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FeminismColorMePoorly/r/MensRights16/04/19 01:49 AM
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I think I can debate some of your ideas. First, of course there's some women who exhibit toxic behaviours a, there's also men who do it. Humans are often hypocrites, and I don't think it serves anyone to try to argue which sex is more or less toxic, when "toxicity" is in itself pretty hard to define. What I like to do, is surround myself with people who don't tend to emit a lot of toxicity, and challenge views that I don't agree with in my circle. Unwanted pregnancies: I would love to see some s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:20 PM
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Wait wait wait, let me see if I understand correct. You're out here challenging the views of everyone who mentions being critical of a situation where their son would be accused of SA (because you probably would believe your son and support him, hence not judge him). But you're also saying that if your daughter would tell you she had been SAd, internally you wouldn't believe her, and you would judge her? Do you actually believe it's more likely that someone lies about being SAd than tells the tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:59 AM
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Not original commenter but I agree with her comment. I have dated a guy the same height as me for a few years. It was never an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:08 PM
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It's not a consent issue. You consent to sex, while accepting possible risks associated. You should take accountability for your own body, birth control pills are not 100% reliable. If you were so against a surprise pregnancy, why didn't you take the obvious action to prevent it even better, with a condom? People need to be more active in their own advocacy. If I understood well, you had unprotected sex with someone you barely knew. You never consented to an STD, but it's something you could hav…
/r/MensRights15/03/24 03:25 PM
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It's so weird to me when someone goes on a tirade like OPs, describing what they seem to think is "the one type of woman that exist", citing weird details like phone, music, etc. And I'm reading it from my little life full of very diverse friends who have a lot of things in common while also being mostly different... When I read OPs text, I honestly feel like he's attracted to one "physical type", rich white woman maybe, and is so angry that pursuing the same type of woman yields the same result…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:48 PM
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It's so weird to me that OP mentions that sometimes there are warning signs (like public shaming) before physical abuse, and then a lot of commenters find it appropriate to say that he may not have been emotionally abusive, when we pretty much have proof that he was physically abusive.... what's the point you all are trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:27 PM
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Don't worry about it, I don't take things too personally. I'll be sure to try to bring the other side of the story if I see someone trying to cancel him over that. Take care!
/r/MensRights10/07/23 01:21 AM
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You know what, you're right. I stand corrected. She seems bitter because he's happy and got the life he wanted and deserved.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 01:18 AM
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Thank you, I'll go watch it!
/r/MensRights10/07/23 01:05 AM
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You seem to be on a warpath against me. I don't see how that's about my insecurities. I'm not talking about myself or a situation pertaining to me, just a POV.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 12:46 AM
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Okay let's start with them. What do you think they are, stranger who doesn't know me?
/r/MensRights10/07/23 12:44 AM
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Look, we're obviously not on the same page, but I feel like you're purposefully twisting my words. She did a shitty thing, putting the texts on a public forum. I'm not saying he's a manipulative or abusive pos. I don't know them. But the texts are out, and from what we can see, I wanted to offer my perspective, which is what I originally said: I don't see these texts as him being "respectful " about his demands. On the whole, if he didn't want to date a surfer who took pictures in bikinis, he di…
/r/MensRights10/07/23 12:43 AM
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How so?
/r/MensRights09/07/23 08:41 PM
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Thank you I try
/r/MensRights09/07/23 08:22 PM
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Oh and I agree it's shitty to make those texts public. But now that they're out there, my point t was that he didn't seem "respectful" to her. (She doesn't seem respectful to him either)
/r/MensRights09/07/23 08:22 PM
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I don't think boundaries and agreements are the same thing. You probably have an agreement with your wife about sexual and romantic exclusivity. Your boundary would probably be that if she broke that agreement, you would either divorce or try to reconciliate but with a list of things you need her to do to rebuild your trust. Am I the only one that sees it like that?
/r/MensRights09/07/23 08:20 PM
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I don't think it's about his boundaries being reasonable or not, I just don't think they're actually 'boundaries'. He's using that term but only for the sake of telling her what he wants her to do. If those were truly boundaries he would have already broken up with her at that point. She's a surfer who modeled for some brands from what I understood. He knew that and that's probably something that attracted him at first. And maybe he realized he was feeling insecure about it after the fact (or ma…
/r/MensRights09/07/23 08:15 PM
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I honestly don't see him being respectful in those texts. He's using the word "boundaries" as a means to control what she can and can't do, and that's not what boundaries are. Boundaries are for yourself, not for others. It does seem like it stems from insecurities. To me she seemed reasonable in her allegations, pointing out that it does not make him a bad person, he was just not good Fer her un their relationship. Her feelings are easily understandable and it's not hard to imagine the repercus…
/r/MensRights09/07/23 07:22 PM
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That's the thing, I just don't know that that's true. Is it really what the most influential feminists describe as an ideal world, or is it your perception of it? I have yet to see that. Some people might call themselves feminists and claim this as their ideal world. Imo they give a bad name to feminism for sure. And I'm evidently against anything of the sort. But if they were thay influential, surely I would be able to see that influence? I don't see hordes of people claiming the same stuff, wa…
/r/MensRights01/07/23 08:28 PM
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Okay but that's not what I'm saying though. I understand your point. But I also think that usually the world is more Grey than black and white. I don't think feminists are out to get you, and I don't think mra are out to get me. But in this sub, people seem to think feminists are the devil and that their whole reason for existence is to bring down men. I agree there are a lot of problematic choices and policies and discourse that are made by feminists. But does it automatically make any feminist…
/r/MensRights01/07/23 04:45 PM
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I agree with you. I'm a woman, and a feminist at that, so I know I'm completely hated here. I do lurk because I'm interested in understanding men's struggles better. Unfortunately, some percentage of this sub is basically femenist-hating. I'd love to have a reasonable conversation on here about gender issues, but I don't think I'm allowed to post hahaha. This kind of post paints a very horrible version of feminism, but I'm disappointed that people don't take the time to acknowledge that that's j…
/r/MensRights01/07/23 02:20 PM
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I don't understand the point of your post. I guess if it's to make broad generalizations and exaggerations to circle jerk with other people, you achieved that. But I can give you the benefit of the doubt and try to engage with you to hopefully challenge your view a bit. Here's my hot take, in a broad, human-scale sense, women are not out to get men, and vice versa. I do think, strongly, that for everybody's sake and future, we should encourage everyone to stay/become accountable for our mistakes…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 06:02 PM
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I didn't mean it to come out that way, I'm sorry that it did. I only think that internet is a magnifying glass, and if you're reading a lot of things on the internet and feeling discouraged and depressed because of the apparent state of things, maybe it's a sign you should get your nose out of the internet and see for yourself that a lot of the things that depress is on the internet (opinions of a whole gender about another whole gender) just don't really appear out there!
