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Flirt with another man in front of him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:06 AM
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Obviously. ...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:02 AM
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Best wishes. Now here's my old married man advice. This is what I think is the best advice I could offer. Tell the guy you are seeing that you want a bunch of little cuties running around, you want to watch his face as he comes home and his own son runs up to him screaming "dad", and you want to see the future. And you want to hold the future in your lap and comb her or his hair while he or she smiles that mom is combing their hair. Just tell him the dream of what could be, no rush, no marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:56 AM
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Sex happens right away though. I would have been OK with this getting to know a girl first stuff a long long time ago. But now we all know what she has already given away for nothing, and if a girl expects a man to wait and earn less and worse than what she gave away for free and for nothing? It causes us serious and real damage to our self esteem which we aren't going to take. I mean the solution is obvious I'm not sure where the contention comes from. Ask a woman who truly loves her husband if…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:55 AM
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I'm sorry for that. My wife's dad also taught her nothing and he did less than even the less your dad did. My dad is just a loser. What was he going to tell me? But we can be the change we would like to see. This isn't just talk either. I talk this stuff through with my wife all the time. And I'm going to be better. Once you start down that road? There are far more red pills than women actually like sex. How about you? Any great men around you could marry? Though I'm not sure how a girl can make…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:47 AM
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I'm a man. My first goal is sex. After that goal is achieved I moved on to other goals but not all men do. Some men the only goal is sex. I did grow up and no longer was my goal just sex. But that is a lot of men. Actually I miss how much sex used to mean back when I didn't know how to get it. Really felt more special
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:32 AM
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That wasn't game. I was doing that but that wasn't part of it. And she should have known.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:29 AM
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I don't support enjoy the decline and though I did a lot of things I'm now married and have a family with yet another beautiful little wee one coming in just a few weeks now. Maybe a Christmas baby? Hey I don't like how things are. I get it now. And I'm doing what I can in my little world to do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:25 AM
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I was not a dad at all. Yet she was in my arms listening to me talk, I got up to show her a picture of that little boy, and a few moments later back in bed with her in my arms, and she looks up into my eyes and says that. I was not involved in any fooling here. That was entirely her fooling herself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:20 AM
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No I'm an incel someone tell me how to get teh sex I'm only 5' 2" and I'm angry!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:18 AM
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I think it's called being easy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:57 AM
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If his mommy wife will allow him to spend his own money yet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:56 AM
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I am impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:55 AM
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It's not a problem that men can fix. Well I mean fathers could but I can't fix this in my similar-ish age women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:55 AM
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No they know before. Or at least they should know before. Heck I had so many red flags I was a communist parade yet this drew women to me. For some reason women make up ridiculous stories about how great you are that only exist inside their own heads. I once had a girl tell me all about what a great father I was when I showed her a picture of one of my kids that I hadn't seen in years. She looked up at me and smiled, and said, "you're such a good father"???? I mean what the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:53 AM
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Young and dumb is how I like em
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:50 AM
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I've got some of these guys on my YouTube subscriptions and one guy I have no respect for as a man, who I've talked to extensively over the past six years, is now trying to sell a $600 personal training thing to teach men to be..? I dunno? He once made a post where he was crying about how his wife wouldn't let him spend his own money on an Xbox. But hey let's give him $600 so he can belittle you lol. God our poor bros
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:47 AM
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On some young women it works for quite some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:44 AM
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Women sure love assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:44 AM
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I am fully aware of what I'm doing. If it didn't work I wouldn't have done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:43 AM
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That would be impressive. If I was with a girl with that level of.. I dunno even what to call that? Self esteem, confidence, and awareness? I'd be mighty impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:42 AM
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Oh well I guess not every short girl has the discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:40 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:15 AM
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Yeah that's what you do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:15 AM
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This. It's just called dating its normal and almost everyone does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:14 AM
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It's the girl who pretends its going to lead to a relationship. Time to take responsibility for your own actions. I mean if you can I'm not sure it's actually possible for a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:14 AM
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You just don't allow a conversation to get to that point. You do something to distract her like start dancing with her and give her a passionate kiss. Or you pick her up and start spinning around in a circle, then give her a kiss. Or tease her for being so serious. Why so serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:13 AM
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When I was doing it every girl knew I was dating other girls. I'd talk about it with them and even had one real sweet girl I still sometimes miss who would help me pick up other girls. It was that girl who went nuts when I wouldn't commit to her as well. But at no point did she ask me if I would or ask me why I wouldn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:12 AM
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But men don't predetermine if a girl is going to be worth making exclusive, or making her number one at least. It's a dance and how good the girl is all goes into this. Or how she changes over time. Is she eating cauliflower noodles with some tomato sauce for lunch? That's good. Does she eat fast food and cookies? That's bad. When you make it clear that she should be a good girl not a bad girl does she do what you say? Extra points for her. But you don't know at first. Heck does she have a seven…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:09 AM
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Why do you have to tell a girl about the other girls you are dating? Though I recommend men do this it makes the first girl work harder
