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SHOWER THOUGHTCognitivedecadence/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:00 AM
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😂😂😂didn’t even see that at first. Can you say PROJECTION?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:51 PM
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My grandfather: “show me your friends, and I’ll tell you how much of an asshole you are”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:58 AM
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If they had sunglasses on in every pic, I usually just assumed they were cross-eyed or otherwise unattractive without them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:12 AM
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And they think loving dogs and hating cats is cool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:11 AM
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Do you mind sharing some of the book recommendations?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:00 AM
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Oh man where was this when I needed it more?! Thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:59 AM
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OP described exactly why Prank shows/ videos of ppl hurting themselves on accident have always been suspect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:08 AM
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😂💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:27 AM
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I have had a few instances of inappropriate humor and laughing in high stress situations like this too. I think it comes from trying to diffuse tension, but I promise you can 100% wear a smile and laugh while actually being terrified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:25 AM
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That is such a good quote! Yup society never tells white men no (aside from poverty I guess) or that their view is wrong and they literally can’t handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:22 AM
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100% this^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:27 AM
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Shit so it’s almost literally like he abducted her by driving to his house and not to dinner 😳 Edit: she did make a follow up video explaining that he was blocking her exit and she got out okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:28 AM
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She’s probably trying to be sneaky about it. I think it’s smart for evidence. Looks like he’s blocking the exit to that room too. Hopefully she bolted as soon as the video ended. You don’t know how you’ll react in danger like that. Everyone thinks they would have the “fight” reaction (which arguing back qualifies as I think?) but lots of people “freeze” too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:20 AM
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This is straight up scary vibes... lol at all of his cliche phrases
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:02 AM
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Agreed. This is LVW & LVM pettiness. I think it’s exactly one of the reasons FDS is strict on the block and delete in the early stages before dating because if you sink down to their level then you’re not acting like a HVW anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:10 AM
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Good point! A HVM would make sure everyone else was provided for first and get his plate last. I guess this is what he passed the time thinking about while his wife slaves over the food and being a good host.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:56 PM
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Men are so catty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:53 PM
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Lol yup! these LVM are running out of plays in Scrote playbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:16 PM
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And they talk about having “post nut clarity” after sex... umm sir that’s called regret. If you could get laid without manipulation and lies you wouldn’t feel guilty afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:46 PM
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I think so too. It’s smells of racist Edit: must be a coping mechanism for being a fat, hairy, emotionally deficient white boi over 5’8”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:41 PM
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Amen 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:40 PM
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Lol they tell us our fertility declines but I don’t hear enough mentions of how their sperm goes from worthless to a liability like that! It’s true 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:11 PM
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Oh lots of people AND medical professionals have gaslit me about why I have had recurrent UTIs. It’s so insulting, of course I wipe front to back and shower regularly, I try hard to prevent them! Birth control/hormone changes your vaginal Ph which can increase infection risk. In addition to that, it’s very unlikely you’ll have just one UTI in your life. If you have one you’ll likely have one again. If I simply let myself get too dehydrated and eat lots of sugar it’ll cause a UTI now. Always pee …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:03 PM
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Lol yup, if anything she might see some people like his comment and in that case he’s doing her a favor exposing the people she can’t trust. Anyone who deserves to be in her life is going to see that comment says a lot of bad about him and nothing about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:41 PM
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Louder for the liberal feminists in the back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:26 AM
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Why do these dumb men keep saying they’re part Viking? 🤣 I’ve heard this before too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:21 AM
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E. Coli causes the majority of UTIs. It doesn’t mean you’re dirty or that he cheated on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:38 AM
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I’d send that shit to his boss and publicly dis-own my father if he did that shit to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:05 PM
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If he puts me first he’s a bad dad. If he puts his kid first I have to accept being his #2 priority. (I know technically we are our own #1 priorities, you know what I mean)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:43 AM
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🤣 fuck the 5 love languages right?,like why would I settle for one form of expressing or receiving affection?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:23 PM
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Let’s just start labeling them accurately. Start calling them aspiring abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:46 PM
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There’s that FDS vibe check I was waiting for 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:29 PM
