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| 4 | If men are allowed financial abortions, wouldn't the crime rate go up?BUT, if we were to get a financial abortion, I think the idea isn't THAT bad, but ONLY if we make sure that the children get the support they need anyway. I agree with you in theory, after all it's hardly fair to the child to be raised by a single mother with no support. But.... I wonder if this scary scenario wouldn't lower the number of kids born to single mothers. And if the reduction in kids is high enough, I can imagine scenarios where it would be worth it, despite the worse life for remain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/16 06:53 PM |
| 6 | Best Ways of Calming down when you're with a Girl you like?long term, this usually leads to problems Yep! And in the short term, and in the mid term. This is bad mindset no matter the situation. | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 11:18 PM |
| 2 | What No One Tells You About Approaching Girls In Your Social CircleHaving been in this kind of situation myself. Just be respectful of all parties involved and you'll be totally fine. | /r/seduction | 24/11/15 09:57 PM |
| 8 | Today I hit rock bottom: Seduction will not save you.Fun fact. Every Mario song ever written was in the key of C. Edit: the songs still used black keys though Last Edit: I'm not sure this rule holds for the later mario games like Galaxy. I'm listening to gusty gardens and I'm not sure it's in C major. | /r/seduction | 04/11/15 10:43 PM |
| 0 | I have had 5 different women in the past year say "if we're both still single at 30, lets get married.There are plenty of things I WANT but know that I can't have at this time. This is theoretically true, but it's not how 98% act when they really want something. Please see: women (and men) stuffing their faces with unhealthy food. | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 07:04 PM |
| 6 | How to Have Casual Sex and Threesomes With Lots of GirlsWho cares about others when there is someone I can shove my dick into right in front of me! Christ. The feelings of the man being cheated on were crushed long before the girl ACTUALLY cheated on him. He just hadn't known yet. Anything else are just obliviousness and lies he tells himself. EDIT: And to be clear, I definitely believe cheating is an awful thing, just that the third party doesn't deserve any of the blame. | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 10:03 PM |
| 6 | How to Have Casual Sex and Threesomes With Lots of GirlsFirstly, I think a lot of the issue stems from the fact that culturally we don't really blame women for anything. Men are expected to take charge and take blame. Well I think blame should 99% be placed on the cheating partner in this case, no matter what gender. And secondly, the reality is that the girl doesn't even have to tell you the truth at all. She could simply lie and tell you she is single. So really if we really hammer down the rule that men shouldn't cheat with women who have boyfrien… | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 10:02 PM |
| 5 | Fantastic article on why you shouldn't care what other people think. Deals with life in general, but is 100% applicable here.Thanks for introducing this website to me! Seems there is a lot of great information here! | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 10:10 PM |
| 3 | When does a sedditor stop becoming a sedditor? When do you stop caring about seduction and be happy with what you have? If you are monogamous, how do you know when you have found "the one?" When does seduction not matter anymore?Yep. Marriages fail all the time because one or both partners give up trying to be attractive for the other. Seduction at its core isn't about tricks, it's about continual improvement. | /r/seduction | 30/07/15 10:35 PM |
| 1 | All you kids out there under 18. Stop reading this subreddit and go out and play.my statement was a joke about how horny most guys are. Yet still 99% accurate. | /r/seduction | 30/07/15 02:07 PM |
| 1 | PSA: The BEST BF destroyer (tested with 100% success rate)Like how does it reflect on her? | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 09:32 PM |
| 1 | PSA: The BEST BF destroyer (tested with 100% success rate)I do believe someone is following you around this thread to downvote you. On topic though: what do you think it says about a girl who brings up a boyfriend in conversation? | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 08:40 PM |
| 2 | I've lost my desire to game anymore....So I must be broken then? Because I lift, am successful in school, volunteer, run an organization, am not socially retarded (formerly in a public speaking club), good looking, well dressed, am going to be traveling throughout Europe in a few months... These things are the first step, and are very important! So it's great that you have these under control. With that said, are you happy with your life? Are you confident with yourself with or without women? Because for just about everybody, happine… | /r/seduction | 13/02/15 10:13 PM |
| 5 | I've lost my desire to game anymore....Ideally, career, friends, hobbies, and fitness should be stable and healthy before you meet a girl. This is so important. You always need to be attracted to yourself first. If you can't do that, it makes no sense trying to get others to do it. | /r/seduction | 13/02/15 07:08 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Used push/pull for first time - amazing resultsI'd wager the trick is to demonstrate value first, as part of the whole push pull thing (again, not an expert by any measure). | /r/seduction | 27/01/15 03:54 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Used push/pull for first time - amazing resultsWell I'm not an expert, but it sounds like OP is suggesting you do parts of both. Carrying good conversation and showing some interest is important too- you can't just ignore her the entire night obviously. | /r/seduction | 27/01/15 03:10 PM |
