ColdApproachCoach Archive

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1	Advice for someone new at Day game Hitting on them with a lot of people around I kind of worry about coming off as a creep. When i think of many people being there listening and watching I feel worried. That will depend on how you do it. It’s not the act itself that would be seen as problematic, it is the choice of words you choose, and whether you are respecting the boundaries and comfort level during the interaction. There are guys who are smooth and self-assured and thus make it work, and there are guys who come across as forc…	/r/seduction	10/10/24 02:04 PM
1	Cold Approaches: E-Scooter Helmet and a Dog in a Baby Carrier Sling Sunglasses are not recommended for cold approaches, because women need to see your eyes to feel safe and comfortable about a guy approaching them. If you hide your eyes, that will likely make them feel wary and uneasy about you, as they can’t read you easily, and will usually be on the defensive.	/r/seduction	10/10/24 01:49 PM
-4	At a doctor clinic a girl who works there is giving me look It doesn’t matter if she looks at you or not, what matter is that you are into her and as such it’s your job as a man to for what you want and take on the challenge regardless of her current interest level. You can simply say: “Hey, I know you are working and while i know it wouldn’t really be too professional for you to engage in a personal way for too long, but i just want to say that i like the way your gaze makes me feel, and i thought man i have to meet this girl real quick on a lunch break…	/r/seduction	10/10/24 01:46 PM
1	Post Openers Seduction happens wherever the seducer wants it to happen. Saying that you can only seduce in clubs because that’s the norm is just a self-imposed limit. You can always chose to be your own person and do things outside the norm and be different. One does not do things because everyone else is doing, one does things because they aren’t afraid to stand out among the crowd.m and go against the norm to get what they want no matter what other people might think about it or what outcome you get from b…	/r/seduction	07/10/24 12:38 AM
1	How did therapy help you with game, exactly? I’m a seduction/cold approach coach, and i can tell you that fear of rejection usually comes from: Fear of ridicule and social judgment. Fear of making women uncomfortable. Fear of confirming your own inadequacies. Fear of the unknown or unforeseen consequences. 1- You might be scared of people laughing at you, talking shit about you, thinking you are a loser, treating you as inferior,… etc 2 - You might be scared of creeping out women, of making them feel wary and uneasy about you, making them …	/r/seduction	07/10/24 12:29 AM
1	Pulling with 0 practice I’m 5.8, and i can tell you that height is just an excuse used by people who falsely belief if they did and said to women the exact same things they say now but with a higher height, they would get laid with so many girls and more often than not that’s false because they do a lot of things wrong which are the main reason they fail to get laid. But because they would rather tell themselves that they are already doing everything right cuz their ego is at stake, then they shift the blame on externa…	/r/seduction	06/10/24 11:56 PM
1	Struggling to find and talk to women You are scared of getting confirmation of your fears. I’m this case you managed to stoke a conversation that was mostly platonic and safe, but as soon as you thought about being clear that you want soemthing more than a simple talk, potentially soemthing romantic, you froze. That’s because at that moment your ego, your self esteem and sense of self worth would be at stake if she turns you down. So your ego decides than in order to avoid rejection it’s better to be “happy” that you simply had a c…	/r/seduction	06/10/24 11:44 PM
1	What dance should I learn? Bachata or Salsa but learning to dance is just an option not an obligation to get laid.	/r/seduction	05/10/24 08:46 PM