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Marriage/ChildrenComfortable-Wish-192/r/MensRights22/01/24 08:09 PM
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I lay tile, can finish drywall, built decks, refinish furniture, do al the gardening…Either can do either. Lifting we are not as capable of but the rest is just learning. Most men outsource those things. My husband doesn’t know jack about plumbing. He doesn’t change the oil in her car to the dealer does. He can’t even replace the flapper on the toilet that’s my job lol. It’s not gendered it’s experience. I took classes at Home Depot back in the day to learn how to do some of these things my fath…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/25 05:10 AM
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I’m Gen X ( look young and am fit) get hit on all the time by millennials to boomers. If you stay in shape, don’t gain weight, and take care of yourself you will have men after you til the day you die.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/25 04:51 AM
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It’s their life their choice. Your job is to support their choices not choose for them.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 05:54 PM
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They prefer the male votes because the female votes were of no consequences women couldn’t vote. What are you talking about? And yes people in power never wanna relinquish power. That really is the bottom line. And it hasn’t changed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/24 01:53 PM
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My point is that they had to fight for it. Tooth and freaking nail. If Men wanted equality for women why didn’t they just say of course we didn’t think of that? Because they didn’t want equality for women. They wanted to power and control. And a good chunk of them still do. They want to take away no-fault divorce women have to stay in abusive marriages. Or find the money to prove that they were abused which is difficult to do. JD Vance is next level with a misogny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/24 01:52 PM
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Then when women asked for the right to vote why didn’t they just give it to them? Why did they have to fight tooth and nail for it? And every other right we got?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 08:31 PM
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No they actually do. She says in the end you don’t like it when it happens to you do you? And that’s why I did it to point out how it feels.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 02:49 AM
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Actually the upvotes are for “see how it feels you don’t like it much do you?” It’s done to point out what we deal with to see how men like it when done to them.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 02:05 AM
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Exactly EVERYONE has standards it’s simply men are allowed women not. Despite the significantly higher cost of reproduction for women and RISK. Which is why they’re selective which men call “ hypergamous” . We want to make sure that the guy is going to stick around to be decent before we create a child with him. And that he’s good mating material to ensure our children are successful and succeed in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:38 PM
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Exactly this!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:36 PM
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They can’t. Hence the deflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:34 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:34 PM
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Agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:32 PM
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Not safe but safer than traditional sex work. Also he would get convicted of a crime so just the deterrence factor alone makes it less likely. Since there are witnesses around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:06 PM
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Yep, she does. Also can scream etc and there is immediate safety. And because it’s a place full of women and protection, violence tends not to occur. It’s the vulnerability of the victims that creates predators. There’s not vulnerability here as there is on one and one encounters in individual hotel rooms or on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:37 PM
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🤣😂🤦‍♀️👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:33 AM
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It’s all hypocrisy. Do as I say not as I do… rules for thee not me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:33 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:32 AM
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Nevada: Regular REQUIRED std testing Bouncers in brothels so women aren’t raped or killed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:02 PM
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You can’t compare same sex couples with their unique struggles to straight. If men didn’t exist women wouldn’t be raped or killed FULL STOP. Women do not rape or kill other women. We don’t start wars either. Very few men that aren’t caught up in drugs or the gang style end up getting killed. But almost every woman has experienced sexual harassment, if not sexual assault, and 20% of us have been raped or survived an attempted rape. Whereas 20% of men haven’t been killed or raped. Yes we have it h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:52 PM
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Agree to disagree. Had a friend who said take this time but I’m moving on and several months before he proposed as he knew she was serious. He regretted not doing it sooner. I think lots of people procrastinate if you let them. Thing is women DONT have the luxury of time if they want kids. He’s likely FOS and she’s wasting her youth.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/24 05:43 PM
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Nope because she actually WANTS this man whose giving lip service. She needs to be clear as he may just say go. Then she does not WASTE yet another year of fertility. Personally I’d leave now, as if he doesn’t know she’s not “ the one”.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/24 05:22 PM
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She can do both. If she doesn’t give him a timeline she’ll wait till the end of the year, and then he’ll say “no I’m almost ready” and ask for another year. She needs a finite date and time and while she’s waiting she needs to work on herself and ignore him.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/24 03:13 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:11 PM
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Murder is not more likely to happen to men by their intimate partners. My only point. As a former trauma nurse I’m well aware men murder each other as almost all gangbangs are male on male. Rain is wet too. 🤦‍♀️🙄🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:10 PM
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They absolutely know. Every man I’ve been in a serious relationship with has told me they want to and within a year or two proposed. I said yes twice never again. But this one want to as well. They will absolute nail it down with the right woman. I would be upfront say “I’ll give you the year and at the end of the year if you still don’t know I need to preserve my fertility. I will move on as while you don’t know if you want children I absolutely know I do. If we’re not on the same page I’m wast…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/24 11:57 PM
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Exactly. It’s projection…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:39 PM
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He doesn’t know as he’s clearly not thought this out very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:37 PM
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Definitely he’s just very low libido. He didn’t have sex with his ex for 13 years. Stopped when she got pregnant. Said she didn’t care for herself. I believed him because she didn’t. But I do so it’s more complicated than that. I think he saw her as not sexual after than Madonna/whore thing. And I think because he admires me so much he might think the same with me? I’m not sure. We’re in counseling about it ( finally) hope it helps. But honestly he’s so freaking great to me in every other way I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:56 PM
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I’m saying the fact that he can be I. The running for the second highest office in the land with ideas like that mean they are too mainstream. It should be UNTHINKABLE that a handmaids tale scenario is looming and yet primarily men are willing to elect men like this. Not all men but too damn many!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:15 PM
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Yes and put the edit. It’s up 56% not 56% of women are dying. And they already have abysmal mortality statistics in red states.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:13 PM
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Why should women have to be flown out to get care in Idaho? While they’re miscarrying away from their husbands in a complete panic. There were seven flights in one week. This is not rare despite what you think. And for the women affected it’s a big deal. They have a temporary reprieve there. Most women make it but so many of them are now forced to be on deaths door. To what end? Why should women sit in a parking lot bleeding out on the brink of death before they get care? Cruelty is the point no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:58 PM
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Did
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:41 PM
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No I’m suggesting that maternal mortality is at 56% over what it was previously. Meaning you’re FAR More likely to die from pregnancy now than before the abortion ban was enacted. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna171631 “From 2019 to 2022, the rate of maternal mortality cases in Texas rose by 56%, compared with just 11% nationwide during the same time period, according to an analysis by the Gender Equity Policy Institute. The nonprofit research group scoured publicly available reports from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:14 PM
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Nope Maternal mortality is at 56% in Texas, specifically because of and since the abortion ban. Several reasons: Women can’t get healthcare and are dying from miscarriages Doctors are fleeing the state because they have to choose between prison and letting someone die This is causing maternity care deserts So women with wanted pregnancy have to drive so far to have babies they die in the process of trying to get care. Abortion bans don’t save lives, they just switch who dies. Poor black and brow…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:06 PM
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If they did…actually fear it…they would wear condoms…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:03 PM
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He doesn’t talking shit is all…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:02 PM
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Yes you could exchange for “treat men like the misogynist, wife beating, rapists they are”…not helpful and a sign that person has been deeply hurt by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:50 PM
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Unless it’s just new and he’s not the best because he’s not yet learned what you like or find erotic. That’s a getting to know each other opportunity to learn. Now if we tell each other what our kinks and turn on’s are, and neither of us are willing to bend at all and give each other that, then it’s definitely a lack of effort thing. Both should move on at that point unless there are enough other redeeming things to make up for it. That’s my situation. Our sex is good, not mind blowing but good.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:26 PM
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Agree and I appreciate these men! Also men who defend women. When I was a young and very naïve nurse I had a particular trauma surgeon who would say disgusting sexual things to me. I literally didn’t know how to handle it. I didn’t wanna get in trouble at my job. I lived a very sheltered life and had never experienced that before. One day one of the other trauma surgeons overheard it and said “what did he just say to you”. I said “exactly what you think he said”. I saw him pull him aside to tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:59 AM
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Except even rapists don’t go to jail so general harassment…It’s impossible to be a woman and not be harassed. And many of us are sexually assaulted, raped, or beaten. It’s almost ubiquitous with femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:52 AM
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This makes me genuinely 🥲. If women would recognize the bad behavior of other women and call them out, and men would recognize the bad behavior of other men and call them out, society will change. But as long as we are applauded by our same sex peers for behavior that is important the behavior will continue. Women will have better opinions of men when rape, SA, sexual harassment, domestic violence, and general JD Vance like opinions are no longer main stream. Until then can you blame us?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:50 AM
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Sorry voice recognition not awful insightful. And I hadn’t considered a FWB. I wouldn’t want to live with a man again. I have a beautiful and full life. And I don’t want to cook for a man, clean, or alter my lifestyle tbh. We get each other but it was a lot of work to reform him lol. If something happened to him I’d want to live alone and just have a guy visit or visit him for intimacy and friendship. I’m not interested in serving men anymore and I don’t need them to care for or protect me now. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:27 AM
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You can’t get unemployment for refusing to work you can only get it for being fired. I don’t know what the worker protections are in Nevada but I’d like to see them nationwide until we do have a system where people don’t have to do sex work. If people are going to do it ( they are) I would like them to be as protected as possible. Women in sex work are raped and killed at alarming rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:08 PM
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Nope the Duluth model taught us about domestic violence and what women go through. The Duluth model was specifically applied to men when really it could be applied to anyone who uses power and control to abuse their partner. But it was the first model that pointed out how it happens, how to interdict, and gave resources to help women who were the main victims at that time. I’m a nurse, a trauma nurse at that, we get extensive training on domestic violence, the Duluth model, the wheel of power an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:02 PM
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Thank you for this awful response. I currently have a partner he’s 13 years older than me and I suspect I’ll be on my own in the next ten years with his health issues. I wondered if I could possibly go through a phase to also learn sexuality or if I’m just too old for that. I’m glad you got out of there too. And I’m glad you had a positive experience with your sexuality. I’m very sex positive I’m just shy, skittish, and inexperienced for an old lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:06 PM
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I agree, let’s make that happen. First lets get family paid leave, free childcare and universal healthcare. We must take money from the wealthiest and help the most destitute Because capitalism pushed to its extreme causes severe wealth inequality and it just plain doesn’t work anymore than pure communism does. Without regulation capitalism fails. Exploits workers for profit until they rebel (strike).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:48 PM
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I’m sorry your going through this. I’m blessed to have a pretty great support system it took years to cultivate. Church, book club, kids, friends from my former work, and a great partner. Can’t imagine getting through cancer without all that. Or any of the other stuff I’ve had to survive. Hang in there and look for sources of reliable support. We’re not meant or wired to do life alone. We don’t need someone of the opposite sex necessarily, but we do need people. Women are pretty amazing at suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:45 PM
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🙄So if you break her jaw you’re definitely going to jail this is better? What a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:10 PM
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But if it’s going to be done anyway, shouldn’t we keep the people who feel forced to do it as safe as possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:12 PM
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Before the Duluth model far more women were beaten and killed, and were killing men in self-defense and committing suicide. Female on male intimate partner murder female on male dropped dramatically after no fault divorce was instituted and the Duluth model with associated services for domestic violence became available to women. Women’s suicide rate also dropped. Nobody’s going to jail for calling the police cause someone won’t let them out of their house without touching a woman you’re delusio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:58 PM
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I consider sex work a choice whether OF, stripping, or escorting. And if people are going to do it ( they are) I prefer it regulated with some protections against disease and injury. It’s much safer to be a sex worker in NV than the rest of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:54 PM
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Agree on many fronts. Losing weight effort. Working out effort. Getting a degree which grants financial I dependence effort. Learning to be social…it’s much easier to blame others than effect the change necessary to ensure more success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:51 PM
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This I wholly agree with we do not have social safety nets and it puts people in some desperate situations. Also girls who were sexually abused are far more likely to go into sex work because they see their bodies as commodities and used anyway. Which is why I think we need better counseling and help for sexual assault victims. We do a terrible job of helping victims in the United States in general. And a god-awful job of prosecuting rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:10 PM
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🙄please I said it’s WORSE for men who are raped I have two male friends who were. I said the consequences should be as high or higher when it’s a female teacher assaulting a male student. Either you can’t read or you’re willingly obtuse because I’m pointing out that most of the violence is perpetrated by men especially when it comes to forcible rape. You don’t have to believe me believe the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:07 PM
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This is just silly. Why wouldn’t they called the police and say she won’t allow me to leave the home? No man needs to break a woman’s jaw to get out of the house this is a fallacy. He simply needs to push her aside or call the police. If she’s hit him have her arrested. If she’s barring him from leaving call the police so that they can escort him out. Violence isn’t the answer. If a woman hits a man she should be arrested too. There should be zero tolerance for domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:04 PM
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Without coercion sex work that’s chosen shouldn’t be shamed and sex workers should be protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:51 PM
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I hear you. Susie Favor Hamilton did it for fun. But many women do it out of desperation. If they’re going to do it I’d like them to be protected and safe. I’m not here to legislate how they use their body, I just don’t want them to get killed. It’s much safer to be doing that in Nevada than the rest of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:50 PM
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Where do you draw the line, is stripping not OK? Nude modeling? Modeling at all? Acting were you show skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:49 PM
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I love a happy ending especially this one as a fellow DV survivor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:49 PM
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Well bad men may be rare violence against women is not. A full 20% of us experience rape or attempted rape and a MUCH higher percentage experience sexual assault and sexual harassment. If it’s happening to that large of a portion of us, and the perpetrators are men, it would stand to reason that we would be afraid of men. No? Worse it’s completely normalized when we are willing to elect a person adjudicated of rape in a civil court of law who brags about grabbing women by the pussy as if that’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:41 PM
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Number 4 putting yourself out there Which is a challenge to those who are chronically online, or neuro divergent which tends to be a large portion of the male Reddit population on this particular sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:32 PM
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What does that mean? Are strippers not consenting? Or is it only sex work where you draw the line? What about nude modeling? When is it a commodity that’s wrong to sell?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:29 PM
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It’s true no one wants to be deceived or lied to. This is an obvious lie or cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:28 PM
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Nope it’s a profession like any other which deserves protection for workers and fair pay. I like Nevada With regulations, health checks, and mandatory STD testing. I absolutely think mentioned pay for sex rather than using women, lying and misleading them. That’s about being cheap. They want it for free and they lie to get it. To me that’s theft. And why I won’t have sex outside a monogamous committed relationship. Men aren’t patient enough to wait for me to be their cum dumpster. If they stick …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:27 PM
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Yep we don’t actually want it in real life that’s why it’s called a fantasy. But a powerful man taking us because they want us to love them, is erotic to many women and men. Fifty Shades of Grey same thing. It’s simply not safe to let those desires out in the wild they have to be left to movies and books. If you mess with that in real life you could get raped or killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:08 PM
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I’m surprised you are willing to read my drivel lol…but yea some of us are HIGHLY sexual though I’m an outlier among my friends. Even my friends who like sex a lot are content with three times a week. And many never want it at all. I would literally have sex every freaking day. 🤣 Maybe that’s because I haven’t had much in the last 10 years though. I might just be like someone who’s been fasting for a week wanting food. Hint most women like a little seduction if not playful (consensual) force. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:59 PM
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Men can get shelter. It’s just in hotels there aren’t enough men that need it to build shelters for them. And really it wasn’t shelters it was more the advent of no-fault divorce. They couldn’t leave their partners as they didn’t have the money to prove fault. Now that’s no longer an issue for either men or women. Unless JD Vance gets his way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:07 PM
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Agree but I kind of wish I could have promiscuous sex. I really enjoy sex and I wonder what it would be like to experiment with different partners. I only had one good lover after my husband. He taught me so much I wonder what it would be like to be with other experience men. I just am so shy I cannot get my clothes off with someone that I don’t love. Or that I don’t know that loves me and I feel safe with. So…I’ll live vicariously through you lol! I wish I could do that. I think it’s also being…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:05 PM
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When I never said my short son was ugly I said he was cute. He looks like Cameron Boyce rest in peace I thought Cameron Boyce was very cute. I said my middle son is conventionally model attractive and gets girls because of it. It’s a feature for women but stability matters more to women …evolutionary biology full stop. I don’t deny that initial attraction is purely physical but when you get to know woman all that goes out the door. We will absolutely go for the short, funny, talented, kind but n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:00 PM
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You don’t get arrested for leaving that’s ridiculous. And if she won’t let you leave call the police. Right she needed her jaw broken and wired as he couldn’t get past her without breaking her jaw. I think what you’re really trying to say she mouth off so she deserved it. Nope it doesn’t work that way. Words can’t be met with violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:40 PM
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The sex part yes I’ve tried. The weird thing is I’m a little kinky, which he absolutely goes berserk for. Nothing crazy but he likes being sexually dominant in bed and said his mind is blown and it’s the best sex he’s ever had…once we’re doing it…but getting him to want to. And I believe it’s good because while I haven’t been around the few partners/ husband I’ve had all say the same. I give head…and participate enthusiastically. 🤷‍♀️ Uuugghhh it’s such a struggle. And I’ll put on lingerie and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:06 PM
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Nope not true. 20% of women will suffer attempted or completed rape and far more experience SA and harassment. I have empathy for male victims of sexual harassment and rape too. It just isn’t as frequent. Rape in general needs to be prosecuted to the full extent of the law irrespective of the sex of the victim. Currently it’s not. I want female teachers prosecuted as vigorously as male teachers for taking advantage of students in their care. But I want ALL rapist and perpetrators of DV prosecute…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:52 PM
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1% of rapes are prosecuted resulting in a prison sentence. It’s many factors. Some women don’t report to police, they know they won’t have anything done about it anyway. Sometimes they report but there’s not enough for them to prosecute. Sometimes they prosecute but the juries let them off because rape doesn’t have witnesses. Plus they don’t even run the rape kits in some places. Rape and SA are not taken seriously Because it mostly happens to women and children and we are of less value to socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:34 PM
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Not dismissing but like the law quantifying. Should the law treat murder the same as assault? A slap like a broken bone? Anyone who assaults another should be arrested. But we do have to look at the severity of the injuries when we quantify violence. And men injure women in ways that they never recover from. One of the saddest is they shoot them In the temple blinding them but they live. 😢 Too often I tell ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:13 PM
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I don’t disagree with you at all. Everyone needs an escape plan. And not just from physical violence from emotional violence too. Domestic violence isn’t just about or even mostly about hitting it’s usually about power and control. There are many ways to accomplish this emotional abuse, financial power not giving access to resources, hitting, threatening suicide, all sorts of things. Domestic violence is corrosive, you’re absolutely right about that and my heart is broken for your brother. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:07 PM
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Women can murder too they just don’t regularly. Very few men are falsely accused. Only one percent of rapist go to jail. There are four more rapes than false accusations that’s just reality. I’m not saying this for sake stations aren’t harmful. But I’m saying they are nowhere near the trauma caused by an actual rape. 1/5 women are victims of attempted or completed rape. 20% of the male population is not falsely accused of rape. Women who falsely accused man should go to jail. But so should rapis…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:55 PM
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Haven’t voted Republican since Hillary. Probably never will again. Republicans used to be for fiscal conservatism. Until Trump blew up the deficit. They stand for nothing. And I have a problem with right wing men religious or not who say I have no value except my womb, my only use as a post menopausal woman is raising my grandchildren not the fact that I save lives for a living, and want to take away my right to vote yeah I’m damn pissed. I’m an RN seeing women With wanted pregnancies that they’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:45 PM
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If there’s no red mark on my face I would say there’s no proof he slapped me. If there’s a red mark on my face I’d expect him to be arrested. And if a woman leaves a red mark on a man’s face I would expect her to be arrested. But to say it’s the same as punching a woman in the face or breaking her jaw is ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:14 PM
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I’m sure they can but I think I would’ve seen it in 10 years and I never did. I’m sure it happens but not regularly. I know women can’t break a man’s job. A man can easily break a woman’s. Noses are pretty easy to break.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:13 PM
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Stats are 60% of men don’t think they get enough sex, but 40% of women think they don’t get enough sex. Men have higher sex drive but they are not the only ones in dead bedrooms. Source I am in a dead bedroom with a wonderful man and all other respects. He simply is very low libido and as he’s aged it’s more pronounced. There are so many great things I stay but the rejection especially considering I’m still a size 4, look ten years younger than I am, and have curves in all the right places is ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:18 PM
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Exactly my point. Because women’s drive is not sex they don’t consider looks as much as they consider other factors. It’s evolutionarily biology mate; it’s real and not changing anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:45 AM
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Yet women won’t fuck 20 year olds just for sex even though they have looks and stamina because men and women are different. All people care about looks. Pretty privilege is a thing for both men and women. But women who aren’t initially attracted to a man can absolutely be one over by his personality, or talent, or any number of things. A woman can be rich and talented but if she’s ugly she’s not getting a high-quality man. An ugly man with other attributes can (and regularly does see Leonardo De…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:30 AM
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Agree but one can try. Learning social skills is hard, working out is hard, losing weight is hard, getting a good education leading to stable employment is hard. But all reap untold rewards. Thing is humans seek pleasure and avoid pain so they don’t relish doing hard things, and avoidance of pain and sacrifice causes longer suffering. Yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:01 AM
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Agree there is more than looks but looks matter much more to men than women. It’s why older men go for women in their 20s but older women don’t necessarily go for guys in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:57 AM
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And men can become more outgoing and less shy. But do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:56 AM
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Yes but you still can’t overcome bad looks. They want more than looks but they absolutely want looks. No man is going to consider a 250 pound woman with other attributes. Without looks you can’t even get in the door. Men can with other attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:29 AM
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Being slapped is not the same as having your jaw broken nice try. If she had to have her arrested. But you equate the two is stupid. The law distinguishes degrees of injury. You don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:08 AM
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No one can force a man to have sex. They can jump on him that’s not OK they need to ask for consent but he can immediately push her off. The same isn’t true for women. “An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male.” https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,99%25%20of%20perpetrators%20are%20male. Why don’t you hear the equivalent number of women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:07 AM
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The thing is more than luxe matter for women. With men only looks matter. It’s that basic. An ugly short man can still get a woman if he’s funny, successful, or has other great attributes. It doesn’t matter how successful an ugly woman is she’s going to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:58 AM
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The point stands worldwide. Men have power women do not. Men oppress women are oppressed. Not all men but the oppression when it occurs is mostly male. That’s how it’s always been until we get more power that’s how it will always be. It’s especially severe in places like the Middle East for women. But even in the western world we are raped and beaten on the regular. By MEN. Bad men are oppressors as good men allow them to be. Hell Billy Bush thought that “grab them by the pussy” and get away wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:52 AM
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Men are killing themselves, other men, and women. That makes men the oppressors of society. A full 99% of rapists are men as well. Yes we all have difficulties but women’s troubles are most directly from MEN. And mens problems are most directly from men. All the gangbangers that I saw, men. Drug dealers; men. DV victims women. Assault victims were at the hands of other men. Men hurt men, men hurt women, men abuse substances and hurt themselves. The question is what are we doing about it? How are…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:40 AM
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Dude he’s looked in the mirror he’s a very cute kid but not Adonis. Thing is…women aren’t as looks oriented as men want to believe. He’s sweet, compassionate, did theater with a beautiful voice, and has a killer outgoing personality, plays several instruments. And the hair my goodness! He already got girls, no issue, but he’s going to have a really great paying job with which he can support a family but has ZERO expectation she stay home unless she wants to. So not asshole. The sky is the limit …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:34 AM
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What a joke. My oldest is Mensa bright ( literally) and full of compassion with the most beautiful head of hair ( my curls with his dads thick black hair) and has zero issues getting girls. I love all my children equally and differently. He and I have the most in-depth amazing conversations ever. We were on the phone for an hour today over politics, life and his need for me to evacuate in tampa bay .5 miles from the ocean; nice try though. Both of my sons want me to help raise their children som…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:58 AM
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Yes I did and women weren’t the cause. Most of the failed suicide attempt were from substance abuse. Some were veterans who had substance-abuse issues. Some just started using substances young. But universally they were generally drunk or high when they shot or hung themselves. There is such a stigma for men needing mental health care. Or expressing negative emotions. We need to do something about it. Men won’t take antidepressants, and they won’t go for counseling. And when they choose suicide …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:54 AM
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If a woman slaps man he can leave. If a man slaps woman she can be seriously injured and can’t leave unless he allows it. There is no comparison between the upper body strength of the two and men do more damage. If she hits more than once…you should have called the police and left. Standing there and letting someone pummel you is not cool. The difference is when a man is pummeling a woman she can’t leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:51 AM
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Sorry trauma ICU nurse first 10 years of my career floated to ER never saw a man with his jaw broken by a woman saw lots and lots of women with their jaws broken by men. And less frequently men with their jaws broken by other men. The physical disparity between men and women is significant; men can walk away women cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:18 AM
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Except they don’t 75% of people killed by intimate partners are women not men. So there’s that…Add that some of the men killed or killed by other men in homosexual relationships… So there’s that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:16 AM
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I live vicariously through them lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:40 AM
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But you condemn kink too. What if a woman in a monogamous relationship gets off by being dominated and spanked in bed? I do and I was a virgin when I married. And have never slept with a man after divorce I was not in a committed monogamous relationship with. And they were willing to wait when I said “ I’m slow, not promiscuous but if and when I feel safe this is what you can expect”…they went nuts and waited HAPPILY. Am I a slut for doing this with a man who enjoys getting me off this way and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:39 AM
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I think you’re cool! No one slut shames men. Have fun! I wish I could be less uptight…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:31 AM
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Same I WISH I could it looks fun! And I LOVE sex. But I’m too shy and need to feel loved to have sex. I secretly want to be them. Also they’re not taking anyone I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:29 AM
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Right 😂. There are fat girls on dating apps. Men don’t choose them, chubby maybe but not fat. Just like women will date short 5’7” but not shorter than that or shorter than them. But women are hypergamous and men aren’t lol. Everyone wants the best of what they’re able to pull. It’s just the calculus is different for women than men. Men are most impressed with looks women are most impressed with resources. It’s all really about evolutionarily biology and there is no changing it anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:25 AM
