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Marriage/ChildrenComfortable-Wish-192/r/MensRights22/01/24 08:09 PM
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I lay tile, can finish drywall, built decks, refinish furniture, do al the gardening…Either can do either. Lifting we are not as capable of but the rest is just learning. Most men outsource those things. My husband doesn’t know jack about plumbing. He doesn’t change the oil in her car to the dealer does. He can’t even replace the flapper on the toilet that’s my job lol. It’s not gendered it’s experience. I took classes at Home Depot back in the day to learn how to do some of these things my fath…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/25 05:10 AM
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I’m Gen X ( look young and am fit) get hit on all the time by millennials to boomers. If you stay in shape, don’t gain weight, and take care of yourself you will have men after you til the day you die.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/25 04:51 AM
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It’s their life their choice. Your job is to support their choices not choose for them.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 05:54 PM
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They prefer the male votes because the female votes were of no consequences women couldn’t vote. What are you talking about? And yes people in power never wanna relinquish power. That really is the bottom line. And it hasn’t changed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/24 01:53 PM
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My point is that they had to fight for it. Tooth and freaking nail. If Men wanted equality for women why didn’t they just say of course we didn’t think of that? Because they didn’t want equality for women. They wanted to power and control. And a good chunk of them still do. They want to take away no-fault divorce women have to stay in abusive marriages. Or find the money to prove that they were abused which is difficult to do. JD Vance is next level with a misogny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/24 01:52 PM
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Then when women asked for the right to vote why didn’t they just give it to them? Why did they have to fight tooth and nail for it? And every other right we got?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 08:31 PM
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No they actually do. She says in the end you don’t like it when it happens to you do you? And that’s why I did it to point out how it feels.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 02:49 AM
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Actually the upvotes are for “see how it feels you don’t like it much do you?” It’s done to point out what we deal with to see how men like it when done to them.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 02:05 AM
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Exactly EVERYONE has standards it’s simply men are allowed women not. Despite the significantly higher cost of reproduction for women and RISK. Which is why they’re selective which men call “ hypergamous” . We want to make sure that the guy is going to stick around to be decent before we create a child with him. And that he’s good mating material to ensure our children are successful and succeed in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:38 PM
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Exactly this!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:36 PM
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They can’t. Hence the deflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:34 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:34 PM
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Agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:32 PM
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I said FORCIBLY, Meaning physically unable to resist. I’m not saying women should assume because a man is naked and aroused that he wants sex. They should ALWAYS ASK if they are going to be the initiating partner if he wants this and never assume. And I’m glad these Conversations about consent or becoming more normalized. Consent must be discussed. But making a mistake assuming that someone wants sex is quite different from being held down and raped. Or drugged and raped. Or raped unconscious wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:22 PM
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Not safe but safer than traditional sex work. Also he would get convicted of a crime so just the deterrence factor alone makes it less likely. Since there are witnesses around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:06 PM
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Yep, she does. Also can scream etc and there is immediate safety. And because it’s a place full of women and protection, violence tends not to occur. It’s the vulnerability of the victims that creates predators. There’s not vulnerability here as there is on one and one encounters in individual hotel rooms or on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:37 PM
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Men are ruled by sex women are not There are matriarchal societies ( very few as men are reluctant To give up authority, and power over women) and have no war with great success. Women want to control men? In what way? No women want EQUALITY, and for their needs and desires to matter as much as men. That’s not control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:24 PM
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Evolutionarily biology is powerful. You can’t get away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:51 AM
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Sorry I do not get the point you’re trying to make with that very long, incoherent, single protracted paragraph. Women like bad boys? Some do most don’t. Any other point is lost by your delivery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:46 AM
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A fat fetish is not chasing fat women. There are men with Asian fetishes, black fetishes etc. This is not giving a fat woman a chance, this is being specifically attracted to fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:25 AM
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I do NOT understand this word salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:24 AM
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Who are you to see how much companionship someone needs? Humans are wired for connection. It’s why children who are not held have failure to thrive. Women are better at getting these meets met outside of relationships. We have other female friends and good support systems unlike most men. But all humans need companionship. Women seek partners for this reason or to have kids. We don’t necessarily have sex as our first need in a relationship. Men need companionship less but loneliness affects them…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:39 AM
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Obese women are generally with obese men. Hot men are not with obese women. Also more men than women are obese: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity_in_the_United_States#:~:text=The%20National%20Center%20for%20Health,and%2041.9%25%20for%20women). “Statistics at the CDC showed in their most up to date statistics that 42.4% of U.S. adults were obese as of 2017–2018 (43% for men and 41.9% for women”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:38 AM
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This is utter bs and total hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:35 AM
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Exactly this. Mens standards are high. Womens should be low. Because then they can be lazy, filthy, underemployed slobs and get hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:35 AM
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🤣😂🤦‍♀️👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:33 AM
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It’s all hypocrisy. Do as I say not as I do… rules for thee not me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:33 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:32 AM
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That’s never going to happen. More likely is fewer and fewer women having kids which will end mankind. Men need sex too much, and women like companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:21 AM
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Then don’t date no one is forcing you. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:07 AM
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Of course, most crime is gang and drug related Some thing that men engaging far more than women. Also water is wet. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:59 AM
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Not raped and not killed by partners. I was a trauma nurse the first 10 years of my career with an inner city. A full 80% of our gunshots were black on black drug crime... The other 10% were domestic violence, and the last 10% suicide attempts. I’m sure there are people caught in the crossfire, but most commonly these folks did it to themselves by being involved with dealing drugs. Saddest were veterans who attempted suicide and women shot in the temple or head ( blinded but survived). We do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:45 AM
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Blank women have it the worst. But you’re still unlikely to be raped or killed by an intimate partner. That happens primarily to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:35 AM
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I absolutely believe it happens to BLACK men not men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:31 AM
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I’m saying female engineers to do the exact same job as male engineers do not get acknowledge, can do twice as good to work with half the recognition. That’s just a fucking fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:12 AM
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Sure you been raped? I have. You been beat? I have. You been harassed? I have. You had your ass grabbed by a superior? I have. 🙄 I don’t believe for one second you’ve gotten arrested for something you didn’t do. I don’t believe for one second you’ve gotten harassed by the cops. Your stuff is all theoretical ours is actually lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:11 AM
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Nevada: Regular REQUIRED std testing Bouncers in brothels so women aren’t raped or killed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:02 PM
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You can’t compare same sex couples with their unique struggles to straight. If men didn’t exist women wouldn’t be raped or killed FULL STOP. Women do not rape or kill other women. We don’t start wars either. Very few men that aren’t caught up in drugs or the gang style end up getting killed. But almost every woman has experienced sexual harassment, if not sexual assault, and 20% of us have been raped or survived an attempted rape. Whereas 20% of men haven’t been killed or raped. Yes we have it h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:52 PM
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Agree to disagree. Had a friend who said take this time but I’m moving on and several months before he proposed as he knew she was serious. He regretted not doing it sooner. I think lots of people procrastinate if you let them. Thing is women DONT have the luxury of time if they want kids. He’s likely FOS and she’s wasting her youth.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/24 05:43 PM
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Nope because she actually WANTS this man whose giving lip service. She needs to be clear as he may just say go. Then she does not WASTE yet another year of fertility. Personally I’d leave now, as if he doesn’t know she’s not “ the one”.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/24 05:22 PM
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She can do both. If she doesn’t give him a timeline she’ll wait till the end of the year, and then he’ll say “no I’m almost ready” and ask for another year. She needs a finite date and time and while she’s waiting she needs to work on herself and ignore him.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/24 03:13 PM
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BS my ex wasn’t attractive but was super smooth got me and had no issues after we split. That’s a cope. It’s a small portion of men that know how to initiate convo with anyone and put them at ease. But it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:12 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:11 PM
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Murder is not more likely to happen to men by their intimate partners. My only point. As a former trauma nurse I’m well aware men murder each other as almost all gangbangs are male on male. Rain is wet too. 🤦‍♀️🙄🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:10 PM
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Men are FORCIBLY raped by OTHER men NOT by women unless unconscious. Women ARE NOT CAPABLE of FORCIBLY raping men. You know it I know it you’re denial of it defies credulity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:08 PM
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They absolutely know. Every man I’ve been in a serious relationship with has told me they want to and within a year or two proposed. I said yes twice never again. But this one want to as well. They will absolute nail it down with the right woman. I would be upfront say “I’ll give you the year and at the end of the year if you still don’t know I need to preserve my fertility. I will move on as while you don’t know if you want children I absolutely know I do. If we’re not on the same page I’m wast…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/24 11:57 PM
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Exactly. It’s projection…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:39 PM
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He doesn’t know as he’s clearly not thought this out very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:37 PM
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Definitely he’s just very low libido. He didn’t have sex with his ex for 13 years. Stopped when she got pregnant. Said she didn’t care for herself. I believed him because she didn’t. But I do so it’s more complicated than that. I think he saw her as not sexual after than Madonna/whore thing. And I think because he admires me so much he might think the same with me? I’m not sure. We’re in counseling about it ( finally) hope it helps. But honestly he’s so freaking great to me in every other way I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:56 PM
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I’m saying the fact that he can be I. The running for the second highest office in the land with ideas like that mean they are too mainstream. It should be UNTHINKABLE that a handmaids tale scenario is looming and yet primarily men are willing to elect men like this. Not all men but too damn many!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:15 PM
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Yes and put the edit. It’s up 56% not 56% of women are dying. And they already have abysmal mortality statistics in red states.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:13 PM
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So you’re saying it’s OK because not enough women die to make it a problem got it we’re done here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:11 PM
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But women dying is exactly because they can’t get pregnancy care. And part of the reason they can’t get pregnancy care, or miscarriage care, is abortion bans. No matter what the number is if 56% more women actually die that means there’s 250,000 situations that could turn into near misses… as almost half of states make pregnancy care more difficult to access SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE of abortion bans. I have no issues with limiting late term abortions to mothers health or fetal anomalies. But the ban…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:59 PM
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Why should women have to be flown out to get care in Idaho? While they’re miscarrying away from their husbands in a complete panic. There were seven flights in one week. This is not rare despite what you think. And for the women affected it’s a big deal. They have a temporary reprieve there. Most women make it but so many of them are now forced to be on deaths door. To what end? Why should women sit in a parking lot bleeding out on the brink of death before they get care? Cruelty is the point no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:58 PM
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Did
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:41 PM
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Won’t admit even if they do…and there is ZERO chance I would have sex with a man who wouldn’t wear one even with an IUD due to STDs. But in my marriage I got pregnant ON THE PATCH. Stuff happens…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:41 PM
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No I’m suggesting that maternal mortality is at 56% over what it was previously. Meaning you’re FAR More likely to die from pregnancy now than before the abortion ban was enacted. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna171631 “From 2019 to 2022, the rate of maternal mortality cases in Texas rose by 56%, compared with just 11% nationwide during the same time period, according to an analysis by the Gender Equity Policy Institute. The nonprofit research group scoured publicly available reports from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:14 PM
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Nope Maternal mortality is at 56% in Texas, specifically because of and since the abortion ban. Several reasons: Women can’t get healthcare and are dying from miscarriages Doctors are fleeing the state because they have to choose between prison and letting someone die This is causing maternity care deserts So women with wanted pregnancy have to drive so far to have babies they die in the process of trying to get care. Abortion bans don’t save lives, they just switch who dies. Poor black and brow…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:06 PM
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If they did…actually fear it…they would wear condoms…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:03 PM
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He doesn’t talking shit is all…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:02 PM
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Yes you could exchange for “treat men like the misogynist, wife beating, rapists they are”…not helpful and a sign that person has been deeply hurt by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:50 PM
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Unless it’s just new and he’s not the best because he’s not yet learned what you like or find erotic. That’s a getting to know each other opportunity to learn. Now if we tell each other what our kinks and turn on’s are, and neither of us are willing to bend at all and give each other that, then it’s definitely a lack of effort thing. Both should move on at that point unless there are enough other redeeming things to make up for it. That’s my situation. Our sex is good, not mind blowing but good.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:26 PM
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Agree and I appreciate these men! Also men who defend women. When I was a young and very naïve nurse I had a particular trauma surgeon who would say disgusting sexual things to me. I literally didn’t know how to handle it. I didn’t wanna get in trouble at my job. I lived a very sheltered life and had never experienced that before. One day one of the other trauma surgeons overheard it and said “what did he just say to you”. I said “exactly what you think he said”. I saw him pull him aside to tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:59 AM
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Except even rapists don’t go to jail so general harassment…It’s impossible to be a woman and not be harassed. And many of us are sexually assaulted, raped, or beaten. It’s almost ubiquitous with femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:52 AM
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This makes me genuinely 🥲. If women would recognize the bad behavior of other women and call them out, and men would recognize the bad behavior of other men and call them out, society will change. But as long as we are applauded by our same sex peers for behavior that is important the behavior will continue. Women will have better opinions of men when rape, SA, sexual harassment, domestic violence, and general JD Vance like opinions are no longer main stream. Until then can you blame us?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:50 AM
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Because if you don’t put yourself out there you will get nowhere. Also looks absolutely matter. But also because a great personality, being able to flirt, being funny will get you far. Those are skills you can’t develop unless you put yourself out there. My ex was no Adonis and he was 5 foot five but he had a great personality, pretended to be insanely compassionate, was a great communicator and won me over. On a dating app I wouldn’t have given him the time of day but because I got to know him …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:39 AM
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Yes they just don’t know. Which brings up how do we help folks who are neuro divergent fit in? Or should we create spaces For folks who struggle to meet each other. Too shy people probably are going to do better. But they need some form to connect right? I think that’s why gamer girls end up with gamer boys it’s one of the nice things about being able to game together. Finding other “ homebodies”…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:32 AM
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We’re talking about people being murdered by intimate partner violence. That’s primarily happening to women. If you want to talk about men shooting each other and gangbanging and drug dealing we can have that conversation. Or men committing more suicide. Not accessing mental health. All of those things are legitimate things. But intimate partner violence is mostly perpetrated by men and women. Intimate partner murder is mostly perpetrated by men on women. Men taking women and locking them up in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:29 AM
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I’m saying if they fully unconscious It’s unquestionably rate. If they’re conscious they can get away. I can’t see how a conscious man can be forcibly raped by a female who’s not an mma wrestler. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:24 AM
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You’re minimizing rape something that only women experience with force. Do you think women homeless or not are going around and jumping on homeless men’s dicks (Of course they have to get their clothes off too)? You’ve got to be kidding me you’re not even being genuine made to penetrate… when it’s regarding homeless men. I’m sure women jump on naked men’s dicks who are aroused, assuming since they took their clothes off and were hard they wanted sex. This is an appropriate consent should be obta…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:21 AM
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I did try to fix it. I took care of homeless veterans in critical care in a trauma hospital when they shot themselves, hung themselves, or came in GI bleeding from alcoholism. The way we treat that in this country is appalling. Trump calls them suckers and losers. It’s awful. Take your bigotry and judgement elsewhere. https://www.gov1.com/public-safety/articles/rates-of-violence-against-the-homeless-are-worse-than-you-think-PZ7QgDNA4F2MXDwf/https://www.gov1.com/public-safety/articles/rates-of-vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:43 AM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:38 AM
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No the best way to deal with an abuser is to leave the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:33 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:08 AM
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Sorry voice recognition not awful insightful. And I hadn’t considered a FWB. I wouldn’t want to live with a man again. I have a beautiful and full life. And I don’t want to cook for a man, clean, or alter my lifestyle tbh. We get each other but it was a lot of work to reform him lol. If something happened to him I’d want to live alone and just have a guy visit or visit him for intimacy and friendship. I’m not interested in serving men anymore and I don’t need them to care for or protect me now. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:27 AM
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You can’t get unemployment for refusing to work you can only get it for being fired. I don’t know what the worker protections are in Nevada but I’d like to see them nationwide until we do have a system where people don’t have to do sex work. If people are going to do it ( they are) I would like them to be as protected as possible. Women in sex work are raped and killed at alarming rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:08 PM
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Sure any data that disagrees with you is junk science. I’m done here…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:03 PM
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Nope the Duluth model taught us about domestic violence and what women go through. The Duluth model was specifically applied to men when really it could be applied to anyone who uses power and control to abuse their partner. But it was the first model that pointed out how it happens, how to interdict, and gave resources to help women who were the main victims at that time. I’m a nurse, a trauma nurse at that, we get extensive training on domestic violence, the Duluth model, the wheel of power an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:02 PM
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Can’t say other states but Can’t say unequivocally if both people of injuries in Florida both are arrested.. No exceptions. They don’t even try to determine who is at fault Unless there’s a severe disparity in the injuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:00 PM
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My kids fucking adore me. And they know that men shouldn’t hit women. And women shouldn’t hit men. But the strength disparity makes it more agree just wanna man hits a woman. Both should go to jail I never said any differently. But cope with it how you need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:58 PM
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Nope walk away and out the door. Don’t touch her and nothing will happen to you. In fact, if police come they prefer Someone leave to cool down for the evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:56 PM
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Sure OK. You’re completely powerless you can’t get away from a woman got it. No one is arresting you for locking yourself in your room and saying my girlfriend won’t let me leave and I don’t wanna be accused of abuse. They’ll come in the house and escort you out but you continue with your fantasy. By all means punch her, break her jaw to get out, and see how that goes for you. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:08 PM
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Thank you for this awful response. I currently have a partner he’s 13 years older than me and I suspect I’ll be on my own in the next ten years with his health issues. I wondered if I could possibly go through a phase to also learn sexuality or if I’m just too old for that. I’m glad you got out of there too. And I’m glad you had a positive experience with your sexuality. I’m very sex positive I’m just shy, skittish, and inexperienced for an old lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:06 PM
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😂😂😂 yeah Trump never. I don’t vote for philandering rapists with no moral character. And I can’t vote for Republicans because they are not for fiscal conservatism or balanced budgets. The only reason I was ever a republican. I believe that you should pay your bills at the end of the month if you owe them just like we do as consumers. I don’t believe in debt. Unfortunately the Republican Party is no longer the party of fiscal conservatism and hasn’t been for a long time but trumps spending…next l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:02 PM
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Sorry it has nothing to do with what I saw what I saw as a reflection of society. Here’s reality: An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,(1)%20This%20US%20Dept. Study: 1 in 3 Men Would Rape if They Wouldn’t Get Caught or Face Consequences https://www.cosmopolitan.com/politics/news/…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:57 PM
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I agree, let’s make that happen. First lets get family paid leave, free childcare and universal healthcare. We must take money from the wealthiest and help the most destitute Because capitalism pushed to its extreme causes severe wealth inequality and it just plain doesn’t work anymore than pure communism does. Without regulation capitalism fails. Exploits workers for profit until they rebel (strike).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:48 PM
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I’m sorry your going through this. I’m blessed to have a pretty great support system it took years to cultivate. Church, book club, kids, friends from my former work, and a great partner. Can’t imagine getting through cancer without all that. Or any of the other stuff I’ve had to survive. Hang in there and look for sources of reliable support. We’re not meant or wired to do life alone. We don’t need someone of the opposite sex necessarily, but we do need people. Women are pretty amazing at suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:45 PM
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🙄So if you break her jaw you’re definitely going to jail this is better? What a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:10 PM
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No I’m using my live life experience of being a domestic violence victim or rape victim my children being victims and in my work seeing a plethora of victims. I’m a realist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:09 PM
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Bullshit I’m a nurse the stuff I’ve seen in both trauma and Peds would CURL your skin. Like the man that stock a hot curling iron up his daughters vagina at two to punish her. 😭Or the boy whose rectum was torn do badly it ripped his large intestine and he almost died from sepsis. Or the woman who was stabbed choked and then opened like a deer with in her intestines twisted in front of her face. He didn’t hit enough major vessels and they found her too quickly. The blood loss caused organ failure…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:31 PM
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But if it’s going to be done anyway, shouldn’t we keep the people who feel forced to do it as safe as possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:12 PM
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Before the Duluth model far more women were beaten and killed, and were killing men in self-defense and committing suicide. Female on male intimate partner murder female on male dropped dramatically after no fault divorce was instituted and the Duluth model with associated services for domestic violence became available to women. Women’s suicide rate also dropped. Nobody’s going to jail for calling the police cause someone won’t let them out of their house without touching a woman you’re delusio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:58 PM
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I consider sex work a choice whether OF, stripping, or escorting. And if people are going to do it ( they are) I prefer it regulated with some protections against disease and injury. It’s much safer to be a sex worker in NV than the rest of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:54 PM
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Agree on many fronts. Losing weight effort. Working out effort. Getting a degree which grants financial I dependence effort. Learning to be social…it’s much easier to blame others than effect the change necessary to ensure more success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:51 PM
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This I wholly agree with we do not have social safety nets and it puts people in some desperate situations. Also girls who were sexually abused are far more likely to go into sex work because they see their bodies as commodities and used anyway. Which is why I think we need better counseling and help for sexual assault victims. We do a terrible job of helping victims in the United States in general. And a god-awful job of prosecuting rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:10 PM
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Physically on the street yes homeless women are assaulted and killed far more than men. I’m not more vulnerable than them. But homeless women are more vulnerable than homeless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:08 PM
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🙄please I said it’s WORSE for men who are raped I have two male friends who were. I said the consequences should be as high or higher when it’s a female teacher assaulting a male student. Either you can’t read or you’re willingly obtuse because I’m pointing out that most of the violence is perpetrated by men especially when it comes to forcible rape. You don’t have to believe me believe the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:07 PM
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This is just silly. Why wouldn’t they called the police and say she won’t allow me to leave the home? No man needs to break a woman’s jaw to get out of the house this is a fallacy. He simply needs to push her aside or call the police. If she’s hit him have her arrested. If she’s barring him from leaving call the police so that they can escort him out. Violence isn’t the answer. If a woman hits a man she should be arrested too. There should be zero tolerance for domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:04 PM
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Without coercion sex work that’s chosen shouldn’t be shamed and sex workers should be protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:51 PM
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I hear you. Susie Favor Hamilton did it for fun. But many women do it out of desperation. If they’re going to do it I’d like them to be protected and safe. I’m not here to legislate how they use their body, I just don’t want them to get killed. It’s much safer to be doing that in Nevada than the rest of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:50 PM
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Where do you draw the line, is stripping not OK? Nude modeling? Modeling at all? Acting were you show skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:49 PM
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I love a happy ending especially this one as a fellow DV survivor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:49 PM
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Well bad men may be rare violence against women is not. A full 20% of us experience rape or attempted rape and a MUCH higher percentage experience sexual assault and sexual harassment. If it’s happening to that large of a portion of us, and the perpetrators are men, it would stand to reason that we would be afraid of men. No? Worse it’s completely normalized when we are willing to elect a person adjudicated of rape in a civil court of law who brags about grabbing women by the pussy as if that’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:41 PM
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Number 4 putting yourself out there Which is a challenge to those who are chronically online, or neuro divergent which tends to be a large portion of the male Reddit population on this particular sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:32 PM
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What does that mean? Are strippers not consenting? Or is it only sex work where you draw the line? What about nude modeling? When is it a commodity that’s wrong to sell?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:29 PM
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It’s true no one wants to be deceived or lied to. This is an obvious lie or cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:28 PM
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Nope it’s a profession like any other which deserves protection for workers and fair pay. I like Nevada With regulations, health checks, and mandatory STD testing. I absolutely think mentioned pay for sex rather than using women, lying and misleading them. That’s about being cheap. They want it for free and they lie to get it. To me that’s theft. And why I won’t have sex outside a monogamous committed relationship. Men aren’t patient enough to wait for me to be their cum dumpster. If they stick …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:27 PM
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Yep we don’t actually want it in real life that’s why it’s called a fantasy. But a powerful man taking us because they want us to love them, is erotic to many women and men. Fifty Shades of Grey same thing. It’s simply not safe to let those desires out in the wild they have to be left to movies and books. If you mess with that in real life you could get raped or killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:08 PM
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I’m surprised you are willing to read my drivel lol…but yea some of us are HIGHLY sexual though I’m an outlier among my friends. Even my friends who like sex a lot are content with three times a week. And many never want it at all. I would literally have sex every freaking day. 🤣 Maybe that’s because I haven’t had much in the last 10 years though. I might just be like someone who’s been fasting for a week wanting food. Hint most women like a little seduction if not playful (consensual) force. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:59 PM
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Men can get shelter. It’s just in hotels there aren’t enough men that need it to build shelters for them. And really it wasn’t shelters it was more the advent of no-fault divorce. They couldn’t leave their partners as they didn’t have the money to prove fault. Now that’s no longer an issue for either men or women. Unless JD Vance gets his way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:07 PM
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Agree but I kind of wish I could have promiscuous sex. I really enjoy sex and I wonder what it would be like to experiment with different partners. I only had one good lover after my husband. He taught me so much I wonder what it would be like to be with other experience men. I just am so shy I cannot get my clothes off with someone that I don’t love. Or that I don’t know that loves me and I feel safe with. So…I’ll live vicariously through you lol! I wish I could do that. I think it’s also being…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:05 PM
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When I never said my short son was ugly I said he was cute. He looks like Cameron Boyce rest in peace I thought Cameron Boyce was very cute. I said my middle son is conventionally model attractive and gets girls because of it. It’s a feature for women but stability matters more to women …evolutionary biology full stop. I don’t deny that initial attraction is purely physical but when you get to know woman all that goes out the door. We will absolutely go for the short, funny, talented, kind but n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:00 PM
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You don’t get arrested for leaving that’s ridiculous. And if she won’t let you leave call the police. Right she needed her jaw broken and wired as he couldn’t get past her without breaking her jaw. I think what you’re really trying to say she mouth off so she deserved it. Nope it doesn’t work that way. Words can’t be met with violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:40 PM
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The sex part yes I’ve tried. The weird thing is I’m a little kinky, which he absolutely goes berserk for. Nothing crazy but he likes being sexually dominant in bed and said his mind is blown and it’s the best sex he’s ever had…once we’re doing it…but getting him to want to. And I believe it’s good because while I haven’t been around the few partners/ husband I’ve had all say the same. I give head…and participate enthusiastically. 🤷‍♀️ Uuugghhh it’s such a struggle. And I’ll put on lingerie and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:06 PM
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Nope not true. 20% of women will suffer attempted or completed rape and far more experience SA and harassment. I have empathy for male victims of sexual harassment and rape too. It just isn’t as frequent. Rape in general needs to be prosecuted to the full extent of the law irrespective of the sex of the victim. Currently it’s not. I want female teachers prosecuted as vigorously as male teachers for taking advantage of students in their care. But I want ALL rapist and perpetrators of DV prosecute…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:52 PM
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1% of rapes are prosecuted resulting in a prison sentence. It’s many factors. Some women don’t report to police, they know they won’t have anything done about it anyway. Sometimes they report but there’s not enough for them to prosecute. Sometimes they prosecute but the juries let them off because rape doesn’t have witnesses. Plus they don’t even run the rape kits in some places. Rape and SA are not taken seriously Because it mostly happens to women and children and we are of less value to socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:34 PM
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Yes except they had no power with row. The only way they would have power is changing the construction of the Supreme Court. So I was able to have my fiscal conservatism and not worry about abortion rights being revoked. I want a balanced budget not a full 20% of my taxes are just to service the debt. When that was no longer the case I no longer voted Republican. You change your calculus based on the political climate at the time, who’s running, and what they stand for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:18 PM
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Not dismissing but like the law quantifying. Should the law treat murder the same as assault? A slap like a broken bone? Anyone who assaults another should be arrested. But we do have to look at the severity of the injuries when we quantify violence. And men injure women in ways that they never recover from. One of the saddest is they shoot them In the temple blinding them but they live. 😢 Too often I tell ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:13 PM
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Agree it’s very rare for an adult female to rape an adult male. Children are always vulnerable to people in positions of power, be a priest, teachers, sunny school teachers, coaches, pastors etc. It’s mostly men that commit sexual crimes but there are women that do it to you in the long needs to come down just as harshly on them if not more harshly than men. The sequela for abused boys I think is as serious as for girls particularly if the perpetrator is male. It all gets mixed up with feelings …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:09 PM
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I don’t disagree with you at all. Everyone needs an escape plan. And not just from physical violence from emotional violence too. Domestic violence isn’t just about or even mostly about hitting it’s usually about power and control. There are many ways to accomplish this emotional abuse, financial power not giving access to resources, hitting, threatening suicide, all sorts of things. Domestic violence is corrosive, you’re absolutely right about that and my heart is broken for your brother. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:07 PM
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Women can murder too they just don’t regularly. Very few men are falsely accused. Only one percent of rapist go to jail. There are four more rapes than false accusations that’s just reality. I’m not saying this for sake stations aren’t harmful. But I’m saying they are nowhere near the trauma caused by an actual rape. 1/5 women are victims of attempted or completed rape. 20% of the male population is not falsely accused of rape. Women who falsely accused man should go to jail. But so should rapis…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:55 PM
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Haven’t voted Republican since Hillary. Probably never will again. Republicans used to be for fiscal conservatism. Until Trump blew up the deficit. They stand for nothing. And I have a problem with right wing men religious or not who say I have no value except my womb, my only use as a post menopausal woman is raising my grandchildren not the fact that I save lives for a living, and want to take away my right to vote yeah I’m damn pissed. I’m an RN seeing women With wanted pregnancies that they’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:45 PM
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If there’s no red mark on my face I would say there’s no proof he slapped me. If there’s a red mark on my face I’d expect him to be arrested. And if a woman leaves a red mark on a man’s face I would expect her to be arrested. But to say it’s the same as punching a woman in the face or breaking her jaw is ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:14 PM
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I’m sure they can but I think I would’ve seen it in 10 years and I never did. I’m sure it happens but not regularly. I know women can’t break a man’s job. A man can easily break a woman’s. Noses are pretty easy to break.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:13 PM
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I’ve seen it but BDSM is not a monolith. For some people it’s just restraint, for me it’s restraint and I like to be spanked, and sometimes rough sex. And for others it’s degrading stuff. But the thing that is unique about BDSM as it’s all about consent. Not just consent but “enthusiastic consent”. Meaning BOTH people want it or it doesn’t happen. Before you judge you might want to get informed. There’s a bdsm board here you might check it out. If two people enjoy it, no one‘s being degraded. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:04 PM
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I did he cheated, drugged and sodomized me then punched me in the face my best friends husband a police officer had him arrested against my will. He had gradually broken me so badly I couldn’t see straight thank God Frank did. He then tortured me for leaving him through the court system to the tune of $750,000 for him and $250,000 for me. They literally changed the laws in Florida in part because of our case and others like it. The judge called it domestic violence of the other judiciary. He cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:58 PM
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Stats are 60% of men don’t think they get enough sex, but 40% of women think they don’t get enough sex. Men have higher sex drive but they are not the only ones in dead bedrooms. Source I am in a dead bedroom with a wonderful man and all other respects. He simply is very low libido and as he’s aged it’s more pronounced. There are so many great things I stay but the rejection especially considering I’m still a size 4, look ten years younger than I am, and have curves in all the right places is ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:18 PM
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Nope my ex was 5’5” but shared ( or so I thought) my values, wanted a family, and was a person of faith. Chose him over the 6 foot tall Benjamin Bratt look alike reproductive endocrinologist who makes $1 million a year. This is utter and complete bullshit and a cope. Women want kindness, stability, shared values far more than looks. I’m not rate in this regard. If it’s a one night stand looks are all that matters. Same for men and women. If the long-term relationship much more goes into the calc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:58 AM