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:06 AM
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What if you never ever allow the exclusivity talk to happen, tell her that she's not your girlfriend when she asks, but let her meet your friends and family and say things like "we'd make such cute babies together" and ask her questions like what kind of wedding dress do you think you'd like?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:05 AM
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Normal people just call this dating. And a lot of normal people do just this. Only they aren't bizarre zealots who think they are sticking it to the femme goddess by dating. And the goal of dating usually ends up with trying to find one girl who stands above the rest to graciously allow her to bear children with. At which point she's your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:03 AM
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Only short girls with a small frame can pull that off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:58 AM
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From your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:09 AM
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Your sentence doesn't make any sense. Try that again please
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:43 PM
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I'm an older guy and I've seen plenty of women screw around with all their youthful beauty and end up either bitter and alone or stuck with a gross beta husband that the thought of fucking makes them sick. They don't even share bedrooms. It happens frequently and what you think about it doesn't change shit. Telling women that there is always an attractive man with a career waiting for them whenever they decide to start taking dating seriously is evil. It's incredibly evil to lie to women that wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:27 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:15 PM
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Impregnate a woman. You asked a question I answered your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:15 PM
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Why is every woman's response to a statement about women always "but men too!!!"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:14 PM
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Women's own nature is hidden from them. This allows them to better commit their dual mating strategy by cucking their beta with an alphas seed. That's why things just happen to them. They literally do not understand what they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:43 PM
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More evidence of this bizarre free market worship that has infected the west. Also no their isn't transparency the entire way to win in a free market is to possess knowledge the other party lacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:41 PM
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Impregnate a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:36 PM
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If they really wanted to help men become attractive to a woman's feral nature they would recommend that guys just spend all of their time trying to pick up naieve teenage girls and then treat them like they are sex objects who exist only to serve.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:31 PM
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Well now that you know that men are selfish and we will take what you will give us what changes are you going to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:26 PM
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I'm not a follower of the red pill on reddit sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:54 PM
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Oh you want vague platitudes that make you feel good lol. OK
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:54 PM
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Girl if we had patriarchy your dad would have presented you with a few men to date with chaperones, to pick the one you wanted to marry. You'd have three kids running around laughing pointing at the soap saying almost the only word they could even say, "bubbles" "bubbas bubles", you'd delight at the laugh of your own children. Wake up, get up, dream up You would have only the choice your father granted you. Could you imagine that responsibility placed on your father? Don't worry he didn't. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:13 AM
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It's not confusing women like a guy but only if he makes the moves and is a man who makes and creates action. Because she wants to follow. Her nature is of a follower, but one who can contribute a lot. Nothing wrong with that. In fact it can be amazing. Women are not confusing she wanted to sleep with you but only if you didn't care about her and just wanted to bang her. This is her fallen nature. Let's go beach here, ""so you thought I wanted to sleep with you just because I smiled or laughed?"…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:14 AM
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A better question to ask our lovely sisters, our nieces we adore, our aunts if we can go back in time, and all our women, is what do you want in your future? Women? What would you like you future to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:00 AM
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There was a good one where a young girl, 21, had met a good man and gone on three dates with him. Three good dates. They kissed at the end of date three. This was not a bang and gone or a fuck and chuck scenario that a red pilled guy would do. Three dates and the first kids is the end of date three? And long involved dates? She wanted more than just to be a FWB for this guy and she was worried, and rightfully. The advice was good. The mods voted to the bottom with their "make him give you money!…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:38 AM
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I think the mods are all trolls but when a girl actually comes in their to ask for advice the ladies there give her advice. The mods give awful man hate advice and it gets down voted on their own sub to the bottom. And the women who want advice then go on to act exactly the way we already know that they will act. But at least they are trying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:02 AM
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This is the dumbest worst part of it. Where the angry mods just straight up copy something from trp, without ever actually understanding any of it, and then replace the words man with woman, and woman with man. Is this that edgy zoomer humor I've heard so much about? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:00 AM
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Feminism is just winning men tricking other men into not controlling their women, so that we can take advantage of you. At no point have you women even stopped and asked yourself what kind of life would you like. Because you can't. You just listen to one group of men or some other man or some other one tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:57 AM
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You prolly need more a moment on the lips means a lifetime in the hips memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:55 AM
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Hey no worries the trp subs were conquered by NEET faggots who wanted to create a LARP where they are worshiped. You ever see the thread where all these sheer winners with all their plates and sweetie pies discuss the strange thing that women orgasm most from anal? Lol or the one where all these guys are unsure if women actually do drool more when they are turned on? Hey if it makes you feel better jams they don't just shadow ban girls who go against their alpha man narrative, they do it to guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:53 AM
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I don't read it but I do enjoy looking through our lovely ladies post history when I engage with one of these sweet lassies. And this FDS place comes up a lot. So when I see it I look around. The comment sections are pretty good. The mods are usually down voted or never upvoted so their bizarre man hate isn't driving the sub. I read through their general rules for women and I agree with all of the advice, though I completely disagree that it's men driving women into somehow being the women we ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:50 AM
