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CMVCombinationUsed7938/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:58 AM
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Question For WomenCombinationUsed7938/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:17 PM
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No female attraction is way worse and it usually means you don't know your own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:22 PM
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Given that eventually you see her in real life, not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:19 PM
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PUA has always existed, but now they gave it a name and started doing it in video, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:18 PM
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Funny indeed, innit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:17 PM
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And "cherrypicking" and "anecdotal". Then they use it pretending to be very intellectual 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:15 PM
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Porn has ruined so many men. Yessss.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:33 PM
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I don't want to be with a woman who is afraid of a paternity test. What could she be hiding?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:23 PM
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I actually laughed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:11 PM
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I believe that men should endure a bit in order to be real men but this is way overreaching lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:10 PM
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Yes, status is a big boost for achieving those goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:08 PM
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Everyone should know red pill is a toxic subculture based on the exaggeration and overestimating of some facts, leading to bitterness and further loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:06 PM
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OK, first of all I generally agree with your post overall. It's rational and realistic. But Very little focus is put on things like personality, emotional maturity, and life compatablity stuff that makes a relationship actually work. Men who do this are often judged and shamed for it. What do I mean? Part of the personality, values, lifestyle is how a person dresses, what they do in their free time, how they see sex, marriage, relationships and family, etc. It doesn't represent your whole person…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:03 PM
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100% the best answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:47 PM
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Hell fucking no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:46 PM
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It would be one thing if the men who wanted virgins held themselves to the same standard, but what they want is for women to hold themselves to a high standard for everyone except them. I usually say it is their right, if they end up singles, that's their problem. On the other hand, if they have their standards, don't live up to them yet they find a girl who does and is interested on them, it's not up to me to judge. As for the rest, I don't agree with the "women should have a hoe phase before s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:37 PM
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If you mean judging by the kind of women some dudes are totally willing to simp for, then I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:29 PM
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Yes. Thanks for the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:27 PM
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You're mostly right but I've seen multiple times, either when a guy complains about the lack of virgins or can't deal with his girlfriend's past or something of that kind, people using that expression or something alike, and that's always made me scratch my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:20 PM
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Absolutely. And as I said to someone else, I find it totally respectable if a woman also has this kind of standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:54 PM
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I said Exactly But I would never write endless reddit posts about it. Why? It's entertaining. The topic of dating is interesting to me. General psychology is interesting as well. And again, my point with this post was to say that liberals who use that kind of expression are acknowledging the same values as the conservative guys. You're totally missinf my point. What's so damn hard about it? Also, I don't even require virginity. I require class. BTW do you think I'm angry typing over here? I'm no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:51 PM
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You deserve whatever you're able to get. Chances are that men like that can't get said women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:33 PM
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Yes. The reputation will follow you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:31 PM
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I agree and I do think it's wrong for both parties. Yet if someone is hypocritical about it, it's still their right. Whether they are successful in getting a relationship or not, that's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:30 PM
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Those guys are in their full right. If it gets them single, that's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:29 PM
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Red-heads are quite rare. Well, at least where I live. If a guy only dates red-heads and is very frustrated, I won't tell him to lower his standards. Because he doesn't need to. I'll tell him there are plenty of beautiful women who are not red-heads. I think those woman are beautiful, as beautiful as the red-heads he likes, and I wouldn't call it lowering standards. If he told me he was frustrated because those top hot girls weren't into him, then I'd tell him to lower his standards and actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:26 PM
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So if you want me to date none blended you are basically telling me to lower my standards. Not me, you're telling that to yourself. I won't use that expression because I don't think you're actually lowering your standards. This is my whole point with my post. If I thought non-blondes were any less attractive than blondes then I'd tell you to lower your standards. Now apply the same logic to sexual past. as for the remaining verbose: I didn't ask for links Wtf you literally did, are you alright? …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:14 PM
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Most people recognize that behaviors and habits aren’t necessarily permanent Yet people never forget them. Anyway, my other reply to this comment is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:57 PM
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because it would show a sexual discrepancy between us Fair enough. I agree with you. In my opinion, having casual sex is wrong. us. I would feel that my sex drive was too low to keep them satisfied The difference between us is that in my case it's not about sex drive (mine is quite high tbh) but about morals. As I said, I see casual sex as wrong. And values mismatch is a big ref flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:56 PM
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Alright. I'm European and in Europe I do call myself a liberal. Classic liberal. I know it has a different meaning in the US (it means progressive) and since most people around here are American I try to match their language. Buy I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:54 PM
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Sorry, I don't know what you exactly mean, as you haven't specified. Yet, as someone who identifies as a western Conservative, I don't women should wear hijabs and be the husband's property, I'm not against gay people and I support equal opportunity through merit (not quotas).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:48 PM
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you’re likely to get X standard. Which means they think the standard is very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:46 PM
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True true. as long as they aren't hurting kids I'd just add, as long as it doesn't affect my life. That's why I don't want a lib wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:45 PM
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Yeah, basically. You don't get rid of the reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:44 PM
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Yes and that's what I believe. I mean that if, hypothetically, I was very promiscuous maybe my girlfriend wouldn't see me as a worse partner because they don't judge that as much as we do. It's up to them to decide whether I'm a good partner for them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:44 PM
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That's why I used a question marks, I myself have doubts about that particular detail lmao. But I said it assuming what most of us have already noticed, women are not as judgemental about their partners body counts, so it might actually not make me a worse partner. I think it would, but I have my doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:41 PM
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Using colloquial language: Hoe phase is not a phase, it's personality. I don't give a shit. Once the town's drunk, always the town's drunk. The same applies to hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:39 PM
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I second that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:37 PM
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But even in that case, lowering the standard would be assuming a virgin as more desirable. If that wasn't the case, something like "don't be stupid, non-virgins are as great as virgins" would make more sense. Like "don't be stupid, blondes are as beautiful as brunettes".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:36 PM
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I only say it's different because women tend to be more tolerating on that matter. But I absolutely respect a woman who has the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:32 PM
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I know. Thing is I'm not an incel lol. They always play the incel card when they feel attacked. Along with insecure etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:31 PM
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Of course, but each one has their own priorities. BTW, happened again. "Less than a perfect ideal". Language plays tricks on us 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:29 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:28 PM
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Now you are saying virginity wasn't your point? Yes and the very sentence you quoted makes it quite clear. Virginity is one of the 3 (three) things I mentioned. If you want your wife to have low n-count it's like wanting your wife to be blonde, fine. But it's none of your business if women in general are blonde or not Agreed. But it's my business to care about it. Ok ask every married man you know about their wife's n-count and whether they agree that their wifes are sluts. Where I live usually …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:27 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:15 PM
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I've read it in "I can't handle my girlfriend's past" kind of posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:15 PM
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Thank you. I share the same opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:13 PM
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That would be the case if you could find someone that can meet your standards in the first place Do you mean find that person and they're not interested or simply finding them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:03 AM
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That could be a reason, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:00 AM
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I'm not RP. I think RP has some very valid points though. But the obsession some guys have does become toxic. I call myself a traditional guy. it's just weird when it's only applied to women. I actually agree with you here, but it's the other sex who decides whether to apply it or not. What happens is that women, generally speaking, are less judgemental about it than men. The biological/psychological explanation would be the intrinsic certainty of motherhood and the intrinsic uncertainty of fath…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:57 AM
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Do you really hate sluts as a person No. They can be great people, great friends (with benefits?), but absolutely terrible girlfriends. dont wanna date sluts because you dont consider them an attractive option This. Lmao why would I actually hate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:50 AM
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You should have stopped yourself. You spoke about virgins. I spoke about virgins but also sexual behaviour in general. People here can't read the word virgin, they instantly forget about everything else. Virginity itself was not even my point here. How does that reply make any sense? If one cares about something about other person, you saying it's not their business won't change anything as it matter to them. They'll still think about it. And everyone is entitled to their standards so you don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:48 AM
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That's what I use to say. Bit you, like others, seem to be focusing on that single phrase where I mentioned virginity. That's not my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:16 AM
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Again, the post mentions virginity but it's not about it, it's about people unwillingly acknowledging high numbers as less desirable. Ps: Your sexual behaviour does indicate a lot about your personality, in ways that are relevant for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:15 AM
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Non promiscuous woman are not that rare. The post is clearly not only about virginity, so many people are not getting that. Anyways, as I've said to someone else, in that case of something being exceptionally rare, I wouldn't say "Lower your standards", instead I'd say something like "don't be stupid". Someone gave an example of a guy chasing red-heads. What I'd tell him wouldn't be to lower his standards because red-heads are no more beautiful than other hair colours. I'd tell him to open his f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:12 AM
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Agreed, Reddit makes everything a bit more extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:05 AM
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But I'd never tell a guy who is only into red-heads to lower his standards, since blondes and brunettes are beautiful as well. I'd literally tell him "look at all these beauties, are you fucking kidding me?" Because I actually find them beautiful. If he said that no hot and popular girls wanted to date him, in that case I'd tell him to lower his standards. Because in that case he'd actually be going for a less desirable partner, for someone who even I see as a less desirable partner. Thus the em…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:44 AM
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I know that already lmao. I know that a guy's standards are most often called insecurity, selfishness, obsession and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:36 AM
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Lowering standards literally means settling for something worse. Again, a rarer option isn’t always better. I really want to emphasise this: each one decides what they like. No one else gets to decide this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:34 AM
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Do we? Enough times. Especially on dating subs. married none virgins I want to stop you here. My post is not specifically about preferring virgins. It's about any kind of preferences men have regarding women's sexual past. We simply have no fucking idea. You should have, science proves it. People from both sexes with a promiscuous past tend to cheat more. And you wouldn't even need science to know that. We can literally see that happening. And it isn't. That's up for each one to decide. One know…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:32 AM
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So you read my post and thought "slut".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:22 AM
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You were literally the one who first mentioned "slutty behaviour" in your top comment lmao. Really? Your own language has just betrayed you again. The word "slut" is in the dictionary. Calling a promiscuous woman a slut is no different from calling someone who steals a thief. Whether or not I like or approve that behaviour is up to me do decide. I can't forbid a woman from doing what she wants but I can't be forced to date her against my will either, no matter what's the reason for me not wantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:16 AM
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I didn't shame anyone lmao. Why so offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:09 AM
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"Lower your standards" = be more realistic Being realistic = lowering standards In this sentence, you're agreeing with me.The same logic applies to physical attractiveness. Yet everyone acknowledges that it's about lowering standards, as it means going for less attractive women. Virgin women aren't necessarily better than women who have some sexual experience, That's up to the man to decide. He, better than anyone else, knows what he likes and his priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:40 AM
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Nah you're wrong. View changing attempt unsuccessful. BTW, nothing against women, only against sluts. Real women are great. EDIT: I should add that yes, it has been scientifically proven that anyone, man or women, with a promiscuous past is more likely to cheat. Longing way outweighs curiosity, due to the fear factor. I should also add that from my experience, women (probably the same applies to men) whi have had many partners also carry some emotional baggage, traumas, etc which are unpleasant …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:35 AM
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In that case you would say something like "grow up" (I've read this one, yes). But I'm talking specifically about the times when people tell some guy to lower his standards. That's what I say to a guys who complain about not getting attractive women. Attractiveness has a subjective component but science has proven that evolution created some standards, from which we deviate downwards in order to match our own attractiveness. In that particular case I'm acknowledging the physical attractiveness o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:33 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:27 AM
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Really? I always read that at some point. And in other subreddits even more than this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:20 AM
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Nah, technology and social media are to blame for that, not me too. Me too would be to blame about other stuff like when you are naturally flirting and get accused of harassing, especially on night clubs lmao. But yeah, in that particular aspect, social media made a very good job in both tearing men and women apart and that fear-based harassment paranoia I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:31 PM
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Do as you want. I'm not a therapist anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:24 PM
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I'm talking about most stuff you post. You just sound too bitter and sarcastic man. And I don't mean to attack you, I just want you to know that's not good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:15 PM
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It's exaggerated. At this point most people are already aware that dating might be slightly different from the Disney movies, yet you sound like the few who overstate it in order to project your own frustrations. You should introspect and work on that, because you'll never be happy that way. First acknowledge that girls are people like you and me, with flaws, like you and me. Then think of your own flaws as a man, and then, instead of victimising yourself try to improve yourself. Also, complaini…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:03 PM
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I don't take this seriously, just like to argue. Only get triggered with certain people because I think they are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:53 PM
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Yeah, but you sound unhealthily angry about everything. That won't lead anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:50 PM
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The analogy still works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:47 PM
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The only answer I could give to this post would be very rude yet true and very fair insults. So I'll refrain from doing that this time. I'll just assume you're slightly trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:10 PM
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Society would collapse. Men play a huge role in building society because, I mean, about half of the world's population are men. One fun fact is that most of what men do is either directly or indirectly to get sex. You work to have money so you're a good provider. You do sports and even fight in order to compete with other males, aiming for female attention. You create stuff for the same reason you work: for money. And so on. Everything is to end up raising a family, no matter if you do it consci…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:08 PM
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Why are your posts on here mostly about criticising dating dynamics and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:35 PM
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Again, as I said to someone else: Following your logic, I should be against flu vaccines. Most people don't need them as few die of the disease, yet my tax money is being wasted on that. Engaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:33 PM
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No I don't. I believe relationships require mutual trust, but that doesn't happen without mutual proofs of trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:31 PM
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The fact that so many people don't see general cheating as morally wrong and specifically that so few men think it's morally wrong when a woman cheats shows us that society still needs a lot of work.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 09:41 AM
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You're right. They are all very worried for thinking now women have a lot more sexual partners than men. But it's reddit. I have to buy a lot of popcorn packs for whenever this subject comes up on this platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:37 PM
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There's a tendency to view it as an attack on women. While, as you said, it can also be used against men. But most importantly, it can be used against shitty people and I totally support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:24 PM
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Which is absolutely great. Both sexes have to be accountable for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:08 PM
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I actually try to notice women like that. I always try to see beyond the looks. Guys who complain a lot about that actually don't do this, they're obsessed with female looks. They fall it love for a perfect body. I get horny with a perfect body but only fall in love with a nice personality. Yes, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:07 PM
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Yes. Zero tolerance with deadbeats just like with paternity fraud. Completely agree. However I still think more women are afraid of it than men 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:03 PM
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The government doesn't need to store any DNA data. The data can be used at the moment or birth to attest paternity and then be discarded. Privacy laws apply almost everywhere else, they would apply in this case as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:00 PM
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If you're afraid of a paternity test then you probably shouldn't be married/committed anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:58 PM
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I won't tell if you don't tell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:38 PM
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Exactly. Subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:34 PM
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You shut up!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:31 PM
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No, you shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:29 PM
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Don't mock my flair, I love it. Shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:25 PM
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Lol good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:04 PM
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For example: Refusing to date sluts; Breaking up once she creates an OF or even posts slutty photos on Instagram; Not liking her going clubbing every week without you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:10 PM
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What they call insecurity and control is actually self-respect. I won't be a cuck for some girl to play with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:12 AM
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No. I'm sparing some memory in Reddit's databases by not writing the same shit over and over again. If some people can't read then they should learn to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:11 AM
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more kisses
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:09 AM
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kisses
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:05 AM
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I don't care if someone calls me insecure or controlling. I truly don't give a shit 🤣 I simply have self respect which society doesn't seem to like very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:43 AM
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Both? Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:57 PM
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Offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:56 PM
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Yeah, but that is very likely a reason why the stable sweet guy will refuse to marry her. This is why it's not the same thing. Deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:23 PM
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Because men and women are not the same and never will be. Including when it comes to dating standards. Most men won't marry a slut but will fuck the shit out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:12 PM
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Or it means she's not trustworthy and a divorce might be too expensive. Also, I don't trust anyone 100%, that's the first step to being a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:11 PM
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Do you think I'll ever waste my time, resources and fidelity with a lady who in the few past years was banging as many guys as she could? Because now she's decided to settle and everything must be as she wants? Who the hell does she think she is?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:08 PM
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Research like I did. I'm tired of source requests on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:34 PM
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Not to mention how closed adoption was the standard for decades Was. You're using everything you can recall to downplay the importance of attesting paternity. Ancestry DNA test warns you the results may not be to your liking I've seen those platforms warning you specifically about paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:29 PM
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Even according to the lowest estimates, it would be 1 in 25 children which is way too much. It means every classroom would have a kid being raised by someone who is not their biological father.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:26 PM
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Other DNA testing companies, not directed to paternity tests specifically, have reported alarming results. They even warn you before you request to be tested that you might have unpleasant surprises.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:02 PM
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All was answered in my other replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:54 PM
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Yeah, you're right on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:53 PM
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That's quite naive of you, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:53 PM
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I still think parents should consent, however it should be a standard test as are many others. Which would make the default being performing the test, unless there were any objections.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:51 PM
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It's common sense, which crazy teens have deemed mostly false. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:50 PM
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US?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:49 PM
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Not to mention the fallout of any sort of false negative you’d get. It’s rare but if you’re testing millions of babies a year you’d still get a handful statistically The benefits even considering the false positives way outweigh not testing at all. 30% of men is a lot of men. According to your logics, I am now against flu vaccines, because I don't need them, don't take them and they are way too expensive for the amount of people who actually die of flu.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:49 PM
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Idk, not all countries are the same and I won't sign a birth certificate without my paternity attested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:40 PM
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Some privacy rules have to be implemented as it happens in anything where sensitive data in involved. Wtf. BTW, how to make a liberal distrust the government? By talking about paternity tests, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:38 PM
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And what does it matter if a guy is raising a kid who isn't his own, even without knowing that? Oh shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:35 PM
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Oh I was wanting for this kind of response. So you're supposed to trust all women. And if she chooses to have a kid with someone else and make you raise it, you just have to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:33 PM
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It's quite a simple test, which would spare a lot of men from raising another man's child if it was a standard procedure after birth. It would have a residual impact on tax money. There's a difference between not needing it and thinking you don't need it, which applies to all medical tests lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:27 PM
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In that case, the test should be a standard procedure and should not be performed only if the parents refused to consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:26 PM
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Why is it stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:24 PM
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Yes, obviously, I don't know why it's not a standard procedure after birth. Why? First, it's in the child's best interest to know for sure who the biological father is, even for health reasons. Second, it's unethical to force a man to raise a child who is not his. Third, the test is not invasive. Give me a reason not to perform a paternity test after birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:23 PM
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You just confirmed my comment. Come back when you have something to actually add.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:09 PM
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It doesnt have a soul According to my belief, no one has one lol. feel anything yet. If you mean that an unconscious human has no rights, then that has very serious implications. I'd say unconscious humans do have rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:21 PM
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not legally considered And since when is the law always right? Since nazism maybe? Since Jim Crow? Prohibition? A collection of cells. Just like you. It's a fetus. You were one as well once. Where do you draw the line? Because the only accurate line is literally conception. Really, religion brought into the 21th century doesn't make much sense. First of all I'm not religious, at all, second, I don't get that anti-religion sentiment anyway. Religious people are often much better than atheists. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:18 PM
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No. Your body will discard any eggs or sperm anyway. Using contraception would be roughly equivalent to wank off. Are you supposing I'm religious? Because I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:12 PM
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Randomly switching topics like an angry edgy teenager? Are you trying to convert me into some kind of child killing vegan?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:02 PM
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Does the seatbelt kill anyone? What a nonsensical take. You just used a random distortion of my logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:17 AM
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Your body naturally rejects and discards unused sperms or eggs. It's not a deliberate action. I can't believe I had to say this. At this point it's just a question of when it is the child and when it isn't. At conception. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:11 AM
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I'll put it in clearer language: What is supposed to happen by nature if you don't kill the fetus?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:06 AM
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I'm not against sex, I'm against abortion. I'm against killing human beings no matter the stage of development. If you don't kill a fetus, most likely someone is going out of the uterus. I use crosswalks to avoid being hit by a car, however there's still a risk. If I want zero risk, then I can never cross roads anymore. Do I cross the road? Every fucking day, even knowing the risk. Do I minimise my risk? Also yes. Will I regret crossing the road at a given moment if I'm hit by a car? Probably. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:59 AM
-1