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Well you’re a hero to me especially as a male! We need more male teachers. My oldest boys high school teacher made such an impression on him. He didn’t just teach math he taught them investing, and common sense. I think of Mr. Kay often and wish we could clone him! Thank you for what you do sincerely! And damn that fish…I was wedged between boat sidewall and seat using all of my body weight to fight. The captain kept offering to help I was like “no freaking way I wanna say I did it all myself”. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:10 AM
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Right cuz neither has any talent…sure…😂🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤣 I think you meant Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:08 AM
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I agree many have a disarming nature. Me included. I’m not formidable physically but I can often talk people down from the ledge with empathy, compassion, and useful advice with associated resources. But I’ll never garner the respect that he is given automatically by entering a room. I have to earn it. And I also agree that wealth and attractiveness are surface but they are what get you in the door. Ugly or severely overweight women or men for that matter don’t get very far. And after my ex and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:42 PM
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AA the ratio of men to women is as skewed as dating apps. This explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:03 PM
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Seduction yes. Seductive women get men. And you don’t have to be promiscuous to be seductive…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:01 PM
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🤣 He doesn’t have to become physical because his size, presence and DIRECT nature are enough. No one fucks with him. If someone is rude to others he says “ what’s your problem?” And defends the vulnerable (me included with my abusive ex). He’s a REAL MAN not a chickenshit, not a beta ( though he loves to make me happy as I do him he ultimately wears the pants as I prefer it), but also not asshole bully for no reason. And the reason is he’s SECURE. He’s in top 7% for earnings, top 1% height, with…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:51 PM
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Saying that women are attorneys, doctors and successful is going crazy on people? Are you staying in Europe women are not doctors and lawyers? 🤣🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Or there are no successful females except in the US lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:38 PM
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The ones they can’t have trying to level up. They could have a woman but won’t date fat etc. but complain women won’t date short or broke guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:40 PM
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Lori Griener Sheryl Sandberg,Taylor Swift, Rihanna, J Lo, Are old? Find then there aren’t any young men that are rich either. For every Justin Bieber there’s a female star. Miley Cyrus etc. Men aren’t CEOs in their 20s either. And there are more female attorneys and physicians than males now entering medical school. They’re young what say you? Last they are all self made…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:36 PM
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Utter bullshit. My partner is an Ex hockey player, 6’2” linebacker body, who would beat the living shit out of anyone who hurt me. Have to restrain him. Yet insanely tender with me, my kids, the elderly or ANYONE vulnerable. He’s such a beautiful example of masculinity that’s not toxic but caring and protective. He’s kind to wait staff, but brutal and confrontational with those who are rude to them. I truly adore that man. Opposite of my ex who was alpha without tenderness. That’s not alpha that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:33 PM
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I absolutely read it it said there were a couple of dozen actresses that had money. Otherwise they were old women who got their money for men which is ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:04 PM
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There are no studies one way or the other about older women with means and what they seek. So your assertion that older women with means seek men with as much or more is equally not supported by evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:50 PM
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That’s what we’re here for us to each give her opinion. My opinion counts it’s only one but it does. My friends have different wants and needs, however none of them who have money seek a man with money. Enough to support himself the rest… And universally we age out of seeking strong but uncaring men. Kind and agreeable ( willing to compromise rather than selfish wanting their way with EVERYTHING) are top to all women who aren’t kids ( under 30).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:41 PM
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It’s not an exception. Women in midlife have completely different calculus than women who are of childbearing age. My friends are all my age. And the ones whose marriages didn’t work out or exactly like me. Of course they have means. If they were poor they would probably still be looking for a man with resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:36 PM
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This full stop, some men Want a nanny, waitress, maid, and whore not a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:31 PM
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My partner is bold and alpha, yet tender when needed. That you can’t be both is just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:29 PM
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A dozen women ever? Please… Actresses, musicians, CEOs like Cheryl Sandburg, entrepreneurs like Laurie Greener, Barbara Corcoran, there are more female attorneys and physicians than men. You’re clueless. Women are becoming more and more successful. We’re almost at 50% where women are in the same or equal to their partners in earning. Because we take time off for kids that’s difficult to achieve if we’re parents. You’re clueless…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:27 PM
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Young especially if they want kids true. It’s evolutionarily biology which is hardwired into women to look for protection and provision for their young. This assures their survival and the survival of their offspring. Midlife not true. I have accumulated enough I could leave, retire, and be ok. So…if anything happened to my partner I could care less a man’s socioeconomic status so long as he can pay his half of our activities. I’m never living with a man again so he’d be visiting me at my comfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:18 PM
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Unless they’re married in which case the money is 50-50 and if they divorce he gets half of what she made and they together accumulated. 🤷‍♀️ And if they had kids and she was breadwinner he gets child support. Alimony these days is rare in either direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:05 PM
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They want a man who can help provide and help them raise a family, hopefully that they’re sexually attracted to, who is also not an asshole. What’s hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:45 AM
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Not that I know of. I imagine there’s a word for it just because it happens so often to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:50 AM
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Exactly and to think that I haven’t worked really hard to LEARN how to give a KILLER blow job and make that makes me UNFORGETTABLE is stupid. Or the way I seduce him with the perfect lingerie and lace thigh highs with 5 inch heels. Unless she lays her with her legs open like a dead fish she’s contributing as well, kissing and touching. The penetrative part is male dominant and female receptive the rest is mutual. And if men want more sex they need to get better at helping women to achieve orgasm…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:03 PM
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I didn’t say they were equal I said both are referred to by derogatory terms. Black women have it the hardest. Calling women bitches and ho’s reduces use to a cum dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:59 PM
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Men killing women. AL is worst in the nation buts it’s a problem everywhere. https://www.alreporter.com/2024/10/01/opinion-alabamas-domestic-violence-crisis-a-deadly-reality-for-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:02 PM
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🙄
/r/EverydayMisandry02/10/24 06:41 PM
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It’s EXACTLY the same. Calling women bitches and ho’s reduces our humanity. It’s a derogatory term the way you used it to dehumanize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:18 PM
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And yet women who are victims of rape and incest can’t get abortions in some states so there’s that. And it mattered to 32,000 women pregnant from rape last year. Also maternal mortality is up 56% in TX since passage of the ban. OB/GYN’s are fleeing the state making it harder for women who want pregnancies to access care and they’re dying in childbirth. It’s a disaster. “national rape-related pregnancy rate is 5.0% per rape among victims of reproductive age (aged 12 to 45); among adult women an …
/r/EverydayMisandry02/10/24 01:57 PM
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And Black people call each other Nager’s but it’s not OK for a white person to call a black person a “n*gger”. And it’s not OK for a man to call a woman a bitch or a Cunt. It’s dehumanizing and demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:52 PM
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Rape isn’t a choice. Nor is incest.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/10/24 07:41 AM
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We could certainly get towards the goal by making birth control free, some of it over the counter, easily available. Also it doesn’t help that in Florida DeSantis will now teach abstinence only, not talk about birth control, and not even talk about consent. Apparently he thinks raping is OK.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/10/24 07:37 AM
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You do realize more men use drugs and alcohol in women right? You’re hilarious. And if you don’t know who the running mate for the person that you’re voting for boy that says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:01 AM
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Nope men are the ones who want to outlaw abortion. Women want abortions. It’s men making decisions for women. You can’t force women to kill themselves. We’re working full time men have to step up at home. Functionally men got away with domestic violence don’t even pretend they didn’t. This is why the violence against women act was necessary. If women weren’t being beaten and dying it wouldn’t have been necessary. Women absolutely did not get justice for marital rape. They had ZERO recourse. If t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:57 AM
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Domestic violence has a problem there and they really don’t address it adequately. It’s got the highest femcide rate in the country. They don’t prosecute the domestic violence so it leads to murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:07 AM
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The women who are not happier are the women who have been sold the bill of goods that they can have it all. They’re working full-time and taking care of kids full-time because husbands won’t step up yeah they’re pretty miserable and they’re leaving. Those of us who left these miserable lazy men are happy as a pig in shit! Hard while a single mom but easier than him and with them in college AMAZING life! I have a great career, money, and a supportive partner. Soooo much better than when I stayed …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:01 AM
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If we loved it so much why are we eschewing it now? Because we have the option. Women did NOT have it better when husbands were allowed to beat and rape us. In one state they can drug you and rape you legally still. We were not better off when we couldn’t get good jobs or equal pay forcing us to stay with abusive men. We were not better off before the violence against women act. The rate of women killing men went down dramatically when we had the ability to leave through no fault divorce and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:42 AM
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I wouldn’t of had to hit you if you will be made me kind of stuff. That’s exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:31 AM
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Women didn’t want to stay home. They didn’t wanna have babies. They didn’t have a choice. They couldn’t get a credit card. They couldn’t own home. They couldn’t open their own bank account. Now that we have choices we are working, outnumber men in medicine and law, are increasingly going into stem. In the words of Ruth Bader Ginsburg we simply needed men to “get off our necks”. And as we do we are forgoing marriage and when we partner choosing to be child free and focus on career more often now …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:26 AM
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His “ bitch” just wow. You are not part of “ not all men” you’re one of “ those men”, ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:21 AM
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Not in Alabama. Femcide is almost twice the national average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:20 AM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:42 AM
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They are here for certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:41 AM
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I’d add mens sex drive and need for women is the MAIN motivation for success and achievement. Without that done men would not work and live in filth as they are motivated to please women more than to please themselves. Sex strikes have literally ended wars. That’s how strong that drive is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:50 AM
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In male dominated fields it’s extremely common. Women who go into engineering often leave because of the rampant misogyny, sexual abuse, and the lack of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:38 AM
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Prejudice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:34 AM
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White men don’t experience this disadvantage hence why they are privileged. No one will refuse to vote for someone simply because they’re a man. The reverse is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:31 AM
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You both handled that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:51 AM
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Yeah just do it if you don’t trust her why hurt her it’s gratuitous cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:28 AM
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Go do it why tell her? That’s where the issue lies…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:40 PM
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No humans are wired via evolutionarily biology. Men want to impregnate as many women as possible, so their seed is passed on. Conversely women want to provide for the children they have so they pick the most STABLE man who will stick around to raise said kids and provide for them. We look for men who can protect and provide for our survival in the survival of our children. You can’t change evolutionary biology overnight. Call it hypergamy If you need to. Men choose the most beautiful woman they …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:26 PM
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Meh most people aren’t malevolent just misinformed. I learned so much about mental illness working as a trauma nurse for the first 10 years. We saw a lot of depression, with attempted suicide that were unsuccessful. Schizophrenics were voices told him to do certain things. Homeless victims of assaults who are mentally ill. And tons of substance-abuse and bipolar disorder. The men who were actively hallucinating could absolutely become quite violent. And look at all of the shootings. The mass sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:41 PM
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It’s a developmental disorder. A bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:37 PM
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Trauma nurse, can confirm that schizophrenia in men causes some really dangerous stuff. Far more than with women. Most of the time the mentally ill are the victims not the perpetrators but that is not always the case. And when they are perpetrators it’s generally men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:35 PM
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Exactly not a monolith. I’d add as had been discussed Your many times men don’t particularly care about a woman’s ability to earn money if they are themselves successful. Women almost always worry about a men’s ability to earn money if they want to have children as they will need help if not to be supported completely for a period of time due to pregnancy and childbirth. It is very difficult to raise a child on one income and if a man is mentally unstable it might be difficult for them to mainta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:32 PM
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Society would not collapse. We only need a few men and lots of women to repopulate the world. As far as physical tasks women aren’t strong enough to do…it will be replaced by robots. Until we have artificial room rooms women are necessary for survival of the species. So we’re men but we don’t need very many. When cloning is perfected we don’t need them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:13 PM
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If they are having unprotected sex they should. My point is how would men feel if she required him to get STD tested annually just to be safe in case he’s cheated to avoid infertility from an std?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:09 PM
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Nope, they are not. Only THEY get to be paranoid. I think more apt would be requiring him to get STD tested, you know trust but verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:52 PM
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Exactly there are tons of women with lazy shitty men and they give the a plethora of chances to get their shit together before giving up. This is such a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:48 AM
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Which state does not split joint assets?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:52 AM
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Correct but the renumeration is an equal split. They may decide what that equal looks like one keeping the house one buying the other half out. But the value is still split in someway. When You divorce things obtained during the course of the marriage are split equitably irrespective of incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:23 PM
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You see older men in movies all the time represented as the hot man. You never see older women represented this way. There’s a double standard men are allowed age women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:21 PM
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Asset split does not depend on who brought in more money. Asset split is straight down the middle. That’s what marriage is. The only thing that a substantially higher wage earner affects is whether or not you get alimony if you’re at home and even then it’s still temporary and rehabilitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:49 PM
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Not his money THEIR money. That’s what marriage is but they don’t get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:48 PM
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“Watch put for gold diggers while making $60,000 a year” is accurate and 😂!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:47 PM
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You mean force them as men to comply marry and give birth handmaids style? Yeah that cats out of the bag we have voting rights and we’re not going back. There aren’t enough misogynists to force us to either. I’d immolate myself before I’d bow to a man by force.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:03 AM
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Depends on family history but four main culprits: 1. Smoking 2. Alcohol ( some effects reversible with cessation some not) 3. Untreated HTN 4. Family hx of CAD, overweight and sedentary. Any of those will get you there having a couple of them will get you there faster. I always tell primary care docs when they diagnose hypertension not to tell them they’ll get heart disease if it’s not treated but tell them that it will break their cock. They’re far more compliant 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:02 PM
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I don’t need money so the calculus is different. Generous is irrelevant I can buy what I want. Established means nothing but intelligence and education do. I need him to keep up. When I was younger it mattered I wanted kids. Last in college I have enough to live modestly the rest of my life even if I stopped working. I want companionship, fun, travel and great sex. To have great sex equipment needs to work lol. AND he can’t be threatened by intelligence or independence which some Gen X and ESPEC…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:49 PM
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Their dick works. After 40 men who don’t take care of themselves have ED. They have their hair. They are generally less overweight. But I’ll take a fit men my age any day. Same music, same movies, same life experience if fit. Just most are not. I had a BF eight years older but he was a fit gym rat. If something happened to my partner I’d not exclude based on age more weight and fitness but that’s the appeal. I would not want anyone under 40. I’ve never had uncommitted sex. But I’m middle age if …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:15 PM
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They have that option women in Korea are. The problem is 1. Men are more driven for sex than most women and cannot give it up and will not pay for it. Men don’t have close intimate friendships so their “ intimacy” comes only from women. Without that emotional support they flounder. So as much as they are frustrated by women taking their time to try and find the ideal match (since we have such a high cost of procreation), they will still settle when the women are ready to settle if said women wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:40 PM
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Sure that’s what you want to think. Because that’s how you tell women they are worthless. If men want kids by 40 they generally have them. That’s when men care most about this is to start a family. If not an older, bold, beautiful woman with no responsibilities who’s financially stable and good in bed is VERY appealing to a subset of men. You need nothing from them but fun, companionship and great sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:48 AM
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I asked how we do? Do we trash mens bad behavior yes, but you’re saying we met trash men specifically for aging? Tell them past 30 no one will want them and they are washed up? You’ll have to give me an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:33 AM
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Yes thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:05 PM
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Yep. Men age = good. Women age = no one will want her. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:51 PM
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T
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:38 PM
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Women who are raped or murdered in honor killings. Imagine voluntary sex. You can’t be this obtuse is to think that women are punished for premarital sex in the Middle East. Adultery can get you stoned to death. Women are killed for not covering their head properly. Imagine sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:38 PM
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Hedonists only care about themselves not society. That’s kind of the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:36 PM
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Don’t disagree. I could not date someone my sons age. But ten year younger for sure I would. Also what would we talk about? Men only want these girls for sex so conversation is unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:10 PM
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Of course! But a millennial is not the age of my Gen Z son. 🤷‍♀️ I would go ten years younger for sure! Men my age are overweight, not as active as I am and can’t keep up. They also tend to start having erectile dysfunction if they’ve abused alcohol, are sedentary, or don’t manage their blood pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:06 PM
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I’m gen X millennials do not look like kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:59 PM
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Gives me money? No I trash bad men and praise good men. My ex-husband abused me terribly, the good men that I worked with protected Me. They kept him from coming into the unit where I worked as we both worked at the same place after the restraining order. They made sure I was OK. They made life very difficult for him until he quit. GOOD men! Also after the divorce the parent facilitator and GAL were men. When he broke the rules they would go to the judge and protect us. My partner loves and prot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:01 PM
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Exactly it’s not a gendered thing young is beautiful not just to men. Of course they wanna convince themselves that their aging doesn’t matter that only women have an expiration date. The middle age men you see with young girls are rich ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:18 AM
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That’s the issue most men DONT really want to hence why we have so many more single mothers than single fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:47 PM
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Daycares don’t ask you things like that what do you mean? Nor would a babysitter ask is this your kid…huh? They care that they get paid. If the kid behaves well they’ll keep coming back I don’t get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:45 PM
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Not hard to foster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:42 PM
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Foster! It’s free and they need you more. 🥲 I hope you do!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:41 PM
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Not true at all. We don’t want to have a relationship with them but to say we wouldn’t prefer our partner to look like them is insane. If you show me a picture of a young Benjamin Bratt versus current age I’m going to take the young one even though he still hot as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:37 PM
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Depends on how much younger. I’d take a man ten years younger with a fully functioning dick ( I’m Gen X) any day. If something happened to my partner I’d for sure go younger next.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:35 PM
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Nope not in FL. Even if you’re proof not to be the father if you were married at the time of birth your child support. I can’t speak to other states.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:54 PM
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10 wife 20 fun. I’ve had both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:54 PM
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We trash douche bag behavior not men. Unfortunately more men beat, rape, kill, sexually abuse, and have anger issues so there’s more danger and more to complain about in terms of our well being if not survival. THOSE men who do THOSE things are bad. Not all men but reality with 1/3 women physically or sexually assaulted in our lifetime it happens to us far to often, sadly. Good men saved me from bad men. I don’t hate men but I do hate bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:29 PM
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We are more attracted to younger men too. But we don’t trash men our age. I agree though I have men 20 years younger to my age and older flirt. They still flirt if you have a great body and pretty face. This women expire stuff is BS Meant to shame young women into settling for these guys. Don’t believe it girls!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:44 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:36 PM
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And that’s their right. Find a girl who doesn’t mind it. It’s the equivalent of women who are annoyed by being sports widows. I can’t IMAGINE if you wanted kids where you’d find that kind of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:33 AM
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If you’re married you’re assumed to be the father even if you’re not. And you’re due child support even if you’re not the father. So I suppose if you’re not married but if you are, you are gonna get stuck with child support either way. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:10 AM
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That’s up to the man. You can swab your kids cheek whenever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:42 AM
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Almost no women have a secret bank account. And it doesn’t have to be mandated by law you can go swab your kids cheek with local CVS test. So what is the issue? I’m so sick of hearing this if you want to test your kid do it! Just don’t accuse a woman of being a cheater. Do it on the down low. 🤷‍♀️🙄🤦‍♀️ It’s a non issue!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:37 PM
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I’m sorry jumping off the skyway with a bungee cord is immature. There’s no two ways about it you can justify it anyway you like. Risking your life for a stupid trick to show off is immature. The proof being that of all those men most of them were young men; they grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:05 PM
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Making decisions that are healthy and will further your life not kill you. That would be a start. As a trauma nurse for the first 10 years of my career 80% of the ICU was young men doing stupid shit. That is not maturity. Drunk driving, drunk boating, drunk jet skis, fights, gang banging, jumping off the skyway bridge with a bungee cord that breaks etc. etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:56 PM
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What does “Weaponized in our vulnerability” mean in practical terms? Can you give me an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:31 PM
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This…this is why not ALL men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:11 PM
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No accountants, any kind of IT job, Engineers, lawyers, finance, and IT doesn’t need to be a specialty doctor. Even family practice doctors make enough to raise a family on. My partner is a CFP and could very comfortably provide for us without my income. I like my work. But it’s nice knowing I don’t have to and he’s got my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:01 AM
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I’m glad it worked out for you for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:00 AM
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Disagree. Women even those who work look for high achieving or high earning men if they wish to stay home with children. This may be more important than looks. A stable secure income on which to raise a family matters a great deal to some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:15 AM
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They are the first thing noticed but no Security trumps looks for many women not all. Particularly if we want children. A stable job a good career the ability to support a family is every bit as important to many women as what you look like. Adding a great personality, mutual hobbies, mutual values there is a lid for every pot. No it isn’t so easy finding a partner but they were are there and no looks is not everything. But you’ll never get better socially or meet anyone sitting at home that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:55 AM
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No women is going around thinking they’re perfect 10. We’re so insecure it’s ridiculous. In terms of looks or overall attractiveness (My Brain, and sweetness are always a draw) the way we rate ourselves is based on the guys that we are able to get to want a relationship with us. Dated a 10 guy, funny, witty, nice, doctor. OMG Patrick Dempsey hair. Benjamin Bratt look. I couldn’t do it it made me too insecure. I thought the million nurses going after him and he would end up cheating. I just could…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:20 AM
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Look and money aren’t the only thing. It’s not that they’re not important it’s that they’re not the only thing. So when you have other things going for you and you don’t have perfect looks or as much money then you meet the woman’s bar. I know you know what they’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:12 AM
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I’m so happy for you too. But I would never want to just hope to be fortunate I plan. To take care of myself and never need anyone. If they’re around that’s just a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:59 PM
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I think they’re low effort if the guy suggest them. But if it’s my suggestion he offered me a nice dinner I don’t know that it’s low effort. And now I would never hurt someone’s feelings by just getting up and walking out that’s rude I would suffer through the dinner. Some thing I’m not app to do it my age. Maybe in my 20s, Even my 30s not now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:04 PM
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No I don’t have that kind of time to waste. I have would be dating to find something permanent. I’d rather be home with a sandwich I made watching reality TV than to be with an obnoxious or boring date. I have gone on some dinner dates but we’ve talked quite a lot first. And I thought it was something that would lead somewhere. I always offer to pay not one man in my entire life is ever let me. Except for coffee. I think they get why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:36 PM
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It’s just me I don’t want them to have anything to complain about. And I don’t wanna be there very long either I know pretty quickly if it’s gonna work or not. Why anybody would want to sit through a whole dinner with someone that turns out is like super annoying, or some crazy orange Jesus worshiper is beyond me. If it goes great you can always sit and talk longer over coffee or make another date. But you’re not stuck and neither party is out much money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:21 PM
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Could not agree more!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:13 PM
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OK never trust a partner. If I was a lesbian I still wouldn’t trust her. I only trust myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:02 PM
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Sometimes but there is absolutely no doubt that women have a college education before having children have lifelong wealth that women who do not do not. I would never trust a man for my financial security ever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:52 PM
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Exactly these jobs are high-paying. So how is that oppression? You have the ability to do a high paid job with a high school education; that’s an ability women don’t have so don’t bitch about it. If you don’t want to simply don’t do it. Like we are choosing not to be mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:48 PM
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I’m so sorry you went through this. Women are often blown off I say that as a nurse. It’s only when the husbands get involved in anything gets done. I’m so glad you have your son but I truly understand where you’re coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:47 PM
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Unless you’re a woman who wants financial security. Otherwise later is better. I have no idea what I would’ve done with my husband abused me had I not already had an education and a career to fall back on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:42 PM
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Thank you you’re very kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:18 PM
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Men are free to opt out of dangerous jobs and get an education and women are able to opt out of child bearing. Suffering is optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:16 PM
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Agree the difference is I won’t give a fuck. But if he pays I might feel bad. I want to eliminate that from the calculus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:12 PM
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I am incredibly happy. I have complex PTSD but I work around it. It made me who I am. I help people with similar issues as people helped me; no regrets. And thank you for your kind words.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:07 PM
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It isn’t he’s trying to shame them for being selfish when men are also selfish. Everyone is. Women are supposed to sacrifice men don’t have to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:03 PM
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It seems like to men today women or just sex slot machines. Who wants to have a kid with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:02 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story and I’m sorry you went through all that. I also had a wicked postpartum depression. Ended up hospitalized and I had my brain electrocuted. I love my children but I wanted them with everything in me. If you didn’t I can’t even imagine doing it. I got a third-degree tear giving birth. I threw up for the first three months. It was not fun
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:56 PM
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I wish I could’ve bought this 1000 times! I’m so glad you got a good husband they’re so rare!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:53 PM
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Right except you don’t know what you’re gonna be the smooth pregnancy or have the complications and some women don’t wanna take that risk. If you had a bowl full of M&Ms and one of them had cyanide would you want to eat those M&Ms? Even though the majority the M&Ms are perfectly safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:49 PM
