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It depends on culture and vibe, but I would try always on the first date, and the reason is that by kissing on the first date you polarize her. Either she will kill it right there, or she will date you again. Either way now you know what is up, a win-win scenario for you. The situation you mention, however, is a bad one as you do not want to make her lose face publicly. I would have either held her hand subtly while saying bye, or hugged her and kissed her forehead.
/r/seduction06/01/16 01:43 PM
11

Agreed, next her. If she comes back you'll have more leverage and if not you didn't waste your time. Win win situation.
/r/seduction01/01/15 02:17 PM
1

Pure psychobabble. Everyone enjoys the moment when they know they will obtain what they desire, women, men, your mom and the pope. Get off the high horse.
/r/seduction02/01/14 01:26 PM
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Yeah, a lot actually.
/r/seduction06/10/13 12:45 AM
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Hence why it is unchecked, alas!
/r/seduction24/09/13 02:19 PM
11

Exactly 37 months ago I sat down and made an excel sheet of life dreams I wanted to achieve. The list goes on for several dozen items, both game related and not. There is only 1 item left from that list, flying a cessna. Some of the people in this thread are better than me at expressing how it feels, but basically your life is the same but at least in my case I feel what I can only describe as being 100% comfortable with my life and myself. I would have no regrets if I died today, honestly. Like…
/r/seduction24/09/13 12:32 AM
2

What had been your success ratio with it? I've tried a few times and got numbers but never dates.
/r/seduction23/05/13 04:05 PM
1

Ahhh well, some you win some you lose. At least you gave it you all, at that's is truly the mark of a successful man.
/r/seduction27/03/13 10:37 PM
1

Update please!
/r/seduction06/01/13 08:07 PM
2

Well we're just pulling hairs now!
/r/seduction01/01/13 10:36 PM
2

Ah yes, I'll give you that for sure.
/r/seduction01/01/13 01:40 PM
4

Not good enough, at all. There is nothing lower than cockblocking a friend. Nothing.
/r/seduction01/01/13 01:06 PM
2

Wise words, don't listen to the haters.
/r/seduction22/12/12 10:28 AM
1

I agree with your general points indeed; being one of those people that think that the dancing floor is a trap, I can not comment on the specifics. If it works for you, all the better! Upvoted.
/r/seduction20/12/12 02:08 PM
2

Yeah, it's not that you are asking her to meet, it's that you are going there and she can enjoy your company/dick. Good luck and let us know how it went!
/r/seduction20/12/12 11:20 AM
2

I usually keep thing simple, something like: "Hey X, I'll be at CITY for a business meeting on DAY DAY, probably be finished by TIME, let's get a drink and catch up for while! xx" You can make it a question too, or ask if she knows if something cool is going on around the city, but that should do it. Add a winky smily if you wanna be more obvious about wanting sex.
/r/seduction20/12/12 10:56 AM
2

No doubt. One of the girls in my triad right now used to be a FWB, and today I'm meeting another ex for a fun session. The only limits are in our minds.
/r/seduction20/12/12 10:41 AM
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Not yet, I'm figuring out how to give it a bit of a personality, but I'll let you guys know ASAP. Thanks for the support!
/r/seduction20/12/12 10:27 AM
0

Are you serious? That is not only incredibly disrespectful, it WILL get your ass kicked in many circumstances.
/r/seduction20/12/12 09:58 AM
2

This has actually worked for me a few times. The trick was to make it completely and uniquely sexual from the beginning, so in every interaction with her I'd have a completely sexual tone and demeanor. Girls want sex too, and if she feels like she can have sex with you and not get the drama attached, you might be golden. On the other side, she might want to go back together after a while or it might get ugly. You need to asses your options; if you can get a new girl, that's preferable.
/r/seduction20/12/12 09:56 AM
1

Did you give her a nickname when you met her (you should) and/or did you have a particular joke together (you should)? Text her about that. I use one particular nickname a lot, pointy nose. So if there's no interaction for a while I'd text anything related to the joke (Hey pointy / I hear it's cold for pointy noses lately, what's up with you? / other joke). By contacting her with a hopefully funny and low pressure comment response rates are usually higher. However, sometimes there is just no res…
/r/seduction20/12/12 09:53 AM
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Awesome idea!
/r/seduction20/12/12 09:47 AM
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Mmm this would be hard for me to do (obtaining footage) and I feel there's people who've done it better than I could. But I'll keep it in mind, thanks.
/r/seduction20/12/12 09:44 AM
1

Cool, good one. (BTW, the answer goes along this lines: It's actually easier!)
/r/seduction20/12/12 09:34 AM
1

