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Comfortable-Regret/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:53 PM
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IT HAS BREACHED CONTAINMENT?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:30 PM
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The line is consent. It's pretty easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:45 PM
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yea, but only every now and then, it quickly gets gross if you eat it too often imo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:36 AM
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Yeah, is that unusual?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 07:29 AM
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I'm very curious what you think a whore is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 07:26 AM
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....thats kinda funny though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 07:25 AM
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More of a room temperature take
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 07:22 AM
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If only men had the right to vote
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:01 AM
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I don't know, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:03 PM
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I probably wouldn't date a woman who's uncomfortable with me looking at porn, but everyones allowed to have their own boundaries, I don't judge
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:58 PM
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I need you to step into a Walmart, look around, then say that again
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:36 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/22vfhgnt53re1.png?width=1600&format=png&auto=webp&s=8ffa2d3d1dda37ce24efb6edde74f226b52730e4
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:31 PM
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I've been around enough trans people to know that's not accurate but believe what you want to I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:18 PM
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Idk, I just thought you might have some sort of reason. Generally, people have a reason for thinking/feeling the way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:12 PM
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That's called survivalship bias. Since you only recognize the ones who are "clockable" as trans, you assume all trans people are clockable. You probably have interacted with a lot more trans people than you realize if you live in a first-world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:09 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:05 PM
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* I want to play a game... Guess which of these men are cis and which one's are trans Edit: The image doesn't want to attach
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:59 PM
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Do you find all guys with erectile dysfunction disgusting? That's fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:50 PM
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<image> https://www.menshealth.com/fitness/a43991897/shawn-stinson-interview/ This dude is more masculine than any cis guy I know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:44 PM
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Actually, it is possible for transmen to have a fully functional penis! https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/treatment-tests-and-therapies/phalloplasty-for-gender-affirmation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:41 PM
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Men tend to be more right leaning, women tend to be more left leaning. It would be pretty strange if the reverse pairing was more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:35 PM
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Block
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:19 PM
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Some things don't need an incentive, you just do it because it's right. You strike me as someone who leaves his shopping card in the middle of a parking spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:20 AM
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Even if we assume this is accurate, you're comparing apples to bowling balls. I'd rather be falsely accused of rape than actually raped any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:16 AM
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I just realized what you meant, you think they're women pretending to be men? Idk, I suppose some people enjoy creative writing. I assume most are just men with different opinions from you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:17 PM
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Not a woman but I bet Luigi Mangione could beat those numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:11 PM
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Same reason you're here I assume, they're here sharing their opinions, probably while bored and taking a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:09 PM
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I think you call that "bluepill" round here. Ya know, half of purplepill...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:08 PM
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What's wrong with the word "y'all"...?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:44 PM
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But if I don't explain, they might assume I said/did whatever offended them for a worse reason...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:41 PM
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Just tell them you don't feel like hugging anymore... if they're half decent friends, they'll accept that and leave you be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:31 PM
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You disagree...? That some women like sex....???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:20 PM
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Or, crazy idea, maybe some women just enjoy having sex....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:57 AM
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I have zero interest in hookups but I still understand the appeal, sex feels good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:56 AM
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I think most just want those men to stop resenting women on a core level for things that aren't hurting anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:55 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:37 PM
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A lot of guys on this sub think "husband material" means "not hookup material"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:57 PM
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No, that's above and beyond Not sure, I'd guess yes but only on special occasions Yes, but only when my gf is feeling down/sick/tired/ect, not just out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:54 PM
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Wouldn't that make your answer "yes" then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:50 PM
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As long as she doesn't mind me taking them outside in a cup instead of killing them, I wouldn't mind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:49 PM
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Unless she's really small and the proportions are wild, why would I care...?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:47 PM
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What's a 0-NM...?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:45 PM
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You should try pants, it's winter
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:43 PM
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I'd rather my gf love me for my personality than for my looks any day. Looks fade, but I'll always be me. (unless I get brain damage or something)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:28 PM
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Any woman? What about a woman with a healthy bmi and a reeeeeaaaaallly ugly face?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:05 AM
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Do you think you should be shamed? Or do you just find nothing wrong with hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:03 PM
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What exactly does "wait for sex" mean? Would I stay in a relationship if they didn't immediately have sex with me as soon I as wanted to...? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:00 PM
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I meant people and disagree with that statement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:03 AM
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Unfortunately many people are homophobic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:04 PM
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Well I'm bisexual so not really relevant in my case
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:07 AM
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Fucking the poop shoot when there's two perfectly good orifices that have never been full of feces is what gives me the ick
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:26 PM
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Only 5 for rape is still wild, though comparing it to drug sentences was very american of me, my mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:03 PM
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Only 5 years for raping two people?? That's disgusting, people get more time for smoking weed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:58 PM
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It's uh really not supposed to taste like that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:55 PM
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I'd throw up if I got a mouthful of salty snot, so I wouldn't expect anyone else to swallow that...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:54 PM
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Hehe holeier than thou Goofy take though, how does having sex make women into "damaged goods"? It takes two to tango after all. Do you think men who have sex are damaged?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:49 PM
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It's kinda sad how much time you spend trying to piss off strangers on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:16 PM
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Their mom? That's common??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:52 PM
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<image> I am beyond gender
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:08 PM
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They seem to be on about the same level to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:22 AM
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Political lesbianism...???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:07 PM
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Having preferences isn't wrong, calling women who don't meet them "ran through" and "passed around" is. And just having a preference is not the same as marrying someone for that reason. "I like blond hair" is normal, "I married my gf right away because she's blond" is pretty weird, and being uncomfortable about it is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:06 PM
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Wow, who said that? I've only ever seen it in a meme
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:57 AM
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I just visualize people online as their profile pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:56 AM
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Arguably yes, it's just for the attention of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:54 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/zqzlgm4g05ld1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=de21cfb000f84048c4e92d9f6aa278b59a9cf642 Hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:50 AM
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Have you ever met a single person in real life who believes that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:48 AM
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I suppose it's good that I'm not here enough for people to remember me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:24 AM
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Am I worthy of a tier?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:12 AM
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Isn't that the meaning of "bluepill", though? The mainstream takes?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:02 AM
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What exactly would it be ranking about them.?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:00 AM
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Pretty women dont have to work, nor mostly do. What gives you that idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:43 AM
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Hm maybe, he face looks thin though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:42 AM
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Attractive women are sometimes cut a little extra slack ≠ women don't have to work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:37 PM
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Pretty sure that's just her armor
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:28 PM
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You do realize that women need to work for money to get food and shelter too, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:22 PM
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Oh they don't have crust that's interesting, usually the crust is the worst part on mine so I'll give that recipe a try lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:20 PM
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I've made two attempts at lemon squares in the past couple months and both were horrific, how do you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:30 PM
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For what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:27 PM
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This isn't tiktok, you can say ass
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:04 PM
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Try wearing a bear suit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:59 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:58 PM
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Sure, there's plenty of relationships like that. Arguably my own is and I think it's working pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:57 PM
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I'd say they're both morally wrong since it's cheating, but the minor is definitely way worse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:55 PM
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How is this even a question..?? Who would be less upset about their partner being a pedo than about cheating with a trans person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:54 PM
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Absolutely not. She looks good for her age but I'm not interested in anyone old enough to be my grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:25 PM
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What would you call it if someone felt no sexual attraction to someone else but had sex with them regardless for whatever reason while feeling nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:08 AM
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Language evolves, it's real now, even if it's a result of social anxiety or whatever else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:06 AM
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This is something awful people do, I don't think it's specific to men or women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:44 PM
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You say it like that's a bad thing??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:35 PM
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They should absolutely try to at least be subtle, but if you're sharing for a long time I understand still having sex. Someone like a landlord I'd probably just try to ignore, but if it was a relative I'd give the wall a kick if it's bad so they realize I hear them and shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:31 PM
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I don't think that's comparable since you can just hold your piss
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:27 PM
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As long as she doesn't bleed through the towel, it wouldn't be a big deal. Unless she wanted to free bleed in public, that'd probably be a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:26 PM
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Are you forgetting about the world outside the US...?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:21 PM
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Randy indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:16 AM
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5.5/10 maybe, it's a bad angle and she's making a weird expression though so it's hard to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:29 PM
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There are healthy ways to lose weight, and many people with eds are still overweight. Having an ed has literally no benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:24 AM
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If it only needs to be one night just download tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:24 AM
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Sounds parasocial...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:22 AM
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Who cares about backlash from random redditors? What's the worst that can happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:52 PM
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Mild negative. I'd prefer she not do that, but it wouldn't affect my interest at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:05 PM
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https://archiveofourown.org/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:28 PM
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I'm not sure exactly, just the way some of them look and frame their photos made me immediately think of porn bots. Ah that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:05 PM
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They look like bots. Also why did you censor the eyes...?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:12 AM
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It's rape unless she consented to this while conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:39 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:14 PM
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I agree that saying someone isn't hookup/fwb material is an insult, but a lot of people here are saying that calling someone husband material on its own in an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:11 PM
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Tell him you would fuck if he was a jerk, but you wouldn't expect bf actions from him, he's gonna act like a jerk. That's a better deal. How's that a better deal? What's the appeal of being a jerk? And I enjoy doing bf actions with my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:09 PM
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I thought they were the same thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:05 PM
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Yeah I really don't get how calling someone husband material means you're not attracted to them, seems like it should mean the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:04 PM
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Sorry, *I'd rather be a husband/boyfriend then a guy who gets hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:18 PM
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Husband is a downgrade from a guy that gets hookups without putting in effort. I'd pick my gf over a hookup any day...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:20 PM
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What about women who aren't interested in casual sex with anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:52 PM
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Pretty sure this is a reference to the husband material discourse, but I don't see how these are at all equivalent "She's unworthy of a relationship" ≠ "He's lifelong romantic commitment material"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:49 PM
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Why are you friends with a cheater..?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:01 AM
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Feels good 👍 best is the sex, worst is the shower
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:02 PM
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I can't imagine many guys here are being called husband material by anyone...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:53 PM
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You have a very cynical view on marriage. Not everyone is miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:48 PM
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How do you get married if you can't find anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:42 PM
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These both sound like compliments??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:41 PM
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How many poor people do you know who do that? 1 if you include a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:16 AM
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I'm gonna guess the first ones a lie, last two feel too specific, and redditors don't have that kind of travel money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:26 AM
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If you don't go you're probably gonna let him down, you can't have your cake and eat it too. You just gotta decide which matters more to you, not having to suffer through the party, or your friend having a better time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:52 AM
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I try not to think about it because it's of course very upsetting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:49 AM
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They don't look entirely human anymore...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:17 AM
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I don't see sex as something women exchange for a good boyfriend. I try my best to be the best partner I can because I like to see my gf happy and I like it when she treats me the same. We have sex because we both enjoy it, not as some sort of payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:05 PM
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I answered yes, just ignore the rest if you don't want my reasoning for it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:59 PM
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Yes. I have a high sex drive and like my partner to have one, too. Plus, my girlfriend has a fairly high body count and I want her all the time...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:47 PM
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Why do so many people here treat sex like some sort of damage that men give to women? Am I being used and tossed aside if I invite my friends over to play board games, then things don't work out and we move on and make new friends? Sex is generally a mutually enjoyable activity, not a disease or a chore you do for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:43 PM
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I assume that attractive people are much more likely to face reveal and that's skewing things a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:51 PM
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Given anorexia is a mental illness, yeah I see people with it as kinda mentally ill...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:46 PM
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I don't think that's a men and women thing, I've never heard of tan lines being a turn on for anyone...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:17 AM
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Genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:43 PM
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That's very unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:42 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:39 PM
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That completely fair, they have different textures and different cheeses
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:19 PM
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Why not just say AAWALT then? Almost All Women Are Like That
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:58 AM
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I wear pajama pants everywhere unless I'm going somewhere fancy, most other pants are just so uncomfy, and I'm lazy...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:19 PM
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I'd vote for Kamala if I lived in a swing state because I want there to be another election in four years...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:16 PM
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I don't think that really proves anything. He was likely in a worse place mentally before transitioning, which could have made romance much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:17 PM
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That's a pretty small range, and what even counts as a ltr? I have 1-3 depending on what counts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:34 PM
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Is this supposed to be a bad thing..?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:42 PM
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Not very, they're surprisingly docile
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:55 AM
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Incel
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:55 PM
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CNC means consensual non-consent, which may sound confusing but basically it's just roleplay, that's what the consensual part means, so why is it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:14 PM
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I used to daydream about my wedding because I wanted snacks and a huge cake
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:45 PM
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My advice is move on and let her just be an ex, having her in your life clearly isn't doing anything good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:43 AM
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My mistake, I misread your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:45 AM
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I'd say the worst that could happen from it is she gives him a ton of stds and then accuses him of rape, he goes to prison for years then gets out and gets sued for child support
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:44 AM
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The vast majority of women I know have never done only fans, I think that might be a you thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:40 AM
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I thought she must've been joking until I saw the seemingly genuine response for op... absolutely unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:37 AM
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Looks super overpriced, especially for how plain it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:34 AM
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I don't think the opinions of a couple of mentally ill tiktokers are relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:14 PM
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Not everyone sees that as a negative, I'm autistic and tend to prefer the company of other neurodivergent people, it's not arrogance. And even if she does count it as a negative, she's autistic and probably isn't the best at following unspoken social rules. You should try not to immediately assume the worst of people, the world is much nicer that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:09 AM
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Intersex people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:05 AM
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A trans woman probably wouldn't wait for marriage since that's usually something people do for religious reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:01 AM
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Do women who wait for marriage have their fingers amputated??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:59 AM
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Pretty sure that's also a crime...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:57 AM
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Just date feminists then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:10 PM
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Took me until the fourth one to realize they're different women and not just one changing outfits... I have no preference, they all seem about the same to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:33 AM
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I agree on everything but the pit hair. A little squish is so nice, and perfect for snuggles
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:37 PM
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I don't think my girlfriend would approve
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:58 PM
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If that's realistic to you then I think you should look into getting glasses....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:56 PM
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I seriously doubt many people are dedicated enough to their fetish to get surgery for it, lose friends and family, be significantly more likely to be a victim of violent crime, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:50 PM
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Somehow I get the feeling they're trolling and don't really think all women owe them sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:45 PM
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This is a meaningless caricature someone drew
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:42 PM
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Men are not "the patriarchy", aren't segregated male and female spaces antithetical to feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:40 PM
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"Deep" is certainly generous given you've clearly never given their arguments any thought whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:37 PM
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There are childish women, but I don't think it's a woman thing, and I certainly don't think it's all women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:31 PM
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They can jump and run faster than a human so I'm not sure how much that'd help
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:54 PM
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That is so absurd that if my gf said something that dumb I'd consider breaking up with her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:26 PM
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It's a hug... my gf hugs her friends, and sometimes her friends hug me. That is perfectly normal behavior. If she was cheating then I doubt she'd hug the guy right in front of her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:55 PM
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Just hire a maid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:46 PM
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Melissa, with Jenny a close second. We could be geeks and play video games together, plus her having a stable job is appealing. I wouldn't consider Alice because I don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:01 PM
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Teapot..?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:56 PM
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I expected more people to pick Emil, sounds like he has the best personality and very small downsides. Biggest issue for me would be the height, 6'8 is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:51 PM
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I had the opposite happen, when I was a teen I agreed with my dad on virtually everything, but when I got older I started to make friends and escape that bubble, now my opinions are vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:28 PM
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Seriously, where are the women you guys say like bigger men? As in given mostly fit male options, they would proactively choose the fat one? I don't think I've ever met one. Then my female friend goes "Awww I liked you more when you were a teddy bear".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:25 PM
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I'm surprised so many women are ending up deep in the negatives, I'm a bi dude and after putting together a decent guy I was left with 3 points. Are they trying to make jesus or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:17 PM
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Depends on how old they are. A 3 year gap is gross when they're 13 and 16, but a 6 year gap is no big deal when they're 30 and 36.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:09 PM
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If you think talking to an ai sex bot is at all equivalent to being with a real woman, I am very concerned for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:13 PM
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When I was 14 I found 14 year olds attractive, now that I'm 20 I find 20 year olds attractive, seems reasonable to assume the trend continues
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:00 AM
2

