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| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themHow can men put in more effort to be taller? But if we prefer skinny women over fat women, suddenly we're monsters. No one shames women's preferences. But men's preferences are always shamed. Sure you can be attracted to taller men but you can't complain when men are attracted to younger skinny women. Men shouldn't have to put in special effort to attract women because women don't have to put in any effort to attract men. Why are men always responsible for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:46 PM |
| -2 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.There is no "orgasm gap" or "pay gap" or unequal "unpaid labor" or any of the other hundreds of things women like to whine about. Women are like children, they hate having to act like adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:33 PM |
| 7 | Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for helpThat's the whole issue. Is women see being an adult as "unpaid labor". Whereas when men have to do everything because we live alone or our wife works, we don't complain. Childcare and household chores are not work and if you view it that way, maybe you shouldn't be a parent or have a home. Stop complaining about being an adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyNot really. Society expects men to take accountability and when we don't it's always our fault. Society is easier on women. And when women don't take accountability, it's always because a man victimised her. Women are not held to the same standards as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 08:34 PM |
| 57 | Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for helpReading the commets here from women, it's clear women don't care about men and boys. All the shift is put back on women and girls. One of the key points of feminism is hating men. Feminsts say they want equal treatment but they don't. I called a domestic abuse hotline once to talk about an abusive girlfriend I had once and they said "we only help victims, not perpartrators". They assumed I wasn't a victim because I'm male. That's the feminist ideal. There are no domestic violence shelters for me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 05:15 PM |
| 0 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?I never said that I wouldn't help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:04 AM |
| -1 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?I'd like a loyal, respectful woman whom doesn't emotionally abuse me because she thinks she does more, who is good to my kids, one who doesn't complain about housework, cooking or childcare, who has similar interests to me, doesn't care that I have my own hobbies, allows me to rest when I need to, likes me as a person instead of what I can provide for her, doesn't constantly need validation, is nice to service workers, is calm and chill, doesn't get overly emotional or stressed about nonsense, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:33 PM |
| 1 | The root of misogyny is jealousy.I'm not jealous of any of that. I am jealous of women's special privledges they get though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Question for men: How many women did you approach in 2026?40, none. But I have been approached. I'm not interested in a relationship. I like my stuff too much to have it taken away or destoryed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 04:46 AM |
| -2 | If you could be born as a woman instead, would you?What exactly is the motherhood penalty? If you don't want kids, don't have them. Motherhood or fatherhood is not a burden. And if you see it that way. Please don't have kids. What reproductive burden? Again, parenthood is not a burden. Men have harsher beauty standards than women. The only things that's partially accurate is physical weakness. But even then, as a former gym goer, I know plenty of women whom are stronger than me. Everything, maybe except periods, is easier being a woman. Women ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 04:43 AM |
| 0 | Women have delusions of grandeur in relationshipsYeah, women think being an adult is work. Women don't do more in relationships, they just like to think household chores count as work. And they like to think they are always a victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Would people view Forrest Gump differently if genders were swapped?It would be the same. Manipulative man strings along disabiled women and gives her his kid to raise right before he dies. It's bad either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:18 AM |
| 9 | Why is there such a massive asymmetry in how men pursue women vs. how women pursue men?Men aren't picky. Men will date anyone. Women are extremely picky and always want the bigger better deal that benefits them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?At least $300,000, and as long as they were disease free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 06:05 PM |
| 3 | It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcoholFeminists don't care about men and boys who are sexually assaulted or abused snd neither does society. I've been both sexually abused by women as a child and sexually assaulted by women while too drunk to consent. (Which is why I don't drink anymore). Feminists were the first ones to laugh at me, while other men said I was lucky. Whenever men mention men or boys who are sexually abused or assaulted, women always chime in with "yeah but it happens to women and girls more" or "yeah but it was prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 05:25 AM |
| – | Is working for a living more traumatizing than being sexually assaulted?Um...no. I'm a male with a history of sexual assault and abuse as a child. Trust me, it affects men too. I would argue sexual abuse and assault effects men more than women. Working isn't traumatizing. It's just what adults do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Misandrist feminists do not exist.Modern feminism isn't about equality. It's about hating men, special treatment, and zero accoutability. All modern feminists are misandrists. Feminism used to be about equality. But that was 70 years ago. It is no longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 08:35 AM |
| 1 | What has your actual lived experience/ challenges with dating been like?Actually, I've had no trouble dating. On the apps, I found six dates in less than a year before I met my now ex-wife of 9 years. I have also now been approached by seven women asking for my number since my divorce 8 years ago without trying. I've of course rejected them all. I am no longer interested. I'm tired of the games women play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 08:30 AM |
| 3 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?Women chose the bear. I stopped caring a long time ago. I'm not dating, I'm single and happy and plan to stay that way. I care too much about my money and my stuff to have it destoryed or taken in a divorce. I have kids and I don't want more, so women are basically useless to me now. It's funny too, because since I stopped trying, I've now had seven women approach me for the purpose of a date. I wish I was more attractive just so I could reject more women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 08:24 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to chores, it's not that men won't help out/pull their weight. Women just hate to see men relaxing.Women can't stand that men can do nothing. It drives them crazy. They always have to do something. Child care and housework isn't work. It's called being an adult. Men also don't see housework at vital. The dishes can sit overnight and I promise to women, the world won't end. Men will do housework, but we do it on our time. It's not urgent. Men also stop helping because women complain about how its done. If I'm helping you, man or woman, you don't get to complain how it gets done. Women always o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 08:17 AM |
| 0 | "The patriarchy hurts everyone" can also be understood as "our biological realities are challenging".There is no patriarchy. At least not in the United States, most of the Americas, Canada, Austraila and Western Europe. It's just an excuse western women came up with so they can hate men and avoid accoutability. If you want a patriarchy go to Africa or the Middle East. Western women have no idea how good they really have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 03:16 AM |
| 1 | My husband says most men only want one thing. Is he right?This is the problem with religion. It poisons the mind. No, not all men are looking for sex. This idea in Islam is sexist toward BOTH men and women. It treats women like sex objects and men like irresponsible creeps who can't control thrmselves. Its stupid like all things in religion are. I hope you can someday escape Islam and come to reality. I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for.Why when there's a conflict in a relationship, it's always what the man needs to do better? What do you offer? If you want the princess treatment, than act like you are deserving of it. Be a virgin, be submissive, know how to cook and clean and not whine about it, be skinny, bring peace into a man's life, learn how to communicate, etc. You can't expect to be treated like you're the best thing since sliced bread if you think all men are trash and you don't provide any qualities that men look for.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonAs you can tell by the women's comments here, women don't really love anyone but themselves. Especially not men. For them, it's all about them being victims and thinking everyone owes them something. "What can the world do for me?". It's really sad that feminism has turned women against men and convinced them they don't have to be held accountable for anything. Just watch all the hate comments I'll probably get... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?I think women and men need to date within their means. If you're ugly, don't expect the hottest guy or girl to give you attention. Be realistic in your standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 04:01 AM |
| 2 | If men focus on compatibility, they wouldn’t have to ‘play jester’ and be ‘Dance Monkeys’ on dates.This only works if you are already good looking. Even ugly women now think they are entitled to the best looking man. Men simply do more in a relationship. But everything thinks women do more because that's what we're constantly told by women. Men have to initiate, set uo dates, pay for everything, work two jobs and put up with women complaining they don't do anything. Sure you can choose not to do these things. But then you won't get any attention from entitled women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Men need to start leaving women alone.Yes we do, and a lot of us have. But then you get women online constantly complaining they get no male attention. So which is it? Do they want us to leave women alone or not? This is why I've stopped dating. I'm not looking for mind games women play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 09:09 PM |
| 0 | It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spellThat's because women start cheating on you months before you break up. When a woman leaves, she already has someone else in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Guys are to blame for expensive datesMy first date with my wife was at a bookstore with a coffee shop where we got coffee. It was fine. But its not men demanding $100-$200 dates, it's modern women. Then we get ghosted. And women say "where are all the good men at" like it's not their fault for running them off. On the dates I've went on after my divorce I always go to the same bookstore. If that's not good enough, then I've dodged a bullet. Modern women now use dates to get her AND her friends a free meal. Once I went on a date to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 03:30 PM |
| 5 | Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating?Women complain all the time about dating men. I personally don't care what women do as long as they leave me alone. But if a woman is complaining, "where are all the good men at" then maybe she needs to look at herself. If all the men you've dated were bad, maybe it's a you problem. There are a LOT more good men than there are good women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Yes, not all men, but also it happens frequently and randomly enough to keep your guard upIt really doesn't happen as often as some women like to claim. The guy on the bus could have been schizophrenic and paranoid. People like that tend to look around a lot. How do you know specifically, he was looking at you? I look behind me all the time when I'm in public because I have paranoia like that. I'm not saying he wasn't checking you out. Maybe he was. But not all men who look at you are checking you out. As for the catcalling that, I agree, is inappropirate. But I also ask where do the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.Men have advocated for men's issues. But everytime we do feminists claim we're being misgyonistic and anti-woman. Everytime a man has an issue, it's somehow seen as misgyonistic. When the first fundraiser for prostate cancer was formed, feminists had a shit fit. Men can't do anything that benefits men without feminists acting like they are a victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseTypical narrative. But its not true. Only the top percentage of men that women go after are like that. Most men want a stable long term relationship with mutual respect and love and not just sex, just like women. But those men are ignored or friend zoned. There are tons of good men. But women don't want good men like they claim. That's because there are so few good women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 10:54 PM |
| -1 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenClearly you don't have children. I love my children more than anything. They are the only reason I keep on living. They bribg me happiness and joy. If you don't want kids that's your desicion. But I've always wantes kids and I wouldn't trade them for anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 03:15 PM |
| 1 | “There are more good men than good women” and “a good man is just an average woman” - what is the metric for good in these statements[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 06:49 PM |
| 1 | It's better to be the mistress than the wifeWomen cheat more than men. If you want an equal effort partner, women, you need to communicate better. Most men will do what you want if you just flipping ask. But you can't expect us to read your mind. Women tend to see everything as urgent. The dishes must be done now! The trash must be taken out now! Women need to learn to relax. Like my 14 year old says, it's not that deep. If you want something, do I have to treat you like a toddler and say "use your words"? Women expect men to do everythin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative womenYeah it must be my fault. Women take no accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative womenI agree. But all women cheat eventually if given enough time and oppurtunity. I've dated and been married to virgin women and whores, all of them have cheated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Apparently, men dehumanizing women is a normal part of male sexuality.Holding women accountable to the same standards as men have always been held to is not "dehumanizing women". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 06:02 PM |
| -1 | Should conditions that affect only women, like painful menstrual periods, legally qualify for workplace accommodations?Did she have endometriosis? That is very painful. But periods, while painful, aren't usually deblitating. Take some midol and suck it up. I have severe migraines, I would always get one at my last job. But I delt with it. I took medicine and moved on. I broke my back in 2018. I take medicine for it now. Once at my previous job my back hurt so much I was literally on the floor screaming. I took another pill and sat on my heating pad. It got managable enough to complete the day. Being a woman isn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 03:08 AM |
| 4 | The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women.True. Women complain about everything they have to do, but yet when we try to help they stop us, say we're doing it wrong, then end up doing it themselves. Why ask for help if your going to complain about how it gets done? In addition, men do more work outside the home. Some men work 60 hours and come home to a wive that complains he never does anything. I used to work 14 hour shifts at a very stressful taxing job. My wife would make sure everything was done when I got home and have dinner for m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 02:58 AM |
| 6 | Men could literally wake up one day and repress all the women on earth, men have 0 reason to be upset at women's behaviors.Men are not secretly out to get you. You obviously were hurt by a man at least once so you think all men are bad. I understand. I've been hurt by women since I was 4 and I've always seen women as bad. Men have a lot more to fear from women than women do from men. I have ample reason to be upset at women's behavior. Women are worse than men in their bad behavior because they know they can get away with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 09:53 PM |
| – | Women love therapy culture until they actually have to practice what they preach.Its funny because in reality it's women that don't communicate, expect us ro read their mind and get mad if we dare express how we feel. Women only care about what benefits them. And, no, I have never met a woman that's not like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 09:37 PM |
| 15 | GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes.I don't see why ordering a fruity drink or dessert is feminine. Are men not allowed to like sweets. I always get dessert if I have the money. And how tf else are we supposed to tie our shoes? Women just need to take accoutability and admit they are just not attracted to that person instead of blaming something stupid. Women want traditional men but don't want to be traditional women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 09:32 PM |
| 3 | There will never be a solution to stoping men cold approaching women. Because certain people of a gender demographic suffer from cognitive dissonance.I think women don't know what they want. They change their mind each day. Women and men choosing to be single and not have kids is not good for society at large. And it seems most people don't realize why. There isn't an overpopulation, we actually need more people in some parts of the world. We need kids to grow up to run things. Businesses will fold, governments will not function well, prices of everything will go up, military and police numbers will go down. And so fourth. It has nothing to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Do men underestimate how often women are optimizing for risk reduction rather than attraction?Men are at greater risk pursuing a relationship than women. Women just have to always be the victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 02:13 AM |
| 8 | Starting to believe that the man needs to love the woman moreComplete bs. Men love more than women. Women will be over a divorce or break up within days no matter how long the relationship and move on to their next victim. Men take years to get over a divorce or break up and some never do. I still am in love with my ex-wife after 8 years of being separated. (I still have to see her because we have kids and we are good friends now). Women would call this "pathetic" but that's exactly my point. Men love deeper and longer than women do. Women are only happy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 07:48 PM |
| – | Why do you think women want to talk to men?We constantly hear manipulation tatics from women saying if they say no, but you look good and they secretly like you, you should try again. But if you're ugly, than no means no. So, which is it? I don't care at all if women don't want to talk to men. Good. We don't want to pay you half our income in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 08:18 AM |
| 1 | A womans lack of effort is not a sign for you to try harder.I agree. But then we see women all the time say that if we don't succeed the first time we should try again. Women are manipulative in that way. But this is only true if you look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 08:13 AM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themThis is why I stopped dating and being around women entirely. I avoid women in public, and I will never be alone with any woman ever again that I don't know well. These women should recieve the same punishment the man would get if the incident were true, plus millions in a civil suit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 02:34 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.I've never met a woman who either cared or didn't make fun of me for sexual trauma by a woman when I was a child. Men are not any better making fun of men with sexual trauma as children--especially by women. So if women do care about men's issues like sexual abuse, I haven't met one yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 05:32 PM |
| 0 | There's nothing women bring to the table other than reproductionThere is a very small minority of women that are actually decent and worthy of respect. But most women are emotionally abusive and bring nothing into a relationship worth anything. Modern women tend to only care about themselves and how they can use men to their benefit. And, yes, I have had experience with lots of women. If there is a woman under 40 that is decent and worthy of respect, I have not met them yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 12:42 PM |
| 1 | What options do high income women have?I love it as long as you're still respectful and fun to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:37 PM |
| 10 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyI like how women always create problems like this and then get mad about them. Irl this isn't a real issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:14 PM |
| 1 | The rejection that women go through is worse than that of menLol. Sure. Only chads will string you along like that. If 2s and 3s didn't think they were perfect 10s and went after guys in their league, this wouldn't happen. And I've rejected several women right away. Women don't have to deal with rejection because they have endless options. Men have very few if any options. If a guy strings you along you can just move on to the next one. Men can't do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 04:02 PM |
| – | Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters.Lol. Whatever you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: when was the last time you were too intimidated by a woman's beauty to approach?I've never approached a woman in public. But I have been approached by women (and gay men) before. It's annoying to say the least. I'm not intimidated by women, but I am afraid of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 06:45 PM |
| 8 | Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters.Men are sexualized in the media too. But they don't make as big of a deal about it. I would argue men are more sexualized in the media than women are. But no one cares about men's issues so no one brings it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 06:42 PM |
| 2 | For a lot of lonely guys, they’re incapable of being good boyfriends….because they choose not to be.There's nothing wrong with putting trash by the door. But there is something wrong with expecting someone else to do it without saying anything. Plus, if you can take the trash to the door, then just take the trash out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Men who gave up, why are you still here ?Hopefully to warn other men. And I like to see the delusional comments from both sides. It's entertaining. The only good thing I've ever gotten out of a woman is my children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | For a lot of lonely guys, they’re incapable of being good boyfriends….because they choose not to be.Its usually the woman that's the problem. Wonen say men don't communicate, but in reality it's women that don't communicate. You expect us to pick up on your subtle hints instead of just asking us. Instead of putting the trash by the door, and not saying anything, use your words like used to tell my toddler and ask us to take the trash out. Men don't see things as urgent as women do. Yes, we know it needs to go out but its not life or death. Women need to learn to relax and stop acting lile spoi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 04:55 PM |
| 0 | Men who want casual sex, why women should want that?Why do women create fake problems, then get angry about them and instead of being accountable, blame men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 03:18 PM |
| 2 | What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it?How'd you get that out of what I said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 07:49 PM |
| -1 | What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it?Because women always have to have something to complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 06:52 PM |
| -2 | What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it?There's no such thing. Just like the fake wage gap, it's just something femenists made up so they could have something to complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Why Men’s Rights Often Don’t Get Taken SeriouslyWomen can be just as threatening as men. I've been attacked by women many times. Especially as a child. The point is no men's issues get taken seriously. While, women whine about something they already have. But equal rights, doesn't mean equal results. You have to put in the work too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Why should women treat you like a Chad ?I just want women to leave me alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?You told us to leave you alone, remember? So we listened. Women aren't worth it anymore. Marriage that will lead to divorce can ruin a man's life. Whereas women literally get paid to divorce. Marriage is only benefical to women. It has nothing to do with getting sex. Today's women have nothing to offer men. Women uses to be decent, and respectable. Not the case anymore. Go ask the bear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys are confused about what women want because they’re not honest about what they themselves want (which is just sex).Most men want the same thing women what. A respectful, caring and honest relationship. The issue is women don't go after most men. They only look at the top 20% or less in terms of looks and resources. Most men are honest about what they want. That's not your exoerience because of only giving the top men a chance. Of course men who look good to women are going to mostly go after sex. Because they can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 01:55 PM |
| -1 | Men are more interested in sex than women are interested in money.Not all men want sex all the time. Maybe you should choose your men better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 01:41 PM |
| 8 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?Not true. Men are seen as predatory just for existing, or taking care of their own children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 06:32 PM |
| 41 | Why are men less willing to help each other than women?If women want to help kids they are seen as caring and nurturing. If men want to help kids we are seen as predatory or pedophiles. That's why. I would love to get a job or volunteer to help kids again, but I don't want people to see me as predatory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Males should be told to dress betterNo one should be pressured into doing anything they aren't comfortable with. How many parties do you actually go to that this would even be an issue? Who really goes to a lot of parties? The last time I went to a party that didn't involve family was 2007 in college. I don't dress up for anyone. If people don't like it they can go fuck themselves. Because of the sensitive nature of my job, I'm actually required to dress down and wear plain cloths so I'm not easily recognizable by those whom don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Why do you think women attracted to majority of guys?The halo effect. Good looking people in general are unconsciously seen as more trustworthy and better people. This is especially true for men. Women want to be taken care of even if they aren't willing to admit it. Because of the halo effect good looking men are precieved to be better providers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 09:45 PM |
| 6 | What are some things women dont understand about you?--Men don't always want to have sex. Sometimes we're just not in the mood, just like women. --Most single men want the same thing single women want. A meaningful relationship. --We sometimes get erections for no reason and it doesn't mean we're always in the mood just because we have one. This is especially true in teens and young adults. --Men aren't afraid of commitment...women are. 85% of divorces are initiated by women. Men are only afraid of marriage because we don't want a divorce to ruin … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingIn healthly relationships, something foreign to most women, couples will enjoy doing nice things for each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Do men care about confidence in women?Yes. But confidence should not be confused with arrogance. Confidence to me is being mild mannered, relaxed, worry-free, and able to carry on a conversation. I think most men would agree those traits are a good start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 05:11 PM |
| 0 | People who are jealous of women, no you are not.2 mg haldol might help you. And people call me crazy... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Don’t Underestimate Good Hygiene.Hygiene is of course important when finding a potiential partner. You don't want to be the smelly person. But someone who's good looking, but poorly maintained is still more likely to get attention from women then an ugly, well maintained guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 04:35 PM |
| 7 | If its offensive when women say it about men, then be offended when men say the same thing.Then you shouldn't complain either when men point out the things they hear from women about men. Men call out each other all the time. But if we even mention a negative thing a woman did, we get labled misogynistic. Women almost never call out other women for their bad behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Men: tell me about your fatherMy father was the only stable, non-abusive caregiver I had in my life. He got custody of my brother and I when we were 4 because my mother was a drunk and tried to kill herself. He is a great persom, took care of us well. Not just physical needs, but emotional needs as well. Even though my step mother was abusing me when he wasn't aware, I felt like I could rely on him. One fault I my say is he's a little naive and oblivious. Sometimes I resent him for not noticing I was being abused. But he did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 12:12 PM |
