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DebateColbyXXXX/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:21 PM
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So you could reasonably tell what happened if I say I was sexually assaulted at work by my boss while at my desk with no further details? Tell me exactly what happened then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:41 PM
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It’s similar to the motte-and-Bailey fallacy. By never committing to a definition of the word at hand, the argument will forever be at a stand still and revolve around their feelings. This is the whole point of the post. Specifying events lets everyone participating in the conversation have a clear idea of what is being discussed. If it is vague I don’t actually know exactly what happened and that matters. I’m sure there was a Law and Order SVU episode about why being vague with sexual assault a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:34 PM
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Men complaining about loneliness are lacking in romance. They likely talk to people online a lot but they aren’t getting any sex out of it. I guarantee if they were getting a blowjob a day with zero additional conversation they wouldn’t complain about loneliness lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:27 PM
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Yes but if you JUST say sexual assault you do not know which happened. It could be any of those 3 and also 2000 other things. This is what vague means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:23 PM
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I don’t need the specifics. I am saying I wouldn’t know what happened because the word can represent many different things. If someone says “I cut up some veggies for you they are on the plate in the kitchen.” I really don’t know what is on the plate specifically but I know it is veggies. SA is the same. I know something bad and criminal happened but what exactly? No idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:19 PM
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If someone has been SA then I don’t know exactly what happened and would need further details. If someone gets dunked on I know exactly what happened to them. This is why it’s vague. Could be a butt grab, or some creep flashing her, or her boss kissing her earlobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:08 PM
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I have definitely picked crazy women. That is my fault not the fault of women as a gender and I knew at least partially I would get into trouble with them and ignored a red flag or 2. I do not see women do this same introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:50 PM
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Dating apps exposed me to more ugly (as hell) women. The attractive women are on social media. Dating apps full of undesirable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:40 AM
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I was just being tongue in cheek with the porn thing to show how the notion of a man not wanting to use a toy on his partner during sex gets weaponized into calling him a bad partner for it. I was pointing out the double standard because we can obviously see how this sounds ridiculous but when its a man not wanting to use a toy during sex he is told he needs to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:27 PM
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The complaint is obviously the double standard being applied where one masturbatory aide is bad and not allowed and another masturbatory aide is encouraged and you are not a good partner if you do not allow or use them. You are kinda completely off base? Idk both of your proposed complaints absolve the women of any wrongdoing as is commonly seen online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:24 PM
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So many unalived sex workers were really just trying to scam the wrong guy. I feel bad for them but what do you really expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:12 PM
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Okay man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:58 PM
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Plenty of women do things that they wouldn’t like men doing. I can totally see women disliking men “objectifying women” while also watching 2 gay dudes pound each other for an hour. There are instances of women owning an arsenal of sex toys and catching the ick at a man having a sex toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:56 PM
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No because lots of women watch porn and it doesn’t make sense for it to be a rule that porn is not for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:51 PM
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So when you say you only you mean men that are in relationships where women don’t watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:50 PM
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Women also enjoy porn. Women who restrict it’s use just don’t care about their partners pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:41 PM
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I am simplifying the comparison to make it easier for you to see where they are related. Do you disagree that they are both tools used for masturbation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:40 PM
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The blue pillers in this sub use gaslighting to a sickening degree. I really wish blackpillers were not so stupid because I can’t waste my whole day proving idiotic blue pillers wrong while they collect dopamine from gaslighting dumbasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:39 PM
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Theres plenty of women who enjoy watching me masturbate with my hand or toys while I watch porn too. The women who don’t like it just don’t care that I get off. 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:37 PM
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They are comparing 2 tools used for masturbation and you compare it to seeing food and smelling food.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:35 PM
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I wouldn’t mind it. Like a woman has said she usually doesn’t like guys with kids but she got to know me and saw I was a great father and that made her more attracted to me. If she still feels she lowered herself to be with me after knowing me well that is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:01 PM
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Orgasm gap is due to selfish men and timid women. Any woman who was good at communicating I was able to get off way easier than women who didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:47 PM
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Okay that wasn’t the point you made though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:31 PM
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The guy in the OP wasn’t antisocial though? They were socializing with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:52 PM
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Idk why we are pretending these men only appeal to a niche of women? 🤣 The bad men have broad appeal thats why they bag so many women. If only a small subgroup liked him nobody would gaf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:56 PM
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And the rest of the decent men get the blame for these clearly bad abusive men women choose to couple up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:54 PM
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If you believe the gaslighting you will desperately try to change behaviors you don’t actually have in order to compete with men who do have those bad behaviors. Men will sit and try and be a good boy so much meanwhile MrPunchWomen is swimming in coochie whether he is rich and famous or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:53 PM
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Bad behavior absolutely gets you women. Love-bombing is bad and makes it easier to score on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:38 PM
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Then the post isn’t about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:37 PM
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Nothing wrong with simply wanting a rich partner. I want a rich partner too. It’s the lying part that is bad/annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:38 PM
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They are pink pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:48 PM
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Women tolerate a ton of red flags from everyone. It’s honestly sad how conditioned to endure bad stuff they are. They even let ugly broke men cheat on them repeatedly while they have zero attachment to him except emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:53 PM
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And fuck that small percentage yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:34 PM
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Why isn’t there an online dating platform focused around video chats? Or something that is like the tv show ‘love is blind’
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 10:15 PM
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Patriarchy is not men. It is a system that posits men as the default and women as secondary. This does mean that men are to be blamed for it or that people who are not men do not perpetuate the patriarchy as well. I believe many people think patriarchy is a bad thing men do to women and that is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:02 AM
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Mods took the man haters out back and put them down like Ol Yeller 👏🏿
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:15 AM
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We get the blame for bad things men do but no credit for good things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:33 PM
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I’m not sure the same women calling him too ugly to date her are now calling him a green flag. I saw more posts and articles about him being too ugly than about him being a green flag. I think there are 2 groups of women and the group calling him too ugly for her is much larger than the group calling him a green flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:47 PM
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I wonder why you mentioned women calling him a green flag and not the many many women calling him ugly. It feels so strange to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:42 PM
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No like literally the first result is a reddit post about an article about him being sad because people keep calling him ugly compared to her lol. Now we can ignore that and pretend that instead most women are calling him a green flag and he is simply over reacting to a tiny amount of comments but I choose to believe him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:36 PM
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Just search “Bennie Blanco too ugly for Selena” on google instead of relying on what you have seen. You not seeing it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:31 PM
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Women have been calling him too ugly for her for as long as they have dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:22 PM
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It’s legit easy to get women. You gotta use what you’re good at already. I just so happen to be good at manipulation naturally so it’s kinda doubly easy. It helps that I am tall with a full beard but I had no luck until I started actually trying my best.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:37 AM
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It’s not forgotten by me that black men get have a long history in America of being falsely accused of crimes (and killed for it extra judicially) when people dismiss false accusations as not a problem. I have always had to worry about false accusations of rape or otherwise. When I go in the store I make sure both my hands are always visible so I don’t get falsely accused of a crime. I don’t go into rooms alone with strange women so I don’t get falsely accused of a crime. I even wear a little br…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:34 AM
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The yapping on this sub lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:10 AM
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I can easily understand why she feels a certain way. That does not mean my goal should be to make her feel a certain way. I have dated plenty of women. They might feel unheard because I don’t want to go to a nightclub for my own birthday. Does her feeling unheard mean I don’t understand her? No. She just doesn’t like that I am making a decision contrary to her so she feels unheard. I completely understand her point of view. I disagree with it. Now where do we go from here? Things often are not c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:40 PM
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I have noticed that women think if you just understood her feelings then you would automatically shift your behavior in a way that makes her feel good. Which, absolutely not lol. Sometimes I completely understand why you feel that way. And it is silly and childish and I can’t believe a grown adult is upset over someone saying they could smell her burp (for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:28 AM
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The problem will exist whether she feels heard or not lol. Also feelings are not tangible or measurable or consistent so if a goal is making someone feel a certain way that can shift significantly over and over depending on many outside factors. A better goal would be solving the actual issue that she feels unheard about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:23 AM
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I just said that we see women blamed and the person blaming them gets called incel and insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:08 PM
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Men being to blame is a defacto position at current in society and isn’t really debated so I wouldn’t see much of it on a debate sub honestly. I do see women here with the very casual viewpoint that men are solely to blame for men’s suffering and men are solely to blame for women’s suffering. I don’t see the same views about women upvoted here commonly. If anything they get downvoted + insulted and called an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:12 PM
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Yes everyone does this sometimes. You catch a woman cheating and she blames it on her boss yelling at her that day. A man doesn’t put the seat down he blames it on his wife because his back hurts because she used all the pillows. I am speaking about when things are actually the result of actions from women not people making up excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:06 PM
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Some things are women’s fault sometimes. They are human and can make mistakes or hurt people with their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:50 PM
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Justifying bad behavior by using crazy anonymous internet users. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:47 PM
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Why are you making it personal? Just argue the points and stop acting like I’m lonely (literally just had a threesome 12 hours ago).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:53 AM
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Maybe they don’t want to be friends with someone they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:23 AM
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Just apply the same logic to other situations. Poo does not need to be involved. Replace poo with threw a straw wrapper on the ground or talks during movies. You get the gist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:22 AM
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Even sane women make excuses for the men they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:00 AM
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If you’re kind and she still isn’t attracted to you she will be around and not have any desire because you didn’t give her any reason to go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:57 AM
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Let’s just imagine a scenario. You go out on a date and you eat something terrible and it makes you poo just a little bit down your leg. A woman that is attracted to you may say “Ohhh no he is not a pants pooper he just had some bad food. I still like him.” A woman that is not attracted to you may say “Disgusting I will never be with a man who poos himself even a little. I’m out.” You have now filtered out the woman who is unattracted to you. A woman that is attracted to you will fonds ways to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:56 AM
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No. Polarizing behavior filters out the people who are not physically attracted to you by giving them reasons to leave you alone. This leaves you with only people that will make excuses for your bad behavior (because they are attracted to you). Now you don’t waste time and energy with people that aren’t attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:51 AM
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Almost all women defend bad behavior in men they are attracted to. This is why you can find so many women who got “tricked” by a guy who everyone around them noticed was terrible but she somehow couldn’t see it despite being closer (attracted) to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:49 AM
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I don’t get how this is rage bait? It’s simple logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:45 AM
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This is the same strategy email scammers use. They send messages with typos and unlikely scenarios and whoever responds in earnest is a person they can scam. The people who won’t fall for it simply disengage and don’t reply. Showing your red flags early will let you filter for women who actually like you vs having women around you who just enjoy that you are nice and aren’t actually sexually into you. Even I would be around a guy if he is super nice and buys me stuff. Not gonna fuck him though l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:45 AM
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Then I won’t tolerate the behavior I don’t like for longer than I am willing to. Whether I’m willing to depends on several factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:54 PM
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Honestly this kind of tracks for me. I really enjoy pleasing women sexually so if a woman really really loves having sex with me I will want to do whatever for her all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:13 AM
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I pretty much exclusively date and befriend bi women. I don’t hang with guys much and I’m not typically masculine in many ways. Bi women get me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:54 PM
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I even see lesbians talking about the ugly chick they hang around alot but could never be romantic with them. They hook up with friends but never the unattractive chick so she feels even more hurt and othered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:21 PM
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Yes this is true. That low self-esteem will cause people to do things that are not good for them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:01 PM
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Yes I agree. Getting to have casual sex strokes my ego like nothing else. Endless dopamine rush knowing she chose me consensually to have sex with and enjoyed it so much that all she needs from me is a promise of more sex. Not many better feelings I get from other humans in life. If I wasn’t successful at casual sex I’m sure I would focus on other interests more but the payoff for having a woman tell me she loved sex with me is so great. I can just think back to a time when I sexually pleasured …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:37 PM
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I have noticed this many times. They make sex sound bad when a man is talking about desiring it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:39 PM
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Congratulations! Thats awesome to hear. I have always found myself attracted to women who are open about enjoying sex. It feels good to know they are enjoying it as much as I am because the opposite terrifies me. I have done ENM before and it was actually really fun. We had very similar attitudes about relationships too. Currently super infatuated with this girl who’s into ENM too. Fingers crossed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:22 PM
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Damn I wanna marry you too. Perhaps we really do like sluts. You sound fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:53 PM
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Body count pales in comparison. I know a guy who moved in with a chick and found out his brother and his dad had fucked her before. I couldn’t believe she did that to him. She was much older and had 2 or 3 kids already he had 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:52 PM
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I did this once and almost died of guilt. My biggest regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:48 PM
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Yeah we never really tied the knot just lived together a long time and were engaged. Also you guys downvoting me to oblivion for being right makes it so hard to engage because I have to uncollapse all the posts everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 08:46 PM
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Just stay at home dad we were engaged not married (she also wasn’t working I just had a very large savings that we lived off of).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:18 PM
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Are most women horniest after periods? Is that the ovulation window?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:35 PM
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Yeah I don’t think I could have sex with a woman who didn’t pay bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:32 PM
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Yeah I got ED when I would date long term. My gfs would make me upset, never apologize for outbursts, and in turn I could not make my dick work for them. It was very easy to find other women sexually attractive but not them. Funny thing was that even my exes who I had broken up with for their bad behavior were attractive once we were broken up lol. Relationships so strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:20 PM
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Yeah like my parents paid all my bills. It would suck to be with someone who I paid all the bills for and for every meal outside the home like they are a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:17 PM
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They don’t use me tho lol. They use suckers and I get to witness it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:48 PM
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I hang around bad women to collect data.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:33 PM
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Yeah thats why I didn’t gender it. Romance scams happen to men and women. When a guy mentions he is getting a woman to fund his life he is seen as a scumbag but for women it’s just enjoying freely given favors. The people who call her a gold digger get shouted down that they don’t even have gold to dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:32 PM
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Infatuation puts a sort of drunk goggles on people. That’s why intimacy scammers are so notorious for getting seemingly smart, successful people to give them their savings. Women do this really often to infatuated men (I think it’s a little on purpose at least).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:50 PM
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Women will friendzone a guy then just ask him for money and favors until he runs empty lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:39 PM
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Yeah and in some communities men like women who have lotsa casual sex. I think these things do vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:06 AM
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This logic makes perfect sense. It’s like men not wanting to cry in front of women because they know it makes women unattracted to them. Women don’t want to have casual sex in front of men because they know it makes them unattractive as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:17 AM
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Listen lil bro. Slang terms don’t have hard definitions. Some people WILL use them in ways others do not but this does not speak to anything about the genders at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:31 PM
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When you ask about height on this sub women act like it’s the least important thing of all. Ask women on this sub if doing chores or being tall is more attractive and see what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:27 PM
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Men admit to this fact openly. Women say a bunch of nonsense about not caring (lies).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:56 PM
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No I have many times thought a woman wasn’t into me only to be told she was. I find it better for my mental health to just assume most women aren’t into me because reading their signals and reacting appropriately constantly is too draining. It’s like a puzzle 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:44 AM
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Yeah I can see that being true also been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:04 AM
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That is true too. Women don’t date every man they find hot enough to bone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:04 AM
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I think for most women if a guy is hot enough to fuck he is hot enough to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:53 PM
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Yeah I have been told I do not have boyfriend dick. It’s too much for alot of women to fuck me daily because my dicks kinda large 10 inches or so. Like my fwbs we stopped having sex for a while because it was just too much too often even though she really enjoys it she has to psyche herself up for it lol. I haven’t heard holiday dick before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:00 PM
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Thanks for this comment. This puts things into a different perspective!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:45 PM
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If friend attractive then it’s nice. If friend not attractive it is not nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:59 PM
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My women friends have told me many times that I am just way too nice. They said women will take advantage of me and that I should be careful of showing how nice I am too early but the niceness is just basic stuff that women say they like. I have had one woman that dumped me for a guy who had literally SA her before. I didn’t know that had happened at the time and just figured she had history with him so it made sense that she wanted to continue. She told me no less than 5 times how much she regr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:33 PM
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To me sluts are the ideal kinda woman. I’d rather there be 9 sluts for every 1 non-slut. In my experience sluts are exactly what men want out of women. Sexually open, honest about their intentions, have sex for fun because they actually enjoy it, not jealous. It’s like having a homie you can have sex with no homo. Then that leaves the remaining non-sluts for guys that want to marry and start a family. If most women were sluts I think lots of men would be fine not being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:20 PM
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Facts. People act like lonely men go around being mean. The lonely men I know irl are very meek and try to be nice because they care if people like them. They have this made up image of the mean lonely guy who goes around expressing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:45 PM
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I can agree with this. Now theres the question of which is actually the case when a woman wants way less sex from her husband. Is he unattractive or does he not put the toilet seat down? Maybe a mix of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:51 PM
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I have a friend currently who kept dangling sex in front of me to get me to come around basically. When I told her I wasn’t interested in having sex with her at all she freaked out on me saying she needed to rethink the friendship. Call them out on their bs with irrefutable evidence and they crumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:34 PM
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Of course women can get burned out of doing housework. I also think housework should be taken care of by everyone that can help. My point is that if a woman doesn’t desire sex with you doing things like extra chores or breakfast in bed isn’t going to fix that. I thought this was obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:59 PM
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It is not a moral failure but men should be aware and act accordingly. All of that just do more chores so she wants to sleep with you stuff is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:53 AM
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You cooking 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:39 PM
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This is the best version. A bunch of women sharing you and they are all on equal level with maybe one above the rest. I never had to care what the women did outside of me because I had so many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:54 PM
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Dude so many women have been upset that I don’t want to date them after we start hooking up. Like just cause you gave me coochie doesn’t obligate me to have you as a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:47 PM
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I think women would rather say they reject men for bad personality than for bad looks. It feels less yucky and shallow to say a man has a bad personality so they go with that option. It’s really that simple!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:06 PM
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I’ve had women get so enraged I didn’t fight for them after they cursed me out, talked about my moms health, said I would be an abusive father, etc. Of course I’m not gonna fight for you. You’re actively trying to damage my psyche lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:15 PM
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I have great sex with strangers lmao. Sex is like playing a sport. Can I go and play 2 on 2 basketball with another person and have great chemistry? Yes. Will I have good chemistry with a teammate of 5 years? Yes but we also have grievances with each other and areas where we don’t work well. I have really good sex if I do say so myself. I’m a sex worker and some of these strangers are really good at sex so we have great sex together. Sorta like the all star game in the NBA. Steph never plays wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:43 PM
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Sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:44 PM
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I see misandrist women in relationships with men and they just say stuff like “my man is different than the rest of you I still hate men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:08 PM
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But you were saying why men do something and women don’t but there doesn’t seem to be anything to point to why you think men or women do it except what you personally do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:47 PM
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I agree that men slut shame high body count women here. Idk why men would lie about it happening it’s clear as day. Everyone knows women care about looks. I think people like lying and saying other things matter more when really it’s subjective to each person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:40 PM
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What stops a woman from doing this same thing to a man she dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:34 PM
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Why would a man date a woman he hates?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:28 PM
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Lots of women tell me I seem feminine and when I hear it I know I’ll prolly have sex with them at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:22 PM
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She texted chad 4 times and called twice. Now she is contacting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:07 AM
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Bi women cheat like it’s no tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:17 AM
