Comfortable_Ad_9154 Archive

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4	Ukrainian men are desperate to avoid getting conscripted. https://www.reuters.com/world/europe/female-conscription-not-part-ukraines-new-draft-law-parliament-member-2024-01-08/ As of January that's not true	/r/MensRights	07/02/24 05:46 PM
3	Women hate "toxic" masculinity, but when a man doesn't act tradionally masculine, they call him gay. So your saying they can but have never imposed toxic roles?	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 08:17 AM
3	Women hate "toxic" masculinity, but when a man doesn't act tradionally masculine, they call him gay. So your saying women can't impose toxic roles?	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 08:10 AM
3	Women hate "toxic" masculinity, but when a man doesn't act tradionally masculine, they call him gay. I would love for you to explain how this comment is relevant to the parent comment.... sounds like your being disingenuous	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 06:38 AM
2	Women hate "toxic" masculinity, but when a man doesn't act tradionally masculine, they call him gay. Do you think their exist toxic feminity and if so describe it? And if you can't... ask yourself why.	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 06:01 AM
2	Women hate "toxic" masculinity, but when a man doesn't act tradionally masculine, they call him gay. Can you link me a comment where you had a similar mindset with women? or do you only have that mindset when it negatively affects women?	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 05:59 AM
2	Women hate "toxic" masculinity, but when a man doesn't act tradionally masculine, they call him gay. That's fine, but my community is largely liberal and this is 100% true for my community.... the reality is gender norms exist because people reinforce them.., pretending it's just conservatives marginalizes people like me	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 05:48 AM
3	Women hate "toxic" masculinity, but when a man doesn't act tradionally masculine, they call him gay. I wonder, why is if when women hurt themselves because of "unrealistic beauty standards" its a society problem... but when women reject men for showing emotions (like what has happened to me) its considered toxic masculinity.. would you consider women starving themselves a sign of toxic femininity?	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 05:43 AM
3	Women hate "toxic" masculinity, but when a man doesn't act tradionally masculine, they call him gay. The only times a woman assumed I was gay was from liberal women... would you consider that your experiences don't reflect everyone?	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 05:37 AM
4	Homeownership Gender Gap: Single Women Own More Homes Than Single Men I don't understand why so many comments point to divorce... that may play a role... but the bottom line, in this current climate single women have an easier time generating wealth than single men... focusing on divorce ignores the myriad of ways society helps single women in this way and harms men	/r/MensRights	22/01/24 03:27 PM
1	NYC Feminists/NIMBY's sign a petition to attempt to shut down a male homeless shelter. I think it's a societal issue and I have no reason to believe that this isn't at play with OPs case	/r/MensRights	17/01/24 01:16 AM
1	NYC Feminists/NIMBY's sign a petition to attempt to shut down a male homeless shelter. https://www.qchron.com/editions/north/women-not-men-to-live-at-college-point-homeless-shelter/article_e907cfe2-e3b5-11e9-9844-efde95673666.html#:~:text=Women%2C%20not%20single%20men%20as,in%20College%20Point.&text=The%20city%20has%20agreed%20to,for%20127%2D03%2020%20Ave. Sort of	/r/MensRights	17/01/24 12:52 AM
5	Domestic Violence Isn't Just A Female Issue I was afraid and fled, people still were on her side up until she went after them... in the US their is a male perpetrator female victim default... time for society to start acknowledging that	/r/MensRights	14/01/24 02:54 PM
3	I think I've figured out the reason that most liberals don't support intactivism False equivalency, gestational equivalent isn't removing the clitorus it's a partial or complete removal of the clitoral hood as the clitoral hood forms the foreskin in utero. It's a massive double standard.	/r/MensRights	14/01/24 02:46 PM
1	women are more empathetic than man. I'll accept it wasnt your intention, we just disagree.... gnight	/r/MensRights	22/11/23 06:23 AM
1	women are more empathetic than man. I was till you were overtly sexist	/r/MensRights	22/11/23 06:18 AM
1	women are more empathetic than man. No, you think it's OK to exclude male voices, gnight	/r/MensRights	22/11/23 06:15 AM
1	women are more empathetic than man. Which why I said policy to prevent suicide death...	/r/MensRights	22/11/23 06:11 AM
1	women are more empathetic than man. So answer my question, yes or no is it OK to base policy on research solely done on those most affected... I understand why they did it too... I just think it's wrong... you seem to think it's OK, correct me if I'm wrong	/r/MensRights	22/11/23 06:02 AM
2	women are more empathetic than man. Yes, I agree... saying any blanket statement about either sex is sexist imo.... yep agree their are different types of strength.... but that would be semantics.... and I 100% agree that definition is sexist and again, why I think clear and precise language is so important.. but if you want a better understanding why people are more comfortable talking like that... is imo because of how society generally views physical traits (however it is measured) vs personality traits..... and how comfortable…	/r/MensRights	22/11/23 12:06 AM
4	women are more empathetic than man. Probably....	/r/MensRights	21/11/23 11:54 PM
4	women are more empathetic than man. Everything you said is true, that is why clear and precise language is so important.... not sure how your comment relates to mine.... I never said anything about subjectivity	/r/MensRights	21/11/23 11:50 PM
9	women are more empathetic than man. The difference is one is one is a physical trait and one is a personality trait.... the connection between physical traits and genetics is easily understood.... genetics vs cognitive isn't really understood and hotly debated.... their are people who claim personality traits like empathy are genetic.... others argue its 100% nurture... and everything in between	/r/MensRights	21/11/23 11:38 PM
1	International Men’s Day 2023: Inclusion on the Men's Advice Line Respect "has been described as "the main UK organisation working with domestic violence perpetrators".[4] They also have a history of putting out problematic frameworks for dealing with male victims	/r/MensRights	19/11/23 05:59 PM
1	Prenups can get thrown out due to duress, but not marriage contracts That's one example, but holding a gun to someone's head is also coercion https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coercion	/r/MensRights	18/11/23 07:28 AM
1	Prenups can get thrown out due to duress, but not marriage contracts If a man feels coerced into marriage, he should know that it is valid grounds for annulment in some places. But yes it will be way harder to do it than if someone wants to void a prenup for similar reasons. But their are ways to maximize legal standing, in both situations that people won't look for/do if they think it's not possible/won't work.	/r/MensRights	17/11/23 10:27 PM
1	Prenups can get thrown out due to duress, but not marriage contracts im aware duress is defined as other things not just holding a gun to your head look up economic duress as on example generally laws apply based on discovery... the argument for prenup generally falls along the lines of I didnt know what I was signing... one example that ive personally seen used was, I was afraid of saying something because I would be kicked out (economic duress) depending on the carrot and stick that will fall under economic duress... both prenups and marriage are defined by civ…	/r/MensRights	17/11/23 06:52 PM
1	Prenups can get thrown out due to duress, but not marriage contracts In the link I gave you they define duress Duress duress n [Anglo-French duresce, literally, hardness, harshness, from Old French, from Latin duritia, from durus hard] : wrongful and usually unlawful compulsion (as threats of physical violence) that induces a person to act against his or her will : coercion	/r/MensRights	17/11/23 05:19 PM
2	Prenups can get thrown out due to duress, but not marriage contracts "Lack of consent or duress: If a person is compelled to marry another under duress, the threat of violence, blackmail, or coercion, the court may annul the marriage. Again, the theory is that marriage is a consensual relationship. Forcing someone to marry under threat does not mean the person consents. Actual threats of serious violence are needed." https://www.findlaw.com/family/divorce/annulments-overview.html	/r/MensRights	17/11/23 03:22 PM