What is supposed to happen if the fetus is not removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:53 AM
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This works both ways though, a man should then be responsible for child care and paying child support even if he didn’t want the child because he consented to the possibility of the child. Oh no shit 🕵‍♂️ I support abortion btw but it’s funny how your logic never seems to apply to men and only to punish women who get pregnant unplanned Why did you assume that? Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:49 AM
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That's true. But what I meant with my comment was that I don't support abortions, generally speaking. We live in such a depraved society that gruesomely taking offspring out of the womb became normalised so that adults got a bit more sexual freedom, and I find it disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:35 PM
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Right, just don't forget this: Consented sex, consented (risk of) conception. No excuses, no workarounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:22 PM
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I didn't know until now what pew is, but looking at their website, some American thing, looking at their stats, quite left leaning, although claiming to be non-partisan. Anyways, I keep my stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:19 PM
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Unless super religious No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:20 PM
0

Not necessarily, it can be just about ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:19 PM
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That's a naive take, but I don't blame you, instead I blame social media, mass media and the whole system. Roughly half of pro-life people are actually women. Who saw the celebrations in the SCOTUS after your country finally let each state choose their stance on abortion? Guess what, there was an overwhelming majority of women celebrating there. Some of the best arguments against abortion, which converted me from supporting it to the opposite, came from women. Great conservative women. But pro-c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:17 PM
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Nah, not necessarily. It's more likely they will cheat if they want to, because they have more options and thus chances, however I think cheating depends on your character in first place. I see many non-attractive people cheating on their partners. And attractive people being faithful as well. What I really see is that generally promiscuous people, from both sexes, tend to cheat more. They see sex as more of a recreational thing to do instead of a sharing of intimacy and pleasure. That's the big…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:00 PM
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legit points, some exaggerated points, some ridiculous points No one is always right or wrong. 100% entertaining the entire time. But this is actually true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:53 PM
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I respect and believe in a lot of JP content. However, tate is absolutely different. It's about how they talk about stuff . JP is simply realistic, acknowledges human nature and tries to make other people do the same. Tate is actually misogynistic, quite toxic and his girlfriends do webcamming. JP has a lot more to teach you than tate, tate is just looking for fame and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:51 PM
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I knew about tate from Instagram, when this quite feminist girl I know sharer stories talking about him with a lot of rage. Don't get me wrong, I don't like tate. But this shows that grifting works in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:47 PM
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Then do your shit and don't waste time chasing girls, as OP says. We thank you guys for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:44 PM
1

I love how people here overestimate anything negative. Or Americans are fat as fuck. Are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:50 PM
1

I didn't decide shit. Just told you what's decided for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:48 PM
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You're comparing dating with a life together and they are not the same. Also, one gender has to spend more resources on dating than the other one. Guess who is who. This is true for the generality of mammals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:22 PM
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You don't get to decide that the same way you don't get to decide other stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:20 PM
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It's pretty natural for me, I just know that's how things work. They seem to forget that we have dating rituals as any other mammal, and sound like they feel entitled to women being attracted to them without any effort. It's fine by me, means less competition lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:53 PM
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Yeah, it's pretty common. Mot my problem though, I tried my best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:43 PM
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Whether he's dominant or not doesn't actually matter. It does matter more than the real status, bud. Ever heard about gold diggers? Ever heard about women married with wealthy men cheating with supposedly lower status ones? They are attracted to the apparent status, not the actual one. There are simps the woman is attracted to These are the victims of the gold diggers. They aren't seeing any status, power or dominance in them, they are just seeing resources. It's different. Self respect is part …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:10 PM
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The difference you don't seem able to tell is that simps are submissive, a man should be dominant. Simps don't show any value, because they don't show any power, and get angry because they paid for the date and didn't fuck. Your whole attitude throughout the date matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:55 PM
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Read my last paragraph please.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:51 PM
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Why? And according to who? If your role as a man is to just pay for women's stuff then that's a sad existence While dating a man has to show his potential for being a provider. Biolog doesn't give a shit about how society has changed, you're very much the same as the cave men. There are many times when women are interested and even text first but they cannot hold a conversation. I've covered this one in my comment, so I don't get why you insist on it. worship women or treat them like special bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:42 PM
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I strongly disagree and truly believe it's unhealthy for a guy to think like that. expect you to pay for dates and so on. That's part of your role as a man. Deal with it. women tend to have a very high opinion of themselves when it comes to dating, Do you have a low opinion of yourself. Maybe try to improve, or maybe you don't need to, and simply have low self-esteem. Anyways, being confident is critical, and being afraid of women who have a high perception of themselves won't lead you anywhere.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:26 PM
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A bit. Not in the pre-WW2 sense which implied that women stayed home and the husbands would be the providers and also the head of the family. That is because I believe in individuality, and although I value family I still think one should only represent oneself. During those times, a family would be represented by a patriarch to which the remaining members submitted. I don't agree with that. Not to mention that the radical "men work, women stay home" system only worked in more urban contexts whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:13 PM
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It depends on the no 😅 You have to learn to tell teasing from rejection. Just please don't do anything illegal lmao. Which means don't touch her without consent and don't be a creep or stalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:40 PM
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That happens quite naturally, it's called the "women are wonderful" effect. It's quite interesting, give it a look. But I agree that a man should learn to fight that in order to avoid serious disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:36 PM
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I constantly see short or ugly dudes with girls, so I still don't get this point. I really never get it. First of all looks aren't everything neither for guys or girls. Period. They're NOT. Internalise that once and for all. Second, yes, as a guy you have to put some effort into it. So what? Wanna switch gender? As I've stated above, looks aren't everything and you don't need to be a Greek god or what freaks call a Chad to get sex or relationships. Third, having made clear both points above, her…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:33 PM
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If you feel you're destined to loneliness, congratulations, acknowledging is the first step towards fixing it. Instead of assuming most people are destined to that, try to figure out why you feel like that and what you have to do in order to change the outcome. I don't mean this in a bad way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:58 PM
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I don't know, it's simply not normal 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:54 PM
1