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Exactly my point. Because women’s drive is not sex they don’t consider looks as much as they consider other factors. It’s evolutionarily biology mate; it’s real and not changing anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:45 AM
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Yet women won’t fuck 20 year olds just for sex even though they have looks and stamina because men and women are different. All people care about looks. Pretty privilege is a thing for both men and women. But women who aren’t initially attracted to a man can absolutely be one over by his personality, or talent, or any number of things. A woman can be rich and talented but if she’s ugly she’s not getting a high-quality man. An ugly man with other attributes can (and regularly does see Leonardo De…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:30 AM
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Agree but one can try. Learning social skills is hard, working out is hard, losing weight is hard, getting a good education leading to stable employment is hard. But all reap untold rewards. Thing is humans seek pleasure and avoid pain so they don’t relish doing hard things, and avoidance of pain and sacrifice causes longer suffering. Yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:01 AM
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Agree there is more than looks but looks matter much more to men than women. It’s why older men go for women in their 20s but older women don’t necessarily go for guys in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:57 AM
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And men can become more outgoing and less shy. But do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:56 AM
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Yes but you still can’t overcome bad looks. They want more than looks but they absolutely want looks. No man is going to consider a 250 pound woman with other attributes. Without looks you can’t even get in the door. Men can with other attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:29 AM
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If they are too drunk to consent it’s rape and the perpetrator should be prosecuted FULL STOP. It simply rarely happens though you’d like to pretend it does. If girls were raping drunk boys at frat parties it would be all over the news… Except it never is…Sexual abuse of minors is also perpetrated mostly by men. Whether it’s Boy Scout leaders, priests, or men in ministry in the Southern Baptist church. You want to pretend women regularly Victimize men. No men victimize men. Even the draft there …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:25 AM
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Not victim blaming just saying they are able to get out of it we are not. So the level of trauma is entirely different. Source trauma nurse. Who’s taking care of rape victims. Lots and lots of them. Women and men who came in from jails. Never had an adult male come in as a rape victim of an adult female. Not once ever! So not sick enough to be in critical care. There’s that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:10 AM
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Being slapped is not the same as having your jaw broken nice try. If she had to have her arrested. But you equate the two is stupid. The law distinguishes degrees of injury. You don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:08 AM
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No one can force a man to have sex. They can jump on him that’s not OK they need to ask for consent but he can immediately push her off. The same isn’t true for women. “An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male.” https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,99%25%20of%20perpetrators%20are%20male. Why don’t you hear the equivalent number of women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:07 AM
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The thing is more than luxe matter for women. With men only looks matter. It’s that basic. An ugly short man can still get a woman if he’s funny, successful, or has other great attributes. It doesn’t matter how successful an ugly woman is she’s going to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:58 AM
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The point stands worldwide. Men have power women do not. Men oppress women are oppressed. Not all men but the oppression when it occurs is mostly male. That’s how it’s always been until we get more power that’s how it will always be. It’s especially severe in places like the Middle East for women. But even in the western world we are raped and beaten on the regular. By MEN. Bad men are oppressors as good men allow them to be. Hell Billy Bush thought that “grab them by the pussy” and get away wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:52 AM
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Men are killing themselves, other men, and women. That makes men the oppressors of society. A full 99% of rapists are men as well. Yes we all have difficulties but women’s troubles are most directly from MEN. And mens problems are most directly from men. All the gangbangers that I saw, men. Drug dealers; men. DV victims women. Assault victims were at the hands of other men. Men hurt men, men hurt women, men abuse substances and hurt themselves. The question is what are we doing about it? How are…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:40 AM
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Dude he’s looked in the mirror he’s a very cute kid but not Adonis. Thing is…women aren’t as looks oriented as men want to believe. He’s sweet, compassionate, did theater with a beautiful voice, and has a killer outgoing personality, plays several instruments. And the hair my goodness! He already got girls, no issue, but he’s going to have a really great paying job with which he can support a family but has ZERO expectation she stay home unless she wants to. So not asshole. The sky is the limit …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:34 AM
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What a joke. My oldest is Mensa bright ( literally) and full of compassion with the most beautiful head of hair ( my curls with his dads thick black hair) and has zero issues getting girls. I love all my children equally and differently. He and I have the most in-depth amazing conversations ever. We were on the phone for an hour today over politics, life and his need for me to evacuate in tampa bay .5 miles from the ocean; nice try though. Both of my sons want me to help raise their children som…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:58 AM
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Yes I did and women weren’t the cause. Most of the failed suicide attempt were from substance abuse. Some were veterans who had substance-abuse issues. Some just started using substances young. But universally they were generally drunk or high when they shot or hung themselves. There is such a stigma for men needing mental health care. Or expressing negative emotions. We need to do something about it. Men won’t take antidepressants, and they won’t go for counseling. And when they choose suicide …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:54 AM
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If a woman slaps man he can leave. If a man slaps woman she can be seriously injured and can’t leave unless he allows it. There is no comparison between the upper body strength of the two and men do more damage. If she hits more than once…you should have called the police and left. Standing there and letting someone pummel you is not cool. The difference is when a man is pummeling a woman she can’t leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:51 AM
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Sorry trauma ICU nurse first 10 years of my career floated to ER never saw a man with his jaw broken by a woman saw lots and lots of women with their jaws broken by men. And less frequently men with their jaws broken by other men. The physical disparity between men and women is significant; men can walk away women cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:18 AM
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Except they don’t 75% of people killed by intimate partners are women not men. So there’s that…Add that some of the men killed or killed by other men in homosexual relationships… So there’s that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:16 AM
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I live vicariously through them lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:40 AM
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I’m Gen X maybe it’s different but I don’t put out except in a committed monogamous relationship and that has ATTRACTED rather than repelled QUALITY men. I date mostly religious men so I’m sure that helps. But my current SO was not religious at all ( he is now) when we met and also respected that I respected myself. I make sure to tell them how thoroughly enjoy sex so they don’t think I’m frigid, and that I’m not going to want to do it after we get to that place. But knowing that I’m high libido…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:49 AM
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But you condemn kink too. What if a woman in a monogamous relationship gets off by being dominated and spanked in bed? I do and I was a virgin when I married. And have never slept with a man after divorce I was not in a committed monogamous relationship with. And they were willing to wait when I said “ I’m slow, not promiscuous but if and when I feel safe this is what you can expect”…they went nuts and waited HAPPILY. Am I a slut for doing this with a man who enjoys getting me off this way and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:39 AM
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I think you’re cool! No one slut shames men. Have fun! I wish I could be less uptight…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:31 AM
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Same I WISH I could it looks fun! And I LOVE sex. But I’m too shy and need to feel loved to have sex. I secretly want to be them. Also they’re not taking anyone I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:29 AM
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Right 😂. There are fat girls on dating apps. Men don’t choose them, chubby maybe but not fat. Just like women will date short 5’7” but not shorter than that or shorter than them. But women are hypergamous and men aren’t lol. Everyone wants the best of what they’re able to pull. It’s just the calculus is different for women than men. Men are most impressed with looks women are most impressed with resources. It’s all really about evolutionarily biology and there is no changing it anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:25 AM
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Well you’re a hero to me especially as a male! We need more male teachers. My oldest boys high school teacher made such an impression on him. He didn’t just teach math he taught them investing, and common sense. I think of Mr. Kay often and wish we could clone him! Thank you for what you do sincerely! And damn that fish…I was wedged between boat sidewall and seat using all of my body weight to fight. The captain kept offering to help I was like “no freaking way I wanna say I did it all myself”. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:10 AM
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Right cuz neither has any talent…sure…😂🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤣 I think you meant Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:08 AM
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I agree many have a disarming nature. Me included. I’m not formidable physically but I can often talk people down from the ledge with empathy, compassion, and useful advice with associated resources. But I’ll never garner the respect that he is given automatically by entering a room. I have to earn it. And I also agree that wealth and attractiveness are surface but they are what get you in the door. Ugly or severely overweight women or men for that matter don’t get very far. And after my ex and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:42 PM
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AA the ratio of men to women is as skewed as dating apps. This explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:03 PM
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Seduction yes. Seductive women get men. And you don’t have to be promiscuous to be seductive…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:01 PM
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🤣 He doesn’t have to become physical because his size, presence and DIRECT nature are enough. No one fucks with him. If someone is rude to others he says “ what’s your problem?” And defends the vulnerable (me included with my abusive ex). He’s a REAL MAN not a chickenshit, not a beta ( though he loves to make me happy as I do him he ultimately wears the pants as I prefer it), but also not asshole bully for no reason. And the reason is he’s SECURE. He’s in top 7% for earnings, top 1% height, with…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:51 PM
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Saying that women are attorneys, doctors and successful is going crazy on people? Are you staying in Europe women are not doctors and lawyers? 🤣🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Or there are no successful females except in the US lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:38 PM
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The ones they can’t have trying to level up. They could have a woman but won’t date fat etc. but complain women won’t date short or broke guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:40 PM
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Lori Griener Sheryl Sandberg,Taylor Swift, Rihanna, J Lo, Are old? Find then there aren’t any young men that are rich either. For every Justin Bieber there’s a female star. Miley Cyrus etc. Men aren’t CEOs in their 20s either. And there are more female attorneys and physicians than males now entering medical school. They’re young what say you? Last they are all self made…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:36 PM
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Utter bullshit. My partner is an Ex hockey player, 6’2” linebacker body, who would beat the living shit out of anyone who hurt me. Have to restrain him. Yet insanely tender with me, my kids, the elderly or ANYONE vulnerable. He’s such a beautiful example of masculinity that’s not toxic but caring and protective. He’s kind to wait staff, but brutal and confrontational with those who are rude to them. I truly adore that man. Opposite of my ex who was alpha without tenderness. That’s not alpha that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:33 PM
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What constitutes an insufferable Cunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:04 PM
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I absolutely read it it said there were a couple of dozen actresses that had money. Otherwise they were old women who got their money for men which is ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:04 PM
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There are no studies one way or the other about older women with means and what they seek. So your assertion that older women with means seek men with as much or more is equally not supported by evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:50 PM
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That’s what we’re here for us to each give her opinion. My opinion counts it’s only one but it does. My friends have different wants and needs, however none of them who have money seek a man with money. Enough to support himself the rest… And universally we age out of seeking strong but uncaring men. Kind and agreeable ( willing to compromise rather than selfish wanting their way with EVERYTHING) are top to all women who aren’t kids ( under 30).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:41 PM
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It’s not an exception. Women in midlife have completely different calculus than women who are of childbearing age. My friends are all my age. And the ones whose marriages didn’t work out or exactly like me. Of course they have means. If they were poor they would probably still be looking for a man with resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:36 PM
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What causes a woman to “ deserve” to be raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:34 PM
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This full stop, some men Want a nanny, waitress, maid, and whore not a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:31 PM
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My partner is bold and alpha, yet tender when needed. That you can’t be both is just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:29 PM
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A dozen women ever? Please… Actresses, musicians, CEOs like Cheryl Sandburg, entrepreneurs like Laurie Greener, Barbara Corcoran, there are more female attorneys and physicians than men. You’re clueless. Women are becoming more and more successful. We’re almost at 50% where women are in the same or equal to their partners in earning. Because we take time off for kids that’s difficult to achieve if we’re parents. You’re clueless…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:27 PM
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Young especially if they want kids true. It’s evolutionarily biology which is hardwired into women to look for protection and provision for their young. This assures their survival and the survival of their offspring. Midlife not true. I have accumulated enough I could leave, retire, and be ok. So…if anything happened to my partner I could care less a man’s socioeconomic status so long as he can pay his half of our activities. I’m never living with a man again so he’d be visiting me at my comfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:18 PM
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Unless they’re married in which case the money is 50-50 and if they divorce he gets half of what she made and they together accumulated. 🤷‍♀️ And if they had kids and she was breadwinner he gets child support. Alimony these days is rare in either direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:05 PM
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They want a man who can help provide and help them raise a family, hopefully that they’re sexually attracted to, who is also not an asshole. What’s hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:45 AM
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Appears so if they are targeted because they are weaker and men. I don’t think it happens often enough to be talked about it. Whereas you hear about women and their kids murdered by partners on regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:55 PM
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Homicide is the killing of a person. Femcide is the killing of women by men. It got a name because it’s so common that it needs to be addressed and described.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:29 PM
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Not true the attorney that prosecuted Epstein the first time down in South Florida let them off at the slap on the wrist. Lots of people in the industry knew that Harvey Weinstein was raping women and did nothing to protect them. The women themselves had no power. Fox News knew that Roger Ailes was Sexually harassing women they also did nothing. It’s a pattern with men to see the other men are doing the wrong thing and just ignore it laugh about it or encourage it. Like Laughing at “you can grab…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:25 PM
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Not that I know of. I imagine there’s a word for it just because it happens so often to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:50 AM
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Exactly and to think that I haven’t worked really hard to LEARN how to give a KILLER blow job and make that makes me UNFORGETTABLE is stupid. Or the way I seduce him with the perfect lingerie and lace thigh highs with 5 inch heels. Unless she lays her with her legs open like a dead fish she’s contributing as well, kissing and touching. The penetrative part is male dominant and female receptive the rest is mutual. And if men want more sex they need to get better at helping women to achieve orgasm…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:03 PM
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I didn’t say they were equal I said both are referred to by derogatory terms. Black women have it the hardest. Calling women bitches and ho’s reduces use to a cum dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:59 PM
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Men’s violent that’s not at the hands of women. Women can use guns they can’t kill men yet they don’t. At least not at the same rate. For every four people that are dead from intimate partner violence three of them are women. Of the 25% of intimate partners that are men that die most of them are killed by homosexual partners. Women don’t kill men very often when they do it’s often self-defense. Not always but often. Men kill regularly just turn on the nightly news to hear about another woman kil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:56 PM
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No distinguishing degree of injury. Being stabbed having your jaw wired shut are not quite the same as slapping a man. If you think they are I can’t help you. I said they should go to jail and the law makes allowance for injury severity too. A slap is not a stab wound is not a broken bone. Women leave marks men break jaws. To compare the two is asinine. Also femcide is a REAL problem. A difference of 6% is PLENTY enough to swing elections. In fact 2% is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:34 PM
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Men killing women. AL is worst in the nation buts it’s a problem everywhere. https://www.alreporter.com/2024/10/01/opinion-alabamas-domestic-violence-crisis-a-deadly-reality-for-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:02 PM
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🙄
/r/EverydayMisandry02/10/24 06:41 PM
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Half the GOP’s voting base is not women. And they’re not voting only on abortion. I’m a registered pub as I’m for balanced budgets. And the Republican Party BEFORE TRUMP was too. But due to Trump blowing up the debt, abortion and republican HATE I’ll vote dem down ballot. Pubs are 52% men and 46% women BTW so not 50/50. https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2024/04/09/partisanship-by-gender-sexual-orientation-marital-and-parental-status/ If the majority of the public is pro choice but red states …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:36 PM
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You tried to say more women are using drugs because you’re miserable and I’m saying you’re mistaken. It’s not that WOMEN are more miserable it’s that people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:26 PM
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You’re saying opiate use is rising and I’m telling you it’s rising more among men. It’s absolutely relevant because you’re trying to frame it as women being more miserable and turning to drugs. When really it’s people being more miserable because The cost of living doesn’t allow them to buy a home, women are working full-time and doing full-time childcare so they have two jobs instead of one. So many are eschewing marriage leaving men alone and not having sex. This is making men MISERABLE far mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:22 PM
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Oh I absolutely heard it from my ex. If you didn’t make me mad I wouldn’t have to blah blah blah. Absolutely did my my own personal ex-husband. Abusers ALWAYS find a way to justify abuse. You shouldn’t have “ mouthed off”, etc etc etc… Menstrual victim blame. Even on the sub it’s women’s fault for picking the men. Women’s fault for staying. Women’s fault when they get raped drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:19 PM
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It’s EXACTLY the same. Calling women bitches and ho’s reduces our humanity. It’s a derogatory term the way you used it to dehumanize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:18 PM
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And yet women who are victims of rape and incest can’t get abortions in some states so there’s that. And it mattered to 32,000 women pregnant from rape last year. Also maternal mortality is up 56% in TX since passage of the ban. OB/GYN’s are fleeing the state making it harder for women who want pregnancies to access care and they’re dying in childbirth. It’s a disaster. “national rape-related pregnancy rate is 5.0% per rape among victims of reproductive age (aged 12 to 45); among adult women an …
/r/EverydayMisandry02/10/24 01:57 PM
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And Black people call each other Nager’s but it’s not OK for a white person to call a black person a “n*gger”. And it’s not OK for a man to call a woman a bitch or a Cunt. It’s dehumanizing and demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:52 PM
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I never said ALL men were anything. In fact most men aren’t but the bad men are NOT policed by other men. And there STILL is not social pressure or we would even have Harvey Weinstein, Mark Halpern, Jeffrey Epstein, Charlie Rose, P Diddy, ray rice, we could be here all day with men who beat and rape women with virtual IMPUNITY. Some families protected women many did not. JD Vance suggests it’s better to stay in an abusive relationship for your children. Families that think like he did we tell th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:48 PM
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Rape isn’t a choice. Nor is incest.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/10/24 07:41 AM
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We could certainly get towards the goal by making birth control free, some of it over the counter, easily available. Also it doesn’t help that in Florida DeSantis will now teach abstinence only, not talk about birth control, and not even talk about consent. Apparently he thinks raping is OK.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/10/24 07:37 AM
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You do realize more men use drugs and alcohol in women right? You’re hilarious. And if you don’t know who the running mate for the person that you’re voting for boy that says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:01 AM
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Nope men are the ones who want to outlaw abortion. Women want abortions. It’s men making decisions for women. You can’t force women to kill themselves. We’re working full time men have to step up at home. Functionally men got away with domestic violence don’t even pretend they didn’t. This is why the violence against women act was necessary. If women weren’t being beaten and dying it wouldn’t have been necessary. Women absolutely did not get justice for marital rape. They had ZERO recourse. If t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:57 AM
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Domestic violence has a problem there and they really don’t address it adequately. It’s got the highest femcide rate in the country. They don’t prosecute the domestic violence so it leads to murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:07 AM
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The women who are not happier are the women who have been sold the bill of goods that they can have it all. They’re working full-time and taking care of kids full-time because husbands won’t step up yeah they’re pretty miserable and they’re leaving. Those of us who left these miserable lazy men are happy as a pig in shit! Hard while a single mom but easier than him and with them in college AMAZING life! I have a great career, money, and a supportive partner. Soooo much better than when I stayed …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:01 AM
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If we loved it so much why are we eschewing it now? Because we have the option. Women did NOT have it better when husbands were allowed to beat and rape us. In one state they can drug you and rape you legally still. We were not better off when we couldn’t get good jobs or equal pay forcing us to stay with abusive men. We were not better off before the violence against women act. The rate of women killing men went down dramatically when we had the ability to leave through no fault divorce and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:42 AM
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When you have to compete with blacks, Hispanics, asians and women for what was previously your birthright it feels like oppression. White men are having a hard time becoming a minority and losing power. Some have grown and are pitching in with parenting etc. while others DEEPLY resent the increased work and responsibility. Women are leaving men who don’t help. Why right wing men want to end no fault divorce. And take away our right to vote. This is the vice presidential nominee for Trump this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:08 AM
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I wouldn’t of had to hit you if you will be made me kind of stuff. That’s exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:31 AM
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Women didn’t want to stay home. They didn’t wanna have babies. They didn’t have a choice. They couldn’t get a credit card. They couldn’t own home. They couldn’t open their own bank account. Now that we have choices we are working, outnumber men in medicine and law, are increasingly going into stem. In the words of Ruth Bader Ginsburg we simply needed men to “get off our necks”. And as we do we are forgoing marriage and when we partner choosing to be child free and focus on career more often now …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:26 AM
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His “ bitch” just wow. You are not part of “ not all men” you’re one of “ those men”, ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:21 AM
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Not in Alabama. Femcide is almost twice the national average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:20 AM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:42 AM
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They are here for certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:41 AM
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I’d add mens sex drive and need for women is the MAIN motivation for success and achievement. Without that done men would not work and live in filth as they are motivated to please women more than to please themselves. Sex strikes have literally ended wars. That’s how strong that drive is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:50 AM
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In male dominated fields it’s extremely common. Women who go into engineering often leave because of the rampant misogyny, sexual abuse, and the lack of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:38 AM
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Prejudice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:34 AM
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White men don’t experience this disadvantage hence why they are privileged. No one will refuse to vote for someone simply because they’re a man. The reverse is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:31 AM
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You both handled that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:51 AM
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Yeah just do it if you don’t trust her why hurt her it’s gratuitous cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:28 AM
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Go do it why tell her? That’s where the issue lies…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:40 PM
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No humans are wired via evolutionarily biology. Men want to impregnate as many women as possible, so their seed is passed on. Conversely women want to provide for the children they have so they pick the most STABLE man who will stick around to raise said kids and provide for them. We look for men who can protect and provide for our survival in the survival of our children. You can’t change evolutionary biology overnight. Call it hypergamy If you need to. Men choose the most beautiful woman they …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:26 PM
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Meh most people aren’t malevolent just misinformed. I learned so much about mental illness working as a trauma nurse for the first 10 years. We saw a lot of depression, with attempted suicide that were unsuccessful. Schizophrenics were voices told him to do certain things. Homeless victims of assaults who are mentally ill. And tons of substance-abuse and bipolar disorder. The men who were actively hallucinating could absolutely become quite violent. And look at all of the shootings. The mass sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:41 PM
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It’s a developmental disorder. A bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:37 PM
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Trauma nurse, can confirm that schizophrenia in men causes some really dangerous stuff. Far more than with women. Most of the time the mentally ill are the victims not the perpetrators but that is not always the case. And when they are perpetrators it’s generally men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:35 PM
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Exactly not a monolith. I’d add as had been discussed Your many times men don’t particularly care about a woman’s ability to earn money if they are themselves successful. Women almost always worry about a men’s ability to earn money if they want to have children as they will need help if not to be supported completely for a period of time due to pregnancy and childbirth. It is very difficult to raise a child on one income and if a man is mentally unstable it might be difficult for them to mainta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:32 PM
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Society would not collapse. We only need a few men and lots of women to repopulate the world. As far as physical tasks women aren’t strong enough to do…it will be replaced by robots. Until we have artificial room rooms women are necessary for survival of the species. So we’re men but we don’t need very many. When cloning is perfected we don’t need them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:13 PM
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If they are having unprotected sex they should. My point is how would men feel if she required him to get STD tested annually just to be safe in case he’s cheated to avoid infertility from an std?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:09 PM
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Nope, they are not. Only THEY get to be paranoid. I think more apt would be requiring him to get STD tested, you know trust but verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:52 PM
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Exactly there are tons of women with lazy shitty men and they give the a plethora of chances to get their shit together before giving up. This is such a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:48 AM
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Which state does not split joint assets?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:52 AM
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Correct but the renumeration is an equal split. They may decide what that equal looks like one keeping the house one buying the other half out. But the value is still split in someway. When You divorce things obtained during the course of the marriage are split equitably irrespective of incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:23 PM
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You see older men in movies all the time represented as the hot man. You never see older women represented this way. There’s a double standard men are allowed age women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:21 PM
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Asset split does not depend on who brought in more money. Asset split is straight down the middle. That’s what marriage is. The only thing that a substantially higher wage earner affects is whether or not you get alimony if you’re at home and even then it’s still temporary and rehabilitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:49 PM
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Not his money THEIR money. That’s what marriage is but they don’t get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:48 PM
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“Watch put for gold diggers while making $60,000 a year” is accurate and 😂!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:47 PM
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You mean force them as men to comply marry and give birth handmaids style? Yeah that cats out of the bag we have voting rights and we’re not going back. There aren’t enough misogynists to force us to either. I’d immolate myself before I’d bow to a man by force.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:03 AM
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Depends on family history but four main culprits: 1. Smoking 2. Alcohol ( some effects reversible with cessation some not) 3. Untreated HTN 4. Family hx of CAD, overweight and sedentary. Any of those will get you there having a couple of them will get you there faster. I always tell primary care docs when they diagnose hypertension not to tell them they’ll get heart disease if it’s not treated but tell them that it will break their cock. They’re far more compliant 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:02 PM
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I don’t need money so the calculus is different. Generous is irrelevant I can buy what I want. Established means nothing but intelligence and education do. I need him to keep up. When I was younger it mattered I wanted kids. Last in college I have enough to live modestly the rest of my life even if I stopped working. I want companionship, fun, travel and great sex. To have great sex equipment needs to work lol. AND he can’t be threatened by intelligence or independence which some Gen X and ESPEC…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:49 PM
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Their dick works. After 40 men who don’t take care of themselves have ED. They have their hair. They are generally less overweight. But I’ll take a fit men my age any day. Same music, same movies, same life experience if fit. Just most are not. I had a BF eight years older but he was a fit gym rat. If something happened to my partner I’d not exclude based on age more weight and fitness but that’s the appeal. I would not want anyone under 40. I’ve never had uncommitted sex. But I’m middle age if …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:15 PM
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They have that option women in Korea are. The problem is 1. Men are more driven for sex than most women and cannot give it up and will not pay for it. Men don’t have close intimate friendships so their “ intimacy” comes only from women. Without that emotional support they flounder. So as much as they are frustrated by women taking their time to try and find the ideal match (since we have such a high cost of procreation), they will still settle when the women are ready to settle if said women wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:40 PM
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Sure that’s what you want to think. Because that’s how you tell women they are worthless. If men want kids by 40 they generally have them. That’s when men care most about this is to start a family. If not an older, bold, beautiful woman with no responsibilities who’s financially stable and good in bed is VERY appealing to a subset of men. You need nothing from them but fun, companionship and great sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:48 AM
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I asked how we do? Do we trash mens bad behavior yes, but you’re saying we met trash men specifically for aging? Tell them past 30 no one will want them and they are washed up? You’ll have to give me an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:33 AM
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Yes thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:05 PM
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Yep. Men age = good. Women age = no one will want her. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:51 PM
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T
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:38 PM
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Women who are raped or murdered in honor killings. Imagine voluntary sex. You can’t be this obtuse is to think that women are punished for premarital sex in the Middle East. Adultery can get you stoned to death. Women are killed for not covering their head properly. Imagine sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:38 PM
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Hedonists only care about themselves not society. That’s kind of the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:36 PM
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So real man would’ve outlawed women playing video games?😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:57 PM
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I agree if she’s in her 30s and the guys in their 20s. But I think a woman who’s 50 can date a man who’s 40 with no issues in the gender gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:20 PM
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Don’t disagree. I could not date someone my sons age. But ten year younger for sure I would. Also what would we talk about? Men only want these girls for sex so conversation is unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:10 PM
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Of course! But a millennial is not the age of my Gen Z son. 🤷‍♀️ I would go ten years younger for sure! Men my age are overweight, not as active as I am and can’t keep up. They also tend to start having erectile dysfunction if they’ve abused alcohol, are sedentary, or don’t manage their blood pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:06 PM
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I’m gen X millennials do not look like kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:59 PM
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Gives me money? No I trash bad men and praise good men. My ex-husband abused me terribly, the good men that I worked with protected Me. They kept him from coming into the unit where I worked as we both worked at the same place after the restraining order. They made sure I was OK. They made life very difficult for him until he quit. GOOD men! Also after the divorce the parent facilitator and GAL were men. When he broke the rules they would go to the judge and protect us. My partner loves and prot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:01 PM
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What do you mean by trash then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:19 AM
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Exactly it’s not a gendered thing young is beautiful not just to men. Of course they wanna convince themselves that their aging doesn’t matter that only women have an expiration date. The middle age men you see with young girls are rich ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:18 AM
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That’s the issue most men DONT really want to hence why we have so many more single mothers than single fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:47 PM
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Daycares don’t ask you things like that what do you mean? Nor would a babysitter ask is this your kid…huh? They care that they get paid. If the kid behaves well they’ll keep coming back I don’t get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:45 PM
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Not hard to foster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:42 PM
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Foster! It’s free and they need you more. 🥲 I hope you do!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:41 PM
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Not true at all. We don’t want to have a relationship with them but to say we wouldn’t prefer our partner to look like them is insane. If you show me a picture of a young Benjamin Bratt versus current age I’m going to take the young one even though he still hot as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:37 PM
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Depends on how much younger. I’d take a man ten years younger with a fully functioning dick ( I’m Gen X) any day. If something happened to my partner I’d for sure go younger next.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:35 PM
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Agree men should! If they are that worried!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:59 PM
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Nope not in FL. Even if you’re proof not to be the father if you were married at the time of birth your child support. I can’t speak to other states.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:54 PM
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10 wife 20 fun. I’ve had both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:54 PM
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We trash douche bag behavior not men. Unfortunately more men beat, rape, kill, sexually abuse, and have anger issues so there’s more danger and more to complain about in terms of our well being if not survival. THOSE men who do THOSE things are bad. Not all men but reality with 1/3 women physically or sexually assaulted in our lifetime it happens to us far to often, sadly. Good men saved me from bad men. I don’t hate men but I do hate bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:29 PM
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We are more attracted to younger men too. But we don’t trash men our age. I agree though I have men 20 years younger to my age and older flirt. They still flirt if you have a great body and pretty face. This women expire stuff is BS Meant to shame young women into settling for these guys. Don’t believe it girls!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:44 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:36 PM
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And that’s their right. Find a girl who doesn’t mind it. It’s the equivalent of women who are annoyed by being sports widows. I can’t IMAGINE if you wanted kids where you’d find that kind of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:33 AM
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If you’re married you’re assumed to be the father even if you’re not. And you’re due child support even if you’re not the father. So I suppose if you’re not married but if you are, you are gonna get stuck with child support either way. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:10 AM
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Certainly your right, go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:08 AM
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That’s up to the man. You can swab your kids cheek whenever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:42 AM
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Keep whining and felling sorry bigot yourself or fix it. As the ONLY person you can control is YOU. I can’t stop men from raping women but I can be very careful about walking alone and protected. Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:42 PM
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Almost no women have a secret bank account. And it doesn’t have to be mandated by law you can go swab your kids cheek with local CVS test. So what is the issue? I’m so sick of hearing this if you want to test your kid do it! Just don’t accuse a woman of being a cheater. Do it on the down low. 🤷‍♀️🙄🤦‍♀️ It’s a non issue!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:37 PM
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This is ridiculous. No I don’t shame them for opening up. I want them to open up. I want them to go to counseling. You just want to feel sorry for yourself good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:31 PM
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It is not women’s job to fix mens psychological health anymore than they are responsible to fix ours. It’s men’s job; get antidepressants if needed, therapy if needed, read books and do work on yourself. Our “empathy” is not going to heal the issues men face. Anymore than men’s empathy without the actions of Ruth Bader Ginsburg to change the legal system, or women marching to give us rights would’ve changed it. They’re going to have to help themselves, figure out WHAT they need (Like the supreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:20 PM