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I had a third-° tear when I gave birth to this day is still painful. The bottom half of my vagina when I have sex feels like it’s tearing. I still enjoy sex but less than before I had children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:47 PM
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Men can!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:44 PM
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It should be for men but it’s not. All of the data even women who are the primary breadwinners and work more hours. The women do the majority of the child care in the home responsibilities. To have a demanding career and raise a child with very little help is insane. Yet… I wish men would make the child their priority and be an equal helper outside of work but they’re not generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:42 PM
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Notice JD Vance says nothing about childless MEN it’s childless cat LADIES.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:34 PM
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Detailed and accurate answer. When our only choice was to be married and stay home, children gave us a lot of fulfillment. But now we get that fulfillment from our careers, our interests and hobbies, and we don’t need the financial support of men so we have the option to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:34 PM
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Not really if you wanna do that go ahead just don’t hurt her with it. If it makes you feel better I wouldn’t care if he did it I just wouldn’t want to know about it. Telling me it’s almost like taunting me and accusing me to what end? If he did we’d be done. He can get it and have 50/50 custody . 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:56 PM
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Thanks one day at a time!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:31 PM
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I disagree. So does Maslow, medicine and science. Love, companionship, sex, food are needs. We will agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:54 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:40 PM
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I definitely wouldn’t want to know. I definitely definitely would not want to know that he thought I was capable of that. That would rip me to shreds honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:39 PM
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Yes there’s a reason why we left. Unequal distribution of labor is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:39 PM
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As a woman who was raped you don’t know what this means to me. 😢Same with my Gen Z sons no tolerance for rape jokes. I’ve been horribly abused by men. But it was also good men who saved me. The doctors I worked with protected me. They actually said if admin let my ex-husband into the unit he had no business being in (he’s not a surgeon and had no patients there) they would have an issue. They were not enforcing the restraining order. My begging meant nothing I’m just a nurse. 🥲 Theirs ended it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:42 PM
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Apologies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:17 PM
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Honestly I don’t care what gay men do because they both want the same thing. My issue is women don’t generally want that and they feel pressure to do it otherwise they’ll never have a man. Men don’t realize that this pressure ultimately leads to all the friction between the sexes. As a pump and dumped women are more reluctant to trust men… rinse and repeat. Then man bear…This is what happens when people use each other instead of caring about each other. There is resentment all the way around. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:16 PM
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I think hook up culture isn’t just poison for women I think it’s poison for male female relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:53 PM
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Why does she need to feign innocence? Because if she’s honest in you’re red pill she’ll be Judged mercilessly for the very thing that you do, and want to do as much as possible, and want her to do before she even knows you. Hook up culture is a scourge to women overall. The calculus for sex versus a relationship is quite different. There is zero chance we want to procreate with an asshole. If we think you’re a possible procreation partner we want to make sure that we don’t get attached, pumped a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:43 PM
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Sex as a human need. In fact on Maslow‘s hierarchy of human needs sex is with food. You may not need or enjoy sex. I like committed monogamous sex. But there are people who absolutely just love sex for sex sake and there’s nothing wrong with that. Anymore than there’s something wrong with drinking water. It’s a human need.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:36 PM
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Who are you to judge was healthy? Some people just want to have sex to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:05 PM
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Wrong I clearly said it’s transactional and healthy as long as they are clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:36 PM
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My husband is as alpha as they come. Sports writer before you went into financial services an ex-hockey player. You can take your assumptions and shove them up your ass. He would never disrespect me the way you disrespect your wife though. He loves me if not adores me. He cares about my happiness as much as I care about his. He BOTH ascribe to happy partner happy life and seek ways to care for and meet each other’s needs. My ex was like you thank God he’s an ex. Nope misogynistic men are a no go…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:30 PM
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No many women do. I LOVE SEX. But many women also are looking for safe committed sex. I could never get my clothes off with someone I didn’t know extremely well I’m very shy. Once I know someone long enough to be ready for intimacy I’m a freak…but it takes me a minute to get there and I know I’m not the only one. And if they can’t have safe committed sex they’d rather have a friend with benefits than fuck a bunch of different guys. Who may or may not rape them or hurt them does that make any sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:27 PM
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You’re disparaging me for fucking him because he was an asshole. I’m just saying no regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:12 PM
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I’m high libido. Just cause I hated him didn’t mean I didn’t like sex. It was the only good thing I got from him in addition to my children who are amazing.😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:10 PM
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If they’re in marriage counseling there’s probably a problem to begin with. There are plenty of couples that have good sex lives. I do think sometimes different drives are a problem and it’s a tendency of women to have lower drives than men particularly with young children. In my situation I am high libido and he’s practically asexual. It’s super super frustrating. And I feel like I’m totally wasted. I’m slightly kinky, love sex, would do it a few times a day, and I have to pick the one man in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:08 PM
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I can’t believe a woman will put up with you. God love her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:05 PM
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Not if she offers or insists. I NEVER let a man pay on a first date I don’t want to owe him. I do appreciate that he wants to though. I especially wouldn’t want it if we had similar incomes. Or I was making more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:05 PM
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I’m glad to hear overall it helped!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:59 PM
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My ex husband. We sometimes fucked three times a day and I have mad oral skills. He was awful and I left but it wasn’t due to bad sex… Married men have more sex than single men by the way. Cohabiting have the most. “According to the General Social Survey, 52 percent of cohabiting young men (aged 20-39) have sex at least twice a week, compared to 42 percent of married men. Single men have the least sex, with only 37 percent of single males in their twenties and thirties having twice-weekly sex.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:46 PM
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Yes you said she ignored you after and it hurt you. Or something to that effect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:40 PM
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I do think women feel pressured into sex and do it. I don’t think that they are enjoying casual sex they’re hoping for a relationship. Some women are highly promiscuous but it’s not common. As they get older they tend to get smarter and stop allowing themselves to be used as a cum dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:39 PM
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Zero chance I’d be with a man who implied I cheated but you do you boo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:38 PM
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No one’s telling you not to they’re just saying don’t humiliate the woman in the process why would you tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:48 AM
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Many women aren’t why do you think we’re not replacing ourselves and in population decline. We have stepped into the workforce men have not equally taken on the child rearing. Even when the women are majority breadwinners they still do more of the child care, teachers conferences, doctors visits etc. Why? No idea but it’s a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:21 AM
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Almost half of adults 18 to 49 are childless by choice and intend to remain that way. Because it’s so much work on top of our full time jobs too much. Course JD Vance would fix that with the handmaid’s tale scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:19 AM
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Correct. And it’s not the stay at home moms that are griping it’s the women who work full-time and still do everything at home with her husband sits on the phone. What stay at home mother’s gripe about is they never ever get a moment to themselves. Shoot I couldn’t even grocery shop and get my haircut. When I got divorced I got every other weekend off!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:18 AM
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If you told her upfront fine but if you haven’t it’s an intimation that she’s cheating. There is no other way to take it so just hide it and check if that’s what you need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:09 AM
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I’m sorry she hurt you. And I think she did find you attractive or she would not have fucked you. A pretty thin woman like that can pull very hot men for NSA sex. I’m glad you found love!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:28 AM
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Wasn’t enjoying sex good for you especially if you hadn’t had a lot of experience? What did you think you would have in common? I’m sorry she hurt you I’m trying to understand what you expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:10 AM
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Thank you for this…we can’t win. They literally say if a woman doesn’t sleep with them by the third date he’d dump her but then he judges her for high body count… how does that even work?🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:09 AM
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Honestly despite what red pill theory teaches you they are rare. There are women who really enjoy sex without any issue over commitment. And more power to them! Men do it every day they shouldn’t be judged for it. But evolutionarily biology dictates that most the time we want security. And love. Connection and a partner we can trust to be there for us in the event any offspring result from our union.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:02 AM
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Unfortunately with hookup culture some young women think if they don’t jump into bed they will have no chance with men. They pretty much demand sex by the third date. If so I’d remain single. Nobody gets to use my body unless I know that they care about me and aren’t just pumping and dumping me. I understand why young women do it and we have to stop. That’s the only way hookup culture changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:59 AM
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Can’t disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:17 AM
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How old were you? How old was she? Did you know it was just sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:19 AM
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Disagree as he’s using her for sexual experience and she’s looking for NSA too. I think it can be very healthy as long as he knows it is what it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:18 AM
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Amen!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:16 AM
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Would you say men like to be needed? I know my partner does not for income but I was abused and he protected me. But same idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:15 AM
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As long as you don’t tell I see no problem with reassuring yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:31 AM
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How is this responsive to my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:31 AM
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My point. Why hurt her when you don’t have to? It’s gratuitous pain that she didn’t deserve unless she cheated right? If you’re not the father there’s a discussion to be had if you are you hurt her And insinuated she cheated and did not trust her for no good reason. What is to be gainedfrom that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:12 AM
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Yeah they’re not gonna be patient enough to wait until they have a commitment relationship and connection for sex. You’ll weed them out whether they lie or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:10 AM
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I think not if it’s negative is what you meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:10 AM
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Agree…if it’s known upfront it’s clear it’s his insecurity not an accusation!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:49 AM
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I agree with one thing… If you’re paranoid… And you don’t accuse her… No harm done. I agree with nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:47 AM
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Fine that’s not the issue OP suggested… The question is do you tell her? What say you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:45 AM
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Again fine test… The question wasn’t whether or not to test it should you tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:45 AM
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Again that’s not the discussion the discussion is whether or not you should tell her… What say you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:44 AM
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That wasn’t the question the question was should you tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:44 AM
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Exactly why? You’re accusing her of cheating when it might not be warranted what’s the point unless it actually was warranted? Just to hurt her? Why in gods name would you tell her? It hurts you and risks the relationship I just don’t get it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:43 AM
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I don’t agree at all I say no sex before monogamy. That weeds out the players.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:38 AM
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Nope they date based on apps and a feeling of compatibility, he leads her to believe there is something there for access to free sex. Once he pumps her he dumps her. Women who enjoy the sex for sex sake and don’t care about commitment should do what they want, just as men do, with ZERO shame! But women who wanna commitment, a relationship snd kids, should absolutely ESCHEW ANY sort of sex before monogamy. There’s zero chance I would do that and I’ve never been used. I’m incredibly upfront about …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:38 AM
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Being used as in being misled. He pretended he wanted a long-term relationship and then pumped and dumped her what is confusing about that? She had sex to secure commitment, because she liked him and though they HAD A FUTURE; he misled her or lied. She ended up an unpaid Hooker ANY WAY you slice it. The equivalent would be a man used for a free dinner… Except the consequences are deeper… Because men will forever judge her for her “body count”. I SWEAR When will women learn to stop having casual …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:21 AM
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Agree completely!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:17 AM
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No sex before monogamy.PERIOD full stop!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:15 AM
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No one wants to be lied to and used. Women need emotional connection for sex often. When men lie to us and intimate that they’re interested in a long-term relationship just to get access to our bodies we feel like hookers that are unpaid. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:14 AM
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As someone who went to therapy and stoped the cycle I would say that it’s not conscious, and you’re repeating patterns more than seeking it out. For me I was abused in childhood and didn’t know how to protect myself in adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:11 AM
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Don’t disagree they will get the best woman they can versus being alone. Because of the high cost of reproduction women prefer alone to settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:45 AM
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I never wanted more than a coffee date two fold I didn’t want to Owe anything, and I don’t wanna get stuck there if it sucked…cheap and fast! It’s the ascertain connection. There’s no amount of money you could pay me to be on a shitty date for a meal. I can pay for my own meal as most women these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:40 AM
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👏
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:39 AM
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Don’t disagree for sex. For mating I do. People equal up appropriately in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:30 AM
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Not so sure based on this sub Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:23 AM
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I’ve met many unicorns. You’d call them benevolent sexists I call them caring protective alpha men. And I’ve knows BUNCH!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:29 PM
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Was a ridiculous offensive comment. Don’t know why they said that stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:09 PM
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That’s sweet. I like this very much! 🥲Honestly made my day!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:08 PM
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This!!! Stop bitching and do it. It’s a free country, No one is forcing you to be led around by your dick… That’s a man’s choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:32 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:30 PM
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I don’t know much about him other than what my friend shared. Thank you for the enlightenment. Drug addict not surprising yet he had all the answers? 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:28 PM
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I don’t know that much about him. What would you say is changed in the last five years? Other than him becoming a fame whore? He’s a misogynist I hate that. But less toxic than other redpill influencers…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:25 PM
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Rich no but not mcDonalds poor. She’ll wait for a plumber, electrician, mechanic etc. Where the wages together equal a living wage. No woman who wants children will be with someone destitute unless they have no other choice. And since many men don’t care how much money we make if she’s pretty she’ll have lots of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:22 PM
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No stay on it will show up frequently in various forms…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:19 PM
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Because if she wants to have children they will always struggle. It’s really that basic. If she doesn’t want kids she’ll absolutely go for that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:15 PM
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Ah thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:44 PM
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Have you even read this sub Reddit? They advocate lying to women pumping and dumping them for their own good. And they’re always red pill member advocate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:41 PM
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If you were actually saying this this is completely disingenuous. He trafficked women. Seriously…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:24 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:16 PM
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Nothing more to say it’s a airing of grievance similar to men saying marriage is a raw deal and they will never do it…or women are hypergamous…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:15 PM
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Perhaps but that’s not the point. The point is you think that women like to be abused and I’m telling you abused women leave men. 🤷‍♀️ That’s a fact! Not in the anecdotal opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:14 PM
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Yes he enforce his gender stereotypes but what he doesn’t say is to treat that woman like shit and shit like you more. Like 🙄🤦‍♀️😂 Andrew Tate…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:05 PM
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What would you consider her end of the bargain? That isn’t being held up? Genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:05 PM
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Because some weird women are chasing notoriously famous men does not mean that women in general do not want partners who are kind of them. You’re delulu if you think we WANT to be treated poorly. The objective evidence of this is that 70% of divorce filers are women. Women who are treated poorly leave their partners. If we want it why aren’t we happy to be treated like shit and stay? These are actual statistics not antidotal some woman loves a serial killer stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:04 PM
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Yes but he doesn’t suggest you need to use women and be asshole. Thus helping not ruining society. And whether or not he should’ve done this he didn’t until Peterson inspired him. So I love Jordan Peterson for that even though I have no idea everything he teaches. He’s got a slightly less toxic version of red pill. More decent towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:50 PM
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I’m sure this is true. By the way I think men are naturally inclined to be protective. Even my exes one of who committed DV Was protective if somebody besides him hurt me. Women and children first instinct Is part of evolutionary biology. Because women take nine months to gestate and can only have one child a year they are more important in terms of propagating the species in men. One man can impregnate hundreds of women. I think there’s a biological basis for men’s protectiveness of the more vu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:19 PM
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Can you clarify I kinda get what you’re saying last sentence confusing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:56 PM
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Really cause my best guy friend said he changed his life. I don’t agree with everything Peterson says he can be a region misogynist. But when he stop feeling sorry for himself, went to the gym, and went back to college ( after army on GI bill) , his entire life changed. His acne didn’t matter anymore. The fact that he was slightly socially inept didn’t matter anymore.Because he had grown in confidence, he was willing to approach, and he had a career. Just sayin you might Not wanna hear it becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:44 PM
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Not perform? What do you consider performance? By all means if you just want someone to perform for you stay by yourself we don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:42 PM
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Says who they’re not value to men? The red pill grifters cause I don’t know woman on the planet who wants a douche bag man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:41 PM
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Says who? Red pill experts who are grifting off your misery? Women don’t want nasty men both people want agreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:41 PM
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You don’t have to be unkind to put yourself first. You just sit down and say these are my needs and you both negotiate. Yes if someone won’t meet your needs male or female you should be willing to leave. But you don’t have to be nasty you just need to communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:40 PM
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Yep. Trauma surgeon I worked with, kind, prayed with families. Yet ex military masculine. Women want BOTH. Strong when you need to be tender when you need to be
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:34 PM
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Yes this exactly! NO WOMAN would want a redpill man. Hatred and misogyny is NOT alluring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:22 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:34 PM
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😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:28 PM
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Correct and if a guy is going to college he can definitely get girls. If he’s just graduated and he is becoming successful he can definitely get girls. But If he’s got a high school education and is working a dead end job different story. That’s not he has to work his way up, it’s that’s his content to live in squalor: there’s a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:27 PM
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🙄 yeah we rip up our family and security on a whim. Be well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:20 AM
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What’s that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:19 AM
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TFR?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:18 AM
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You’re so stupid no woman leaves because she’s bored. It’s financially devastating, rips her family apart, rips her apart, nobody does that. Major reasons we leave: CHEATING DRUG and ALCOHOL abuse Money ( unstable employment usually related to above) Unequal distribution of home chores and child rearing Abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:04 PM
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I’m talking about the population that’s still of childbearing age. If you’re talking about the over 50 group of course everyone had kids back then. These are actual people living out what they say; they don’t want kids and they don’t have them. As far as the difference in marriage nothing if you’re not gonna have kids who gives a fuck? But if you’re gonna have kids zero chance without being married. You’re already left in a lurch as a woman you’d be completely unprotected without the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:29 PM
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I don’t go to TikTok I don’t need China having my personal information and TikTok is not real life. Dumb kids creating Contant for money is not the female population writ large. On here there’s tons of men bitching and moaning (especially on this sub). I hear very few women doing that. Some complain about pump and dump and that men won’t commit that’s about all I hear from women on here. Men: were raped as often as women Hypergamy She won’t pay half They only date chads They won’t give short guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:54 PM
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That too. Men don’t commit these days. But also fewer people want kids: “A 2021 survey found that the number of non-parents aged 18 to 49 who said they were not too likely or not at all likely to have children was 44%, up seven points compared to 2018. Among these people, 56% said they simply did not want to have children.” https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voluntary_childlessness#:~:text=A%202021%20survey%20found%20that,not%20want%20to%20have%20children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:53 PM
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I was one have three kids. But OP was suggesting we’d be left for younger women. So why would we do this if men are that shitty. Also he in NO WAY helped. He wouldn’t even watch them for me to grocery shop in peace or get my hair cut. Swapped kids with a friend for this.🤦‍♀️🙄He’s the one who pushed hard. Yet once they arrived…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:51 PM
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What story? I’m responding to OP. In my marriage my husband paid the mortgage as he was a physician. I stayed home a year with each to breastfeed then worked part time. He didn’t want me to work at all was a BIG Part of our break up. He lost his mind when I “defied” him to go back to work. Had to work to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:18 PM
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Agree. We should have a key for both sexes in the areas were each continues to be oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:39 AM
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Because they didn’t have a choice. Now that they do only about half of us want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:37 AM
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I don’t know what a woman did to you to make you so bitter but I hope someday you end up in incel exit, Be well!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:29 PM
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Hello reality Evolutionary biology men want to spread their seed with as many women as possible to give the best chance of progeny. Due to the high cost of reproduction and the inability to care for ourselves potentially if we’re on bedrest etc. we seek someone who can provide for us during vulnerable times. Or if the wage earner someone who will stay home to take care of the children. Men want beauty first women security and provision so that their progeny live to adulthood. It’s really that si…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:05 PM
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If a man wants a baby how is he gonna get it? Go pay for a surrogate? So YES we’re having their babies because were the ones housing the baby, vomiting, risking our lives, ruining our bodies, going through the labor and pushing the baby out, breast-feeding and raising the baby. So yes we are having the babies for the men of it was a planned pregnancy, I wish I could have my husband have the baby for me that’s not a biological possibility. Edit: Housing the baby in our body for nine months.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:00 PM
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That’s a cop out that these men want to give they know it’s bullshit. I was a registered nurse. I had done trauma, pediatric open-heart and owned two homes on a nurses salary. I had ALL the assets. I even put him through part residency. He had nothing but a good education and debt. This men are saviors and women use them narrative is such a fucking utter complete bullshit. 😂🤦‍♀️🙄🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:57 PM
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Please grow up. The poster said we’re disposable then why are men complaining that we don’t want them in the first place if we’re so easily disposed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:54 PM
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For pointing out no one wants that? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:52 PM
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Because if he answer me what you actually asked he would have to admit that sexism and misogyny still exist. That men are encouraged to do the same things that women are judged for in myriad circumstances. Whether it’s sexual promiscuity, or having a boss career, or being assertive. There’s a double standard for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:15 PM
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I’m sure good looking men can get younger women just like a really fit attractive well-kept women like me can get younger men. The issue is when you’re trading in your Current partner especially if she’s had your children over something so shallow. My husband barely fucks me ( once every 3 months) and I’m HL but I’m not leaving him. That’s why I don’t think women should ever,ever, ever be stay at home. They should always have their careers and plan for the day he’s going to leave. Let him be SAH…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:27 AM
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They can’t as easily get younger men as males are even more visually oriented. They are dating at their age and level. If anything ever happens to my partner if I can still snag them (today I can) I’m going younger for sure. Better body, not impotent, less misogynistic…not more than ten years though too much cultural discrepancy larger than that. Or be alone equally appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:03 AM
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Red pill men specifically. Who would want that bitterness and toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:00 AM
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Then why is it that men are the ones bitching about women not wanting them and women are perfectly content to be single and alone? Childless cat ladies have no complaints and are generally very happy people. If you don’t want us don’t have us stop bitching that we don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:37 AM
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They don’t they simply have less options. Like a 5’8” dad bod wants a 10 girl but he can’t pull it. It’s really that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:34 AM
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Unless he’s got millions yep, and that’s not wanting him…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:31 AM
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Exactly here’s a prime example: We’re going to treat you like shit, because that gets us more sex (or so they have reasoned). Want you to have our babies and give up your career to end up destitute. And we’re barely gonna help with anything at home. PS we may make more money so even though you work the same hours you will work a second job taking care of the house and kids while I pursue fun. And as a token of gratitude for destroying your body, housing our children, and raising them I’m going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:28 AM
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Thank you that’s reassuring
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:02 AM
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Yep men complain vociferously about “hypergamy”. That’s exactly what men do with women’s looks it’s all just so silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:02 AM
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I didn’t say expecting romance was unreasonable or reasonable I was simply stating that women like it. And no it’s not all because of programming baby diamonds and commercial stuff is sure. But as far as women licking dominant men who are protective but after they fall in love tender and kind theme…Over and over and over. Is that’s what many women want. Men don’t have to give us anything we don’t have to give them anything. It’s not an obligation thing. It’s a if you love her this is a way that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:25 AM
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That’s why I’m asking for clarity… If she just won’t I understand but what if she can’t would a man put up with that? Edit: Downvoted for asking a question (I don’t care about the downvote I’ve got plenty of karma it’s just hilarious)😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:17 AM
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😂…Honestly though that’s why when people start to self improve they really kind of take off. They get material that helps them, and they get more of that material and they’re able to grow and heal. It’s kind of bad if you’re in a death spiral of negativities and good if you’re in a good place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:13 AM
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As to your bottom paragraph one is deceptive when it’s not. Her giving him sex and hoping that it goes somewhere gives him everything he needs. There is no disadvantage to him all to her if he dumps her. And the other one she’s pumped and dumped, deceived and only he got what he wanted. And of course men and women are different there’s a whole book about it it’s called “the evolution of desire” . Fascinating; it’s evolutionary biology. Everything is about survival of the species. The more men ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:03 AM
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50 shades written by a woman and wildly successful (Though the most poorly written book I’ve ever seen even the grammar was atrocious), Johanna Lindsey female her romance novels wildly successful… And while not all women, a substantial portion like romance or you wouldn’t see all the complaints on the “marriage”sub about it. Men not helping or men not being romantic. Or is he cheating? Occasionally he won’t work or has a substance abuse problem. Romance for sure. Men have different complaints. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:55 PM
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There are men whose wives are injured and can’t ever have sex again and they do not necessarily divorce them. Or cheat. Some do not all. Edit: I’m being down voted for stating a fact as a nurse I have seen men with women who would never be able to have sex again and they don’t leave them? Are you down voting those men for actually being decent and staying with their wives? Redpill is the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:47 PM
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Please please put this on any dating profile so women can run. They’ll figure it out in person but you’ll of wasted your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:45 PM