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Treat the next guy worse = withhold intimacy out of fear of being hurt resulting in an uneven relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:49 PM
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This is exactly what happens. She has “learned a lesson” and treats the next guy worse as a result of the lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:21 PM
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Everyone has baggage. I don’t like being judged for things I didn’t do so I prefer to date women who don’t have the baggage of relationship trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:19 PM
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I wouldn’t say they are bad people. I like women who are open about their promiscuity. Women who actually enjoy sex are much more fun to be around than women who don’t. I don’t use the word whore to refer to women outside of like sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:32 PM
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I do tell women I just want sex and I get women who actually have sex for pleasure and are good at sex instead of women who “do the deed” as a favor to men they have romantic feelings for (yuck).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:29 AM
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A man isn’t a piece of shit because he has options and exercises them to maximize his own pleasure. A man wanting to have sex with many women without commitment is just having fun. Also the man without options isn’t necessarily beneath her. She is just looking for commitment and that guy offers it more than the guy who can get another more attractive woman tmrw.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:22 AM
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Open and shut case
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:29 PM
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There is a great middle ground for men that allows you to have an attractive woman who is appreciative of your status and you don’t have to leave America. Date 1st or 2nd generation immigrants. It’s like night and day seriously. You get to have a woman who likes to cook and clean and understands partners should cater to each other. They are not as hypergamous because their culture heavily values marriage. I have dated Palestinian women, Sudanese, Chinese, Jamaican and they were all much better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 11:45 AM
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I think that this wouldn’t happen because women usually only go through with a pregnancy when they want the kid. If they didn’t want the kid they just wouldn’t take it to term. Men don’t have this option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:36 PM
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Men have the benefits of patriarchy and capitalism to allow us to date attractive women while not being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:37 AM
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When a woman looks too expensive I don’t even try. I know I’m gonna get my pockets ran by a baddie before it even happens. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:14 PM
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Sometimes a guy is only low libido because his partner sucks. I literally couldn’t think about my ex sexually without going completely flaccid. Turns out all the abuse she put me through killed my sex drive for her. The next woman I was with after getting away from her got put through the mattress. I suggest men examine if they are being abused or mistreated and to see if the problem goes away with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:48 PM
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This is why I never cold approach women. I’m tall and intimidating looking. At my old job there was a really tall gay dude who would “compliment” me whenever he saw me. I would turn around and there he is staring at me. Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 06:34 PM
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These are compliments from men on a GAY HOOKUP APP. This is not walking down the street being told you look good. That is why men would get soooo many compliments there. It’s a gay hookup app.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:08 PM
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Exactly. Who would want Peter from Family Guy complimenting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:03 PM
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Yeah but why would I even care about the compliment? They gonna compliment the next man too because they have a goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:47 PM
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I don’t want empty compliments from men I’m not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:03 PM
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Yesterday I was on a tiktok live panel and we were talking about what men should do about women having more freedoms nowadays and I said that men should lean into it because women can now shoulder some of the financial burden in relationships. They got super pissed at me. I was like why is this a bad thing and they start calling me a mooch and a bum lol. Getting rid of patriarchy and gender roles is good except for when men get some benefit out of it then it’s bad somehow lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:39 AM
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You can have sex again after the breakup which happens to me a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:24 PM
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Why wouldn’t he just sleep with different women when he knows he has the option to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:53 PM
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Depends on the guy. Lotsa guys will just have sex with their attractive gfs less attractive friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:45 PM
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Abusive relationships are notorious for being hard to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:13 PM
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These men often don’t realize they are being treated like dogs. They think they just have to improve and do more chores and she will start treating him right 😂. They work themselves ragged wondering how they can please this person who does not actually like them. People don’t really recognize abusive relationships that easily. It’s tough to imagine the person you love actually hating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:33 PM
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No it does not. There are women in the top 1% that are admittedly fat and unattractive and men still fawn over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:41 PM
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Whats makes someone open minded or up tight?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:41 AM
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Do you not meet gay dudes at the gym? Seems to be so many at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:49 PM
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Would you date anyone from this subreddit if you both were single and lived nearby?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:21 PM
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You never know how a woman will treat you until she is in an advantageous situation over you. Whether it be with the court system, marriage, or with children. Plenty of men thought they had an absolute prize and ended up hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:46 PM
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People claim the app is for women’s safety but I have seen several posts where they are commenting on the size of the dudes dick. What the hell does that have to do with safety? I call bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:50 PM
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Women with a high earning career actually have something to lose in divorce. I wouldn’t wanna date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:01 PM
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Ask everyone the same questions and filter bg the responses
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:15 PM
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Oh yeah they paying it. You can make a social media account with a pretty girl as the profile picture and put a cashapp in the bio with “cashapp me to get my number” and watch the free money roll in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:14 PM
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I really want men to learn the power in saying “go fuck yourself” when women say nonsense like asking you to pay their bills or something I saw recently where a chick said she had a “DM fee”. It feels really good telling these people off and nothing of value is lost when you upset them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:36 PM
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Showing interest is not picking. It’s not like he held 2 pictures up and chose between the 2 people at once. He barely even knows anything about either person to be “picking” them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:25 PM
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Of course they’re lying. Idk why people hate admitting they like positive attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:39 AM
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If he is dming other women you don’t want him? Okay 🤷🏿‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:17 PM
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Cause they are insecure and possessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:57 PM
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If you and your friend are both attractive then why wouldn’t he be attracted especially if he doesn’t know either of you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:19 PM
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He didn’t actually have sex with the friend though. He is just talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:18 PM
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No tl;dr is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:32 PM
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It’s not humorous to be compared to wild animals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:42 PM
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In my opinion the dating woes western men endure are solved by dating women that are 2nd generation immigrants to America. Culturally they are more traditional and they still have good earning potential and aren’t in desperate financial situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:22 AM
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When I take them they make me either feel sick or suicidal. Taken a bunch
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:23 AM
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20-30 minutes of torture can ruin a persons whole psyche. Why couldn’t 20-30 minutes of pleasure improve a psyche?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:52 PM
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Why is it that when men complain about misandry women bring up the fact that some men rape women? What does that have to do with misandry? Do women think that the existence of rapists negates misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:43 PM
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No I didn’t think that. Idk why people really thought that either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:42 PM
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Hell yeah. The happiest I have been in life was when I had sex with multiple women a week and gave them all orgasms. I didn’t need my anti depressants at all coincidentally 😂. The dopamine from good sex had me motivated and active.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:37 PM
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I love driving long distances with no music. I get so much thinking done.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:35 PM
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I liked it. I like that it was different from the animation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:34 PM
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If the women you want are only interested in height then you gotta pick women that are interested in things you can model after. It’s a skill issue if your dick is dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:57 PM
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Oh so not just having sex without a title but having sex without a title and the other guy is known to have sex with other women. I think most guys wouldn’t tell her but the signs be there. No reason to look deeper if she is happy with things as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:34 PM
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Talking down on women and calling them thots and such. I saw that the guys women were interacting with positively did this so I just copied it and they started to interact positively with me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:32 PM
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I think it’s a skill issue. Effort applied to the wrong thing will result in wasted effort. Just look at the guys who women you are interested in are infatuated with and copy them so women will be infatuated with you. After that you can just have your pick of the women and narrow it down. Trying to do guess work is a waste of time. I straight up created an online misogynist persona because I saw women gravitating towards that and within 6 months I had a whole rotation of women I was having sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:20 PM
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Lots of women enjoy casual relationships tbh. Nearly every woman over 30 has had at least 1 or 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:13 PM
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I like women 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:38 AM
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Yeah guys will buy things for 5 girls in the same week hoping to get some coochie. Women would rather walk over hot coals than buy things for a guy they aren’t infatuated with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:17 PM
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They will call guys gay for not immediately wanting sex because it hurts their ego bad. Some women are level headed but many are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:10 PM
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Yes I love when women chase me and show me that they desire me heavily. I like when women spend money on me to show interest because I know women don’t spend money on men they don’t like a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:04 PM
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How would anyone know anyone enjoys their company? Why would she assume she is a fleshlight instead of anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:28 PM
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I don’t put in the effort required. I don’t text everyday but it’s probably because I don’t like any woman enough to want to do that stuff. The woman I was in love with passed away and nobody can measure up to her. Now I just kinda roam the earth having a little sex here and there and going on dates sometimes but the spark is gone and not returning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:15 PM
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What is stopping the men from genuinely enjoying the company of the women he sleeps with? Why is this not a viable alternative to her being used like a fleshlight?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:52 PM
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Why would he even wanna have sex with you then I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:29 PM
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Why do people assume it is just for sex? People genuinely like unattractive people for their personalities or other traits. If I have sex with a chick and she folds my clothes after or we have a great conversation I’m gonna like her for more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:26 PM
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Bro is gonna get some head and kick you out 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:19 PM
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The most unattractive woman I know could get a man to sleep with her within 2 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:16 PM
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I would go. It’s fun for women to look at hot guys just like it’s fun for men to look at hot women. They are commodifying hotness which is a very old thing that humans have done.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:03 PM
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Is it not slut shaming to insult a woman based on consensual sex that she has?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:12 PM
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Because women slut shame in very different ways than ncount threads. They will say a woman is being a pick me for having sex with a man she likes and not requiring additional effort. This is slut shaming and is very common on the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:31 PM
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women on the left regularly slutshame though. Take black women for example. They are the most leftist voting bloc and I have seen them openly slut shame women like Iggy Azalea and Bonnie Blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:28 PM
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Bro they refuse to just be straight up if it implicates women in any manner 😂 unless the manner of implication is the woman isn’t a “girls girl” or something. Then they will go into deep detail about how women like that are common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:47 PM
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I don’t think it is bad to be attracted to attractive people. These boys were just told that “good women” would like them for their personality and charm and not the superficial things like being attractive and having money. Lots of them really earnestly believed this and ended up finding out thats not how things work. I would say it’s the fault of the people who told them these lies but maybe they honestly believed it too. Maybe women even honestly believe that they are interested in unattracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:45 PM
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I was certainly surprised to learn that many women care so much about money when dating. I thought what was important was the connection, friendship, loyalty but I talk to women and they are like “if he has money I really don’t care about the other stuff” and they really mean it. There are plenty of good women around just due to sheer numbers and I am moderately attractive so I can have access to date them but for lots of men their options for actual good women are slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:17 PM
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They thought those were just “bad women” and that the “good women” would be around at some point and they wouldn’t have to deal with shallow women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:14 PM
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That first one hit me so hard because I realized I did that with most of the women I dated. Just shrinking myself because of their mood swings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:36 PM
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The comments sound like redpillers 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:32 PM
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Yeah sure 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:17 PM
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They act like women can read mens minds 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:04 PM
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I agree. It would probably mess things up but I’m really enjoying this stage of things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:05 PM
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Me and my roommate are so attracted to each other but I think we will never actually have sex and I’m totally fine with that which is new for me. It’s nice to just settle into things without worrying about how attractive I am to her and if I am talking myself out of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:14 PM
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Yeah the immutable trait is “skill issue”. Just try harder to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:27 PM
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What’s the downside? Sex and leaving me alone? Not asking me for money because we had sex? Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:25 PM
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You know what I am gonna keep this in mind. Maybe I can be a better person and find a good relationship by working on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:59 PM
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Not really I would say. Could be better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:09 AM
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Medicine? Thats the only treatment I think
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:11 AM
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The mods deleted that one. It’s sometimes very confusing what to flair things on here. Also you nosy 🤨.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:10 AM
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Yeah sure women enjoy it but I don’t wanna be that kinda guy that traumatizes people either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:54 PM
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Because they are attacking others based on immutable traits which is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:39 PM
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I think it’s a symptom of manic-depression but I am not sure. I been in therapy for a years but haven’t gotten a clear answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:16 PM
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Does everyone who plays video games post these posts or just me? Whats the correlation? Couldn’t there be some other larger reason besides video games?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:11 PM
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Why do you feel that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:06 PM
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I stopped dating because it’s too hard to do in a way that I would approve of. I will say I think you’re right and I am sorry I get other men caught up in this too. It’s just a skill issue dating wise on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:29 PM
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I do lots of domestic labor when dating. Like I am very against gender roles in the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:03 PM
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Because I’m still a good person even if I am not good at dating. Thats only a small aspect of life. I don’t even date anymore because I have an issue with the behavior I exhibit. I am not a misogynist though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:53 PM
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I’m a feminist as well so lots of our views align it’s just this one area that gets me called a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:46 PM
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I am deep into feminist circles so it makes sense that this isn’t a normal thing that is happening often in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:38 PM
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It matters to me. I treat my women friends great as well as my family members. I’m just really bad to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:32 PM
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It’s not to feel better. It’s to accurately label the behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:30 PM
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Thinking a statement that does not use All is comparable to a statement that does use all is pretty silly. I’m not sure how this sort of garbage gets upvoted in a debate subreddit where words should mean things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:20 PM
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Yeah when a new video game comes out and I just play it all day without checking my phone. Rare moment nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:03 PM
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So I was on tiktok live yesterday morning. The topic was about single mothers. I said I would prefer not to date a single mother. I said that single mothers should be loved by the people who desire them. All the women on that tiktok live started to say I was shaming single mothers just because I said I would prefer to not date them. This happens constantly online. You say what doesn’t work for you dating wise and the people that fit into whatever you don’t prefer get offended as heck. As if thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:58 AM
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Huge red flag when women are hyper critical of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:28 PM
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This dude linked the bible 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:31 PM
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I get to hear how some women think all stranger men want to SA them and it makes me consider that it’s not my fault they are afraid of me. It is their own mental issues. I had no idea so many crazy women were out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:43 PM
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Potential for abuse vs immediately saying a person is a predator. There are inherent risk factors in heterosexual relationships as well. Inherent risk factors in interracial relationships as well. It’s silly that people act like they KNOW someone is a predator by looking at 2 ages and that is all the context they have on the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:28 PM
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What part is not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:59 PM
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Lemme tell you a secret. Women are sorta lying about dick size not mattering. Yes if she loves you she will put up with a small dick and MANY other displeasing things. She would certainly prefer a big dick to a small one most times. Lots of women on this subreddit would rather lie than to prove any analysis about women nature true as well so take what they say lightly. My female friends talk about dick size a lot. Height, money, dick size are the most common topics in regard to men. Then looks a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:51 AM
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Yeah I know what you mean lmao. Those men don’t get enough crap imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:11 PM
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The problem is people see a set of 2 numbers and go to call the older person a predator without knowing the dynamics of the relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:03 PM
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Every good man I know has gotten hurt by opening up to a woman even my dad who is extremely stoic and has had a long marriage remarks on how opening up emotionally to women will be used against you in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:02 PM
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Men dating loser women? Yes but I get thinking with your dick. Women have many more options in dating than most men. I don’t see successful men falling for criminal bum women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 06:47 PM
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Absolutely not. I love a good breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:18 PM
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Yo this makes an absolute ton of sense in the context of this woman. Like I never put that together but based on other things she said and did this is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:17 PM
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You know thinking about it most women are kinda mentally ill since we live in a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:55 PM
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I have seen some really attractive women dating absolute bums with criminal records. They are nice women but they aren’t very smart. One woman was making $210k a year and messing with a dude with no car and he had roommates. He once let his roommate walk right in on her naked at his house and she tried to convince me he had redeeming qualities lmao. Idk whats with women when they “like” a guy but they will ignore gigantic full saturation red flags in order to be convinced they are making good de…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:56 AM
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Because thats how they really feel about men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:38 PM
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Next time this happens push her as hard as you can and shout “No”. She will get the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:09 PM
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Hmmm actually the platonic ones no. Like my older neighbor she pays for herself when we go out. My mother in law also pays for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 11:59 PM
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Yes because I want to have sex with them. If I don’t want to have sex with them I wouldn’t pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:46 PM
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OP brought up a teacher which is a single person reacting to 2 different behaviors negatively. Where are the different people in that scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:35 PM
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Yeah if a chick is hot + cokehead then she is easier than a hot non cokehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:28 PM
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Reject patriarchy. Be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:00 PM
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Because men that aren’t okay with racism and homophobia don’t date racist homophobes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:17 PM
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The orgasm gap is because most people are not that good at sex. It is a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:43 PM
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Finally a real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:16 PM
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You gotta hit em with the classic “if your sister said she was interested in a guy” just so they understand self preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:38 AM
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I think men shouldn’t get upset at that. It’s looking out for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:28 AM
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Heck no I wouldn’t date her. I rather avoid as many potential red flags as possible. Now granted I haven’t seen or had sex with her so that could change my mind and has before.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:48 PM
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True it takes a really good timing and it’s different for each relationship so you have to be able to read people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:05 PM
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The friendzone is real but I have had a pretty good time moving from friendzone to fuck buddies. Most times it’s unexpected but you can easily develop sexual chemistry over the course of a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:14 PM
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Okay so I have lots of options but it gets boring to pick the same type of woman to date over and over. I choose all kinds of women because thats kinda the purpose of dating different people. Some girls were big rock fans others were r&b fans some fat some skinny. My friends say I have a type but I disagree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:26 PM
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Incels currently have a lower incidence of DV right now. They are the face of violence against women while also not touching women 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:19 PM
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The strange thing is avoiding incels will not make the abuse rates go down because incels aren’t the people harming women they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:46 PM
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Glad my dick is big.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:11 PM
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Do you think it is worth debating how these preferences affect dating or should we just not approach that topic because it doesn’t matter much?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:23 PM
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So in conclusion women do prefer those traits to be taller than average, wealthier than average, and larger than average yes? I understand that it isn’t the only factors that matter but they are a preference and it does factor into dating. I think there should not be so much pushback to this. When someone says “here is evidence women prefer this” it’s constantly a “yes but it doesn’t even matter that much” and it gets to the point where you wonder if anything matters to women in dating besides t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:09 PM