Having an attitude tends to yield good results.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:37 PM
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Yes, I google terminologies and acronyms almost every time I come to reddit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:29 AM
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I know, right? 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:27 AM
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ratio is around 105 males born for every 100 females. Worldwide. I do experience the world with more women than men around me, maybe that's distorting my perception. But it's a good thing, for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:23 AM
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The majority of all men are over 50 as well. The west is old. The life expectancy gap is most often under 5 years, so that doesn't make a big difference. Women are born at slightly higher rates than men. Edit: Ok you're right about certain countries, like the US. In my country, proportions are quite the same. Oof. Sorry for the US being such a horrible place. This is why I support men going to the war and women staying. A society with more men than women doesn't work, just look at the Arabic cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:07 PM
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Yes, it's a cognitive dissonance. I prefer girls with high standards. Even the kind of psychosocial high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:01 PM
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any indication of bitter or angry Good point. very very serious profiles. No doubt. if you voted for xxxx swipe left I'm starting to like you. if every photo is in the club i assume some incompatibility Now I definitely like you. chip on your shoulder Are you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:52 PM
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Eh, I don't care that much to be honest. As long as she's not lazy, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:44 PM
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Take them as people with whom you intend to have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:44 PM
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Some people seem to ignore the fact that a guy takes hints about that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:42 PM
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That's a good start then. Now, the next step is seeing and acknowledging what you can and should improve. But I won't go further on this, because I'm not a counselor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:07 PM
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Imagine if you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:51 PM
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Does that mean that she is actually less attractive than that less attractive woman because he chose the other woman who gave him sex quickly rather than her? I don't know, arrive to some conclusion by yourself. What really matters is, that very question by itself proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:39 PM
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I'm likening a "phase" to a lifestyle, maybe a trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:33 PM
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No, it's a basic human skill, sorry for letting you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:32 PM
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No, it actually lures them into assessing their attractiveness based on a false attraction. Like you've implied, a man will find a girl more attractive if she gives him sex, meaning that a less-than-attractive girl will become more attractive for his eyes that way. By not giving it to him, she can accurately assess whether he's actually into her or just with blue balls. It’s a big reason why female on female slut shaming occurs. The reason is that they know sluts are quite devalued in the dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:17 PM
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This something too many of them don't get. There's a huge difference between a girl who has had 2 long term boyfriends and a girl who has hooked up twice. Curiously, the one who has had sex more times is the most valuable among them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:10 PM
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It is, as you said, it's a lifestyle, it defines you. It's a phase that can always come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:06 PM
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It looks like you will have trouble at sleeping, not me hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:03 PM
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All you said is exactly why they can and maybe should assess it without actually hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:03 PM
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First of all, why are you assuming I hate women? Second, I haven't been misogynistic, unless disagreeing with you and being honest counts as misogyny. Third: The reality that the majority of this Reddit sub No, the reality out there. Take it from a guy (if you want, otherwise stay delusional). Also I don't understand all this emotional meltdown from you, since I haven't even been remotely offensive, despite having used raw terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:00 PM
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Because shy or unattractive people have to put some effort into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:52 PM
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No I don't. That's just you victimising yourself when confronted with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:50 PM
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lose interest If they lose interest, they had to have some interest in the first place. Not hooking up right away is also another form of assessment: is he interested in her or in her pussy? Because there are different kinds of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:45 PM
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I'm not sorry for being a normal guy. I was honest with you now you do what you want. Also, if you've slept with any guy in your life, chances are he uses the same language at least in his head. I do the same, but since we are in a debate sub I have no problems in getting it out of my head for the occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:33 PM
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Take it from a quite conservative man (so that you don't think I'm blue pill or something related): Get offline for a generous amount of time everyday. Go out and socialise. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:32 PM
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complain if they don’t because they don’t know enough about sex This is not true. At most a guy will complain about how hard it is for girls to give it to him. Since it's too easy for us to enjoy a sex session, we don't care much about the girl's skills, as long as she spreads her legs. Sorry for the language BTW , but it was the most honest way of putting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:24 PM
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assess their own attractiveness based upon how the men who they hook up treat them They can assess it without actually hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:21 PM
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Player
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:20 PM
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I agree with you on that particular point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:16 PM
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First of all porn is a bad addiction. Second, Instagram can be as well, depending on how you use it. It has a lot of privacy settings that allow you to define stuff like who sees your content or who messages you. You can also create a professional account just for your work, more open, directed to bookings, sharing your work, etc. At the same time you can keep your personal account private, for your photos, stories, etc, which you only want your friends to see. I get annoyed by a girl constantly…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 08:58 PM
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In most western countries, fortunately, there are more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:36 PM
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The facts are there. All sexual dynamics are both biological and evolutionary. What attracts or icks you is absolutely biological and evolutionary. People like you are the flat-earthers of dating just like the commies are the flat-earthers of economics lmao. You deny scientifically accurate facts in order to validate your faulty worldview and resort to mocking them when loosing an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:35 PM
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And it must feel terrible to have facts invalidating your worldview 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:13 PM
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Oh my flag is visible again, good. I think reddit has some bugs. I wouldn't worry much about that anyway. How are your odds with Stacy's mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:11 PM
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No bud, you people tend to deny or affirm science according to your views. I don't give a shit about my views or yours, nor does science. Facts are facts, deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:04 PM
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No, as discussed several times in this sub, actually waayyy too many times, it's biologically and evolutionarily gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:43 PM
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I'm currently reading a book, not about dating, not about sex, it's about finance, personal finance. One of the first lines they teach you, in the context of consumerism but which can extrapolate to the whole human nature is: Humans don't long for what they have never experienced. And it's true. I know old people who have never left their villages and are more than happy with it. I also know young people who have travelled a lot and would commit suicide if they lived in a village lmao. And the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:40 PM
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I know guys who specifically prefer sluts. Anyone can be happy with someone they like. Ask instead, how do we explain successful men who end up coping with shitty relationships. Answer: low self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:22 PM
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Because it's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:18 PM
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Not dating the promiscuous ones lmao. All of them have easy access to sex if they want, but not all will fuck with any wiener they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:16 PM
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Not until she speaks about her bf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:18 PM
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Good times create weak people and weak people are quite stupid. And we are living through damn Good times, ask old people.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 03:01 AM
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It's the easiest task, contrary to what they say around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:19 PM
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I judge silently 😂😂 Otherwise they'll get defensive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:19 PM
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If it didn't matter, they wouldn't lie about it nor would they feel offended by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:15 PM
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I'd say it was a great analogy but you're the one who compared women to an object, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:00 PM
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If you put it that way I agree with you. But that goes as I've said, dating is then entirely based on judging.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:42 PM
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At this point you're just saying delusional stuff to deal with it. It's fine by me. You're a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:06 PM
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Sorry I didn't get your question. Maybe it's my English IDK, not my first language. Can you reformulate please? BTW I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:04 PM
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I don't believe that anyone is suffering because some insecure, hypocritical male doesn't want them. If she wants me and I don't want her, I guess she is, at least in the short term 😂 Hypocrisy isn't a standard All standards are quite hypocritical. Genders differ from each other and expect different things from each other. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:02 PM
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I have a very strong deal-breaker which is about maturity. I want my partner to be working because I'm not here to provide for a lazy ass. I also require her to have a pretty face. Because I cannot fall in live with a face I don't find pretty. Is that judging? Because if so, dating is entirely based on judging. As I've said before, promiscuity is your right, me rejecting you based on anything that matters to me is also my right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:58 PM
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Even I believe they have the same rights, I just don't date them. They can be very nice people though, as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:56 PM
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Her lifestyle, people talking, social media, personality, etc... the usual tbh. Some other friends of mine got the hints as well, but I kept trying to ignore them. I was dumb at the time lmao. I didn't reach the point of being cheated on because once I saw the reality I ran away, we didn't start a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:53 PM
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how your selections are viewed How YOU view my selections. I bet you have your criteria and deal-breakers as well, unless you have a total lack of self-respect. But in YOUR view, you're allowed to have standards but I'm not. Why is that? Because my standards hurt your feelings? We all believe in the rule of consent. Which forcibly implies that I'm entitled to have any standards I feel like and have the right to reject anyone based on whatever I decide. These are the consequences. You yourself, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:49 PM
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I'm not judging, I'm just saying how I do my selection. Or am I supposed to date anything with a booty and boobies? But you can do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:32 PM
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We don't need to put it much effort. In fact, it's literally quite the opposite. I've found myself a few times now trying hard to rinse all the hints out of my head while they were being shoved in my face, so that I could just like the girl and all that. Guess what, it didn't work and she was a filthy slut. The truth always prevails. Glad that didn't work well, because by this time she'd probably have already cheated on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:22 PM
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Never with 100% accuracy but we can pretty much tell, don't worry 😂 All the hints are basically rubbed in our faces while meeting a new girl and during the first dates with her LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:16 PM
0

I subscribe to that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:13 PM
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only insecure people on the internet and men with microphones care. This is utterly false. Female promiscuity has always been looked down upon by everyone except promiscuous women. Yes, everyone including non-promiscuous women. I've seen more women calling others sluts than men doing that. Also, stop playing the insecure card for men with high values. You're the ones who are insecure about being tagged as something and rejected by that. Actions have consequences. Do what you want, but don't judg…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:05 PM
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Realistic.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 04:01 PM
2

I don't know and I don't care. 🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:53 PM
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I can be friends but I don't think I can date. their values, morals, priorities, how they think, etc This has to match. I also mean their politics since how someone votes is directly linked to their values Obviously. No right vote, no right values. Vote right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:52 PM
1

Same beauty and body count as a 23yo, plus maturity? A.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:46 PM
0

That's how it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:25 PM
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career/professional/finance advice Study and invest. Always know you can change your path. Be irreplaceable at work, and you can easily replace your job. -relationships/sex/friendships/family advice Value yourself. Know you have something to offer before demanding anything. Date out of the standard settings: apps and bars/clubs. Family and friends first. Choose your friends wisely. Most of them aren't for life, just accept that. -anything spiritual, fulfilment etc Exercise and meditate. Be kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:25 PM
1

Yeah, I got it, don't worry. But that was the very first thing that came into my mind, I laughed, so I decided to comment that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:15 PM
2

Are you in sex business sir? 🤨 That's illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:02 PM
1

Reality confirms this. Still, anyone is entitled to their own standards. If they end up single, that's no one else's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:01 PM
1

In colleges yes. Out of colleges people are still relatively sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:43 PM
0

It's Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:09 PM
0

Just try making up some story like that on that sub but reverse the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:09 PM
1

Yes, but hasn't gone as far as the Internet. Most people are still quite normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:08 PM
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I got a bit confused with your comment, but I mean, some people share those opinions irl, some don't, but reddit is generally a liberal circle jerk echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:58 PM
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I think you're missing the point of this post. I'm not saying it's correct, I'm just agreeing there is a double standard, because, if it was the wife cheating because the husband was going through some shit, I'm sure people would be much more supportive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:58 PM
1

That's why I say men have to make their own rules in the game. Why do so many young men stick to dating apps and bars/clubs like it is a rule? In general you are free to talk to people, and thus you are free to create your own setting. If you're at least interesting people, in this case women, will at least listen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:42 AM
6

Well, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:39 AM
1

If it depends on me, no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:33 AM
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Relationship-advice is a toxic liberal subshit...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:31 AM
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One wrong step and our reputation will be damaged. This one reminds me of other thing I learned: the world doesn't revolve around you. Almost nobody gives a shit about you. Once you know that, while also acknowledging that self-judgment is a thing and we tend to be too hard on ourselves, much more than on others, you'll reach the same conclusion as I did. But we must learn to be socially aware and not look like hungry dogs You have enough space to learn in a try/mistake fashion way, just don't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:34 PM
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OK, this is wrong.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 02:14 PM
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Today I saw several girls using our bathroom because “their was occupied”. I have done the same both for this reason and just by mistake. On the occasions when I crossed with some women, I just apologised and got no issues. EDIT: the same, aka going to the women's bathroom.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 02:14 PM
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How on earth are 1,000 men supposed to have the time to fuck 4,000 women? Do they not have jobs, or friends, or families? No hobbies or time to relax? Do they get everything in their lives paid for by these Chad chasers, getting money and gifts thrown at them like the oft-mentioned Staceys? This is their theory. Chad is fucking all the chicks and the chicks are basically taking turns with the Chads. I guess they believe anyone who is not an incel is basically privileged and doesn't have to work …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:37 PM
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I think they assume most women are all banging the same men, like in turns.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:16 PM
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This is not usual but I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:09 PM
1

I figured out women and how female attraction works. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:09 PM
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That's a symptom of never leaving the house. And it's often the first step to black pill shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:43 PM
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OK, but it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:34 PM
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I refuse to read The Atlantic, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:22 PM
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I used to struggle before simply accepting that the modern concept of dating is wrong. Now I don't struggle because I know what I want. I became picky and more assertive: I've decided that a girl who I won't be capable of presenting to my parents is not even worth my time. On the other hand, I've decided not to give a shit: it's a man's job to chase women and I don't fear rejection anymore, nor do I feel I'm doing something wrong by approaching a pretty girl. Last but not least, I've decided to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:19 AM
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with about 65% men in the 18-35 age group. This is why I support men being the ones going to war and shit. The lower the men ratio, the better. On the other hand, it's not very interesting to live in a world with more dicks than pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:11 AM
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This corroborates what I've said in my top level comment: never take an article from The Atlantic seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:46 AM
1