4	“Men just need to speak about their mental health” One example, a common societal issue is the agency problem, women have too little, men have too much.... I had a conversation with my mom, detailing how my wife at the time was stealing from me with evidence. Her response was that she didn't understand why I was so upset, that I could afford it, that she clearly has financial security issues and I should be more generous with her..... everything was my fault.... this is example 1 of many similiar examp,es... of why I struggle with extreme self-l…	/r/MensRights	13/11/23 09:15 PM
10	“Men just need to speak about their mental health” "Almost all (91%) middle-aged men had been in contact with at least one frontline service or agency, most often primary care services (82%). Half had been in contact with mental health services, 30% with the justice system." This can indicate that the low engagement with talk therapies can be reflective of poor initial experiences.... My experiences with therapy haven't been good, their is only one right answer and it's theirs.... they view my problems arise because I'm not sharing enough... so …	/r/MensRights	13/11/23 03:56 PM
2	If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilization Np, than feel free to respond to them	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 10:26 AM
2	If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilization ? Not sure what point your trying to make... my last post was a quote... hence why it was in quotes	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 10:23 AM
20	What would you say are your main issues with feminism? Do you agree with any aspects of it? A number of feminist sources tend to frame domestic abuse as something that men do to women "When women use violence in an intimate relationship, the circumstances of that violence tend to differ from when men use violence. Men’s use of violence against women is learned and reinforced through many social, cultural and institutional experiences. Women’s use of violence does not have the same kind of societal support. Many women who do use violence against their male partners are being battered. T…	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 10:20 AM
17	If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilization This is my problem with people like you..... you are upset that people deny the suffering of women.., but you got out of your way to deny the suffering of men... your just sexist	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 09:02 AM
11	If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilization I agree, women 100% have been oppressed... then what do you believe have men been oppressed or not?	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 08:58 AM
17	If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilization But so do you? You believe that only women have been oppressed	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 08:52 AM
15	If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilization I agree that happens, the op is just looking for extreme opinions, they don't actually want to have a dialog so responding as such	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 08:09 AM
5	If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilization Absolutely, still don't know the point your trying to make .... why don't you explain... maybe the answers would be relevant if you stop being disingenuous? Edit, absolutely in the sense that all of it is	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 07:50 AM
34	If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilization Women have been oppressed throughout history, but so have men.... this isn't a binary.... if you want to argue who had it worse.... than feel free	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 07:35 AM
22	If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilization No, I only know what you say, I'm not a mind reader	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 07:19 AM
19	If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilization We're in the post does it state that women are the oppressors throughout history?	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 07:15 AM
11	If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilization "I’ve seen comments on here making claims that women have been ruling what is essentially a matriarchy for all of human history"	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 07:11 AM
14	If women haven’t been oppressed throughout all of history and in fact have been the oppressors, how can one explain the total male dominance of all powerful positions since the dawn of civilization Do you have a source? Kinda hard to explain when we don't know the context	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 06:48 AM
1	Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men \| Men's Advice Line UK Respect is a UK-based charity working in the domestic abuse sector A national organisation based in London, it provides services, including helplines, for male and female perpetrators of domestic violence, for male victims of domestic violence, and for young people who are violent in the home or relationships. It provides confidential counselling to perpetrators of domestic violence as a way to promote the safety of victims. It has been described as "the main UK organisation working with domesti…	/r/MensRights	03/11/23 03:12 AM
12	How do I refute the argument that the child has a right to financial support from all of his/her parents? Surrender to foster care/safe haven spots don't have a requirement for parental support	/r/MensRights	03/11/23 02:09 AM
3	Do many people know about men's mental health month? are you actually saying its ok to say to someone raped on the street "Why did you get so much more screwed than most?""	/r/MensRights	14/10/23 06:14 PM
3	Do many people know about men's mental health month? ok... so I guess you think its ok to talk to a rape victim for similar reasons?	/r/MensRights	14/10/23 06:12 PM
2	Do many people know about men's mental health month? I do the reverse before I say something I make sure its true... I dont simply say something that I want to believe and hope it is	/r/MensRights	14/10/23 06:10 PM
2	Do many people know about men's mental health month? and I simply responded focused on the male perspective you argued with my because you seem like you were adamant about focusing on women's issues.	/r/MensRights	14/10/23 06:09 PM
2	Do many people know about men's mental health month? "Men do have equal leave in many European countries. Not one protest from feminists." this isnt correcting people this is just a lie https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2023/06/parental-leave-europe-father-quota-feminism/674374/ Recent article.... it boils down to in a world of limited resources women's groups are pushing back against having to share said resources Permisjonen Burde Foreldre Fordele is a group dedicated to preventing dedicated leave for fathers.... even though gender norm…	/r/MensRights	14/10/23 06:07 PM
3	Do many people know about men's mental health month? "The article was about a female problem. I was just discussing it. I didn’t know any discussion of inequality women face was taboo." if you believe that men deserve their own spaces why were you so against focusing on the mens perspective? why were you arguing to continue to focus on womens issues?	/r/MensRights	14/10/23 06:06 PM
3	Do many people know about men's mental health month? "That’s terrible. We’re you convicted? Did they have any evidence? We’re you charged without evidence? Because very few accusations make it to charges. Why did you get so much more screwed than most?" if I went to a woman who was raped by a stranger and said something along the lines of its so rare for strangers to rape someone on the street why were you screwed more than most.... would I by amplifying their suffering? Obviously yes I would love an explanation but I doubt I would get it... becau…	/r/MensRights	14/10/23 05:49 PM
5	Do many people know about men's mental health month? the issue is that... first you believe men don't deserve space to focus on their issues. Second you lie... ive cought you multiple times saying incorrect information.... also you attack and undermine the suffering of the people here I just believe that people who go out of their way to amplify peoples suffering are abusive and should not be given the ability to do so	/r/MensRights	14/10/23 05:43 PM
8	Is there any chance the "Duluth Model" will be abandoned any time soon(e.g from the United States, Canada, United Kingdom, Australia and so on)? I'll answer "When women use violence in an intimate relationship, the circumstances of that violence tend to differ from when men use violence. Men’s use of violence against women is learned and reinforced through many social, cultural and institutional experiences. Women’s use of violence does not have the same kind of societal support. Many women who do use violence against their male partners are being battered. Their violence is used primarily to respond to and resist the violence used again…	/r/MensRights	11/10/23 11:23 PM
2	I see a lot of feminists I know posting "violence is the result of oppression" re the Hamas attacks. Do they use the same logic when pointing out that men commit most violent crime? I agree that happens	/r/MensRights	10/10/23 06:12 PM