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Men should absolutely do this! Especially new in the movement because the pendulum swings. Avoid even the appearance of impropriety absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:57 PM
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It doesn’t what you want sexually isn’t safe for you. But to imagine it in a fantasy world can be very arousing. Power play is fun! I LIKE To be dominated sexually. I dare say most women in the world if a man just picked them up and threw them on the bed in the right circumstance would be turned on. We like feeling a man’s physical power. It means he’s able to protect us. It’s a base instinct for women. Not all women just like not all men but many. https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a19546233/…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:06 PM
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EXACTLY!!!But it doesn’t even have to remain a fantasy. No matter how unhinged as long as you find somebody who’s hinged the same way you are… And likes the way that you’re unhinged all good. The problem comes in when one partner wants something that the other partner doesn’t. Without enthusiastic consent it’s not OK. With enthusiastic consent I don’t care what people do to or with each other lol. Have fun life is short!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:56 PM
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Anybody can have any Fantasy they want. 🤷‍♀️ It’s called fantasy for a reason. I like bdsm ( spanking and restraint) that’s sexual freedom to do what you enjoy. As long as there is ENTHUSIASTIC consent between both sexual partners who cares what they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:38 PM
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It gives us a way to safely experience the bad boy fantasy without actually experiencing the downside of the bad boy fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:32 PM
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I have two sons. They are the most empathetic loving amazing kids in part because they know what I’ve gone through. They absolutely protect and stick up for women.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 01:15 PM
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The number of women who have thrown acid on men versus men who throw acid on women please. I’m not saying both sexes don’t do things women also murder their husbands. But to pretend that it happens as often with women as men is to deny evolutionarily biology. More men die because men kill men. And men kill women. And men rape men and men rape women. Women do bad things but they don’t tie men up in backyards inside a locked shed and rape them for years cut their lips off and take their teeth out.…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 01:12 PM
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You didn’t I’m telling you that women have empathy I have empathy for perfect strangers on Reddit. Your bad experience as jaded you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:00 PM
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Not true. Accountability changes behavior. “Me too” has changed many corporate cultures. And things that used to be funny like Al Franken Non-consensually grabbing a woman’s boob got him kicked out of Congress. Bet people think twice about doing that after.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:08 AM
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Now you just sound bitter good luck to you. I suggest counseling post haste
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:15 AM
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They don’t have empathy for you? I have deep empathy for my male friends and I have LOTS. I’m the “ resident counselor” lol… If they show no empathy why are you their friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:06 PM
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That energy absolutely should be there when a woman does something like this. Do they though? That energy should be directed towards compassion for a victim and consequences for perpetrator sex irrespective. Only when we start holding people accountable for these atrocities do they stop. PS I’ve never heard of a story of a woman where she drugs and has her husband raped for 10 years advertising it assuring the men don’t wear condoms And having known HIV infected men rape him. Where are stories o…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/24 08:45 PM
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May be a friend with benefits but if you’re out picking someone up in public or at a bar that’s not gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:20 PM
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What happens when you make a request that isn’t fulfilled what comes next? Should we just leave instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:09 PM
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Easy date her don’t marry her until you guys are four or five years older and have matured a bit, are financially stable, and know if you’re compatible. No one is saying don’t have a girlfriend for long as it lasts. Rather don’t make any life altering decisions when you’re that young and inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:45 PM
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Why do you have to maintain deniability? Why can’t you just try and know that occasionally you’ll be rejected but you’re putting yourself out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:21 PM
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25% ( of women behind) is less than 32% (of men behind) stay in school. There is very little you could do to drag mother away from her child. Men in many states have default of 50-50 don’t even avail them selves of it or take them time granted, Those are grateful for the reduced child support. But the most common reason for fatherless household is if they’re not in the house they can’t be bothered they walk away. Or if it’s an oops in a non committed relationship which should NEVER happen and th…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/24 05:30 PM
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Why do you think women leave? If they’re not unhappy? If they’re in a perfectly fulfilling relationship you think it’s out of the blue and there’s nothing wrong they walk? I’m not saying women never cheat or leave just for sex but it certainly isn’t a common thing. So why else? They leave because they’re vexed over something that’s going wrong in the relationship. Tell me you don’t know divorced women without telling me you know no divorced women. It’s HELL leaves us financially a mess not taken…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:01 PM
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That’s cool you’re not the norm though. Most men avoid committing like the plague. Except in faith based communities those guys want to lock it down especially if you’re a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:07 PM
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It would be better to force people to stay miserable or abusive marriages? It cost money to prove fault an automatic disadvantage to the lower wage spouse. So it’s particularly difficult for stay at home moms who are financially dependent on their husbands. You do realize men and women were killed at equal rates before domestic violence help came about for women? Because they had to kill their husbands in self-defense. The same number of women are killed but the killing of men by intimate partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:02 PM
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Correct why would you stay with someone who doesn’t give a shit about meeting your needs? That’s not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:58 PM
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I’m not doubting you had a bad experience no gender has a monopoly on shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:58 PM
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So everyone has limits and boundaries as well as needs. Unmet the relationship dies. When one person does all the giving in one person does all the taking it’s never gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:39 PM
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Didn’t say that but objectively we’re filing so men are doing something wrong 70% of the time that women file and 30% of the men where the woman was the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:37 PM
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If you loved her and begged her to change and she wouldn’t whether it was drug addiction or weight or whatever and it caused the demise of the relationship you would be disappointed. No different for women when we ask and beg for change because our needs aren’t being met and you don’t care or love us enough to bother. It breeds resentment over our WASTED time, energy, and if we want kids fertility. Problem isn’t we leave, it’s we stay too long and ask too often before admitting we’re not compati…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:35 PM
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“The study concludes that approximately 69% of divorces are initiated by women.” https://divorce.com/blog/who-initiates-divorce-more/#:~:text=The%20study%20concludes%20that%20approximately,divorces%20are%20initiated%20by%20women. No bullshit sorry. When divorce happens it’s the women who leave. We give up after asking for so long…🤷‍♀️ Also men cheat, beat, and abuse substances more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:30 PM
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You mean you don’t meet her needs and she wants someone who does so that’s a problem because? If she gained 200 pounds would you stay? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:13 PM
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If they’re leaving you in their mind before they leave you it’s because you’re not listening to their needs and making them freaking miserable. This is why men say women “nag”. No we’re telling you what our needs are and if you don’t meet then we’ll go to a man who will. This is why 70% of divorce filers are women. It can never be YOU whether bad personality, red flags, cheating, bad sex…No she has to be shallow disloyal or bored looking for the next shiny object. DELUSIONAL: if the match is goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:10 PM
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Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:04 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:36 PM
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Yep why 70% of divorce filers are women. When we finally give up and serve on the act blindsided like we didn’t nag them for years and years before we gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:35 PM
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No read Lundy Bancroft “angry and controlling men why did they do that”. It’s done as a way to control his partner so that they don’t request anything. So that there’s never dissatisfaction expressed because it will be met with defensiveness and anger. It’s a manipulative tactic. And it’s born of a sense of entitlement you should automatically do what I say when I say it. I am in charge obey me if you don’t I’ll show you that I’m more powerful than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:33 PM
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70% of divorce filings are women why do you think that is? Because we ask to no avail accused of being a “nag” and until they don’t change and we get fed up and leave. We might not lose our shit like men instead we walk out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:31 PM
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Do you have any female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:30 AM
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OMG 😂🤣🙏🏻 off topic I have cancer and have started using oral pot for pain. I needed it tonight. I will be ok the treatment is a bitch. I will be VERY curious if I laugh this hard sober tomorrow but praise you for the topping on my debate night cake! I swear I belly laughed to eyes tearing. Sent to my Gen Z kid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:44 AM
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Not what I asked at all. Does the woman drug the man to get his pants off? Just Hella justly does this go? Does the man say some thing when she’s getting on top of him? I’m just trying to picture how it happens I’m sure it does especially if the guys unconscious or drunk but not in those situation’s. Could she be confused if he took his clothes off and also had a hard on? How do we educate women who have non receptive sex about male consent to make it clearer? If a woman threaten to rape allegat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:36 AM
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What EXACTLY did she say you did that amounted to SA?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:30 AM
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I love this so much! All women are not enemies and women do have care and empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:28 AM
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I didn’t mean you specifically I mean the people on here who say “it’s not my job to protect/stand up for women why should I put myself out there” then complain that because we’re assaulted we’re wary of men. You can’t have it both ways. We can’t stop it. You’re right it isn’t a big majority of men that are doing it but it is 1/3 of women who are on the receiving end. That is not uncommon when 30% of the population experiences something. It’s almost ubiquitous with being a woman. And I don’t thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:51 AM
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Please numerate who accused of sexual assault and what happened? Let’s start there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:08 AM
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How many of these things have happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:05 AM
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But they don’t. There are tapes of men watching men rape. There was a movie made about a real incident in a bar “ The Accused” based on a true story where men raped while the rest cheered and egged them on. One kid felt bad for her but did NOTHING. It’s better but it’s still a FUCKING UNACCEPTABLE the amount of women surviving SA. We CANNOT protect ourselves. For it to change men have to change (both not raping but also protecting and calling out BS). I have two boys that DO. What’s unfortunate …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:04 AM
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What is it that you fear she’ll say that is so debilitating that it’s worth being alone forever for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:58 PM
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Mothers rarely to never walk away from their children. When they do it’s usually a substance-abuse issue. Men walk away routinely. Some from birth some bitter for being left like it’s the kids fault. Why is this? “solo parents remain overwhelmingly female: 81% of solo parents in 2017 were mothers, as were 88% in 1968.” So 19% of women but 81% of men bail. No one’s giving you the hard work or total expense of raising the kid child support isn’t enough to raise kids ever it’s a drop in a bucket. T…
/r/EverydayMisandry10/09/24 07:01 PM
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Thank right now fighting cancer not so fun but getting there! Have lots of love and support I’m blessed. I’ve definitely healed a lot from abuse and am now helping other abused women and living my best life!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:50 PM
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Also as long as it’s a friendly banter you can just ask. “ Hey can I take you out for a real date sometime?” What would you have to lose? At worst she’ll say “oh I don’t see you that way”, but You get to keep a girl for a friend that you can talk to when you’re trying to date other girls. Or maybe we’re just good company whether you fuck us or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:11 PM
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This is so stupid women generally don’t care if they’re approached by men who they’ve been having a conversation with for clarity. “Hey seems like we’re having a really great conversation would you be interested in a real date?” Etc etc. No girls gonna get pissed at that. Walking up ogling her or asking her out might make her uncomfortable still not a crime and we’re still generally polite for our comfort and safety. But having chitchat and doing so afterwards does not make us uncomfortable; it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:08 PM
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Yes and we give them extra credit if we’ve had bad experiences. What would seem normal behavior to women who aren’t abused seems extraordinary to those of us who have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:03 PM
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Appreciate this take especially that the assholes are the loudest so it makes them seem like all the men out there. I’ve had some pretty awful experiences with men. I’ve also had some incredible experiences with men. Not all men are bad but men are the only ones who hurt me. So of course I’m going to be more wary of men. No woman has beat me. No woman has raped me. No woman has seriously abused me. That’s all been men. Likewise it was men that saved me from that. Protective men. Compassionate me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:01 PM
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Men are afraid to be accused even though it’s rare; women are afraid to be raped even though it’s not rare. Make it make sense whose victimized? When men put pressure on men to stop raping, When “grab them in the pussy” is no longer just locker room talk because you know he’s done it…when it stops being socially acceptable and overlooked then things will change. As long as 1/3 of us are sexually assaulted we’re gonna keep bitching about being assaulted. 🤷‍♀️ And if men are afraid that’s a good t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:34 PM
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Most men were never part of the solution. How many times have multiple men watched boys rape girls? And done nothing? When the girls drunk at a party etc.? Too many men just accept it as normal and no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:27 PM
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How do women force men? The man would already have to be naked and aroused. She could misconstrue that as consent but she can’t physically force him could you explain where you’re coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:25 PM
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As long as the state believes both including men who were made penetrate what’s the problem? Rape is rape. Other female executive is taking a vantage of her male subordinates she should lose her job too. I will say for a woman to be able to penetrate a man he has to be nude and hard. To get to that state there was some indication he wanted sex. Should women only be receptive sex partners to avoid this? Never be on top? Or ask immediately before riding cowboy “ are you sure you’re still ok with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:19 PM
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One to 3% of rape us ever serve a day in jail. It dissuaded no one. Public sentiment against rape and losing their jobs is a real consequence that they might actually experience. That is what is indeed changing the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:29 AM
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Nope Roger Ailes, Bill O’Reilly, Charlie rose, Harvey Weinstein, Donald Trump, Epstein, Danny Masterson, we could be here all day… Now people at least get fired if they don’t go to jail. I was absolutely sexually harassed as a young nurse. That shit doesn’t fly since “me too”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:59 AM
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Bullshit. Drunk driving is way down since MADD stigma and public attention has been brought to it. Lectures and shaming certainly do work to change behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:52 AM
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https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,identify%20in%20these%20gender%20boxes. “An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes.” Who’s the problem? PS Men and women kill their children roughly equally. Women are more likely to murder newborns. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:50 AM
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It’s very effective. If you know you’re gonna be fired from your job or dethroned for using your power to rape you might think twice now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:44 AM
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Very good points. But I don’t think most women think most men are bad. We just think this is happening to Dan many of us and nothing is changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:43 AM
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No what it did for the first time is point out how frequent sexual assault is, how seldom anything is done about it, and how women aren’t believed or listened to when they complain. It’s shamed men for sexual assault; and it’s changing the culture. Men are more afraid to be sexual abusers because while they still might get off legally there will now be consequences to their reputation cuz the men will be men thing and women must deal is OVER. Without “me too” nothing would’ve changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:41 AM
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How do we change the culture so it stops happening so often and we don’t have to feel afraid? Men don’t listen to women or our pleas or pain. They might listen to other men. My boys are bold and will call out misogyny and BS. Middle kid plays video games boy says to a girl gamer who’s beating him “you deserve to be raped” my kid replies “ man that’s not cool”. 🥲 Manosphere takes it in the other direction…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:35 AM
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Yes men victimize men men victimize women. But the perpetrators are generally almost always male. And rape is different from assault and gang banging drug deals. “An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes.” https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20v…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:31 AM
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Yep. And some of these guys who want “ trad” don’t mean she stays home and takes care of the kids. They mean she works full-time but still does everything at home while they sit on their ass after work lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:27 AM
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Women who let themselves go or men who stop helping over time I’m guessing? Or people who want to be accepted even if more than 30% of the relationship sucks and don’t believe in no fault divorce. Cuz you just have to put up with her abuse, addiction, cheating, laziness…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:23 AM
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Nope they want easy targets and don’t have the patience for that. Also you’re more likely to see signs of trouble taking you’re time. For example I dated a guy I met online and he lured me out to Chicago. We both were devout in our faith had shared values ( I thought) great conversations and he was open to moving if it worked. He came to me first took my kids to a theme park won them stuff ( super athletic beautiful man). And we did stuff together. While we were emailing and texting and talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:17 AM
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Restaurant, park, coffee, my current SO first date was a day at Epcot. We spent all day walking around waiting in line to get on rides while we talked and got to know each other. We had emailed and texted for weeks first hours at a time so I knew there was a connection. Walks on the beach, roller blading, hiking, Dali Museum, concerts, hockey games…a million things to do in public. Many low cost or free!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:30 AM
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If he raped her she probably wouldn’t have married him,
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:28 AM
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Could have best personality ever not going to anywhere alone with a man until we’re in a monogamous relationship which means I’ve known him for a while. Not a guarantee but most rape is Acquaintance rape not boyfriend or husband rape. A guy she tangentially knows that rapes her drunk etc. etc., date rape etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:21 AM
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I’m sorry all this happened to you. Sexual abuse is so rampant sadly. 😢 I too had a terrible hx. With abusive men but found a loving partner and raised incredibly awesome sons who respect women. They are NOTHING like their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:16 AM
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The government didn’t create the kids. The taxpayer didn’t create the kids. Men knowing they have no choice in abortion have the option to use condoms. They knowingly take the risk. What does any of that have to do with walking away from your kids? Unless he’s a drug addict any man can get visitation with his children many just don’t bother. 🤦‍♀️🙄🤷‍♀️
/r/EverydayMisandry10/09/24 02:04 AM
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You’re claiming something with no article to confirm. Or did you just make it up? https://abc13.com/post/18-year-old-mother-accused-dumping-baby-dumpster-judge-bond/15100566/#:~:text=HOUSTON%2C%20Texas%20(KTRK)%20%2D%2D,was%20issued%20a%20%2490%2C000%20bond. If that’s the case baby lived and she’s in Texas where it impossible to get an abortion. No matter how you twisted more men abandon their children than women by a country mile. Edit: yes we are done. Facts are not misandrist they are facts. …
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 10:21 PM
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Facts aren’t sexist they’re facts: There wouldn’t be single mothers or children raised in fatherless homes if men followed through past making the baby. Are you denying there are more single mothers and single fathers? Just want to get our facts straight not opinions. Facts aren’t sexist or racist they’re simply facts.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 09:45 PM
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The story in Texas link? Disposing of a body after miscarriage is not murder. Infanticide is not legal anywhere in the US despite Trumps lies.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 09:42 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:36 PM
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Who said it was? You can point out the difficulties each sex faces without painting everyone of a gender with that brush hence “ not all men”. But let’s get real there are far more men abandoning their children than women dropping their babies in dumpsters or abandoning their children.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 05:11 PM
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Baptist upbringing converted to catholic. Even if not religious sex without commitment ( monogamous BF/GF) would not be something I’d enjoy. I need connection and familiarity to relax and enjoy sex as I’m initially shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:51 PM
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Let them have abortions would be a good start.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 01:39 PM
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I haven’t heard on Misandrist thing from her everything is racism and sexism from Trumps mouth regarding Harris, Including sick sexual innuendo. Just so gross.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 02:43 AM
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Misandry compared to the misogyny of Trump 😂🤦‍♀️🤣
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 02:37 AM
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Not casual sex often. Some do I can’t. Feeling I’d been used would really affect me. Since I made men wait to ascertain connection and red flags while I had other issues in dating I was never pumped and dumped. Too much work to bother definitely weeded out some bad eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:07 AM
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How’s this working for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:56 PM
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So you’re saying having their body used like a hooker shouldn’t bother them? A dinner for your dignity 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:09 PM
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It’s also to prevent attachment before you know if it’s a good guy. A guy you have no future with doesn’t elicit this fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:08 PM
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She said men on here and they indeed complain about exactly the things OP enumerated. I think there are more RP men here so it’s not representative of men writ large. I think that men should be allowed to feel their feelings. I think they should be allowed to cry. We should not stigmatize or assign certain emotional obligations based on sex. But I think a lot of the shaming for men comes from other men. Gus Waltz crying (proud of his father) was excoriated by right wing influencers like there’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:22 PM
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It’s not my post I simply replied who are you addressing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:12 PM
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They want both empathy ( redpill whine endlessly with little to no effort to follow redpill advice like gym or working on social skills…) but they also want sex and need power to force that. JD Vance certainly wants men to have ALL the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:27 PM
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Agree and I don’t. I respect myself. None of the men I dated had an issue with waiting until I was ready. I was a virgin when I married but after divorce I still didn’t engage unless I felt it would be long term and he was a safe and appropriate partner. Sex creates attachment. I’m not interested in getting attached until I have time to see who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:30 AM
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Not during pregnancy. That can be a very vulnerable time especially on bedrest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:03 AM
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And we increasingly are. Men don’t want to try or improve yet they want us to want them and spread our legs ( what they care about) when they could give two fucks about us. Just no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:00 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:56 AM
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Absolutely not. Women don’t judge men for needing therapy. In fact it shows strength. We can have empathy but it won’t fix anything. Only getting help and antidepressants will help how do we get men to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:09 PM
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Absolutely yes! I have friends, amazing college age kids that adore me, if my partner weren’t supportive I’d be out. Who needs it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:56 PM
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What’s the solution? Who’s blaming men for seeking care other men? Cuz women think a guy in therapy has an in check ego and maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:55 PM
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If the choice is alone or bad man yes we choose alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:16 PM
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Why don’t men seek mental health care more?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:13 PM
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Just wants to feel sorry for himself. No fixing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:53 AM
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Thank you yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:52 AM
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😂this thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:15 PM
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Good stay safe! My heart is with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:48 PM
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I’m so sorry. Leaving is the most dangerous time. Do u have support? And don’t answer your door
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:38 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:55 PM
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Word salad what are you even trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:54 PM
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God yes! ICU nurse when they leave it’s the most dangerous. It’s when we would see them shot in the temple blind but alive. 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:52 PM
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Amen girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:51 PM
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Bullshit support that statement. Nowhere have I EVER seen 20% of rapist are women. An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes. https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics I could be wrong support your assertion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:26 PM
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If a woman jumps on you while you’re naked with a hard dick that is hardly the same thing as holding a woman down ripping her clothes off and raping her. You CANNOT BE SERIOUS!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:49 PM
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I required my husband to make enough to afford children as we both wanted them. And we wanted me home one year each to breastfeed them something I cannot do in my occupation so I chose a man who could support that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:48 PM
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I may not know who broke into my house and stole my TV but I certainly know who raped me unless it was a stranger who broke in my home yet I get no justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:47 PM
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If you’re trying to say being forcibly raped where you cannot escape Two women sitting on your hard dick and you being able to push her off I can’t help you. It’s not ok to assume a man whose nude and hard wants you, you should still ask, but it’s hardly the same thing as forcible rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:38 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:08 PM
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Wtf are you talking about? Single women support themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:42 PM
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The high cost of reproduction for women making us selective as it’s always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:39 PM
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Do you know how long it took do you know how many times they were let off? Do you know how many women they abused before justice was served? The ONLY reason ANYTHING happened was “ me too”. Before that there was no justice. And not just them…Charlie Rose, Mark Halpern, Roger Ailes, Bill O’Reilly… I could be here all day… But of course nothing ever happens to women and it’s all made up bullshit. 🤣🤦‍♀️🙄😂😂😂 And he didn’t get what he had coming to him he chickened out. What he should’ve gotten was r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:09 PM
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No one ever asserted they did. But the risk to women is real therefore we must be careful. One bad man can assault many many women look at Epstein Weinstein etc. and thus far society hasn’t held men accountable. So it’s up to us to protect ourselves and each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:56 PM
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https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,identify%20in%20these%20gender%20boxes. An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes. Around the world, at least 1 woman in every 3 has been beaten, coerced into sex, or otherwise abused in her lifetime.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:49 PM
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An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes. Around the world, at least 1 woman in every 3 has been beaten, coerced into sex, or otherwise abused in her lifetime. Most often the abuser is a member of her own family or is her partner. (2) Only 2% of rapists are convicted and imprisoned. (3) Approximately 80-85% of completed ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:43 PM
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Yes cuz men invite witnesses in the room right? Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:22 PM
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It doesn’t matter whether you report it or not only one to 3% of rapist ever see a day in jail that’s why we don’t bother
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:21 PM
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Except 1/3 of us us SAd or raped so while it may be a minority of men doing it it certainly affects a lot of us. And since we can’t know “ which” men are bad we are wary of men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:20 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:48 AM
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Maybe they don’t wanna settle down maybe they just wanna have fun and there is no time pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:47 AM
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Yes but we don’t know who took our stuff we do know who raped us yet we get no justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:41 AM
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“97 of Every 100 Rapists Receive No Punishment, RAINN Analysis Shows” https://rainn.org/newsletters/03-2012/march-newsletter-version-1.html
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:21 AM
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Noooo…In my 20s I would go into Home Depot because I like to do things for myself they would teach me how then offer to come to my house and help me for free lol. But I’m not invisible which everyone warned me I would be. I still get attention, sometimes from significantly younger men. I don’t get cat calls. I get double takes when asked for my ID. It’s Goldilocks just right. Not constantly objectified, but still feel attractive and desirable. I wouldn’t go back for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:23 PM
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I do I’m over 50. Got hit on by a 27 year old. My 38 year old contractor is constantly hitting on me. When I eat alone at a bar I’m sometimes hit on. I look younger (I’m told often) I’m thin, attractive but I absolutely get hit on. Not like my 20s when I’d go to Home Depot to do my own project and they’d offer to help for free 😂, but that was too much anyway. You may not be attracted to women at 50 but other men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:02 PM
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I asked a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:02 AM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:06 PM
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They’re not even old enough to drink shut the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:22 AM
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Thank you this is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:53 AM
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Men don’t support each other as we do. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:50 AM
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I’m not sure what this means
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:54 PM