| 1 | A girl was offput by my quick interest, shut me down, and I shut her back down. 1 week later shes crawling back. A good lesson.Agreed! (Though I think you meant to reply to /u/bonix) | /r/seduction | 27/01/15 03:34 AM |
| 2 | A girl was offput by my quick interest, shut me down, and I shut her back down. 1 week later shes crawling back. A good lesson.you seem set on making her out to be a bad guy here. I'm doing no such thing. Your original statement was that of praise- that she should be commended for being upfront with the guy. I really don't think the girl was honest or upfront. She could have went to the hockey game, to dinner, drinks, probably on his dime and all with the intention to keep him as a friend but never say it directly. Instead she... So you're saying since she didn't deceive him for the purposes of money, that she should be… | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 11:18 PM |
| 2 | A girl was offput by my quick interest, shut me down, and I shut her back down. 1 week later shes crawling back. A good lesson."I just want to be friends" This isn't really honesty though. This is circus and games. The sheer fact that she responded a week later just confirms what I'm saying. | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 10:29 PM |
| 6 | A girl was offput by my quick interest, shut me down, and I shut her back down. 1 week later shes crawling back. A good lesson.GIRL: "I just want to be friends" You:I think the girl should get some credit for being upfront with him instead of stringing him to the friendzone I think you and read two different posts. | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Going on a date with a girl I really like(Don't hate me for this). Advice on conversational templates and general tips?There's no reason people can't improve on what's already good! | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 02:24 PM |
| 3 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.I think the distinction is not trying to look cool, but rather trying to be genuinely interested in the things she has to say. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 08:01 AM |
| 3 | How to answer the "you only use me for sex bla bla" lineYes! The purpose of the question is really just to gauge your confidence and security. Most guys simply fold under the pressure and immediately start reassuring the girl, but often this is not the way to go, as she isn't looking for reassurance in the first place. | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How to answer the "you only use me for sex bla bla" lineSorry, my answer is terribly worded. What people on the subreddit call them are shit tests, though I dislike the name. | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 10:13 PM |
| 2 | How to answer the "you only use me for sex bla bla" lineThey just laugh and forget they even asked. You forget that people (girls do this a lot) ask lots of indirect questions where the right answer isn't straight forward. So by answering in a joking manner, for many girls this IS the right answer; so they aren't forgetting, because really you've already answered the "question". | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 09:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] She Can't Believe I Made Her PayEverybody does things like this. Everybody uses things to gauge members of the opposite sex, and this girl did something that's pretty socially common, so I wouldn't be so quick to judge. | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 08:05 AM |
| 9 | The 4 Biggest Mistakes Guys Make in The First 5 Minutes of Approaching a GirlSome form of establishment needs to go down. Agreed. If you don't engage the group, you lower your own value in all their eyes. | /r/seduction | 28/02/14 06:44 AM |
| 27 | The 4 Biggest Mistakes Guys Make in The First 5 Minutes of Approaching a GirlI think the author is assuming here that the girl is part of a group conversation going on. So IF that's the case, you can't just ignore the group and laser in on one person. | /r/seduction | 28/02/14 05:09 AM |
| 9 | Just a little tip when you have eye contact.If I had to guess, more specifically they'd compliment him on eye contact in general. | /r/seduction | 16/02/14 03:04 AM |
| 0 | How to respond to a "How old are you?" shit test?No, but REALLY? At this point, escalate it even further. Ask them if it's weird for them to be flirting with 11 year olds, and should I feel uncomfortable? There's no reason for you to break down and tell them how old you are. Because they don't really give a shit about your answer, they just want to make you give in and fold. | /r/seduction | 10/11/13 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Women giving advice, giving women advice and you.Thanks for that. Found the wiki article on it, very interesting! | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 08:13 AM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Guide To Body Language For MenThanks! | /r/seduction | 10/10/13 05:09 PM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Guide To Body Language For MenAnybody know what happened with the 16 or so deleted comments in here? | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 03:30 AM |
| 2 | I just don't really care about girls anymore...?You say you're fine with this state of affairs, but you're here asking for advice. If it truly doesn't bother you, then it seems that this sub would have nothing of value to offer you. Maybe he's fine with it, but wants reassurance that this happens and is normal. OP's case doesn't seem out of the ordinary, the same thing happened over time to me. For me it wasn't depression or anything of the sort, just that normal people had less and less to offer the more I found the kind of hobbies and inter… | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 12:37 AM |