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I've had FWBs get approached poorly by less than attractive men who go for the number close quick, get rejected, take it gracefully, and she's so excited by it. Really makes their day. I do think that the bad/weird/creepy approaches stand out to them and the good ones and the successful ones are just "we just happened to meet"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:41 AM
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Ok there are only certain times when a woman is open to being approached. They don't realize it either. Now women, all women, for some reason both say and believe they do not want to be approached by a stranger. Yet most of these women have gone home with a stranger who approached them. As you are running day game you don't just start asking every girl out. You start talking to every girl. I would make a comment about something they were wearing. How they respond would determine the rest. Girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:34 AM
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How am I not supposed to dread? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:21 AM
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Multiple women have born me children. Not sure why you'd blame me for how women are like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:21 AM
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No. I get women pretty well. Really well. Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:20 AM
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Thursday morning I woke up and my wife had cut off all her hair. She said she was creating a point of no choice, to give herself no choice. Wednesday night I had shown her preselection and used dread, but I can't not use dread any more. I won't. I will never restrict myself again. Why would I? She got mad and sad, and I just don't care. Leave or stay, or fuck leave Just go, girls who are twenty one are still twenty one. You? Aren't. Give me your best or don't, and if you don't, then you have not…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 06:54 AM
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Did you tell her "you look just like the last girl I took here"? And did you say that with a happy grin?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 06:36 AM
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Don't tell me what to do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 06:17 AM
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Dead bedroom guys are disconnected from their own sexuality in some way. Ashamed of it, afraid of it, they don't embrace it. They think that what their wives say, "I just have a low libido", is real. A woman's sexuality is a response. Any man in a dead bedroom? It's 100% and entirely his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 06:06 AM
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How did you not see that this guy was a short term can't think ahead guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 06:04 AM
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Women are great, as soon as they realize they are in competition with other women they are even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 06:01 AM
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Where was your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 05:48 AM
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My father is a gamma loser who told women he was going to write the music that created world peace, a boomer, who bought himself a music studio and a lot of electric guitars. Who can't play any instrument at all and is totally tone deaf. Then moved on to the "spiritual" side, reading auras, star charts, could see and talk to ghosts. Now at the back end of his life he talks about how he truly understands gravity, and black holes and other idiocy. Non stop gamma. But smart. I take care of him. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 05:44 AM
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Well any guy concerned about this, my best and oldest friend was/is. Obesity causes that fupa to grow out and basically envelop the length you would otherwise have. Myfitnesspal and whole nonprocessed foods are your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 05:04 AM
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What did the male friend do? What did the girl friend do? Who you choose as friends, real friends, is the second most important choice in your life. After who you choose to have sexual relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:45 AM
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Unless another girl is involved.Then it can get hairy. Oh that's the best time. When you can really start to see and hone that preselection power.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:43 AM
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Theirs always deceit and I don't think a woman is actually capable of only viewing a man as an atm. What would a gold digger relationship actually look like? How would they meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:42 AM
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Did your father try to guide you into a solid husband material man? I've actually heard this from a few of the black girls I work with. Not that they were successful but that they did try. None of my white friends, nor my own, fathers did shit to help guide either us boys, or the girls. Maybe buy us condoms but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:41 AM
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Haha she got all concerned about answering and defaulted to she would rather be a girl. I think she'd rather be a girl and honestly how can any woman actually know what it's like to be a guy? They can't. They will never know what we go through to make ourselves. But they can and do see our benefits. They do want those. Sorry about the small dick she's never had that but I have dated girls that had. Girls don't care anywhere near as much as they claim. It's a tool to weed out men who they can bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:38 AM
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I'm not even sure what people mean by gold digger anymore. Isn't it supposed to mean a girl who is ignoring all her hypergamous filters, all her other filters, and prioritizing money above all? Guys with money know those girls are doing this. It's a quid pro quo let's not pretend it isn't. He pays, she plays the part of girlfriend and spreads her legs. I wouldn't recommend a woman follow this strategy because it's a losing one. The guy gets what he wants, and she often doesn't realize she's givi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:26 AM
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Lol she didn't ignore them when she was a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:22 AM
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I have not but then I hate politics and ignore all of it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:22 AM
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Seriously I've never been fucked over by a girl friend, sure a girlfriend I have, but never a girl friend. Guy friends though? My God can guys learn to stop bucket crabbing? You know one really great thing about girl friends? They don't try to hold you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:19 AM
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They are good but sporadic. Last time I checked in with all my girl friends I was very interested in hearing about what they had been up to, where they were at in their lives, still married? Oh divorced now but living with this other guy what he like? What have you been reading? Always good to catch up I've known some of these girls for over twenty years now. Facebook good for something. As far as my belief that all women are sluts? Doesn't affect anything. It's not a moral judgement more like s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:17 AM
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I'm not a big fan of anyone but trump is a cad who was banging porn stars, married multiple times, and currently married to a super model over twenty years younger than him. Let's not let our biases cloud our thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 04:05 AM
