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| – | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"Results are proven. if a man opens up and tries to have a connection and 99% of women react poorly to men having a "connection" with them. It has nothing to do with the men. Okay answer this then, why would I as a woman associate intimately with a partner I do not care about? It just doesn't make any sense. Women in the MAJORITY do not want a real connection with men. In dating the MAIN reason men screw up dating is because they open up and believe they have something real with someone and vocal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"Yeah I'm too old to fall for the "willful ignorance" spiel, I know what they are doing and they aren't fooling anyone here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:27 PM |
| -1 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex""Seek Meaningful relationships" is virtue signaling. Women are told to "Enjoy their 20s" , Have a "Hoe phase". And of course virtue signal that entire time. Your algorithm is geared towards reactionary rage content that keeps you clicking. None if this is actually a thing irl. No, they are not. And the mean who end up with these women trying to do that same thing always end up in the same situation. They get rejected because looking for something real is an Ick. OR They get lied to and used beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 10:08 AM |
| 0 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"men become "Players" because how else are they to have sex with a woman I genuinely advise you to seek meaningful connections with others. Your life will become much better if you let go of the resentment and "player" mindset. You shouldn't be "playing" you should be seeking out a long term partner you want to share your life with. Or a casual one, whatever floats your boat, just try to be honest with what you want Even OF models will get offended when they literally just wanted sex Becoming an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 06:05 AM |
| – | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"Yeah I'm not engaging with a bot have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 05:52 AM |
| 0 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"I mean, obviously no? Are you looking for a genuine conversation or are you just engagement baiting pricking for differences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 05:35 AM |
| 8 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"Let say the guy did want a relationship, they fucked, and the next day she said/did something that made him rethink wanting a relationship with her It's a matter of intention. There is no deceit or breach of consent in this circumstance, both engaged in consensual sex from the get go. It's just unfortunate that it didn't work out is all. Problem here is that it is impossible to prove intent post factum and people are complicated/vindictive. Does it mean he "used her"? No. Will she still feel lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 05:19 AM |
| 5 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"The fact you are looking for a justification to downplay rape speaks volumes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 05:03 AM |
| 2 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"So if a woman feigns attraction to a guy with a lot of money, who wouldn't be interested in being intimate if he knew she wasn't actually attracted to him, is that rape as well? It's sex without informed consent. It is covert rape. If people could stop being terrible and actually engage in genuine and meaningful relationships that would be great. Sex without consent is always and in every circumstance classified as rape, it is literally the legal definition of the word. The issue with informed c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:54 AM |
| 19 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"It's because of informed consent. If 2 adults consented to have purely casual sex all is good. If one the parties emotionally manipulated the other into sex pretending to have feelings with no intention of following through then of course people are going to feel used. It's covert rape since the other partly would not agree to engage in sexual engagement knowing the truth. It's not about "gatekeeping sex" or "gatekeeping relationships" or any other of the "I'm a selfish asshole and want to get a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:14 AM |
| 0 | "Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their partYes? I drove both guys and girls? Why is that such an extraordinary thing for you lol You never had co-workers of the opposite sex or just close friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | "Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their partHundreds...riiiight. I mean no offence, but you are either a man-whore by your own admission or a liar and neither are the type I would take dating advice from. Is it even a good idea to take advice from someone who can't form bonds or is a potential walking STD? I'm 30, I dated 2 women, 3 men in total including my amazing SO, we are working on building a house together. I am quite picky and I don't do casual relationships since I view them as trashy. No judgment, it's cool if you do, but it's n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 04:28 PM |
| 0 | "Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their partHello? Have you even met women? Most women don't view random men they don't know as a potential date, at the very best you will be treated as a stranger or worse a predator/potential danger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | "Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their partI don’t have any other use for a woman than to fuck her That's a very toxic and sad way to view your potential partner... I picked up my drunk friends plenty of times in the past. Maybe give a shot at kissing your homies goodnight instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 03:59 PM |
| 1 | "Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their partSoooo....he should seek out women he is not attracted to and hope the attraction (from both sides) develops along the way? No, when seeking out a potential partner you should look for someone you like as a person, be attracted to their company, like them as a potential friend. Get to know each other before making any moves, see if they are interested as well. If there is already an established romantic interest or active flirting happening, cool invite them for a date or a "dinner". Inviting for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 03:55 PM |
| 3 | "Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their partI never said to do that though? You are barking at the wrong tree here. I said to try to be a friend to someone BEFORE you even have the desire to sleep with them. It's natural to build an attraction over time and it's common to invite a friend/potential friends for dinner. Expecting sexual encounters after dinner when that never happened before is the weird thing here. Like it doesn't really matter what he wants if it not mutual, him seeing them in romantic ways doesn't mean it reciprocated and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 01:44 PM |
| 3 | "Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their partI have been invited for tea/self made dinners/beers and pizza by men and women all my life, I did the same as well, there was never a sexual intention behind it. Ang guess what? We just hanged out, had fun playing games or plain talking/listening to music and remained good friends. You invite people over to get to know them better as in, as a person or to plainly spend some good time one n one. You guys sound outright like some miserable loners, no wonder you aren't getting any. You never invite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 01:12 PM |
| 0 | "Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their part"So you're advising men to put themselves in the friend zone. Then... " No. Not at all. I'm saying try to make friends with the opposite sex just to be friends, not because you want to sleep with them. It's natural to develop attraction to your friends, nothing can be done about that but the initial intention has to be to be a friend to someone you like as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 01:05 PM |
| 3 | "Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their partIt's wrong to... have non sexual friendly dinners? What kind of shit advice are you listening to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 01:01 PM |
| -2 | "Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their partWho the fuck makes the move at their first dinner invite? Unless there is some crazy chemistry going on and the woman initiates physical contact beforehand....it's not what you think lol. PPL like you is why the stereotype of "men and women can't be friends" exists. Maybe try to become friends with the opposite sex before the intention of trying to get in their panties happens? Sheesh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 11:41 AM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsBut like...where is the problem? If I wouldn't find my amazing partner (he is more than anything I could ever wish for, I won the lottery in that regard) at the age of 27 I would have simply remained alone and have no problem with it. If anything was to happen to my partner I'm cool with dying alone or potentially right after him. I'm never dating ever again. Why would anyone want to spend the rest of their lives with a person they are not compatible with? That's just sad and extremely unfair to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 10:09 PM |
| 21 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.wait, we can get paid for being single?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 12:16 AM |
| – | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?EVERYONE IS ALWAYS GOING TO ACT IN THEIR OWN SELF INTERESTS - it's called a tragedy of the commons for a reason. There is nothing wrong with recognizing yourself as selfish, just don't project yourself as the selfless one and judge other people. Doing it for the greater good would be saving a kid from an orphanage, just be honest and recognize you are doing it for yourself out of a selfish motive. All this dancing around of "well everyone else does it", "well the kid will be set up", "well I'm s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 02:36 PM |
| – | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?Do you even understand the definition on selfish? It's in the name, SELF-ish, doing something for YOURSELF. Everything you said about having a kid is the pure, pristine definition of selfishness, yet you judge others for deciding to not grace the world with a "mini you"? Do a mental experiment, try to name a single thing that is more selfish than that, you won't be able to aside from getting into criminal stuff or saying you will have more than one. I don't want to have biological kids because I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 02:21 PM |
| – | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?Self centered lol? Read your last paragraph. "I want to have kids", "to give MYSELF a greater purpose", "I want to leave a legacy", "something greater than ME". It's all "me-me-me, what I want", there is not a single mention of consideration to what would be in the best interests of your potential kid. You aren't the one to talk about individualism and selfishness, you see children as an extension of yourself serving YOU a purpose. You really need to do some deeper digging inside yourself before… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 07:26 AM |
| 4 | Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft..I don't think we will be able to see eye to eye. You prioritize your own skin over everything else and that's valid but like don't you feel this kind of existence is kind of... empty? You are dying this very moment despite not being in a war zone. You will die regardless of what you prioritize, your body is losing it's longevity with each passing year. So you can chose to hurt and eventually die over nothing (you won't preserve neither your body nor your memories no matter what you do) or you ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft..I honestly feel like this place will become a major rehabilitation center for the handicapped after the war. The hospital is getting students arriving from abroad as volunteers and to exchange practical knowledge. I don't think there is a single hospital in Europe right now with as much experience dealing with nerve damage and surgical practice for those who lost their limbs. Walking near it feels cyberpunk as hell with all the lads with prosthetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft..Lol you have no clue what you are talking about. The artificial limbs are dope as hell and there was an entirely new hospital wing built in my city just for those suffering from losing limbs. People worship them as heroes, there is major security now, the hospital is the most beautiful place in the area with fountains, custom landscape etc. This hospital completely transformed into something I never imagined it in my wildest dream to become. The men have family and loved ones around them as well… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 10:32 AM |
| 3 | “Just build a social circle bruh” isn’t a viable solution for average looking non neurotypical introverted menI started with just my bed as the play area. I also didn't have much space but most people use hand and head tracking, no need for full body especially if it's your first time. So the controllers and the headset you get in a basic kit are more than enough. As long as you have a place you can sit at and not hit anything swinging around with your arms length you are good. Just don't get a Quest, Vive or Valve Index is the way to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 01:15 PM |
