Comfortable-Hat-8626 Archive

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1	Suspended from PurplePillDebate for...er...asking why men die for women... I recently unsubscribed from PPD. I visited that place for about two years (not very frequently). It has become noticeably more blue pill. I predicted this would happen with the rapid growth of the sub. The average redditor is as naive and blue pill as can be and the subscriber count went from about 25k to almost 100k in that time. I've already seen comments that the sub should be banned because of "misogynistic content". With the current growth trend I predict that moderation will become even m…	/r/AntiFeminists	15/05/22 09:18 AM
1	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Not so easy to get him to stay though. Why should a guy who is an 8-10 settle for an average woman? He will only do this if he is unaware of his value because of some deep insecurities or other stuff. But then he is not truly high value is he? A self respecting, confident, good looking, top 20% guy is never going to settle for an average woman. Most women want him and he knows this. You underestimate how easy it is for him to get "a woman". Likely he sleeps around a lot. Either that or he is alr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 07:00 AM
1	Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstance I know, it's crazy. I really think it is mostly the ratio. There is 3 or 4 guys for every woman on OLDs I have read. Just imagine if it were reversed. It would be very different I believe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 05:31 PM
1	Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstance Haha, I didn't even think of that but there is a similarity yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 04:59 PM
2	Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstance You are right and thanks for the tip. After 2 years of trying OLD and failing I think it is time to come to the conclusion that it is just not working. Will try other avenues. Good luck yourself!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 07:01 PM
3	Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstance You think an 80/20 market is normal and I should not complain about it? Btw, the city appartement I bought 12 years ago almost tripled in value. Where I live it is outrageous at the moment. It is completely unhealthy as people who have decent jobs cannot afford housing. Rich investors types swoop in and buy up everything. Fucked. People are right to complain and government is even trying to do something about it now. And what do you mean "your place in it... ". You are a guy right? How about try…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 06:56 PM
6	Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstance Bullshit. I have dated decent looking women outside of OLD before I was tied to my job so much and back when I had a decent social life (as a student). I know my looksmatch very well. The OLD is completely skewed because 1. the ratio of men and women, 2. there is only pictures. In real life guys who are not extremely good looking may use traits such as humor, warm personality or whatever. That is all out the window online. Just looks. You are telling me that I, a very fit, though average looking…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 05:50 PM
16	Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstance My experience is exactly the same. The women that match with me and put in effort (like actually trying to have a conversation, showing interest and looking to meet up) are not close to my level. I don't like to judge people on looks but I have some standards like: I am very fit myself and would like my partner to be at least moderately fit so we can do so physical activities together like hiking and such. Even so my standards are way, way lower then women on Tinder or women in general for that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 04:29 PM
32	The most attractive women I know tend to be the nicest and most grounded My experiences are the opposite of yours actually. Beautiful people are often deeply shallow. On surface level they seem nice and accepting until you get to know them. Then they turn out to be judging assholes. I mean just hear yourself. "I used to think ugly people had some redeeming quality...." Like why would they need that? How about you treat them like equals and not inferior right away because of their looks? Why would they need to redeem themselves? That is the issue. Ugly people develop …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 02:30 PM
3	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. Imagine the following. You, as a women, are bearing a child. There are complications and at the hospital you pass out. When you awaken there is your child, or so you think. Actually it died (still birth) and has been replaced by another. Not just any other but the child of the woman your husband cheated on with you. Now you grow attached to the child and raise it as your own. How fucked up is that? That is how paternity fraud is is for the guy victim of it. It is way worse because you are formin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 04:36 PM
0	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. Yes, I agree in principle but that is a bit harder though. If a guy conceives a child with a woman and before the child is born he then moves to another state or country how are you going to find him? He might not even know (just an accident during a ONS). I also think that forming a bond and spending time and resources with a child that you think is yours but that later turns out not to be yours is way worse then finding your husband conceived a child with another woman. Both are bad but they a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 03:26 PM
1	If a Woman's past truly does not matter, then Women need to start acting like it doesn't matter Then you also should also not care if a guy is a 30+ year old virgin or had sex with over a 100 prostitutes if he "chooses" that this aspect of his past does not matter. Simple as that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 02:41 PM
3	There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luck Thank you :) I hope the same for you. The world can be a harsh place yes. May you find some hapiness nonetheless!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 06:30 AM
5	There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luck Good luck, sincerely. I don't know if you are still struggling to find someone, I am. I know the feeling. It sucks. I will speak for myself here that I definitely do not chase "hot women". The opposite. I use the dating apps now and then and you learn to never swipe the attractive ones. I swipe my looks match and below. Even then I get 0 matches most of the time. Last year I managed to get a few dates from Tinder actually. A miracle. It didn't work out though. You see, my problem is just that I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 09:23 PM
1	There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luck Sure, numbers are my profession (in a way). I believe that projection lies at the core of what it is to be human. We project our own experience onto others. This is why understanding and empathy are so hard because differences (in physical and mental form) are alway present. The only true way to relate to one another is to experience the same or very similar. Experience is the only teacher. Anyway. Hit me with those fun facts :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 06:42 PM
3	There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luck If you are not getting laid and have not been for a long time (many years) it can be hard to relate to this. From their POV they think: at least you have the option to get some easy validation. Someone that wants you, is hot for you, gives you attention. I don't have that at all. I am dying for intimicy, touch and yes: sex. Sex drive is also different for the genders, so there is that. I do understand what you are saying that sex can be unsatisfactory when not in a context of a relationship with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 06:00 PM