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That’s fantastic! No bad tearing/ stitches either?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:26 PM
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😬 ‘nuff said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:38 AM
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Oh yup 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:38 AM
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OMG I hope she runs like hell from this relationship and never misses a BC pill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:05 PM
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This ain’t it sis. He’s being passive aggressive and instead of telling her why he’s upset, he wants to punish her. If he was already doing this to her, It’s likely she automatically asked her mom because she’s so used to him not caring. Or she knows He doesn’t want her there no matter what and would rather her have a tough time instead of MIL helping. Yes she’s wrong for making decisions without her husband, but overtime LV is contagious, and you either leave or you stoop to their level and hol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:53 PM
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I think we’re pretty much in agreement, but lately I think we should change the language for these behaviors. I think when we call them children or immature they can kind of play it off and get away with it as not knowing any better. But people who do this know what they’re doing. And it is NOT the partner’s job to fix them. Withdrawing affection and avoiding or refusing a verbal confrontation when we’re upset/stonewalling is emotional abuse. Edit: and he may not have done this until she had the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:47 PM
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God I wish this wasn’t true lol it’s funny cause it’s dark 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:42 PM
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My dad was always an ass towards my stepmom when her mom came to visit. I really think these men are annoyed having another person in their space. Maybe he also knows he can’t get away with his bullshit while mom in law is still there to witness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:54 PM
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Idk if she is. If he is so disconnected from her needs that she just asked her mom to stay without discussing, I think it’s because she is usually on her own and it’s a habit of knowing he doesn’t care about her needs and it’s her problem to fix. I think we need more info about her thought process there, but I also bet if she had discussed with him before he would have said no despite her pleading that she needs help still (totally understandable, esp. after a traumatic birth). Then it could hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:51 PM
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Fuck. This. Man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:36 PM
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Right here with you. Idk why we pay to see scary movies when you could just ask any mother to tell you her birth stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:04 PM
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And what did he do exactly???? She worked on herself and she’s not even the problem here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:12 PM
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I never liked his comedy, he just makes weird faces and “pretends” to be mentally ill half the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:21 PM
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What’s the tea on Pete Davidson? All I know is him opening up about his mental illness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:19 PM
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Exactly! I think not being able to give and receive most of the 5 is a sign that someone may be emotionally stunted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:41 AM
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I bet most of them have no idea what the origin of the love languages is. I hear lots of women talk about what their love language is too and I’m like 🙄 Edit: also if your partner didn’t know that you enjoyed gifts or quality time to the point you had to verbalize after being together for years... why are you with them? Sounds more like “if they wanted to they would”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:33 AM
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Gaslighting fboiz. And if you get raped ppl will say “well why were you at his house?” Men also aren’t held to the same social etiquette as us. I remember hearing, “ladies don’t do that” “ladies don’t curse” so much growing up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:41 AM
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Also who invites themself to someone’s place? He must live in a dump or with his parents
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:07 AM
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Keep trusting that intuition👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:23 PM
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Wonder what else he isn’t telling her? Lol her family is just looking out for her. If he wanted to “take the next step” he should propose to her. But no, in reality he’s broke, so he got a roommate he could also get sex from regularly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:16 PM
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I. HATE. THE. FIVE. LOVE. LANGUAGES!!!! Do your homework people! It’s fake psychology. The writer of the 5 love languages used that shit to make unhappy wife’s accept their LVM husbands so they wouldn’t divorce and leave the church. Why would a person only like to receive affection from their partner in one single way? Because it’s a LVM trying to justify his low effort behavior. You obviously deserve a relationship with more than just physical attention and gift giving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:08 PM
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Ouch this one hurts cause it’s true 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:01 PM
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She can have those trash boiz then. Me and my self-respect are content alone. I’d say I can wait but I’m not even anticipating or putting my life on hold so “waiting” doesn’t fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:00 PM
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I think that’s every point in one comment, I love it! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:54 PM
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Hopefully that post helped her vent or rethink her options :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:06 PM
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Damn, who knew I was already a feminist defying the patriarchy in 1st grade 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:02 PM
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Ugh I agree with y’all. These parents aren’t teaching their kids how to care for others or at least show appreciation, and it’s sorta part of the teen developmental stage to be self-interested. I thought my stepmom was a raging B*** as a teen.... but now I realize she was exhausted and resentful trying to raise their 3 kids plus parenting her husband’s teenage daughter (me) cause my dad didn’t believe raising kids was his job as a husband + his mother was too overwhelmed to do an adequate job. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:51 PM
