CommGeekGirl Archive

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2	I (21F) have too many male friends and it’s a problem for my (21m) bf. Let me try to break you of this addiction by telling you the truth. None of those guys are your friends. You're just addicted to male validation. I'll ask it this way: How often do they reach out to be friends with what you consider an unattractive or unfeminine girl? How many guys do you see them gather the contact info of to hangout? You're probably beautiful and they want free access to your social capital. Beauty is power. A woman who is beautiful can level up the people around her because s…	/r/RedPillWives	09/04/24 11:30 AM
19	unsure whether multiple wives lifestyle is for me Some men when you break up with them and get back together spend the rest of the time in the relationship punishing, devaluing, and humiliating you for leaving them before. Why do I feel like that's what he's doing here?	/r/RedPillWives	28/03/24 11:08 PM
7	Guy breaks up with me after 3 months because he “can’t do monogamy” Did you sleep with him? If he got to sleep with you it might have been just conquest for him. Believe people when they say things and stop giving the benefit of the doubt. It sucks but this was a good lesson on exerting your boundaries and walking away no matter what they say when you get the ick. This is part of the sorting process and nothing else. Take the lesson and move forward. It doesn't say anything about your value. It's more HE showed he isn't a valuable partner.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/24 11:11 AM
3	I got what I thought I should want, and I miss what I threw away This isn't about liberal or conservative politics, this is about a lack of boundaries. You're infantilizing men and presenting an inauthentic version of yourself. I used to make the same mistake. You're acting like you're low maintenance. You're not. You don't just want to help him with things. You're trying to buy his love with acts of service and then getting angry at him if he doesn't return the same amount of love tokens. The reality is he never asked for your help. He never asked for you to…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/03/24 12:41 AM
5	Have you ever had to lower your standards in the caliber of men you date to be treated better? How can I do this? So a couple things: Slow down. If anyone is sleeping with you but not committing to you it's often because they think your standards are so low that a guy is easily replaceable, or they have misaligned values with yours. A traditional guy will sleep with you while judging you for sleeping with him too soon. Based on the conversations I've had with guys and what I've seen, they want someone who knows their worth in a non-antagonistic way. Declaring your value shows insecurity. Confidence is a qui…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/24 03:20 PM
1	Considering breaking up Listen he may have convinced you that he's the prize but you get to decide if a man has a legacy. Never forget that. Also, stop playing house with men. You're giving away easily what should belong to your future husband. Work on where this feeling of unworthiness comes from. Because men in their loving masculine don't want to be with a woman who feels unworthy and will throw themselves away to please any guy that gives them attention. They want a woman in her loving feminine who owns her insecur…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/23 02:39 AM
1	Considering breaking up Why are you giving so much to a man who isn't your husband?	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/23 02:25 AM
1	Has anyone here saved themselves for marriage as a RPW? How did that work/not work for you whilst dating? This is a lot of cultural beliefs. Sometimes you have to step outside that thinking and those emotional wounds to meet the right people. Remember that most people aren’t on Reddit and it’s not a good sampling of the standard opinion of most people. I did a lot of work on myself, became honest with my vulnerabilities, started living on faith, owned my insecurities by accepting them and where they came from but not believing them. All the sudden great people started coming into my life. If I belie…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/23 06:40 PM
2	Has anyone here saved themselves for marriage as a RPW? How did that work/not work for you whilst dating? Well I was lucky in the sense that I got to know him in a group first. We started off as friends. If I’d been trying dating apps or clubs it probably would have been a different experience. My mom always taught me you meet people in small groups. And it’s always been true. The conversation was uncomfortable for me but since the beginning I’d decided to be honest about things with him even if he decided to walk away because of them. I accept I’m not “the cool girl” anymore and I have big feelings…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/23 04:49 AM
7	Has anyone here saved themselves for marriage as a RPW? How did that work/not work for you whilst dating? Similar situation to OP and my boyfriend agreed to wait. You’d be surprised. Wonderful men do exist.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/23 02:03 AM