3	There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luck Most men definitely do not have an easier time getting a relationship. I would say that struggle is about equal for both genders. Women have to filter for men that are only interested in sex but many guys have the opposite problem: no options. Only a small percentage of men have a good amount of options but since these guys are the only ones women are (particularly) attracted to the rest of us are basically invisible to you. A lot of men are struggling very hard to find an LTR. Incels (involunta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 05:48 PM
2	There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luck You are right of course but not everyone is looking for that. Some women just like casual sex. They are living the dream life because this is super easy to obtain via the apps nowadays. This is what has men envious because, 1. Men are on average more inclined to be open for casual sex, 2. It is way, way harder to obtain this for them, next to impossible for most. From their point of view women have huge privilege because they can live the life they can only fantasize about. But if you want commi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 12:40 PM
11	Study on Sexually and Romantically Unsuccessful Men “Linked to Local Mating Ecology” That is impossible though. You can't bottle up pain like that forever. That is very bad for your mental health. For me, venting on PPD for example has definitely been beneficial in some ways. I can agree with your final take away: the universe is unfair. I used to believe in justice and karma. That is becoming increasingly more difficult as time goes on and I see all the shit that is happening in this world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 08:07 AM
20	Study on Sexually and Romantically Unsuccessful Men “Linked to Local Mating Ecology” Exactly. Most of them want what almost everyone wants: to love and be loved. They are just in pain and coping (badly) with anger and resent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 07:57 AM
1	What are opinions you hold that would get you shamed or lambasted by The Red Pill or Blue Pill or FDS? All what you are saying is just a projection. Based on fantasy. It would be like me saying: All women are whores, they don't want love, just interested in money, gold diggers. Or: Single moms, lonely and looking for companionship? Stupid hoes. Got what they deserved. Shouldn't have left their man. You see how absurd it is to make everything black and white? But whatever. You are just hateful. Must be something bothering you. Have a nice day now :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 07:07 AM
1	What are opinions you hold that would get you shamed or lambasted by The Red Pill or Blue Pill or FDS? See, as opposed to you, I would definitely have sympathy for, let's say, women in the same situation. It is only about wanting a partner. Everyone wants to love and be loved. It is completely not about "using a womans body as a masturbation tool" or "wanting to fuck hot women". You have the complete wrong picture. These guys that you so harshly judge were not always already assholes. Some are not even now. They were born into this world innocent children, like yourself, unkowing about the world.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 09:06 PM
1	What are opinions you hold that would get you shamed or lambasted by The Red Pill or Blue Pill or FDS? No shit that those men are the nice ones. They have experienced what is like to be validated. That has a tremendous positive effect on your confidence, sense of self worth and outlook on life. Now imagine only ever having knowing rejection... 10, 20 years of this and the outcome is very predictable. These men are very real and it is not hilarious. They are suffering, likely severely depressed and starving for intimacy. Some end up killing themselves, others turn to anger as a coping mechanism. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 05:52 PM
–	Lurkers in healthy relationships: why are you here and why you should leave. At least you admit that (dating) life is harder for some than others. There are plenty of folks here are hard in denial about that. Good professional help is incredibly hard to find. I have not been able to do so yet. If you manage to find the right one I am sure it could help you. But you have to be very lucky or try lots of different ones, which is also an exhausting process. I agree this sub is very toxic but that is to be expected. It attracts people who are in pain and looking to lash out a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/22 08:03 AM
–	The Gender Empathy Gap is real Like the other guy said. It is about what the general narrative is that is in the media and the general publics mind. This translates almost directly to what issues are actually paid attention and money to and what people emphasize with and try to solve. 95% of gender related topics when discussed in media articles, news segments, internal company communications, etc.. comes down to the following: 1. women are victims and face unjust adversity, 2. men behave badly and have privilege That is all …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 04:33 PM
9	Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their league I agree it is stupid but it still happens. Especially the "online only" attention seekers. From my experience I would guess ~20% of women on OLD are there for that reason. They will string you along, have pleasant convos with you. Then, thinking there is a connection, you try to push for a date but then they mention that they are only interested in friendship after all and move on to the next guy who will again flirt with them and tell her sweet words. Easy validation. There has been some women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 11:50 AM
13	Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their league For attention. A significant percentage of women are on OLDs only for attention and (in some cases) to have a backup when things don't work out with their current bf. That last one is basically cheating if you ask me. Mostly these women limit their activities to online chatting but some will also go on "dates" with you having zero intention developing anything other than friendship. Maybe not you. Sure, but it happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 10:28 AM
20	How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of view Women all swipe on the same guys, that is the problem. These guys have options and so will treat you as disposable. They are NOT going to change their behavior. It works for them so there is zero incentive. Why does it work? Because women choose to sleep with them. Meanwhile the truly nice guys are mostly being ignored. Because: boring profile, no tingles, not hot enough, etc... These guys are actually starved for intimicy and desperately want an LTR but by being completely ignored and ghosted a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 09:48 PM
1	Society has failed (Men). Thank you. That is a very kind gesture. I believe in the power of prayer so that means something for me. I'll return the favor. May it bring lightness into your being.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 08:04 AM
1	Society has failed (Men). Except that for some people it does absolutely fall into their lap even when of bad character and hateful, which I am not. I am just trying to burst your bubble because you believe in some fairy tale fantasy world where everybody gets "what they deserve" but this world is not like that. It is full of injustice and random events. No sense of it can be made. There is innocent people who get sent to jail and are tortured for no reason. Criminals that get away with atrocities and actually flourish, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 10:15 PM
2	Society has failed (Men). So much misinformation here. There are NOT "plenty of women" who want casual sex. They are a minority. Therefore, if you want that as a guy you will likely need to lie and deceive. That is the game. Women are also rarely upfront about wanting casual sex because of slut shaming. On top of that, the only guys who they are willing to casually fuck are the top ~20% (in looks department). Average guys shouldn't even bother trying. The only way they might get some casual is by either buying or lying. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 01:03 PM
