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To learn. All of my learning in the last year has been through practice alone and adding some quality learning material should improve this process.
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:05 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/BostonSeddit/
/r/seduction02/02/14 10:09 PM
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Good catch. Thanks.
/r/seduction11/05/13 03:54 PM
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http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0061438294/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1368287612&sr=8-1&pi=SL75
/r/seduction11/05/13 03:54 PM
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Just wait until you read more and more on it and spend tons of time watching people. It gets pretty awesome what you can see. It also becomes a game you can play with girls. In addition, you can see things that even they don't realize is happening and this makes for great playful teasing. I would also suggest adding "what everyBODY is saying". It is a great book written by a former CIA operative who needed to be amazing in order to survive. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0061438294/ref=mp_s_a_1_1…
/r/seduction11/05/13 02:06 PM
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I am sure there are a ton of experienced guy who would be willing to go out with you a couple times to help. Try asking in the NYC seddit.
/r/seduction02/05/13 03:38 PM
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Are you near Boston?
/r/seduction01/05/13 10:44 PM
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Your survey is quite biased. Also for some questions you will only receive certain replies due to who you are polling. Odds are if someone is here they have gotten other material, while those who haven't almost certainly aren't.
/r/seduction29/04/13 12:23 AM
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Find the most social people you know. Talk to them and observe how they talk to others.
/r/seduction28/04/13 04:33 PM
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Be present and in the moment.
/r/seduction28/04/13 04:22 PM
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That I am not as boring, ugly, socially awkward. etc. as I thought I was. Turns out I have a pretty awesome life and a style that matches. You tell me that two years ago and I wouldn't have believed you.
/r/seduction28/04/13 11:41 AM
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Sounds like you have spent a lot of time on it that could have been applied to live practice that would have produced larger skill gains. Even if it works the question is it providing the long term benefits you seek.
/r/seduction22/04/13 10:20 PM
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The passages are dead on. Stereotypical nice guys do nice things expecting something in return. The key there is seeking something in return. Those who create value do so for the sake of doing so. They don't need anything in return and don't even expect anything to come from it. They make people's lives better because they enjoy doing it and nothing more. They help others because they want the best for others. Also they say no if things are unreasonable. No to insane requests, because they aren'…
/r/seduction22/04/13 08:45 AM
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I'm not female, but the answer is universal and doesn't depend upon gender. There is nothing you can do about what you have, in this, height, who your parents are, where you were born, or a million other things. We all get lucky in some aspects and not so lucky in others. There are also some things forced upon us by life that suck, for instance cancer. Guess what, if you can't change it worrying about it only hurts you. By letting it go and accepting it as it is and trying to make the most of wh…
/r/seduction22/04/13 03:00 AM
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No need for so much text. Just invite them over to have a drink. The way you are wording it now is putting too much on a text. You are practically asking them to come over and sleep with you in a text. Do that in person. Also no need to include "and see what happens", that's already implied with your game.
/r/seduction21/04/13 11:13 AM
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Use this. Use this as fuel to push yourself. Remember how you feel now and use that feeling to push you until you can no longer feel it, because you can no longer relate to where you are right now. Use this so in two years time it isn't even in your reality that what happened tonight could happen again.
/r/seduction21/04/13 11:08 AM
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More information on what you are looking for would help produce better ideas. How did you meet her? Was it a brief thing, one where she already got to know you some, or one where you haven't met in person yet? Also what kinds of things do you like doing? What parts of your interactions are the strongest? As for myself, I have a few atypical suggestions that seem to work well for me. Hanging out at the Boston commons which allows talking but also physical activity, people watching either downtown…
/r/seduction21/04/13 04:04 AM
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There are a ton of comments about getting new friends, without a ton of information about the logic behind it. First, one potential reason your friends are questioning you is that up until now in your group there has been a social hierarchy. Suddenly you are changing that which causes everyone else to feel that their place in the group is being threatened, so they respond accordingly. As such, their actions are done with their best interests in mind, not yours. Second,you want friends that will …
/r/seduction20/04/13 04:26 PM
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Congrats on taking this step. Keep on pushing and working on your skill and you will end up with a lot more than a kiss.
/r/seduction19/04/13 07:37 AM
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While I do not have direct experience with your situation, a question comes to mind. How are you going about sexualizing the conversation to take your self from an attraction to something more?
/r/seduction19/04/13 06:31 AM
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Right now you have started to come off as being needy. You need to know what she thinks before responding. A playful confident reply would do a lot towards helping remove the neediness created.
/r/seduction19/04/13 05:47 AM
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I have good news and bad news. I'll give you the good news first. Odds are a lot of what you think is creepy and awkward about yourself isn't nearly as bad as you think. As such, you shouldn't worry about it. Everyone notices their own flaws much more than others and people tend to judge themselves more strictly than others as well. Now the bad news. You just need to ask her out. It is going to require overcoming your fears and putting your balls on the line, and if you want anything from the si…
/r/seduction19/04/13 05:22 AM
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It doesn't matter as much which book you read as how you utilize what you read. If you rush through it with little to no implementation of why you read, you will get little. If you go slowly, finding one or two key points and then implement them and spend enough time to see the results you will benefit. Even if the results aren't the ones you want in the end, you will have learned a lot in the process and I am sure picked up something that ends up being beneficial, even if that wasn't the intend…
/r/seduction18/04/13 07:52 AM
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It happens because you placed her in a different category than the other women you talk to. As such you treat her differently and as a limited resource instead of approaching with an abundance mentality. In general this tends to be a result of imperfections in your inner game where you either see her as at a higher level than you are or as a limited quantity. Both result in not maintaining your state which causes the problem you mention. One good way to deal with this is approach any girl you se…
/r/seduction18/04/13 07:40 AM
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While amplifying would work well, it also shows a slight weakness in this situation. Given that they are trying to frame it as a negative thing, what I have found to work better is to just to accept it. Nothing more nothing less. They are seeking some kind of reaction from calling you a pua and by just saying yes, you take control of the situation. They are expecting to respond to something and by giving them nothing they will lose their footing. Think about it, I am sure there have been many ti…
/r/seduction18/04/13 05:33 AM
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