3	boyfriend says he wants a strong woman, can’t figure out how this fits into softer energy? That makes a lot more sense. I’m glad you both are figuring out what works for you. Maturity is definitely hard for people on both sides. One way I deal with my own immaturity is by voicing it in a humorous way. Like: “But I want to throw a tantrum because we can’t go to Best Buy today. See I’m being totally adult and reasonable right now…” My boyfriend loves this because I’m accepting my weaknesses and showing I see them as my problem. And we both get to laugh at it together. He also loves know…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/23 06:27 PM
5	boyfriend says he wants a strong woman, can’t figure out how this fits into softer energy? Is it me or did I read this as he wanted her to be stronger than him while they were both sick? And that single mother raising all the kids by themselves usually creates masculine characteristics because of survival which conflict with a more feminine type of strength. Not saying all single mothers are masculine, just that most of his examples of “strong women” were women who had to survive without men. Women usually can’t revert to their healthy feminine if they don’t feel safe and are in survi…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/23 03:51 AM
4	Getting eaten out for the first time Before I did therapy I literally threw that book on the bed near my ex 🤣🤦🏽‍♀️ He DID read it and got better. I have self control now too.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/12/23 07:38 PM
4	How to inspire him to be a leader Why are you trying to make him into something he isn’t? It’s not his job to be your perfect partner. You have to find someone with similar values. Instead what you said was mean and not very loving or supportive. You’re leading with your masculine and telling him to be more masculine so you can be feminine. It doesn’t work that way. You’re just not compatible and that’s ok. Find someone more in line with what you want who makes you feel submissive and taken care of. And do some inner work on how…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/11/23 09:07 PM
3	Being feminine in a crisis You supporting him like a child is pushing you into your masculine and I bet you’re infantilizing him. You’re actually preventing him from being a masculine man. Where are your standards for yourself? You can’t be in your feminine if you’re being the man in your relationship AND the woman.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/11/23 03:24 AM
1	My boyfriend (M25) told me(F27) his relationship history and it made me feel sad and confused. It’s really weird he said this out loud which makes me feel like it’s exaggerated. All the really attractive guys I dated never said anything like this. It was just a given that they rejected a lot of women. It never had to be mentioned. Only the normal looking guys I dated said stuff like this. OP he could be saying this for bravado to make himself look high value to you. I’d take it with a grain of salt. He’s with you and that’s all that matters. If he keeps talking about “how desirable he is”…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/11/23 06:05 PM
2	I (26F) received the bill from my BF (26M) after our trip and he proposed that we should split expenses from now on Guys like that are testing to see how much they can get out of you and how little effort they have to give in. It’s foolish to try to meet them on this behavior. They nearly always have women on the side they’re spoiling or leave you to marry a woman who won’t tolerate this behavior. Some guys literally can’t respect you until you leave them because they don’t respect themselves and are thinking “why would someone like her want to be with someone like me” the entire time you’re dating. It just h…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/11/23 08:43 PM
2	I (26F) received the bill from my BF (26M) after our trip and he proposed that we should split expenses from now on He really wants to end the relationship but is a coward. Whatever happened affected him so much he’s no longer generous or he’s already being generous to someone else. This relationship may be past its due date. He also sounds financially irresponsible which is not good in a partner. Why is he trying to do lavish things while making big purchases?	/r/RedPillWomen	22/11/23 08:34 PM
3	Husband going on a weekend away, I might lose it. I second this. He might not realize it but having her work in a business she has no direct connection to is manipulative a bit abusive on its own. And it sounds like she’s taking over a lot of his responsibilities in general while he goes off on trips. He’s being negligent of his business and family when he does this.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/23 12:17 AM
4	Male acquaintance wants to "hang out" That is gently though. It’s not about him being somehow unappealing. And he messaged you at 1am. He’s not focused on respecting you.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/23 07:17 AM