8	women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit: The bad thing is, it is partly working too. The other day I was reading a thread on askmen about "does weight matter?". The amount of men saying it does not matter, or only when it is morbidly obese, was staggering. Especially young guys are really going along with this BS body positivity movement. Or at least they say they do. Another big part of the reason is of course the fact that in the U.S. the average adult male himself is also overweight (more than 70%). Would be hypocritical to hang on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 09:04 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Certainly not life advice and wisdom no. This is just one of the few places where you can be frank and speak your mind about this subject without getting banned. That is the only reason. I am not on here that often anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 09:13 PM
18	Fuck stepping in for a woman in trouble Absolutely right. In this time of equality no man should have to sacrifice himself for any woman that he does not know. Equal rights mean equal responsibility and treatment in all circumstances. Not only when it benefits one gender. No way would I volunteer to jump into icy water to certain death for some random woman to take safety in a lifeboat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 06:25 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Sure. I guess that is just a totally alien idea for me. I would never, ever be here if it were not for my personal situation. To each their own interests.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:49 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread You are right about discussing stuff you normally would not. I still I don't think it is super healthy though. Depends on the individual I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:41 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes, it is really incredible to see how toxic and hurtful people can get here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:29 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Some of the regulars here (not going to name names) are downright nasty at times though. I honestly don't get why you would even be here though if you are happy and fullfilled? What do you get out of it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:21 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Expressed intent maybe but not actual intend most of the time. Either that or they go about it in an incredibly counter productive way. I find the "red pill dude bros" even worse at times though. Why the need to brag anyway and even punch down or gloat in some cases? There is definitely some insecurity or malice still in you if you feel you need to do that. And if that is true, no one will ever take your "lesson" to heart and righly so. It comes from a bad place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 03:56 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I don't understand people who claim to be in happy relationships or that have a fullfilling sex life and come here on PPD to shit on those of the other gender who are having difficulty finding a partner. How about a simple "oh that sucks, hope you will have better luck in the future" once in a while? Empathy is severely lacking. Both sides. I can understand this coming from people who are depressed and bitter from a life of loneliness, but others? Maybe some of you are trying to "teach" through …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 02:26 PM
2	Male and Female friendships are complicated. Orbiters are quite common. It is interesting. Women simply do not seem to comprehend the male sex drive. It is different, more powerful, more direct and more urgent than the female. It cannot be ignored, especially in prime age. It is therefore that a single man and woman (within roughly the same age group) simply can not be friends as a general rule. 90% of the time this is true. They can be friends in a group setting but not 1 on 1. If a guys finds a woman sexually attractive (enough to want to sleep with them) the sex …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/21 12:00 PM
3	What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman? You probably don't want any pity, certainly not from a guy maybe but you have my sincerest sympathies. Must be rough. There is a guy in my street who has a problem with his back as well. Always hunched over almost 90 degrees. Sucks. I hope he has something good going for him otherwise. You likewise. You know, almost everyone in this world is looking for love but not everyone is handed the same equipment for it. Attractive people have it so much easier. It is hard to not feel resentful. That is m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/21 09:27 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I never wash my hair. I do shower almost daily though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/21 07:14 PM
4	Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value. Tell me if the following rings true. Since you, as a woman, get so much attention on the dating apps you must filter a lot of guys out. I understand this because otherwise there is too many matches. But which guys do you chose I am wondering? Are they by chance the best looking? And if that is true then have you realised maybe that those are exactly the same guys that all other women are swiping on as well? These guys have options. That is how I see these apps operating. 10% of the guys get 90% …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/21 07:38 PM
2	Do you actually know what makes you attracted to a man? (specially in a first time meeting) They are this way because they can. As an analogy: I work in an industry where demand for workers is much greater than supply. Result is that skilled workers can make outrageous demands and get away with it. It is very easy to get an inflated ego and get super picky about the jobs you take. Women in western society are the same. The demand is much higher because the male sex drive is much higher. Combine that with a world full of comforts and automation where women do not necessarily need men to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/21 11:53 AM
10	Using Maslow's Hierarchy as a way for men and women to empathize with each other's sexuality experience. Projection. Women in general have a lower sex drive than men. They can not imagine what it is like so they project their own experience onto men and tell us that it is no big deal to go without sex. I am not blaming women about projecting specifically, everybody does that. It is human nature. However, going sexless as a male with a high sex drive is a big deal, and while you will not die from it there will be severe psychological consequences in the long run (unless you are Buddha or Christ or s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 02:13 PM
1	Would you date a girl with a very promiscuous past? It was directed at OP, I should have made it clearer. I just really dislike this "missing out" argument. I have had many wonderful experiences in my life, some of which I would recommended to others, but I would never tell someone they are missing out if they don't. No, walk the path you believe in and do what resonates with you. Some would feel miserable going to festivals, having threesomes, etc... More introverted types maybe. That is OK is what I am saying. Not everyone is a party animal. No…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/21 02:41 PM
2	Would you date a girl with a very promiscuous past? You do you. Not everyone is looking for threesomes, festival hook ups, etc.. in life. You are not missing out on anything at all if you do not have these experiences. Don't be envious of others but especially do not let anyone tell you that you are missing out on anything because they themselves are also missing out on a lot of stuff. You can only lose with that kind of mindset. Walk your own path.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/21 02:13 PM
27	Growing Number of Uneducated, "Lone, Broke" Men Deemed Threat to Society You are right. The shit feminists say and get away with is incredible though. Some well known and revered feminists such as Sally Miller Gearhart actually advocate committing genocide against the male gender. We should be "reduced" to 10% of the population according to her (and others). Absolutely evil. This goes far beyond what any misogynistic MGTOW guy might say. Mind you, her teachings are uncensored and published in books without major outrage or controversy. Unreal.	/r/MensRights	18/10/21 09:10 PM