/r/MensRights01/03/23 01:02 AM
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I see there's a lot of hurt in this post. I'd like to address it a bit, but my comment is good for pretty much all comments on this post, so I'll just start a new comment. I don't know of anyone will see this. I empathize with you, I really do. A lot of things suck in this life. I'm a woman, and I have my own problems, my society's problem, my human problems, and I can empathize with men's problems even if I don't have them. You're right about a lot of these problems, but I think, the degree and…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 03:16 PM
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Well, that might change if you successfully work on your height insecurity!
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 02:06 AM
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Okay but where does this number of ideal height comes from? Probably from the internet, right? You ask how to get rid of the insecurity. First thing might be accepting that internet is not the real world, and ideally you want a girlfriend from the real world, not the internet. It might not be too hard for you to understand that since you said you're out of the red pill. I think that means you already understood to some degree that internet is not the real world. Next thing is to look around your…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 02:05 AM
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Omfg. Why are you posting here if you're not ready for an honest conversation? Btw, you're the one doing all the whataboutism. I only tried to level with you in my last comment because I thought maybe that way I would reach you better. Clearly I was wrong. You missed my whole point and are entrenched in your "woe-is-me" view, that's sad. Anyway goodbye.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 12:23 PM
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Again, you're trying to gender things that are just non-gendered. I could say the same about women. It seems you can't stop comparing so I'll try to show you. Women have had their lives ruined by partners leaving them after making them financially dependent. Lots of women were sexually assaulted. It's true, and it's also true that some men had their lives ruined by divorce court. It's all true. It's just different, so can we stop comparing? We care about women's issues because we've been fightin…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 01:55 AM
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You're right, maybe these are more MRA opinions. Anyways, they are still coming from the internet, from people who are maybe hurting as much as you and trying to find reasons. Society does have faults and injustices, but some of that speech is stemming more from people who are trying to find the cause of their suffering than from facts. If you stop listening to internet doom specches, it will notake the real issues disappear, that's right. But it will help you get free from the bias that it give…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 06:25 PM
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I see that you're hurting, a lot. I'm sorry for you, that sucks. But also, you're talking in absolutes here, and I'm pretty sire if there is only one truth in this world, is that pretty much nothing is absolute. You seem to hate a lot of things about yourself, and that's shitty. I hope that you will eventually you will be able to accept some of the things about yourself. You talk about having no value, not even intrinsically. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but your speech sounds a lot (like exactly) l…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 03:46 PM
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Okay well then, maybe you still need some reframing. You seem to say that you have some sort of threshold for what you find attractive in women. You seem to say that most women who don't meet that threshold are agreeable to you, and most women who do meet that threshold are not agreeable to you. It's highly improbable that this does not reflect on some of your own behaviours instead of just society. So do you think you can look inside and find if you've actually interacted differently with women…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/22 12:34 AM
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Hmmm then maybe some more introspection is needed. Why aren't you attracted to people who treat you well?
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 05:49 PM
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I don't understand what you mean. You don't have a window into your future to know all the future women you will date and organize them depending on your intentions within these relationships. Also, what are you on about getting the fun out of your system? If your goal is to eventually get married and stay with that partner long te, wouldn't you want that relationship to be fun? Anyway, I would suggest you stay open to possibilities regarding casualness or seriousness of your future relationship…
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 05:46 PM
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What does mimicking the act of sex is? What is masturbation if not a form of sex? I'm assuming you think that it's all about PIV? Do you think that only PIV is legit sex? If so, that's your bias, not facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:51 AM
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I'm guessing you won't believe us if we say that women masturbate, alone, often, for our own pleasure, without a man present?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:47 AM
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I think you got good advice from others, but in can add social media and YouTube: they will keep showing you what you are looking at. You should try to stop consuming that content. You can actively indicate that you want to stop seeing similar content, and you can look for the things you want to see (search about your hobbies or YouTubers that are not red pill), so that the algorithm stops sending you red pilled videos. It will be easier not to think about it every time you see a couple because …
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 01:14 PM
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The last time I did was 2.5 years ago. We met, hit it off, after the event we started texting and I felt that we were flirting a lot. After hours of texting I asked him out so we went on a date. The date went really well and I liked him a lot so I made my foolproof move: I told him I've wanted to kiss him all night. That way he definitely knows I'm interested, and I know he knows. And it gives him the choice if he wants to kiss me or not. Luckily we kissed and we've been living together for almo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:10 PM
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Maybe you want to take a look at this: https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/adolescent-pregnancy "Early childbearing can increase risks for newborns as well as young mothers. Babies born to mothers under 20 years of age face higher risks of low birth weight, preterm delivery and severe neonatal conditions.4 In some settings, rapid repeat pregnancy is a concern for young mothers, as it presents further health risks for both the mother and the child.17" Unfortunately most studies look …
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 07:34 PM
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Okay there's a lot here but you seem to come from a good place... Why do you assume that women do not masturbate at all like men? You want women's point of view but then you basically claim that it's a fact that women don't masturbate like men. Anyway, I think it needs to be said again: women are not a monolith, men are not a monolith. Some women will masturbate with a whole candles setting and music, some won't, some will do that sometimes, some will just scratch an itch and will be done in min…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:42 PM
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I think maybe you think that the baseline implies that anybody who meets that base should be able to find relationships. When most people talk about a baseline, they're saying that it's the necessary base actions to be a decent human being is our society. We shouldn't confuse things and assume that being a decent human being in our society is automatically enough (and maybe even guaranties) to be able to find a relationship. Even if you're the most agreeable person on earth, nobody owes you a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:36 AM
