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| 1 | Young men mating is a modern constructIm just quoting stuff i read from books and online and using stuff from LLM's because its the first thing that pops up and is easier to do on mobile. If you have credentials and disagree I can't really argue with you there, im just a layman that reads some stuff on subjects I find interesting sometimes. Im 28 so yeah im an adult. Im not willing to die on this hill because I have no emotional investment in it and im trying to go to sleep now, but later I can try to find some peer reviewed researc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Young men mating is a modern constructIm not making up my own wild theories. This is the stuff I read. You can just Google the hypothesises. Evolutionary biology/psychology is my favorite subject. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Young men mating is a modern constructI know that but for young males having relations with females there was an evolutionary advantage because we see young males mate and reproduce in nature. The theory is that the younger you are the less likely you are to have died, because if you are 20 you had less time to end up dying than a 40 year old, so we have healthier traits more prevalent in our youth than when we're older, because its better to put the best traits in early on rather than later if youre more likely to die later. That's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Young men mating is a modern constructLots of things are an advent of modernity, that doesnt make them a bad thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 04:07 AM |
| 3 | Young men mating is a modern constructYes its the norm for females to prefer older males generally because they demonstrate ability to provide and survive better. That's why so many women always say they want an older man lol. But its also normal for younger males to mate and want to mate, and they get away with it in some ways too. If youre just talking about women having a preference for older then sure though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Young men mating is a modern constructWomen like older guys because theyre more likely to be able to provide better, yes, that's a preference. But there are incidents of younger males mating with females in nature too. Preference isn't law. AI overview from my Google search: <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 03:56 AM |
| 5 | Young men mating is a modern constructWe wouldn't have evolved to have sexual attraction in our teens if it wasn't successful for our survival in nature. Those older societies only having 30+yr olds dating is the unnatural social construct and we are going back to our primal roots | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 03:05 AM |
| 1 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?Sex, and more sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 08:25 AM |
| 1 | I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be womenWell it seems like you just had one bad experience with a guy. But the fact that you got so far proves men see you as a woman. If you hopped on a dating app you'd probably get a ton of attention. Maybe its time to move on if it didn't work out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:29 AM |
| 1 | I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be womenAre you skinny now? Men will say losing weight won't change their attraction because they think in the present but if you lost the weight and became skinny and showed him your body and you looked good again it might change his mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:14 AM |
| 1 | I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be womenIdk maybe putting on weight did something since men are more fatphobic than women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:07 AM |
| 1 | I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be womenHot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:03 AM |
| 1 | I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be womenHe flew you out? Men dont usually fly women out theyre not attracted to unless they got deceived until they saw what you look like irl. Who would pay for a plane ticket to fly someone out to them just to reject them irl? Either someone really sadistic with too much time on their hands or your pictures were misleading from how you look irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:49 AM |
| 8 | I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be womenYes facial structure can be ugly too of course, I was just pointing out even the most common ugly features and I still see those ugly women as women. Girl you are probably not even that ugly though, I see people always overstate how theyre hideously grotesque people to look at and they usually look completely fine, lol 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:18 AM |
| 22 | I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be womenI would say... depends what you mean by considered a woman. Like treated as a desire that men will be overly polite to, buy things for, compliment and overall treat like a queen? Probably not. Why would men show desire or date someone theyre not attracted to? Women do the same exact thing to men but you never see men complain about not being treated like a man cause that's just normal. But I still view women that are ugly as biological women even if they are like 70 years old and obese lol. They… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:05 AM |
| 3 | I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be womenOP hit me up I will treat you like a woman 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:01 AM |
| 0 | What are you actually looking for in a man?Date me OP 😎😜 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:33 AM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menIt's like you being an ex robber talking about how robbing isn't as fun as people make it seem to someone who doesnt think robbing is good moral character at all. You being the robber and your bf being the one disgusted by people who used to rob people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 08:40 AM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menThat's literally what you did though is complain about casual sex with men while having a bf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 08:12 AM |
| 2 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menIt did seem like a troll post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 06:06 AM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menThis is like if I had a gf and started complaining about casual sex with women. Even if you arent engaging in it now its disrespectful to your bf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 05:47 AM |