9	Nobel Economics Prize 2023 awarded for pointing out the wage gap is due to personal choice and availability due to having children😂 discrimination noun dis·crim·i·na·tion di-ˌskri-mə-ˈnā-shən Synonyms of discrimination 1 a : prejudiced or prejudicial outlook, action, or treatment racial discrimination b : the act, practice, or an instance of discriminating categorically rather than individually 2 : the quality or power of finely distinguishing the film viewed by those with discrimination 3 a : the act of making or perceiving a difference : the act of discriminating a bloodhound's scent discrimination b psychology : the p…	/r/MensRights	10/10/23 05:15 PM
5	I see a lot of feminists I know posting "violence is the result of oppression" re the Hamas attacks. Do they use the same logic when pointing out that men commit most violent crime? Correct Hammass motives are different than someone who is committing an armed robbery. However something like armed robbery generally is a result of things like poverty and income inequality which can be viewed as oppressive factors. The point is that when men are violent generally they are blamed and their violent behavior is attributed to themselves... the point is why is it so common to deny that men experience oppression and why is it so common to deny that mens behavior is often a result of…	/r/MensRights	10/10/23 04:16 PM
8	A Nobel prize for proving the gender wage gap does not exist through discrimination. Do you not think that men deserve spaces were their issues are the focus? Or do you think only women deserve them?	/r/MensRights	09/10/23 06:09 PM
13	A Nobel prize for proving the gender wage gap does not exist through discrimination. You are framing the issue through a female lense and ignoring how this situation effects men... why don't you frame it as men are forced to work more to provide for their family This is a mens rights sub....	/r/MensRights	09/10/23 04:43 PM
8	What are some instances you've had as a man in which you were condemned for showing emotions/being emotional, or felt as though you could not for certain reasons? In high school, I was considered the "bad boy". I think my high school sweetheart was attracted to that. Telling me a story of someone refusing to do something because they were afraid of upsetting me. It came from a place of abuse... her presence in my life was so positive I started to "soften". On our one year anniversary my plans just didn't go right despite all my efforts and I got emotional and started crying in front of her (for the fisrt time)... I will never forget what she said to me "I…	/r/MensRights	24/06/23 10:50 PM
1	Feminist orgs scaremongering about survivor advocacy the same day their demand for immunity for false rape accusers was solidly smacked down in a state supreme court I am trying to read this amicus brief but am having trouble finding it, anybody know of a link?	/r/MensRights	24/06/23 04:49 PM
1	Money Safe from Divorce Correct, are you saying that assets you own over seas are safe?	/r/MensRights	11/05/23 01:24 AM
1	Money Safe from Divorce Hence why I said depends on the state	/r/MensRights	11/05/23 01:08 AM
1	Money Safe from Divorce So your saying that a trust is sufficient protection in a divorce and a pre nup isn't necessary?	/r/MensRights	11/05/23 01:00 AM
2	Money Safe from Divorce Divorce is about dividing "ownership", what you own gets divided.... amazon files its own taxes but bezos ex still got half	/r/MensRights	11/05/23 12:47 AM
2	Money Safe from Divorce Simple answer, who owns said "legal entity" and who owns said "house"	/r/MensRights	11/05/23 12:38 AM
2	Money Safe from Divorce I live in the US... for the most part, no... a trust is no different than a house...both are assets.. and depending on the laws of the state, dictate division of said assets. A prenup is the best option, but again depends on the state.	/r/MensRights	11/05/23 12:27 AM
5	What state in the US is best for men’s rights? I live in new york.... I looked at the link you posted I literally could not find help for domestic abuse.... so if "access" to resources was taken into effect it would probably change the ranking..... also my local municipality recently enacted a domestic abuse policy that literally is based Soley on female victims.... so again, I disagree with this ranking.... the metrics that they use are a good start but they dont include many metrics, and specifically they dont include the metrics I care th…	/r/MensRights	30/03/23 07:55 AM
5	Have you guys had the "you're probably never getting any grandkids" conversation with your mother's? I wish I did.... I do think if enough people talk about this then things will get better...... after me and my ex wife got divorced I was on the floor bawling about everything that has collapsed, she ignored the other items on the list and was like "you can always adopt". I recently turned 40, my mother in the last couple of months told me she needs to, love me as I am (as opposed to her 39 years of giving me shit and pressure). I just wished it was well accepted how damaging this kind of thing …	/r/MensRights	29/03/23 09:35 PM
19	Man falsely accused of rape by Eleanor Williams is devastated people STILL take her side The significant volume of evidence I have against my abusive ex wasnt enough to change the minds of so many and those that did often went from she needs help because she is being abused... to she needs help because she mentally ill... it's fuckking ridiculous, I would love help, but whatever	/r/MensRights	26/03/23 03:59 PM
1	Men don’t have rights? - my religion has some unfair rules with divorce towards women. As a result various systems were set up to address this issue. When I contacted the appropriate organization that I was obligated to, they refused to start the divorce proceedings for months and when they finally did they refused to hold a hearing despite her refusing to grant me a divorce. I dont know for certain why, but when I initially called the individual on the phone asked why do you care about a divorce (implying because im …	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 05:45 AM
2	Men in 'Pink Collar' Jobs: "Men suffer from discrimination in the workplace too, especially when they're applying for roles in female-dominated occupations." Sigh, Ok,, their is a difference between thinking that their bullshiting and treating them as a bullshitter. Their are legitimate victims out there, treating individuals who tell there stories anonymously as bullshitters risk lumping legitimate victims in with them.	/r/MensRights	13/04/22 03:43 PM
2	Men in 'Pink Collar' Jobs: "Men suffer from discrimination in the workplace too, especially when they're applying for roles in female-dominated occupations." In a previous reply you imply they are altering their story to push an agenda.... did you not say that? I consider that to be a lie... you can disagree... again I have no desire to argue semantics.... if you belive someone can intentionally misrepresent themselves and not be lying.... than so be it Also, your replies repeatedly talk about anonymous stories on the internet..... not the article...	/r/MensRights	13/04/22 02:49 PM
3	Men in 'Pink Collar' Jobs: "Men suffer from discrimination in the workplace too, especially when they're applying for roles in female-dominated occupations." I have no desire to argue semantics, You are saying they are intentionally telling falsehoods, which to me is the same as saying they are lying	/r/MensRights	13/04/22 02:15 AM
3	Men in 'Pink Collar' Jobs: "Men suffer from discrimination in the workplace too, especially when they're applying for roles in female-dominated occupations." Fair enough, but there are legitimate victims out there, there is a difference between taking something with grain of salt and treating them as a liar	/r/MensRights	13/04/22 01:58 AM
3	Men in 'Pink Collar' Jobs: "Men suffer from discrimination in the workplace too, especially when they're applying for roles in female-dominated occupations." So you feel it's OK to assume someone's story isn't true (and treat them accordingly) if they say it anonymously?	/r/MensRights	12/04/22 11:41 PM
3	Men in 'Pink Collar' Jobs: "Men suffer from discrimination in the workplace too, especially when they're applying for roles in female-dominated occupations." Fair enough, but some people it has, and this thread is people talking about it. I'm sure you would find it wrong if someone chimed in I don't know anybody who was raped when people are talking about their experiences?	/r/MensRights	12/04/22 09:04 PM
5	Men in 'Pink Collar' Jobs: "Men suffer from discrimination in the workplace too, especially when they're applying for roles in female-dominated occupations." It sounds like your implying sexism towards men isn't an issue	/r/MensRights	12/04/22 02:17 PM
8	Why Are Y'all So Anti-Feminism? Treating both genders fairly seems to be a common interest The issues is how feminism views equality and how feminists feel is the best way to achieve it	/r/MensRights	09/02/22 03:26 AM
-1	Question If you want, feel free to DM me, I would be happy to have a discussion	/r/MensRights	31/01/22 12:56 PM