You'd be surprised how much girls like a guy who just goes for it. Next time you meet her don't kiss her on the cheek, just kiss her on the mouth immediately. Then at some point just hold her hand while you are walking to stop her, and kiss her well!
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:47 AM
1

There are many ways to push yourself out of your comfort zone, but I would def say try the sexual way as it is the most high reward one. The goal here is for you to become more comfortable with being a sexual being with the girl (as I assume it's kind of a lost cause anyway), so that you can reflect upon the situation and learn how to do it better next time. So, I'd say be ultra-flirty, make funny (FUNNY) dirty jokes, be slightly inappropriate in a hilarious way, etc. One that works very well fo…
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:43 AM
1

Which, the hard next or the pushing?
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:39 AM
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Hard next is stop trying anything with this one, move onto another woman. No, but you will learn faster.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:25 AM
1

Cool idea, thanks. Could you maybe reword the question to avoid possibly confusing the subject? Cheers.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:24 AM
1

Google search it, but the point is that when she introduces you to other girls she will put you in a good light. I ALWAYS do this in business and with friends too, people like it.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:23 AM
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Help your wingman as much as possible.as soon add there is a make out all bets are off.
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:55 AM
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Show her how to do a good accomplishment introduction.
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:54 AM
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Show her how to do a good accomplishment introduction.
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:54 AM
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Depends, do you have other women on the line? If so, do a hard next. If not, push more so you can learn from your mistakes.
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:52 AM
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Don't. If she is not interested she will mention that she's not single. If you still want to ask, say "so, how many boyfriends do you have" and smirk.
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:51 AM
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A good chance? Sure. But that'd be like the hardest one to pull of ever. Any reason why you thought of this one in particular?
/r/seduction17/12/12 06:30 PM
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Si.
/r/seduction17/12/12 06:27 PM
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Absolutely! I do this all the time and it works great, just keep it light hearted and fun, then change the subject.
/r/seduction17/12/12 06:27 PM
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Ah yes, I had this on my first threesome and never looked back.
/r/seduction15/12/12 11:49 PM
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First you pick up an attractive girl. Then, as she shows that she has the qualities you look for in a relationship you spend more time with her until you have the talk. Then you pick up one more girl and have a threesome :)
/r/seduction08/12/12 04:43 PM
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Ma nigga! Ain't that the truth.
/r/seduction25/11/12 12:31 PM
1

It's not a test, she's effectively saying she wants casual sex with him.
/r/seduction25/11/12 12:30 PM
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I approve of this message. She is telling you to get her in bed pretty clearly. That's what "nothing serious means".
/r/seduction25/11/12 12:29 PM
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I agree, but I was referring more to the archons Bullet point list; those are very valid points and very true, but not necessarily important in this case, as they will open you anyway.
/r/seduction21/11/12 04:59 PM
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Well your post is very interesting, something extremely useful for many to realize and I applaud you posting it here. However, I do not agree with your "lessons learned". You admitted yourself that they opened them for your money and such, so as much as those points remain in general pick-up, they are empty in this particular situation.
/r/seduction21/11/12 08:59 AM
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Excellent points, particularly the last party of your post. I'm surprised these things have to still be explicitly mentioned sometimes.
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:23 PM
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In fact I'd say it hinders him!
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:21 PM
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So the number will flake, hence the whole effort is useless when it comes to seduction. Hopefully he befriends her tho!
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:20 PM
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Chill man, you need to get laid :D
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:18 PM
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Agreed, good points.
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:17 PM
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I've had a make-out here and there with flatmates but only once proper sex while living together. Another time I had sex with a girl who was taking my room as I moved to another country. But in general even if there is sexual tension they tend to back down after things start getting hot.
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:59 AM
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I have to say that I found him to be pretty bad. I know why most people would think it's great (confidence, outcome independent, etc etc) but he was not smooth at all. Most prominently, There were several moments where he was milliseconds away from an awkward silence, and he disqualified himself way too much while making the exchange too serious. He literally begs for their attention! All of this IMHO, but again, I really would just give a 6/10 to this one. She is indeed way better than him :P J…
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:51 AM
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You win the thread!
/r/seduction15/11/12 12:50 PM
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As in you command respect and deference, and people seem to like you better for it, often putting you in leadership roles? I've noticed that, in my case. Not sure that's what you meant.
/r/seduction09/11/12 03:38 PM
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Haha that is great, where is that from?
/r/seduction08/11/12 08:38 PM
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Numbers game my good man. You'll find her (them if that's your style).
/r/seduction08/11/12 08:36 PM
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I like that you mentioned the "x" amount of girls. That was the case for a long time, and I very much know what you mean by the "what do you want" question. How has your own experience been regarding this?
/r/seduction08/11/12 08:36 PM
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I 100% know what you mean. There are some moments of my life that I'm like "I can't believe that happened". That is the rush I'm talking about indeed. Likewise with the pick-up. A few weeks ago I got my 50th girl, and I always though that it'd be this moment of celebration, but it really wasn't. It was just another day, we had some lovely fun, but no rush. It made it somewhat more intimate that a "prize pick-up", which is great too. I also agree on the last point, hence why I think we should sta…
/r/seduction08/11/12 08:35 PM
2

