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DebateColbyTzan/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:21 PM
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No women here just don’t know how to read people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:29 PM
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Women hide their red flags. They even talk to each other and give advice on how to hide bad behavior until there is a convenient time to spring it on the guy. It’s very common nowadays for the woman to have more dating experience than a guy and they use it to their advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:22 AM
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Whats some good foods to try?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:12 PM
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Wow I never knew that but all the mormons I know were in military.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:11 PM
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Okay. But they do have a diet thing in their religion which would make it more likely my assessment is correct than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:46 PM
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I am saying mormons also limit caloric intake as well. Most people in America don’t. So they are fitter and healthier looking on average. Look up mormon diets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:38 PM
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Soda and cream is not as bad as drugs and excessive calories daily. I just don't see many fat or ugly mormons or even ex mormons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:30 PM
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The guy will skills learned from redpill will still get more women consistently than a man who behaves the opposite way. It's like practicing for a specific part of a sport and then going to play that sport vs just being a generally in shape guy. The practiced guy will likely win out. Not that most men have a need to be attractive to a wide range of women. It does increase your chances of finding a good one just like putting on makeup increases a woman's chances of finding a good guy. More guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:16 PM
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I wanna go to brazil now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:10 PM
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Yeah mormons rock and somehow everyone is very hot in comparison to the average (probably because they take the diet restrictions and no drugs and smoking seriously). Shame about the stuff they believe about black people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:08 PM
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Yes everyone is free. The problem is getting called a bad person for not wanting to date someone. Men and women are very guilty of doing this to the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:06 PM
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When I have strung women along in the past I had genuine hope that if they worked on the red flags I saw and communicated to them they would be great wives. Once I realized its not gonna work or I won't be able to put up with it I end things. The problem from my behavior is I am not gonna tell her that I broke up with her for the reason I am. They always swear they can "fix it" when the issue is behavior they willingly engage in such as waking me up early when I work nights. Yes it is easy to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:57 PM
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Well the dude would also be "daddy" in some situations. I enjoy that dynamic. Some things she comes to me and I completely handle and other things I can rely on her to handle completely. We also do it because of love not reciprocity. Many things I wouldn't want to do even for myself I love to do because my gf likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:48 PM
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The problem is when we say we don't want to date women like that we get a bunch of pushback from women on here. Just let us be free to choose a partner. You don't need to call us names or shallow or bad people for having a standard (not saying you do this but that is what happens on this subreddit).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:39 PM
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Yeah I see most advice to men in that situation to just leave the woman or better yet not consider dating her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:33 PM
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They got caucasian immigrants too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:26 AM
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As a black man I learned to shrink myself and make my voice higher because people would be so scared of me. I disliked people being afraid of me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/26 10:02 PM
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The best and easiest thing to do is to date women that are 2nd gen immigrants. Sudanese communities have been so good to me. Nice traditional minded women that still put out sexually and cater to the man they are dating. They also have nicer careers compared to women in my community. There is zero downside to dating them instead of American women. (they are Americans too but ya know what I mean lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:27 PM
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She probably thinks she is a good person too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:04 PM
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Yeah its the wrong definition for sure. Chad is desired by women because of who he truthfully is not manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:56 PM
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Nah its much better to be honest and if she isnt down for it go back to your steady stable of women. Having to manipulate and deal with the fallback is not good. Chad gets enough pussy just because women desire him. He doesn't need to exert.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:26 PM
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Its not "feels like" prison. They want to have male babies imprisoned upon birth because adult men commit crimes against women. Nobody pushes back on this especially not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:24 PM
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Sounds like a win for women. No interacting with undesirable men and your husband is less likely to divorce since he has more wives when he is sick of your nagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:05 PM
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Chad doesn't have to manipulate at all. If he is manipulating that is not Chad behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:01 PM
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I feel safer around women as well OP. More women have raped me and tried to kill me than men but women are much weaker than me so I don't feel afraid of them. I would rather sleep next to an angry woman than a calm man. Women just aren't very good at violence. Even if they tried to I could easily dispact them with 1 arm probably lol. This doesn't mean women wouldn't kill more people if they could. They certainly do kill infants and animals and disabled people but they have more power than those …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:59 PM
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They are saying that MTP is not rape or a "serious sexual assault" which is disgusting to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:51 PM
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Women want to have males start life in prison and "earn" our way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:46 PM