2	Violence and crimes against women are NOT done against them because they're women or to oppress women. Feminist myth debunked This is actually a major criticism I have of feminism and certain spheres of progressives. They frames the symptoms as a way to reinforce it and is at is basically the root of things like "anti racism" unless your actively fighting it, your reinforcing it. To use your example, they view that coughing around other people indicates that your aren't taking appropriate steps and are in essence supporting/spreading covid. The idea is the ideology is the symptom but when you don't take the appropriate…	/r/MensRights	29/01/22 02:17 PM
5	I don't understand this. Can someone explain it to me? Also, things arent black and white. This stuff comes from men AND women, the only variable is what proportion. Something you seem to remember when people attack women/feminism, but forget in situations such as this.	/r/MensRights	26/01/22 02:12 PM
4	I don't understand this. Can someone explain it to me? Your logic besides from what oncefa2 says is based on the concept that their are no women in power and that you cant discriminate against your own group. Just because someone is jewish doesnt mean they cant be antisemetic, etc.	/r/MensRights	26/01/22 01:47 PM
5	No offense, but I see too much uneducated criticism of feminism here and I think it would help a lot of you to play devil's advocate The topic of the pay gap typically is used to highlight the sexism women experience. The 73 cents metric is used to illustrate gender norms, that women earn less because of expectations to be a caregiver. The problem is that metric could be used in the same way to illustrate sexism men experience because they make more due to the expectation to be the provider. The malice comes from the active denial of that fact, I still cant find a feminist source that validates the idea that men experience se…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/01/22 02:01 PM
1	UK: 'EVERY male migrant' arriving in the Channel by boat 'will be detained' I asked if you consider assuming women aren't harmful is discerning and your response was to say how dangerous men are, how am I supposed to read it?	/r/MensRights	25/01/22 03:03 AM
2	UK: 'EVERY male migrant' arriving in the Channel by boat 'will be detained' Their is a stark difference between making the statement "while I understand the problems of only vetting men and agree its sexist, I would rather that than not vetting anyone" and your defense of the policy by framing these men as misogynistic terrorist rapists	/r/MensRights	24/01/22 03:37 PM
3	UK: 'EVERY male migrant' arriving in the Channel by boat 'will be detained' And women do nothing?	/r/MensRights	24/01/22 12:57 AM
10	UK: 'EVERY male migrant' arriving in the Channel by boat 'will be detained' You consider assuming women won't harm your society discerning?	/r/MensRights	23/01/22 01:40 PM
4	Feminists Judging All Men: A Response Ill give an analogy to illustrate my issue. I generally have issues with religion, I by no means are familiar with all of them... but the ones I am familiar with. The ones I am familiar with, the texts the religion is based on tends to be fucked up. I frequently run into people who say that they dont ascribed in certain aspects of the religion. To me this reminds me of when Tamika Mallorey defended her support of Louis Farrakhan by saying something similar. If your not familiar with him this is …	/r/MensRights	19/01/22 03:08 PM
12	Feminists protest against equal retirement age in Switzerland I think an insolvent pension system is bad for everyone... it is selfish that someone would rather the system break than get a slightly reduced benefit	/r/MensRights	18/01/22 02:24 PM
8	Feminists protest against equal retirement age in Switzerland I didn't protest when they raised it in my country.	/r/MensRights	18/01/22 02:18 PM
22	Feminists protest against equal retirement age in Switzerland With rising life expectancy pensions are rapidly becoming insolvent. Most countries are raising the age you can start collecting. In countries where their is a lower age for women, it's perfectly reasonable to start there. It helps men by reducing their financial burden and facilitates a healthy pension system.	/r/MensRights	18/01/22 02:00 PM
11	Australia -- look out, boys, here comes another wave of State/feminist propaganda telling you how evil you are. Their is a general societal bias of the male perpetrator and female victim, putting male victims in a vulnerable position, stuff like this reinforces it. Gender neutral policies, even ones that allocate resources proportionally based on statistics are better as they don't exclude men.	/r/MensRights	14/01/22 12:25 PM
1	70% of the top posts sorted by "Hot" are "against" women rather than "for" men. "Are there even female mohels?" Yes their is	/r/MensRights	07/01/22 03:02 AM
6	Spain expands femicide laws, because too much female privilege is never enough. Their are other articles In one the definition was so broad that they were reporting 90% of murdered women was femicide	/r/MensRights	01/01/22 07:20 AM
1	If men treated women like women treat men "So is it "women" who who did this, no" Reread my comment	/r/MensRights	28/12/21 06:23 PM
1	If men treated women like women treat men No, do you think male victims don't deserve justice?	/r/MensRights	28/12/21 05:15 PM
11	“Kill all Men” again. This time it’s rFeminism openly arguing for justifiable homicide in abusive relationships. But for women only. Defending individuals who are justifying violence, is justifying violence	/r/MensRights	28/12/21 05:00 PM
13	“Kill all Men” again. This time it’s rFeminism openly arguing for justifiable homicide in abusive relationships. But for women only. "More of an anti-rapist view. Commenter was fine with a rapist having their junk caught off. It's unclear how she feels about men in general. Very clear that she hates rapists." You seem to justify violence against criminals in multiple comments	/r/MensRights	28/12/21 04:47 PM
1	If men treated women like women treat men For the longest time womens accusation of rape was dismissed. Women's groups have successfully lobbied and pushed to change that. So is it "women" who who did this, no, but it is primarily women who are pushing the "believe" women agenda, and those individuals are to blame. When I accused my ex of domestic abuse, she responded by saying that I abused her. Despite this being a total lie, me having tons of evidence backing up my claim and she having none, everyone involved did exactly what they we…	/r/MensRights	28/12/21 01:26 PM
1	What rights men do not have? Wow	/r/MensRights	27/12/21 09:54 PM
1	What rights men do not have? And treat people like you do? Ill pass...	/r/MensRights	27/12/21 09:44 PM
1	What rights men do not have? Interesting Well then call me stupid, good luck with yourself	/r/MensRights	27/12/21 09:30 PM
2	What rights men do not have? Does that apply to a woman telling their experiences of sexual assault? Would it be stupid of a person to believe them?	/r/MensRights	27/12/21 09:13 PM
3	What rights men do not have? No, I am a male victim of some pretty nasty shit... but apparently believing victims only applies to women.... good luck with yourself... and try to get some empathy for men... they have issues to	/r/MensRights	27/12/21 09:06 PM
3	What rights men do not have? Interesting I wonder if you would say the same thing to a woman	/r/MensRights	27/12/21 08:46 PM
2	What rights men do not have? ok what do you want to know?	/r/MensRights	27/12/21 08:38 PM
2	What rights men do not have? I was denied a divorce hearing because I'm male, I was denied access to domestic abuse resources because I'm male. And it's acceptable for people like you to be dismissive of the issues men experience. To name a few issues.	/r/MensRights	27/12/21 08:29 PM
9	It’s Time to Stop Blaming Men for Their Mental Health Woes In my situation it was overwhelmingly women reinforcing the norm. I've actually had a GF break up with me because I cried in front of her. Unless you have research to back it up, it's just your experiences which fyi doesn't speak for anyone other than yourself.	/r/MensRights	26/12/21 07:10 PM
7	Yeah he should pay lol, why would a girl pay, you MISOGYNIST PIG /s Things like this often are argued as a form of affirmative action to compensate for things like the wage gap. Feminism has a long history of advocating for unequal treatment of men and women basing it on things like a gendered analysis.... This kind of response is designed to just shut down criticism of feminism, and their are valid points. The truth is feminism advocates regularly for unequal treatment of men and women, and I can give dozens of examples. Do you have a source you can direct me t…	/r/AntiFeminists	26/12/21 06:05 PM
1	change.org is sexist Do you think that designing their website so their is a specific subsection for women's rights (and not mens) might play a role in that difference? And the criticism of the website is valid to some degree? Mens issues generally get invalidated and it has an impact when organizations make the decision to not include them, especially when they make the decision to include women's rights.	/r/MensRights	22/12/21 01:11 PM