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Sure so suffrage never happened men willingly gave us the right to vote.🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♀️😂😭😝🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:52 PM
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So if men stop simping ( become bigger assholes than they already naturally are) We will be so desperate that we will except this really shitty behavior? Rather than being alone which we are already doing in droves because men are already asswipes who don’t dump enough to get and keep us. Cuz we don’t need sex we need companionship. Who wants to be companions with somebody who treat you like dog shit? Stay in school my friend. Humans don’t work this way. Or stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:14 PM
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Who’s responsibility is that to change it? We change it for ourselves by marching Weinerman going to change it for themselves? Or are we supposed to change it for men too? I didn’t change for us by sitting around feeling sorry for ourselves. A change for us by mobilizing to action.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:02 PM
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Your stated if was a girl isn’t self-supporting she shouldn’t be going to college. Adult men dating girls in college are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:33 PM
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Absolutely ridiculous I’m supporting my daughter through college. I wouldn’t want her dating a man who is not in college but 30 some years old
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:16 PM
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I agree society does this and I agree it’s poison. Men have the full complement of emotions and should be able to express them. I do think it’s why men suffer more with depression. It’s also uncool to seek help, uncool to take medication’s, uncool to go to therapy (by other men). That false bravado must be exhausting. A guy going to therapy would be an instant turn on for most women. Self awareness 🤯, label of ego 🤯🤯!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:38 PM
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🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:10 PM
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It’s the age. Under 22 very few women are through college and self supporting. Most people don’t care if a 24 year old dates a 35 year old. How many of these marriages work out fine. But when it’s a young immature girl who doesn’t know herself they’re doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:46 PM
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That is exactly what I’m saying . Then have kids and are trapped. Once a woman has supported herself she knows she can and how.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:42 PM
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Because they lack the maturity if they haven’t been self supporting to know what their options are when things go south. Because they don’t have an education or way to support themselves so they are prone to accept abuse. Because they may not want to find another man they need to be able to take care of themselves. Because they don’t have experience in life as they haven’t managed to budget, pay their bills….they are functionally children not women. Once self supporting different story. Before t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:38 PM
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Only if she’s not through college and she is and self supporting. If she’s self supporting there’s not a power imbalance go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:34 PM
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I love this. If I’m alone again I’m doing the same!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:31 PM
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Sometimes we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:29 PM
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No you need to get help, go to therapy, make friends, not depend solely on women for support. Keep and express your emotions fuck those who judge you for it. Take care of your body and mind. Find contentment. Then( like women) while love would be nice and you’re open you can still live a fulfilling life whether it happens for you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:26 PM
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What does this mean in English? Men are the rapists it’s opportunistic without consequences. Did you see the communication between Russian soldiers and their wives were there asking for permission because it sounds like fun and the women are giving it? No thought of the trauma inflicted on the women of Ukraine?😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:11 PM
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Please get help. See a psychiatrist, get on an antidepressant, get a counselor. Please . You need and deserve support this will not get you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:58 PM
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I agree with this. Now social media, dating apps, lack of meeting spaces for young singles, economic uncertainty have really made it tough on Gen Z. Hookup culture too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:57 PM
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This is such a misnomer. Alimony is temporary if at all. Custody in most states now is automatically 50-50 unless there’s SUBSTANTIATED abuse. The death of a marriage is incredibly troubling. I wish men had the support of other men. I wish they would get therapy. I wish they would go on antidepressants after the divorce to adjust their new lifestyle and the stress of working and caring for kids. Women are already used to this. We need ti help men with coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:01 AM
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These are ridiculous scenarios. A man doesn’t have to pay alimony plus child support plus the mortgage. She gets a set amount. Alimony is temporary and rehabilitative and only if he can afford it. Same as child support it’s based on the percentage of your income they don’t allow men to not eat because they’re paying child support. Custody of many states is automatically 50-50 and nobody keeps a man from seeing his child unless they’ve been proven allegations of severe abuse. Got even drug addict…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:44 PM
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You mean no matter how bad JD Vance wants to be. And he wants it BAD. Children get the right to vote the parents place those votes if it’s a family with a man the man places the votes. End no fault divorce. No exceptions for rape and incest even for a 10 year old girl. Or the health of the mother. Women should stay in violent marriages for their children Women without children are useless
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:48 PM
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God I hope you’re right because of 43% of the public sees that misogynist woman hating bastard and his messages are normal women are screwed! Welcome to Gilead!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:45 PM
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43% of the American public have a favorable opinion of Vance who is a raging misogynist. You underestimate how many people agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:30 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:16 AM
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From 2019 to 2021, the percentages of men (from 13.1% to 17.8%) and women (from 23.8% to 28.6%) aged 18–44 who had received any mental health treatment in … More women seek therapy than men. More take anti depressants. Why don’t more men go into that for career so that men have people to see? There certainly aren’t enough men represented as therapists. It seems like an opportunity for growth for men right? Therapy isn’t for women or for men it’s for people. The therapist happen to be women. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:02 AM
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No they’re not but the things that they post on that board certainly are. I’m for men’s rights. I think the draft should be for everyone a mandatory two-year service. I think that custody should be 50-50 unless there’s been abuse involved that has been substantiated not just come up in the divorce. I can think of no other ways that men are oppressed currently. I want all of us to have rights. I wanted to be fair for everyone not one sex over the other sex. Affirmative Action was ended by the Sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:58 PM
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Men’s rights is far worse give me a break. Misogyny definition: JD VANCE touch grass… Women’s only value is in childbearing. Women after menopause have no use except raising children (I guess the lives I save don’t matter). Childless cat ladies have nothing to contribute. Jennifer Aniston, Condoleezza Rice, Oprah Winfrey might beg to differ with you. No abortions for rape incest or health of the mother if you’re on dialysis because you’re in heart failure well too bad so sad. If you could never …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:52 PM
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But misogyny doesn’t exist anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:32 PM
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I have no issue with men complaining about women cheating etc. that’s a legitimate gripe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:20 PM
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And misogynist. Men’s rights, left-wing male advocates absolutely full of hate and disgusting misogyny. Both sexes blame each other at times. It’s worse online. Edit as appears you blocked me In large urban counties.Gangbangers are not representative of the public at large. Try again. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9838333/#:~:text=Among%20homicides%20in%20the%20United,fatalities%20may%20have%20been%20missed. “Among homicides in the United States, intimate partners kill almost 50% …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:34 PM
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You ever been pregnant? Didn’t think so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:32 PM
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Nationwide, 81% of women and 43% of men reported experiencing some form of sexual harassment and/or assault in their lifetime. You’re right it’s worse. https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:15 PM
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Then don’t complain when we say not all men. If one and three of us is experiencing it it’s a very frequent occurrence…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:11 PM
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That I agree with both sexes bitch about the frustration of dealing with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:21 PM
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I absolutely agree most men are NOT rapists. But when 1/3 of us is either sexually assaulted or raped it happens so frequently it feels like its acceptable to good men who don’t call it out. It’s ubiquitous with being a woman. I’ve had my ass grabbed, dealt with sexual harassment from surgeons at work, and been raped. It was only a couple of surgeons but could they do some damage where most of us were women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:18 PM
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Exactly both complain in online spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:12 PM
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That’s what it’s there for just like mens rights sub and left wing male advocates does. Those are spaces to share our frustrations with being stuck as a particular sex and vent frustrations. You’re point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:11 PM
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If men don’t like hearing about fuck boys, rapist etc. maybe they should stop being fuck boys and rapist? We don’t complain about all men we complain about toxic behavior. And men are welcome to complain about women’s toxic behavior. Because we’re not assholes generally they don’t. They complain that we won’t date them or do what they want. Or that we leave them when they don’t care about our needs. Or that we cheat as if women cheat like men but this you can complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:09 PM
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Succinct and correct. I LOVE GOOD men. I’m not a fan of misogynists. I’m for equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:08 PM
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To “some men” being dethroned from privilege feels like oppression. Perhaps consider how women felt for millennia …except is was FAR WORSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:07 PM
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It’s not like we don’t sense it just like men since ardent feminists and repelled by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:05 PM
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It’s really this simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:04 PM
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You think I’m somehow making money from the pharmaceutical industry? You do realize without chemotherapy most would not survive cancer. Without drugs for high blood pressure people would die younger of heart disease. Without drugs for diabetes people would die younger. I don’t understand your aversion to the pharmaceutical industry? If your problem is that they’re making profits that I can appreciate that, and agree…but if your point is the drugs don’t work… A big part of the reason that our lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:59 AM
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This is the only first date I have ever agreed to. I don’t want to feel obligated to a man. If they insist on paying they paid six bucks for a coffee. Obviously I offer to pay for mine. Alcohol isn’t impairing my judgment, and I can get the hell out of there if it’s not going well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:28 AM
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I’m a registered nurse and you are literally insane. Not better if you want to live. Alcohol is the most potent carcinogens secondary only to cigarettes. Substance abuse increases suicide risk. Marijuana is safer but not as safe as SSRIs it causes mental health issues in some cases, kills ambition, rebound anxiety, high blood pressure and heart disease. But AGAIN If you’re that worried about your dick use Wellbutrin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:58 AM
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Are you seriously suggesting that drugs, alcohol, video games staying depressed or committing suicide is better than going on medication’s that may affect the sex drive of someone who’s not having sex anyway? Sheesh…no wonder so sad. Wellbutrin does not affect sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:43 AM
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It’s a choice. No one is making anyone do it. It’s safe and they make good money. Sex work is still work. It’s much safer there than it is on the street. I wouldn’t use it but I’m not gonna tell anyone else how to live their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:08 PM
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They’re in brothels nobody’s roaming the streets. It’s all regulated there WTF are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:45 PM
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Why would you sacrifice a marriage why wouldn’t you just do it on the down low? Why hurt your spouse they might be innocent. There’s no way to take that except there’s a potential for you to cheat even if you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:13 PM
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It’s legal in Nevada and I think it should be legal everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:04 PM
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What’s preventing word from joining the military? Rape, that they get no justice for. For one. The inability to lift a 80 pound backpack. You seem to ignore sexual dimorphism. Women are less capable physically and certainly can’t defend themselves against rape. No way I would wanna go in the military. I wanted to be a trauma nurse in the military so badly… That’s what stopped me. I knew if I got raped nobody would do a fucking thing about it because well …same reason they don’t run rape kits we …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:04 PM
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I’m a trauma nurse I’m aware. That’s a cry for help for women. They don’t actually wanna die they are just so unhappy they can’t bear to live. They often get that help and survive. Men choose more lethal means. It doesn’t discount that men don’t seek help, therapy, medication’s… Instead they medicate with drugs alcohol video games… What do we do about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:42 PM
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This…this is why we say “ not all men”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:21 PM
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And humble to your slang Me here. You are one of the “not all men”. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:50 PM
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This is why more men commit suicide. FULL STOP! What difference does it make if the man doesn’t have an available partner and isn’t having sex? In fact, it seems kind not a cruel to have your drive lowered. But if not an SSRI: Wellbutrin that has no sexual side effects. This is one of the many reasons men commit suicide more. They’re less willing to seek help, they won’t go to therapy, they don’t have robust support systems when they’re struggling. This is why the rates of addiction are higher t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:37 PM
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Then there is no issue just pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:59 AM
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This is such a decent, compassionate, and accurate take. And I would add as a nurse if you’re depressed go to your family doctor and get an SSRI. The reason less women commit suicide as we have support systems, and if we need medication we take it. Can confirm the triad. My ex was a sociopath and a narcissist. Diagnosed formally not me just being dramatic, and the by multiple parent facilitators etc. The sociopathy only one would formally diagnose sociopath because he thought he would get sued t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:56 AM
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That must be frustrating. And religious communities it wouldn’t matter it would actually be admired. It’s a shame you aren’t free to wait until you find the right person without being made to feel there’s something wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:48 AM
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An adult in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:42 AM
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Your own study shows that domestic violence against women went off a cliff it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:34 AM
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Because men were being held accountable for the first time. And women fought back. The Duluth model and domestic violent shelter substantially lower the amount of women killed by their intimate partners. It did something right obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:14 PM
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Dude this is YOUR ARTICLE “In 1996 just over 1,800 murders were attributable to intimates; nearly 3 out of 4 of these had a female victim. In 1976 there were nearly 3,000 victims of intimate murder. “ Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:10 PM
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Baptist. I’m Gen X. They also taught blacks were the descendants of Ham and cursed, responsible for their own suffering. And women their suffering because of the sins of Eve. The teachings were from a very famous man who influenced a ton of Christians including the Duggers from 13 kids and counting called Bill Gothard. Turns out he was sexually abusing women that whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:49 PM
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After I respond I’ll be blocking you next victim blaming retort. Yes I was abused as a child and people who are abused often pick abuse their entire lives until they get help to heal. There’s an entire book about it that was life-changing for me “what happened to you” by Dr. Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey. Instead of asking people what’s wrong with you that you would pick the wrong people? Or stay? You ask what happened to you that you think this is normal or you’re too afraid to leave? Also I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:02 PM
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Thank you. I like myself again! I’m happy! And insanely blessed three best kids on the planet. He gave me them along with a side helping of pain. All that pain made us extraordinarily close. I hit the kid lottery. They are kind, empathetic, respectful, hard-working, studious, moral decent human beings. I (and my village) did that!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:39 PM
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Great that’s for another discussion in this instance they’re talking about this subject, at this moment what is your response?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:35 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:35 PM
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He abused me, cheated on me during continuing medical education and couldn’t deny it because his friend had to find him since our child was in the hospital. His friend told me. He raped me and eventually he broke my nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:34 PM
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Either can happen But I personally have girlfriends that never initiate sex and only have responsive desire. Literally never. My husband never initiate sex and turns me down constantly. But when we have sex he says it’s the best he’s ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:33 PM
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Answer the question please? Without what about ism. We can talk about your complaint afterwards answer the question first?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:32 PM
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So glad you acknowledge this, and her feelings and now know. I think this happens a lot with “made to penetrate”. Women assume men want us to do that and be aggressive sexually also not understanding consent fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:08 PM
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Not said. But is it ok if 1/3 would?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:05 PM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:03 PM
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Yet accurate. There has never been war which men have not raped including American GIs raping women in France. Yep the “ good guys”. In Stockholm syndrome is a real phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:00 PM
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I think that’s part of the problem in churches. You can’t have sex until you’re married and men put pressure on you for sex and so you feel pressure to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:57 PM
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Or some people got married and their partner changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:57 PM
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Thank you you’re kind. I use my story to help others so everything happens for a reason. Or I make a reason out of it. I would change very little ( hate PTSD) as it made me strong, resilient, brave, even more empathic. The first time I spoke to the police department on DV ( I was volunteering at a shelter support group and they BEGGED me they had no one) I was reluctant. Police officers and nurses ran into each other frequently at my hospital because (trauma hospital next to urban drug environme…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:52 PM
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Not for some women. Some women if their husbands didn’t touch them would literally never be horny for the rest of their life. But when kissed or the back of her neck bitten, touched sensually or flirted with, they become aroused. To deny this means that every sex scene in a movie where a woman is seduced into sex is not what some people relate to. That’s just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:18 PM
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Yep HIS money not OUR money Meaning a woman’s role in raising his children is basically worthless to him she should walk out with a shirt on her back. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:15 PM
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This is a beautiful and sensible take. Sometimes we trust the wrong people especially when we’re young though. And especially if we met them at church or they say they go ( then start going with you to YOUR church” where you think there’s implicit trust because you share the same values. I thought that was a guarantee he was a good guy and I was incredibly wrong. He pretended to be religious to get me. Later admitted it. I am not the only woman to ever be conned by a smooth spaz talking narcissi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:13 PM
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What does that mean exactly? That I deserve to get beat or raped? You’ll be blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:09 PM
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Men have midlife crises women generally do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:05 PM
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Agree with the last line most important being IN A DECENT relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:03 PM
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This, this is the man that cannot be included in “ not all men”. When men start holding this stupid shit accountable and make men quit doing it we won’t be complaining about “ most men”. When women hold women accountable for what is it that we do wrong that makes men divorce us that they’d want changed Men wouldn’t have to say “not all women “. Speaking of which the main complaints from men is “she nags me”. Well sir, if you listen the first time would she need to? Isn’t that gaslighting? Blamin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:02 PM
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Touché. I knew mine was I just didn’t feel like I could leave with three little kids to breast-feeding and third not in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:55 PM
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XX there are TONS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:54 PM
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Yep! They let it get derailed into “victim blaming” about the divorce rather than addressing the notion at hand which is that a stay at home parent male or female is financially disadvantaged if that marriage ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:53 PM
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No, but I do think women divorce men who don’t care about their needs in general chores being one piece of it. When you ask for help with the children, you asked for help with the chores, and the man Not only doesn’t help you but adds to the work load as another child to take care of: yeah some women get absolutely sick of it and leave. I left for far more than that but I sure did appreciate having every other weekend off after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:52 PM
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My husband started abusing me when I became pregnant. Had no idea who he really was. We are dated for four years. We had not lived together because I didn’t believe in that before marriage. I tried to make the best of it due to my faith, and my love for my child. After he broke my nose I really didn’t have any choice but to leave did I? He had already raped me, cheated on me, if I stayed much longer… I’m so fucking sick of victim blaming. That’s all somehow my fault? And no I did not know. He wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:49 PM
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Back to victim blaming. It’s her fault for not picking better not his fault for being the asshole; got it. We’re done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:45 PM
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I think your describing men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:44 PM
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Would my husband raping me and breaking my nose be “Frivolous” . Or cheating on me during continuing medical education to the point I had to have his friend call him because his son was in the hospital? Sure women with children walk away for no reason especially when they stay at home. Now that my last is in college I’m finally free to be happy again and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. He has no control over me, he can’t hurt me, and While I have what half what I would’ve and a lot of sunken ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:42 PM
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It can also be pros for both parents. There is zero chance my husband would’ve ascended his career if I hadn’t been there to take care of the children. He had to work a lot hours and daycares are not open nights and weekends. The Pro for me was lots of time with my children to read teach them; and I was able to nurse each one for a year which mattered a great deal to me. I loved my children and wanted to give them the very best start in life. But when we split I was screwed. I had turn on my pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:38 PM
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But wouldn’t you say women are left more financially vulnerable If they choose to stay home and men or not? Men have to pay a couple years of alimony not quite the same no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:33 PM
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Love this!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:32 PM
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But you would acknowledge that this puts women who have children at far greater risk than men no? Because your trust could be entirely misplaced mine was.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:31 PM
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😭. I grew up Baptist and was taught that if your husband beat you you had to pray harder but stay. I stayed in a terrible marriage because of the patriarchal norms that I accepted as “my role”. It’s heartbreaking. This acknowledgement means more than you know. Truly. Good men like you are who changed things for us. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:27 PM
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Thank you for this post! This was me. DV victim married To a doctor I put through residency. I got two years of rehabilitative alimony. It was very difficult just being out three years as so much had changed in critical care. I can’t IMAGINE being out ten. I wasn’t treated poorly but many are. Hug your mom tell her I said THANK YOU For making you part of “not all men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:25 PM
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It would FOR SURE! A fit muscular body on a man is like hourglass with big tits on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:04 PM
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What are you doing to find another girlfriend of this brings you fulfillment?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:43 AM
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What can you do to change this or are you happy this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:39 AM
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This is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:37 AM
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This is very well worded and I agree thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:36 AM
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Sounds like you only care about your happiness. What about women’s happiness? We’re not less happy than our mothers were. We wouldn’t wanna go back for anything. You don’t think JD Vance‘s comments about women having only reproductive value, with men shouldn’t be allowed to vote, they are morally less than if childless, Is patriarchy? He even said that postmenopausal women have no role except to raise children. Guess all the lives I saved as a nurse weren’t really contributing to my country or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:01 AM
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No way around what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:53 AM
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I absolutely have concerns. But when they take it to that level where women should be oppressed it’s a problem. You don’t think that what JD Vance said was wrong? You don’t think that women deserve to be upset about it? Just like you deserve to be upset about the dating realities? Which are largely a social media thing not a women thing. Can’t BOTH be true? That women are in some circles particularly right wing evangelical circles still oppressed? That people on the far right want to oppress us …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:50 AM
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In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:26 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:21 PM
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So womens empowerment and mens reduction to what women have always endured ( harder time getting the same job) are suddenly oppression? Welcome to our world! Maybe how women felt in the 60s, oh wait they weren’t able to be lawyers or doctors or buy homes so they were ACTUALLY oppressed. How we’re we to get to equality without this FORCE through legislation which has now been UNDONE by the recent Supreme Court ruling ending affirmative action? There is no preference anymore in admissions, jobs…so…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:21 PM
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I have no idea what that word salad means. Women work and pay taxes too. Those that don’t are taking care of children making a different contribution to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:07 PM
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Agree. Men complain DV shelters are for women. It’s not that abused men can’t get shelter as they do it in individual hotel rooms there just aren’t shelters. Why do men think of this? Because men being abused where their life is in danger in the same way women are specifically because of sexual dimorphism just doesn’t exist. Also women don’t often stalk and create a danger to their lives if they leave in the way that men stalk women and endanger their lives. Same reason more men are in prison. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:59 PM
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In what way? The draft? In what other ways do men not have equal rights? Custody is moving to 50:50 by default in many states as it should be. How else?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:52 PM
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Yes because women are working, we don’t want children on top of working as then it’s ALL on us, physically and financially too much. Men don’t wanna work and take care of children on top of that either. Why they are pissed. They don’t work hard come home to a nice hot meal and a loving family. They come home to do more work. Because she’s worked all day too. Welcome to our world? They don’t want to be dethroned from privilege and do the shit jobs that they never wanted to do anyway like changing…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:48 PM
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They’re stepping on toes and then there’s blatant misandry a massage and a which turn the other person off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:43 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:42 PM
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That’s a response to men who blame women who are beat for choosing the wrong partner. That street goes to ways right? This was the response I was HOPING for to point out how RIDICULOUS It is to blame victims for being victims. Rape victims for what they wore how much they drank weather there a slut. Or get beat. Thank you for making my point!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:43 PM
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I agree with this. Just like children suffer when men walk away. Just supplying DNA doesn’t make you a good person or parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:40 PM
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Not accurate from my reading. A man can request a paternity test. They just have to get a court order, but they can’t do it after the child is older than one unless there are extraordinary circumstances. Because they both bonded with a child I would assume. If I’m mistaken please provide the link?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:36 PM
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The other things don’t benefit only women. What’s your point? The other entitlements are given equally to men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:33 PM
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It does align actually. Also men like women can be deluded as to what their level is. When they say only unattractive women approach them, maybe they’re also unattractive? That’s his sexual mating value. If your social mating value based on results isn’t getting you what you want, then you have to consider what you can do to increase your sexual mating value. You’ve name several things. It’s also how you dress, how much education you have, how successful you are whether you can provide for a fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:29 PM
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Be alone no one’s making you approach women what is your point? We do what we want to do. And if we don’t wanna approach it’s our prerogative. Stop blaming women it’s evolutionary biology. We have reactive desire often. We’re not initially sexually interested but if someone approaches us will consider it. Men have plain desire all the time. Evolutionarily biology… welcome to the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:05 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:02 PM
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Like a sense of humor, shared values, shared faith, shared ambition? Those kinds of reasons aren’t valid? You can’t bond and someone become more physically attractive to you? That’s what happen with my ex-husband. I could pull Chads in my 20s. Our connection made me fall in love and for a relationship. He showed compassion to my patients. He wanted children, monogamy, and a family. Pretended to be a person of faith (he later admitted to win me). All of those things won my heart. Sadly he was a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:50 AM
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Is it possible you’re an unattractive man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:43 AM
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Thank you! This is where “ some men” comes from…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:37 AM
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That’s not hooking up that’s being a hooker. There’s a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:36 AM
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Aren’t you a prize? Single?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:34 AM
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Meaning he’s pulling it out of his ass. Kind of like Mike Lindell getting had at the Democratic convention by a 12-year-old. https://newrepublic.com/post/185161/mypillow-ceo-mike-lindell-fight-child-knowa-dnc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:32 AM
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Source, oh bro take my word for it? Nah…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:30 AM
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Source? Link for that stat?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:29 AM