| -2 | Men can’t say that women are wrong for worrying about their safety and at the same time that it’s dangerous for them.Most men have more to fear from women than most women do from men. You're free to worry about your safety. But this attitude has led to the feminists claiming they should "kill all men" or "all male infants should get a vasectomy at birth", or "false alligations are good for men", "or men should pay child support for kids that aren't theirs", "men should be assaulted", "boys can't be sexually abused or assaulted" "women can't rape" "men can't be raped" And more misandrist nonsense. You may not t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 12:02 PM |
| 0 | Self improvement is the only true antidote to romantic lonelinessI don't want a relationship because my stuff is too important to me to have it taken away and I don't want to have to deal with the emotional abuse all women bring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 01:00 AM |
| 4 | Women can't be victims of the male gaze, and also don't care about male validation at same time.Women still have to listen to beauty standards for them as do men for them, mostly from the idiotic boomers. For example, I am growing out my beard for a year, six months to go. But I still have to hear it from my boomer dad how I should be clean shaven for work. (Even though literally every man at my work has a beard as long or longer than mine). Women may wear make-up for themselves, but that doesn't mean they are not influenced by society and beauty standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Self improvement is the only true antidote to romantic lonelinessI partially disagree only because it seems modern women want things that can't be improved with anything. Like height, and money. I agree partially because on rare occasions, something like going back to the gym to improve physical looks or working on you communication skills can help. I've been approached several times by women since I started going back to the gym. The most recent was at the grocery store. I of course rejected all of them because I don't want another relationship, ever. If you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 05:01 PM |
| 1 | You don't "deserve" to be treated like Chad because you aren't ChadCorrect. And women don't deserve to be treated like the Queen of England just for existing. The problem isn't that average guys want to be treated like "Chad". Its that below average women think they deserve "Chad". Every women under 40 thinks she's a 10. While in reality most women, just like men, are maybe a 4, if that. Men don't want to be treated like Chad, we just want respect that women would show to Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not ThereWhy is all responsibility always put on men. Maybe the reason women can't find a good man is because they are not a good woman. In reality, most people are bad people. But from my experience, women are a lot worse. 85% of divorces are initiated by women. 73% of lesbian relationships, 50% ish of straight relationships and 24% of gay relationships end in divorce. Lesbian relationships have the highest rate of child abuse and domestic violence, whereas gay relationships have the least. Maybe men ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do men here cry about Casual sex?Believe it or not, not all men care about sex, or who is getting sex. It's not that women are having more casual sex. It's that women have better and more options for casual sex. Most women can easily get sex whenever they want to. Most men can't. I think that's the point that's trying to be made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:34 PM |
| – | For less desirable men, if you find out a woman is sexually abusive (eg she SAs people), do you believe her targeting you becomes more likely or do you assume that her "standards" for victimizing people is the same as her ordinary standards?All sexual predators are more likely to abuse others regaurdless of sex, age, looks, or any other characteristic than those who never have. Sexual predation isn't generally about sex. Its about control over a weaker person. Women who sexually abuse and assault people do it for the same reason men do, power and control. I was sexually abused as a child by a woman, sexually assaulted by a woman in my teens and later in adulthood. I don't think either of them cared what I looked like (especially as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't into men and that's a good thingI think its more men who are choosing to stay single. We've realized how toxic modern women are and decided to stay single. We always hear "where are all the good men" when party girls realize they are still single at 35. We're at home playing video games in peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Would you be better than women at vetting guys?Yes. Women will ignore red flags if a man has money and is attractive. Men look for red flags in women, especially if they are attractive. Attractive women have the most red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 04:46 PM |
| 1 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?To get your bills paid...because modern women think that's all men are good for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | How can men avoid rape allegations?Just avoid women when you can. Sex isn't as great as every guy seems to make it out to be. If you avoid them, it makes it harder for them to abuse you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 06:45 PM |
| 8 | Dating is not as hard for men as they claimMen say yes to 85% of dating profiles on dating apps. Women say yes to 15% of dating profiles on dating apps. Yes, is it much, much easier for a woman to get a date than a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently?Women will take men's stuff and destory it just to be spiteful. Which is why if I ever get married again I'm going to require a prenuptial argreement that we keep our money and stuff we came into the relationship with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 03:25 PM |
| -1 | Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently?Marriage has absolutely no benefit for men and we don't want to lose half our stuff when you get bored, cheat and we get a divorce. Plus, women literally get paid for divorce. Which is why they initiate 85% of divorces. Women don't know how to be loyal to good men. That's why good men are stepping away. You told us to leave you alone. We listened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Do you think average men can treat average women poorly? Do you think men always treat women "in their league" well?Anyone can treat anyone poorly. It doesn't matter what you look like, your age, sex or gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Should women be “giving guys a chance”?No one should give anyone a chance that they are not interested in. I used to think women were crazy when some said men just need to work on themselves. Well I have been doing that for five years and been approached by women six times. I was actually approached by a gay man too. Personally I'm not interested in a relationship anymore. So, guys, just get a gym membership, keep up your hygeine, and stop trying so hard. Once I stopped caring, women came to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Women are excluded far less than men are in the modern WestToday women make up a higher precentage of college graduates. Does that mean men's rights are being effected? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 07:56 PM |
| – | You can't debate a person that doesn't care about romantic relationships.Your cousin is right. Why be obessed over relationships that aren't yours. Unless its illegal, who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How many cold approached have you made in the last week?None. I was, however approached in the grocery store at the beginning of July. I don't approach women, and I never have. The only women I've dated are within my friends circle, except for my ex-wife whom I met on a dating app. Women under 40 bring nothing good to a relationship and are not worth the time and effort. Reddit is not a good indicator to judge an entire section of the population. Most men don't approach at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Those of you 30+ and are/were single at this age: did you start getting "flooded with attention" the moment you turned 30?Yes actually. Since age 35 (I'm 39 now) I've been approached six times by women. That's not a ton, but it more than the first 35 years, which was zero. I've said no to all of them. I understand why women think its annoying now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:02 AM |
| – | Misandry creates MORE misogynists.Men don't report domestic violence as much so of couese most sources are going to be biased toward women. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 05:54 AM |
| – | Misandry creates MORE misogynists.Misandry and misogyny are both equally bad. They both contribute to crimes against the opposite sex. Misogynist men rape and kill women. Misandrist women abuse and kill men. Its not a contest on who is worse. 40% of boys sexually abused are done so by women. 1 in 4 girls under 12 are sexually assaulted or abused....around 14%-20% of that by other women. 1 in 6 boys under 12 are sexually abused or assaulted...60% by men, 40% by women. These are true about adults as well. (1 in 6 men and 1 in 4 wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 12:53 AM |
| 2 | women did not shoot themselves in the foot by complaining about getting approachedI think it's other women who runied the dating scene for women. Not all women, though. All we as men ever hear is how women don't want to be appeoached, so normal guys listened. All women get now are the creepy guys. Women should approach more. Most guys would love a woman to approach them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 12:10 AM |
| 1 | How often are you experiencing some kind of flirtatious interaction?I've had women approach and flirt with me six times in total. One recently at the gocery store, which was werid. I don't have much of a social life. I go to bars all day sometimes and just talk to the regulars. My only other social outlet is my family. I have no friends. My best friend of 30 plus years died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 02:33 AM |
| 1 | What alternatives to therapy would you like society to provide?Therapy works great for me. Been in it for 25 years on and off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 09:43 PM |
| 2 | How much interest and attention do you think the average woman receives?Remember the woman that pretended to be a man for I think a few months and ended up killing herself because it was too hard? Women have it easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Are young men failing at dating because they aren't dedicating enough time and effort to it?Women today offer nothing and expect everything. What can you bring to my life that brings more peace to it. Modern women bring nothing but drauma, financial abuse and emotional abuse. Men aren't failing at dating because we're not trying. It's because women want too much and we're tried of it so we're going our own way. There is nothing of quality any woman under 40 could bring into my life. Men aren't falling for it anymore. You told us to leave you alone, we did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 08:01 PM |
| – | Have you ever received unwanted attention from a woman you found attractive?Yes. Six times. Five at two different bars I go to and once recently at the grocery store. Which was very weird and uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 08:29 PM |
| – | Why do men treat their partners like emotional punching bags?From my experience it's women that do this. I've been in three serious relationships with women who yell, and are emotionally abusive. And my mother was the same way with my dad and step dad. So can we agree that personal experience isn't a good indicator of how all men or all women are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: an average or below average looking woman matched with you on tinder. She messages you that she is trying to escape an abusive boyfriend and wants to crash with you in exchange for sex. What do you do?I have heard women say men and boys going through domestic violence is funny or they deserve it. Even if they were a 11/10 I would say no. There are no domestic violence shelters for men or boys over 12. Would you do the same if a man and his son were trying to escspe an abusive woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 08:18 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man get 'approached'... In their lifetime?I've been approached 5 times at bars and once recently at the grocery store. I would consider myself about average. I am really not that attractive. I once was with a group of three women in their 30s whom all agreed I was an 8. But I just don't see it. I would rate myself a 3 or 4. If anything, men being approached is a lot more rare than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).If we go by social media alone then similar things can be said about women. Let me do what you did. Let's see. Women only care about money and what they can get out of men. Most women would be okay if all men were killed or put in jail. Women think that men and male children being sexually assaulted is funny and they deserve it. Women think men should be put on a registry to track where they go so they don't harm women. All men, after all, are criminals. Women think men and boys being physically… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Women don't approach men because of other women.I've been approached several times by women. If fact, one just the other day at the grocery store. It's annoying to say the least. I am not attractive so I don't know what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Would you be comfortable if your wife went to the female version of Hooters if she insisted that she was just there for the wings and not the men? Would you go with her for the wings?I wouldn't care at all. Look all you want. Even flirt. Just don't touch and we're good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation?I have no troubles dating IF I wanted to. I've been approached by women giving me their numbers or even simply offering sex several times. I have turned them all down. My stuff is too important to me to get married and have a woman take half my stuff upon dirvorce. Been there, done that. Never again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Men obsess over achieving a variety of women, to their own detrimentAnd women obsess over achieving the next best thing. That's why women cheat. They are never satisfied. Men cheat sometimes to get sex they are not getting at home. Women will eventually cheat in every romantic relationship because they get bored no matter how good they have it. Which is worse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you have days in which you don’t think about attractive women, relationships or sex at all?Yes. In fact, most days I hardly think of sex at all. I have more important things to do like read and play video games. Which is much better than any relationship/sex with a woman. Usually when I think of women, it's on how annoying they are, not whether or not I'd like to have sex with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Men, what's the worst thing that happened to you after asking a woman out?I've approached a few times, nothing too bad has happened. Just being told no. But I got one date. But the worst things have happened on being approached myself. I had a girl throw her drink at me because I refused to buy her and her friend more drinks. I had one girl grab my crotch. And another girl that just wouldn't take no for an answer, so finally I lied and said I was gay. I guess I must look good, who knew? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 07:28 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men pretend to not notice hints so they can continue putting in the bare minimumNo it not unreasonable to want our partner ro do things we like. Its unreasonable to assume our parnter is going to pick up on your "hints" and read your mind. Women always complain men don't communicate when it's actually women who don't. Use your words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 01:42 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Men pretend to not notice hints so they can continue putting in the bare minimumThis isn't a rationally expressed idea. It's neurotic and stupid. Typical for women to be manipulative like this. Just say what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | What are you looking for?Well IF I were looking, I would want a loyal woman who respects me and brings peace into my life. I don't want what almost all women bring, emotional abuse and drama. I would want a good communicator, someone who doesn't complain about cooking and household work, someone who appeciates that I work to pay bills, they must have a good family that will openly accept me, they must love kids because I have three, must not be jealous that I am still really good friends with my ex-wife and I still hang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 06:09 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Men pretend to not notice hints so they can continue putting in the bare minimumThis is borderline abuse from women. Men don't want to play games and be manipulated. We want peace in our relationships. If you want something ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS ASK NICELY. Men aren't as obessive as women. The trash doesn't need to be taken out right this second, the dishes can sit overnight, there is no wrong way to load the dishwasher, cleaning doesn't have to be done every day. Take a damn chill pill. Expecting men to read your minds is emotional abuse. This is why men are walking away. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop chasing women.That's true. But it would be impossible to accomplish on a massive enough scale to get women on board. I stopped chasing women over 17 years ago and since then (of my time ignoring women when I go anywhere) I have had four women approach me in bars and several trying to talk to me at various other places. But there will always be the simps who will do anything to get laid. Thus, women will never learn. Men just need to raise our standards to be as ridiculous as women's standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Do men need womenNot really. Just because wonen dominate some professions doesn't mean men can't do them too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 04:40 PM |
| 0 | Do men need womenWomen need men. Men keep society running. Farming, construction, military, police, firefighters, doctors, lawyers, miners, electrical workers, plumbers and pipefitters, other trades, railway work, pilots, and so fourth. Yes SOME women do these things but not very many. Women make babies, men make everything else. Men need women for babies and that's about it. Men can do every job women do, but women can't do every job men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Have you ever fallen in love with an ugly, old, or fat woman because of how nice she is?My ex-wife is overweight but I still thought she was attractive. And I still care about her today. We are still really good friends and I'm over at her house all the time getting and visiting with our kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 03:11 PM |
| 2 | What would you describe as unreasonable female standardsAnything a woman demands that she herself does not have. --demanding 6 figure salary when you have no job --demaning 8 in member when you have the cough an opening as big as a bowling ball --demanding no kids when you have four --demanding few past partners when you have over 100 --demanding 6 feet of taller when you're 4'8 --demanding him pay for everything, when you easily can pay --demanding a car and house when you live with your parents --demanding a thin, fit man when you're 250 lbs --dema… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 08:11 PM |
| -2 | Men dont deserve sympathyWomen, nationally, (in the U.S.) work an average of 24 hours less per week then men. Men also work all hard(er) jobs like construction, coal mining, and manual labor. Women do not do as much work as men even when they have the same job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Men dont deserve sympathyRight...its not like men work over 40 hours a week, can't take a sick day ever, not even for a "headache", pays your bills, pays you child support, sometimes for kids that aren't even his, puts up with your silly mind reading games, and actually has to be responsibile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 03:17 PM |
| 5 | What is a real manSomeone who apparently is a traditional male, provides for women, and panders to women's needs. If a man isn't benefiting a woman in some way, he's not a real man. Whereas women can do whatever they want because they are always the victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Do you maliciously withhold compliments from women when out in public?Let me use the femenist anaology of men. If you had a basket full of apples and I told you one unknown apple was poisonous, would you eat an apple from that basket? One wrong glace or comment to the wrong girl and we could end up in jail. It's not worth the risk. You told us to leave you alone. We listened. Now do what no woman has ever done: take accountability for your choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Why don't men want to date single moms?It depends. I would date a single mom, because I'm a single dad. The question is why is she single? It's most likely her fault. I'm single because I was cheated on. But yes, let's say there's a loyal, respectful, kind woman whom doesn't complain about raising children or household chores. (Like your woman does, apparently). She likes similar things, has similar religious and political views, isn't going to abuse me or my children. Then yes, I'd date a single mom. The problem is, most single moms… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 03:59 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Why do (some of) you think that society just happens to cater to women's needs now, and ignores men's needs?There are many ways western society caters to women. In divorce, women almost always get custody of kids. Thus, divorce for women is finacially benefical. Only men loose everything in divorce. In a court of law, women get less harsh punishments for similar crimes. Women can rape young boys and no one cares. But let a man rape a young girl, femenists and the media are all over that. Women are involved in more traffic violations but men still pay more in insurance. Men pay more for all insurance. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What do you actually want from women in romantic/sexual relationship/connections?Respect Loyality Similar interests Likes to read Like to play video games Knows how to commuicate--doesn't expect me to read her mind Has a good job she enjoys Is college educated Is more traditional and not a femenist. Takes accountability. Has kids and accepts my kids. Doesn't complain and nag (which goes back to good commuication). Knows how to cook and likes cooking. Doesn't complain about cleaning. Has her own car. No you can't drive mine. Not religious or atheist. You can believe in god, j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why are so many of you so convinced that abusers are obvious, blatant, cartoonishly evil people that can be easily spotted?Why do so many women make generalizations about men that aren't true? No man said you purposely choose an abuser. But lets be real. You only vet out those men you find unattractive but are only with because they have money. The real men--the ones that will treat you well --are in your friend zone because they're "too nice". (And of course because they buy you stuff). We're not saying don't be cautious. We're saying you're not cautious enough with very attractive guys. You are only cautious with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 10:45 AM |
| – | Men have no options.I'm not currently doing anything to find anyone because I don't want anyone. Women aren't worth the crumbs under my table anymore. They are all manipulative, emotionally abusive and will eventually cheat on you, divorce you and take half your stuff. No thanks. I'll keep my stuff. The only girl I need is my cat. Otherwise, you are correct imo. Men have no options for those reasons. And the fact there are zero good women left. All the good ones are 55-60 years old and older and either married or w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 10:27 AM |
| 0 | What’s the point of asking women for their opinions if you’re just going to dismiss them right away?If women would learn to communicate better I would listen to them more. But most of the time their words don't align with their actions. Women lie a lot more than men from my experience. And, in general, men are simply right more than women are about most things. That's not misogynistic. It's just a fact. Women communicate poorly with emotions and feelings. Men communicate with facts and logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 12:22 PM |
| 4 | For men who have been approached at least once in their life: Do you think the women who approached you were in your league?I've been approached four times total three by women and once by a gay man. I'm not gay, but he was still nice and bought me a drink. As for the women, I would say yes, had I been in a place where I wanted to date, they all were in my league. However, I'm happy were I'm at so I said I wasn't looking for a relationship. One girl sat next to me ans said she liked my beard. And we had a nice conversation. The next was two women that asked if I would by them a drink. (To which I immediately rejected… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Why are men’s standards “normal” but women’s “gold digging”Financial stability is okay to want. But that's not what modern women want. They want a man that makes enough to pay all the bills AND pay for her expensive lifestyle. Not being able to get your hair done or nails done, have the biggest house and expensive car has nothing to do with financial stability. Women also want to not contribute anything. If I'm paying all the bills, my house better be clean when I get home. Modern women just want to party all the time and have no responsibility. Sometim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 02:38 PM |
| -3 | Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive?Women always become bitches when they are given status. I have never once had a good female boss but all the male bosses I've had have been great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 11:48 PM |
| -6 | [Q4M] What do YOU consider reasonable expectations and standards for women to have for their male partner?You shouldn't expect more than what you bring to the table. And with modern women, that's absolutely nothing. Modern women have nothing to offer these days. Men want a woman who will make his life easier. If you're just going to be the typical, self-centered, narrcisistic bitch whom doesn't know how to communicate but expects men to be perfect, then no thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 11:46 PM |
| – | Whats wrong with modern womenWomen have unrealistic expectations because they read romance novels and watch romantic-comdies and listen to the media's protrayal of the man whose supposed to grovel, beg and act like a fool before women. Women treat us like we're their personal servant, and expect us to do everything for them. While we get nothing in return. A woman will sacrifice her family for her happiness and a man will sacrifice his happiness for his family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options?Your kidding right? Dating is harder for women?? Lol. Um....no. Any woman even homely ones could have a date in less than a week anytime if they looked hard enough. Women get hundreds of messages a DAY on dating sites. For women it's not about not having any options it's about not having any good options. Or at least what the average narcissistic modern day woman thinks is good. Men on the other hand would be lucky to get a few dates a year and almost never get any messages on dating apps. For m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Is it true most guys would cheat given the opportunity?No. I wouldn't. And most normal men wouldn't. Women would however, because they all will inevitably cheat when they get bored. I've never once been with a loyal woman. And I've had several from a very diverse background. It can't just be the women I'm picking. Women get bored and cheat. Then, as everything else, they blame it on men. Zero accountability. The reason women think men cheat more is because they only go after the top tier precentage. But in real life, women cheat more. They make up e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 07:30 PM |
| 7 | Women are largely correct in complaining about the average quality of men as romantic partners.Nope. Studies in infants show that when male infants undergo preceived abondoment, or real pain, they cry more, scream more, whine more and take longer to calm down than female infants. Men are more empathetic than women and more emotional. We may not be in tune with our emotions as well, but that's because we have been told since we were toddlers not to cry, man up and deal with pain, while being told to be nice to girls, don't hit them, but they can hit us, open doors, girls are fragile and we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you date a slob?No. I'm no perfect clean freak, I have dirty dishes in the sink right now. But I do keep my house straightened up, clean the bathroom (or at least the sink and toliet) daily and wash my sheets and clothes weekly. I vacuum and dust at least 2 or 3 times a month. Any more than that is overkill. I live alone so I don't produce a big mess. But no I would not date a slob to that extent. I have ADHD and I consider my place could be better, but its not that bad. My house looks dirtier than it is becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 12:33 PM |