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No I don’t think it is by women, maybe for other men. I think women think it’s a sign of a really secure guy without an ego issue mature enough to tackle problems not drink, drug etc to avoid them. And while it might’ve been designed for women it has become very effective for men. They simply won’t avail themselves of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:04 PM
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Far more females as most men won’t go to therapy and most females prefer a female therapist. How many has no bearing on whether or not the FEW men that want therapy can find men. They can; ESPECIALLY since you can see them virtually. So what’s the gotcha you’re looking for? It’s supply and demand there isnt a huge demand for male therapists but they are certainly available and highly competent in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:50 PM
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And yet my son and husband easily found them. Add that you can find them via zoom this is now an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:34 PM
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I thought anecdotes don’t matter? Maybe you had a bad school therapist. I’m sorry your country doesn’t have therapy readily available. But in America there are male therapists, and they are incredibly helpful. My best friend and her husband are going to marriage counseling is helping them too. To say that therapy can’t help men is just silly. I do not think a female would have been as effective. Men have a better insight into men full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:47 PM
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They’re a male therapist. My son and my husband go to two different ones. Anna helped them immensely. That’s just a coat because mine are too lazy to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:27 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:15 PM
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I’m sorry jumping off the skyway with a bungee cord is immature. There’s no two ways about it you can justify it anyway you like. Risking your life for a stupid trick to show off is immature. The proof being that of all those men most of them were young men; they grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:05 PM
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Making decisions that are healthy and will further your life not kill you. That would be a start. As a trauma nurse for the first 10 years of my career 80% of the ICU was young men doing stupid shit. That is not maturity. Drunk driving, drunk boating, drunk jet skis, fights, gang banging, jumping off the skyway bridge with a bungee cord that breaks etc. etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:56 PM
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What does “Weaponized in our vulnerability” mean in practical terms? Can you give me an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:31 PM
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This…this is why not ALL men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:11 PM
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No accountants, any kind of IT job, Engineers, lawyers, finance, and IT doesn’t need to be a specialty doctor. Even family practice doctors make enough to raise a family on. My partner is a CFP and could very comfortably provide for us without my income. I like my work. But it’s nice knowing I don’t have to and he’s got my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:01 AM
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I’m glad it worked out for you for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:00 AM
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Disagree. Women even those who work look for high achieving or high earning men if they wish to stay home with children. This may be more important than looks. A stable secure income on which to raise a family matters a great deal to some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:15 AM
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This is a very interesting take and I appreciate your response. Do you think they’ll turn back to families to find meaning in life again? I don’t think they’re going to turn back to religion. That hasn’t historically happened Europe is about 10 years ahead of us in terms of this but if you and fewer young people are going to church. Some of it is hateful rhetoric there. The anti-LBTGQ sentiment which most modern young people have no issue with. And the diversity of a younger generation which the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:03 AM
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They are the first thing noticed but no Security trumps looks for many women not all. Particularly if we want children. A stable job a good career the ability to support a family is every bit as important to many women as what you look like. Adding a great personality, mutual hobbies, mutual values there is a lid for every pot. No it isn’t so easy finding a partner but they were are there and no looks is not everything. But you’ll never get better socially or meet anyone sitting at home that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:55 AM
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No women is going around thinking they’re perfect 10. We’re so insecure it’s ridiculous. In terms of looks or overall attractiveness (My Brain, and sweetness are always a draw) the way we rate ourselves is based on the guys that we are able to get to want a relationship with us. Dated a 10 guy, funny, witty, nice, doctor. OMG Patrick Dempsey hair. Benjamin Bratt look. I couldn’t do it it made me too insecure. I thought the million nurses going after him and he would end up cheating. I just could…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:20 AM
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Look and money aren’t the only thing. It’s not that they’re not important it’s that they’re not the only thing. So when you have other things going for you and you don’t have perfect looks or as much money then you meet the woman’s bar. I know you know what they’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:12 AM
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I’m so happy for you too. But I would never want to just hope to be fortunate I plan. To take care of myself and never need anyone. If they’re around that’s just a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:59 PM
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I can see the shift with child free. But I’m wondering what policy specifically you think the Democrats have that are anti-child? Or more specifically what each side could do that you think would be pro-child? Do you think women are going to shift to the right? Or do you think they are going to make laws so that we can no longer vote , or are forced to have kids? What would that look like? What specifically do you think will cause this shift to the right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:57 PM
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I said is my only value as a woman now that I’m postmenopausal to raise my grandchildren as he said? Or is my contribution to saving lives also important? I guess it’s not because I have a vagina 🤷‍♀️. I shouldn’t be able to do that? I never said men weren’t as capable as nurses maybe that’s a reading comprehension problem for you? Kamala Harris does not hate children, she has two. Her policies Are far far more friendly to women and families than Donald Trump’s. Expanding the child tax credit, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:28 PM
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I think they’re low effort if the guy suggest them. But if it’s my suggestion he offered me a nice dinner I don’t know that it’s low effort. And now I would never hurt someone’s feelings by just getting up and walking out that’s rude I would suffer through the dinner. Some thing I’m not app to do it my age. Maybe in my 20s, Even my 30s not now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:04 PM
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No I don’t have that kind of time to waste. I have would be dating to find something permanent. I’d rather be home with a sandwich I made watching reality TV than to be with an obnoxious or boring date. I have gone on some dinner dates but we’ve talked quite a lot first. And I thought it was something that would lead somewhere. I always offer to pay not one man in my entire life is ever let me. Except for coffee. I think they get why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:36 PM
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It’s just me I don’t want them to have anything to complain about. And I don’t wanna be there very long either I know pretty quickly if it’s gonna work or not. Why anybody would want to sit through a whole dinner with someone that turns out is like super annoying, or some crazy orange Jesus worshiper is beyond me. If it goes great you can always sit and talk longer over coffee or make another date. But you’re not stuck and neither party is out much money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:21 PM
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Kamala Harris is a step mother Pete Buttigieg served in the Armed Forces before he had children was that no value to society? Does Oprah, Condaleeza Rice, Angela Merkel, various Nobel prize winners and laureates contribute nothing simply because they haven’t cared a child inside their body? Who says Democrats hate children? I don’t think Kamala Harris has ever said she hated her children or anyone else is children. Where does that even come from? Do you agree with no rape and incest exceptions? …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:16 PM
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Could not agree more!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:13 PM
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I think that’s wonderful that you’ve been doing that and trades are absolutely amazing and stable profession. But they’re very hard on your body. My body is absolutely wrecked from nursing. I had to lift 200 pound trauma patients for 10 years. This would be worse. It’s not physically possible for us it’s not that we’re lazy. Trust me nurses aren’t lazy. And that’s a four-year degree, heavy and math and sciences, and an insanely physically demanding job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:58 PM
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You’ve got issues. I can’t lift a toilet. That’s not lazy that’s biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:50 PM
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That’s why everyone has choices there are people who are willing to take the risk I had three children and their people that say nahI’m pretty happy as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:06 PM
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OK never trust a partner. If I was a lesbian I still wouldn’t trust her. I only trust myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:02 PM
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Sometimes but there is absolutely no doubt that women have a college education before having children have lifelong wealth that women who do not do not. I would never trust a man for my financial security ever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:52 PM
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Exactly these jobs are high-paying. So how is that oppression? You have the ability to do a high paid job with a high school education; that’s an ability women don’t have so don’t bitch about it. If you don’t want to simply don’t do it. Like we are choosing not to be mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:48 PM
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I’m so sorry you went through this. Women are often blown off I say that as a nurse. It’s only when the husbands get involved in anything gets done. I’m so glad you have your son but I truly understand where you’re coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:47 PM
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Unless you’re a woman who wants financial security. Otherwise later is better. I have no idea what I would’ve done with my husband abused me had I not already had an education and a career to fall back on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:42 PM
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Thank you you’re very kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:18 PM
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Men are free to opt out of dangerous jobs and get an education and women are able to opt out of child bearing. Suffering is optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:16 PM
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Agree the difference is I won’t give a fuck. But if he pays I might feel bad. I want to eliminate that from the calculus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:12 PM
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I am incredibly happy. I have complex PTSD but I work around it. It made me who I am. I help people with similar issues as people helped me; no regrets. And thank you for your kind words.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:07 PM
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It isn’t he’s trying to shame them for being selfish when men are also selfish. Everyone is. Women are supposed to sacrifice men don’t have to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:03 PM
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It seems like to men today women or just sex slot machines. Who wants to have a kid with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:02 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story and I’m sorry you went through all that. I also had a wicked postpartum depression. Ended up hospitalized and I had my brain electrocuted. I love my children but I wanted them with everything in me. If you didn’t I can’t even imagine doing it. I got a third-degree tear giving birth. I threw up for the first three months. It was not fun
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:56 PM
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I wish I could’ve bought this 1000 times! I’m so glad you got a good husband they’re so rare!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:53 PM
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Right except you don’t know what you’re gonna be the smooth pregnancy or have the complications and some women don’t wanna take that risk. If you had a bowl full of M&Ms and one of them had cyanide would you want to eat those M&Ms? Even though the majority the M&Ms are perfectly safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:49 PM
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Amen!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:48 PM
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I had a third-° tear when I gave birth to this day is still painful. The bottom half of my vagina when I have sex feels like it’s tearing. I still enjoy sex but less than before I had children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:47 PM
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Men can!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:44 PM
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It should be for men but it’s not. All of the data even women who are the primary breadwinners and work more hours. The women do the majority of the child care in the home responsibilities. To have a demanding career and raise a child with very little help is insane. Yet… I wish men would make the child their priority and be an equal helper outside of work but they’re not generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:42 PM
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Notice JD Vance says nothing about childless MEN it’s childless cat LADIES.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:34 PM
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Detailed and accurate answer. When our only choice was to be married and stay home, children gave us a lot of fulfillment. But now we get that fulfillment from our careers, our interests and hobbies, and we don’t need the financial support of men so we have the option to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:34 PM
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Not really if you wanna do that go ahead just don’t hurt her with it. If it makes you feel better I wouldn’t care if he did it I just wouldn’t want to know about it. Telling me it’s almost like taunting me and accusing me to what end? If he did we’d be done. He can get it and have 50/50 custody . 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:56 PM
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I don’t sleep around I was a virgin when I got married. Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:10 PM
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So I deserve to be raped and my nose broken? Just so we’re clear…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:08 PM
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The individual decides what they need. I have zero issues with men who can’t find women paying for sex. It should be like Nevada regulated, safe, and legal. Sex (especially for men) is a need. Would they be happier in committed relationships? Yes I think they would. But until they can figure that out… I have a friend that absolutely loves sex. She is promiscuous but safely so using condoms. Who am I to say that she can’t add joy to her life in a way that she enjoys and the man enjoys? Whose gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:38 PM
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Thanks one day at a time!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:31 PM
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I disagree. So does Maslow, medicine and science. Love, companionship, sex, food are needs. We will agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:54 PM
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No one attractive man and one ugly man. The attractive man was an asshole I thought if I pick the ugly man he’d be so grateful to have me because I’m objectively very pretty but I wouldn’t have to go through that shit. I bought into the nice guy thing. I still got fucked over. There’s no guarantee because someone is short unattractive and not successful that they’re going to be kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:41 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:40 PM
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I definitely wouldn’t want to know. I definitely definitely would not want to know that he thought I was capable of that. That would rip me to shreds honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:39 PM
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Yes there’s a reason why we left. Unequal distribution of labor is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:39 PM
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As a woman who was raped you don’t know what this means to me. 😢Same with my Gen Z sons no tolerance for rape jokes. I’ve been horribly abused by men. But it was also good men who saved me. The doctors I worked with protected me. They actually said if admin let my ex-husband into the unit he had no business being in (he’s not a surgeon and had no patients there) they would have an issue. They were not enforcing the restraining order. My begging meant nothing I’m just a nurse. 🥲 Theirs ended it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:42 PM
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Apologies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:17 PM
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I agree with the rest 🙄 I’m objectively very attractive With a killer body especially in my 20s. My first husband was an electrician. My second was a 5’5” doctor. I married each because I THOUGHT they shared my spiritual beliefs. I will give them that both of them wait until marriage. Including my second husband who knew I wasn’t a virgin and he had had one partner. We were committed because of our faith to wait. I no longer feel that way. I’m certainly not promiscuous and I wait a very long tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:29 PM
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Honestly I don’t care what gay men do because they both want the same thing. My issue is women don’t generally want that and they feel pressure to do it otherwise they’ll never have a man. Men don’t realize that this pressure ultimately leads to all the friction between the sexes. As a pump and dumped women are more reluctant to trust men… rinse and repeat. Then man bear…This is what happens when people use each other instead of caring about each other. There is resentment all the way around. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:16 PM
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I think hook up culture isn’t just poison for women I think it’s poison for male female relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:53 PM
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Why does she need to feign innocence? Because if she’s honest in you’re red pill she’ll be Judged mercilessly for the very thing that you do, and want to do as much as possible, and want her to do before she even knows you. Hook up culture is a scourge to women overall. The calculus for sex versus a relationship is quite different. There is zero chance we want to procreate with an asshole. If we think you’re a possible procreation partner we want to make sure that we don’t get attached, pumped a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:43 PM
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Sex as a human need. In fact on Maslow‘s hierarchy of human needs sex is with food. You may not need or enjoy sex. I like committed monogamous sex. But there are people who absolutely just love sex for sex sake and there’s nothing wrong with that. Anymore than there’s something wrong with drinking water. It’s a human need.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:36 PM
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Who are you to judge was healthy? Some people just want to have sex to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:05 PM
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Wrong I clearly said it’s transactional and healthy as long as they are clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:36 PM
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You’re suggesting that his asshole behavior appealed to me and I’m telling you you’re flat out wrong. He pretended to be the kindest man I ever knew but he was a raging misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:51 PM
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I didn’t know he was an asshole when he got me to marry him. He only became an asshole after I was trapped and pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:36 PM
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My husband is as alpha as they come. Sports writer before you went into financial services an ex-hockey player. You can take your assumptions and shove them up your ass. He would never disrespect me the way you disrespect your wife though. He loves me if not adores me. He cares about my happiness as much as I care about his. He BOTH ascribe to happy partner happy life and seek ways to care for and meet each other’s needs. My ex was like you thank God he’s an ex. Nope misogynistic men are a no go…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:30 PM
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No many women do. I LOVE SEX. But many women also are looking for safe committed sex. I could never get my clothes off with someone I didn’t know extremely well I’m very shy. Once I know someone long enough to be ready for intimacy I’m a freak…but it takes me a minute to get there and I know I’m not the only one. And if they can’t have safe committed sex they’d rather have a friend with benefits than fuck a bunch of different guys. Who may or may not rape them or hurt them does that make any sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:27 PM
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You’re disparaging me for fucking him because he was an asshole. I’m just saying no regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:12 PM
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I’m high libido. Just cause I hated him didn’t mean I didn’t like sex. It was the only good thing I got from him in addition to my children who are amazing.😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:10 PM
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If they’re in marriage counseling there’s probably a problem to begin with. There are plenty of couples that have good sex lives. I do think sometimes different drives are a problem and it’s a tendency of women to have lower drives than men particularly with young children. In my situation I am high libido and he’s practically asexual. It’s super super frustrating. And I feel like I’m totally wasted. I’m slightly kinky, love sex, would do it a few times a day, and I have to pick the one man in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:08 PM
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I can’t believe a woman will put up with you. God love her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:05 PM
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Not if she offers or insists. I NEVER let a man pay on a first date I don’t want to owe him. I do appreciate that he wants to though. I especially wouldn’t want it if we had similar incomes. Or I was making more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:05 PM
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I’m glad to hear overall it helped!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:59 PM
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My ex husband. We sometimes fucked three times a day and I have mad oral skills. He was awful and I left but it wasn’t due to bad sex… Married men have more sex than single men by the way. Cohabiting have the most. “According to the General Social Survey, 52 percent of cohabiting young men (aged 20-39) have sex at least twice a week, compared to 42 percent of married men. Single men have the least sex, with only 37 percent of single males in their twenties and thirties having twice-weekly sex.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:46 PM
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Yes you said she ignored you after and it hurt you. Or something to that effect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:40 PM
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I do think women feel pressured into sex and do it. I don’t think that they are enjoying casual sex they’re hoping for a relationship. Some women are highly promiscuous but it’s not common. As they get older they tend to get smarter and stop allowing themselves to be used as a cum dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:39 PM
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Zero chance I’d be with a man who implied I cheated but you do you boo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:38 PM
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No one’s telling you not to they’re just saying don’t humiliate the woman in the process why would you tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:48 AM
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Many women aren’t why do you think we’re not replacing ourselves and in population decline. We have stepped into the workforce men have not equally taken on the child rearing. Even when the women are majority breadwinners they still do more of the child care, teachers conferences, doctors visits etc. Why? No idea but it’s a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:21 AM
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Almost half of adults 18 to 49 are childless by choice and intend to remain that way. Because it’s so much work on top of our full time jobs too much. Course JD Vance would fix that with the handmaid’s tale scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:19 AM
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Correct. And it’s not the stay at home moms that are griping it’s the women who work full-time and still do everything at home with her husband sits on the phone. What stay at home mother’s gripe about is they never ever get a moment to themselves. Shoot I couldn’t even grocery shop and get my haircut. When I got divorced I got every other weekend off!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:18 AM
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If you told her upfront fine but if you haven’t it’s an intimation that she’s cheating. There is no other way to take it so just hide it and check if that’s what you need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:09 AM
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I’m sorry she hurt you. And I think she did find you attractive or she would not have fucked you. A pretty thin woman like that can pull very hot men for NSA sex. I’m glad you found love!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:28 AM
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I’m not so sure. Women are getting fed up and wiser…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:26 AM
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Wasn’t enjoying sex good for you especially if you hadn’t had a lot of experience? What did you think you would have in common? I’m sorry she hurt you I’m trying to understand what you expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:10 AM
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Thank you for this…we can’t win. They literally say if a woman doesn’t sleep with them by the third date he’d dump her but then he judges her for high body count… how does that even work?🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:09 AM
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Honestly despite what red pill theory teaches you they are rare. There are women who really enjoy sex without any issue over commitment. And more power to them! Men do it every day they shouldn’t be judged for it. But evolutionarily biology dictates that most the time we want security. And love. Connection and a partner we can trust to be there for us in the event any offspring result from our union.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:02 AM
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Unfortunately with hookup culture some young women think if they don’t jump into bed they will have no chance with men. They pretty much demand sex by the third date. If so I’d remain single. Nobody gets to use my body unless I know that they care about me and aren’t just pumping and dumping me. I understand why young women do it and we have to stop. That’s the only way hookup culture changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:59 AM
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Got it and agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:18 AM
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Can’t disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:17 AM
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How old were you? How old was she? Did you know it was just sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:19 AM
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Disagree as he’s using her for sexual experience and she’s looking for NSA too. I think it can be very healthy as long as he knows it is what it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:18 AM
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Amen!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:16 AM
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Would you say men like to be needed? I know my partner does not for income but I was abused and he protected me. But same idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:15 AM
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I’m asking if it’s not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:10 AM
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Explain? You wouldn’t confront her about lying about the paternity of your child? You would what pay child support etc.? If so why did you do the paternity test in the first place this is nonsensical?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:32 AM
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As long as you don’t tell I see no problem with reassuring yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:31 AM
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How is this responsive to my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:31 AM
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My point. Why hurt her when you don’t have to? It’s gratuitous pain that she didn’t deserve unless she cheated right? If you’re not the father there’s a discussion to be had if you are you hurt her And insinuated she cheated and did not trust her for no good reason. What is to be gainedfrom that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:12 AM
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Yeah they’re not gonna be patient enough to wait until they have a commitment relationship and connection for sex. You’ll weed them out whether they lie or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:10 AM
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I think not if it’s negative is what you meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:10 AM
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Agree…if it’s known upfront it’s clear it’s his insecurity not an accusation!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:49 AM
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I agree with one thing… If you’re paranoid… And you don’t accuse her… No harm done. I agree with nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:47 AM
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Fine that’s not the issue OP suggested… The question is do you tell her? What say you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:45 AM
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Again fine test… The question wasn’t whether or not to test it should you tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:45 AM
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Again that’s not the discussion the discussion is whether or not you should tell her… What say you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:44 AM
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That wasn’t the question the question was should you tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:44 AM
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Exactly why? You’re accusing her of cheating when it might not be warranted what’s the point unless it actually was warranted? Just to hurt her? Why in gods name would you tell her? It hurts you and risks the relationship I just don’t get it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:43 AM
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I don’t agree at all I say no sex before monogamy. That weeds out the players.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:38 AM
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Nope they date based on apps and a feeling of compatibility, he leads her to believe there is something there for access to free sex. Once he pumps her he dumps her. Women who enjoy the sex for sex sake and don’t care about commitment should do what they want, just as men do, with ZERO shame! But women who wanna commitment, a relationship snd kids, should absolutely ESCHEW ANY sort of sex before monogamy. There’s zero chance I would do that and I’ve never been used. I’m incredibly upfront about …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:38 AM
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Being used as in being misled. He pretended he wanted a long-term relationship and then pumped and dumped her what is confusing about that? She had sex to secure commitment, because she liked him and though they HAD A FUTURE; he misled her or lied. She ended up an unpaid Hooker ANY WAY you slice it. The equivalent would be a man used for a free dinner… Except the consequences are deeper… Because men will forever judge her for her “body count”. I SWEAR When will women learn to stop having casual …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:21 AM
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Agree completely!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:17 AM
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No sex before monogamy.PERIOD full stop!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:15 AM
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No one wants to be lied to and used. Women need emotional connection for sex often. When men lie to us and intimate that they’re interested in a long-term relationship just to get access to our bodies we feel like hookers that are unpaid. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:14 AM
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As someone who went to therapy and stoped the cycle I would say that it’s not conscious, and you’re repeating patterns more than seeking it out. For me I was abused in childhood and didn’t know how to protect myself in adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:11 AM
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Don’t disagree they will get the best woman they can versus being alone. Because of the high cost of reproduction women prefer alone to settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:45 AM
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I never wanted more than a coffee date two fold I didn’t want to Owe anything, and I don’t wanna get stuck there if it sucked…cheap and fast! It’s the ascertain connection. There’s no amount of money you could pay me to be on a shitty date for a meal. I can pay for my own meal as most women these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:40 AM
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👏
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:39 AM
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I disagree and no regard regarding alcoholism. You’re spot on as I went to al-anon. And yes my dad in many ways was a prince. But he allowed us to be abused and because of that my sister literally didn’t have a good relationship with him. I see him as a flawed person who loved his wife and did the best he could by us. I’m insanely grateful I don’t think I’d be OK without him. I like your approach. Go for you and come to her and say man this is helping me I’ve learned….do you think it’s something…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:35 AM
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Don’t disagree for sex. For mating I do. People equal up appropriately in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:30 AM
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Not so sure based on this sub Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:23 AM
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I’ve met many unicorns. You’d call them benevolent sexists I call them caring protective alpha men. And I’ve knows BUNCH!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:29 PM
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I hear you. You’re trying to calm things. And if it’s helping… What do you think would happen if you said “I think we should have a trial separation if you’re not happy. Or we should go to counseling. Because what we are doing on our own isn’t working” ??? And would she consider going to counseling just for herself? And you yourself? She’s got her own issues she needs to work on. Resentment over motherhood, feeling like her life choices are taken away, and she sounds a bit immature and needs a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:33 PM
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Was a ridiculous offensive comment. Don’t know why they said that stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:09 PM
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That’s sweet. I like this very much! 🥲Honestly made my day!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:08 PM
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Sure…think what you want. I did a Chad, and I dated a short unattractive man. Yet… Which means no matter what you pick in incels are going to blame you for every bad thing in their life. Because they can’t take a accountability and do anything to improve their lot the only thing they can do is bitch and whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:54 PM
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So what should we do about crime just let people murder, steal, rape with no consequences? How would you solve this problem? I worked with doctors the majority of them were kind people they did this because they cared about people and were super smart and wanted a stable interesting job. You’d make far more in financial services or as an attorney than a doctor these days. Are you saying no doctors do any good? And if so the same question should we just let everyone die who are sick?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:53 PM
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This!!! Stop bitching and do it. It’s a free country, No one is forcing you to be led around by your dick… That’s a man’s choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:32 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:30 PM
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I don’t know much about him other than what my friend shared. Thank you for the enlightenment. Drug addict not surprising yet he had all the answers? 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:28 PM
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After that I married a 5’5” Doctor Who abused me worse than the first one. So conventionally hot attractive has nothing to do with abuse. The reason I married my first husband as we met at church and shared values though it’s a nice assumption. We were best friends but once we were married he treated me like property instead of a partner. You can’t victim shame me it’s impossible. I’m too knowledgeable about narcissism and domestic violence at this point. You can’t blame the rape victim for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:26 PM
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You’re entitled to think that as one titled to think mine. It “Merica” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:22 PM
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I don’t know that much about him. What would you say is changed in the last five years? Other than him becoming a fame whore? He’s a misogynist I hate that. But less toxic than other redpill influencers…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:25 PM
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🙄 Glad I could help. Do you know the sexual harassment the medical profession endures at the hands of patients? Sure doctors are evil for no reason…LMFAO. People in positions of power sometimes abuse their authority. That’s like saying all cops are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:20 PM
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Rich no but not mcDonalds poor. She’ll wait for a plumber, electrician, mechanic etc. Where the wages together equal a living wage. No woman who wants children will be with someone destitute unless they have no other choice. And since many men don’t care how much money we make if she’s pretty she’ll have lots of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:22 PM
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No stay on it will show up frequently in various forms…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:19 PM
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😂 I do BDSM in real life. Because men in BDSM understand “enthusiastic consent”. Versus just being assholes. It’s a huge part of the culture and I absolutely love the power exchange and giving up my power in a way that is SAFE. Nice incorrect assumption.🤦‍♀️ I was absolutely into my exes. My first husband Was a black belt 6 foot tall muscular beautiful man. But he treated me like shit …by Felicia. He said when I asked why he didn’t tell me he loved me “I told you I loved you when I married you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:18 PM
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Because if she wants to have children they will always struggle. It’s really that basic. If she doesn’t want kids she’ll absolutely go for that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:15 PM
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He never said women or men’s property what the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:14 PM
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Not quite. Peterson assign specific gender roles and I don’t agree with it. Thinks that there are certain things women just don’t have the propensity for; I don’t agree with that either. But he doesn’t advocate treating women like shit. Both are wrong but Tate is more detrimental to both men and women IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:04 PM
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Nobody definitely told him not to be some snot to be kind and that women like bad boys. Which is basically the equivalent of saying be a shithead women will like you. And if you don’t acknowledge that we’re done here. Revisionist history… You know what he said. Also what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:46 PM
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Ah thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:44 PM
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Have you even read this sub Reddit? They advocate lying to women pumping and dumping them for their own good. And they’re always red pill member advocate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:41 PM
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It’s so weird it’s like you’re genders were reversed that usually men who walk away cause they can’t handle it though this does happen. I’m very sorry you’re going through this! I’d absolutely talk it out but what is your hesitance to also engage her in marital counseling that might give her a different perspective before blowing up your family? As hard as it is it’s better for children if it all possible to have two parents IM oh based on statistics of success in life… I tried literally everyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:39 PM
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Violent porn, BDSM, spanking those are erotic too many women. The problem is the men who want to do those things in real life aren’t safe to be with hence we consume it through porn and Fifty Shades of Grey the worst written novel ever in the history of the world. What we want is sexually aggressive but safe men who actually love us and are doing it for fun not because they enjoy seeing us hurt. There’s quite a difference no? When men treat us poorly in our relationships we absolutely leave. htt…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:36 PM
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If you were actually saying this this is completely disingenuous. He trafficked women. Seriously…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:24 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:16 PM
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Nothing more to say it’s a airing of grievance similar to men saying marriage is a raw deal and they will never do it…or women are hypergamous…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:15 PM
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Perhaps but that’s not the point. The point is you think that women like to be abused and I’m telling you abused women leave men. 🤷‍♀️ That’s a fact! Not in the anecdotal opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:14 PM
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I absolutely some believe someone hurt you and I do have empathy for individual men who are hurt. I don’t particularly care if you agree I’m a nurse I’m a compassionate human. Plausible deniability he intubated him for his own safety. And gave me I am morphine so that it didn’t look like abuse. But yes it was retribution. Hardly the point the point is he helped me and protected me and didn’t let someone murder me. I suppose you think you should’ve one less female in the world? How did I handle i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:10 PM
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Yes he enforce his gender stereotypes but what he doesn’t say is to treat that woman like shit and shit like you more. Like 🙄🤦‍♀️😂 Andrew Tate…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:05 PM
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What would you consider her end of the bargain? That isn’t being held up? Genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:05 PM
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Because some weird women are chasing notoriously famous men does not mean that women in general do not want partners who are kind of them. You’re delulu if you think we WANT to be treated poorly. The objective evidence of this is that 70% of divorce filers are women. Women who are treated poorly leave their partners. If we want it why aren’t we happy to be treated like shit and stay? These are actual statistics not antidotal some woman loves a serial killer stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:04 PM
