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Grow up.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/26 05:27 AM
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Are you ok
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 10:30 PM
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Keep a stopwatch.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 06:37 AM
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I’m shocked.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 06:32 AM
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Terrible ratio.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 05:46 AM
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You may be a brand new account with very low karma, OP, but there’s no denying your em dash game is on point—to an extent.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/25 11:19 PM
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There will always be a man to catch a falling woman, married or otherwise. That does not make other men your enemy. Women are well aware that it’s a seller’s market and they’re always calling the shots.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/25 03:23 AM
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OP is just trolling. I recall an almost identical post here recently. Anyway, so what if an ex or their lawyer DID find someone here? What are they going to uncover? That divorce sucks and men go through the wringer? That’s hardly big news.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/25 03:05 AM
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Copypasta re-post. Most posts in this sub would be excluded for relevance, anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/25 03:03 AM
0

What do you have to lose? I don’t know too many men with a four year dry streak. Except, well, you.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/25 07:46 AM
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He got ripped off paying for companionship. Check hos post history
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 05:19 AM
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He’s a monger. A buyer in the flesh trade. Nobody’s upset; we’re just disgusted.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 05:18 AM
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This man has sex with prostitutes and compares notes with other sex buyers here on Reddit. Check his post history. You’re not dealing with a genuine person here.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 05:17 AM
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You talked about comparing notes with other mongers online? And complaining about getting poor service for the money you paid sex workers? And she’s basically cool with that? No wonder you can’t drum up any genuine passion for her. She’s a nihilist.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 05:11 AM
0

What’s a pyjama
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 05:06 AM
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I wish I had your problem.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/25 11:55 PM
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The porn thing is such a ridiculous and flimsy pretextual justification, and her latching onto it so hard reveals her real motive: make everything your fault, you dirty masturbator. Yeah, right. I wonder if the new guy ever looked at pics of naked women before whacking off—moreover, I wonder if your wife would even care if he does. Women don’t change their feelings because of some event. They use events to justify the fact their feelings already changed.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 07:30 AM
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Women do ONS plenty, although it usually occurs as a cluster over a certain period of time. A “wild phase” as they put it, which also helps themselves distance the fact they had promiscuous sex by hand-waving it as “just not knowing what they wanted yet.”
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/25 04:09 PM
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We still meet up for sex from time to time. It was one part of the relationship that was never a problem—actually, it was a main way we smoothed over fights. Divorced about a year now. Married 22 years.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/25 03:38 PM
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Fake. It’s about the money and the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 01:21 AM
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LLM spam.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 01:20 AM
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Most of this is terrible advice. The only thing correct is that trying to hide assets is not going to work. But telling a man not to open his own bank accounts as he gears up for a divorce? Or suggesting somehow it’s “not allowed?” Wildly incorrect.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 03:40 PM
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Not talked about enough. Judges are, generally, psychopathic power-mad maniacs who are considered beyond reproach for some bizarre reason. And because family law has essentially no guardrails in terms of statutes, divorce cases really give them room to let their freak flags fly.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/25 06:58 AM
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Reddit is full of bitter people. It’s selection bias. Don’t take anything on this message board too seriously.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 12:18 PM
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Sure, Jennifer.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 11:48 AM
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Wasn’t that the plot to Face/Off?
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 02:26 AM
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Totes.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/25 03:16 AM
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There’s no turning back
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 11:21 PM
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Too late. Rest assured, though: what happens at spot welding, stays at spot welding.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 11:15 PM
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Well, the other girls are like that. Not you, though. You seem special. Something different. I’m probably wrong. Or?
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 11:07 PM
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You’re a woman lol And don’t call me Shirley
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 11:05 PM
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What about the ones who went to trade school
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:44 PM
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Maybe. How did you feel after the first time?