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I truly believe that women here want men to ignore reality. When my women friends talk about guys the first things they mention are all the things PPD women pretend “don’t really matter”; Height, Money, Penis size, Race. These are important if women are asking about them to vet if a man is worthy of their friend. It feels like a large gaslighting campaign but I’m not sure why you feel the need to gaslight anonymous strangers about something like this. It’s getting to the point where I can see th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:27 PM
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No but I have women friends that only go down on their guy on special occasions. I was surprised he puts up with it given that he is a very very good boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:48 PM
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Blowjobs outside of special occasions. Sex after a long day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:25 PM
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Every single person is socialized to be sexist in our society. My 3 year old daughter points out gender stereotypes now. I don’t get how a feminist can say this and not see that she is also pointing at all women as well. Women victimize boys based on their gender all the time. There’s a pandemic of women raping their male students but for some reason the gender of the victim snd perpetrator are not brought in to make a larger statement about women and men as a whole. Yes all men and Yes all wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:08 AM
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They need to experience a guy who is good at sex and has a big penis. One without the other is nothing compared to both.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:16 PM
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Lmfaoooooo glad I’m not ugly and having to worry about sexual harassment charges
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:48 PM
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The government has tons of money to feed kids and everything else. They just spend it on bull on purpose because that enriches them. Think about it. Would you rather help some strangers or make generational wealth for you and your 10 closest friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:00 PM
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As a man you can say whatever you want upfront. Women will easily change their mind on agreeing with what you said. This has happened to me many times with different women. I say I want an open relationship. She agrees to enter an open relationship. She goes back on what she agreed to within 3 months. Another example was agreeing to have an abortion if we got pregnant. The woman went back on that as soon as she found out she was pregnant. Thankfully she miscarried and I don’t have to involve her…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:58 PM
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Most of my bullies were women unfortunately. I could fight the boys but the girls I couldn’t really do much against them. I did fight one and I got in huge trouble for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:04 PM
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I don’t like you right now so of course I don’t wanna give you gifts. You blow up at me and avoid apologizing. No you aren’t getting cuddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:35 AM
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Those men sound pretty out of touch to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:34 AM
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I just ignored her and now I don’t have to deal with it at all. Yeah I should have had a vasectomy to avoid being a rape baby trapping victim. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:27 PM
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The point is that having a vasectomy or wrapping it up doesn’t take away any chance of being baby trapped. There are many men that are made to penetrate either by force or threat just like I was. And those men would be forced to raise a baby they don’t want or forced to pay child support. Some women will do whatever they have to do to have a baby by a man they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:19 PM
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This makes sense and I have run into those exact people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:27 PM
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Tightest pair of jeans I own
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:26 PM
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How is the basis for something not history and instead a list of all the things you dislike? This is like someone saying the basis of black culture is all the things they dislike. It’s just a silly caricature of real humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:20 PM
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These things are not the basis to conservatism if you look at the actual political history. This is just a list of all the dumb stuff conservatives believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:24 PM
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A woman legit raped me and then tried hitting me up months later for a kid. I had already left the state afterwards and I just ignored her but I could see the same thing happening to a man who didn’t have the ability to leave and he gets stuck with paying his rapist child support or raising a rape baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:58 PM
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I’m liberal af and this is just silly as hell 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:56 PM
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Yeah I like women with way more experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:45 PM
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High n-count at my age is 25. I am way beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:44 PM
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I don’t mind a high N count as long as our mentality around sex matches. Too many high N count girls are okay with cheating on their partner in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:44 PM
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Who has to admit to being a single mom? You either are or you aren’t. The evidence is being unmarried and not sharing an address. You can’t deduce cheating or rape the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:20 AM
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Liked as in it didn’t tear his body up too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:10 AM
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I’m 100% getting a vasectomy soon. Women can’t be trusted and I really like having raw sex. My dad had one also and he liked the procedure enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:13 AM
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Most men wouldn’t admit to being cheated on or raped by a woman. The stats don’t show the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:14 PM
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Yeah! I think its not a gendered issue. People do not like parting ways with money in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:17 PM
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Women who pay child support also think it is unfair lol. Lots of people are unhappy paying a percentage of their income to an ex even if its to benefit the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:29 AM
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Women fuck AND have relationships with attractive assholes hoping they will change for them. They get burnt out and leave him or he cheats and leaves her. This happens to lots of women and then the men she never would have dated have to hear about how men are terrible cheaters lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:31 PM
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I think all women should be highly picky. This only works in my favor as a top 20% man. Please be ultra picky and don’t go after all those weird men that will give you relationship trauma that I will have to pay for later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:12 PM
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Biphobia in women is very insane. It’s very widespread
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:29 PM
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I don’t think they were describing women in those terms. I think they were talking about a specific woman from that background.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:43 PM
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I think this would cause more issues than it resolves. I think all men should secretly get a test anyway. If the child isn’t yours and you still want to raise it you can do so without the cheating woman even knowing that you know. Also the government could use the mandated DNA of men to get you on all sorts of crimes you may have gotten away with if you weren’t a man and had your DNA in. A database the government has access to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:53 AM
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I just know people don’t like using condoms even at risk of stds and kids. Thats why we need more options for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:36 PM
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This chick KEEPS harassing me day after day and I really don’t feel like having to get a restraining order and I don’t think the judge/cops will take me seriously. I really don’t get how people continue to push and harass others without concern for their own safety. I would be terrified if I kept harassing someone that they would retaliate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:38 AM
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Men crying about aborting is not something I commented about. You brought that unrelated stuff to the replies lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:15 PM
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People don’t like using condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:15 PM
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This looks amazing I think I had heard of this before but wow
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:38 PM
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Who cares about this fr
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:37 PM
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Okay what country are you referring to? I was referring to America. I didn’t forget about other countries but I would like to do more research.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:01 PM
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I think male birth control would be a wonderful thing for America.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:39 PM
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More as in more than if abortion is legal. I never said loads 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:37 PM
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Most times the dude simply doesn’t want the baby and would have preferred that she aborted it. They aren’t loving fathers who wanted children badly. They had sex and a kid came along with the sex. You’ll see many more deadbeat moms or worse if abortion is not legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:06 PM
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You cooked OP 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:53 AM
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You’re ignoring logic. I’m done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:15 PM
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So if we know some women fail to rape men due to being weaker. Their lack of strength being the only thing stopping them from raping a man. Logically if that weakness were mitigated these attempted rapists would succeed at their task more. I feel like you are denying something that has no logical basis to be denied. If what I said is true it still does not take away from the violent, raping nature of men one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:06 PM
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Yes majority of rapists are men. Do you not think more women would rape men if they were stronger than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:50 PM
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Yeah women have tried to rape me before. I easily overpowered and beat them like rapists deserve. Only one succeeded in raping me and thats because I was drunk underage. If women were stronger than men I don’t doubt they would rape us even more than they already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:29 PM
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Rapes by women are more rarely reported than rapes by men. Finding a case that actually went to trial and the woman got convicted is going to be super rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:00 PM
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Just got in trouble for this. One chick I’m fucking expected me to tell her that another chick I’m fucking loved me even though she knew I was fucking her too. Like wtf. Why would I tell you she loves me??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:28 PM
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1950s woman would be more interesting to date. I’ve dated more than enough modern women. I’d love to try her cooking. Only really had 2 gfs that loved to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:21 PM
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I don’t look wealthy either. This is about people who have sex with women getting passionate sex instead of duty sex. The women I have sex with know how much I earn. 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:02 PM
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“our sexual attraction depends on personality” 😂😂😂😂. Bros imma tell you what to do. Become a top 10% earner in your community and you will get all the passionate sex you want for free. You can be a rich asshole and women will want to fuck you. Theres always gonna be a scarcity of men who earn the top percentage of money. There are loads of men who have personality. Become rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:45 PM
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Yeah even when women abuse children its not seen as abuse. Even though children should be considered a more vulnerable class of people than women are. Women get a free pass to abuse people in their life over and over. Men with abusive moms are told to seek therapy to stop hating women. Women with abusive fathers are told that their viewpoints on men are justified because they are victims. Ridiculous double standards and it has real ramifications for peoples lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:39 PM
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It feels like dudes think the majority of women who complain about unwanted sexual attention are sex workers somehow. It doesn’t line up with demographics and also sex workers don’t usually complain about sexual attention. The whole “if you weren’t such a whore men would be respectful” thing makes no sense if you think about who men sexually harass and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:15 PM
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If you just ask for sex you get immediate sex and if she likes the sex enough she will pursue you. It’s the ideal situation for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:43 AM
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The women on this sub have been beaten up so much they just virtue signal now. It’s wack.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:28 PM
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Show emotions in a very specific way that pleases you. Thats just faking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:43 AM
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I don’t hide the fact that I’ve seen escorts. I know I have a specific attitude around sex that most people don’t. It’s also the reason I like to share my body count and learn my partners count as well. I wanna know that she has the same attitude as me or is at least accepting of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:53 PM
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My women friends constantly tell me how they ask guys for money. I started making them pay me back and they respect me alot more now. If a woman likes you she will give you money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:59 PM
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I believe this post tries to “other” these shallow, mentally ill women but the majority of women fit this category. Majority of women are choosing attractive with red flags. I would even posit that red flags can make you more attractive to women because they feel they have more of an understanding of what your issue may be whereas if you show no red flags they will make up even worse things due to anxiety. Quiet guy who isn’t openly misogynistic gets rumors of him chopping people up in his basem…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:22 PM
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Misandrists disgust me honestly. Especially because they think it is a righteous position.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:03 PM
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I have this complex really bad. I really start hating women when they crave attention from me. I’m ill af.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:30 PM
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Yeah you are off the mark OP. Men can have fun without violence or competition. We aren’t beholden to instincts like animals
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:01 PM
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TRP is just a bunch of Project Pat lyrics from the 2000s packaged up for lonely adolescents. You could go listen to “Bitches ain’t shit” and “Don’t save her” and learn all the good parts of redpill in an afternoon. No way you need to spend a large part of your life studying how to attract women unless something wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:10 PM
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Even hooking up with a fat ugly chick is way better than not having any sexual prospects at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:39 PM
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I wonder if women would be upset if a guy could verify paternity by something easy like fingerprints or eyes. Would they be upset if he looked at the kids fingers after it was born to make sure they match up and the kid is his? I feel like being upset at that would be strange because who wouldn’t take the chance to know for sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:09 PM
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I would give a woman who asked the most fantastic dick I could muster if that was her last wish. I would feel so good being able to make them happy in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:29 AM
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I’m not replying to the OP. Do you know how reddit works yes or no? Do you know how replies work yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:20 PM
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I literally wrote out a whole example. What more do you want seriously? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:46 PM
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Can you point with your finger to the part of my comment that is about rejection? I can’t find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:52 PM
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It would be a red flag but I wouldn’t stop seeing her just based on that. If I see other behavior such as she seeks out abusive relationship dynamics as well such as arguing and trying to pick physical fights then I would leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:16 AM
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If they already do it then I’m not talking to those women. Actually those women should teach their friends to be more like them and take accountability. This is not about hurt feelings it’s about damaged relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:35 AM
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Everyone should be accountable for their negative behaviors. There is not any one thing that all women need to hold themselves accountable for. If I hurt my partners feelings I own up to what I did to hurt them. I do not blame them for being too sensitive or say that they have said similar to me and I didn’t whine. That’s what accountability looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:17 AM
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Lack of accountability means that a person will excuse their bad behaviors as not being their fault when it is brought up. Think about asking a child why they broke something and they say that they saw someone else do the same thing so why are you upset at them. The child would choose to not address the decisions they had control over shifting the blame onto other parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:45 AM
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If I’m not attractive enough to date someone I want then I use money to get them. If the money doesn’t work I may use the people around them as a way in. I might use some manipulation tactics or offer to buy them food. I think people don’t use everything available to them to get the person they want. Like an uglier chick will offer up sex in order to get a guys attention. It has some risk factors but you should try if you really want that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:59 AM
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Struggling with dating is a skill issue. Getting raped is not. Get better at talking to girls and your struggle goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:55 PM
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Yeah people are not protecting strange men like people protect strange women. I know I wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:40 PM
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Look at it this way. You want to date a person. They have tried to do things a certain way prior to you. Meet a person don’t have sex too soon. Make sure they like them and bam they get played anyway because the other person was just after sex or attention or money . Meet another person cycle continues. This happens 7 or 8 times over the course of 3 years. Now they are of tired falling in love just to be hurt. In comes you. A regular person genuinely trying to date this person. For some strange …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:35 PM
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Thats sad. Unlike those men the sex workers genuinely liked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:34 AM
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Say her hair is bright orange but she wants to have a more lowkey look. She could just switch the wig out. This is how I see things with my women friends. The wig life seems simple and easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:07 PM
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I am wary of the effects on her hair and wigs are easily changeable. Coloring once in a while is fine too like a red hair for the summer but limit the dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:17 PM
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Attractive for a sexual relationship. If I had the choice I would rather my long term relationship use colored wigs than dying her hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:45 AM
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In my experience women were more interested in dating me when they found out I slept with a lot of women. Of course they wanted me to change as soon as we started dating but they were interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:35 PM
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OP all the women on PPD have no negative results from sleeping with tons of men as this is a debate subreddit. Just read other subs such as deadbedrooms and the divorce subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:33 PM
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I would feel like the worst dad ever if I let my kid go there and they get abused. I choose A.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:35 PM
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Bro yeah exactly. They see me with other women and suddenly wanna lock me down. But when I was affection starved they walked and looked straight past me. I had too many options to just pick a single woman because it was such an overload.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:53 PM
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Facts. I treated women like trash once I reached high earning status and they still came back for more. I had too many options to ever consider taking a single woman seriously. The bar definitely is on the floor when women are attracted to you. I watch my guy friends struggle and try to buy their way into a woman liking them and it doesn’t work out because the initial step of her being very attracted to you hasn’t been established.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:46 PM
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Thats a new sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:04 AM
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It be mfs who get no pussy telling the rest of us who has sex and how. Outside the club hating and can’t get in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:49 PM
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Yeah incel is just popular but pedo is a much worse insult
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:36 PM
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It depends on your opinion. A surgeon is cool to me but not to you I am guessing. Just doing that much school successfully is cool to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:54 PM
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I blame them and child abusers should get whats coming to them regardless of mental issues. Media does make it seem easy thats why I was so concerned about my kid when I learned of it. It also explained a lot of my mom and other women behavior from when I was a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:54 PM
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Its money + status. Surgeons are cool af I would be more interested in a woman who is a surgeon than a bartender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:25 PM
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Now that he has a partner it will be easier to score.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:38 PM
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Sadly children can’t choose better parents. Women are so violent towards their children post partum.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:45 PM
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I wouldn’t tell a woman I want sex because thats weird and I want more than sex. I could date a woman for months without sex and be happy about it. I think if women don’t want men trying to have sex with them they should just outright say they don’t have sex casually. Best way to weed out men who just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:35 PM
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Those 3 factors are super important in dating actually. I always disagreed that men don’t care about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:41 PM
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I have got gotten into dating women who are 1st or 2nd generation immigrants that have high earning careers. It’s like night and day from my previous dating endeavors. I guess this is what they call having standards which I admittedly lacked when I dated before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:40 PM
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I know women in real life who are misandrist online or when they are with their friends. They just automatically take the woman’s side by default if there is a disagreement between a male and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:38 AM
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Love casual sex. You mean I get to have sex for free with different women often? It’s like getting to play basketball with new people often and you all have a great time. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:14 AM
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Yeah they do make good partners but they will cheat on you unless you maintain a super stern lifestyle which is a lot of work if you aren’t naturally like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:15 AM
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If she fat and look good she still fat but I wouldn’t say it out loud. I like fat women and even more I like fat women who acknowledge that they are fat and don’t lose confidence as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:01 PM
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I believe women do pursue but they pursue the same 10%-20% of men. Most men never get genuine pursuit from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:52 PM
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Best thread ever lmaooo. Noticing the women here know A LOT about dicks. They get sent so many of them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:27 AM
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Not right but he won the case which shows how the legal system sees things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:31 AM
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First things first. Paternity Test. Lets see whose problem this really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:33 AM
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My twitter that shows my big penis is linked to my reddit account. You tell me if its tiny 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:48 PM
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I came to an epiphany after getting yelled at by my ex. She was more loyal to her emotions than she was to me. If her emotions told her to do things I hated she would choose them over me. If her emotions told her to call me names she would choose them over me. I think lots of women behave this way in relationships. Their emotions even betray them sometimes by having them staying with terrible partners that they love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:11 PM
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I make well above average. $56 an hour is not average money. I also have a big penis and I shoot porn videos. Idk why you assume all these negatives about me when you could just ask :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:05 PM
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All men should have a lawyer on retainer too. My lawyer saved me from my ex lying about me being a domestic abuser. The police are weaponized against men (especially black men) way too often in relationships. They know they will take their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:24 AM
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They had sex with them to have sex but dating them was not a thing they were open to before sex. All around attractive men but too short to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:42 PM
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I fit lots of those traits myself which I know makes me terrible to date so I like to date people who fit in with me rather than people who I would hurt by dating. I think man whores are especially bad because of how attached women can become to them if they don’t beware of the signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:47 PM
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I have had sex like in porn and most women would rather you get your 3 dozen strokes in and finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:00 AM
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The funny thing is women eliminate so many guys based on immutable traits but when they start to like a guy he can be missing 9 out of her 10 requirements and she will still go for it lol. Like I have women friends who vehemently said they would not date a guy under 5’8 and both of them are having sex with short men under 5’6 😂 and now that they like them because the sex was okay they don’t care that the dude is short. However when I say anything about a woman being too fat for me to date or too…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:47 PM
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You’re really far off base lol. I prefer women with more experience. I have a very slutty personality and I prefer women who match that. I like to discuss sex casually like someone would discuss sports. Most women you can’t do that with so I like hearing a woman has 20+ bodycount so we can relate in that way. Also I am very very good at pleasing women. My penis is 10 inches and I have had sex with famous pornstars and been complimented very well. I even get paid for sex as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:10 PM
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Discrimination does not need any specific effect. That makes little sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:50 PM
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Does it need to have an effect on their life to discuss it on reddit. It’s really funny to see that people are biased but don’t consider themself to be. If there was a sub for stuff like this I would read it daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:33 PM
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They are deciding who is an asshole based on gender lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:06 PM
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One day I asked myself “Do women even like nice men? All my women friends date men who treat them badly.” I started calling women “thots” online and like magic I started to get more interested DMs and flirty interactions from women. I don’t know what makes them say they want nice guys and then pursue the bad ones but it does work in your favor if you can at least pretend to be a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:38 PM