3	Male acquaintance wants to "hang out" Here’s the thing: men having access to you boosts their social status with other men. And men literally can’t see women they’re not interested in. Those women are invisible to them. So alone time with you boosts this guy’s social capital when he’s contributed nothing to you and he finds you attractive or you’d be invisible to him. Why do you care more about upsetting the dude than respecting your relationship boundaries? It’s easy to say “I love and respect my boyfriend. We both aren’t comfortab…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/23 06:59 AM
1	Is it better to invest on a Masters Degree or Plastic Surgery? I used to think that but it’s actually not true. A lot of people have to get them redone and sometimes they leak.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/23 10:45 PM
3	Is it better to invest on a Masters Degree or Plastic Surgery? A Master’s degree. A lot of plastic surgery you have to keep getting redone. Breast implants for example are not one and done and filler is constant. We also don’t know the long term effects of some procedures yet. You are at risk of looking older faster. I chose not to get any plastic surgery even when I was most insecure just from learning about the maintenance, and risks. It can be botched, and you can die from the antibiotics because it’s such a strong dose.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/11/23 10:59 PM
6	My boyfriend says he wants variety Time to get a new boyfriend. Edit: There are a lot of men who prefer monogamy. Getting to the depths of your layers is what turns them on. I think he is too interested in what other men think and that suggests a lack of confidence. Insecure men make bad partners because they DO cheat and can sometimes be abusive. When they’re so insecure they need the validation of multiple women there’s nothing that will fill that hole in their soul.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/23 10:27 PM
3	Should I 26 F let my fiancé 30M sleep with other women? This guy sounds awful. Not marriage material. He just wants to cheat on you. Don’t waste any more of your good reproductive years on him.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/10/23 09:12 PM
16	Keep seeing this question I think this is where intimacy in a relationship is really important. And healing wounded feminine helps create that safe space. A lot of women act tough because they don’t feel safe being themselves. When I accepted that I was really delicate and feminine and had a tough exterior because a lot of feminists told me I had to be tough but it wasn’t who I was, I started healing. I’m Christian so I say God really helped me heal there. And showed me how toxic I was. I started to realize a lot of men …	/r/RedPillWomen	07/10/23 09:46 PM
1	the hypocrisy of women It isn't moot because it becomes equal in subsequent dates based on the reasoning I laid out. He may pay for the first two dates, but she pays for the next two usually. With my friends if I invite them, I pay. Same principle.	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/05/20 06:55 PM
1	the hypocrisy of women The traditional etiquette was whoever invites pays. If she invites him to an activity she should offer and plan to pay. If he asks her on a date, he should offer and plan to pay. The problem is people stopped learning etiquette and don't know why we do these things anymore.	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/05/20 06:45 PM
2	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you During that time period extremely common. The houses were often either made with clay brick and pitch, or carved stone. Windows were open holes in a square shape. Edit: you can look at the Palestinian village of Wadi Hilweh to get a view of what the houses were like. And refusing a King means death. So sure she should have said no and killed herself or been murdered by him. Unfortunately she chose to live and betrayed her husband. What she did isn’t right, but it wasn’t an easy choice either. An…	/r/RPChristians	21/05/20 02:32 AM
3	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you And if your Instagram and such is bothering you, change it. I overhauled all my social media accounts to be more Christ centered. Before I was saved I had issues with porn and sexual impurity. I even worked for an adult entertainment distribution company at one point. So I do understand lust and what it's like to be surrounded by sex. I changed my surroundings.	/r/RPChristians	21/05/20 01:44 AM
3	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you She didn't bathe on the roof. He was on the roof and watched her bathe in her house. He was a Peeping Tom. "One evening David got up from his bed and walked around on the roof of the palace. From the roof he saw a woman bathing. The woman was very beautiful, 3 and David sent someone to find out about her. The man said, “She is Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam and the wife of Uriah the Hittite.” 2 Samuel 11:2-3	/r/RPChristians	21/05/20 01:40 AM
4	To the women in this sub, what are things to watch out for in other women? Watch out for any woman who doesn't read the Bible on her own. If the only time she reads the Bible is at church or during a bible study, she may not have a direct walk with God and storge or obligatory community love is more important to her. Storge is dutiful love, but it's cold and expecting. Overtime she will be cold and expecting also. Study the four different types of love. Knowing different forms of biblical love can help you spot where someone's heart is based on their actions. (1) Eros:…	/r/RPChristians	16/05/20 10:33 PM