| 2 | “Just build a social circle bruh” isn’t a viable solution for average looking non neurotypical introverted menYup, I started using in 2019 and discovered an absolutely amazing social circle. It felt like the early internet, a genuine place of interesting people doing cool things. I've met so many game developers, engineers, IT ppl, creators, musicians, people I would have never had a chance to talk to in real life. I struggle to form relationships irl since I find the friend pool in my area boring but I made friends effortlessly in VR. I've got a lot of job opportunities, participated in creating magica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 01:02 PM |
| -1 | “Just build a social circle bruh” isn’t a viable solution for average looking non neurotypical introverted menI'm not joking man, you will feel like fish in water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 12:34 AM |
| -1 | “Just build a social circle bruh” isn’t a viable solution for average looking non neurotypical introverted menGet VR, I promise you will find your crowd in no time judging by the description | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 12:18 AM |
| 6 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeWho even wants a man hoe with attachment issues? People really forgot how to be committed and that the best sex is with people that you love. All this casual stuff is a bunch of bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 04:14 PM |
| 4 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.It all boils down to undesirables making a fuss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:52 PM |
| 9 | Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms?You are saying that like it's a bad thing. I can recognise men as conventionally attractive but not in the sense of "attractive" as in willing to date. I find 0 men attractive with the exception of my partner. If anything would (forbid) happen to him I'd remain celibate and in solitude till the end of my days. You don't need 10% of men or women, you just need one you really really love and are ready to spend the rest of your days with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Feminisim will either help men or lose men-- there is no 2nd option.Who exactly is telling you that you have to? OP listed these as what he wants, not what women want from him. I'm a woman and I couldn't give 2 shits about those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 05:06 PM |
| 8 | Are most women not interested in casual relationships?Yeah? When was the last time you took an STD test and have you had a vasectomy or use BC? No? Not sure what you mean under safe sex then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Dating (not "modern dating", dating in general) has been a failure, and is leading to the downfall of societyScientific studies have shown that the Y chromosome developed due to men constantly questioning what is natural. "Y should I do it when there is a woman that can do it for me" being the catalyst that started it all. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 06:43 AM |
| 18 | Dating (not "modern dating", dating in general) has been a failure, and is leading to the downfall of societyWomen in reality don't want careers, they want to be moms due to their innate nature If it's oh so natural why the social pressure and subjugation? Why wouldn't it occur...you know, naturally? Have you considered your argument to be a bunch of bullshit you made yourself believe in out of personal bias? Maybe if men were more willing to actually parent and not make it the woman's job this wouldn't be an issue. Let me guess, men are just "naturally" not made to do things they don't want to do like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Dating (not "modern dating", dating in general) has been a failure, and is leading to the downfall of societyWhat is your obsession with the amount of kids? More kids doesn't equal more happy and healthy kids. Having kids for the sake of having kids is why we have so many traumatized and broken people around. If kids are meant to be born they should be in healthy, loving and financially stable homes. A large part here being owning a home and being financially stable which is out of reach for most. Fix that and you won't need to subjugate people into relationships through social pressure just to act as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 12:34 AM |
| 1 | UK: I'm a single, childless and alone female. Feminism has failed me and my generation.I am an antinatalist and have nothing to hide. My moral framework doesn't invalidate my point. This post had nothing to do with men rights and was all about wallowing in that sweet sweet revenge fantasy. I unsubbed from this place after. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/24 12:51 AM |
| -3 | UK: I'm a single, childless and alone female. Feminism has failed me and my generation.You are your own person, A dealer existing doesn't absolve one from the consequences of choosing to take drugs. Same as any sort of propaganda/indoctrination doesn't absolve one from making ones own choices and conclusions. I disagree that feminism is to blame, it's a mere movement for equal rights among genders. I blame the actions of specific people on specific people. Maybe you could you provide examples I might be not aware of? | /r/MensRights | 20/05/24 09:29 PM |
| -6 | UK: I'm a single, childless and alone female. Feminism has failed me and my generation.100% end stage capitalism is incompatible with human lives | /r/MensRights | 20/05/24 03:56 PM |
| -18 | UK: I'm a single, childless and alone female. Feminism has failed me and my generation.Brainwashed by whom? She is an adult. It's her responsibility alone to reassess what she was taught as a kid and make conclusions that align with her values. No one is supposed to babysit you if you are over 25 and she is double of that. The article mostly laments that they lack companionship and financial assistance and as much as it's pushed a family isn't a guarantee for that. Around half the people divorce and another half is no\low contact with their children. If people want good company th… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/24 01:56 PM |
| -42 | UK: I'm a single, childless and alone female. Feminism has failed me and my generation.This has nothing to do with men rights and is just a hate boner anti-feminism propaganda piece. The hypothetical lady could have been miserable, struggling and alone even if she married and had kids (people separate/grow apart, kids eventually grow up and leave). What feminism gave her is a choice which generations prior didn't have and choosing means taking accountability even if you end up choosing wrong. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/24 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Women harp endlessly about entitlement and men feeling “owed” but in reality most people expect to be able get someone similar to them in all areas and framing this as “entitlement” is a deflection from the real issueYou are not entitled to something you feel entitled too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: Pressuring women to hurry up and get married and pregnant ASAP actually makes it harder to date/form a "happy family"You... simply don't give a damn? Who cares what the undesirables have to say? They are like these little dogs, all yap and no bite. Healthy loving people don't go around knocking people down and making their lives feel unfulfilled. There is more to life than the swamp you found yourself in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: Pressuring women to hurry up and get married and pregnant ASAP actually makes it harder to date/form a "happy family"What if I go on a date with a guy and he start ranting how used up I am because I’m not a virgin and not 18? You stand up and leave! Nagging is a red flag, they don't love you, they love using someone to feel loved themselves because there is little to love about them. Why waste your life for someone who doesn't love and cherish you? I found my amazing partner at 28 and it's the best relationship I have ever been in, he is literally an ideal partner for me and we love each other dearly, similar … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 10:57 AM |
| 5 | Unpopular opinion: Pressuring women to hurry up and get married and pregnant ASAP actually makes it harder to date/form a "happy family"Who the fuck cares? Most people have shit relationships, what they are doing is called nagging. So you settle down for any loser by the fear mongering instilled on you. You were brainwashed into accepting a baseline tolerable life of misery so the user you are with had a chance of companionship. There is a 60 million global surplus of men. Surely there is someone more compatible out there for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 10:29 AM |
| 4 | Can't find r/Men r/Husbands there are no active subs for men. This is the only one that popped.You can always move to North Korea/Russia if you want to live under a dictatorship without rights. Like literally no one is stopping you from living out your delusion in a backwaters shithole so you can experience for yourself how it's like. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/24 04:42 AM |
| 1 | How many People would cheat if the PERFECT Man or Women would try to get with them, i really want to figure out this dilema, and how brutal the reality is.This is on a Personal level, be honest, how would you handle this situation, would you cheat? would you consider cheating? Would you dump your bf/gf? Give me your thoughts and add your gender and age if possible. F30 LTR 3+ years, even if all the best men and women (I'm Bi) in the world power-rangered into one ultra-mega-man representing the best qualities humanity could offer I would never even think about hurting my partner and would rather gauge my eyes out. A relationship is not about just l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 02:48 AM |
| -1 | South Korean government offers almost $100K per baby to combat “national extinction”So... you want to fight slavery with more slavery? Real bright, I'm sure nothing will go wrong. I lost interest in conversing with you | /r/MensRights | 24/04/24 03:50 AM |
| -1 | South Korean government offers almost $100K per baby to combat “national extinction”That's the difference we are at actual war, I'm from and in Ukraine lol. Are you saying that conditions of soldiers in Ukraine are comparable to the conditions of those conscripted in SK? Civilians in Ukraine have more combat experience than the South Korean guys getting conscripted. Even a retired elderly lady fought a drone with a jar of pickles and won, what did the conscripted guys in SK fight exactly? To clarify, I disagree with mandatory conscription, military service should come from the … | /r/MensRights | 24/04/24 03:43 AM |
| 1 | South Korean government offers almost $100K per baby to combat “national extinction”Could you remind me how well the veterans, kids in orphanages and those with disabilities are being taken care of by society paying taxes again? Cause last time I checked they are neglected and barely provided for. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/24 11:43 PM |
| -1 | South Korean government offers almost $100K per baby to combat “national extinction”Wouldn't an equivalent be training to potentially be a parent? Conscription is merely training to potentially be a soldier, doesn't mean you necessarily will ever be one. There is no current war in SK to my knowledge. Besides majority of military is support roles involved in logistics/manufacturing/healthcare/food so like... Would 80% of conscripted women be required to be nannies that never actually give birth? Since that would be the statistical equivalent of participating in active combat in … | /r/MensRights | 23/04/24 11:36 PM |
| – | "Everybody dies alone" No shit, but a lot of men are spending their prime years aloneThere is globally a 50 million surplus of men to women ratio. The rest is history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 03:26 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Luck is everything. Some men are just by default undesirable and there is no underlyting reason whySo what did you mean then by asking if the woman is 30? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 02:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Luck is everything. Some men are just by default undesirable and there is no underlyting reason whyAre people in their 30s supposed to be without relationships? Do we all just break up at 29 and spend the rest of our lives as monks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Women are standoffish to men far more frequently than vice versaNow that's reliable! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Women are standoffish to men far more frequently than vice versaOP I really hope you know the official stats for condom reliability against pregnancy is about 87%. Considering drunk people stealthing, putting it on wrong or using expired/mangled condoms,the ratio is around 2 out of 10 times for getting pregnant. They also do not protect from all STD's, they decrease the viral load. You can still get herpes, a yeast infection and HPV even when using a condom. You are absolutely under a real risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies.Nothing wrong if it's 2 consenting adults doing their thing. I only have an issue with the passport bros that use a desperate situation as a bargaining chip to pay for a relationship and the girl has no other choice. It's horrible and I have no respect for that practice. The Phillipino girl I talked about was forced my her parents to find a foreigner in the hopes that he will be rich and pay for their retirement. She had 4 more siblings doing the same. I despise such breeders that have kids in p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 07:57 PM |