Indeed, I have spent most of my energy in my career and now have the job of my dreams! Good point.
/r/seduction08/11/12 08:32 PM
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Instead of saying no, say "Let's see what happens, don't you know I'm a busy man?" and wink or so. "No" will make her feel like a slut. The other option will make her feel like you are to be valued, you are funny, outcome independent, and many other "goodthings.com"
/r/seduction08/11/12 08:31 PM
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There you go: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/12uvga/advanced_success_and_postvalidation_game/
/r/seduction08/11/12 02:31 PM
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You should be worried if you did not get excited. Keep up the good work! (Now just get used to having an engaging conversation and getting her contact info smoothly).
/r/seduction08/11/12 02:15 PM
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A few points I usually make to my friends: *No matter how good you are, girls will flake/find another guy they like better/lose interest/change countries/lift ASD/get their periods unexpectedly/feel tired after work/ etc. *A lot of times girls just want a good lay and that's it. *Certain kinds of attraction (Cheeky-sexual for example) do not necessarily lead to many girls wanting to turn a casual encounter to something "more". Part of the game. To be able to say more than that I'd have to know m…
/r/seduction08/11/12 02:08 PM
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You just gave me an idea for a nice, advanced post on validation. Stay tuned!
/r/seduction08/11/12 08:00 AM
1

Agreed. Same for positive attitudes. Love postmasculine btw (I can perfectly remember when I came across it back in the day), keep up the good work.
/r/seduction07/11/12 03:19 PM
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There are some great posters around here (TokioPUA comes to mind), but it's far and between. My impression is that there is very advanced discussion, in a nutshell. I remember when I used to read and post at MASF... that is a community 100% devoted to their trade. It can get too intense and theoretical tho, but worth giving it a try if you are into proper discussion of theory as opposed to "How do I get this one girl?" or "I just did X, upvote me for useless internet points".
/r/seduction07/11/12 10:58 AM
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As much as I read Seddit, I agree. I'd say that most discussion on Seddit is not very vast in extension or deep within any particular subject. Personally Seddit is more of a "read what other people think" thing for me, than an actual "I might learn something here". There might be gems here and there, but the level of discussion is better in other places. As you said, it is really unfortunate, as Reddit has very intelligent users and a huge community. This could be the best seduction community in…
/r/seduction07/11/12 09:33 AM
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http://www.troll.me/images/mah-nigga/ma-nigga-thumb.jpg
/r/seduction07/11/12 09:27 AM
2

That was surprisingly cryptic, could you expand on it a bit?
/r/seduction07/11/12 09:26 AM
2

I'm not sure why you are being downvoted, those who have truly studied Mystery Method know you speak the truth.
/r/seduction07/11/12 08:34 AM
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Sounds about right to me, no doubt
/r/seduction22/09/12 10:13 AM
1

I found your write up interesting, and hence it was not wasted time. Thank you!
/r/seduction16/09/12 12:20 PM
1

To each their own I guess! That kind of approach is DEF not gonna work well in Spain, at least from what I've seen personally. Unless you are a regular Brad Pitt :) Again, social circle game will be paramount, and being an orgasmus is a GREAT advantage! I wouldn't worry too much if I were you. BTW, Polish girls are ultra-hot, I take it that Spanish women seem exotic to you?
/r/seduction09/09/12 03:53 PM
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I have no idea, it's very rare that I would kiss with a girl and not have sex, I would have to screw up along the road for that. I'd say from back when I lived there that kissing is easier (still harder than anywhere else I've lived). I wouldn't use daygame in the PUA sense of stopping a girl on the street at all in Madrid, but I guess it could work well in Sol and El Retiro. YMMV. But yes, most girls would consider it creepy to be approached by a foreigner/looking guy on the street :(
/r/seduction09/09/12 11:32 AM
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OK so in a nutshell, Spanish women are not very liberated when it comes to sex yet. Your best best is to get a great social circle (or better yet, a few great small circles that are not interconnected), and pull girls from those. Club game is extremely hit and miss in Spain, as girls usually require more of a seduction phase than in european countries. That being said, we call ERASMUS students orgasmus over there, for a good reason. Wrap that shit up cause I've never seen girls get crazier than …
/r/seduction08/09/12 04:07 PM
1