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:42 PM
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Tell me you’re a woman without saying you’re a woman
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:40 PM
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Heh. Yeah, right—the mythical “attractive 40+ yr old boss lady” men are all lusting over. Ok, Karen.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:39 PM
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The story is obviously fake. That said— The fictional young girl would be just fine. She’d file the whole thing under “YOLO,” never to be recalled. Get up in the morning, put on her work clothes, and move on. One single embarrassing one night stand or seven is nothing to a young woman.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:35 PM
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That was the one thing I agreed with
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:31 PM
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Skeptic. Next, you’ll be saying “Letters to Penthouse” is fake. Hater
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:30 PM
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Yeah, it’s some fake account post. There’s a theory that everything on the Internet is increasingly fake. I think that’s mostly true now.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:29 PM
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They were great until about 15 years ago
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:26 PM
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M. Night Shyamalan-style plot twist: he never had one. Meta twist: this is a fake post by a bot that bought a long-dormant Reddit account
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:24 PM
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Cool story bro
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:47 AM
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Ross’s and Marshalls anywhere aren’t bad bets. But Trader Joe’s, Mosaic District, … use your imagination.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/25 03:35 AM
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Wearing a suit. Walking around where women tend to cluster. Sparking up casual conversation.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 04:39 AM
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Cheated back, yeah. I did. She couldn’t believe it. The culture says men have egos. Gentlemen, we’re not even close.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 06:30 AM
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I’d normally be the first to shoo you out the door from this subreddit, but this reads as very genuine. I think you want to save your marriage. If I were a mutual friend, I would just advise you to chill. Back off a bit. Stop keeping track of the specific dates your husband goes to conventions, or this or that, or even what he says when you talk to him. Don’t be a “relationship archaeologist.” The two of you have a special needs child together. I can only imagine how intense that is. Just, give …
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 04:42 AM
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This. We don’t have time for the bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 12:10 AM
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Prison? That’s not where they end up.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 04:11 AM
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Totally. Just, on my terms, this time. What’s funny is—they want you to be the benevolent master. It took me a long time to realize what they meant, but it is so clear now.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 03:46 AM
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“It’s a trap!” —Admiral Ackbar
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 01:55 AM
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“It’s a trap!” —Admiral Ackbar
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 01:55 AM
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Step back. Rub your eyes. Take a fresh, new look at her. I bet two of her friends actually look better than she does. Admit it.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 04:18 AM
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I’ll always have love for my evil stbxw, I can’t get rid of 25 years growing up with her in my young life, three children, etc. But I’ve gained enough experience in this life to be able to put it in a ziplock bag, lock that in a metal box, and stash it under the Christmas ornaments at the bottom of the closet. I’ve learned so much from her.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 05:15 PM
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It’s seethe-bait. Pay it no mind.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 05:24 AM
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“She was my best f**king friend” Lol
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 07:18 AM
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What could go wrong? I think Love Conquers All. Go ahead, tell her she’s forgiven for that momentary nine-month absolute loss of sanity and self-respect and any respect for you and your children. Get all your crap out of the Public Storage unit, move back in. She’s ready to forgive you, after all, for failing to remember what she wanted for Christmas three years ago or for neglecting the dishes too long!
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 10:02 PM
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Without religious reasons, then what meaning does marriage have? Have you thought this through? If no God or spirits are involved, then why not just write a contract?
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 04:28 AM
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I’m a courthouse lawyer. The worst lawyers I know charge the highest hourly rates. They then use their ridiculously astronomical accumulated fee as a catastrophic threat against either their own client, or the opponent, or both. I ask for a flat fee. I know how time much a case is going to take me, and what a fair payment is, with 90% confidence. But I also don’t do divorce or family law. For any amount. Which is also why I drive an old Honda while the divorce sharks drive Teslas lol
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 07:11 AM
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OP: “I suffer so much because I can't ‘hate’ or even ‘dislike’ her because old trauma surfaced.” Don’t worry, brother. I got your back. I’m doing that for you already 😎
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 01:49 AM
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Saw it a long time away. Didn’t make it easier.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/24 12:12 AM
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🤔😂
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 11:37 PM
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I know it seems rare in this sub, but sexual compatibility was never an issue for my wife and I, either. In fact, we were scromping like rabbits even months after I filed. Married 22 years, also. Whole two decades was a fuckfest. No “ragrets.” It turns out that relationship longevity doesn’t hinge on any one single factor. Although I concede that if that physical connection hadn’t been there, it probably would have ended a lot earlier.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 11:03 PM
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Username checks out.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 04:23 PM
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Agreed. This is an obvious advertisement for the dude’s book, which he referenced at the start of his post and then names specifically at the bottom. Any upvotes are probably bought or from fake accounts. Check out the OP’s post history. It’s all just pitches for his sauna book, in various subreddits that have little or nothing to do with sauna.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 04:23 PM