| 7 | Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies.9/10 times these creeps are always the abusive narcissists with a breeding kink that will resort to violence on religious grounds. I wound't trust these men with a hamster, much less to be kind to the people they claim to "love" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 08:23 AM |
| 8 | Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies.I knew a girl from the Philippines that "dated" a 50+ co-worker. She was the sweetest girl in her 20's obviously not into him and just escaping a bad life. She cried when I offered her support. It's not just a stereotype out of nowhere, most of these women do it out of desperation. If it's fun between 2 consenting adults it's all good in my book, but it's usually a predatory tactic that prays upon impovireshed or naive women. I would treat any man doing this with distain and rightfully so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 08:18 AM |
| – | Late stage feminism leads to population collapseYup! With an amazing partner that I would do anything for, both childfree and staying that way. If it wasn't for him I would rather stay single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:42 AM |
| – | Late stage feminism leads to population collapseI already live in an active war zone, it doesn't get much worse than this. Things and services are all temporary, you learn to live without things and electricity and appreciate people, nature and you inner world more. You get to experience new things and cook new food or make your own stuff like furtinute or clothing. Aside from all that potentially dying from a missile part and having your loved ones and you shot by the invading army, nessesity is the mother of invention. I felt more alive wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:37 AM |
| – | Late stage feminism leads to population collapseAlright so the symbiosis no longer works because women don't want what you offer and you don't want to offer anything for the choice of women, so you part ways and do your own thing, everyone is happy. Your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:11 AM |
| – | Late stage feminism leads to population collapseI highly suspect this is all about taking away womens rights so they can salivate on the idea of living in an ethnostate. It always somehow comes back to racism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 10:49 AM |
| – | Late stage feminism leads to population collapseI'm sorry, but could you give me the name of that first world country that has a lack of people willing to immigrate to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 10:47 AM |
| – | Late stage feminism leads to population collapseAnd that's a great thing! Quality of lives > quantity of lives. If population growth reqieres forcing women into being indentured incubators against their will then imho it goes against the ideals of freedom and democracy. There are millions of people around the world that need help. Help them before creating even more needs to get unfulfilled. Also if you hate traffic and the housing prices you really don't want for there to be even more people competing and taking up space. The climate, the dy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 10:39 AM |
| 5 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimI clarified my statement not repeated myself. I believe you are having a mental block for the provided information due to it conflicting with your intentions. Your argument is "women look out for other women and it's bad because they are blocking me from shooting my shot" and "the not so drunk girl was totally into buying what I was selling untill the bitch friend prevented me from closing the deal". That sucks for you dude, but they didn't come in there for you to take advantage, they are there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimAnd that is a great thing! If a persons intention (man or woman) was to exploit the "not too drunk" state of the other person with friends to their advantage, it's great that those friends are looking out for them to prevent that from happening. The risk of harm significantly outweighs the potential for pleasure, drunk people can't give consent so it's great there is someone looking out for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.Dude like I am literally a woman in a very happy relationship with a shorter guy, who else do you want to advocate for loving and praising short kings? The guys complaining are indeed insecure, dare I say most men are from my dating experience. Letting your anxiety and insecurity ruin your chances is the main problem, not guys having different shapes. Stop trying to date superficial people looking for status partners and you won't have these issues. Dating apps are not real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.From the article the risk increased for the average of 15%, depressed people judge themselves more harshly. Rumination about something you can't change and see as a disadvantage is an unhealthy thought pattern, it directly leads to outcomes like these. The argument was that there is no representation in media and I showed examples of representation in media that I know. I don't watch movies or TV series much so I couldn't really be confident in my answers. From those that I can think of aside fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 07:25 PM |
| 1 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.You can be a victim all you want, it doesn't change the fact that there are women that love shorter guys, the role reversal subreddit is literally swooning over them. I adore my partner and I used to date a guy that was 6.4. Dude doesn't stand even close (pun intended) to my love. Height doesn't matter for shit it's who you are as a person. You will never be a universal cup of tea adored by everyone, people are different and like different things. I feel like the misconception is coming from the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 12:12 PM |
| 1 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.I mean sure, that falls into the category of rarely. As far as I remember it was mentioned once in 100+ episodes as a testament to how much he has grown (not just in height but as a person as well that endured a lot of suffering. Japanese authors do this doublespeak thing all the time in coming of age stories) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:24 AM |
| 3 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.Their height rarely if ever gets mentioned even, it's all about that rizz. I think it's their insecurities not their height that stand in the way. My partner is the best and smoller than me. Dating material women will not give a fuck, they will love you for you and not your superficial features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 10:13 PM |
| 9 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.Not true at all, so much animation, games and shows have shorter guys. Hell the classic power couple of Morticia and Gomez Addams had him designed like this from the very start in 1930! Like I don't even have to think too hard, Peach is much taller than Mario, Zelda is taller than Link, Jessica Rabbit who is the most known sex symbol in animation married to Roger Rabbit who is much shorter. Steven Universe has the dad being shorter, the dragon lady is HUGE compared to Donkey in Shrek, the Bee Mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 02:56 PM |
| -4 | Remember that conservatives are not your friends. They want men to work until they dieThe hell do you mean nonsense, just google it and you will find multiple studies showing testosterone accelerating aging. It's not just humans it's in animals too, female specimens on average live 18% longer. Neutered male cats that got the procedure before reaching puberty get a significantly longer lifespan of 62% compared to the sprayed female cats only getting 39%. Hormonal make up is an extremely important factor. Who is sending men to work though? As far as I am aware most of the civilized… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/24 10:20 AM |
| -14 | Remember that conservatives are not your friends. They want men to work until they dieYou do know that the shorter lifespans are due to hormonal make up and a stressful job? You can start taking estrogen right now (but cry a lot) and do nails or something and you will live longer. I don't think you would want a life like that in the first place though. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/24 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Better for vast majority men and women Not sure who you asked to make such a statement, near all of my friends are happy with partners or happy alone in their 30's. A few shut ins being resentful is not a majority. There's no way humans will be able to create artificial woman as good as natural one. But these guys aren't looking for a natural woman. They want them without rights or personal autonomy, without disagrements or faults, without preferences or attachments to other people and forever y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Better for who? The undesirables? They are in a minotiry and can't manage their expectations, much less a revolution. How about... just go get those ai powered sex bots and live a happy life instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.They are free to be incarcerated for causing said trouble. You seem to like history and back in the day arguments, well back in the day the male surplus was dealt with by wars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.There is approx a teeny-tiny surplus of 60 million men worldwide. If you also include that women live longer it makes the divide even bigger. Even assuming that all people match with all the other people it is physically impossible for every guy to have a partner (unless there are that many gays). There is no solution to this (no ethical at least) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:52 PM |
| 132 | Robbed and won’t press charges on the womanTheir idea of self defence is let them rob you while the police "handles it" meaning they do nothing and then tell you nothing can be done. It's fucking insane. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/24 01:01 PM |
| 0 | One in six men, ages 16-29, say 'feminism has done more harm than good,' study showsI never said that. Patriarchy is real, just because the underprivileged men don't get to benefit from it doesn't make it any less influential. I don't want anyone to concede I want people to not twist reality or belittle the unfair treatment of women. Asking to treat EVERYONE with respect and fairness is not oppression. If you are some kind of a debate bro milking people for drama know that I don't concent to you including me in your content. I am advocating for the rights of both men and women.… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.The discussion was about partners, meaning people who are seeing each other and those unable to find matching partners. I assumed by "on rotation" you meant the situationship scenarios where the guy lies about his intentions to become partners in order to get sex. I do not participate in hookup culture and frankly find it disgusting so sorry for misundestanding. Nothing against promiscuous men but I wouldnt touch that with a10m pole. Thats the opposite of ideal I believe even in the general popu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man.What does "being on rotation" mean then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | One in six men, ages 16-29, say 'feminism has done more harm than good,' study showsI am absolutely against child circumcisions, both women and male genitalia mutilation is horrible, it should not be performed without informed consent at 18 y.o. (people should be allowed to chose to get circumcised if they wish to) I don't know ANY women who advocate for forced circumcisions, nearly no one here does this (Europe), it's a US, not a woman thing. The problem with underprivileged men is that they usually fall into the "if I am not respected and hurting I will disrespect and hurt ot… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 09:37 AM |
| 0 | One in six men, ages 16-29, say 'feminism has done more harm than good,' study showsHow is any of this related to the argument of patriarchy being the historical reality? I agree that extremists positions and dishonest claims are a problem I never said they weren't. My only beef was with the claim of patriarchy not being a real thing, nothing else. I agree that people should be held accountable for their dishonest actions no matter the gender, we have no disagreement here. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 05:40 AM |
| -5 | One in six men, ages 16-29, say 'feminism has done more harm than good,' study showsDo I not acknowlege men's issues though? The whole comments was about the preposterous claim of patriarchy not being a thing when it was historically so, it's simply dishonest. "So what if women were sold into sexual slavery as little girls, it's culture! /s" "So what if women were forced to have children against their will? It's nature! /s" "Did you think of the male loneliness and suicide epidemic??? It's way worse than being used as a trade sex object and incubator against your will, without … | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 05:33 AM |