| 0 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menI wouldnt say the risk to reward factor makes it so that women wouldn't enjoy casual sex and it wouldn't be worth it for them. Just they have more risks. They also have advantages like their pick of the litter, have it whenever you want, sometimes be bought things etc. Also in general it still probably ends in a net positive for them, its the choice between getting 10,000 dollars or 7,000 dollars. The men get 10000 the women get 7000 as opposed to not doing it and both sides getting 0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 04:36 AM |
| 2 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menif you have a bf why are you complaining about casual sex here? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 03:43 AM |
| -1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menrisk to reward ratio? what is so risky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 03:40 AM |
| 3 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menso don't have casual sex then. 👍🏿nobody is making you, if anything it's shamed by society already anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 03:34 AM |
| – | AI is now banned and also join our discord come argue with incels, misogynists and misandristsit could be useful just for gathering facts tho and copy and pasting it on something you had to look up to back up your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:23 AM |
| 0 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.Attractive and masculine are two different things. You can be a big burly hairy guy with a beard and bald head and you'd still be fat yet very masculine. Also masculinity is more of an attitude thing, the physical traits are all just signals of masculinity but you can be small and skinny looking and still be very masculine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 06:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than peopleI didn't dodge accountability. We went through the whole thing and had a miscommunication. Im not sure what your problem is. Do you just want me to admit the miscommunication was on my end? Okay sure, whatever. I dont really care that much. Im only replying because nobody else is replying to my comments right now and I need to say something funny, controversial, insightful etc and hope its visible to a bunch of people to get some more conversation going, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 05:03 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than peopleWhen youre on reddit you're making an ass of yourself regardless anyways, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:56 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than peopleYeah cause I thought your explanation of why men are more likely to be homeless was to defend the original commentors position so I wanted to stick to the original argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:51 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than peopleNo i agree with all of that, specifically due to higher testosterone and different brains. And probably other differences between the genders I dont know about, but those are the two big ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:43 AM |
| 1 | AI is now banned and also join our discord come argue with incels, misogynists and misandristsOK, why is AI posts banned? AI search is a good research tool, I use AI for some of my arguments but I always preface it by letting people know which part of my comments are AI. Is it still allowed if we preface it with an AI warning? Or am I in trouble, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:42 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than peopleIm a homeless guy so I was just curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:39 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than peopleRight, I thought you provided that explanation to back up the original commentors point tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:37 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than peopleI thought you were bringing up the reason why men are homeless more often than women to back up the original commentors claim that men use women for money more often than women use men for money. Doing it to provide an alternative reason to say men do use women for money more often and the homeless rate doesnt debunk that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:33 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than peopleWhy should I respond to your comment when I was focusing on the original point. It isnt an imaginary conversation, I was replying to someone else and it doesnt involve you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:22 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than peopleI was just replying to the original comment that claims shes seen more men using women for money than women using men for money. I was going to point out male homelessness because my argument was gonna be evidence that there are less homeless women than homeless men because homeless women can always attach themselves to a man with money as opposed to a homeless man who is less likely to be able to attach themselves to a woman with money. But scrap that argument because the other comment I just m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:15 AM |
| 1 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.How do you know you check off these intellectual and emotionally intelligent boxes? Could be the dunning Kruger effect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:11 AM |
| -1 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.Being fatter doesnt mean a less masculine body tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:08 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than peopleJust a quick ai search on which gender is expected to provide more money for the other gender, (not that we dont see it daily so its kind of obvious to anyone with a pair of eyes) but this is the research on it: Men and Financial Expectations: Society places a heavy emphasis on a man's role as the primary financial provider. Men generally spend more on personal items like alcohol, electronics, and transportation, and online forum discussions suggest men often feel significant social pressure to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:04 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than people🤯 Why are men so much more likely to be homeless than women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:41 AM |
| 1 | men treat hoes differentlywell it is reddit, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 08:32 PM |
| 1 | men treat hoes differentlyExactly. The biological phenomenon for describing it and what everyone already knows | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 04:53 PM |