2	Nasdaq is setting gender quotas, I guess the best qualification is to be a woman. Wtf!? This is completely bat shit insane. Who are they to tell how a business should be run? That is not their role at all. Blatant power grab.	/r/MensRights	10/08/21 12:32 PM
10	META we might be in danger Yes it is quite ridiculous. Most or even all complaints about this sub are coming from one obsessed individual who is on a crusade. Should just be ignored.	/r/MensRights	10/08/21 12:23 PM
1	What’s Up w/Reddit’s Hate on Men? As far as toxicity goes, go /r/politics and try to measure the level of hateful comments with a neutral pov. You'll be surprised. I have seen many outright calls for violence in that sub for example. You report it, nothing happens. Objectively, by reddits own guidelines, the sub should have been banned years ago. But that is never going to happen. You see, it is not about hate or toxicity AT ALL. It is only about WHO it is directed at. Are they considered the goodies or the baddies by the admins…	/r/MensRights	08/08/21 09:08 PM
5	What’s Up w/Reddit’s Hate on Men? Meanwhile over at FemaleDatingStrategy toxicity levels are sky high. They regularly call men "scrotes" (same as calling women holes) And what is the sub that is being banned? Right, /r/misandry, the ones who where trying to shed light on this. Incredible. What reddit is doing is very damaging. It is like they want to create extremists.	/r/MensRights	08/08/21 04:45 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I don't like cheaters as well. Ugh. More likely outcome for me though is that I would break contact with my friend eventually. It depends on the details. Cheating and snitching are very close in my book on the list disgusting behaviours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/21 10:01 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I do not think it is honorable either to step in and and snitch on your friend. It is HIS relationship, not mine. What I WOULD do is maybe try to convince him to confess to his GF. It is not healthy to live with that kind of secret. Eats you up. I would still not snitch though. But I am interested now. What would YOU do? Your best friend had a one night stand with some dude. Would you immediately go behind her back and tell her BF?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/21 09:52 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread No one likes snitches. Women do the same. They do not always tell on their "sis" when they know she is cheating. It also completely depends on who and how and why. Would I tell on my best friend if he confesses to me he slipped up and had a ONS with some chick? No. That is for him to deal with. Likely the guilt will make him confess to his GF anyway. No need for me to step in, that would break our friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/21 08:52 AM
34	A Call To Men : Another "conversion" therapy for men and boys to get them ride of the evil "toxic masculinity" and become decent human beings. No one, it is a complete lie.	/r/MensRights	06/08/21 04:09 PM
5	r/misandry is banned now You are right. Ironically what they did is exactly what the sub was about, misandry.	/r/MensRights	06/08/21 12:29 PM
7	Question for Women: What do you offer a man when you feel interested in him and desire that he invests himself into you? It is super easy to be your "authentic self" if you are constantly validated just for existing. "Oh you are so wonderful! Oh, you have so much talent. Oh, you are so beautiful, so strong and powerful. You go girl! The future is female!" That is what society has been telling you since you were young. Never lack of attention from the opposite sex either. Free and assumed. Most men do not have this experience. Instead they are thought they are expendable. When showing any vulnerability they are imm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/21 04:52 PM
1	Question for Women: What do you offer a man when you feel interested in him and desire that he invests himself into you? Exactly. The assumption is that the guy has to be interested in her first. Just for existing. Why? Just because. Inherent value. So much privilege. Men have to build their value. Improve themselves, take initiative, pursue, etc.. it does not come for free.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/21 04:37 PM
14	Society often forces men to become the worst possible versions of themselves to have dating success, if we want this to change Women have to change their dating preferences Why childish? It is completely rational.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 04:49 PM
6	Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men? Not true, I have dated plenty and this has been my experience with most. Women on average are just passive, lack initiative. If it weren't for men there would be almost zero relationships because no one would be doing the approaching.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 10:14 AM
11	Men's problem with the current dating scene This is not about my personal status. It is just just general knowledge. Men date (fuck) down. Not exclusively but when in a dry spell or just horny we have no problem with that. Need to scratch that itch. Our sex drive is just on a different level. A woman's league is those men who stick around and are seriously vetting her to be their wife / long term partner. That is the game. Unless she just wants to have lots of casual sex of course. This is also fine, I won't judge that but it will not hel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 08:53 AM
38	Men's problem with the current dating scene The ones who stick around define your league. Men have no problem dating down for casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 06:03 AM
1	Male feminists Exactly, art is everywhere. There is no need to go to a museum. I can appreciate a good painting, sure, but I don't need to see 100 in a row. Most (not all) museums are boring to me because they are too structured and predictable. It takes the fun out of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 03:42 PM
21	Feminism is nothing more than a life hack for most women. Very few feminists are truly interested in equality. The label "feminism" is inherently polarising and biased towards one gender. Feminists only ever focus on female issues, assume the world to be a patriarchy, etc.. If you want true equality drop that label and use something more neutral like "egalitarian".	/r/MensRights	19/06/21 07:43 PM
2	"Admitting" sexlessness or "dating privileges" are a problem or that they exist, or empathy about it, won't change the facts in any way. So why does it matter? Good point. Unfortunately I have no time to moderate/run a subreddit. I have enough going on as it is. FYI, I just noticed that /r/egalitarianism is an actual sub. A very small one but still. I should maybe try and contribute there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 12:21 PM
1	"Admitting" sexlessness or "dating privileges" are a problem or that they exist, or empathy about it, won't change the facts in any way. So why does it matter? There is not a really good sub I think. Not to my knowledge. menslib: not really 'toxic', just completely NOT about mens issues. Operated by feminists, not empowering for men. Mensrights: toxic sometimes but at least it is about mens issues and operated by men. Problem is they go too far sometimes with the misogyny. But in that regard they are not really different from /r/feminism or some other female subs. It is unfortunate. In my opinion mra and feminism should in the future join forces under …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 11:38 AM
5	"Admitting" sexlessness or "dating privileges" are a problem or that they exist, or empathy about it, won't change the facts in any way. So why does it matter? Don't. I was browsing that sub because MRA can be a bit toxic, yes. But honestly menslib is worse, it should be called /r/feminismformen. It is a false flag operation that is actually run by feminists moderators. I think a lot of the posters are actually women too. Just browse and you will see. Most of the posts are about female issues reframed as male issues. A recent popular post: "I saw a women being harassed by a man, I felt powerless, patriarchy effects men too!" Like lol, not nice but why …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 06:36 AM