| 1 | [FR] HB9 friendzoned me.You didn't answer my question! | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 09:38 PM |
| 0 | [FR] HB9 friendzoned me.I'm 22 as of now. But now that I've answered your question, why were you curious? What would it have meant if most of the answers were 26-32? 16-22? 13-16? | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 04:48 AM |
| 6 | [FR] HB9 friendzoned me.82 | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 04:38 AM |
| 2 | How beautiful women view the average guyIt's really not worth reading. | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Is this a classic shit test?The sheer fact that you worried about saying/doing the wrong thing in the first place, means that you failed. Just do whatever the fuck you please, (i.e. boobs? yes ma'am), and if she has a problem? Who cares. She'll respect you more for having your own opinions then for trying to please her. | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 11:29 PM |
| 6 | Went in for the kiss with a girl I have known for a while. Rejected....but, I feel OKThis should be at the top. With proper kino, it happens naturally, you won't even have to say a word. Kino allows people to transition perfectly from each stage of flirting. And without it, it's really awkward. Can you imagine saying "I want to have sex with you" after not having even touched her once? Of course not! Asking someone to kiss them without the right process isn't much better. | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 05:49 AM |
| 4 | Are monogamous people more satisfied?Cheaper, sure, but will the concepts hold as strongly in the straight community? | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 05:20 PM |
| 13 | Field Report: Challenge given by a Redditor to open with a ridiculous line. Challenge accepted.Haha, just goes to show what you say at first doesn't matter all that much. Though to be fair you did open with it and then immediately dodge and avoid the topic until later. Either way, interesting story and a great write-up! | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 09:43 AM |
| 1 | A little advice for those of you struggling with AA/Why openers don't matter.I was just emphasizing the fact that failed approaches is part of the game, and are necessary if you want to succeed. Just like applying for jobs. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 07:00 PM |
| 2 | A little advice for those of you struggling with AA/Why openers don't matter.Same thing as job resumes that got ignored. Nothing. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Asking "What do I say?..." won't help youThe side bar is your best bet. Here is a post about common shit tests: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/iq6nx/common_shit_tests_and_how_to_defuse_them/ | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Asking "What do I say?..." won't help youThere's been 20 of them. | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 12:59 AM |
| 9 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/28/2012 (please upvote - zero karma)Just say "Hey, we should go out and wing-man for each other some time. It'll be great!" Unless I'm missing something? | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 11:39 AM |
| 1 | The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing?Ah. Now I see the distinction you are making, and I agree. Though I still think if you frame correctly, it won't be a big deal. | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 09:15 PM |
| 2 | The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing?Then why are girls attracted to guys that have been with lots of girls? If you play it off right, it won't matter. Example: She figures out you're familiar with routine, so you suggest that she try and use some PUA on you. Critique here, etc. make it work. | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 07:34 AM |
| 3 | The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing?I would find it hard to imagine a girl having a large negative reaction if they realized a guy was using PUA style on them. Why would they? | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 09:32 PM |
| 2 | 1 Technique To GUARANTEE You Will NEVER Be Rejected By WomenThat and it's a tired joke that gets told over and over and over on reddit. (I didn't downvote) | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Why You Should Resist Online DatingI tried the whole online thing for a little bit and it was a complete failure / waste of time Maybe I just have high standards I'm guessing it's easier for you because you're older and looking for a different demographic of woman than I am. I think that a lot of the 18-22 year old girls on there are only really there for attention. I think I found your problem right here. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 04:22 AM |
