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| 6 | Making your bulge biggerSo you get more bitches than me but still need to shove socks in your bulge to feel confident... makes sense 🤡 | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Making your bulge biggerWouldn't help the average man either. I think you need to speak to me women. | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Making your bulge biggerProbably not tbh. Not if they don't like the way you look. | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | My approach being unnoticed?Could compliment and follow up with a question | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | What's your response to this shit test? "You're not going to murder me are you?""No but if that's you're into then I can keep an open mind." | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Flip a coin and regardless of what face it lands on, look up at her and say "It looks like I'm getting lucky" | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | she wasted my time then laughs in my faceIf anyone laughs in your face like that just cover your nose and tell them that their breath stinks. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many girls not find black men attractive?I made that statement because you were acting as if race didn't make a difference in dating when it definitely can. Black women have it the worst. Not being conventionally attractive doesn't mean you're not attractive. There are plenty of non rappers and non athletes that have no trouble getting girls too. MC needs to just level up if he wants his pick. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 12:17 PM |
| 5 | Why do so many girls not find black men attractive?Race definitely affects dating. White men and women have the least trouble dating because they typically are the standard of beauty. Even the most basic white man has options but the average black man, in comparison, might not. The exceptions being the black guys that are athletes or just tall. These are easily observable facts. But there are definitely ways for the mc to improve himself, whether it's aesthetic, social or financial so that he can be attractive regardless of his race. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:38 AM |
| 2 | I've decided enough is enough. I need to get better at approaching/being flirty with women, so I'm going to crash my former university every Friday/Saturday night and start cold approaching until it starts to feel natural. Any advice?I'd give him the benefit of the doubt if he was actually a student that was 28 but pretending to be one just to practice getting girls seems pathetic and counter intuitive. MC needs to improve himself because you shouldn't be dating if you can't even afford it. Instead of working on cold approaching he can just work on his social skills in general. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:27 AM |
| 4 | Do you think women give men bad dating advice on purpose?That's a good idea. What's an example of a risqué comment? | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Girl I am seeing playing mind games, showing some interest and then not showing any at all. RollercoasterPatient af lol | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Girl I am seeing playing mind games, showing some interest and then not showing any at all. RollercoasterA month is pretty long tbh. I try to make advancements within 3 dates. And then dip if it doesn't work out. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 08:54 PM |
| 17 | Girl I am seeing playing mind games, showing some interest and then not showing any at all. RollercoasterYou failed to escalate while she was still interested in you. Now she no longer interested and is too late. You could try to raise her but it's probably not worth it tbh. Just take the L. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 06:22 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]If she's attractive, then she's been getting dicks flying at her. Scratch that, if she's not ugly then she been getting dicks flying at her. This is nothing new lol. Definitely a non issue. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 02:33 PM |
| -5 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.What she did or didn't do before is basically none of your business. You feel atype of way about it most likely because your insecure or envious. Insecure that there could have been a slew of guys before you or envious that she went through a phase that you didn't. Either way, get over it or get out of the relationship. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 11:09 PM |
| 1 | She lost interest out of nowhereMost likely someone better came along | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 04:02 AM |
| 4 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?No one said it was a bad thing. What they had wasn't a hook up. It was a pseudo relationship of some sort. If he's not getting what he wants he reserves the right to pull back within their relationship. She also has the right to do the same. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?That's not a contradiction. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?There's no contradiction. There isn't anything that I said that could potentially negate anything else that I previously said. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 01:46 PM |
| 12 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Kinda. He's basically giving her everything she wants from a relationship while she withholds sex from him. He would just be flipping the script. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 11:12 AM |
| 8 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?If she can keep getting emotional intimacy and nonsexual attention from you without sex she will continue this behavior. So you need to pull away from her emotionally and physically. It needs to be slow so enough that she could feel the shift in the relationship but casual enough that she won't be able to stop it. Stop being overly available, stop taking taking the initiative to text her, stop sharing your thoughts and opinions, don't compliment or reaffirm her and don't let her try to get physi… | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 10:55 AM |
| 0 | Lifting....Changed everythingWhat was your accessories? | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 09:20 AM |