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Misplaced is a good word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:14 AM
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Well maybe he already liked her 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:14 AM
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I think the point I was tryna make was that the women care enough about these things to the point they complain but they still stay around. You can swap Valentine's day out with a woman complaining a man won't have sex with her or he won't do dishes or he won't cook her eggs right. The point is she complains and stays so her standards are low.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:38 PM
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Yeah and they suck at talking to women. They don’t wanna eat pussy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:49 PM
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She is picking one she likes for the job/dating. There are factors to consider before hiring. They aren’t hard to meet factors but they can only fuck 1 guy at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:39 PM
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I think most women have low behavioral standards for men. You can treat them bad soon as they start liking you. I also think most women in the times of social media are very insecure so they will put up with a ton of bad behavior. The barrier to getting her to like you may be high or low but once she does they are likely to accept bad behavior in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:37 PM
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Sure. A woman goes on a dating app. She knows that there is a very high chance that whoever she swipes on is a match. This lets the woman know that she does not need to swipe right often and can instead decline most men. This does not mean that the men she swipes right on are particularly amazing specimens or that she will not put up with terrible things when she does date them. Think of it like a job as a janitor that only requires being able to walk unaided and lift 45 lbs daily. They will swi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:34 PM
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Am I wrong somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:29 PM
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The men women date still get to treat them like shit. The standards are not high women just know they can get an interested man easy and act like it. They don’t act desperate just like men who get lots of attention from women don’t act desperate. That does not mean a man who gets lots of attention from women won’t put up with bullshit from a chick he is interested in for whatever reason. So both things are true. Women do not have high standards and they swipe left like crazy on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:25 PM
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Watching women use swipe apps is wild. They glance like a sharingan user for 3 seconds and then swipe left on 99% of them for any small reason 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:17 PM
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I think that their foot was probably already in the door and they didn’t take the chance or did something else to mess up. Like I have had lonely dudes who complain about looks show me the messages they sent to women and I am like dude of course you not getting women when you say this crap. Also saw the pics they would have on OLD profiles and its like an off guard pic someone took of him working at his fast food job. Or he looks disheveled as hell. I think we gotta stop taking these guys word f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:11 PM
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Women standards are more than just looks. If standards = looks to men then I understand why stuff is so confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:02 PM
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I think lots of people on this sub argue online a ton.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:40 PM
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Yes I do think women do bad things in relationships and men complain about them. People do not go around saying men have high standards for relationships. They say the opposite. The purpose of this post is to say that women do not have high standards because if they did they would not be dating people who do all the bad things women complain about. Those women, if their standards are really that high, should be single or dating a man who does not do those things or at the very very least leave h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:37 PM
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This is for lesbians and bi women. Straight women not like that fr
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:33 PM
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I am not saying men in general do those things. I am saying women complain about men doing those things in relationships. If women had high standards they would leave these men or not date them in the first place. These women are not only dating these men but continuing to date them to the point that they feel the need to talk to people outside the relationship about the bad behavior occurring in the relationship. If the women standards were high why are they dating Shitpants McGee?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:17 PM
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Yeah imagine she just let OP smash for free in the house her husband bought. I wonder if he would be happy or upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:10 PM
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I have lots of arguments. I have no desire to posit them to this user specifically lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:07 PM
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Yeah when I talk to feminists and start to talk about how feminism should presumably benefit men I get soooo much pushback on getting rid of gender roles that negatively affect men lol. They will say "thats not what feminism is for!". Lol yes it is for gender roles to not affect our lives so much. That includes men not being the provider, men being the stay at home parent sometimes, men being the person who cooks, men getting custody often, etc. Feminists hate when I mention these things and cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:06 PM
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This is also great if you just set up a catfish account. I will legit ask one of my women friends if I can use their pics for this and make absolute bank if it takes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:03 PM
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I think not great for the average man but I would use this if I was single. I have noticed that money can replace effort in dating and sometimes I am feeling lazy af but I also want some new coochie to have sex with. Assuming these women are not openly selling sex and truly believe they are not prostitutes this is a great way for men willing to pay for sex to get new prostitutes girlfriends. I am not above paying for pussy at all lol so all in all this is good just like onlyfans was good for bri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:01 PM
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Yeah i'm getting like 5 gifts this vday. This is definitely the most a woman has ever done for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:54 PM
