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| 3 | Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection?That’s an assumption though, we don’t know this guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection?Dating is about compromise though, you’ve gotta be willing to interact with someone to date them. I’m with you to an extent in that I’d happily organise a date for a week later and then barely interact for that time. But I’m also aware that a lot of people require more interaction than that and if you want to date seriously you gotta compromise. A little text interaction a day isn’t much, or a longer one every few days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection?Not really lol and I’m the opposite of needy (aloof?), most people who messaged me wanted to text once a day to check in. It’s pretty normal behaviour and though I’d be fine texting once every week lol I’m happy to oblige someone who wants that much interaction. If they were wanting a phone call every day then I’d be telling them no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection?Texting someone for 5 weeks before the first date is pretty damn rare though, usually I’d want to get a date sorted within a few days or move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection?Eh I think people just don’t know how to deal with someone who’s a bit clingy. If you know how to set boundaries it’s fine, if they ignore boundaries that’s an entire different issues. A lot of people aren’t capable of setting boundaries, freak out and run away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection?That’s a stretch, he didn’t mention anything about unloading | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 12:04 PM |
| 6 | The gender war is not just an online thingNone of those are slurs, everyone trying to claim they are on the receiving end of slurs and abuse is part of the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 01:07 PM |
| 2 | “its how we evolved” is a horrible excuse and it needs to stop being an argumentI don’t have a tribe, because I’m not living in prehistory, this is nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 08:40 AM |
| 1 | “its how we evolved” is a horrible excuse and it needs to stop being an argumentPeople claim it’s evolution with zero evidence, never trust someone spouting evolutionary psychology on Reddit because there’s a 99.9% chance they’re just making it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Where have all the good men gone?Also in my 30s and hard disagree, I see hard workers getting nowhere while people who put in less than half the effort get promoted. As you get older it also becomes much more important to pace yourself and not overwork yourself for a boss that won’t appreciate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Where have all the good men gone?Also hard work is easy to do ironically. Anyone can work hard doing something pointless or inefficient, while someone else works half as hard doing something more meaningful that benefits a lot more people. Why does the 1st person deserve a reward? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:09 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Cmon there are definitely men who do this, I’ve seen plenty and it is annoying as fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:30 PM |
| 3 | As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men.Also bisexual and I would say that’s not true, both sexes have a lot of issues- however for women we tend not to call them out on it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:22 PM |
| 2 | No, most people who grew up in dysfunctional or divorced homes are not more resilient, more mature, or emotionally stronger than people from proper and healthy homes.Should have finished this comment with you have no studies, the rest is just made up nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 01:12 PM |
| 1 | If you know how worthless dating apps are, why do you continue to use them?I’ve met a fair few women through bars/clubbing but it’s nowhere near as easy as OLD nowadays. You’ve got to remember most women who are out and about aren’t looking to meet someone and you don’t wanna come off as creepy. You can’t just go around hitting on everyone you see that’s attractive. If I was single I would probably be able to meet 5 single women of my age, through my large friendship group and clubs I attend. If those 5 ain’t compatible then your opportunities dry up, on OLD there’s wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | how do you feel about modern marriage?Nuclear family is a recent term, we didn’t use to be organised into nuclear family units. An alternative into how we were organised is the extended family, which is still done in places like India. It’s not the same as a nuclear family as the extended family is part of the core family unit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | how do you feel about modern marriage?The term exists to differentiate from extended families, a nuclear family by definition cannot be an extended family or a more community oriented family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | how do you feel about modern marriage?Nuclear family is overrated imo. I think it’s our only option in modern society but raising kids was probably a lot easier as an extended family or as part of a community. Nowadays parents struggle to do it all alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | how do you feel about modern marriage?Sounds terrible ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | how do you feel about modern marriage?Trad con values are worse for dating, it has strict gender roles so it forces people into situations that they are unhappy in. Of course because they are trad con they will smile through the pain, to pretend they are happy fulfilling their ideal role. I don’t think we are ever going back to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Bisexual men are riskier for women because they like both men and women.Nope sorry its obvious what beliefs motivate this preference. Doesn’t change their right to have it, but women who have it are holding up a red flag