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If that's what you would like to address in my comment I have. But not for over half a decade. I'm more of a pop Katy perry or pink kind of guy. Maybe that da da da song by that psychotic looking Roma looking "German". I guess it can help build up your confidence to bang sluts. Which is pretty necessary these days. Not sure how that's going to help you dress well. Can't speak to how black Africans dress where I grew up there were none. You guys didn't have a gym or wrestling in high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 03:53 AM
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Men are bad at sex because they aren't good looking enough with enough preselection and abundance to be incredibly selfish takers as lovers. And most men just aren't confident enough to totally embrace their own sexuality and to make sure the girl feels his masculine energy and sexual obsession enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 03:42 AM
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You have my support
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 03:40 AM
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My wife says she'd rather be a man because of all the incredible advantages men have. We can make all kinds of mistakes, act recklessly, we can fuck up for years, and come out the other side better. A woman just comes out older. And possibly a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 03:39 AM
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Large round eyes are the most attractive eyes to men due to making the face and head look smaller in comparison and increasing neotony in the woman. Which is why eye makeup is designed to make the eyes appear larger and stand out more. Incels prob don't like women trying to look their best because they are confused and think that by encouraging women to be less attractive they are increasing their chances
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 03:37 AM
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Women don't look out for each other. They never did. They certainly don't now. What has changed is that fathers now believe that the free market will be the best place for their daughter to "buy" a mate. That she will just go out into the market of sex and relationships when she's a teenager, figure it out, and the magic of the market will result in her getting a great relationship. So fathers no longer interfere with the freedom of the market (of sex and relationships). Women don't look out for…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 03:32 AM
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No. Women are sexually attracted to muscular men with preselection who are sex obsessed primitives. But they don't marry those men because they make terrible husbands so they have to temper the feral side of their sexual nature with a guy who is less of a sexually obsessed primitive as they search for a mid to long term mate. I think you are trying to argue that women do not like men who make them feel bad and prefer men who make them feel good. I agree. But that doesn't have anything to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 02:05 AM
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No one is going to become supreme dictator. What I would do is suggest men learn to bang sluts, because all women are actually sluts, some of them just don't realize it yet, others just lie about it. Then take that knowledge of how to dominate a woman's psyche and choose the best slut you've got to marry and have kids with. Then teach those children the reality of what is going on, teach them family loyalty above all, and take any of your daughters and help them get married to a quality man whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 11:30 PM
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Which is what I just told you is happening along with what is going to happen. These things are very simple. Just change your words to my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:03 AM
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Claude is somehow passing her shit tests, that Aaron is not. Having a motor bike or mimicking men who can pass tests does not mean that you can. He clearly can't that's why she keeps breaking up with him. He looks alpha to her, but he isn't acting like it. He's faking it, hence why he goes dumpster diving, giving off just enough of the real thing that she comes back. And then fails more. Maybe she's sick of her fake alpha and wondering what other guys are actually like? RP standards don't mean s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:49 AM
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Women fuck men who pass through their hypergamous filters for an alpha man. It's just that men's egos can not accept what alpha man means, and women can not accept what their filters actually are. Rather men and women come together to declare she had no filters and was not filtering during her time of extreme horniness, beyond any male constant level, because no one wants to see a woman's extreme. And men most certaintly don't want to accept what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:39 AM
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I am not claiming that women will have sex with anyone, or that men will either. But I'll claim that there are times when women are far hornier than any man will ever be. And far more open to be approached during those times, and during these windows women are far far far less discerning than men are. And are, yes, basically open to getting fucked by the first man who approaches. I mean this is a big part of game. The numbers game. Cause you can't predict which girl is open right then, so you ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:36 AM
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They love the guy, they want to and enjoy sex with him. The same acts with a different guy would not be as pleasurable, because it's not about the acts, it's the guy. Now men should watch what said guys have in common. And not pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:26 AM
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Women have a reactive sex drive. If she is with a man who is not afraid of his own sex drive and acts on it, she will love sex. She will love sex multiple times a day, and any kind of sex. The very same girl will have spent five years in a dead bedroom with another man who also loved sex, but was afraid to act, and instead would masterbate in bed next to her while she lays there and wonders why he doesn't want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:22 AM
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Ok then don't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:19 AM
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Men always have the choice to take action. Men also do not actually understand how women judge them. Preselection is really the main way. In fact the older I get the more I think it's the 98% way. Yes guys who are unattractive have none. But you don't have to have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:19 AM
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Any children?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:16 AM
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I already have
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:10 AM
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What a folly so many guys have. They want to be given and not earn, they want a girl to solve their problems, and never realize it's the earning that creates the attraction in the first place, and a girl giving them, no matter how much she may love them and want to be able to give, she can't give what he isn't taking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:09 AM
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I think that the modern portrayal of men as sex seeking objects is an inversion, most of modern morality is an inversion, and that it is actually women who desperately seek sex. Their sex filters are not complicated and quite easy to figure out. Very simple. Very easy. Men are the complex gender. It's all rather simple. Which works against what a lot of guys believe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:06 AM
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Men always have the choice to take action
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:04 AM
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So do something else
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:04 AM
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Why don't they try? The men I know who are not succeeding aren't trying. They aren't failing, they just aren't trying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:04 AM
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No not you. But we been here a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:34 AM
1