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I always love this topic because I never get a good answer as to why women have sex they do not like having. When I have sex with a woman I want her to want it as much or more than me. I would rather not have sex with an unenthusiastic woman and it seems like so many women could take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:58 PM
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Yeah it’s less romantic but gets me laid more. Romance develops over the course of a relationship but its easier if we already like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:07 PM
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The bad personality thing is such a huge and pervasive lie lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:25 PM
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When a woman is less sexually experienced I interact with them in a flirty manner. I give more indicators of attraction that are less about sex and more about our relationship or friendship or connection. If a woman enjoys casual sex then I try to be more sexual than I would be otherwise because I am already aware that she wouldn’t mind being sexualized as much. You have to read the person well though because it could very well be the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:39 PM
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I would rather know so I can know what their attitude about sex is. I like women with detached attitudes about sex because I share that. Other men would rather a woman have an attached attitude about sex. Both of these attitudes have pros and cons in my opinion and you can inquire with people about how they think but you will get more reliable info if you just see how they act instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:16 PM
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My point being that people who have had casual sex and those who haven’t have different mindsets. I have dated very promiscuous women and I have dated very reserved women. There is a difference in how I had to approach things with them. This isn’t universal but it definitely explains some things for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:15 PM
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Body count matters 100%. The person I was before casual sex and after is vastly different. I don’t care about so many things since I started having sex casually. My girl wants to not have sex with me? I don’t care because I know I could get sex as good or better just by messaging someone. When I think about how much easier this thinking is for women I know that the mindset of a woman who has had lots of casual sex and one who hasn’t is different. I don’t think women with body counts are bad peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:11 PM
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Gold diggers are not just for rich men. I have had girls say they played me out of $24 because I paid for a date. Some people are poor so the people they prey on are poor as well because thats who they are around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:26 PM
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You only think those people are your family. Your DNA could be the milkman’s! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:24 PM
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Why do the people here not just answer questions honestly? Why is it constantly trying to appear better than you actually are with every response?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:14 PM
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Yeah they will lie here but we see reality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:56 PM
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I have seen women be angrier someone forgot to call them on their birthday than being angry at a woman for cheating. It’s always “he wasn’t fulfilling her needs” “he drove her to cheat” “seduce her mind not her body”. Women cheating on men doesn’t bother alot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:55 PM
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I would dump her for taking our money and secreting it away because she doesn’t trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:49 PM
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I have lots of casual sex. I try to give steps for guys to achieve but then they come back with stuff like “I’m not gonna eat some random chicks pussy” and I give up on them. In my experience there are multiple ways to achieving a casual sex relationship. You can have low inhibition which is what I do. Or you can have very high sexual market value which is what rappers and athletes have. I like women being attracted to me just for sex so I put all my red flags out there to start so a woman doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:23 PM
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Asia sounds way better objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:39 PM
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I really think its a skill issue because there are so many things toddlers like to do that its pretty easy to find things they enjoy. Some activities I did yesterday are stacking books, coloring, stickers, bubble gun, yoga, pretending cooking, movie with popcorn. You have to discipline kids because they will test boundaries but its not even a daily thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:22 PM
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Do children not do activities the adults around them ask them to do if they find the activity fun and engaging? You certainly don’t need to be doing the stuff in this article.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:09 AM
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Never heard of that. It’s just basic parental planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:36 AM
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Daycare is valuable for socialization in toddlers. I wouldn’t feel good taking her out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:31 PM
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I take care of her well and as a result she does well in daycare but it does start at home. Every kid I have taken care of can follow the same formula. Kids are so malleable you can just be consistent and they fl in line if the parents haven’t already screwed it with bad parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:04 PM
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I was a stay at home parent before my divorce lol. I saved up so I could take a year off work when my kid was born. It was one of the greatest experiences of my life watching her change over that time. You have to maintain a schedule and have activities they will. Meals at a set time. Naps at a set time. Teeth brushing and bath at a set time. It makes things so easy. My daughter puts herself to bed at 9 pm every night. She will grab her blanket and literally ask tk be put in her crib.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:26 PM
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I have 1 kid that I took care of solo 24/7 from 7 months till 1 year 9 months when she went into daycare and I have her solo besides daycare now. I take care of 2 kids under 3 regularly solo but only 1 is my kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:02 PM
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It’s not hard to take care of a child at all. Either I’m missing something or children are ridiculously obedient if you stick to schedules and learn their preferences. Never had a hard day taking care of a kid except for me or the kid being sick. Otherwise its simple and your parental instincts basically tell you what to do without having to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:46 PM
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I despise when people refer to taking care of the child they chose to have as work. Taking care of my kid is nothing like the soul sucking dredge of going to work and doing bs I rather not do. When I am home with my kid I get to enrich her life by playing fun games with her, reading books, singing songs, cooking her food and learning her tastes. I look forward to taking care of my kid each and every day and I dread going to work and being away from her. Calling your child work is abhorrent to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:30 PM
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A player will play any woman he comes in contact with. Especially if she is being honest and he is experienced at lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:22 PM
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If sex sucks so often why do women have it for pleasure? Is it bad most of the time forreal lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:08 PM
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Women get STD tests all the time while dating or married and it is even encouraged to do so and no one talks about how hurtful it would be to accuse her partner of cheating. It’s always touted as do what is best for you. It would seem pretty selfish to demand someone not get this important test that because it would hurt your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:58 AM
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What is funny to me about all of this is that most women I know get STD testing while in a relationship because “You never know for sure” and that is not seen as a bad thing or controversial AT ALL. It is an accusation of infidelity and no one minds at all. Can anyone explain what the difference between paternity testing a child and STD testing is that would cause people to have a different reaction to these 2 things?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:05 AM
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Yeah please stop approaching women. This will make them more receptive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:44 PM
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The thing is treating a woman well is optional based on what I observe. If a woman likes a guy enough he can treat her any kind of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:13 PM
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The dating patterns of women who get naked for money are not really worth discussing with a wide subset of men because most men will not be able to seriously date these women. Then going into the women who have sex on camera for money thats an even smaller amount. This isn’t worth discussing in regard to regular people dating and is better restricted to just dating for this small population. This tells me nothing about how the average person dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:27 PM
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Then they will bring up how me being upset makes them upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:54 PM
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I have been in relationships like this. Every time I bring up an issue that I am correct about its “Yes you are right but you shouldn’t have said it that way so lets discuss the fact I am upset instead of the thing you brought up.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:21 AM
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It’s a thing I have experienced. I like it because I like sex and intimacy but I don’t need a title to enjoy those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:09 AM
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Yeah I’d be cool with it if it gets her off a lot. Need her to be enthusiastic or I won’t be into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:53 PM
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I would not like humiliating my wife regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:48 PM
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No because they didn’t agree to sex for money. She could just take it and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:26 PM
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I tell women to give me money or pay for things often now and the ones who do do tend to treat me better. I understand women more now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:45 PM
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When you already get women (or have a woman at home while out looking for more) you can afford to not care about rejection which makes you more confident and attractive. Thats the real cheatcode and why so many men with partners can easily cheat while single men get passed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:36 AM
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I think they want to appear demure. They know people will judge them for doing it so if they are victims its more palatable than if they were having the time of their lives and actually miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:45 PM
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Looks like all I need to do to change your view is post a different video calling something else the friendzone and you’ll take that as the new definition. This might be the easiest CMV yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:18 AM
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This is really well stated thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:14 AM
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Attractive people get away with a ton of things in general. Women even treat attractive women better than unattractive women. I’ve seen an ugly person criticized for the same behavior that is celebrated in attractive people lol. It will never be even between those 2 categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:11 AM
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From talking to them I would never learn this stuff. I don’t even think they consciously recognize the behavior but when you experience it it is clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:17 PM
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I agree. Having women actually desire me just for sex has opened my eyes to things I never would have known. I have learned about how much you can get away with if a woman is attracted to you physically. I’ve learned that women cheat on people they label good men with people they label bad men. I’ve learned how to talk to women in a way that makes them feel desired but not disrespected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:19 AM
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Yes but I didn’t know people did those things without contraceptives and didn’t want children. Thats ridiculous to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:46 PM
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Thats true and all but I am referring to people not even bothering to do it which I am finding out is a thing even when they don’t actually want a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:05 PM
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I think lots of people just go full on leaving it in. I don’t kink shame but sex for pleasure shouldn’t be resulting in pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:17 PM
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Thats how the majority of my relationships started. Good sex is hard to come by so when you find it you lock it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:34 PM
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People have sex and then end up in relationships all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:14 PM
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Women get upset at nice guys because they don’t offer them the things they actually desire. If a nice guy is also hot then he isn’t bad at all. Being a nice guy and desiring a woman while she is not attracted to you offends her. Women actually don’t like having to reject a guy for reasons like him being ugly. They would rather he is doing something extreme so they don’t look bad socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:05 PM
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Could you tell me why you think I am upset? I just wanted to share my thoughts on the subject. Me crossing the street wouldn’t really do much for women that I know well. I want them to feel safer when they are out by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:53 PM
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No, it’s fine that they talk about it. I just worry about how people are internalizing the men are predators thing. It happens to black people where I recall being a child and I would never put my hands in pockets in stores because I just knew they would assume I was stealing because I was black. I’m secure enough and have enough women I speak to about things that I don’t feel attacked or internalize the men are predators stuff but I think about the kids and people who do and I wonder what the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:50 PM
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Yeah it sucks for everyone. I talk to my women friends and they are constantly worried about being kidnapped or assaulted. I never think about that happening to me but I can’t do anything to make them feel safer when they are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:41 PM
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1 creep can harass 10 women in a day and I have to hear about how dangerous I am. I don’t mind hearing it but I know I’m not dangerous to women but I worry about how that affects other men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:24 PM
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This is why me and my kids mom broke up. She was going through heavy Post Partum Depression and was accusing me of terrible things. Cursing me out constantly especially calling me a b*tch and I just had enough of it and divorced her. She didn’t see anything wrong with what she did until a year later. I offered therapy, I offered to have a sit down with both our families. She just kept excusing her actions over and over but when I went to the police she immediately pulled out the Post Partum card…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:11 PM
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All of the women that have gone through my phone I wish I had broken up with at that point in time. I ended up sticking around and enduring abuse and cheating from them. I wish I was like this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:50 PM
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You aren’t demonstrating understanding though. It just likes like you skim and then type a reply with minimal effort and punctuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:33 PM
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It’s because you fail to debate well. You don’t make clear points. You aren’t showing you understand what other people are saying. You don’t even type in full sentences. How are we supposed to understand you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:03 PM
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I’m not sure where you’re coming from tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:12 PM
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You doubt who thinks what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:38 PM
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What does this mean? They spoke to the point very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:34 PM
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The way I have heard it stated by women is “A man, yes. Men, no.” Basically they can find a good person but the group of people is still generally bad.(I would never say this because I would be labelled a misogynist)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:32 PM
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Its more effort than doing nothing which is what being single is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:44 PM
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Being in a relationship is always going to be more effort than being single. Even just remembering important dates is more effort than being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:22 AM
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I have some women friends who have boyfriends that will get completely naked around me and I would not like that if I was their boyfriend. It’s a case by case basis. Some women I dated no they couldn’t have guy friends but other women sure. Some women have that need for male validation and will do things that aren’t acceptable for it. Other women don’t need that kind of reinforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:46 PM
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Being not like the other guys works wonders if you already have charisma. Just talk trash about the guys they already dislike. Talk bad about incels even if you barely care about the topic. Take the woman’s side in meta arguments. Talk about how the woman you are with would never have to worry about buying her own hair and nails. This stuff works wonders for getting you entry or a higher spot on the totem pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:45 PM
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I get nothing out of telling people how women have abused me except negative feedback and a lowered perception of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:40 PM
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Do not get advice from women about how to look appealing to women. Make your own style otherwise you are trying to conform to the standards of a woman who has already rejected you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:39 PM
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Had anal this weekend. Its awesome as hell especially if the woman is into it heavily that might be a small dicked guys best chance at making her orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:52 PM
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This actually makes sense lmao. Lots of women cheated with me and had orgasms but not with their actual man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:54 PM
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They mention Tom Cruise height constantly there and like MF its TOM CRUISE
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:14 PM
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I read that post and just left after shaking my head. They were basically making fun of the guy saying see even this loser got a girl meanwhile he is top 1% fitness in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:03 PM
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It’s not that hard to go from nope to yeah. There was a chick who was not feeling me much at all. We were just friends through others. I managed to meet one of her friends. I had sex with her friend and started to hang around her friend more and eventually she started to be much friendlier to me. One day she propositioned me straight up and I went for it. Turns out she was upset at her friend for one reason or another and wanted to fuck me as some sorta get back. Idk how women work really but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:20 PM
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I never cold approach. Plenty of women online who will tell you they are single and looking. Cuts out the assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:17 AM
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The way my women friends talk about men is immediately height, dick size, money. Then they talk about anything else he may have going on. I don’t know why people try and make this a gendered thing anyone with friends of both genders should know it’s just a people that date people thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:56 PM
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My apologies!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:10 PM
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I don’t view women that way in general. This type of language is just a way to convey dating looks to people I don’t know. I don’t have the time and people don’t really care to know the intimate details. Also if you didn’t notice the Maryland woman is just an example not a real person. Lastly you’re annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:26 PM
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People in the US already do stuff like this. I scooped a 9/10 chick in Nebraska when that same chick in Maryland would have not paid me any mind. America is a large and varied place and you can get your passport bro on here with no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:16 PM
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100% leaving if the woman I marry is not having sex with me that is satisfying. She doesn’t like me enough and I will get insecure fast. My ego needs to be stroked if I am committed to a chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:27 PM
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Exactly. They feel strong lust and try to drive the guy to perform romantic gestures for them regardless of what he actually presents as. I have a female friend doing this right now. She even had a pregnancy scare. Trying to lightly advise her away from him but she is stuck because he is very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:01 PM
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Women really are demisexual if they want more than sex. That is why they try and force the attractive guy they hooked up with to fulfill her emotional needs once she is attracted to him for more than just sex. This happens a lot to chads. A girl hooks up early on and he is showing no relationship signals but she wants him to plan dates, send letters, buy her things, etc. She wants the relationship to be deeper and he didn’t indicate he wants to do any of that. If a woman is demisexual she either…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:53 PM
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I love how none of the women on this subreddit care about height. This place has the least toxic women of any place on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:23 PM
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You shouldn’t listen to dating advice from the opposite gender for the most part. Ask your mom for advice if you think she makes good decisions. Men on the internet don’t know what is actually best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:06 PM
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Wet hair left on the floor/walls is so disgusting to me. I just clean it up immediately and don’t mention it but perhaps I will grab it and dangle it like look what you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:59 PM
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Oh I was not familiar with your game. This is elite level manipulation tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:50 PM
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They aren’t going to change lol. I been down that road they just get mad and then point out any bad thing you have done in the last 4 years because they have incredible memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:46 PM
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I do everything but dust and wash the windows weekly. I never dated a woman that cleaned more than me. My ex was dirty as fuck and still is. Went over her house the other day and the sink was ungodly as well as the bathroom. Bathroom was like a closet for wet clothes lol. Every time I shared bathroom space with women I felt like they were disgusting. I would never complain about this out loud though because I would catch hell for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:35 PM
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I have been friends and dated more than 3 women. My strategy was basically I talked to them about sex when I could and hit on them but in a very non-committal way. They knew I was attracted to them early on but I never made a move until I was certain it would work in my favor. A number of times they made soft inquiries to try to temperature check and I would basically talk about other women I am attracted to and why. When I was sure they liked me enough then I actually went full into trying to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:44 PM
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The most red pilled guys I know irl are guys who learned through experience with women what works and does not work. They aren’t all chads but they all get women with relative ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:14 AM
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Women will fall in love with all types of guys that doesn’t mean they wouldn’t all have sex with the proverbial hunk. Women be married to fat abusive drunks. Then when he gets divirced he somehow gets another woman after.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:56 PM
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I love tight clothes especially leggings they are comfy as heck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:29 AM
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Eager cucks is a perfect description for them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:43 PM
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When I’m in the friendzone I support them as a friend. It’s a betrayal of friendship to let you wanting to bed them affect how you treat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:11 PM
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Flirting is easy once you get good at it. I certainly wouldn’t classify it as putting in work unless you are really out of your league. She also has to flirt back otherwise it falls flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:47 PM
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Dates are not that expensive lol $60 for 2 people usually. I do know some women who like guys to pay because it strokes their ego but they don’t seem to realize the guy paying is doing it because of social norms not because they are so awesome he wants to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:53 PM
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Pathetic women don’t take care of their responsibilities and then blame others for the problems that arise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:08 PM
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Yes many people do not have perfect skin. I happen to be blessed with good skin and I still have blemishes sometimes. Makeup improves my very attractive female friends looks because they are good at applying it. Contouring your face and nose can make a woman look amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:44 PM
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You dudes are tripping if you think dark circles, blemishes, and thinner lips are more attractive. Makeup fixes all of that and more. You guys are actually really tripping.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:18 PM
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I don’t think its hard to get attention from women. They are thirsty for positive attention you just need to time it correctly. Love bombing works so well even on experienced women because women are so used to being adored. Give her an experience she has not had and then restrict access to it and she will very quickly become the chaser. I learned this around 20 years old and it has not failed me yet. You do have to play the game as a man but the game is so easy once you know the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:57 PM
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Not without them acting crazy. Or wanting a relationship or baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:57 PM
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Its the story of the 3 bears. You can’t have too high or too low standards but also don’t be attracted to women that are not attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:56 PM
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I must will myself into having adequate dopamine. The only way I can keep myself happy is by having lots of sex with lots of women and it is tiring doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:58 PM
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I could never be upset about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:21 PM
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Y’all got covid?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:21 PM
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Look at you sharing the video. Ask yourself why you shared it you will get your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:21 PM
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My manic state is wearing off. I wanted to make it last until end of August but the depression is creeping in. Sucks being bipolar but all the medicine makes me wanna kms so bad. I wish I was normal so bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:20 PM
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Personally women crave sex with me. I think guys just need to get their sex skills to a higher level.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:37 PM
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70s ain’t got nothing on this generation. Those women were seen as weirdos by a large amount of the population. Now we have had a sex worker as 1st lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:52 PM
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There are more slutty women now than at any time in history. It is easier to have sex with women than any previous time. The women who don’t want to have sex early get talked bad about by men and other women and called names like pickme. You only need to be in the top 50% as a guy to get access to casual sex. Literally if you work out 2 times a week for a year you are in upper 50% of men after age 25. Its insane how easy it is for men nowadays. I am not even in good shape and women throw themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:15 PM
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People being hangry is a known thing I don’t doubt there is an anger associated with not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:00 AM
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It is so easy to make women orgasm in my opinion. If I make any effort I can get a woman to orgasm pretty much every time. The g spot is right there. The clit is right in the middle too. Just do consistent, rhythmic strokes and you can get her off. Know how to work your angles and you can get double or triple the stimulation per stroke.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:05 PM
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I would wait 6 years if she earns equal to or more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:55 PM