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It's awesome going on a date, knowing she is very excited by my presence, knowing she totally wants to fuck me, knowing she is willing to pay or put up with bs from my end. If you say these things out loud to women they get the ick bad but they know they and other women also enjoy feeling this way. If you get treated like this regularly why are you gonna want someone who doesn't treat you this way? I can see why women and men would not want people who say these things to date them but I can also…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:47 PM
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Lots of good looking dudes are single because when you are single the freedom to fuck a bunch of different chicks is more appealing than dating some chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:43 PM
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Are most guys chill about you not having sex early on?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:42 PM
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Do you leave the man if he asks for sex sooner than you are ready? Like you can tell he really really wants to be with your physically?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:39 PM
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I have to ask this question to women now. I think choice 1 would vastly outnumber choice 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:38 PM
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No he drinks on his off-time and gets into fights because he is white and says the n word still.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:37 PM
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Standards is highly variable from human to human. You guys keep saying that the man has looks but I don't see how that could be the case because why would a man with good looks be settling down so much that all the women complaining about relationship behavior are dating attractive men? How many attractive men are there? Women think most men are ugly. So how are all the complaints about attractive men in totality? The math just does not work out in your favor. Most women date and most men are un…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:36 PM
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I'm sorry are you actually this dumb? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:33 PM
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Yeah I did legit drop my morals when dating women and they started responding better. The event that turned me was seeing my fat ugly short cousin constantly pulling chicks bad home while I had had sex maybe 4 times at that point. I was like "Fuck it I'm gonna try treating women like thots this summer" (thot had just became a popular phrase) and it worked so well it's crazy. In like 2 months I had had sex a dozen+ times. Shits crazy. Even had sex with 2 women who are sisters. Not at the same tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:32 PM
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So okay. Say a guy openly declares he does not wash his ass daily. Another guy openly declares he has downright terrible social skills and can barely speak to a woman. Which of these men would a woman who cannot see what he looks like or talk to him go after. Say theres 2 doors with a man for a woman to date behind them. 1 labeled "bad social skills" 1 labled "does not clean himself every day" which door are women gonna go through?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:28 PM
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Hmm thats strange to me. Men really shouldn't be so desperate for sex if she is showing she likes you. Maybe you should raise your standards tbh. Go after dudes who have more sexual partners and then set yoursel apart by paying for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:25 PM
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The man doesn't even need to lie. I have had women lie to themselves so many times. I get them a gift for valentine's day and they think they are my girlfriend even though they know I have sex with other women. Then these same women go to spread the lie that I am a bad boyfriend or whatever and they complain to the men they would never have sex with about how terrible men are lol. Those men get the blame because I had sex with a woman that was not appealing enough personality wise to get me to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:24 PM
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You could also pay for things to show desire like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:07 PM
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Those people are talking nonsense. Most women are not sex workers and are not mentally strong enough to do weird sex for money and remain sane or sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:05 PM
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Yeah that sounds outrageous when you phrase it that way. You could have a new guy every week who you won't fuck but I assume if you are just stringing the same guy along for a long time he will be out at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:03 PM
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Women are all over every social media app. I cannot swipe twice without seeing a woman. Just DM them literally. This is exactly how I got to have sex with Jenise Hart the pornstar. i literally just DM women. It takes 15 seconds and I can even copy paste. You dudes just lazy or sumn idk. It's hoes all over the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:37 PM
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No its not because of looks lol. A woman that is in love or heavy like will do shit an onlooker will think is insane. I implore you guys to get some close women friends and look at how much of women's discourse is them telling her to leave an ugly abusive man and the woman in question refusing. My friends be crying on my phone over an unattractive non chalant man who will barely commit. This is the reality. There are not even that many good looking men to go around and why would he settle down a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:34 PM
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Thanks I wholeheartedly agree. They do like when I treat them worse or raise my voice or be demanding. They shyly ask for these things from me. Even on facetime calls women try and bait me into being meaner than I am naturally because something there turns em on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:59 PM
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You are claiming normal things are exceptions lol. Ugly men get to beat and cheat on their wives just like attractive men do. This is just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:58 PM
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Women's standards rely on a multitude of factors such as how well she knows you, how you socialize with her, how you treat others, how others treat you, etc. I thought I wouldn't have to over explain these things but I guess I do because you all can't think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:56 PM
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He is saying the same thing women say to men where if the man has looks standards the women call him porn sick for wanting a good looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:54 PM
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I have to see you try to talk to a woman so we can refine things. I talked to this younger dude on here about talking to girls before. Dude said all the worst stuff to her. Made "jokes" about staring at her through her window and openly told her he would not do oral because she wasn't a virgin. But he would still assert it was his looks holding him back. He was so self unaware that he sent me screenshots of all of that earnestly thinking he had made no mistakes in the convo LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:53 PM
