Sure. However, marriage/cohabitation/children - that’s just off the table. A woman that believes it’s totally fine to hangout with other dudes 1 on 1 isn’t to be taken seriously.
Desperation is what that is called. They’ve reached their breaking point haha. Also, men tend to date down, however, some take this to the extreme to feel secure in the relationship.
Yeah, you’ll have a better chance at those 25 year olds once you hit 35 or so - that’s where they’re aiming towards. For now, enjoy the older chicks! Don’t forget your raincoat though 😉
I’ve been to Ecuador, El Salvador, and Panama - I’ve never experienced feminine women such as the ones in these countries. Not sure if this equates to the 80/20 rule, but perhaps it relates somehow.
Meh. This was a victory and a half for myself and folks of the same beliefs. My state is going to be filled with a bunch of sane & rational people from this point forward. Can’t wait!
That’s precisely my point haha. If the sexual urge is there, my beliefs/standards go right out of the window. After the deed is finished, I come to that realization that it is in fact, an absolute waste of time
Hm.. nothing strange so far. Once or twice a week is enough to curve the feeling. Or, if I’m engaging with a woman that isn’t at all attractive to me, taking care of it myself sets me back in line.
That’s just sad, and those guys are vile humans. But me, being 26, I seek out women 21-25 for something long term. I personally can’t do casual flings. However, I have had friends in my age group go after women in their 30s… strictly for a quick lay as committing to her would be asinine.
Updating your social media will only attract the women that sounds like you wouldn’t truly desire.. (I’m the same way), so, if I were you, I would work on just going up to them in person, getting the number, scheduling the date.
That’s all you can do. 1) if she’s interested, she’ll let you know when she gets back 2) you don’t want to be her pen pal 3) most guys will continue to spam her, but not you.
You say you have all kinds of matches (that sounds like a lot), and then you go on to say if someone pulls crap on you, that’s when you will not sleep with him. How many dudes honestly break that one sole rule of yours?
Every woman has her phone on her at all times. Their bra, leggings, in the shower etc. Trust me, they saw your message.. and if she fails to reply, it’s a clear sign of low interest; and spending time/money/attention on a low interest woman is the absolute worst.
Do nothing. If she reaches out, say “it’s good to hear from you. I’d like to see your little face (something goofy) when are you free to get together?” Wait for her response. If it’s not a definite schedule/time where she is free, say “sounds like you’re jammed up, but let me know when it gets clearer. Anyway, I gotta run. Keep in touch”
Well, clearly you’ve left an imprint on her, my good sir. Continue to hangout, have fun, and hooking up - don’t take it too seriously. If all goes well, tell her to visit you the next time. If she agrees, it’ll be very difficult to screw it up because that’s clear as day high interest.
I’ve had a few gems, but the majority will be me carrying the conversation with teasing/humor. Rare to find a chick with that particular sense (why you see on dating apps: tell me a joke / make me laugh)
Step 1: make sure you’re actually physically attracted to her Step 2: don’t text a chick “bruv” or “af” or any other lingo of that nature Step 3: get off of the app by giving her your number Step 4: call her and get her out on a date
You’re 18. You’re at your lowest market value. Chicks 18 aren’t looking in your direction at that age - they’re attracted to much older dudes (21-24 range). They offer more experience, resources, and their bodies’ are more developed. Spend these next few years improving yourself.
Not just weight. Women in their early 30s can no longer compete with the young 21-22 year olds that are always sought out for. This is without mentioning that most women in their thirties will have 1-2 kids in tow - men will not raise another dudes children.
Child support for 18 years is a blessing for some of these women - it’s the gift that keeps on giving. Never allow a woman near your condoms (before & after)
All too common nowadays, my friend! Everything you stated in your initial post is 100% correct. What she proposed was men being submissive… doing as such and she’d swiftly resent them. Everyone has a part to play.
Just my face. Been lifting since I was 17 (25). Never cared to check my BMI. Looking good with a shirt off is all that matters. 5’10” - 185-190Ibs. And yes, the same applies to men. It’s an epidemic in the west.
I’d be upfront with her if she asks what you two are. State that you enjoy her & her company, but that’s all it’s going to be. Big chicks need to quit deluding themselves.
A chick that takes her dog hiking, goes camping, fishes, has good relations with her family.. etc. vs a girl that goes out every Saturday night with her single girlfriends to the club……..
I’m talking about a girl that has ~200 followers on Instagram/Facebook. Doesn’t have Snapchat downloaded. They’re out there.. obviously rare. Anything over that number or has dozens & dozens of unopened snaps.. you’re wasting your time.
Instead of your last text, I would’ve said something like, “jeez, someone is awfully chatty today.. quiet down otherwise you might disturb someone ;) “ Something like that
Ohhh nooo.. of course not! He just simply laughed it off because he was just (if not more) nervous than you were haha. In my eyes, you gave him the ball - he just fumbled it. I’m sure he’ll do better the next time though
The best way to get someones attention is to remove yours. Telling her what you want and then walking away is all you can do. Never reach out for ANY reason if she’s unable to fall in line.
I’d be verbal with her at this point. Something snarky, yet playful. I had a girlfriend that acted like how your chick acts. I was hardly successful just by ‘doing’ - but always reeled her in by ‘saying’
Women begin feeling that warm fuzzy feeling about 1-2 months in. So, it’s not surprising that you’re feeling this way. As the woman, it’s sorta your ‘duty’ to ask where you two stand.. keep it light, keep it fun, but if you’re feeling it, ask away.
You shouldn’t have acknowledged the previous nights so forwardly/boringly. Both of you know.. so with you saying “because of last night haha” makes you look weak in my eyes. There were other methods to make it sound a lot smoother/sexier.
“Hey, when are you free to get together?” That’s it. If she gives you a wishy-washy reply, “No worries, let me know when your schedule opens up and we’ll do something then” Never talk to her again if it isn’t her schedule