From that point of view, absolutely. I myself have wanted to for a while! However, beware of women that are just as insecure as any other and yet have been culturally programmed to be strong and independent, for it has created many a detached, scared of intimacy character, my most disliked flaw when it comes to Scandinavian countries. If you just want to get laid very easily with super hot women tho, go for it :)
/r/seduction07/09/12 05:51 PM
2

Sure but first let me answer your question with another question; where are you from and in what social situation will you be in?
/r/seduction06/09/12 04:50 PM
2

I would disagree with the blonde eastern thing but you never know, there's people of all tastes. Btw we do kinda have a lair going on in this thread :D
/r/seduction06/09/12 04:48 PM
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No one said the sex was bad.
/r/seduction06/09/12 04:27 PM
1

Never bothered to go there myself, but I hear similar stories, very poshy club, in the bad way.
/r/seduction06/09/12 04:26 PM
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I might be biassed as I am Spanish and considered exotic there, but basically there has been a role reversal in the nordic countries over the last few decades when it comes to pick up, with women doing most of the approaches; Swedish men are known for being un-masculine, while women are very open sexually. Whether this is due to feminism is up for scholars to debate. In this sense a masculine approach is considered very attractive. On the other hand, an aggressive approach is very badly received…
/r/seduction06/09/12 04:25 PM
2

Well, sometimes the process of the seduction itself is so much fun that it even beats the sex!
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:09 PM
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Great to hear is not just my own perception! I'm not Dutch myself but I've been living there for 4 years now. As for lairs, I'd stay clear of them.seems like not such a mentally healthy place to pt oneself into. If you want to game with others it's better to join a friend who is a natural or such, I'd think. I'm curious now, where do you game then?I might move to leiden soon but I hear Utrecht is nice too.
/r/seduction06/09/12 01:56 PM
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Have fun and meet a many people (including gaming girls) as possible. I would give it all to go back to uni knowing what I know now.
/r/seduction06/09/12 01:38 PM
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I live in Amsterdam and I can attest to this slightly. However, game with Dutch girls is notoriously uncomplicated, particularly compared to Spain. For practical purposes forget about club game in Spain. Now, in more nordic countries (Denmark, Sweden) if you have any game at all you will find yourself ahead of the curve. Amsterdam itself is however a terrible place for game! Ultra arrogant women in comparison to other Dutch cities, and too busy trying to be cool. On the other hand, if they are i…
/r/seduction06/09/12 01:33 PM
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And the other way around, surprisingly!
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:08 AM
2

It worked for me. You can find the post here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/q0rjp/fr_my_first_threesome_including_structure/
/r/seduction30/08/12 04:50 PM
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Interesting point. I shall put it in my list of things to ponder about. For now, have this upvote.
/r/seduction28/08/12 09:55 AM
3

Yyyyeah. So you know how I said... that my aim wasn’t to f-close? Well... apparently that was bullshit. He is a better player than you a playerette, as many have pointed out. In a good way :)
/r/seduction24/08/12 12:42 PM
5

Yeah, from the previous post, and now from this one, the guy was PUA for sure.
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:25 AM
1

Very interesting insight and one that somewhat unwillingly I agree with.
/r/seduction23/08/12 10:50 PM
2

Indeed. Just last week some girl mentioned that I "believe every girl likes" me. My answer: "why wouldn't I?"
/r/seduction23/08/12 10:45 PM
2

Excellent simile, I will recommend this post to my friends indeed.
/r/seduction20/08/12 01:36 PM
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I swear by this, when I had my own apartment in Amsterdam, I would always do it, to great effect. Definitely eases up her mind about going back to your place after the date, particularly if you are playing a low-pressure style (Mistery, for example).
/r/seduction12/08/12 01:10 AM
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I've never read the words "toothless bum" and "hit on her with success" in the same sentence before :O
/r/seduction19/07/12 02:13 PM
23

He had nothing to lose, so what does it matter?
/r/seduction19/07/12 10:45 AM
1

This is the kind of stuff I am wondering about - this for that.
/r/seduction12/07/12 11:14 PM
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Going to listen to this ASAP. Thanks for finding details!
/r/seduction12/07/12 11:12 PM
1

Yeah I understand the social proof aspect etc, I just think a better explanation of the conversation with the manager would explain a lot, particularly as I don't understand what he is asking of the manager?
/r/seduction12/07/12 07:32 PM
2

