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I'm not gay, so why would I be jealous of how easy women have sex with men? They are two different things I get jealous of men who are successful with women sometimes, especially if I like a girl and she choose another guy over me, but I've never felt jealous of the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:17 AM
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It was the same with me, on the date I even asked her, what the hell are you doing with me 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:06 AM
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You seem to quote everything I say except the part where I clearly stated I can't speak for all men, because I can't I don't know what other men do for women, but if they do, they should do less or stop completely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:20 PM
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Way to ASSume a bunch of stuff about my personal life I'll clarify a little, but my point of answering you is made I quit my job because I don't need the money, because I'm not, for example commited to a single mom with two children, and I never led the mom on, I'm honest with my intentions but she tried anyway (maybe she enjoyed the sex 🤷) The disagreement I had with my roommate is she ended up being down with Israel, before that we were mates and I was fine to move in with her, although it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:14 PM
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Women don't NEED men, but we do make a difference, but hey, if you don't believe so that's cool 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:08 PM
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I answered the question 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:06 PM
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But women are choosing the wrong men, constantly, and I'm saying this as a man who is often the wrong choice I'll have sed with them, but in my head I'm like, wtf are you doing. Sometimes there's literally a better guy that she tells me about while we are together 🤷 And look, I'm not a complete dick since I am an empathy who just had enough of being walked over, but dude, I can see where I'm a "lesson" for them. They just can't think logically and act on impulse, and that's what children do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:06 PM
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I can't speak for all men, but I see all the things I do for the women in my life I care about, and also all the things I stopped doing, as well as what other men do for some women I know that I refuse to One thing I refused to do is working a dangerous, labouring profession that is male dominated. That's probably my personal biggest lack of contributions, but the little things are numerous. Just a few recent ones was agreeing to move in with a woman who was pretty desperate to find accommodatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:46 AM
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That wasn't the prevailing feminist view Same with gun control, the literal thing that eqalizes the physical difference between men and women, and trans basically getting rid of being a female completely Bunch of other different things depending on where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:05 AM
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This is exactly why men need to stop doing everything they're not doing There is no appreciation by women or society. You're not doing anything anyway boys, so just keep doing nothing ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:01 AM
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I had a 20 year old pick me up...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:58 AM
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Jealousy denotes that you want to be or have what someone else has I don't think men for the most part want to be women, and get affection from other men The studies show that it's overwhelmingly women who hold hatred and animosity towards men and not the other way around Men are fixers, when we see a problem, we want to correct it. A lot of the things you stated are actually subjected out of (misguided) love The irony isn't lost on me that some of the more radical right positions like being ant…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:06 AM
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I only approach women that I have a strong inclination to, when I do, it's been a good interaction I also have women approach me more, which is a suprise at 40, average looking dude. Maybe the tides are changing and women are becoming more assertive, especially the younger ones who haven't grown up with men "annoying" them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:13 AM
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Women's idea of settling seems to be with a stable, kind, emotionally mature man While men are happy to take in a stray cat with aids covered in shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:14 AM
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In Australia women are 1 in 4, men 1 in 10. 1 in 10 is more of an outlier to me, while 1 in 4 is a conscious choice I know abusive men because women I know point them out to me, and then I see them dating other women. I don't know what other qualities they have, but you'd think abuse would be a deal breaker, but since it's not, then it must be desirable 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:42 PM
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It's wild to me that good men settle for these women in their late 30s + Why do you need the headache and risk of divorce? Some men are just gluttons for punishment I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:34 PM
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It's pretty rare for a man to be in an abusive relationships, but it's hard to find a woman that hasn't been in one. All the abusive guys I know also do great in the dating pool and always seem to have a new girl on the hook
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:25 PM
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Seems like girls are constantly dating guys who abuse them. I don't want to be abused, so I don't date abusers, and women seem to all have dates someone who abused them, so all I can conclude is they like abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:12 PM
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Well she's not with him anymore, and now she's inviting me over to her place to hang out I guess I was exciting enough all along, and it just took her getting 8 years older and having a child and a crazy abusive ex father who's not allowed near them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:19 PM
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My politics is what you would call far left, and I have utter apparhy for feminism and female rights. I'm not the only one. I meet guys all the time who are very progressive and have the attitude of "I did my time for feminism, they're on their own now" I by no means want to have a revolution or anything either. My apathy is just that, apathy. I've arranged my personal life to work around the environment, and am fairly content and don't care which way things go
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:16 AM
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I can't speak for all men, but when I say women choose the bad boy, I mean like the girl I really like rejecting me to have a child with a guy who physically abused her and who she has an avo out against now Don't get me wrong, I am a reformed nice guy, which has substantiality improved my love life, but I still never cheated or assaulted a woman, but I guess that's what it takes sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:05 AM
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Oh no no no no no There is most definately attachment styles, and people with attachment styles will tell you themselves, at least the ones who are healing their trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:23 AM