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Caitlin Clark isn’t like by other pro players because she is a notorious flopper her whole college career and has brought it into the WNBA as well. It also doesn’t help that she has a ton of racist fans who are also misogynistic and say terrible things about the WNBA and black women in general. Nobody was getting called a thug regularly until she joined the league.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:58 AM
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Promiscuous woman raising your daughter is a failure for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:25 PM
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Yeah most women looking to date are fat in my area. It is what it is. Even my gym is half fat people haha. At least they are trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:42 PM
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Women are dating down just as much as they date up. Go to the prisonwives sub or the various subs where women talk about getting cheated on. Those guys are out of shape, poor, mean-spirited dudes having their way with women. All it takes to get women is knowing your angle of entry. What makes you interesting? How do you present that in a way that will appeal to women? They are not complicated creatures honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:33 PM
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Yes but I also told her that sometimes its good to let people go through things alone. Staying together hurt both of our progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:29 PM
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Him becoming more attractive to a woman who initially wasn’t attracted to him doesn’t mean he was unattractive to his girlfriend. His girlfriend liked him for one reason or another and decided to date him. Him having a woman that likes him enough to date him sends good signals to other women so he becomes more attractive in their eyes. Attraction does not totally depend on other women finding you attractive but it does increase it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:45 PM
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I already know how it goes for openly nice guys. You are lucky if you find a woman who appreciates it and doesn’t see it as a weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:26 PM
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I don’t know why she stayed. I was useless for like a year and a half. And I left her later because I was tired of dating while depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:01 PM
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Yeah you can use cheating to make a woman more attracted but that is some advanced levels of manipulation and is not good for an actual loving relationship. She will just be in relationship survival mode constantly and go crazy sooner than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:34 PM
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Yeah tell a story about a woman that is obviously into him but play it like he is oblivious to the fact. Or better yet actually work out and do things she finds attractive but thats too much work for many guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:32 PM
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An initially unattractive guy getting a girlfriend makes him more attractive than not having a girlfriend. The interest of the other woman drives the attraction increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:22 PM
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Yeah full on cheating is likely to upset her. Just being attractive to other women that she respects or admires will do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:21 PM
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Yep I have dogged women out completely while being in a huge manic-depressive episode and they still stayed despite me having zero interest in being good to anyone including myself. I would have left me after the first time I said I was too depressed to celebrate her birthday. We weren’t even together for 6 months. I was fat as hell too at the time lol. I never even asked her to stay with me she just wanted to put up with it. Women are not self serving enough in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:17 PM
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A man having other women interested in him does make women more attracted to him. It feeds into hypergamy and I have seen it stated by my women friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:12 PM
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I like to date foreign women but the ones who actually immigrate to America. They are very different from women born and raised here and importantly their families are different as well. They have certain values and respect towards men that honestly feels really nice when dating. I have dated women from Sudan, Dominican Republic (kinda counts), Japan, Thailand, Belize, South Africa, and probably more but I don’t recall. America is just not a really good place to date. The gender wars infect peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:41 AM
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Because that is what I mentioned in the comment you replied to. But yeah there are plenty of women absolutely stuck on a guy who works at Mcdonalds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:06 AM
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Why do you assume some unemployed guy looks good? Does this truly make sense to you? And how is a prisoner cool? Women fall in love with men who are not cool all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:31 AM
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I live on East Coast United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:45 PM
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These men are not model tier unemployed losers. They look like unemployed losers. Thats my whole point they will date men with terrible EVERYTHING. Their standards are in the dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:15 PM
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Why does a reddit user not being able to get a gf prove women’s standards are not low. Just look at the stuff they deal with from men they date. Women date unemployed dudes and men in literal prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:07 PM
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Daily posts by losers who cry about women not wanting them on reddit? Yeah I include them with the bums.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:42 PM
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Single men are competing against bums who don’t even shower everyday. The standards for men are low and most women will accept any guy who doesn’t smell too bad and is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:19 PM
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Must have dated me in the past because I am so guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:47 PM
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Why does the man who wants a thin woman needing to be thin. I was just trying to dig into why you said that when a woman wanting a thin man doesn’t need to be. I know the reality is that fat women can get thin men for free but there is also the reality that fat men can get thin women by having money. I see that out in life as well but it seems to not be counted on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:46 PM
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Man who wants thin woman should be thin. Woman who wants thin man can be fat. This makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:51 AM
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Even when I say I prefer fat women I get negative feedback. I think women don’t want to hear it from men no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:41 AM
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Saw a post today where Kylie Jenner was talking about her body image issues and grown women were blaming Kylie for how negative they feel about their own bodies. All Kylie did was try to appease the public and they still blame her for them feeling ugly. Kylie was called the ugly sister over and over again. Of course she got surgery after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:40 PM
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Yeah having a woman who is fully in love vs a woman who likes you as long as you do the things she wants is like night and day. Too bad the lovey women lean towards crazy so heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:26 AM
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Can’t believe people take this seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:32 PM
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Why do you think she behaved that way towards you? It’s such a strange thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:57 PM
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I was an orbiter of sorts. My women friends would try and keep me from meeting women I actually liked. I didn’t catch on until one of the girls met them and told me that they seem to be sabotaging me. I did do lots of things for them because I was single and the only guy but it slowed down dramatically once I found a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:51 PM
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I don’t think men appreciate the patriarchy as much as they should. You guys complain and it could be much worse. You could be a woman in a patriarchal society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:42 PM
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Yeah I have been part of friend groups where 2 women wanted to date me and the nasty things they said and did to each other was crazy. It made me respect them both a lot less as people. I had no idea that they could be so nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:23 PM
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I wonder how women would rule households? There would have to be something akin to racism in place to prevent the men from revolting and taking control. I often think if women were naturally bigger and stronger they would rule the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:30 PM
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I feel like you can have morals but some are closer to your heart than others. I think being a good person is the right thing to do but I also think you can be a good person and do some bad things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:07 PM
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They start to compare themselves to the influencers and they know they could never provide that sort of lifestyle to a mate so it is upsetting to see a really good woman advertised. If the woman was just being sexual for male attention they can just slut shame her and move on but she is just being a good loving person so there isn’t anything to shame. I think being jealous of influencers shows a weak mental state though and stable minded adults should not be falling for the whole fake social med…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:40 PM
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I think women really just like men of means more. I got attention when I was broke but when women realize you make double or triple their income they just get wet at the thought of access to that lifestyle. You don’t have to pay them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:15 PM
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No I think its immoral but I did it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:08 AM
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No 2 people have the same morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:24 PM
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Each person’s morals are their own. I know I am willing to do things others would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:29 PM
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I did stuff like this during covid via Tinder. Made a pretty good buck with like 3 hours of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:12 PM
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Sounds like we are both in danger if I join the situation. I’d rather not have to get physical with a stranger I could end up killing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:03 PM
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Do good samaritan laws make it so you have to physically intervene? I will call the police but I don’t wanna get beat up or beat anyone up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:15 PM
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They are just talking smack on the internet. They wouldn’t choose the bear in real life. Lets use some logic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:55 PM
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I will help with things like heavy stuff but domestic violence situations I just call the police and alert other people to it. Not gonna catch an assault charge for strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:38 PM
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Dudes would rather spend $2000 on a course to “learn” how to get women than pay $200 and buy some affection. Couldn’t be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:12 PM
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I think age gap relationships are really not that bad in most cases. There are plenty of cases where a person is groomed by some older person and then they “start dating” right when they are of legal age. At age 18 you have responsibilities and joining the military at that age can set you really well in life. I joined at 18 and it helped me escape pretty much surefire life of poverty. Sex Work at 18 is another one. Sure there may be pitfalls that come with it but I know at least 3 women who star…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:38 PM
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I often fail the knowing how to dress thing and I get it. I look terrible unless my gf tells me what to wear and helps me pick it out in store.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:56 PM
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This is a really good breakdown/ behavioral examination. I hadn’t thought of it from that angle though I did come to a similar conclusion about pot smoking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:32 PM
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Modern women are pretty easy compared to any other time. You just have to know how to work what you have in order to get the casual sex. They aren’t gonna wanna have sex with some strange guy with no appealing features
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:36 PM
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Yes women will sleep with some guys faster because they are more attracted to them. I have seen this time and again. Also women keep saying there are different standards for casual sex vs relationship. The truth is they would like to date the guy they sleep with fast but there are factors that make that hard. He may not commit to women easily as he is getting lots of casual sex. Or he has higher relationship standards than she meets. Either way I think its wild that the women here won’t just be …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:05 PM
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I love these memes because they do demonstrate a feeling many men have had. Sexual desire with a woman they would never date. I think it is a tough concept for women to understand but they don’t get as much pleasure from sex with a person they wouldn’t date as a man does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:12 PM
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I would tell my ex gf to masturbate sometimes when I wasn’t in the mood (usually because she had done something wrong and not apologized) and she would get mad lol. She wanted to intimacy more than the orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:29 PM
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I’ll take the woman. Part of the allure of expressing your feelings is getting feedback on the things you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:53 AM
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This is called the female social matrix. It upholds the appearance if women as good people in general however the same behavior that is defended is used to attack women who are disliked. Example: A woman goes out with friends and she flirts with a bunch of guys and makes out with 2 guys that night and gets their number. Just a fun girls night out right? Not that simple. She will become a whore if another woman happens to have an issue with her. It is pretty funny to observe in my friend group. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:19 PM
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I would rather have a bangsponsor than a maid. You don’t need to clean a thing baby just give me money often.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:23 PM
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You can have sex with less attractive women with less effort. More effort is required for more attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:20 PM
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The more time people spend online (social media specifically) the worse they are off mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:07 PM
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I think women feel the need to stick up for other women even if they are bad. I have seen women that hate cheaters defend a woman who cheated on a man. It’s a stark contrast to how they treat male cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:29 PM
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Morgpie could get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:53 PM
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Thank you! Hoping it can be often but not too often because who has the energy to do that constantly? Not me!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:13 PM
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I have been accused of “stringing women along” when I made it plainly obvious that I will not be in a committed relationship with them. Women will come into my life and see I have a literal harem of women I have sex with then try to ask why I won’t commit solely to them. Some women have even goes as far as saying they are into polygamy to try and get a relationship title from me. I don’t get why they would want to try and lock down a guy like me. They say terrible things about how I treat women …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:08 PM
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OF models have money but their status is often low because being a sex worker is seen as something embarrassing alot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:24 PM
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3rd update on me escaping the friendzone. We had a threesome at a hotel Tuesday night and I had to call off wednesday because we were all up until 2 am. We went back to my place which was not far from the hotel at all maybe 2 miles away. Both of the girls napped while I watched some live action avatar and played ps5 when they woke up we had more group sex and then I took a nap. Then we parted ways after lots of hugs. All around 10/10 experience. Didn’t expect everything to work out so well witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:20 PM
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This will be really good in between girlfriends to keep my game from getting rusty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:15 PM
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There are only catfish accounts and really ugly or crazy chicks mostly. Everyone else gets scared off dating apps by the terrible men that lurk on there. I got lucky a few times on apps like Tinder but one of the women I met had literally been sexually assaulted on a movie date with a guy from there a week before and was gonna delete the app later that day but I happened to message her. She was awesome but that goes to show the stuff that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:56 PM
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Women are pretty easy to defeat in combat. Men are really hard to defeat in combat for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:17 PM
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I like pick mes who try to appease to what they believe I like. Its a nice gesture when wanting to get to know someone. I do stuff like watch tv shows I would rather not or do sexual things that are requested because I am interested in that person liking me. Not a bad thing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:21 PM
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I was always scared when my girl would go to the club but I also disliked going myself. One of the times I went with her some guy was intentionally bumping into me because I was with a group of women and he liked one I guess? Half the night I was thinking of having to defend myself or the women from this guy and it was hard to focus on fun. Too many drunk weirdos at the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:17 PM
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Of course women should be afraid of men. I could easily defeat 5-6 women my age and weight all by myself. A lone woman vs me? Not even a slight challenge. She definitely has a better chance with the bear if I desired to hurt her at all. It’s simple logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:10 PM
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I like women that are humble towards their partners because I am humble as well in relationships. I always treat my relationship like I am trying to make her fall in love with me. I dislike when you show a woman you like her then she drops the facade and starts to treat you worse than before. Self esteem is important because another thing I dislike is having to constantly reassure a woman I actually like her. Like I was talking to a chick and when the call would drop she would say “oh you really…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:31 PM
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By us do you mean non-desirable men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:04 AM
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They don’t have terribly high self esteem either tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:30 PM
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“If you happened to encounter me in a forest would you be more afraid of me or a bear?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:04 PM
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The women I know that are escorts think men who use escorts are losers lol. I have done video shoots with onlyfans girls who escort and I pay them for their time to shoot the film which is somehow different than just paying for sex in the mind of the law and of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:02 PM
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Why wouldn’t they just have sex with hotter men that want to have sex with them instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:05 AM
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Not looking for anyone right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:15 AM
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Not hard to be chosen over peace by a woman who is single. Unless you’re unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:02 PM
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The standards will lower when there are more women in the pool than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:54 PM
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I have been a 6 figure earner since I was 24. I am also 6’1 and I have a large penis. I welcome incels bowing out of dating and leaving the women to us select men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:31 PM
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Thats better for me. More women less competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:32 PM
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No matter how horny women are they aren’t gonna wanna have sex with smelly losers when they can have sex with attractive men with little effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:49 PM
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It really depends. Personally I usually believe women who come forward but I have seen it play out many different ways on social media. If she is not a minority and the guy is - Yes Minority woman non minority man - No Creepy guy - yes Religious leader guy - no Rich guy - likely no Woman is disliked widely for something - no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:10 AM
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Nice girls finish last when they are chasing men who are players. They end up expending effort that other girls wouldn’t just to get played anyway. Niceness is rewarded by men who care about relationships. Not the same for guys though. Women are really really forgiving of transgressions when they like you so you can be mean and it won’t ruin the relationship with most women. Women generally don’t have very good boundaries when they like a guy and it can get pretty messy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:43 PM
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Terrible title OP. “a date” makes it seem like that amount was spent on a single date. You should use the plural form of the word date so it is known it is across multiple dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:04 PM
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Restraining a woman who attacked me got me arrested. I’d rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:58 PM
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Once it gets physical its a criminal matter. It will probably escalate without intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:46 AM
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I called the police on my ex for hitting me and breaking my glasses and they arrested me lmao. I was like this is ridiculous she came to my house I showed them the death threat text and voice messages. They just shrugged and arrested me. I had just finished the interview process for a new job and I almost got declined because of the arrest. Next time I won’t be calling the police and I will just take my chances fighting back. It will be worse for me but at least I’ll only be a victim once.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:01 PM
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Have you reported these abusive women to the police?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:56 PM
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You gotta stop thinking from a onenitis perspective. It’s just low effort sex not waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:55 PM
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Women know that a man who lots of women want to sleep with is desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:39 PM
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One of my women friends finally broke up with their partner and when I talked to her she said “I’m so glad I can be a hoe again. When can I come over?” This is the power of the friend zone that a lot of guys don’t get. If you can be friends with a woman and keep the sexual window open you can really get sex with low effort if you are patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:29 PM
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I believe a lot of the time people don’t talk about whether they want a relationship before sex. Most times I have sex with a woman the first time we have talked about light hearted things like mutual interests but not really “I think I want to date and marry”. That happens afterwards for me usually. I do get offended when women say I pump and dumped them or I was dishonest because I don’t want the same thing as them. Then they push and push for a “reason” why I don’t want it which is really ann…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:12 PM
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Yeah I think women have lots of problems that men do not have. Like having to worry about being killed on a first date. I never worried about being killed by a woman even when one was threatening to do it I just laughed it off. Women also get sexually harassed so much and again the person hitting on them could easily hurt or kill them. I also think some problems women have are caused by corporations such as beauty standards and some are caused by other women such as competing with their daughter…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:19 PM
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Idk cause I date fat chicks sometimes and I know my friends aren’t attracted to them but doesn’t matter at all to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:10 PM
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Personality yes but not thinking they are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:11 AM
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Any woman a man has sex with has a high potential to commit to him. It’s different for women unfortunately so even if they are having passionate sex with a guy he may want nothing else at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:10 AM
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When someone is good friends with a person and offers info people tend to believe the info. I didn’t enjoy having 20+ people that I know asking me if I’m secretly gay lol. You seem to be ignoring how rumors work. It’s like talking to someone not from planet earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:24 PM
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Yeah I don’t know why you brought up rape at all actually. Why did you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:52 PM
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I love FWB relationships only problem is the women catching feelings for me. If that never happened (or they just didn’t let it be known) I would have those exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:12 PM
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Yeah people aren’t asking for proof someone is gay lol. And people aren’t going to defend you against a person with much more social clout than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:03 PM
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Since when do people ask for proof about these things? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:13 AM
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One of my friends wanted me to have sex with her for onlyfans and I turned her down then she got on IG live and said I was gay and she has like 40k followers. I had so many people messaging me about it. It sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:48 AM
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I wasn’t even seeking full custody just 50/50 and they gave me a really hard time. Meanwhile the mom was given the benefit of the doubt over and over. Even missed a whole court date and they rescheduled on her behalf which is crazy lol. But whatever things are fine now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:31 AM
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I had an abundance of women in my 20s which contributed to me not settling down. Like it wasn’t the ONLY reason but yeah why would I get a girlfriend when I will just want to try the 4 other girls that are interested in me too? Then I tried to do a poly relationship but none of my girlfriends actually wanted to have sex with other people so I felt guilty. Then I just stopped dating after I had a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:40 PM
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This is just a negative stereotype about dads. Unfortunate it is so prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:28 PM
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Honestly custody court was noticeably harsh towards me. I know they see tons of deadbeat dads but they treated me like trash and my kids mom like a saint. I was so dumbfounded at them being upset that I came to offer additional evidence to the court. I also heard the same from 2 other guys who have full custody of their children. They just treat you really bad as a father at the family court but if you make an effort you can get past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:25 PM
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I didn’t get to live my stay at home dad dream but I do get to do most of the things that involve training like potty training and walking I did those 90% by myself because mom didn’t have the same drive I have for it. It is really really rewarding being a good dad but also super hard to work full time and do it. Thankfully there is a really nice daycare across the street from my job so that helps. I often say to my childs mother that I wish I coulda got pregnant instead. I want those pregnancy …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:21 PM
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I’m crying hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:19 PM
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Sounds stupid and a good way to end up married to a chick with mental issues but without the great sex that comes along with chicks with mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:38 AM
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Collapsed doggy and missionary with 2 legs up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:35 PM
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Go to the subreddit theotherwoman. You will see how many women are dating cheaters and completely fine with it and how they get dumped at the first sign of the wife finding out. They all share their stories and it is a very good window into these thought processes. They would legit rather be with a man who is cheating than a man who doesn’t fit their preferences. Knowing these things inspired me to get in better shape and have better finances because no matter what women are gonna prefer these t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:50 PM
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I agree. My uncle is 40 and looks 70.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:55 PM
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No problem with 20 year old women wanting to suck on wrinkly old men. I will however laugh at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:36 PM
3