3	Women present here, what made you realize that men are suffering and feminism has just gone too far? And were you feminists once? If yes then how did the transition happen? If not then was there any particular incident which made any men in your family suffer? Or you already knew feminism is flawed? Then don't use the term reverse sexism... Because the literal definition of the term is "prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination against men on the basis of their sex." Regardless of your intent making the statement reverse sexism is a non issue makes it more difficult for male victims of sexism to be believed And you care about that right?	/r/AntiFeminists	15/12/21 04:51 PM
3	Women present here, what made you realize that men are suffering and feminism has just gone too far? And were you feminists once? If yes then how did the transition happen? If not then was there any particular incident which made any men in your family suffer? Or you already knew feminism is flawed? "reverse sexism" I'm sorry your not listening to a victim of sexism Stop dismissing sexism men face, I'm sorry people like me exist... despite people like you trying yo erase my existence	/r/AntiFeminists	15/12/21 02:25 PM
3	Women present here, what made you realize that men are suffering and feminism has just gone too far? And were you feminists once? If yes then how did the transition happen? If not then was there any particular incident which made any men in your family suffer? Or you already knew feminism is flawed? I was literally denied a divorce hearing because I'm male, people literally acted like I did something to deserve the abuse because I male... sexism towards men is absolutely an issue and people like you are protecting abusive women... you are human garbage	/r/AntiFeminists	15/12/21 12:35 PM
2	tired of this The reason why I was denied a divorce hearing was because of systems women's groups set up/pushed for. "It's because one side isn't adjusting and both are super salty lmao".... wow	/r/AntiFeminists	12/12/21 04:45 AM
1	Feminist pretends to be against misandry in the anti-feminist sub and enjoys misandrist jokes in the feminist sub. I understand what your trying to say, my comment explained what I want	/r/AntiFeminists	12/12/21 03:20 AM
2	Feminist pretends to be against misandry in the anti-feminist sub and enjoys misandrist jokes in the feminist sub. Question, is their a group other then men that you could use similar language? Like for example could you say the phrase "black people need to be taught not to be antisemitic". I personally think that would be wrong... but I also think it's wrong to say about men.	/r/AntiFeminists	12/12/21 02:01 AM
1	16 f*ckn years, false accusations need to end If you want to have a conversation feel free to PM me. " “real feminists do not back female rapists” " That depends in how you define back.... I can make the case that the way feminism genders sexual assault "backs" female rapists and I'm ignoring all those who say men can't be raped.	/r/AntiFeminists	10/12/21 02:24 PM
3	If male partner is ever imperfect, break up the relationship and quit and punish him instead of supporting each other like relationships are supposed to be -feminism today Practice what you preach, I asked you for a source for one of your comments... still waiting.	/r/MensRights	06/12/21 02:07 PM
2	What's your thoughts on r/menslib? I don't, I feel that feminism Marginalizes male victims of domestic abuse	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 10:56 PM
3	What's your thoughts on r/menslib? I'm a victim of domestic abuse My negative experiences where not due to the patriarchy. They were largely due to systems pushed for by women's groups and ideology pushed by feminism. I'm sorry feminism isn't perfect, and people can absolutely be valid in having an issue with it	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 02:02 PM
2	Netflix Star Victoria Pedretti Exits True Crime Film After Accused Is Exonerated "The cops said they were 100 percent sure" Do you have a source or not?	/r/MensRights	01/12/21 05:39 PM
3	Netflix Star Victoria Pedretti Exits True Crime Film After Accused Is Exonerated Do you have a source for this?	/r/MensRights	01/12/21 12:27 PM
2	Mothers do not have an edge over fathers. Just that it has no influence on family court.....	/r/MensRights	29/11/21 04:14 PM
4	Mothers do not have an edge over fathers. Yea and the courts don't look at race when deciding if your guilty or not either	/r/MensRights	29/11/21 01:19 PM
20	Very interesting and fair article, brave of an ex college dean to post this "Overcorrection" I went through a messy divorce and she threw everything except accusing me of sexual assault (thank god) and my dad told me something along those lines. The argument that, I was getting thrown under the bus because women have been treated unfairly and they were just trying to fix that unfairness, made me feel betrayed. I'm glad people are starting to see this "overcorrection" and possibly fix it. But I no longer see those pushing this agenda in the same way. I see it all the tim…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/11/21 12:58 PM
49	What are the sexist things your significant others have said/done? My current relationship is healthy, so nothing recent. One ex really played hard into gender roles when convenient for her. I remember asking about an engagement gift and she responded only the man gives one. She said that phrase a lot, "that's the man's job.".....I could never get from her what exactly was a "woman's job". She very much had the mentality of women should be treated like queens by men. In one fight I told her I have no problem treating you like a queen, if you treat me like a kin…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/11/21 01:41 PM
6	Rise in boys and men raped in Merseyside but few find justice I looked more at the numbers you were referring to, The 428 is "A total of 428 crimes of sexual violence were committed against boys and men" The article you referenced was only referring to rape, I don't know if you did it on purpose but the comparison is inappropriate, it also only refers to one county Also "Only 10 of these cases concluded with a suspect being charged, " So no, 25% of those cases did not result in an arrest, I have no idea what they mean by "faced justice", but that can simpl…	/r/MensRights	16/11/21 10:42 AM
11	Rise in boys and men raped in Merseyside but few find justice You said arrests, And "Only 88 suspects have been charged so far (1%) in the 6,181 rapes of boys and men recorded last year."	/r/MensRights	16/11/21 02:09 AM
11	Rise in boys and men raped in Merseyside but few find justice "Only 88 suspects have been charged so far (1%) in the 6,181 rapes of boys and men recorded last year." Where did you get the 25% number?	/r/MensRights	16/11/21 01:19 AM
12	Male loneliness mocked on SNL's Man Park Sketch as women take their men to a park to meet other men. Their has been a gradual vilification of Male relationships/male spaces. The positive societal perception of "going out with the girls" vs the negative perception of "going out with the boys" as just one example. The ones to blame are the ones who paint men/male spaces in broad strokes as opposed to pointing to bad actors..... to the point of a man who wants to be "one of the good ones" might be hesitant as they don't want to be labeled toxic or forming a "boys club" as just one example.	/r/MensRights	15/11/21 02:21 PM
1	I would like to point this out Their are many definitions, from oxford languages the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. Is another, and how exactly will advocating for women's rights achieve equality? Wouldn't that imply men don't need any advocacy? To address your wikipedia section, Framing society as prioritizing the male point of view, makes it difficult to get acknowledgement/protects situations that prioritize the female point of view. Their are problems with feminism and its ideology	/r/AntiFeminists	13/11/21 01:37 PM
1	Why do so many of you guys seem to gate feminism I'm a victim of domestic abuse The way feminism "genders" the topic pisses the fuck out of me. The societal bias of the male perparrator/female victim that feminism plays a role in perpetuating, by "gendering", is one of the reasons why my experiences attempting to get help/extricate myself from the situation were so negative. Some of the ideological concepts of feminism really harms men....... their is a lot of overlap, but feminism first and foremost is for the benefit of women....even if it t…	/r/MensRights	11/11/21 03:43 PM
4	What are your thoughts and opinions on comments like "we know not all men, but enough to be scared", "not all people are robbers but we still lock our doors" and "not all people have Corona, but we still wear masks" that are in respond to the comment "not all men"? The problem is their is a societal preconceived notion of men as dangerous (and requiring safety precautions) and women as not. This has a direct impact on how male victims of abuse are treated when the perpetrator is a woman. If you look at the comments in the sub, the people here really just want the same protections of other groups. If its wrong to take safety precautions simply because of the color of someone's skin or religion, why is it ok because someone is male? I dont think taking safet…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/11/21 03:00 PM