Ok I get the general gist of this, but how do you go about the interaction with the manager? What do you get out of bringing all the girls? Can you please provide more detail about this. PS: I know it works because I've seen things like this before, I would just like details on how you went about it.
/r/seduction12/07/12 11:54 AM
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Agreed, subtlety and atmosphere over words any day of the week.
/r/seduction11/07/12 01:05 PM
1

If you read the story you'll see that one of the girls was my girlfriend. The explanation for my view is that in many many times trying to get a girl in a threesome, every time that we've vocalized the idea it never came to be. Very similar to how you wouldn't tell a girl you are hitting on for the first time: "Hey, let's go have sex at my place". At the end of my write up I go a bit over the whole "it just happened" bit that girls are so fond of. IME rationalization of these kind of situations …
/r/seduction11/07/12 10:15 AM
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Not to be a dick, but I doubt this would work very often. I have previously posted a field report of how I managed my first threesome, maybe you guys will find it interesting: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/q0rjp/fr_my_first_threesome_including_structure/
/r/seduction11/07/12 09:03 AM
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That ship has sailed; the whole message was pretty supplicative, and her response not to good. HOWEVER, go for it! You already have the no, so might as well try!
/r/seduction09/07/12 09:55 AM
2

I think it absolutely applies. As a basketball player and guitar player, there is all the preparation: practicing, running plays or song in your mind, etc. Then there is the actual game: When you have the ball in your hands and an opposing force that might act unexpectedly. Such are ingenuous responses from girls too! Very important to be in this situation often enough to learn to control your emotions and "game". But indeed the most important time is the aftermath; I had a diary in which I woul…
/r/seduction09/07/12 09:53 AM
2

I swear by this, I'd claim that at least 90% of the times there is a kiss within minutes of doing this. I have done it too hard sometimes but even then you can recover quite easily.
/r/seduction09/07/12 09:33 AM
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Definitely, we guys love straight to the point girls! If you feel this is too risque just go on the "3 people date" and just keep eye contact with him, perhaps touch his hand at some point. He'll either get the point and act on it or pass if he's not interested. But I'd be direct if I were you, very attractive in a girl.
/r/seduction06/07/12 09:48 AM
1

Still, significantly less than the other way around.
/r/seduction02/07/12 09:30 AM
2

You... have never lived in Mediterranean countries, I can tell. Spanish an Italian girls are world renowned for being hard to get, yet they crave disgustingly large amounts of attention from other girls when going out (or in facebook, you'd be surprised at the inane postings on party pictures girls make over here).
/r/seduction29/06/12 11:10 AM
1

You should send me a PM and I'll show you the city, either for them girls or to go hunting a bit by ourselves. Obviously I live in Amsterdam ;)
/r/seduction25/06/12 01:10 PM
0

The fact of the matter is that no, you can not expect everyone else to deal with it against their will either.
/r/seduction06/06/12 06:36 AM
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I'll go ahead and just say it: I find this advice pretty logical and in many cases true enough. He just wants his son to have as nice a life as possible.
/r/seduction05/06/12 11:14 PM
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I've found this to be quite normal, actually. It is true that lots of girls become clingy, but also lots of girls just want an exciting time and after the "rush" is over they lose interest. Also happens with guys (myself included sometimes)! I think only you can find the reason why you feel like this, introspection is key, you don't give us much to work with there!
/r/seduction25/05/12 12:52 PM
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Girls with no class. I.e. when a girl curses all the time. Happens way too often in the Netherlands, alas.
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:36 AM
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Does.not.compute
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:34 AM
2

What episode is this? I take it Gob says it? Also: Hottest girl ever was all over me, but was crazy as a bat. 3/10 would not bang.
/r/seduction23/05/12 11:33 AM
2

A million times this. Somehow both sides need to read it, I hate giving an accomplishment introduction while me friend denies it. WTF?
/r/seduction04/05/12 12:33 AM
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As a PUA+developer, this sounds like something I should have thought of before :(
/r/seduction03/05/12 09:56 PM
4

Well there goes my free time
/r/seduction03/05/12 08:03 PM
3

Also known as "Make the hoe say no"
/r/seduction02/05/12 03:20 PM
1

You sir, have nailed it in the head.
/r/seduction01/05/12 11:19 PM
2

That is a great answer, thank you. I have a similarly analytic mind when it comes to women's bodies-dressing, so I appreciate what you mean.
/r/seduction17/04/12 05:53 PM
1

The obvious question then is: What exactly are you looking for in said crotch? What qualities makes a crotch more sexy than others?
/r/seduction17/04/12 05:03 PM
3

