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| 20 | Possible infidelity is living rent free in my head. | Rant | Cold_Square_2989 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/25 08:52 PM |
| 2 | The law for spousal support in my state says "recipients need and payors ability". | Spousal Support / Alimony | Cold_Square_2989 | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/25 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Curiouse how often your mediations were and how long the mediation process was? | Cold_Square_2989 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/25 05:41 PM |
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| 1 | If you got Divorced today, what would you tell yourself?My spouse complained about friendships, time spent for personal enjoyment, and my financial worth although none were an issue pre-marriage. To keep peace in our home I stopped seeing friends, I all but gave up my recreational enjoyment and I doubled my income in a very short time. I was then compared to other husbands and still met with complaints of financial input. My friends weren't the problem, her insecurity with their wives was. My recreation time was fairly small to begin with but my spen… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | If you got Divorced today, what would you tell yourself?for what its worth, mine made me feel i was never good enough. I tried and tried and the goal just kept moving. There are some you just cant please. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/25 04:22 AM |
| 3 | How can I even work anymoreThere are quotes about not looking at the mtn top as its overwhelming from the bottom. Just look at your feet and take one step at a time. This helped me a lot with being overwhelmed by it all. I show up for my kids and my work and I do my damn best one hour at a time. I try not to look at the big picture and I give myself grace for bad days at work and focus on major priorities to keep things running. I know my only failed outcome is if I wasn't there for my kids. The rest is spilled milk. Ever… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/25 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Possible infidelity is living rent free in my head.Sorry for my lack of detail. We are separated and no longer living together. Had I known during I would have done more. I was far too trusting and naive. Tons of dumb shit I marked up as her being difficult and never considered her cheating. Live and learn. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/25 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Possible infidelity is living rent free in my head.Thank you. I did talk with a PI who said it would be pretty expensive to interview people and try to dig up that information. Not much gain if it did help in the divorce. It would be nice to make sense of things but also seems like the truth may carry its own burden. Trying to put this one away and move on. With time... | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/25 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Possible infidelity is living rent free in my head.Reality is hard to accept in some cases. I am trying to bury my concern with her or what she has possibly done. Time will heal this wound. I wish you the best as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/25 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Possible infidelity is living rent free in my head.Thank you for these words, you are right. The pit in my stomach is hard to get over.. I feel robbed of everything that was dreamed of. It's a hard pill to swallow but I let myself down. What I thought were boundaries in the beginning were met with anger. I chose to keep peace and to make it work which just delayed reality. With time I'll find solace in solitude and continue to bond with my kids when I have them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/25 01:43 AM |
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