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It's not so much that men will see their interest in women as only sex, it's that men will see the value of sex, and be able to get it out of their system It's a great service, because not every man can be stoic and monk. Paid service clears the hormones and fulfils the connection a man might not get from just jerking off Sex dolls are also becoming commonly used and are an even cheaper alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:04 PM
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They treat wife material better in all ways, women treat husband material differently, but not always better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:12 PM
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It's wild how the "not nice guys" who just act nice and respectful still get laid less than men who abuse women to the point of hospitalization
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:24 AM
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Not necessarily motives, but treatment It's not even a secret. Women openly admit they treat men who they see a potential future with differently, leiek holding out on having sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:28 AM
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Sometimes, and maybe YOU in particular, but it's not the experience of men out there Yes, movies like "Along came Polly" are fiction, but they exist and are popular for a reason I've slept with married women, and had others tell me that their "true love" was some drop kick bar tender they hooked up with in their 20s etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:51 PM
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Good for you? I'm talking in generalities and not absolutes. All kind of people out there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:26 PM
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No, because it's the implication that counts Just because the same words are used, doesn't mean they don't represent vastly different experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:23 PM
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The issue comes down to how they treat those guys If they bring the same energy and passion to the husband material guy, sure, all good, but typically when they are ready for that guy, they're also not interested in experimenting, having fun, traveling, sex Guys don't do that. We generally hold back on the girl we just want to have some bedroom fun with, but the women we love and want children with will get everything those girls get and much, much more
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:20 PM
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I'll make it easy for you Elites: tax / throw in jail Police Military: Defund Foreign wars and imperialism: stop Israel: Sanction (if not bomb) You see how nowhere on this list so far are women? That's because I wouldn't care less about them. I just don't care. If a party comes along and meets all my concerns, i don't care what they do with women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:43 PM
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It's the context When a man says a woman is wife material, it means that they are willing to do everything and more for that woman than a casual fling When a woman says it, it often means that she "had her fun" and will now do things like hold out on sex, manipulate the man for financial gains etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:39 PM
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Depends on the man, but I always accepted that a woman wouldn't be in her prime after a while, especially if we had kids That's the contract you make with a woman tho. She sacrifices her best years on you, and you take care of her in her "later" years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:36 PM
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Like does she have a job, crazy ex boyfriends, annoying friends. You'd hope the woman you connect with will tick the boxes, but guys are more willing to walk from red flags imo than women, at least for long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:34 PM
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Guys are more willing to settle with women, and have different considerations We also distinguish between someone we want to raise a family with and who we just want to bang
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:09 AM
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Dude, I told you like a thousand times now and you just don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:13 AM
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Not if it effects my rights, I wouldn't care about female rights as stated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:50 AM
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Fascist and communist governments have historically had very patriarchal aspects to them In a totalitarian government, it's not really that far fetched to take away female rights when it benefits the state, birthrate etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:42 AM
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It's sort of just happened for me. I never pay attention to who steered the conversation that way, but truth will out at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:05 AM
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This girl I liked years ago rejected me, and ended up having a child with a guy who physically abused her, who she now has an avo out against She wants me to come over for a drink... So long as females exist, there will be reality to make talking points about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:34 AM
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Well, if the system is that retarded there I would either keep things extremely casual, or move. There's usually a work around Australia where I am also has a thing, but only for living together over a year
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:11 AM
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Not planning on getting married 🤷 That kind gets rid of 99% of concerns right there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:26 AM
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Women have shown they don't care about male rights, so they're on their own I'm pretty left leaning in my other considerations, so end up supporting pretty feminist political parties, but I'll never concern myself with women's rights again If a political party aligns with my other ideals, and wants hand maids tale, so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:25 AM
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The jist of it seems for men to have standards, and I don't see why men wouldn't sign up to it As for taking away women's rights, it's not an issue I care about either way, more important issues to vote for
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:05 AM
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Actually just be yourself is great advice if taken with the right context To me just being myself, means being focused on my own life and not so concerned with a woman's problems How it looks practically as one of many examples, is me getting a girls contact details then just being so occupied that I don't message her for weeks or months I went on a date with a girl recently, and she got so frustrated waiting for me she asked me out, we went out and had a great time together, and I was just bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:50 AM
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It's rare for regular guys, but women do very much pursue attractive and popular men. It's as if they are given a societal ok to scream and run after celebrities cars or start feeling up beautiful men I had a girl approach me yesterday actually, she was maybe a 5 tho. When girls get really drunk and lose all inhibition they seem to jump on top of me, I don't know, I'ts a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:14 PM
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Some men like to be emasculated and dmlominated, some men don't care. I think the feeling is closest to the feeling of shame if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:08 PM