0	To the women in this sub, what are things to watch out for in other women? I don't agree with everything you said. 1, 3, 6, 8 and p.s. are dead on.	/r/RPChristians	16/05/20 07:18 PM
3	questioning male sex drive and porn use Wow! Thank you for writing this. Those are powerful points and I feel convicted to make some changes in myself.	/r/RPChristians	16/05/20 01:48 AM
2	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex I think the danger is extremes. Anyone who separates people into different camps. We're all human at the end of the day. And people would rather pick up a torch for an ideology than love each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 01:35 AM
1	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex How many porn stars have you met? How many sex workers do you know? How many girls sending nudes do you know personally? I grew up and have been friends with people from all walks. You can't approach a problem without personal experience. I have seen the issue from the sellers, and buyers side.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 01:32 AM
1	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex My point has been feminism was created by ideologies that sold products. Industries created Rosie Riveter and other types of propaganda to keep their profits up. Feminism could arguably have been created by corporations and industry, to... make profits and sell products.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 01:26 AM
1	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex Translation: it's really hard to know because I don't believe anything, and archetype I hate probably created the issue. So somehow this proves me right on marketing and makes it the opposite of everything you've been saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 01:23 AM
1	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex There is sex work, sex trafficking, and child trafficking. A lot of porn is sex and child trafficking, a lot of nudes are from sex workers promoting their businesses. Snapchat, instagram, twitch, twitter, and few other social media outlets that women who do sex work have accounts on. Often distributing nudes is a way to get interested buyers in an escort, cam girl, prodomme, or live show business. I'm not talking about 100% of the time, I'm talking about a large amount of it though. A lot of the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 01:19 AM
1	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex Few women were even allowed in universities at that point, and many of the women who went saw it as an opportunity to find a husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 01:09 AM
1	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex Not promote, create. Promotion exists too, but often those movements are created by archetypes and profit driven decision making.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 12:58 AM
1	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex Because as I mentioned, the textbook talks about creating ideologies and social movements. Believe what you want, but don't change what was said to double down on your beliefs. It's sad that a marketer tells you how marketing works and you still won't listen lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 12:45 AM
1	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex I put sources in both posts. Go read my textbook.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 12:23 AM
1	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex A lot of those women online posting nudes have sex work business though. Most IG these days is businesses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 12:22 AM
2	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex You are free to believe in any ideology you want. Just make sure you buy the t-shirts and hats so we know what group you're in...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/20 12:19 AM
1	Do you ask your husband for permission? I am learning to ask his permission. I've found that knowing who he is, he wouldn't deny me happiness, but he doesn't feel included and isn't able to lead us if he isn't asked. Maybe have a conversation on your fear of rejection in that area. What happens if you want something, or think there's a future possibility he doesn't see. Find a plan to resolve those issues before they happen, and you won't feel trapped when asking for permission. EDIT: with what I said, me spending time with friends an…	/r/RedPillWives	16/05/20 12:09 AM
1	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex The change occurred when men stopped getting married so they could continue to play the field, and the economy pushed women to help financially support their families. Employment and salaries were on the rise, cities were growing, and men felt they had more time to get married. Adultery also was on the rise, so being married was not guarantee of a secure family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 11:58 PM