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They can’t throw you in jail for not paying child support without a paternity test unless you were married at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:20 AM
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Then get a vasectomy, wear a condom, choose a partner you can trust. We’re in the United States just get a paternity test to do it yourself. You don’t have to make her feel like a piece of shit just get the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:18 AM
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A French man came on here and dispelled that. A man can go to court and get a court order for a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:15 AM
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That is exactly what I’ve read here. You are spot on. Don’t make the child suffer. But the man should have no financial obligation. In fact she should owe in back child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:13 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:11 AM
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Women in the Middle East my heart breaks for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:10 AM
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Thank you for the clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:08 AM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:07 AM
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We both decided to be parents. What do you mean “interact at all?” Any father has the opportunity to interact with their child. The only way that you lose that is if you’re a drug addict. What does this even mean? Got to be a parent? We both got to. The difference was I had to take care of the children, and the home, and work, whereas he got to work and do nothing else. Your response to I would not have been a domestic violence victim, or rape victim? And you’re mistaken: “As of July 19, 2024, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:11 AM
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“13.7% of the total population received SNAP in 2015. “ https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2022/05/who-is-receiving-social-safety-net-benefits.html 13.7% so not “all of them”. Stay in school, begin consuming data instead of going down a rabbit hole of confirmation bias on the Internet and red pill spaces they are grifters and are LYING to you. And get some therapy for Gods sake…This hatred of women emanates from somewhere; work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:30 AM
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Me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:26 AM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:25 AM
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Forcible rape is certainly a gendered problem. Women should be getting consent before they hop on a man as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:24 AM
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“Roughly 14 percent of the budget provides assistance to families and individuals in need. This includes refundable tax credits, Supplemental Security Income, Supplemental Nutritional Assistance Program (SNAP), low-income housing and school meals.” These ARE mostly to women. But it’s such a small amount that they’re spending compared to the total budget. In addition that 14% includes child tax credits which go to families irrespective of sex. So OP’s point is just ridiculous out of the gate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:24 AM
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Or the military, predominantly employing men, or the education of children, or the regulation of the environment, criminal justice, which goes predominantly to prosecute and incarcerate MEN…exactly what is benefiting specifically women? I truly am lost with this whole discussion. If OP is referring to welfare which goes mostly to women (and their children), because men walk away and abandon their children )which is who’s fault?): “Roughly 14 percent of the budget provides assistance to families …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:20 AM
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I love this! While I Deeply love and accept myself as a person who suffered from a lot of abuse from men and been raped, I would say yes I would’ve preferred to be a man. While I’m in no way attracted to women I would assume if born a man that would be solved. My life would’ve been far easier. I would’ve gotten all sorts of credit for being a great parent instead of being expected to be one. And take on almost exclusively all of the responsibility of raising my children and keeping a home. Worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:50 PM
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I think that’s true in some fields. Particularly engineering women get out because the harassment and misogyny is so rampant. Elon Musks behavior the norm not the exception. The culture at Tesla is absolute poison. I don’t think that’s true for physically demanding jobs. It is virtually impossible for me to be an electrician because I can’t pull wire. Or a plumber because I can’t seat a toilet. Or any number of jobs that require great physical exertion. I was a nurse it ruined my back lifting 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:32 PM
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Not more biologically important more innately vulnerable thus deserving of protection.Same reason a child deserves protection. While not as vulnerable as a child we are certainly quite vulnerable. I can attest. No one is forcing you to jump in front of a car for a woman. Other men expect it because they have the innate nature of wanting to protect the vulnerable. My partner certainly like this. He saved my life. I needed his protection. He said it made him feel useful, important, and seeing me h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:26 PM
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I do not accept that. But you know this already. I believe that women and men have different but equal roles in society. Some things we can do equally well. Somethings we cannot. I believe in the Catholic Churches teaching that you’re to submit to each other. In love. Meaning a woman meets a man’s expressed needs and the man equally meets the woman’s expressed needs. I do not accept that men are better, smarter, or wiser than women. I won’t be responding to you anymore. You’re looking to complai…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:18 PM
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Everyone has skin in the game. It’s really unwise to put women next to men in combat and think that there won’t be pregnancies rapes etc, or that our physical abilities are equal. Blame biology not women my friend. Do you want to win? Then weather football, or war, men will outperform women in physically demanding rolls. It’s not true that they’re not in combat either. They can choose to be in combat roles. There are female fighter pilots, female drone techs, nurses and doctors, One of my close …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:17 PM
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Which is why they are incentivized with very high pay commensurate with the risk. That’s how capitalism works. If women can’t physically do it don’t you think men deserve to be paid more for stepping up to the plate? But again we keep coming back to it’s voluntary if it’s voluntary it’s not oppression. It’s opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:52 PM
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Because it is the norm for society women can’t do it man can. I’m confused what are you getting at? Men have the opportunity with just trade school to make a really decent income. No one is forcing them to do it. I can’t pull wire or seat a toilet. How is that not being available to me disadvantage? It opens those jobs up for men exclusively almost. It seems like a clear ADVANTAGE, Having extra physical abilities opening up paths for you not available to us no? So long as it’s voluntary! And spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:49 PM
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Dangerous no. Heavy lifting …yes…because well biology. That takes nothing from you. You are under no obligation to go into those dangerous professions. On the contrary it opens up being a plumber, an electrician, and several other things we are physically incapable of. How is that oppressive rather than freeing to have more, not less, options? The draft is a different thing! But your occupation is voluntary. The draft shouldn’t be voluntary it should be mandatory for both sexes like the Israeli …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:32 PM
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Let’s start with the definition of intimating; To imply or hint. Before you accuse someone of being stupid and using a word correctly you might want to look up that word? Now I know what I’m dealing with we’re done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:42 AM
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I made clear many times that it’s POST DNA (the goal post). And clearly acknowledged MULTIPLE TIMES there WERE ( past tense before DNA) misidentifications especially when the women are identifying black men which are a different race. Go back and look at my post you can’t refute this. The issue I suspected you went back and looked and can’t find them. Because post DNA there aren’t exonerations. Be well my work is done here!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:41 AM
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I don’t assume that I never said that. What I said was if one person is a gamer and one person is not it can be a source of conflict because you’re spending time doing different activities. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:36 AM
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Thats what you are intimating…it’s more than 10% which has to mean there is more false self reporting. Because the only motivation when it’s self reporting is truth. The motivation when you report to law-enforcement could be suspect. If you reported to law-enforcement the exonerations are documented. That means they’re catching most of the false accusations no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:14 PM
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Yes but the man who created the child has to be responsible first. If you don’t want children, knowing that women have choice and you don’t, act accordingly and wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:39 PM
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Sorry those men were not convicted in last year they were exonerated in the last year. Most of the exonerations were men that were convicted by eyewitness evidence and exonerated by DNA evidence. POST DNA Show me 10 men in one year that were exonerated for rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:38 PM
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That’s it if their hobbies are a negative impact…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:32 PM
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You shouldn’t. But you tried that’s a start. When you aren’t happy you might need to be a bit uncomfortable to illicit a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:18 PM
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Cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:06 PM
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Only if the father agrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:40 PM
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This would be wise no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:40 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:38 PM
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So you think I Joe taxpayer should do it? When a woman seeks financial assistance they must first seek that assistance from the person who created the problem not me a taxpayer. Why should taxpayers fund men’s irresponsibility by not wearing condoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:38 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:03 PM
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Since no one is in the room it’s very hard to prove rape beyond a reasonable doubt. This is why most women who are raped don’t get justice. It’s why we don’t report. It’s why we don’t go to court and put ourselves through it. I already conceded there were Convictions based on miss identification which your article supports. Most of those were obtained because of DNA. The women were intentionally convicting the wrong man as they identified the wrong person by mistake. That’s virtually unheard of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:59 PM
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These are people who went to the police to hurt someone. I can understand why women might falsely accuse a man to get back at him. I’m asking with self reporting why do you think women are lying? There is no motivation to hurt anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:46 PM
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These are people who went to the police to hurt someone. I can understand why women might falsely accuse a man to get back at him. I’m asking with self reporting what do you think women are lying? There is no motivation to hurt anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:46 PM
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I hear you and that’s cool but non gamers may not want to be with gamers as a fair amount of time will be spent in activities you don’t mutually enjoy. I wouldn’t want to be a golf widow either. Spend your free time however you enjoy it. But it may make you less compatible with some folks. That also depends on how much time you spend. If my husband played four hours of golf every single day I would get annoyed. If my husband played video games for several hours a day I’d get annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:39 AM
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Correct. But most hobbies don’t waste THAT amount of time. My Gen Z kid has games 10 hours straight on a weekend. Which is why girl gamers love being with boy gamers. But non-gamers don’t necessarily want to be with gamers as reflected on them saying so on dating profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:59 AM
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It depends on how much time they spend. What one person can tolerate another person can’t. There’s no way I would deal with somebody playing video games three hours night. An hour maybe. What would piss me off more is if they get really pissed off by being interrupted. My son gets highly annoyed when I interrupt him. In a partner this would drive me NUTS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:49 AM
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Don’t know but I’d imagine if a girls on her phone and a guy sitting there bored to death you’d be annoyed too. It’s a matter of compatibility. Are you into the same things?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:42 AM
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It has nothing to do with gender roles. It’s that people who don’t game don’t wanna be with gamers because they can’t waste IMMENSE amount of time. And it’s not an activity that you do together then you’re pretty lonely partner; it really is that simple. Non gamers don’t want to be ignored for video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:22 AM
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The choice to be alone rather than stretch is yours to make for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:18 AM
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No one is in the room when you get raped. So unsubstantiated by who the woman knows if she was raped. You’re saying most women are liars and most rapes don’t happen… it’s just ludicrous. You apparently don’t know any women. It is so frequent it’s ubiquitous with being a woman that you’re gonna be grabbed, fondled, or touched and sadly too often raped. Rape is very difficult to prove because there’s no one in the room with you. But if you think women are routinely going to emergency rooms and rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:55 PM
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So maybe all the women who are pregnant from rape aren’t really pregnant maybe it never even happened… please give me a break. They’re not even reporting to the police so why would they be making it up? They are calling rape crisis lines, or showing up in the ER afraid of stds and RELUCTANTLY do the kit when ASSURED that is their choice whether they do anything with it…but if they don’t have it, the evidence is gone. Because they are every bit is terrified of dealing with the police in the humil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:37 PM
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Most feminists are not saying only let men in. Where do you get that? Well since a few people in this country are for orderly immigration. If we don’t have immigration the price of fruits and vegetables if you have American kids picking up quadruples. You have to pay the 30 bucks an hour to have them out in the sun hot sun picking fruit. Same with your house new construction cost will go up at least 30%. Americans don’t want do roofing, mow lawns, do construction work. The problem is it’s not or…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:51 PM
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How dare you speak logically and factually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:46 PM
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Right? 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:44 PM
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Now that there is DNA that’s incredibly rare. Used to happen on eye witness testimony especially cross racial identification. Again…The bar to get a rape conviction is freaking ridiculous. I’d like you to show me 10 cases post DNA technology where men have been falsely convicted of rape and exonerated. “On average, there are 321,500 victims (age 12 or older) of rape and sexual assault each year in the United States. 9 out of every 10 victims of rape are female.” https://abetterwaymuncie.org/rape…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:41 PM
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Then don’t no one’s making you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:36 PM
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Saying nice shot is very different from being gross. Just make convo it’s not hard. And maybe some reject you most won’t. We generally smile and say we’re taken if not interested. And you don’t just walk up and ask them put you TALK to them…like before dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:34 PM
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No, is going on a dating site rape, is going to a singles group at church rapey? Why would taking up yoga be rapey? I had two female friends at learn how to play golf they figured if they met men they would at least have a job. It worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:06 PM
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We don’t have difficulty dating unless we are fat or unattractive. But…we do. Two of my friends learned to play golf to pick up men lol. They figured they have a job if they can afford to play and have something in common. It worked both times lol. And they like golf now!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:04 PM
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So you’re proffering that men who are neo conservative are suddenly going to not look for like-minded people and marry liberal women? Or that liberal women will marry Maga men? Nope that’s not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:38 PM
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Right so you have no data exactly what I said…Pure speculation on your part. And mistaken
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:36 PM
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Where’s your data? You don’t have any…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:39 PM
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I think it’s harmful to suggest hypotheticals that CANNOT happen, have never happened, and will never happen to create a false narrative…poor men…to create outrage for a problem that DOES NOT EXIST! All the while ignoring an ACTUAL REAL problem, rape culture, rape kit backlogs, no justice for women, justifying it because it’s possible it could be false. It CHAPS MY ASS. I’ve been Raped, my daughter SA, and one of her friends raped. None of my boys or their friends have endured a fake rape accusa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:37 PM
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Right I’m pointing out what deflection is, giving an example that mirrors yours, saying that women haven’t changed in ten years. If it’s false where is your data to suggest it’s inaccurate? Oh you don’t have any? Right so attack the data since you can’t prove it false. It’s like Trump claiming fake news…when it’s not…🤦‍♀️🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:31 PM
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Because it’s true. Some of that data was 2012. Do you think women’s suddenly over the last 10 years don’t care about compatibility? It’s such a bizarre thing to question and a lame excuse ( data too old) to do so. 🤦‍♀️🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:08 PM
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I never said there weren’t false rape accusations I said people don’t get castrated for false rape accusations. They don’t even get convicted let alone castrated. Castration requires conviction generally for pedophilia and a repeat offender. Castration of an innocent person has never, and will never happen… ever ….ever… ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:01 PM
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If it were recent you find a different reason to deflect…because it doesn’t fit your narrative. The other day I was debating with a guy and he said women “never invented anything”. I gave him a list of 101 inventions from chemotherapy to the circular saw and he said not in the last 10 years 🙄. Women haven’t changed since 2012 my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:53 PM
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5% of rape accusations are false. The rest…you just get no justice. Since you don’t have a eye witness in the room, unless the man beats the shit out of the woman, there’s virtually no chance she’s ever going to see any justice. Date rape, drunk rape, spousal rape ( my situation) forget it that’s why we don’t even report. Why put yourself through it? Hell there is such a backlog of rape kits they’re not even looking for the perpetrators if it’s a stranger… We don’t care about women or children i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:50 PM
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When it doesn’t fit your narrative deflect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:47 PM
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They don’t get chemically castrated though. That requires an extraordinary amount of proof. And false convictions for rape almost unheard of ; accusation yea convictions no. You can’t even get a conviction on an actual rape let alone a faux rape. Before DNA there was misidentification particularly of African-American rapist by white women as cross racial misidentification happens. Since DNA Haven’t heard of a single one. For every man falsely accused of rape, as (that’s 5%) there are 19 women ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:38 PM
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My ex BF did yoga and met a couple women. But…he wasn’t doing it for that purpose but a bad back. Got to know them before anything. The others I can’t speak to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:38 PM
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Not ridiculous ones that will NEVER-happen to create faux outrage in men…cuz…it has never…will never…ever…ever happen. Chemical castration is reserved for pedophiles with multiple convictions. It’s just a stupid faux outrage argument. And that shit pisses me off as a rape survivor who got ZERO justice!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:36 PM
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Yes I am ABSOLUTELY saying that. Please show me where it’s happened. Please change my mind. Rape convictions are almost impossible; there has to be irrefutable evidence and to get someone castrated multiple sexual assaults. So yes I’m saying it does not; has not; will not EVER happen. Show me a case to prove I’m wrong…I’ll wait…forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:57 AM
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US not trolling stats SADLY https://rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:54 AM
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To meet a partner? If you’re happy alone don’t. But don’t pretend while doing hobbies that you would otherwise that are male dominated the advice exploring hobbies to meet people us trash. When you choose male hobbies… If you choose volunteer work and hobbies where you’d meet females and still can’t the advice to put yourself out there is trash. If you’re not putting yourself out there you can’t discount the advice. That’s my only point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:08 AM
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It’s stupid as it doesn’t happen and suggests that there are false rape accusations regularly which is dumb so I’m gonna call BS on a non existent hypothetical that was proffered as something that actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:57 AM
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It’s not rare it’s nonexistent. Less than 3% of rapist ever serve a day in jail it’s so hard to prove. Of the rapist that are convicted almost none have to and undergo chemical castration. This scenario doesn’t exist… when you can show me - single case where it’s happened…then we’ll talk about it but you can’t. There is no justice for rape victims male female child adult none…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:55 AM
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Your proffering that a man was castrated unjustly provide proof
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:43 AM
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If it’s chemical he stops taking hormones. Physical castration virtually does not happen and I’ve never heard of a SINGLE CASE Where the perpetrator has literally been proven innocent. If you do I’ll change my mind please provide link? Until you provide me with one I’m gonna go bullshit on the story because men accused of rape generally have raped: False rape allegations are rare. accusations are rare. Real rapists only go to jail 3% of the time Chemical castration even with rape is exceedingly …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:30 AM
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That sucks as two were potentially female hobbies. This is good feedback thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:06 AM
0

Bravo!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:54 AM
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Didn’t say it was all I’m saying is don’t proffer that you’re trying to use hobbies to meet women when you choose male hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:46 AM
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Great but don’t pretend that you’ve joined a hobby and it’s failed you because it hasn’t attracted women when you choose a male hobby. If you want to meet women you have to go to places where women are my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:44 AM
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Choosing a male hobby isn’t to meet women… It’s just having a hobby hoping to meet women there’s quite a difference no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:43 AM
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Video games d and d? That’s a guy hobby have you tried a co-Ed hobby?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:42 AM
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What did you do that hadn’t curious?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:42 AM
2

Me too you’re an example; BRAVO!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:43 PM
3

Soooo proud of you for knowing your worth!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:05 PM
4

This is correct. He’s angry because he didn’t have access to the casual sex that he wanted. He thought by rejecting her she’d try harder and fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:09 PM
2

Something? It’s obvious he wants sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:08 PM
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Or a tactic to make her try so he could have uncommitted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:07 PM
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Church
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 06:38 AM
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“In 2013, 58% of divorced or widowed U.S.-born adults had remarried, compared with 51% among the foreign born.” https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2014/11/14/chapter-2-the-demographics-of-remarriage/ You’re literally pulling shit from you’re ass 1%.😂. Hint. The remaining 42% that don’t remarry don’t want to. I would be part of the 42% but I am living with a man who helps support me and my children. I will NEVER MARRY AGAIN!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:19 AM
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This is NUTS. I was single with three young kids after divorce and found a 6’2” man who makes more than my ex doctor husband. Didn’t need that but not complaining. He could’ve had anyone he wanted, he wanted more than just looks although I’m attractive. He wanted brains, education, connection. We DO NOT have an expiration date. I STILL get hit on by guys significantly younger. And I’m the one who said no to marriage much to his chagrin. I got burned no thanks. This is what red pill men say to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:01 AM
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Yep why many women are choosing to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:38 AM
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Yes. That’s already the shift. More women are going to college than men now. More females are doctors. More men are staying at home with their parents living in their basement working dead end jobs and gaming… this will continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:47 AM
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Lol…I know. Had a 27 year old guy who put in a driveway for me, Cuban. Mind you I’m Gen X could be his mom. I couldn’t figure out why he stayed and talked to my contractor most of the day after finishing. I figured he was slacking. Nope his business it turns out. Pedro next day says in his broken English “ you notice he stay all day?” I said “ yes why he was done by 1:00?” He said “he think you beautiful asked me you have plastic surgery give you boobs and ass, I tell him I no think so. 😂. He li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:57 AM
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It is but you asked that’s what gets my panties wet…I can fall in love with others which In time will make me sexually attracted to them. But just seeing someone on the street and thinking that might be a fun one night stand something I would never consider… That’s my niche. I’m lucky though Latin men love me. If anything ever happened to my significant other it I’d have no problem finding a Latin man 10 years younger. They hit on me most. I’m thin but with tits and ass which…is their thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:06 AM
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Dick pup tents don’t lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:15 PM
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5’10 or over Latin or Italian men with big arms and chest. Full head of curly hair. Benjamin Bratt, OMG…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:13 PM
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Unless you’re a drug user or have a criminal hx. you can absolutely see your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:08 PM
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Most states are automatic 50-50 now. Which is how it should be kids need both parents. They have an attachment and bond with both parents they get different qualities from both parents. You get something different from a mother than from a father. I hate to see men walk out on the kids it’s tragic. Women very seldom do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:25 PM
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This site is worldwide, not a monolith, and women in ALL cultures have been historically mistreated and still are. More women endure SA, more women are murdered by intimate partners than the reverse, women engineers report such blatant sexual harassment in the “ boys club” they have left the profession. It’s better here and getting better still. But misogyny isn’t dead. The entire Republican Party is proving that true RIGHT NOW. She “ slept her way to the top”, Inferring she couldn’t possibly ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:10 PM
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Thank you for this. I’m LOVING middle age, the wisdom and peace. Not tolerating overt BS. Not this minute as I have cancer, but immediately preceding happiest and healthiest I’ve ever been. Things hurt more. After nursing three kids my boobs sag more. I’d go back for NOTHING!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:52 PM
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Red pill is its her fault as she’s the idiot for picking him. Have you met a narcissist? They don’t advertise it. He advertised he went to church every Sunday why I loved him. And made me feel great love bombing me. Boy can I see it coming now…but then… Then he use that religion to control and abuse me. Truly I did not see it coming and it didn’t come out until after we were married and I was pregnant. He knew I was reticent over divorce the father of my kids. They are calculating. And I’m NOT s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:10 PM
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My ex husband
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:06 PM
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Or she’s stuck with very young kids ESPECIALLY if a SAHM. Hard to leave before you go back to work. Going to work will enrage your abuser. Source: DV survivor SAHM breastfeeding mom of three under 5. Went to work after she weaned. It got worse thank God I’m free!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:03 PM
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Deflection of any redpill criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:50 PM
3

The most plain and clear explanation I’ve ever read on here. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:43 PM
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👏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:40 PM
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I gave you data. You didn’t respond to it. If generation Z is more conservative than their parents why is the parents demographic more Republican and the kids demographic more Democrat? In case you missed it I’ll give you the link again… https://www.statista.com/statistics/319068/party-identification-in-the-united-states-by-generation/ This is science not speculation. Gen Z would have either Gen X, or boomer parents. Both more Republican. Gen Z and millennial do not. Homosexuality is certainly m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:32 PM
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I guess we will see won’t we? If Trump wins you’re right. If Kamala I am. She will get women (as we don’t want our bodies controlled or a rapist who wants to grab us by the pussy as president). She will get what youth vote shows up. Until age 50 current demographics show democratic advantage. BOTH millennials and Gen Z are more democratic. She will get non misogynistic men. College educated period lean democratic. https://www.statista.com/statistics/319068/party-identification-in-the-united-stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:46 PM
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That’s the point they want to legislate all this. They wanna outlaw birth control they wanna let women die when they’re miscarrying ( should have kept her legs closed or it’s Gods will), stop women from voting… Women in America will rise up we will not be Afghanistan. Good luck getting those policies pass. More women vote than men this is the last election you’ll ever see a Republican have a chance. Demographics are changing. Young people are liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:56 PM
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It happened you just don’t like who covered it. Fox News isn’t going to cover Magats making threats…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:50 PM
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They took out both sides of their mouth all the time. Women who don’t have sex by the third day they don’t want to be with but then if they sleep with me they are sluts…Really they’re just bitter, not getting laid, and blame women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:38 PM
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That’s red pill we should have “ benevolent sex”…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:00 PM
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Absolutely not. I am sheet white and prefer men with a little color. Hispanic, Italian, and Asian specifically. I idolized my Italian grandfather I don’t know if it reminds me of him…green eyed 6 foot tall Honduran contractor in our neighborhood would bring my kids donuts. It was tempting he was beautiful! And Benjamin Bratt oh my God!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:06 AM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:35 PM
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So she’s a sex slot machine not a connection or person got it. Why for me no sex before monogamy. That’s how you become a cum dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:49 PM
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Sure it’s not because we now work full time but are still expected to do most the childcare and domestic work and it’s TOO MUCH. Two full time jobs…has to be about sex. I think you have motivations confused it’s more men into casual sex. Women want relationships and stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:34 PM
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Yes there are many logical women. I’m one…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:14 PM
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You’re blessed we don’t get that here. I wouldn’t want to cook for 8 hours either. If he can take off great but you’ll find kids are sick a LOT the first year There’s no way my husband would’ve had enough sick days to take off every time my kids were sick along with me. I had to care for them sick. Like the first trimester of the next pregnancy. And he definitely should appreciate your contribution and feel that it is just as important as his contribution. Being a stay at home mom is every bit a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/24 07:20 AM
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You said you don’t want to be expected to cook three times a day. When you have kids you cook three times a day. Also when you’re sick you don’t get a day off if your husband has to go to work. You have to take care of the kids while you’re sick. And when the kids are sick you have to take care of them sick even when you’re sick as well. And while you’re sick pregnant you still may have little kids to care for. People think staying home is easy it’s not. Kids are exhausting. Being pregnant , whi…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/24 07:09 AM
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If he’s working full-time and you’re staying home part of your job is to be a maid. Cook, and a nanny. Otherwise go work full-time and pay for a maid, cook, and a nanny. That’s what partnership is. It seems like you want him to work full-time come home and take care of you the rest of his hours. It’s bizarre. If you’re happy working part time and can support yourself preferring that to childcare, cooking and cleaning and having a partner; do what you’re doing. But to expect him to work two jobs …
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/24 06:56 AM
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Why you should think carefully before not having a career. Though assets acquired during the marriage are split and you can get child support it’s still a vulnerable position. But if you don’t want to work, don’t want to cook and clean, aren’t a SAHM what do you bring to him?