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Because I paid for tickets to events for 2 people instead of 1. Going to a monster truck rally with my bro? Now I gotta buy the chick I'm bringing a ticket too. I was also going out on days when I would have stayed inside instead. Eating out is expensive even for 1 person and I coulda just cooked something I would be just as happy with in a crockpot while i'm at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:51 PM
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You are drawing a causation conclusion where there is not one. I notice lots of people do this online. You give a single example of a behvior pattern and they clamp down on that 1 example as the whole of the pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:48 PM
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Why don't ugly men just treat women worse then? Dating apps are hell as a man. That is why you need to go in with a genuine strategy and stop tryna be yourself. Get on that app and lie. Lie about your height lie about your job lie about your income. You already know dating apps are like 20:1 Male to Female. You should do something to stand out. When I was on the apps I would lie my ass off. I don't understand why lonely guys don't do this too instead of beating off everyday lol. Women are sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:47 PM
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The truth is women put up with a ton of terrible behavior from any man she likes. They are conditioned that way and looks are not the main factor in them deciding to be with terrible men. If it were only looks then why is a Chad looking guy settling down so much and getting relationships? When my looks were peak I never even considered settling down lol. I would just try and slay as much pussy as I could. But blackpillers think all women are in relationships with guys who can fuck multiple chick…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:40 PM
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I named standards you said they are not standards but are not telling me what is standards now you are telling me to go discover the things YOU think are standards??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:35 PM
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He works the counter at a liquor store.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:34 PM
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I just noticed I don't have a flair. I am a Male in my 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:32 PM
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Thank you for this reply seriously. This hits the nail on the head. Not sure if mods will delete it for not agreeing would you mind posting this same comment under the automoderator reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:32 PM
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Idk man I see women able to score a new guy by posting a nice cleavage pic on social media and she had a date lined up that week. I also see my women friends have plenty of guys hanging around hoping she will give them a chance. I have also had women hoping I would date them and hanging around for that purpose. They would readily provide favors sexual and non-sexual hoping I would take them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:31 PM
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Yeah this doesn't seem hard to do. I could do this but maybe I am above average. I could see my fat friend doing it too if he was not busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:50 PM
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Can you name the standards for me my dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:48 PM
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Why would a man be going on 5 dates a week? That seems dumb to do? When I was actively dating multiple women I would go on that many dates a week and I would feel drained financially, socially, and sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:47 PM
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Which is most prevelant? high or low standards for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:46 PM
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Very very true. You will see a chick who literally fills the room with stank when she is in it with a boyfriend or husband lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:45 PM
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Okay so are you saying that a person that is hygenic is not a standard? What are standards then I may be confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:44 PM
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Women's standards are based on many things but I am not writing a 6000 word OP lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:42 PM
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Dating standards vs relationship standards. Both of these are very low for women IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:41 PM
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So the better you look the more shallow you are? Is this some kind of campaign to promote ugly men or something? No the better you look the more you are socialized towards shallowness. It is the same thing as someone who grows up rich as fuck being spoiled because thats the life they have known forever. A man who easily gets women that are genuinely attracted to him will date in a way that men who do not receive that attraction don't. Basically the man gets to enjoy dating like women do. Think o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:39 PM
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Nah the dudes be ugly too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:28 PM
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It’s called sex work when a woman has a date and doesn’t have sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:51 AM
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Exclusively dating but sexually fucking someone else LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:04 PM
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I honestly really enjoy my roommate. I consider her one of my best friends and we just met since moving in together. But she constantly buts heads with the landlady and its like dude just play coy a tiny bit so we can keep living together. I'm gonna have to live with some stupid man instead of a hot chick because she has a temper.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:00 PM
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Revise the premise and try again. This post got silly quick
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:57 PM
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Sure. I Dm'd a pornstar on twitter that I was in the same city as her. She messaged me back asking if I owned a suit jacket. I messaged her back yes and she sent me an address. I showed up and we had sex for over an hour on video and I didn't pay her any money. We talked for maybe 4 minutes before having sex. It was awesome. I've also been passed to a horny friend of a friend and had sex after a night out. Very little words excahnged just desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:26 PM
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Gay men brag about "painting" (shitting on the other dudes dick) each other. Gross ass dudes forreal man. They don't complain because they are into shitty butt sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:18 PM
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No sex is being exchanged for money so no I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:16 PM
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Not 100% of the time. Some women will happily have sex without the nagging behavior which is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:15 PM