| 0 | men treat hoes differentlyIm just asserting that men treat girls that dress more revealing differently because i know for a fact if I see a hot girl in more revealing clothing im going to react differently than a regular girl in a sweater. I think some of that is unconscious. I dont think its cause theyre a hoe tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 04:28 AM |
| -1 | men treat hoes differentlyI think its more of a unconscious bias like how we will be more suspicious of a guy with his hood up. Idk if a guy would specifically be like "oh this girl is dressed like a hoe, so let me treat her like a hoe and flirt with her more." So I dont think it necessarily reveals anything shitty about the person unless their intent comes from a shitty motive. I also think men will flirt with both girls dressed modesty and girls dressed more revealing, just the flirting with the girl in more revealing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 04:01 AM |
| -1 | men treat hoes differently? Who said treating worse? I said treating differently. Like a guy is gonna be more flirty with a girl in revealing clothing than a girl dressed more modestly. Or a girl in more makeup. I dont think that's mistreating them though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:43 AM |
| 0 | men treat hoes differentlyNo its real but not that common. I got blue balls before and my balls actually hurt for a week. I even went to the doctor for it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:26 AM |
| 0 | men treat hoes differentlyIf a woman looks or acts like a hoe men will treat them differently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 03:25 AM |
| 0 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsit is for most people though. at least people think it is. hence why everyone tries to find a relationship. it only isn't if you're aromantic and asexual which i would guess is less than 1% of the population just off the top of my head. if you have romantic and sexual desires, then not being in a relationship that satisfies those desires would be worse than being in one that does satisfy those desires all else equal, i would think. now obviously there are exceptions like abusive relationships, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsokay sure. let's make the analogy a little more appropriate. assume that women are supplied with infinite bread and water, and all they're choosing to live on is just bread and water and have been for years. they say they will only eat bread and water or they will only have a 5 star meal, there is no in between. there's no survival danger there. you don't see anything wrong with that? i don't see a problem with it ethically, but in terms of the sake of their own mental health and life quality it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 10:16 PM |
| 7 | Unsuccessful men on the dating regard should just accept it and continue with their livesThis must also be driven by that kind of genuine, biological desire you just answered your own question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:02 PM |
| -2 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsI would argue there is something wrong with it when you're making yourself and the people around you unhappy. I'm only going to eat a 5 star meal and if I dont get that I'm just going to starve myself. It's my choice if I choose to eat or not, there's nothing wrong with it meanwhile you are starting to develop anorexia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards<image> in 1980 the single parent household rate was much lower. also i'm not going to attribute everything to women having higher standards nowadays. i think these changes are caused by many factors. also the birth rate hitting a low in 2025 compared to what it was in say 2010 is weird when i would argue the standard of living probably hasn't even increased, and in many cases possibly decreased or stayed stable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 01:31 AM |
| 7 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsmore recently, and we should address that too. i'm not saying it's just women. in the 50s you would try to get to a phase where you could "put your arm around" a woman, like while in a movie theater. nowadays men talk about "getting pussy." there's been a degradation on both sides | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 01:01 AM |
| 4 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsreally? more single moms, single men, incels, lower birth rate, lower overall happiness for both men and women and both men and women having negative attitudes towards the other gender are not societal problems? probably other problems im not even realizing. what defines a societal problem if not that stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:56 AM |
| 4 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsi agree, but i also think we should try to create a culture that doesn't encourage people to have unrealistic standards or bust, but a culture that teaches people to make compromises and understand/expect what's realistic. i feel like there was a culture shift especially in the last 10 years with dating apps and social media that made everyone, not just women, but probably disproportionately women, expect/want higher standards than they ever had in the past that are unrealistic and either want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:41 AM |
| 0 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsi agree but disagree. whenever you have two groups of people one group will do something more statistically. just like with race, religion, attractiveness, etc + many other characteristics they all do differently in terms of socioeconomic success than the other, for example. saying women and men both do it equally is like saying black and white men both have the same socioeconomic status on average. i would just say from what i personally observed that's not the case and women do it more, hence … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:37 AM |
| -2 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsthe difference is men with delusional standards are few and women with delusional standards are high | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsi agree. in fact, there's no such thing as having too high of standards. if a woman only wants to date the top 0.1% of men then that's her right. that's her individual freedom. if she for some reason can't get a top 0.1% man, she can choose whether she wants to be single or lower her standards or share a man, but it's entirely up to her! anyone can have whatever standards they want and that's everyone's individual freedom. there's no such thing as too high or unreasonable standards, and there de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketyou'd be surprised how many average/ugly prostitutes get action. they just cost less. the best looking prostitutes tend to be higher class. the prostitute i banged was cute but she was a little chubby, not a 9/10 or 10/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 06:54 PM |