| 5 | What do I reply to "we'll see" after I go for the close over text?Like some have said, just pursue other interests. Or if you want to keep it going with this girl, you have to call her out on this. Something like "Oooh, I bet you think you're being quite the cool-kid being purposely vague. : P" | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Short jokes for text game...Rreptillian is demonstrating that us white people aren't allowed to use sarcasm without the tags. It's a harsh world. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Girl starts to talk about another guy, what do I do in this type of situation?a good rule to go by is that the confident man doesn't put himself down, even as a joke. I don't feel like this is a good rule at all. I've known plenty of confident people that simply don't care how people perceive them. It didn't stop girls from flocking to them either. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Girl starts to talk about another guy, what do I do in this type of situation?never put yourself down with something like "I'm terrible in bed". NEVER put yourself down ever, even as a joke. This is at best a neutral move. Why would you want to do something that gets you no points or loses your points? If I make a joke, it's because I think it's funny, and I get enjoyment out of it. Not everything needs to be geared towards fucking people, you know. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 11:07 PM |
| 2 | I have not posted in almost a year but I overheard this gem and thought I would share.Yeah, same thing with my hobbies. Board games/ Ping pong/ Video games etc. The key is not to pull it out of nowhere, but rather to wait until it is relevant to the conversation. Everybody is attracted to passionate people, so be passionate about whatever you like! People will respect you for it even if they don't have that hobby in common with you. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 09:48 PM |
| 7 | I have not posted in almost a year but I overheard this gem and thought I would share.I can't ever share without feeling like a douche. Are you worried people will judge you for it? If someone judges you for liking something, then fuck them! You're better off without them in your life. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one here who does this with girls who have boyfriends?If I find out a girl I'm hitting on has a boyfriend, I leave her the fuck alone. I feel like this doesn't give the girl or their relationship enough credit/respect. Let's say for example I'm dating a girl for 3 months now. Why should I be worried paranoid if some guy is flirting with her? I'd rather do my best to ignore it and be confident that she will remain with me because I'm funnier/smarter/whatever. I extend this logic to myself when flirting with other women. If they are in a stable and h… | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Men of Reddit, Is Being Called a Dork a Good Thing?You can mostly call EITHER men and women anything you want as long as you have the right delivery. That being said, I've been called a dork in a flirty way, and it works. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 06:39 AM |
| 3 | How to stop girl initiating texting?I don't like those conversation killers because they make me seem dull-witted, but that's just me. However, if you really want to make her stop texting, that's the way to do it. | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 03:03 AM |
| 5 | Obvious red flags for seemingly sweet, but emotionally broken/unavailable girls? [first post]I don't imagine this is the right place for the question. I'm just not sure you'll get a terribly good answer here. EDIT: This might be of use to you. http://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice | /r/seduction | 16/06/12 05:12 AM |
| 3 | A way to get her to (accidently) open you.I can confirm this does work for screening. The unintelligent people (this works for meeting men and women) give serious/awkward responses to your mock complaining, and never really catch on. | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 09:24 AM |
| 6 | [Intermediate] ''Shit Openers'':My best friend just died This is where I draw the line. | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 08:33 AM |
| 26 | what do you do when your friend acts like an ass and blows you out of conversationBut please talk to him about this, first. He might just need a good kick in the balls to realize what he's doing is bad/foolish because he used to be/still is anti-social. | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 08:28 AM |
| 6 | Advice from a 40-year-old Vietnamese-American natural: One of the most attractive attributes anyone can have.As someone who is naturally "low frequency," I can agree that this attracts long term relationship material more than anything. But more than that, people across the board: men, women, old young, will respect you more, and you'll have more push/pull with people. I'd say it's the way to go, but not if you want to get laid right away. | /r/seduction | 03/05/12 08:26 AM |
| 10 | Seddit, Mission Accomplished. I got the girl!The fact that I know that is a good indication that I need to spend more time here. Not at all! Girls don't mind random hobbies or odd tendencies. They care who you are, though, and if you aren't comfortable with who you are, then it doesn't matter if you skydive while saving children from burning buildings all while dressing fashionably. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 07:10 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Pre-selection by WomenLittle did OP know, she was really a professional food thief, scoping him out. | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 12:47 AM |
| 6 | Poor social proof on Facebook?Im_a_rapist | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 06:29 AM |
| -2 | Poor social proof on Facebook?Clever. | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 06:27 AM |