| 3 | Picking up women in a club!The pressure gets lifted once you get the choosing signals. It can also serves as positive reinforcement if you are feeling insecure. Sometimes you might interact a girl casually and you'll raise her interest and then you'll start getting indicators of interest. Also don't be too respectful because that can come off as being distant, disinterested or going out of your way. Just treat her like a person. The point of approaching women with choosing signals is to avoid having to do the whole monkey… | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 03:00 PM |
| 8 | Picking up women in a club!Go out and have a night out with the boys. Genuinely enjoy yourself and take in the atmosphere. Become someone others want be around. Dress well enough to impress yourself. Wear something that accurately portrays who you are or who you want to be. You can casually engage women if you want but it shouldn't be a priority. Keep your eye open for choosing signals and approach the women who are sending them out. Depending on how attractive you are you might not get them too often. It's better to appr… | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 01:04 PM |
| 9 | First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expectedWell, that's you. Personally, I think that being vulnerable with a women i met a few hours ago is more likely to destroy attraction than trying to build it. There's nothing wrong with being vulnerable but there's a time and a place. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 12:39 PM |
| 14 | First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expectedLol oh really. So being vulnerable with a woman you basically just met the same day would make her more attracted to you? Am I mistaken? | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 12:20 PM |
| 41 | First time trying anything on a girl, worked out better than expectedI think you became overly vulnerable. Might want to work on not over sharing with a girl you're attracted to. Great way to get friend zoned quick af. That first kiss schpiel is just something she said to let you down gently. It's probably not even remotely true. It seemed you enjoyed yourself tho which is always a win. Learn your lesson and try again another day. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 08:48 AM |
| 0 | Frauding to my girlfriend of 1 yearYou have no friends so what are you even doing that would make her think that you would have someone else to talk to? Regardless, I got the solution... Get a new phone and conveniently lose the numbers of your "friends". Mention it to her but don't make a fuss about it. If she ever ask about any of them just say that you haven't been close to your friends and that even when you have been hanging out pre covid, it was more like you were going through the motions but you've essentially grown apart… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.Yeah, that helps. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 03:53 PM |
| 5 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.What are indications that girl may be shy so as to avoid wasting my time? Not trolling, just trying to avoid up hill battles. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 08:14 AM |
| 1 | GF no longer gets wet during sexFirst and foremost go to your gf and apologize for breaking her pussy. It was both rude and inconsiderate. Then specify if she doesn't get wet for you or at all. If she doesn't get wet at all then she should see a doctor as there can be any numerous reasons why. If it's just you, then it could be that sex has become rather monotonous and predictable. At which point you should switch things up with the build up to sex and implement new things into sex itself. Also, if she was cheating or losing a… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 08:35 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with guys trying to disrespect me in front of my gf or amogThe lack an abundance mindset and think they can somehow win your girl if they display dominance or something. Definitely your gf fault that the situation happens. Having orbiters that aren't even her friends is a red flag because she's entertaining other men's attention and possibly manipulation them. It's impossible to go out with some who's that manipulative and not be manipulated yourself. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Got beaten upDamn. Well, I'd just take the L if I were you. He doesn't step back from a challenge nor does he fear confrontation. Anything you do to him is likely to be met with his retaliation. Go to the party anyway, ignore him and have a good time. If you insist on revenge, you gotta catch him slipping, record it and ruin his future. Have music play with a song that drops a lot of n-bombs when he's drunk. Record him and hopefully he'll say a slur. You can attempt this a couple times with popular and catch… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Got beaten upGetting into a fight while you're drunk and probably don't even know how to fight is dumb af. Before I give advice, I need to know what he did to disrespect you because you conveniently left out this details? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:15 PM |
| 1 | How do I pass the “do you think she’s pretty?” Shit test.Say, "she's definitely not ugly" | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Does anything disqualify attractive guys to women?I think game is kinda like all of those qualities put together but in such a way that its all balanced and customized to fit you. Like your humor makes up for your lack of looks, your social skills makes up for your lack of height, and your fashion and physique enhanced your aesthetic appeal, etc. Game will tie all those qualities together to make a smooth ass mf. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 06:39 AM |
| 1 | GF is cutting off a long friendship that she had feelings for in the interest in our relationship. Could this backfire in any way? Screenshots attached.I stand by what I said about texting. Also the states away doesn't eliminate the possibility. As for whether or not she would hold it against you, I think you know best since she's your gf of seven months. If she holds normal things against you than she will with this. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 02:02 PM |
| 3 | GF is cutting off a long friendship that she had feelings for in the interest in our relationship. Could this backfire in any way? Screenshots attached.It might bite you in the back in the form of "I did so and so for you" or "you're so controlling that you made me do this or that". Honestly she might have fucked around with him while you were together and now she feels guilty because she really likes you and is taking it seriously. It sounds cynical but what else would justify her trying to supposedly break off a relationship that you didn't even care about. Plus she messages him using snap chat instead of just texting him? That's kinda suss | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | long distance/text seduction during lockdownI heard that's is best if you have a dope ig that presents a lifestyle that would appeal to the kind of women you want. Something social, fun and adventurous. | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 12:27 PM |