You can pretend someone is disposable to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:13 AM
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How are short man supposed to date? By owning it and being confident anyway. If she's a bitch about your height, ditch her, it's easy. I know a lot of short men who have girlfriends and hookups. It's probably one of those situations where the best advice is: be a man. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:54 AM
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The timid is kind of out of place there, because funny and boring are very subjective concepts, meaning that each one will have their own conception of them. So, most likely, my answer to boring/not funny will be no, because we are taling about what I think is boring/funny. And I bet most people would agree with me. About the shy, it's an objective concept and you can actually poll it it a would/wouldn't way. I would love to date a shy girl, I prefer shy girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:28 PM
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The one she chooses, 'cause paternity tests are misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:19 PM
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Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences. I mean yes, no doubt. 1st, it's a natural, and thus irrational ick. 2nd, you're entitled to your preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:05 PM
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Wholesome, not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:04 PM
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their out-of-sync-with-their-culture dry dicks These kind of posts make me realise that men are not the only frustrated ones here. Apparently, the tables turn at some point in life 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:54 PM
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Hurts my feelings = must be fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:49 PM
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There's many men who have no problem with body count. It's called resignation. There's a matriarchal culture called the Mosuo Anecdotal. The overwhelming majority sees promiscuity as a bad thing. It's pretty simple: a man who can cum 3x a day is physically able to breed 1000 women in a year. A woman is only able to get pregnant twice a year. It's biological. It's evolution. Plus: the mother is always certain, the father is always uncertain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:56 PM
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By every age bracket women are less single Given that there is roughly the same number of men and women on earth and, if you live in a western country, most likely women outnumber men, explain to me how this is possible. Are there so many lesbians out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:57 PM
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Take it as any other addiction, like alcohol. With moderation it's fine but too much is too much. And when it's already too much, you have to quit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:14 PM
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The first step is quitting porn and related shit. Also cut on the wanks if you do it too much. The next step is knowing what's your issue. Last step is working on or with your issue. (With because it can be something unchangeable, although rarely an absolute blocker. And people with absolute blockers are usually quite out of dating very early and kind of have accepted it... imo)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:28 PM
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Okay but you're the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:54 PM
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Given that a guy usually doesn't give a shit about the girl's pleasure in hookups, is it really that appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:12 PM
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Just out of curiosity: take some time During this time do most (I know you're not all the same LMAO) girls usually go to a hookup life-style, the so called hoe phase, or do they kind of retreat from guys for a while? I mean, generally speaking, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:00 PM
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Didn't know that existed. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:22 AM
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When you end a bad relationship and you know it, do you want another one right away? Like, expecting a good one this time? Thinking you're now able to avoid the previous mistakes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:19 AM
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Probably they're already to her, physically speaking, before knowing that, but are still thinking she's just another hoe, and thus don't really care about her. Until they unexpectedly find out she's virgin or something, and so they become fully attracted to her. Because, again, it's not the pure ones who make a guy harder, it's the hoes who give a guy an ick feeling. This way, the ick goes away. Even for ONS looks aren't everything, even for guys :) Generally speaking, if a guy finds a girl unat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:16 AM
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It's mostly about seeing it as a requirement and not as a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:04 PM
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Actually the key is getting turned off by "non-pure" ones, as I tried to point out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:11 PM
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I second that without being red pilled because I don't give a crap about any pill shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:29 PM
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As I've said a thousand times throughout this sub: No matter how many logical or moral reasons can exist to justify that desire, none will be the reason behind it. Because the one and only reason is biological/psychological. Most men are simply wired like that, even if they try to work around it, because that's how their brain is programmed. Also, it's not about getting harder by "pure" women but actually getting grossed out by "non-pure" ones, which invalidates the fact that it is hedonistic. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:15 PM
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I mean, yes but that's nothing new. My personal example is that I work from home and thus have to create social situations, otherwise I'm stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:21 PM
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Usually any problem with a high body count is knowing whether or not you can measure up. You put too much thinking into this. Lots of guys do though. Although lots of logical reasons could justify the ick we feel about high body counts on women, none of them is actually the cause of it. The only cause is biological, you're programmed like that and can't help but having that feeling. You just find it gross. I mean, your brain finds it gross, even if you try working around it with reason and logic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:50 PM
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It's nothing about pills, actually. I'll try to explain it to you, as a guy, which means with a male POV. “no boy wants to go where everyone else has already been” This is kind of true. Most of us think this way, but we differ from each other on what we consider too much (I don't know how much importance girls give to it, to be honest, but I'm curious about it). But I didn't like his attitude and here's why: First, he tried to avoid an STD test, when you were willing to get one, and he has a bod…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:39 PM
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Body language, social language etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:37 PM
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Yeah, I think so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:36 PM
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Teach me then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:34 PM
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It was a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:57 AM
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Okay, if you know they're into you that might be different. I was thinking of like a first date or early dating. My strategy is mostly about getting an idea of her attitude. The n-count talk, from my experience, comes naturally when we get closer, which only happens if I believe she's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:53 AM
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Bruh just ask her what her body count is. No one asks that. Or you can just ask her girl friends No No No. I agree with the rest though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:49 AM
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Bringing it up casually is quite easy tbh. They don't even seem to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:43 AM
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Naw, just finding a conservative women is way easier and more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:39 AM
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I look down on people from both sexes who just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:33 AM
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Personality, behaviour, way of dressing, posture and social media are the first signs. With time, you both talk, you hang out with her and her friends together and people talk. There's no way of that going unnoticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:21 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:38 PM
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If a man is shitty enough to ghost you after fucking you for the first time, he will do it no matter if it's the 1st or the 10th date. Withholding sex from him is just a way of delaying the inevitable. If a man is shitty enough to ghost you after fucking you, then he probably won't be willing to go on a lot of dates with you without sex. Going on several dates before fucking is quite a good test.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:55 PM
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I won't take it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:52 PM
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You're absolutely delusional. A paternity test causes zero harm to anyone and is not invasive. It also doesn't require any consent from the mother, as it is not risky nor invasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:50 PM
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Do you think that every woman who argues against mandatory paternity testing What part of "I don't support any law enforcing it" did not get? Also, the woman literally does nothing, it's a DNA test involving the child and the father LMAO. Where is she being punished? Given that the test is noninvasive, where is anyone being punished? That's what women and some men care about, though So, basically your strategy is start crying when someone else is right, because they're not preserving the relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:52 AM
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The reasons that I’m giving are the ones why so many women are againstmandatory paternal testing, not the ones that you are mentioning. Your reasons are simply the emotionally charged arguments given against logical ones. I don't give a crap about those. Why should I be punished because some insecure men don’t trust their partners? In which way are you being punished? Also, in which way is anyone being punished? More emotional arguments, I guess. EDIT: just wanted to add, you nick checks up, dam…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:10 PM
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Given the amount of people who cheat without ever admitting or being caught makes it a huuuuge risk. I'm not saying a law should enforce it, I'm saying it should be normalised to request one instead of being looked down upon. It's not a matter of love. It's just too normal to cheat nowadays, sometimes even encouraged and propagated as a form of empowerment. The obvious consequence of that is a lack of trust between partners. And being too much against parental testing proves my point. It's seen …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:31 PM
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It’s about women not being constantly distrusted In the society we live in, it's too much of a risk to simply trust, especially when we are talking about raising a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:30 AM
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Funny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:00 PM
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Who's that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:53 PM
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So you were the first to talk about it, then they told you that. That's actually my point. The adults were wrong, not you. You already knew what you liked, with no need to being fed with it. Hetero is the norm, which doesn't mean deviating from the norm is wrong. That's all kids need to know when confronted with something different. They will be confronted with it at some point, but until then we can leave them alone. And there is still a huge difference between telling them to stop when they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:51 PM
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And did you need anyone to tell you to question your sexuality in order to discover that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:16 PM
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My country has a minority of screaming imbeciles that everyone wants to bow to. I KNOW RIGHT????
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:04 PM
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Telling kids who don't even think about sex yet to question their sexuality or even their gender, when all they should be doing would be playing games, dolls, sports, wtv, is indoctrination and clearly part of a shady agenda. The only thing you should be teaching them is not to make fun of that seemingly effeminate kid in the classroom who plays with dolls, because otherwise, they're grounded. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:01 PM
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In my Western European country, this absolute crap only exists on the Internet and colleges lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:57 PM
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No matter what society says, men are biologically preprogrammed to chase and spread genes, women are preprogrammed to select and get the best possible genes, and hence the body count thing, and why men seem to care so much more about it than women. Speaking about the act itself, well, if you have sex with a random man or if you give it to him on the first date, you shouldn’t really have high expectations, as he will just be thinking of himself and his own pleasure. If he actually likes you, it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:53 PM
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Women would rather not have sex than sleep with people they aren't attracted to. Men would rather sleep with someone they're not attracted to than have no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:21 PM
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This is true but society is now trying to make us think the opposite way somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:19 PM
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I wouldn't say it is necessarily easier, you should know Europe is very diverse, so it will depend on which country and even which region you're in. You can travel 80km in my country and the whole mindset of the people changes abruptly. Where I live, online dating is just as frustrating as Americans picture it. IRL dating is nicer, but still with the very same issues Americans report.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:11 PM
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What do you think we think when we read radfem shit as well? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:28 PM
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Oh we are. Even if look like a shy or conservative girl. We have a 6th sense to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:19 PM
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EXACTLY Why do some people not seem to get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:17 PM
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No, I don't ask. I find out. I won't jump into a relationship without knowing her. Through a very natural behaviour, which is hanging out with her and her friends, letting people talk while not being too judging, you can find it out as people will talk and you can get the hints. Her personality, lifestyle, behaviour, etc, can give you a lot of hints as well. That said, without asking, you'll never get a precise number, obviously. But you can estimate if it's too high for you with a fair degree o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:10 PM
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It depends. Imagine Amy who has had sex with 2 guys, both long term boyfriends. Now take Rebecca, who has had sex with 2 guys, both hookups. They are about the same age. Amy has probably had a lot more sex than Rebecca, yet I'd take Amy over Rebecca. Why? Attitude towards sex. That's the main point, and the main reason why we care about body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:57 PM
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As a man, I'm proud of being the first in my circle of friends, who are mostly around my age, to accomplish all that. I was the first one to live independently and leave my parents' home, and I did it fairly early when compared to my country's average young person. I'm proud but I don't call myself a strong independent man 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:48 PM
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Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:39 PM
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Fair enough. To be honest, as a guy, I usually don't like them either due to the type of arrogance you mentioned. But I've always thought girls felt attracted to that. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:04 PM
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Sometimes it takes long to find a red flag. The guy may think he's been wasting time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:00 PM
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Military, Honest question, why do so many of you dislike military or cops?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:32 PM
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Anyone can have any standards they feel like. If it’s for religious regions No matter for what reason. As long as it’s not hypocritical. And no matter the hypocrisy. You can't be forced to date anyone, which implicitly entitles you to have any preferences and deal-breakers. There are literally no rules to that. You can even have fucked 50+ girls and decide you'll only marry a virgin. The worst thing that can happen is ending up single but... That's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:30 PM
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Yes flirting is fun. Much funnier than just looking at her, feeling attracted and doing nothing, then going away, thinking about her or not. Even if you're rejected lol. If you take it like a task you have to do to get a girl, it'll always suck and you'll suck at it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:25 PM
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Just curious, what did this mean?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 07:13 PM
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Reddit became like this during the funking lockdowns.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 07:12 PM
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Greasy reddit mods. If you're not a woke non-binary polygamous porsche, they'll ban you because you're a bigot. Think you can have an opinion here? No you can't. You're only allowed to parrot woke trash talk.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 07:08 PM
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Porn addiction, essentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:49 PM
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The problem is, usually a guy can figure it out with no need for the girl to tell. Trust me, if a guy cares about it, he can tell, never with 100% accuracy but generally he can tell whether it's likely high or low for his standards. The hints are there. Otherwise, that subject eventually comes up in time, and in my opinion it's better to kill a very early relationship than a long term one, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:44 PM
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As I usually say, if you find that question outrageous and someone asks you that question, it's a clear sign things won't work between you two.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:40 PM
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It's negative for some people though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:38 PM
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Lack of social skills: obvious. Past bullying: most have suffered from it, both from what they call chads and from girls. Constant rejection: this along with bullying. Maybe some of the rejections were like "ew" instead of a simple "no". Media: depicts all women as very powerful and promiscuous beings, who can get all they want and men simp for them, while they will always choose the best ones, again, the chads. Movies and TV shows create this image, thus contributing for all the rage incels hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:35 PM
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Basically, most average people end up in a relationship. If you're average, chances are you'll get one. If you don't it's because you either don't want or aren't doing enough. Again, if you're average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:25 PM
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That's awesome dude. I love a slightly older woman. Maybe you should take the hint ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:53 AM
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and I’m a little drunk/high. Lmaooo Thank you, very good reply
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:52 AM
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Casualty is key. You'll have to be the one doing it. But it shouldn't be a burden on your life. Something between believing it will eventually come and believing you have to chase it. Basically it will come, just not without any effort put into it. If it's been too bad for you until now: maybe you should introspect, look for a reason why that's happening and change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:47 AM
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Having to go outside where people can see you shouldn’t be shocking to anyone lol. This is obviously needed but far from being enough. When you tell a young, inexperienced, even lost young man "don't look for love" he will easily assume that's enough. Also maybe it’s a location thing, but I’ve seen plenty of women approach men. I haven't, and maybe it's cultural but I wouldn't find it very attractive, to be honest. I like being the approacher. As for the rest, I've tried to pass on the same idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:40 AM
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Love comes when you aren’t looking. So dont look. This is not true for men and no man should fall for it. You'll always have to look because no girl will come and approach you, showing signs of interest. You'll have to be looking for it and create situations where you meet new people, including girls. And approach, because from my experience, girls are never the first ones showing interest, even if there is an interest. And all this is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:11 AM