for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?I think you’re incorrect if you actually think no governments are concerned by the shrinking population, many have displayed concern about it. The world population is rising this is not a myth, some countries are shrinking but not the world as a whole. I don’t think the media is the reason people are having fewer children. You do seem to agree with me to an extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?You’re not being very clear at all, so you agree that we should be adapting to population decline rather than forcing population growth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?You seem to think that just because there are economic problems of population decline that that doesn’t mean there are problems with overpopulating the planet. We have to learn how to deal with a shrinking population, not keep a growing population forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?What do whites have to do with it? No matter how much melanin is in the skin the planet is going to struggle to sustain 50 billion people living as we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?You are agreeing with me, forcing people to keep having children to grow the population isn’t sustainable. I’m not depressed although it wouldn’t matter if I was and it’s not a doomsday, it’s a fact that if you keep a growing population the world will be overpopulated. That’s why it’s good that developed nations don’t have as many kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:16 PM |
| 0 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?Yeah top off because of people having less kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 10:27 AM |
| 4 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?This is what scientists think, I sincerely hope you don’t dismiss an idea as fake just because MSM happens to do a report on it. You shouldn’t care so much about what MSM is doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?You say this like long term goals are always better, but what if someone has a long term goal to sleep with 1000 people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 09:49 AM |
| -1 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?Overpopulation is a problem though, if population keeps growing well use up the planet resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 09:46 AM |
| 18 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?It’s defined as people doing what they like instead of what the person defining it wants them to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Do most guys have to change who they are to be attractive to women?I don’t know what guys you’re talking about but I don’t know any like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s primeTRP is just wrong in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Is there really a decline in masculinity?That would be decline in male health if anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Does economic prosperity, higher standards of living and gender equality necessarily lead to greater promiscuity/ liberalised norms of sexuality?Er that quote doesn’t apply to any of the ancient civilisations you mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Does economic prosperity, higher standards of living and gender equality necessarily lead to greater promiscuity/ liberalised norms of sexuality?Smaller towns often have some of the most self serving people who want to control their neighbours to suit their needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Do most guys have to change who they are to be attractive to women?Honestly I would be very disappointed in myself if I changed based on trying to please others. You should be someone you genuinely want to be, if that attracts a more niche type of person then so be it, you don’t have to go trawling through dozens of people attracted to you to find someone and if they are attracted to a fake then you probably won’t end up happy anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Do most guys have to change who they are to be attractive to women?Bit sexist tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Do most guys have to change who they are to be attractive to women?Bit of a straw man, no one is arguing to stay the same from age 10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Do most guys have to change who they are to be attractive to women?I mean it’s all subjective, personally I would find DJing a boring trait and video games more interesting in a partner tbh. Lock picking sounds interesting though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Do most guys have to change who they are to be attractive to women?Better is doing what makes me happy and being who I feel best as being, not maximising the most swipes on tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Do most guys have to change who they are to be attractive to women?I do wonder what these people do who change themselves to attract someone. Do they eventually revert back to their authentic selves or spend the rest of their lives keeping up some miserable fake facade? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.No it can’t be denied that militarily they were immense and held a long period of influence over the peloponnese, an influence that then grew into Persia. They were the leaders of the military that defeated the Persians in the 5th century BC and then defeated the Athenian empire after that. Only the Athenians really competed with them for the Greek city state with the most power and strength, although Thebes also were able to later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Lol no it’s more because they started over 3000 years ago and societies don’t tend to last that long. In their time they were an extremely strong society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.I have zero respect for anyone who uses the term beta seriously lol, I recommend getting off Reddit and back in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.The ancient Spartan men seemed to be able to do it with pride intact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Ancient Sparta says hi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Such a silly concept | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Women are more physically attractive than men. Women find women better looking than men and LESS LIKELY THAN MEN to find men good-lookingThere are a lot more male bisexuals in the closet than female ones. It’s not that there are more female bisexuals it’s that women are more likely to be comfortable with being open about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?I mean good luck to those people, if such things give “the ick” I don’t think there is anyone who would manage to avoid it. Eventually you have to reflect and think if it is genuinely worth discarding someone over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 11:23 PM |