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/24 06:48 AM
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What are you talking about? I’m saying men attractive or not want sex in short order but then call women sluts for having multiple partners. It’s a no win bizarre thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:23 AM
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Genuine question? How are you an unpaid cook and maid if you’re not working and he’s paying all the bills ( that single you’d pay through employment far more hours than cooking and cleaning)? It’s a team, he’s working outside the home you’re working inside the home. That’s what traditional means.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/24 01:21 AM
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Even the guys that want relationships want sex by the third date
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:57 AM
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It doesn’t matter what man you’re with. You can be with a butt ugly man they still want sex by the third date. Your theory doesn’t hold water. And there’s no guarantee that a short ugly non charismatic guy is gonna be better to you than a good looking guy. In fact they are often jealous and insecure if you’re better looking. Unless you’re meeting a guy at church, in today’s culture, they expect you to put out in short order.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:47 PM
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Yes. Women have adjusted to working more than men have adjusted to increased responsibilities at home and the need to compete for women who no longer have to “ partner up” especially as they no longer hunt and fish but rely on dating apps. Which will not work for average guys. Women are having more casual sex in part because men won’t wait, and for some because they love sex and there’s less stigma now. But the casual sex they’re having is with incredibly attractive men because they can. Much li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:14 PM
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So can older women…I’m Gen X and guys 10-20 years younger hit on me. Not with the same fervor as my 20-30s when it was ANNOYING it was so frequent, but enough I never worry about being alone if my partner dies. It’s really just are you fit and attractive? Especially since many Americans are obese. If the answer is yes, you’ll have zero issues attracting the opposite sex and younger as well. I look significantly younger than I am I’ve been told; but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:09 PM
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RN with ICU trauma and ER experience, thank you for this comment. And one would hope they leave ED with a sense of how profound alcohol alone can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:58 PM
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I love this!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:18 PM
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For the men you’re correct. They can walk away without consequence we cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:17 PM
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Cuz they are so honest…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:16 PM
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Trauma nurse who saw lots of male attempted suicides. Most of them were related to being broken up with, or drugs and alcohol. It was not domestic violence. Also veterans with PTSD. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen but that’s not why men are killing themselves. Most men who are killing themselves are single and depressed to be so. Married people have lowest suicide risk so…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/24 02:11 PM
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I get it. The hormones from Mirena are not systemic like BC pills. Why even women with blood clot hx can have them. If you want ZERO then I see why copper IUD. There’s also diaphragm with spermicide and condoms. At least we have choices!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:05 PM
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I wouldn’t do copper as it can worsen bleeding. Mirena was great stopped my periods!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:59 AM
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Oral does nothing for me. I can’t relax. I prefer to give no receive but that’s me. And yes I need dick but also have to touch my clit. Or he needs to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:07 PM
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I said there is no justice for victims. Here’s the difference in property crimes you usually don’t know who broke in your house and stole your TV. Conversely you do generally know who raped you. Yet you still can’t get justice. And if it’s a stranger you’re really screwed because they might not even run the rape kit. They just don’t care about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:03 PM
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Then she shouldn’t have sex with you unless you’re tested too right? Especially since women catch STI is more easily than men…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:42 PM
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Actually people in good marriages are happier irrespective of sex. It’s just more women suffer in marriage or are in unhappy marriages based on most divorce filers being women. Men cheat more, beat us, have more substance abuse issues, help less at home… Both men and women in HAPPY marriages live longer. Just fewer women are in happy marriages…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/24 04:01 AM
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It wasn’t taboo. It wasn’t demanded as often by women who are less sexually repressed but has always been the fastest path to orgasm. Unselfish men care about us getting off too. It’s not my thing ( receiving) But if a guy expected to receive oral and wasn’t willing to do it had I asked that would be a no way for me. I ask for other things that get me off instead if he didn’t care about my pleasure…nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:50 AM
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Do you expect head?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:47 AM
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Oh we are definitely unhappy that we are stepping up to be providers but men aren’t equally stepping up in childcare and help at home. Why half of women no longer are having kids and won’t until men step up. And most divorce filers are women. That’s not feminisms fault that’s on lazy men. But ZERO chance we were happier before we had choices and financial freedom. It’s just harder to be a woman in many regards. But I’m INSANELY happy since divorce. I lost 154 pounds of dead weight! Now I’m partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:21 AM
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We have treatment for depression and can use it now as there is less stigma regarding mental struggles. I ASSURE you when you talk to Gen X and boomer women they will tell you they were NOT better off. Or they wouldn’t have marched in the streets. Why they encourage younger women NOT to depend on men, NOT to give up their careers…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:00 AM
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You’re nuts. Women were NOT happier when we had few rights, our husbands could rape and beat us with impunity. They were happier we were not. Why do you think women are choosing career and not to have kids? Cuz…we can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:57 AM
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So it’s ok for men to be promiscuous and women should limit this by keeping our legs closed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:49 AM
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Women are happier…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:46 AM
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Incredibly successful for…MEN. Who were allowed to rape us if married or beat us until the 1970s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:44 AM
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Sounds right. They want you to be with a short asshole so they know ANYONE can find a woman and they don’t need to be nice. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:34 PM
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And want to do away with no fault divorce sans JD Vance event though “ some of those marriages were even violent” forcing women to stay and take abuse like the old days. Nope we’d rather be single. We’re not THAT lonely nor are we dependent like our mothers and grandmothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:33 PM
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“An analysis by RAINN found that 97% of rapists never spend a single day in jail for their crimes. “ https://time.com/40110/rape-culture-is-real/#:~:text=%E2%80%9CIf%20we%20already%20despise%20rapists,in%20jail%20for%20their%20crimes. You’re mistaken….and there are many more sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:24 PM
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97% of rapists never serve a day in jail. The rape victims lives are ruined. Should we just stop prosecuting all crimes rape included? A lot has happened since Central Park including DNA. Wrongful convictions thankfully are even more rare and they were never common. What’s your solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:17 AM
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It’s $600 with insertion at planned parenthood insurance ( if you have insurance) is required to cover it under affordable care. But I agree they should be FREE to anyone who wants it irrespective of circumstances as it’s cheaper than a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:38 PM
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Not in Nevada
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:37 PM
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Definitely have to find what works for you, side effects, convenience of use, affordability, accessibility, reliability… I’m just glad we have options and can control our futures in a way our grandmothers could not. Thanks to all you fighters that paved the way for us! Now we have to protect our daughters as their rights are being eroded!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:17 PM
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Male or female this is true. Though I’ve had zero issues. I don’t need a million options I need one compatible man.🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:13 PM
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No 5.4% which is why now they have you take drugs to soften the cervix the day before. Same drugs used for abortion making that tough in some states to access fucking republicans!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:12 PM
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I know I’ve had three. It’s a bitch. But being a woman is no easy thing…childbirth hurts significantly more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:10 PM
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Because most men especially in marriage aren’t willing to wear them forever. If you can get them to great. No method of birth control is risk less. IUDs are the most safe of the available options saving condoms or diaphragms. They have less adverse effects than traditional birth control pills or implants. Pelvic inflammatory disease is more with copper IUD is not Mirena. I’m just glad that we are able to control our own reproductive health. Women were forced to have a baby after baby with no acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:17 AM
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I think often women get info from other women, tik tock, etc not their obgyn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:55 AM
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If it makes them heavier have it removed but this is not common with hormonal IUDs. It’s just not. Yes it’s painful and they need to give sedation it sucks. But it’s not NEARLY as painful as labor so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:50 AM
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You’re bitter get help. I’m sorry a woman hurt you but grow up. All women are not bad and most humans learn from their mistakes women included.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:09 AM
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I got divorced had three school age kids and am with my partner who helps me raise them and I his son. I was 40. It’s a lie. Divorced dads date divorced moms. If you stay thin and take care of yourself you have no expiration date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:52 AM
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What can happen and what does happen… I base decisions on the most likely outcome and Mirena is generally well tolerated and DOES IN FACT generally lighten or stop periods. If you have adverse reactions have it removed. But it’s the most sensible long term low risk way to avoid pregnancy aside from condoms or diaphragm. I’d take it over systemic hormones ANY DAY!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:37 AM
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😂good luck with that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:35 AM
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Agree they won’t be with ugly. But they will take a pretty nurse or doctor over a pretty cashier. At the end of the day you still want to talk. That’s hard to do with someone who doesn’t have a similar level of education.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:34 AM
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Then buy sex simple
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:21 AM
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I’m sorry you had a bad experience but this is not usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:20 AM
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And protect from stds!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:06 PM
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Up to you to each their own. And other than at insertion there are very few side effects from Mirena. There are LOTS of side effects from systemic hormones like the pill or implants. They cause blood clots, strokes, weight gain all sorts of issues. There’s also diaphragm with spermicide if you don’t want hormones. Soon there will be male birth control too! Good we have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:03 PM
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I think women have misconceptions about it. They think they’re getting the same amount of systemic hormone as if they’re taking the pill when it’s really just localized in their uterus. It makes it far safer long-term to use than pills or implants. ESPECIALLY if you smoke! From a safety and efficacy point of view it seems like a no brainer. But the insertion pain is significant. I have a high pain tolerance it was worth a few days of discomfort to avoid weight gain, bloating, taking a pill every…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:34 PM
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Whatever works for you! I’m glad he’s cool about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:30 PM
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You do realize they are just progesterone no estrogen right? And they stop your period so no cramps. You are not well informed. It’s a tiny amount of hormone in the uterus. There’s very little systemically which is why even women with clotting issues can use them. You should get info from a doctor not the internet. They are painful to have put in but a VERY safe and reliable method of birth control. MUCH safer than abortion which is much safer than pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:28 PM
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I agree completely and it needs to change. But…again…it’s safer and less risky than a baby. It’s part of what sucks being a woman and it needs to change. I’ve had three. They are awful. But beat the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:24 PM
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You’re a good guy! Bless you!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:23 PM
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My point. Doctors marry nurses, lawyers, other doctors. They cannot ask the cashier at Wendy’s to hang with the junior league crowd and not get picked on. They want kids raised by someone with some education as well. Some men don’t care. Very educated men tend to choose women who have at least a bachelors degree or career of some sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:23 PM
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If you think waking all day and night to feed a baby every 2-3 hours is sitting on your ass 😂😂😂. Staying home with three kids under 4 breastfeeding two at once hardest thing I’ve ever done and I was a trauma nurse who worked 16 hour shifts at times. Going back to work was a GODSEND when my youngest was weaned. Adult convo no whining lol. But we wanted to give them the very best start in life. From the best health due to breast-feeding, to all the attention love and attachment parenting that coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:19 PM
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It is to me. It’s painful so is labor and pregnancy. It doesn’t cause the side effects of the pill. Nothing to remember. Lightens or stops your period… I’m a nurse to me it’s just such a common sense option. 🤷‍♀️. Or condoms least invasive and std protection. I get not wanting implants, or the pill. IUDs I don’t get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:14 PM
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Yes. A few days of pain that don’t BEGIN to compare to the pain of labor. Or frankly put a price on no period for 6 years when my cramps were awful. Having said that we should be numbed no man would be put through such a thing without anesthesia. Sucks to be a woman in myriad ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:12 PM
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If you’re not worried about stds and just want barrier a diaphragm with spermicide is easier, more comfortable for all involved. Why more women don’t have IUDs is baffling. Very little systemic hormone, extremely effective, lightens or stops your period…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:00 PM
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You can date by any criteria you choose. If you’re a woman who wants the choice to stay home and nurse each child a full year ( my desire and my future husbands) he needs to make enough to fund that. It was just as important to him I be willing to stay home and do so. We all have different priorities and family was a huge one for both of us. While the marriage didn’t work the kids turned out amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:11 PM
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Lol…it’s been said many a woman lit a fire in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:39 PM
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Women don’t learn from their mistakes or the mistakes of others? Hmmm I learned live with but never marry a man and they can’t control you. Pretty sure I learned!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:34 PM
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And employed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:30 PM
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While this may be true initially surgeons generally want intelligent discourse along with their sex and don’t often date Wendy’s cashiers. So…depends on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:29 PM
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Victim of what? I’m asking for real life example of your claim random women abuse you out of the blue. It just sounds incredibly odd. Looking for context…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:01 PM
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I suspect it will level and drop as crime has done. Close quarters made people crazy. But domestic violence in pregnancy is common sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:01 PM
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Up since COVID; Homicide is one of the leading causes of death among pregnant and postpartum individuals in the United States, and during the COVID-19 pandemic, firearm violence and homicide rates increased among the general public.Sep 16, 2022
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:59 PM
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Agree, pregnancy dangerous. It’s when my abuse started.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:57 PM
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Makes me wonder what you’re putting out there to be met with such hostility. It’s certainly not normal. I don’t go around being unkind to anyone men included for no reason. Random women come up without provocation to insult you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:56 PM
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On here they claim men under 6’ get no traction so dunno.🤷‍♀️ Shorty is charming, Mensa studying engineering so bright future, has musical talent, and the most beautiful head of thick curls you’ve ever seen. He was always popular with girls. He’s cute not handsome. But he’s just got charisma. He’s witty and funny and kind. 🤷‍♀️ My younger is model good looking. Six pack and all. Girls chase him his height has zero impedance. He has my Chiseled cheekbones, and angular face, his Asian dads color, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:50 PM
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One is 5’9” the other 5’6”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:04 PM
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I have three Gen Z kids. Both boys are short and despite what this sub says are in healthy relationships with beautiful girls. Their voices are heard in their relationships. BUT they equally hear their partners. They can be themselves and are respected. I love their girls. And they treat them like gold as I taught them to. My daughter is in a healthy relationship. He spoils her, adores her, cares for her when she’s sick or sad. She’s his cheerleader and biggest fan. They are freaking ADORABLE to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:58 PM
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They still happen. Source DV victim trauma nurse. Large cause of death in pregnant women is homicide by intimate partner. 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:47 PM
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This is likely the most sensible thing I’ve read on the sub to date! Bravo!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:44 PM
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No one held a gun to his head She’s exploiting his money He her youth and beauty Seems quid pro quo to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:55 AM
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He can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:53 AM
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But…we have the power to change it with our vote. Something we didn’t always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:56 PM
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We already are having population decline. Without immigration we’d collapse. Women are exhausted doing everything. Since we have to work,and men haven’t stepped up in helping or coparenting many women are not having children. And everything you said is SPOT on!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:53 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:50 PM
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My kids girlfriends are VERY affectionate towards them. This isn’t true…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:59 PM
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Dude…everyone has physical standards including you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:45 AM
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Well if I can get a tall, good looking, successful man ( I did) that blows you’re theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:44 AM
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Right so it’s not impossible to find women when you get in shape. Why don’t more men not having romantic success go to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:43 AM
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Your assertion is that young men can’t get girlfriends if short. My kids aren’t Hispanic, they’re short, and they have girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:10 AM
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Welcome to a woman’s world…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:10 AM
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You’re only talking about women’s physical appearance and yet you’re calling them shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:48 AM
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Cuz they are warehouse guys. If you have a bachelors in accounting you can get an apt at 22 after graduation. It’s not having an apt alone it’s being independent. If a man is living on his own and a girl is still at her parents house where he has to pick her up it’s probably an inappropriate relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:47 AM
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Women are slightly more likely (40%) than men (35%) to have obesity. Obesity specifically affects some different aspects of women’s health.Mar 24, 2022 https://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/overweight-and-obesity/women#:~:text=Language%20switcher&text=Women%20are%20slightly%20more%20likely,different%20aspects%20of%20women’s%20health. Not significantly different. Americans need to eat less and move more irrespective of sex. I’m Gen X and still a size 4. It’s just work. And we are picky due to the high…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:42 AM
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I have three Gen Z kids. Boy 5’9” has girlfriend, boy 5’7” has a girlfriend, daughter whose boyfriend is 5’10”. All of my sons friends also have girlfriends. They are in college where they are with lots of other young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:35 AM
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I think you just mean obesity. Men are obese in America too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:31 AM
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But these girls are hurt later. You often read of these girls who get together at 18, give their youth to a man who chose them so he could control and manipulate them. You change the four years you go to school or work and support yourself. Girls who aren’t self supporting shouldn’t be with men who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:24 AM
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Yes and it’s sad. We need to help boys and men in better ways. This violence seems intertwined with poverty. Education is protective though domestic violence crosses all races and classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:22 AM
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It was fun! But after 10 years I was worn out by the “trauma drama”. Not the patients they were unconscious on my schedule lol… But the families. Most of trauma is alcohol and drug related …drug deals gone wrong, suicides gone wrong, dumb ( jump off the skyway bungee breaks 🤦‍♀️, alcoholic G.I. bleeds, alcoholic car accidents, alcohol related domestic violence, drunk bar fights…you get the idea. Any unit in any trauma center at any given time is 60-80 % men any given time. Times 90%… We have WOR…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:24 AM
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Then support your claims… Ummm you can’t. I’ll wait for data based links…forever…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:58 AM
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How old are you now? No shade genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:07 AM
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And 13 Your old seduced by 19-year-old. It’s messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:06 AM
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You do you. I have no issue with the kid. My issue was with the adult man or woman who takes advantage of the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:42 PM
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The women leave FUCKED UP. I will warn them at EVERY TURN that they are being USED as a CUM DUMPSTER, and will be traded in as it’s looks based. Do not be enamored with his money, worldliness, success, or confidence. He older. He seems cool cuz your a kid. In the same way a teacher seemed cool in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:42 PM
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DEFINITELY In fact, more so as they cannot manage life on their own and will be totally dependent on the man. College is a forced maturing process that doesn’t happen when you’re not in college. Unless you’re living independently. Adult men shouldn’t be dating girls who live at home with mommy and daddy. They aren’t women they are dependent children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:35 PM
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Yes but that’s college on steroids. I’m comparing it to living at home with mom and dad not a guy in the military which, honestly, I think brings maturity faster and more measurably than even a college education. Doesn’t necessarily increase your critical thinking skills as much, but it for sure gives you life experience, exposure to other cultures, and lots of beautiful things. I am a Navy brat for reference. I was a trauma nurse. Our trauma surgeons were ex military. I love you for serving tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:34 PM
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No in mid 20s when it’s appropriate. But at 18 yes. Until college graduation most kids aren’t self supporting. If you’re not self supporting you’re too young to be in a relationship. In my opinion anyway. You don’t have enough life skills to evaluate properly the risks and rewards of a partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:55 PM
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Agree and BOTH sexes have skin in the game. Though I would argue all women have skin in the game, we have husbands, sons, fathers. None of us want war.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:54 PM
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It gives you not just life experience but critical thinking skills. I can’t imagine being anywhere near the person I was at 20 had a not gone to college at 16. I would’ve been the same insular, right wing, judgmental, religious fanatic I grew up as. I went to a very conservative Christian college but yet it was more liberal than the way I grew up. I was exposed for the first time two other thoughts. College makes you mature FASTER. In a way just working doesn’t. But even that… supporting yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:53 PM
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No life experience Haven’t supported themselves No education Inability to support themselves making them dependent on a man who’s preying on them A start…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:45 PM
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Neither are good two wrongs don’t make a right. I believe EVERYONE should serve two years, the Israeli model. Then we all get skin in the game. The draft hasn’t been used since Vietnam btw…maybe find a real arguement?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:41 PM
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Because they are in fact kids. The brain isn’t done forming until 26. Getting drunk at 21 doesn’t alter your life trajectory. Getting in a relationship at 18 with a 30 year old man absolutely destroys your whole fucking life! You have no idea you’re being manipulated used and abused. You’re a kid with an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:39 PM
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You do you boo! Hair sounds cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:30 PM
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Sorry but before college they are kids getting with adults not knowing better. An 18 year old with a 30 year old is same as a 14 year old with an 18 year old. WILDLY in appropriate. After college up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:25 PM
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I didn’t say don’t marry. I said have your own means because you can’t trust a man. And yes a man should always prepared that a woman could leave: 70% of divorce filers are women. Behave accordingly…prenup if you come in with substantially more assets etc. Hope for the best but ESPECIALLY if you’re a woman: PLAN FOR THE WORST! There’s a good chance you’ll get it!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:40 PM
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Ahhh who cares? Like literally the odds of an issue are small. If not procreating for sure fuck if you want to. Why would I want to be in someone else’s bedroom, body…NONE OF MY BUSINESS!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:45 PM
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He was a narcissist, they fool you. Nice try at victim blaming. Thing is we CANNOT always discern bad men so we must plan that all men are potentially bad. I had no signs until pregnancy, when I was trapped. This is in NO WAY unusual, The number one cause of death for pregnant women is homicide not the baby. Men HATE not being the center of attention. 🤷‍♀️Worse after the baby is here. Being vulnerable in ANY WAY to a MAN is a FULL STOP mistake. They are selfish we are not. You should ALWAYS have…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:43 PM
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The latter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:38 PM
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What does this even mean? How are their BODIES affected by living together? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:34 PM
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Yes full stop. You want to smoke, drink yourself into the grave, eat crap have at it. Mask, don’t mask….vaccinate don’t…your body your choice. And if I need an abortion…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:33 PM
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I did this. It was a HUGE MISTAKE. He cheated on me and ultimately assaulted me. It was HARD when I went back due to RAPID changes in my field. Had I stayed home longer it might have been insurmountable! Girls: stay home a year if you can. Breastfeed, bond, that year is GOLD to BOTH you and the baby! Then get back to work. NEVER count on a man. They might turn out to be a selfish dog and you can’t know until the stress of kids makes their colors show.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:30 PM
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Thank you that’s very kind!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:33 PM
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If the guy was a great guy why would you divorce him? By the time we leave we have moaned and bitched and what men would call “nagged” for YEARS. We give up then become so miserable that the pain of divorce seems less awful than the pain of living with someone who treats us like our needs don’t matter and what we want is irrelevant. Happy women do not divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:23 PM
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You nailed it. I worked because I missed it after my kids were weaned. The daycare cost almost what I made two shifts a week. But I got to keep my skills ( and sanity lol). Adore my kids but I needed to use my brain too. My money was 401K money. Average incomes it’s paying bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:54 PM
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Hear that a LOT. Guy carded me and did a double take and went “ nah” and looked again. But I eat clean, work out, don’t smoke, rarely drink, and have good genetics ( my mom was the same).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:26 PM
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Yep. My best friends daughters teen boyfriends told me I was a milf ( passed on by the girls). I was like what’s that? They told me and I found out that’s niche porn lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:47 PM
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Yep had a 27 year old ask me out. 😳🙈🤷‍♀️ I said “ that’s flattering but I’m taken and you’re just past jail bait” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:41 PM
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Thank you and I agree with all you have said. Because he’s attractive and successful there is no insecurity and yes, his BIGGEST requirement was intelligence yet not acerbic. Your female colleagues may need to be ball busters to be respected. Female trauma surgeons same. It’s rare and they have to be BETTER and TOUGH to not be harassed and garner respect. Lots of females in medicine very few are surgeons. I’m a nurse we are allowed if not encouraged to be soft and nurturing. My ex-husband did no…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:37 PM
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Doubtful. He’s not homophobic at all. In fact we’d both like to see Pete Buttigieg as Kamala Harris’ running mate. If that’s what he was, he’d just be that. Also young he got around. My middle kid lol “ was Mister … a player?” I cracked up and admitted he was. Kids response “ I bet with those eyes”, lol. Additionally he was a professional sports writer, hockey player, rated tennis player, and is very masculine. He chose me specifically because I’m naturally submissive, and feminine which he pref…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:41 AM
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Men like thin, classy, attractive women who present themselves well. They/we don’t have an expiration date. I’m certainly not invisible as I was assured I would be after 40.🤣 Most guys would fuck Jennifer Anniston. As long as you take care of yourself… Don’t you think it’s to scare young girls into dating them? They wanna make them feel insecure? Settle or you’ll be an old cat lady? JD Vance style. PS: I found a man ( in short order after divorce) who makes over $250,000 a year 6’2” with spectac…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:53 AM
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I’m Gen X and I get hit on REGULARLY exactly by the milf cohort. What a joke we expire. No matter how old we get there’s always going to be men older unless we live to be 80. And by then who cares lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:58 PM
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Because you know when they’re not gonna put in the effort and sometimes when it’s that miserable you just want it to end. And you don’t want to hurt their feelings where they don’t care so much about yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:41 PM
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But…we don’t. It’s a preference . Again if we did my 5’6” and 5’9” sons wouldn’t get attention and they have zero issues getting girls. None whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:15 PM
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Were that true my boys would get no attention and that simply isn’t the case. I think you want to attribute something to height because it’s something you can’t fix. It makes it easier to be a victim? Women prefer taller men just like men prefer prettier women. But they won’t turn down a good looking man because he’s not 6 foot tall that’s just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:10 PM
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Yes I do they just draw the line at a different place. Everyone has physical preferences they are simply stating theirs. While I wouldn’t anyone can have any requirements they want. We all have different priorities. Men want low body count so that they can be assured paternity. Women want strength and size so they can be assured of protection. It all goes back to evolutionarily biology and it doesn’t change overnight my friend. Women want resources men want youth and beauty. Again evolutionary b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:10 PM
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They absolutely say they won’t date a fat girl. Men won’t date fat, women won’t date super short. There is no difference or both physical features.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:00 PM