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1st of all: your life shouldn't revolve around girls. That's desperate and unattractive. You need to flirt with a LOT of girls in order to have some chances. After that you need to be the one with initiative, be corteous, you often end up investing more money than her among other things. This is part of being a man. You're the one who chases. It's funny as long as you don't fall for shit like spending too much money or putting her above everything else. It's funny... but only if your life doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:58 AM
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Career: professional sports and certain kinds of high-profile performance careers. Probably military. Certain kinds of entrepreneurs and speculative businessmen. Lifestyle: super high-earning wealthy types, especially from a moneyed family. Those got me. As some other answers around here, contradict common assumptions men usually have on those topics. As for the rest, totally got you, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:23 AM
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thanks for not making some ''which of these two guys would you choose'' question, I appreciate it I know, right? What you said makes sense indeed. And contradicts, in my opinion, some assumptions men in TRP groups and alike usually make about how a man should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:19 AM
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Looks: fit Career: have an occupation and a skill Are these for real? Very surprising to be honest. I'd say a woman would prefer a fit man with a career, preferably a nice job. Lifestyle: I don’t know what it means. What he does in his day to day life, hobbies, activities, tastes, etc. Totally got the rest of your answer though, made absolute sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:14 AM
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As a man, fully agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:05 AM
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I won't get into detail because of privacy. But I realised she was treating me like a clown. I'd always be there for her, she didn't give a shit about me. I tried to build the relationship, she just wanted to watch it being built. She felt too entitled, even a female friend of mine told me that. I would do my whole role as a boyfriend, because I believe that's needed for a relationship, while she was just there, being treated like a princess and expecting even more. All because I was afraid of l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:34 AM
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Yep, they've turned the tables somehow. By "they" I mean society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:56 AM
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There needs to be intense shaming of simps (for lack of a better term) Correct. Men need to become much more picky and ignore all women any less than perfect Inaccurate. I mean, I've believed that before, probably still believed it last week. But this should be "fuck and ghost" instead of "ignoring". Men have needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:54 AM
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Opened up about mutual respect. Which she didn't seem to like. Wanted to be treated like a queen, thought I was guaranteed, thought she could have what she wanted from me while the opposite wasn't true. When I opened my eyes and saw that, I manned up and stopped taking that kind of bullshit. The relationship ended in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:40 AM
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After I shared, there was an immediate shift in our relationship. She dumped me a week later and told me that "men having insecurities is a turn off" and she couldn't see me the same way again. Sorry for you bro, what a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:34 AM
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Yes, it can happen. The very same way guys get mad at girls in general when they read through radfem content. My friends and I have our own GroupChats where we collect especially heinous things men have said online about women or girls. We also share those with other women and girls we know. This is the same kind of stuff some incelish or at least frustrated guys do: oversharing bad stuff women do or say, in echo chambers, thus leading to the belief that all girls are entitled hoes. I'm not into…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:55 AM
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Agreed, but I'm assuming this post is about you being talking with some girl with no sex (citing, "talking phase"), while she fucks others, which is indeed pathetic for a guy. About the particular comment I replied to, the guy is assuming all girls will put him in that position, which is a wrong and unhealthy assumption. Sure, some will, but I'd say most won't if you have a slight 6th sense to that. No matter what they say, a guy can tell a lot about a girl's presumable sexual behaviour by obser…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:24 PM
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I'd say it's pathetic for a man to be talking with a girl while she's funking others. I think that was the point of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:43 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:24 PM
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Quick easy pleasure. Like anything else, too much is too much. Once in a while it hurts no one. I've dropped it though. Feel more complete as a man without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:34 PM
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Yes, happens everyday. Then you apply your values into reality: you either do it or not, according to your relationship status and how you see sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:33 PM
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If that's your standard, you should change it. It's not good for you. Assuming you're a guy, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:29 PM
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According to my values, yes it's a dealbreaker. Casual sex is a 🚩.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:27 PM
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I think people use to think that mostly when someone they are attracted to is with someone else. Because in reality, they mostly match. 25, southern Europe (Good looking people, I know :p)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:44 PM
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They use if they want, I expect nothing. Btw, is sex with condom abstinence?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:09 PM
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You're assuming I didn't based on a single word
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:26 PM
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You use it wtv. I'm not a native English speaker. I don't trust it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:18 PM
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On dating apps You just said everything. Date somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:58 PM
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I just won't take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:52 PM
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Dude, I can tell you this us basically my fav sub. Why? I come here for fun. Simple like that. However I know lots of people are here to vent and find some reassurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:34 PM
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Are you a high effort troll? Because damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:42 AM
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Your relationship has an expiring date. And no matter how much sex you have, having a true partner is something completely different. You seem very radical in your views, very extreme, and I truly believe you won't be happy in the long term unless you try to change your mindset and attitude. Relationships are NOT about power, they're about bonding and living together. If your boyfriend isn't aware of your behaviour/mindset, do him a favor and break up. Explain him why. If, on the other hand, he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:16 AM
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If that's how you feel in your relationship, then you're not ready for a relationship. Inability to have some fidelity is an emotional disorder. It's a lack of bonding. You can also call it a social disorder. Your partner doesn't deserve to be treated like that. Nor do you. He probably has some emotional problems as well, if he's allowing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:12 AM
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Oh the classical "I was discovering myself". Ick. You could have ended the relationship thus avoiding hurting someone. Never be proud of cheating. It's not empowering nor liberating, it's disgusting. Just admit it was mistake and act better next time. People make mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:09 AM
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Yes they were. That's why anyone can feel jealous. That's why you're even able to feel romantically attracted and bond to someone. "We" were the first primates to leave the abundance and safety of the jungle and the trees for the harshness, seasonal scarcity and dangers of the savanna. This created the need for a family to be united for life, having the man as hunter/protector and the woman as caregiver/creator. We evolved in order to leave the typical primate promiscuity behind. We stopped rely…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:00 AM
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You got a point, yes, as a guy I can tell you guys do that. But there's a counter-argument: The girl is attracted to a less attractive man because of his money, and in a society where women are supposedly independent, they shouldn't care about a man's social status, as they supposedly don't need a provider. Which invalidates either that behaviour or the actual values we stand for, despite what we say, trying to be politically correct. Also, I'll just say it directly: if you commit to someone, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:40 AM
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women have more nerve endings in the clitoris Irrelevant. The orgasm happens in the brain. The hypothalamus. The intensity of the orgasm depends on how the brain responds to the stimulus received and forwarded to it by the nerve endings. Women have more nerve endings than men in the whole body, not just in the reproductive system. Yet men seem to be more sensitive to pain, for example. Pain happens in the brain as well. Any feeling you have, physical or emotional, happens in the brain. guys are …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:35 PM
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It depends on a lot of factors. Mostly: attractiveness, standards, social skills, lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:25 PM
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True true true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:22 PM
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I don’t need to justify my conservative beliefs. I'm happy this way. You don’t need to justify your liberal beliefs either, just be happy that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:21 PM
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Sure, I'm talking mostly about everyday mundane life. Like for example, once a girl mistreated me and I got really mad. She knew I was mad, so she started crying and suddenly I was the bad guy. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:20 AM
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I think women can't, or pretend they can't, see the following privileges: Everyone will try to help if she has a meltdown, instead of mocking her for being such a girl. Even those who say guys should express their feelings as well, actually have no patience for those very feelings when they come up from a man; Lack of loneliness: guys get lonely much easier than women, either because women will think they're hitting on them if they hit them up or because other men don't want to do anything, as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:24 AM
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I won't even discuss whether the study is legitimate, whether it's well based or whether the results can be true. Because that's not the main point here. The main point is that if the article said the opposite, this study would instantly be labelled as misogynistic. No matter how legitimate it could be or not.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 11:13 AM
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Subbed. Just don't let the woke into moderation.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 06:17 PM
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but the average girl doesn't do that. I agree with this but since I see body count as part of her personality, and I value personality first, then I give major importance to it. There's no getting around it, a girl has to be attractive. Also agree, except that unless you have very tight standards there are plenty of physically attractive girls, but I can't say the same about personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:22 PM
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Personality: it's just straight obvious; N count: to me, part of the personality; Looks: also plain obvious; Age: I prefer women my age or slightly older. I'd date a younger one if I really liked her though. Not a dealbreaker. Weight: as long as she's not anorexic or obese, it's not a dealbreaker for me at all. I like several body types, skinny, average or chubby. I love an elegant women but I also love a big ass and big boobs. Idk... Looks are about much more than weight; Career: I don't give m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:56 AM
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Perception bias. You're assuming all men are like that because you surrounded yourself with men like that. Just like some men here assume all girls are sluts because they surround themselves with sluts and look for dates in classical slutty environments. Same mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:38 AM
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It's not. I've been banned from there multiple times. Reddit needs a fucking purge.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 10:37 AM
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Welcome to reddit. Of course that was removed.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 10:34 AM
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I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:55 AM
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I'm not jew nor American, so I've just learnt why circumcision is performed. Disgusting. It's genital mutilation.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 01:49 AM
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I totally agree with you. But you straightforward told her that you were paying her for sex? Lmao ahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:57 AM
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The fact that cheating is one of leading causes of almost all relationships ending should tell you that instincts > made-up morality. What about the very fact relationships end due to cheating? It's not bias, those are facts. At last I've said what it ideally should be, what it really is, and what is to come: monogamy won't end. Throughout history, every sexually liberal era has been replaced by a conservative one. The liberal era is the decaying, the conservative one is the restoration. Religio…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:31 AM
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Yes, we have conflicting instincts, but evolution has placed them in their right place. Like a hierarchy. Males are indeed supposed to chase, but they're also supposed to settle. I mean, human males. That's why, besides lust and arousal, you also feel love and belonging. Evolution has put love and family above lust. And the fact that morality pushes that, proves it. Deep down we know what's right and bring it up. Morality is a tool and not an end. The end is evolutionary. Again, this doesn't mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:58 PM
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Bruh… It’s literally Christmas. 😐 How is that me disrespecting you? You’re logic sometimes is just… wow😲 Bite me. Your literal words were “they aren’t” (as in they aren’t falling in love multiple times. Just once. And all the times after that are “just coping” according to you.) How is that me twisting you’re words? Those are your words Skipping words again? Also… you yourself are admitting you’ve fallen in love multiple times while still trying to argue that humans are monogamous creatures. (De…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:41 PM
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Also you literally called me a simp and a cuck (which are slurs themselves genius…) before I said anything even remotely aggressive to you. Also when exactly did I “slur” you? Like what slur did I call you specifically? Cause Im having trouble recalling any of the claims you’re making pal. Tone. I argued respectfully in my very first comment. You replied with some merry Christmas shit. Care to actually explain how I did any of that? Or is this just more theatre? Example: I didn't say people only…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:48 PM
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You seem to literally skip some words of what I'm saying, then pretend you have great arguments. If you can't read, you can't argue. Keep it respectful? You're the one who started slurring. Spare me. EDIT: skip, not jump. Oops.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:37 PM
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If you can't read or pretend you can't, I won't argue with you. Otherwise I'll have to write the same shit over and over again. I’ll just take that as an admission of defeat. And a sign that you can’t actually argue against what I’m saying and are now deflecting with one-to-two word sentences. Cool. Like I said before, merry Christmas Offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:23 PM
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Plain bullshit. And finally, imagine thinking that merely acknowledging the true primal nature of human sexuality somehow makes you a cuck or simp. Meanwhile in reality, guys like me end up nutting on the face of the “love of your life” and then sending her back home to delusional guys like you that never suspect a thing because “she’s my one true love, she’d never do that to me.🤡” lmao Offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:04 PM
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for example Always implies monogamy from at least one part. The dominant part. Still most cultures have the monogamous rule. marriage literally isn’t even 5000 years old That's true for the ceremony, not for the fidelity and family building. Yes, humans build families, and that's why they're monogamous. plummet worldwide As I said, our culture is ruining marriage. Happiness is also plummeting. Why does divorce even exist by your logic Uh read again? Fourth, why does cheating even exist by your l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:22 PM
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Wow such a smart post from and entitled, shallow, average lady lol. What on earth makes you think you're entitled to be someone's world? Or that you can remotely be? If you're expecting a fucking simp, just post some dirty photo on twitter, then wait for the responses. It's a gold mine. Is this a whole argument for being an "empowered", actually undatable and unmarriable woman? Are you lacking any guy's attention and valuation because of that trait of yours? If you want to be someone's whole wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:28 PM
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It's actually the opposite. Humans ARE monogamous. That's why marriage is cross-cultural and it's also why you are able to fall in love. Humans are so monogamous they can't stand their partners' sexual past. And even if they try, they can only rationalise it, but the irrational subconcious mind will still be there, jealous, and make the conscious self do or think some shit, thus sabotaging the marriage. That's why they mostly end for such stupid reasons. Promiscuous culture has ruined marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:14 PM
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What do you think are the reasons for people not staying together in the most financially prosperous and free countries? Subconscious retroactive jealousy. Let me explain: marriage would only make sense if either both parts were virgin at the time of marriage or at least had lost their virginity together, as you are celebrating being with that one person and no one else. That's very rare nowadays. Most people marry with a sexual past. You know that when you get married but you try to rationalise…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:01 PM
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We are discussing semantics. This will never end.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:20 PM
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Oops got me My mind won't change cause you called me bad anyways ahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:39 PM
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Even animal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:05 PM
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I don't think so and won't discuss it. They'd not even be human in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:54 PM
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Given the context, it's literally the difference between conceived people and serially produced humanoids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:00 PM
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No problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:01 PM
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Exactly, I totally agree. I commented to add up to what you said: tate would have no benefit by actually helping, but by pretending to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:52 PM
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Yup true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:50 PM
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The seller couldn't thrive if the consumer stopped needing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:40 PM
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Blue pill are the nice guys before getting rejected. Then they become black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:39 PM
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The subscribe wall is in front of me so I'll just judge the article by the title. Okay, girls peak at 18 in dating apps. What are also most 18yo guys doing? Maybe that's the reason why they peak at that age? Guys peak at 50, maybe in their own demographic? Sexuality is also much simpler for people at that age, they have no patience for little games. Anyway, you keep not answering my question and I'm stopping this discussion right now. You're stubbornly trying to defend a self-harming view, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:31 PM
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There are 2 things that don't make sense in your stance. Girls don't linearly lose attractiveness with age. I personally prefer a girl in her mid-20s rather than a 18yo one. You're implying that attractive girls will always prefer the bullies, and that they just stop feeling attracted to them if they themselves stop being attractive. I'm asking again, where did you get that perception?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:21 PM
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Again, where have you been looking into? That doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:15 PM