To be honest, I woulnd't worry myself with this too much. If a woman is interested in you, she will not be able to help throwing signals at you anyway. Things like distance (getting close with her back turned while her friends check you out), giggles, scratching herself or touching her hair, furtive looks, getting a drink near you at the bar, and a number of other IOIs are impossible to hide and unconscious. It is your job as a player, and a MAN to know these and act!
/r/seduction17/04/12 11:01 AM
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This, a million times this.
/r/seduction02/04/12 09:44 AM
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I consider myself to have more advice that I could write down in a lifetime, and this is a pretty good summary of things that you can start doing today. I'd add an important few: *introduce yourself to everyone who talks to her *Notice the color of her eyes, same anytime you talk to anyone *Feel like scratching or looking away? Resist. *Always say Hey to any attractive girl you cross
/r/seduction08/03/12 04:25 PM
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I am writting an article about this for my blog, I will post very soon and link it here.
/r/seduction04/03/12 08:01 PM
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I can somewhat relate to this. The interesting part is that being intelligent only helps if you already interesting in "cracking" the female reproductive software, so to speak. You need to be insightful with yourself too, so you empathize with women and be able to calibrate properly. Damn, 300 women... that's insane.
/r/seduction02/03/12 11:23 AM
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I've gotten good responses from "You should at least PRETEND like you are having fun!" in a mocking tone.
/r/seduction02/03/12 10:32 AM
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I start seeing women as a lot more beautiful This also happened to me! About an hour after my first time I was walking towards some shop and this girl just crosses in the opposite direction. BAM! She was nothing special, but I was seeing women in a different way... a sexual way, finally. Props and cheers for moer to come!
/r/seduction28/02/12 04:49 PM
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Lol. Maybe if you live in Amsterdam and you bring some hot blondes :)
/r/seduction27/02/12 03:40 PM
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Great post, couldn't agree more with it. To front page with this!
/r/seduction27/02/12 01:53 AM
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Another one: Other men will hate you once you get good at anything. They will especially hate you if you're good with women. Ignore them if they hate you because it means you're doing something right and they're doing something wrong. Also true. And I gotta say, it is a balancing art to not get upset at jealous guys who try to pick up a fight over some bimbo. Lots of confidence are needed to become good with women; even more is needed to stay on the top.
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:52 AM
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Internalizing all the tiny details of game will come in time. A hundred times this! Game DOES become internalized. You see that charming, fun guy on the corner with the amazing blonde in his arms? Chances are, he also had to get over his insecurity, bad posture, and approach anxiety. He came thru with it and now he doesn't even think about it, because he INTERNALIZED what he PRACTICED. You can be this guy too, if you put the effort in.
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:48 AM
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"Why the fuck would a deaf chick come to a club?" I LOL'd.
/r/seduction24/02/12 12:32 PM
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Very nice! Of course with any de-flaking it doesn't mean anything is gonna come out of it later, but I think this one did what it had too: re-initiate conversation and giving you the upper hand about it. Funnyly enough, they always have an excuse so as to evade the "impolite" label. Good job and good luck!
/r/seduction24/02/12 08:59 AM
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Wow I couldn't have explained better myself, thank you! This is exactly the point.
/r/seduction24/02/12 08:54 AM
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I don't need to justify myself to anyone around here ;) As you said, just somewhat annoying.
/r/seduction23/02/12 02:28 PM
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And almost 100% of the girls that are willing to go on a date are also dtf. Extremely interesting. I share your experience in this field, I can not remember when was the last time I went on a date with no sex at some point. However, I would love to hear more about your thought process as to why this is. Also, what about rate of flake-recoveries? Finally, is this in Tokio? Would you say cultural differences influence your rates greatly? Cheers!
/r/seduction23/02/12 11:52 AM
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I would say so, for sure. I feel, however, like there are several stages to progress thru, and in the middle stages there is probably a component of over-compensation and over-mechanization. Less is more is definitely something I've come to appreciate more as I grow older and are not so intimidated by life situations. Very related to my motto: Make her comfortable in her own attraction. As they say, winning the game is getting out of the game... but still being good with HBs ;)
/r/seduction23/02/12 11:19 AM
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Hey, that is great, I really hope it works out for you! That is the whole point. Care to go into this flake/reaction? I'm not sure where then, but I have def read some posts by you. Pretty cool stuff, specially considering that you are based in Tokyo. Expect a PM from me soon :) 始めまして !!
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:47 AM
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Beautiful answer, have all my upvotes kind sir!
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:31 AM
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Haven't seen so: Not sure if compliment or sarcasm. I'll take it as a compliment anyway, thanks :P
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:30 AM
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PM me, I'll share but not publicly, too much hate around these parts :P. Btw, your nickname is... disturbing o_O
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:27 AM
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Mmm not really. To be 100% honest, the ammount of hate I have seen after posting around seddit makes me a bit uncomfortable to share my own routines. I'll just say this one actually involves the girl putting eyeliner on you. If any non-haters are interested in it, PM me and I might post it.
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:26 AM
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Send me a copy :D
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:24 AM
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You know how a great basketball player sees the hoop as way bigger than a normal player does? Since this happened I have come to realize that 3somes are way more common than people think. Have an attractive life, be a good guy, respect the girls and you will get it. Good luck!
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:24 AM
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Not really, this happened when I was learning, and now I use a much more natural (yet indirect as in gentleman-like) approach. Now I appreciate other aspects of seduction outside routines and structure more. Whereabouts in the Netherlands are you mate?
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:23 AM
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Correct, not totally wasted. In fact, I didn't even have a hungover. I can'speak for the girls but I don't thing they were "wasted" either.
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:21 AM
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Waking up with two girls under my arm was the best feeling in the world. True dat, thanks for sharing! I def agree with all your points, and specially about chasing the dragon. I still got this in my system but have to suppress it since I'm in a relationship now. Very hard to balance desire and responsability, even tho worth it. Also, there is a big part of luck in getting a 3some I think. The situation has to be just right, and it's not something you can just create out of thin air. It's all a …
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:20 AM
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Yeah I've noticed a lot of hate, particularly on the other thread. Too bad, I am posting this so people can get any info that might be useful for them. Haters gonna hate! Cool guys gonna get 3somes :D
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:17 AM
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This is correct. I don't practice MM anymore, even tho the structure is ingrained in my brain now and is still useful.
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:16 AM
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We are still best friends, actually, even tho we haven't been together for a year now. Awesome awesome girl! There are some around... Just go for the really open-minded ones ;)
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:15 AM
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Agreed!
/r/seduction22/02/12 04:34 PM
5