| 0 | Why do men think they are funnier than women?Because they generally are. Women take everything to seriously, are more easily offended and always have something to complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?No periods. Easier ability to be sexually satisfied. Pockets in jeans. The ability to grow a beard. More physical strenght. Imo closer friendships with the same sex. (No gossip and emtional abuse). Getting paid slightly more at most jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"?No normal person thinks its okay to sexually harass women. If anything it's a cultural norm to find it okay to sexually harass men. My (female) boss just got fired after 7 years of sexual harassment allegations against her male subordinates including me. If that had been a male against female it would have been taken care of in a few days. Discrimination against men is more than women. The only reason we don't see this is because women are protected against discrimination by law and laws are act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 10:38 AM |
| 1 | “just respect women and maybe you will date one” is poor dating advice because it perpetuates an “action-reward” that directly ties to dehumanizing and removing agencyMen and women also have different ideas of what respect means. I know what I think respect is, but I don't know what women think respect is. And it changes with women from day to day. When a woman tells you to respect her, she really means know exactly what I like and dislike without me telling you. And if you get one minor thing wrong, you're a creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever seen a man who did most of the work in a relationship or marriage?Yes, I'm that man. I always helped out. And when I lost both of my jobs for about two years, I did all the house work while my wife worked. And yet, she still cheated on me like almost all women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 01:39 PM |
| 2 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerIt's not that women have careers or are succesful. When men become succesful for the most part it humbles them. When women become succesful, they become rude, bitchy and annoying. Its the attitude of these women men don't want. I don't care about a woman's success as long as she's not a selfish prude because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys approach women they cannot afford?All women, yes all, only value men for what they can give her. Why do we have to have money to be valued by women. This just shows women aren't looking for a relationship. They just want an ATM. I will never give money to a woman outside my family again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.Women want divorce more because they get bored and cheat. Women scream about wanting guys to be more commited but then turn around and leave. Relationships take work, and it seems men are the only one willing to do that. You're going to of course blame men because women never take responsibility. But most of the time, its the woman's fault. Women always want the next best thing. So instead of looking at yourself, you blame men and move to the next guy you can use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 04:27 PM |
| 0 | This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad.1 in 4 girls under 12 and 1 in 4 female teens and adults women experience sexual violence of some kind. 1 in 13 boys under 12 and 1 in 3 male teens and adults experience sexual violence of some kind. (See 1in3.com) The split of sexual violence is around 60/40. 60% being men and 40% women perpatrators. Its definately not 90% men. That's a biased stat, because when men or boys are raped, its not called rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 01:29 AM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?It's not the child support that's the problem. It's the amount we have to pay. All child support should be capped at $200 per child, and it should go down as we make less. The receiver man or woman should have to have a job and keep an itemized list on what the child support goes to. If it's not for the kids, it should be taken away. It's the fact that a lot of women spend child support on themselves and not the kids. And then ask the man, who's already paying them, to buy more stuff for the kid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?Men love their significant other for who they are. Women love their significant other for what they can provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 05:02 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Women's "rights" is just a buzz phrase now with no actual meaning. Women already have equality with men. The problem is with equality comes accountability. Women are rarely held accountable. And when they are their punishments are way less severe than men. Modern women don't want equal rights...they already have those...they want special priviledge with no accoutability. Whenever I point this out, or any privledge women have, they always put it back on men. Women are always the victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 11:48 AM |
| 1 | The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth.I'm not intimidated by successful women. A lot of men when they become successful become humble. Whereas all women become self-absorbed upon success. That is why men are less interested in successful women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Modern dating and IRL approachesAs a man, I never approach women. It's dangerous to approach women anymore. They could accuse you of sexual harrassment because you don't look good enough for them. It's not worth it anymore. I would like it if women would approach me more though. I have been approached three times by women. Nothing was made of either time but it was nice to see some women thought I was attractive. Yes I think its all of those things that have ruined dating, especially femenism. Dating and especially marriage no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Men should compensate for pregnancy and childbirthSo men should be your slave and not have anything fun is their life just because you had a baby. Grow up. If you don't want a child, don't have one, but don't blame men for your misery. Who cares if women have to take up the "burden" of child birth? Men have to work to support that child. If you're not willing to make sacrifices for your family, then please don't have one. This is the problem with feminism today. Its all about what society and men can do for you. Nobody owes you anything just be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?Uh yeah. It's women who don't take any responsibility. All responsibility is put on men. What planet do you live on? We have to pay bills, go to work, sacrifice time with our family to work. We work longer hours, harder jobs and do better quality work. We go to war and get killed so idiot femenists can whine on social media how they are oppressed. A woman just has to find a man, and she can be lazy and useless the rest of her life. Women don't have to work, go to war, pay bills, etc, they choose… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?Men become more easy going and relaxed as we age, unlike women who are the exact opposite. That's why a lot of women want to date older men. We have money, and we generally treat everyone better because of our experience. Women on the other hand become more cynical as they age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 12:56 AM |
| 6 | Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually.Yep. Women are always victims. I was sexually abused as a child by a woman. I called a group several years ago that was supppsed to be for victims of childhood sexual abuse. I was told they don't help perpatrators. I guess that's what they automatically assumed since I'm a guy. I can't be a victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What happens to men when they finally get sex and are no longer interested in it?The only men who make sex such a big deal are incels that have never had sex. Imo sex isn't all that great anyway. Once you've had it, it's not huge thing anymore. Especially for me since I've accomplished my goal of sex, that is, having kids. If it's just for pleasure, I get better results by myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Are these flirting or “approaching” or just being nice?Yes but women as a whole did. Have you not seen the shaming videos of guys glacing at women in the gym. Approaching a woman will ruin your reputation, or worse get you arrested. It's not worth the risk. You wanted the bear. You got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find healthy relationships boring?No. Healthy relationships are the goal. Why do women always want to argue about something? Women need to learn to relax more. It drives women crazy for some reason that most men can do nothing. I've sat and stared at the clock for hours before. We can do and think about nothing. Women always seem to think non-stop, cause unnecessary drama, and always have to be doing something. They can't seem to ever relax. Like my teenager says "It's not that deep". Take some haldol or something and chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Are these flirting or “approaching” or just being nice?Women told us to leave them alone. We did. Now you're wondering why you never get approached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 11:15 PM |
| – | Women can expect men to take responsibility for themselves and not be man haters.You have this completely opposite. It's women who never take responsibility for anything. Everything is put on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why don't males shoot their shot anymore?You told us to leave you alone. You made shaming videos of men glacing at women in the gym. You chose the bear. We listened this time. We'll leave you alone. Now your mad men don't try anymore. Besides, gyms should be separated by sex in my opinion. As a guy, and I bet a lot of guys would agree, I go to the gym to execise, blow off steam and prime my body to relax later...not to pick up women. Women need to get over themselves. Not everyone is interested in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Are you woried about feminism?Yes, I'm worried about feminism. Feminism isn't about equal rights of men and women. If it was, feminism would be dead because women have gained and even surpassed equality with men. Feminists don't want equality, they want special privledge and no accountability. Women may have had less rights in the 1950s. But today...at least in Western/civilized society...men have less rights than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 08:54 AM |
| 0 | How are young men being disenfranchised?Men are the disposible sex. Growing up we (from my experience) we were always told to be nice to girls, hold the door open, don't hit them, etc. But no one asked us boys how we felt or what we needed. Women expect respect, but give none back. Men are not allowed to talk about our issues. Everytime we bring up a male-only issue (ex. prostate cancer) or an issue that effects mostly men (ex. Homelessness) we are told to "man-up" or "yeah, but, women have it worse". Women tend to make everything abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 08:25 PM |
| – | Q4M: Would you be upset if your girlfriend got you a subscription as a gift?The flower thing I could see being upset over. Flowers are supposed to be spontaneous as a gift. Plus that's a lot of watse for a useless item. However, something like what you mention would be good because they are more practical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:57 PM |
| 1 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to men that you actually feel is valid ?Not seeing the urgency of doing housework everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do men avoid any firm statements on dating apps?Simple. A woman can get 20 messeges in a hour after joining a dating site, thus, they can be picky. Men on the other hand would be luckly to get one every six months, if that. Thus, we can't be picky. We put down what would attract the most women. I've joined eight dating sites in the last 10 years, said "yes" to everyone, and I've been asked out three times. (One whom I married). Men can't be picky. And everything bothers women these days so we can't make any firm statements. And if we did, wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Men that tell women to “just choose better”, how do you feel about the exodus of women in the dating market?Personally, I don't care. I refuse to have another abusive woman in my life. Anyway, I don't think women are choosing better, they are just going elsewhere besides online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Many men losing interest in womenI lost interest in women when I got divorced at age 31. I've accomplished the purpose of women anyway, because, I have kids. I'm 38 now and happier than I've ever been. I feel bad for people who've never had a relationship. But unless you want children, women aren't worth it. They boss you around, nag, tell you how you can spend your money, are verbally abusive, and demand too much of your time. My money is mine. I can spend all day reading or playing video games and no one will nag me about "no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:34 PM |
| 2 | When people say men’s issues are “mental health,” what exactly do men need to get mentally healthy that’s different from what women need?Yes, men do not have as many friends, that's true. I only had one friend who died a few years ago. Now all I have in my family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 11:40 PM |
| 2 | When people say men’s issues are “mental health,” what exactly do men need to get mentally healthy that’s different from what women need?Men (boys) are taught from the time they are toddlers to surpress emotions and their needs don't matter as much as womens (girls). Men's depression is worse than women's. For one, women's needs of mental health are taken more seriously than men's. Men are just told to "man up" and "get over it". Women are also more likely to have a support network for their issues. Whereas men are sometimes alone. Men need more support because our mental health is constantly being belittled, unlike women who can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Men who don't want to get married, why?I have several reasons I don't want to get married: My XBox Series X, PS5, PS3, Nintendo Switch, Gamecube, SNES and Atari 2600 and three hundred plus games plus about 200 or so books, my TV, my house, my car etc. I would like to keep my stuff thank you. I don't want to give some woman a third of my income when she gets bored, cheats, and divorces me, like most women do. I also don't want to be emotionally abused and manipulated again like most (if not all) women do. Women can literally get paid … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 10:06 PM |
| -1 | Do men prefer no makeup/surgery, and should women tell when they've had surgery?I prefer respectful, loyal and kind women. I don't care what they look like. I've never met any though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 09:56 PM |
| -1 | Provide and protectBut women rarely do any of those things. That's the point. I know women hate reality and accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 09:48 PM |
| -5 | Provide and protectLet's see: Men build and maintain the buildings you live and work in. Men are the electricians, plumbers, coal miners, construction workers that keep everything running. Men are much more likely to be police and fire fighters. Men are in the military protecting you interests woeld wide. Men are the majority of surgeons that keep you healthy. Men are the majority of PhD scientists that contribute significantly to our needs. Men are the farmers and distributers of food. Men do most of the factory … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 09:17 PM |
| 0 | Why is it some men both simultaneously look down on women but also seem to want their approval for everything like we are their mommy?I don't care what anyone thinks of me, man or woman. I only treat women like women treat men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement.Personally I would never do anything to help anyone in today's world. It could be just a scam to rob or kidnap you. No one has the right to insist a stranger help someone in need. Men have stepped up to help women before then ended up being accused of sexual harassment. Its not worth the risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Q4M- Hypothetical- your child's friends parent is accused of in appropriately touching another child but doesn't get convicted, what do you do?I'm not sure why this question is for men. But I wouldn't let my sons go to sleep overs at all, let alone if there's a child predator there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 06:09 AM |
| 1 | How many of you would be prepared if a draft was called up?I wouldn't have to worry about it because I'm old and sick and I wouldn't qualify. I tried to join the marines when I was 18 and very fit. But they found heart problems so I couldn't join. Plus I have asthma and COPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 06:05 AM |
| 1 | What is the longest you have ever been in a committed relationship?9 years married to my ex whom I'm still really good friends with her and her new husband. We have kids so we see each other regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 11:44 AM |
| -1 | What screams wife material to you?Nothing. Today's women are disloyal, disrespectful and abusive. They bring nothing into a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a broke woman?I wouldn't date a broke, unemployed woman if they wanted me to buy everything for them. I'm done taking care of women financially. I don't want to be someone else's wallet. Which is why I'll never date again. I get to spend my money how I please. Lets put it this way, I have about $1200 left over per month after food, bills, gas and other needs are taken care of. $1200 to spend on books, video games and whatever the heck else I want. I don't (and won't) want to spend that on a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 04:29 AM |
| – | CMV: Women are far more violent towards those they have power over vs menLook at all the denial from the women in these commets. As expected. Women don't ever take accountability for their actions. We don't see that women are more violent than men because domestic violence against men doesn't matter and isn't reported as much. But those that do report always have a greater level of violence perpatrated on them by these women as evident by their injuries. Women are more likely to use weapons, which is why men's injuries from DV are greater than womens. And yes, women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Let's say women's standards are too high. Now what?Its not that women's standards are too high. Its that women have standards on things that can't be changed easily or at all, like height, or income. Whereas all of men's standards can be changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 01:22 AM |
| 3 | What is a show of submission a woman can give to a man ?I simply want a woman that will respect me and bring peace and caring into my life. Not necessarily submissive. I want to to be assertive, but you can be assertive in a kind, loving way instead of being mean, rude and abusive about it like some women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things?You see this because your standards are too high. You only see the top 10% of men that are like this. In reality most men want an emotional connection and commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 04:35 AM |
| 1 | If women arent allowed to have emotional baggage, neither can men.Just because that's your personal experience doesn't mean that how all guys are. Men and women on reddit aren't representative of the general population. The diifference between men having emotional baggage and women, is women make much more of a big deal about it. When men communicate it to accomplish things. We commuicate ideas and solutions. When women commuicate its to rant about their emotions. Both sexes need to work through their past before being in another relationship or avoid them. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Men: What romance would you like to see from your woman?The same way men show romance. Buy me a gift, take me out to dinner and a movie and cuddle me in bed or on the couch. I wouldn't be against receiving "girly" gifts like flowers or chocolate. Men need to be taken care of sometimes too. We can't always be the providers. It doesn't even have to involve sex, that would be nice. But just show a genuine interest. Modern women these days even in commited relationships don't seem to even be interested in their (male) partners. Its all about what the man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 03:56 AM |
| 8 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doWomen are the only ones that cause toxic masculinity imo. They want to be strong and independent until it comes to being accoutable. All responsibility is put on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 08:17 AM |
| 2 | If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction.Yep. No reponsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 06:09 PM |
| 3 | If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction.Its not fiction though. Modern women are on social media all the time saying they want 6 ft, 6 pack, 6 figures and 6 inches. Even fat, ugly, ran through women are like this. Modern women's standards are unrealistic and delusional. And these women bring absolutely nothing. Thats why some U.S. men are going across seas to places like Korea and Japan. I once had a woman who was 6'0 and 350 lbs reject me right off the bat. She was clearly delusional. Yes, women can have standards. But if you're run … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How many of you would be less inclined to help a female stranger in trouble, than a male stranger?I would help the person at the gym if I could regardless of gender. I would press the close button. I don't like people. Keep driving. Too many people get robbed or kidnapped that way. I would give them directions if I could. But I have the sense of direction of a goldfish. Not helping. Especially if a woman. Not going into someone elses house. I will help if I can. Definately not giving a stranger a ride in my car. But I'll call an ambulance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Do Modern Men Want Women to be More Submissive or more Masculine?Why do you have to be aggressive to approach? I would prefer both. Women who approach and at least offer to pay their way but are somewhat submissive. Not entirely submissive, just not abusive and naggy about speaking their mind. I want to know what you think but you don't have to be rude about it. You can still be mildly submissive and speak your mind. I know because that's how I am. I'll tell you what I want in a calm, reserved manor. Assertiveness and submissiveness aren't necessaily mutally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 11:49 AM |
| 1 | What age are you willing to date? In your relationship what is the age gap?I prefer not to be in a relationship because all women are abusive. But if I had to choose I'd say 35-45. I'm 38. When I was married at 22 my wife was 24. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather be “picked” or settled for?If I had to choose I'd rather be picked. If I were interested in a relationship, I would want my partner to be genuinely interested in me. If they are just settling I don't know if they really liked me or just the idea of me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Men struggling with OLD need to better curate their profile to the feminine gaze, shitty profiles dont get you likesOnline dating is a scam. Most of the people on there are men and the few women only pick men who are tall and look like a GQ model. It doesn't matter what kind of picture you take. Women will still reject you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Isn't it weird that it is normalized to berate and hate on men?I wouldn't say its weird but its is noramlized to berate men. Just look at any romantic comedy movie. Society is all about women's happiness. Men are disposable. Misandry is not only culturally acceptable, its often encouraged. Its not unexplainable. Its because of feminism. Feminists have comvinced women they are victims of men. Women get support in society. Men get none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesYeah now, thats objectivity false. The only things that are valued unconditionally are women, children and pets. Only men have to provide something to be valued. That, again, is the male experience. Men don't care what women provide. Yes, things are changing and again, not all women are like this. But the majority still are. You may have a different experience. Which is fine. But you are the exception to the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesI have never been on a date where the woman paid. Women expect men to provide for them. You may be an exception. Which is a good thing. But most women would ghost a guy that didn't pay for the first date, had no money, didn't buy them gifts, didn't pay their bills, didn't have a job etc. According to MOST women, not all, men are only valued for what they can provide. Society views men as disposable if we can't provide. That's the male experience. You dimiss it because you're a woman and have nev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesIt's 100% true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 03:56 PM |
| – | Why do men hate women who want money even though they also have a choice?You're right. I want to be respected, not used for money, apperciated and loved for who I am and not what I can provide. Women can't do this. They use men for their resources and don't respect us. But yet they expect us to treat them well and think that the only thing they have to do is have a vagina. Women these days bring nothing to a relationship. The problem with saying just don't date women like that is that ALL women are like that. The very few that aren't get married and have kids by age … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 03:41 AM |
| 4 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenI agree. Its because of feminism. Femenists want equal rights without equal responsibility. But I would say most women, not just Americans, are like this. Except maybe China, Japan and South Korea. (And a few other Asian nations). Women are more likely to be emotionally abusive, like you said in your example of calling men ugly for turning them down. I have had the same thing happen to me. I had a woman approach me in a bar to inquire about my relationship status. When I turned her down she said… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 03:31 AM |
| 5 | Women are poor communicatorsWomen don't know how to communicate, true. They are basically children when it comes to commuicating. They expect us to read their minds. Girls are allowed to express their emotions as children and so they learn to pick up on non-verbal communication better than boys who are told emotions make you weak and we should be a man. So as men we don't pick up on subtle hints women give. I don't play games. Ladies if you're interested or not just use your words (like we have to tell toddlers) and say so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesMen's biggest problem in relationships is we're not cared about for who we are. We are only valued for what we can provide. Women expect us to give give give and we get nothing in return but an abusive relationship. I do want this problem to go away. But the large majority of modern western women only think about what men (and women) can do for them. They don't care about men. They just need a father and an ATM. Relationships are viewed as transactional. Until women respect men and view us as pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 11:52 PM |
| 0 | Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issuesWhat problems? Homlessness? Dying in war? Most workplace fatalities? What exactly are you referring to? Men's problems are indeed greater than women's, but we all have problems. Or do you just mean in relationships? But the answer is no. Our troubles are what make us strong. (Men and women). I mean I'd like to see no homeless people, less war and workplace injuries. But if we're only talking about relationships, which is what I assume you mean, then no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.True. But women are more likely to be resentful and narcissistic when they make more than their male counterparts. High earning careers are male dominated because men work more and do better work. When a women enters a high paying male dominated field she has to be extra assertive (bitchy) to get the same respect as men. High earning women resent men because they believe they still don't make as much as their male counterparts. Which usually they don't. Again, because men do more. Women feel lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Do men really want women to give them a "chance"?Another reason I got out of the dating game. Women treat it like a game. Why is it always the guy who has to impress the lady. What about the guy giving the girl a chance? But for me personally, I don't care. I don't want to be in a relationship and I don't like most women anyway. Once I stopped caring, and going back to the gym (so I guess I look better) I've been approached several times by women. I reject them, usually either by lying and saying I have a girlfriend or I'm gay. (Neither which … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Q4M how often do you approach other men for conversationI'm a day drinker. I go to different bars. I talk to men and women all morning and afternoon sometimes. But I'm old and so are the people I talk to. I'm not interested in a romantic relationship anymore. If I'm in a good mood I'll strike up a conversation with a stranger man or woman (if they want to talk too). But that's only if oppurtunity provides that. Like at a bar, sporting event, our kids school event or other social gatheting. I wouldn't just approach someone on the street to talk to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"?This only applies if the guy is already physically attractive. An ugly guy can be perfect in every other way and still be rejected and considered a creep for talking to a woman for the purpose of dating. Not that ugly guys can't talk to women. I talk to men and women all the time in bars. But I'm also not interested (in term of women or gay men) in forming a romantic relationship. And I think most people can tell that I'm not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Question for men who have trouble getting women: how is your platonic social life?I had one male friend. He died. Now all my friends are girls. But I rarely if ever see them anymore. Yes. For the most part. We have our moments, but most of our issues are from the past and have been resolved. Yes. I don't like people in general. I'm not really interested in friendship or a romantic relationship anymore. I'm too old for that, and I enjoy being alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 01:08 AM |