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Hmmmm I feel like maybe you didn't quite understand how that sentence is used. When I see people mention that being nice is a bare minimum, is usually because of a specific situation: when a woman has been in/chosen relationships where the man treated her poorly, and for once she is with a man who doesn't, he is nice to her, and so it doesn't matter of their personalities are actually compatible, she thinks she loves him just because for once she is with someone nice. When that happens, people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:20 AM
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You might be right. Still, noot a very commendable trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:35 PM
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Well, this is certainly what people on the internet SAY happens, but I don't think it's that common in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:56 PM
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Also he can't possibly have sex with all women at the same time. What is it to him that the women he's not having sex with are having sex with someone else? If it's not insecurity (wanting to be the only one who can, for no apparent reason) I don't know what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:35 AM
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I don't think you read the entirety of her sentence. She's saying that she doesn't understand why men who CAN have sex without emotions would decide to have sex with some people who are not like that (therefore playing them) rather than seeking women who also can have sex devoid of emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:30 AM
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I'm pretty sure we call them "nice guys" because of the endless times one of those nice guys had a discourse of "I did something for her to get in her pants, she refused, and I don't understand why she won't let me, I'm such a nice guy". No, we don't like "nice guys" TM. But also, truly nice people are nice, sure, but it doesn't mean you have to want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:21 AM
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I beg to differ. https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2gtits/how_old_were_you_the_first_time_you_were/ ​ I get that it can be hard to know someone's age just by looking at them, and at 16 you could get confused if a 12yo looked 16, but a 40yo man shouldn't even look at someone who looks 16, no matter the teen's real age. Young women look like young women, if a man is sexualizing her it's not because he's 'age blind', but because he's as asshole. Sexualization is shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:26 PM
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hmmmm "traumatising children by pushing sexualisation boundaries". She's clearly talking about children/young girls/teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:03 PM
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First I agree that there is a pressure on men to perform ie get and keep erections. But there is also pressure in women to perform. It's not the same kind of pressure, it's more about sometimes feeling the need to put on a show, to moan like a porn star, to make it look like porn, etc. I'm not saying that it's a majority, I don't know, but I know this pressure exists and can kill all the fun for women too. So, both sexes experience pressures. Also, there are women who are bad at sex of course, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:33 PM
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But it's still not about fairness! Michael Phelps has unfair advantages, yet you don't try to prevent him competing with other men. Why are you fixating on trans women? Less than one percent of people are transgender, and that translates in athletes too. This is such a low number, at this point this is just picking on someone for transphobic reasons. " Oh, a trans woman athlete is good! It doesn't matter that she was always good and ranked highly with men too, this is unfair to the poor cis wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:17 PM
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You know that's not what I'm saying. If we really want people to compete with people of their own abilities, we would have to make categories for all the characteristics that can make someone better or worse at their sport. How much webbed is their feet, what are their hemoglobin levels, bone density, are they double-jointed, etc. This is entirely unpractical. Also, they can be tiny differences, so it would be hard to classify people. Right now the main ccategories are men and women, which are b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:59 PM
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Okay let's talk about Lia Thomas, because I think she's the one who sparked the debate this time around. She is in the top, but not because she transitioned. She was in the top even when she competed in men's categories. She is not a threat to ciswomen because of her transidentity, she is just good competition. Her times actually suffered after her transition, she lost some power. When she was competing in men's categories, she was already in the national top 100. That's a fucking accomplishment…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:48 PM
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Hmmm how is it not a fair competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:07 AM
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I never get these situations. They are clearly invented by a man who THINKS this is how it happens and gets worked up and angry about a hypothetical situation that doesn't happen often, for the very reason that it's not logical. It might happen, but it's far from the norm. I was in a somewhat similar situation at one point. I had a few FWB at the same time, I saw each every one or two weeks, we were having fun. But it's worth noting that I didn't have sex with them on the first date. We start ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:50 PM
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Yeah but if she rejected you, you'd call her names, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:54 PM
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I started having sex exactly at twenty :p. I wasn't remaining a "virgin" by choice (I don't like that word), I had been horny for sex with another person since I was 14. I just wasn't attractive to others I guess. No one looked at me that way. In a school where most girls started wearing makeup and fitting clothes very early, the thin nerdy girl with big glasses and ugly clothes wasn't really making the cut hahahah. When I was traveling by myself at 20 I met someone who became a close friend, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:49 PM
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I feel like you think there os an ideal Script for women, and another one for men, and you're asking why not every women follow their ideal Script. For the simple reason that (I'm sad that I have to say it yet again), women (and men) are not a monolith. We ALL, individually, have our own goals, aspirations, way to live life, successes, shortcomings, preferences, etc. Some women will do it because it will appeal to them, other women won't because it simply will not appeal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:22 PM
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Yes, and a lot of women suffer from terrible loneliness and dismissal of their feelings. Why does it have to be a contest? My point was that we all suffer, sometimes from different reasons, and maybe we should try to stop dismissing the other gender's problems just because we feel we also have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:43 PM
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Images never really did anything for me. When I was not in a relationship, I mostly got horny for a sexy voice, the way a person touched me, or the way I 'imagined' someone touching me, or imagining touching the other person and hearing their voice. Now that I'm a committed relationship with my partner, there's a huge emotional factor, and I basically get horny for his voice and any way he touches me. But yes, I'm definitely less visual, apart from looking at my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:48 PM
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Maybe less horny, maybe simply horny for different things
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:14 PM