| – | "What about women" is deflection from personal responsibility."Improve your personality" is the most useless advice you can give because its not even the problem for most men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketwhat's unattractive about him? is it his eyes? i found his eyes looked too far apart but didn't want to comment it cause i thought it was mean edit: otherwise he looks attractive to me though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 10:51 PM |
| -1 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketwhen you called him monk i thought at first you were calling him a monk cause he was speaking in word salad, lol. my favorite quote for this: "The great enemy of clear language is insincerity. When there is a gap between one’s real and one’s declared aims, one turns, as it were, instinctively to long words and exhausted idioms, like a cuttlefish squirting out ink." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketi mean, it depends on what you mean by "blame women." if it's true at scale as a general trend that women tend to have higher standards than men for a relationship, then blaming women for having that higher standard seems reasonable to me. i think that's what the guy in this video is trying to do. not to say that all women are bad or that there's not something he can do to improve himself, or that there aren't women that are out there with lower standards that will date him, but there's few of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketwhose goal? there's going to be people that think women should fuck less, people that think women should fuck more, and people that hold both positions and are contradictory, or hold neither position. nobody's a monolith, there are going to people that hold every position in all different genders in every topic such as religion, politics etc, and there are always some people that contradict themselves in any group. just cause some people contradict themselves doesn't mean you paint a whole group… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 10:25 PM |
| 17 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketi have seen fuckboys, some are lying some are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 10:22 PM |
| 27 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketit's not about what women should or shouldn't do or what's easier, it's that you said women aren't interested in fuckboys but clearly they are if they fuckboys are fucking. otherwise they'd just be called cuckboys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 10:13 PM |
| 0 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?what... what if you don't even have a pill? i was new to the gender debate but dont even know what the pills mean, aside from just associating red pill with andrew tate but im really not that deep into tate or knowing their full ideology, only a little bit of it. i just wanted to view the gender debate as an independent lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?on a side note: why do people reply to do the bot on this subreddit for comments? never saw that in any other subreddits. dont want to make an off topic thread to ask tho lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 08:57 PM |
| 7 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?if men were never good or interested in having male friends, you wouldn't have seen a decline in male friendship, it would've been stagnant from the start. i see the decline in male friendships due to technology like phones, social media, video games, tv + other things that have taken over men's attention and caused more isolation and lack of experience in knowing how to socialize. just my personal hypothesis though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?this is just femosphere ideology talking. there are plenty, if not most successful relationships rooted in emotional connection rather than just "a hole." if men cared only about a hole you would see men using artificial vaginas at an exceedingly high rate but they do not. do men care more about sex? yes. do men use women for sex? many of them do. most relationships are about much more than just sex though for both men and women though. otherwise you'd see single moms in the majority of househol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are notit's not all or nothing. the average man that is single isn't celebrated like a bachelor is. that's the whole point of this post. that men who choose to be single (not even cause that can't get a woman, but they're also not "bachelors" and just choose it) are seen as losers. the fact that you called them losers kind of proves the point. also let's not call men that are dateless or sexless losers, that's kind of toxic. you wouldn't call the "cat women" or single women that can't get a man a loser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are notThe problem with women pointing out "but bachelors are celebrated!" Is its once again falling for the trap of celebrating the top 1% of men and ignoring the bottom 90%. Furthermore bachelor's are usually men choosing to be single but still having a ton of sex, which is way different from the average man. We usually dont judge people based on the top 1% or everyone makes 800k a year now. Yay! 🥳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 11:54 AM |
| 1 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?I mean, you can still make the first move, pay for things, and ask for marriage. Most men would probably prefer if a woman made the first move on them and paid for things. There's nothing to be jealous about, you actually have the advantage there too and a much higher success chance when it comes to making the first move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 03:50 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemThe problem is even ugly women have hot men throwing themselves at them so the average woman has no reason to settle for an average man, lol. It has nothing to do with whether they see themselves accurately as average or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 03:37 AM |
| 6 | Lots of the frustrations in the current dating world are from **some** men refusing to accept that most women are generally more valuable than most menof course there's "hypergamy" on both sides. there are men that will date women just for their money. there are women that will date men just for their money. it's more about to what degree each gender has it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 01:08 AM |
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