| -1 | One in six men, ages 16-29, say 'feminism has done more harm than good,' study showsIf women issues don't matter to you, why do you think they would care about any of yours? Are you not a hypoctite when you ask to be heard and empathized with when you yourself refuse to hear and empathise with others? If your response to conserns of women is "it's not that big a deal" and "I can't take you seriously" then guess what? I can't take your issues seriously either and all of them are not that big of a deal. Sounds pretty fair doesn't it? No solutions just gender wars and everyone lef… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 01:00 AM |
| -3 | One in six men, ages 16-29, say 'feminism has done more harm than good,' study showsWho made mens lives lack meaning? Who is responsible to tell you what to do with your life? Are you expecting women to fix suicidal men? Who makes men take the dangerous jobs? Automatization will eventually take over the human hard labor and the issue will be resolved. Shitty jobs are a problem of class exploitation, not gender division. Who is to blame for over 90% of murders? It's not women that people are afraid of walking in a dark alley. Who enforced the military conscription? Is it groups … | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 12:51 AM |
| -10 | One in six men, ages 16-29, say 'feminism has done more harm than good,' study showsRefusing to acknowledge the issues women have will for sure make them want to hear all about the trouble men are having. Without cooperation there are no solutions, just useless whining. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 12:37 AM |
| 2 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren'tMy partner is a short king and I wouldn't trade him for all the men and their riches in the world. You can believe whatewher you want, go to a role reversal subreddit and you will see THOUSANDS of women thirsting for their beloved smol boys, even fetishizing it. You are just wrong man, if you want love the love has got to come from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren'tAge old question on why the undesirables are undesirable. People are different and like different food, some love it spicy, some hate that, some love it sweet, some hate that, near everyone hates it if it's poison. There is no mystery here, a lot of people suck ass as partners and should not be in a relationship in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 06:29 PM |
| -39 | One in six men, ages 16-29, say 'feminism has done more harm than good,' study showsOne has to be realy blind not to see how patriarchy is a real thing. Who's last name do the women get when they marry? Who is expected to rule a country? What is the gender of the gods people praise? Who is advocating to oppress the reproductive rights of women? Who's permission are countless women asked to provide when getting a sterilization procedure? Who is condisered the default hero gender in most of media? Even the word woman originates from old english wiffman meaning wife-person, which … | /r/MensRights | 05/03/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Overcomplexity in Dating and SocietyThe disrespect and cold behaviour is a preventative measure to disincentivize creeps from thinking they are welcome to cause trouble. That's the point, the women don't want to be interacted with if you are going to be a pain the ass they have to address HR with. Since you showed that you can be trusted people will open up to you. Are you neurodivergent or something? Fair warning as soon as you break that trust there is no going back, you will have to switch jobs. You severely underestimate how q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/24 01:30 PM |
| 4 | Overcomplexity in Dating and SocietyLol that's not manipulation it's called being human. You opened up to a colleague and showed that you are pleasant to be around and not posing a threat? No way that made you more approachable and likeable, must be some voodoo trick. Treating women...as friends? Impossible! Welcome to normal human relations, congratulations on coming out of your shell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/24 01:09 PM |
| – | RIP to Japan, you guys had a good runpoor people tend to procreate more, not less. I don't buy the explanation that people are actively choosing to not have kids because they can't afford to for this reason. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V9fm6FErHkQ You can learn about the global dropping birthrates here. The reasons are economical first and foremost. Poor people have more kids in underdeveloped or developing countries because of no access to reproductive healthcare, contraception and opportunities. Kids in developed countries ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 04:56 PM |
| 25 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsWhat's wrong with staying single if you can't find someone you love? There are men that love bigger women and women who love short kings. No one is making you date anyone, you can stay single too if no one is up your ideals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 04:03 PM |
| – | RIP to Japan, you guys had a good runSo what do you see is different between Japan in 2003 and Japan in 2023? Japan’s birth rates and marriage numbers going down goes back to the 80s and the Lost Decade after their economy did a massive crash, the crash of 2008 was the nail on the coffin for multiple generations to ever have a chance of living better than their parents did economically speaking. Women don't have "equal rights", they have extreme privilege. Can you tell me more about this extreme privilege? What exactly do the women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 03:45 PM |
| 5 | RIP to Japan, you guys had a good runHave you seen Egypt lol, is that who you see a healthy and prosperous society to replicate behaviour from? 70% of their population lives at less than 5$ per day. They are poverty breeding more poverty because they can't afford much else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 12:46 PM |
| 19 | RIP to Japan, you guys had a good runYeah right, not the toxic 666 culture, not the drinking and sleeping at work culture, not the using kids as a retirement plan culture, not the rampant misogyny and lookism, not the ever increasing demands and competition, it's those pesky feminists, their equal rights and the internets!!! Oh and let's not forget that they have 125 million people on a tiny island where space and real estate are so expensive most of them live in tiny rooms in cramped apartment complexes where parking spots in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 12:20 PM |
| 0 | Men should start boycotting feminist businesses and peopleThe bit about stores and women being the one selling stuff shows that it's not about feminism or equality, he want's an exclusive sausage party around him. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 07:00 AM |
| 3 | At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out?Oh it gets worse! That is assuming everyone is happy with everyone else available in the dating pool, which people are not AND we are approaching the new great depression + AI replacement that will bar most young people from owning property or getting jobs. Fun times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 07:49 PM |
| 13 | At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out?It's not like its a supply and demand issue, that there are far many men than women Worldwide out of 1,000 people, 504 are men (50.4%) and 496 are women (49.6%). In a population of 8,092,565,670 as of me writing this comment (stat from world calculator) that is a surplus of approx 65 million men. No big deal right? It's a little problem the size of the whole population of France. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:33 PM |
| 3 | the ultimate force that is shaping womens' frustration with dating is the engine of hypergamy raising her standards without her concious awarenessExcept you are wrong, I waited out for my man, for someone I really felt the vibe with and am in the best relationship I've ever had while the women that rushed are on their second baby and divorce. It's not about taking what you can get it's about vibing with the person and wanting to spend the last of your years with them, about loving and cherishing them. Getting into a placeholder relationship out of desperation and loneliness is horrible advice. There is no man in this word that I could eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 11:07 PM |
| 4 | the ultimate force that is shaping womens' frustration with dating is the engine of hypergamy raising her standards without her concious awarenessYou are joking right? Ignore the untasty ones? That's exactly what one should be doing! What is the point of being forced to stay with people you aren't happy with? That sounds like a miserable existence. I undestand that from the perspective of the undesirables partnership is like water in a desert, anything will do but for those not desparate it's more like searching for drinking water in a swamp. You have to weed out the poison and the bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 05:09 PM |
| 3 | If a man is failing to attract the women he wants, and he is a good person, what options does he have aside from lowering his standards or giving up?National Geographic taught you nothing. Dancing!! Silly confident dancing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 12:28 AM |
| – | Women are becoming increasingly less feminine and exhibiting masculine traits that most men find unattractive, yet due to desperation and simping they have no motivation to stopYou just don't have the rizz to pull it off, skill issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 10:32 PM |
| – | Women are becoming increasingly less feminine and exhibiting masculine traits that most men find unattractive, yet due to desperation and simping they have no motivation to stopSurely you as a man know better than I as a woman do about what women like right? Makes one wonder why they run for the hills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 10:29 PM |
| – | Women are becoming increasingly less feminine and exhibiting masculine traits that most men find unattractive, yet due to desperation and simping they have no motivation to stopThe hell do you mean destroying dating prospects? Submissive, quiet, shy and timid? Add in being a nerd and into videogames and you would describe my partner and he is the absolute best partner I ever had, I love him to bits. We are in 2024, no one cares if you are introverted, near everyone is thx to phones and computers. How is an intelligent, humble and respectful partner that cares about you and himself not the full package? What else could one possibly wish for? Man is an ideal, a dream wal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 07:51 PM |
| – | Women are becoming increasingly less feminine and exhibiting masculine traits that most men find unattractive, yet due to desperation and simping they have no motivation to stopLook at pic's women thirst for, it's fucking k-pop groups. Dudes not being afraid of taking care of their appearance and being emotionally available and in touch with their bodies and mind are hot stuff. You know what kind of shows younger women switch to watching world wide? Doramas! The stoic gym bro is a male thirst fantasy not a female one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 06:14 PM |
| – | Women are becoming increasingly less feminine and exhibiting masculine traits that most men find unattractive, yet due to desperation and simping they have no motivation to stopcan you imagine if straight men began acting exceedingly feminine As a woman, please fucking do. There is nothing hotter than a guy secure in his masculinity to dare to be cute and adored. The gays can keep the 6 pack ripped macho dudes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 04:49 PM |
| 2 | I feel violated. Girl lied to me about taking birth control…Thank you for sharing your story, I'm sorry for what you had to go through. Women are kept in the blind about the realities of pregnancies and men are near completely clueless. My mother herself didn't tell me and my sister anything and when asked she said she didn't want to scare us away from having kids. Informed concent is non existent when it comes to pregnancies, everyone will either hide the reality or lie and one will only learn the truth once directly faced with it, so the general public… | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 09:33 PM |
| 2 | I feel violated. Girl lied to me about taking birth control…You are misinformed, please look up official medical stats. Near 1/3 is lost to misscarriage, and thats the one people informed about. Many more never told anyone and even the women themselves sometimes mistake it for a heavy period. People stay silent about this because it makes people uncomfortable and sad, there is shame and regret associated with a misscarriage. It's very common but not depicted in literature/media/news unless its a for a sob story so it seems unusual, but it's not. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 07:51 PM |
| 3 | I feel violated. Girl lied to me about taking birth control…Miscarriage is very common, people are just extremely unaware. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 03:06 PM |
| 21 | If one group is more desperate than the other in a deal, that increases the chance of injustice happening to the desperate member of the deal.She is only glorified for being a divine incubator that never touched a dick. Not really that great of a role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 07:33 PM |
| 19 | If one group is more desperate than the other in a deal, that increases the chance of injustice happening to the desperate member of the deal.Um hello? Ever heard about Eve? The biggest scapegoat in literature, blamed for all human issues for the past 2000 years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Debate: free romantic love has failedThe hell do you mean shallower, you either love a person or you don't. If my partner said he doesn't love me, I would also leave. The hell is there to work through? You can't make someone love you forcefully and there is exactly 0 point in such a partnership. If you want someone for economic benefits get a roommate, for sex hire an escort, for food go to a restaurant, whatever service you need can be bought or arranged. No need to be a leech on some poor lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 11:48 AM |