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It depends. In the majority of cases probably yes, but it's not an inevitable thing Sex is fun, but it's just not that important to some people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:03 PM
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Sound like a gay fantasy rather than a serious discussion tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:00 AM
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He didn't know what the fuk, that's the point. He had no experience, and got taken advantage of Sure, he could have lucked out also somehow, but it's the luck of the draw and not your own choice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:02 AM
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You're trying to force an absolute that just isn't congruent with reality There are people who are asexual, there are people who willingly become monks and swear off sex all their lives, why are you so desperate to have them sick dick when there's no poon around
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:00 AM
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The guy had no dating experience, as far as he knew he was marrying a loving traditional woman. Hindsight is always 20/20, but to make the right choice, I decided I decided not to take his side, and had a lot of experience since then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:43 AM
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He was the decent of all decent guys, apart from some of his political takes Married to utter trash. That's what happens to guys with no experience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:23 AM
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It depends one the person. There are guys in prison for life who don't get "handies" from other men, and just jerk off, which is enough for them, as I'm sure not every female prisoner is lezing out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:28 PM
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I don't NEED to do it, but it increases my fucking pool, and honestly many of these women bring themselves into my orbit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:53 PM
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I'm not complaining, I'm simply stating a fact and it's consequences. Women can date whoever they want, and men will do what they need to so they can date women If a person walks into a known ba neighbourhood flashing his gold chains, and then gets robbed and assaulted, who is wrong? Sure, robbing someone is obviously wrong and in an ideal society no one would do it, but in the real world, where certain dangers are well known, people will, in my opinion, reasonably shift some of the blame on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:51 PM
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Like Charlie Kirk? Who's wife was twirking on stage before his body went cold I chose not to have that life for myself If your standard for decency is not having sex before marriage, if at all, then the answer to the question is probably close to zero men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:20 PM
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I'm talking about principals in general. I restrict myself enough and know I lost opportunities, but I have a limit to masochism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:18 PM
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I don't understand what you're saying here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:16 PM
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I've never cheated on a girl, but I've slept with married and committed women My philosophy is that contract is with them and their partner, and the only thing for me to consider is an angry husband trying to kill me I also wouldn't blame the guy for sleeping with a girl I was exclusively with, unless that guy was a friend of mine and we had an unspoken agreement not to do that Like I said, I am jadedmto an extent. I don't necessarily like the world is, but I need to function in it, I want to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:15 PM
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If you're a good friend and I don't have sexual interest in you, then yeah, I would be practically better to you The fact is, if I stuck to my principals I would never be chosen for romantic relationships Women determain what they tolerate from men. You might be one of the rare enlightened ones, but trust me when I say there is a plethora of women out there who eat up indifference if not outright abuse as attraction 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:09 PM
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I'm pretty content if not happy most of the time If I ever need them, I'll take them, but have no need for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:05 PM
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I presented myself as a statistic Add me to whatever pool you decide and work it out for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:35 AM
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For number 2? It's just a silly question to ask that can't be answered realistically Just notch me in whatever category you feel like As for having my shit together, I have a six figure job, own property and have enough of a nest egg financially to FIRE, and aren't on any psychiatric medication, if that is enough of a qualification
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:29 AM
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Like I said, I know how I was, and I know how I am with my female friends With them I express all my niceness, bending over backwards for them, listening to their relationship problems and trauma, being a shoulder to cry on, willing to take a bullet for them This is also how I decided to express myself with the recent girl, but I got another example what happens At the end of the day, believe what you want about me, but even in my jaded state I've never cheated on a girl I was exclusive with, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:23 AM
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I'm a decent guy, who became fairly jaded through experience I've been on both sides of the nice guy equation, and can tell you that being nice and caring rarely if ever works out in a romantic relationship These days I spend all my niceness on female friends I'm not romantically interested in I've recently tried going above and beyond for a girl I was falling hard for, because I wanted her to see me at what I consider my most decent, and got my heart crushed and stamped on Meanwhile I just had …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:00 AM
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You can't really base your judgement on teenagers, who are in general little pieces of shit at that age (myself included) Autistic women have a naturally easier time dating imo as adults, simple because they are women and pretty much need to have a pulse for a good amount of men to be interested in them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:20 AM
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Hopefully no man is doing this in the current year
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:01 AM
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I've seen really attractive women have children with old, established men I'm in my 40s and recently had an attractive 20 yo pick me up at the gym Guys have a MILF fetish, so I'm sure women have the same, and once you become a fetish, you can fight above your weight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:38 AM
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A lot of people have trauma associated with dependence and aren't capable of having a healthy relationship where dpeendance is balanced between two healthy individuals to make both their lives better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:45 PM
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Male reproductive strategy is to impregnate as many women as possible, so they are naturally drawn to quantity over quality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:43 PM
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