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Has happened, took me a while to realize they're just not interested or plain boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:18 PM
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Well, i sadly didn't have the same power of self assertion i have now (i also was a wee babe regarding dating), and did it cause i had no reason to say no . He wasn't mean or rude, just very self conscious (and he didn't understand sarcasm). I can't say exactly why i did it, but it taught me not to do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:36 PM
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Oh! i was in the receiving end of that actually. Remember awkward dude? well i did have sex with him. Next day he drops me off at the bus station and as i go in for a hug he gives me a handshake and says "it was nice meeting you". i just laughed it off and said "you too!". i guessed it meant he didn't want to meet me again and just went on with life. He didn't talk to me again. Four months pass and he texts me again for sex. I refuse obviously. Another four months pass and he texts me again for …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:21 PM
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I think being mega horny coupled with the need for validation makes sex this super important thing in their minds. They just know they want sex and make up these reasons in their mind about why they're not getting it. Making them angry cause they do not understand. The least painful reasoning is "its not me, its them". But they're forgetting that although yes, more women nowadays are open to casual sex and hookups, they still only do it with people they can trust. And humans are a lot better tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:56 PM
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I think it is very well put, i agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:29 PM
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Demanding what tho? what OP said? didn't you say yourself that it was too exaggerated?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:51 PM
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That i do understand, but the thing here is, no one can force anyone to have sex with them (in legal terms that is) and i feel like the consensus in this sub is that that is women's "fault". I met this guy. Pretty awkward dude tbh, it was hard to keep a conversation and it fell on my hands to make it a fun date for him. I had to chose what to do on that date cause he was lost and he just tried to get me drunk to take me home. It was pretty obvious to me that he had very little experience in dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:38 PM
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I see, but swiping right or left on people is not something that applies only to me, but to all tinder users as it is the purpose of the app, i was in that case also swiped left on on many occasions. I don't stop myself to think about the guys i swiped right on who didn't match me. Its just fuel for self hate. I'd like to point out that my comment above is a reminder to people that the dating experience isn't "rigged towards what women want" and that "all women choose how things turn out", as i …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:28 PM
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Good argument but i dont know against what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:47 AM
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Damn dude, what sorta situation you gotta make up in your head so that it fits your narrative? Do you want me to send you a picture of my face? Whatever it is that i say won't matter to you. You like having this idea in your mind that "leagues" exist and it's to your own detriment. Go live in it and wallow. People didn't stay with me because they didn't want to. That's it. I have no clue why because i can't get into their brains and you can't either. Those guys had interests, goals in life, hobb…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:48 AM
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oh yeah sorry, i forgot basic decency was thrown out the window the moment i even dared to touch a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:02 AM
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Yeah thats the thing, he's speaking from pain and insecurity. But that thing destroys you and makes you toxic and sad and makes you push everyone away. You have to work it out and be reasonable with the world. Had i done the same easy emotional cop out and put all the men rejecting me in a single box i'd be mexican misandrist Karen!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 11:33 PM
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Oh yeah, i understand men get less attention in general in the app. But i felt like OP was putting a lot of the reasoning behind it on redpill "women hold our existence by the balls" rules considering this is a purplepill sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 11:24 PM
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Sorry, I phrased wrong. I rejected two guys in that year. Not because of the factors mentioned above, but because one forcibly kissed me and the other was real creepy saying how all girls loved how he fucked them and i'd love it too if i gave him a chance (one hour into our first date).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 11:05 PM
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Dude, i don't even know if you'll read my comment but wtv. I think you're seeing the concept of "women" as this alien thing light years away from men whose only purpose in life is to fulfill sex and looks. Truth is, women and men are basically the same. We all want someone to laugh with us and who makes us feel nice and understood. In your own analogy, you're throwing personality, moral value, life goals, interests, etc. out of the window. Its like they don't even matter to you. I feel like your…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:59 PM
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Maybe you should stop seeing women as a group and start concentrating on their individual personalities. Just because one person annoyed you doesn’t mean everyone else should pay for it. Maybe work on yourself first and ask yourself why you feel that way towards women.
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:46 PM
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