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Of I WANTED to receive a nude, sure , I would want it to be with more context than just a penis. But no, I don't want your nudes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:07 PM
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Also, most dick pics are just that, a photo of a dick, no context. Most nudes sent by women are actually showing more of the whole body, and if she's putting some effort in it, the light, the angles, the position can be very flattering and a very hot photo. Not the same as a photo of a penis in a hand. I was absolutely horny for the nudes my ex sent me because he took actual photos of his body, I wouldn't have wanted a photo of only his penis. And I never sent him a photo showing only my genital…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:17 AM
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Yep, it's sad. I think as a whole, women have different problems and struggles than men, and they are all valid. While we are trying to stay safe, men are struggling with loneliness. It's big generalizations, but they are still big struggles. ​ I've had a man here tell me that he would rather be used than useless, regrading dating and loneliness. It seems crazy to me because I would defenitely prefer to be alone than be used (in a bad relationship).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:14 PM
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Apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:32 PM
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I guess the difference is that I would prefer to be useless than to be used
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:24 PM
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It depends what kind of value you mean, I guess. If you mean the relationship/sexual value a straight man would give her, from this sub it seems that any woman deemed too promiscuous would lose her value for him. On the other hand, if it is true that women put that much on value on their male partner being able to provide for her, than he loses the relationship/sex value for her if he doesn't have the means to provide. Is that what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:57 PM
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Hmm okay I'll try to explain my reasoning. Firstly, I always have trouble understanding "what" is femininity and masculinity. To me these are completely social construct and I believe we should move past them, as a society. Although obviously we have not moved past it so it does influence interpersonal relationships. Still, I don't really get it, and from research I've settled on the idea that masculinity and femininity are the characteristics that are socially attributed to that gender. From th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:51 PM
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Maybe you don't look at her as being inferior, but I'm willing to bet that wouldn't want to be perceived to have the same feminine traits because you would find it demeaning
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:36 PM
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I wouldn't necessarily agree with that. I don't believe that the difference between the both are that drastic. I don't think feminity is automatically given.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:57 PM
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I think it comes from that old thinking of masculinity being better than feminity. From there, a lot of things happen. Men don't want to be less masculine or more feminine because they would be "lesser", women don't mind taking on more masculine approaches to things because masculinity is more valued. Also, feminity is used as an insult against men, like being "less of a man" if you like certain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:53 PM
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Maybe I didn't understood you clearly, but I think you mixed things up in your reasoning. It's not because a partner used to have a "better" partner that they will still be aiming towards that goal. Sure, she dated Christiano Ronaldo, but what if he cheated on her and treated her awfully? And then later on met you, fell in love, and you guys entertain a beautiful relationship based on love and respect. I bet she won't wish she would still be with the ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:43 AM
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Honestly, I think the big mistake people in your situation often do is wanting to wait until things are a bit better before finally ending it. You were given good advice, I hope you will follow it because chances are you will only start to feel better AFTER you've finally ended the relationship. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:39 AM
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I hope you misspelled "ex-girlfriend"...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:36 AM
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Hmm obviously that's not what I meant. When you look at a woman, interact with a woman or consider a future with a woman, what is the most valuable to you? Is it her beauty? I'm genuinely curious. I think it would be absurd for someone to say that it's all they value about a woman, because obviously we can all be valuable in many different ways, but honestly some comments here give the impression that ALL that is valuable about a woman is her beauty. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:27 PM
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I'm sorry, I guess I forgot who I was talking to here, my bad. Honestly to me all of this sounds absurd, because I prefer to remember everyone's intrinsic value, which is not dependant on beauty or whatever makes someone attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:15 PM
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I think no one argues against the idea that younger women are more attractive than older women. I think the arguing against "the wall" is about the idea that older women are less attractive because they lost "value".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:39 PM
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I don't really remember doing that. The only case that comes to mind was when I was long distance with a partner and he started lying to me about another girl he started dating, and I "felt" like I had to compete with her for him. I should have broke up right when I felt this, because it really wasn't healthy or fair. Otherwise, no. Honestly, if I have to compete for the man already with, then there is something wrong with the relationship imo. I shouldn't feel that he's weighing his options wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:58 AM
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I guess that's also possible. But, from what I've seen, it's not just women who make the comments about more beautiful women dating less beautiful men. It's often men who make these comments. So it's not just women unable to objectively assess someone's attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:36 AM
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I think you see it more because you look for it more. I've seen numerous people online make comments about "how the hell are all these incredibly beautiful women dating average or less-than-average men". I think all of it is true, but maybe we notice what we look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:51 PM
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Any and all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:52 PM
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Why do you assume you know better than a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:49 PM
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Maybe it's time to start listening to how people treat and talk to women... That's exactly what we get called if we enjoy having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:25 AM
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I honestly don't get where you get the 'most women are like that' impression. It seems to me, from how you wrote this, that you consider yourself part of the " Most men just want a wife or girlfriend who is kind, loyal, and cute. They don’t really care about career status, ambition, or other petty stuff.". I'm sure you can understand that there will be outliers and men who think differently, because men are simply not a monolith. ​ Well I say that the same can be said of women. I think most of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:41 PM
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Yep, same here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:46 PM