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Username checks out.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 03:41 AM
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I don’t think that word means what you think it means.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 03:24 PM
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Bitterness toward, and holding a dim view of something or someone, are not the same thing. Bitterness is a malignant abscess that eats into one’s heart. Thankfully, I consider myself blessed to be free of such a curse. But I make no apology for holding my dim view of, oh, plenty of things 😎
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 05:54 PM
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I harbor no bitterness. Minor annoyance at OP for crashing in here to post simp bait? Sure. But I call it as I see it, and I have seen many wives develop a sense of entitlement, as well as a self-serving view of their own faults and failings, vis a vis their husbands, that is quite at odds with what a reasonable and neutral third party would assess. It is this that I refer to as “wifeish entitlement.” Regrettably, society (courts, popular media, etc.) currently promotes it. Aside from that, I th…
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 05:30 PM
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I’d respectfully suggest there is a lot to read between the lines of the OP’s claims, with a critical perspective and healthy skepticism. It drips with very common wifeish entitlement and self-serving statements.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 03:54 PM
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A period of adjustment on the way to becoming an adult who works and supports herself would be fair. Perhaps a year or two. Frankly, it sounds like there is a lot more to this story than you let on. It is unusual for children to fade out of contact with their mother, and when it does happen, there is typically a clear reason. Also, you mention equity in a house, as well as the fact you now live in a rental. So, you chose to move out of the marital home, correct? Did you make that choice perhaps …
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 02:18 PM
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I agree with your sentiment, but I disagree with your advice: do not tell her anything at all. You owe her no explanation and anything you say to her will most likely only work to your detriment, or at best, be neutral. Just get started making your moves, and cut off communication with her to the extent possible.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 07:53 PM
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Your wife is cynically manipulating you. She will never, ever get back together with you, regardless of anything you change or don’t change. The silver lining of this painful situation, is that she gave you advanced warning—probably because she is a lazy person. Take full heed and start making moves.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 07:48 PM
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Understand that if you assist her, she would nonetheless never, ever, appreciate what you did for her. Not even a little bit.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/23 03:42 AM
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Two things. (1) She was never “yours” anyway, it was just your turn—until she decided it wasn’t anymore. Women are always planning their exit options, and their next potential move. This is universal for all women, regardless of race, culture, religion, language, age, number of children she bore you, length of relationship, or level of attractiveness. It might have been your turn for 50 years or 24 hours; it was always her prerogative. Male/Female relations are an “at will” situation; they can a…
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/23 02:28 AM
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How long have you been married? How did you get it to last that long? Oh wait. The first question should have been—have you ever been married? All your posts and comments in other subreddits are full of simping to fake female photo profiles and snarky replies. And your account is three days old. Keep pushing that rock.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 06:01 AM
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Nor does she have feelings for him, which is the important thing. All the sex stuff and categories and flavors of consensual adultery is a red herring. Anyway, this is a subreddit for men and divorce. Are you sure this is your space?
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 03:57 AM
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What in the OP’s post made it sound as though his wife intended or wanted to include him in her plans in any way whatsoever?
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 01:23 AM
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We know.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 08:05 PM
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You wandered into the wrong subreddit, madam.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 08:03 PM
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Why are you posting in a subreddit for men dealing with divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 07:57 PM
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Username checks out.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 12:19 PM
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Wrong subreddit, ma’am.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 12:18 PM
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“Me, me, me! Look at MEEEEEEE!!!” 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 09:02 PM
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u/Enough_Repair7094 Some advice—never, ever take dating advice from women. Not even a sister or other female relative. They simply cannot turn off their partisan advocacy for their own “side,” not even for a man they care about, much less for a stranger.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 08:59 PM
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Ain’t work like that, brother.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 05:10 AM
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I would never accept the title of “stepfather,” even if I were to lose my senses and marry again. I would not want to—I have my own children, and I have no interest in pretending to be a surrogate father to any others. I may well have plenty of affection for my woman’s children, and I would certainly be a friend to her and them, but there is a certain social and emotional boundary I do not care to cross.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/23 09:26 PM
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Beg, borrow, or otherwise obtain the retainer. Then, make sure you get your lawyer to demand your STBXW pay your attorney’s fees.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 04:39 AM
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This recently created account that you replied to is owned by a clown. Post history is a joke.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 11:50 PM
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That’s… some really weird copypasta.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 11:46 PM
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Welcome to the Internet, brother. Odd and childish is basically what it’s made out of.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 10:18 PM
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The phrase “fuck this gay earth” is an old Internet trope. It means that the person writing it is sick and tired of everything.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 04:48 PM
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Scary? Exactly what in OP’s post constitutes acting scary? Leaving little candies for her isn’t like leaving threatening letters or dead birds. He isn’t following her around or lying in wait to jump out at her. What did I miss?