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Yes but he doesn’t suggest you need to use women and be asshole. Thus helping not ruining society. And whether or not he should’ve done this he didn’t until Peterson inspired him. So I love Jordan Peterson for that even though I have no idea everything he teaches. He’s got a slightly less toxic version of red pill. More decent towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:50 PM
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What woman hurt you genuine question not a dig. This degree of response reflects pain. No one’s telling you you have to, but most men that I know absolutely will defend and help women. I had a crackhead choking me in the ICU. The other couldn’t get him off of me. Surgeon walked in and did a running tackle then Paralyzed and intubated him “for our safety” really meaning to punish him so he didn’t do that shit again. I think there are more men inclined to that than to watch me get choked to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:45 PM
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It’s really cool how involved and supportive you are of your family. This is the exception not the rule with men and I applaud you and then some. My advice still stands. And that situation I would’ve said counseling or bust. The paint brushes are annoying. But neglecting your child is serious. She doesn’t really want to get divorced so she go to counseling and then you would get concessions. I left my alcoholic partner and he got sober. He never did it by my asking. Mojo is hard to reverse so so…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:43 PM
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I’m sure this is true. By the way I think men are naturally inclined to be protective. Even my exes one of who committed DV Was protective if somebody besides him hurt me. Women and children first instinct Is part of evolutionary biology. Because women take nine months to gestate and can only have one child a year they are more important in terms of propagating the species in men. One man can impregnate hundreds of women. I think there’s a biological basis for men’s protectiveness of the more vu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:19 PM
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Can you clarify I kinda get what you’re saying last sentence confusing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:56 PM
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Really cause my best guy friend said he changed his life. I don’t agree with everything Peterson says he can be a region misogynist. But when he stop feeling sorry for himself, went to the gym, and went back to college ( after army on GI bill) , his entire life changed. His acne didn’t matter anymore. The fact that he was slightly socially inept didn’t matter anymore.Because he had grown in confidence, he was willing to approach, and he had a career. Just sayin you might Not wanna hear it becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:44 PM
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Not perform? What do you consider performance? By all means if you just want someone to perform for you stay by yourself we don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:42 PM
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Says who they’re not value to men? The red pill grifters cause I don’t know woman on the planet who wants a douche bag man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:41 PM
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Says who? Red pill experts who are grifting off your misery? Women don’t want nasty men both people want agreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:41 PM
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You don’t have to be unkind to put yourself first. You just sit down and say these are my needs and you both negotiate. Yes if someone won’t meet your needs male or female you should be willing to leave. But you don’t have to be nasty you just need to communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:40 PM
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Yep. Trauma surgeon I worked with, kind, prayed with families. Yet ex military masculine. Women want BOTH. Strong when you need to be tender when you need to be
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:34 PM
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Yes this exactly! NO WOMAN would want a redpill man. Hatred and misogyny is NOT alluring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:22 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:34 PM
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😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:28 PM
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Correct and if a guy is going to college he can definitely get girls. If he’s just graduated and he is becoming successful he can definitely get girls. But If he’s got a high school education and is working a dead end job different story. That’s not he has to work his way up, it’s that’s his content to live in squalor: there’s a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:27 PM
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🙄 yeah we rip up our family and security on a whim. Be well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:20 AM
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What’s that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:19 AM
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TFR?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:18 AM
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You’re so stupid no woman leaves because she’s bored. It’s financially devastating, rips her family apart, rips her apart, nobody does that. Major reasons we leave: CHEATING DRUG and ALCOHOL abuse Money ( unstable employment usually related to above) Unequal distribution of home chores and child rearing Abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:04 PM
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I’m talking about the population that’s still of childbearing age. If you’re talking about the over 50 group of course everyone had kids back then. These are actual people living out what they say; they don’t want kids and they don’t have them. As far as the difference in marriage nothing if you’re not gonna have kids who gives a fuck? But if you’re gonna have kids zero chance without being married. You’re already left in a lurch as a woman you’d be completely unprotected without the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:29 PM
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I don’t go to TikTok I don’t need China having my personal information and TikTok is not real life. Dumb kids creating Contant for money is not the female population writ large. On here there’s tons of men bitching and moaning (especially on this sub). I hear very few women doing that. Some complain about pump and dump and that men won’t commit that’s about all I hear from women on here. Men: were raped as often as women Hypergamy She won’t pay half They only date chads They won’t give short guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:54 PM
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That too. Men don’t commit these days. But also fewer people want kids: “A 2021 survey found that the number of non-parents aged 18 to 49 who said they were not too likely or not at all likely to have children was 44%, up seven points compared to 2018. Among these people, 56% said they simply did not want to have children.” https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voluntary_childlessness#:~:text=A%202021%20survey%20found%20that,not%20want%20to%20have%20children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:53 PM
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I was one have three kids. But OP was suggesting we’d be left for younger women. So why would we do this if men are that shitty. Also he in NO WAY helped. He wouldn’t even watch them for me to grocery shop in peace or get my hair cut. Swapped kids with a friend for this.🤦‍♀️🙄He’s the one who pushed hard. Yet once they arrived…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:51 PM
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What story? I’m responding to OP. In my marriage my husband paid the mortgage as he was a physician. I stayed home a year with each to breastfeed then worked part time. He didn’t want me to work at all was a BIG Part of our break up. He lost his mind when I “defied” him to go back to work. Had to work to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:18 PM
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Agree. We should have a key for both sexes in the areas were each continues to be oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:39 AM
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Because they didn’t have a choice. Now that they do only about half of us want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:37 AM
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I don’t know what a woman did to you to make you so bitter but I hope someday you end up in incel exit, Be well!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:29 PM
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Hello reality Evolutionary biology men want to spread their seed with as many women as possible to give the best chance of progeny. Due to the high cost of reproduction and the inability to care for ourselves potentially if we’re on bedrest etc. we seek someone who can provide for us during vulnerable times. Or if the wage earner someone who will stay home to take care of the children. Men want beauty first women security and provision so that their progeny live to adulthood. It’s really that si…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:05 PM
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If a man wants a baby how is he gonna get it? Go pay for a surrogate? So YES we’re having their babies because were the ones housing the baby, vomiting, risking our lives, ruining our bodies, going through the labor and pushing the baby out, breast-feeding and raising the baby. So yes we are having the babies for the men of it was a planned pregnancy, I wish I could have my husband have the baby for me that’s not a biological possibility. Edit: Housing the baby in our body for nine months.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:00 PM
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That’s a cop out that these men want to give they know it’s bullshit. I was a registered nurse. I had done trauma, pediatric open-heart and owned two homes on a nurses salary. I had ALL the assets. I even put him through part residency. He had nothing but a good education and debt. This men are saviors and women use them narrative is such a fucking utter complete bullshit. 😂🤦‍♀️🙄🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:57 PM
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Please grow up. The poster said we’re disposable then why are men complaining that we don’t want them in the first place if we’re so easily disposed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:54 PM
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For pointing out no one wants that? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:52 PM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:48 PM
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Because if he answer me what you actually asked he would have to admit that sexism and misogyny still exist. That men are encouraged to do the same things that women are judged for in myriad circumstances. Whether it’s sexual promiscuity, or having a boss career, or being assertive. There’s a double standard for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:15 PM
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I’m sure good looking men can get younger women just like a really fit attractive well-kept women like me can get younger men. The issue is when you’re trading in your Current partner especially if she’s had your children over something so shallow. My husband barely fucks me ( once every 3 months) and I’m HL but I’m not leaving him. That’s why I don’t think women should ever,ever, ever be stay at home. They should always have their careers and plan for the day he’s going to leave. Let him be SAH…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:27 AM
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They can’t as easily get younger men as males are even more visually oriented. They are dating at their age and level. If anything ever happens to my partner if I can still snag them (today I can) I’m going younger for sure. Better body, not impotent, less misogynistic…not more than ten years though too much cultural discrepancy larger than that. Or be alone equally appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:03 AM
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Red pill men specifically. Who would want that bitterness and toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:00 AM
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Then why is it that men are the ones bitching about women not wanting them and women are perfectly content to be single and alone? Childless cat ladies have no complaints and are generally very happy people. If you don’t want us don’t have us stop bitching that we don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:37 AM
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They don’t they simply have less options. Like a 5’8” dad bod wants a 10 girl but he can’t pull it. It’s really that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:34 AM
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Unless he’s got millions yep, and that’s not wanting him…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:31 AM
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Exactly here’s a prime example: We’re going to treat you like shit, because that gets us more sex (or so they have reasoned). Want you to have our babies and give up your career to end up destitute. And we’re barely gonna help with anything at home. PS we may make more money so even though you work the same hours you will work a second job taking care of the house and kids while I pursue fun. And as a token of gratitude for destroying your body, housing our children, and raising them I’m going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:28 AM
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Lol I don’t care, it’s funny actually tho I thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:17 AM
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Fair enough nobody should have to guess what’s in her head we need to just lay it out if we’re a romantic sort of person we just need to say romantic gestures are really important to me is that some thing that you could make a priority? And decide from there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:04 AM
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Thank you that’s reassuring
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:02 AM
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Yep men complain vociferously about “hypergamy”. That’s exactly what men do with women’s looks it’s all just so silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:02 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:53 AM
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I didn’t say expecting romance was unreasonable or reasonable I was simply stating that women like it. And no it’s not all because of programming baby diamonds and commercial stuff is sure. But as far as women licking dominant men who are protective but after they fall in love tender and kind theme…Over and over and over. Is that’s what many women want. Men don’t have to give us anything we don’t have to give them anything. It’s not an obligation thing. It’s a if you love her this is a way that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:25 AM
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That’s why I’m asking for clarity… If she just won’t I understand but what if she can’t would a man put up with that? Edit: Downvoted for asking a question (I don’t care about the downvote I’ve got plenty of karma it’s just hilarious)😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:17 AM
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😂…Honestly though that’s why when people start to self improve they really kind of take off. They get material that helps them, and they get more of that material and they’re able to grow and heal. It’s kind of bad if you’re in a death spiral of negativities and good if you’re in a good place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:13 AM
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As to your bottom paragraph one is deceptive when it’s not. Her giving him sex and hoping that it goes somewhere gives him everything he needs. There is no disadvantage to him all to her if he dumps her. And the other one she’s pumped and dumped, deceived and only he got what he wanted. And of course men and women are different there’s a whole book about it it’s called “the evolution of desire” . Fascinating; it’s evolutionary biology. Everything is about survival of the species. The more men ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:03 AM
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50 shades written by a woman and wildly successful (Though the most poorly written book I’ve ever seen even the grammar was atrocious), Johanna Lindsey female her romance novels wildly successful… And while not all women, a substantial portion like romance or you wouldn’t see all the complaints on the “marriage”sub about it. Men not helping or men not being romantic. Or is he cheating? Occasionally he won’t work or has a substance abuse problem. Romance for sure. Men have different complaints. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:55 PM
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There are men whose wives are injured and can’t ever have sex again and they do not necessarily divorce them. Or cheat. Some do not all. Edit: I’m being down voted for stating a fact as a nurse I have seen men with women who would never be able to have sex again and they don’t leave them? Are you down voting those men for actually being decent and staying with their wives? Redpill is the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:47 PM
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Please please put this on any dating profile so women can run. They’ll figure it out in person but you’ll of wasted your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:45 PM
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Men should absolutely do this! Especially new in the movement because the pendulum swings. Avoid even the appearance of impropriety absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:57 PM
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Possible as kids can’t give consent or possible he just meant really dark. Dunno. Point still being thoughts are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:38 PM
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Not necessarily could be a rape fantasy. And if pedo you can’t help what you’re attracted to and you can’t help your thoughts. I have no problem with any of that. Just don’t act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:36 PM
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Ahhh lol…yes to fantasy but have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:34 PM
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I suppose if it’s going to mame or kill…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:20 PM
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It doesn’t what you want sexually isn’t safe for you. But to imagine it in a fantasy world can be very arousing. Power play is fun! I LIKE To be dominated sexually. I dare say most women in the world if a man just picked them up and threw them on the bed in the right circumstance would be turned on. We like feeling a man’s physical power. It means he’s able to protect us. It’s a base instinct for women. Not all women just like not all men but many. https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a19546233/…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:06 PM
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EXACTLY!!!But it doesn’t even have to remain a fantasy. No matter how unhinged as long as you find somebody who’s hinged the same way you are… And likes the way that you’re unhinged all good. The problem comes in when one partner wants something that the other partner doesn’t. Without enthusiastic consent it’s not OK. With enthusiastic consent I don’t care what people do to or with each other lol. Have fun life is short!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:56 PM
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Anybody can have any Fantasy they want. 🤷‍♀️ It’s called fantasy for a reason. I like bdsm ( spanking and restraint) that’s sexual freedom to do what you enjoy. As long as there is ENTHUSIASTIC consent between both sexual partners who cares what they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:38 PM
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It gives us a way to safely experience the bad boy fantasy without actually experiencing the downside of the bad boy fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:32 PM
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I never said because he was hard he was consenting. I said it could be misconstrued. Because for a woman to be able to hop onto a man unless he’s drugged and she rips his clothes off he is already voluntarily naked and aroused. If he doesn’t want it doesn’t he have some responsibility to say we started this but I’m not in the mood now when she comes to get on him? How would she know?
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 01:16 PM
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I have two sons. They are the most empathetic loving amazing kids in part because they know what I’ve gone through. They absolutely protect and stick up for women.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 01:15 PM
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The number of women who have thrown acid on men versus men who throw acid on women please. I’m not saying both sexes don’t do things women also murder their husbands. But to pretend that it happens as often with women as men is to deny evolutionarily biology. More men die because men kill men. And men kill women. And men rape men and men rape women. Women do bad things but they don’t tie men up in backyards inside a locked shed and rape them for years cut their lips off and take their teeth out.…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 01:12 PM
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If you’re drugged or incapacitated it’s absolutely raped and the damage is the exact same to men as women. But most of May to penetrate isn’t a woman getting a man drunk and taking advantage of him while he’s unconscious. And if you think that you’re delulu. It’s a woman assuming a man want sex and getting on top of them when it turns out he actually didn’t. And then he feels bad because he doesn’t wanna make her feel bad. I’m not saying that it’s OK by any means. But I can’t understand how it w…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 01:04 PM
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You didn’t I’m telling you that women have empathy I have empathy for perfect strangers on Reddit. Your bad experience as jaded you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:00 PM
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I’m not a rape apologist how does a woman know that you don’t want sex if you’re hard and naked? And then on top of it you don’t have to say no? What fucking planet are you from? She’s supposed to “intuit” that you don’t want sex. And then get off of you even though you didn’t tell her you don’t want sex. God you guys live in La La Land
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 12:59 PM
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All women can’t say no. It doesn’t matter if we say no we’re raped anyway what planet are you on? Of course we say no it just does no good with a man they can say no when it stops it so if you don’t think the man should say no how does a woman know that he doesn’t want it if he’s naked and aroused for fucks sake. I’m figuring out this website is just a bunch of men who feel fucking sorry for themselves without any connection to reality. There are absolute things that men face. There are things t…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 12:55 PM
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Yes and while not ok not the same in terms of affect as forcible rape. If a man is nude and aroused while that doesn’t mean consent it implies it. I’m sure it could be misconstrued and CERTAINLY there is a conversation to be had that women should never be a “ top” to avoid this Or immediately before they hop on confirm each time that the man wants it, if he doesn’t he can say no and stop it. Women raped by men cannot. Also women don’t violently penetrate men. Men violently rape women. Neither ar…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 03:45 AM
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Not true. Accountability changes behavior. “Me too” has changed many corporate cultures. And things that used to be funny like Al Franken Non-consensually grabbing a woman’s boob got him kicked out of Congress. Bet people think twice about doing that after.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:08 AM
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Oh they are very cheap. Under $20 a month even without insurance. And you don’t need a psychiatrist to prescribe them. If you have a family doctor they can prescribe an SSRI for you. It really would help you. It takes two weeks to kick in a full month for full effect. And sometimes they have to up the dose to get it right. I guess what I would ask is what do you have to lose? Many women have empathy I’m sorry you haven’t met more of us. SSRIs are generally more effective than Wellbutrin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:45 AM
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Sometimes it can pull you up just enough so that you see your options and don’t feel as helpless or hopeless. SSRIs are super helpful if you have concomitant anxiety. They can affect your sex drive a little bit. But they don’t always and it certainly would make you feel better. There’s also a drug how well Buterin it doesn’t have sexual side effects it’s not as good for anxiety but it can be very effective for depression. I’m an RN so I really don’t like seeing you suffer. I’m trying to be const…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:36 AM
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You sound depressed have you considered anti-depressants if you don’t like therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:31 AM
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I want to understand people like you but when you met with hostility it kind of sucked your empathy away I kind of get what’s happening to you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:23 AM
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Now you just sound bitter good luck to you. I suggest counseling post haste
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:15 AM
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It’s absolutely disgraceful I don’t care who’s doing it they should go to prison. The problem is we don’t treat sexual assault seriously. But let’s be real most perpetrators are male. “Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes.” https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=Nearly%2099%25%20of%20perpetrators%20are,identify%20in%20these%20gender%20boxes.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 02:14 AM
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They don’t have empathy for you? I have deep empathy for my male friends and I have LOTS. I’m the “ resident counselor” lol… If they show no empathy why are you their friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:06 PM
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That energy absolutely should be there when a woman does something like this. Do they though? That energy should be directed towards compassion for a victim and consequences for perpetrator sex irrespective. Only when we start holding people accountable for these atrocities do they stop. PS I’ve never heard of a story of a woman where she drugs and has her husband raped for 10 years advertising it assuring the men don’t wear condoms And having known HIV infected men rape him. Where are stories o…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/24 08:45 PM
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Reality and pointing out facts is hate?
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/24 08:43 PM
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May be a friend with benefits but if you’re out picking someone up in public or at a bar that’s not gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:20 PM
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What happens when you make a request that isn’t fulfilled what comes next? Should we just leave instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:09 PM
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Easy date her don’t marry her until you guys are four or five years older and have matured a bit, are financially stable, and know if you’re compatible. No one is saying don’t have a girlfriend for long as it lasts. Rather don’t make any life altering decisions when you’re that young and inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:45 PM
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Ghosting is different because they’re not already in a relationship. I think women are quick to rule someone out if they see things that they don’t think would fit for them. They’re looking for the “best match”. This absolutely doesn’t not happen when you meet organically out. That’s a uniquely dating app phenomenon. Financial incompatibility is a huge issue in marriages. Both the spender and saver (my partner and I are the same as I am the saver he’s the spender) He pays for the cars I drive a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:37 PM
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Why do you have to maintain deniability? Why can’t you just try and know that occasionally you’ll be rejected but you’re putting yourself out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:21 PM
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No one leaves for those trivial reasons. If they’re leaving over video games is because he’s abandoning the marriage in pursuit of solitary activities so much that she feels neglected.etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:41 PM
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Being needy doesn’t make one selfish not meeting their partners needs does. If you get to be needy they get to be needy too. They are there when you’re needy and you support them equally In the way they expressed that they need it works! Otherwise you’re just a user full stop. The taker burns out the giver: source empath left two of these takers as a giver. Current Partner takes care of me in different but equal ways to what I do him. I cook and do the dishes, he mops the floors and takes care o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:37 PM
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25% ( of women behind) is less than 32% (of men behind) stay in school. There is very little you could do to drag mother away from her child. Men in many states have default of 50-50 don’t even avail them selves of it or take them time granted, Those are grateful for the reduced child support. But the most common reason for fatherless household is if they’re not in the house they can’t be bothered they walk away. Or if it’s an oops in a non committed relationship which should NEVER happen and th…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/24 05:30 PM
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Why do you think women leave? If they’re not unhappy? If they’re in a perfectly fulfilling relationship you think it’s out of the blue and there’s nothing wrong they walk? I’m not saying women never cheat or leave just for sex but it certainly isn’t a common thing. So why else? They leave because they’re vexed over something that’s going wrong in the relationship. Tell me you don’t know divorced women without telling me you know no divorced women. It’s HELL leaves us financially a mess not taken…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:01 PM
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No helping someone to stay addicted to drugs, addicted to video games and depressed, lazy and selfish which isn’t going to make them feel good about themselves, is a no go. You expect more of a person. You give them the opportunity to treat you with the same love your showing towards them as you’re trying to get them well. And if they choose not to get well you love them but from afar so you can choose a path of health and happiness. They have a choice be a decent partner or alone. Her voluntary…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:47 PM
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No that’s ENABLING! You forgive what people CANNOT help you don’t forgive choosing to be a selfish person if they won’t change. That’s bad for BOTH of you. They remain stuck or an ass and you’re miserable how does that help anyone? That is the definition of enabling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:19 PM
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Nope that’s called ENABLING
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:09 PM
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That’s cool you’re not the norm though. Most men avoid committing like the plague. Except in faith based communities those guys want to lock it down especially if you’re a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:07 PM
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Everyone need something brought to the table. Like what if she didn’t give you affection and never fucked you? Or gained 200 pounds? I swear this is such a ridiculous argument. Yes people are in relationships so that they get their needs met by the other person. Otherwise you could just pick up a troll on a street corner. If you want to be alone only care about yourself. If you want a partner you have to care about them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:04 PM
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It would be better to force people to stay miserable or abusive marriages? It cost money to prove fault an automatic disadvantage to the lower wage spouse. So it’s particularly difficult for stay at home moms who are financially dependent on their husbands. You do realize men and women were killed at equal rates before domestic violence help came about for women? Because they had to kill their husbands in self-defense. The same number of women are killed but the killing of men by intimate partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:02 PM
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Correct why would you stay with someone who doesn’t give a shit about meeting your needs? That’s not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:58 PM
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I’m not doubting you had a bad experience no gender has a monopoly on shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:58 PM
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So everyone has limits and boundaries as well as needs. Unmet the relationship dies. When one person does all the giving in one person does all the taking it’s never gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:39 PM
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Didn’t say that but objectively we’re filing so men are doing something wrong 70% of the time that women file and 30% of the men where the woman was the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:37 PM
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If you loved her and begged her to change and she wouldn’t whether it was drug addiction or weight or whatever and it caused the demise of the relationship you would be disappointed. No different for women when we ask and beg for change because our needs aren’t being met and you don’t care or love us enough to bother. It breeds resentment over our WASTED time, energy, and if we want kids fertility. Problem isn’t we leave, it’s we stay too long and ask too often before admitting we’re not compati…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:35 PM
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“The study concludes that approximately 69% of divorces are initiated by women.” https://divorce.com/blog/who-initiates-divorce-more/#:~:text=The%20study%20concludes%20that%20approximately,divorces%20are%20initiated%20by%20women. No bullshit sorry. When divorce happens it’s the women who leave. We give up after asking for so long…🤷‍♀️ Also men cheat, beat, and abuse substances more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:30 PM
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You mean you don’t meet her needs and she wants someone who does so that’s a problem because? If she gained 200 pounds would you stay? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:13 PM
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If they’re leaving you in their mind before they leave you it’s because you’re not listening to their needs and making them freaking miserable. This is why men say women “nag”. No we’re telling you what our needs are and if you don’t meet then we’ll go to a man who will. This is why 70% of divorce filers are women. It can never be YOU whether bad personality, red flags, cheating, bad sex…No she has to be shallow disloyal or bored looking for the next shiny object. DELUSIONAL: if the match is goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:10 PM
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Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:04 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:36 PM
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Yep why 70% of divorce filers are women. When we finally give up and serve on the act blindsided like we didn’t nag them for years and years before we gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:35 PM
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No read Lundy Bancroft “angry and controlling men why did they do that”. It’s done as a way to control his partner so that they don’t request anything. So that there’s never dissatisfaction expressed because it will be met with defensiveness and anger. It’s a manipulative tactic. And it’s born of a sense of entitlement you should automatically do what I say when I say it. I am in charge obey me if you don’t I’ll show you that I’m more powerful than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:33 PM
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70% of divorce filings are women why do you think that is? Because we ask to no avail accused of being a “nag” and until they don’t change and we get fed up and leave. We might not lose our shit like men instead we walk out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:31 PM
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Do you have any female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:30 AM
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Literally forcibly raping a woman doesn’t get you kicked out of a bar it gets you arrested give me a break. Grabbing a woman’s ass might get you kicked out of a bar but raping her …you’re kidding no one here. Be well sell clickbait elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:29 AM
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Then why weren’t the police called for a full fledged rape. Throwing the bullshit flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:56 AM
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OMG 😂🤣🙏🏻 off topic I have cancer and have started using oral pot for pain. I needed it tonight. I will be ok the treatment is a bitch. I will be VERY curious if I laugh this hard sober tomorrow but praise you for the topping on my debate night cake! I swear I belly laughed to eyes tearing. Sent to my Gen Z kid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:44 AM
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Not what I asked at all. Does the woman drug the man to get his pants off? Just Hella justly does this go? Does the man say some thing when she’s getting on top of him? I’m just trying to picture how it happens I’m sure it does especially if the guys unconscious or drunk but not in those situation’s. Could she be confused if he took his clothes off and also had a hard on? How do we educate women who have non receptive sex about male consent to make it clearer? If a woman threaten to rape allegat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:36 AM
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What EXACTLY did she say you did that amounted to SA?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:30 AM
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I love this so much! All women are not enemies and women do have care and empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:28 AM
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I didn’t mean you specifically I mean the people on here who say “it’s not my job to protect/stand up for women why should I put myself out there” then complain that because we’re assaulted we’re wary of men. You can’t have it both ways. We can’t stop it. You’re right it isn’t a big majority of men that are doing it but it is 1/3 of women who are on the receiving end. That is not uncommon when 30% of the population experiences something. It’s almost ubiquitous with being a woman. And I don’t thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:51 AM
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Please numerate who accused of sexual assault and what happened? Let’s start there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:08 AM
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How many of these things have happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:05 AM
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But they don’t. There are tapes of men watching men rape. There was a movie made about a real incident in a bar “ The Accused” based on a true story where men raped while the rest cheered and egged them on. One kid felt bad for her but did NOTHING. It’s better but it’s still a FUCKING UNACCEPTABLE the amount of women surviving SA. We CANNOT protect ourselves. For it to change men have to change (both not raping but also protecting and calling out BS). I have two boys that DO. What’s unfortunate …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:04 AM
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What is it that you fear she’ll say that is so debilitating that it’s worth being alone forever for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:58 PM
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Agree which is why I think we need to talk about “made a penetrate”. I think that happens (when it’s women on man) because the man is obviously naked ( you can’t make them take their clothes off) and aroused so she’s assuming he wants sex in a situation like this. What do we do about this? Should woman before she rides cowboy and a man asked permission? Or should she always be the receptive partner never the top so this never happens? I don’t want anyone to be raped. Anyone having nonconsensual …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:03 PM
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Mothers rarely to never walk away from their children. When they do it’s usually a substance-abuse issue. Men walk away routinely. Some from birth some bitter for being left like it’s the kids fault. Why is this? “solo parents remain overwhelmingly female: 81% of solo parents in 2017 were mothers, as were 88% in 1968.” So 19% of women but 81% of men bail. No one’s giving you the hard work or total expense of raising the kid child support isn’t enough to raise kids ever it’s a drop in a bucket. T…
/r/EverydayMisandry10/09/24 07:01 PM
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Thank right now fighting cancer not so fun but getting there! Have lots of love and support I’m blessed. I’ve definitely healed a lot from abuse and am now helping other abused women and living my best life!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:50 PM
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Also as long as it’s a friendly banter you can just ask. “ Hey can I take you out for a real date sometime?” What would you have to lose? At worst she’ll say “oh I don’t see you that way”, but You get to keep a girl for a friend that you can talk to when you’re trying to date other girls. Or maybe we’re just good company whether you fuck us or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:11 PM
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This is so stupid women generally don’t care if they’re approached by men who they’ve been having a conversation with for clarity. “Hey seems like we’re having a really great conversation would you be interested in a real date?” Etc etc. No girls gonna get pissed at that. Walking up ogling her or asking her out might make her uncomfortable still not a crime and we’re still generally polite for our comfort and safety. But having chitchat and doing so afterwards does not make us uncomfortable; it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:08 PM
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Yes and we give them extra credit if we’ve had bad experiences. What would seem normal behavior to women who aren’t abused seems extraordinary to those of us who have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:03 PM
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Appreciate this take especially that the assholes are the loudest so it makes them seem like all the men out there. I’ve had some pretty awful experiences with men. I’ve also had some incredible experiences with men. Not all men are bad but men are the only ones who hurt me. So of course I’m going to be more wary of men. No woman has beat me. No woman has raped me. No woman has seriously abused me. That’s all been men. Likewise it was men that saved me from that. Protective men. Compassionate me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:01 PM
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Men are afraid to be accused even though it’s rare; women are afraid to be raped even though it’s not rare. Make it make sense whose victimized? When men put pressure on men to stop raping, When “grab them in the pussy” is no longer just locker room talk because you know he’s done it…when it stops being socially acceptable and overlooked then things will change. As long as 1/3 of us are sexually assaulted we’re gonna keep bitching about being assaulted. 🤷‍♀️ And if men are afraid that’s a good t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:34 PM
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Most men were never part of the solution. How many times have multiple men watched boys rape girls? And done nothing? When the girls drunk at a party etc.? Too many men just accept it as normal and no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:27 PM
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How do women force men? The man would already have to be naked and aroused. She could misconstrue that as consent but she can’t physically force him could you explain where you’re coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:25 PM
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As long as the state believes both including men who were made penetrate what’s the problem? Rape is rape. Other female executive is taking a vantage of her male subordinates she should lose her job too. I will say for a woman to be able to penetrate a man he has to be nude and hard. To get to that state there was some indication he wanted sex. Should women only be receptive sex partners to avoid this? Never be on top? Or ask immediately before riding cowboy “ are you sure you’re still ok with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:19 PM
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Me too is a good start. Another would be not accepting people like Donald Trump saying he can “grab women in the pussy” and it be normalized or seem OK. Or walk into women nude in the USA pageant and men laugh at it and think that’s also OK. Because our safety and dignity are a joke. When men think it’s not OK to do that to women the culture will change. When men Won’t let a boy Reba drunk girl without saying something it will change. When boys like mine colored other boys for threatening to rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:47 AM
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You seem to think it’s not a problem when it’s happening to 30% of the female population. That’s nuts. If one and three of all of your buddies got sodomized or felt up by a priest you would think there was a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:40 AM
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Convictions no because convictions are beyond a reasonable doubt since nobody’s in the room with them unless there’s violence involved it’s very difficult for a woman to prove rape. Why men aren’t very reluctant to do it they know they’re probably not going to be held accountable look at Brett Kavanaugh. But there’s certainly been accountability on the employer level. And it is definitely changing the cultures of corporations including the hospital I used to work at. They take allegations or ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:39 AM
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You seem to think what’s happening to one and three of us is OK I don’t think so we’re done
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:36 AM