| 0 | Why do men hate women who want money even though they also have a choice?In western society in general women and girls are valued for the sake of value. For who they are. Men and boys are only valued for what they can do. Work, play sports, get high grades in school, etc. As a boy for me, and I'm sure other men too, I was always taught to be "nice" to girls. Girls are fragile. Don't hit girls. Open the door for girls. Respect girls. Etc. In other words DO something for THEM. So, these girls grow up entitled. The problem is girls aren't taught to be nice to boys, or r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Your cohabitating spouse or SO should have their own bedroom.I agree. My grandparents slept in separate rooms and they were together until my grandfather died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 12:36 AM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing a partner could ever say to you?That would be scary too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 12:33 AM |
| 2 | What is the worst thing a partner could ever say to you?Two most scary things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 12:29 AM |
| 6 | What is the worst thing a partner could ever say to you?Don't ask me where I hide the bodies Yes, I'm sleeping with our son | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | There is good reason to not trust men.I feel the same way about women. I see the nasty things women can do too. And I would argue women are worse. Misogyny is generally fowned upon and viewed at negative. Misandry on the other hand is sanctioned and encouraged by society and the media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Childrearing is not just "work" and if you think that way, then you shouldn't have kids!I agree. If you think raising children is work, then don't have kids. Men should get to relax after work vs women. Men do harder jobs, work more hours and are more productive at almost every job. If the man is a coal miner, and the woman works in an office, he should get to rest. And vise versa. But its almost always men who have the harder jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men believe if women ghost after sex it's because "sex was bad"?Because that's what women always say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:16 PM |
| 4 | Most women actually appreciate being approached and it's only condemned by a vocal minority who aren't worth dating in any caseNot unless you look good like top 1%, are over 6 ft, make six figures and drive something expensive. Then you might have a chance. But for most guys, girls will automatically find you a creep for approaching them. Most women appreciate attractive guys approaching them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:08 PM |
| 0 | The problem with the paternity test debateParternity tests are to protect men so they're not responsible for a child that isn't theirs. Womem are untrustworthy. Every relationship I've been in I've been cheated on. But that's my fault, right? Women don't know how to be loyal. If you've got nothing to hide, then why would it bother you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Men, what negative dating/relationship experiences have you personally had with women?My ex-wife is bipolar and a sex addict. She always wanted it. I always gave up and gave in. There were times I would be blackout drunk only to find out we had had sex the night before. I finally stood up for myself and said no and she cheated and got pregnant. I have never been in a loyal relationship. Every woman I've been with for a significant period of time has cheated on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"?Well do you want me to be honest? Do you mean in the dating scene or in general? Let's see, at age 4 my step mother started sexually abusing me until she left when I was 9. My mother was sexually inappropriate with me as a child as well. My aunt and grandmother are emotionally abusive and still belittle me today. When I was 14 I entered therapy and was sexually assaulted by my (female) therapist. I have never been in a relationship that I wasn't cheated on. My now ex wife would is a sex addict a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 05:29 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menWhich has nothing to do with what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 10:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman”I would point out all the privledges women have. Men have a few privledges but women have more. Get on YouTube and search for 48 privledges women have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you prefer to date in the West or in the Middle EastI would rather bring a middle eastern lady to the United States and date her here. Modern American women are too self absorbed and mean. I'd perfer a woman that knows her place. I don't mean that negavitely. I know my place too. Both men and women have their roles to play. Modern American women are trying too hard to be like men, which is not attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 09:19 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menThere's no fight for equality unless it's men fighting. Women have gained and far surpassed equal rights with men. Now they are demanding even more special privledges. But yes, women are shallow and always want to date up. Most men are sidelined by women because of the feminist body positivity movement. Now even ugly women think they're the most beautiful thing ever and deserve top teir men. Most women need to get a mirror and realize their actual worth or lack thereof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Would you take back someone who ghosted you?Depends on how far we got into dating and conversation before being ghosted. Women that do this are shallow and self-absorbed anyway so most likely I would not do anything with them. Unless maybe they apologised and wanted to try again. (Not just for sex). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 03:00 PM |
| 0 | If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore.True. So, what? Women cheat more than men do. I don't trust any woman not to eventually cheat. Demanding a paternity test protects men so they don't have to raise child that isn't theirs or pay child support. This is especially needed when you're not married and just dating. But it only benefit men, and we can't ever have anything that benefits men because that would be misogynistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Lack of ‘Enthusiastic Consent’ is not Sufficient for Sexual AssaultIts emotional manipulation at the least. Which is a form of abuse women often engage in. Even emotional abuse can be very harmful to the person. I believe its been shown the emotional outcome of emotional abuse can be as bad as physical abuse. Manipulating someone into sex could also be considered covert sexual abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 10:00 PM |
| 9 | Lack of ‘Enthusiastic Consent’ is not Sufficient for Sexual AssaultCoercion into sex is not assault or rape but it is a form of sexual abuse. In your example the wife is being abusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 09:27 PM |
| 5 | Women consider a woman’s company to be more valuable than a man’sThis just shows what I've always said. Women want all the luxury without any of the responsibility. The last date I went on she brought two of her (girl) friends and expected me to pay for all of them. After they ordered, I excused myself to the restroom and left. This is how women are. They have no accountability. That is why I got out of dating. So far, I have turned down three women that have asked me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 12:41 AM |
| 0 | Do men still prefer to be the main breadwinner? And what would the ideal wife be in this scenario?I don't care if a woman makes more money. I want someone who is loyal, commited, and respectful. Which is pretty much a fairy tale with women today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 04:53 PM |
| 28 | Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with!Women dealing with constant unwanted attention from guys must be exhausting. I don't know how often they are approached, but I can understand just wanting to be left alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 04:51 PM |
| 5 | CMV: males often use the ol "I'm not a mind reader" to excuse their lazinessOr women could learn to communicate better and not be abusive. And, yes, this behavior is abusive. Stop the mind games and just tell us what you want. It has nothing to do with being lazy. Most men can do and think about nothing. We know how to relax. Women don't know how to shut it down and chill. Women need to realize men don't see why things are as urget as womem do. The dishes can sit in the sink over night, its not going to hurt. Learn to relax. Unlike women, men don't have to be constantly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Question for those that "gave up."I gave up. And once I started going back to the gym, I've had several women approach me. I became that way because almost every cloese (non-friend) relationship I've had with any woman has been abusive. Including all the women in my family I'm close to. As of now, my stuff is too important to me to eventually have a wife who cheats on me, gets divorced and takes half my stuff. Been there, done that. Never again. Women don't know how to be in a comitted relationship. Divorce is initiated by women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?I've literally never heard any guy acting like this. I think you're making this up. If not, who cares? So you heard one guy disrespecting women, so all men are like this? Its a self-fullfilling prophsey. You think all men are like this, so in turn you disrespect men, causing them to disrespect you. Respect is earned. Why should men respect women when women don't respect men? If those type of men bother you, mind your own business. Like all women, you're creating your own senerio and choosing to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreMen can't approach women anymore. We'll get accused of sexual harrassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Men, would you choose love or sex?I'd choose the woman that loved me, as fictional as that would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 09:36 AM |
| 2 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menI'm not nescessaily against the metoo movement. The problem is it only cared about women, and it made that abundantly clear. I've been sexually abused and assaulted by women since I was 4 so I should be a part of metoo. But since I'm male and the crimes were by women, no one cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 03:57 PM |
| 0 | Being laid back and uninvested is not what makes men attractive, women are attracted to men who act like that because those men are already attractiveI never had a woman approch me anywhere until I stopped caring what women did. Now I've had several women approach me. And I'm not attractive. I've been approached three times at a bar I frequent and once at the gym. Once I became laid back women seemed to be more attracted to me. Which makes it even better when I turn them down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Men on here complaining that "women will call the police for talking to them" are not neurotic, they're fairly accurate, the problem is they project this (true about themselves and their experience) fact out into wider society when it isn't true for 99.99999% of men.Maybe not call the police. But women can cry sexual harrassment and get a guy in trouble. And she'll, of course, always be believed because she is a woman. But women can sexually harass men all they want. I've been harassed twice at a bar by women. And nothing was done bevause I'm a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 01:28 PM |
| – | More women need to practice what they preach when it comes to sex and datingBasically yeah. It was already mentioned, but it bares repeating. Men aren't allowed to have sexual boundries without being seen as selfish, uncaring or gay. I hate oral sex, giving and receiving (because I was forced to as a child). My ex-wife and a few girlfriends made me feel guilty and claimed I was selfish when I refused to go down on them. My ex-wife being a sex addict is the main reason we divorced. But if a woman doesn't want to go down on a man, we have to respect that. We're seen as se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you find it sexist when people say "Man up!"?If I told my wife to shut up, get in the kictchen where you belong, would it be sexist? Same thing. From a young age, boys are taught our needs don't matter and showing emotion is weak. Telling a man to "man up" or "act like a man" is sexist and borderline abusive. Why aren't boys and men allowed to show emotion and be human? And it mostly women doing this, which reinforces male sterotypes and causes spousal abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 02:42 PM |
| – | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereYep. Since women have gained and surpassed equality with men, they have to be responsible now, and they can't handle it. Dating was better when men and women filled certain roles. Now that women can be choosy, their true selfish, superficial self has come out. Women now are allowed to have preferences, but if a man has a preference, he's a creep. Women are allowed to be anything they want. But a man must be tall, thin and muscular and make six figures to even be considered. This is why I got out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 08:59 AM |
| 5 | Do you guys actually have female friends?Yes. Most of my friends are women. There's a difference between having women as friends and being put in the friend zone. The friend zone basically says, "I don't trust you because you're ugly and don't make enough money, so I'm going to keep you at arms length even though your really a good guy". Women who put you in the friend zone aren't really your friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Men are not disadvantaged by taxesTrue. But there are government programs specifically for women and none for men. Women only loans, grants, tax breaks, scholarships, child support, alimony, welfare etc. Men also pay more in insurance no matter how much they make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 02:58 PM |
| – | Child support should be completely optionalChild support is okay. But people men or women who get chid support should have to turn in an itemized list on everything they spend the money on. If it's not on the children, that money should have to be paid back to the non-custodial parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 11:24 AM |
| 6 | 45% of men aged 18-25 have never asked out a woman in person before. Men, why do you think this is?Because boys are told all our life that we're predators and should always walk on egg shells around girls because they're fragile. I don't want to go to jail from a fake "sexual harrassment" claim because I blink in the wrong direction. Modern women are also told they're all super special and always good looking no matter what so all women today have the delusion they deserve top tier men; most men don't have a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Do men just not care about being abused as much as women?I was abused as a child by my step parents and I have been abused in several relationships as an adult. So, yes, I care about being abused. I'd much rather be alone. Most women today are emtionally abusive in their romantic relationships (with men or women). I've never heard any man say they'd rather be abused than alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spikingI agree. I always bring my drink with me. Or finish it before I have to go to the restroom or something like that. If men or women are offended, that's their problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 10:37 PM |
| 3 | An average guy who is a good conversationalist has a greater chance of women treating him as "one of the girls" rather than it being an influence on their attraction toward him.True. Women are only attracted to money and looks. You have to be over 6 feet, muscular and thin AND make over $100,000 a year, or most women will ignore you. That's why I don't care anymore. I've been approached by three women since I went back to the gym. Now that I'm atttactive (I guess) women approach me. Well, its too late. I turn them down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 07:07 PM |
| 13 | Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spikingI've had my drink spiked before and I'm a guy. Nothing happened (I think) because I was with two friends who took me home. Everyone should use caution when around strangers, especially at a bar. I like the women's anology of, if you have s bowl of M&Ms and you know two of them were poisoned, would you still take a handful? If it causes undo paranioa, who cares. Better safe then sorry. I'm cautious around men and women at bars, if I go that is. Like I said I've had a drink spiked. And I have also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much elseWomen today bring next to nothing to a relationship. They all feel entitled to men's money, respect and attention, while otherwise treating men like crap. Most men do want a relationship. But when we see women only using us for a free meal, we lose interest fast. That is why I always go on a cheap coffee date. If that's not good enough for a woman, than that shows she only cares about money, and is not worth my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 08:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Norah Vincent's experience as a male was sensationalized to sell copies of her bookSo she got a taste of what it's like to be responsible and couldn't handle it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Rejection is far better than manipulationWomen lie and are a lot more manipulative than men. You're talking about the top percentage of men, not the average man. Most men want the same thing womem want. A loving and caring relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Only thing you can blame on feminism is inconsistency from brats calling themselves feministsFrom my experience, feminsim is about hating men. Claiming that some feminists aren't real feminists is a no true scottsmam fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 11:53 AM |
| – | Man want to "get" girls, or they just like the idea to have them?The men of PPD are mostly red pill incels. The majoroty of men want the same thing women want. A loving and caring relationship. Only a small minority of men are only looking for sex. If I want sex only, I can get a prostitute. It's cheaper, less whining and she leaves when it's done. Personally, I'm happy with myself and my stuff and I don't want or need another woman in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 08:47 AM |
| – | What Are Your Standards and WhyNot religious at all--I am atheist and religious people scare me. Communication--don't assume I know what you want. Respects their parents--as long as they weren't abusive. Shows respect to me--most women today don't respect men. No games--if you're not interested, just say so. Financially stable--I'm not your wallet. Women want to be equal, pay for yourself then. Not feminist--why would you even date if you hate men? Non-traditionalist. Similar interests and hobbies. Must like to read and play … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 09:36 PM |
| 0 | Double standard re. Male vs female insecuritiesFeminism has created the man=bad, woman=good mantra. When a woman isn't responsible (which they never are) it's always a man's fault. Every time a woman commits a crime, its a man's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 12:50 PM |
| – | "Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptiveWomen don't want to be treated equally to men. They don't want to work the hard jobs, pay the same in insurance, sign up for the selective service, be responsible and pay their own way, be expected to not show emotion, be always treated like a predator, being seen as a child molester when out with their own children or showing an interest in caring for children, receive the same pushmemt for the same crime, get in trouble for sexual harrassment, not able to leave their job early because they don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 12:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV: the gas lighting needs to stopWomen do gaslight men a lot. But its usually in an already established relationship. Women complain about men not communicating, but yet, they never communicate their wants and needs. It's always "you should know what I want". Or we should read vague and useless signs of interest or disinterest. Men don't pick up on emotional cues as good as women. If you are uncomfortable, I'll tell you like I used to tell my toddler, "use your words". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 12:27 AM |
| 5 | Virtually 0 women get in trouble for sexual misconductFeminism has created the man=bad, woman=good culture. So when a woman rapes a young boy, well the boy must have done something to encourage her because women can do no wrong. I was sexually molested by my step mother as a (very) young child. I've been told by men and women that I was lucky, or asked what I did to encourage it. Women have asked if she was abused as if it were an excuse. Femimists have said that male children being sexually abused is a good thing so they can understand the "real" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 12:11 AM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?I am. I had my sex phase in my twenties and eventually got married. I'm too old to worry about that nonsense anymore. Yes it is much easier for women to find someone to have sex with. But even I have had women approach me in bars. I started going back to the gym and women notice me more. Which makes it even better when I turn them down. I don't need a woman. I'm happy with myself and my stuff is more important than a woman taking it all in our future divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:21 PM |
| 2 | For those who can’t/don’t partner, would you eliminate the desire to?Every relationship I've had with a woman except one has been toxic. Women are manipulative and abusive. After my wife, I have no desire to be in another relationship. Yes, I am glad that that desire is not there. The main reason I don't date is because of my things. I don't want to marry, for a woman to eventually get bored, and cheat like they all do, divorce me, and take my things. Marriage is never benefical to the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do men feel so entitled to women hereMaybe if women didn't play mind games. Act like an adult and tell us exactly what you want or don't want. Don't drop cues if you're interested. Women pick up on emotional cues. Men don't, and usually can't. Most women are emotionally immature and think men can read their minds. And it only gets worse in marriage. It's manipulative and borderline abusive. No, you don't owe anyone anything. But just say you're not interested and move on. Most men will respect that and move on too. You wonder why s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:36 PM |
| – | Women should get some slack for their decisions in their youthThey do. Just as men do. It depends on what you do too. Do you sleep around and cheat on all your boyfriends? Red flag. Did you make one minor bad desicion? Not a big deal. Stop playing the victim and take some responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | How much do you agree or disagree with these statements on male/female imperative?1 for both. But women are more likely to act like your example than men are to act like your example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee datesJust shows that women are more superficial than men. Then women will bring their friends on a dinner date and expect you to pay for all of them. I had that happen once and I waited for them to order, excused myself to the restroom and left. Yes, women are hypocritical for expecting men to pay for anything on the first date. Even coffee. Don't women want equal rights? Except when it comes to paying for bills or working hard. That's a man's job. Then I went on a date once with someone who brought … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Do women sexually harass men more often?Maybe not more often. But they are able to get away with a lot more. I have one other male co-worker in my department I work with. Our female boss is always making sexual jokes about him. Only women can get away with such stuff. If my boss was male and we were women, it wouldn't be allowed. I hate women that are always touching you and saying things like honey and sweetie. Why is it cute when women do it and creepy when men do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 01:40 AM |
| – | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.You just proved my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?I've always wanted kids and I take an active role in taking care of my kids. Your question is very short sided and sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.Women can be and are worse than men. A woman can cry "rape" after a bad night of sex with an ugly guy and ruin his life. But when I say I've been sexually assaulted by women, I'm laughed at. Women are a lot more manipulative than men. The problem is society has convinced western women they are always the victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 06:05 PM |
| – | Q4M: How often do you do the following chores?I do all of them since I live alone. Some once a week, some once a month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | People confuse female privilege with privileges females can have.There's plenty of female privilege. Just feminists claiming things like this is an example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | If the majority of children are raised by women, where do gender roles come from?Gender roles come from society. Both men and women reinforce each other's and their own gender roles. Men reinforce women's gender roles by generally wanting thin, good looking, young, and homemakers. Women reinforce men's gender roles by generally wanting tall, good looking, older and rich men. Women however reinforce men's gender roles more than men do women. Women instill gender roles on their sons but not their daughters. Little boys are told not to hit girls, be nice to girls, let girls go … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 04:57 PM |
| – | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?Being overweight is too subjective. Its not a good standard. I'm 200 lbs and considered obese by my height. Which in my opinion is stupid. Most people (at least in the U.S.) are around 200 lbs. We need to change the biased BMI charts. That being said, it depends on how overweight. Are we talking 600 lbs or 200 lbs. I'd say 250 lbs or below I'd choose the overweight girl or above the smoker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:01 PM |
| – | Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent dataWomen have always perpatrated sexual assault and abuse at the same rate as men. (Including childhood sexual abuse). It just used to be socially unacceptable for a man or boy to be a victim of sexual violence, so it was never talked about. Its just now men are realizing they can say "no" and boys feel comfortable coming forward about sexual abuse by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.As a man, I agree with you. Women are no longer worth my time. I have children, so I have accomplished what sex is for (and the only reason I've ever wanted to have sex). Sex is highly over-rated and most women from my experience aren't even good at it. I don't need a woman. But more importantly I don't want a woman. I don't want to get married just for the womam inevitably to cheat, divorce me, and take all my stuff. My video game systems and books are more important to me than any woman. I've … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 09:57 AM |
| – | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.There's a difference between biology and ethics. Sex is a biological need. Not nescessarily actual intercourse, but masturbation will suffice. Expecting someone to have sex is unethical and not a need. No one should expect anyone to have sex with them, men or women. But everyone still needs the release of sex. That is what your hands are for! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:59 PM |
| -1 | Women on Reddit downplay men's contributions by choosing to focus on housework, and ignoring earnings.I agree with what you are saying. On average men work a lot more than women and do harder jobs. Not only that but they are better and more productive at the same jobs. Earnings should be part of it. But the type of job and amount you work should also be considered. If I work 60 hours a week in a coal mine and my wife works 20 hours a week in a medical office, she should do everything in the house, and I should rest. This would be true if the genders/jobs were reversed too (then I'd do everything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.Women don't want to make the first move because that would require them to be responsible. When it comes to dating, women want everything done for them with minimal to no effort on their part. Apparently its men's responsibility to do eveything for them. But yet they still want "equal" rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 07:24 PM |
| – | I have witnessed firsthand girls who previously wanted a guy badly but completely lost interest in him when they found out he was niceThe bottom line is women don't want men. They want someone who can provide for them. If you have no money to give them, women automatically label you as a creep. This is why I stopped looking. Women aren't worth the effort. I'd rather not be financially used and emotionally abused again. And yes, almost all women are like this eventually in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 01:43 PM |
| 4 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipThis is true. Women always leave relationships when they get bored, but then whine that no man will commit. Women only care about what people can do for them, men and other women. That's why women always try and change men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 11:43 AM |
| -1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessYeah because boys can't be sexually abused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:55 AM |
| 14 | Is it legal for men to meet with each other and discuss their feelings?Sure. I go to a group of only men with mental health concerns. We've had no issues with women wanting to join. They have their own groups. One thing I can't find however is a group to talk about sexual assault and abuse that welcomes men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Would you trade your gender’s dating struggles?I would love to have it easy in the dating world like women do. Contrary to popular belief, men are too at risk of domestic violence, sexual assault and harrasment. I've experienced all three as a man. Anyway, yes, I'd rather be more in slight danger but have better luck in finding a date. I would love to have no responsibility and just let swarms of women come after me. It be nice to be approched more. I have been approached three times by women. It be nice to not have to pay for everything. Of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 05:47 PM |
| – | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 09:52 AM |
| 6 | The frequent claim that lesbians commit the most DV is a lieWomen initiate most domestic voilence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:33 AM |
| 1 | If women aren't reporting rape/SA – who's to blame for terrible statistics?Yeah, because men can't be sexually assaulted and boys can't be molested. That's what my first female therapist told me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Confused over conflicting rhetoric about women who want things paid for vs women who payThe problem lies in the fact that women want to have the ability to not adhere to traditional gender roles (which they should be able to do what they want) but they expect men to still hold to traditional male roles. Women who have a career is seen as empowered. But a man who wants to be a stay-at-home parent (like me) is seen as useless, weak and not a real man. There is a lot more pressure on men to be traditional men than there is on women to be traditional. I personally want a woman who is i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 06:12 PM |
| – | If Society “Doesn’t Hold Women Responsible”, What SHOULD Society Be Doing to Them?Women aren't held to the same standards as men. Women can expect not to pay on dates. Women are given lower fines and bail. They are given less jail time for the same crimes. And some crimes women do like raping children are seen as funny and made light of, and these women usually don't even get in trouble. Women don't have to sign up for the selective service. Women don't have to work if they can find a man willing to pay for them. Women do less work than men and complain about not getting paid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 05:30 PM |
| 3 | I disagree that women’s dating preferences show entitlement, however I think it is unfair that men can’t as easily demand the same.It is entitlement when you assume someone else is going to pay for you just because you have a vagina. A woman who is not willing to meet you halfway on a date will never be there for you in a relationship. I went out with a girl once who brought two of her girl friends with her obviously expecting me to pay for all of them. I lied and said I had to go to the restroom and just left. Bringing someone else on a date or not offering to pay your way, is a huge red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Are married men happier and more successful because they’re married or are they married because they’re happier and more successfulMen tend to not do well emotionally when single. Its actually been shown that men are the more emotional sex. Male infants cry more when left alone, respond more to pain and smile more. This is my experience too from being a dad. Men tend to take much longer to get over a break up too. It may take years for men, while women its only a few days. Men are more successful when they are encouraged. If they get that in a marriage then they will be more successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How Much of Guys Being Sex Obsessed is Socially Constructed?I never understood the obsession with sex. When I lost my virginity at 18 it was totally unexpected. Basically I was making out with some girl in the back of a car that was on its way to a college campus and she said "I'm going to reward you later". When we got to her dorm she and I had sex. It was my first time any it wasn't all that. Since then I've been on dating sites and had sex with about 15 women, including my ex-wife, whom I have children with. I haven't had sex in six years now, and don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How would things be if women outnumbered men 70 - 30?Terrible. Who's going to take care of infustructure, work constrcution, build things, perform surgery, provide (most) medical care, protect the populace, go to war, join the military, teach at colleges and more things mostly men do. Women do these things, but rarely. Men keep the world functioning. Women take care of our children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 11:38 AM |
| – | Do Some Men Prefer Women with Low Self-Esteem? Why?You can have a high self esteem and not be a bitch. The problem with women, is the two usually go together. I prefer a woman who is happy with herself but sees that her life might in fact be better with a good man. We need to complement each other and not jump on the "mad bad, woman good" femenist mantra. We need to realize men and women being equal means equality under the law, not in ability. Men and women are very different and want different things. In a relationship we need to lean on each … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | The terms boys will be boys and man up are very misunderstood and not harmfulI personally think they both are terrible. I've been told to "man-up" about the abuse I went through as a child. Boys will be boys is just an excuse for bad parenting. Both are damaging to boys and men. Women often talk about their experiences with men: being approached, catcalled, to the more extreme of rape and abuse etc., and we're just supposed to believe them. But when I talk about my experiences with women, abuse and neglect in childhood (from all the women in my immidiate family), suddenl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Why are men like this?I understand the feeling. Every bar I go to I'm approached by womem and even a few gay men. I've even been approached in bookstores and coffee shops. I think women think I'm gay so I'm safe to talk to. (I am bisexual). I guess I must look good looking or something because strange women talk to me a lot it seems. Nothing like harassement or anything. But just general, "how's the weather" conversation. Which I don't mind. I like talking to people. Although I have be groped a few times by women in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 01:44 AM |
| – | Pathological Entitlement in some MenI only work 2 days a week on the weekends. I go to bars for entertainment. Now, I have avoided going to bars past 3 pm, because that's when all the younger people are there. I'm an alcocholic, I go to bars in the morning when they open. When all the old alcoholics like me are there. I'm not really an alcoholic, I'm more of a binge drinker. I don't go to any bars anymore that attract the college coward. Only the run-down hole in the wall places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Males should pay for the first date because makeup is expensiveNo. Make-up is not necessary. A little goes a long way. There is no difference between the cheap stuff and the expensive stuff. If you're spending $1,700 on make-up, you're the problem. Most men don't care. Spending money on unnecessary luxury doesn't entitle you to men's money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Pathological Entitlement in some MenI've never been more happy living alone now that I'm away from all the abusive women I've had in my life. I don't feel entitled to anything from women, and I would be greatful if they'd leave me alone. Everytime I go out to a bar there's a woman that tries to talk to me. Do I put on some kind of vibe that tells women I'm okay to talk to? I don't mind talking to people. I've had some great conversations with strangers at the bars I frequent. But I'm always nervous when they happen to be women. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:04 AM |
| 2 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?I am neither redpill or bluepill. But I definately would be redpill before bluepill. I have more to fear from women than women do from me. My step mother physically and sexually abused me from age 4 to 9, my mother is an alcholic that ignored the abuse, and was emotionally abusive while my step father beat me from the time I was 4 until I was too big to hit anymore. My ex-wife is bipolar and was sexually manipulative and emotionally abusive. It wasn't until I was 31 that I've been on my own away… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:52 AM |
| – | Where are the feminist women?Feminsim isn't about equal rights. If it was it would have died off in the 1970s. Today, feminsim is about special priviledges for women and hating men for not making enough money, being tall and fit and adhereing to traditional male gender roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 01:20 PM |
| -1 | Women should make it much more obvious when they are interested in a guy, it is extremely nerve wracking trying to work up the courage to approach strangers and for most people this is their only opportunity.I've had a variety of jobs. And women do like 1/4 the work of men at every job I've had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 07:13 PM |
| -1 | Women should make it much more obvious when they are interested in a guy, it is extremely nerve wracking trying to work up the courage to approach strangers and for most people this is their only opportunity.Women don't want to have to put any effort into...well anything. Relationships, their job, etc. The only thing women put effort into sometimes is their kids. And they don't always do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 06:30 PM |
| 5 | What song describes your view on dating/ relationships?I hate myself for loving you by Joan Jett | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?What does height have to do with it? Yes, it is much easier for women to find someone. You're obviously going after the wrong type of men. Women's standards are much higher than men's. If women have trouble finding someone, it's their own fault. Not every man is 6'3", muscular and athletic and makes six figures. Men have to do a lot to attract women. The only thing women have to do is spread their legs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:12 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what counts as a successful romantic relationship?A key to a good relationship is not to depend on each other for everything. You have to be your own person. Other things obviously include good communication and respect (what women demand but never give). Find someone who loves you for who you are, not for who they want you to be. Relationships usually end because the woman gets "bored" and says he's "not the man I married". That's just a lame excuse to cheat. We change throughout our life. We need someone who is mature, and can adjust to those… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Women can be used for their bodies. Men cannot.Sure men can be used for sex. That's one main reason (of many) for my divorce. My ex-wife is bipolar and a sex addict. She ALWAYS wanted to have sex, and when I finally started saying no because it wasn't satifiying anymore, she went elsewhere. Men are objectified more than women. I've never once seen a body positive advertisment for men until very recently. Men ALL have to be fit, muscular and over 6 foot. (And make lots of money). Women, on the other hand, only have to spread their legs. As fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:00 AM |
| – | Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women??If you can't get your point across in one paragraph, don't post a question. I'm not going to watse my time reading pro-life propaganda. If you want to kill your baby, I don't care. The abortion debate is only for those with a low IQ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:02 PM |
| 2 | How valid are womens fears of men?Not as valid as they make it out to be. Men are more likely to be the victim of all crimes except childhood sexual abuse. If you look at male on male rape too, men are actually more likely to be raped than women. That doesn't diminish crimes against women. But, crimes against men and boys are partically ignored and even made fun of. I was raped and sexually abused as a child (I'm male) and I've been told it's not a big deal, or even that I'm lucky because my prepatrator was a woman. I was also p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women?I prefer intelligent people vs conservstives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Women are not picky at all, maybe less so than menIn dating site analysis, women say yes to an average of 15% of profiles, whereas men say yes to 85%. Women are way more picky than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly?Several reasons. One, women are much more likely to end a relationship without reason. By that time they are already over it. Men are actually the more emotional sex believe it or not. Studies in male vs female infants show males cry more and longer when left alone, respond more readily to painful stimuli and smile more when happy. Men love more deeply because its a evolutionary advantage. Women can always guarantee the paternity of their children, so they don't need men after they reproduce. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Do men not care about having female friends?Most of my friends are female. I only ever really had two good male friends and since one of them died, I really don't see the other one. I'm definately not against having female friends. In fact, at this point in my life, I prefer just to be friends with women. I have no romantic or sexual interests in women (or men) anymore. I'm too old for that nonsense. Men and women definately can be friends without sexual tension. I have no romantic or sexual interest for any of my current friends who are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 01:04 PM |
| 4 | All men are predators? Or irrational fear?I kinda understand the fear women have of men because I have the same fear of women for different but somewhat similar reasons. Since I was four I've been sexually, physically and emotionally abused by women (step mother and mother). I try to avoid being around women unless I have to be. I understand not all women are like that, but I understand where women are coming from. That being said, most of my friends and co-workers are women and they don't bother me. But I still am afraid of getting too… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many gay men get along with straight women?When a guy, straight or gay, doesn't show sexual interest for a woman, it is easier to be friends. I am bisexual (male), and most of my friends have been women. If they know I show no sexual interest in them, which I don't, it's easier for them to open up. I don't think it's necessarily a straight or gay thing. It just has to do with being friends and not automatically wanting to sleep with them. Unfortunately, many women think that's all men want, so they treat us like crap, not even allowing f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women seem to take pleasure in rejecting certain men?From an early age, a lot of girls are told they are special, deserve everything, and that boys are supposed to take care of them. They get emotional support from society, too. So girls grow up with inflated egos thinking they are God's gift to men. Boys don't get this. We are told, even as children, to toughen up, man-up, and ALWAYS treat girls like goddesses know matter how they treat you. Boys also don't get the same emotional support as girls. So when boys grow up, we have lowered self-esteem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 05:17 PM |
| 3 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themI have been approached by women twice. The first one was really nice, said she liked my beard, and we had a good conversation, but it didn't go anywhere. I made it clear I wasn't interested. Not because she was ugly or anything, she was tall, skinny, and very good-looking. But she was also 15 years younger than me. The second time, two girls came up to me and asked me if I wanted to buy them a drink. I said no. Again, they were attractive, but to me, asking someone else to buy you a drink is sel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with thatNot true for all men. I'm nice to women because it's the right thing to do. I'm not looking for sex. There are "nice guys" that think women owe them sex. But most men are not like "nice guys" or "chads". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do women love testing menI don't know. Women talk about how important communication is in a relationship, but then they don't ever communicate. They expect you to know exactly what they want. Men are not lazy. We just aren't as urgent as women. If there's dishes in the sink, we'll get to them eventually. If you want them done, say, "Dear, will you help me with the dishes" instead of being passive-aggressive and saying, "Those dishes have been there for two days." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 02:03 PM |
| 2 | What do you consider cheating?Any behavior that is intended to lead to sex. Flirting, intimate emotional connection, holding hands or kissing, and, of course, sexual related activities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | If woman have the choice over abortion, should men have the choice over child support?Yes. I don't think there should even be child support. At least not that which is mandated by the state. Yes, taxpayers should have to contribute to helping struggling families. Those who don't think so have never been poor. But to require 1/3 of your salary to go to some deadbeat woman who will probably not use the money on the child anyway is ridiculous. Either that or there should be a requirement to report everything you spend from child support money. If you're not spending it on the childr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:31 AM |
| – | What do you think about female teachers going after teenage boys ?I was sexually abused by my stepmother as a child, starting at age four. Women can be pedophiles too. I think it's just as bad as men who are pedophiles. Actually, I think it's worse because women usually get away with it. Or they're seen as victims. Women can actually sue a teenager they rape for child support if they get pregnant. Boys who are abused are seen as lucky or somehow wanting it. At least girls who are sexual abuse victims are treated as victims. I've been told I was lucky, I was ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 03:31 PM |
| – | Apparently, a lot of women now want to meet someone while "running errands"But only if you're tall, good-looking, and drive something expensive. If not, casually talking to a woman is sexual harassment, somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:11 PM |
| 1 | If you woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex, and knew you would never go back, how would your views change?Man, here. I would like to be the opposite sex so I could have custody of my children and easily find a husband. Not that I, as a father, don't see my kids. I have them Thursday and every other weekend. But I'd like to be there full-time. But custody of children is awarded to mothers 85% of the time regardless of ability to care for those kids. I also wouldn't be seen as lazy like I am now for being on long-term disability working only 16 hours per week. My bills for insurance of all kinds would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Just because men are argued to have it “worst” in getting a girl doesn’t mean women can’t have it badWomen have more options. Yes, a very small percentage of women may not. But the majority of women get hundreds of matches per week and tons of messages on dating sites. I was on match for a year and got three messages. Some guys get zero messages. And you're complaining about the dozens of messages you do get. Women do have it easier when it comes to dating. At least you get the opportunity to date someone. Some guys never get the chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 04:46 PM |
| – | So, is talking to women at bars just… over?Yes. If you're not good-looking, tall, and rich, talking to women who are strangers is considered sexual harassment. Dating apps have ruined relationships. Now, women can be even more picky and communicate less than they already do. Women will deny this and say things like "if you're just not creepy." But short, ugly, overweight men are automatically considered creepy without any evidence. The whole body positivity thing for women also ruined relationships. Now, even overweight, ugly women think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Is there a double standard when it comes to women and men being single? Does one have it worse than the other?Men have it worse in terms of being single. Single men are seen as threats or losers. Whereas single women are seen as damsels in distress that need help finding their prince. It's also much easier for a single woman to find a date if she wants. For single men, especially over 30, it's next to impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 03:21 PM |
| 14 | Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecuritiesI feel less alone with my cats than I did when I was married. You're only as alone as you want to be. I think the point is that women have no excuse to be lonely. Any woman could have a relationship tomorrow if they wanted. Women who are single choose to be single. Which is fine. But some men who are single weren't given a choice. Men can't just ask anyone for a date and get a guaranteed yes. Women can do this. So, women making fun of men's loneliness is just vile. There is nothing wrong with be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 06:07 PM |
| – | Are there more lonely men or lonely women?Women generally have no excuses to be lonely. Most women have a social network of friends and could easily find a boyfriend. Men don't have these luxuries. That is why men tend to be more lonely. But to the men out there who are lonely. Women are not worth it. They'll cheat on you eventually anyway. You need to love yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"Men not only just commit suicide more. We make up almost all military deaths, work place deaths, and injuries. Men deserve to get paid more because we do real jobs. Men also to a better job than women at the same job. Women have a LOT more privileges than men do. Women can do nothing productive in society and still live an easy life. Men have to provide, fight in wars, work real jobs, be away from family, etc. If women aren't productive, they can just marry a man to do everything. Women don't ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:59 PM |
| -3 | What can autistic guys do to not make women feel like predators?Amen! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 04:01 PM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseOf course, women don't owe men anything. But men don't owe women anything either. But yet, women expect men to cater to them. Paying for everything like dates and an expensive ring. If you don't want to give men anything, then you have no ground to expect men to cater to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:52 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill claim that modern women are “not held accountable” is completely bogus.Women aren't held accountable in the same way as men. Women get less jail time, if any, and less punishment for equal or even worse crimes. A woman can rape an underage boy and sue him for child support and win. Women can cry rape when they have a bad night with a man and ruin his life. Half of all rape allegations are false. But there's the campaign that we should believe all women. Yes, women are less accountable than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Why do single women seem so happy compared to single men?Single women generally have a better social network than men. They tend to have more friends, go to/benefit more from therapy or support groups, go to social events more, etc. And mostly, women's needs are taken care of by the government. Single men contrast tend to be loners, less likely to go to therapy, support groups, or outings. Plus, men can't get the kind of financial support from the government women can. Thus, they are more likely to be homeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 07:20 PM |
| 6 | 80 20 thing is justified because in general men put in less effortLess effort in what? Men work a LOT more than women, so they don't have time to take as good of care of themselves. On AVERAGE, women work 24 hours a week, and men work 60. Men put more effort in financially because they work more. (Which is another reason men should get paid more). Since men work more, do harder jobs, and generally do a better job in the workforce, they shouldn't have to help with housework. Most beauty standards for women are reinforced by other women. Most men don't care. I'v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 04:29 PM |
| 4 | Who does it benefit to say “people on medication are a red flag”?It doesn't benefit anyone. The only people who say psychiatric medicine isn't helpful are people who don't need the medicine. I have schizophrenia and definitely need my medicine, or I will be crazy. I am stable and have been for 6 years now because I finally found the right medicine. People with genuine psychiatric disorders aren't weak or faking it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 04:14 PM |
| – | Asking a woman how much a men should make to date her. Its always at least 200kI didn't have a job when I met my wife, and she did. We were still together 9 years and had two children. I found a job shortly after we met. I don't know anyone who makes more than $50,000 per year at the very most. I currently make $36,500 and live comfortably. In fact, I just spent around $1500 on video gaming systems and video games, and I still have more than enough money. Very few people make $200,000 or more. Most women just want a man who is stable, confident, and has some kind of job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 03:40 PM |
| – | Asking a woman how much a men should make to date her. Its always at least 200kI spent the price of the marriage license, and that's it and an $80 ring! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Why do men feel entitled to romance and or intimacy?Why do women feel entitled to men's money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 02:58 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women don’t have high standards. Below average guys keep thinking they are average.That's not true. Most women wouldn't even consider someone under 6 foot even if he was very good-looking and made a lot of money. Women think only a small percentage of guys are attractive, while men consider most women attractive. Women are allowed to have standards. The problem is then that most women complain when men have standards too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 09:19 PM |
| 0 | Men pursue “fake” women the mostI have no idea what your talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 06:12 PM |
| 0 | Men pursue “fake” women the mostNot really. Women only notice the top 1% of guys, and those are the type of guys that go after fake women. But let's be real, all women are fake to some extent. Some more than others. If all women didn't think they deserved the top 1%, them maybe women would find a good guy. Even butt ugly women think they deserve Prince Charming, and that's the problem. Women are constantly told they are beautiful no matter what, so they have a superiority complex when it comes to dating. You can't only look at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Why should women today deal with the averаge man?Men do everything to keep society running. If all women disappeared, almost nothing would change (except eventually dying out). Society would keep on functioning. If all men disappeared, society would collapse in a few hours. Yes, hours. Who is going to grow and produce your food? Maintain your infrastructure? Protect your rights? Govern everything? We certainly don't see women doing these things. Men run society. Women just live in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Why does the media not say rape or statutory rape when boys are raped by women?Men and boys are the disposable sex. Men scarfice everything. Men do all the hard, dangerous jobs, are 98% of the military, die by murder and suicide a lot more often than women. And if you count male prison rape, men are actually raped more. Boys are 40% of sexual abuse victims as children. (Most done by women). But pointing these things out takes away the victim status of women and girls. Men and boys are never victims, according to feminists. Women can never do anything wrong, especially not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 07:38 PM |
| – | Should women be blamed if their marriages fail?Yes, most of the time, anyway. After all, women initiate 80% of divorces. Women cheat more and are more likely to get bored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 03:25 PM |
| 1 | men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address itYou are correct. But your issue is expecting feminists to care about male issues. Feminism by definition, is midandrous. Feminism is all about hating men and making fun of male issues (like higher suicide rates, which feminists make fun of all the time). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t care about loveMen actually love deeper and have more significant emotions than women. Studies in infants show male infants cry more, respond more readily to painful stimuli, and get more upset when away from caregivers. Men (boys) since childhood are told to repress their emotions so we don't see that the more emotional sex is actually men. Men take much longer to get over a breakup than women, and many never do. Men want love and respect just as much, if not more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 02:44 PM |
| 2 | All of men's dating issues are caused by menYou say all men's dating problems are caused by men, then you talk about how women are the problem. Women are the ones who think they all deserve the top tier men despite what they look like or bring to a relationship. You assume all men want is sex because you only go after the types of guys like that. But in reality, they are only a small percentage. Most guys want exactly what most women want. Respect, a relationship, commitment, etc. It's not men's fault that women's standards are unrealisti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)It depends on what you mean by fat. If we're talking 600 lbs, I probably would not date them. If we're talking under around 250 lbs, then that's fine by me. Bigger women, imo are more attractive, plus they're a lot better in bed. My ex-wife weighed 230 lbs when I met her. I find her very attractive. Not all guys are the same. The ones that just don't want you to be fat are probably in the top 10%. The problem is that even overweight women think they deserve the top 1% of men. And when those men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Are men really not attracted to fat girls?Women here often say women are not all the same. Which is true. Men are also not all the same. I recently here argued that not all men want sex and I was told I was wrong by women. If women don't want men to judge all women the same, why do women do this with men? I personally like bigger women. My ex-wife is 200 lbs now, and she was, I believe, 230 lbs when I met her. I still care about her because we have kids and she's very attractive to me. I've dated both skinny women and fat women and foun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 02:40 PM |