| 10 | Career women, "tradwives" and generational poverty.Why is it always with you guys that it's either a submissive woman that exploits you and pretends to like it or a dominant woman that exploits you and enjoys it, nothing else? Where is the genuine love? If your partner leaves you just because you lost a job they never loved you in the first place. That's the point of being with a partner you love, to be with them no matter what happens, to want to spend the rest of your life with them. I met my partner when he was unemployed! And he is the most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 05:04 PM |
| 10 | Career women, "tradwives" and generational poverty.What do you mean? Not every man is looking for a submissive dependand trad wife. That's exactly the point, that she gets to be independant and to chose a compatible partner. Out of love and admiration, not desperation. Men who can only be in a partnership for what they provide aren't loved, they are being used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that it should be illegal for people to charge money for sex?Are people not aware that male escorts exist as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 06:31 PM |
| -2 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell."a man doing something nice for a woman" "maybe just doing the dishes once or cleaning the house" It's OP's very first sentence and base of the argument. "Doing the DISHES ONCE" tell you all you need to know what OP thinks about chore distribution and decides it's a default womans job. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/23 02:26 AM |
| -1 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.Are you for real? Lets flip the roles, you wake up in the morning of a celebration and your partner is like HONEY guess what I got you for our anniversary? I washed the dishes! You are so welcome, don't mention it. I wanted to get you flowers as well, but they usually make a mess so I just sent you a picture of flowers instead in your DM's. I know, I know, I'm just the best partner that goes above and beyond, could have just settled for a generic gender present but decided to spoil you this year… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 02:21 PM |
| -9 | Bing AI displays double standards when addressing women's and men's rights movementsIt's a language model, it's not actually intelligent. The answers will not be something like an objective truth but a response heavily dependant on the data model it was trained on (ergo social media) and it's censored topics to avoid controversy and AI used to stir up conflict. There is no conspiracy here to dehumanise a group, AI will be censored the same as would any commercial media to avoid getting sued. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/23 12:13 PM |
| 6 | RedPillers: if women are basically children, why do you not look after them like they’re children?You take away their phone and internet priviliges for a week, not beat them is return. That's how you get violent people in the first place, you show them that concequences are only enforced by force. So as long as they get to be on the stronger side they will abuse everyone they see as beneath them, it's animal hierarchy bullshit. You enforce boundaries through concequences of removing privileges and explain the concequences beforehand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it.No one said all men, only those complaining about makeup. They have no clue how much more work the "natural" look takes and they will deceive themselves into thinking it's real. No need to project on me, if you feel dumb ot hurt by this revelation the truth remains the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it.I mean they do be fooled easy. It's rich to complain about makeup when brushing hair, plucking hair and shaving is also unnatural and so is wearing clothing, gym and dieting. They advocate for natural looks but I really doubt their definition of natural has anything in common with reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 07:43 PM |
| 17 | Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it.This guy is in for a rude wake up. Reminds me of that experiment biologists did with fish by putting in fake fishes with exaggerated sexual features into a fish tank and all the male fishes trying to make out with the plastic decoys instead of the regular real fish. Men being mad at make up are no different, they just want the real fish to look like the decoy naturally and won't settle for anything less lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 05:00 PM |
| -19 | Who are the ones enforcing specific gender expectations and norms again?There is a huge diference between ideals of Masculinity and Toxic Masculinity it's dishonest to see them as the same. Ideals of Masculinity are based in strength and confidence. As many women in the video said, what attracts them is someone who they feel secure with, who can protect them, who will care for them, someone with a drive and will to lead. Ergo a partner they can love and rely on, those who they can thrive with. These men are seen as an ideal and are secure in their masculinity, their… | /r/MensRights | 04/12/23 07:38 AM |
| 3 | My Ex Girlfriend Aborted Out Baby So She Could Go To BTS Concerts And Not Give Up Her "Best Fangirl Life". Our Precious Baby Would Be Due Now. I'm Devastated.Exactly, it's just an electrical impulse. Dead skinned frogs sprinkled with salt will have the same happen in their muscles. Doesn't mean they are alive, it's just nerve implulses doing automatic nerve impulse stuff. Parasitic worms can have up to 5 hearts yet that doesn't stop anyone from purging them asap. There is sentimental value in the cells that would eventually grow into a heart for a wanted baby but it's just that, a romanticized biological function. People kind of forget that even the … | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed a gradual emasculation of western society, and do you think this is a direct result of the growing dominance of feminist ideology and the demonization of masculinity?Woman here, its because they try to appeal to the female gaze. Chiks are not into the huge muscle macho dudes, it's what the guys are into, they are the target audience for those "spend my life in a gym" types either because they aspire to be like them or because they are gay. Boys deserve to be cute! And feel pretty and admired for their sensitive and compassionate side. I can't think of anything less attractive then a guy with an attitude, benching and status signaling. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/23 10:53 AM |
| 2 | CMV One Big reason why man today struggle is because they are delusional about they‘re own SMV.This. Their competition is literally an animal shitting in a box and gagging hair on the floor. If one can't even beat that they are just not relationship material. One can delude themselves with concepts of "looksmatches" and "women being too picky" but if one wants to compare people like commodity then the reality is dictaded by the market. If no one is buyin it's not that someone is picky, it's you aiming the price too high or selling something no one is interested in to begin with. It's incr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 05:29 AM |
| 5 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?My mistake. Indeed misread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 10:32 AM |
| 16 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?Why is it a flaw to not be married in your 20's? Some people just don't feel ready for a relationship/making a family and work on their education/finances/health/discovering who they are as people. Our brains only finish developing at around 25. How the hell are people supposed to already know who they will be and what they will want at that age?? I was a completely different person at 23 then I am at 29, any partner that I would have been attracted to at that developemental period would have be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Men want what they would never allow to womenI absolutely agree, nothing is more beautiful than happy couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Men want what they would never allow to womenLike do you really think the number of men interested in you will be drastically different if you stopped getting manicures, spent less money on creams/perfumes and spent less time brushing your hair? Absolutely, I have butt length hair, without brushing it turns into a bird nest. I'd just get Lazer hair removal if I was a woman I do laser treatment every few months, it's very painful. It's not permanent and you need to spend 2 hours for the lady to go through your whole body and still shave sin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Men want what they would never allow to womenAnd I am not attracted to the brutish hill-billy type. I want my partner to do the same as me since I am attacted to femboys who take care of themselves. It's only fair if a woman that takes care of herself has a partner that does the same. So to each their own. Saying that women need to do less then men though to look beautiful is completely delusional. Men have naturally better looking hair, skin and body fat ratio due to not being fucked with menstrual cycle hormones throughout their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Men want what they would never allow to womenI mean, they really don't have to, but good luck finding a cave woman (who can't be bothered to do the same things they don't want to) that will like them back and cares about having a relationship. Self sabotage is their forte | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 03:26 PM |
| 16 | Men want what they would never allow to womenTalk to me once you have to shave your whole body every 3 days, brush and style your hair for 20-40 min, sit trhough 3 hours long sessions of having a manicure and shell out most of your spare money on creams/parfumes/make up/pretty clothing. All a guy has to do it take a shower and for his clothing to not have holes/dirt stains on it (I know, this is already setting the bar pretty high) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Women telling men to express “emoshions” is cringe and possibly dangerous for the societal standing of a Man.I undestand, conditioning is pretty hard to break out of. Problem is this reserveness should not be aplied to their significant other. You shouldn't have to shield yourself from your partner, it's the person you are supposed to be real with. It really makes me sad to hear men have such trouble leaning onto others and not trusting their loved ones with their feelings. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/23 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Women telling men to express “emoshions” is cringe and possibly dangerous for the societal standing of a Man.Because you are free to refuse to be in an unfullfilling relationship. Every day spent with the partner you can't rely on is a day wasted on the wrong person. When you are unhappy you communicate your feelings and if your partner doesn't care about them or even worse finds them annoying/repulsive it's time to break the relationship since there is no connection no more. People rarely change and if they do it's usually for the worst. I spent 7 years on a person that threatened to leave me because … | /r/MensRights | 01/11/23 07:36 AM |
| -1 | Women telling men to express “emoshions” is cringe and possibly dangerous for the societal standing of a Man.But it doesn't have to be! If you can't trust and rely on your partner then they aren't really YOUR partner. Staying together is how broken marriages and dead bedrooms are formed because you aren't compatible. Your partner is supposed to be your best friend, your inspiration, someone who will be there even if you miss half your body and mind and still love you. I can say with confidence that that is my current partner of 3 years and I have never felt more loved and understood by anyone. If your … | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Women telling men to express “emoshions” is cringe and possibly dangerous for the societal standing of a Man.But why chose such a life? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Women telling men to express “emoshions” is cringe and possibly dangerous for the societal standing of a Man.a man crying, being sad and showing his insecurities is a big turn off The point of these emotions is not to make someone turned on but to connect emotionally to your PARTNER that you are supposed to be able to confide in and share your burdens with. How sad is a life where you cannot open up to the single person you are supposedly sharing your life with till it ends? Do you like expect to have a more meaningful and intimate relationship with your therapist then your wife? this sends a signal th… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 04:10 PM |
| -10 | Women telling men to express “emoshions” is cringe and possibly dangerous for the societal standing of a Man.The hell do you value more? Having a partner that loves and understands you or emitting the facade of a "stoic manly man tm"? It's just plain stupid to pretend being something you aren't and a recipe for a sad uncertain life with a partner you deceived. Why do this | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 10:03 AM |