I prefer my gf to like me...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:40 PM
1

"without taking away women's rights"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:31 PM
1

I'm not a woman and I still think it's rude to talk shit on people who don't deserve it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:11 PM
1

He had to pay Jean Carroll $5mil because he was found liable for sexual abuse...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:47 PM
1

Empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:44 PM
5

I don't think I've ever met or even heard of someone who believes this, "a lot" is a huge stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:42 PM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:09 PM
3

So? Helping literally anyone means you risk helping a serial killer, rapist, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:00 PM
3

Maybe if you want to live in a religious authoritarianism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:58 PM
3

Pretty sure that's a fairly cold take
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:30 AM
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According to Oxford languages, it's "a set of attitudes and ways of behaving stereotypically associated with or expected of men, regarded as having a negative impact on men and on society as a whole." So I'd say the definitive you gave as well as the "random shit" are examples of toxic masculinity, since even though they aren't specifically masculine, they are associated with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:21 PM
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My guess is he just liked your nose
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:56 PM
1

Who's keeby and why's everyone talking about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:55 PM
1

Subs aren't just subjected to bdsm for someone else's sake. Most find it enjoyable, and if they don't, something's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:53 PM
1

Why does straight polyamory bother you but gay polyamory doesn't? What about bi polyamory?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:34 AM
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I had the opposite experience. I wore jeans all the time until I discovered there were much comfier options, and I can't stand them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:32 AM
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Bmi guy and Purplepossum
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:23 AM
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Yeah...? They're probably the only women I'd be interested in romantically. Strange question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:21 AM
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I seriously doubt they live near eachother and long distance dating is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:14 PM
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How is this at all relevant to couples without children?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:12 PM
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I'm not nearly invested enough in the people here to have ships, and you missed a ton of people because this sub has 130k members
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:10 PM
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Why not a bit of both? Clean some of the apartment and do some painting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:07 PM
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I couldn't care less about 2 or 3 ex's, and I wouldn't care about her staying in contact either. I'm still friends with one of my ex-girlfriends so it'd be kinda hypocritical to worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:39 AM
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"Anything I do say is gonna be an excuse for him to take up the belittling, shaming, gaslighting argument again. I feel so small and worthless. I feel like our entire marriage is built on lies and delusions. I feel trapped, tethered. It's so wild to know that I'm not even wanted beyond being a possession. I've considered divorce before, but I really think this time that it's the only resolution." Hmmmm I wonder why people think they should break up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:13 PM
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You're not gonna pass away instantly from a bear, they'll eat you alive. Though I would still of course rather be tortured for an hour or so than for days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:50 PM
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Episode one has a guy die via a bomb shoved up his asshole this isn't new
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:46 PM
2

Worst opinion of the subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:23 AM
1

They why marry in the first place..?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:22 AM
2

WHAT? I get not liking them out of fear because they're so strong and hurt people more than the average dog, but ugly? Pitbulls are some of the cutest dogs out there, they have such precious dopey faces
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:18 AM
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Sounds like she was pretty strong and independent after it showed up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:16 AM
1

My gf hogs the blanket even though she overheats, she just lays on top of it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:05 AM
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But what if I want a big blanket to burrito in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:04 AM
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I genuinely can't tell which one you're calling fat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:02 PM
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👁🫦👁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:09 PM
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Is it wrong to buy a dead chicken, fuck it, and then eat it? Question is based on a tumblr post I saw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:57 PM
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Good ol Amurica, as redditors tend to be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:45 PM
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Oh okay, I'm 21 👴
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:37 PM
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We're both adults, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:03 PM
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Yes, I are traitor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:03 PM
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She doesn't get them for herself so unfortunately I can't. In fact, I offered to buy enough for both of us but she insisted that she didn't want any and I should just get some for me...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:02 PM
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I'm not gonna reward her for stealing my icecream
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:00 PM
2

This feels like it's supposed to be about the 40 year old guys who seek freshly 18 year old women being judged, but surely you understand there's a big difference between a 2 year age gap and a 20 year gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:58 PM
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I'm not willing to have sex without commitment. If bad sex is enough to ruin our relationship, then it's not a deep enough relationship for me to be comfortable having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:51 PM
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I can't imagine potato salad being enjoyable in any way. Having different preferences is normal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:49 PM
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Some guys just disagree with you, it isn't always manipulation, I don't think it's that deep lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:45 PM
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Y'all were right all along, women really are evil My gf ate all the drumstick icecream while I was sleeping...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:44 PM
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Y'all were right all along, women really are evil My gf ate all the drumstick icecream while I was sleeping...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:37 PM
1

Give him his lasagna back
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:15 PM
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I have the exact same description
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:16 PM
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How do you know enough about random redditors to make a whole sim? you should still make me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:33 PM
1

Find a hot lesbian woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:10 PM
1

Pretty big, it's true form is actually a giant alien spider thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:43 PM
1

If I really enjoy talking to her I'd at least try to be her friend, but if I'm just not attracted to her, nothing I can do about that. I suppose it'd just depend on how well she pulls it off
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:31 PM
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Nope, I'm actually kinda short
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:16 PM
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Some autistic people may appear normal through great effort, but doing so takes a huge toll on their mental health. It's called "masking."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:07 PM
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I'm small and have soft features and longish hair. I don't starve myself, I just have a really high metabolism, so I'm way too skinny. My jaw is a bit recessed, so I look like a fish from the side lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:04 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:25 AM
1

I've been told I'm pretty, I think I look like a skeleton fish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:20 AM
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What'd she do to deserve to be cheated on? For that I feel like you need to go beyond terrible partner into terrible person
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:28 PM
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Why would you be friends with someone horrible enough to deserve to be cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:16 PM
2

My dick must look huge
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:28 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:39 PM
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physical touch: 32.3% acts of service: 25.8% quality time: 22.6% receiving gifts: 9.7% words of affirmation: 9.7% I crave the cuddles
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:34 PM
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Fuck no, I don't want his cop friends dragging me to jail. I'll drive down there to pick her up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:24 PM
1

What?? What do you think a hot person looks like then???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:21 PM
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I'm bisexual and love me a muscle mommy or a tomboy but I still gotta hard disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:14 PM
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Roblox is a guilty pleasure of mine and I've played this one, got dead last almost every time even though I followed the theme and a bunch of people practically ignored it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:15 AM
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👊👁👁 🏅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:05 PM
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Crazy idea, but maybe they know their own partner better than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:26 PM
1

Looks like a normal father daughter outing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:24 PM
4