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I feel like gift giving is taught. My take: Subconsciously, those teens don’t see their dad giving their mom gifts so they don’t know better yet. He isn’t taking them to get their mother a gift/explicitly telling them to think of her, because he doesn’t. Sadly they won’t learn how to thoughtfully choose and give a gift to someone they care about. Without this &lots of other nuances/skills of healthy relationships, these kids could repeat the cycle and to me that’s the worst part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:43 PM
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The way he looks... nah. The best manipulation in the world couldn’t convince me near that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:29 PM
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It’s the closest thing he has to the deleted pornhub content now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:25 PM
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Dude can barely manage all those chins, he should scale back 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:21 PM
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Interesting. I wonder what the legal definition of public figure is, and how they establish that. and then is it the prosecutor (NVM) who has burden of proof in this type of case? Maybe I should leave this one to the professionals lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:16 PM
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The final form of the “nice guy” : 🥔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:10 PM
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Yes! Very common to see those tRaDiTiOnAl types where I live too. Personally I’m not religious anyways but it’s still surprising what they would msg. Seen a few male co-workers that I once respected on the apps a lot too... they had serious girlfriends that I’d met at company happy hours. I find it so hard to respect any men these days. And these particular boiz think they’re so clever using old photos and no bio. “It’s an old account I never deleted” BS! The algorithm shows your profile when yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:35 PM
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Or jail 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:01 PM
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🤣 its all part of the devaluation. Make her feel guilty for doing nothing wrong which is also exactly what he wanted in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:58 PM
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Yeah seems like his self-esteem is so low he has to turn it into a sick game where he conditions her to accept abuse to “win”. When he could instead recognize she’s not into him and move on in search of actual happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:55 PM
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Side note: Why do they look related? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:46 PM
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I don’t know enough about the laws on this one and I bet it varies by state in the USA, but I’m imagining that a pick-me could rat on someone in the private group, and then the violent NVM gets revenge on her. Sadly I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s easier to sue for “slander” versus for revenge porn. The patriarchy is real. Edit: 🤞🏻 one of these private groups exists and grants us access too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:41 PM
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I’ve seen this exact manipulation tactic too 🤦🏼‍♀️ online dating apps are so toxic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:35 PM
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I wish this was a thing! But I think slander (?whatever the term is) lawsuits and retaliation prevent people from having a “carfax” for men lol... manfax 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:29 PM
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Ugh that’s horrible...I pretty much assume if he likes cartoons at all he jerks off to it. Maybe this is culturally Ignorant of me, but something about anime creeps me out to no end. I refuse to watch I don’t care if I’m missing out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:15 PM
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Personal preference: I don’t date men who watch cartoons. No exceptions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:09 PM
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Right, and then they wonder why we’re out here giving fake numbers when cornered
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:28 AM
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Unless it’s in the form of an unsolicited verbal assault on your self esteem because your calm confidence makes him mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:32 AM
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I propose we start calling them “soul-diggers” Edit: another FDS queen has proposed this before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:32 PM
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Love that username btw 🤠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:03 PM
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Charming people creep me out now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:18 AM
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Friendships are real and actually matter opposed to my bad experiences with relationships where I know that deep down the man just wants sex and doesn’t care beyond that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:10 AM
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I deleted most of my social media and cut dozens of family members out of my life because of this shit. My ex is a malignant narcissist medical student can apparently get away with anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:58 PM
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/s means sarcasm on reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:45 PM
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I have a feeling he drove his ex to suicide but that’s besides the point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:55 AM
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Maybe I should just be grateful they told on themselves early on and saved me some time 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:54 PM
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I’ve had the same exact experiences, also 5’11. It’s like if you’re willing to lie about 3 inches of your height thinking I’ll just accept it or be too stupid to even notice... yikes 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:46 AM
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Yes I agree! I’m 5’11 140 ish pounds and it’s confusing as hell knowing models are tall and considered beautiful but then most attention I receive regarding my height is negative. “I don’t usually like tall women but....” 😒I was very insecure about staying thin as a teen and still don’t have the best relationship with food. This pressure to make yourself small as a woman still messes with me at times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:30 AM
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Thanks for the warning, I’ll stay single forever then lol what a sad, stupid person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:34 PM
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You gotta see it to believe it 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:33 AM