| 9 | Who told men that being nice will get them laid?No one ever told me anything about dating or how to get a woman to accept you as a potential partner. Or that being nice would get me laid. I'm personally not looking to get laid when I talk to women in a bar or something. I'm just looking for friends. Who told women that all men want sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV This Manosphere believe that today you will get charged with sexual assault if you approach a Women in the Street or Work, is completely delusional and couldn't be further from the truth.That's not true. If you don't look good, women will automatically lable you a creep no matter what you say or how you approach. The problem with this is that women never tell us what they mean by respect. I know what respect is to me, but each woman has a different definition. You should never approach a woman on the street or at work, I agree that awkward. But I think women exaggerate the amount of harassment they receive or what is considered as harassment. The safest bet for men is not to app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediaI don't know what "touch grass" means, and I have never seen a catcall in real life. The bottom line is, if you don't look good, women will automatically lable you as a creep no matter what you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 12:48 PM |
| 4 | Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royaltyWomen here tend to paint men with the same brush. Not all men care only about sex and want to have sex with every woman they see. Where I live, I have never seen any men like that. When I go out, I just want to eat and drink and be left alone. Women already have equality. The fact that they want special treatment shouldn't be a man's problem. I go to different bars often. I've never seen a man approach a woman. I think women exaggerate how much attention they get. I've only ever been approached … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Men, do you comment on women's social media posts?Why are all the questions directed at men about sex? Whereas when men ask questions about women, it's a lot more profound usually. Anyway, no, I never comment on anyone's posts on Facebook, and I don't have Twitter or Instagram. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:24 PM |
| 9 | A thought about male empowerment vs female empowerment.Third wave feminism is about putting men down and being nasty to men. That's their entire movement. Feminists don't care about equality anymore. They just care about playing the victim and blaming men instead of being responsible. I've never heard any songs about male or female empowerment. So I can't say much to this regard. But I also don't listen to rap or hip hop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Are you worried you might be in a dead bedroom someday?I've been there already. I'm 37. My ex-wife was a sex addict who always wanted sex, so even after having kids, the bedroom was never dull. I'm the one who decided I didn't want sex as much or, really, anymore. When I did that, she cheated on me and got pregnant. We get along great now. She has all her kids and our kids with her and her husband. And I'm finally free of a sex addict wife. It works out great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Are you worried you might be in a dead bedroom someday?I've been there already. I'm 37. My ex-wife was a sex addict who always wanted sex, so even after having kids, the bedroom was never dull. I'm the one who decided I didn't want sex as much or, really, anymore. When I did that, she cheated on me and got pregnant. We get along great now. She has all her kids and our kids with her and her husband. And I'm finally free of a sex addict wife. It works out great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 02:38 PM |
| 0 | Why does it matter whether someone rejects you, or has high standards?It doesn't. But if you find that your standards are too high and you're still alone, only you are to blame. Especially if you're a woman since it's easy for most women to find a date. Women do have a double standard, though. For them, it's okay to have unrealistic standards. But if a man has one realistic standard, suddenly he's a creep or a misogynist. You can't have standards for men and complain that men have standards for women, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Are men more willing to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to them?Yes, I would want my significant other to find me attractive. Where do you women find these guys you describe? I have never seen even a small percentage of the types of men women claim are the majority of men. Most men want to be seen as attractive, loved, and respected... just like women do. I've never heard of anyone not caring whether or not they're attractive to a significant other. I think you women are just bitter singles that make up the type of men you hate so you can argue against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Those who have/had trouble relating to the opposite sex, what do you think caused this? Were you able to fix it?I grew up around abusive people. Especially women. My stepfather was physically abusive. My stepmother mother sexually abused me as a young child. And my whole family is neurotic. My mom and aunt are emotionally abusive alcoholics. My grandmother, mother, and aunt are constantly critical of how I look. When I was 4, when the sexual abuse started, my mother left for six months. So I've been abandoned, abused, and neglected by women and men all my life. My ex-wife cheated on me and got pregnant. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 03:32 PM |
| – | Men and women do tell you what they want, its up to you to decide to accept or notWomen never say what they want directly. If they did, dating would be much easier, and divorce rates would be lower. Women expect you to read minds. They assume men can read body language and social cues perfectly. They'll say things like "Well, it obvious I wasn't interested" or "You should know what I want." Ladies, most men are not good at body language and social cues. If you want or don't want something, I'll tell you like I used to tell my 4 year old, "Use your words." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical.Women are allowed to have any preferences they want to for men. But they can't complain when men have standards too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:08 PM |
| 9 | What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"?Rejecting someone for height is a LOT worse than rejecting someone for weight. Height is not something that can be changed. Weight can be controlled. Women who have height requirements are extremely shallow and not worth your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 05:47 PM |
| – | Does feminism create MGTOW mindset in well meaning men?Yes. Feminists, by definition, hate men. Feminism teaches young boys that their feelings don't matter and that they have to be nice to girls no matter what. This feminist mindset of ignoring the needs of boys creates men who abuse women. A girl who's emotionally expressive is fine. A boy who's emotional has ADHD and should be medicated. This mindset shows boys that they don't matter as much as girls. Boys learn to resent girls, and as men treat women poorly. Feminism creates the "monsters" it's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 05:37 PM |
| 1 | How important is “virginity” to men?The only reason I'm concerned by women's body count is because the more men that women have slept with, the more likely they are to cheat on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Has Red Pill Advice Worked at all?I don't know, I don't take red pill advice because I'm not interested in dating anyone at this time. From my experience, the most important things are to be good-looking, tall, and rich if you want to attract women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 02:43 PM |
| 4 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?Enjoy it. I already accomplished the purpose I wanted a relationship for. That being having children. I have two wonderful children, my ex-wife and I are still friends, and I have friends in and outside of work for a social outlet. I have my books and video games for entertainment. I enjoy being alone. The main reason I don't want to get married again is because of my stuff. I have too many expensive things to have them be taken in a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 02:27 PM |
| 0 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?Feminists would lose their small minds if something was created that only benefited men, so yes it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 11:33 AM |
| 7 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?Yes, and if men did that, it would be considered misogynistic because it supports men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:11 PM |
| 4 | Do women use the adjectives "creepy" "weirdo" "stalker" etc., as synonymous of "unattractive"?If you're good-looking, tall, rich, and drive something expensive, approaching a woman isn't considered creepy or weird. It's only when you don't look good, aren't rich, and are short that it's creepy. It doesn't matter how respectful and nice you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Are men more emotionally fragile than women?Guys can be abused too, boys as children are physically abused more than girls, and sexual abuse of children is 60/40. Most men who have the kinds of troubles you're describing were probably abused at some point in their life. As men and boys, we are taught that our needs or emotions don't matter. So, as boys, we don't express them. That sets us up for emotional turmoil later in life. Girls, on the other hand, are encouraged to express themselves, so they develop more emotionally stable adulthoo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: To the men who met their female friends or romantic prospects IRL, where do you meet them?Most of my friends who are girls I met in high school or college. As for my (ex) wife, I met her on an online dating site. I've met other women on occasion at bars, been approached a few times, but nothing was made of it. Friends are maintained by shared interests, conversations, and just being together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 03:43 PM |
| 9 | How is misandry different from other forms of biogtry in a way that make it acceptable?Misandry is not just socially acceptable, but it's often encouraged. No one cares about the problems men have. It is somehow considered misogynistic to point out a problem only men face. (Or mostly only men). Like homelessness, war casualties, war injuries, financial burdens, etc. One great example of misandry is prostate cancer. Prostate cancer kills three times more men than breast cancer kills women. But there's no big deal made of it, unlike "Race For The Cure" for women. Women think men hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Men, would you rather treat a women like a queen or like 💩?Why would I want to treat a woman poorly? I would show respect until I was consistently disregarded and disrespected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Genuine close friendship between men and women is basically impossibleI disagree. I have two close male friends, and the rest are female. (I'm male). Of my friends who are girls, I don't consider any of them to be a potential partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?If I were attractive, knowing what I know about being male, if I were a woman, I would approach guys all the time looking for potential mates until I found one. Most guys would love a woman to approach them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | The Percentage of Rape Victims Who Are Men, and the Percentage of Perpetrators Who Are Women, is Higher Than Most People ThinkI was sexually abused by my stepmother as a child, starting at age 4. I've been asked if my stepmother was "hot." Told I was lucky. Some women have even said I was lying, that women couldn't do that. I even had a female therapist who said only girls can be molested. Sexual crimes against males of any age are trivialized. One in six males are sexually abused or assaulted in their life times. One in thirteen male children are sexually abused before age 12, 40% of those being by females. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | The main reason why women should never make the first moveI've been approached by women before and rejected them (both sexually and relationship wise). Believe it or not, but not all men are after sex. Women should learn some responsibility and approach men. Stop whining there are no good men when all you do is sit around and wait. Be proactive in finding a good boyfriend if you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Men, why do you want a girlfriend?I don't. I'd rather be alone with my books and video games. Girls are too expensive, and then they leave and take all your stuff. I have too many expensive things to risk that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Women do get rejected by menSo you think having sex with whoever you want to because you're female is rejection. Women are so entitled. How would you really feel if a man didn't want to have sex with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:39 PM |
| 3 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personI always wondered why women couldn't approach. Why does all responsibility always have to be put on the man? With the #metoo hysteria, approaching a woman as a man now can be dangerous. If you're not good-looking, tall, and rich, you get accused of sexual harassment by saying hi once. Women complain they can't find any decent men. But then turn around and scream harassment when someone does say hi. It's ridiculous. That's why I stopped trying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Men can't have more sex if they don't approach women. Over 50% of single men have not approached a woman in the past year.Why can't women approach? Why is all responsibility always put on men? Women will turn around and claim harassment toward men who approach if they aren't handsome, tall, rich, and drive something expensive. If you're not these things, even one approach could be considered sexual harassment. This is why I stopped approaching women. I don't want my life ruined by a claim of sexual harassment for saying hi once. Since I'm not that good-looking, short, poor, and I don't drive something expensive, I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorceMarriage is an excellent deal for women. Someone to pay your bills, do the hard housework, and alimony and child support when you get bored. Men get the short straw when it comes to marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:16 PM |
| 5 | Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorceThen why do women bother with getting married? Loyality in marriage is not unreasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorceMaybe if women knew how to be loyal and not move on once they got bored. Women don't love as deeply as men do. That's why it takes men so much longer to get over a divorce. Everyone thinks women are more emotional, but it's not true. Men are just better at hiding emotions. In studies of infants and toddlers it has been shown boys cry more when away from caregivers and show a heightened response to pain (physical and emotional). Marriage is supposed to be about commitment. The question isn't why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Does any gender as a whole have less accountability than another? If so which and can you provide realistic examples?Women have less accountability overall. Women get less time in prison for the same or worse crimes. Women are more likely to benefit financially from a man, and thus, they don't have to work as much. Women who do work tend to have easy jobs. Women are allowed to complain about men, but if men complain, we're misogynistic. Women's healthcare needs are taken more seriously. Men are only less accountable when it comes to parental investment, and usually, it's not by choice. A lot of men are forced … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 03:35 PM |
| – | Why be angry at women over their attraction?I'm not angry at women's preferences. I'm angry that women expect men to like all women, and when men have standards, we are called misogynistic. When women have standards, they are called empowered. If you have standards, that's fine. But don't act like you're oppressed when men have standards, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Males, do you experience the "ick"? It so - what? If not, why not?If by "ick" you mean minor things that make no difference, then no. If you mean red flags, then yes. Red flags for me include: --having no job --being condescending or rude --not respecting boundaries --expecting me to pay for everything --bringing friends on a date --always hating on men for no reason --expecting me to try harder when you say no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a single mother with a dead kid?I would date anyone who was respectful. I don't think that single mothers are irresponsible. It's the fathers who didn't support them that are irresponsible. I would have no issue helping to raise a child that wasn't mine as long as I wasn't expected to do so. If she's single and her kid is dead, she's not a single mother anymore anyway. So I don't see the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4M do you agree with following statements?Somewhat true. Women know the truth and use lies to their advantage. True. Unless you've already been married and have kids. Single women care about money and status. True. Men, as a general rule in society, are the forgotten sex. For example, there are no domestic violence shelters for men. I don't really understand what is being said here. True. Women care about money and things they can get from men. Partially true. Women can be reasonable if they want. But they use their emotions as manipula… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | The women telling you to not approach don't care about your successWhy is it only guys that have to be responsible? Why can't women do their share of approaching men? Why is it always up to men to impress women when most women bring nothing to the table? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?Twenty year olds are too immature. I would pick someone over thirty. It should only be split 50/50 if both the man and woman have a full-time job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 03:30 PM |
| 4 | CMV: It's ok to leave your husband even if he's a great guyWomen say they want commitment, but then are the first to leave when they get bored. Women don't want relationships. They want someone to take care of their every need and want, and when men can't do that, they move on. When will women learn to be responsible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:05 PM |
| 0 | What does "putting a woman in her place mean?"It's a sexist phrase just like "man-up" that expects us to adhere to 1950s gender roles. Men have it a lot worse in the expectation of adhering to traditional gender roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Jobs that are dealbreakers (for me )...what about you?Any kind of "social influencer" Jobs where you're at work most of the time (doctors, lawyers, etc). High stress jobs (police, fire fighters, military, etc) Truckers (nothing against them! Just would like to see my partner) I'm not snobbish like some, I don't mind if you have a low-end job (janitor, server, etc). I've had many of those myself, and they aren't easy. No job. I already took care of a lazy now ex-wife, not doing that again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you ever "go through the motions" to please your partner sexually?Yes. I want to make her happy. With my now ex-wife, I would have unwanted and sometimes coerced sex all the time because she was a sex addict. I finally got tired of it and said no, and she cheated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Men: how do you feel about yourself? What do you think of yourself?I am in the top 1% of IQ points. And I know only one person in my family is smarter than me. (Because he has a PhD, I have two bachelor's). I'm proud of my college achievements (degrees in biology and psychology). I've been told by women before that I'm attractive. I was in a ten year marriage until I got cheated on. I am loyal in relationships. I believe I communicate well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 12:58 PM |
| 1 | 50-50 doesn't work because men actually have to do more than the woman in order for the relationship to surviveDisagree. Women should do more in terms of housework. First, men (usually) do all the actual hard housework. Mowing the lawn, fixing things, cleaning gutters/roofs, etc. Second, men (usually) do more outside the home. Men work longer hours, harder jobs, and usually do a better overall job outside the home. This is not saying women can't be coal miners or men can't be secretaries, but that's just not how it usually is. 96% of workplace fatalities are men. And 98% of outside labor jobs are men. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Forget sex or relationships, how tf does a man even become friends with a woman?Most of my friends are women. I only have 2 guy friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 12:30 PM |
| 2 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?Neither senerio actually exists. The friend zone and the fuck zone are just excuses "nice" guys and "nice" girls use because they are too insecure to be in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What steps do you take to make men less afraid of you?The worst crime to humanity is childhood sexual abuse, in which women perpetrate 40% against children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Guys who lie about their height vs women who lie about their weightThis is assuming all women care about height or all men care about weight. The difference is that height is not something you can control, making women incredibly more superficial than men. We shouldn't lie to each other because it will eventually come out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Is a woman having a job a bad thing?No. Women need jobs just as much as men do. And for me, I already support my kids and ex-wife, I don't need another deadbeat woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what steps do you take to make women less afraid of you?Yep. Imo men have more to fear from women than women have to fear from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Has a woman ever helped you get laid?I think women take too much from the movies. Maybe I'm just a dork, but when my guy friends (with a few girls) get together, we talk about video games and play Dungeons and Dragons. The topic of getting laid almost never comes up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:46 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: what steps do you take to make women less afraid of you?Nothing. If you're that paranoid that all men are evil, then you're not worth my time. QFW: What steps do you take to make men less afraid of you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic?There's more pressure on women from other women to by skinny. Most men don't care if you're fat or thin. The problem is that women only go after the top 1% of men who do care about weight, and they label all men the same. Men have to be tall, thin, but muscular, but not too thin or overly muscular, and they have to have money. Women just have to exist to get a date. Women need to step up and start taking some responsibility in dating and relationships. Why can't women approach and ask men? Most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?I would. But even a vasectomy isn't 100%. The best way is to get a hysterectomy. My ex-wife had a hysterectomy during her last C-section. Yeah, but I would have no issue getting a vasectomy. I wonder what kind of men women on r/purplepilldebate deal with on a regular basis. They are definitely not representative of most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman?I would date any woman who showed interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | In your experience, do platonic opposite-sex friendships often involve a lot of "giving" by men without reciprocity?Not that I've noticed from my friends. Most of my friends are girls. I actually only have two close male friends. The rest are girls. There is zero sexual tension between myself and my friends, who are girls. I am not in any way sexually attracted to them. I don't pay for them or whatever. We're like any other friends. Girls not giving as much as guys, however, is true in most relationships, friends, or lovers. In my friendships with girls, I do not feel like I give more than I get. So, it's not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:19 PM |
| 2 | "just be skinny" doesn't workI prefer bigger women myself. I've been with skinny women and well not-so-skinny women. Fat chicks are always better at sex. And from my experience, fat women are nicer. Besides, I'm not-so-skinny myself, so realistically, I will date within my means. When I met my wife, I was 120 lbs and fit. She is a bigger woman and always has been. I find her very attractive. (I had to take medicine that caused me to gain about 100lbs) Now I'm back down to 180 lbs and working to get fit again. Anyway, not al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:12 PM |
| -1 | How much of a turn off is astrology when a woman heavily believes in it?I only accept things to which there is valid evidence. I don't believe in things like astrology, God, or pixies for that reason. A woman who wouldn't date me because I'm the wrong sign isn't worth my time. Superstitious belief is a huge turn-off for me. It indicates the person isn't very intelligent. I prefer my significant other to be intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather your partner cheat on you with a tinder hook up or cheat on you for money?Money, definitely. My ex-wife cheated on me many times for thousands of dollars until she got pregnant. So I guess there is a downside. I'd rather not be cheated on at all, but if you must, get something out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Is it harder for a man or a woman to be considered attractive?It is much easier for women to be seen as attractive because most men are not picky. To get a date as a woman, all you need is a pulse. Men have to be good-looking, tall, well-adjusted, and rich at a minimum. And even that's not a guarantee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?Everyone in a relationship eventually settles for less than their standards. Who said settling was bad? We are never going to find someone up to our standards. Both men and women expect too much. But the fact is, men are way way less picky than women. Women think they deserve the top 1% even when they are at the bottom. The problem with women being selective is that most modern women bring nothing to the table. Women have nothing to offer but still expect the best of the best. Men do all the wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Where does the idea of "men are the gatekeepers of commitment" come from?Women are less likely to commit long term then men. Women are more likely to get bored and cheat. This claim that men don't want to commit is not true. Women just seek out the top 1% of guys who will not commit and ignore the 99% who desperately want a long-term relationship. Women get a few losers and assume all men are like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old?Of those pictures, the 20 year old definitely. That 50 year old looks gross, in my opinion. Besides, fat girls from my experience are always better at sex. And usually more respectful. I'm not against older women, but that picture looks like she's trying too hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?No, her desperation does not decrease her attractiveness. But the kind of woman you describe is a fantasy unless you're very good-looking, tall, and rich. Even below average women think they deserve the top percentage of men without bringing anything to the table. Women offer nothing in relationships anymore but still expect to be catered to. I'd love to find a woman with a career, her own money, and who doesn't expect me to take care of her. But that's rare. I would date anyone as long as I was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Men do care about a women's careerYes. I don't want a lazy woman whom I have to support. I have one of those already (ex-wife). I would prefer a woman who has her own career and own money. That way, she's not spending all of my money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | If you met your ideal woman today, do you think she would like you?First, men shouldn't be the only ones who have to change to attract women. I want the same thing women claim to want. A respectful, caring person who is a good communicator. Don't expect me to know what you want automatically. Tell me! I don't play games. Someone who respects and likes my friends and family. Common interests are also good. Looks are semi-important. If you treat me well and communicate well, I generally don't care what you look like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?The same way I do now. With mutual respect and kindness. Like I try to do with everyone irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 10:54 AM |
| 1 | What is the big deal about submission?Men need to feel in control. No offense, but men are better leaders than women. We don't get as emotional, we have better ideas, and we do more work. It may sound misogynistic, but it's still true. Men and women should work together. No one has the final say. Unless it is about their property they had before they met you. One benefit of a submissive woman is, let's face it, a better marriage. But why? Again, men need a sense of control. If a woman is dominant, and thus bitchy, men will resent th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating or even marrying an Average Joe or Plane Jane?I would date or marry anyone who treated me with respect, compassion, and commitment. But that's hard to find these days. Especially among women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4Everyone, can you give examples of good women/men you know in real life? Preferably people of the opposite gender to yours.The women I work with are awesome. Also, I mostly had female friends in high school and college whom all were nice. I have just not had good luck with relationships. For some reason, I attract the crazy ones. Although most people (men and women) show their true colors when they get involved in an intimate relationship. Being friends or co-workers is a lot different than living with someone you have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 10:32 AM |