5	How the dating world radicalizes people What about bad dating experiences then? Isn't that 'dating itself'? I've had plenty of those. I would not say it radicalized me but it did open my eyes about the 'fairer' sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 02:17 PM
2	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? No, you are a naive 40,50? yo instead. I honestly think you are fooling yourself. You say you don't even date these guys and so you got all this from what? Texting? Get out of here. So how are you getting along in finding a non digital, actual real live man, who you respect, committing to you? As for the rest, you and I are just seeing very different things happening in the world around us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 07:36 PM
2	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? Those 20yo don't want to date you for a relationship, get real. They just want to fuck and think you may be easy to get. So they match with you on Tinder and talk sweet words. And do you think I do not observe who those men I talked about date as well? Yes, they may date a hoe once in a while (for a short time). But settle? never. There is a clear difference between a hookup or a short term fling and an LTR. Again, a man who values himself and has a future is not going to settle with a hoe (know…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 07:17 PM
2	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? Tinder matches does not equal relationships. And how many relationships do you need to be successful? Exactly, just 1. So what are you on about, bragging about numbers for? So you are having lots of short 'relationships', is that it? What is another name for those I wonder. You say you know many who did not change their mind later in live. Kind of hard to believe but it still does not mean anything to me. I, as a man, hang out with a lot more men then you, who in male only company tend to speak …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 06:58 PM
1	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? I kind of doubt it but ppd is a weird place, haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 06:33 PM
–	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? Yes, that is better, when the relationship is good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 06:25 PM
–	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? Nah, casual sex is casual sex. What matters is whether girl is in to me, physically. That is hot. It does not matter 1 bit if it was easy or difficult to get there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 06:19 PM
–	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? Haha. A woman bragging about being able to get sex on Tinder. Talk about pathetic :) But what about the quality of those men. Have they gone up? By hoe I mean women who sleep around a lot. Like you? (I am just guessing from your comments here). Sure guys will pump and dump, that has always been easy for you. Is it satisfying though? And you are dead wrong about the same men who wanted a 20yo hoe at 20 will still want one at 40. I for one completely changed in that regard. I know many who are the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 06:11 PM
–	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? No she can't. The quality of the men that will want to sleep with her will go down significantly. Good looking, successful men in their 40s and 50s can easily get women in their late 20s and 30s. Who wants a 40 year old hoe? No one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 05:46 PM
–	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? That is just a very, very bad analogy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 05:15 PM
–	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? But still you try and play the victim even while enjoying your extremely privileged position. Hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 04:19 PM
–	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? You are a walking contradiction. Haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 04:06 PM
–	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? Haha, so true... Like what? Because we have to work for it is why we value it, really? Complete BS. It is way simpler. We are just hard wired to want to f**k as many women as we can. Spread the seed. It is on a physical level. No man is going to turn down casual sex because it was 'too easy'. Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 03:47 PM
17	Refuted from a job interview because they don't have enough women workers. I don't think they really thought it through and made the calculation honestly. The cost of having an incompetent engineer is huge: They get salary first off, write bad code and make bad design decisions (which can be a serious risk to business continuity), cost time of others instead of saving time, bring down morale, etc... Working harder can only go so far to make up for it.	/r/MensRights	13/06/21 08:33 PM
124	Refuted from a job interview because they don't have enough women workers. Sucks man. It happens all the time. Employers, especially big corporations, are somehow desperate to get more women in IT. They will go as far as hiring completely incompetent people with 0 background or affinity with technology, all in the name of diversity. I have seen this happen first hand. You will find something though :). The demand for software/data/ai/whatever engineers is still far greater then the supply.	/r/MensRights	13/06/21 06:30 PM
1	Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what? Likewise I think I do have a lot to offer as well. Stable/high paying job, physically very fit, not an asshole, ... Anyway, I think that is fair judgement. We would not be compatible. That is ok. But I do know a few long term couples who sealed the deal far quicker then 3 months and are still together. So it is not a requirement to wait so long for success I mean. But it is perfectly fine to have preferences like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 01:14 PM
1	Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what? That is frankly a very long time. I would likely get discouraged in pursuing it further honestly. I mean how intense/frequent is the contact? If you see each other a couple of times a week, maybe even whole days on the weekends, you should be able to have a picture by 2 months or so. If less frequent, and shorter, then it takes longer, sure. At some point though I would be getting frustrated if she holds it off and take it as a sign of rejection. Sort of like being friend zoned. Unless she is ve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 12:10 PM
2	Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what? But I have yet to encounter guys who really think like she says. (I mean both wanting a low n count woman and also expecting sex on the 2nd date) If they do exist, then yes, that is ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 11:56 AM
3	Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what? But who really says this? I would not expect this at all. I do prefer a low n count woman for an LTR, yes. Like many men. But low n count means the woman has to vet suitors for compatibility, naturally, or she quickly becomes high n count. Lots of hungry chads will have no problem pumping and dumping her. That is why she should hold off sex for a while so that these guys get frustrated and move on to an easier target. So how long to wait? Some women have a 3 months rule. I would say 1- 2 months …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 10:23 AM
10	Women should plan for a future without a partner. Where did I say that it is OK for men to believe they are superior? Projection. I don't think that. It is also a very bad idea. What I said is: an average woman is equal to an average man. No more, no less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 05:53 AM
14	Women should plan for a future without a partner. All I am reading is complaints that men are bad, pathetic, beneath you, etc... With such an extremely warped negative view of average and decent men you will never find anybody indeed. Always you will find some flaw. The problem is you. You truly have come to believe that you are superior somehow and look down on these 'weak pathetic' men who are not worth to touch the ground you walk on. Entitlement princess. So, just be alone. Take your own advice, give up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 10:12 PM
