CoinXante Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Invited my crush to a bar then got with another girl, did I mess up? Not arguing against that, still doesn’t change the fact. OP never told us how she did or did not interact with him, so I wrote my thoughts from past experience.	/r/seduction	16/11/21 05:56 PM
23	Invited my crush to a bar then got with another girl, did I mess up? Depends on the interaction and her to be honest. If you went like “hey you should swing by tonight, I’m working” and she brings her friends, you have no “obligation” to keep her entertained. You could even be more interesting since you now showed first hand that you are sought after. If she on the other hand thought that you guys were going to hook up, chances are she’s going to feel like the second choice. I would argue that it might not be the smoothest choice by you for that night, but I can’…	/r/seduction	16/11/21 02:40 PM
1	[deleted by user] Think about possible consequences. You could loose a possible lifetime friendship to get laid. Even by the small possibility where your friend is accepting it, will your friendship be the same? How would you three be able to hang out, how does that scenario play out in your head. Hard to regret your choice once it’s made.	/r/seduction	14/11/21 11:10 AM
3	How to create sexual tension? I’m not saying that you’re wrong, I just don’t believe it’s an issue unless you either overthink it or overdo it. Everyone probably encountered people who tend to smile too much and creeps you out, so I guess we are on the same page but have different views on how important it is	/r/seduction	07/11/21 04:34 PM
25	How to create sexual tension? I agree with everything except the smiling. Me and my friends usually joke about “don’t talk, just smile” Not a full on grin. A slight smile, enough to “smile with your eyes”.	/r/seduction	07/11/21 04:00 PM
15	How do you guys feel about screwing the neighbour. I would advice against it, it feels like a “don’t shit where you eat” kinda scenario. Use that flirting to get a good mood/boost for the day and use that to pick up women somewhere else. Last thing you want is a crazy neighbor keeping track of who you are bringing home and worse case fuck up your chances for the night.	/r/seduction	07/11/21 10:51 AM
5	[deleted by user] You basically posted the same thing two days ago, feels a bit like humblebragging. She is needy for validation and flipped the script when the first approach didn’t work. Edit: there is a big chance she’ll get that validation somewhere else and then, to be blunt, you’re history.	/r/seduction	26/10/21 08:52 PM
1	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? Quality over quantity. If you really want to live a life where you get laid above having a relationship, I would still recommend one (or a few) fwb. Then you still maintain respect, communication and have a kind of relationship where you are more or less free to move on without attachment. Trying to not get to deep here, but usually sleeping around is a sign of craving affection on different levels, feeing loved and wanted, or simply filling a void of feeling lonely. And if so, that’s a you prob…	/r/seduction	19/10/21 11:47 AM
2	31 male no girlfriend. Hardly any friends. Lonely AF An open question to your colleagues about after work drinks should be a good start, depending on their age they probably have friends that wants to join in, especially after your group thins. Thus giving you better odds at meeting new likeminded friends	/r/seduction	18/07/21 08:20 PM
0	Holy fucking christ i'm lonely I’m sorry, even if I can understand where your frustration is coming from, you pointed out the main issue right in your post. You shouldn’t need anyone else. That need is probably the reason for your failure. The second that need is truly gone, is when you are more likely to meet and connect with someone. And on top of that, more probable to stay together with as well. If you find anyone at this point, it will go down the drain sooner or later. Because your foundation will be built on a need to …	/r/seduction	11/12/18 06:57 AM