Colossal_Caribou Archive

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10	I conducted an experiment with how attracted girls are to accents I feel like a big confounder here could be experimenter bias. When the experimenter expects the results to go one way, even subconsciously, his or her attitude can influence the proceedings. Also, the sample size is tiny. Proud of you for getting out there and having fun, but these "results" should not mean anything to anyone else.	/r/seduction	05/06/16 03:09 AM
2	Don't get the number. A stunning realization I had after years in the game. Instructions unclear: phone Mexico and burned my sack.	/r/seduction	10/03/16 03:51 AM
1	A Reminder - Attraction Is Not Solely Physical Hey, great reminder. I'm interested, though: her doing those things — you call them DLV's — are you sure she wasn't doing it subconsciously to make you feel comfortable? If you go to shake a guy's hand, you put your hand somewhat palm up, letting them put their hand on top, feeling a little more in control and comfortable. You sure she wasn't doing something similar — even subconsciously — with the aim of having a better time with you?	/r/seduction	07/12/14 11:56 PM
2	Text game is killing me I do, too. It's really difficult to win in texting. There's massive downsides, and very little upsides. I tell girls exactly what you just told us: I don't like texting. You can't tell people's tone, their body language, and overall what they actually mean. My wittiness and sarcasm don't carry well into text. Suggest FaceTime. It's absolutely fantastic. And girls love it too, after they try it. Yes, you have to block off time for a 45 minute FaceTime call; you can't carry on that conversation ov…	/r/seduction	26/11/14 01:37 AM
6	Flirting Games: Which are your favourites? Everybody loves ethical dilemmas. Generally the ones you find on the internet suck, but if you do enough research into psychology you can find some pretty good ones. The Fat Man and the Trolley is my favorite. There's a line of train tracks, and a freight train is barreling down the tracks. You're standing on a bridge that passes over the tracks, and you see the train in the distance, coming towards the bridge. Beyond the bridge, a mad philosopher/your evil boss has tied down five helpless peopl…	/r/seduction	11/08/14 06:37 PM
2	Flirting Games: Which are your favourites? Along these lines, you could also do joke Rorschach tests. The actual Rorschach tests present insane subjects with black, random inkblot patterns on a white background and ask them to describe what they see in the blots. For instance, if they see more violent things like guns and dead bodies and pools of blood, they're more likely to be a murderer. But, grabbing a napkin and a pen, you can draw various blot things and ask her to read them for you. You can read them together. Ask her what she see…	/r/seduction	11/08/14 06:28 PM
7	Flirting Games: Which are your favourites? The Cube is a fantastic game. Really, it's a psychology test, or at least a pseudo-psychology test. You ask them to describe four or five objects (a cube, a ladder, a horse, a storm, and sometimes flowers) in an environment, and then you tell them what each one subconsciously means to them. Here's an example: — Imagine a desert. In this desert, there is a cube. It can be however you like. Describe your cube. ex. "My cube is about the size of a moving box, and it's clear, like glass. Its surface …	/r/seduction	11/08/14 06:23 PM
5	Phrase: "So, ______, tell me something you're looking forward to." This is a fantastic question. It directs you towards a positive emotion conversation, and it could be anything, really — big or small that they're looking forward to. By extension, the question is about what makes them happy.	/r/seduction	17/07/14 10:34 PM
9	How to improve conversations? A lot of deeper connections are established around how you feel about things. Ask her why she's been up to whatever she's been doing. Why is she feeling great? Talk about hopes/dreams. Something you need to be careful of: guys report-talk — lots of facts. Girls rapport-talk, about their feelings. It might feel a little weird at first to be talking about your feelings, but that's how you establish rapport with a girl.	/r/seduction	21/06/14 06:09 PM
33	How to improve conversations? Nick Sparks' How o hold conversation like a man speech is great. It has a lot to do with the first conversation and how to hit it off, but key points can be used in any conversation.	/r/seduction	21/06/14 06:07 PM
1	Do you agree?: 10 Text Phrases That Will Leave You in the Friend Zone I agree; smileys in huge moderation are completely fine. Only use when necessary, like to indicate sarcasm/teasing that would normally be implied with tone of voice. As long as you're using fewer smileys than her, you're doing okay.	/r/seduction	19/05/14 05:11 AM