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Good for you! I guess we just have very different ways to deal with others
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:18 PM
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If it works out for you, that's great. I just hope you don't get discouraged and bitter, because not many people will meet your standards, and if you had more flexible rules it could allow some people to positively surprise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:59 PM
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Good luck then, barely moral person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:26 PM
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Yeah, I understand your point, I still don't get why. Why the number of times is important? What if they/you don't remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:44 PM
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All right, you do you boo. As long as you're happy with your way, and are able to find people who also want to play like that, why not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:10 PM
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So someone can change and still be consistent with their true nature, but they really need to treat all their s/O's exactly the same way? I'm trying to understand your thinking, because honestly it feels so rigid and restrictive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:03 PM
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But are you able to accept when someone in your life changes a bit? Because it must happen, and if you hate it then your life must be hard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:02 PM
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I understand wanting consistency in one relationship, but why does it have to extend to past relationships? People grow, mature, change, and the stuff they like to do change, it's normal I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:54 PM
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What! You're saying that if she had a traumatic experience that made her not want to do something anymore you would rather leave than accept that this act won't happen? Respectfully, I think that's crazy thinking! Is that act so important to your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:52 PM
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That's a pretty big leap. Why do you feel that it's usually what happens? It's definitely not the norm that I have witnessed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:45 PM
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Why? Why is it so important? I really don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:44 PM
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I don't agree at all. There are more reasons possible for this. For example I used to quite like getting lightly choked by my ex boyfriend, he liked and I didn't really mind. Later, something happened with a friend where he was in a sort of psychosis and seriously choked me to the point I had trouble chocking. Now I don't want my partner to choke me during sex, he understands why and is super respectful. But he also is not someone who would be offended if I wasn't okay doing stuff with him that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:43 PM
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What in the hell made you think this was an accurate translation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:12 PM
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Yes, we agree. Again, this thread began by someone saying that it's not news that men will do what they need to do if they want to have sex. I just said it, why do you feel the need to add it when it has just been said? Also, I don't see any place in this thread talking about the obsession some men have with sex. In other threads of the conversation, sure, but not in this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:32 PM
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I guess I have a below average intelligence then, because you really lost me. The original comment was literally about "yes, we know that men will do anything for sex, even deceive us". This is not news. I don't get what you are arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:12 PM
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The comment you originally responded to was saying that they're under the impression that guy's on here really are absolutely obsessed with having sex. Your answer to that was "you should know by now", and I added that, no, not all men have that obsession, and it's hurtful to spread that idea. And your last comment made me think you totally misunderstood me. I wasn't equating " doing what needs to be done" to someone's life goal. But I do think that the conversations here really gives the impres…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:36 PM
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I don't necessarily agree with you, but even if you were right. No matter what is the motivation, deception is when someone isn't truthful about their true goal. Some fuckboys will say they want a relationship, but they really only want sex. Some women say they want sex, but they actually want more. Again, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:15 PM
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Well no actually, not every guy has sex as the main goal of their life. And it's hurtful for anyone to encourage that sort of claim. It makes it so guys who don't have those goals feel inadequate or as if they were less than a man (if all men want this, and I don't, am I even a man?) And it makes women feel very low about themselves when they meet a guy that doesn't have that main goal with them because they might think they're not attractive enough. So o think that men on this subreddit show th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:49 AM
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Well, yeah... Fuckboys are getting laid. Other dudes are getting laid too. What's your point? Maybe if you considered women's point of view you would be less confused. Let's say a good proportion of men wants to get laid, and will do whatever they think is necessary to get to that point. Well guess what, a good proportion of women also wants to get laid, and they will do whatever they think they have to do in order to get to that point. And yes, we know all about how a lot of men are trying very…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:45 AM
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You're absolutely right! Maybe I went too much in the extreme a bit but I think to answer OP's question, maybe some bad treatment is better tolerated from not-so-great partner because the person doesn't think they deserve better. Maybe they wouldn't be in that relationship if they already had a better self-esteem. But you're right that toxic/abusive/bad partners are definitely the roots of that bad self esteem sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:30 PM
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I don't have a lot of time to expand on this, but I just listened to part of a podcast episode of Dr. K (healthyGamerGG), where he talks a bit about different attachment styles. He says that one reason people may stay into abusive or toxic relationships is because they don't think they deserve better. Essentially, they feel insecure about themselves, which is painful, and since the brain prefers a known pain from an unknown pain, the person will more easily stay in a relationship where their par…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:14 PM
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Where is that coming from? Around me I don't see women being less responsible than teenagers and unable to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:44 PM
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I think this is a pretty wild assumption to make, even more because the only point of reference for you seems to be porn. I thought we could all agree that porn wasn't real life? You can't just see something in porn and then infer from it into real life. Also, I'm pretty sure that even though women do watch porn, most websites and platforms are not catered to them. The porn industry is still mostly run by men, so the put content that will appeal to men. They don't think : " well well, what reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:41 PM
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Sadly, you're probably right. I just wanted to be part of the effort haha. I don't even like makeup myself but will defend anyone's right to wear it :p !