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Uh no, not at all. They stop feeling attracted by assholes as they grow up, since those don't actually have that much to offer as men. What can also happen is that as a boy grows up he stops being a bully, which happens most of the time, and starts building a life. You can't really project childhood dynamics into adulthood, that only happens in TV shows. Where have you been looking to have that perception?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:13 PM
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That dating bullies behaviour just vanishes gradually as they grow up. There isn't a magical age at which it just stops. Of course, as someone correctly pointed out, some girls keep dating assholes at a grown ass age, even if it is to benefit from them taking advantageof others, but, as I said, those are usually bitches and not the type a decent guy would want lol. What would make you think most girls prefer to date assholes? That's not true and not even a realistic assumption. In my opinion OP'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:01 PM
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Sus
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:51 PM
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Can't women do the exact same? Note: I never heard about purge week until today.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:50 PM
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If the woman is also a bitch that may indeed be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:43 PM
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Yesssss
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:40 PM
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Society accepts it more when it comes from women because tradition has been labelled as patriarchal. But almost no one is completely traditional or non-traditional, most of us just cherrypick whatever traditional aspects fit our preferences and discard the other ones. The key in a relationship is for both to reach some agreement on that matter, otherwise things won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:38 PM
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I think I see your point and it's not a good one. Yes, women like masculine men. It's evolutionary. As masculine man is a good protection provider, and that was needed in prehistory. But no one likes to be mistreated or beaten up. That's not protective, that is actually an attack. The guys who get the most are actually not the bullies and you might be having some wrong perception there, which is normal but not good. I'd say you should put some thought on what made you believe that. You shouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:27 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:17 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:33 AM
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I'm just saying most people somewhat adhere to moderately conservative norms, even without any religion. At least around me. And honestly, but that's just my opinion and nothing more, they seem to be happier. I think the difference is that some people follow limitless pleasure, others follow a more stable kind of it, and religion is kind of secondary on that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:06 AM
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Yeah, I'm aware of that. I think the best way is having the attitude without being pushy or disrespectful. Thank you for your answers :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:54 PM
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I've done that, thanks :) See if she’s receptive and if she remembers you Yes and yes. Only problem is I cannot see her that often, because the shifts are not stable and of course I'm not always there. I guess I have to do this slowly. Ty
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:46 PM
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Sure, I don't disagree at all, I just replied because you believe that there's no reason for a non-religous to stick to trad values. But I actually think those values were born before religion, as they're mostly transversal across different belief systems. Religions were born to create order in society by providing enforcement of rules, along with some spiritual comfort in your life. And that includes the enforcement of age old traditions. Imo what happens is actually that non-traditional people…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:18 PM
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I'm a non-religous man and prefer a tradcon lifestyle, not in the radical way though. (Stay home wife, working husband) I think lots of people are actually like me. A lot don’t want casual stuff, prefer a stable relationship, want to build a family, all that, which isn't incompatible with having a career. Anyway, to me that's the definition of tradcon, as the really old way is not needed nor sustainable nowadays (one salary is usually not enough for a whole family, and kids go to school). But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:55 PM
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Oh, totally got you lmao. I think that's actually a lack of basic social skills 😂 But I asked because, obviously, it's not the first time I feel intested in someone in that scenario, and I always get a bit set back because I start think that lots of guys are doing the same shit, or that she's only being nice because they pay her. But I think I've learned to tell when that's the case or not. For example, when the conversation gets actually informal instead of that cashier or waitress professional…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:43 PM
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Grocery stores Very very honest question: What if she works there and I see her regularly, however nowhere else? Obviously in a gradual relaxed way, not just asking randomly for her number or socials. Just being polite and kind of funny and sending a good vibe, until eventually you reveal some interest. This would also apply to some other similar situations. Because I, as a guy, think that by being nice (disclaimer: no nice guy syndrome), talkative, etc, a guy can get rid of that creepy aura you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:26 PM
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Not on tinder or night clubs/bars. Anywhere else, literally
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:19 PM
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Women on the other hand don’t have some innate capacity to want money as payments from men. Uh, actually... as I saw in a documentary, women have the evolutionary trait of choosing a man who is either powerful or at least a good provider, to ensure the sustainability of a family. Of course in pre history, this was all about hierarchy and physical force. Currently money has replaced the physical force as main indicator of a good provider. BUT I think comparing sex with money is at least hypocriti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:44 PM
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No. If I'm not wrong, sharia allows for polygamy. I'm clearly against that. I don't have a fucking religion. Just think our culture is rotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:22 PM
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That's basically what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:52 PM
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Feel free to believe the opposite buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:36 PM
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Cry me a river. I don't need to talk about it. You'd have to be very innocent to be unable to tell or to think a man is unable to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:27 PM
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Still, they are about someone else's lifestyle, which you cannot control but can have a preference on. You're right about the fact that some people are hypocritical about those, but it's still their right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:15 PM
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Okay, but now I don’t get what you meant in your original comment sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:10 PM
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Eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:01 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:58 PM
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It depends. If you mean those weird dog breeds, for example, I think they should stop. Anyway animals are not people. I think it's legit to kill animals for food, obviously you cannot say the same about people. I prefer medicines to be tested on rats than on people. So yes, different standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:56 PM
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Very same reason
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:51 PM
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If you fuck with nature, nature will fuck with you. Medicines are an example: as great as they can be, disease finds a way around, sometimes in creepy ways. And no, I'm not against medicines :) Pollution is another great example. I don't support genetical engineering and won't even think about this shit in particular. Children come from a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:14 PM
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It's fair in the sense that it's totally your right, no need to balance anything. Like for example, I have brown eyes, what's the problem if I prefer a blue eyed girl, because I find blue eyes more beautiful? Even if I have brown eyes, which means that, by my standard, I'm less desirable, I totally have the right and it's not unfair for brown eyed girls, as they have no right to demand anything from me. (This was just an example, I just love eyes of any colour lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:48 PM
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This doesn't fit the definition of abuse so you're wrong Does. If at any point you deserve to be cheated on then it can't always be abuse, which it already isn't, you're more wrong No one deserves. If you're not happy in a relationship, end it. Lots of forms of abuses, which cheating is none of, aren't punished by law anyway I pitty where you live. You're irrationally butthurt about cheating you should question your motives Never been cheated on, just hate cheaters and shitty people, like you, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:23 PM
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It's not faulty. The fact that you wouldn't be sorry doesn't make it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:09 PM
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most people won't be sorry if they cheat on you. So? There's a difference between no fault divorce, and fault divorce Different places, Different laws
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:36 PM
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Guess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:09 PM
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Justice?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:00 PM
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Refusing to fuck and cheating are not the same thing. You can have several valid reasons for not having sex but no reason justifies cheating except being a mean person. Btw, here, you can unilaterally call a divorce for any reason. Leave him before you lose the sexual attraction Not before, but when/if it happens. Why tf would losing attraction imply cheating? You can fuck whoever you want after breaking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:55 PM
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I think it's morally wrong outside if a relationship. Not necessarily marriage but a relationship. Anyway, as long as it's consented it doesn't cause direct damage to anyone except the involved parts, so I just don't care. As I stated above for someone else, it's an opinion and I don't force it on other people. But I still hold it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:49 PM
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In my country you can just divorce lmao. So, the correct way to do things if you want to be with someone else is ending your current relationship first and sparing your partner from a worse pain plus humiliation. that's going to cause emotional damage don't you think No. It's totally fair to say no. But there's always bad intent in cheating. You're comparing apples with bananas. BTW I'm not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:33 PM
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Yes, it's hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:15 PM
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According to what non faulty logic? Any. If they don't cheat, no damage is caused. the part of the deal I want enforced should be punishable, that part of the deal that is inconvenient to me should be ignored The deal is not about duty sex, is about abstaining from sex outside. Not everyone lives under shariah, that doesn't mean we don't have fucking rules (pun intended lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:14 PM
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I'm in Europe and racial differences usually, not always, mean a huge cultural difference as well. I'm not advocating for racism, to make it clear. I'm just discussing its psychological aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:10 PM
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Duty sex doesn't exist anymore. Unconsented is crime. The only duty is abstaining from doing it with someone else. If your emotions are broken due to a contract it sounds like a you problem No, the problem is always the cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:05 PM
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Similar looks don't matter nearly as much as similar beliefs There's an overlapping most of the times Sexism = treating people as inferior based purely on sex, as I've always used it. You can acknowledge that men and women have differences without treating them lesser for it I know, but I've seen too much, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:01 PM
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Reddit is the same, and the downvotes in my comment prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:43 PM
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But the contract has to be enforced somehow. And the way to enforce it is to punish adultery. Otherwise it's like there's no contract. Breaking a contract is wrong by all standards, so breaking an emotional contract is emotional damage. Not wanting to marry you is their right though. At least they are not cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:40 PM
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Not wanting to marry has nothing cruel about it, but betraying the trust someone deposited on you is cruel and emotionally violent. There's nothing wrong, for example, in rejecting someone but it's wrong to public shaming them by doing so. Like "look at this clown, asking me out, ewwww. Film it." Cheating is at the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:31 PM
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Ad I said, it's an opinion and I'm not forcing it on you nor do I think anyone has that right. But you can't suppress it either. I think it's sad, period. Doesn't mean you're a worse person for doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:25 PM
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None will be, for different reasons though. Men and women are intrinsically different and that's always regarded as sexism. You feel more comfortable with those similar to you, which makes you subconsciously racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:07 PM
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I'm not forcing it on you nor judging you directly. That doesn't mean I don't have an opinion or I'm not totally free to express it. But I don't think it should be forbidden or something. However, it's still sad. But my main point was pointing out that it's more usual to see guys criticising a woman who has casual sex and women defending it and literally the opposite is happening here. Found it funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:50 AM
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Adultery should be punished as abuse, for both sexes. There are several things you can do to your partner that would be labeled as abuse in court and I don't think cheating is any different. A relationship can be abusive in a lot of ways. EDIT: if verbal abuse is abuse, cheating should also be. It's humiliating and emotionally damaging just like verbal abuse, plus the fact of increasing the likelihood of you getting some STD from your partner who you can supposedly trust. Also, some people are f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:44 AM
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Uh most do...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:39 AM
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Even if you don't actually 🤣 As the rule of consent states that you cannot be forced to be with anyone, then it's implied that you can reject anyone based on any standards you feel like. Even if you're being hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:38 AM
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I truly think you have a great mindset, and wish there were more people like that. Interesting, I've just read through the responses and got proof that guys also get upset when a girl is against casual sex, and even start giving the very same shitty responses like "your views will change when you're X years old" lmao. I think there's too much praising of casual sex nowadays, and it's so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:36 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:53 AM
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just a random clusterfuck of people with dramatically different beliefs who now have platforms to share every mundane thought A very good example of it would be the whole n count debate here 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:50 AM
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Do not believe that what you see online = what the full truth of the world is. In general, people who are upset and angry are going to be the ones venting on the internet Thissssss! Internet is a big echo chamber that will blur your reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:48 AM
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I've seen people, men and women, on Twitter saying that a man who rejects his girlfriend for having an OF account is insecure. Of course they were a minority and even were kind of mocked, but still damn. There's a difference between respecting oneself and being insecure, and some people can't seem to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:43 AM
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The idea is terrible and dystopian...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:36 AM
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If that's true, sounds like some 1984 shit. I honestly don't want to live in a world like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:34 AM
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Not giving them too much attention works indeed, as giving too much of it ia obviously a bad thing. That's actually an easy one, how would you feel about a very needy girl? Probably very annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:33 AM
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I mean that's only valid if they have really cheated. But some seem to get outraged by the idea even if it's not in the horizon...idk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:10 PM
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Politics, history, science, psychology... Day to day life, movies, series, books, music
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:42 PM
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I didn't even mean to reply to you until I read the last paragraph of your comment. I clearly stated I was disagreeing with what, to me, was the extreme part of your comment. I was trying to argue in good faith and you were the one who started shitting, and you actually sounded like those arrogant chicks to whom you can't even say "hi" without getting the "I aM nOt iNtEreStEd", without even showing interest. Also I didn't say no man behaved like that, anywhere, and if you can read you know that.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:54 PM
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You said "Males only talk to women they want to fuck" (something like that) and that's what pissed me off. I perfectly know some men are like that, but I hate that "all men" tone, even when implicit. Now you're acting like you didn't generalise, while you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:27 PM
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She said males and women bellow (replying to me), you were right and I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:15 PM
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Some women don't want to be bothered at all and will intentionally avoid males and be distant from males to avoid their unwanted advances That's arrogant. The fact that you have a vagina doesn't mean every guy will want it. And it's exactly my point, some women are way too entitled on that topic: the fact that I talk to you and am polite doesn't mean I want to fuck you. I can very much be single and not interested in you at all. Just as sales people What I've stated above invalidates this compar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:13 PM
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Okay, got your point. I mean, if she's also cool with it I see no problem. I sometimes use it because it sounds better in some contexts. Like female friends, instead of girl friends, which might sound strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:56 PM
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I have to disagree with the extreme part of that comment. hit on Hitting on women is not an attack until it becomes too stubborn or if it continues after a clear "no". Otherwise, it's normal, most of the times it's the man who has to do that. They can't interact with a woman without wanting to fuck her. Males are only nice to women and only talk to women that they want to fuck. This is a lie. Men and women can be friends, even when single. Even without being friends, the fact that a man acts nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:54 PM
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What's the problem? Male and female mean respective men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:50 PM
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Wholesome post, thank you. I've always struggled with that, and I'm still working on overcoming this. That seems to especially a thing nowadays, because sometimes a man is demonised just by approaching a woman he feels interested in, even if he's not really disrespectful or pushy. And yes, sometimes it hinders me a lot. I want to approach a girl I'm interested in and I find myself thinking too much about stuff like "I talked to her yesterday, will she think I'm a stalker?" or "Am I creepy for cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:22 PM
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It's awesome. There's still a bigger ratio of males in the overall world, but that's because of some Eastern countries with huge ones (so convenient in places like Qatar for example lmao). On the western world in general, women already outnumber men and that's how it should be. (Except Norway I think, poor Norway🇳🇴) Why? Offer vs demand and competition. I don't give a shit about the rest lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:07 PM
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I honestly don't get why women get so offended over a paternity test. I myself will demand one. It's too much of a risk to dedicate my life, money, time and love to some other guy's child. I don't give a shit what people would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:55 PM
1