| 8 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?That’s not a dick with a heart of gold, that’s just being a normal person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Do 'average' Women just bring more to the table today than 'average' Men?As a bi I can say men and women are as attractive as each other, there is no difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 11:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?Well hopefully you’ll be happily married by then if that’s what you are looking for, if not maybe. Even in late 20s I can say that you do get more attention than early 20s if you look after yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?That’s not the same though as simply having an active social life. My point was the same as yours, that guys do have to put in a lot of extra effort and deal with a lot of rejection to meet women irl. Otherwise some guy might read the comment above and think all he has to do is have an active social life and similar to women he will just happen to meet people who are interested or through friends. I’ve seen plenty of dudes do this and get nowhere with it for a long time. Whether it’s OLD or the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 07:54 PM |
| 6 | The narrative that young women not ‘settling down’ is the sole thing causing young men to be sexless/single is not trueJust because there’s a higher proportion than women does not mean most men want casual sex. There could be 10% of women and 20% of men, meaning 80% of men don’t look for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 04:14 PM |
| 5 | The narrative that young women not ‘settling down’ is the sole thing causing young men to be sexless/single is not trueNeither is yours then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 03:39 PM |
| 8 | The narrative that young women not ‘settling down’ is the sole thing causing young men to be sexless/single is not trueNah plenty aren’t looking for casual sex at all in my experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 01:37 PM |
| 4 | The narrative that young women not ‘settling down’ is the sole thing causing young men to be sexless/single is not trueThere are women who want casual sex and men on OLD looking for relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 12:40 PM |
| 2 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?I wouldn’t know about that as I’m in the U.K., here though people are more likely to meet someone in more urban areas than rural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 12:18 PM |
| 3 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?Probably just acts like a normal person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 11:49 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?What you think is flirty is likely not flirty dude, you’re not hitting on them so you don’t know how receptive they actually are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 11:46 AM |
| 8 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?Being social doesn’t work as effectively for men though, plenty of reasonably looking, nice, hard working single dudes never get a date for years with this strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 11:42 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?Instagram is toxic for mental health, particularly for young women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 11:36 AM |
| -1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?Never take advice on dating women from women, unless they are a lesbian who is successful with women- they are the best people to go for advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 11:02 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?The problem with social circles is there is very limited choice. I’m in several large friendship groups and am in a sports club as well outside work, which is the maximum amount I could be involved in with the time I have. If I were single I would have a handful of people that I could meet through friends- I know this as my friends who are still single have asked us for help and gotten these results. Of those handful I would be lucky if a couple were into me, meaning I have to be into these 2 pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:55 AM |
| 4 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?Volunteering can be a good way to meet people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:48 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What is your opinion on monogamy?More the opposite tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Are there any non-bigoted reasons why women are turned off by bisexual men?I mean it is biphobic, doesn’t mean you’re a bigot I would say is more internalised biphobia. Someone who is biphobic shouldn’t be dating bisexuals anyway so I don’t think people are advocating for you to force yourself to do something you don’t want to. Just might be worth bearing in mind that there is some internalised biphobia driving this preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Are there any non-bigoted reasons why women are turned off by bisexual men?I don’t think the aim is to force people to dating. In fact if someone is biphobic definitely they shouldn’t be dating bi people. That doesn’t change the fact they are biphobic though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 11:52 PM |
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