How's your action? Do you remember the old days? I know you do. What do we do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:25 AM
7

That's just dumb shit that never actually happens. That's like saying you'll go to jail for martial rape
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:09 AM
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They are showing a weakness. And yes that is always a bad idea. Who serves whom? I don't like nor want things to be this way, but gravity always goes down, and every day I wake up to grass that is green. Take advantage of the girls who listen, they will love you for taking advantage of them. Teleology. Let a girl serve her purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:08 AM
1

Sorry you had to hear it this way. Nobody is saying you can't do other things as well. Are you denying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:33 AM
0

What is confusing you buddy? I'll do my best to explain how a man acts for you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:30 AM
1

Men don't just want sex, they want to not have to try Men want to be loved for existing, not for doing. Men claim they are not egalitarian feminists, then rage when women don't love them for existing. "I have to do?" Who pushed feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:19 AM
0

Women want that as well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:17 AM
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What men actually want is ludicrous. But we are the logical gender. So long as it's logical to want only me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:17 AM
2

Go meet them and find out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:15 AM
2

They are just confused about what actually works with those women. And it does no good to tell them They will just redefine it to mean them, and then rage when their redefinition doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:15 AM
4

Most men don't know how to take advantage of women who want to trade sex for attention. And if you tell them how they say its wrong. Married women are no different they just have a tad more self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:13 AM
1

She filed for the divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:10 AM
1

Don't continue this we know what men want. A woman who wants them. And we know how. Women are not a mystery anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:09 AM
5

Government get me a girlfriend 2015
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:08 AM
2

But it can be created through action. If it's a need why don't men take that action?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:07 AM
7

If sex is a need, a need, then why do so many men do nothing at all about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:07 AM
2

Then why not treat being alone like starving?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:06 AM
6

A disturbingly large amount of men do in fact want a mommy not a wife. They want a sex mommy. It's a sad indictment of our parents. It never works. Do women provide therapy? There's no one I've been able to talk to like the women in my life. A decade of therapy not withstanding. There's no one I can be that honest with. Thank you women for listening. Do other men learn to handle their feelings? It's taken me three decades and still here I am. I know what to do with them, I have my safe fantasies…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:04 AM
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I don't think that's what's happening. Just that with so much choice online girls don't know who to give a chance too. They get confused. Better to just avoid it or use it for other reasons. But yes, men do not understand, nor do women, what the hierarchy of men, for women, actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 04:49 AM
0

Take no risks get no reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 04:30 AM
2

Hmm 🤔 I've been thinking about this. How else will you ever get these experiences? What other man can offer them? Should you do it? No probably not. OK then just don't. But still some do. And why not? How many girls will get to be with a man who can show them everything? Don't do it. Or do it. Who is going to stop or not stop you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 04:29 AM
2

The majority of women do in fact want to be approached. And by men they do not know, yet. The old school trp was all about this. Approach women, sarge, see what happens, learn, try again. I did most of my cold approach at a few malls. Did I get banned from a store one time, yes. Did the manager of Macy's send a scurry thing to tell me that she wanted a night with me, that she would pay for, a weekend, she just wanted a weekend with me and she would pay for everything. And did I think but there's…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 04:25 AM
1

Got ya
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 04:17 AM
4

Oh so another trap?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:26 AM
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Lol no you only get banned from one store when the old manager girl gets pissed off that you aren't into her. You know what girls find attractive? A man who takes risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:26 AM
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Oh don't be one of those Debbie downers. Nobody is going to take your freedom away because you ask girls out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:24 AM
1