1	What are your thoughts and opinions on comments like "we know not all men, but enough to be scared", "not all people are robbers but we still lock our doors" and "not all people have Corona, but we still wear masks" that are in respond to the comment "not all men"? Can you elaborate? I'm not sure how that's relevant to the question.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/11/21 02:33 PM
1	What are your thoughts and opinions on comments like "we know not all men, but enough to be scared", "not all people are robbers but we still lock our doors" and "not all people have Corona, but we still wear masks" that are in respond to the comment "not all men"? The question being asked would be if you ONLY take precautions with respects to women.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/11/21 02:22 PM
1	What are your thoughts and opinions on comments like "we know not all men, but enough to be scared", "not all people are robbers but we still lock our doors" and "not all people have Corona, but we still wear masks" that are in respond to the comment "not all men"? The topic at hand is selectively taking precautions. Whether it's acceptable to take precautions with respect to one group, but not when dealing with others. Do you think it's acceptable to single out a group for taking precautions?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/11/21 02:11 PM
21	Women talking about how it is for them to openly acknowledge they have harmed men. Very, very moving. I found this video regressive, I have serious issues with the concept of collective blame, or in this case a collective apology. The defense that one woman gave that she was "hearing" the words of her mother/grandmother/great grandmother... that her bad behavior was "out of the herd of other women". Yes bigotry is taught and passed on, but the individual is who listens and internalizes it. The concept of a collective apology minimizes all of those people who might have heard those same things, b…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/11/21 07:00 PM
9	TradCons are NOT our friend Liberation for me is freedom, freedom to live my life in a way that works for me, assuming im not harming anyone. Their are some out there where traditional roles work for them.... what you are doing isnt liberation you are pushing new gender roles that you deem acceptable. I have no problems with how people live their lives.... the only time I have an issue, is when they are harming someone, or in this example saying to people the way I live my life is correct and the way you live your life is …	/r/MensRights	01/11/21 03:34 PM
2	Are you guys religious? If so which one? That's a thing, its increasingly more common the farther away from strict orthodoxy. Judiasm has always been more about traditions, than anything else. https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/352329/jewish/The-Walls-of-the-Study-Hall.htm The above story is one of the bases for this	/r/MensRights	27/10/21 08:28 PM
5	Are men the enemy of women's reproductive rights? I agree overall with your point. The last part is pointing to how acceptable it is to generalize/attack men. Which is really the root of this whole topic imo. But the first part makes the point without being inflammatory. it's not going to win anyone over. I 100% agree The issue I have is that I feel that way a lot about menslib. I personally believe that a "mens space" that tolerates attacks/generalization of men (as one example) will not only "not win anyone over" but will actively drive men a…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/10/21 05:30 PM
7	The New Erasure of Men I personally think, when possible, using more specific language is better. When referring to groups, "men", "people with penises" and "people who can get erections" are three different groups, though with significant overlap. I dont think its a good thing if those three groups are synonymous. I acknowledge my beliefs are a bit on the extreme side, but... as an example to explain why I feel this way, if a man loses his penis (or his ability to get an erection) it severely bothers me how often men…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/10/21 01:43 PM
1	As A Feminist What Are Things We Should Focus On That Lead Us Toward Equality Personally, I think that definition is better suited for countries that aren't third-world. the definition would only really be suited in situations were men dont lack any rights If you could come up with a definition for a movement that is focused more on equality for men and women how about use gender neutral terms like the advocacy of individual's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes Also, what is your opinion on egalitarianism? its another theoretical framework, just like feminis…	/r/MensRights	17/10/21 02:49 AM
1	As A Feminist What Are Things We Should Focus On That Lead Us Toward Equality the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. Ive always been bothered with that definition. In my belief it inherently dismisses issues men experience, as equality can be achieved by "advocating for women". Maybe you can explain it to me, how can "equality of the sexes" can be achieved through "advocacy of women's rights"? Wouldn't that result in women being better off than men? Or do you feel that men dont lack any rights?	/r/MensRights	17/10/21 01:40 AM
8	Can we talk about this That was very well written/articulate, It can be damaging to have those experiences and, having been given advice like "just go talk to them" and "be yourself" (which on the face of it seem like "good" advice), trying to act on that advice has the potential to really screw you up when it all goes horribly wrong agreed, giving the advice just "be yourself" invariably leads to the belief that something is wrong with you if you fail. I think your analogy to being an astronaut is very accurate. Bein…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/10/21 01:28 PM
35	Can we talk about this recently their was a thread that is relevant on menslib, it was about sex doll ownership, the comments were disappointing I'm a woman. I watched this and I got so sad because I am pretty sure very very few men are this sweet, gentle, considerate, and loving to a woman. Is this an indication that to some degree or another, men want women who are pliable, don't speak their opinion and have no autonomy of their own. I mean I feel a bit sorry for this guy, but more, I feel frustrated that this is hi…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/10/21 01:37 AM
1	I'm having issues regarding male circumcision Skin has different degrees of susceptibility to infection depending on how permeable it is. This susceptibility not only varies depending on the area of the body, but also from person to person. Initially studies about HIV transmission showed that circumcision provided protection for males from infection, based in the concept that the foreskin had a higher permeability and thus created an easier route for infection. When addressing aids in Africa the UN is using these studies/theoretical framewo…	/r/MensRights	11/10/21 02:46 PM
5	How did intersectionality go from nuance/empathy to oppression olympics? Do you think that having white skin can ever be a disadvantage? And the question is whether Jews are "white" at all? Do you think the fact that this is even a question or a topic of conversation is an example of how it can be a disadvantage? Because it seems like their jewish identity is being erased because of their skin color.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/10/21 10:58 AM
4	How did intersectionality go from nuance/empathy to oppression olympics? I suppose in this context race is a lot more important. And the question is whether Jews are "white" at all? Which can be answered even without intersectionality. again I agree with the theory.... and I agree with your statement..... I understand how intersectionality is supposed to work. This example illustrates how it can go wrong, the issue stems from a disagreement over what it means to be jewish in america, whether or not they are a "privileged". “They were talking about, ‘You people this,’…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/10/21 12:23 AM
10	How did intersectionality go from nuance/empathy to oppression olympics? the division stems from how people view each "intersection". I personally feel that the whole antisemitism situation with the women's march outlined by this article is a good example. Now Women’s March activists are grappling with how they treat Jews — and whether they should be counted as privileged white Americans or “marginalized” minorities, especially in the aftermath of the October mass shooting in Pittsburgh, when 11 people were gunned down at their synagogue. I have no issues with inters…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/10/21 11:48 PM