| 0 | Sexual assholes and emotional sluts. I didn't expect a frat site to have anything interesting to read.Right, but I'm saying that men want sex so much more on a whole than they want love, and women vice versa. I feel that it's enough so that the author didn't create a false dichotomy. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Sexual assholes and emotional sluts. I didn't expect a frat site to have anything interesting to read.But take serious issue with this statement: "What do guys want? Sex. And a girl who gives out sex left-and-right is a slut. What do girls want? Love." Both sexes want companionship and sex, and both are (to a certain extent) attracted to those who are stingy with them. Guys and girls also want lots of other things, sure. But as far as I can see, sex/love seem to often be the focus and the driving factor behind engagements with the opposite sex. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Sexual assholes and emotional sluts. I didn't expect a frat site to have anything interesting to read.The notion that guys who fall in love are somehow "easy" or prone to do it with anyone is just complete flotsam of a shipwrecked analogy. I guess I wasn't reading it the same way. I don't think she was trying to say that falling in love will always lead to unattraction, rather that when it happens too quickly or without enough work from the female end, that it leads to unattraction. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone tried the "Apocalypse opener"?keeping your silence Question: What is this exactly? | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 03:01 AM |
| 8 | Women on the street, at cafes check me out and stare at me a lot. How can I convert that into #'s and "dates"?If you fail And you will, but that's half the fun. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 05:39 AM |
| 4 | "You're skinny." Suggestions for getting past this shit test?If it were me (goofy type), I'd say something light-hearted but silly, like, "Ah, you're right. It's probably because I have too many unicorns in my diet" or something equally stupid. Saying something like this doubles as a) showing them that you are confident in your image regardless and b) a test to see how she reacts. Remember that you are looking for compatibility with other girls as much as they are towards you. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 05:25 AM |
| 1 | I don't think I can do this.Oh, my bad. Carry on. | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 03:32 AM |
| 1 | I don't think I can do this.I'll be blunt here. You double posted. But seriously, you can hit the edit button at the bottom of your comment and change it there rather than making a new reply. If you do it immediately, it won't even show the asterisk that denotes an edit. | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 02:57 AM |
| 2 | I don't think I can do this.They will win. The very second that we hit the reply button, in fact. | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 02:53 AM |
| 0 | I don't think I can do this.even they don't know. Women may interact better within social circles, but just because they've become used to, or even good at the interactions doesn't mean they understand them. They're a lot like men in this respect. | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 02:44 AM |
| -1 | I don't think I can do this.Jesus, man, it was two short paragraphs. | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Amazingly, an honestly self-aware girl (x-post from /r/funny)I have to disagree entirely. When I see girls dating guys, I see no correlation in their looks. A guy's confidence, his personality seems to matter far more in this case. | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Guys, Is There A Way To Shut The Switch "Off"?I think the OP was trying to avoid looking like an AFC, though you're right this would definitely work. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 11:45 PM |
| 12 | [FR] K-close after repeatedly being called an assholeA few minutes later, I notice she's still looking at me. She's drunk, and she makes an obscene gesture (something like pussy eating). I make a dick sucking gesture back. She gets up, disgusted, and walks away. I started laughing outrageously at this. | /r/seduction | 29/12/11 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Guys, we need to talk about this. Women should be treated like innocent children who need to be protected and sheltered from big bad men.I just got here, and I was confused as hell. | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 05:12 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Fourth date from OKCupid. Epic fail. Urge to kill rising... rising... falling... rising...Also, sometimes it helps to see mistakes people have made rather than what they did perfectly. | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 07:27 AM |
| 3 | Losing face due to forgetfulness?This I can vouch. I met a girl, whose name I wasn't likely to remember, so I gave her the nick-name 'track' instead, (has to do with the context). She contacted ME to meet up not long after. | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 10:23 PM |
| 3 | I met a guy who did the right thing.I think that's how gentlemen should react towards each other. : ) phallic_audio ಠ_ಠ | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 07:23 PM |
| 3 | How can I improve this kind of eye contact?Hint: If they sneer and give you the finger, your eyes hovered on the boobs too long. | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Texting/Talking Banter List. Take it or leave it.say his new name is Smokey. ಠ_ಠ | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 02:53 PM |
| 0 | Best ways to get rid of guys (puas) who hit on my gfIt isn't disrespectful to her, its disrespectful to the boyfriend. Agreed. Wouldn't stop me though. The girlfriend may just want to be nice and talk to the guy even if she has no attraction towards him. Then why bother intervening? | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 10:41 PM |