| 16 | Why do even women with high libidos prefer monogamy or sex with just one partner?Sex is dangerous for a woman. - You can be physically overpowered to do things against your will. - Potential pregnancy will not only sap the inner resources but has a pretty high chance of death and guaranteed permanent damage. - Said pregancy may result in a death in case the hook up is of the violent/religious type that want's to keep the baby/not keep the baby. Pregnant women are a major homicide victim statistic. - Birth Control causing lower libido, weight gain, blood clots and migrains. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 10:48 AM |
| -2 | Men are not obliged to protect women and childrenDude is most likely a narcissist. They create a reality of their own in their heads and can't empathise with anyone that they can't use for validation/personal benefit. The dude advocates to abandon children in threatening situations to save his own skin ffs, absolutely unhinged. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/23 03:04 PM |
| -3 | Men are not obliged to protect women and childrenYou wouldn't mind to see your SISTER killed because she has a different outlook on life? Are you mad? You need a reality check and to touch some grass | /r/MensRights | 20/10/23 02:58 PM |
| 6 | Men are considered creeps not due to their actions, but due to thoughts of womenRiight... it's all bullshit and the silly women are afraid for no reason. They should totaly put their lives in jeopardy cause same unconvinced male randos don't think that's that big of a deal /s Have a nice day, I'm not entertaining this conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 12:10 PM |
| 9 | Men are considered creeps not due to their actions, but due to thoughts of womenRape assault attempts and full on rape is 1 in 6. Source: https://www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence Sexual harrasment is something like 1 in 3. You can google this stuff you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 12:13 AM |
| 12 | Men are considered creeps not due to their actions, but due to thoughts of womenIt's high enough to avoid all potential danger. You know what is the percentile of raped women? 1 in every 6 women. You know what sex causes the most rape? Men 91%, an that's ignoring potential murder/abduction/assault chances. Whatever you have to offer at dusk for a lone woman that doesn't know you isn't worth the potential danger and stress you are putting her under. It's the same chances as playing russian roulette with a gun, very high chance nothing will happen but if it does you are dead/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 11:52 PM |
| 0 | Joel Pollak, Senior Editor at Brietbart News, says we should save the women of Gaza, but kill all the men even if they are just civilians and have nothing to do with the military.What would be your solution? A better dome? | /r/MensRights | 09/10/23 01:52 PM |
| 8 | What's wrong with average men?Riiight.... I am sure glad you aren't getting any | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:10 AM |
| 6 | The Stat "80% of Women Match with 20% of Men" isn't because of female hypergamy. It's because of the skewed gender ratio.Exactly! These guys are looking for a pump and dump and whine why no one is getting caught in their scam. Boo hoo no one want's to do some charity work to get their member moist, oh the humanity! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 10:01 AM |
| 1 | in which direction do you think your marriage or relationship will go if we went into another lockdown ?Not only is that hugely irresponsible but the idea of creating a new being just because you are bored is really depressing. I hope these kids grow up to be happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 12:48 PM |
| 0 | in which direction do you think your marriage or relationship will go if we went into another lockdown ?"lockdown baby" - ew. There is something really offputing that a term exists for children created during a massive disease outbreak. Wonder if they had any special words to describe kids made during the plague or the spanish flu. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a mute guy?Have you ever tried exposure therapy? There are SO MANY people in the VR community that are called Mutes. They rarely if ever speak but they type instead and just hang out with other people listening to them and people love them. A lot of the mutes I knew eventually built up courage to speak up but it took like at least 6 months to a year for them to open up and get comfortable. Maybe this could be something that could help you? A lot of horny people there as well if you up for some rp, many fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:05 AM |
| 5 | It's interesting how it's almost always "men are afraid of approaching these days, they don't know how to talk to women" and never "women have become such and such and it is destroying society"Dude Ken always has been an accessory. It's a movie by a woman, for women and girls about a girl doll and even then the movie had a subplot of Ken realising his self worth and moving on from Barbie. He is Kenough, he doesn't need Barbie. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/23 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Do you think parents are mostly to blame for lack of success in dating?it means people find you attractive enough to have sex with ...but not attractive enough to stay in a commited partnership. It's like finding shareholders and declaring bankrupcy and soon as you start the business. That's not success, that's grifting. Unless that is what you aim for and consider to be an achievement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Fathers are being excluded by kids schools!That is messed up, what if something serious happens to the child like a shooting, would they also not inform the dad?? Would it take too much fucking work to send an email to both the parents? What if the couple is lesbian/gay and have an adopted kid who do they call then? It's ridiculous, this shit could be easily automated to cc parents depending on the students name... | /r/MensRights | 26/07/23 02:25 PM |
| 0 | Asking women out isn't allowed anymorePlease read again what you just wrote, what accountability?? I had nothing to do with that man and I am not at fault that asshole decided he would like to fuck me for me to end up beaten up at MY OWN FUCKING HOME. You are victim blaming. I didn't chose to live near that sick lonely horny military asshole nor did I have any relationship with him. Not even a "good day neighbour" one. I had a long distance partner, I had no desire to interact or even acknowledge the existence of the neighbor, he di… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/23 10:33 AM |
| 0 | Asking women out isn't allowed anymoreThe guy who assaulted me had exactly 0 relationship with me besides living in proximity. I called cops on him 4 times due to his violent outburst of drunk rage and him damaging property. I never wanted to have anything to do with that schizo. How the hell was I responsible for controlling a drunk ex marine when I was just coming home from work? I already had to move from my childhood home because of him because he threatened my little sister with a knife and broke our front door. You have no ide… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/23 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Asking women out isn't allowed anymoreWhy would I judge those that don't approach? I'm cool with them. I don't approach them, they don't approach me, I think that is pretty fair and keeps things neutral. I don't want to be approached by anyone, unless it's an emergency and I give no indication that I want to be approached (I wear headphones 90% of the time). So why? Why should one risk their safety only to... not hurt someones feelings? I have a partner, I have 0 interest in whatever anyone else has to offer. Why would I entertain a… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/23 07:10 AM |
| -13 | Asking women out isn't allowed anymoreGirl have you ever been constantly cat called and hit on by older creeps? If no you you got no clue. Most interactions I had: 1) Will not take your no for an aswer. Rarely care if you mention having a partner. 2) Will keep following and pestering you. 3) May get violent (have a permanent scar on my leg from a drunk ex marine assaulting me at the door to my appartment and attempring to drag me into his. I fought back and won the lawsuit but all he had to do is pay a fine, it's fucking ridiculous,… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/23 04:00 AM |
| 7 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.Narcissists arent capable of loving anyone but themselves and will inevitably ruin every relationship they get themselves in. They aren't loved by no one and their kid's wish they would die/are glad they are dead. That's not love man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 12:43 AM |
| 28 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.Children are not genetic accessories for your to flaunt your self percieved importance. Besides, no one would cry if the genetic contribution of narcissists goes missing from the pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 11:37 PM |
| 45 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.That's... just a very gross mindset. Apply what you just said to adopted children, are all of those amazing people taking care of kids in need of a family... clowns? If you like animal kingdom analogies so much dogs are known to nurture baby animals that are not just from another litter but could be a completely different species. A dog has more love and empathy to provide then you do as a human. I'm childfree but you struck a nerve even in me. Go touch some grass and for the love of God stay aw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 11:03 PM |
| -1 | Why did feminists infiltrate the atheist movement?Huh? Isn't atheism just...not believeing in gods? Can't just like anyone not believe in a god no matter their genitals and that's a good enough qualifier to be an atheist? Is this a chat gpt bot posting for rage bait lol | /r/MensRights | 12/07/23 02:30 PM |
| 6 | In this hypothetical, were women wronged?Wronged? Lol as if it's a privilege to be some losers bangmaid. If anything it would tremendously help against unwanted attention, chores and the loneliness epidemic. Despite having a partner I myself would get 2-3 of those bots but as a fembot-boy edition and 2 female ones to just handle the mansion and spice up sex (so dedicated maid/cook/driver/gardener/security bots that can also be used as sex toys). It's a dream come true Realistically through they would cost around $20-60 k per unit and r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:21 AM |
| – | A lot of men are jealous of womenI for sure know what a bad one looks like though. The one that can't take care and doesn't even want to be the backbone of the relationship. The one that doesn't want to better the circumstances and the quality of their life and is complacent. One that won't be able to afford an emergency or an accident. One that is competing with their partner instead of lifting them up every chance they get. That's what a shit partner is and I refuse to be anything close to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 03:06 PM |
| – | A lot of men are jealous of womenNo one said anything about pass time and hobbies. People need downtime too. Or are you implying that you treat your relationship as a hobby? It's seriously mind boggling how people without resources see themselves as a valid mating choice. A partner is a commitment much bigger then getting a horse. Can you afford to take care of a horse? No? Then the plan for ppl like that is to usually either neglect their partner and have no time/resources for them or neglect themselves, or even worse the unfo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 03:01 PM |
| – | A lot of men are jealous of womenI'm from a third world country currently at war. My childhood was on less then $20 per month. I started working when I was 14 because my family was terribly struggling financially, we had nothing, I wore hand me downs/charity and my food for the day was bread with sourcream and sugar, maybe if we are lucky some cheap processed sausages with fake cheese and margarine. My mom was getting food from the church to feed us and was begging the government for support that was laughable. No support, very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 12:41 PM |
| – | A lot of men are jealous of womenTo show that they want to care for you. It's part of the mating dance for most social species, for one to play the role of a dependant being cared for and for the other to be the caretaker. I love spoiling my younger sister for example out of a very close familial relationship and pay for most of our dining meals per month (about 10-13, we frequently eat out). She also pays for the few of the meals, just to show she cares and finds new interesting places to go to. I don't expect her to love me i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 06:57 AM |
| 7 | Would you give up video games for sex?I'm a very high libido woman in a LTR and even I would give up sex if it meant no more games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Women claiming to be 'Sapiosexual' often do so either inaccurately or as code for something else.I fell in love with my partner because he is very intelligent, kind and fun. We met in VR so there was no way for me to know how he looked like or what he did irl. Kindness and intelligence are the most important traits to me in a partner and I have identified as a sapiosexual from my teens a whole decade ago. I was always a very introverted nerd (functional shut-in) with niche interests (currently work in IT) so I was on a lookout for a similar partner to vibe with without much luck. I was extr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Women you have 5 points to create your ideal man. What are you picking,I consider custome made/edited personalised memes the modern equivalent of poetry from the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Women you have 5 points to create your ideal man. What are you picking,3 4 5 9 (no kids) 11 And the best part? My partner is a perfect match <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 11:26 AM |