Flask. Plus weed. But this is where you meet teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:07 AM
2

Date around? I mean that's just normal. Why are you girls wording this stuff to sound abnormal? When you decided your husband was a great guy for you did you try to play all these games or did you try to get him? This "get him to chase me" game is just dumb. Only loser guys chase a girl and those relationships never work unless the guy is just playing a deeper game. Which we do if you are cute enough. Congratulations on your marriage! May you be fruitful and multiply
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:06 AM
0

What happened to cold approach? That's the best way to meet dumb young girls
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:54 AM
2

After the sexual revolution where women demanded marriage for sex all sex is casual first. Online or not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:53 AM
1

Women always had dick on demand. That's not their goal though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:53 AM
1

They do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:52 AM
1

When it comes to dating men use the wrong scale to determine their place in the hierarchy women are determining
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:52 AM
1

Nobody else was out there to meet you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:49 AM
4

What is hinge?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:46 AM
3

Pull your bootstraps up and then look him in the eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:45 AM
0

Find ways to engage in social scenes that have younger women. College scenes, dance clubs that don't serve alcohol, "bars" that have live bands but only serve soda or hookah bars, or heck just go to the mall and make it clear to the women there you are looking to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:43 AM
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I disagree. I cannot speak to women's experiences only my own, but the women who use online dating are simply sub par. I see no reason to use it at all, even though I have used it extensively with some success. I've just done light years better other ways. I think the.. What's it called? The paradox of choice? I think that comes into play. Also I can't use my charm and natural charisma in online dating. It's my pictures alone making my first impression and I'm not some guy who did anything but p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:39 AM
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My wife is 5' 2" and I'm legit 6' 3". She loves it and we have no problems doing the dirty deed. Though yeah no standing sex it's me holding her against the wall sex. Luckily at this size holding her up is not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:29 AM
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I mean if it's working for you then by all means continue. I just think that this strategy is selecting for unattractive men, as in men without options. I don't have anything in this game anymore I'm an old man, I'm married with a bunch of kids, but I did date quite a bit. And despite the claims from the gals that they are just so clever, you aren't. We know when you are dating around and we simply adjust our own strategy by taking you less seriously. By putting you into the fwb zone. We take co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:27 AM
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I've had women tell me that they are dating me simply because of my height. But these girls had also dated regular height guys as well. I also know this guy who is 5' 2". He's tiny. I can't imagine who he is going to date so far it's nobody. I'm not sure why guys call this being shallow though. It isn't. Tall people have huge advantages in life. Why curse your own children with short genes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:18 PM
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You can do all of those things. It may involve the girl getting on her tippy toes and the guy bending over some, it's the guy just picking the girl up and holding her, or for doggy she can get on the bed or something to elevate her a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:14 PM
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I'm just a guy letting you know how I've reacted in the past. I did get married and it wasn't to the prettiest girl I had available. It was to the one who showed the most commitment and willingness to be supportive of my life and my goals. I do realize that a lot of women try to do that when they are very young with some retard loser and it bites them in the ass as well. Maybe teach women to stop dating retarded losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 11:10 PM
0

Lol wow men really are desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 11:05 PM
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Women think we don't know but we figure it out pretty quickly and at that point mentally we just put you into the fwb box. The girl won't even realize anything has changed but it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:57 PM
1

Blah blah blah every guy here is ugly blah blah blah. You encourage women to act like plates. I don't really care nobody actually takes any advice anyway. But your advice is for a girl to act like a plate, at which point she will be treated like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:42 PM
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Men don't like any of those women. Those are all ugly fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:35 PM
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And I'm saying that I've been one of those men plenty of times, we realize that the woman isn't serious, so we aren't serious either. Sometimes they just eventually stop hanging out, other times those girls have mental breakdowns crying in your backyard saying "why won't you be my boyfriend". It's because we don't take you seriously. Just something for you gals to keep in mind when you're giving out this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:11 PM
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It's too late for that. Men know that women are having sex. Nobody believes any woman who would make some claim to chastity. And no man with options will wait for sex because of that. Still any kind of strategy at all on women's part would be better than what they're doing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:57 PM
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Ridiculous stereotypes aside attractive men with good futures have both options and time. And nobody cares when one of their fwbs stops coming over. If the woman is showing red flags like dating and banging multiple guys at the same time nobody is going to take her seriously. You ladies just give such bad advice....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:26 PM
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Yes. We notice when a girl is playing the field and we simply adapt. By not taking the girl seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 08:55 PM
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This is a good way to get put into the fwb category. So if you want to be the fuck buddy then good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 08:49 PM
2