15	Women should plan for a future without a partner. 100% this. I truly felt this one. These women think they can solve the issue by raising their sons better, 'educating' them. It won't work. Like you said: They will get f**k up in the head instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 10:04 PM
8	Women should plan for a future without a partner. But they would be failing miserably. Single women generally raise boys to be weak simps. They are raised as girls almost because women fundamentally don't understand the male perspective. As a result these single moms cannot make the choices that will truly benefit their sons. They will become exactly like the men you complain about. Boys need strong men as role models to become successful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 09:59 PM
16	Women should plan for a future without a partner. Then be alone and stop complaining.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 09:48 PM
15	Women should plan for a future without a partner. That is because their sex drive is way different then men. I that regard we are truly almost a different species.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 09:46 PM
62	Women should plan for a future without a partner. The point is that OP painted this ridiculously dark picture of an average man, as being pathetic and beneath her and other women. All the while there are many hard working decent men who work their asses off but who are still completely unsuccessful with women. Why? Probably just because they are average looking. That is it. The rest is just rambling fantasy nonsense. You are not better just because you are born with a p**sy. An average woman is equal to an average man. Women these days truly ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 09:43 PM
1	Who here is generally happy with their life? I hope it will get better for you bro, sincerely. Hang in there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 11:03 AM
1	Why do men who are frequent consumers of porn and also who judge porn content creators poorly, get offended when others judge them poorly for partaking in that industry? BS you are not. Another example then. When my sister in law received the news that she was unable to bear children she took it very bad. Depression to the point where she had to take antidepressants. But I guess I should have given her your advice: Having children is 'not a need' my dear, just let it go. Technically correct, you will not die from it. Completely out of touch with reality though, thinking it has no effect on a person. Sex and reproduction is a basic need people have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 09:14 AM
3	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. The effect of being anti social is not equal for men and women when it comes to being able to have casual sex. OLDs are part of it but even without that, casual sex for women has always been easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 06:15 AM
1	Why do men who are frequent consumers of porn and also who judge porn content creators poorly, get offended when others judge them poorly for partaking in that industry? That is because you are low libido. Must be or you would not spout this nonsense. Either that or you are high libido and have been fortunate to have been without long dry spells. But I doubt it. Women have lower libidos in general anyway. In summary, you simply don't know what you are talking about. It is very similar to hunger, experientially. I would know. Of course it is not that you will die from lack of sex, but neither will you die from lack of friends. Both are generally not healthy for y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 08:32 PM
5	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. Lol, I don't insist. I just observe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 08:18 PM
–	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. Sorry, I misread. Getting late here ;) But then we agree, it would be a good thing. Let's spread the word!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 08:14 PM
–	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. 10%, holy shit that is a lot!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 08:06 PM
–	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. No, TRP simply teaches men how women play the game and to plan/act accordingly. This is not equal to "taking away choices and economic freedom of women" in any way. If all boys were taught this and took the lessons to heart we would get rid of simps and the game would be more balanced again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 07:56 PM
12	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. It is always the same dude. They simply don't care. They would rather average men just die.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 07:39 PM
1	Why do men who are frequent consumers of porn and also who judge porn content creators poorly, get offended when others judge them poorly for partaking in that industry? So then you would know how it feels: this urge, this hunger, this need. Knowing that you would not say what you said. That is why I figured you were low libido. I dunno. Anyway, sex is not owed to you by anyone for sure. Neither are friends for that matter. But it is definitely a need, for many there is a severe price to pay, psychologically, by going without.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 07:17 PM
–	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. Disastrous picture. 43% never had sex at all!? (One of the tweets) Is that for real? I wonder how the genders are split on that one. Obviously OLD and smart phones in general are to blame. The world is becoming more and more anti social. Edit: typo	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 06:49 PM
4	Why do men who are frequent consumers of porn and also who judge porn content creators poorly, get offended when others judge them poorly for partaking in that industry? Sex isn't a need? Holy shit how retarded. You are clearly low libido and have not experienced your whole body screaming for sex, neverending. It is like hunger. Excruciating. Obviously your body is telling you it wants you to reproduce. That is like the most fundamental thing in this world. Your body is the result of an unbroken chain of reproduction. To not get any gives rise to frustration short term. Long term you get anger, bitterness, depression. Not a need, lol. I am envious of low libido …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 06:34 PM
1	CMV: the RP contention that "all sex & relationships are transactional, prostitutes are just explicit" is patently bullshit, furthermore, there is a distinct difference from paid whores Sure, I get that. It is just kind of the natural way of things here in this human kingdom. It can be kind of frustrating though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 07:45 PM
1	CMV: the RP contention that "all sex & relationships are transactional, prostitutes are just explicit" is patently bullshit, furthermore, there is a distinct difference from paid whores Sure, that is totally fine. It is a personality thing. Good luck with your marriage, sincerely! The dating experience is not super positive these days :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 07:43 PM
1	CMV: the RP contention that "all sex & relationships are transactional, prostitutes are just explicit" is patently bullshit, furthermore, there is a distinct difference from paid whores Women truly are the gatekeepers of sex. Not complaining per se, just an observation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 06:53 PM
1	CMV: the RP contention that "all sex & relationships are transactional, prostitutes are just explicit" is patently bullshit, furthermore, there is a distinct difference from paid whores Fine with me. People are different. Not all 'wife type' women wait 3 months though. Just from LTR couples (some married) I know, many of them sealed the deal far quicker then that. So it is not universal rule is what I am saying. If you are the 'take it slow' type, totally fine. For myself, a few weeks, up to one month, is plenty slow. If things are not clear by then more time is not going to do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 06:48 PM
