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Yeah man. Thank God I've got a patient girlfriend. I at first couldn't get it up , or not be able to keep it up for like the first 10 times we've had sex. Then it went to having an even more difficult time getting off. I bought some bluchew online, and that solved the hard issue, but still struggle getting off. The more we are intimate, the more frequent it's getting better, but it's frustrating, and embarrassing. But try the Bluchew... it does work. I can now get it up and keep it up without me…
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 03:38 AM
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Lind of like you are now? Lol. I chose to take the L.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 11:57 PM
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I have learned that staying for the kids is a bad idea. It not only takes a toll on them, but it takes a toll on you guys as well. Sucks, but in today's world... it is what it is.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 11:13 PM
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This is one of the reasons I divorced my ex to begin with. She kept telling me the same. As soon as I told her I'm divorcing.mm guess what. She got a job. She actively searched and got a job. I still proceeded, because years of financial abuse, which is what this is... added up and I wasn't willing to go through it again, which is exactly what would have happened. Now she makes 10 dollars an hour and is somehow content... broken but content. I cannot fathom that.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 09:37 PM
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Sucks that it feels this way, I felt the exact same. I don't want to work in my 70s or 80s and at the rate inwas going, that was never going to happen, I couldn't save with just 1 income, she didn't care about 401ks, nothing.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 05:24 PM
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Sorry man, but you can't say "leave" and expect them to stay. Unless it's my stbx... then the rules are different apparently. Cut your losses, remember the good times together, and hold on to those. It's time to work on yourself now.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 09:21 PM
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HOLD YOUR GROUND. SET YOUR BOUNDARIES. It is so easy to cave, but do not. If you do not believe she will respect your boundaries, then bounce. If what your describing is correct snd accurate, this is self sabatage my friend. Splitting sucks, and everyone wants to be happy, but clearly neither of you are.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 07:17 AM
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Yeah, I'm about yo go run some errands, but I'll message you later today of that's alright. I'm about the most open book I know, so I'll share my life with anyone. Probably why I stayed so long. 🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 04:01 PM
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Mine just has no ambitions to make any money. I fought her for 17 years to work and she only worked about 6.5 of those years. Saying she wants to go to school to do this and do that. I paid for her schooling a couple times, but then she'd get into the career and then quit not too long after. She was completely financially co dependent. Several break ups and reuniting later, we had both agreed shed work and contribute financially. She had one job for 6 months and quit and wouldn't go back even af…
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 03:28 PM
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I know that one all too well my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 02:18 PM
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I think you'll have to wing it, honestly. Every situation is different. Just make sure to keep your kids best interest in mind through it all.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 06:58 AM
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You have to remember... she wants to separate, then separate. You are no longer responsible to her, nor are you responsible for her figuring out where the fuck she's going. She won't live on the street, you know this. Too long I got run over for trying to just be nice and provide, and just be a good person... it only fucks you in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 06:45 AM
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