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There are lots of women who just have sex with men because they want sex. Idk why you bring up sex workers as an option when men can just maintain their standard and get free sex. Paying for a date doesn't mean sex correct. Everyone can have their standards. Some women only want to pay for dates if she is promised sex. Thats fair too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:08 PM
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The problem is you can post on reddit about a behavior pattern in women you have noticed due to the way they are socialized and you get told a bunch of dating advice and when you say you don't need it women still use lack of success with dating to shame you. Even when you tell them your dating life is good they still come with "advice" that implies you are failing in dating because you are a misogynist and insecure and you don't wash enough. Whole time you never asked for advice and they are sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:04 PM
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A man can want sex without spending time just like a woman can want to have a date paid for without having sex. Everyone can have their own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:48 PM
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The man only knows she is bored of him because she won't have sex with him (or pay for dates). It is a good indicator just like a man not paying for a woman on dates is a good indicator of how he feels about her (according to women on this subreddit).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:18 PM
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It was till I ended it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:17 PM
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This was an awesome reply thank you. Kinda made my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:17 PM
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Some people think after sex is the time to "let the crazy out" so to say. Start being demanding of the partners time. Rude. Asking for monetary favors. Wanting to show up to my home too often Just because we had sex. Gotta stay normal if they want me to stay with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:59 PM
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I have dated plenty of girls, had sex with them, they start acting funny afterwards and I decide I don't wanna deal with weird behavior and leave them. Then they say I only dated them for sex. I imagine any smart judge would throw most of these cases out. Lots of times women don''t notice their red flags and guys don't want to let them know what made him want to break up with her to save her feelings. This results in women thinking he dated them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:36 PM
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Would you still enjoy someones company if you knew that you liked them and wanted a relationship and they were just bored and didn't want a relationship? This is the reality men who try to date women who won't have sex or pay for dates face.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:29 PM
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How do you figure out they lied and lied in order to have sex with the person solely. I'm gonna search to see if any of these cases ever got a conviction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:28 PM
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How would it be illegal? I'm picturing them somehow charging somoeone with the crime of dating for sex lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:14 PM
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What other way does a man have to truly know a woman likes him besides her paying for dates or sex? Women know that men lie so they filter out the men who don't like them by haing the men pay on dates. This benefits women in a couple ways but the one they focus on is that the man is now showing himself to be serious about her. A man can take a woman having sex as an indication she takes him seriously ssince women do not give up sex easily often. This would give the man lots of valuable informati…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:12 PM
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How do I know she actually likes me? I can't just blindly trust women sorry. If she proves she likes me fine if she doesn't I will just find someone who does like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:32 PM
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The important part of having sex is making sure she likes you. I could either get her to pay for the date to make sure she is invested (women do this often) or I can have sex with her so I am sure she is invested (men have to do this because so many non-progressive women refuse to pay for dates). How else does a guy know he isn't barking up the wrong tree and falling for sweet words? Women vet men behavior and willingness to give for the exact same reason. I was told over and over on this very s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:13 PM
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Things like this is why dating progressive women is so awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:08 PM
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Its the boobs be fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:06 PM
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I have to say that punching up is one of the silliest notions I have engaged with if you also consider intersectionality. A white woman "punching up" against a black man feels like a slap in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:06 PM
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I was in the good till I had a kid and lost my hoes. I gotta find a good woman now 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:23 AM
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Yes. I don’t think that men and women have the same social or cultural consequences for leaving a relationship. They have different consequences that affect them both in different ways. These consequences may still discourage a woman or a man from leaving a relationship and they influence the behavior inside the relationship. Is this true? Yes or no? I am not comparing the consequences against each other I am stating that they both exist and affect behavior of men and of women. I also think that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:16 PM
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The wife can also leave if she wants to right? You didn't bring up power dynamics to start but sure. There is still cultural pressure on men to do certain things in relationships that they may not want to do. The woman can choose to go be in a monogamous relationship as well right? As soon as he brings it up she can make the choice to be free of him. You also did not answer my question about whether the wife is an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:17 PM
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Say a man has a 20% reluctance to paying all the bills in a relationship or being with just 1 woman but because it is normalized in his culture to do those things. His wife knows this but goes along with it anyway because this is what she desires. Is this woman an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:00 PM
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No way she believe that shit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:50 PM
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I do love being single but having a woman who loves me and gives me good head is when I am happiest in life. I can stop my anti depressants if I get good head everyday LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:45 PM
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You guys literally never do. Every negative assumption by you is correct every response is fake and made up. I do not reply to convince people who are openly delusional. I know others who are not delusional use this subreddit too and they will see these replies as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:42 PM