It would be pretty useful in arguments. I happen to have a 125 IQ by the way as well as being 6’1. What I would like is some way to openly show that I have a really big penis without seeming like a pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:00 PM
1

Black people hoodoo/voodoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:02 PM
2

It gives it a little twang.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:44 PM
1

When you find out a woman likes you and you make her chase you a little I find that it makes her more attracted to you. Just don’t overdo it one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:43 PM
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In my community people use spaghetti as a food to make people fall in love by putting a bit of blood in it so I do not eat spaghetti from hookups. I wonder if she got the same vibes lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:23 AM
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Yeah validation and attention are a big part of it. Men know that women don’t just have sex with any guy so it is validating to get sex for free from a woman (most of the time).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:22 PM
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When people can point to a bad person in a scenario they will. The bad guy would be an old guy dating an 18 year old. You can’t call the 18 year old OF model bad because slut shaming is discouraged. You can however shame men for being perverts based on age gap with little recourse. Even if that older man is in love with the younger woman he is a pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:04 PM
1

Dudes that need to ask for subservient women don’t deserve to have a subservient woman. It should be a natural thing in your relationship and she shouldn’t have to consciously turn it on. That is extra work a woman shouldn’t have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:17 AM
3

Whats up with these dudes lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:59 PM
1

I have heard that you look tired thing from women before. It’s crazy how they have to look perfect or people assume things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:14 PM
2

That was my experience. I started out angry but went to timid after I kept having to fight all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:58 PM
4

Yeah we are allowed to wear hoodies and stuff when this place before pandemic used to have to be business casual. Its nice to be able to dress down which I do on Fridays.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:54 PM
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People that look better are treated better. Its the only reason I show up to work looking nice. The other IT guys dress like loser nerds I dress like I am a lawyer. I get treated way better by everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:14 PM
1

People can lie about being mixed or not. My ex is dating a guy who said he was fully black but he is half black and 1/4 Indian and 1/4 White.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:59 PM
6

So that I can have a relationship where I don’t have to hide anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:22 PM
5

Stop lying to people you want to date. Just tell them your real history if it comes up. I don’t lie and tell people I am a different race so they will be more receptive of me. Same thing with n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:47 AM
1

A car that is all crashed up and smells like piss and cigs is not valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:16 AM
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I don’t get how a woman’s value ties to getting commitment from a man. A man could marry a woman and treat her like garbage. Thats not a valuable thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:35 PM
1

Because they are more promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:32 PM
3

I love autistic women. I am autistic myself and me and autistic women always make great friends. I had an autistic gf in middle school I didn’t know I was autistic as well at that time but she was diagnosed. We hung out constantly everyday but unfortunately she passed away suddenly and I never dated again until my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:04 AM
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I always try to dump first. It’s better to leave when convenient for you instead of them leave when its convenient for them. People will legit hate you and still be with you getting you to spend money and stuff on them. No thanks lets get past this so I can use my time and money on useful things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:48 AM
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Then why did you reply to a comment about normal sociable people?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:26 AM
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If that is the only place you meet and speak to people you aren’t very sociable tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:06 AM
1

They’re about to gaslight you OP lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:34 PM
1

My preference is for bisexual women. I get along with them better than straight women in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:09 AM
2

The people on this sub really take podcasts as real world examples. They are idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:22 AM
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Find the weak point in their argument and elaborate on it being a weakpoint by using different vernacular repeatedly. Once you put the focus on that weak point continue to pile further points on and avoid saying anything that can be used to shift the moral highground from your favor. Don’t belittle or personally attack just utilize the points you win on inside the argument and try to remain inside that box. This all takes practice and luckily I grew up in a bad neighborhood with 4 brothers and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:24 PM
3

Yeah its way more likely for lonely men to get casual sex if every woman is open to casual sex than if only a tiny fraction are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:52 PM
1

Yes. Every chick I know that did porn and is in a relationship is an awesome partner. Plus they have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:44 PM
1