I will say that it never gets better. Find the truth, and now you see it, and now you are haunted. You will never unsee it. Being "Chad" isn't what men want it to be. It isn't the self made billionaire, it's not the ceo, he's not the leader of men. Modern men are not fit to be led. Modern men cant even follow. We have lost all trust that their is no trust left. Abandon all hope ye who enter here, says every baby that isn't cut into pieces alive to be sold to Mammon. Women never get any better th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 07:50 AM
1

I still don't know what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 06:16 AM
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It's not the majority, it's every single one. Not something literal like say choking her during the deed. But in using your masculine strength in such a way that she feels helpless before you. So she can give up. So she can quit resisting. So the waves of your masculine energy can wash over her and... Well erase her to be built again by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 05:31 AM
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What kind of future do you want for yourself? That's the question to ask. As far as this current girl if she's been a permanent girlfriend for four years I suggest you break up with her and start looking again. She's clearly not a girl who can inspire you. Though I do understand where you're at. And what will happen, will happen, regardless. Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 05:27 AM
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I dunno I'm asking the question
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 05:24 AM
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What positives of marriage? Also what are the negatives of divorce? I don't know what you are trying to say Honestly. I just sat here for a few minutes trying to think about it and yeah I don't get it. I don't understand what you are saying here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 05:24 AM
1

Oh very nice. Your husband got a sweet girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 05:22 AM
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Awalt
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 05:20 AM
1

No. I dunno? Maybe? Nobodies ever asked me. Doesn't stop me. I mean asking goes against feeling helpless. Though I've never choked a girl to death either. If she's not conscious how is she going to feel the thrill of having no control? Lots of weird stuff goes on behind closed doors that people don't really talk about. Being fairly aggressive and using your masculine strength during sex must be somewhat rare. You do it and a lot of women will say things like, wow, nobody has ever treated me that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:45 AM
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Lol. Well to each his own. But even in the winter a cutie can wear some short shorts pajamas and her man can still enjoy them legs!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:40 AM
2

A lot of women enjoy feeling helpless during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:38 AM
2

I'm not sure what you don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:33 AM
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For your guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:30 AM
2

Does this mean men will have to bang the obese girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:25 AM
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Best? But she will keep getting older and all the twenty one year olds will be twenty one forever. This isn't the best of any world. Least worst of both worlds. Not quite a loser in either world. Not a good place
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:25 AM
1

diverticulosis What's this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:23 AM
1

Way to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:22 AM
1

shave my legs during the summer What do you do during the winter?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:22 AM
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That's a whole lot of to do. After all that how cute are you? Also having read through all that routine I notice you miss the most important thing of all. How is your diet? Do you have a thigh gap? What size pants do you wear? What I do is shower every few days, use deodorant, I used to lift weights but now I've got enough muscle to fill in my frame, then when I wake up I'm still very tall, I still have a full head of hair, an excellent face, a killer jaw and great cheek bones, and I eat a very …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:20 AM
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Best? But she will keep getting older and all the twenty one year olds will be twenty one forever. This isn't the best of any world. Least worst of both worlds. Not quite a loser in either world. Not a good place
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:09 AM
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Four years, he's yet to decide what kind of life he wants to live. I don't think this is complete shit but this guy needs to start leading his own life. I also agree that most likely at some point she is going to leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:07 AM
2

The perfect solution for what goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:06 AM
1

Their really isn't any actual constraint from marriage. Yeah maybe you'll end up paying some alimony or whatever. It is nowhere as bad as the older men had it. Things are much fairer now and the courts expect a woman to get a job now. Alimony is for her to go to college so she can support herself. I have a question for you though. What does success in a long term relationship mean? You grow older, but the woman grows older and uglier at a much faster rate. What does success mean? Continued sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:05 AM
1

What does having sex "fairly" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 03:03 AM
1

Uhhhh K then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 02:28 AM
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Their have been some studies about this. If the man out earns his significant other but later she begins to out earn him the chance of divorce goes up substantially. If, at the start, she out earns him the divorce risk is barely any different than the average. So it is perhaps changing expectations, perhaps he begins to feel bad and hence acts in such a way that exasperates divorce, or perhaps she begins to think she settled and could do better. Or some combination, or something else entirely. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 02:19 AM
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I don't have research papers I have my own lived experience and eyes that can see. I dunno believe whatever you want I've long since stopped caring if other guys listen to me at all. I know you won't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 01:50 AM
1

College students were shown pictures of three men and told they had a certain socioeconomic status then asked to rate them. That's all that study shows. I never had more dates myself then when I was a homeless cad. You know all watch what actually happens in reality versus what a hundred and fifty college girls say about some guys picture after being told he's a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 12:20 AM
0

I didn't say women have a preference for homeless men I said that they will happily have sex with a homeless man, assuming he's got alpha traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 12:07 AM
0

