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Colbalobe/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 02:52 PM
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I guess that’s why I came here. Looking for men that have left a somewhat similar marriage - remorseful wife that cheated. Seeing if anyone has an opinion if it’s overall better divorcing in this situation. I understand there are a million nuances to everyone’s situation, that’s why I gave my brief history. I am burned out of this reconciliation. I thought it would be much better after seven years. But her affair still haunts me and affects me daily.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/23 02:26 AM
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I agree with the anxiety and trust issues. That’s obvious and why the situation sucks. My whole question was how likely is it going to be better overall if I were to divorce. A lot of people on here seem to talk about their ex-wives like they’re total bitches. Obviously during my wife’s affair, there are many bad or negative terms I could use to describe her. But she has not done anything like that for six years now. I still have issues with the infidelity, but divorce isn’t some perfect solutio…
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/23 12:23 AM
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I was hoping for additional opinions, but maybe this isn’t the right place for this? So you’d day for sure it’s overall better getting divorced with all that entails and with what it will do to the kids? Not sure what gave you the impression my wife has me wrapped around her finger. My kids are the main reasons I’ve stayed. I assume you are in the camp that infidelity is a deal breaker no matter what? Maybe I am in that camp too and that’s why I’ve been struggling for so long. I was just hoping …
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/23 02:14 PM
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