| 0 | Best ways to get rid of guys (puas) who hit on my gfIts disrespectful if the girl is obviously with her boyfriend. It shows complete disregard for their relationship. If you take this to the logical extreme, you wouldn't ever want to say anything negative to the girl, because it might show disrespect towards her. This is of course is the opposite of what the PUA is trying to show, which is detachment and confidence In regards to the second point, I dunno, sounded more bitter to me You're probably right, idk haha. This is the folly of reading text… | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 10:30 PM |
| -6 | Best ways to get rid of guys (puas) who hit on my gfYou sound like such a douche. Hitting on a girl in front of her boyfriend is disrespectful, and he had ever right to end the conversation. Why exactly is this disrespectful? But you know what really pisses me off? When I talk to a girl for a few minutes and things seem well, and she randomly drops she has a bf in the conversation. It seems to me that either the girl a) decided she didn't like theCHAMPdotcom any more and dropped the line or b) he doesn't pursue things like this, so it's not that … | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Why Oneitis Is Like An Old CarThe only reason I disagree is because I have a 10+ year old car and it would take me totaling the vehicle to convince me to purchase a new one in this economy. Does this assume repair costs are very low? | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 06:45 PM |
| 3 | How can I f-close if I live at home?"Yeah well if wishes were horses we'd all be eatin' steak." Jokes aside, I live in a similar situation, I just don't see it being worth it to move out while full time school and part time job. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Just got rejected... but god damn if I didn't try!I forever know that she isn't the one, and never was meant to be. I feel like this is the wrong approach to seeking out girls. "The one?" "Meant to be?" That sort of thinking really can't help. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 02:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting to get the problem where girls want to fuck me but they don't want to date me. Am I doing something wrong?Oh, the irony. EDIT: What's also interesting is that some of the advice in this thread works for girls looking for a relationship too. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 12:37 AM |
| 1 | I'm starting to get the problem where girls want to fuck me but they don't want to date me. Am I doing something wrong?Haha, it's funny to read this, as I can imagine a lot of guys who wouldn't mind being in OP's position. That being said, what you say is probably the best route to take. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How do I talk to a girl passing by?EDIT: I can't read, nvm. Which school do you go to? | /r/seduction | 17/09/11 11:29 PM |
| 1 | How do I talk to a girl passing by?Holy shit! Not a bad deal haha. | /r/seduction | 17/09/11 07:24 PM |
| 2 | How do I talk to a girl passing by?Actually, from what I've seen, generally science majors have lots more girls in them; it's Engineering courses that have (sometimes literally) no girls in them whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 17/09/11 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Met a girl, fended off a competitor.so I went with my old go-to: "You wanna go back to my place and watch Pete and Pete?" Never fails Is this a reference to something or is Pete and Pete just circumstantial? | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 02:29 AM |
| 1 | failed at sex, damage controlThere is a link called "Glossary of terms" or something on the right of Seddit. | /r/seduction | 04/09/11 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Seddit...I'm getting the "you're cute" and "you're so sweet" crap from quite a few girls, how do I stop this?You suck McBain! | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 10:49 PM |
| 1 | What are your favourite gambits / playful games?Wow that's pretty clever. Should keep that one in mind. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 04:19 PM |
| 16 | The Fake Alpha Malesmanipulating someone and playing on someones lack of self esteem through "negging" The way I understood this was more to show them that you aren't trying to seek their constant approval and that you aren't afraid to do something they won't like. | /r/seduction | 11/08/11 11:12 PM |
| 1 | [fr] girl outside coffee shopOn the right of this sub-reddit is a stickied link to the abbreviations you are looking for. | /r/seduction | 16/07/11 06:32 PM |
| 2 | [fr] girl outside coffee shopI smirk and ask her if she's studying how to get better at eye contact. I love this! | /r/seduction | 16/07/11 06:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Christian shit-testing all the way and I failed it all.i just wanted to point out what i said because i dont like the stereotype that all religious people are idiots without belief in science. That's my whole point though. What you want is to be able to make a claim, and not have anybody argue it. You can't just "point out" something, because that assumes it is true, rather than tries to argue it. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 09:36 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Christian shit-testing all the way and I failed it all.not looking for a debate, but i'd just like to point out Ok. This is a big pet peeve of mine. Please, if you aren't looking for a debate, don't post things like this. Secondly, why aren't you looking for a debate? You clearly want to believe you are right, so why avoid the discussion? Just because no one responds to your passive aggressive post doesn't mean you are right. