Comand94 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	If you get dumped and stay friends with your ex after the breakup, this is what will happen. Too late dude, i have to tell you, you are spot on... I have lost myself because of this during 2021. I've literally been going mad and 75% of the reason for it was my ex. I've lost all self-confidence but for the past few months I've been making progress in regaining it (before that, everything I've tried failed). Anyhow, at the beginning (after the realization has set in when she didn't read or reply to my message [in count 3 - I didn't bug her after I realized she wouldn't talk to me] for a m…	/r/seduction	08/01/22 12:16 AM
1	Groundbreaking Discovery To Do Your First Cold Approach I know what you mean, but I don't think there is a diploma they can show to confirm that, haha! Either way, I think a lot of people could use that (cold approaching, or rather talking to people) just to ease off anxiety from living on Reddit, not necessarily to get laid at first.	/r/seduction	30/12/21 10:12 AM
2	Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings. I'm not? That's simply what I would interpret from this non-verbal action, from this description. Would you care to share what you thought? I'm confused as to what you might have had in mind.	/r/seduction	25/12/21 10:58 PM
1	Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings. I don't see anything wrong about the laugh. Either she had good fun and is reminiscing about it or she found out that emotionless sex wasn't it. Maybe both. If you feel, by any chance, insecure about that phase of hers, you should try to create a future like that for yourself. It might be hard for you to get over things like that if you've never experienced them yourself even though you wanted to. If that's the case, committed relationships might not do it for you right now.	/r/seduction	25/12/21 09:52 PM
10	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? U - Ca N - Sg - Mo Y - P Ni S - Be Be - ;) ...did I do it right? Not sure if the wink is on the table.	/r/seduction	16/12/21 10:36 AM
2	Is it absolutely necessary to be above average inorder to have a decent dating life? The key is to keep trying I think. The more you try the more you should be able to learn, especially through failure. There are also plenty of books on the topic of attraction like Models by Mark Manson, that helps speed up the process. The thing about women is you never want to stop gaming your woman - that is why marriages often become emotionless and robotic - you want to always want her and lust for her as much as when you first saw her and attracted her if you want her to do the same. I don…	/r/seduction	15/12/21 04:48 PM
1	Is it absolutely necessary to be above average inorder to have a decent dating life? Sure, but you will have a failed marriage and a shitty teenage years and 20s. To have a successful marriage, you have to be able to attract the girl inside of your woman - it is not enough to just attract the woman that wants stability and family, but the girl that wants thrills and to feel your power.	/r/seduction	15/12/21 12:11 PM
1	Is it absolutely necessary to be above average inorder to have a decent dating life? Sure, they cannot judge your character that fast, but they can judge your looks. That is still a thing that can be very discouraging after a while... A lot of guys improve their looks and still keep failing and that just corrupts a person's self-image so hard. To be honest, I'm getting the sense that men are failing at the logistics game more than the self-improvement game. Obviously you don't have to be a chad to have a girlfriend, the problem, in my opinion, is that a lot of us don't know wher…	/r/seduction	15/12/21 12:05 PM
3	How do I scale up with this girl who’s agreed to hang out as “just friends”? Abundance is good for the heart, just make sure you don't break someone's feelings. That being said, if you are inexperienced, don't make it harder for yourself by crushing on unavailable girls and girls that "don't see you that way". The way to enjoy life is with someone who adores you, the way of ego is to conquest women who are difficult and it rarely works out.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 11:42 PM
2	How do I scale up with this girl who’s agreed to hang out as “just friends”? You'll just end up bitter, jealous and heartbroken. Find someone who "deserves" you, as in someone who'll make it easy for you.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 09:48 PM
7	Terrible Oneitis, how to get over this? There is no one perfect girl. As someone else said, read Models by Mark Manson. And never ever think that she is your one perfect girl, even when you're dating. Just have fun and love the other person like they were the best, but always be ready for they might break your heart and you won't know why. So yeah, the second point of my advice is, after you read Models, you will probably realize it's time to ask her out, crushing is a waste of your life. No expectations when you do. If she says 'no' …	/r/seduction	07/12/21 08:15 AM
1	Approach Us!!! And you'd rather it be with a man who has balls? If that is so then I understand your point. By the way, it is sort of inspiring for me personally when I see a post like this. Us men get scared from approaching often times because we start to have doubts like "why bother? I will just get friendzoned or humiliated". Nowadays a lot of people seriously lack self-love and fail to see their value in the world. And as exciting as getting rejected the first time can be, if you don't see success eventua…	/r/seduction	03/12/21 09:06 PM
2	How to stop rejecting myself? Don't take life so seriously. You don't need to "conquest" a woman just because it seems that she finds you attractive, go talk to her to have a fun conversation with another human being, drop all expectations. After s while of talking, when you are no longer strangers, if the vibe is good, it will be way easier for you to decide on what you want to do with her and what should be your next "move" - maybe you don't vibe at all so you become acquaintances, maybe you do vibe and become friends or g…	/r/seduction	03/12/21 07:42 PM
1	If you’re very excited to meet this girl should you suppress it in order to appear cool and masculine? Be honest with her about being excited ("I'm happy to see you" should suffice IMO and it sounds sweet and non-needy), it will alleviate some of the pressure and, in turn, make you act more "cool and masculine".	/r/seduction	03/12/21 07:32 PM
5	Approach Us!!! I don't intend to be mean, but I suggest you do the approaching yourself if you're so eager to find a guy. A lot of men would appreciate something like that and you are likely to get positive results from single guys, and the guys with girlfriends will mostly give you good reactions too, a woman with confidence in her resolve is quite the sight. It is a better, more powerful experience to empower yourself than to ask someone to do it for you - look at the guys who are happy even though they got …	/r/seduction	03/12/21 07:27 PM
7	5 Conversational Topics "ALL" Women Love To Talk About That Builds Attraction Top 5 things women LOVE to talk about Number 1: fashion Number 1: travel Number 1: bitcoin I'm just saying the numbering is kindaaa off, haha! That did make my day a bit better though.	/r/seduction	30/11/21 07:06 PM
4	Where to get laid when you live with your parents? He's 20. He could try to find a part time job while still in school (if he's in uni), but let's be realistic, not everyone has to be a sigma male on a grindset to enjoy life a tidbit. If he is studying at uni 5 days a week, has no job and his parents cannot afford to get him a car or to move him away for uni, that doesn't mean his priorities are in the wrong place, it's simply what it is.	/r/seduction	14/11/21 03:08 PM
1	What are some open ended questions to keep the conversation going? Firstly, you can talk about the shared environment (the place you are both in). If you're at a party, you can talk about the party (decorations, food, host, friends, music, location), if you are in a cinema, you can talk about the movies (new, old, cinemagoing experiences), if you are in school or uni, you can talk about your experiences there (don't smack on teachers too loud though, they might be behind you, I've had this happen), if you're in a grocery shop, you can talk about the weather (I …	/r/seduction	30/09/21 02:56 PM
4	My favorite quote from models "She is rooting for you" The problem guys have is that for some of us it takes way more work to improve to the point where you get results. Like, ludicrously more work. And it's really not that person's fault most of the time. There are different problems people face because of their upbringing. Maybe you are a super-introvert type with social anxiety, a picky eater or just don't have much money or good looks - what do you do? Obviously you work on these things, you take the responsibility, but a lot of young guys find …	/r/seduction	07/09/21 04:46 PM