| 1 | long distance/text seduction during lockdownHonestly, its probably too late. A couple months is too long to try to escalate. Whatever interest she had in you is probably gone because you waited too long. You can try to call her to respark something and try to hang out within a couple days. If she tries to avoid a call, uses excuses to not meet up or doesn't give you a definite answer on anything then she is 1000% not interested. | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 11:48 AM |
| 3 | "If you kill your dark side, you will lose your power." - A Must Read For EveryoneThat was a waste of my time. The dark side of society isn't the dark side of an individual. Being a shit talker doesn't even make you fight better. I don't know what the point was because you're all over the place. And your metaphors and parallels are weak. Do better. | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Approaching made me feel even more insecureThat's the right attitude. Being at a different place should give you a mental advantage. You're on a time crunch so try to get great results before you leave. There's no need to concern yourself with rejection because you're only there briefly. Perfect situation to hone your skills. Maintain the abundance mentality, hold your masculine frame and remember that your there to have a good time with or without the girl. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 09:06 PM |
| 5 | Approaching made me feel even more insecureThanks for the info. Approaching girls on the street has a high chance of failure because she is on the go. This will naturally put you at a disadvantage, even if you're doing everything right. Try talking to girls at bars, cafes or even stores. Small talk is fine but keep it short and get to the point. Be relaxed but engaged. It helps to display your wit but don't be goofy. Get her number and get out. Hold your masculine frame to ace shit test. She may "have a boyfriend" but this can be a shit … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 08:13 PM |
| 2 | A higher SMV guy was the heart of the party at new year’s eve and I feel like crap for not being like him with my LTR in the room... how do you deal with this?Trying to out alpha anyone is a beta mentality. You need to have confidence in yourself and what you're about. You already have the girl so what are you being insecure about. Your fear that she might leave you for someone better than you is irrational. And if its left unchecked, it may become a self fulfilling prophecy. Work on yourself, recognize your value and hold your masculine frame. You're not competing with anyone other than yourself. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Approaching made me feel even more insecureYour approach obviously needs some work. What are you saying to them? How are you dressing? Where are you approaching them? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | My brother plays video games all day and he's 26 with no job, job experience, or degree. What should I do?My advise is for you to relax and step away. He's your brother not your son. Based on the context given, he's being supported by your parents. With these kind of people you need to threaten to cut them off financially but you can't do that since your not even the one supporting him. So just lead by example for him and do not condescend or criticize him. Be encouraging and supportive but also honest and straight forward. He doesn't need someone to coddle him, just someone that he can rely on. By … | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 05:18 AM |
| 9 | It's hard because of shitty menI don't disagree but definitely want to point out that the majority of guys are just regular af guys. The ones who treat women poorly, if you think about it, are chosen by the women themselves. I'm sure you've heard of the titular "girl who always just seems to date bad or abusive guys". Well, if we live in a society where women are choosers then didn't she choose that guy? I normally wouldn't entertain a girl like that more than necessary because that's some heavy baggage. But you do you. Hones… | /r/seduction | 19/12/20 12:16 PM |
| 1 | If a woman asks me "Why should I go out with you and not someone else?", how do I answer?Your reply, "Trick question. You should go out with me for the sole fact that I'm me and not someone else. To be honest, I'm a bit jealous of you right now." | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 02:00 AM |
| 4 | Should I dump my GF because she won't give me no pussy?She didn't hesitate to spend your money but has excuses to avoid putting out. You're getting played. Toss her ass back out onto the streets and stop using expensive dinners to bed these chicks. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend made fun of me to another guy at work on the phone for the second time and told me about it... shit test?Definitely a shit test because she didn't have to tell you about it at all, let alone right before you go to bed. Tbh, you probably failed if it elicited an emotional response from you and it breaks your frame. It's not necessarily disrespectful though, just annoying. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 08:07 AM |
| -7 | There's really only 1 method that truly works and you don't really need to know anything else.Worst advice ever. It's super vague, somewhat forced and even a bit overly optimistic. | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | What does being vulnerable mean ?I actually somewhat agree. What's the point of being vulnerable and why do we tell others to be vulnerable? Especially when it's something that's easy to fake and varies from person to person. I have nothing against people who choose to be vulnerable but why do you do it and how does it benefit you? Are you doing it for other people or are you doing it for yourself? I honestly don't understand why people push it so casually. It makes the act of vulnerability seem inorganic and I'm sure many peop… | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 05:02 AM |
| 3 | I quit being the gentleman on date 4. Some learnings.Mixed signals can also be a decrease in her level of interest. | /r/seduction | 28/10/20 12:10 PM |
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