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 05:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Christian shit-testing all the way and I failed it all.Why he has to fake interest? He shouldn't. He has to keep his own standards. I think you completely missed elmcityalpha's point. It wasn't about faking interest, it was about answering the question in a confident way. The OP pretty much gave up before things even started, and that reflected itself in his answers. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 04:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Christian shit-testing all the way and I failed it all.Yes, it was douche move, but... But what? You made yourself look like an asshole, as well as other atheists out there. Do you want our congratulations? | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 04:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]But it makes me feel a little like a phony - like I'm just posing as someone capable of approaching. Most of us are like that. You aren't alone! | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 07:21 AM |
| 5 | Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1)Pretty much any response is going to annoy you if delivered in the wrong tone of voice. | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 05:51 PM |
| 1 | The dark side of learning Game and how you can end up worse than before.It's not about confidence, it's about realizing that sex is not the point here. Guys tend to have this image of sex as being this all-important event, and they yearn for it, and it shows. | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 08:14 AM |
| 8 | Where do you pick up smart girls?My life is like the twilight zone. Was gonna say 'like the friend zone' but that works too. | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 06:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] HB9 that I've previously tried to game came into my work today.Does AMOGing always have negative connotation? | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 07:22 PM |
| 1 | What are people's thoughts on doing "recon" before a date? Helps? Hurts? Doesn't matter? What is a horse shoe?What does a horse shoe do? Are there any horse socks? Is anybody listening to me? What? Haha. Is this a test to see if people actually read your post? | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Hey seddit. So is it really all about looks? I'm not ugly. But it seems like I don't look good enoughIt's about being attractive. And looks are only a portion of the much larger picture. | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 09:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] HB9 that I've previously tried to game came into my work today.Tangential rant: For example, I have a friend who reads a lot of PUA stuff, but he takes it very seriously and categorically--he used to be pretty chill, but now he tries to "AMOG" people constantly and it gets really obnoxious. I think he's thinking of himself just "acting alpha" though. Alphas don't have to be dicks to their friends. That would annoy the fuck out of me, because my personality generally dominates group activities anyway. What I see when betas try to lead is that they do it very… | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Question: How do you answer when a girl asks, "why don't you have a girlfriend?"If it were me I'd ask why they don't have a girlfriend if they directed the question at me first. | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Question: How do you answer when a girl asks, "why don't you have a girlfriend?""Does that really matter?" "Do you care?" "What about you?" I feel like these answers are really defensive and wouldn't come across terribly well. this means that this is probably a stupid question to answer and will make you lose point not matter the answer There is no shit test that you can't pass. (As far as I'm aware) | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Update to a FR, got flaked by a HB9. HB9 best friend said she was really interested in me but something important came up. How do I proceed to seduce HB9?If a girl turns down an invite, I usually let them make the next move. I feel like inviting them 2 or 3 times can be seen as needy, so I tend to avoid it unless there are other circumstances. | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 04:16 AM |
| 2 | So, Seddit, what's the weakpoint in your pickup chainmail?and I generally have no interest in talking with someone with whom I have nothing in common. This is my problem too. I mean, statistically, the chance that after talking with someone I'll want to see them again, or whatever, is pretty low, so I get discouraged and bored, to the point of not wanting to do approaches because most girls are bleh. | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Err...fucking texts. Have at it guys.If it were me, I'd have texted less. The OP is right it does kind of come across as needy. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 10:00 PM |
| 4 | For all the guys who ask "what does this mean?" or "does this mean she's interested?"HEY EVERYONE THIS GUY'S GIRLFRIEND IS A GRAMMAR NAZI. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with other guys within your friend circle?I've known guys like this, and it sounds like they are (badly) vying for positions of power and respect. Show them that you are still in command, and that they'll get neither respect nor power. Put them in their place by ignoring them witty retorts (only use this if it's good) explaining logically why they are a dumbass (sarcasm) commend them on their brilliant comments, compliment them on their clever and insightful mind etc There are different ways to handle it, I've used them all at one point… | /r/seduction | 08/06/11 08:49 AM |
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