5	Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women? Allowed themselves? Men are taught, from young age, to be effeminate simps these days. It is pushed to them from all angles. Feminism rules, not the patriarchy and it breeds weak men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 04:56 PM
1	CMV: the RP contention that "all sex & relationships are transactional, prostitutes are just explicit" is patently bullshit, furthermore, there is a distinct difference from paid whores Alright, fair enough. I was assuming an existing relationship situation, in which case everything I said is true. When dating though very, very few men will wait for 3+ months for a first lay. I certainly won't unless it is a garuantee. But there is no such thing as that of course. When dating I am assuming physical intimacy, kissing, after a couple of dates. After maybe a week or 2 of that and increased time spend together it should lead to sex. Any longer and there is no point. 3 months is sim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 04:22 PM
1	CMV: the RP contention that "all sex & relationships are transactional, prostitutes are just explicit" is patently bullshit, furthermore, there is a distinct difference from paid whores Choosing not to have sex for 3+ months (her example) while your partner DOES want sex can definitely mean you are withholding. It will lead to frustration and put stress on the relationship. If it is a one sided choice then there must be a good reason because you are taking away the choice of your partner. If you are simply low libido and your partner has a high libido then maybe you are not compatible a should split up. If it is not low libido, what then? Very likely there are some relationship…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 11:21 AM
2	Since women hit the wall at 30, dating is not "easier" for them A culture where men are low value? WTF? What does that even mean? Haha, what a superiority complex! Entitlement princess. You are not worth more because you happened to be born with pussy. Get out of here. You just confirm again that most women chase the same top 20% of men and rate the rest 'low value', below average. Such a skewed view on reality. If women would be more realistic they would have absolutely 0 problems finding a partner via OLD apps. The fact is that there are simply plenty of d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 08:20 AM
2	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex Just one example, even from this very sub, where women usually lie about their true nature: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ncydll/-/gy7ub6o IRL, granted, I only saw it just a few times since it is rare. But what I have seen the girl either blows up or withdraws inward. Visually effected in a way I have not seen from men. The truth is that 90%+ women expect to be approached while the man does the work and they sit on their lazy ass. And then the audacity to complain about male…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/21 05:26 AM
7	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex Lol, have you ever seen a woman being rejected? Not pretty sight, they don't take it well, let's put it like that. Most women are so affected by the experience that they never try again afterwards. And you talk about entitlement. Haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 06:34 AM
3	Everybody is having less sex, it's just easier for women Doesn't that make you privileged? (being attractive presumably) Similarly unattractive women also face challenges in this regard. Do you feel zero empathy for them as well? Is it so hard to say something like: "Hey, I get it, in this regard you are facing a challenge. Good luck, sincerely." This is not pity but just admitting the truth of their experience. That is all they'd like to hear. Instead of the constant stream of: there is no problem, fk you, I have problems too, fk you, average guys ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 03:34 PM
2	Everybody is having less sex, it's just easier for women Not me specifically no. Like I said, I am doing fine thank you. I don't give a sht if you care about me. In general, the point is (one that you will of course never admit) that average guys these days are totally f*ed when it comes to dating prospects. This includes, blue pill guys, genuine nice guys, etc.. Like ugly women, I sympathize with them. But of course you don't since you are not capable of empathy. Me, me me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 03:17 PM
5	Most of the women on here have perfectly realistic standards and demanding they lower them is bad advice Good luck. Your problem is that the 8/9 guys you are looking for are either: in a committed relationship already, certainly by 25+ or more likely: staying single by choice and having lots of casual sex Very, very few single attractive men are available and looking for an LTR. And if they are they have plenty of choices so you will have to compete with a LOT of other women. So the question becomes, what do you bring?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 06:20 AM
0	Everybody is having less sex, it's just easier for women Fantasy, lol, I have literally seen this happening over and over and over: Women complaining about men they chose that clearly have options. Maybe not you personally. There are exceptions. Some women are a bit wiser but the pattern is very clear to see. It is also clear that attractive guys, with options, who are single, are single for a reason. Mostly by choice. Very risky to pursue them. It is also not about 'revenge'. I am not bitter, although I do not feel sorry for these women them, no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 05:24 AM
3	Everybody is having less sex, it's just easier for women In the same way that I have sympathy for ugly women. I would not mock them or kick down, like you do. I do not have to be attracted to them in order to sympathize with their struggles. That is the difference. You don't give a f**k. That just makes you a terrible human being to be honest. FYI, I was not talking about casual sex. That is your projection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 05:05 AM
13	Everybody is having less sex, it's just easier for women I am not complaining about my personal situation at all. Doing fine thank you. I just call it like I see it. You simply live an easy, privileged life. Meanwhile having no sympathy for those that have it harder. I just have zero respect for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 06:19 PM
4	Everybody is having less sex, it's just easier for women Exactly. You got it. Trying to equate the two while they are on a different league altogether. For most women (and blue pill guys) it looks just about impossible to admit that: yes, here is a part of life where men are simply facing an real disadvantage. Instead it is downplayed with 'both sides'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 06:00 PM
7	Everybody is having less sex, it's just easier for women But you ARE trying to minimize it by how you phrase it. "Everybody is having less sex" "It is trending down for both sexes" Trying to equate the two by the language you use and mostly ignoring the fact that men have it way worse. Why not focus on the bigger issue? This is similar to a feminist post I saw recently which was warning about a rise in female suicides in Japan. Like, OMG! Meanwhile male suicides where still double that amount. But who cares about men right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 05:06 PM
19	Everybody is having less sex, it's just easier for women Haha, standards so ridiculously high that you rate 80% of men below average. "Hotdogs on the ground" one woman called them in a recent thread here. Imagine that: thinking so badly of average, decent guys that you basically see them as trash. Result: you willingly submit yourself to harem type situations because you all go for the same small group of guys. Those guys therefore have options, lots of options. And guys with options tend to excersize them. They will fuck you, sure, but settle down? N…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 04:49 PM