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There’s a dark shadowy place of reddit... the JordanPeterson subreddit. Take a look around 😬 that’s probably the fastest way to get an idea of what he’s about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:55 AM
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Yes! Nikki’s appearance on Joe Rogan this year was so cringe (even for the JR podcast) and it kills me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:46 PM
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Yes! Intelligence and success are not virtues. Alone, they do not make you a good person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:14 PM
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Agreed. Elon Musk lovers value being an “intellectual” over basic morals and empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:12 PM
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So many Jordan Peterson worshiping scrotes are on the psychologystudents subreddit... makes me sick to think they are studying psychology just to victimize others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:53 PM
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Some men ENJOY upsetting women too. But yup I’ve recently started following your strategy. “The only language men understand is silence”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:37 AM
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Uhhh I feel like most women I know meet all 5 and then some to the point we’re iNtImIdATiNg 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:31 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:00 AM
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War on drugs + war on women: a venn diagram 😅 Edit: thank you for the award, it’s my 1st 🥳☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:02 PM
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I know! 🥺 like that’s how it all starts... wearing down your self esteem one poke at a time if you don’t smell the shit and run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:29 AM
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Can confirm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:10 PM
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Gaslighting is everywhere I swear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:56 PM
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That’s how I feel when people talk about anal sex. I feel like it would be enough pain to make me pass out so idk it’s either “different strokes for different folks” or psychologically complicated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:54 PM
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I’m sorry, that sounds awful 😣 Why don’t docs just offer us pain meds??? I was once prescribed a single Valium, so I’d say the risk of addiction is zero there. Like it’s so unnecessary for us to suffer. I guess depending on the pain medication you may need to arrange for someone to drive you to and from... but at least give people an option. Correction: Valium isn’t a pain medication, it’s apparently prescribed for anxiety. Context was that I was prescribed it to take an hour before surgery/IV g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:49 PM
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Wish we could put a list of these accounts on Instagram together so I can use it to vet men and make sure he doesn’t consume this content while pretending to be woke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:30 AM
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Yikes, you sound very patient, not sure I could have kept my cool. Reminds me of Dr. Ramani’s YouTube video on the cerebral narcissist subtype
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:54 PM
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Idk about professors, but this is definitely true with lawyers and doctors in my experience! I think those professions can be so difficult to get into that it mostly attracts individuals with machiavellian personalities and narcissism. Edit: personally I don’t have any experience dating professors, so I’m not disagreeing either. I’m sure they’re no better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:11 PM
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I bet he killed himself out of spite to avoid paying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:28 AM
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Block and delete 😞 I know, not what you want to hear, but better for you in the long run. He’s bread-crumbing you and isn’t treating you with respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:59 AM
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I feel like there’s this expectation that something has to happen to break up with someone, like they have to hurt you bad somehow. F this! If you’re realizing you’re not being treated well then it’s time to go. It’s hard to end a relationship even for all the right reasons, but you are strong and you have a good life waiting for you to come live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:23 AM
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I fear retaliation. I can’t give more details online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:58 AM
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I know of a doctor currently who has cheated on his wife for years with multiple women. I matched with him on tinder where he was using a fake name. Thanks to Facebook’s friend suggestions linking his phone # to his profile I recognized his face. We had several mutual friends. His wife was pregnant at the time, her whole FB profile was public and made him look like the perfect husband and father... Research shows that men are more likely to cheat and abuse when they have more access to opportuni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:38 PM
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Men are one of the main things that perpetuates my social anxiety. The only time I ever felt comfortable at a gym was when I went with a boyfriend and they left me alone/didn’t stare. Sad that men only respect other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:56 AM
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“Is it a woman’s job to suffer” damn you worded it perfectly! I have too many family members that preach this BS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:21 PM
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I agree with you. Not sure why you got downvoted a bunch in this comment thread. If the video is saying not to fantasize or start to create an idea of who they are based on their online content, THEN SHE SHOULD JUST SAY THAT. I think you should absolutely vet. Any positives don’t take seriously, but definitely take note of negatives so that you’ll recognize them in his real life behavior. Exposing patterns, not expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:03 PM
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The B word is like the lessor form of the dreaded C word...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:19 PM
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“He’s a B**** with some expectations”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:32 PM
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This makes me so sad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:13 AM
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I agree with you. 🤷🏼‍♀️ if he’s gonna negatively stereotype her for being white he’s also going to negatively stereotype women of other races & ethnicities besides white.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:11 AM
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