Both are pretty bad, casual conversation is the only way to go here. Hard one.
/r/seduction22/02/12 12:46 PM
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True dat. The only thing I could say is just to say "hey" when you cross her and if a natural conversation sparks up great, don't force it.
/r/seduction22/02/12 12:45 PM
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Definetely do it! I kept a journal untill my 65th approach or so, at that time I was having LTMRs with HB8+ girls and a few threesomes, so I stopped writting, but if I were to say what helped improve the most I'd say it was the journal. It will help you reflect on what you did or didn't, just by the fact that you have to write it in a clear manner. Also, it is great to get in state when having an off day, just read over your best sarges :)
/r/seduction22/02/12 11:39 AM
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DO NOT, I repeat, DO NO tell her that! 100% creepy my man... If you must, definetely go for the second option. This is the best source I have found regarding Gym game, even tho I haven't personally tried much there, as I go to train, not to socialize. Might be useful tho: http://tinyurl.com/7dvl3d4
/r/seduction22/02/12 09:58 AM
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Just ignore it. I've never had a girl say that to me and not do her that very night. She is saying it because it is already in her mind, so just make her comfortable enough for it to happen and you are good to go!
/r/seduction22/02/12 09:52 AM
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Yeah this is pretty good too, it all depends on the context. This one is tried and true, no doubt!
/r/seduction22/02/12 09:46 AM
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Hey are you the TokyoPickup from masf? We might have a legend among us gentlemen!
/r/seduction22/02/12 09:45 AM
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Great question. I'm going to bed now but tomorrow I will get into it with more detail. Cheers!
/r/seduction21/02/12 11:21 PM
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I have 2: *Realizing what is now my motto: Make her comfortable in her own attraction. People underestimate how much animal attraction there is between men and women. As long as you make her feel safe and comfortable with her own feelings about her attraction to you, the more she will feel like acting on them. *The power of silence: Let her talk. The one talking is the one being validated!
/r/seduction21/02/12 04:53 PM
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7, out of which 5 f-closed :) Note tho, as per previous criticism, that this works for my style! I'm not implying it will work in all situations, please read previous discussions. Also: Flaking is gonna happen no matter how good you are. These strategies are good to use when needed, but don't abuse them. Nothing can beat just going for a SNL instead of risking a flake.
/r/seduction21/02/12 03:45 PM
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Very interesting points. Guilt: This one I struggled with for a while too. I realized for the longest time that I had urges that were frowned upon by society, and had to find out what path I wanted to take. Of course, this took a lot of thinking (years, in fact), until I figured out my ethical stance. I could summarize it like this: I just like to surround myself with awesome people, and sometimes part of our friendship involves having physical contact. As long as we enjoy it, that's it. It does…
/r/seduction21/02/12 03:17 PM
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I see your points, however I disagree (perhaps I left some contextual info out). For the sake of discussion let's go over them: Where do you see the "thinking about her all the time"? This is never implied at all, what is implied is that something that we were discussing previously reminded you of the conversation you had (contextual information missing here is that it was a great conversation, with lots of attraction already present!) You go too hard on the DLV stuff, decent people wish others …
/r/seduction21/02/12 02:59 PM
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Hi Missingabroad, I have been dealing with MLTRs for about 3-4 years now, usually dealing with 2-4 girls at the same time, with 1 primary. It definetely does take a particular mindset and can be hard if you don't know what you are doing. It takes time to get good at it. Let me know if you have particular questions, I'd love to help out!
/r/seduction20/02/12 03:57 PM