That's absolutely sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:47 PM
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It's not that strange but not that common either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:02 AM
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Mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:52 AM
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I surely don't want my wife to be miserable with me. And I'm pretty sure I have to put some effort into it, even if she likes the lifestyle, I still have to do my part to make her feel happy and fulfilled. I think you're projecting it because I've gotten the same feeling in other subs, liberal subs generally, which made me instantly think that their problems were just a result of their life-style. It looked plainly written to me as well. It would get me wondering "they're describing the exact ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:33 PM
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What is FDS? You like it because it's the kind of life you want. Exactly. As for the rest, same thing, I think you're projecting your own feelings on their community, and seeing what your brain wants you to see. As I said in my original comment, I've read a lot of wholesome stuff there. That's why I follow it...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:45 PM
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I've been trying to avoid putting it this way. But judging by your profile and subs you engage in, it seems you just think that lifestyle is bad for YOU. Doesn't mean it's bad for everyone else. Doesn't mean your lifestyle is good to everyone else either. Everyone has doubts sometimes, even about their own choices, and looking for advice about them is absolutely fine. This is the classic "progressive" entitlement, everyone's wrong if they don't agree with you. I've seen a lot of non-traditional …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:17 PM
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Don't you ever complain? Or do you just think their lifestyle is intrinsically unhappy because it would make you unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:11 PM
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If it goes well you probably don't need to look for advice or even find a subreddit about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:02 PM
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apparently Apparently, exactly. As I've said, you don't look for advice if your life is going well. The fact that their life is for some reason on a down phase doesn't mean their lifestyle doesn't work, nor does it even mean that it's the fault of said lifestyle. You clearly don't like that lifestyle and it's totally your right but you should simply respect theirs, and do what you think is best for you and only you. What they publish there is not toxic, very contrary to the regular TRP, which I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:50 PM
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If I go to any dating sub, which are pretty much "progressive", everyone sounds miserable there, it's like advice doesn't work...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:18 PM
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They're mostly looking for advice. You don't look for advice if you're satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:51 PM
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Not at all. Your definition of miserable is probably not being a woke ass feminazi. "You don't agree with me, you're wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:47 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:45 PM
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So? It's a hot topic anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:19 PM
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I think you're only seeing what you want. I can find abuse anywhere if I try hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:58 PM
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Read the responses. Most posts and comments there signal a very moderate mindset and the community sounds completely different from the original RP. I actually have the same disdain from those that I have from simps... I only read that kind of stuff on the Internet. In real life, people have a much more normal mindset. And that sub is the closest I've read to what I hear in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:45 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:23 PM
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That's how it worked some 100 or 200 years ago when arranged marriages existed here. You didn't get to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:00 PM
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I see the first date as totally different from say, a first sight. When you casually see someone, either for the first ot nth time, for example in a group of people, a party, a hangout, etc, and you get interested, then you ask her out for a date. I say "her" because it's usually the guy the one who takes the first step. If she says yes, it means that there's mutual interest and both are going to work that up and see what comes from it. It's like an assessment period, a pre-mating game, generall…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:55 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:16 AM
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Most bias, both from men and women is currently in favor of women. Don't get me wrong I'm not trying to be the self-victimising guy here. It's just a fact, but there are exceptions to that. One of those exceptions is Red Pill Women. It's probably the most rational, moderate and realistic group of this kind out there, and it's the real proof girls can be awesome and very unbiased, contrary to what a lot of men say. Although not engaging in it, I often read their content and it's wholesome. THAT, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:15 AM
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Ok, that sounds actually good. Anyway, I can guarantee that some people would see that as very outdated. I don't. To me an arranged marriage meant something like defining who you would marry not much time after you were born.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:33 AM
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Lmao I absolutely misunderstood it, sorry. I totally agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:29 AM
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To me, a date is when you're already interested in the person but still getting to know them before a relationship. But that's already done in an exclusivity but not relationship context. It would be rude to do that with more than one person simultaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:30 AM
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Okay, then please tell me what you mean by arranged marriage. I'm genuinely curious, since as a westerner, they feel the same to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:27 AM
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Hmm of course it does
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:57 AM
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Hmm yes, to me dating means the whole process before forming a relationship. It's supposed to be exclusive and the other person would ditch you if they found out you were seeing someone else. I'm European as well. On the other way around, casual sex is well accepted here, and although I don't engage in it, some people do and there's no judgement around it, as long as both know what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:16 AM
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a lot of parents even if they are progressive politically become very puritanical when it comes to their daughters. I think this would apply anywhere to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:55 AM
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I think it would depend on the US region right? The country is wide as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:53 AM
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Yesssss
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:52 AM
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But some of you guys always need to rationalize feelings. It's not that we need to rationalise, it's that a simple "I don't like that" is usually not accepted. But you're right, the main reason is pure ew, and I've said that to the user I was replying to. Fucking tons of people can lead to getting tired of uncommitted and meaningless sex. I just don't buy this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:51 AM
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No, unless you turn a blind eye on what they mean. Anyway, you can ignore 1 and 2 (which, let's make it clear, make absolute sense), as the third one is the main one: I don't need arguments to support my preferences. Because that's what they are, preferences. I can have any preferences I feel like having. And the only "argument" I need to give is literally "I don't like that".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:55 AM
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100 years ago there were lots of rules and setbacks here as well, things just evolved too quickly during the 20th century. And now some stuff has overreached a bit, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:49 AM
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Okay, that's interesting. Can I guess, Eastern Europe? Because if we are talking about Spain, France, Italy, UK, etc, all I see is the opposite really.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:41 AM
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It's a factor indeed, I just think it's not underrated at all 😂😂 And this also applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:32 AM
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One should have to be deaf and blind, or isolated from the outside world... if you can do that generalisation about America, then you can do the same about Europe as it is not that larger. And I can tell you for sure, Europe is liberated as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:30 AM
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Hmm yeah, all cultures have ups and downs. I think ours should be more pondering about dating and having relationships. Others should liberate a bit. That's just my opinion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:27 AM
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That's interesting. Here, ironically, one of the most intensive dating phases a lot of people have is college.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:21 AM
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I hope incels or red pilled guys don't read this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:20 AM
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Yeah, I think so. Western culture in general is quite liberated in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:19 AM
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Nah, quite the same happens in Europe. At most it is western centric.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:17 AM
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The very same applies to not asking and not caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:07 AM
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Idk, try to find me again in some years and prove me wrong lol I mean even the fact that you think 7 years is that long... EDIT: But I'm not here to attack you directly and I'm starting to feel bad about this. I don't want to do that and hope you can really prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:50 PM
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Eventually. 7 years is not that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:47 PM
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You really think we don't think about it? You really think we can't tell, no matter how much you may lie about or try to hide it? That's really innocent of you, sorry to warn you... we don't need to bring it up, even less do we need to do that obsessively. The intuition is not 100% accurate, but we can tell, from a lot of hints, and it's still pretty accurate. Is this a surprise for you? Wow. And it's not just to filter out high n women... some guys will be very pleased by a likely high n count …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:45 PM
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All of the people Funny. This is all I needed. No one likes their partners past, but most people put some effort to cope with it. But the subconscious mind cannot be controlled and the repulsion is still there. The repulsion grows and grows, and eventually will push the conscious mind to either end a relationship for some petty reason, or to suddenly start acting like shit, thus leading to the end of a relationship. It's called self-sabotaging and it explains why most marriages today end in divo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:37 PM
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Well, of course not, if the woman herself has goals and a career than she's looking for an equal. The funny part is, that's not taken in consideration. As for the rest, it's not true. Except in guy talks, but women aren't usually part of those, the same way men aren't part of girl talks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:30 PM
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No one talks about it outside of the Internet because it's too awkward. The fact that this is a taboo means that it actually matters, although people don't talk about it. Each one has their own preferences and applies them to their dating life. I mean, we do talk about it, just not so directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:27 PM
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ou mean hooker, goldigger, prostitute and self-entitled because that's how most people Meh not really. That attitude is not as mocked as it used to be. Because now that is translated to a man with goals and a career, and etc...but it depends on the goals and the career in cause. In which they are eager to participate and that's what's drawing so much criticism from women who get called names by men who would gladly sleep with them if given the opportunity. Honestly, can't argue with this. Not al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:14 PM
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If by alpha Chad you mean that guy who bangs a lot of chicks: From what I've seen they end up in a relationship with a girl of the similar type (has fucked a lot of guys), and they usually cheat on each other from time to time and then get mad, then forgive, and it's basically a cycle. I know some long lasting relationships that work like that. And it supports supports my theory that casual sex is not a phase AND this kind of people are perfect for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:52 PM
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they don't want to know. This means it matters. They don't ask as a coping mechanism. No one likes their partners sexual past. That's the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:11 PM
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I have yet to see a single argument contesting the idea that having a high body count could very easily lead to a lack of commitment that is reasonable to me. Knowing a lot of variety makes you get bored easier without variety. Ignorance is a bliss. The mental ability to have uncommitted meaningless sex. Eeeeewwwww.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:10 PM
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The truth is nobody likes other people having preferences because those preferences limit people's dating pool. Sure. If I told a man that I prefer rich tall dudes True if you tell that to a man, but if you say it publicly then you're so empowered. If a man says something like that publicly then he's a dirty bigot. If he dares saying it directly to a woman, oh god. The whole incel No, it's serious lack of social skills. They don't have any, and it's not so hard to see it. incel/redpill Both are …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:47 PM
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Lol, women do the exact same shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:40 PM
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Can I join?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:38 PM
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I don't rationalise it. But if I ask women why they prefer x or y, the answer will be "because that's my preference, stfu". But when men state their preferences, they are instantly judged and asked why, and the right to have preferences seems to be absent. Hence the rationalisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:37 PM
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It's absolutely mental illness. Most people also have some kind of phobia, doesn't mean it's not a mental illness. EDIT: I'm an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:20 PM
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There's a total difference between varying in the bedroom and fetishism. Fetish is mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:02 PM
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They are instinctual. But when punctually thinking about it, individuals just try to cope. However, most of the time the evolutionary trait is there. And the evolutionary trait is that no one is comfortable with their partner's past, so the smaller the past, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:51 PM
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We are animals, 90% irrational but punctually we have the ability to apply reason to our instincts. Those beliefs are a clear example. But the behaviour is still just animalistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:23 AM
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Yes I was talking about relationships. And I do believe in leagues, I don’t believe people know their leagues or the self-perceived leagues of others Yeah, even those studies showed tye intuition was not 100% accurate but the behaviour tended towards that pattern. It's interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:21 AM
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I really really really don't think so. People just shape their beliefs as a coping mechanism. No matter if it's for coping about lack of self-respect or self-control. Anyway, as I said above, you're entitled to your own beliefs and preferences, so own them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:57 AM
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That's actually funny. Not trying to argue here but some studies prove the league thing true. But as you said, it may be a matter of how good is your intuition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:32 AM
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Stop ignoring the self-respect/perceived self-worth part please. self control if women see no reason to attempt to abstain from sex with whomever they please It's a lack of self-control when anyone, male or female, has random, casual or meaningless sex. It's the most intimate act you can perform with another person, aside from the fact that it can have serious consequences, good or bad, in your life, which means you should really control your desires, and being unable to do that is called lack o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:23 AM
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Sounds absolutely good
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:11 AM
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A lot of guys just cope, it's not that they don't care. They build up workarounds like: "I prefer a woman who knows what she's doing" "I don't like prudes" "Don't ask, don't tell" "It's not my business" "Don't ask the question if you're afraid of the answer" (hmm funny) ... It's evolutionary and a matter of self-respect. You have the standards, but when you perceive your self-worth as low, you lower them. Still, it's OK to care or not to care. Your standards are up to you. I personally don't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:06 AM
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This is absolutely true. I'd just add, if you care about it then own your standards and date according to them, instead of complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:40 AM
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Hmm sure, that doesn't mean one wouldn't care about it. It's never a topic to me either, however I filter out some girls by that standard. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:37 AM
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K.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:35 AM
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You'd have to be really innocent to be unable to tell... That's why we should assess our potential partners before jumping in :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:29 AM
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Fetishes are a deviation and not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:28 AM
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They're a result of a mix of evolution and self respect. What's so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:27 AM
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Yes, if someone finds you unattractive it's much more likely that they feel creeped out by your approach. My advice: stick to your league. Most likely you've already got plenty of hints on which league you belong to. People in your league are more likely to find you attractive. It's psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:25 AM
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Wow look at me I'm such an alpha. Aren't you acting that up buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:23 AM