2	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex Marketers create labels that then become a warm market for consumerism. All you have to do is watch a documentary on family based marketing in the 50's and 60's. The concept of a nuclear family looked better for the art. A slender wife, working husband, and two kids suggested that they were not a new family so their relationship was cemented, and they had the free cash flow to buy products. Most families didn't look that way though. A lot of families had a mix of family members, and only wealthy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 11:44 PM
1	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex The problem though is both sexes are perpetuating it. Men ask for nudes and dump women who won't have sex with them. There can't be a steady quantity supplied with no buyer. Quantity demanded would go down, and thus the quantity supplied would go down. That's just basic economics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 11:05 PM
8	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex It all started from marketers actually. The Mad Men of the 60's sold the idea of a nuclear family, which didn't really exist, and when the environment shifted started to sell "the modern woman" who didn't need men, to get women to buy coke products. Most of what people assume is their belief system was originally created by marketers to sell products. (I'm a marketer and studied Aaker's Brand Personality models along with Evolutionary Motivation)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 11:01 PM
1	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex Yep and they're selling products to both sides. Be sure to buy your ideology T-shirts at the next rally...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 10:52 PM
0	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex And again, (1) we don't always know who's in the room, (2) kids are being taught at a young age that this is normal (3) men and women are damaged due to this media driven lie	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 09:57 PM
3	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex And a lot of the amateurs are trafficked women and children. There are also instances where they are tricked into assuming they are doing commercial modeling and then sold into sex slavery. It's hard to argue that consent was given 100% when she's a frail 18 year old and there are 5 grown men in the room including one guarding the door. I have watched interviews where they said they weren't allowed to leave the room unless they performed the sex acts they were told to do. That's why a lot of "po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 09:54 PM
3	Women, not men, are responsible for the proliferation of pornography and casual sex You do realize that a lot of porn is made with trafficking victims right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 09:46 PM
3	Is marrige worth it? I read recently that God due to the trinity is a team. In the beginning there would be light and conversation, because God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit created everything. So that in mind, your point connects with the "Let us make mankind in our image..." Gen 1:26 NIV. Having someone to bounce ideas off of who is different from us, but connected to us, helps us grow.	/r/RPChristians	15/05/20 09:22 PM
3	Is marrige worth it? Well I'm glad you're still with us, and I'm glad you found God. I hope that he heals a lot of that pain.	/r/RPChristians	15/05/20 09:15 PM
1	Is marrige worth it? If you own property together it's still seen as joint in most states unfortunately. My ex threatened to take me to court several times so he could claim things I bought with my money while we were together.	/r/RPChristians	15/05/20 09:12 PM
1	Is marrige worth it? In my experience and walk with God I've learned that marriage teaches you how to love, and puts sin under a magnifying glass. Paul and Jesus were already filled with God's love. Jesus is God's son, and Paul was taught directly. So marriage was not a route they chose. They wanted to teach God's love to the nations. Marriage is not required to know God or complete your mission. But it does help one identify the limitations of their heart and heal them.	/r/RPChristians	15/05/20 09:05 PM
-2	Should we guys listen to our mommas? Aren't there certain elements of chivalry that are Christ like behavior? Treating others well I would think fits into treating your neighbor well. I would just do it for God though. Don't do it to impress the woman or gain anything.	/r/RPChristians	14/05/20 06:53 PM
10	Can we talk about Suzanne Venker? This article hits so hard! I had to overcome a lot of those patterns and learn to be vulnerable. My dad wanted boys and though he had all girls taught us not to cry and pushed sports on us. He also wasn't emotionally available due to his own issues and the stress of his job. And I was constantly responsible for my little sister. I had to feed her and take care of her like she was my own. He also told me that my opinions and thoughts never mattered. Said I didn't know anything, and insisted men w…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/20 01:16 AM