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When you’ve got seven women who have the same accusation when is it enough? It’s not like they invite someone in the room while they are assaulting you. Yea when it happens and you go to Human Resources there should be an investigation and if there is evidence of in appropriate behavior absolutely fire the abusers ass! Many many women went to resources at Fox same thing all of them same story some of them didn’t even know each other and absolutely nothing was done. It’s not like that since me to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:33 AM
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One to 3% of rape us ever serve a day in jail. It dissuaded no one. Public sentiment against rape and losing their jobs is a real consequence that they might actually experience. That is what is indeed changing the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:29 AM
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We certainly have a culture of gun violence don’t we? There are not school shootings and any other part of the world like there are here. That’s threat specifically aimed at a woman who they know is a woman is NOT NORMAL. They’re threatening her with sexual violence that is not OK. And in any world where that’s normalized and rape culture still exists. You’re not black so that wouldn’t scare you. If you were you’d not like it. An equivalent would be I’m gonna send somebody to your house to sodom…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:27 AM
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That was a slogan. Mothers against drunk driving caused systemic change True pressure to prosecute as well as messaging. People were being held accountable and consequences given out. After those consequences those kids would go out and speak to other kids about the dangers of drunk driving in the consequences the experience and all of those things did make a meaningful difference. As did raising the drinking age to 21. Just the rhetoric by itself does nothing but rhetoric with consequences that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:21 AM
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I can tell you gamers scream at female gamers they deserve to be raped. I’ve heard it. I know some young men stand by while their friends rape a drunk girl at a party ( my daughters bestie ). In the Manosphere some suggest or condone it. I know I’m IT sexual abuse and harassment are still rampant. Including Elon Mysks company And since the owner endorses it nothing is changing there. Rape culture is sadly still a thing. So is harassment of women and misogyny Trump/Vance style. I hope my boys are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:14 AM
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Nope Roger Ailes, Bill O’Reilly, Charlie rose, Harvey Weinstein, Donald Trump, Epstein, Danny Masterson, we could be here all day… Now people at least get fired if they don’t go to jail. I was absolutely sexually harassed as a young nurse. That shit doesn’t fly since “me too”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:59 AM
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Social pressure is a far bigger influence on behavior than the criminal justice system when only one to 3% of rapist ever see a day in jail. Many of the men in Me to also never saw a day in jail, Mark Halperin, Charlie Rose, Donald Trump, Bill O’Reilly, Roger Ailes…but some lost their livelihood and it’s served as a big fat warning. That sexual assault is no longer socially acceptable nor will it be overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:55 AM
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Bullshit. Drunk driving is way down since MADD stigma and public attention has been brought to it. Lectures and shaming certainly do work to change behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:52 AM
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https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,identify%20in%20these%20gender%20boxes. “An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes.” Who’s the problem? PS Men and women kill their children roughly equally. Women are more likely to murder newborns. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:50 AM
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It’s very effective. If you know you’re gonna be fired from your job or dethroned for using your power to rape you might think twice now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:44 AM
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Very good points. But I don’t think most women think most men are bad. We just think this is happening to Dan many of us and nothing is changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:43 AM
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No what it did for the first time is point out how frequent sexual assault is, how seldom anything is done about it, and how women aren’t believed or listened to when they complain. It’s shamed men for sexual assault; and it’s changing the culture. Men are more afraid to be sexual abusers because while they still might get off legally there will now be consequences to their reputation cuz the men will be men thing and women must deal is OVER. Without “me too” nothing would’ve changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:41 AM
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Casting blame and shame on men who are assaulting women when it used to be accepted with impunity is exactly why things are changing. Sexual assault and rape are shameful. The people who do it deserve to be shamed. Without shame nothing changes since rapes are seldom prosecuted and even if they are they don’t result in jail time since there’s not a witness in the room when these things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:38 AM
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How do we change the culture so it stops happening so often and we don’t have to feel afraid? Men don’t listen to women or our pleas or pain. They might listen to other men. My boys are bold and will call out misogyny and BS. Middle kid plays video games boy says to a girl gamer who’s beating him “you deserve to be raped” my kid replies “ man that’s not cool”. 🥲 Manosphere takes it in the other direction…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:35 AM
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Yes men victimize men men victimize women. But the perpetrators are generally almost always male. And rape is different from assault and gang banging drug deals. “An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes.” https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20v…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:31 AM
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Yep. And some of these guys who want “ trad” don’t mean she stays home and takes care of the kids. They mean she works full-time but still does everything at home while they sit on their ass after work lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:27 AM
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Women who let themselves go or men who stop helping over time I’m guessing? Or people who want to be accepted even if more than 30% of the relationship sucks and don’t believe in no fault divorce. Cuz you just have to put up with her abuse, addiction, cheating, laziness…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:23 AM
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Nope they want easy targets and don’t have the patience for that. Also you’re more likely to see signs of trouble taking you’re time. For example I dated a guy I met online and he lured me out to Chicago. We both were devout in our faith had shared values ( I thought) great conversations and he was open to moving if it worked. He came to me first took my kids to a theme park won them stuff ( super athletic beautiful man). And we did stuff together. While we were emailing and texting and talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:17 AM
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Restaurant, park, coffee, my current SO first date was a day at Epcot. We spent all day walking around waiting in line to get on rides while we talked and got to know each other. We had emailed and texted for weeks first hours at a time so I knew there was a connection. Walks on the beach, roller blading, hiking, Dali Museum, concerts, hockey games…a million things to do in public. Many low cost or free!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:30 AM
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If he raped her she probably wouldn’t have married him,
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:28 AM
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Could have best personality ever not going to anywhere alone with a man until we’re in a monogamous relationship which means I’ve known him for a while. Not a guarantee but most rape is Acquaintance rape not boyfriend or husband rape. A guy she tangentially knows that rapes her drunk etc. etc., date rape etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:21 AM
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I’m sorry all this happened to you. Sexual abuse is so rampant sadly. 😢 I too had a terrible hx. With abusive men but found a loving partner and raised incredibly awesome sons who respect women. They are NOTHING like their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:16 AM
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The government didn’t create the kids. The taxpayer didn’t create the kids. Men knowing they have no choice in abortion have the option to use condoms. They knowingly take the risk. What does any of that have to do with walking away from your kids? Unless he’s a drug addict any man can get visitation with his children many just don’t bother. 🤦‍♀️🙄🤷‍♀️
/r/EverydayMisandry10/09/24 02:04 AM
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You’re claiming something with no article to confirm. Or did you just make it up? https://abc13.com/post/18-year-old-mother-accused-dumping-baby-dumpster-judge-bond/15100566/#:~:text=HOUSTON%2C%20Texas%20(KTRK)%20%2D%2D,was%20issued%20a%20%2490%2C000%20bond. If that’s the case baby lived and she’s in Texas where it impossible to get an abortion. No matter how you twisted more men abandon their children than women by a country mile. Edit: yes we are done. Facts are not misandrist they are facts. …
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 10:21 PM
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Facts aren’t sexist they’re facts: There wouldn’t be single mothers or children raised in fatherless homes if men followed through past making the baby. Are you denying there are more single mothers and single fathers? Just want to get our facts straight not opinions. Facts aren’t sexist or racist they’re simply facts.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 09:45 PM
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The story in Texas link? Disposing of a body after miscarriage is not murder. Infanticide is not legal anywhere in the US despite Trumps lies.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 09:42 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:36 PM
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Who said it was? You can point out the difficulties each sex faces without painting everyone of a gender with that brush hence “ not all men”. But let’s get real there are far more men abandoning their children than women dropping their babies in dumpsters or abandoning their children.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 05:11 PM
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Baptist upbringing converted to catholic. Even if not religious sex without commitment ( monogamous BF/GF) would not be something I’d enjoy. I need connection and familiarity to relax and enjoy sex as I’m initially shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:51 PM
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Let them have abortions would be a good start.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 01:39 PM
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I haven’t heard on Misandrist thing from her everything is racism and sexism from Trumps mouth regarding Harris, Including sick sexual innuendo. Just so gross.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 02:43 AM
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Doesn’t get you laid, doesn’t help with social skills, doesn’t give you muscles or better employment… While I care for men who want genuine help when every bit of advice even by men who share they have had positive results is shot down it begins to feel like a pity party. That’s harder…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:40 AM
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Misandry compared to the misogyny of Trump 😂🤦‍♀️🤣
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 02:37 AM
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Not casual sex often. Some do I can’t. Feeling I’d been used would really affect me. Since I made men wait to ascertain connection and red flags while I had other issues in dating I was never pumped and dumped. Too much work to bother definitely weeded out some bad eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:07 AM
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How’s this working for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:56 PM
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So you’re saying having their body used like a hooker shouldn’t bother them? A dinner for your dignity 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:09 PM
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It’s also to prevent attachment before you know if it’s a good guy. A guy you have no future with doesn’t elicit this fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:08 PM
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They were on anti-depressants because they were already depressed. Association isn’t causation. At best you can say that you anti-depressants didn’t help them. In a small cohort of children and adolescents ( NOT ADULTS) in the first few weeks of therapy it can increase acting suicidality. It’s rare but it happens. They were already at a low the medicine didn’t solve it and they felt better enough to act is the theory. That’s why they are followed very closely if youth, and started on the minimum…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:32 PM
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She said men on here and they indeed complain about exactly the things OP enumerated. I think there are more RP men here so it’s not representative of men writ large. I think that men should be allowed to feel their feelings. I think they should be allowed to cry. We should not stigmatize or assign certain emotional obligations based on sex. But I think a lot of the shaming for men comes from other men. Gus Waltz crying (proud of his father) was excoriated by right wing influencers like there’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:22 PM
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It’s not my post I simply replied who are you addressing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:12 PM
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They want both empathy ( redpill whine endlessly with little to no effort to follow redpill advice like gym or working on social skills…) but they also want sex and need power to force that. JD Vance certainly wants men to have ALL the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:27 PM
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Opinions of a man aren’t data. I’m happy to look at studies done by unbiased sources like Journal of American medical association, national institutes of health, American Academy of psychiatry, etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:23 PM
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I’m a joke because you can’t support your argument so what you’re telling me is there are no statistics. But I already knew that. A video opinion is not evidence. Large scale studies are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:20 PM
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You said there are statistics that therapy doesn’t help men where are the statistics? And where is the actual datalink study not someone’s opinion on a YouTube video?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:41 PM
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Worked for my men. Please provide proof of this statement where are the stats? And what’s the alternative suicide and substance abuse. This is an excuse and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:24 PM
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My partner goes to therapy ( sees a male) it helps him. My two male children have also seen therapists when struggling it helped them. Two of the three men in my life also availed themselves of meds short term and it helped them too. Because you don’t want to bother and would rather just sit in a pity party doesn’t mean that it doesn’t work. I do think men are better off seeing a male therapist but it definitely does help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:16 PM
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No that’s some women’s preference bad is douche bag, liar, misleading to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:13 PM
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Agree and I don’t. I respect myself. None of the men I dated had an issue with waiting until I was ready. I was a virgin when I married but after divorce I still didn’t engage unless I felt it would be long term and he was a safe and appropriate partner. Sex creates attachment. I’m not interested in getting attached until I have time to see who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:30 AM
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Not during pregnancy. That can be a very vulnerable time especially on bedrest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:03 AM
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And we increasingly are. Men don’t want to try or improve yet they want us to want them and spread our legs ( what they care about) when they could give two fucks about us. Just no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:00 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:56 AM
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I’m talking about men who are struggling with mental illness but do nothing to address it. I did trauma first ten years of my career. Drug and alcohol seem to be mens coping mechanisms which increases the chance of suicide. Most of ours were drunk when they did it. Super tragic as alcohol is a depressant making it worse not better. But antidepressants are bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:20 PM
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So what do you suggest? Therapy is a waste, medication a no go even though you’ve not tried it…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:14 PM
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Maybe talk to women and touch grass. We all have issues and dealing with them like adults makes you a better partner. Among my friends it’s something we admire the ability to own imperfections and work on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:52 PM
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So suicide is better? Wellbutrin does not have sexual side effects SSRI do. Do you want improved quality of life or just to feel sorry for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:39 PM
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I think we do show men empathy but we also give constructive feedback like go to therapy, get medicine if you’re depressed. I think it’s men that judge men. All that toxic right wing crap over Tim Waltz sons years of pride…was men not women enforcing toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:37 PM
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Absolutely not. Women don’t judge men for needing therapy. In fact it shows strength. We can have empathy but it won’t fix anything. Only getting help and antidepressants will help how do we get men to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:09 PM
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Absolutely yes! I have friends, amazing college age kids that adore me, if my partner weren’t supportive I’d be out. Who needs it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:56 PM
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What’s the solution? Who’s blaming men for seeking care other men? Cuz women think a guy in therapy has an in check ego and maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:55 PM
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If the choice is alone or bad man yes we choose alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:16 PM
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Why don’t men seek mental health care more?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:13 PM
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Just wants to feel sorry for himself. No fixing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:53 AM
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Thank you yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:52 AM
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😂this thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:15 PM
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Good stay safe! My heart is with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:48 PM
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I’m so sorry. Leaving is the most dangerous time. Do u have support? And don’t answer your door
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:38 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:55 PM
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Word salad what are you even trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:54 PM
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God yes! ICU nurse when they leave it’s the most dangerous. It’s when we would see them shot in the temple blind but alive. 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:52 PM
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Amen girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:51 PM
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Prison that’s you’re source 🙄😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:25 AM
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Huh link?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:02 PM
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Your links to refute?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:58 PM
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Bullshit support that statement. Nowhere have I EVER seen 20% of rapist are women. An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes. https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics I could be wrong support your assertion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:26 PM
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27000 karma negative 5 I don’t need to cope seems like you’re the one having issues coping in life based on objective data lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:26 PM
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You’re full of shit and you know it. Laughable…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:23 PM
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Fucking bullshit excuse because I negated your argument. 😂😂😂🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:21 PM
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Lol…I had Chads chasing me in higher paying specialities. I married a 5’5” Asian because he wanted a family, he, shared my faith and my values. He conned me but had he been who he proffered we would have had a happy life. He won a prize you’re a joke. I bore him three children who are studying medicine and engineering. I taught them to read before they were in school. I breastfed ( two at once overlap to give them the best start). I took care of everything so that he could ascend the ladder to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:16 PM
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If a woman jumps on you while you’re naked with a hard dick that is hardly the same thing as holding a woman down ripping her clothes off and raping her. You CANNOT BE SERIOUS!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:49 PM
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I required my husband to make enough to afford children as we both wanted them. And we wanted me home one year each to breastfeed them something I cannot do in my occupation so I chose a man who could support that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:48 PM
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I may not know who broke into my house and stole my TV but I certainly know who raped me unless it was a stranger who broke in my home yet I get no justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:47 PM
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If you’re trying to say being forcibly raped where you cannot escape Two women sitting on your hard dick and you being able to push her off I can’t help you. It’s not ok to assume a man whose nude and hard wants you, you should still ask, but it’s hardly the same thing as forcible rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:38 PM
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If we don’t want kids maybe. If we do we still need a man who can support us if the shot hits the fan. Also men need to step up in home and childcare if we’re working. They aren’t by and large.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:12 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:08 PM
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To sleep with as many women as possible to increase the chance of passing on genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:50 PM
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Wtf are you talking about? Single women support themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:42 PM
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The high cost of reproduction for women making us selective as it’s always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:39 PM
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They got away with it for many many many years before they were held accountable. I would like to see the same suffering inflicted on them that they inflicted. Report what you want. That’s justice not a few months in jail Where there are hundreds of women walking around with ruined lives. That’s not justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:32 PM
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Do you know how long it took do you know how many times they were let off? Do you know how many women they abused before justice was served? The ONLY reason ANYTHING happened was “ me too”. Before that there was no justice. And not just them…Charlie Rose, Mark Halpern, Roger Ailes, Bill O’Reilly… I could be here all day… But of course nothing ever happens to women and it’s all made up bullshit. 🤣🤦‍♀️🙄😂😂😂 And he didn’t get what he had coming to him he chickened out. What he should’ve gotten was r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:09 PM
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No one ever asserted they did. But the risk to women is real therefore we must be careful. One bad man can assault many many women look at Epstein Weinstein etc. and thus far society hasn’t held men accountable. So it’s up to us to protect ourselves and each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:56 PM
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https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,identify%20in%20these%20gender%20boxes. An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes. Around the world, at least 1 woman in every 3 has been beaten, coerced into sex, or otherwise abused in her lifetime.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:49 PM
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An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes. Around the world, at least 1 woman in every 3 has been beaten, coerced into sex, or otherwise abused in her lifetime. Most often the abuser is a member of her own family or is her partner. (2) Only 2% of rapists are convicted and imprisoned. (3) Approximately 80-85% of completed ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:43 PM
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Yes cuz men invite witnesses in the room right? Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:22 PM
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It doesn’t matter whether you report it or not only one to 3% of rapist ever see a day in jail that’s why we don’t bother
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:21 PM
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Except 1/3 of us us SAd or raped so while it may be a minority of men doing it it certainly affects a lot of us. And since we can’t know “ which” men are bad we are wary of men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:20 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:42 AM
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We don’t rape ourselves… “An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes.” https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,identify%20in%20these%20gender%20boxes. Maybe stop victimizing us…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:39 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:48 AM
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Maybe they don’t wanna settle down maybe they just wanna have fun and there is no time pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:47 AM
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Yes but we don’t know who took our stuff we do know who raped us yet we get no justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:41 AM
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“97 of Every 100 Rapists Receive No Punishment, RAINN Analysis Shows” https://rainn.org/newsletters/03-2012/march-newsletter-version-1.html
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:21 AM
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Noooo…In my 20s I would go into Home Depot because I like to do things for myself they would teach me how then offer to come to my house and help me for free lol. But I’m not invisible which everyone warned me I would be. I still get attention, sometimes from significantly younger men. I don’t get cat calls. I get double takes when asked for my ID. It’s Goldilocks just right. Not constantly objectified, but still feel attractive and desirable. I wouldn’t go back for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:23 PM
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I do I’m over 50. Got hit on by a 27 year old. My 38 year old contractor is constantly hitting on me. When I eat alone at a bar I’m sometimes hit on. I look younger (I’m told often) I’m thin, attractive but I absolutely get hit on. Not like my 20s when I’d go to Home Depot to do my own project and they’d offer to help for free 😂, but that was too much anyway. You may not be attracted to women at 50 but other men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:02 PM
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I asked a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:02 AM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:06 PM
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They’re not even old enough to drink shut the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:22 AM
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Thank you this is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:53 AM
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Men don’t support each other as we do. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:50 AM
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I’m not sure what this means
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:54 PM
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I’m sorry your girlfriend did this to you. My husband broke I supported him the whole way. Not all men not all women. Not ok I’m sorry you experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:54 PM
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Sure so suffrage never happened men willingly gave us the right to vote.🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♀️😂😭😝🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:52 PM
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So if men stop simping ( become bigger assholes than they already naturally are) We will be so desperate that we will except this really shitty behavior? Rather than being alone which we are already doing in droves because men are already asswipes who don’t dump enough to get and keep us. Cuz we don’t need sex we need companionship. Who wants to be companions with somebody who treat you like dog shit? Stay in school my friend. Humans don’t work this way. Or stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:14 PM
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Who’s responsibility is that to change it? We change it for ourselves by marching Weinerman going to change it for themselves? Or are we supposed to change it for men too? I didn’t change for us by sitting around feeling sorry for ourselves. A change for us by mobilizing to action.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:02 PM
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Your stated if was a girl isn’t self-supporting she shouldn’t be going to college. Adult men dating girls in college are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:33 PM
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As a trauma nurse I’m very much aware of this. Manchus more lethal means. I think the difference is when women attempt suicide and survive they’re able to access help. For Men it’s too late. And yes for MANY Women a man being mature enough to admit these imperfect, might need support, and actually take the steps to care for himself is incredibly incredibly attractive. And we discuss this. I think some of that is men putting on other men that that’s weakness calling them “Cucks” or “ puffy” it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:22 PM
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Absolutely ridiculous I’m supporting my daughter through college. I wouldn’t want her dating a man who is not in college but 30 some years old
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:16 PM
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I agree society does this and I agree it’s poison. Men have the full complement of emotions and should be able to express them. I do think it’s why men suffer more with depression. It’s also uncool to seek help, uncool to take medication’s, uncool to go to therapy (by other men). That false bravado must be exhausting. A guy going to therapy would be an instant turn on for most women. Self awareness 🤯, label of ego 🤯🤯!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:38 PM
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Yes. And that’s why we worry for the young girls. We know how much we grew up from 18-24. Like we are while different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:26 PM
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🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:10 PM
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Yes what does a 35 year-old man have in common with a 21 year old girl? Not the same music, not the same cultural interests, not the same life experiences. The assumption is he wants to groom her to serve him. And sadly this is often factually true. So ill intent or at best shallowness (as she’s chosen for looks) is assumed. Once a woman has confidence, is self supporting this is no longer the case as there’s not a power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:04 PM
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You’re a good man. Some men are predatory they choose these “ girls” because they are impressionable, inexperienced and more easily manipulated. Whereas a mature woman would see right through it. Your intentions are good it all ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:58 PM
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Yes. No one will care at this point. 22 is barely old enough to drink so you had a lot more life experience. This sometimes allows for younger women to be manipulated. After college when self supporting no one cares, truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:51 PM
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It’s the age. Under 22 very few women are through college and self supporting. Most people don’t care if a 24 year old dates a 35 year old. How many of these marriages work out fine. But when it’s a young immature girl who doesn’t know herself they’re doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:46 PM
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That is exactly what I’m saying . Then have kids and are trapped. Once a woman has supported herself she knows she can and how.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:42 PM
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Because they lack the maturity if they haven’t been self supporting to know what their options are when things go south. Because they don’t have an education or way to support themselves so they are prone to accept abuse. Because they may not want to find another man they need to be able to take care of themselves. Because they don’t have experience in life as they haven’t managed to budget, pay their bills….they are functionally children not women. Once self supporting different story. Before t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:38 PM
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Only if she’s not through college and she is and self supporting. If she’s self supporting there’s not a power imbalance go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:34 PM
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I love this. If I’m alone again I’m doing the same!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:31 PM
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Sometimes we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:29 PM
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No you need to get help, go to therapy, make friends, not depend solely on women for support. Keep and express your emotions fuck those who judge you for it. Take care of your body and mind. Find contentment. Then( like women) while love would be nice and you’re open you can still live a fulfilling life whether it happens for you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:26 PM
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What does this mean in English? Men are the rapists it’s opportunistic without consequences. Did you see the communication between Russian soldiers and their wives were there asking for permission because it sounds like fun and the women are giving it? No thought of the trauma inflicted on the women of Ukraine?😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:11 PM
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Please get help. See a psychiatrist, get on an antidepressant, get a counselor. Please . You need and deserve support this will not get you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:58 PM
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I agree with this. Now social media, dating apps, lack of meeting spaces for young singles, economic uncertainty have really made it tough on Gen Z. Hookup culture too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:57 PM
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This is such a misnomer. Alimony is temporary if at all. Custody in most states now is automatically 50-50 unless there’s SUBSTANTIATED abuse. The death of a marriage is incredibly troubling. I wish men had the support of other men. I wish they would get therapy. I wish they would go on antidepressants after the divorce to adjust their new lifestyle and the stress of working and caring for kids. Women are already used to this. We need ti help men with coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:01 AM
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These are ridiculous scenarios. A man doesn’t have to pay alimony plus child support plus the mortgage. She gets a set amount. Alimony is temporary and rehabilitative and only if he can afford it. Same as child support it’s based on the percentage of your income they don’t allow men to not eat because they’re paying child support. Custody of many states is automatically 50-50 and nobody keeps a man from seeing his child unless they’ve been proven allegations of severe abuse. Got even drug addict…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:44 PM
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You mean no matter how bad JD Vance wants to be. And he wants it BAD. Children get the right to vote the parents place those votes if it’s a family with a man the man places the votes. End no fault divorce. No exceptions for rape and incest even for a 10 year old girl. Or the health of the mother. Women should stay in violent marriages for their children Women without children are useless
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:48 PM
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God I hope you’re right because of 43% of the public sees that misogynist woman hating bastard and his messages are normal women are screwed! Welcome to Gilead!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:45 PM
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43% of the American public have a favorable opinion of Vance who is a raging misogynist. You underestimate how many people agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:30 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:16 AM
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Where did I recommend opioids? Hell no hell no! SSRIs are not that. Wellbutrin is not that. Therapy is not that. What is your point? SSRIs cause no addiction, don’t need increasing doses, they have to be weaned gradually when you no longer need them, so that you don’t have your brain chemistry messed up overnight. But they’re absolutely safe and effective. They do affect libido and I understand why a man who is sexually active and really enjoys that would want to avoid that. But Wellbutrin doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:01 AM
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So dying of suicide is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:21 AM
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Still waiting for your data… I’ll be waiting… Forever…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:21 AM
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From 2019 to 2021, the percentages of men (from 13.1% to 17.8%) and women (from 23.8% to 28.6%) aged 18–44 who had received any mental health treatment in … More women seek therapy than men. More take anti depressants. Why don’t more men go into that for career so that men have people to see? There certainly aren’t enough men represented as therapists. It seems like an opportunity for growth for men right? Therapy isn’t for women or for men it’s for people. The therapist happen to be women. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:02 AM
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No they’re not but the things that they post on that board certainly are. I’m for men’s rights. I think the draft should be for everyone a mandatory two-year service. I think that custody should be 50-50 unless there’s been abuse involved that has been substantiated not just come up in the divorce. I can think of no other ways that men are oppressed currently. I want all of us to have rights. I wanted to be fair for everyone not one sex over the other sex. Affirmative Action was ended by the Sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:58 PM
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Blocking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:56 PM
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Men’s rights is far worse give me a break. Misogyny definition: JD VANCE touch grass… Women’s only value is in childbearing. Women after menopause have no use except raising children (I guess the lives I save don’t matter). Childless cat ladies have nothing to contribute. Jennifer Aniston, Condoleezza Rice, Oprah Winfrey might beg to differ with you. No abortions for rape incest or health of the mother if you’re on dialysis because you’re in heart failure well too bad so sad. If you could never …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:52 PM
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Where’s your data? “Bro trust me?” https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YRdGDB9K08w
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:49 PM
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But misogyny doesn’t exist anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:32 PM
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On average, there are 463,634 victims (age 12 or older) of rape and sexual assault each year in the United States.1 Ages 12-34 are the highest risk years for rape and sexual assault.3 Young women are especially at risk. 82% of all juvenile victims are female. 90% of adult rape victims are female.6 Females ages 16-19 are 4 times more likely than the general population to be victims of rape, attempted rape, or sexual assault.3 Women ages 18-24 who are college students are 3 times more likely than …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:27 PM
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🥲Thank you for this. We can say it until we’re blue in the face no one believes us. But when a man says it… That holds weight. What do you make of that? But they can’t report to you because they can’t dismiss it. THIS, THIS Is how it will stop being “not all men”… Because men will put pressure on other men not to behave in a way that hurts women. As women should put pressure on each other not to behave in a way that hurts men. We should be fostering agreement between the sexes and meeting each o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:24 PM
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Nationwide, 81% of women and 43% of men reported experiencing some form of sexual harassment and/or assault in their lifetime. https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics What say you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:22 PM
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I have no issue with men complaining about women cheating etc. that’s a legitimate gripe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:20 PM
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And misogynist. Men’s rights, left-wing male advocates absolutely full of hate and disgusting misogyny. Both sexes blame each other at times. It’s worse online. Edit as appears you blocked me In large urban counties.Gangbangers are not representative of the public at large. Try again. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9838333/#:~:text=Among%20homicides%20in%20the%20United,fatalities%20may%20have%20been%20missed. “Among homicides in the United States, intimate partners kill almost 50% …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:34 PM
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You ever been pregnant? Didn’t think so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:32 PM
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Nationwide, 81% of women and 43% of men reported experiencing some form of sexual harassment and/or assault in their lifetime. You’re right it’s worse. https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:15 PM
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Then don’t complain when we say not all men. If one and three of us is experiencing it it’s a very frequent occurrence…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:11 PM
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That I agree with both sexes bitch about the frustration of dealing with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:21 PM
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I absolutely agree most men are NOT rapists. But when 1/3 of us is either sexually assaulted or raped it happens so frequently it feels like its acceptable to good men who don’t call it out. It’s ubiquitous with being a woman. I’ve had my ass grabbed, dealt with sexual harassment from surgeons at work, and been raped. It was only a couple of surgeons but could they do some damage where most of us were women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:18 PM
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Exactly both complain in online spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:12 PM
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That’s what it’s there for just like mens rights sub and left wing male advocates does. Those are spaces to share our frustrations with being stuck as a particular sex and vent frustrations. You’re point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:11 PM
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If men don’t like hearing about fuck boys, rapist etc. maybe they should stop being fuck boys and rapist? We don’t complain about all men we complain about toxic behavior. And men are welcome to complain about women’s toxic behavior. Because we’re not assholes generally they don’t. They complain that we won’t date them or do what they want. Or that we leave them when they don’t care about our needs. Or that we cheat as if women cheat like men but this you can complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:09 PM
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Succinct and correct. I LOVE GOOD men. I’m not a fan of misogynists. I’m for equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:08 PM