1	FR: Friend's House Party [F-Close] Nice work dude! Seems like by opening groups, you were really able to succeed. How do you think your choices worked/could have worked better in when to react and when not to? Like smiling back at her vs. staring her down vs. pretending like nothing happened when she grabbed your butt. Would you do any of those differently? How do you decide in the moment?	/r/seduction	15/05/14 04:17 AM
1	[FR] Was I in the wrong? Good question! It should start a good conversation here about your role if you ask someone on a date. Remember, guys, don't down vote opinions just because you disagree. Leave a comment or leave them alone. Personally, I think you were in the right — tinder isn't some sort of high-class high-commitment environment. You're not there to provide a girl with free food, drinks, and a nice night. You're both there together, so you're both going to have to put effort in. Perhaps if you had asked her on…	/r/seduction	11/05/14 05:56 PM
1	FR: I go on my first tinder date Huge respect for sticking in there after the technical glitch wasn't a thing, sticking it through the mono, and coming through with your sense of humor. I laughed at the first half because of how plain unfortunate it sounded, but you impressed me with your date. I'm glad you had fun — that's what this is all about. Not dragging victims into bed. Great job getting out there. No, at least where I live, there isn't a stigma against tinder. Check out /r/tinder for advice on your photos. As for advic…	/r/seduction	11/05/14 06:40 AM
2	[FR] First and only time out this week, decent attempts but still struggling Good start! Huge respect for going out there and getting experience. It looks to me that the problem was you stuck through these too long. It doesn't sound like there was a whole lot of attraction going on (especially in the first set; was it just awkward dancing after you said hi?) and by your waiting for them during their drink breaks, you proved you had nothing better to do. You became very non-dominant in those two breaks. You're not there for them to come back to; if they're not into it, yo…	/r/seduction	11/05/14 06:31 AM
1	How do you not get attached? Also, how do you stop the addiction? This hits the nail on the head here. Get out and delve into hobbies. Pursue them with intensity. Become more than the game, which should be a side dish.	/r/seduction	11/05/14 06:24 AM
3	Should i go straight for the HB9 and 10's? Don't pass up on an attractive girl because you're scared. Don't pass up the opportunity to learn from interactions with a less attractive girl because she's "not up to your standards". Approach everyone, whether for the experience of directing conversation, practicing kino, or getting blown out. So yes, go straight for the attractive girls. But don't neglect others that are slightly less attractive. Never say no to an approach.	/r/seduction	11/05/14 06:21 AM
1	Adapting seddit/PUA advice to nerdier girls? The fact that you think there is a difference between "PUA man" or being "Yourself"(whatever that is) is a huge sign of a problem puaCurveBall's picking up on an important point here, which is incongruence in your "game". It shouldn't be a persona you have to portray: it should be genuinely you when you flirt, escalate kino, or use "deduction tactics". Try writing down what your opinions are on various "seduction tactics". Writing things down forces us to categorize and sharpen them, while opini…	/r/seduction	11/05/14 04:43 AM
1	Adapting seddit/PUA advice to nerdier girls? I think the problem stems from reading their reactions and investment a little inaccurately. Oftentimes, when I escalate/say something and get a negative response, it's just because I haven't spent enough time on lower levels yet with that girl. As long as you fake the confidence (or better yet, have the confidence) to not care if they find your jokes funny and just tell them "relax, it's a joke!" (with smirk, light punch on the arm, seductive eyes), you can take a step back and then continue fo…	/r/seduction	11/05/14 04:40 AM
1	[FR] I feel like shit now We all have our off days. Today: I walked up to a group of inviting people (8 or 9 mixed gender). I had friends in the group and a few knew of me: BAM, immediate social proof. And I bombed. I didn't feel social, I couldn't think of things to say. I left. We all have times like these. You have to balance future success somehow, right?	/r/seduction	11/05/14 04:22 AM
1	Is there a way to win girls over from their exes? Start off by not comparing yourself to them. You're so much better they can't even be compared to you. The approach I would use with her would be generally nonverbal; I don't like openly saying the ex is worse, especially if I know the guy. Use body language to convey his importance: When she talks about him positively, lean back and show a little disinterest, take a step down on the kino ladder. Be bored by her talking. When she talks about you together, lean in and escalate. Body language shou…	/r/seduction	11/05/14 04:18 AM