2	How many women actually want an old fashioned man? Past tense. I used to earn more than him and had a titled job. He was still in college. And then he wound up earning more than me and helping me through grad school. Now we own a business together, but he still pulls in more clients than me. So my point was, I wasn't after his money. He was just a college Senior and I was meeting industry leaders. He respected my job and wasn't controlling. That was more important to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 05:20 PM
3	How many women actually want an old fashioned man? The kind of guy you're describing is my husband. He was president of Comic Book Club at his college. We met at a Denny's board game night. He started a conversation with me over a tabletop RPG book called Victoriana. We flirted, and he got my number and asked me out. We've had our ups and downs, but deeply love each other and have been together for almost 7 years. He literally gave me his last $10 once. He's always been a good provider, and helped me get through grad school. Now we own a busines…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 02:01 AM
11	Discovered an inappropriate relationship Your boundaries completely make sense. No one should be seeking emotional intimacy from someone who isn't their spouse.	/r/RPChristians	08/05/20 06:27 PM
2	Is The Surrendered Wife the same as The Empowered Wife? Is there a RedPillChristianWives subreddit? Finding Christianity is what woke me up to red pill ideas. Understanding the philosophy behind submission from a non-manipulative source was important to me.	/r/RedPillWives	06/05/20 05:13 AM
1	Apparently now if you are just in a good mood, you're toxic. I will check him out. Thanks for the tip!	/r/RPChristians	01/05/20 02:40 AM
5	Apparently now if you are just in a good mood, you're toxic. I completely agree with this. My family is thriving also. My husband and I have been growing our online business. We bought a spin bike and have been working out at home with the bike and dumbbells. We have a sous vide we got for Christmas and have been making gourmet keto meals. We watch history and philosophy, as well as sermons and discuss them often. I'm learning new skills and reading etc.	/r/RPChristians	01/05/20 12:57 AM
3	How do I adjust my dating strategy when I make six figures? If you're Christian, the main thing in common you should have is a Christ centered lifestyle. Does he go to church? Does he read the Bible on his own? Does he want kids? How does he want to lead his family? What's his relationship with his parents? Does he workout and eat healthy? How does he view a wife as a bread winner? And a question for you. Would you date/marry a carpenter?* Or do you respect him less if he doesn't make as much as you? These things end up defining a marriage. Ending a conv…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/20 02:27 PM
7	I’m 20 and I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m terrified that no one will want to be with me after I turn 25 I didn't meet my husband until I was 28. I also look young for my age. I'm about to turn 35 now. You've got plenty of time. Join some small groups and focus on meeting friends. I wound up meeting him a year into going to several events, and we met at a Denny's board game night. It was his first time going and Id been going regularly for six months. Small groups are where you meet friends. My mom taught me that, and it's always been true. Find hobbies that you're interested in and look for small …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/20 02:10 PM
9	No / Bad Sex - Always His Fault? I agree with this. OP's wife's issues with foreplay are definitely part of the problem. Female bodies don't get ready on the drop of a hat. She has some incorrect perspectives and expectations of sex. Seeing a Christian therapist to help work through some of these beliefs she has may help.	/r/RPChristians	28/04/20 10:50 PM
6	Unattractive men are not empathetic towards unattractive women They usually don't. Isn't that the main redpill problem? Women don't have lower libidos usually. That's a stereotype. Often bad sexual experiences and lack of emotional intimacy make women less interested in sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/20 04:12 AM
2	Dating a girl with lots of past baggage The people in this group are not conventional thinkers. But I'll pray for you, and I hope it works out.	/r/RPChristians	18/04/20 05:55 AM
1	Dating a girl with lots of past baggage Based on what you're saying you assume that wisdom is conventional thinking. Worldly thinking isn't wise. I'm talking about wisdom through faith in God. Spending the money may not be seen by others as a "smart" investment, but through God you knew it was wise. As with the graduate school example. Wisdom is from God. Your concerns in the OP tells that wisdom may already be giving you a warning. "Wisdom calls aloud† in the street, she raises her voice in the public squares; 21at the head of the no…	/r/RPChristians	18/04/20 05:45 AM
1	Dating a girl with lots of past baggage You said something that concerns me. Faith never trumps wisdom. It's through faith that we find wisdom. You may be conflating messages incorrectly. Make sure that you're not making this girl an idol of sorts.	/r/RPChristians	17/04/20 06:47 PM