4	I Ran an Experiment on Reddit I saw your initial article. I felt that it completely missed the point on why some here criticize feminism. I looked at your disclaimer and said, that was his experiences... and moved on. Something to think about in your methodology... their are valid criticisms of feminism and how it handles mens issues, is a big one. Do you think your article would elicit responses from individuals who have well formulated complaints? Also, those with stronger opinions — usually negative — are more likely to r…	/r/MensRights	09/10/21 09:37 PM
79	I convinced my university to teach us about domestic violence against males https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3175099/#!po=48.7500 Unfortunately my experiences weren't as positive with friends and family.... being dismissed was common for me. It's been years but I'm still hesitant to open up because of that. When engaging with male victims people should know that some will be like me, who justifiably don't trust and any red flags will cause them to just bounce. I haven't been doing well, this post had me tearing up, thanks, I really appreciate your efforts	/r/MensRights	04/10/21 01:18 AM
2	This sub has the wrong name Can you direct me to a source of "true" feminist ideology?	/r/AntiFeminists	03/10/21 12:25 AM
8	Could you guys show me examples of menslib being... Well like some of the comments that sya they're VERY feminist? my issues with menslib are nuanced, They recently updated their rules, one of which bans generalizations about "protected" groups. Their were multiple comments about why not ban all generalizations? The response boiled down to "Remember we already have a rule against gender essentialism. That covers broad generalisations about people by gender. Besides, 75% of our commenters are male. If they feel that they are being negatively stereotyped, they are perfectly able to downvote that comment into o…	/r/MensRights	01/10/21 03:29 PM
6	I don't know why it took this long, but I just realized that a fair amount of the left feels that sexism against men has the same urgency of racism against white people I worked with this white woman that I'm pretty sure lost her job because her boss had issues with white people I recently was reading a post about rule changes on menslib, one rule bans generalizations against "protected" groups (ie not men). The justification was that the majority of the users are men, and would downvote etc any generalizations against men so a specific rule is unnecessary. It is common mindset that dominant/powerful groups, as the ones "in power" can mitigate any bigotry levie…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/09/21 09:29 PM
4	The Justification given for r/MensLib's Ban on Legal Paternal Surrender Discussion Do you think a woman should have the right to unilaterally abandon their child if they did not want to keep it? Because they frequently have that right, do you think its OK for women to have that right but not men? Because thats the core of this discussion women have multiple unilateral options, men have none.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/09/21 01:46 AM
9	The Justification given for r/MensLib's Ban on Legal Paternal Surrender Discussion Prior to me having sex with my last couple of partners I initiate the conversation about what she would do if our birth control failed and she got pregnant and I make it very clear im only consenting to sex if she will get an abortion if that should happen. The truth is, it doesn't really matter and I have 0 say or control. I would be ok with the situation if men and women were in the same boat, however women have multiple options, safe haven drop offs, foster care, adoption and often they can p…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/09/21 12:03 AM
20	Dear Menslib - we tried to tell you. The read was... interesting. Their were a number of things that bothered me, but one thing in particular from the article. And nowhere is this more evident than when considering the collective danger we pose to black women and our collective lack of willingness to accept and make amends for that truth. But when black women share that we pose the same existential and literal danger to them that whiteness does to us I wonder how much rhetoric such as this reinforces the perception of the black m…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/09/21 01:54 AM
56	Dear Menslib - we tried to tell you. I believe this is a symptom of a wider problem of acceptable harm when advocating the right of certain groups. In this specific case in the effort to address violence towards women it is acceptable to harm men in the process. I personally don't see Menslib as doing anything that many other spaces of similar mindset have done. I read this article today, while I disagree some aspects of the article one part stood out. As the gaurdian called him a leading figure of the international left stated.. a…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/09/21 10:30 PM
1	False feminism is bad "A real feminists would ask for rights of women only" How is improving the situation for only women about equality?	/r/AntiFeminists	18/09/21 09:18 PM
3	Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A Reputation "When women use violence in an intimate relationship, the circumstances of that violence tend to differ from when men use violence. Men’s use of violence against women is learned and reinforced through many social, cultural and institutional experiences. Women’s use of violence does not have the same kind of societal support. Many women who do use violence against their male partners are being battered. Their violence is used primarily to respond to and resist the violence used against them. On …	/r/MensRights	15/09/21 09:57 PM
2	Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A Reputation That's always a possibility, but the topic of domestic abuse is a personal one and spent a lot of time trying to understand it, including via feminist literature, so I think my understanding is sufficient to believe my complaints are valid.	/r/MensRights	15/09/21 04:24 PM
3	Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A Reputation I disagree that its just optics, the way feminism frames certain issues has a real and palpable impact. I agree that it can be salvaged but denying feminism has actual problems by saying its just optics will prevent that.	/r/MensRights	15/09/21 02:12 PM
3	Feminism Getting To Harsh Of A Reputation Their are problems with feminist principles, like how it frames domestic abuse. I personally witnessed the damage said framing can have. I'm not saying feminism doesn't have positive ideas, but it's concepts about privilege and societal power causes male victims to be Marginalized.	/r/MensRights	15/09/21 12:42 PM
1	Perfect “fairytale” relationship, BUT scared of having Kids and Marriage… Oh forgot one big thing, the order had to be served in my case to take effect so that was another thing that made it difficult, as I needed to know where she was	/r/MensRights	15/09/21 11:54 AM
1	Perfect “fairytale” relationship, BUT scared of having Kids and Marriage… Again where I live (USA, NY), if you are in a situation where you have grounds for an order of protection, you or someone on your behalf needs to file the paperwork with the courts. A temporary order can be issued if the courts feel its warranted, you will than have a hearing to establish a more permanent one, in most cases up to two years. During that process the person may fight it at any stage though.... the order of protection is designed to criminalize technically legal behavior. Its techni…	/r/MensRights	15/09/21 11:44 AM
1	Perfect “fairytale” relationship, BUT scared of having Kids and Marriage… Not where I live	/r/MensRights	15/09/21 11:30 AM
3	Perfect “fairytale” relationship, BUT scared of having Kids and Marriage… The rules for a restraining order are the same where I live regardless of the the reason	/r/MensRights	15/09/21 11:27 AM
3	Perfect “fairytale” relationship, BUT scared of having Kids and Marriage… Depends on where you live, I live in the USA, NY.... it was hard for me to get, she had the right to contest the order etc, so it was a fight.	/r/MensRights	15/09/21 11:23 AM
52	Feminism is slowly destroying the black community "It has advanced to the point that we are viewed as the “straight white males of the black community”… whatever that means." I can't really comment about that, but I have noticed this concept elsewhere, where the concept of privilege is causing a wedge between or even within groups. I believe it has become increasingly socially acceptable to attack or vilify individuals with "privilege" because of their "privilege" and that's where stuff like that comes from.	/r/MensRights	15/09/21 11:11 AM
2	If intersectionality was to include men (without the blame game that usually goes on, currently), would you support it or not? Maybe, I dont disagree with the basic premise. But for me to be ok with it, the concept would have to include all types of advantages/disadvantages, not just those pertaining to some groups. It also would have to acknowledge the situational nature and varying levels of impact of those advantages/disadvantages. Both of which I feel are why men are excluded.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/09/21 12:42 PM