It's clearly not about the tissue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:16 PM
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Proof, that they indeed live life date on easy mode There is much more to life than likes on dating apps, also I'd hesitate to call a reddit post proof of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:22 PM
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And men can look good in dresses, your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:16 PM
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Because random woman you heard of through reddit = ALL WOMEN Yeah sure that makes perfect sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:12 PM
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Maybe women treat you like shit because you treat them like shit. Hot assholes using manipulation tactics tend to attract unstable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:15 PM
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Being skinny has its downsides...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:47 AM
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Completely different in all three
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:40 AM
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Women have yet to prove that rape is more than just Nutting. I think you'd change your tune if someone raped you in your dysonRing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:39 AM
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Pretty sure downvotes are anonymous, so there isn't a way to punish people for them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:33 AM
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Wouldn't the female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past be... a woman concerning herself with a partners sexual past
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:52 PM
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A vote for 3rd party isn't a vote at all, unless there's some big changes, a 3rd party is never gonna win. So what choice do we have? Pick the lesser of two evils, waste our vote, or... terrorism?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:52 PM
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Ah yes, because the one thing the female species lives for is sex of course
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:45 PM
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Until it starts to smell or I get it dirty, usually around 2-3 days
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 10:40 PM
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Daily and sometimes twice a day is nice, so around 10
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:27 PM
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I never really understood the appeal of casual sex, sex is fun but not nearly worth so much effort and risk. I have a hand, when I was single that worked just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:40 PM
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Understandable, I wanna fuck her too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:05 AM
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Sounds parasocial
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:57 AM
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I like all boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:51 AM
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Just tell her you're not into dirty talk, not everyone does it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:58 PM
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Not everyone has a high metabolism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:55 PM
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Joffery deserved it, but how did Tommen or Myrcella? And deserved or not, she was tortured and humiliated by the sparrows
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:09 AM
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can't believe she got off so easy. She was tortured, humiliated, had all her children die, and died herself as her kingdom fell to ruin...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:24 AM
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Good pumpkin pie is amazing but mediocre pumpkin pie is nasty, with apple you just can't go wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:39 AM
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You gotta account for the fact that he's a redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:17 AM
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Mostly just killing time. Sometimes I see a particularly wild take and wonder if it's a troll or psyop, but besides that I usually don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:24 PM
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How do you know what the girlfriends of guys you're arguing with on the internet look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:19 PM
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I'd rather date a single father for the same reason, but ideally I'd date neither
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:15 PM
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Absolutely. As long as that custom feet content isn't her giving footjobs or something, I'd just be glad she found a job that doesn't seem too stressful and makes good money. I would request she stop if it was hurting her mental health at all though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:07 AM
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I pretty much exclusively wear sweatpants all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:06 AM
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I'd definitely pick the gay guy if I'm encountering them in the forest, but if we're just both in the forest I may go with the bear, since that's likely the case any time I enter a forest anyway. If I go in a forest I'm going to stay on a path, anyone else in the forest likely is too, bears on the other hand tend to avoid where humans travel, so I'm significantly more likely to encounter the man. If he's a murderer or rapist it's bear 100%, otherwise it just depends on how social I'm feeling and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:04 AM
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I guessed 30 without seeing the pics cuz it's the average american bmi... I was a tad off....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:33 AM
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Some people like having friends, that's a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:24 AM
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I think it's less "yOu'rE sTaInD" for most people and moreso "You chose to do something you knew would deeply hurt me and betrayed my trust for something and simple as sex. Either you have zero self-control or you don't care about me at all. It's over." I'm in an open relationship but I would still be deeply hurt if my partner cheated, because it's not about the sex, it's the betrayal that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:20 PM
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I don't see anything wrong with his frame. I agree with the comments, it's probably just his personality, age, or the broccoli cut
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:14 PM
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30?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:08 PM
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Vore
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:51 PM
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Are bears allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:49 PM
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I was confused by the question until I saw the replies... why do so many women seem to hate cargo shorts?? They're just shorts with good pocket
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:41 PM
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Yeah, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:38 PM
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0 I'd hope, but if they succeeded, wouldn't I not know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:37 PM
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Don't try to force yourself to date someone you're not attracted to, even if it works in the short term, it'll just end in hurt for both of you. Also trans people are pretty rare so you're hardly even increasing your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:12 PM
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Why kissless though? Seems a bit extreme, the average age to have your first kiss is 15, and I've known plenty of people who had it in elementary or even as a toddler... First kiss isn't a big deal for most people, you aren't missing much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:26 AM
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I doubt kissless virgins are getting out much so goodluck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:25 AM
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Maybe a few angry lonely men do, but you can't judge an entire demographic off a niche opinion. You sound like the guys here who rant about how every woman is obsessed with chad and hates men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:44 AM
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You can desire something without expecting it... I'd love to win 1,000,000 in the lottery, I sure don't expect to though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:38 AM
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...Huh? Who/What is this supposed to be criticizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:34 PM
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Tldr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:17 PM
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Feelings are an important part of life, we're literally on a sub about dating, if you make everyone around you feel annoyed then you will not do well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:58 PM
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Looks like you're right that 200 is obese on a bmi chart unless you're over 5'10, which most women aren't, my mistake. My gf is on the heavier side but very tall, fairly muscular, and carries it well, guess that made me a little biased. I don't tend to dig through peoples post history's, usually they aren't relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:31 PM
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How do you know she's dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:50 PM
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The rats are homeless too, take them home to live with you and feed them there __(..°•)>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:47 PM
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Adderall does that?? Suddenly I'm not so sure I want to get medicated for my ADHD...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:38 PM
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It makes your posts unpleasant to read so people don't wanna read them, it's simple, nobody's getting emotional. There's reasons people use paragraphs instead of just unconnected sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:36 PM
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I was reading your conversation but that's too long and annoyingly formatted, didn't read
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:33 PM
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Liking women who are a little chubby is not the same as thinking women should become morbidly obese or being a fat fetishists, and the fact that you think that is comparable shows you have absurdly black and white thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:28 PM
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I'd rather have a "plain jane" than a hot woman who's unstable enough to be chasing criminals...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:58 PM
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Eating pussy is very unmasculine. Save that act for a gf that won't judge you for being that unmanly. .....what??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:49 PM
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Where's the lie? Those things can overlap
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:45 PM
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Has this habit led to you standing around by the door for a while instead of just opening it when you're alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:43 PM
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I wouldn't assume you must be lying, but it'd raise an eyebrow, I'll admit I may question it if I didn't know you well Thanks lol it was supposed to just be "No Pill" but automod kept messaging me when I answered questions for men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:00 PM
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...what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:55 PM
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If you lied then you would be trading a relationship where your boyfriend might think you don't trust him enough to be "honest", for one where you really don't trust him enough to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:53 PM
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"Research shows that most people who receive psychotherapy experience symptom relief and are better able to function in their lives. About 75 percent of people who enter psychotherapy show some benefit from it." https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/psychotherapy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:34 PM
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Probably cuz she's a pedo who doesn't want dudes her own age
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:25 PM
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Go to therapy and find a way to actually be happy. Or become a serial killer and rot in prison I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:21 PM
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Download grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:49 PM
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Doubtful, everyman knows women can't read
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:13 AM
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For some people staying a healthy weight takes minimal effort, but for others it's much harder. I've known people who are always on some kind of diet and work/exercise constantly but are overweight, while I gorge myself on sweets every chance I get and live an incredibly sedimentary lifestyle yet am underweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:06 AM
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"Women are stupid and evil and lame and stinky!" "Women don't like me for some reason... must be cuz they're shallow too!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:20 AM
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Radfems think all MTF trans women are nosey lying men trying to perv on rEaL wOmEn...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:43 PM
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Then he grumbles about getting no matches because women are all off chasing "Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:01 AM
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Yeah, her job was never an issue. It didn't last long for other reasons but her job had nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:15 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:02 AM
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Maybe it's cuz I'm a man but I have no idea why, just sounds like a benefit to me. Unless the concern is her working too often and not being able to see you enough? But theoretically she could make more while working less depending on the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:55 PM
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Do you seriously think glasses make a guy not dateable? My dad and I both wear glasses, we both have partners. I've never heard a guy complain irl that glasses limit his options
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:28 PM
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It should be adjusted to match inflation and be enough to survive without assistance if you're working full time imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:06 PM
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they all want chad if they are on tinder. Nobody wants to date a guy with this mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:03 PM
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An incredibly useful skill for daily life that everyone needs?🤔 Ewww ick ick ick what a pussy 🤮😵💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:26 PM
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I hate being around/holding infants but that is horrific and evil
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:21 PM
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He's obviously trolling, you can't reason with him...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:36 AM
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Mmm musky fish smell, how attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:24 PM
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Nope, not for me at least. I just keep doomscrolling with extra guilt and regret
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:21 PM
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Do you think being a manwhore is killing them??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:19 PM
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A ferret is fine but a dog isn't?? I can completely understand a dog being a dealbreaker, but I don't get how a ferret isn't. They reek, need constant attention or they'll shit all over the house and tear up everything, love chewing toes, require daily litter box cleanings, are expensive af, ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:47 PM
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Dislikes dogs. I like them myself, but I'm not interested in owning one, too much effort and money, so I wouldn't mind if my partner wasn't a fan
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:43 PM
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I'd try to avoid getting into a relationship with a woman who treats you like that. Not taking "no" for an answer and putting her needs before yours isn't gonna stop in the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:59 PM
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Very very rarely. I can only think of once, and it was when I was feeling really sick. What do you mean by risk it though? I've never had sex when I didn't want it for fear of consequences, I just pretty much always want to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:51 PM
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Pretty sure it's all cons there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:48 PM
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Yeah but it's unusual for an adult to complain about their mom not buying a robux giftcard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:11 PM
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...what are you doing in a subreddit about dating? How old are you??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:07 PM
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A shit ton of child abuse, neglect, and people smothering, drowning, and abandoning babies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:22 PM
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No, I wouldn't use someone like that. Maybe I'd try dating her and see if I develop feelings, but I wouldn't marry someone I'm not attracted to just for the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:51 PM
1

Pretty sure he's describing a goblin, which are typically portrayed as short
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:41 PM
1

That's the questionable part..?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:32 PM
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Perfectly understandable to take the drink back but kinda gross of him to leave it there for her to unknowingly drink out of after he put his mouth on it if it's real
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:31 PM
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Right?? I once went to a bonfire where I was practically shivering on top of the fire wearing a jacket and sweatpants while a woman stood around in a crop top and tiny shorts like it was the middle of a summer day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:41 PM
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Fun fact: Women are people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:58 AM
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Most guys here would call me a beta based on my job/looks/personality but I have a gf who I love and who loves me so maybe I'm a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:57 AM
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Why I have half a mind
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:17 AM
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Probably envy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:36 PM
1

Depending on where you live that isn't average, in America, about 70% of the population is overweight or obese
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:26 PM
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If he's gonna improve my country then who gives a shit what he does in his free time. I guess I'd feel bad for the children but if he's the best option then so be it, I doubt there's any politician without skeletons in their closet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:03 PM
1

He's not "harnessing passive dread" he's improving himself and supporting his partner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:37 PM
1

trying to tell me this is more likely to happen than if you run into a bear and get attacked? Nope, in fact I said the opposite, you just didn't finish reading my comment. You also failed to read the part you quoted, "bear is also unlikely to harm them." Also meaning in addition to, in addition to the man specifically, so they're both unlikely to exert violence on someone. A minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:03 PM
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Maybe they just believe what they're saying then, or are lying to themself I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:58 PM
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No idea, depression scrolling is my main hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:56 PM
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I don't think they're saying all men are rapists, they're just saying bears tend to avoid humans so the bear is also unlikely to harm them. Humans can do things much worse than bears can, so they'd rather roll the dice with something a little more likely to harm them but is certain not to hurt them in the ways they fear most. I would take the man though, as adorable as I find bears I don't think I'd respond right if I ran into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:55 PM
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Is it settling to get with someone who's your equal? I certainly wouldn't be interested in getting with a teenager nearly young enough to be my granddaughter. I'd want an actual relationship, not just someone to control and fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:46 PM
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Maybe she just likes him and wants to be around him... seems pretty simple....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:52 AM
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My chin is like that, I kinda look like a deformed fish from the side
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:36 PM
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I've noticed people claiming that but I haven't noticed it actually happening. I mainly see young women having an issue with age gaps, and usually it's consistent across gender. I'm a 21 year old guy and I find it gross because I remember being 18 and how much less mature I was, I'm sure the difference between me now and in 10 years will be even bigger. So when I see a 30 year old with an 18 year old I know their maturity is probably in two different worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:09 PM
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Yup, my gf does every day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:01 PM
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That's fine, and it's fine with reverse genders too. Unless they've been together 4+ years, that's a bit weird. 4 years isn't that big a gap unless you're really young imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:58 PM
2

I don't see how both options being awful is relieving
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:51 PM
3

Definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:49 PM
1

So it's not about them being identical, it's an incest thing..?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:36 PM
2

This is why all men need to introduce non ethical non monogamy as their form of political lesbianism until their wives stop controlling them. Also, if he knew about lookism he would've noticed the hunter eyes. RIP. Non ethical non monogamy? Political lesbianism?? Lookism??? Hunter eyes???? You're speaking a whole new language
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:26 PM
1

Have you considered though: you get to see cool birds eat the bugs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:02 PM
1

Definitely ppdw, through sheer numbers if nothing else. There are a lot more men here than women, so there's bound to be a lot more hateful men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:34 PM
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Not outwardly, but I imagine someone who's hateful and bitter, and pushes everyone away while wishing for violence. Though this is specifically how I imagine the basement dwellers who identify with the term "incel," not just anyone who's involuntarily celibate. Similarly to the word "feminist," it has taken on a new meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:31 PM
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It's a meme...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:26 PM
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Some people care about more than just looks, and some people don't think of average height women as midgets.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:19 PM
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I brought it up within the first week of talking to my gf, I don't think there is a too soon. Why risk wasting eachothers time?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:04 AM
2

Poopgirl and pee-jug-boy, how romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:41 AM
1

Yeah, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:14 AM
1

Fuck yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:11 AM
2

Idk about the woman but that cake sure didn't inflate, it looks like a brick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:09 AM
2

Same, bad morning for us
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:20 PM
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I don't think a quick one text test in the early talking phase is comparable to a whole plot several months into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:15 AM
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Men are allowed to have friends...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:43 AM
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A list of what and ranking what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:49 PM
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That's not even long?? I had sex with my gf after 3-4 months and looking back I feel like we rushed things if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:43 AM
5

I gotta do something while I poop
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:35 AM
1

Hopefully they could learn, or we could have a poly relationship. If not, fine, I have hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:13 PM
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They're more often naive and unexperienced, so they don't know the signs or know what a relationship is supposed to be like
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:10 PM
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That they're shitty friends and she's a shitty partner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:05 PM
1