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To be honest my LMR system starts before there is any LMR. I just tease her so much she can't resist. Examples: First kiss: once our lips are really close and we are gonna kiss for the first time, stop right there for 2-3 seconds and grin. Move slightly forward or back wih her to make her want it more. Undressing: kiss her neck and the stop, touch her wih clothes on and then just pass a finger between pants and panties, then go back to kissing etc. always forwards and back. The point is to make …
/r/seduction19/02/12 02:54 PM
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Indeed, this is exactly what I meant. Well put sir!
/r/seduction18/02/12 07:03 PM
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Seconded.
/r/seduction18/02/12 12:24 AM
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Agreed. She might try to have "the talk" after a number of hookups, as most will. Then it might be time to cut it off, alas. But yes, it is kinda like being a hot girl in that way.
/r/seduction18/02/12 12:23 AM
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I used to have this problem, but for other reasons. I used to only think of women in sexual terms, so wouldn't befriend them. However, now I have lots of female friends, because I have come to love their femenine nature beyond sex. Honestly, I think it's lots of fun to talk about "girlie" things with them, like relationships, psychology, music, even fashion! Maybe start by a "how was your day?" and take it from there ;)
/r/seduction18/02/12 12:21 AM
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10000% agree. I use indirect, but keep it sensual and sexualized, and even tho there are times for direct, I believe it to be the most commonly usable way, since most circumstances won't allow for direct. Have an upvote!
/r/seduction18/02/12 12:17 AM
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I believe you are going thru early growing pains. I had this time about a year and a half ago, when I was 3 months or so intoe Game, where I knew enough routines but didn't completely understand the structure of the process. I candidly remember writting notes about the structure of my pickups so I could understand them, and I 100% agree with your statement: structure is more important than routines. Nowadays, I have my own routines but the structure has always been the same stated in the MM. So …
/r/seduction18/02/12 12:15 AM
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N.E.X.T!!! Don't waste your energy trying to figure it out. Some people are just not worth it. Learn the power of NEXT :)
/r/seduction18/02/12 12:04 AM
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I, for one, find it horrible. Sometimes a girl will be into this kind of thing, but then you will know bevause she will bring up these kind of "games" herself. With more obertly sexual girls this might be received as... "childish".Also, feels a bit like a high school test. But then again, I am a defender of fluid conversation over canned material.
/r/seduction18/02/12 12:01 AM
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Agreed. The sooner you escalate, the better. It is easier to go from "possible hookup" to friend, than the other way around.
/r/seduction17/02/12 11:57 PM
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"Thank you, I am $name" seems like a good first step. Shake hands. You are now officialy in a conversation :) Also, I agree with inviting girls to jam sessions. However, don't play too long (1-2 songs), just say that you are there to enjoy yourself and not perform.
/r/seduction17/02/12 11:54 PM
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Interesting. I personally believe that is better to "ignore" her flirting, def better than acknowledging it and talking about it. You need a bit of tension to work, and talking about the sexual nature of the relationship usually defuses such tension. Also, getting played: massive turn-off.
/r/seduction17/02/12 11:50 PM
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For me, this always works: -She asks for a drink me: Sorry I don't buy girls... (why?) cause I'm not a SUCKER (funny tone)... in fact usually girls get me a drink! If you can keep it funny and not needy it definetely works to set yourself apart from others, yet not lose the conversation. Also, most of the times I do get a free drink from young sweet things :) Regarding the self-respect thing, well, it does sound like you were too cocky. Maybe she would have been great to take home, maybe you are…
/r/seduction17/02/12 11:48 PM
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