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"well, that's the way it is in our culture/religion" Doesn't this affect nearly every decision people make in their life? This could be said in reference to a man being monogamous. A man paying the bills in the home. A woman washing dishes. A man cutting grass. I don't think that morals should be tied to if something is influenced by culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:40 PM
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I have not seen men complain about sex on this app without women having an issue with it somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:35 PM
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I make like $51 an hour. I'm not complaining about how women date because these things benefit me. I actually like how predictable women dating behavior is. I also like looking at the hypocrisy of women and analyzing it. Not every man who comes here to laugh at women being hypocrits is having struggles dating lol. There is a sort of science to dating that can be applied and repeated with predictable results.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:32 PM
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I see. I thought other stuff mattered more than looks but I guess not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:29 PM
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Yeah thats not how it is for me at all. If the sex is very good then I consider pursuing a relationship. I can also vet for the after sex red flags before actually dating her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:25 PM
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This is what I do and it works great. Sex matters a lot to me so why act like it isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:20 PM
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Above average = lives in his moms house?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:01 PM
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The things that attract them to men are non-progressive things which makes it kinda funny. Anti-capitalist dating a rich dude because there are benefits. Funny stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:59 PM
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Who women prefer and who they end up with are not completely aligned. That is why money issue cause so many breakups. She would have preferred to never worry about money in a relationship. Where she ended up is with a broke man who can't provide for her and she leaves in turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:20 PM
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Honestly if I could be guranteed 1 date per 49 rejections I would just not ask women out and I'd rather try social media. Seems terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:14 PM
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I can agree with this. It also has the nice side effect of getting free stuff. So you can't really tell if she is looking for investment or free stuff lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:05 PM
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Yeah she needs to sweeten the deal somewhat. Maybe if she offerred a blowie I wouldn't care that she doesn't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:03 PM
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Those are western countries I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:58 PM
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Some people are immigrants or have family from other countries. Like I have lots of friends from Sudan and they talk about how dating is there (it sounds horrible).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:57 PM
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Yeah. If as a man you have ever had a woman pay for a date you will notice how nice it felt to have that from a person you are interested in. I really enjoy when women pay for things and I do make it a standard if she is not that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:53 PM
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I think men in the west are the best choice for women actually. I was asking women if they think so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:52 PM
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Typing that made me laugh so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:50 PM
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I notice that incels who you only see spout their crap online are affected in real life by their bigoted attitudes but women who spout misandry are not at all affected by their hatred of men in real life. I feel like both should not be possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:49 PM
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That's kinda why I was asking if western men are top tier too. It seems like all the things women like about men are more prevelent in western men. Money, height, progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:46 PM
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They are just staying single or dating men they regret dating then complaining about it a lot online.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:45 PM
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This logic checks out. Too bad cheating is so unpreventable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:43 PM
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Long covid?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:40 PM
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We been roasting dominicans for tight pants/ masculine but gay looking for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:40 PM
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Can you expand on the link between progressive and dying empires?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:23 PM
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Is going on a date not showing interest? Or is he competing with men who will pay for dates in her mind? The standard of what indicates "interest" raises from going on a date to paying for a date to going to an expensive restaurant and paying to going to an expensive restaurant and paying for the food and to have her nails done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:19 PM
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This is always funny in movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:16 PM
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So with all this said (damn 3rd world men lol) it seems 1st world men are top tier in dating terms?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:16 PM
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No not all women are hypergamous. It would be silly of me to assume that about billions of people. I think wanting a man of a higher height status for lack of a better word is hypergamous. I have had conversations regarding height with groups of women. They agreed it was kind of embarrassing to be dating a short guy because they felt they would be judged like "thats the best you can do?". I think it's not a horrible sin that women want to date the best man she can get and there are notable facto…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:14 PM
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Yeah they do seem to emphasize marriage more in Asian culture and I am honstly not sure how well they treat women when they are married. I never see asians talk about married life much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:04 PM
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I see women talk about men they date not being progressive enough so I thought maybe there are areas where men are more progressive than the west just like there are women who are more traditional outside the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:01 PM