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To “some men” being dethroned from privilege feels like oppression. Perhaps consider how women felt for millennia …except is was FAR WORSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:07 PM
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It’s not like we don’t sense it just like men since ardent feminists and repelled by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:05 PM
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It’s really this simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:04 PM
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Could not agree more!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:20 AM
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I said not as often as a 60s. Are you really going to proffer that women are still just secretaries hoping to sleep with their boss? I’m a nurse all of my bosses were females. Before that was an insurance agent no boss at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:17 AM
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You think I’m somehow making money from the pharmaceutical industry? You do realize without chemotherapy most would not survive cancer. Without drugs for high blood pressure people would die younger of heart disease. Without drugs for diabetes people would die younger. I don’t understand your aversion to the pharmaceutical industry? If your problem is that they’re making profits that I can appreciate that, and agree…but if your point is the drugs don’t work… A big part of the reason that our lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:59 AM
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This is the only first date I have ever agreed to. I don’t want to feel obligated to a man. If they insist on paying they paid six bucks for a coffee. Obviously I offer to pay for mine. Alcohol isn’t impairing my judgment, and I can get the hell out of there if it’s not going well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:28 AM
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I’m a registered nurse and you are literally insane. Not better if you want to live. Alcohol is the most potent carcinogens secondary only to cigarettes. Substance abuse increases suicide risk. Marijuana is safer but not as safe as SSRIs it causes mental health issues in some cases, kills ambition, rebound anxiety, high blood pressure and heart disease. But AGAIN If you’re that worried about your dick use Wellbutrin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:58 AM
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Are you seriously suggesting that drugs, alcohol, video games staying depressed or committing suicide is better than going on medication’s that may affect the sex drive of someone who’s not having sex anyway? Sheesh…no wonder so sad. Wellbutrin does not affect sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:43 AM
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You’re not arguing in good faith. You know that men kill more women than women men. You know that men seriously injure more women than the reverse we simply don’t have the size and strength to seriously injure men. The women who seriously injure men generally shoot them. It’s almost impossible for us to beat a man up. I’m really lost as to what you’re even getting at, so at this point but I’m done.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:15 AM
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How long do you think of John should serve for seeking the services of a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:13 AM
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You need to get some help. Men don’t even go to prison for rape you think they’re gonna go to group present for being a John?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:41 PM
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Sure cause they have ventilators in jail
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:41 PM
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It’s a choice. No one is making anyone do it. It’s safe and they make good money. Sex work is still work. It’s much safer there than it is on the street. I wouldn’t use it but I’m not gonna tell anyone else how to live their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:08 PM
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They’re in brothels nobody’s roaming the streets. It’s all regulated there WTF are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:45 PM
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I have no idea what you’re saying. You didn’t respond to the fact that 28 men and over thousand women are killed annually from IPV? What do you make if this? PS some of those are gay men killing each other too. Women kill men but not very often. Men kill women regularly. If it’s not gendered how do you explain this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:45 PM
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Why would you sacrifice a marriage why wouldn’t you just do it on the down low? Why hurt your spouse they might be innocent. There’s no way to take that except there’s a potential for you to cheat even if you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:13 PM
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It’s legal in Nevada and I think it should be legal everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:04 PM
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What’s preventing word from joining the military? Rape, that they get no justice for. For one. The inability to lift a 80 pound backpack. You seem to ignore sexual dimorphism. Women are less capable physically and certainly can’t defend themselves against rape. No way I would wanna go in the military. I wanted to be a trauma nurse in the military so badly… That’s what stopped me. I knew if I got raped nobody would do a fucking thing about it because well …same reason they don’t run rape kits we …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:04 PM
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I’m not gonna change your mind you’re not gonna change my mind as a domestic violence victim. I worked at a level 2 Trauma Center in ICU and ER. Everyone when we saw that was very sick was a woman abused by a man. I never once I swear to God not one time had a man sick enough to be in critical care where a woman hurt him. I’ve had women shot in the temple blinded but live. I’ve had women shot in the head but it bounced around the school with a 22 and live. I’ve had women brutally raped stabbed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:51 PM
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I’m a trauma nurse I’m aware. That’s a cry for help for women. They don’t actually wanna die they are just so unhappy they can’t bear to live. They often get that help and survive. Men choose more lethal means. It doesn’t discount that men don’t seek help, therapy, medication’s… Instead they medicate with drugs alcohol video games… What do we do about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:42 PM
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This…this is why we say “ not all men”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:21 PM
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Women don’t have bosses as often now it’s not the 60s. Colleagues maybe. I just haven’t been privy to it maybe you could give me some statistical data?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:18 PM
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And humble to your slang Me here. You are one of the “not all men”. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:50 PM
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Could this be because women had to defend themselves and killed men who were abusing them? Could it be that when women weren’t abused anymore they didn’t need to kill their partners? Have you even considered why this happened? And if less men AND women are killed overall after the Duluth model which is an absolute undeniable fact; how is the Duluth bottle a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:44 PM
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This is why more men commit suicide. FULL STOP! What difference does it make if the man doesn’t have an available partner and isn’t having sex? In fact, it seems kind not a cruel to have your drive lowered. But if not an SSRI: Wellbutrin that has no sexual side effects. This is one of the many reasons men commit suicide more. They’re less willing to seek help, they won’t go to therapy, they don’t have robust support systems when they’re struggling. This is why the rates of addiction are higher t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:37 PM
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You’re a troll. I won’t be responding to you. I think you’re confused about who can’t admit they’re wrong. Frankly I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:10 AM
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Are you suggesting that today more men are killed by intimate partners than women? Let’s just get that out-of-the-way and then I’ll purchase the rest of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:09 AM
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You will not break through the pity party. He needs professional help you’re patting your head against the wall. It’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:14 AM
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Then there is no issue just pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:59 AM
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This is such a decent, compassionate, and accurate take. And I would add as a nurse if you’re depressed go to your family doctor and get an SSRI. The reason less women commit suicide as we have support systems, and if we need medication we take it. Can confirm the triad. My ex was a sociopath and a narcissist. Diagnosed formally not me just being dramatic, and the by multiple parent facilitators etc. The sociopathy only one would formally diagnose sociopath because he thought he would get sued t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:56 AM
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That must be frustrating. And religious communities it wouldn’t matter it would actually be admired. It’s a shame you aren’t free to wait until you find the right person without being made to feel there’s something wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:48 AM
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An adult in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:42 AM
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Except hyperbole makes people discount your other points. Let me be more specific men have midlife crisis affairs and trade their wives in for younger models. The reverse doesn’t happen often does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:01 AM
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It’s not gendered it’s the person who is economically vulnerable. And sometimes it’s intended to be that way specific to keep power. He literally forbid me to work and lost his shit when I went back. I was harder to manipulate and control when I was at work being told how smart and wonderful I was whereas at home NOTHING I ever did was right enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:56 AM
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Sorry the midlife crisis part
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:40 AM
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Your own study shows that domestic violence against women went off a cliff it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:34 AM
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Because men were being held accountable for the first time. And women fought back. The Duluth model and domestic violent shelter substantially lower the amount of women killed by their intimate partners. It did something right obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:14 PM
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Dude this is YOUR ARTICLE “In 1996 just over 1,800 murders were attributable to intimates; nearly 3 out of 4 of these had a female victim. In 1976 there were nearly 3,000 victims of intimate murder. “ Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:10 PM
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Baptist. I’m Gen X. They also taught blacks were the descendants of Ham and cursed, responsible for their own suffering. And women their suffering because of the sins of Eve. The teachings were from a very famous man who influenced a ton of Christians including the Duggers from 13 kids and counting called Bill Gothard. Turns out he was sexually abusing women that whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:49 PM
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After I respond I’ll be blocking you next victim blaming retort. Yes I was abused as a child and people who are abused often pick abuse their entire lives until they get help to heal. There’s an entire book about it that was life-changing for me “what happened to you” by Dr. Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey. Instead of asking people what’s wrong with you that you would pick the wrong people? Or stay? You ask what happened to you that you think this is normal or you’re too afraid to leave? Also I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:02 PM
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Thank you. I like myself again! I’m happy! And insanely blessed three best kids on the planet. He gave me them along with a side helping of pain. All that pain made us extraordinarily close. I hit the kid lottery. They are kind, empathetic, respectful, hard-working, studious, moral decent human beings. I (and my village) did that!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:39 PM
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Great that’s for another discussion in this instance they’re talking about this subject, at this moment what is your response?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:35 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:35 PM
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He abused me, cheated on me during continuing medical education and couldn’t deny it because his friend had to find him since our child was in the hospital. His friend told me. He raped me and eventually he broke my nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:34 PM
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Either can happen But I personally have girlfriends that never initiate sex and only have responsive desire. Literally never. My husband never initiate sex and turns me down constantly. But when we have sex he says it’s the best he’s ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:33 PM
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Answer the question please? Without what about ism. We can talk about your complaint afterwards answer the question first?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:32 PM
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So glad you acknowledge this, and her feelings and now know. I think this happens a lot with “made to penetrate”. Women assume men want us to do that and be aggressive sexually also not understanding consent fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:08 PM
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Not said. But is it ok if 1/3 would?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:05 PM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:03 PM
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Yet accurate. There has never been war which men have not raped including American GIs raping women in France. Yep the “ good guys”. In Stockholm syndrome is a real phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:00 PM
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I think that’s part of the problem in churches. You can’t have sex until you’re married and men put pressure on you for sex and so you feel pressure to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:57 PM
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Or some people got married and their partner changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:57 PM
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Thank you you’re kind. I use my story to help others so everything happens for a reason. Or I make a reason out of it. I would change very little ( hate PTSD) as it made me strong, resilient, brave, even more empathic. The first time I spoke to the police department on DV ( I was volunteering at a shelter support group and they BEGGED me they had no one) I was reluctant. Police officers and nurses ran into each other frequently at my hospital because (trauma hospital next to urban drug environme…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:52 PM
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Not for some women. Some women if their husbands didn’t touch them would literally never be horny for the rest of their life. But when kissed or the back of her neck bitten, touched sensually or flirted with, they become aroused. To deny this means that every sex scene in a movie where a woman is seduced into sex is not what some people relate to. That’s just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:18 PM
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Turned on by what? And how would the church advise Me? They’ve never dated him they don’t know what he’s like outside of what he pretends to be when he’s there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:15 PM
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Yep HIS money not OUR money Meaning a woman’s role in raising his children is basically worthless to him she should walk out with a shirt on her back. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:15 PM
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This is a beautiful and sensible take. Sometimes we trust the wrong people especially when we’re young though. And especially if we met them at church or they say they go ( then start going with you to YOUR church” where you think there’s implicit trust because you share the same values. I thought that was a guarantee he was a good guy and I was incredibly wrong. He pretended to be religious to get me. Later admitted it. I am not the only woman to ever be conned by a smooth spaz talking narcissi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:13 PM
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I didn’t know I was being love bombed until I got pregnant. I didn’t even know what love bombing was. I certainly would recognize it now. If you think girls in their 20s know all about narcissism love bombing and how to look for all the red flags are deluding yourself. Especially when you meet the guy in church and you think he’s a really good Christian guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:10 PM
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What does that mean exactly? That I deserve to get beat or raped? You’ll be blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:09 PM
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Men have midlife crises women generally do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:05 PM
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Agree with the last line most important being IN A DECENT relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:03 PM
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This, this is the man that cannot be included in “ not all men”. When men start holding this stupid shit accountable and make men quit doing it we won’t be complaining about “ most men”. When women hold women accountable for what is it that we do wrong that makes men divorce us that they’d want changed Men wouldn’t have to say “not all women “. Speaking of which the main complaints from men is “she nags me”. Well sir, if you listen the first time would she need to? Isn’t that gaslighting? Blamin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:02 PM
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Touché. I knew mine was I just didn’t feel like I could leave with three little kids to breast-feeding and third not in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:55 PM
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XX there are TONS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:54 PM
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Yep! They let it get derailed into “victim blaming” about the divorce rather than addressing the notion at hand which is that a stay at home parent male or female is financially disadvantaged if that marriage ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:53 PM
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No, but I do think women divorce men who don’t care about their needs in general chores being one piece of it. When you ask for help with the children, you asked for help with the chores, and the man Not only doesn’t help you but adds to the work load as another child to take care of: yeah some women get absolutely sick of it and leave. I left for far more than that but I sure did appreciate having every other weekend off after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:52 PM
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My husband started abusing me when I became pregnant. Had no idea who he really was. We are dated for four years. We had not lived together because I didn’t believe in that before marriage. I tried to make the best of it due to my faith, and my love for my child. After he broke my nose I really didn’t have any choice but to leave did I? He had already raped me, cheated on me, if I stayed much longer… I’m so fucking sick of victim blaming. That’s all somehow my fault? And no I did not know. He wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:49 PM
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Back to victim blaming. It’s her fault for not picking better not his fault for being the asshole; got it. We’re done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:45 PM
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I think your describing men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:44 PM
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Would my husband raping me and breaking my nose be “Frivolous” . Or cheating on me during continuing medical education to the point I had to have his friend call him because his son was in the hospital? Sure women with children walk away for no reason especially when they stay at home. Now that my last is in college I’m finally free to be happy again and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. He has no control over me, he can’t hurt me, and While I have what half what I would’ve and a lot of sunken ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:42 PM
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It can also be pros for both parents. There is zero chance my husband would’ve ascended his career if I hadn’t been there to take care of the children. He had to work a lot hours and daycares are not open nights and weekends. The Pro for me was lots of time with my children to read teach them; and I was able to nurse each one for a year which mattered a great deal to me. I loved my children and wanted to give them the very best start in life. But when we split I was screwed. I had turn on my pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:38 PM
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But wouldn’t you say women are left more financially vulnerable If they choose to stay home and men or not? Men have to pay a couple years of alimony not quite the same no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:33 PM
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Love this!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:32 PM
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But you would acknowledge that this puts women who have children at far greater risk than men no? Because your trust could be entirely misplaced mine was.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:31 PM
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😭. I grew up Baptist and was taught that if your husband beat you you had to pray harder but stay. I stayed in a terrible marriage because of the patriarchal norms that I accepted as “my role”. It’s heartbreaking. This acknowledgement means more than you know. Truly. Good men like you are who changed things for us. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:27 PM
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Thank you for this post! This was me. DV victim married To a doctor I put through residency. I got two years of rehabilitative alimony. It was very difficult just being out three years as so much had changed in critical care. I can’t IMAGINE being out ten. I wasn’t treated poorly but many are. Hug your mom tell her I said THANK YOU For making you part of “not all men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:25 PM
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It does there’s data that BOTH sexes do better in all girls or all boys schools. It’s not just the teaching methods it’s the distraction of how boys and girls interact differently. And in junior high the obsession between boys and girls. It just seems to make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:15 PM
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If this is accurate you find a therapist that is male. You still have to get therapy. Or a female who’s not a Misandrist. Perhaps more men should go into teaching, nursing, and counseling… Fact is men DON’T. They don’t take antidepressants either. I had to practically beg my partner to get on something. His whole life is different now. No wonder more men commit suicide: They can’t show emotion. If they are not in relationship some of them have no one they can be that vulnerable with unless they’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:13 PM
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Where I don’t see therapists are misandrist before. Do you think men or women are more apt to make fun of emotional or feminine boys? Bearing in mind Tim Waltz’ sons display of pride and emotion for his dad was met with BLATANT misogyny from one woman ( Ann Coulter who took it down) or a Cacophony of men who did not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:17 PM
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Actually no that is related to brain chemistry. Not all people who have sociopathic brains become sociopath but all sociopaths have sociopathic brains. I don’t disagree regarding bias. Which is why I think sexes should be segregated until high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:13 PM
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You’re point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:24 PM
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In Florida there is testing every year. Girls still out test boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:22 PM
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So you’re just gonna change the goalposts? Now it’s not that women are upset that men are going to therapy it’s at the therapist for Miss Sandra’s? Have you been to therapy that is utter and complete crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:19 PM
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Yes because women are home taking care of children and their husbands are earning the money what part of this is a mystery to you? That has value as well for society my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:59 PM
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I use the word correctly. You assumed I did not. My point. Again we’re done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:58 PM
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Some of this I agree with most of it I do not. Most women it would be an automatic turn on for a man to say “I’m in therapy”.. We talk about it. Like HANDS DOWN ALL IN! They won’t. They also won’t go on anti-depressants and women will. You hear “women are more miserable they’re taking more anti-depressants”. Maybe that’s why we kill ourselves less, Because we don’t see frailty as weakness and we’re willing to get help? Because that stigma isn’t there? How do we change that for men because it’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:50 PM
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Ahhh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:29 PM
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Sure: I’m a nurse. I literally had to earn the respect of certain surgeons new. I did in short order. One Especially awful trauma surgeon (who if we came in we joked we’d mouth “ Welch around the ET tube he was so good) was a TOTAL dick. Saw him throw surgical treys, scream…and said to a Nurse I was training “how could you be so stupid and get through nursing school without knowing what a sterile field is?” He HIGHLY respected me so I replied “ She knows what a sterile field is she’s so nervous …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:25 PM
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Wanting not to have to “ earn” respect and to be treated the same as a man pisses men off? Wow…I wonder how they would feel to actually experience what disrespect later given when you prove yourself feels like. Especially when a new male colleague is in the boys club day one and LOSES respect for being less capable… When this happened I wanted to roll my eyes and go “ see maleness is NOT NECESSARILY a sign of competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:09 PM
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It would FOR SURE! A fit muscular body on a man is like hourglass with big tits on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:04 PM
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What are you doing to find another girlfriend of this brings you fulfillment?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:43 AM
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What can you do to change this or are you happy this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:39 AM
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This is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:37 AM
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This is very well worded and I agree thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:36 AM
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Sounds like you only care about your happiness. What about women’s happiness? We’re not less happy than our mothers were. We wouldn’t wanna go back for anything. You don’t think JD Vance‘s comments about women having only reproductive value, with men shouldn’t be allowed to vote, they are morally less than if childless, Is patriarchy? He even said that postmenopausal women have no role except to raise children. Guess all the lives I saved as a nurse weren’t really contributing to my country or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:01 AM
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No way around what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:53 AM
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I absolutely have concerns. But when they take it to that level where women should be oppressed it’s a problem. You don’t think that what JD Vance said was wrong? You don’t think that women deserve to be upset about it? Just like you deserve to be upset about the dating realities? Which are largely a social media thing not a women thing. Can’t BOTH be true? That women are in some circles particularly right wing evangelical circles still oppressed? That people on the far right want to oppress us …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:50 AM
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In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:26 PM
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You do realize there are more female doctors male doctors now?And 39% of attorneys are now females? And women are entering IT? And those who don’t make as much are teaching our kids, teachers, healing our sick, nurses, helping the vulnerable, social workers, carrying children to earn keeping social security solvent? This has no value to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:24 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:21 PM
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So womens empowerment and mens reduction to what women have always endured ( harder time getting the same job) are suddenly oppression? Welcome to our world! Maybe how women felt in the 60s, oh wait they weren’t able to be lawyers or doctors or buy homes so they were ACTUALLY oppressed. How we’re we to get to equality without this FORCE through legislation which has now been UNDONE by the recent Supreme Court ruling ending affirmative action? There is no preference anymore in admissions, jobs…so…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:21 PM
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I have no idea what that word salad means. Women work and pay taxes too. Those that don’t are taking care of children making a different contribution to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:07 PM
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Agree. Men complain DV shelters are for women. It’s not that abused men can’t get shelter as they do it in individual hotel rooms there just aren’t shelters. Why do men think of this? Because men being abused where their life is in danger in the same way women are specifically because of sexual dimorphism just doesn’t exist. Also women don’t often stalk and create a danger to their lives if they leave in the way that men stalk women and endanger their lives. Same reason more men are in prison. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:59 PM
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In what way? The draft? In what other ways do men not have equal rights? Custody is moving to 50:50 by default in many states as it should be. How else?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:52 PM
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Yes because women are working, we don’t want children on top of working as then it’s ALL on us, physically and financially too much. Men don’t wanna work and take care of children on top of that either. Why they are pissed. They don’t work hard come home to a nice hot meal and a loving family. They come home to do more work. Because she’s worked all day too. Welcome to our world? They don’t want to be dethroned from privilege and do the shit jobs that they never wanted to do anyway like changing…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:48 PM
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They’re stepping on toes and then there’s blatant misandry a massage and a which turn the other person off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:43 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:42 PM
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That’s a response to men who blame women who are beat for choosing the wrong partner. That street goes to ways right? This was the response I was HOPING for to point out how RIDICULOUS It is to blame victims for being victims. Rape victims for what they wore how much they drank weather there a slut. Or get beat. Thank you for making my point!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:43 PM
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I agree with this. Just like children suffer when men walk away. Just supplying DNA doesn’t make you a good person or parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:40 PM
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How do you think that this compares to the damage done by women who are raped? Far more damage and far more frequent. For every man falsely accused, 95 women are raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:37 PM
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Not accurate from my reading. A man can request a paternity test. They just have to get a court order, but they can’t do it after the child is older than one unless there are extraordinary circumstances. Because they both bonded with a child I would assume. If I’m mistaken please provide the link?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:36 PM
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The other things don’t benefit only women. What’s your point? The other entitlements are given equally to men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:33 PM
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It does align actually. Also men like women can be deluded as to what their level is. When they say only unattractive women approach them, maybe they’re also unattractive? That’s his sexual mating value. If your social mating value based on results isn’t getting you what you want, then you have to consider what you can do to increase your sexual mating value. You’ve name several things. It’s also how you dress, how much education you have, how successful you are whether you can provide for a fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:29 PM
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Even men who are drug addicts get supervised visitation. Men walk away. No one makes them they are selfish. And in fact in many states now automatic default is 50-50 unless there is literally evidence and arrest etc. showing harm to KIDS. Can your wife or girlfriend does not prevent you from seeing your children oddly enough. As of violence is only directed at one person in frustration. If men want to children without a woman they have the option to adopt or have a surrogate just like gay men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:25 PM
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Be alone no one’s making you approach women what is your point? We do what we want to do. And if we don’t wanna approach it’s our prerogative. Stop blaming women it’s evolutionary biology. We have reactive desire often. We’re not initially sexually interested but if someone approaches us will consider it. Men have plain desire all the time. Evolutionarily biology… welcome to the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:05 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:02 PM
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Like a sense of humor, shared values, shared faith, shared ambition? Those kinds of reasons aren’t valid? You can’t bond and someone become more physically attractive to you? That’s what happen with my ex-husband. I could pull Chads in my 20s. Our connection made me fall in love and for a relationship. He showed compassion to my patients. He wanted children, monogamy, and a family. Pretended to be a person of faith (he later admitted to win me). All of those things won my heart. Sadly he was a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:50 AM
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Is it possible you’re an unattractive man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:43 AM
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Thank you! This is where “ some men” comes from…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:37 AM
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That’s not hooking up that’s being a hooker. There’s a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:36 AM
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Aren’t you a prize? Single?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:34 AM
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Meaning he’s pulling it out of his ass. Kind of like Mike Lindell getting had at the Democratic convention by a 12-year-old. https://newrepublic.com/post/185161/mypillow-ceo-mike-lindell-fight-child-knowa-dnc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:32 AM
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Source, oh bro take my word for it? Nah…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:30 AM
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Source? Link for that stat?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:29 AM
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They can’t throw you in jail for not paying child support without a paternity test unless you were married at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:20 AM
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Then get a vasectomy, wear a condom, choose a partner you can trust. We’re in the United States just get a paternity test to do it yourself. You don’t have to make her feel like a piece of shit just get the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:18 AM
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A French man came on here and dispelled that. A man can go to court and get a court order for a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:15 AM
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That is exactly what I’ve read here. You are spot on. Don’t make the child suffer. But the man should have no financial obligation. In fact she should owe in back child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:13 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:11 AM
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Women in the Middle East my heart breaks for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:10 AM
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Thank you for the clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:08 AM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:07 AM
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We both decided to be parents. What do you mean “interact at all?” Any father has the opportunity to interact with their child. The only way that you lose that is if you’re a drug addict. What does this even mean? Got to be a parent? We both got to. The difference was I had to take care of the children, and the home, and work, whereas he got to work and do nothing else. Your response to I would not have been a domestic violence victim, or rape victim? And you’re mistaken: “As of July 19, 2024, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:11 AM
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“13.7% of the total population received SNAP in 2015. “ https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2022/05/who-is-receiving-social-safety-net-benefits.html 13.7% so not “all of them”. Stay in school, begin consuming data instead of going down a rabbit hole of confirmation bias on the Internet and red pill spaces they are grifters and are LYING to you. And get some therapy for Gods sake…This hatred of women emanates from somewhere; work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:30 AM
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Me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:26 AM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:25 AM
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Forcible rape is certainly a gendered problem. Women should be getting consent before they hop on a man as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:24 AM
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“Roughly 14 percent of the budget provides assistance to families and individuals in need. This includes refundable tax credits, Supplemental Security Income, Supplemental Nutritional Assistance Program (SNAP), low-income housing and school meals.” These ARE mostly to women. But it’s such a small amount that they’re spending compared to the total budget. In addition that 14% includes child tax credits which go to families irrespective of sex. So OP’s point is just ridiculous out of the gate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:24 AM
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Or the military, predominantly employing men, or the education of children, or the regulation of the environment, criminal justice, which goes predominantly to prosecute and incarcerate MEN…exactly what is benefiting specifically women? I truly am lost with this whole discussion. If OP is referring to welfare which goes mostly to women (and their children), because men walk away and abandon their children )which is who’s fault?): “Roughly 14 percent of the budget provides assistance to families …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:20 AM
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That good people protect the vulnerable whether handicapped, children, or to a lesser extent women? What is your point? That good men will pressure other men to do the same? I can see that. Perhaps that’s for the good of society? Someone has to protect women, children, and the disabled. We can’t protect ourselves from men. When we stop being beaten and raped we won’t need protection problem solved. Knowing this good men discourage misogyny, treating women like sex objects, and taking advantage o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:02 AM
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I love this! While I Deeply love and accept myself as a person who suffered from a lot of abuse from men and been raped, I would say yes I would’ve preferred to be a man. While I’m in no way attracted to women I would assume if born a man that would be solved. My life would’ve been far easier. I would’ve gotten all sorts of credit for being a great parent instead of being expected to be one. And take on almost exclusively all of the responsibility of raising my children and keeping a home. Worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:50 PM
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I think that’s true in some fields. Particularly engineering women get out because the harassment and misogyny is so rampant. Elon Musks behavior the norm not the exception. The culture at Tesla is absolute poison. I don’t think that’s true for physically demanding jobs. It is virtually impossible for me to be an electrician because I can’t pull wire. Or a plumber because I can’t seat a toilet. Or any number of jobs that require great physical exertion. I was a nurse it ruined my back lifting 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:32 PM
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Not more biologically important more innately vulnerable thus deserving of protection.Same reason a child deserves protection. While not as vulnerable as a child we are certainly quite vulnerable. I can attest. No one is forcing you to jump in front of a car for a woman. Other men expect it because they have the innate nature of wanting to protect the vulnerable. My partner certainly like this. He saved my life. I needed his protection. He said it made him feel useful, important, and seeing me h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:26 PM
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I do not accept that. But you know this already. I believe that women and men have different but equal roles in society. Some things we can do equally well. Somethings we cannot. I believe in the Catholic Churches teaching that you’re to submit to each other. In love. Meaning a woman meets a man’s expressed needs and the man equally meets the woman’s expressed needs. I do not accept that men are better, smarter, or wiser than women. I won’t be responding to you anymore. You’re looking to complai…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:18 PM
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Everyone has skin in the game. It’s really unwise to put women next to men in combat and think that there won’t be pregnancies rapes etc, or that our physical abilities are equal. Blame biology not women my friend. Do you want to win? Then weather football, or war, men will outperform women in physically demanding rolls. It’s not true that they’re not in combat either. They can choose to be in combat roles. There are female fighter pilots, female drone techs, nurses and doctors, One of my close …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:17 PM
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Which is why they are incentivized with very high pay commensurate with the risk. That’s how capitalism works. If women can’t physically do it don’t you think men deserve to be paid more for stepping up to the plate? But again we keep coming back to it’s voluntary if it’s voluntary it’s not oppression. It’s opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:52 PM
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We are done. You’re arguing in bad faith. The cases that are brought show with the rate of false reporting is. Women aren’t reporting for shits and giggles. Be well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:50 PM
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Because it is the norm for society women can’t do it man can. I’m confused what are you getting at? Men have the opportunity with just trade school to make a really decent income. No one is forcing them to do it. I can’t pull wire or seat a toilet. How is that not being available to me disadvantage? It opens those jobs up for men exclusively almost. It seems like a clear ADVANTAGE, Having extra physical abilities opening up paths for you not available to us no? So long as it’s voluntary! And spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:49 PM
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Dangerous no. Heavy lifting …yes…because well biology. That takes nothing from you. You are under no obligation to go into those dangerous professions. On the contrary it opens up being a plumber, an electrician, and several other things we are physically incapable of. How is that oppressive rather than freeing to have more, not less, options? The draft is a different thing! But your occupation is voluntary. The draft shouldn’t be voluntary it should be mandatory for both sexes like the Israeli …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:32 PM
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Yep. Issue is men didn’t have to do this when women were oppressed. Being dethroned from privilege suddenly feels like oppression. “ They are taking OUR jobs”, What are blacks are women in first privilege they belong to the men. As if we shouldn’t have the opportunity to have those jobs. They want the deal their dads got. I get it. But their moms suffered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:50 PM
1