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 04:32 PM
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Evaluating female nature with an eye unclouded by sentimentality and superstition, and drawing actionable conclusions from such critical observations, is the categorical opposite of simping. Unless you meant something else when you refer to red pill.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 04:22 PM
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Respectfully, I disagree. The OP suffers pain at every thought of her, let alone every discussion. Keeping a good relationship sounds like a reasonable piece of advice, but it is only reasonable if it fits the specific people involved—and it does not fit here. OP should keep all contact to the absolute minimum. Not to punish her, but to repair himself.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 04:18 PM
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Wrong subreddit, ma’am.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 01:04 AM
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Of course. I still do, and always will. That does not mean that I would accept her back for one second, or that I regret my decision—neither the one I made now to leave, nor the one I made twenty years ago to marry her. We live in such a totalistic era: if it ain’t up, it must be down. If it’s not red, it must be blue. If you no longer want to stay with your spouse, then it means you must never truly have wanted to be married to that person. What a bunch of baloney. The physical universe doesn’t…
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 01:03 AM
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Bidet (the seat kind, not the extra bowl kind), my friend. You’re never too old to change your life for the better 😎
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/23 01:59 AM
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It’s wonderful! Feels great. Unicorns greet us when we walk out of our rented basement room each morning.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 05:43 AM
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This just ain’t the place, ma’am. There are plenty of general relationship advice and discussion subs, with plenty of divorced male participants whose opinions you can seek there. However, this sub has a particular focus that this sort of thread tends to dilute and distract from.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/23 10:01 PM
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Crazy has no nationality.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 02:44 AM
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Secks. The least important factor in a marriage. It matters, but not as much as people want you to think. Let’s put it this way: you will still bone her, right?
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 11:11 PM
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Go cry it out on another sub. Not relevant here.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/23 03:53 PM
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If it were based on the stats, you would be the favorite to win this particular race. You may not see it that way, though. The view from the ground can be very different than the view from above.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 04:50 PM
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Not really germane to this forum.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 04:30 PM
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It is not a racial thing in the least, that is such an evil thing to even imply.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 05:13 AM
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“So you're suddenly not a piece of shit if you acknowledge what a piece of shit you are?” Well, yeah, pretty much. “I would argue that cheating on your partner is way worse than kicking a dog on purpose, because it's more than one moment of weakness - it's a million tiny decisions to betray the person you claim to love the most in the world because actually you're a piece of shit. Someone who kicks a dog once is arguably a way better person than a person who cheats on their partner for TWO GODDA…
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 05:47 AM
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The man had adulterous sex and carried on an affair. He acknowledged he was wrong for doing so. He didn’t kick a dog on purpose or starve a child or something. Maybe my definition of POS differs. What’s with the name calling
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 02:58 AM
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Are there ways to get a woman back? Yes, of course there are. The thing is, it’s like the Stephen King novel/movie ‘Pet Sematary:’ what comes back is not the same as what you lost.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 05:59 AM
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Please, don’t pander. This type of response is the reason this is a sub for men only.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 04:34 PM
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It’s nothing personal, but this is our space (as the kids say these days). Please respect that. There are not many places for us to discuss among our own, while there are very many other places with open membership where you can pose this question to the men there. This is not the subreddit for that.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 04:31 PM
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I’m sorry you can say that, too.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/23 04:20 PM
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Grow up. This “I’m scared” crap is pathetic. So much so that I suspect you are a boredom troll.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/23 02:12 PM
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Best post I read anywhere today.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/23 12:36 AM
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Stop drinking her Kool Aid. That list of complaints is a ridiculous collection of wifeish nonsense.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 01:58 AM
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“Demagoguery?” Who even writes stuff like that? And his reply makes clear what he advises: ensure she leaves and cannot return.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/23 04:47 AM
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Lawyer here, although not a divorce lawyer. But much of this applies to any of us— I am not your brother, nor your priest, nor your therapist. I am your expensive hired gun, your mercenary paid by the hour. That means: When the money runs out, so do I. I am in this to help, but primarily I am in this to make money and feed the mouths I have to feed. I will never know as much about your case as you do. Even if I make careful notes, which I probably won’t because I’m just jotting down quick notes …
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