Boobs out? That's just a regular tank top
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:36 PM
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No amount of bad sex would make me break up with someone I love, unless it's bad in ways that show me negative things about their character (like if they keep going when I say to stop)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:34 PM
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I don't think bears are constrained by the law
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:21 PM
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No, it just means he is a slave in the spirit and the outward dominance is just a false front he puts. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:20 PM
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I disagree. You can believe women should have the right to be equal without wanting to be dominant yourself 100% of the time. A man being submissive in bed doesn't mean they want to be an actual slave in a women run society, the same applies to women. Do people who don't drink all want alcohol banned? Try applying your logic to anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:01 PM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:50 PM
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Anyone who's not straight and cis, so LGBT+. Though many people aren't a fan of the term, especially when people who aren't LGBT+ use it, kinda like how only black people can use the N word. As for how you know, you usually can't unless they tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:41 PM
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They're getting unbearable, it's making me furious!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:27 PM
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Nah, I'm not leaving someone I care about when all actual evidence says she's good for me because my mom had indigestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:24 PM
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I wouldn't say disgust but I'm not a fan when it's excessive. Several inches of pubes or armpit hair doesn't look great to me but trimmed is perfectly fine, I've yet to see arms or legs hairy enough to be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:18 PM
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....what
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:13 PM
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Nah, it's not a big deal. I know my gf would never cheat on me, but if checking was so easy, I'd press it out of curiosity if nothing else too. If she did something extreme like stalk me, read my texts, or confront women I talk to "just to be sure" then that would be an issue, but something as quick and easy as a button press doesn't suggest she really belives I cheated nor does it invade my privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:11 PM
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Can I bring my gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:58 PM
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No, why would it be? Believing you're the very best in every category that your partner could ever get sounds delusion and arrogant, or like you have a really shitty partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:53 PM
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I suppose "dislike" might've been more accurate but "lack of acceptance" is a mouthful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:57 AM
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Are individuals responsible for the actions of strangers who happen to share their demographic? Men have committed murder so you must be a murderer and all men should be hated and not accepted into society! A ton of priests are rapists so all Christians are evil rapists!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:51 AM
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The conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:44 AM
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6 is me when my gf tells me to crawl out of bed and take a shower
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:43 AM
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Because everyone wants to be accepted, and there's no reason to hate people for something outside of their control that hurts nobody. You'd complain if everyone hated you for no reason, too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:40 AM
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If you gotta go you gotta go, who cares? It's a toliet not a changing room
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:12 PM
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Public bathrooms aren't for taking your clothes off, so those aren't really comparable. By whipping out your dick you're consenting to the chance of someone getting a glimpse of it. There's perfectly good stalls if you don't want that. It's not like everyone is lounging around naked in the bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:10 PM
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They usually use more violent methods. Women actually attempt more, men just succeed more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:49 PM
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My guess would be she's interested but sucks at conversation/texting or just expects you to carry the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:47 PM
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I wouldn't care enough to have any thoughts about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:45 PM
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I think that's a you thing, I know more men who prefer short women than vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:44 PM
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Being ugly doesn't make you a better person
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:00 PM
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I would take that in a heartbeat, that much money would change my entire life. Then inflation would go wild from printing all that money to give to so many people...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:52 PM
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No that sounds awful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:55 PM
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You say that like it doesn't happen all the time, how do you think she ended up a single mother lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:54 PM
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So if you've kissed a woman that means you kissed a man because their lips are essentially the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:48 PM
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That makeup aged her 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:19 PM
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Well he said they cancel, not ghost
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:24 PM
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An unexpected complication?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:17 PM
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I suppose you can assume whatever you want to make things fit your views
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:46 AM
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Simply going outside and looking at couples/having friends proves this wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:35 AM
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If you have to completely hide who you are from her, is she even your gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:03 AM
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Fuck no. I'm 20 and if a little bastard somehow made it past the womb it'd go straight to foster care
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:40 PM
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Depends on your priorities and where you live, generally I'd say unattractive women have it worse though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:41 PM
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It's ideal for some people, but others have no issue with the things you've listed as downsides. Everyone has their own preferences, for some people a traditional monogamous relationship is best, for others polygamy is best, and for some FWB is best. I love living with my gf and getting to spend my days with her. I don't love her just for the honeymoon butterflies, I love her because she makes my life better. Her family isn't my favorite, but I like being able to share that with her, it's worth …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:22 PM
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That isn't feminine it's childish
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:41 PM
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I don't think that's a contradiction. The boobs aren't inherently sexual but are being sexualized by the staring.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:37 PM
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Why? Is this not accounting for any other factors or would you probably love the gay one more no matter what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:42 PM
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Love them more as in more than you'd love a straight child? What if you had a gay child and a straight child?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:38 PM
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Would you rather be alone in a liquor store with a taxidermy bear mascot or a random man?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:33 PM
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I've only encountered one person who's expressed that to me, but comments on here have suggested a lot of people will think that and just not say it. According to ppd, many neutotypicals feel viscerally disturbed when someone avoids eye contact and will assume the worst, maybe to justify their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:13 PM
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Normal people are, by definition, the most common type
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:48 PM
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I seriously doubt gender is that relevant. Maybe an ultra woman hating incel would sacrifice 20 women, and a radical feminist who thinks all men are rapist would sacrifice 20 men, but that is not the norm. Race is equally relevant to peoples choices, but people don't mention that either because normal people don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:43 PM
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I have zero pity for him. If it's such a big deal to him then he either should have asked sooner and left, or never asked at all. I wish him the worst and hope all that cheating rots his dick off with stds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:22 PM
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I'm a guy but I'd happily take the weed smoking femboy. Metalhead almost won but the anger issues aren't worth it. I'd go 2, 1, 4, 3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:17 PM
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Then he should have left her. That doesn't justify cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:13 PM
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For some people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:05 PM
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It gets better imo, but there's always teen drama and the comedy stays the same. It's no The Boys but gets a little closer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:04 PM
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You'll feel adored half the time, the other half she'll key your car and destroy your ps5
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:47 PM
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Weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:07 AM
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1, 3, 2, 4 would be my guess. Half decent looks are required to get your foot in the door and social skills are needed to stay there. A lot of people are willing to completely overlook a lack of money/status as long as they're getting the butterflies. I think social skills/EQ are more important for maintaining a relationship, but it'll never start in the first place if they aren't attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:04 AM
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It's cactussy a couple days after a shave but not after a trim imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:13 AM
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And more likely to have ingrown hairs if she's shaving all the time...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:03 AM
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I could probably improve it with practice, just never felt the need to. It simply doesn't come naturally to me, and when I try to force myself it's hard to focus on what they're actually saying because I'm focusing so hard on trying not to look away from their eyes. Plus, there's apparently a specific balance you're supposed to strike and it's seen as creepy if you look into their eyes too much. It's not an issues with people I'm comfortable with because I don't even think about it, I look in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:17 PM
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Damn, I never realized it actually made people feel uncomfortable. I thought it just made them "uncomfortable" in a "why is that weirdo breaking social norms?" way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:56 PM
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It's a joke based on all the "would you rather be in the woods with a bear or a man?" questions lately
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:40 PM
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If I ever had to deal with a baby it'd be out the window within a week
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:38 PM
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Is it really that big a deal? I've always been pretty bad with eye contact, but nobody's ever made a fuss about it. Are you sure it's not a you thing? That just kinda seems like a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:29 PM
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I get the aversion to kids or social situations being an issue, but why would hyperfixations or being uncomfortable with eyecontact be a dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:19 PM
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Did you read the post? He's checked out of the marriage, essentially just stuck paying for a roommate that he hates. She's constantly anxious, desperately fighting for the approval of someone who'll never love her. The kids are getting a terrible example of what relationships are like, which will probably hurt them later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:16 PM
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3 sounds great except him being that age with no standards and no previous relationships is a pretty big red flag. He obviously is desperate for a relationship, so why hasn't he had one? What is he hiding? 1 is okay, has some good aspects, but has some big flaws, too. I'd rather die alone than be with 2
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:10 PM
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She should lose weight and break up with him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:59 PM
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Sounds miserable for everyone involved
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:56 PM
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Why were you so rude from message one though..?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:33 PM
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Tits are great if they have both but if it's just one or the other I gotta say ass
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:35 PM
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Trans women still at least used to have a dick so I assume they'd know how it feels?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:32 PM
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Bear in the woods. Worrying about a bear while in the woods is pretty resonable, hallucinating someone chasing you suggests something more serious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:30 PM
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People are also around men much more often than they're around bears
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:28 PM
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I usually give an awkward sorta-smile and a half wave if they're walking and don't acknowledge them at all if jogging
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:26 PM
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Comfort my wife because that sounds stressful and offer to let her friend stay over at our place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:18 PM
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Maybe I should make it bald again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:04 PM
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Better safe than sorry, though I'd understand not carrying because the risk of it being turned on you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:01 PM
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In case you're attacked presumably
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:58 PM
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Men here assume I'm a woman when I disagree with them, I think it's a ppd thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:57 PM
2

I'm like L from Death Note if he wasn't actually smart
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:07 PM
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You live in a very sad world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:03 PM
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I'd rather be trapped with him, too...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:02 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/5z7768fyc2wc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=39ed8074bbe525cc328153090cba97a615c21723 I used to think I was a picky eater...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:12 PM
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How are you even alive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:31 PM
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Well if that counts I'd take the 300k and just never go to work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:12 PM
2

Most "hotties" aren't going to prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:31 PM
3

By your logic, doesn't that mean men really are the worst?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:58 PM
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Thick thighs are superior, they make the best pillows
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:50 PM
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Not inherently but they often are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:49 PM
2

Prostitution? No, unless I'm getting at least 100mil a year. But something like OF? I'd do that with your conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:17 PM
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Can you give me a link to where you go that statistic? It sounds absurdly high and I'm having a hard time believing it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:13 PM
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Just started learning about the rape pill today. Men really are the worst. That's how you sound
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:11 PM
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I wouldn't consider it simping since he has a child with her. Her situation will likely affect the child's happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:15 PM
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Why? Wouldn't above average be ideal? Unless you want to manipulate her or something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:13 PM
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Sounds like a dumb strategy to me, even if it wasn't sociopathic it just isn't a good idea. Anxiety leads to being negative, emotinal and irrational, and people with low self-esteem are more likely to cheat for the confidence boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:23 PM
1

Same, pretty much every other chore you get a break from but the dishes never end
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:13 PM
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I think I'd rather run into an adult bear than a baby bear. If you see a baby bear then there's an adult too, you just don't see it yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:09 PM
1

I don't think many men finger themself out of boredom...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:08 PM
1

So a situationship is fwb but you're allowed to have some romantic feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:36 PM
2

Just to look at I think the middle one is best, but in a relationship I'd like the right one. A bit of squish is good for snuggles and she's the only one with big boobs to play with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:35 PM
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It was a genuine question btw I wasn't being sarcastic or something. The first result if you google it is "a romantic or intimate relationship that lacks clear definitions or commitments typically associated with traditional romantic relationships." Which could also describe fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:01 PM
1