Let’s start with the definition of intimating; To imply or hint. Before you accuse someone of being stupid and using a word correctly you might want to look up that word? Now I know what I’m dealing with we’re done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:42 AM
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I made clear many times that it’s POST DNA (the goal post). And clearly acknowledged MULTIPLE TIMES there WERE ( past tense before DNA) misidentifications especially when the women are identifying black men which are a different race. Go back and look at my post you can’t refute this. The issue I suspected you went back and looked and can’t find them. Because post DNA there aren’t exonerations. Be well my work is done here!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:41 AM
1

It’s not specifically that you’re playing 30 minutes it’s that you play at all. Those girls have likely had very bad experiences with gamers who neglect them for gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:38 AM
1

I don’t assume that I never said that. What I said was if one person is a gamer and one person is not it can be a source of conflict because you’re spending time doing different activities. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:36 AM
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Thats what you are intimating…it’s more than 10% which has to mean there is more false self reporting. Because the only motivation when it’s self reporting is truth. The motivation when you report to law-enforcement could be suspect. If you reported to law-enforcement the exonerations are documented. That means they’re catching most of the false accusations no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:14 PM
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Yes but the man who created the child has to be responsible first. If you don’t want children, knowing that women have choice and you don’t, act accordingly and wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:39 PM
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Sorry those men were not convicted in last year they were exonerated in the last year. Most of the exonerations were men that were convicted by eyewitness evidence and exonerated by DNA evidence. POST DNA Show me 10 men in one year that were exonerated for rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:38 PM
2