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:20 PM
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I don't agree. Someone with the intent of making you believe they are richer than they really are is deceptive. Someone wearing makeup (for whatever reason they want, and mostly never to lie about what they really look like) is not being deceptive, because they expect others to KNOW that they're wearing makeup. Makeup is visible and very common, it's usually not hard to tell when someone wears makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:38 AM
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Like others said, it seems there is a lot there. But also, you seem to really want to meet her. I would suggest you invite her and you and your grandma make her a simple homemade meal. She seems like she would also like to meet with your grandma, and that way you wouldn't have to drive and you would not stress about borrowing money. Also if you are so stressed about making a good impression, being in a familiar intimate place like your home can help calm your nerves.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/21 02:16 PM
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And what makes you think that? Why can't you believe someone when they say that's how they feel? Also, I should have added, the situation I described is an example of stuff I see almost daily on social media. It doesn't reflect my personal life, where I try to uphold the people I know to a certain level. I have reasonable expectations of my peers. What I described in the post is more about "social media men", and how we tend to say that the bar must be set pretty low of all they have to do to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:26 PM
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When I see those comments online, about how the bar is set pretty low for men, it's not about dating, though. It's about basic human decency. For example, what we see often is a man performing some kind of slam, poetry, or public speaking, and they basically are saying "we shouldn't beat up women, I know I wouldn't", and they get APPLAUDED. So that's when we come.in and mention that wow, the bar must be set pretty low of that's the kind of discourse that get standing ovations...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:33 AM
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You're right, but you do advocate for withholding an éjaculation for the sole purpose of seeing her confused and to "even the playing field" is a power move that has no place in an equal relationship. You shouldn't look for ways to spite your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:15 PM
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I agree that a relationship should be two equals that augment each other, but withholding something is generally not the way to go. Do you think that if a girlfriend doesn't want sex one night, you should also say no to sex another time, even if you want sex, just to prove a point? That is really unhealthy behaviour. If sometime she says no to sex, you should respect that. If you don't, she should maybe consider gtfo. And if you don't want sex sometime, she should respect it. If she doesn't you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:22 PM
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Whoa, you must be from another planet than mine, this is so far off. Do you really think that it's healthy and a good idea to play power games (that wasn't previously agreed upon) with someone you're having sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:58 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:43 PM
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I think one big part that I didn't see in the other countries moments is a "medical" privilege. With men having been in charge of lots of.things for such a long time, medical research has, for a very long time, been done by, on and for men. Only recently have we discovered that some diseases manifest differently in men and women. And the research for women's reproductive health is also very new, and that's why we have very outdated medical practices regarding women's health. There are a lot of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:37 AM
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I agree that we should all be able to keep an eye for red flags, and act accordingly. But not everything is black and white, and not everyone will reveal their true nature very quickly. We're all different, and that implies that we'll get hurt in some interactions, since we don't all act the same and don't have the same interactions. How long are you supposed to get someone? What does this mean for the relationship in the mean time? Does a woman taking the time to vet a man also mean that she sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:50 PM
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I don't get how women are supposed to correctly vet men who 'pump and dump'.... Isn't there a super common trope of men lying and deceiving women they want to fuck, promising that they do in fact want a relationship, and once they had sex they just completely vanish into thin air? If men did say outright they only wanted a hookup (some do, and some women too), it would be easy. It's simple, don't get with someone that can't give you what you're looking for. But what of the other person lies, how…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:19 PM
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They didn't say there wasn't a spark in the beginning. It's just that true feelings of love generally take some time to develop. You can have a strong attraction to someone you barely know, but I think that most of the time you need some time to really get to know the person better before it's true feelings of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 03:36 AM
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Maybe breast cancer gets more funding than other kinds of cancer, but there are a lot of issues relating to women's reproductive health who are vastly under researched. A few of them that directly had an impact on my life : people and doctors saying that it's normal to have extremely painful periods, most people not knowing the correct anatomy of a vulva and vagina (I think the first time a clitoris was correctly modelized was something like 15 years ago), a big lack of research on PCOS, a condi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:08 PM
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I don't think the point is if those issues are major or minor, but it's more about the fact that this shows examples of how the world is designed for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:58 PM
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You're right. So then we can agree that there is fleeting objectification, and then you have a choice of what you do with it. It doesn't have to be problematic. And I guess means my friends must be some kind of exception, because we see lots of people that we find hot and imagine having sex with them. It doesn't turn me on like crazy, it's just a thought and I move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:29 PM
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I'll give you that, you did say generally. But for the objectification, I still can't understand. You can have sexual thought without degrading the person. Sex is not degrading, or anyway shouldn't be. Sex can be a lot of things, and it doesn't have to be degrading. Even if they aren't able to control sexual thoughts, they should be able to control whether they're degrading the other person or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 01:27 AM
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I don't agree with you. And it seems that maybe we don't have the same definitions for some stuff. O think it's always important to differentiate our own perspective from facts. You claim that men's sex drive is generally very visual and can go from 0 to 100 very quickly and a woman's tends to be a slower build up, that men tend not to be picky but women are. That seems like it's your own view. Some people will agree with you because they have the same views, and some won't. I don't agree becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 09:32 PM
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Please explain how women's sex drives run differently than men's. There's a big difference between sexualizing women and have sexual thoughts about women. Sexualizing encompasses the "actions" that show that you have sexual thoughts about someone, and we all have a choice to do these actions or not. Nobody has to act on those sexual thoughts, it's a choice. And it fucking sucks when half of the population is saying that it hurts us to be on the receiving end of these actions, and all you have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 06:55 PM
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I don't know about signs because I was aware of it. But a few years ago I had a friend that I was deeply infatuated with. In my eyes, she was something else. I never pursued anything else than friendship with her because I felt it would be dangerous to me to try romance with her. I was perfectly aware that I put her on a pedestal. I knew her faults, but I excused them easily and thought that as long as I don't get too close it was okay to have this kind of relationship in my life. I stopped talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 03:27 PM
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I mostly agree with you. I feel like maybe we can go deeper. I think that regardless if someone cares or not about their partner's sexual past, most people don't want to "think" about their partner having sex with someone else. Maybe redpillers, for some reason, took the fact that they don't like thinking about their partner's sexual past, and instead of doing some introspection on why they don't like it (or simply just deciding to leave that feeling alone), they thought it best to reject the na…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 05:39 PM
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That may be. I think there is a lot to be said for the effect that our own intentions have on our perceptions. I think that when we have romantic feelings for someone, we may have different expectations for that person. So, maybe we have a greater chance to be bummed when a romantic interest turns out rather dull than when someone you ave no romantic interest in reveals themselves to be interesting. The first situation may leave a bigger impression on us than the second one. What I mean is, for …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:35 PM
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Why do you think that is? I'm trying to understand your point because I have no idea where it comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:05 PM
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I'm not so sure about that. Honestly, in my experience there are more vapid men than women. But it's all anecdotal, and we should consider it as such. Edit : I've expressed myself poorly, I wasn't saying that men are more vapid than women. I agree that those traits are not inherent in any gender. I only wanted to point out that our own perceptions are anecdotal, and so we can't say "women/men are like such" as if it was a truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:56 PM
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You literally said that "women avoid introspection, objective self observation, and self critique like they're lethal". Sure, a lot of people are like this, but from all genders! It's not exclusive to women, and definitely not all women are like this. It's pretty misogynistic to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:41 PM
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Then yes, that is a problem
/r/MensRights31/12/20 07:49 PM
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Strictly speaking, I think you're right. Bit I think in this specific situation, "against men's rights" is for people against this specific sub, and "against women's rights" seems like it would just be against the rights of women. It might not make much sense but I thinkaybe that's it.