Is there a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:53 PM
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She broke up with him before sleeping with Ted so it wasn't exactly cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:12 AM
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Ever if that were true it's irrelevant to this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:18 AM
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I would hardly call doe eyes "making a move"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:11 AM
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Depends heavily on how long ago it was, the circumstances, and how they feel about it now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:53 AM
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I know, I'm such a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:50 AM
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This is the dumbest take I've heard in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:49 AM
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It's an ai, not a person, I don't see the harm in playing with it. I wouldn't say men are ruining video games when they murder everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:20 PM
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If their partner is abusive to the point that trying to break up with them risks retaliation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:17 PM
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He looks pretty good to me if you don't factor in any of his personality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:23 PM
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Men sex too, just take the gaypill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:52 PM
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No question
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:53 AM
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No..? It's middle school, she's probably just gonna eat cheap pizza and stand around awkwardly while bad music plays
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:12 PM
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I've never been too big of a milf fan but I'd make an exception for Ambessa <image> I like Toriel too cuz I'm cringe but she's more like a mom and Ambessa is mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:09 PM
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"once the female is no longer in oestrus, the dog fox no longer needs to guard her and may leave, usually only temporarily, to seek out additional mating opportunities. Tracking studies in Bristol, for example, have revealed that, after the dominant vixen has ended her oestrus, the male often rapidly expands his range—in many instances more than doubling the distance over which he travels—to increase the likelihood of encountering other receptive vixens." https://www.wildlifeonline.me.uk/animals…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:01 PM
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Why's he your boyfriend if you don't like the idea of marrying him? Or are you just not a fan of marriage in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:32 PM
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Is it just physical unattractiveness but they're a good partner, or I'm not attracted to them in any way? Cuz I'd be in a relationship with a good friend I don't find attractive, but I'd just be single if I don't like them at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:01 PM
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Since when are bangs looked down upon...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:57 PM
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If you're a woman, how does your experience suggest makeup improves the chances of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:49 PM
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Maybe when I'm 80
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:24 PM
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I suppose that makes sense, most hetero guys probably wouldn't find androgynous or masculine features attractive on women, but since I find both men and women attractive it's all good to me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:16 PM
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Do you remember what the text was?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:13 PM
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I'd probably struggle a little because I'd be having a heart attack wondering how they found my account. Then I just leave...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:12 PM
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What she's doing isn't but making a video to brag about it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:18 PM
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Idk why that's relevant but no I'm bi
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:15 PM
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"They both look fine to me but I prefer the first image because her face is somewhat unique and more human imo, the second looks copy pasted from a porn game advertisement" "gas·light verb gerund or present participle: gaslighting manipulate (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:46 PM
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gaslighting manipulate (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning. Gaslight ≠ an opinion you disagree with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:27 PM
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Why don't women date me? It must be 100% because of my looks... also every single woman is an evil delusional eugenicist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:25 PM
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It's not gaslighting to share a subjective opinion lmao are you gaslighting me because you called her ugly and I disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:16 PM
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Maybe you want more than to just cum, sex with a prostitute isn't real, she's just working. You want the proper experience. Or are you not interested in casual sex in general? Many people only like sex when there's a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:03 PM
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They both look fine to me but I prefer the first image because her face is somewhat unique and more human imo, the second looks copy pasted from a porn game advertisement
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:58 PM
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I'd blend in just fine there. And no, I wouldn't blow up a perfectly good relationship that makes me happy just because the hypothetical children I don't want might not be super hot. They already have that risk if they take after me, so hopefully they'd look like my gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:14 PM
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Not inherently, but in quite a few ways on average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:05 PM
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After meeting at her place, it was too late. It's never too late to leave, you don't owe anyone sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:58 PM
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Plenty of men enjoy giving oral... Licking, sucking, and giving pleasure to your partner is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:33 PM
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You can still engage in debates as a nonbinary person, you just won't be the topic of conversation very often because trans and nb people are such a small portion of the population. This sub is mostly about cishet dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:29 PM
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My girlfriend. It's possible I'm slightly biased
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:21 PM
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I don't like them on myself but they look good on others
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:49 PM
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I'd do that myself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:03 PM
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Interesting choice given they don't seem trans? But whatever, they're not hurting anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:00 PM
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Turns out when you don't have an actual life with someone and can just hit them up for fun, they seem more fun and carefree. I hope he tries to start a relationship with his affair partner so he can be horrified when she starts to act like a human, she'll probably cheat on him too since she was willing to cheat with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:57 PM
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How often are your friends getting naked in front of each other...? I've never undressed or showered in front of my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:50 PM
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There's something more needed, but it's a feeling so I don't really know how to describe it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:20 PM
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Approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:19 PM
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She's 32, not 70. Tik Toc is not the same as real life, you still have time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:18 PM
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"You are 75.69% good guy, 37.04% bad boy, which places you in the husband zone."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:02 AM
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Gay
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:55 AM
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Male is often seen as the default
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:19 AM
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Please give an example of how someone argues against a made up scenerio. By calling it unrealistic? Because that seems to happen plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:13 PM
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How exactly do you think someone should agrue with a script/scenerio? Please give a specific example
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:14 PM
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Why are so many guys here horrified by the idea that people mature and change with time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:49 PM
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I had one who'd leave their bodies in the garage and eat the heads...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:49 PM
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That's probably just a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:49 PM
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It's almost like there's multiple women out there and sometimes they have different opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:53 PM
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Sounds like you've watched too much porn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:30 PM
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Then you have 99% of restaurants to choose from that allow children and not dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:47 PM
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I can't imagine blowing up an entire relationship good enough that you wanted to get married just because your partner wasn't quite ready yet, that's wild to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:46 PM
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Why'd you even ask if you're just gonna downvote people who disagree lmao Not everyone's relationship is the same, some people can accept it when their partner isn't ready for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:44 PM
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Not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:09 PM
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Because it's children who aren't allowed, not women...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:06 PM
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You probably should just try to avoid interacting with people you hate, that doesn't sound healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:02 PM
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Me. I did a sex once
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:59 AM
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I thought you meant it was half orange juice for a moment and was terrified
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:58 AM
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How is that misogynistic...??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:56 AM
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Sounds like you got some free friends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:24 AM
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What statistics show women cheat more? All the one's I've seen say men cheat more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:48 AM
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Or she's just so poor that she finds you rich regardless of your current wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:03 PM
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Definitely the 2nd one. 1st one is just a hookup and the 3rd is a sugarbaby, I have no interest in either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:01 PM
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To be fair monster girls are hot too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:50 PM
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5 or 6ish I think, I was a horny teenager and had the house to myself for an entire day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:29 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:50 PM
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A rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:11 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:56 AM
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*Bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:08 PM
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Depends on how many and how much evidence they have
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:26 PM
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Depends on what you consider common
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:25 PM
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How are you alive then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:09 PM
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I concur
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:30 PM
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What have they sown..?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:29 PM
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You must fix this immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:28 PM
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Seems either neutral or like an insult to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:28 PM
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I'm not gonna change my perception of half the population based on how a couple people treat me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:09 PM
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I have never even seen someone dress like this in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:29 PM
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Not all women get cruel and abusive on their period, just find one who doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:27 PM
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I'm pro-choice but that got a nose exhale out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:46 PM
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I've always found small children kinda uncanny valley looking for some reason. Their little teeth especially creep my out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:44 PM
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Babies look like fat naked mole rats but nastier, I'll never understand how so many people find them cute
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:42 PM
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Touch some grass and you'll change your own mind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:36 PM
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Does that mean you have poor morals and decision making?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:34 PM
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I don't think having sex with consenting adults and being a pedophile are comparable. I think most people who say "the past doesn't matter" mean it in the context of body count, because what consenting adults do with each other doesn't matter. Obviously some of your past actions are still relevant and reflect on who you are, the phrase isn't 100% literal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:32 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:30 PM
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Pretty hard to prove though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:28 PM
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Intrusive thoughts aren't controllable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:20 PM
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Bisexual men exist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:19 PM
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I disagree, androgynous people can be very hot, you're just straight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:09 PM
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His last partner could've just died or something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:38 PM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:31 PM
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People have more than one attractive trait, and attractive ≠ slutty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:25 PM
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Why is there a risk of vagina sand from masturbation but not from sex? And couldn't they just flick the bean instead of doing anything internal to minimize the risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:04 PM
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Is this satire...? It gets so hard to tell on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:00 PM
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I wouldn't consider any of them average, 6.5 minimal, average guys aren't modeling
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:41 AM
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Some people get happiness from love and connection
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:31 AM
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Yes Probably also yes No but I'd be extremely upset, not because I'm not her best sexually, but because she was telling friends about our sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:28 PM
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Yes Probably also yes No but I'd be extremely upset, not because I'm not her best sexually, but because she was telling friends about our sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:28 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:11 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:01 PM
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At some point, I think it would be really cool to fill up a whole house with lonely/based males. Oh god I can't imagine the smell
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:53 PM
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That is exactly how attraction works, at least for some people. A married couple who's been together for 10 years is gonna know how to please each other better than some hookup. Sex with my partner has only improved with time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:47 PM
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Click "Change user flair" and there'll be a blue button in the corner that says "Edit"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:21 AM
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Womp womp, neither is my preference but I guess I'd rather be in a harem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:15 AM
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Hmmm, if I chose to have a harem could my wives date each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:09 AM
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Bisexual sadness 😔 the wordings a little confusing though, so if I choose to be in a harem can I still date the others I just don't pick them and they're all the same gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:01 AM
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I don't think that's woman specific, that's kinda just how aging tends to work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:52 AM
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I'll just date my sister wives and brother husbands so I get to be provided for and have a harem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:50 AM
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I'm pretty sure anyone can do it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:46 AM
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Nowhere, that's why they're called "unicorns" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:23 PM
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I thought a "unicorn" was a bisexual woman that couples seek for threesomes/poly relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:29 PM
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Would a man with a womanly lower-half of their body (think like curvy with a round butt) be a turn off? (everything else is normal) Hot as fuck, a nice ass is a nice ass Would a woman with a manly upper-half of their body (think like V shaped torso) be a turn off? (everything else being normal) Depends on the woman, but not a big deal either way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:52 PM
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It's expensive and painful, hardly sounds worth the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:49 PM
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That's such a mild flaw, it wouldn't be a factor at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:48 PM
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Therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:47 PM
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Nothing wrong with having preferences as long as you don't shame men for it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:46 PM
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Well I can't answer that, depends on what hobbies y'all have in common
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:39 PM
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So anyone who doesn't do everything in their power to do everything optimally good regardless of their own feelings is "morally deficient"? You do realize you're on reddit right now, right? Why aren't you at a soup kitchen? Why are you exploiting people for this technology? Are all of your friends Amish vegans? If not, they're morally deficient
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:28 PM
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I fail to see how they're morally deficient. There's some correlation if you look at the stats, but being promiscuous isn't inherently harmful in any way, and even if it was a direct result every time, how does them having bad relationships make them morally deficient?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:00 PM
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Regardless, having a friend who does something that may correlate with that friend having a worse relationship is not at all comparable to a friend who does something that directly severely hurts others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:56 PM
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"Wanna do something together?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:26 PM
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The difference is rape is morally reprehensible and actually hurts people, while being promiscuous is just a personal preference that says nothing about your morality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:23 PM
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It's one thing if everyone you hang out with is an awful person, their combined influence may rub off on you and desensitize you to what they do. But being promiscuous is just a personal preference, it doesn't leak into every interaction, and it isn't wrong or harmful. If you have a couple friends in medical school, you aren't going to turn into a doctor. On the other hand, to hang around dangerous people you are putting yourself in a dangerous position, and by laying with dogs, you're accepting…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:21 PM
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It's almost like women can't stick to a stance because they're not a hivemind and all have different opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:10 PM
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These are my exact thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:18 AM
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I'm bi so I'll answer for both. Between the women I'd go B, I wouldn't want to be with someone who'd want me to drop everything for her, but wouldn't do the same for me. It's close though, B wanting me to provide and always be a rock would be an issue. For the man I'd definitely do A. I have no interest in having kids and find people enforcing the "boys don't cry" attitude gross. My choice between all four would also be man A. The looks aren't really a factor here to me because they all sound ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:14 AM
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Trans people are such a tiny percentage of the population idk how they could bulldoze anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:46 PM
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I judge people who date assholes because that means they find that behavior acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:45 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:43 PM
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More attractive for her age yeah but she looks about 10 years older than him. Then again I've been told by multiple people that I have face blindness so take that with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:29 PM
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It's not her job to read your mind, if you don't want to drink then don't drink, if you don't want to talk about something then don't talk about it. And why complain about the lack of cuddles now instead of just asking to cuddle in the moment? She's not a mind reader. I'm not dying just because I'm socially disabled and will never have a normal relationship. Besides, it doesn't really hurt me that I hate myself. Did you seriously say something like that and not expect any concern or attempt at c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:14 PM
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What does "she looped" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:01 PM
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I update my rating to a 4.5-5ish, looks like he gained some weight. I guess he has a good personality? She doesn't seem that much more attractive, and she looks a lot older than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:06 PM
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Looks pretty cute to me, tentative 6/10, hard to rate though because this image has about 5 pixels
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:56 PM
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Even if you can't choose how you feel, you can choose not to act hateful, to interact with women more, or to seek therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:48 PM
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The long hair itself looks great, but what it does to his forehead definitely hurts it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:45 PM
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I don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:52 PM
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"Cock carousel" is such a weird phrase. You don't hop around between a bunch of different seats on a carousel, you stay on one for the whole ride. If anything it should describe someone faithful with a bunch of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:46 PM
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I'd hardly call it killing your kid, just preventing it from existing in the first place. The "kid" certainly wouldn't care
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:43 PM
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Jealous of her dad cuz he's banging young women (which would be really weird unless she's gay) or jealous of the women who are fucking her dad? (which would be much weirder)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:41 PM
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"Blue pill" isn't a specific set of beliefs, it just means "not red pill", and purple pill means having some red pill beliefs. As for what those beliefs are... it's debated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:38 PM
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That would make more sense, though I could've sworn I've read somewhere it's number count
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:34 PM
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Child support, no fault divorce, birth control How are any of these things bad??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:32 PM
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I hate the term "N Count" so much. The N stands for... Number. Number Count. That's so vague it could literally mean anything. And obviously if there's a count there's a number, you might as well just say Count. Or just say "Body Count" like literally every person outside of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:28 PM
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1
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:25 PM
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Sex feel good and make dopamine go brrrr And some just do it for validation or because they don't know how to say no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:19 PM
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I don't think that's really comparable. Most people will never be 6'2, but anyone can be 20. And the majority of people date around their own age, most don't date 6'2 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:58 AM
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I think most people mean average in their age group
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:45 AM
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I'd prefer a liberal woman to a conservative, but we don't have to agree on everything. I just couldn't date someone against abortion or lgbt rights, or someone hardcore religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:06 PM
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Oh no! People have legs!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:02 PM
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Oh no people have legs the horror
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:02 PM
1

You became the emotional support animal that day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:00 PM
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I don't know a single person who does OF, unless you count a couple women who tried anonymously selling nothing but feet pictures, but overall the vast majority of women I know haven't even dabbled in it. (Or at least the women I'm close enough to that I'd know). And if it's a dealbreaker, don't bring it up later on, just ask before things get serious. Then it'll be a 0% chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:58 PM
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Better than periods
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:51 PM
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I think generally men will put up with women being more emotional than the reverse, because women are more expected to be emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:46 PM
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I think it's perfectly resonable, sex is often a very intimate and vulnerable act. Would you share your deepest secrets casually? I haven't had casual sex, so I can't say I don't like it, but I have zero interest in it. Though I don't think that's the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:56 PM
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In that case I'm choosing my partner any day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:21 PM
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I think most people will view that as a lot, but not everyone considers sex an intimate act, there's nothing inherently wrong with it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:15 PM
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Sounds like gold diggers don't want their money pot looking elsewhere. This isn't some universal woman thing though, it's a "gold digging hoes" thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:11 PM
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Nah, I love my gf too much, I don't see myself ever breaking up with her. If these hot women have more than looks going for them though, we might add one to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:06 PM
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I'd prefer the love of my life not to die prematurely, but it's nice that he's happy at least
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:25 AM
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I think in most cases where a large group seemingly are all hypocrites, it's actually just a matter of different people having different opinions. Some guys think women should be responsible for their own pleasure, others take offense to the use of sex toys and think that they should handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:22 AM
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You're not wise beyond his understanding or something, your comment just had such shitty spelling/grammar/wording that it was incomprehensible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:05 AM
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He seems cool, I'd date him if he wasn't straight and looked weirdly like my dad...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:04 AM
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One has common sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:56 AM
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I'd hardly call you an incel at 19, that's normal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:40 PM
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Her super thin nose is weirding me out, looks out of place and like she's had plastic surgery, the rest of her though... hot damn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:38 PM
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No relationship is better than a toxic one imo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:37 PM
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I don't think anyone wearing basketball shorts cares about the fashion of it lol, as for turtlenecks, presumably the guys who wear them don't think they look bad, so they're still being fashion-concious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:21 PM
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If she's not "half decent" you break up, not lead her on and waste both of your time for "practice", thats ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:04 PM
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If practice girlfriends are required to get a girlfriend, then how are you getting the practice girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:01 PM
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I get you don't find it attractive, but why shouldn't they? Basketball shorts are comfy and turtlenecks are warm, who cares if not everyone finds them super sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:59 PM
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You're never going to have a healthy long-term relationship if you can't be honest with your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:24 PM
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Deja vu
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:18 PM
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Why would the subs you use effect anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:17 PM
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Neither because I have zero interest in having kids but the one with one kid any day if I had to choose
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:51 PM
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I think a lot of bisexual women end up with men even though they prefer women simply because there are significantly more men available for them to choose from. Straight people are much more common than gay/bi after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:22 PM
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Nope. Sometimes when she's playfully "angry" or we're wrestling, but never when she's genuinely angry. I hate seeing her upset, it just makes me stressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:18 PM
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Some people have different taste, not every fit guy hates fat women. Or they're just horny and know many guys are desperate. They might also just swipe right on everyone. Overall I don't think it's narcissistic to not refuse to give a guy a chance just cuz he's fit...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:14 AM
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It probably wouldn't be, but what's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:48 PM
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A lot of people don't want you to propose solutions, some find it condescending, or they just want comfort and not to have to think about it. I've been told several times to stop trying to solve things and just shut up and give them a hug lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:33 PM
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Maybe tell her this. Different people like being consoled in different ways, you gotta let her know she's using the wrong strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:30 PM
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The amount of work it'd take to support three people on my own would make me absolutely miserable, but I can't imagine putting my partner through that either. Ideally we'd both work part time, but if it had to be one or the other, I'd want her to choose. I think I'd enjoy being a SAHP more though, sounds a lot less exhausting, the worst part would be seeing my gf so stressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:27 PM
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Why? IPhones are ass
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:05 PM
1