If I had this I would marry the wealthiest woman I could manage that is also bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:54 PM
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If you let women lynch you then you aren’t much of a man at all. You’re stronger than them use the strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:39 PM
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Yeah I was gonna say in my previous post that I did not talk to women at all until I was 20 and when I tell the women I date this they don’t believe me at all. They can only go by what they know. I was just assuming the situation OP posed was the woman definitely knows the guy has never had a romantic partner and he is outside of his very early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:48 PM
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Yeah. It doesn’t even take much time or effort to change either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:53 PM
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Yeah that guys undesirable traits likely outweigh the desirable ones which is why he never had a girlfriend. Women trust other women’s judgement and if he has encountered a significant amount and never had a gf something must be off with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:34 PM
3

The man who pays money will get the girl if all other things are even.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:18 PM
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Men that haven’t had a girlfriend by a certain age usually have some undesirable traits
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:03 PM
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That would be my preference. I always run into women who are freaky on the outside but once in a relationship they are more mild.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:13 PM
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Offer to pay them. Easiest way honestly and you may be surprised at the low cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:39 PM
2

I have been all 3 parties many times haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:56 AM
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I don’t think they are 100% secure before. Lots of times someone will leave one partner for another and then be single within a month. Her actually wanting full relationship may not be ideal for their dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:56 PM
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You branch swing after a couple different events. Get caught talking to or having sex with the 2nd guy and then leave for him. The 2nd guy is now available either they broke up or got left by their ltr or they moved locations. The 1st guy falls on hard times emotionally or financially. The 1st guy breaks up with her due to lack of intimacy or whatever because she treats him differently now. She just doesn’t like the 1st guy anymore and leaves for the 2nd guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:43 PM
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They’re gonna lie OP. All signs point to it being a big negative in the dating market. Just found this scrolling twitter: https://x.com/prettiiimya/status/1762986405297348844?s=46
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:19 PM
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You’re a woman not a man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:08 PM
3

Well you talk and then meet them in real life within a month. Are you guys getting catfished in 2024?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:55 PM
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Inexperienced 30+ year old men? Idk thats pretty low.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:46 PM
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There is no way for them to settle. They are the very bottom tier of men. Anyone they date is dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:41 PM
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It isn’t at all. I don’t get why chronically online individuals would want to go offline trying to date when there are infinite women on social media to talk to. You don’t have to hit up girls that have 5k+ followers. Find a girl you like with a similar social media presence. Find 10 you like with a similar social media presence. It’s not hard at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:34 PM
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The way I do it is I follow a woman I am attracted to, interact with her publicly, identify what she would be interested in talking with me about, message her with the talking point, flirt casually, show genuine interest. Following these steps has me at above a 50% success rate of getting mutual interest. Just takes a bit of effort and I find it much easier than trying to pick up women off first impressions. Also you can literally copy/paste messages. It couldn’t be easier lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:31 PM
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Bro wants everyone to be happy for him talking to girls who don’t want to be talked to. You gotta encourage yourself because that is not the job of other people. Also why don’t you guys use social media to date like everyone else. You can send all the dms you want with zero shame and you get to only show the good parts and she can’t tell how short you are. I never approach women in real life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:12 AM
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Not anymore. Been there. Didn’t like it. Made me think less of her because I felt like I was an adult and she wasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:47 PM
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I keep telling guys if a woman is settling for you then you are dating up. You’re winning dude. You coulda been stuck with a looksmatch 3 but you have a 7 you otherwise would never have a chance with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:56 PM
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They need to be aborting the kid imo because those type of guys don’t even want to be in a family type of situation. Lots of times women apply their morals to men like that. “Surely he will step up and stop being such a player once I am pregnant with his child” and it just doesn’t happen. We should also require male birth control after the first child out of wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:04 PM
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Hypergamy in regards to money just makes sense however oftentimes hypergamy results in some guy who has a whole roster of women because the same few traits are desired for a partner. That guy then ends up not wanting to settle down and creates several baby mommas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:08 PM
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The bar really is on the floor. Women in general are not picky once you can get past a certain barrier. They will accept completely shitty behavior from men they have attraction to. The problem nice guys have is that first bit of attraction. That is where men need to employ some type of strategy and then you can basically do whatever with little consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:18 PM
2

The only women who like assholes are dysfunctional? I hadn’t thought of it like this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:48 PM
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If you have a lack of results and then become a worse person and have better results what does that mean? Is it luck?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:06 AM
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Nice guys will always finish last until some kind of major shift happens. Being nice will keep a woman around but it will take you much longer to get her interested if being nice is your stand out trait instead of being known as a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:06 AM
2

They get no resistance from the people that are protecting women from older men. It’s like nightclub security frisking only the people that don’t have weapons lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:41 AM
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Will was right to slap Chris for continuously antagonizing his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:14 PM
2

The men who get the most flak for wanting to date younger women are the men who actually don’t do it. The men who date younger women have the necessary charisma or money that makes them attractive to women. People would rather yell at incels who don’t even touch women in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:16 PM
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Means I’m not attractive enough or she doesn’t know me well enough. The hookups never really stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:47 PM
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Being wealthier than a woman does make her more attracted to you from what I have experienced. Women I dated liked that I could just buy them whatever they asked for and they bragged about it. It gets unfun once she has no drive or ambition to earn on her own though or at least contribute positively towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:41 PM
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They do they just say you can work around being short which is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:51 PM
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Height helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:42 PM
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Yeah I will sit at home wash my face put on a face masque. Clean my nails and brush my hair and put on a durag. Then I sit in my robe and it is honestly really nice to feel all pampered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:38 PM
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Dark triad works time after time. The hot and cold thing is really effective at forging an attraction that would otherwise burn out quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:08 PM
2

She wanted to quit her job because it sucked and still live at my place. I don’t think she considered how much I would dislike that. I truly believe she would have done the same for me if it was reversed in her defense but I am not into that before being engaged. A nice career is something that you can enjoy long term and isn’t talked about as a joke like fast food or being a janitor. Pay should be above $42 an hour for my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:02 PM
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I remember dating a woman who barely made any money at her job. I figured I could train her to do IT since she expressed interest in it before and I was a trainer at my job. Nope. She was super lazy and wouldn’t apply herself at all. Since then I only date women who have a nice career and a good income. The wealthier women ofter have better disposition and looks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:56 PM
3

That is so cool of you getting over your prejudice actually! That is very hard to do for lots of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:03 AM
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When did I say that? If they aren’t disgusted then they aren’t but I know that many women are. I’d even say most.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:41 PM
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Gonna report you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:05 PM
11

You not believing doesn’t mean it’s not true but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:05 PM
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I know lots of bisexual women. Most of them are pretty disgusted by bisexual men sexually. They wouldn’t say it in public company though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:28 PM
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Women would still not want bisexual men. That is one of the number 1 icks that women have (even if they don’t list it in their ick lists).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:17 PM
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So because she is feminist and has a female audience she is speaking about all men instead of the specific man she was intimate with? I gotta say that doesn’t make alot of sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:04 PM
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Why do you think she is talking about all men instead of a single man she has an intimate relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:59 PM
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Misogyny is still too high for casual sex to break through to the lower tier of men. Casual sex is more common than a decade ago and as it becomes more common lower tier guys can get some instead of just Chad having a big harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:57 PM
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This is why men should support sex positive feminism. That is the inly way ugly dudes will get casual sex. When women aren’t ashamed of being called a hoe then they can happily have sex with ugly dudes without worry. They are creating their own problem by being upset women have sex. I actively encourage all the women I am not related to to have lots of casual sex. I tell them to use protection but have fun and do what feels good. Lots of times I get to have sex with those women later. Meanwhile …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:03 PM
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Honestly I think you’re right. It’s much easier to talk to anyone when you think of them as lessers. Look how confident a cop is talking to a regular citizen vs a lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:26 PM
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Most men with fetishes would absolutely fuck someone who doesn’t appeal to the fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:46 PM
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Low inhibition and good at oral. Or so I heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:45 PM
0

That is because they are being compared to women who wear makeup. Spend a significant amount of time around women without makeup and you will see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:29 PM
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This sounds super bisexual to me. Women can go out without makeup and look great they just have higher beauty standards than men do so by comparison to makeup wearing women they look worse on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:24 PM
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A woman who doesn’t like her guy watching porn is not going to have a good relationship with a guy that watches porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:21 PM
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The higher my body count gets as a man the more women want me. In my sluttiest era so many women were trying to lock me down. I think it’s a control thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:12 PM
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What I meant was its not going to trend away. It’s here to stay now that they have had a taste of tallness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:13 PM
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Nope. Every woman who I got with before I started on my fuck boy journey hurt me. After I became a fuck boy women treated me better. First woman I dated was a single mom and she dumped me in the middle of the night to go to some dude who she was trying to make jealous by dating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:25 PM
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Vince and Danny are guilty. The black guy is not. See a pattern OP? Accusing black men is socially acceptable. Rich white men get away with many things for many years. Brian Banks was ruined early in life with a false accusation while Vince the creep got to grow rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:19 PM
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Lil bro thinks liking tall men is a trend 😂. This is such a massive cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:34 PM
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Height.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:21 PM
1

Casual sex is fun when it is easy. Low effort, good sexual encounters are awesome. When a woman is wanting me to jump through several hoops before sex I am not even wanting to enter into a casual sexual relationship with her because she either doesn’t like me that much or wants more than just sex. Also I wouldn’t want to just smash some chick I barely know. I want to know a fair bit about her but not be dating her. That is the ideal ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:17 PM
0

Do not approach women in real life doing this. Do it over instagram and twitter. I have recruited many non-sex worker women to shoot onlyfans videos with me. It does work because we live in a capitalist society and people are suffering under inflation. This is not a popular thing to do though and if you aren’t good at not putting your foot in your mouth you will look like a huge creep. You have to know who to ask. I once got this chick who is a pretty popular music producer to have sex for money…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:09 PM
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I had casual sexual relationships with them that doesn’t make them a doormat if they are enjoying a sexual relationship with me as well. Are women who like sex doormats? Are women who have sex with men who don’t get married to them doormats?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:33 PM
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They aren’t a doormat just because they focus on the good parts. I also focus on the good parts of people I’m interested in. I also leave when I’m not getting what I want. That is how things should be I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:42 PM
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Its not shallow to be attracted to an attractive woman enough to want to date her. If she had to be attractive + tall + wealthy + cook like Gordan Ramsey then that is shallow. Having 1 criteria be enough and accepting what comes with it is the opposite of shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:35 PM
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I can just think of the qualities I desire in a wife and match those up to the qualities delusional women posses. Not everyone has the same definition of a good wife but for me a woman head over heels for me and that focuses on the good in me despite the bad is great to have as a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:33 PM
1

Delusional women make great wives believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:26 PM
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A woman being put in the sex zone has more to do with me than it does her. I have put women that would have made great wives in the sex zone because I knew I could always get more with little effort and I would feel bad cheating on someone I committed to. So I just sex zone and stop the sex when they are tired of being strung along.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:25 PM
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I always laugh when I see people say “what does that old man see in that young girl”. She is attractive. Thats all she needs for him to be interested in dating her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:12 PM
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Men don’t have the same social consequences like being slut shamed for wanting to have sex with someone they don’t take seriously for a relationship. I’m sure dudes lie however. Lying is just too useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:13 PM
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I get exactly what you are saying now! Yeah you should ask about the children thing and so should men. Even though you may receive a lie asking is better than not asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:11 PM
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I really don’t care if a woman is fucking other dudes until I ask her to be my girlfriend exclusively because I am probably doing the same thing lol. The questions I ask are ones that are relevant and that I anticipate a truthful answer to. As far as having sex at a certain point I treat every relationship differently. Some women are fun enough to talk to or hang with without sex and others I wouldn’t spend time with without sex being on the agenda. My favorite ex we dated for 2 months before I …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:05 PM
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Specifically women are socialized to not be truthful about sexual partners in America. I feel fine asking a woman her zodiac sign or her favorite football team. Sexual history is not something I would ask a woman I am not very familiar with already.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:47 PM
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Asking her if she is having sex with another guy is a good way to get lied to. You’ll never really be sure she isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:27 PM
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I hate how blatant people are in my office. They spend half the day tickling each other (literally!), going on lunch dates, and just generally flirting. You both have a spouse + kids. When my supervisors wife would come in the women in the office couldn’t look her in the eyes. Even so I would love to have a wife and have her not work. Not because of cheating culture but because I think that is a really nice gift to be able to give someone I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:47 PM
1

This is why being friends with women is the perfect window into casual flings. If you are always around you will be there when she is horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:20 PM
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They like being approached in my experience. You just have to do it correctly and not seem like the equivalent of a homeless person begging for money. Make the interaction worth her time and lead it into something that is enjoyable instead of demanding attention/contact info.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:39 PM
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No men shouldn’t be allowed to cheat. You don’t beed to lie or break vows. Just tell her what you want to do and she will say yes or no. Act according to the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:35 PM
2

These generalizations are getting out of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:55 PM
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So if I finger your butt while you sleep without using force or fear that isn’t rape? How about if we are making out then I pull my dick out and cum on your chest right in the middle of us kissing? Rape isn’t as simple as you may think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:43 PM
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You have to establish bad behavior early and then peel it back to make her feel better about your behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:32 PM
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They didn’t consent to the acts in the first place. The remorse is very immediate if the guy stopped and asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:19 AM
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They don’t understand consent. Lots of rape happens when a woman thought positively about the sexual situation actually. 2 horny people but maybe she doesn’t want your dick in her but you do. So you push the boundary and end up raping her. I heard this from a friend in middle school. A guy licked her cooch and she didn’t wanna go that far just hands only.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:46 AM
2

Women use toys to jack off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:05 AM
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Yes this would let me do things like line up the next woman when the relationship is ending. Not buy a vacation that we may be broken up when it comes due. Be able to plan big surprises for her in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:54 AM
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I’ve been doing therapy for over 10 years. I’m really okay with my current state the only thing that would really change it is medication but I don’t wanna be drugged just so I can date like a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:47 PM
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Crazy women have GREAT sex. I am not sure what makes it so but man. It is so freaking good and frequent as well. All my best sexual partners have been BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:49 PM
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They like to have sex with men who are good at sex (like me) they would rather not have sex with the type of guys on this sub who don’t even want to do oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:43 PM
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Women become emotionally attached pretty easily. As long as a guy is able to initiate some type of mutual attraction he can easily turn that into a relationship if he pleases. Mutual attraction comes from making her feel good which you can do with simple thoughtful gestures. Women do not operate this logically in any other situation so idk why you guys think they hold their relationships to a standard that can even be quantified lol. Their friendships begin and end on a whim but you think they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:44 PM
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I would sell my penis for money easily. Hetero sex is enjoyable. No I wouldn’t do gay sex and no I wouldn’t do a bunch of jobs that I technically could. Having sex with women for money though? Hell yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:21 AM
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Go look at the people who have girlfriends on facebook. Fat out of shape guys. Balding. Dudes that can’t keep a job. All types of losers with girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:17 AM
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Women’s standards are not high at all. Do you guys really not see that women regularly date and even chase losers? Barely literate dudes are impregnating 20 year old 9/10 women. All you have to do is be better than them and that isn’t hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:18 AM
1

I’ve been sexually abused as a child and adult. Doesn’t seem like it will ever get fixed completely. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:02 AM
1

I remember I went out to Korean BBQ with my friend who was visiting and she brought a friend along with her. She tried to flirt with me to get me to pay her portion along with my friend. I really wouldn’t mind paying the $17 but for her to try and dangle herself like a carrot was really off putting. Maybe if she were a little more subtle or flirted better but it was too obvious and it felt too good to say no to her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:51 PM
2

Yeah my madonna-whore complex is really, really bad. Once a woman is genuinely interested in me outside of sex I lose attraction to her. Which causes issues in my relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:33 PM
5

Women like to imagine that the terrible men are the men they don’t have sex with when in my experience the shittiest dudes have a chick at home he can smack around who keeps coming back to him. Incels are harmless in comparison to the abusive men who hit and kill their partners. Incels are just a scapegoat for the actual men who harm women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:28 PM
3

Having sex with virgins is scary if you aren’t trying to marry her. They did you a solid I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:08 PM
5

When I find out a woman has had lots of partners before me I feel better about us using each other for sex. If I am like the 2nd or 3rd guy she has ever been with then I would rather not have a casual sexual relationship because they will get really attached and clingy. Consequently guys who are looking for a woman to date and marry want a woman who will become more attached after sex and not less so they would seek out women with lower numbers of partners. Just makes sense to me and women who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:48 PM
1