1	Q4Men what do you think when men lie down about N count? I said "not able to settle". Maybe ambiguous, still you chose to take it to mean "not able to settle FOR" maybe? I simply meant "to come to a place of rest" which is also a valid expression. See a dictionary. Miscommunication. No biggie. Btw, this whole discussion started by you telling me not to care about high n count in relation to seeking a LTR. Why even bother saying that in this context? If not advice, what then? It's like me telling you, "you should want X". But you clearly don't like X. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 06:28 AM
1	Q4Men what do you think when men lie down about N count? "To settle down with someone" is quite a common expression. I don't know why you chose to interpret it in such a negative way. It simply means, to be satisfied with someone without looking for the next 'opportunity'. Anyway, it looks like you can't do it. Quickly bored. Proves my point though. It would be a waste of time to attempt a relationship with you since your motto is: "Variety is the spice of life". This whole discussion started around LTRs. But it looks like you are not looking for this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 09:58 PM
1	Q4Men what do you think when men lie down about N count? Haha, so you do care, just the opposite. Hypocrite :) You are not interested in training you say. Well then. I am not interested in being number 78 soon to be cast aside for number 79. That is what you get at these numbers, it's just math at that point. Indicative of someone's restless personality that is not able to settle. There is enough research out there that shows the correlation between high n count and unfaithfulness and divorce. Divorce rates are already damn high, why should I risk it?…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 06:08 PM
9	"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground" Extremely privileged. At least you have some self awareness. Most women would deny it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 08:52 PM
19	"Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground" Exactly. Women's standards are ridiculously high, fuelled to extreme by these dating apps. When you have a 10,20 or more matches lined up it is super easy to find fault with anything, no matter how small. Why? Because "Never settle, no compromise" He didn't make me laugh enough? Maybe the next guy will. He has a personality quirk? Don't want that, next guy. He is slightly to short? Next guy should be taller. He does not share some of my interests? Next one. Next, next, next. It becomes a pattern…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 08:42 PM
48	Do some men prefer more average looking women because they're low maintainance? There is more then looks, also for guys. From my experience there is a very high correlation between a girls 'hotness' and narcissism, boring personality, entitlement, etc... Not all hot girls, but most. I simply have nothing in common with these types of girls so I avoid them when trying for something serious, long term. What I do like is: my level of attractiveness, down to earth, independent, kind. I am also active and fit so I would expect my partner to be in shape, at least somewhat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 09:40 AM
1	Q4Men what do you think when men lie down about N count? Haha, I guess I could have guessed by his username. But I then I tend to never pay attention to those anyway. Only just now noticed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 09:17 AM
0	Q4Men what do you think when men lie down about N count? Who'd care about that? You are incredibly naive. A lot of men who are looking for a LTR care about this. It is an indicator of not being able to maintain a stable, faithful relationship. Also, the other way around, at this point a guy is just a number for you. 122 today, 123 coming up next week. Ugh. So why should any guy bother with you anyway? Except for a one night stand I mean. You are simply not LTR material. Any man with some self respect will absolutely not go for someone with triple digi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 06:40 AM
19	Be Honest: Does A Woman Doing Certain Things in The Bedroom Change Your Feelings For Her? 100% this (also a guy)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/21 05:48 PM
1	What % of men are not stunning but just about fuckable if they have other desirable traits? Right on, this is so true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/21 04:08 PM
2	Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy? Yet you expect men to do this time and time again, at the same time claiming you want equality. In other words, you want all the advantages historically benefiting men while retaining the female advantages. That is not equality, it is female supremacy. If you want to retain the privilege of having men pursue you, mustering up the courage to ask you out, paying for dates, etc.. then there must be another area where this privilege is reversed. That is just natural.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/21 03:36 PM
2	Love between genders You reap what you sow. Men are not stupid. They see this behaviour: the cocky arrogant, extroverted guys having all the success with women. They take note and try to emulate this behaviour. Why? Because it works, even by your own admission. And then when we are in our 30s and 40s you expect us to do a 180 and be all nice and vulnerable? You can't have it both ways. You created the men you complain about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/21 02:15 PM
2	women's high standards is mens fault. And why are there so many simps, have you wondered? Maybe it's because of the patriarchy? Lol. I am joking of course. In this feminist ruled western world men are raised to be blue pilled, weak and docile. Simps. You reap what you sow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/21 12:05 PM
1	I don't hate feminism I agree that in the end the MRA movement and feminism ideally should merge into a general 'gender equality' movement where the issues of both genders are addressed equally. But for this to happen, feminism, as it is now must die. The label itself is divisive and must disappear, same for MRA. We are talking ideal, fantasy stuff here. I don't think this will happen in my lifetime.	/r/MensRights	08/05/21 09:50 AM
1	Question. Sorry if I come off as rude! No it does not make you a misandrist. I am the similar, I am a man and I am seeing my brothers are facing real issues that are not addressed. So I want to bring attention to this. I would even not label myself MRA although I think this is a necessary movement. I don't like the word too much for the same reason that I absolutely hate the word feminism.	/r/MensRights	08/05/21 09:29 AM
4	Question. Sorry if I come off as rude! Feminism in west has become a supremacy movement. Equality of opportunity has been achieved and even overshot. There are issues men are facing that very much need attention, for example in education. Also, feminism and in general campaigns that seek to advantage women are everywhere. Every company I have worked with has programs for women, special days to bring attention to them, presentations and courses, etc... The movement is giant and mainstream. Big corporations, governments, charities, etc…	/r/MensRights	08/05/21 09:13 AM
1	Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring? Just from Wikipedia I can read that Russia is like ~70% Christian Orthodox, 10% Muslim. You did say 'very religious' so I don't know about that. It is sort of subjective. In any case. I wish you good luck with your husband. Hope it works out. Sincerely. But if you ever end up single I don't think you will find anyone who can live up to this list. It is too long and specific. In your comments you have placed some nuance and context to them but still. It is something that I just don't get about wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 02:37 PM
2	Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring? This looks reasonable on surface level until you read carefully. Similar values (no homophobe/misogynist/pro-lifer/racist/deeply religious etc, cares about environment) This leaves out like 1/3 of men. If not more. I am just talking about religious and/or pro life here. I mean, it is fine, as long as you are aware. Clean criminal records That is reasonable. Similar plans/inspirations Highly dependent on what your plans are. Could be impossible. For all I know you are planning to move to Alaska. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 12:17 PM