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I think you've been getting terrible advice, whilst on the other hand you are now giving a whole other type of terrible advice. Good advice is putting some effort to show interest but not too much. You don't need to change your whole life for any woman but it doesn't hurt and even feels good to step out of your way once in a while, trying to get something. No girl will magically cross your way and like you, that's the most utopian belief ever. You have to do at least something. This doesn't mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:21 AM
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Yes sir. Gender roles exist, no matter if we like them or not. It's your job as man to approach women you feel attracted to. If you're average looking then it shouldn't be either too hard or too easy for you to get something. Something to note was that it was crucial that I went out to bars and clubs in the first place. People rarely compliment or approach in a sober setting because people aren’t nearly as social. This is shitty. I'd much rather approach a girl in a sober scenario than being app…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:07 AM
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Correction: This is the best time in human history to be hooking up, cheating, simping and getting drunk. Dating is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:40 PM
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who Most guys here Ok, be stubborn if you want, that's not my problem. If you change your habits you'll also change your perception of reality, that's all. socially inappropriate Because trying to bang a random girl online or a girl in a nightclub who you've never seen before is very appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:40 PM
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People just don't see the obvious because they don't get tf out. That's the average reddit user.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:11 PM
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Thank you. Still doesn't invalidate what I said: 1 - You guys clearly aren't happy with that dating scene. 2 - Since we are talking about relationships, the fact that most women are doing that would mean most men are also doing the same. 3 - By the same logic, less women in other dating scenes also means less men in those dating scenes. 4 - Conclusion: the market is balanced. You can change your dating scene and still be successful. You get less options but also less competition. The big upside?…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:10 PM
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Women are female humans Which means they are people. Of course patterns differ, as brains are different. Still, that just means they are people and since they are people, they have flaws. Those patterns have always been in front of your eyes as I said. Where's the revelation? To me, it's just a matter of growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:01 PM
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First no sources. Second, as there are no sources: region? Social class? Etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:58 PM
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That belongs to the "women are just people" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:55 PM
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adapt quietly on your own. Or maybe just change your own dating behaviour? Who you date, where you date, how you date, etc... Acting according to your standards and look for someone who complies with them instead of thinking all people, all women in this case, are the same? I notice that most red pilled guys are just frustrated with either a lack of success in dating, the type of women they find or both. You could benefit from simply changing your dating pattern. If you keep dating online or in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:53 PM
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I read that kind of stuff everyday on IG, both in male and female oriented pages. He's just quoting that generic stuff to get your attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:33 PM
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Ikr? Alpha simps 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:31 PM
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I want to believe he willingly exaggerated. But he has a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:25 PM
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Idk if you saw Rick and morty. But the dating app episode truly depicts the current dating scene. Tiring and degrading. It was way better before social media kicked in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:23 PM
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. I mean where would you even go for a date? This is part of the problem. You would just go. You want to be with that person, what's the problem? Also, I'm sure nature was lit during the Stone age. And for sure the girls father or tribal chief would scalp you. Lmao that's a funny one ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:20 PM
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I hate dating nowadays. When I hear older people talking about it I get to know that some time ago it was actually about meeting people in social events, hangouts, etc, start some conversation, and eventually get interested and look for something more meaningful. Guys would take the first step without being creepy or viewed as creeps, girls would eventually show wether they were interested or not, things just flowed and everything happened in real life, with no defined rules or pills or any of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:18 PM
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One can be here just to have some fun debating certain issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:09 PM
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Red Pill is basically acknowledging something that has always been in front of your eyes - women are people, people have flaws, dating has ups and downs - and then pretend you just uncovered a revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:05 PM
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What you’re not gonna want to hear is that most women don’t want to stay single because of “girl boss” “independent woman” “you go girl” feminist messaging, it’s because they hate the experience of dating men and feel like it’s not worth it at all. Yawn. Also the incel problem has nothing to do with women wanting to be single No, what I've said is partially true. he cause of that is unchecked mental illness, online radicalisation along with many other things This is also partially true, can't ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:07 AM
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I got curious because in my circle OF is seen as a degenerate thing. It's not respected at all. Not illegal or anything but it's not well accepted and not even remotely widely used. Girls just stick to IG, and guys wouldn't be willing to pay to see naked girls. It would be a shame for both. Fortunately, to be honest. But I know that different regions and countries have very different views on things and your comment got me wondering. Thanks for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:50 PM
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I discovered who Tate is two months ago because of a very offended female friend of mine whining on Instagram about him and guys who follow his content. And I just got like "who tf is Andrew tate?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:14 PM
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Yes, most notably in this kind of subs. People come here projecting their insecurities and frustrations in everyone else. They speak about non-issues as they were very important debate topics. A very good example would be all the n-count shit. I've never had an actual argument about that in real life. Sometimes people state an opinion or preference but it doesn't go beyond that as literally no one cares about what your opinion is. This applies to a lot of futile endless arguments in here. Most s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:04 PM
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Do you really think OnlyFans is such a normal thing? Do most people you know use it? I'm honestly curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:57 PM
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You just described almost everything that makes me feel repulsed in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:55 PM
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That's my theory. Mainstream is pushing women to believe they don’t need a man, while pushing man to believe they need a woman. Given that men are the chasers and women are the chased ones, this will lead women to reject men more often and therefore lead both to get lonely and unhappier. The difference is women are being taught to believe loneliness is empowering while men are being taught to believe loneliness is a shame. Men still cannot do much to improve their situations whilst women keep be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:43 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:53 PM
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Agreed, I just think it's not only in the US (I don't live there and feel the same) and it's not only women who go crazy, men are much more lonely too, unfortunately. This hookup-and-be-lonely promiscuous culture will ruin society, as History shows us...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:37 PM
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I'm tired of those dumbshits constantly stating how women are supposedly so happy when single and men are the ones who want to settle, be faithful and form a family. It's a plague. You see that pseudo-scientific bullshit on TV shows, Internet, everywhere. It's simply NOT TRUE. Both are happier in companionship, while none wants to feel imprisoned. So, both are happier in healthy relationships. What that propaganda is trying to do is bad for men as they will have a tougher time getting happy with…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:26 PM
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There have been studies on the SMV. Yes, people tend to converge towards their own league, which makes sense. Think about it this way: Each one of us has an assigned number in their fore head, from 1 to 10, representing their SMV. They aren't aware of that number. The ultimate goal is to maximise the sum of you and your partner together, which means 20. The individuals then approach one another and reject/accept the approachers, according to the value they see on their forehead. The combined rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:53 PM
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Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes and... To me, people that sleep around are similar to obese people. For a small group there is a health/psychological reason, but for most it's just a lack of responsibility and impulse control. YES. Never thought about that analogy before but it works out, well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:03 PM
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At a daily basis, how many times a day depending on mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:02 PM
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I personally just get confused when a random woman approaches me, as it's not usual at all. I'm used to having to be the first one to approach. They usually have their own ways of giving you hints, like looks, smiles, etc. Given all that, do I reject her right away just because she approached me? Probably not, unless I really don't like her. Otherwise I give her a chance. So I kind of agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:59 PM
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Had to be Washington LMAO. Overall my thoughts are: gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:50 PM
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Meh, generally I don't agree with you. Dating is just like life in general, it goes up and down. Height, n count, etc, are absolutely valid standards. The golden rule is you can't be forced to be with anyone, which means you can have any standards you want. If your standards keep you from having dates, that's on you. Also, numbers and stats don't exactly predict one's behaviour but they're a very good indicator of it: probability is a thing, and statistics are used a lot by society to predict be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:25 AM
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Women who are abused have actually been abused. First, women can lie, exagerate and victimise themselves as anyone else. Second he is pointing out that when some things happen to women then she is a queen and the guy is a pig and blablabla while when a guy complains about the very same things then he is a "crybaby", citing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:26 PM
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Yes, gender differences do exist, but if she wants me to ignore them, I'll faithfully ignore them, not only when it feels good for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:21 PM
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Because men bad women good...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:15 PM
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I know right? One has to learn life is not a movie. This applies to both the romantic and the hookup components. Both are unrealistic but sell a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:19 PM
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No, why would I be? Or why did I sound like one? (Aside from being on Reddit of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:13 PM
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Red Pill is not science my man... it's projected frustration. Yes, the theory picks up very true scientific concepts but exaggerates them to fit a men victimising narrative. E.g. SMV It's funny how Red Pill Woman is much more based than the original Red Pill and is even a relief from your extremisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:32 PM
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I've always heard that casual sex is wrong. I had to come to university to see people around me having it regularly, and at first I got a bit of shock. I used to go out at night to hang out, have a drink, smoke a joint and listen to music, and always tried to date outside of that context. When I came to university I tried to engage in that hookup culture because I felt overwhelmed by it. But I was unable to do it, and thought I was undesirable or creepy, or something like that which was keeping …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:01 PM
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Ok, this has been the first N count post I've seen in centuries that doesn't just repeat the same thing over and over again. And I totally agree with you, actually I've thought about this before. I, as a straight man, wouldn't mind a woman who had slept with several woman before, and would even find it a turn on, as long as she wants to sleep with me now. But when I know a woman has been with a lot of guys before, it's an instant turn off for me. Also, lots of straight guys would be willing to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:44 PM
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Ok, sorry for my tone, but I've read way too many posts containing the same ideas, and in a debate sub I expect to read new stuff, know what I mean? But besides that, what I've said above still applies, date according to your standards. I've been a lot angry over that topic before, until I went out and eventually realised that not everyone is the same, and all I have to do is looking for what I like. Hope you get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:00 PM
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This? Again? I absolutely agree with you but, damn, just act according to your standards, why do guys keep whining about this? This topic is already worn-out... everyone knows some people care about it, some people don't give a shit, some people have casual sex, some people don't. Just find one who matches you! But I'm sure that won't happen by crying on reddit. You guys just keep hurting your own feelings with this N count shit, that's not good for you. Just date girls who match your preference…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:45 PM
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they want nothing to do with women with an N count This is a conservative mindset, but I don't see Red pillers rejecting those girls for hookups, they just reject them for relationships. A conservative, like myself, wouldn't be interested in hookups in the first place. As for relationships, we don't like high n count women very much because of mindset matters. Their values and goals just don't match ours, and the way they see casual sex vs how we see it proves that. virgin or someone who’s young…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:39 AM
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Red Pill isn't actually conservative at all. They are totally into hookup culture, the most toxic version of it (I think hookup cukture itself is toxic). Conservative men want serious stuff, not fucking and dumping random women. Liberal men want to get laid as much as possible before settling, if they are willing to settle at all. Red pilled men want to fuck random women as trophies because all women, in their view, are hyperdating filthy polygamous hoes, and fucking them proves they are alphas …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:29 AM
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That might be a reason, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:25 PM
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Might be the education he got either at home or from friends. Might also be bad character... But for most guys who aren't like that and then become hardcore red pill, it's due to frustration, they look at women like shit because they feel treated like shit by them and look down at what they call betas because that's what they think they were before finding red pill and they hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:22 PM
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Getting repeatedly hurt in dating + echo chambers. Yes we are all delusional in terms of dating when we are young. But red pill isn't waking up, it's jumping from an illusion to another one. It's not less delusional than blue pill. Waking up is just realising that life is not a fairytaile, because people have flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:15 PM
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due to the reinforcements that I encounter. This is that vicious cycle I talked about. You believe it so your brain tricks you into it. Self-sabotage is a bitch. Your brain enjoys being right, so it will trick you into giving it reason. Just make up your mind and try looking into new circles. It takes its time but it's much better than feeling stuck in that rabbit hole man. elt some misogyny vibe from me You might have vented about it and she got that vibe, because you're a bit more conservative…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:46 PM
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If you truly think they're all like that, your brain will make them all look like that, you know? Just accept that people are different from each other which means not all girls are the same. I believe that at least thousands of girls live where you live, how could they all be the same? Probably yes, you should open your horizons. I don't know specifically where you should look, as you can find a great partner almost anywhere, as well as shitty ones. What I know is that if you feel like that, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:02 PM
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For me the purpose of marriage is about commitment and faithfulness. It's a contract implying that you've only been with that person in your life and only want to be with them, no matter what. Which, in my opinion, makes 90% of modern marriages absolutely hypocritical, as most people have a past before the marriage and most marriages end up in divorce. Thus making marriages utterly futile. I know it sounds a bit extreme, but why celebrate the contract otherwise? I mean, I can love somebody and j…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:50 PM
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As a man, I don't agree with the dating apps part as their own stats say the opposite. Women indeed have it easier in that world. I personally dropped all dating apps, as they are really frustrating, much more frustrating than dating in real life LMAO. As a man who knows and hangs out with women, I agree that most of them aren't sleeping around, and that's basically a misconception by people who see it happening once in a while and think all girls are doing that, all the time. I actually find gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:19 PM
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I think it depends on how you look at sex. If you are able to separate the physical part from the emotional one, you probably have hookups and just want to have fun while you're still single, so when it comes to have a serious relationship you really don’t care and likely will even enjoy the fact that your partner has at least as much experience as you do. When you can't do that, and thus you feel the need to be emotionally connected to a sexual partner, body count will probably matter to you as…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:09 PM
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