That’s it if their hobbies are a negative impact…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:32 PM
1

It can’t. Adoptive parents will not adopt a child where the father hasn’t signed off. If the mother will not give the father’s name and they can’t confirm paternity she can’t put the child up for adoption. Unless there’s a documented rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:18 PM
1

You shouldn’t. But you tried that’s a start. When you aren’t happy you might need to be a bit uncomfortable to illicit a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:18 PM
2

Cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:06 PM
2

They actively ask you have to get the consent of the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:02 PM
3

Only if the father agrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:40 PM
0

This would be wise no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:40 PM
9

This!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:38 PM
10

So you think I Joe taxpayer should do it? When a woman seeks financial assistance they must first seek that assistance from the person who created the problem not me a taxpayer. Why should taxpayers fund men’s irresponsibility by not wearing condoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:38 PM
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Yeah cuz it is so much better to be with a red pill asshole who will treat you like shit. And you wonder why you can’t get women. My partner is a 6’2” ex-hockey player, sports writer before you went into financial services highly successful incredibly manly man try again. Thing is I am incredibly smart, accomplished, pretty, fit, and successful in my own right. He wants to marry me I’m not interested because I got badly burned. We take care of EACH others children and he loves the way I am with …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:35 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:03 PM
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Since no one is in the room it’s very hard to prove rape beyond a reasonable doubt. This is why most women who are raped don’t get justice. It’s why we don’t report. It’s why we don’t go to court and put ourselves through it. I already conceded there were Convictions based on miss identification which your article supports. Most of those were obtained because of DNA. The women were intentionally convicting the wrong man as they identified the wrong person by mistake. That’s virtually unheard of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:59 PM
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These are people who went to the police to hurt someone. I can understand why women might falsely accuse a man to get back at him. I’m asking with self reporting why do you think women are lying? There is no motivation to hurt anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:46 PM
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These are people who went to the police to hurt someone. I can understand why women might falsely accuse a man to get back at him. I’m asking with self reporting what do you think women are lying? There is no motivation to hurt anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:46 PM
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How would you get that data? Do you hook a woman up to a lie detector when she calls a rape crisis line? Because they’re not going to go to the police. And the reason they don’t go to the police is because only 3% of rapists are a day in jail and SHE And every move she made will be on trial right along with the rapist. Who would put themselves through that? I was raped I didn’t. My daughter’s friend was raped in college she didn’t. I’m sure she dropped out a semester for something that didn’t ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:33 PM
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I hear you and that’s cool but non gamers may not want to be with gamers as a fair amount of time will be spent in activities you don’t mutually enjoy. I wouldn’t want to be a golf widow either. Spend your free time however you enjoy it. But it may make you less compatible with some folks. That also depends on how much time you spend. If my husband played four hours of golf every single day I would get annoyed. If my husband played video games for several hours a day I’d get annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:39 AM
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Correct. But most hobbies don’t waste THAT amount of time. My Gen Z kid has games 10 hours straight on a weekend. Which is why girl gamers love being with boy gamers. But non-gamers don’t necessarily want to be with gamers as reflected on them saying so on dating profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:59 AM
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It depends on how much time they spend. What one person can tolerate another person can’t. There’s no way I would deal with somebody playing video games three hours night. An hour maybe. What would piss me off more is if they get really pissed off by being interrupted. My son gets highly annoyed when I interrupt him. In a partner this would drive me NUTS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:49 AM
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Don’t know but I’d imagine if a girls on her phone and a guy sitting there bored to death you’d be annoyed too. It’s a matter of compatibility. Are you into the same things?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:42 AM
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It has nothing to do with gender roles. It’s that people who don’t game don’t wanna be with gamers because they can’t waste IMMENSE amount of time. And it’s not an activity that you do together then you’re pretty lonely partner; it really is that simple. Non gamers don’t want to be ignored for video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:22 AM
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The choice to be alone rather than stretch is yours to make for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:18 AM
1

So it wouldn’t matter how much data I gave you you dispute the data. Kind of like talking to an anti-VAX with a Trumper or flat earther. You can tell them how many millions were killed from Covid and almost nobody has died from the vaccine, That there’s more long-haul Covid from Covid and from the vaccine, none of it matters to them because their mind is made up. Science, logic, and reason don’t play a part when you’re already entrenched in a belief system. I’m not going to engage with you you’r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:46 AM
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I didn’t say that it never happens I said there were mistaken cross Identifications before DNA. That’s how the innocence project gets amount is DNA. “, RAINN Analysis Shows Only three out of every 100 rapists will ever spend even a single day in prison, according to a new analysis by RA” https://rainn.org/newsletters/03-2012/march-newsletter-version-1.html And yes no justice. If you were raped and that person is not prison you get no justice. What’s hard to understand about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:56 PM
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No I said if they were CONVICTED they were almost guaranteed to be guilty. I did not say accused. You’re mistaken. What it takes to get a rape conviction is insane. Most rapists never serve a day in jail. There were misidentifications of black rapists with white women (cross racial identification is difficult) back in the day but not since DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:35 PM
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I didn’t say it doesn’t happen I said it’s rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:55 PM
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No one is in the room when you get raped. So unsubstantiated by who the woman knows if she was raped. You’re saying most women are liars and most rapes don’t happen… it’s just ludicrous. You apparently don’t know any women. It is so frequent it’s ubiquitous with being a woman that you’re gonna be grabbed, fondled, or touched and sadly too often raped. Rape is very difficult to prove because there’s no one in the room with you. But if you think women are routinely going to emergency rooms and rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:55 PM
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Why would a woman Who hasn’t been raped call rape crisis hotline or go to a hospital to be seen I’m so confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:38 PM
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Unknown to who the woman? Are you crazy? If only 5% or false the 95% are real what planet do you live on where you don’t understand math?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:05 PM
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So maybe all the women who are pregnant from rape aren’t really pregnant maybe it never even happened… please give me a break. They’re not even reporting to the police so why would they be making it up? They are calling rape crisis lines, or showing up in the ER afraid of stds and RELUCTANTLY do the kit when ASSURED that is their choice whether they do anything with it…but if they don’t have it, the evidence is gone. Because they are every bit is terrified of dealing with the police in the humil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:37 PM
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Most feminists are not saying only let men in. Where do you get that? Well since a few people in this country are for orderly immigration. If we don’t have immigration the price of fruits and vegetables if you have American kids picking up quadruples. You have to pay the 30 bucks an hour to have them out in the sun hot sun picking fruit. Same with your house new construction cost will go up at least 30%. Americans don’t want do roofing, mow lawns, do construction work. The problem is it’s not or…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:51 PM
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How dare you speak logically and factually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:46 PM
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Right? 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:44 PM
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Now that there is DNA that’s incredibly rare. Used to happen on eye witness testimony especially cross racial identification. Again…The bar to get a rape conviction is freaking ridiculous. I’d like you to show me 10 cases post DNA technology where men have been falsely convicted of rape and exonerated. “On average, there are 321,500 victims (age 12 or older) of rape and sexual assault each year in the United States. 9 out of every 10 victims of rape are female.” https://abetterwaymuncie.org/rape…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:41 PM
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Then don’t no one’s making you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:36 PM
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Saying nice shot is very different from being gross. Just make convo it’s not hard. And maybe some reject you most won’t. We generally smile and say we’re taken if not interested. And you don’t just walk up and ask them put you TALK to them…like before dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:34 PM
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No, is going on a dating site rape, is going to a singles group at church rapey? Why would taking up yoga be rapey? I had two female friends at learn how to play golf they figured if they met men they would at least have a job. It worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:06 PM
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We don’t have difficulty dating unless we are fat or unattractive. But…we do. Two of my friends learned to play golf to pick up men lol. They figured they have a job if they can afford to play and have something in common. It worked both times lol. And they like golf now!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:04 PM
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So you’re proffering that men who are neo conservative are suddenly going to not look for like-minded people and marry liberal women? Or that liberal women will marry Maga men? Nope that’s not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:38 PM
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Right so you have no data exactly what I said…Pure speculation on your part. And mistaken
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:36 PM
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Where’s your data? You don’t have any…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:39 PM
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I think it’s harmful to suggest hypotheticals that CANNOT happen, have never happened, and will never happen to create a false narrative…poor men…to create outrage for a problem that DOES NOT EXIST! All the while ignoring an ACTUAL REAL problem, rape culture, rape kit backlogs, no justice for women, justifying it because it’s possible it could be false. It CHAPS MY ASS. I’ve been Raped, my daughter SA, and one of her friends raped. None of my boys or their friends have endured a fake rape accusa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:37 PM
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Right I’m pointing out what deflection is, giving an example that mirrors yours, saying that women haven’t changed in ten years. If it’s false where is your data to suggest it’s inaccurate? Oh you don’t have any? Right so attack the data since you can’t prove it false. It’s like Trump claiming fake news…when it’s not…🤦‍♀️🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:31 PM
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Because it’s true. Some of that data was 2012. Do you think women’s suddenly over the last 10 years don’t care about compatibility? It’s such a bizarre thing to question and a lame excuse ( data too old) to do so. 🤦‍♀️🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:08 PM
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I never said there weren’t false rape accusations I said people don’t get castrated for false rape accusations. They don’t even get convicted let alone castrated. Castration requires conviction generally for pedophilia and a repeat offender. Castration of an innocent person has never, and will never happen… ever ….ever… ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:01 PM
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If it were recent you find a different reason to deflect…because it doesn’t fit your narrative. The other day I was debating with a guy and he said women “never invented anything”. I gave him a list of 101 inventions from chemotherapy to the circular saw and he said not in the last 10 years 🙄. Women haven’t changed since 2012 my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:53 PM
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5% of rape accusations are false. The rest…you just get no justice. Since you don’t have a eye witness in the room, unless the man beats the shit out of the woman, there’s virtually no chance she’s ever going to see any justice. Date rape, drunk rape, spousal rape ( my situation) forget it that’s why we don’t even report. Why put yourself through it? Hell there is such a backlog of rape kits they’re not even looking for the perpetrators if it’s a stranger… We don’t care about women or children i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:50 PM
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When it doesn’t fit your narrative deflect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:47 PM
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They don’t get chemically castrated though. That requires an extraordinary amount of proof. And false convictions for rape almost unheard of ; accusation yea convictions no. You can’t even get a conviction on an actual rape let alone a faux rape. Before DNA there was misidentification particularly of African-American rapist by white women as cross racial misidentification happens. Since DNA Haven’t heard of a single one. For every man falsely accused of rape, as (that’s 5%) there are 19 women ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:38 PM
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My ex BF did yoga and met a couple women. But…he wasn’t doing it for that purpose but a bad back. Got to know them before anything. The others I can’t speak to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:38 PM
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Not ridiculous ones that will NEVER-happen to create faux outrage in men…cuz…it has never…will never…ever…ever happen. Chemical castration is reserved for pedophiles with multiple convictions. It’s just a stupid faux outrage argument. And that shit pisses me off as a rape survivor who got ZERO justice!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:36 PM
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Yes I am ABSOLUTELY saying that. Please show me where it’s happened. Please change my mind. Rape convictions are almost impossible; there has to be irrefutable evidence and to get someone castrated multiple sexual assaults. So yes I’m saying it does not; has not; will not EVER happen. Show me a case to prove I’m wrong…I’ll wait…forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:57 AM
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US not trolling stats SADLY https://rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:54 AM
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To meet a partner? If you’re happy alone don’t. But don’t pretend while doing hobbies that you would otherwise that are male dominated the advice exploring hobbies to meet people us trash. When you choose male hobbies… If you choose volunteer work and hobbies where you’d meet females and still can’t the advice to put yourself out there is trash. If you’re not putting yourself out there you can’t discount the advice. That’s my only point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:08 AM
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It’s stupid as it doesn’t happen and suggests that there are false rape accusations regularly which is dumb so I’m gonna call BS on a non existent hypothetical that was proffered as something that actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:57 AM
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It’s not rare it’s nonexistent. Less than 3% of rapist ever serve a day in jail it’s so hard to prove. Of the rapist that are convicted almost none have to and undergo chemical castration. This scenario doesn’t exist… when you can show me - single case where it’s happened…then we’ll talk about it but you can’t. There is no justice for rape victims male female child adult none…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:55 AM
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Your proffering that a man was castrated unjustly provide proof
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:43 AM
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If it’s chemical he stops taking hormones. Physical castration virtually does not happen and I’ve never heard of a SINGLE CASE Where the perpetrator has literally been proven innocent. If you do I’ll change my mind please provide link? Until you provide me with one I’m gonna go bullshit on the story because men accused of rape generally have raped: False rape allegations are rare. accusations are rare. Real rapists only go to jail 3% of the time Chemical castration even with rape is exceedingly …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:30 AM
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That sucks as two were potentially female hobbies. This is good feedback thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:06 AM
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Bravo!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:54 AM
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Didn’t say it was all I’m saying is don’t proffer that you’re trying to use hobbies to meet women when you choose male hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:46 AM
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Great but don’t pretend that you’ve joined a hobby and it’s failed you because it hasn’t attracted women when you choose a male hobby. If you want to meet women you have to go to places where women are my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:44 AM
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Choosing a male hobby isn’t to meet women… It’s just having a hobby hoping to meet women there’s quite a difference no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:43 AM
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Video games d and d? That’s a guy hobby have you tried a co-Ed hobby?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:42 AM
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What did you do that hadn’t curious?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:42 AM
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LMOA if you had one you’d say so…incel the response I was looking for to explain you’re anger and misogyny. My perfect lady salvo. I sparred with surgeons you’re not match!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:45 PM
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Me too you’re an example; BRAVO!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:43 PM
1

So you move the goal post: you said women haven’t invented anything. I give you a list things ranging from the first Chemotherapy (changing the face of cancer) all the way to the circular saw. But not in the last ten years…so it doesn’t count? There are women in IT, coders, Engineering… more recently (And because it’s a male dominated profession it’s miserable for them. The misogyny and sexual-harassment are rampant and some exit the field because of it). But of course because they have a uterus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:51 PM
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Your mother didn’t need your father. She could’ve had a sperm donor and soon there will be cloning. Each sex has important contributions to make. Though…without men we wouldn’t need men to fight in war we wouldn’t have them. Or to protect us because men not women hurt us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:58 PM
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A woman clearly hurt you. Good luck I don’t engage with RAGING misogyny. Women are useless…If it weren’t for a woman you wouldn’t be here. We can have kids without men you can’t have kids without us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:52 PM
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Yet…50 years ago there were not women attorneys or doctors. The more education we get, the higher paying jobs we get, the more power we have mass. Money is power. Men traditionally had access to jobs and money therefore they have the power. It’s changing thank God. We would have less wars if women were in charge. We’re not looking to conquer and brag. https://www.google.com/search?q=best+female+leaders+in+history&rlz=1CDGOYI_enUS929US930&oq=best+female+leader&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqBwgCEAAYgAQyBwgA…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:39 PM
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More money, more clout. More education means more money. More women are running for office too. Men with no sex have lost motivation. Sex WAS the motivation. Success gave more access to women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:24 PM
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Soooo proud of you for knowing your worth!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:05 PM
4

This is correct. He’s angry because he didn’t have access to the casual sex that he wanted. He thought by rejecting her she’d try harder and fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:09 PM
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Something? It’s obvious he wants sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:08 PM
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Or a tactic to make her try so he could have uncommitted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:07 PM
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Church
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 06:38 AM
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“In 2013, 58% of divorced or widowed U.S.-born adults had remarried, compared with 51% among the foreign born.” https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2014/11/14/chapter-2-the-demographics-of-remarriage/ You’re literally pulling shit from you’re ass 1%.😂. Hint. The remaining 42% that don’t remarry don’t want to. I would be part of the 42% but I am living with a man who helps support me and my children. I will NEVER MARRY AGAIN!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:19 AM
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This is NUTS. I was single with three young kids after divorce and found a 6’2” man who makes more than my ex doctor husband. Didn’t need that but not complaining. He could’ve had anyone he wanted, he wanted more than just looks although I’m attractive. He wanted brains, education, connection. We DO NOT have an expiration date. I STILL get hit on by guys significantly younger. And I’m the one who said no to marriage much to his chagrin. I got burned no thanks. This is what red pill men say to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:01 AM
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Yep why many women are choosing to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:38 AM
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Yes. That’s already the shift. More women are going to college than men now. More females are doctors. More men are staying at home with their parents living in their basement working dead end jobs and gaming… this will continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:47 AM
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Lol…I know. Had a 27 year old guy who put in a driveway for me, Cuban. Mind you I’m Gen X could be his mom. I couldn’t figure out why he stayed and talked to my contractor most of the day after finishing. I figured he was slacking. Nope his business it turns out. Pedro next day says in his broken English “ you notice he stay all day?” I said “ yes why he was done by 1:00?” He said “he think you beautiful asked me you have plastic surgery give you boobs and ass, I tell him I no think so. 😂. He li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:57 AM
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It is but you asked that’s what gets my panties wet…I can fall in love with others which In time will make me sexually attracted to them. But just seeing someone on the street and thinking that might be a fun one night stand something I would never consider… That’s my niche. I’m lucky though Latin men love me. If anything ever happened to my significant other it I’d have no problem finding a Latin man 10 years younger. They hit on me most. I’m thin but with tits and ass which…is their thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:06 AM
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Dick pup tents don’t lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:15 PM
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5’10 or over Latin or Italian men with big arms and chest. Full head of curly hair. Benjamin Bratt, OMG…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:13 PM
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Unless you’re a drug user or have a criminal hx. you can absolutely see your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:08 PM
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Most states are automatic 50-50 now. Which is how it should be kids need both parents. They have an attachment and bond with both parents they get different qualities from both parents. You get something different from a mother than from a father. I hate to see men walk out on the kids it’s tragic. Women very seldom do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:25 PM
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This site is worldwide, not a monolith, and women in ALL cultures have been historically mistreated and still are. More women endure SA, more women are murdered by intimate partners than the reverse, women engineers report such blatant sexual harassment in the “ boys club” they have left the profession. It’s better here and getting better still. But misogyny isn’t dead. The entire Republican Party is proving that true RIGHT NOW. She “ slept her way to the top”, Inferring she couldn’t possibly ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:10 PM
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Thank you for this. I’m LOVING middle age, the wisdom and peace. Not tolerating overt BS. Not this minute as I have cancer, but immediately preceding happiest and healthiest I’ve ever been. Things hurt more. After nursing three kids my boobs sag more. I’d go back for NOTHING!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:52 PM
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Red pill is its her fault as she’s the idiot for picking him. Have you met a narcissist? They don’t advertise it. He advertised he went to church every Sunday why I loved him. And made me feel great love bombing me. Boy can I see it coming now…but then… Then he use that religion to control and abuse me. Truly I did not see it coming and it didn’t come out until after we were married and I was pregnant. He knew I was reticent over divorce the father of my kids. They are calculating. And I’m NOT s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:10 PM
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My ex husband
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:06 PM
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Or she’s stuck with very young kids ESPECIALLY if a SAHM. Hard to leave before you go back to work. Going to work will enrage your abuser. Source: DV survivor SAHM breastfeeding mom of three under 5. Went to work after she weaned. It got worse thank God I’m free!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:03 PM
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Deflection of any redpill criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:50 PM
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The most plain and clear explanation I’ve ever read on here. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:43 PM
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👏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:40 PM
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I gave you data. You didn’t respond to it. If generation Z is more conservative than their parents why is the parents demographic more Republican and the kids demographic more Democrat? In case you missed it I’ll give you the link again… https://www.statista.com/statistics/319068/party-identification-in-the-united-states-by-generation/ This is science not speculation. Gen Z would have either Gen X, or boomer parents. Both more Republican. Gen Z and millennial do not. Homosexuality is certainly m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:32 PM
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I guess we will see won’t we? If Trump wins you’re right. If Kamala I am. She will get women (as we don’t want our bodies controlled or a rapist who wants to grab us by the pussy as president). She will get what youth vote shows up. Until age 50 current demographics show democratic advantage. BOTH millennials and Gen Z are more democratic. She will get non misogynistic men. College educated period lean democratic. https://www.statista.com/statistics/319068/party-identification-in-the-united-stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:46 PM
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That’s the point they want to legislate all this. They wanna outlaw birth control they wanna let women die when they’re miscarrying ( should have kept her legs closed or it’s Gods will), stop women from voting… Women in America will rise up we will not be Afghanistan. Good luck getting those policies pass. More women vote than men this is the last election you’ll ever see a Republican have a chance. Demographics are changing. Young people are liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:56 PM
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It happened you just don’t like who covered it. Fox News isn’t going to cover Magats making threats…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:50 PM
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He said women who don’t have children are morally bankrupt, he said the only use for women after menopause is to be grandparents, he’s disgusting. He also said women should stay in marriages where there’s abuse for the sake of the children. “Some of those marriages were even violent” and then he goes on to say they should’ve remained… He literally has no empathy or care for women we are breeding machines nothing more. Welcome to Gilead vote accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:45 PM
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They took out both sides of their mouth all the time. Women who don’t have sex by the third day they don’t want to be with but then if they sleep with me they are sluts…Really they’re just bitter, not getting laid, and blame women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:38 PM
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That’s red pill we should have “ benevolent sex”…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:00 PM
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Same my partner found me divorced with three school age kids over 40 and adores me. My body is still pretty great but not quite what it was before kids you’re breasts get huge then deflate a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:05 PM
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I love this!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:03 PM
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Absolutely not. I am sheet white and prefer men with a little color. Hispanic, Italian, and Asian specifically. I idolized my Italian grandfather I don’t know if it reminds me of him…green eyed 6 foot tall Honduran contractor in our neighborhood would bring my kids donuts. It was tempting he was beautiful! And Benjamin Bratt oh my God!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:06 AM
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Then that’s not asking for sex on the first date…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:15 AM
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If you wanna sex on the first date you’re not looking for a connection. You’re just looking to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:02 AM
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I’m blocking you you’re a troll. You can’t prosecute someone if you don’t run the kit to know who you’re looking for. When they finally ran kids they found multiple reps that were related and in fact found guys through public genealogy information. They just don’t care about rape, women, or children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:45 PM
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If they don’t run the rape kit how can I find the suspect to bring them to court? Are you 10 years old? They don’t run the kids and then these guys going to write more and more women. They just don’t care about women. Or children for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:39 PM
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https://www.congress.gov/congressional-report/118th-congress/house-report/256/1 They don’t want to spend the money to run the kits. You’re ignorant AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:37 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:35 PM
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Sure cause we rock Turner got nothing in Mary Kay Letourneau went to prison. 🙄 You’re bitter who hurt you so badly that you’re divorced from reality to this degree? Jeffrey Epstein, Harvey Weinstein, Charlie Rose, Mark Halperin, we could be here all day… Sure there’s justice for women my ass. They don’t even run the fucking rape kits often.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:28 PM
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He was 5’5” not great looking but shared ( I thought) my faith, values and wanted a family. I got conned. But of course it’s my fault for picking the wrong guy not his fault for being an absent father. I got it that’s how it always goes with men on here. If a woman was raped it was because she was wearing the wrong thing, picked the wrong guy, in the wrong place at the wrong time. It’s never the rapist fault. Men DO NOT EQUALLY share in domestic work. They never have and never will. Before we we…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:20 PM
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So she’s a sex slot machine not a connection or person got it. Why for me no sex before monogamy. That’s how you become a cum dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:49 PM
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I literally left my husband in part because I did 100% of the child care and domestic responsibilities and still worked. It’s exhausting think what you want. After divorce I got every other weekend off. Married he wouldn’t even watch them long enough for me to go to the grocery store because it was too much to handle three kids except that I had to do it every day day in and day out. Go take care of a bunch of kids for three days and come back and tell me that it’s not work. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:46 PM
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Says a man. Pregnancy can kill you if it doesn’t it still makes your body never the same. Labor sucks. Throwing up daily for 12 weeks sucks. Working full-time and doing most of childcare sucks. Being exhausted sucks and being broke sucks. They want to spend their money on fun things not kids. They want to sleep in on weekends. They want to not be exhausted. If men picked up 50% of the domestic work more women would have children. Fact is they don’t. And we know they won’t. Watched our moms do ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:42 PM
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Sure it’s not because we now work full time but are still expected to do most the childcare and domestic work and it’s TOO MUCH. Two full time jobs…has to be about sex. I think you have motivations confused it’s more men into casual sex. Women want relationships and stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:34 PM
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Yes there are many logical women. I’m one…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:14 PM
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Yep and either they comply or are alone. What they can’t do is honor their body and choose to wait until they are ready or if religious married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:56 PM
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So you’re saying pressuring women into sex is OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:22 AM
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