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Because they are not getting the types of men they want to date them where they live at.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:59 PM
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Women could bring the man back to her home country like many passport men do. Why do you think that route is not taken? I do notice that women are more dependent on family than men in my age group. The men that are dependent on family are seen as losers and the women are not. Also thanks for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:59 PM
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What area of the world is better for women to date and marry in? Is Asia better?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:53 PM
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Options? and agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:51 PM
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Bi men get rejected by women for being bi so they just identify as gay or they lie to women about being bi. Bi women are much much much much more accepted in every facet of society so of course there are "more" of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:49 PM
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Is the reason women do not passport bro very much because men in the west are the top tier of men? Like they could find younger, hotter men in India but the women don't for some reason. Whats the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:44 PM
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Stop making it everyone elses problem. Yes the guys you are attracted to aren't committing. No it is not my problem to fix. It is not men's issue either. I can't make a man treat you well or want to date you. Just take your L in dating. Be as picky as you like though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:10 PM
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Just attractive to her. She isn't super picky but she likes a guy that most women would find attractive. So he may be dreadhead with tattoos or deep voice with money. Just upper attractive scale dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:08 PM
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I think it is fine to expect sex yes. I don't think that I would enjoy having sex if she is not very enthusiastic about having sex with me. She can keep the coochie if she only giving it to me for food and shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:03 PM
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I would say he sounds awesome and gold diggers are generally desperate so it's likely easy to have sex with them early.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:59 PM
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My best friend is like this. She chooses men who will accept her freaky ass lifestyle and are attractive. These men are generally not interested in a long term relationship where they treat her nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:58 PM
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You can do basically this on tiktok live or similar platforms. There are even dating themed pages that have regional time slots.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:54 PM
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Is this like some attempt at whataboutism?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:51 PM
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So are they just saying they prefer smaller or do they have a medical abnormality and actually want smaller? First you said "NO women want smaller." now you say something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:50 PM
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Men's height is not something they care about not insulting. It is just seen as fair game to insult but God forbid a man is insecure about his height due to these insults. Then he has a Napoleon complex and is insecure (through no fault of the people insulting short men over and over of course LOL).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:47 PM
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It is very very noticable that women care a lot about height but they continue to attempt to gaslight us even with women themselves providing mountains of evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:45 PM
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I have a friend with very bad vaginasmus. Her pussy doesn't open up very much during sex with men. We flirt a lot and have exchanged hella nudes but she also says that if my dick was smaller she would try it out but at my size no way in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:35 PM
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Size does matter but some women do legit like smaller men. Chick I'm talking to currently says she wishes it were smaller but we have not had sex yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:26 PM
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In my dating experience women with "no hookups" are very easy to hookup with. They are often susceptible to enagaging in hookups and want to stop but if the right guy comes around they will totally go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:09 PM
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They hype up some very very ugly women and I get it but I don't. I know they don't really believe it but I also know they do it for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:59 PM
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The hypergamy is not a woman wanting a man taller than her. The hypergamy is a woman wanting a man taller than average. Yes men are generally taller but selecting for men that are taller than other men is hypergamy. The other thing you said just misses the point in totality or you misunderstood what taller meant in the sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:23 PM
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Entitled much? What makes the women they aren't dating better to date than the women they are dating? Just give the cheeks up and hope he sticks around. There aren't many more options for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:14 PM
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The goals of feminism and the reason women care about a partners finances have lots of overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:41 PM
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Give them a blowjob every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:47 PM
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The other option is women just decide all men are like that and lower their standards for what a "good man" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:46 PM
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We could legally speaking allow paper abortions if we wanted to. It may result in kids without fathers but it would also protect the autonomy of the fathers as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:41 PM
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I post sex tapes on my twitter and solo pics and vids of myself looking sexy then I DM'd local porn stars. I just so happened to get very lucky and Jenise Hart replied to my DM and I shot a scene and she paid me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:32 PM
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Men do pay to have their ass eaten and to dine at the Y as it is called.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:23 PM
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My opinion is that some things are justified even if innocents get hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:21 PM
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