ComeOutOfTheDark Archive

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6	What real feminism is People hate feminists already. Reddit communities of 17 - 22 year-old white college boys don't constitute "people," just a narrow demographic. Out in the real, grown up world, a majority of people are either supportive or ambivalent towards feminism. You might want to open a window and let some fresh air into your echo-chamber once in a while. (As evident by what happens to MRA pablum every time something from here reaches the front page.) Feminism is not just a force against "ethics in game jou…	/r/MensRights	29/01/18 04:04 AM
9	Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style. You're getting that overwhelming response because you're in a support sub, asking questions about how to have better relationships, but adhering to a way of thought that runs absolutely counter to everything that this sub (and most adult men) would agree is healthy for forming better relationships. If what you're doing makes you feel good, and you're not hurting anyone, what better perspectives would you possibly accept or expect to see? Everyone here is giving you their views on how to achieve …	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/17 12:07 PM
5	Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style. Sure, but I'd like to actually be attractive to women when I get closer emotionally Is that what you're trying to learn here?	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/17 01:59 PM
9	Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style. So what you're saying is you want answers tailored to your specific feels and wants, and anyone telling you that you're going to have to change to be happy is arrogant. You're not turning deaf when people call you out, you're vomiting out what's really spinning around in your head. I read that whole conv and I have the same question, what DO you want? You don't care about women at all, you don't want to learn alternatives or you would be listening to what other people are saying instead of being…	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/17 05:05 AM
17	Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style. You're conflating reaction with attention. Of course people are going to react to you if you act confident and get in their business. That's not wrong, but you don't need Redpill to teach you that. Unless you're so scared of girls that thinking of them as meat is the only thing that gets you off/allows you to be strong enough to actually engage in conversation. I want to give you the benefit of the doubt that you're really here to learn a new perspective, but evidence is contrary, you are object…	/r/ExRedPill	26/06/17 01:46 PM
3	Genuine love exists? I mean this without disrespect, because I'm genuinely boggled at this perspective and of course when I try to ask someone this question in an active Redpill type sub, I get banned, but this isn't the first time I've read someone explain their Redpill ideology in this dispassionate and utilitarian view, and from my experience it sounds like something a high-functioning kid in one of my classes would say, so I'm genuinely curious. But are you on the autistic spectrum? If so, your ability to get ma…	/r/ExRedPill	02/12/16 06:20 AM
2	Query about specific bits of redpill Since you won't tell me where you are in terms of knowledge, and I don't have the crayons to try to draw out the various eventualities of cohabitation without contract, (as you don't seem to care what publicly recognized vows mean) the most I can do for you is give you a place to start educating yourself on marriage laws, benefits and responsibilities. There is a lot of reading and few pictures. sorry.	/r/ExRedPill	25/06/16 12:00 AM
2	Query about specific bits of redpill We are all Who? Huh? You are talking about deflecting yet completely dodged my questions. All of them. This isn't your conversation to dictate terms for, I am trying to establish a baseline to see if you even know what you're talking about. I've made some attempt to talk about my point of view, you dismissed as things that you can do without marriage, but you still haven't told me what marriage means to you. This tells me that no, nothing I say will matter because you don't understand the ABC's …	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/16 09:21 PM
8	Query about specific bits of redpill I tried to touch on the emotional benefits of having a vow to fall back on, but it's about emotions and I know how you redpill guys are about emotions and intimacy in relationships so I'm sure the words I used didn't register much. I could go on and on about emotional/relationship benefits of having a strong pact or vow in place but again... being redpill I doubt you'll register much of it unless I said something like "it makes sex nastier" or some such pablum. Instead I want to focus on this ri…	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/16 06:27 AM
3	Query about specific bits of redpill what do men have to benefit from marriage? Can you read at all? I'm curious what your feelings are then on marriage equality, if you feel a state-recognized union is worthless.	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/16 01:53 AM