Eat a fly from its web to establish dominance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:11 PM
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https://youtu.be/22ZaKbxmEMA?si=Kvw2zJPmGatGtImI
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:10 PM
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Stop waiting around trying to attract them and actually seek them out. Most "good men" don't hit on strangers, if you wait for them to come to you, you're gonna get desperate horndogs. Hit on them so they know you're safe to hit on, cuz a lot of guys are scared of making women feel unsafe or uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:07 PM
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Some do, most don't imo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:01 PM
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Many people like looking hot and fashionable, especially young women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:00 PM
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Yuppp. My gf is amazing and I look like a wet rat. I still wonder how I got so lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:22 AM
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Some people just get smelly slower than others and don't really need daily showers. I need to shower daily lest I transform into a greasy onion, but my gf can go a couple days before she even starts to smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:13 AM
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I've never had rice pudding but the thought of its texture scares me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:07 AM
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Just keep track of the things they say and match it. If you know of any specific insecurities though you should probably avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:55 AM
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Depends on if you make your intentions known. Manipulating someone into thinking you love them so you can get relationship experience? Morally wrong. Having what you both agree to be a short-term relationship? Perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:02 PM
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The men here also like to eat newborn babies for fun and sacrifice their bones to the elder gods. Plenty of men have definitely seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:27 PM
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5 separate dates? You're doing fine, the first date is too early for plenty of people. 5 dates with one person? Yeah it's pretty weird if you aren't kissing yet. A lot of people hate to hear this, but... you can just talk to your date about it to make sure they're ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:32 PM
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Straight women wouldn't be very happy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:27 PM
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Weird? Yes, but that doesn't make it wrong. As long as he knows what he's getting into, I don't see why this would be unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:42 PM
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None of it's explicit. It's meant to be a sad moment, not a sexy one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:43 PM
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WHY IN THE PORTA POTTY THOUGH? Nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:09 PM
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This is incomprehensible to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:07 PM
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does that mean typing with uppercase is masculine, sir?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:05 PM
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Polyamory isn't a fetish, there's more to it than sex, it's about having multiple romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:27 PM
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Not a dealbreaker but definitely weird and something that we'd be having a talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:29 PM
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Have you considered that not everyone who sleeps with a supervisior is scheming for power, and sometimes... people just like eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:15 PM
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does getting assblasted by high status men show them women are the boss now? If you think about it, he's putting in all the effort and she's getting more pleasure, so kinda...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:03 PM
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Daaaamn, is this guest a king?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:00 PM
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Both women are going to expect me to risk my life for them. Both are going to expect me to pay for all or most of the bills. Both will expect me to be perfectly stoic and never show vulnerability. Both are going to expect an overpriced diamond. There's around 4 billion women on this planet, they aren't all terrible. I've known plenty of women who support their partner financially and/or emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:15 PM
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There's a "nopill" tag
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:16 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:35 PM
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I don't know how not letting random peoples opinions control me is insecurity, please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:30 PM
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Nah, I just don't like following rules for the sake of following rules, seems pointless. I'm not going to avoid something I like, or do something inconvenient, just so I can say I'm so masculine. I just do what makes me happy and don't worry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:26 PM
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I do sometimes, we go back and forth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:22 PM
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She's a little overweight but I wouldn't call her ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:13 PM
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I've witnessed this with one couple but it's definitely not universal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:10 PM
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I've always hated arbitrary and unfair rules, so my gf finding gender roles pointless and never trying to push them on me is a huge plus, if she suddenly expected me to follow them then I don't think our relationship would last long
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:08 PM
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Thanks, I got a couple of screenshots :3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:41 AM
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3 karma remain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:55 AM
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10 more karma until I reach 69,420
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:32 AM
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I don't have a specific budget, I'm not growing so I don't have to buy new clothes often, I just thrift every now and then and take advantage of good deals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:38 PM
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what are you doing? Being poor
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:56 PM
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What about the benefit of having a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:37 PM
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I never said it's logical, but it is really common. There's a reason surrogates are a thing. I fail to see how sex is relevant, most people don't have sex purely for reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:38 PM
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Because a lot of people want their kids to be theirs biologically
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:41 PM
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And men would want this why? "Say bye bye to pregnancy and all the pains,hazards and struggles associated with it. -Employers can't use discriminatory mindset against you in the workplace like "i won't hire her because she may had kids later" -No more reasons for the motherhood penalty -No longer are women gonna be the default parent or overwhelmingly get custody,since the mindset and reasons behind it are gone -No more reason for women to get more parental leave than you, since the reason behin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:38 PM
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Please show me where anyone ever said that avoiding sex is a benefit, because I can't find it from anyone but you. The point isn't to have a baby without sex, it's to have a baby without pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:23 PM
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Just ask her. If she's the type to lie to your face for no reason, then you should probably find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:58 PM
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You can have sex without trying for pregnancy...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:57 PM
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What sort of problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:22 PM
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Most seem to want more traditionally masculinity men who follow social rules and fit in
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:50 AM
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It varies wildly person to person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:55 PM
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Compared to society around me, I'm a far-right religious extremist; ....that's probably why you're struggling. Unfortunate combo that you have autism too, because from what I've seen, most far-right women won't date an autistic man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:53 PM
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How is being in the majority counter culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:48 PM
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What's the point of doing that if you don't love her..?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:44 PM
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It doesn't take bravery to share a common opinion on twitter when you're filthy rich
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:43 PM
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You insist on paying, If I insisted then she did nothing wrong, she might not even have money on her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:26 PM
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Am I misunderstanding what a "starter girlfriend" is, or do you genuinely think lying to and manipulating innocent people with the intent to hurt them isn't wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:49 PM
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I try not to make assumptions about people based on their demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:29 PM
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Just stop staring at them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:49 PM
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How could you tell she's a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:46 PM
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There's a lot of space in between a bit overweight and too morbidly obese to function. My gf is overweight, I'm underweight, and she's in much better shape than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:53 PM
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None of them are even hitting him, they just keep reaching out and trying to grab him with one hand, or maybe gently caress him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:43 PM
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Are you on the Near and Mello arc? Cuz then you can't blame her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:37 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:04 AM
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He's kinda uncanny looking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:39 PM
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I'd take that trade
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:38 PM
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Todd Howard? :0
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:35 PM
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That's a little nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:31 PM
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baddies I misread that as "babies" and spent a moment trying to figure out if you were memeing or just that far gone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:14 PM
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You're in your 30s but only date under 30..? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:07 PM
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Most people actually have beliefs and claim the political alignment that most closely matches them, sounds like you did this backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:11 PM
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Sounds like you want a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:58 PM
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Depends on a lot of factors. How does my friend feel about this, how close am I to this friend, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:57 PM
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If I can answer as a man attracted to men, I'd go B. 10 years is too big of an age gap for me, plus I'd relate better to someone autistic with nerdy and artsy interests. The lack of a car or job would be pretty inconvenient though and almost makes me consider A.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:05 PM
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It's crazy to me that people think she's mid, imo she's about as conventionally attractive as a person can get without looking uncanny and fake
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:48 PM
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It's a lot easier to find other options when you're not already in a relationship with someone. But enjoy paying child support I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:56 PM
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Then why are you with her...?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:52 PM
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You can want something for yourself without thinking it should be forced on others
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:50 PM
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"Men are stupid," - Critical_lettuce
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:31 PM
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"Just curious, how many people have you been with?" Preferably ask when already on the topic of your pasts. It's a perfectly normal thing to wonder, I directly asked my gf and it went fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:54 PM
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Most people expect their partner to trust them more than complete strangers. I'd be pretty offended if my gf had me empty my pockets... Kinda nonsensical analogy hell it's praised and accepted in today's society. Please show me an example of this cuz I sure haven't seen it. Sure there's people like that, but they're rare and hated. If you count that then murder, theft, and rape are also praised and accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:14 PM
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How do you get to know someone and find out if you want to marry them someday if you don't go on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:04 PM
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That's a weird thing to mention if it doesn't come up organically. I feel like most guys would be uncomfortable if the woman they were dating went "Lovely weather, by the way, I've fucked 10 other guys."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:50 PM
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I asked my gf, I'd still be with her regardless of the answer (unless it was something insane like 100), but I wanted to better understand her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:48 PM
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She probably would still date me, I'm already really short so being even shorter shouldn't make a big difference, except I'd have to get a stool to reach anything....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:59 AM
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Because there's about 8 billion people on Earth and some of them are bound to be shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:56 PM
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I have never jerked off to pics of someone I know irl besides my girlfriend. I think it's a pretty strange thing to do, especially in a monogamous relationship, not inherently unethical since thought crimes aren't a thing but still kinda weird and gross. I would certainly be uncomfortable if I knew a friend of mine I had no romantic interest in was jerking off to my photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:45 PM
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Sort of more eager? What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:42 PM
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Why not just tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:06 PM
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That he wasn't interested in a relationship and she had sex with him anyway in the hope that'd change because she was desperate, the wording she uses for it is amusing. An "I hate myself" style joke
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:00 PM
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The difference is that humans are sapient and capable of learning and growing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:56 PM
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I have never seen someone use "plus size" unironically irl, it's always overweight or fat regardless of gender. And since when are people against calling women short? Petite means more than just short btw, it means small and dainty, so men don't usually fit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:54 PM
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How dare she... ask him to do equal chores? The horror??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:50 PM
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A "shit test" doesn't mean try harder, it means get out of there...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:47 PM
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It's not code, it's a joke. You're supposed to know what it actually means, and it's supposed to make you laugh. That's the whole point of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:45 PM
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I hope this is a joke... just break up if you hate eachother so much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:56 PM
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Do you have a link to someone saying cheating SAHMs deserve alimony? And of course they still need child support if they're the one raising the child, children are both their parents responsibility, they're not just an extension of their mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:53 PM
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Maybe pay for her and her friends to go get their hair and nails done? Or talk to her and her interests because surely there's more than that. What does she do in her free time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:33 AM
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Krista, because I'm not dating someone over twice my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:30 AM
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7/10, he seems pretty conventionally attractive for his age. Straight teeth, strong jaw, symmetrical face, healthy hair. Though he's too old for me and not my type so more of a 3.5 to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:27 AM
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The definition of a "pick-me girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:38 PM
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I'd say it's about letting people do whatever they want to their own bodies and use whatever words for themself that they want. I know some pretty radical trans people and yet I have never met or heard of a single person who wants to make it so you're not allowed to misgender people, sure they won't hang around you if you do, but everyone has that right. Not allowing trans people to be who they want is just restricting freedom of speech and bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:10 PM
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...could you please explain what you think "transgenderism" is? I'm genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:47 PM
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Why? Do you think anyone's actually getting hurt by these consenting adults' personal decisions, or do you just not like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:45 PM
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Why do you hate transgender people..? It's not an ideology or belief system, nor is it a choice, most of them are just existing like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:38 PM
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I'd be kinda disappointed if she didn't let him wash it when he already had everything out and was the one to point out the dirtiness and offer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:18 AM
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Be grateful I have such a thoughtful neighbor
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:15 AM
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Be happy I have the money to go abroad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:46 PM
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What are these other metrics?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:46 PM
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Low self-esteem, loneliness, desperation, feeling like he's the best they can hope for
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:24 PM
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I would hardly say a lot of people think that, monogamy is still the norm by far, most people wouldn't even consider polyamory. I see posts about people leaving their partner just for asking about the idea of opening the relationship all the time, and the comments always agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:31 PM
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I don't think I've ever seen the second one before
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:25 PM
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I don't think that's healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:20 PM
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Have you never been a small child..?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:16 PM
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Estrogen 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:15 PM
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Do those impede your ability to wipe your ass, scrup your hair, open soda cans, etc? Or is having them easier than it looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:14 PM
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It doesn't make me feel uneasy, but there's plenty of topics I have nothing to say on. I just scroll on to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:08 PM
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I clarified I'm bi cuz I'm a guy and not the target of this question, but can still answer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:26 PM
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No woman parent should be letting a stranger be around their children until they’ve been vetted and even then there’s risks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:22 PM
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And a bad morning to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:20 PM
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Muscle mommies and femboys all the way but how tf did you know that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:27 PM
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Have you never kissed a cute tummy before? Or used it like a pillow?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:24 PM