| 3 | A guy spending a lot of money is a red flag.But I bet you still expect him to pay for everything, right? A red flag, for me, is a woman who refuses or can't pay their own way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.You mean you started acting like a responsible, decent person, and nice things happened? Men don't like being treated like ATM machines. You should always at least offer to pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?I don't care what a woman looks like or if she goes to the gym or not. I actually prefer bigger women. I've seen a lot of big women at the gym, too. I just want someone who respects me and respects themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?I see chubby women in relationships all the time. What I don't see is chubby men in relationships. So the answer is no. Most men will give any woman a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 06:14 PM |
| 3 | It's time to face the facts: Women want to be approached. Men aren't doing it. #MeToo is a convenient scapegoatYep. Women, again, have no responsibility. Why does the man always have to take the initiative? Why can't women approach men? This is, of course, not all women, just the stuck-up ones. I've been approached many times by women. #MeToo is not a scapegoat. It's a very good reason not to approach. Unless you're tall, thin, muscular, and rich, you get accused of being a creep if you approach women. And worse could be accused of "sexual harassment." Women can ruin a man's life with accusing them of fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfMen sacrifice more, actually. You said it, women get time off work. Men have to work to provide for their family--we don't have a choice. We don't see our kids as much because we're busy supporting them. Women get to choose whether they want to work or not. Yes, pregnancy is hard, but don't use that as an excuse to be lazy. Childcare is not difficult. Stop playing the victim and take some responsibility. If women shouldn't pay 50/50, then men shouldn't have to do any housework. Why do women play… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather be needed by OR wanted by a woman?Well, I mean, we all need love in our lives. We need companionship. That's how I want to feel needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Are "marriageable" women truly rare today? Why or why not?Doesn't matter if they are. Women will still divorce you for some lame excuse like another man, or they just get bored. Women today don't know how to be loyal. They all are liars and cheats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Women actually want to be approached by a manBut only if he's tall, thin, muscular, and rich. Otherwise, he's a creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of virgin women?Women who are still virgin past 18 are that way by choice. It's extremely easy for any woman to find a man to have sex with. Men who are virgins in their 20s are usually not by choice. I wouldn't want a virgin in her 20s because that means their must be something wrong with her if she can't get laid. I want some slutty girl who knows what she's doing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you think women mean when we say we want to feel protected?Secure and safe within a relationship, I would guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:58 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Would you rather be needed by OR wanted by a woman?Both. As long as she's not too needy. I don't want to babysit anyone (so to speak), but it's nice to be needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:51 PM |
| – | What kind of awful redflag behavior would desperate people tolerate, that normal people wouldn't?There are very few things that would make me end a relationship Abuse of any kind (toward me or especially toward my kids) Repeated cheating Financial irresponsibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever had a close, heterosexual female platonic friend before?Yes. I have had plenty of friends who were girls/women growing up whom I had no sexual interest in. In fact, in high school, I had only three or four friends who were male, and the rest of my friends were female. Only one of my girl friends did I later develop feelings for, but never told her. I'm still good friends with one of my high school female friends. See her every now and then. I have never had any sexual interest in her. It's definitely possible for heterosexual people of the opposite s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:14 PM |
| 12 | Women just want an excuse to lecture men about sexismWomen always lie and manipulate men to get what they want. That's nothing new. Yes, women find any excuse they can to accuse men of something. Half of all rape allegations are false, for example. This whole we should always believe women is bs. Women can ruin a man's life by false allegations of abuse without repercussion. Women should get jail time if an abuse allegation turns out to be false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:04 PM |
| 2 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Depends. If their the egotistical type that likes to take selfies and arrogantly thinks every guy in the gym is checking them out, then I wouldn't date them at all. I go to the gym to work out, not to pick up girls. If they are genuinely nice, then I would consider them. But that goes for any girl. Going to the gym doesn't make you special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Are average guys really “struggling”?Yes, most men but the top 1% are struggling to find a partner. Women have increasingly high standards. Even ugly, fat women think they deserve the top 1% of men. The problem is that women are told they are beautiful no matter what. Fat, ugly women are called plus size. Whereas fat, ugly men are called creepy slobs. Yes, it is 1000x easier for a woman of any value to find a man. Women don't struggle like men do. Women know all they have to do to find a man is spread their legs. Whereas men have t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itMen can say no to sex too. I am old, well, not too old (37), and I feel like I'm past the point of having sex all the time. I've already had kids, so I've achieved the point of sex anyway. Men aren't entitled to sex and neither are women. And no one rules over anyone in a relationship. In my marriage, my wife was a sex addict and always wanted it. It's not good all the time. I finally said no, and she went elsewhere. I can understand why men are afraid to commit. Marriage only benefits the woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 12:26 PM |
| 10 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?No. Why wouldn't it be the other way around. Why shouldn't the woman have to support her ex-husband ? Why is all responsibility always put on the man? Women want equality. Well, that comes with equal responsibility. She can just as easily get a job and support herself. Women just want an excuse to be lazy. Men shouldn't have to work themselves to death so women can have it easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?I don't adhere to traditional roles unless the woman wants to as well. In the case of my ex-wife, for example, she was a stay at home mom, and I was the breadwinner. It worked out fine until I became disinterested in sex, and she went elsewhere (I'm bisexual, more leaning toward men). As for finding a male partner, I would have no issue being a stay at home parent if he liked traditional gender roles. I don't want to be a breadwinner again. That was too stressful. I'd rather stay at home with my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:19 PM |
| 2 | what do men really think of female virgins?Personally, it depends on how old she is. If she's in her early 20s, that might be okay to be a virgin. But at my age (38), if a woman I would date is a virgin, I view that as a red flag. And I wouldn't date anyone under 30 at the very youngest. A ten year age gap is the most I'd be willing to do. After that, it gets creepy. My question would be, why has she not been in a sexual relationship before age 30? That, to me, seems like she's hard to deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Many men seem to have a misunderstanding of how preferences or boundaries work, and often lash out defensively because of this.I understand how boundaries work. The problem is that when it comes to boundaries, women never overtly express what their boundaries are. Men are supposed to just automatically know. Boundaries are generally not universal. Each person is different. Women always complain that men don't communicate well. But from my experience, it's women who don't communicate well. If you're uncomfortable, say it. Men can't pick up on subtle cues like women can. As for preferences. Most men don't care if you're o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What do you think are tenets of the girl code?3 and 4 are definitely never abided by. The whole thing seems like something 12 year old middle school kids would do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys even like women? Why?I don't hate all women. There are some good women out there, and I know a few. But overall, women are not worthy of being liked. Modern women live under the delusion that they are perfect and only have to wait for their perfect man. Modern women bring nothing to the table, but all expect men to be in the top 1% if they have a chance. And it doesn't matter what they look like. Even fat, ugly women expect this. Even the language we use is superficial. Fat women are called plus size. Where fat men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What’s the reason some women who dress sexy get mad when guys check them out ?Don't flater yourself. Guys don't stare down random women. A lot of times, we will just stare into space. Because, unlike women, we can actually do nothing and be happy. And we, like everyone, like to look around. Glancing at you a few times is hardly harassment. Not every man is a rapist after your ugly ass. And it's only for ugly guys. Everyone knows if he's tall, handsome, and rich, it's not harassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:37 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Body shaming for women is socially accepted in popular media, but body shaming for men is not.That's actually just the opposite. Fat women are glorified and called plus size. Fat men are called ugly slobs. Fat women still have the belief they deserve the top 1% of men. Whereas Fat ugly men are ignored by society. Body shaming for men is a lot worse. Because unlike body shaming women, body shaming men is socially acceptable. If a woman doesn't want to date a short man, she is called empowered. If a guy doesn't want to date a fat woman, he is called a misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | If men know how other men think then why is it seen as controlling rather than protective to have a say in what clothes ur girls wearsMy significant other can wear whatever she wants and have as many guy friends she wants. Just like I can wear whatever I want and have as many girl friends as I want. Most of my friends are girls anyway. None which I would consider romantic interests. Girls and boys can be friends without sexual tension. It's about trusting your partner. I see it as a red flag if my girlfriend doesn't want me to have friends who are girls. Jealousy is fine to a certain extent, but you don't get to dictate who I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:54 PM |
| -1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Yes. But they would have to accept the children I already have from my first marriage. I'd like to have more children, but beggars can't be choosers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Risk of poverty is higher for women after divorce and separation.Real mature of you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Risk of poverty is higher for women after divorce and separation.That which is presented without evidence can be dismissed without evidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Risk of poverty is higher for women after divorce and separation.Invalid sources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Risk of poverty is higher for women after divorce and separation.I like how people ask for sources but never provide any valid ones of their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Most women have a "price tag" for cheatingWomen are also more likely to cheat on their spouse if the price is right. There's a double standard that says a guy is trash for cheating, but a girl is just misunderstood, and it's the guy's fault she cheated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:40 PM |
| – | What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ?I can spend my money on what I want to instead of my wife hoarding it all. I don't have to listen to constant nagging and complaining. I can do nothing if I want to without hearing about it. I can play video games and read as long as I want. I can drink a beer without having to hear how alcoholism runs in my family. I can go to a bar after work without having to hear about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:36 PM |
| 2 | About mothers and wives/girlfriendsWhat makes her a great mom? My mom has always put me and my siblings first over, even my dad. Though my parents got divorced when I was four, my mother was always there for me. She is an alcoholic and has been sober for two years. She hasn't always been great when she drank, but she was great when she was sober. She was never abusive, and when she drank, we used to drink together and laugh and have a good time. As morbid as that may be. But she's a good person and made amends for her drinking. D… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Risk of poverty is higher for women after divorce and separation.Not really. Most homeless people are men. Divorce is much harder financially on men. We are the ones paying alimony and child support most of the time. We are the ones who can go to jail if we don't pay. What exactly do women do besides sit on their arse and get paid? Poverty is not higher for women. I don't know where you found this data, but it's wrong. Don't trust everything you read on the internet. Just because something claims to be a "study" doesn't mean it is accurate or unbiased. If you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant?A prenuptial is just a way to say you don't trust your partner. In which case, I would not move in with her. The only way I'd get a prenuptial agreement is if I were super rich and didn't want to lose half my money. And, no, I wouldn't trust anyone who would marry me if I had a lot of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant?Not legally, she can't since half the house is mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Do men really care about anything other than a woman's looks when it comes to attraction?Depends on the guy. Personally, I don't base my attraction too women 100% on how they look. How much they respect me and men in general, their intelligence level, if they communicate well are all factors as well. I like independent women as long as they don't think all men are trash like many independent women do. If they are poor communicators (i.e., "You should know what I want") or don't respect me, that's a no-go. Also, constantly talking about their ex-boyfriends is a turn-off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:16 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant?As long as we got married first, yes. Women being as unhinged as they are, you never know when she'll get bored and kick you out. So, I would only move in after marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Most beauty standards are enforced on women by other womenYes. Like I said. Most women only notice the top percetage of men. Those men care about looks. If women would date within their own looks, they may notice that most guys don't really care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | The assumption that some men make about women having it easier in dating is usually made by inexperienced men who have not gotten a glimpse into women's lives.Men do things to attract women, too. First, we have to be tall. Which is very superficial of women since it can't be controlled. We have to go to the gym and be muscular and fit. Women do have it easier. A woman can get on a dating site and have dozens of likes per day. Men are lucky to get one a week. Men are a lot less superficial. Most men will take whatever they can get. Yes, women wear makeup and shave. So? They still have it easier. Even ugly women are told they are worth it by society. Ug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Where do you people find „ugly” guys?That's because, like most women, you only notice the good-looking men. Ugly men are completely ignored by society (unlike ugly women). Most of the time, ugly men stay inside because they'd been treated like dirt all their life by everyone, so they don't like people. I've been approached several times buy women giving me their number, so I guess I'm good-looking, I don't know. But I've been treated like dirt by all the women in my life that I don't like women, so I avoid them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Most beauty standards are enforced on women by other womenI agree. Most men don't care what you look like as long as you're not a crazy "nice girl." The problem is many women think they deserve the top 1% of men. And so all they see are the rich Chads that do care about looks. If women would lower their standards to their level, they would find most guys want respect, caring, communication, and confidence. All the things some women claim they want too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel if your sweet daughter was the one out there having sex with men old enough to be father?Yes they do. I don't think I'd be happy either with one of my sons dating a woman significantly older than him. (Or a man since one of my sons is gay). So maybe I do have to worry about that. I think the biggest age gap I'd accept would be ten years. Any more than that it just gets creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:11 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel if your sweet daughter was the one out there having sex with men old enough to be father?I would voice my opinion to her, but if she is an adult, it's her decision. Luckily, I have sons, so I don't have to worry about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:53 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel if your sweet daughter was the one out there having sex with men old enough to be father?Depends on how big the age gap is and how old my daughter is. If she's legally an adult, while I wouldn't approve, it's ultimately her decision. Hey, and if the guy is rich, I may get some money out of the deal, so win-win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?Women have no excuses when it comes to dating. Men do all the work. Women can easily find a guy to date if they'd take the initiative instead of waiting for a guy to approach them. Most guys aren't that picky. Most guys just want you to have a pulse. The problem is that women are very picky. Even the ugly ones that have no standing to be picky. Most guys would date any woman who showed interest in them. You can't just sit around and wait for a guy to come to you. Take some responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 03:33 PM |
| -1 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeI've usually seen the opposite in modern-day relationships. It is the men who are submissive and treated with disrespect. The difference between men taking charge and women taking charge is women are always abusive when they do. Men are natural leaders. And, yes, men are superior to women. We make up most leadership roles (congress, bosses, ceo etc). We build and maintain everything (infrastructure). I've never seen a woman construction worker or coal miner. We go to war to protect you so you ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:10 PM |
| 0 | We need to give mothers a WAY better dealMy point is men already do that. No need to put more burden on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 04:35 PM |
| 3 | We need to give mothers a WAY better dealThere are no differential gender costs. Men have to work more than women, and women reap the benefits of taxes men pay. I'm not saying women don't work. But on average, men work 60 hours a week, and women work 24 hours. Men also generally do harder jobs. Coal mining, construction, physical labor, trades (plumbing, electrician, etc.). Women have the option to not work, but men don't. We are pressured into being providers, while women can take time off for pregnancy or just stay at home. Women als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:52 AM |
| -1 | We need to give mothers a WAY better dealAnd who is going to pay for your benefits? Men. Men who will have to pay more taxes, more child support (which is already insanely high) more alimony, etc. Why would we have hiring quotas for mothers when it's men who primarily work to support those mothers. If you want a benefit, you would need quotas and pay raises for fathers. And less mandatory child support. If you want a job, all power to you, but then why do you need 30% of your ex-husband's income? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Why women initiate 80% of divorceAnd? Then, if there's a stay at home dad, he shouldn't be complaining either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Women have literally 1 job and many are failures at it.I like fat women personally. And besides, women are supposed to carry more weight for childbearing. You go ahead and marry some skinny girl who's going to take all your money. Fat women tend to be more reasonable and likable. And better in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Why women initiate 80% of divorceDivorce is almost always beneficial to the woman and unfair to the man. Men almost always get stuck with alimony and child support. People always think women do more for their children than men do. But this isn't always the case. Working 60 hours a week to support a family is harder than staying at home, doing 3 hours tops of housework and watching TV. Especially once your kids are older. Taking care of kids isn't a job. It's part of being a parent. Being away from your kids is harder than being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 03:18 PM |
| 1 | It's not Gynocentrism; It's just a consistent application of male-created belief systemsWomen have a clear advantage in mating. Just like females of some other species, human females can be picky when it comes to selecting a mate. Women can pick out what they want. Whereas men have to take what they can get. It's known as sexual selection, and it drives males to evolve based on female desire. So, yes, women do have an advantage. Women not wanting to be touched by certain males is sexual selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Okay men, you caught usBut women do value height and money above all else. Would you date a 5'3" bald overweight man who still lives with his parents? Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:47 PM |
| 2 | why should women date you?Why should men date you? What's so great about you? What do you bring to the table? What type of man do you think you deserve? See how that works? Why is it only men have to "work on themselves" to impress women, while women don't do anything? So why should a man approach you? You can't just expect men to do everything. You sound toxic, and I wouldn't date you if you wanted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Women Should Only Aim For Top MenYou've read too much feminist propaganda. And you are further proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Women Should Only Aim For Top MenIt's good you read a lot. I do too. You should try "The Myth of Male Power" by Warren Farrell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Women Should Only Aim For Top MenThat's exactly my point. Misandry isn't even considered misandry because, for example, it's assumed men like traditional gender roles for their sex. And some men do. Most men don't. How is it derogatory to assume women should be housewives but not derogatory to assume men should be the breadwinner? Some women like being housewives just like some men like being the breadwinner. But assuming each other should be is toxic either way. You are just further proving my point. Misandry is socially accep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Women Should Only Aim For Top MenWomen reinforce traditional male gender roles, which is misadrist and toxic because it is socially acceptable. Whereas if I expect a woman to adhere to traditional gender roles, I'm automatically a misogynistic incel. It's women who have the victim mindset, as you've demonstrated by calling misardry misogynistic. Even hate against men from women is somehow our fault. Women take no responsibility for anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Before going exclusive in a relationship, do you ask these preliminary questions?Yes, and more. That's why communication is important. Women often say men don't communicate, but from my experience, it's the other way around. It's women who play games with communication and expect you to know what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Women Should Only Aim For Top MenWomen, when comfortable, are very open about their experiences, always willing to open up about past relationships unprovoked. They always share a sense of gratitude to be free of their ex boyfriend(s) who they openly detail as having the makings of a man who is on the 80% side of things. Not true. I've known women who are very resevered. Not willing to open up. And obsessed with their ex-boyfriends. From the time that a man turns 18, he has the ability to mold himself into the type of man that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 06:52 PM |
| – | Unpopular opinion, but i don't think it's necessarily harder for ugly people to find a mateNot with the standards women have today. Even ugly women think they deserve the top percentage of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Do men like plus size women?I am. My ex-wife is not skinny, and I was attracted to her. I'm more looking for how she treats men in general and how she treats me. If she's selfish, stuck up, or thinks all men are trash, she's not worth my time. She could be the most attractive woman ever, but if she hates men or has a bad attitude like a lot of women, she's not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what would you do if your wife/girlfriend can no longer have sex with you?I wouldn't care personally. I'm too old to worry too much about having sex. But I do think it's unreasonable for anyone to think porn is bad and shouldn't be used. It's a good outlet for sexual frustration. My ex-wife and I used to watch porn together to get turned on and then have sex. It's not a big deal when you know it's just acting/role-playing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 03:20 PM |
| – | Women have stricter body standards than men do in datingThis is true. But you left out height. Height is not something that can be controlled. But most women won't date a man under 6 foot. I consider that more superficial, again, because it can't be controlled. Weight, on the other hand, can be controlled. I personally like bigger women, and a lot of guys do. But women will never date a short man. Or one that doesn't have money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?No. Parenting is not hard. It's just part of having children. Women who stay at home are such martyrs. Housework takes maybe 2 hours tops, cooking maybe an hour. So you do three hours work and watch your kids the rest of the time. Yes, kids can be difficult, but it's called parenting. If you didn't want to parent your kids, why did you have them? I was a stay at home dad for several months with our newborn while my wife had to work. It's not that difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 01:05 PM |
| 3 | Men are more superficial about weight than womenWomen are more superficial than men. And I've heard plenty of women criticize men for their weight. But women are superficial on things that can't be changed easily or at all. Like height or socioeconomic status. In reality, most men don't care about a woman's weight. The problem is that all women think they deserve the top 1% of men. Thus, they only hear from the stereotypical Chad. Talk to some real men, and you'll see most don't really care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Masturbation to written porn and erotic stories is no more or less harmful than masturbation to porn videos.It depends on how you view porn. My ex-wife and I used to watch porn together to get turned on and then have sex. If both parties are into it, it's no big deal. It can become an addiction only if one party in a relationship does it constantly and the other disapproves. I don't believe porn can feed violence or abuse anymore than violence in video games. Some studies show that violence in video games makes people less violent in real life. Video games serve as an outlet. Same with porn. Yes, it d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It makes sense that men (particularly ones who had a glow up) don't treat women with much respect.What I mean is when women automatically think a guy is creepy just because he's short and not too good-looking. I'm not saying you have to sleep with everyone who shows interest. To give you an example, I genuinely asked women what time it was and have gotten mostly the snide remark "I have a boyfriend." I'm not looking to sleep with you, I just forgot my phone. I've even held doors open and gotten the same response. This, of course, only happens rarely, but it does happen. Anyway, respect is tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 05:59 PM |
| – | “Children need fathers” is propaganda to push a Men Are Wonderful bias.Studies never can account for all variables. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 03:01 PM |
| – | “Children need fathers” is propaganda to push a Men Are Wonderful bias.Cherry picking. Studies show that the biggest indicator of a child growing up to be a criminal is being in a single mother home. I might get some flack for this, but it also has to do with race. No, that doesn't mean every child with two parents will be okay. But two parents are a strong indicator of success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - How would you advise your daughters to navigate the dating scene?I would tell them to be careful because some guys are scum, especially the better they look or the richer they are. I wouldn't want her to date an Andrew Tate supporter or someone deep in Redpill. I would tell her to just talk casually with guys and not always wait to be approached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 02:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It makes sense that men (particularly ones who had a glow up) don't treat women with much respect.I respect people who respect me. Most women don't respect men, so I don't respect them. I agree that women who shun men simply for not being rich and a 10 don't deserve respect. Women falsely believe it's all about sex. Some men, myself included, would just like to have a nice conversation, nothing more. The problem is that women think all men want sex. Which is not true. Then they complain when we think all women are the same. There are some good women who aren't like this. But you don't see it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 02:22 PM |