7	Query about specific bits of redpill Would you do something VERY risky, if you had nothing to gain but a LOT to lose? No, right? There's loads to gain, but I have a feeling talk about love and trust goes right over the heads of most Redpillers. When we stop worrying about the damage someone can do to us, we stop protecting ourselves from that damage. We need to always look out for ourselves. When you don't trust the person you chose to be with 100%, you screwed up and picked the wrong person, or you don't really know them, and/or y…	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/16 12:25 AM
6	Query about specific bits of redpill My bad, I shouldn't have assumed you've ever been in a relationship. I guess it should have been obvious.	/r/ExRedPill	23/06/16 10:25 PM
7	Query about specific bits of redpill You shouldn't go into marriage at all. This is your opinion, you come off like an asshat when you go around preaching your opinion you came up with because some girl made you unhappy. Lots of us grown-ups have great marriages out here in the real world.	/r/ExRedPill	23/06/16 10:12 PM
6	Struggling to believe current societal conditions can foster an environment where women give love to men Looked at your old comments, you're stuck in some gear. It's not 1st. It's not even reverse or neutral. If some weird broken transmissions had a gear that nobody ever had seen or used, labeled "Somewhere Fucking Else Entirely" that requires you shifting the knob all the way back into the cab through some convoluted maze-like channel with dead ends and circular tracks, and reverse saw-tooth patterns that you can't shift back out of, then the transmission actually pulls the stick down and out of r…	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/15 07:12 AM
12	Struggling to believe current societal conditions can foster an environment where women give love to men higher sexual market value than her-leagues-she could easily replace you at will. At my age (22) there is basically no incentive for a woman to care anything about a man everything I say has been completely programmed into me from learning everything about life from THE INTERNET MEN'S CIRCLEJERK MISERY FORUMS which reinforce one or two shitty experiences I had, never mind I'm JUST A FUCKING KID STILL AND HAVEN'T EVEN BEGUN TO TOUCH REAL LIFE YET. You're completely out of your mind. I'm sorry you…	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/15 07:08 AM
6	Struggling to believe current societal conditions can foster an environment where women give love to men Oh wow, gonna go douse out these burning flames that have erupted all over my person. That was hardcore.	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/15 05:09 AM
10	Struggling to believe current societal conditions can foster an environment where women give love to men /r/im14andthisisdeep	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/15 03:03 AM
2	Struggling to believe current societal conditions can foster an environment where women give love to men The Path Of The Damned And Broken.	/r/ExRedPill	16/11/15 05:11 AM
17	Struggling to believe current societal conditions can foster an environment where women give love to men Lots of people have rewarding, loving and happy relationships and marriages. But have fun convincing yourself otherwise to avoid accountability for your life. Yes indeed, you are are potential victim to those bad, bad feeeemales, you are a true survivor, narrowly escaping the dreaded world of... feelings.	/r/ExRedPill	16/11/15 05:09 AM
6	Struggling to believe current societal conditions can foster an environment where women give love to men Of course hypergamy "exists." People have been pursuing self-serving relationships since the dawn of time. It's human nature to want what's best for yourself, among men and women alike. However most adult relationships between halfway intelligent people are formed on the basis of mutual attraction and caring. This is how grown-ups deal with each other, by embracing good feelings they give each other and prioritizing your partner's well being. Sure some assholes make it all look bad, but it's not…	/r/ExRedPill	16/11/15 04:10 AM
14	Struggling to believe current societal conditions can foster an environment where women give love to men tl;dr Finding it really difficult to believe that women are capable of loving and respecting men except in an opportunistic manner which sates their hypergamy and solipsism. The problem isn't women, it's human nature that there will be good and bad people of both genders, and some facets of just basic living are inherently self-serving, and for the most part we accept and learn to appreciate each others wants and desires in life with mutual trust, openness and understanding. The problem is you a…	/r/ExRedPill	13/11/15 07:08 PM
–	Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style. You are dating shitty women or young women who don't know how to handle seriousness/emotions in relationships yet. You are dating normal women and your feelings and opinions are repulsive/frightening when you show them. The relationship already has some kind of problem and your attempts at increasing intimacy are just pushing them further away. A combination of the above. That's all there is. I have my opinions I've formed already, you can decide for yourself what your issue is and what to do ab…	/r/ExRedPill