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Thighs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:22 PM
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What's the point of keeping those embryos "alive" when they're never going to be implanted? That's like keeping a vegetable with zero brain activity or chance of ever waking up on life support for its entire life, except that vegetable also has no friends or previous life. It has no thoughts, feelings, emotions, anything, and unlike abortion you can't argue that it would eventually if not tampered with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:17 PM
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I love some thick arms but veins are weird, I hate seeing them move, it makes me shudder
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:02 PM
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A lot of women here have shitty reading comprehension, but the men are no different. PPD is full of angry people who argue in bad faith, and also with people not invested enough to pay full attention to what they're reading(I'm guilting of having poorly comprehended arguments mid shit). I recently saw I guy quote a woman he was arguing with, and he straight cut out half the sentence he was quoting, completely changing the meaning, then argued with this point he made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:00 PM
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Why's everyone into veiny hands? I'm bi but to me big bulging veins just look gross
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:51 PM
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If she says "no" or "stop" and you don't stop, that's SA. It's pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:43 PM
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You're saying this on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:40 PM
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My point is I think it's much less likely that half the population is "bland" and more likely that that's just the women you attract. Or maybe I'm just the mega chad and I got all the interesting women, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:20 PM
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Your experience is not universal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:16 PM
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Wow, I can't believe every single woman I've ever met is in the 1% :0 what are the odds! Have you considered that maybe, instead of around 4 billion people being clones, that you're the common denominator here? That maybe there's just a specific kind of woman that's interested in fuckboys?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:09 PM
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She shouldn't have come to work..?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:49 PM
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Maybe she just didn't feel like talking to you. Not everyone enjoys smalltalk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:22 PM
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If I only dated people I was attracted to at first sight, I'd be single forever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:53 AM
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They kinda sound bi and in denial
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:49 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:47 AM
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Nope, that's what hands are for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:34 AM
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Depends on the context. Telling a random person you're 21 so you can get a beer? Not a big deal. Telling someone you're an adult so you can have sex with them as a minor? Heinous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:37 PM
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If that's an option I'm switching my answer to a hard neither
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:20 AM
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Nothing about him is inherently annoying. He could be from how he was raised, but he also could've unlearned in by now. I'm not interested in having pets anyway (besides maybe something small that can stay in its cage, so no germ issue), so that's not a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:59 AM
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Physically: Preferably not excessively unhealthy, but I'm not too picky Mentally: Shares my values and hopefully a few interests. Doesn't have to be an extrovert, but at least enjoys talking to me. Emotionally: Open-minded, understanding, mature, good at communication, cool tempered, honest, loyal It's hard to say my ideal because I have a wonderful partner who's perfect for me, so she's my ideal, but these are my requirements. (I don't include all her traits as my ideals because they'd probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:53 AM
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Why would anyone pick Devin..? Everything about him is a huge negative, while Harrison is all neutral or mildly negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:35 AM
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Jessalynn, but I'm immediately getting sterilized. Hopefully I'm allowed to stop dating her if she gets pregnant anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:29 AM
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That's not celibate, that just means you want a serious relationship and no hookups (which is what you should put in your bio, celibate makes it sound like you want no sex ever).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:55 AM
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I'd care a lot. Cuz that'd make me very happy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:52 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:51 AM
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It's a copypasta
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:17 PM
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Did you ask him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:15 PM
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You cut out the "only because" They literally emphasized it. Only. They're saying men not wanting promiscuous women only because they are more likely to cheat, is utter bs. Because if they were just trying to maximize odds of not being cheated on, why's that the only factor ever talked about? In most cases it seems like promiscuous women just give them "the ick" but they feel like they need a logical excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:06 PM
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Shouldn't you hope she's asexual..? Lesbians have sex too. And I'm pretty sure every lesbian is involved in "queer bullshit" unless they're deep in the closet lmao. I'm not sure what the feminist/poly part has to do with anything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:59 PM
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Depends on the situation I guess but generally I'd say no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:31 AM
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Money is power so making a shitton of money is empowering
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:15 AM
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Not necessarily. It empowers the few women who do well on it and make bank, but it undermines feminism overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:40 AM
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Your interviewers would
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:49 PM
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EVERYONE DID while he dead ass carried her out of the mall and to an apartment complex nearby. I was following, mad as hell cause I knew she wouldn't be screaming that kind of thing. I seriously doubt this is real. Why would op wait for him to carry her all the way to his apartment before interfering?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:07 PM
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Trans women and intersex women. But they're a small enough portion of the population that I think it's pretty weird to specify "female" every time, especially when the things being said don't apply to every female woman anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:37 PM
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Do you also believe all your reddit posts/comments should be shown at job interviews and to your parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:34 PM
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Your experience is not universal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:33 PM
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It's when you're only sexually attracted to people you have a bond with. So you would feel nothing for a hot stranger until you get to know them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:19 AM
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Good luck out there 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:20 PM
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Imagine your husband just beat the shit out of you, he left the room after and is watching tv. You could: A: Grab your gobag and sneak out of the house B: Try to pack, miss many essentials because you're in a rush and don't feel safe enough to sneak around and get toiletries, food, ect. He gets bored or hears something and comes back, finds you packing, and throws you out with nothing and/or beats you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:17 PM
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Packing takes time. It's better to have it already done when you had time and were in a clear state of mind, rather than rushing, panicking, and possibly injured.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:10 PM
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His voice sounds so normal though, completely unnotable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:34 AM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:29 AM
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Wow transitioning really is easy these days
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:27 AM
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( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:25 PM
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It's almost like people treat you better when you don't hate them...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:25 PM
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It's usually quicker and move convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:22 PM
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Get a better girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:21 PM
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Facials are a Valentines Day tradition
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:19 PM
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It's not like they're unaware of what he looks like to other people, they just didn't become personally attracted until getting to know him. That doesn't stop them from taking a step back and going over their objective traits. Though I think that's more of a demisexual thing than a woman thing, otherwise women wouldn't have casual sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:09 PM
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Even if that's true(though in the majority of cases I don't think it is), life sure isn't easier as a trans woman. Unless you live in some specific locations or pass perfectly I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:38 PM
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A lot of people instinctually hate things that are strange and foreign to them. Even if poly people aren't hurting anyone or affecting them in any way, they think, "I would never let my partner do that!" and are disgusted. Look at how many people hate gay and trans people even though they have zero impact on their life. Though I disagree about nobody being content with monogamy, the majority of people are in monogamous relationships and don't cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:35 PM
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All this and you haven't said a word about his personality, do you enjoy talking to him at all? None of these traits mean anything if you don't enjoy his company.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:58 PM
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Yup, we met on a subreddit for friends/dating. It went well, we live together now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:29 PM
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Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:43 AM
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Well they shouldn't fund bridges then, not every citizen travels, and they shouldn't fund roads, not every citizen drives a car... Though arguably taxes going to poor citizens does help everyone, because poverty is such a major contributor to crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:16 AM
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Children of single parents didn't either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:09 AM
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I'd be upset my wife didn't talk to me first, not because she needs my permission, but because we're a team and should both know what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:47 AM
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But “no we shouldn’t be doing this” might not and to pretend otherwise is disingenuous It still means they're not fully comfortable and you should wait
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:20 PM
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I'm a bit over 100, I was just rounding, I'm really short though :/ about 5'4
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:18 PM
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About 100 pounds, I'm built like a sad little noodle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:30 PM
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The further down the alphabet the bigger the boob
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:09 PM
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Nothing weird about that, it's important to know early on so nobodys time is wasted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:03 PM
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My mistake, I misinterpreted it as you essentially having the same belief as op just in the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:15 PM
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I agree with everything you said here, but this is a disagreement where there's seemingly no way for both parties to be happy. Either she goes and he's uncomfortable, or she can't go and she's disappointed. Someone has to bend. I think the one to compromise should be dependent on context, your first comment implied it should be her by default which I disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:36 PM
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I recommend fasting as a meal prep if anything is going near your asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:28 PM
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Literally all demographics of humans have done this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:06 PM
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She was going to cheat either way, stopping her from going on that vacation wouldn't change anything. Cheaters are gonna cheat, decent people won't. If you're worried, it's best to give your partner these opportunities so you'll know who they are sooner, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:05 PM
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But who's feelings should come first in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:01 PM
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Wiggle my arms like spaghetti and compare them to the pole, it's a phrase I'm used to hearing. And probably put the shirt back on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:58 PM
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But they called 3 inches a lot! That's a win
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:14 AM
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I would not judge someone for wanting to hold on to their memories. Unless it's nudes I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:12 AM
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Sounds like you're typing with one hand
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:59 PM
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Ask your doctor not ppd...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:37 PM
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Usually it ends somewhere around 70
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:36 PM
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Please don't use prank videos as a source for anything.... they're completely fake 99.9% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:00 PM
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It's crazy to me how many people are telling you not to ask her if she's a virgin. If she freaks out and leaves you over the question then you have such different values that you probably aren't compatible anyway. If you're only willing to date virgins, imo you should ask as soon as you're comfortable having serious conversations but before you catch feelings, so nobody is hurt it it doesn't work out. And of course let her know you're a virgin too so she doesn't think you're a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:13 PM
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Try to defuse the situation, and hopefully finish pissing cuz it's hard to stop once you start. I have no interest in getting into a fight with a stranger in a nasty public bathroom for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:12 PM
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What's the downside to the gay son..?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:09 PM
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Peanut M&M supremacy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:05 PM
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I could not care less what car the hypothetical kids I'm not having drive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:03 PM
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The majority of women said flattered/neutral though..?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:05 PM
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In the Western world, it's just a matter of personal preference. If you'd like to be successful and do something big with your life, it's easier as a man, but if you want to do the least effort needed to survive then it's easier as a woman. Casual sex is also much easier as a woman, so if that's something you prioritize, then being a woman might be better. If you just want a normal life though and aren't a horndog, being a man is definitely easier, odds are you'll be stronger, faster, bigger, mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:45 PM
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Do you really see just pointing out something you disagree with or communicating what makes you uncomfortable as "jeopardizing your relationship" and an act of disloyalty? Jeez dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:29 PM
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You bend to tie your shoe? That's some flexibility, I always kneel or crouch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:25 PM
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I doubt many people drink coffee to seem mature lol. The vast majority of the time they probably just like the taste/want the caffeine. That seems a lot more reasonable to me. Plus, there are bitter iced coffees, like americanos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:32 PM
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says she likes coffee but then only drinks iced coffee Why...? I can see the reasoning behind the rest of these, but this one seems completely random. What's wrong with preferring your coffee cold? Though all of these seem a lot more like "icks" than actual red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:57 PM
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The issue with cheating isn't the sex, it's the lying and betrayal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:52 PM
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Q4M: If a random woman attacked you, would you expect your girlfriend/wife to fight her off for you? I'd expect her to help but not to just do it for me, we'd subdue her together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:51 PM
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"I like your shirt." Fine for any occasion "You look good in that." Fine for friends or a romantic interest but probably don't wanna say it to a stranger or acquaintance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:45 PM
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Yes. Most people aren't malicious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:45 PM
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More than you hate stds and accidental pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:22 PM
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If you're with a guy who nags you when he knows you don't want it, you'd be better single
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:28 PM
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Then why do you do it..?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:27 PM
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Do I get the money at the start or the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:34 PM
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Alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:31 PM
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It is absolutely not dying, literally every person I know uses the internet daily, hourly even (except the elderly). The internet is essential for many things, and it makes just about everything more convenient. If anything, I'm worried about places out in the real world dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:09 PM
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I have zero thoughts related to it, I see a lot of couples every day and it's not too uncommon for them to be different levels of attractive. I may have some thoughts about them depending on how they act, but their appearance alone isn't enough to be notable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:04 PM
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Do you think this goes both ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:16 PM
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Fuck no, 16 is way too young to be having sex. I would educate them though and make sure to emphasize that the pull out method is no different than no method of preventing pregnancy at all. If the kid is completely unconvinced and it seems like they're gonna go off and have sex anyway, I'd supply them with condoms/get them on birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:11 PM
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I'd ask her, "Would you date a 6 year old? Think about it, do you think there's a reason he's not dating women his own age or older?" After teaching her about grooming and trying to get her to see for herself, if she's unconvinced and wants to stay with him I'd go to the police and if she's ready to break up with him I'd give her the choice of whether we contact the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:55 PM
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What? I think you responded to the wrong comment, this is incoherent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:22 PM
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My job does not pay nearly enough for that, maybe for a 3000% raise. It'd be pretty hard for me to find a new one but I could move back in with a parent if I really had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:44 PM
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You're probably a sociopath and an asshole if you feel no attachment to a child you raised and thought was your own for 7 whole years. You have the right but it's also pretty fucked up and is going to really hurt the kid that you should have loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:36 PM
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That's oddly specific, did he say that in a previous comment or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:30 PM
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but I never said anything. Imagine being open enough with someone to let them into your asshole, but not open enough to just say, "I don't like that." The lack of communication in some relationships astounds me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:28 PM