/r/MensRights31/12/20 06:01 PM
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I don't think I agree with you here. I'm sure there are a lot of reasons to not want or wish to try something specific. It doesn't mean that from that moment on the couple can't talk about it some more, but it doesn't mean that one is a monster or lying if they say no to something. Even just with my current partner, he wasn't keen on doing something specific because he tried it with a previous partner and didn't want to anymore, for whatever reason. That's all right. After some time he actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 01:24 AM
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People have different life experiences. How can you just decide that if a woman says that, it's just an excuse? Why couldn't it just be the truth for her? And if you don't trust her, what are you doing with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:33 AM
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I don't think it's a defense, it's more a possibility. It's very possibly the truth for some women. And I think it's pretty much like a guy who would accept sex because he thinks he's supposed to want it, not because he actually does (pretty much all of my male friends told me that it happened at least once).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 09:37 PM
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I don't know if it has been said, bit I think it's bad if, for example a guy sees a girl that has Manic pixie dreamgirl' traits, and then is convinced that this is what she is as a whole. He might start to expect some behaviours because that's what a manic pixie dreamgirl would do. She won't like those expectations on her, of course, and he will get sad/mad when he'll realize that she is not what he was expecting. It can be said for all 'character tropes'
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 06:39 PM
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Most girls don't have orgasms via PIV, so the explanation is more of a psychology thing: a big guy means status, wich makes her think she is setting down if she sleeps with someone smaller. I don't think it's that simple. A lot of factors usually contribute, or can contribute, in the 'fun' that is had while having sex. There's the degree of connection to the partner, the general state of arousal, the mindset in that moment, and maybe some thing related to the 'status' of the partner (maybe a com…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:09 PM
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When I read your post, all I'm thinking is.. not everything 'makes sense'. I think that we want stuff to make sense, and we try very hard to think of reasons and solutions, but sometimes I prefer to accept that not everything makes sense, especially in terms of relationships. There are a lot of reasons to be in a relationship, either because you fell in love (not necessarily with the extremely beautiful/accomplished/wealthy people), you don't want to be alone, you want the advantages of a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:19 PM
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I don't know about others, but when I was on online dating apps, I, a woman, was very much more critical and 'superficial' than in real life. Online dating is not for me, because when I meet someone in real life, there are a lot of different factors that make me appreciate someone, even just physically. To me, a static face and expression is a lot less appealing than the way someone moves, talks, smiles, etc. So on online dating apps, I was attracted to very few people, because in most cases I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:10 PM
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What I find silly is the importance given to the past number of sexual partners of a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:38 PM
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How do you figure that all women are the same? I'm asking you honest questions, I want to understand where you come from and hopefully maintain a healthy debate, but you decide against answering me and continue to spout abusive generalizations. This is no way to growth. If you're here in bad faith and don't want to engage in a conversation, just stop answering. What are you trying to do? You're just reinforcing my idea that you're a very immature and impressionable person who needs to grow up an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:52 AM
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Look, I don't even know where you come from with all these statements. Women have proven themselves to be lesser than men in character? What does that mean? What is character for you, and how do you judge better or worse character? If you mean character traits, sure it's not all pretty. People, men and women, have some pretty bad character traits. Please don't put it all on women. We were given equality under the belief that we would act honourably and with a sense of justice? We're in a pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:24 AM
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You're talking like a kidnapper who decided to liberate the person you've kidnapped, and then feel betrayed when the person doesn't do what you want them to do anymore. Because they now have that ugly free will, that hurts you so. You impose your own views on other people, and forgive me if I'm wrong, but it feels like you think you have a magic eye that lets you see 'reality', when you actually don't really understand anything. I'm exaggerating, but I want to do that because I want to get my po…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:38 PM
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Nope she doesn't. You are the one calling a human being a bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 01:14 AM
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Thanks, I hate it. I really wish you wouldn't objectify women so much, it disgusts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:15 AM
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I have no idea what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:07 AM
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Of course I'm judging. I see a lot of comments on this thread about how bad it is that women apparently 'lie about their ncount', and you add that you'll lie about your ncount to make sure they don't lie. Don't you see the irony? I'm also judging because you're only mad about their lie because you put so much importance on the so-called ncount. I find it pretty silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 09:38 PM
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So you're saying that in order to make sure a woman won't lie to you about the number of people she slept with, you'll lie to them about your own sexual experiences...? Seems legit /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:45 PM
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r/UnnecessarilyGendered
/r/MensRights31/03/20 12:27 AM
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As I answered on another comment: The title is misleading. From what I understand, there are more male victims than previously thought, and more women perpetrators than previously thought, but not necessary overall. People need to be more careful with their words.