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They don’t. The average woman prefers a man 5 inches taller and since the average woman is 5’4” the requirement is 5’9”. I have an incredibly good looking 5‘9“ son and trust me he’s never had a girl turn him down because he’s 5’9” not 6 foot. He doesn’t even have to approach. The hair and cheekbones on that kid lol. I have another cute ( also insanely beautiful hair) but wildly charismatic 5’6” son. He also has no issues though he has to talk to girls, connect. Dating apps don’t work for him. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:58 PM
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Since the average male is not 6 feet that can’t be possible or only 10% of men would be in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:51 PM
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Just like men are looking for thin and pretty. We all have a type. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:50 PM
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Yes, they are not superficial like women…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:11 PM
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She’s right we often fake for their ego though they cared not one bit about the quality of our experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:45 PM
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Victim blaming…typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:44 PM
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No one’s ever heard of them EVERYONE has heard of Andrew Tate. Who’s more effective and affecting culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:19 PM
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Andrew Tate equivalents with less reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:36 AM
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Not yet. They have to have evidence to bring charges and they have plenty. Time will tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:51 AM
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My second kid is 21. He still looks like a kid. Skinny, little facial hair…I’d definitely help a kid like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:47 PM
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Not an age a look. Heavy beard no. Baby face yes. Size too. I’d be scared of a 6’2 kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:46 PM
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I think some of us have a soft spot when it’s “ a kid”. Especially down and out. I might not let him in my home but I’d definitely give him a ride to a shelter. I’d never do that for an adult man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:36 PM
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Same…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:34 PM
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And I don’t think it’s only rape if you struggle. I never said that. In fact, I said “push her off and tell her she raped you”. Try again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 11:31 PM
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I said push her off and yes if a man is raping me and I was strong enough I should just lay there and let him rape me? Give me a break. We don’t fight cuz it gets us beaten or killed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 11:29 PM
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You’re telling me you can’t physically get a woman off of you if you want her off of you? Its so interesting to hear men pretend there is not a strength and hormone disparity between men and women affecting their vulnerability. You can unless she’s 300 pounds push her off. And tell her she raped you. We don’t have that ability.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 11:26 PM
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I love this post. And you’re right gender studies should include both genders. I like reading here makes me think. I have two college boys so I’m very interested in men’s issues. I think the discussions around the struggles of men and boys is helping too. Now we need institutional change. We need affirmative action to get men in teaching, nursing, social work and other HEAL professions. A male teacher can have a profound impact on a boy. One of my teen sons male teachers was transformative for h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 11:21 PM
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What delineates a feminist from a feminista?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 11:05 PM
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Yep. Money on both sides rules the day. I don’t believe in socialism but on this Bernie Sanders is correct. Big donors ruin politics for everyday people. Musk, Theil on one side, George Soros on the other. Corporations almost exclusively support Republicans. They want the tax cuts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 10:57 PM
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Women don’t want abortion bans. They can kill us when miscarrying a wanted pregnancy. Women want sensible gun control, we hate seeing kids killed. Women want to not be called Childless cat ladies that shouldn’t be allowed To vote unless we push a baby out. Most women want to be able to continue to VOTE. Something JD Vance opposes. He said it should be one vote per household with children. Meaning the man gets to decide. OF COURSE WE ARE NOT VOTING FOR a rapist, criminal, book banning, taking our…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 10:53 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:16 PM
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He’s on trial for it. And human trafficking. https://apnews.com/article/andrew-tate-romania-trial-human-trafficking-rape-4dde5de557094c6eadde73722833327a#:~:text=A%20court%20in%20Romania’s%20capital,gang%20to%20sexually%20exploit%20women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:15 PM
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It’s only a problem when you stop having sec because your partner won’t do things you need from porn to get off. Or if it interferes with life. In and of itself porn isn’t that big of a deal. Unfortunately for a lot of people porn ruins regular sex and screws up their sex life there’s whole threads about it all over the place on here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:53 PM
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Then find an appropriate partner…porn is not… When men consume something their partner does not want they reduce or totally disengage in sex. Porn causes LOTs of relationship issues…when used to excess…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:01 PM
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Exactly porn is all about a man’s pleasure it has no relation to the woman’s pleasure. Real life doesn’t work that way both partners need satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:04 PM
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This except they do and then use her not wanting to be face fucked or in pain or whatever the fetish as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:03 PM
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Noticeably yes…normal no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:55 PM
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Are you saying men DON’T prefer things that make women appear feminine? 😂 I’m attractive but BY FAR what got me attention on OLD was my statement that I’m a “ girly girl” …so many men commented on it and that I had on dresses in most my photos. Most men like feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:13 PM
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Because the ease of female relationships and friendships makes us romanticize that it would be that way with a partner. Lesbian women are essentially men if they’re the top. What women crave is a fellow bottom emotionally, but a man sexually. Or at least that’s my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:33 PM
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Yep and if that’s him..,he was looking for a hookup and a player. My point EXACTLY! Don’t get used!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:30 AM
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Excuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:29 AM
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You’re saying that men spend more time in the gym than we do getting hair, nails, working out and putting makeup on?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:46 AM
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I’m a registered nurse this is the dumbest take I’ve ever heard. Nothing affects the plumpness of your lips except genetics. Most white women are born with thinner lips than most black women full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:44 AM
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No but they can work out, acquire social skills, get a great education leading to financial stability….there is FAR more in your control than out of it. Ugly women have it worse because our educational attainment, work, or money don’t impress men, and it’s only our looks. Be grateful that you’re evaluated on more than JUST your physical appearance. A 3 Woman could make $1 million a year and never get a man… A rich 3 man could absolutely get a woman… You have more control than we do. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:41 AM
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Waist to hip is genetic. Lip size is genetic ( black folks have fuller lips), clear skin is genetic or enhanced by anti acne treatment diet makes ZERO difference…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:38 AM
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You can’t control plump lips, narrow eyes, waist to hips ratio…any of the stuff you listed… Nor men their height… Also many men prefer big doe eye (Zooey Deschanel) to narrow eyes (Melania Trump)…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:34 AM
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Muscular body requires no more energy than hair, make up, nails, being thin and working out for women. Your misogyny is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:31 AM
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None of that can be controlled with the factors that I listed can be
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:29 AM
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Really this should be a header advice for men. Header for women: Don’t put out before monogamy if you want commitment. It weeds out the insincere or outright liars. Be thin Be feminine Men don’t like “boss bitch” Pretend to be submissive even if you’re not. Before I get excoriated it all comes down to women like masculine men and men like feminine women. It’s why women like muscles, and men like girls in heels and dresses. You can fight it, but you can’t change evolutionary biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:56 AM
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I said ask not force. Unless she’s TRYING to baby trap you she’ll not want to be pregnant either. Hence it’s backup for condom failure. But between condoms, morning after, and myriad options for birth control ( including a diaphragm no hormones) shouldn’t have unintended pregnancies. People need to BE RESPONSIBLE. That goes for BOTH sexes!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 11:40 PM
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Normal people know kids/people are not gonna be abstinent. Have sex, have fun, wear a condom or make sure she has an IUD. The pill has TOO MUCH user error. Forget more than 1 you’re screwed… And know she wouldn’t lie about an iud, so…girlfriend? Casual hookups WEAR A CONDOM. It’s pretty easy to avoid being a parent if you act responsibly either gender. Play with 🔥get burned.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 11:35 PM
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In some areas yes. I think the SKUs higher on the autism scale. The social anxiety scale. If people are on social media they’re less likely to be engaged IRL so yes it’s different on Reddit. It’s a vortex Of all rhythms that warp you’re thinking if it’s the only exposure you get to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:07 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:05 AM
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I agree there is sexism and racism in sentencing. Black men faring the absolute worst. Then Hispanic men. These disparities need to be fixed. We also should Do better with first time offender diversion and rehabilitation programs. Revolving door is a bad thing. I also think women hit men often ( knowing they can’t really do much damage, not ok but there’s a strength disparity) probably as often as men hit women. It is no more acceptable when they do it and the police absolutely do arrest women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:33 AM
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In many areas there is no choice. There’s over 40% of states where abortion is limited if not practically impossible. In fact we can’t even get care when we’re miscarrying. Scary time to be a woman in FL. Ask if she’s on birth control. Do men even ask? Or do they just “ assume” cuz doesn’t impair their life more than a few hundred bucks a month? If you want a woman to have an abortion in the event that happens have you discussed that with her? Before you have sex so that you know what your risk …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 02:11 AM
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I don’t understand your second paragraph at all. The point? Whether you “feel” you’re responsible or not is immaterial to the suffering that already exists in the country you decided to immigrate to. You’re experiencing the consequences of cruelty and the damage it does to displace , murder, and enslave people. It creates broken people who go on because of their hopelessness to abuse drugs and alcohol. Indians ( US native) are also prime example of this. The country is responsible to change the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:49 AM
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Republicans are saying she’s not qualified she’s a DEI hire. It’s all over Fox News which I’m sure you watch so please don’t pretend to be stupid. As far as these kids yes they’re home situation is because no one has ever improved it or fixed what we did to blacks. They’ve continue to live in poverty, crime, and attend failing schools. How do you rise up from that? That’s why they need mentors, after school programs, and not failing schools ( vouchers are great to me if your kids in a failing sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:24 PM
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Indians had no issues existing or with alcoholism before we displace them how do you explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:01 PM
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Until we write the inequities and give them equal opportunity (which still isn’t happening). Once they get just as good of an education ( inner city schools are often F rated) and the support that they need to climb out of poverty ( me tors since they don’t have fathers, tutoring, career skills) and have college degrees so that they can encourage their children to… But we’ve never made reparations so yeah they still get some leeway. We haven’t corrected anything we did to them just expected them…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:56 PM
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Take advantage and tear her like crap cuz men are less giving to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:23 PM
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It does. My husband is the adorer. He’s good to be because of it. I’ve left the men who didn’t treat me like the adored, because I’m so giving and sweet if they are not the adorer I end up used and abused EVERY time. I’ll NEVER be with a man who doesn’t feel like he won in my guys words “ the wife lottery”. We’re not legally married because I didn’t want it even though it provided me more security. I wear a ring everyone assumes we are. I wanted the freedom to walk out because that makes men beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:22 PM
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Nor do you Have any understanding of psychology and generational trauma. Good luck to you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:57 PM
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Success and ambition are absolutely a panty dropper.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:51 PM
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🤣😆🙄. None of those people were ripped from their home put on a boat taken to a foreign country where they didn’t speak the language beaten and abused the way black folks were. You can’t compare them. Indians never had addiction problems before we messed with them now their alcoholism rates are 70 to 90%. But of course it’s all their fault not us for literally ruining their culture, lifestyle, stealing their homes and resources, and impoverishing them. Taking their Hope away and leaving them in d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:42 PM
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ABSOLUTELY plus make BC over the counter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:39 PM
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If he’s raped and underage shouldn’t have to pay. If the condom breaks RUN to get morning after pill at drug store EASY with morning after pill. Men sabotage condoms not women. You put it on yourself you would know if it’s been opened or sabotaged. Or you can supply a morning after pill and ask her to take it before you have sex and watch her. You can avoid parenthood men just think with their desire, not their head ( well not the one perched on their neck) in the moment then want to escape resp…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 08:37 PM
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Women have to carry the baby so yes her body that dies in childbirth potential, her job to raise it since men often walk away, her lifelong poverty. They absolutely cannot choose to put the child up for adoption against the fathers will…the the father can take that child. Do men even ask? If they don’t ask it’s on them. If they’re in a loving committed monogamous relationship they should know their partner well enough to know whether they’re taking it; remember women’s fault for picking the wron…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 08:33 PM
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Those cultures didn’t endorse slavery. Which damages the human soul and causes generational trauma. You can’t can’t Compare the descendants of slaves to the descendants of non-slaves. Black culture as you state was created by slavery and the evil spirit promulgated on these folks. But if you think they have the corner on desperation you’re wrong. There’s just as many drug addicts and criminals and Appalachia and other port areas of the country. It’s poverty, family breakdown, drug addiction, lac…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:27 PM
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No it’s on the kid and the taxpayer along with the woman. Don’t wanna pay child support put a condom on it’s pretty simple. They’ll be male birth control soon do you think men will take it? I doubt it. Because they want all reproductive issues to be the fault and the problem of the woman. Nope TWO fucked, two took the risk, two have to deal with the consequences of IRRESPONSIBILITY. Unless it’s rape or incest then the woman bears ZERO responsibility, or birth control failure when taken properly.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 08:12 PM
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Every person is insecure every single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:50 PM
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You mean those who grew up in drug addicted, or impoverished homes? Kids born in the hood or rural Appalachia? It’s opportunity ( provided by parental guidance and resources) mixed with encouragement and effort. For many opportunity and healthy role modeling isn’t a thing. You wanna fix crime, give everyone who works full time a living wage for starters. Incentives and help for first generation college admission. Mentoring and help for kids in poverty or difficult circumstances…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:28 PM
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Because he fucked her and a child is the innocent victim ( along with the taxpayer who has to help with the difference). Why should I as a taxpayer be responsible for others irresponsible behavior? Put on a condom if you don’t want kids, simple! Or hand her a morning after pill and watch her take it. Also simple…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 04:16 PM
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Women discriminate against women too. Harper Lee “ to kill a mockingbird” didn’t reveal being a woman either. Republican men ( and some women) want to subjugate women JD Vance is BLUNT about it. Some don’t even think women should be allowed to vote. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:13 PM
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No one said they didn’t have to pay child support. That does not give enough to raise the child which they can opt out of. The woman Carrie’s the baby, risks her life, gives it up to raise the kid, and if young is saddled with lifelong poverty. The suffering is substantially greater for women than a few hundred bucks a month. You have control, wear a condom. Do you think men will take birth control when it’s approved? I don’t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 04:09 PM
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Anyone can get an education Villa community college there are no admission standards that’s just a lame excuse. I’m Gen X, very hard working Gen X. Younger people care more about experiences and enjoying life. And that’s a perfectly acceptable thing to do but then don’t whine about poverty. To get out of poverty requires very, very, hard work ( college or overtime) discipline, and saving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:10 PM
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You are desirable in your age and socioeconomic bracket. Outside that is simply a transactional relationship. He’s in it for her beauty she’s in it for his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:06 PM
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Yes this was done when interviewing orchestra candidates they put them behind a screen and it ended up that more women were chosen them when they saw them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:05 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:48 PM
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Like women currency is looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:47 PM
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Sooo true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:46 PM
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Like men bears 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:45 PM
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Both are desire-able but for superficial reasons. Men chase beauty women money and security. It’s evolutionary biology and will be SLOW to change. But it is changing. Women with great jobs are less concerned about money. Younger men are dating older women sometimes. Cougars were unheard of 30 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:44 PM
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Fact is men are more violent and die to size and strength lethal. My first 10 years and I see you in trauma every domestic violence case we had was a woman I never saw a single man. I’m sure women hit men, occasionally they hurt or kill them. But the numbers aren’t even close it’s mostly men seriously injuring women ( or other men).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:38 PM
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I get it. I’m in the same boat. If anything happened to my partner I’d date but remain single. For me it’s not money it’s I don’t want to wait on or clean up after a man, and men my age ( Gen X) expect it. Nope, nope, nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:31 PM
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So you are saying Gen Z isn’t capable of getting an education leading to a decent job? Please… Yes it’s harder to buy a house. But it’s EASIER to get an education. My parents weren’t college educated. I had ZERO help. It was my determination to get the fuck out of my unhealthy sick household that motivated me to do hundred hour weeks to get an education…kids today don’t want hard work or sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:28 PM
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Confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:48 AM
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Just stating a fact. She’s said outright she penned as a man so it would be more likely to be read. She’s not the only woman to do so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:46 AM
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What do you think she put it under a pen name for so long? She didn’t want anyone to know if she was a woman because more people would be likely to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:35 AM
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This is so stupid everybody goes for the best thing that they can get. Women want attractive men men want attractive women. Women want men with resources more than they want men that are attractive. Men want women who are beautiful more than they want women with resources. That’s the way it is work it out get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 07:30 AM
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That’s the best they can get. If a man has a choice between a beautiful woman and an ugly woman he’s going to choose a beautiful woman every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:59 AM
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No one is saying keep it n your pants…use a rubber if you don’t want kids. Why should it all fall on us? That’s the current available male birth control. We are saddled with pregnancy men can walk away Scott free? Please… Male birth control will be available in a few years. Will men take it? Unlikely.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 06:39 AM
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Carrying and raising a baby costs more and is SIGNIFICANTLY harder than paying a few hundred bucks a month. You don’t want a baby put on a condom. Also have discussions about this stuff before you have sex. Pray and spray means pay…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 06:37 AM
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There aren’t separate guidelines in prosecuting DV. Assault is assault. The perpetrator gets arrested. If both are injured both get arrested. There aren’t shelters as most men aren’t killed by their partners or in danger of it. But they DO pay for hotels for men. There just aren’t enough instances to build shelter just for men DV. There are certainly shelters that take men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:27 AM
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Education is the great equalizer. Many people who grew up in poverty work hard to get an education and climb out. Others want a free ride. The trauma surgeons I worked with mostly were ex military the govt paid their education. At 16 I left home put myself through college ( tuition ride I have perfect grades) paying an apartment working a FULL TIME JOB 50 hours a week and going to night school full load until clinicals. Then I worked weekends to make it up. I worked a TON of overtime saved and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:27 AM
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You choose your degree so you choose your salary. Doctors, lawyers, accountants, pharmacists, nurse practitioners, physician assistants….all make over $100000 a year. Anyone can do any of these it’s just hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:13 AM
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No it’s while you live. If you work hard you get better women, retire earlier and can afford a family. If a woman and you do the same you don’t need a man at all. Hard work and money means a happier life up to a point. Once your over $200000 a year it doesn’t make much difference but below that it makes life more comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:09 AM
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Dual income, company, someone to love you, travel with you, you and spend time with you…you want a body to use not a person to live. A servant not a partner. Gross! Women love sex from men who make it enjoyable not just out for their nut. Most men are terrible lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:02 AM
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Sadly true. It’s all men care about a servant, nanny, maid waitress, whore and human incubator. No thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:01 AM
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Men spinning plates is not telling the truth. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:21 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:21 PM
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He’s not because they have 5 women. If relegated to one that leaves 4 women who have to settle. Some will be alone but some will settle. They do in their 30s when they figure out they have been played. If men didn’t have the capacity to play it would happen sooner no? It’s not logic it’s just math.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:55 PM
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They are still wired for protection and provision. Evolutionary biology doesn’t change quickly. Younger guys not as much. I have two Gen Z boys. Currently their girls have more and one pays more of the rent. But they are in school for high paying careers (engineering and medicine) and their main goal is for their wives to be able to choose to stay home if they want to if they have kids. Or afford help if she doesn’t. I think it’s instinct. My daughter wants to be a vet. She will work but her bf …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:48 PM
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I have but not because I asked for it. I prefer coffee, short and sweet cuz I want out of there fast if we don’t click. I went on three dates a week an hour max till I found my guy. Now he pays for EVERYTHING but AGAIN not because I ask. He’s old school and insists. I’m Gen X it’s different for younger folks. But men my age still court women. A few INSISTED (men with means) I think thinking it would impress me? It didn’t. I care about kindness not lavish spending as I’m simple and not high maint…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:44 PM
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Because they don’t fish and won’t lower their standards. Women won’t either. Seems both prefer alone to a match that doesn’t do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:33 PM
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Such a great analogy!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:30 PM
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I’ll have to check him out!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:28 PM
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Yep. Men use more drugs, sell more drugs, are in gangs, drive motorcycles and cars fast, have higher rates of suicide… I was a trauma nurse for the first 10 years of my career and I would say the intensive care unit was 70% male. Drunk driving, suicide, bungee jumping off the skyway and the bungee cord broke three men one woman, gunshot drug deals… The women I saw were usually brutally raped, severe domestic violence, or car accidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:24 PM
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If that’s true why not tell the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:22 PM
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If they want sex they will. It’s changed so quickly they are left frustrated as what was very easy for their grandparents easier for their fathers, requires more effort from them. Men have improved to attract women for millennia, sex is a MAIN driver for mens motivations. If just them most would live in filth and not bath. Their standards are often low.🤷‍♀️ But only recently could women simply survive without them no forced pairing has caused issues the animal world has always had. A few males d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:21 PM
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Now we don’t have them. If there was civil war we’d learn. I carried a gun when I was a nurse in the hood. Went and practiced a LOT so I’d not have it taken from me. Got rid of it when I stopped working in the hood ( didn’t want a gun with kids even locked up) and had kids. I’d ABSOLUTELY learn how to use an assault rifle to protect myself and my kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:17 PM
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Yep typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:08 PM
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No one is asking you to but you should be mad at the men taking them up by lying not the women acting in good faith being lied to. It’s like you assume that women are bad because they want attractive men when men also unattractive women it’s bizarre. Everyone is gonna date the best person they can pull for the particular circumstance that is attractive and compatible. It’s no difference between the sexes their priorities are a little different women look for security men are more looks oriented …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:48 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:43 PM
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Imagine telling women the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:42 PM
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No one he’s making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:42 PM
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Right so someone has to settle for what they can pull. She has to go ugly he has to deal with a kid. Or be alone is always an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:40 PM
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No one deserves to be cheated on or deceived. And the men don’t deserve to get away with it cuts the dating pool for you. It’s a good thing creeps are outed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:38 PM
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Wars aren’t caused from lack of sex they end from sex strikes. War is caused by mens desire for power and tribalism. No sex men in America will adapt by lowering their standards, working harder to attract women through provision, taking better care of themselves. Perhaps legalizing prostitution and de stigmatizing it. Men might have to pay for sex while young. They bemoan having to do these things like women bemoan working PLUS doing most of the childcare. We adapt…or our line goes dead that’s h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:53 AM
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Yes accidents too. Men take risks women don’t evolution straightened it out making more boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:48 AM
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Doubtful as we can arm ourselves in America. In war I’d have an AK 47 and use it to protect myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:42 AM
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This few women are into polyamory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:39 AM
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That disappears with age as men commit more suicide and are killed by gun violence more often. Then they die younger from natural causes leaving many more “ golden girls” than guys. Except China there the gap is larger due to aborting girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:36 AM
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It’s part that but mostly men don’t consider themselves committed when women think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:35 AM
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Which men complain vociferously about lol. Don’t like being outed as lying creeps. I LOVE this as a google review on a date! Save other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:34 AM
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Not true. Men cheat more they just do. Evolutionary biology makes men want to mate with many women and women want one faithful provider for her offspring. You can’t change it so you have to learn to make the most with what you can. Looks maximized with great haircut, nice clothing, and good hygiene. As much education and success as you can afford. Muscles are totally in your control. We do makeup and guys go to the gym. Be kind
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:53 PM
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Men don’t have harems except in polygamy. They mislead women to have sex with multiple people but at some point most settle down. They may cheat but they are primarily with one person. Especially if they want kids. As women age they settle. But young why should they? They should find the most compatible, attractive, stable person available to them. Just as men choose the prettiest girl they can get. We all have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:39 PM
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I’m glad it worked out for you and glad you had these experiences. I wish I could but I’m not wired that way. I’d get attached if we were intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:36 PM
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And men the most beautiful women they can get. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:48 PM
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We agree that most women prefer commitment. But there are “Samantha’s” ( sex in the city) who just like sex. Even they will catch feeling with the right man. Men aren’t like that evolutionary biology is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:59 PM
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This isn’t how it works. Some women are very much into casual sex for the sex alone. Most women want stability and get feelings from sex. It actually releases oxytocin the same thing that makes us bond with our babies when we breastfeed. So in time she’s more likely to catch feelings even if she thought she was ok with casual by having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:52 PM
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It’s one word that captures far right ideologies that paint women as the problem and men as oppressed. It’s the male equal of “feminist” also a catch all phrase for people who want equality of the sexes. There are women who consider themselves feminists who oppose abortion for example. Rare but happens. Anyone who opposes male domination is a “ feminist” to men. And women who don’t submit are derided as “ feminist”. The far right while incredibly bad to women isn’t actively engaged in bashing th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 04:39 PM
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This is the bottom line. Singles have different issues based on gender. Both have some things harder or easier in different areas. Why the animus towards women? We didn’t create this model of who pursues evolutionary biology did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:03 PM
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We don’t need to worry about our safety when 1/3 women are sexual assault survivors? Please
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:00 PM
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Same reason we are friends with people of different politics. You don’t discard those you disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:59 PM
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I admit this freely. But it also means you deal with a LOT of sexual BS. Still overall makes life easier up to a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:03 AM
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Only true if they have kids. I did 6 12 hour shifts a week for ten years. Owned two homes on a nurses salary. And…if it’s because of kids another reason women are choosing not to have them. If someone stays home it’s generally derails our careers while our husbands work overtime and climb the ladder. Again why almost half of women are saying no to kids. The sacrifice falls mostly on our bodies and wallets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:56 AM
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