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And you talking about welfare..? The thing any low income person can get on that has nothing to do with gender...?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:25 PM
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Become femboy, there's a dommy mommy out there somewhere for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:23 PM
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I really doubt that, mostly because it's a huge sub and trans people are a tiny portion of the population. There's more members of that sub than there are trans people in the US, by a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:08 PM
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Being healthy and strong might matter more to her than attention from some random men...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:50 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:33 PM
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Then only post the interviews where they say "If she's ever had sex she's a filthy whore!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:32 PM
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Then don't ask him for money. Unless you're on the edge of homelessness, there's usually another way. And if you really need the money, maybe see if there's any work you can do for him to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:02 PM
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I'm not the type to have a ons but in this hypothetical I'd definitely tell him, with screenshots from the dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:44 PM
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If you don't trust her, why date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:42 PM
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Probably a full time job
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:39 PM
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He probably just cuts out all the resonable "boring" interviews and keeps the rare crazy ones that'll spark rage and reposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:37 PM
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I think I'll just comment anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:56 PM
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Depends on what the job is, how old the kids are, what the kids' needs are, how much help the SAHP is receiving, their financial situation, personal preference, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:50 PM
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Obviously in most cases you should listen to logic instead of emotion, but marriage is all about emotion. If you don't feel happy together in a marriage it kinda defeats the whole point of being together, and why should you make yourself suffer? That's just making your own life worse. Divorce is the right thing to do logically and emotionally in an unhappy marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:05 PM
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So what do you suggest? Just have shitty sex..?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:27 AM
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Presumably the sexbot is interactive and the porn is not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:52 AM
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Your brother just sounds like a dick, I don't think that's normal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:33 PM
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I'd say you can sense personality, and even if you don't talk about politics there's usually signs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:57 PM
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Woo I get to have a good morning this time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:17 PM
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Nobody is saying tight pants are inappropriate, they're saying pants specifically designed to accentuate the penis being worn at a school is inappropriate. Also she literally gave an example of when tight clothes are more practical. I have no idea what you mean about men wearing tight clothes being weird, I see men in tight shirts every day, I see tight pants less often but it's still not a strange sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:53 PM
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If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. But pretending to be interested in a real relationship while secretly planning on breaking up from the start is cruel and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:40 PM
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I'm so glad my girlfriend doesn't care about jewelry or tradition, no way I'm spending hundreds of dollars on a finger decoration. She'd just say, "we could have used that money on a computer or rollerblades or food or saved it for a car-"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:24 PM
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Many people hate what's different and unusual. They think, "I wouldn't do that, so it's wrong!" Even if nobody is getting hurt or everyone involved is aware of the consequences. Just look at how people talk about poly relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:18 PM
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Waiting hours to get her alone outside is incredibly creepy, I would've been terrified...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:01 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:16 PM
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Guys on this sub will say stuff like this then think women don't like them because of their looks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:23 PM
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I bet a lot of guys here claiming they'd rather be women would change their mind the moment their first period starts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:38 PM
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That's why many feminists say that feminism is for everyone, the patriarchy hurts men and women both
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:24 PM
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Not sure, the hypothetical doesn't specify. Found it on the ground? A gift? Magical entity?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:20 PM
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I specifically said I would not purchase it for this price lol I would just prefer to aquire the name brand one if I wasn't paying for it. Also why do you assume I'm a girl? Do you just assume everything you don't understand must've been said by a girl...?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:13 PM
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Have you ever heard of the frog in a boiling pot? You put a frog in a pot of warm water and slowly turn up the heat, the frog doesn't notice the subtle shift until it's dead. The specific analogy is a myth, but the principle is true. In many abusive relationships, it starts small, and you forgive because you love them. It builds and builds, but there's still good times, so you stay and say the bad times aren't what they're really like, it was just because of this or that. And you ignore it when …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:53 PM
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Abusers after they get caught be like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:39 PM
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The $1000 one can be resold for $1000 dollars, so I'd obviously rather have that one. It's also a status symbol. Though I'd never purchase something that overpriced.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:27 PM
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Oddly specific, bad morning to me I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:59 PM
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841 matches is a lot less impressive when you consider she swiped right on about 4000 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:58 PM
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You people always get the chicken and the egg mixed up. This attitude came AFTER a near total lack of success. I'm aware you meant the bitterness was in response. I just meant it takes your chances from somewhat low to near zero, which will only throw fuel in the fire. Though I suppose the attitude may have affected you from the start, nobody likes it when a guys response to not getting his way is anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:42 PM
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And as I grow more resentful, I find myself cheering for climate change. That's part of why I became an oil lobbyist straight after uni. You know, I always thought most people ignoring climate change were just very ignorant or old and apathetic, but maybe they really are malicious. Huh. Unfortunately, hating everyone because you're lonely is like a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you don't care about other people, they won't care about you, which only makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:34 PM
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Imo he should just straight up ask her how she didn't know given they text a lot. Not accuse her of cheating or anything, just point out how weird that is. Maybe there's some actual reason, maybe she'll try to lie her way out and reveal that she's cheating. Either way, he gets some answers without looking paranoid or accusatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:26 PM
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It indeed would not be a close fight
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:50 AM
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I haven't met anyone actually enthusiastic about Biden, it's always just "At least he's not a rapist..." lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:03 PM
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I don't like how they stick to my teeth, gummy bears are superior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:51 PM
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Probably the bubbly girl, I'd worry about the sophisticated one looking down on me because I'm pretty open and goofy with my partner. I'm not gonna bother with arbitrary social rules with the person I'm meant to be most comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:48 PM
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Splash my man juices all over her Tears and snot specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:39 PM
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I've arguably seen the "badboy" stereotype. By that I mean I've seen women with terrible self-esteem stay with men who treat them like shit because they think that's as good as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:49 PM
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That's where we differ, I would never have sex with someone I'm not certain I will have a long relationship with. Edit: In case someone's confused since I'm downvoted, I'm not saying nobody's allowed to have sex outside of a LTR, I'm talking about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:20 PM
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I can't imagine having sex with someone and then finding out we don't have compatible values or personalities. I don't think someone could be bad enough at sex for me to break up with them if I really liked them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:10 PM
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That seems like a pretty resonable amount of time to go without having sex with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:58 PM
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No, I just think if your pics are real that you're a good bit above average and your face would be a help not a hindrance. It's so obvious that you're either trolling or have severe body dysmorphia and should book a therapist immediately. If you're serious, you quite literally do not see your face the way it actually is, you're hallucinating, you're not aware of what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:22 PM
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Just a guess cuz idk how it looks on you, but armpit length is probably good, a little bit longer might look better but curly hair is a pain to maintain so armpit is a good length.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:17 PM
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...you don't. You may struggle in life, but it's not because of your face
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:14 PM
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It's varies a lot based on things like face shape and hair texture imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:11 PM
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No, just dumb apparently lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:08 PM
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I'm pretty sure they mean on an individual level, not socially. Society would collapse if all men dissappeared, and it'd also collapse if all women dissappeared.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:18 PM
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As long as you're not directly staring to the point of them noticing and being uncomfortable, there's nothing to feel guilty about. No such thing as a thought crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:14 PM
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Based on this post I definitely believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:37 AM
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A couple years makes a big difference when you're so young, I became an entirely different person between 16 and 18 Edit: I missed the almost 19 part, and got a little held up on the number 16 and didn't account for her being days away from 17. At 18 and practically 17, you shouldn't necessarily be too different in maturity. My gf and I pretty much have the same age gap and I feel like she's always been as or more mature than me. Though the numbers still feel kinda weird and creepy, and even tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:33 AM
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In that case I think what you did is perfectly fair and resonable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:32 AM
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Yeah but it's more effort, and some people just like the change of scenery. Like going to a restaurant when you have food at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:31 AM
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Dude they're just shorts, it's not that deep. Maybe she wears them because they're comfortable and it's warm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:29 AM
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I don't think tight shorts are equivalent to a speedo... it's not like it's highlighting her vagina somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:25 AM
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It's not cheating if you haven't had the exclusivity talk. No rules have been established, so there's no rules to break. Though I still think you should disclose this, and it's definitely wrong to lie if asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:20 AM
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I think most relationships are possible, no matter how niche your requirements, there's 7 billion people on this planet after all. You're never going to find a pair who will agree to this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:16 AM
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What do you consider making a man wait for sex? Does this mean you have sex with any man who wants to have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:06 AM
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you're just good friends with an emotional connection who kiss on the lips sometimes. ...sounds like you're describing a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:05 AM
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Because the club is "cool" and "taboo", it probably makes her feel like a cool rebellious big girl. Hanging out in a more relaxed setting wouldn't have the same thrill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:16 AM
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No wonder she wants to party all day and doesn't understand any of the risks of going out alone, you're dating a child. Find someone your own age if you want maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:14 AM
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Good drinks, loud music, and cool lighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:11 AM
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You definitely could have gone about this better, for instance you could have told her that her going out in that kind of environment alone makes you nervous (not because you're afraid of what she'll do, but because you fear what others may do). Jumping straight to an ultimatum does not sound healthy. But it's perfectly resonable to not want to date someone who consistently makes you feel uneasy, you just probably should have explained how you feel and why you feel that way before making demands…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:10 AM
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I only have one reason, but it's a pretty big one. It's just dangerous. Not just pregnancy and stds (though that too) but there is also the risk of being murdered, robbed, assaulted, or raped. I think it's dumb to act like being promiscuous is morally wrong, but it's understandable to not want to date someone who engages in risky behavior or just has different values than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:52 AM
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That's the ideal relationship for everyone (just swap "man" with "you" and "woman" with "your partner")
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:49 AM
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He's a My Little Pony
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:46 AM
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Codependent son then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:49 AM
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Not many people seem to sympathize with the mom, they're just saying the dad sucks too for abandoning his child
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:48 AM
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Depends, does the mom like me? Is she an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:43 AM
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It's probably because brown and black hair is significantly more common than blond or red
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:16 PM
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This hurts to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:23 PM
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If you don't actually love her why not just have a fwb?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:32 PM
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I'd probably be pretty miserable. My gf is the only thing stopping me from becoming an alcoholic hermit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:30 PM
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How do you know it's her? Y'all say some really downvotable things
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:01 PM
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That kinda defeats the point of having a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:55 PM
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....so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:53 PM
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Your view of other people is very sad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:01 PM
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Less than half the population reports being cheated on at some point, so it's far from inevitable. And even if it does happen, that doesn't make relationships pointless. Sure, that one was, but you try again and find someone worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:00 PM
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Shared showers are nice sometimes when I really want the company, but it's generally not my preference. I'm not a fan of standing there soggy and freezing to death while she rinses her hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:52 PM
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Let a man buy her a drink? I wouldn't consider it cheating, but I'd be uncomfortable if they chatted without her telling him she's already with someone. Bought someone else a drink? Presumably a stranger? That's an issue, those drinks are expensive and if my partner went out of their way to spend money just to chat with a random girl at the bar, we'd be having words. That's if I was in a totally monogamous relationship though. I don't particularly care if my partner flirts a bit with others, as …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:48 PM
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A lot of words for "LALALALA SHUT UP MY ASSUMPTIONS ARE ALWAYS RIGHT I DONT WANT TO LOOK FOR EVIDENCE IN CASE IM WRONG"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:33 PM
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Yes. I'm not so arrogant to think I know everything about human behavior purely off my own personal experience. Especially when this supposed basic behavior doesn't even match my own observations. After a little bit of looking (I'm not invested enough to do a deep dive into this) I can't find any reliable studies on the effects of wealth on marriage comparing men and women, so I'm just going to say neither of us know for sure how big the impact is. My own experience suggests that the majority of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:03 PM
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No conclusions to be made from just that, I think nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:55 AM
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That's a pretty bold claim, got evidence? Not counting anecdotal of course, since both our anecdotal evidence contradicts eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:30 PM
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I'm waiting for a refutation any moment but none is forthcoming. If most women are just lying to themself to the point where their behavior reflects the lie... how do you know they're lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:00 PM
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Seems like a pretty pointless thing to lie about, and they must have been lying to themselves too since they married men making less than them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:53 PM
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Oh sorry, guess this conversation is just another hallucination from growing up in an empty room with zero human contact
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:48 PM
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Obviously these people exist, there's a person out there with any crazy view you can imagine. What I doubt is that this is the norm, in my own experience most people don't care whether their partner makes more than them, as long as their partner makes enough to take care of themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:24 PM
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What's an AFC?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:28 PM
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Do they? Idk I haven't witnessed that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:25 PM
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I would generously guess I spend around 3-5 hours per week... that's also including sexual daydreams while I do other activities, actual sex, and uh sex by myself. I don't think spending over a full day every week doing sex related activities is anywhere near normal. Either you're really overestimating how much time you spend on this stuff or you're a very abnormal case. Not saying there's anything wrong with that, if you write smut for a hobby/money that explains why your numbers are so skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:54 PM
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You know the whole "girlboss" thing redpill guys hate so much? That's women being against "wealth gap relationships". It's already pretty common for women to worry for stay at home wives and encourage other women to make their own money. And a big difference is a wealth gap isn't always financial abuse, but a fresh 18 year old is always going to be much less developed mentally, financially, socially, ect, than a 50 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:07 PM
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