| 3 | dating isn't easier for womenNot really. And if you count prison rape (men on men), men are raped more than women. If fact, the only crime women (in this case, girls) are more victim to childhood sexual abuse. 1 in 4 (girls) vs. 1 in 6 (boys). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 03:10 PM |
| 3 | dating isn't easier for womenIn addition, it's 1 in 4 (not 5) women/girls and 1 in 6 boys and 1 in 13 men who are sexually assaulted or abused. So the ratio isn't that much and it's not a competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:08 AM |
| 3 | dating isn't easier for womenAnd I didn't say sexually assaulted I said in general, learn to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:04 AM |
| 4 | dating isn't easier for womenYes they do. Men are 5 times more likely to be assaulted than women are. Feminists have lied to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:02 AM |
| 13 | dating isn't easier for womenMen get assaulted more than women in any case. And, no, being assaulted on a date isn't common at all. Women get WAY more matches. A woman can get 100 people messaging them a day. Men are lucky to get one a week, if any. Average men don't get good-looking women unless they have money. Women, unlike men, expect to get the top 1%. Men will settle for anything. Dating is much easier for women. Women get tons of suitors, even average women will. Women control sex and everything else in a relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyTrue. Affirmative action laws shouldn't exist. We should get into college or get a job because of a "protected" class. (Black people, women, etc.) We should instead be judged on our merits. I think what you brought up about schools being gynocentric is spot on. We pacify our girls and drug our boys. Boys are told you shouldn't his hit girls, not that you shouldn't hit anyone. Thus leads boys to think they can't express themselves. Then we wonder why, as men, they can't communicate and get in bad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming doesI agree. Men are always held to a higher standard than women. Men have to adhere to traditional roles like not being a virgin. But women can do whatever they want. This attitude is harmful to women because it creates men who expect to have sex when they want. Causing abusive men. It also creates a culture of fear women have about men. Most women think all men are dangerous. Which is not true. This creates a self-fulfilling prophesy because men who are assumed to be violent resent women who think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | What is your standards for a long term relationship?Mutual attraction. This doesn't mean she has to be a 10. It just means I'm attracted, and so is she. Respect. For me. And how she treats her family. If she treats them poorly, that's a red flag. Communication. Not just from me either. Women complain that men don't communicate, but we do. Its women who are cryptic on what they want. Continuing on communication. Someone who knows how to express themselves clearly. If I ask what you want to eat, tell me. Don't just say "I don't care" and then compl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 03:25 PM |
| 1 | For guys who want an active woman, why and what does that mean to you?I don't care how active a woman is. I exercise, but usually only at home. I don't like being around people, and I have a social phobia. I don't understand the bias against fat women. Some overweight women are highly active. My ex-wife is overweight, and she still runs a mile every day. I'm slightly overweight, and I exercise three to four times per week. Being overweight doesn't mean you're not active. We are biologically evolved to store fat because most of humans' time on Earth food wasn't alw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 02:34 PM |
| – | Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social lifeMost women are controlling in this way. They like to deny it. When women control everything, it's empowerment. When men control just a little, it's abusive. This is the main reason why I refuse to get into another relationship with a woman. I don't want to be used and abused again. Plus, my stuff is too expensive for a woman to divorce me and try and take it. My ex-wife was abusive and cheated on me. Women who try to control men are the main reason for divorce. Women won't admit their privileges… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - How many average women have you had serious crushes on?I've had crushes on many women whom most men would see as average. I'm not picky like the average woman. It's women who think they deserve the top 1%, not men. Most men will take anything. The problem is that women only give attention to very good-looking, tall, rich men. So the egocentric nature of these men is all they see. If average women would stay within their league, they'd find a lot of genuinely good guys. I consider myself average, but I must look good to some women and men because I'v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 01:38 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?I have more respect for myself than to do that. Besides, that's not what most women want. They are more interested in status and money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 01:27 PM |
| – | Most men and women are really bad at detecting flirtingOr women could stop playing manipulative games and just say what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:25 PM |
| 2 | what's the deal with "nice guy" stereotype and why there isn't an equivalent term for women?There indeed are nice girls. These are the type that think it's okay to beat their husband or boyfriend and be emotionally abusive too. Just like nice guys, they get pissed when you don't give them attention. Then, if you reject them, they get verbally abusive. Google "nice girls." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:13 PM |
| 9 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richExactly. Proving women only care about money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:09 PM |
| 8 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richThat's not true. Men contribute a lot more to marriage than women do. Men work harder jobs and work more hours. Women just like to whine. Men do all the harder housework. Yard work. Cleaning gutters. Etc. We know as you've demonstrated that women only care about money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:00 PM |
| 6 | Women claim that men are not trying that hard, and men claim they tried too hard... this is a possible explanation and solutionThe same women who claim men aren't trying hard enough will claim sexual harassment if an ugly guy talks to them once. Unless you're tall, handsome, thin, muscular, and rich women don't want to talk to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 07:50 PM |
| – | Should men be friends or even partners with women who claim to hate men?No. Women who claim to hate men are also abusive. I was sexually abused as a child by a woman and again by my ex-wife as a young adult. I avoid women in general, but especially women like that. Misandry, unfortunately, is socially acceptable where misogyny is not. Men can be discriminated against legally. I don't hate women, I'm just afraid of them. Women who hate men were almost always abused by men in some way. I think these women are just projecting. I think they were abused and are more afra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:10 PM |
| 2 | When you’re married and have children, what will your financial situation be?I was married for 8 years. I worked 14-hour days for a large portion of that time, while my wife was a stay at home mother. So, yes, I expected not to do any homework when I got home. I helped with our children, though. The only reason we got divorced is because she cheated on me. Now, I'm single and financially stable. I'm also happier than I was when I was married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Women don't appreciate male breadwinnersThis is true if both parties are not working full time. I experienced this with my now ex-wife. I worked 14-hour days, and she was a stay at home mom. She still expected me to do housework. I finally refused to do everything, and she called me lazy and cheated on me. If one party works less, then they should have a greater share of housework. Besides, housework takes at most 2 hours tops. If you're doing more than that, you're doing it wrong. But if you both work full time, then both should help… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you want women to think you are easy?I would say most boys are like this but not men once they reach a certain age (30s). I personally wouldn't want women to think I'm easy, mostly because I'm not. I'm not interested in sex anymore, I'm too old for that. I never have been that interested in sex anyway, even as a teen and in my 20s (when boys and men are most sexually active). It's probably because I was sexually abused by a woman as a child. I'm afraid of women generally, and I don't like being around them, especially when they are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Women get respected less, men are wanted less.It's not true about men being respected more. Only tall, handsome, thin, rich men are respected more. Also, the pay gap doesn't exist. There is, however, an earning gap. Since men work more hours on average than women, they earn more. That is where the pay gap myth comes from. And yes, women are very shallow and picky, so men are wanted less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Would you give up video games for sex?Absolutely not. Sex isn't all that great anyway, and I have two hands, if you know what I mean. Video games are too much fun and relaxing after a hard day at work. Where I agree boys and men should not spend all day playing video games (I spend two hours per day at the very most), we shouldn't have to give up guilty pleasures. I can't play video games for too long because I get migraines. What do you love to do after a hard day to relax? Would you give that up for sex? I think there's too much e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 11:19 PM |
| 3 | It appears that women don't want menWomen want men. They just want a particular type of man, tall, muscular, and rich. If you're average, women treat you like you're trash. Even if the woman is homely, she still expects the top 1%. Guys aren't picky, contrary to popular belief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 01:32 PM |
| 0 | A large amount of the issues with the modern dating sphere stem not from high female standards, but low reciprocity and the selfishness that has imprinted itself on female dating culture.Why should anyone have to change? Women's standards are not reasonable. They want height, which no one can control. They want money, which you only get if you're born into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 12:54 PM |
| – | The dominance of the FeminineThere is no patriarchy. It's just an excuse uneducated feminists use to oppress men. But I agree feminists do dominate. Women have a lot more unearned privileges than men. If you think me saying so is misogynistic, congratulations, you just proved my point. The difference between male privileges and female privileges is that female privileges are seen as empowerment, whereas male privileges are seen as oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:00 AM |
| – | Who is your celeb crush?Mackenzie Rosman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 04:49 PM |
| 2 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?Being a broke man is definitely worse. Some men like bigger women, myself included. My former wife is a bigger woman. In fact, I have only ever had sex with overweight women. Even when I was super skinny. Whereas as a broke man, no woman wants you at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | For men: if you don’t approach women IRL - you have no reason to complain on this subThe problem with this is that the women who don't want to be approached can accuse you of harassment. Yes, this has happened to me before. That's why I don't approach women anymore. But I have even been accused of harassment from women who approached me. I wouldn't buy them a drink, so they got mad and complained. Women are highly manipulative, and we as men always have to be on guard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you leave a potential partner if they don’t agree to sleep with you until a certain amount of time passes?I am willing to wait as long as she wants to, it doesn't bother me. I must attract the wrong type of women. My ex-wife was a sex addict and always wanted it. I finally said no to sex and she cheated. Every other girl I've been with except one has wanted to have sex sooner than later. Usually, when we first met. I wouldn't leave a woman just because she wouldn't sleep with me right away. The longest time I've waited for sex in a relationship was one year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipTrue. But since now women can accuse anyone of sexual harassment by talking to them and being ugly or poor, it's not a good idea to approach women. Unless you're tall, dark, hamsome, rich, and drive something expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 03:07 PM |
| 16 | How many of you were arrested after approaching a woman?I wasn't arrested, but once I was at a bar and I was approached by two women who asked me if I wanted to buy them a drink. I politely said no. I thought that was the end of it until security approached and said I was harassing these two women. Apparently, they had complained because I refused to buy them a drink. I explained what happened, and the security guard laughed and walked away. I was fine, but that's beside the point. This is the kind of manipulative stuff women do. So yes, it is a risk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Is aiming at 50/50 ever going to be fair to women?Except we can't be 50/50. Men work more outside the home and do harder jobs. Thus, men shouldn't have to do as much at home as women. If he's a coal miner. And she's an office worker. Do you really think he should "help" with the housework. If so, then you need to get a clue. Again, men do more work and harder work outside the home. And that's even true if you look at the same job. Men do better work, work harder, and are given more responsibility. I'm not saying men should do nothing in the hom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameNot all men are like that. In fact, I don't know any men who are like that. Why would you approach someone just on the street? I've talked to many women whom maybe were a strong 4. In fact, I don't approach good-looking women because they are usually shallow. Modern dating sucks because of our phones. We don't just talk anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 06:33 PM |
| 6 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.The "friendzone" is more like the "not this creep again zone." Don't go up to a girl expecting anything. Not a chat or especially not sex. If she ignores you, move on. I found that once I stopped caring what women think, I've been approached by a few women myself. Put yourself first and don't constantly look desperate. But if you're a strong 4, don't expect a 9 or 10. Go for those in your league. That's the problem with most redpills. They expect too much. But yes, being freind zoned is the guys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 05:34 PM |
| 9 | Why did your previous relationships end?My ex-wife was sexually manipulative. She was/is a sex addict. She always wanted to have sex, and I didn't. She complained all the time we weren't doing it enough (every day). Eventually I said no to sex and she cheated on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:04 PM |
| – | Crazy ex-girlfriends (or boyfriends) aren't crazy. They're abusive. Calling them crazy downplays the seriousness of their actions.Women initiate most if not all domestic violence, and men are more likely to be physically harmed in a domestic violence dispute. But if you say this, you are automatically labeled as misogynistic. You are correct. That crazy ex-girlfriend/wife was most likely abusive. It is culturally acceptable to abuse men and boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:01 PM |
| 4 | CMV: When women talk of men opening up, what they mean is men should open up in women approved ways, for women approved problems and for women approved lengths of timeWomen don't want men to open up. Women want men who will be submissive and pander to their unstable emotions. What women really mean when they say they want men to be more open is that they want us to listen to their problems. They don't care about our problems. You are correct. It's always about her needs and making her feel better. If we complain about something that doesn't benefit her, we are seen as weak and useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 04:44 PM |
| – | Are men always expected to be the entertainers on dates? Or maybe even in relationships?Yes. All responsibility is always put on the man. We have to be the providers. We have to pander to women's feelings. We don't get a say in anything. But we have to pay for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 12:16 PM |
| 4 | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?I like to grow my beard out till it's really long. Most girls don't like it but I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 10:14 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.I agree. The problems with men putting in effort is when we do, it's not noticed or appreciated. Or the idea of what constitutes effort is different for men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Genuine question, do men love women as much as women love them?I would argue men love women with a deeper love than women love men. It takes much longer for a man to get over a woman than a woman to get over a man. I still love my ex wife and its been five years. She couldn't care less about me. Men fall in love a lot faster than women. Even without sex I would argue men fall in love faster. How else would you explain that most suicides are men? Most men are not okay with being single, whereas women are okay with being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Guys who try and have sex quickly with women (first date), is it because you already ruled them out as gf material?No, not necessarily. I had sex with my wife on the third date, but we did sexual things when we first met. We were together ten years until she cheated on me. I don't think having sex right away means she's not girlfriend material. I will give anyone a chance. I would not think less of her just because we had sex right away. But I also wouldn't expect it either. I've waited up to two years to have sex in one relationship and had it the first day in others. It just depends on what both people wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | If most men are vulgar and disrespectful than the wholesome ones should have no trouble connecting with women... yet they seem to struggle the mostThe problem with being respectful is men and women have different ideas of what respect is, and women never directly tell you what their ideas of respect are. They play games and expect you to know exactly what they want. No respect doesn't entitle you to a woman, but it should at least be appreciated. But then again, I have an idea what I think respect is, but I have no idea what the average woman thinks respect is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Men, under what (hypothetical) conditions would you become a sex worker?It a lot harder for men to be in porn and sex work than women. Mostly because for some men it's not always possible to get an erection on demand. There is literally nothing you could do to convince me to do that. There is too much pressure on men to perform in that industry. Whereas women can just be passive. I might do it a few times for a couple million dollars. But that's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Do men benefit from gender equality as well?Yes, gender equality benefits men and women. For the reasons you said. The problem with this is that a lot of women don't want equality. Most want special privileges. But if you point out women's privileges, it's somehow misogynistic. I want equality, but currently feminism doesn't want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 12:32 PM |
| 12 | I think most men don't truly understand what being attractive is, and can be just as entitled delusional as the women they complain about.I disagree. Women are a lot more superficial than men. You say you want confidence, then turn around and call confident ugly guys creepy. What you really care about men will never know because women play games and never directly say what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 12:21 PM |
| 1 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?Most of my friends throughout my life have been women. I have no desire to sleep with any of them. I've only had one friend whom became a girlfriend, it lasted two years and we haven't spoken since. Dating relationships can ruin a friendship between men and women and I wouldn't want that to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Chivalry is not dead, it is just reserved a few very important womenChivalry may not be dead in general, but it is for me. I don't think it's fair I should go out of my way to help a woman when they've done nothing for me. In addition, I don't want to be accused of sexual harassment for trying to help some women. Chivalry doesn't really work anymore since the #metoo movement. If you even look at a woman wrong she can cry sexual harassment. We should be respectful to everyone, but I don't want to put myself in a position to have a potential lawsuit because I held… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 12:44 AM |
| 6 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?I have no issue with waiting until the woman is fully ready, but not until marriage. I think couples should be intimate before marriage to see if they will work. But I've waited up to two years before and some short relationships I've been in there was no sex. Talk to your significant other about it and see what you both want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:56 PM |
| 2 | The "male housework list" or "honey do list" (the second shift) | Sources from Dr. Warren FarrellI agree with this for the most part. I like the women who are like "well we work too!". When was the last time a woman did the majority of hard jobs? Coal mining, construction, police, firefighters etc. Men should get to do less housework because not only do men work more outside the home, but men work harder jobs. Sorry but if I'm a coal minor and my wife is a secretary. I shouldn't have to do anything when I get home. Men simply do harder work than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 06:28 PM |
| 2 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?If she's still stuck on her ex She brings her best friend on a date She is overly religious She's on her phone most of the time She's rude to wait staff She doesn't have the ability to pay her way (i.e. doesn't bring any money because she expects a free ride). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 04:03 PM |
| 5 | What are common ways to shame men and women for their preferences?Men are not allowed to say no or be upset about unwanted sexual advances. Telling men they need to be confident reinforces toxic masculinity. Men aren't allowed to show negative emotions. Telling Men they are pedophiles for wanting younger women. Telling Men they are not real men unless they are over 6 feet. Labeling Men as deadbeats if they can't pay for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 03:19 PM |
| – | CMV If a Average Women, doesnt want to date a average Man, that is perfectly fine.I disagree. Yes, women have the right to choose, but they are hypocrites. Women don't want men to judge them harshly for their looks or sexual prospects. But yet they judge men for the same things. Plus, other things are beyond his control, like height or financial prospects. We should only go after those who are close to our average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:31 PM |
| 3 | How did we get to this point where playing games is seen as normal?I don't play games myself, nor do I put up with those who do. People in general, both men and women, need to just come out and say what they want. If you're interested, then say so, of not then say so. I would rather a potential partner say they were not interested than just be immature and ghost me. I think we got to this point of women playing games because of feminism. Women are now completely equal to men. Women now can have careers and don't need a man. This has shown the true shallow side … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How do you feel about taking male birth control?I would take it if I were sexually active. I might even take it now if it decreases libido. I'm no longer interested in sex. I'm too old for that anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | For the men,would you rather be bachelor for life having sex with whoever you want but no relationship/kids or would you rather have a marriage and beautiful kids without any sex?I would rather be in a marriage with kids and no sex with my wife than be alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 03:01 PM |
| – | Are most men here looking for short term relationships?I am not currently looking for any relationship. But if I were, it would be long-term. I don't do hook-ups. I don't know about how most men feel, but I think it's not fair to assume all men just want short-term sex. I used to hook up in college, but I'm too old for that nonsense anymore. I'd rather just not have sex. I would love women to approach and wouldn't think she was desperate, only confident. I have actually been approached by women many times. It's a good thing women are taking the init… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?Why? What difference would it make. If she's happy that's all that matters. What does this question have to do with men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 02:28 PM |
| -1 | Does the prize does get a prize for waiting to be given?I would be upset if I knew my next potential girlfriend was exploring her options next to me. You're either with someone or not. But I also wouldn't like for her just to wait. Women want equality, right? Why can't a woman approach a man? Why can't women ever just say what they want instead of playing games? With the #metoo crap, it's even harder for men to approach women without being accused of sexual harassment. Ugly, short guys are always labeled creeps. But if he's tall, rich, and good-looki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Should men love their women more? Should it be the other way around? Or equal?Men are definitely not the gatekeepers of relationships anymore. Women control everything about a relationship. From when it starts, when it ends, and sex. Women can easily find a relationship. For the average man, it's next to impossible. Men and women should love each other equally. Men usually won't pretend to love a woman just to use her. Women do this to men, too. But it's not just about love, but mutual respect; which women hardly ever give. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 01:51 PM |
| 13 | How do you think society treats both sexes?Men are the disposable sex that's for sure. 97% of military deaths are men, 96% of workplace fatalities are men, most homeless are men, most suicides are men, most murders are men, and if you count male on male rape, men are more likely to be raped. Men are undervalued. And not just men, but boys too. 40% of child sexual abuse victims are boys, but they are rarely taken as seriously as girl victims. Sitcoms petray men as weak and useless, shows make fun of boys who are sexually abused. Sexism ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?Most men who think they are high value are not good people. They are rich, lazy, and good-looking idiots. I don't know what FDS means, but I assume it means low value women? Value has nothing to do with looks or money. High value people are those who are responsible, respectful, loving, loyal, and have a good work ethic. Overly rich idiots are none of these. We should date based on who we are compatible with despite looks or money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Promiscuous women who preach that you shouldn't judge women by their sexual past are the first ones to judge virgin guys for their lack of sexual pastI never understood why body count was important for men. But from my experience, women are indeed likely to judge a man more harshly if he's a virgin. So I would say you are correct. I've had mixed results in telling women I'm bisexual. Some have actually found it interesting and talked more, others have just politely excused themselves. It is true, there is a much greater stigma against gay or bisexual men than gay or bisexual women. Especially when it's men judging other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Guys who struggle with dating have you ever asked a female friend how to fix your looks?Women are picky no matter what you look like. Some like facial hair, some don't. Most want over 6 foot, some don't care, some like tattoos, some don't. As a man I never know. But what I've found is once I started putting myself first, women (and men) started coming up to me. I've gotten five phone numbers, four dates from four different women and even more approaches in less than a year. (And even a date opportunity with a man). Probably because I'm bisexual, and maybe people can sense that. I a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 01:18 PM |
| 2 | SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILLThat's not true. Most men are actually looking for a long-term relationship, not just sex. The issue is that women only go after the type of men who are only looking for sex. It's a self-fulfilling prophesy. If women weren't so shallow on who they decided to meet, they would see most men are in it for more than just sex. But women today feel like they are entitled to the top 1% of men no matter what they look like or what they bring into the relationship (which is usually nothing). Women use not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 12:31 AM |
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