| 3 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymoreI stand corrected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 05:59 PM |
| -3 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymoreAlso who the fuck do they think start the wars?? If women were in charge of countries they would just not talk to each other in a diplomatic manuever called "the silent treatment" and that's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 04:05 PM |
| 6 | If most men are vulgar and disrespectful than the wholesome ones should have no trouble connecting with women... yet they seem to struggle the most*I'm calling them below average. The guys themselves don't seem to complain. My friend seemed proud of his gf who was legitimately like a 3/10, I'm not even kidding. Felt kinda bad for him. Wow a kind dude found love and is happy with a partner and you fucking feel bad for him? Surely because people can only fall in love, be in relationships and be happy only if the love interest has a perfect/above average body /s Empathetic people will care more about the personality then the looks. And people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 10:49 AM |
| 17 | Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute womenHave you seriously never considered that women see unwanted attention as a threat. If you are anything but less then customer service nice to them the girl will be called a stuck up bitch or worse get assaulted by a vengeful horny dumbass. "No" is very rarely taken as a full sentence, it's even worse if they think the girl is playing hard to get or just needs some more convincing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?Because I am a sociopath. I need to do a lot to keep my condition in check and not hurt anyone. So I go through the shortest route. Complete and absolute honesty. Clear objectives, clear rules of engagement. Clear incentives. Every card on the table. Since day one. Wow that is very impressive. Good on you for knowing yourself so well and trying to do good. For neutorypical people to behave in your way and keep the discipline and accountability in check without going mental would be incredibly ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?If they are fickle then why would I build anything on top of them? It's part of trust. When you form a genuine connection with someone this emotional trust is something you rely on. You rely on the partner caring for you and they rely on you caring for them. I feel like it not being forced by conditions makes the bond so much stronger. My patner is absolutely amazing when it comes to reciprocating and he tries to give back two-fold anything I do for him and then I try to double that back again. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?Speak for yourself. I am close to ten years into a healthy relationship built entirely on a quite long explicit and detailed agreement that is updated quite often using the tools already defined in the original deal/agreement. Fair enough, it both of you are happy with such an arragament. I know I wouldn't be able to bond with a partner in contractual terms. People are different though so I understand. That assumes I want genuine love more than I want stability. Genuine love is an emotion. Emoti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?Username checks out. If you want love the love has got to come from you first. Making deals is not how you have a healthy partnership... Even just the framing, if you saved someone from a bad place by the pure goodness of your heart and compassion for another humans suffering and used the exact same resources as you would with your dealing scheme you would have attained genuine love for you without all the manipulative scheming. Are you really that desparate you would throw away the opportunity … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 11:17 PM |
| – | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?It's not a relationship it's a situationship. If the only reason your partner is in an intimate relationship with you is through financial coersion or escaping a bad place then it's entire foundation is based on a temporary premise until their financial situation improves. It's just fucking sad man, have some respect for yourself and decency to do better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 06:37 AM |
| -1 | Can we all agree that positive moral attributes such as kindness, sweetness, patience, and selflessness are not *sexually* attractive attributes for men?I respectfully call bullshit. People with arrogant characteristics are just more likely to be insecure liars that derive their sence of self-worth from imaginatiry dick measuring competitions and they lie through their teeth every chanсe they get. It frequently gets to the point where all they do is chase tail and admire themselves, and when they get discovered they present themselves as desperate - not hot. Dark triad men are also expert manipulators and are frequently sociopathic/narcissistic,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 05:45 AM |
| 7 | The bluepilled meme that "communication solves everything" is just a lazy catch-all phraseIf you don't treat your partner as an equal and dont want to talk to them when issues arise you shouldn't be in a relationship at all cause there is no healthy relationship basis to begin with. It's the same as starting a company with someone, if you refuse to discuss issues and find resolutions with your co-founder your business is as good as dead. You are not seeing the answer that is staring right at you, if communication cannot fix your relationship that means there is no relationship, there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 01:20 PM |
| 0 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverYeah, it makes sense the stats for the voluntarily signle and those strugling with dating would be different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 12:47 PM |
| 3 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverIf you google happiness stats for single childless women every single page is about how they are the happiest demographic. https://www.businessinsider.com/unmarried-childless-women-are-happiest-expert-says-2019-5 [https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert\\](https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert\) https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 12:20 PM |
| 7 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Are you happy being in a dysfunctional relationship? If you communicated your needs to your partner and your partner did theirs and you guys didnt reach middle ground that makes both of you happy and one/both of you are not willing to work together then you guys are in a dysfunctional relatonship due to fundamental incompatabilities. Cheating will not make your relationship any healthier it's time to break it off if everything else failed. You cant force this kind of stuff to work out without an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:07 AM |
| 11 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Why would you want to cheat on your partner you silly wanker? If the commitment to your relationship ends the moment you dont get your dick wet on demand then there is no relationship, you are just seeing the person you claim to love as means to an end. Would you want to have forced sex when you are not in the mood/tired? If anyone at all will do as long you get yours then what was even the point to becoming commited to a single person in the first place? Just keep it casual or find a partner wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 08:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV Either sex is presumptively inherently degrading to women OR pumping and dumping a woman is just fine/not immoralIf you dont like a woman enough to be great friends that can spend the majority of their time together sharing movies, shows, playing games or whatever you preffered pass time is and having fun then there is no need for the sex part, you are fundamentaly incompatible to be dating with or without the sex involved. If you are over 20 it's a little bit too late to pretend to be an unaware inexpirienced fool that doesnt understand what dating or a relationship implies or what he wants. One being des… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:07 AM |
| 10 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?Living alone and in peace is really underrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Question for PPD. Do you believe dating is hard as men are making it out to be? Primarily the ones on this sub? Why or why not?The biggest issue I see is people trying to get into relationships without first solving their problems and learning to be happy and standing on your own. How are you gonna make your partner happy if whatever it is you are doing is making you feel lonely and miserable? How are you going to have the time and energy to devote to a healthy relationship if you are barely scraping by or working 2 jobs coming dead tired home? Relationships are very nice and awesome and not much different from deciding… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 04:52 AM |
| 5 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menI mean who is forcing this on you exactly? How many dudes did you compliment casually because you actually liked the way they did something and not as a pathetic attempt at getting hit on. How about women? How many did you compliment without the intention of getting favors in return? Start with yourself and being a positive presence for others. Then maybe you will not feel as invisible as you do now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 11:32 AM |
| 8 | Is crying a turnoff for you?You need to find a big tiddy goth gf to appreciate your sentimental soul. People who ridicule others for expressing their feeling are immature miserable fucks. It takes strength to express vulnerability and honesty and if a partner is putting you down for showing your emotions they are not a good partner and you probably will be be better off without them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Instead of cooking like their mothers, they drink like their fathers. How luxury leads to downfallI couldn't agree more. I am deeply saddened by how horrible the lives and deaths of the future generations will be on our steep way to climate collapse. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Instead of cooking like their mothers, they drink like their fathers. How luxury leads to downfallMost women, if they are capable of empathy, take the lives of their children into consideration before bringing them here. Currently most women postpone children exactly because they cant afford to give them a good life and that is a good thing. If you position your happiness above the misery of your offspring that's exactly the definition of selfishness. It will only make the woman happy for a little while. It's literal biology to kill those we oppose, fight those who are of different color and… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 06:39 PM |
| -2 | Instead of cooking like their mothers, they drink like their fathers. How luxury leads to downfallThere is not a single selfless reason to bring kids here. Those who claim otherwise are delusional in their pursuit of a family no matter the cost. All the new generations will only suffer even more with how the world is set right now. We are set for an economic depression worse than ever seen before and a huge portion of the population wont be able to get a job, they will live their whole life in poverty, slave laboring their life away. Suffocating in overcrowded cities and methane\CO2 filled a… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 06:26 PM |
| -27 | Instead of cooking like their mothers, they drink like their fathers. How luxury leads to downfallHaving children is the most selfish act a woman is capable of, you will be empty with or without them. Such is our psyche of never ending wants and needs, they will never be satiated. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 12:41 PM |
| -17 | Choose Wisely: A Coomer ManifestoYeah sure, calling survival porn a symbol of greatness is so much less shallow than indulging in other pleasures, gtfo. You are not the pinnacle of creation, get over yourself. If there was anything that the thousand years of perseverance and hard work was leading to this is exactly it. Let us be the last humans who could experience all the pleasures to finally see through our animal programming and embrace nihilism. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/20 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Men are fucking up the game by fucking ugly girls, fat girls, single moms, and other starter girlfriends.Imagine thinking women need dick that bad lol Ever been turned down by a woman that by some arbitrary standards is "beneath" you? It's because she wasn't interested in you period. Same goes to guys passing on women. It has nothing to do with your specific looks, different people like different things. I for example absolutely hate dark hair or brown eyes and no amount of other positive qualities will make me view the bearer of those traits in a sexual way. Some don't like blonds or red heads wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 12:45 PM |