Women are more than willing to have sex with unemployed homeless men. They don't even know, or care, about any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 10:56 PM
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A lot of em can't due to what makes a man attractive. Also lack of attractive men. Most girls figure it out though and then end up with a less attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 07:12 PM
0

financial status is another factor determining a guy's attractiveness to women No it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:28 PM
1

The janitor man may not be attractive as a beta need partner to most women but he could potentially be attractive as the alpha seed. Depending on how primitive and sexually obsessed he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:17 PM
3

These guys must know some very poor relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:13 PM
3

How about you start making demands and stop giving in to some woman's demands? Nobody is making you or any other simp do that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:12 PM
1

Lack of sexually attractive men and inability to lock one of them down
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:08 PM
2

more interesting work software engineering 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:08 PM
0

Jacked physically but still can't pass a shit test. Ain't that a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:07 PM
1

Lol why do that when someone else will make all the money instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:06 PM
3

There are some men who have a very strong desire for young women. The best looking and most fertile of women. Most men exist inside a frame that labels these men as pathological. They believe this framing without even realizing it was created by others. But that is the closest male equivalent I can think of. Some women have a deep desire for a very masculine man. A powerful man. They will shit test to incredible degrees, with a deep hope that they chose right. Women have a more mistified journey…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 07:09 AM
2

So many toilets to clean, so many chickens to cook, so much beer to sell. Hey somebody got to do it I guess. Might as well be you and me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:27 AM
1

Amusing to see how fat guys get after they stop taking roids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:08 AM
1

A better question would be is it possible without cheating on her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:06 AM
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It doesn't matter if anyone thinks other men should listen to them talk about women and how to be successful with them. Men don't take advice. Each man believes he is the best man, and that he is the one that should be giving advice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:03 AM
1

The desperation is more annoying than the stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:01 AM
3

That sounds like most women, and most men. Why work of you don't have to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:59 AM
1

Young and STOOPID. Their foolishness does piss me off. Seems much better for rule by fathers and fathers guiding these girls. But hey? I can't make men love their daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:54 AM
1

They are young and stupid. I don't think they are entitled though. Rather desperate tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:53 AM
1

How about rather than being subservient and thinking about how you can appease women you dominate your own id and think about what these women can do to appease you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:52 AM
1

I'm not really sure anymore. I used OLD during two periods of singleness throughout my life. Maybe I've sent five hundred messages? And gone on a hundred first dates? Something like that. The big problem with OLD is that only lower tier women use it. You go on all these dates but they are no good because the women are low tier, they just use clever camera angles and filters to look two or three points better than they are. It's really bad. Much better to tailor your approaches to the women you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:21 AM
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Why are you so harsh on yourself? But I like your dog doesn't leave an opening to respond easily. Perhaps end with a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:11 AM
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She was probably looking for a guy who would smack her around when she started getting out of line.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:05 AM
2

Wouldnt it just default to a woman treating you like free labor and a cash dispenser? It would
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:04 AM
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The rational male has several essays stating that unattractive men will rationalize their being cucked as to prepare themselves to be pre-cucked. As in devoting their resources to another man (or man's) children. I believe the subconscious thought process is that if you can't get to the woman's eggs and her commitment when she's at her prime you can pre-cuck yourself to gain access to her leftover eggs. However from a purely sexual, as in good sex, perspective, I can't see this as a good plan. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 04:45 AM
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especially casual — and prefer men who look like they know what they’re doing My understanding is that this choice is based on the sexy sons hypothesis. Meaning by choosing a primitive sex obsessed short term thinker the children will also have these traits. Which could grant benefits to future generations successfully reproducing. Doubly so if the sex partner in question is a sociopath or a liar, as the cherry on top of this sundae is then conning a hard working but naieve man into supporting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 04:29 AM
1

Successful career women are bossy. House wives are submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 04:23 AM
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Guys shouldn't expect a stay at home mom to treasure and care for their home and children unless he knows what he is asking. A lot. One of my friends who is now divorced her husband actually baby talked at her. He called her mommy and said "mommy how can I help you" in a baby voice like he was a baby. He's wealthy, she couldn't take him. She's remarried. Her husband gets work at the home depot. She really loves him though. And she didn't take any alimony from the ex either. She doesn't hate him …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 06:05 AM
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I'm married and I'm pretty happy. I mean things could be better and sometimes I'm unhappy they aren't the very best things, but there's always better. I could always imagine better. What's that saying? Perfect is the enemy? Good is still pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 05:46 AM
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Also it is very hard for a SAHP to meet other people and be around them a lot. If you have a job you will be around the same people every day for hours, so you will build a relationship. If you are at home all the time, great home, clean home, happy kids, or the vice to that versa, still almost no one will see it. Just your husband and he will have other concerns
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:24 AM
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Doesn't that make sense though? It's a huge risk to take on a stay at home mom. Why should a guy not do what he can to mitigate that risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:09 AM
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