7	I'll ask this here I'm not demonizing women our saying I don't have sympathy for there issues but hears an honest question. Is the lack of resources and empathy the reason that a lot of guys don't care our slightly care about women's issues After I went through some things I felt that nobody cared because I'm male. It's not that I don't care, I do, I'm just not in a good place and addressing why takes precedence.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/09/21 05:51 PM
3	There was a post on the subreddit r/sex where a girl was asked to sign a consent form to have sex. And everyone thought that it was weird. let me reiterate, that is your prerogative im not sure how your comment responds to mine, so I think were are just talking past each other, good luck	/r/MensRights	10/09/21 05:32 PM
7	There was a post on the subreddit r/sex where a girl was asked to sign a consent form to have sex. And everyone thought that it was weird. That's your prerogative, but I think your missing the point. As an example a prenup is about communication and creating a more equal relationship. Trust needs to be a two way street, and neither party should be put in a situation where one party has a disproportionate amount of power over the other, and just trust that they won't use it. Their needs to be parity in relationships and that includes trust and stuff like this (or prenups etc) can help with that. Every relationship is different and m…	/r/MensRights	10/09/21 01:06 PM
8	A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost’ Sorry, my mistake, no I'm not have a good night	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/09/21 12:49 AM
10	A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost’ "it's still wholly patriarchal." No, their are aspects of society that caters to women, my abuser took advantage of some of those aspect	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/09/21 11:56 PM
11	A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost’ Framing society as something that caters to men and breaking groups up into oppressed/oppressors 100% played a role in my bad experiences, as just one example	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/09/21 11:22 PM
2	A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost’ These issues stem from progressive ideolgy... and those problematic aspect need to be challenged and changed.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/09/21 11:09 PM
2	A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost’ That's just blatantly false. I literally experienced it first hand... and im getting really tired of people like you saying shit like this. Denying a problem exists guarantees it will continue.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/09/21 10:46 PM
5	A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost’ "get you to throw your lot in with the bastards" Huh? So because I make one criticism of progressives you somehow know about my other political beliefs? Just fyi ve always voted democratic It's also progressives who gendered domestic abuse and is fucking over male victims... I'm sorry progressive aren't perfect	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/09/21 09:26 PM
7	A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost’ but more that they don't trust calls of unfair treatment of white men, thanks to reactionaries If you don't listen to me (or men in general) because of the actions of other men, your a sexist and don't give a shit, if you cared you would take the time and listen	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/09/21 08:15 PM
5	A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost’ I appreciate the offer, but not really, I have people to talk to, thankfully, and I do talk to then, it helps sometimes, it just doesn't change anything	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/09/21 09:04 PM
29	A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost’ "No college wants to tackle the issue under the glare of gender politics, said Ms. Delahunty, the enrollment consultant. The conventional view on campuses, she said, is that “men make more money, men hold higher positions, why should we give them a little shove from high school to college?”" This is my core issue with progressives, because other men are doing well, I'm SOL despite being in a shitty place. Maybe I'm salty because of my experiences with being a victim of domestic violence. But I t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/09/21 04:33 PM
2	A question from a femenist for all of you so I can understand. Your assuming men are a singular group, they aren't. Just because a person in power is male does not means they will look out for me or even care about my issues. I'm sorry but women have more than enough power to abuse men... I'm sorry you don't think so, but they do... male victims do exist.. I'm one of them, and no, I couldn't override the abuse whenever i wanted to	/r/AntiFeminists	31/08/21 07:07 PM
2	A question from a femenist for all of you so I can understand. So, feminists have enough power and influence to enact societal change.... and those changes would be because of feminists, right? So, if some of the ways feminists use their power and influence causes some level of harm, that harm would be because of feminists too, right?	/r/AntiFeminists	31/08/21 03:35 PM
2	A question from a femenist for all of you so I can understand. So you do acknowledge they have influence, do you also acknowledge that feminists have instituted societal change?	/r/AntiFeminists	31/08/21 01:06 PM
5	A question from a femenist for all of you so I can understand. So feminists have zero influence on society? Good to know	/r/AntiFeminists	31/08/21 12:27 PM
4	A question from a femenist for all of you so I can understand. Your statement implies feminists don't have any power or influence over society. The question I ask is why can't it be as a result of feminism?	/r/AntiFeminists	31/08/21 11:40 AM
5	What are your hardest hitting stock resources to our opponents? I understand, the future is the source of my suicidal feelings. Its strange, but for me the closer I am to killing myself, the more at peace I am... the more I "want to live" the more anxious and depressed I get as I'm trying and failing at finding a life that I want to live, if that makes sense.	/r/MensRights	29/08/21 03:18 PM
4	Interview with a Kenyan Men's advocate and feminist "t's time to come to grips with the fact that men just hate women the same way whites hated African Americans." - jackienaper1907	/r/MensRights	24/08/21 08:24 PM
1	Why we shouldn't criticize feminists by calling them ugly, fat, saying they don't have boyfriends etc https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/ov4f21/why_does_it_seem_that_men_hate_women/ I'm sorry you were generalizing hard with this post and your comments in this post	/r/MensRights	18/08/21 05:45 PM
1	Why we shouldn't criticize feminists by calling them ugly, fat, saying they don't have boyfriends etc But you think generalizing about men is ok? This is my problem with some feminists, they have zero problem generalizing about men and contributing to an anti male bias. But generalizing is wrong when done to other groups, I'm sorry the hypocrisy pisses me off.	/r/MensRights	18/08/21 02:37 PM
1	People think women have it so much harder in life and that's ridiculous I agree.... but back to my original point, individuals, as an example, on reddit who are upset about hate thrown at their group... who are then told, it's not against the rules because they aren't a Marginalized or vulnerable group... sometimes respond, but we are! Because of x,y and z. Their are numerous examples and they seem to be happening more and more these days. If only certain groups are worthy of help/protection, those not in those groups who need help will continue to try to argue that…	/r/MensRights	13/08/21 02:40 PM
5	People think women have it so much harder in life and that's ridiculous The rule is in reference to "Marginalized or vulnerable groups" https://www.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/360045715951 Or https://www.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/360043503951-What-are-Reddit-s-rules- where they define hate as "Vilifying, humiliating, harassing, promoting identity based attacks against, promoting hatred against, or threatening violence against marginalized or vulnerable groups." Unless your a marginalized or vulnerable group the rule doesn't apply to you....	/r/MensRights	13/08/21 04:44 AM
3	People think women have it so much harder in life and that's ridiculous https://www.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/360045715951 Read the rule again, especially the part about "Marginalized or vulnerable groups"	/r/MensRights	13/08/21 04:21 AM
10	People think women have it so much harder in life and that's ridiculous The current climate priotizes those "most affected", others well, are shit out of luck... for example hate speech towards men isn't against reddits rules. Those that control the narrative set the rules... the men who are desperate to to have their issues validated/get the help they need are simply working within the shitty system.	/r/MensRights	13/08/21 02:08 AM