| 11 | I’m 40 divorced and only want a tall man that will give me a child. Oh and I want to move soon to a warmer beach state.Not all women get menopause at the same time, 40 doesn't necessarily mean she wont be able to have kids. Tremendously harder? Yep Impossible? No My good friend who is now 24 was birthed late by his mom who was 47 at the time. She didn't actually think she could have kids, she was severely malnourished since childhood and lived in a really poor family and always had issues with her periods which sometimes could be missing for months. She kind of gave up on the idea that she would have a typical f… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/04/20 07:15 AM |
| 1 | What do you all think about this graph?It's exactly the matter of what you are offering and what you are getting. Sex is transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 09:42 AM |
| 1 | What do you all think about this graph?By taking your analogy It's like complaining that no one barters your food because the one you give in return is bad. You can always make food on your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/19 10:54 AM |
| 7 | Why should we even bother dating men?Preach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 03:54 PM |
| 4 | What do you all think about this graph?You underestimate how shitty sex for a fem can be. Many dudes have no fucking idea what they are doing besides smooching and shoving his dick up them holes. I would probably prefer working in the mines for an hour instead of those 3 cringe minutes of dog motion that are just meh. It's not a privilege, its utter disgust and a waste of time. No wonder women are opting out of this disgraceful act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/19 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Men need to be more STRICT with setting female weight requirements. 135 lb and up is too HEAVYTrue that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/19 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Men need to be more STRICT with setting female weight requirements. 135 lb and up is too HEAVYF 25 here overweight. Can confirm losing weight on keto & IF is super easy. Lost 35lbs at the the start of the year just in 2,5 months, if I would have kept doing it I would reach my goal by the end of this year. Unfortunately it's not worth the effort. I got more male attention than I did before but that's not what I was after. I certainly didn't want to be with a guy that previously we were just friends with but now that I'm on track of losing weight he would suddenly view me as a romantic int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/19 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Why should women feel sorry for the current sexlessness epidemic?Nah, they would find something else to be displeased with and shift blame on women again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 02:27 AM |
| 1 | QforWomen: does a single one of you or any woman you know.....Sure, just as an example imagine a casual Friday with friends drinking themselves into oblivion and they bring their friends that you didn't meet before. The guy that will push deep conversations and talk about interesting stuff (like his passion,work or hobbies) will grasp my attention even if his looks are mediocre at best compared to the handsome guy who just sits there quiet or worse spitting out some nonsense and complaining about life. Chances of me drunk fucking with the interesting dude … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 04:23 AM |
| -1 | QforWomen: does a single one of you or any woman you know.....Intelligence is top, smarts & jokes are second, charming personality is third and only after all of that looks come into the equation. Without the first 3 there is no point in looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Does one gender need the other more then the reverse?More women than ever choose not to have any. Unmarried childless women are actually reported as the happiest demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How do women feel about men who had a vasectomy? And have no desire to reverse it.It took me 2 minutes to google that what you are stating is not true. "One of the common concerns for people considering a vasectomy is impotence, or erectile dysfunction (ED), which is the inability to sustain an erection or ejaculate. However, the risk for impotency from this procedure is extremely rare. Some men even report better sex lives after vasectomy, according to the International Federation of Gynecology and Obstetrics (FIGO)." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 02:20 PM |
| 3 | How do women feel about men who had a vasectomy? And have no desire to reverse it.Since when does a vasectomy make you impotent? You can still have kids since the procedure is reversible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm A Strong, Single Independent Woman and I'm SadThis article is so obviously written by a guy lol. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/09/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | For real though, what’s the point of even being a red pill woman in today’s world?at sex and hook up culture rules our relationships now. For every woman who participates in this, there’s a man who’s joining it as well. The majority of young men (I’m gen z) don’t actually care about a good, loving woman, they want a hot broad they can Cause relationships are now rudimentary. You don't need a man to raise a kid if you really want one. We live in a consumerism word, no wonder humans are treated as products to use and dispose off. You might as well give up on the idea of prince … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Monogamous relationships are necessary for survival of western civilization.When I was still on the search for a SO (I was blind to the fact that I don't actually need one and that I was peer pressured to be with someone) my dating pool was filled with men that want to marry and eventually have kids which was a deal-breaker for me and lowered my choices to a very niche group of incompatible people. Contrary to the the OP's post heterosexual monogamy is still the mainstream ideal for most people. You are right about LTR being for the sake of children although you can rai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 07:32 PM |
| 8 | Monogamous relationships are necessary for survival of western civilization.I don't have kids and I never want to have any so what you said makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Monogamous relationships are necessary for survival of western civilization.Yep, relationships are outdated and are in no way beneficial for individuals. There is no point in having LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What happens to the increasingly large amount of "left behind" & undesirable men in the dating marketplace? Fallout for society?Why were they still employed if they don't do any work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Why are record numbers of young women interested in becoming nuns?I'm a 25 year old woman who chose the life of celibacy precisely because of uncertainty and emotional unavailability from men, so you have a point there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 12:16 AM |
| 0 | Anyone have a backup of the okcupid study that showed that 80% of women are pursuing 20% of the guys? The blog post has been taken down forever.I'm a woman using Tinder and recently started using OkCupid. What guys don't understand about this study is that for women looks of guys don't matter as much. Of course a girl is not going to rate a guy a 9 or 10 judging solely on his looks, there are many more variables that were not counted in this study. | /r/BlackPillScience | 01/05/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | I will never forgive society for lying to me, about the need to abandon my childhood hobbies and dreams, in order to trap me into becoming a provider, and a slave to a broken system of relationships-marriage-divorce rape. YOU FAILED MOTHERFUCKERS. I refuse to "grow up". I will NEVER surrender.At first I worked on 2 jobs to be able to pay for my mom's chemo treatment of stage 3 cancer. Doctors told us she wouldn't live for more than a year, she lived nearly 4 but in a lot of pain. Now I'm working so much because it's a habit at this point. Every time I am at home I grieve and I want to die, so I stay at work busy to keep my thoughts occupied. I don't care about a "knight" and you are right, I am bad shit ugly, something like a 3 probably. I'm here to understand the shift in human sexu… | /r/MGTOW | 04/04/19 01:54 PM |
| 0 | What was the biggest revelation you had about womenOh, thank you! | /r/MGTOW | 04/04/19 01:40 PM |
| 0 | I will never forgive society for lying to me, about the need to abandon my childhood hobbies and dreams, in order to trap me into becoming a provider, and a slave to a broken system of relationships-marriage-divorce rape. YOU FAILED MOTHERFUCKERS. I refuse to "grow up". I will NEVER surrender.Good for you man! It's great that you are living in the highlight of your life and take care of yourself, I'm not here to judge or to discredit the choices people make. I wanted to open the discussion but it's looks like users here see this as some kind of a personal attack on them, which was not my intent. Yeah alright you have a lot of potential and some interesting experience, cool, but what does the smirk at the end of your life actually mean? The way I see it is "I was a prime guy and every… | /r/MGTOW | 04/04/19 10:00 AM |
| -6 | I will never forgive society for lying to me, about the need to abandon my childhood hobbies and dreams, in order to trap me into becoming a provider, and a slave to a broken system of relationships-marriage-divorce rape. YOU FAILED MOTHERFUCKERS. I refuse to "grow up". I will NEVER surrender.I'm a childfree myself, ever tried playing devil's advocate to look at stuff from different perspectives and feed your insecurities? | /r/MGTOW | 04/04/19 04:40 AM |
| -10 | I will never forgive society for lying to me, about the need to abandon my childhood hobbies and dreams, in order to trap me into becoming a provider, and a slave to a broken system of relationships-marriage-divorce rape. YOU FAILED MOTHERFUCKERS. I refuse to "grow up". I will NEVER surrender.Umm, nope you misunderstood everything I wrote by generalising the shit of what I said and by stroking your wounded ego. I would elaborate but I doubt you are interested so just you know - you did not understand what and why I said at all. | /r/MGTOW | 04/04/19 03:35 AM |
| -13 | I will never forgive society for lying to me, about the need to abandon my childhood hobbies and dreams, in order to trap me into becoming a provider, and a slave to a broken system of relationships-marriage-divorce rape. YOU FAILED MOTHERFUCKERS. I refuse to "grow up". I will NEVER surrender.Hedonism might destroy you. At some point of your live you might look back at all the fun time you had and see that it had no actual value. I'm not saying fun times aren't important, but your memories and experience will die with you eventually if you don't adopt responsibility, have kids do some meaningful work, etc. that will outlive you. As soon as you embrace your mortality you will spiral into an existential abyss without those things. It's your choice how to live your life, but you have on… | /r/MGTOW | 04/04/19 12:53 AM |
| -3 | What was the biggest revelation you had about womenYou are delusional mate. Why would it matter? Those 200 million would be gone in around 60 years without a trace, no need to do nothing. Of course the government is supporting family units (primarily females and children ofc), there is no point in a government if there is no nation to rule over. I'm not trying to argue with you, I genuinely want to understand your point of view. Female 24 years. I'm just lurking in this sub since I find it interesting. | /r/MGTOW | 04/04/19 12:25 AM |
| 1 | TOXIC tinder commercial: girl travels alone around the world meeting Chads. the entire WORLD is now any girl's instantaneous cock carouselI'm sorry your experience with women built this attitude your having towards them. What can I offer? Well I can cook you something nice and give you a tour around my city. If your not into that kinda stuff I dunno...I could 3d sculpt your dick as an option? Or a painting maybe? Than again it's not healthy to treat people as a "service". Looks like you had quite the share of bitterness in your life so I wish you luck to find your happiness. | /r/MGTOW | 02/04/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | TOXIC tinder commercial: girl travels alone around the world meeting Chads. the entire WORLD is now any girl's instantaneous cock carouselYeah the sad reality is not that Tinder has an appeal but because there is no dating culture left outside of dating apps. | /r/MGTOW | 31/03/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | TOXIC tinder commercial: girl travels alone around the world meeting Chads. the entire WORLD is now any girl's instantaneous cock carouselYeah, I think it totally does. I wouldn't call it tricking into free meals, guys usually suggest paying for everything as a gesture to make their dates like them more. If their only intent is to fuck, aren't they trying to deceive their dates into having sex for a meal not telling that they wouldn't pay for it otherwise upfront? I think tinder is for whatever you want it to be for. I myself am looking for a long-term fuck buddy, something like good friends with benefits, I am totally against hoo… | /r/MGTOW | 31/03/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | TOXIC tinder commercial: girl travels alone around the world meeting Chads. the entire WORLD is now any girl's instantaneous cock carouselWho said anything about sex? (Tinder female user here) this ad is to bait more women into the app, it's a fantasy of traveling and getting guys to pay and entertain you. There is nothing directly suggesting you have to have sex in order to achieve that. | /r/MGTOW | 31/03/19 01:51 PM |
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