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| 1 | I need to tell someone about this and I don't really have anyone close that would really understand. I feel as if you guys could related.I understand completely what you mean. I guess describing it as 'brute feeling' is a misnomer. My thoughts, usually my assumptions about a girl and how she is acting, will if given the chance start to inform strong feelings of anxiety. Up until now, and I am considering it right now due to a situation I find myself in, I have never been able to control my feelings of anxiety once that 'thought-seed-of-doubt' sets itself in motion and starts informing feelings of anxiety. I always end up making s… | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 11:16 AM |
| 1 | I need to tell someone about this and I don't really have anyone close that would really understand. I feel as if you guys could related.I don't mean to hijack the thread with my own issue, but you seem to know what you're talking about and perhaps may be able to help me with a similar sorta thing I've had to the OP. How is it that you combat that mindset you describe? I feel that I very easily develop a physiological sort of clinginess - the first moment I feel that I didn't 'nail' a tiny portion of an interaction, I kick myself for ages and feel pretty anxious etc I am fully aware that it is irrational, but I get actual bodily … | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 10:51 AM |
| 1 | What is your biggest fear or sticking point currently?Kinda in the same situation as you at the moment man. I've got this ability to fixate on a perceived negative and spawn myself a lotttt of anxiety on account of it, even if the initial interaction went well. I think I must be suffering from 'oneitis' because although I've been involved or dating a few girls in the last few months, every time a new one comes along I actually get physiologically stressed out! | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Ok what the heck?No worries man - it's cool that you have the confidence to approach a woman like that so big respect! I don't yet have that level of confidence :) | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Ok what the heck?Well it's good that she didn't shoo you away or anything like that. You told her to give you her number but she didn't, so I'd say that unfortunately this means that I doubt she is going to actively pursue talking to you later down the line as things stand now. Your best bet in this situation is just to be polite if and when you see her, keep your head up, don't avoid eye contact but don't try talking to her - that way you maintain pride, are being civil and are showing you are mature enough not… | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Ok what the heck?I by no means will be offering the same advice as the other people will on this subreddit, but I'll lob out what I think anyway. To know if there's a chance we need to hear about how exactly she came across when you had spoken. Had you ever spoken before? What exactly did you say and what exactly did she say back? What was her tone like, was it very quick like Oh jeez thanks, you look like my ex! I'm sorry I'm not looking for a boyfriend right now. end of convo or was there more etc? Knowing how… | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Ok what the heck?She threw you a bone with the 'you look like someone I find attractive' but unfortunately dude she also said she doesn't want a boyfriend right now! That's the most important part of the interaction. If I were you, I wouldn't pursue her, she's made it clear. Let her come to you if she wants something in the future. | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 02:38 PM |
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