/r/MensRights31/03/20 12:12 AM
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The title is misleading. From what I understand, there are more male victims than previously thought, and more women perpetrators than previously thought, but not necessary overall. People need to be more careful with their words.
/r/MensRights31/03/20 12:10 AM
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I think what they may mean is that views other than feminists tend to consider that sex is only penis-in-vagina, so rape is only forced-penis-in-vaginas. But "feminist approaches" could mean that the definitions of sex, rape and sexual assault have been broadened, shedding light of many instances in which a woman can be a perpetrator of the sexual assault since a penis forcing itself in another genital doesn't NEED to be there for an act to be considered sexual assault
/r/MensRights31/03/20 12:08 AM
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I just wonder, where do you get these impressions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:29 PM
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You're right. I think some people here have really troubling views on sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:26 PM
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"reluctantly"??? Ohhhh how I hope this is sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:24 PM
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I think the reality is far from "all women love" or "all women hate" cock. Some do, some don't. For various reasons. They might like it because they are excited to pleasure their partner. They might not like it because they don't like the taste or the feeling. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:23 PM
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Okay, if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:19 PM
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You seem to have a really warped way of seeing romantic relationships, I feel bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:16 PM
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I think they mean that all the assumptions you made in your post seem to come from stuff seen mostly online, rather than from real life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:15 PM
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Kinks are not necessarily related to personality traits, tho.The meaning you give to a relationship and the kind of sex that you want to have are not related, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:13 PM
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It should anger everybody
/r/MensRights20/02/20 08:16 PM
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You're right. But I did want to help bring a more nuanced opinion on this post because I feel a lot of the commenters reacted super negatively to something that maybe shouldn't get the much negativity. I'm under the impression that the misleading title of the post put some people in a very biased mindset.
/r/MensRights18/02/20 09:34 PM
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That story is on the whole pretty wholesome in my opinion. I don't see how it's related to toxic masculinity and/or Mensrights
/r/MensRights18/02/20 09:11 PM
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She said "I didn't want to have to put on my mom voice and exchange words with you". Sure, she had a preconceived idea that the boys would be mean, which is bad of her, but also, I think it's important to remember that she's a parent. She was anticipating having to protect her daughter from possible mean words from teenagers who weren't her children. I know that it's an exchange I wouldn't feel comfortable in.
/r/MensRights18/02/20 09:05 PM
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I don't think it was about fear of danger at all. Anyone would be intimidated to go play for the first time in a skate park full of experienced older skaters. I think she was just anticipating a possible not-so-great experience for her daughter, and was so happy to be wrong after all. Also, I don't think she felt the need to "unfairly attack the boys", to me it feels more like another way to say that she was pleasantly surprised, because younger people can be more easily influenced by their frie…
/r/MensRights18/02/20 08:57 PM
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hmmm she only used that word once
/r/MensRights18/02/20 08:50 PM
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If there is a God, then Dear God please make sure I don't encounter this person in my life. I really don't need one more man who has had as many different sex partners as me explain to me how I'm a slut and he's a saint. "Honestly", the level of disdain from OP for fellow human beings is appalling and I hate every sentence of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:34 AM
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I try to.
/r/MensRights27/11/19 08:12 PM
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I don't know, we might be a minority, but I'm (23F) a feminist and that's exactly what me and my feminist friend group think.
/r/MensRights27/11/19 03:17 PM
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Sooo... Do you mean you smell other men's scents off the women that you meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:05 AM
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You are probably right. I also think there are no "fake dates". What I meant in replying to that comment was that we're often not sure if our encounters with some people were "official" dates, so I guess I just meant that it's a date as long as the people involved are thinking of it as a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 10:11 PM
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To me, it's the intentions behind the encounter. Anything can be a date if it's considered as such by both parties involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 09:50 PM
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I'm a 23 y.o. woman, and had about 10 first dates I guess. ​ The best first date I had was with a guy that I ended up falling in love with, and we had an amazing relationship for a while. Sadly, we are not together anymore, but the first date consisted of buying iced coffee and chatting in a park during a hot spring day. It was the best because it leaded to an awesome relationship and because we hit it off immediately. ​ I guess the worst date I had was with a guy that I had met in a club one ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 09:42 PM
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I wouldn’t be so pessimistic about it. First, it is not an implant, strictly speaking, it is an injection, which is not that hard to regulate, as long as all the necessary tests have been done. (Btw, there is a female hormonal contraceptive which is an implant) But I do agree that the pharmaceutical industry is probably not too hot on this idea, because of the money they wouldn’t be making.
/r/MensRights18/05/19 06:52 PM
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I think this is simply and completely false. Women can’t WAIT for men to be able to take care of their own reproductive health. As the inventor of this contraceptive method think, and as I think also, a lot of people, of all genders, agree that it makes way more sense to control the reproductive potential of semen-producing genitalia than of ovum-producing genitalia. It doesn’t take a lot of time and effort to realize how women are fed up with the negative hold current contraceptive methods have…
/r/MensRights18/05/19 06:51 PM
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TW: sexual abuse, life-long traumas . . . . . ​ Someone very close to me was sexually abused for years by her step-father. When she talked about it years later, her mom sided with the step-father and told her to think of her as dead. She practically lost all of her family. The abuser got thrown to jail, but he was given a shorter sentence, and he didn't get on the pedophiles list (it started when she was eleven years old) because, and this makes me so f*cking angry, I can't believe it helped him…
/r/MensRights13/05/19 01:04 AM
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To me, it always felt like, the values of feminism are equalism, but the rejection of the word "Equalism" is more about the fear of losing the historical weight and value of feminism.
/r/MensRights20/04/19 03:09 AM
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I'm sorry this happened to you, what she did is definitely not okay.
/r/MensRights20/04/19 03:05 AM
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