There is this very attractive successful woman I dated for about 4 months. I was in the midst of a manic episode and was dating 3 women at once constantly lying to her and dogging her out. I broke up with her really suddenly out of the blue and wouldn’t you know it 4 years later she is dating a really nice guy but still tries to get me to say I am attracted to her. She flirts with me even sends me nudes and she has a ring on her finger. Now I was in a terrible mental space but you get the point …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:47 PM
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I really hope people can be pleased by AI companions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:02 PM
2

I have been raped by a woman. People don’t care when this stuff is done by women. It’s a joke to everyone even the police. I even had her dna and text proof of what happened. It will never be taken seriously enough when females perpetrate these kinds of crimes. I would get into more trouble for accidentally hurting her while trying to fight back or escape than she would for rape so you can’t even fight at full strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:41 AM
5

Yes when my dad enters the room I know he could steal any woman from me. He is rich, bald, and buff. I have him beat in height but he is so intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:48 PM
8

Dudes who think those podcasts are reality are dumb and deserve to be bamboozled.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:41 PM
2

Whats hard to believe about an older man falling in love with a young pretty woman and wanting to protect and cherish her? Doesn’t sound far fetched to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:33 PM
1

If you spend time making money and being terrible to women then women will chase you instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:31 PM
7

Meanwhile scumbag Steve has 3+ women vying to be the one he chooses to finally settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:13 PM
3

Hello Guy here. I have catfished as a woman when I was low on money and it was honestly very easy to tell guys on dating apps to send me money in exchange for my number. After giving them the fake number I would tell them to send me more and more money until they realized its not worth it. By then I was up at least $60 for a tiny amount of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:25 AM
1

Family is mostly what I mean. It starts to become a bigger concern as you get to certain points in life. But also a girlfriend is good for having a person to share financial things with like my gf helped me buy a car but I wouldn’t have a harem chick doing that sorta stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:15 AM
1

A girlfriend can be much more valuable than a harem of women depending on your stage in life and goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:02 AM
1

It’s hard but in a different way than a relationship. The stakes are very low in this harem situations and the people are replaceable whereas in a relationship I am trying my best to make her happy instead of being selfish like the situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:53 PM
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Thats what I did in my 20s. I learned so much from her it was a good experience to be doted on by her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:51 PM
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Looks determine how easy a woman is to manipulate really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:48 PM
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I believe looks are a much better metric to look at as far as manipulating women than age is. Uglier women are much much easier to manipulate into sexual relationships. A young ugly woman would go along with whatever and an older ugly woman would too. An attractive woman regardless of age is less likely to be manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:48 PM
4

My women friends all told me that I shouldn’t treat women like girlfriends without making them my girlfriend. What’s treating women like a girlfriend? Buying things for them and talking to them. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:26 AM
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I had those long, deep convos with a woman I was having sex with. She made me feel very comfortable and open. It wasn’t done so she would have sex with me we were just intimate and spending a ton of time together so it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:28 AM
0

Low status men fuck as much or more women. It’s a skill gap not just a status gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:26 AM
7

When women say you are a real man you need to take a long hard look at yourself and figure out where you are screwing yourself over at because you likely are in some way. Either you are paying money to a woman who wouldn’t do the same for you, fighting a battle that puts you at risk for a woman, or agreeing with things that damage you in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:53 PM
3

Women don’t like “men” as a group. If you say a woman has to has to go on a road trip with 3 “men” she will be rightly cautious but if she knows and likes those men she will be fine with the proposal. Men as a group are a boogieman to any woman aware of the patriarchal system we live under. Bigger and sometimes violent people who may hate you just for being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:48 PM
3

Have you tried not lying? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:02 PM
2

When I would bring up how specific women have hurt me I get women jumping in to defend this woman that they don’t know. It’s annoying as crap and they do it just because they share a gender. People you share traits with can be terrible and that says nothing about you. Then you go on to directly critique women and it’s a fight to even finish making your point. It’s terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:09 PM
1

I would gladly pay increased taxes (or just fix the lopsided budgets) in order for all children to be guaranteed basic needs without needing to depend on potentially idiotic or scumbag parents. This would also reduce the number of toxic relationships that come about just because they have a child together. Rather spend it on that than the police and politicians getting rich for making my life worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:22 PM
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Lots of couples have a discussion on if they want a child together or not. Regardless of the result of that discussion a child may still come about because they have sex. A woman I dated said she didn’t want children but that changed after she found she was pregnant. She ended up having a miscarriage unfortunately but I did break up with her because I didn’t want children with her and she wanted a child with me. Many men don’t get the chance to see a woman’s feelings change when actually faced w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:16 PM
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Staring and looking are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:08 PM
2

Precautions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:03 PM
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If some big gay dude was eyeing me up and down a whole train ride I would feel preyed upon. I’d probably react physically to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:55 PM
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Exactly. I hate how men prey on women and expect no pushback.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:09 PM
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If he stared at me like that I would have went off on him. He only did it because he knew the woman wouldn’t stand up to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:06 PM
1

That’s such a real thing. I’m still not sure if her being disordered made us click better. Maybe if she was healthy I wouldn’t have liked her so much. She really was a nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:05 PM
2

I dated a woman that was medicated for bipolar disorder. The drugs did not work 100% and at times I would be left wondering what I did that was wrong to upset her but she just had an issue stemming from her disorder. She also would have periods of rash decision making culminating in her trying to fight strange men or flirt with them. She also wanted me to match the aggressive arguing energy she had. I was out of the relationship immediately after that. Horrible experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:19 PM
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Borderline personality disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:03 PM
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You sound like the perfect woman. Are you also BPD and bisexual? Bouta dm you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:13 PM
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If my girl didn’t have any booty shorts that would be a red flag. Idk why red pill men would not be attracted to outwardly sexy women but that is more for me (not like they get women anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:57 PM
2

This is my experience. I was the only guy in the group and they all would seemingly sabotage my relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:23 PM
15

The internet is not real life. Stop it. Get some help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:57 PM
6

Sex with a family member. A chick told me she fucked her cousin instantly didn’t like her at all. Didn’t even want to hold the door for her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:15 AM
1

A vagina being loose usually has to do with the way a woman’s hips are angled and the penis size of the guy. I can tell how tight a woman is from the way she stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:08 PM
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You’re right. Women responded way better when I mistreat them (by my definition) and when I mistreated other women in front of them. Example being I talked about how I really disliked by current girlfriend and she was annoying to me because she always wanted to cuddle. The women responded positively to me after that which was kinda crazy. They would bring it up and smile and laugh about it and before then I would not get that amount of sexual attention from them. Another example is I told a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:34 PM
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Wouldn’t care. Better safe than sorry I say. You really never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:01 PM
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He doesn’t seem like he has much rizz at all. Definitely not top 50%.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 04:49 PM
0

They can’t help but downvote things that offend them.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 08:52 PM
1

Yeah thats why they have 4 baby moms that are all baddies. How exactly are they getting these women pregnant without having sex with them?
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 12:59 AM
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You guys still think being Chad is about looks lol. Some beer belly rapper can easily be Chad. It’s about game and having traits women find desirable. Not about being tall and skinny (tbh it sounds like you guys just describe your ideal man then label him Chad. Kinda gay).
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 12:45 AM
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Amazing cope.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 09:41 AM
1

Amazing cope.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 05:16 PM
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For every one woman that is over men there are 3 that want to date men. It’s really fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:13 PM
1

Difficult things take an amount of effort that most people are not willing to put forth. It is not that it is so hard that no amount of effort will resolve it. It is entirely possible.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 04:07 PM
0

I would bet balding Indian janitors get more relationship action than incels do.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 05:39 PM
0

It is a skill issue but lots of lonely guys don’t want to admit to that. It’s much more comforting for the problem to be outside of their control. Basically it is cope.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:39 PM
6

My influx of casual sex happened right around the time I started drinking and smoking weed and partying on weekdays. Certainly seems to correlate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:11 PM
1

Once a woman likes you then you can basically treat her however. It’s getting her to like you that’s the issue.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 02:07 PM
6

Women don’t make their decisions from a point of “Will random guys want to date me if I do this?” They want money and attention.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 12:01 PM
1

I think doing it earlier is good. Just don’t go overboard
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 11:58 AM
0

I really wonder how guys think they are going to convince women to have sex with them when they aren’t doing it well lol.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 11:47 AM
1

Can’t be that hard.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 12:37 AM
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I think if men were better at sex there would be more women willing to have casual sex. I remember talking to a friend and he was trying to get a friend with benefits situation going and he didn’t even want to do any foreplay. Of course women would rather not bother with casual sex.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 08:45 PM
1

So someone could not act sexy and still be sexualized? So your previous point about it being a reaction is invalid?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:34 PM
0

Who said it was minor inconvenience? Everyone complains about them and it makes sense when you read through the threads it’s just the same thing over and over.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 07:48 PM
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Annoying doesn’t mean popular
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 04:24 PM
1

Yeah if you know what you have to offer doesn’t compare to what she has had you have to be realistic unless her desires have shifted (bad breakup, kids, finances, etc.).
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 12:59 PM
1

That is why you have to exercise your choices. If you see that you aren’t getting what you want and need fr her leave her alone. No reason to put yourself through agony if you can’t compare to the other guys. If you are enjoying yourself then enjoy yourself if not say goodbye and don’t look back.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 12:51 PM
1

I wouldn’t feel bad as long as she treats me how I want to be treated. If she doesn’t treat me how I like then I would leave her. I understand the appeal of ons I have had enough of them. Completely different than actually dating for me however some women are much different and get attached to every guy they have sex with. Dangerous to date a woman who gets attached to sex and has lots of ons.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 12:37 PM
2

That too. Some guy invited me a couple days ago. I’m sure he invited others who aren’t hardcore incels.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 08:24 PM
4

Yes. I love sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:55 PM
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Because they wanna dunk on an easy dumb take. I scroll past lots of stuff and I stopped on that post to see you get beat up lol.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 05:29 PM
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Bro thinks because a bunch of people hate his dumb points it’s a brigade.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 05:19 PM
30

I love being a sassy man. Winning arguments feels way too good to give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:12 PM
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Plenty of women would pursue guys for casual sex if she felt she could trust the guy to pleasure her. If you get a good reputation for being a good lay women will want that same treatment from you. If you are a hot looking guy known for not giving oral and not getting women wanting more after yeah she won’t want casual sex with you.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 05:08 PM
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Attractiveness isn’t gonna score you women if you have to go online complaining about women not liking you then you have more problems than your face. I hope this makes sense.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 03:01 PM
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It doesn’t matter how attractive you are if you are an AllPillDebate poster a woman is not going to want to seriously date you. For good reason.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 08:16 PM
1

Me and my women friends are sexually attracted to each other. That doesn’t mean we have to act on it. It’s okay to think a hot person is hot and leave it at that. We are humans not animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:15 PM
4

You sound crazy as hell.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 05:49 PM
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I met all my best friends in my mid 20s. We have done trips together, birthdays, orgies, met families. It’s not hard for everyone to make friends.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 05:46 PM
2

What a loser you are OP.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 06:21 PM
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A fat face and a skinny face are different. This is just a fact. If you said it doesn’t change those specific things okay maybe but it does change your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:17 AM
-1

So it does change your face like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:15 AM
5

Me when I struggle at interpreting information.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 03:03 AM
-4

Getting fit absolutely changes your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:00 AM
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Lmfao. Oh wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:24 AM
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They think women are sluts but fail to fuck them. Then they tell us they have sex when they are in their 40s LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:25 PM
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Couldn’t blackpillers exercise to become physically more attractive? I know lots of losers would rather just complain about dating than to actually try to attract the people they want and it sucks to discuss with them. Also does black pill also talk about status being a factor or just looks? I feel like money and looks and game are the top 3 things for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:12 PM
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The mods really hate black pill. Looks are obviously super important in dating but don’t mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:45 PM
5

I like fat chicks. Not as much as thin chicks tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:23 AM
2

Once you have a mate other people are more interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:44 PM
3

Exactly. I know when I step into an elevator late at night with a woman she justifiably may be a little fearful. Meanwhile I feel no fear at all. That is just the reality we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:44 PM
2

Women are in more danger from a man than a man is with a woman. Men seriously think about it. You could easily beat up 2 women at once probably. You are much stronger and that strength comes with social power.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:30 PM
2

Yeah like the blackpill dudes. They complain too much when really they should recognize that they fill the valuable role of being a loser that elevates the rest of us non losers and motivates us to make society better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:23 PM
2

This isn’t a mgtow community.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:17 PM
2

If she is funny on social media and good at memes she is better for me than if she is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:16 PM
2

No they are not supposed to like you as you are. Forget that lie immediately for your own good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:12 PM
0

The posts make me feel such a mixture of feelings. It’s sad that they are like that but they are actively making the choice to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:19 PM
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Agree. But if it happens twice its a body.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:21 PM
7

There is a post on there talking about how to compartmentalize the fact that he still has sex with his wife 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:04 PM
8

Read some of the posts. They are in love and receiving nothing in exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:03 PM
100

You guys should check out the subreddit /r/theotherwoman it shows you that women will happily date married men who still have sex with their wives and are 15+ years older than them than to date a single incel. That sub absolutely cracks me up when I read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:52 PM
4

I believe this to be true as well. Some of the guys here think that women are going to do all the work to initiate sex and interactions and it’s just not realistic. You need to be able to talk to her and entice her as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:02 PM
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I was hanging out with her and her cousin and we were all drinking at her house. Her cousin left to go to the store and she got really aggressive with me I could barely resist and also she was really fat easily double my weight. She fished my dick out of my pants thru the zipper while sitting on me and rocked back and forth. I think if I was sober I could have punched or pushed her off of me but I just kind of laid there. She also squirted (pissed) all over my pants and when she finally got off …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:46 PM
7

It’s wicked how they get angry that you have legitimate grievances against women. I thought women hated all rapists but that’s when all of them are assumed to be men. Women rapists get their actions excused.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:56 PM
12

When I told my women friends a woman raped me they openly laughed at the situation. They found it ironic because I am known for having sex with lots of women but when a woman is hyper sexual after rape people acknowledge it is a response to trauma. Because I’m a man it was somehow my own fault. It was a really violating experience and I don’t think any guy would “wish it were them”. She even tried to get me to get her pregnant. I got lucky I got away safely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:44 PM
4

So she is also in a dead bedroom? Who is she having sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:40 PM
5

The math isn’t making much sense for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:40 PM
8

How are the women not in dead bedrooms but men are? Are the women cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:39 PM
1

Just use social media like normal people in 2023. In person approaches are old school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:35 AM
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I love to discuss sexual practices with a woman. I like knowing what she has been up to and I like to tell her what I have done. It gives an idea of if they are passionate about sex or its something they just let guys do to them. I get to learn about something important to me and I get to show off some of my knowledge about a subject I am advanced at.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:50 AM
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I think age would be a poor predictor honestly. I would say younger is more likely though if I had to guess. So like college aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:55 AM
5

Aren’t there such things as “single people activities”? I stopped posting thirst traps once I got a girlfriend because the whole purpose of them is to entice women. I wouldn’t want to entice women after being in a relationship (if I don’t plan on cheating).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:06 AM
2

Malicious behavior comes from people of all ages. Older women can be especially jaded about relationships and younger women can be especially emotionally unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:02 AM
4

I have been threatened with false accusations multiple times. Once a woman did call the police saying I was gonna hurt myself because she was arguing with me and I blocked her. They came and banged on my door for a welfare check. Annoying. I have stopped talking to such trashy women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:00 AM
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Women who use instagram do in my experience. “I want that for me” and “When will it be my turn?” Are said pretty frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:04 PM
5

Why would it be the same if one guy is more attractive and the other is less attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:24 PM
8

The lower women’s standards are the more likely ugly men are to get to have sex. If women know you hate that they sleep around why waste it on ugly red pilled nerd instead of attractive guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:14 PM
1

If you took dating advice from your mother you were destined to be a loser in the SMP. It’s not anyone’s fault but God’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:20 AM
4

Honestly yes. Being seen as “One of the good guys.” Has gotten me sex especially in regards to women setting up their friends with me. I give positive reinforcement when women tell me about things most guys would slut-shame them for and it works out great for me in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:37 AM
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