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in my opinion. gender roles its why society rewards men who embrace traditional masculinity and women who embrace traditional femininity flip the question and ask why men in history wanted to 'protect' women because they are rewarded for it because how they were raised and what society values. women who are seen trying to fix men are lauded by society for 'teaching him manners'. same way a man would be lauded by society for going to war, 'he's a hero'
/r/seduction06/03/25 02:40 PM
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bold of you to assume there already isnt AI profiles already
/r/seduction02/03/25 07:23 PM
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when 77% of Gen Z women respond to a gallup poll (i think it was gallup), saying they want men to approach them, then pretty much yes dating apps are falling hard and there is a budding societal backlash against the 2016-era backlash of cold appraoch
/r/seduction02/03/25 07:22 PM
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From what ive gathered, dating apps are dying out as of recent. It seems like they were a fad in the 2015-2020 era And now we're reverting to pre-dating app standards, whatever they were
/r/seduction02/03/25 05:56 PM
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so you do have to 'chase', if you do nothing then nothing will result in it. the way i see it, you should always be putting the ball in her court escalate and see how she responds but if she doesn't then that's her loss. but you must do those escalation pushes because what will make her lose interest is if you throw the ball in her court, then go over, take the ball again, and try to dunk it for her. give her the ball and challenger her too come to you if that basketball allegory makes sense?
/r/seduction01/03/25 07:41 PM
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Be the active participant in small scale kino. Like say your taking to her and you make a joke, hold her shoulder to steady yourself as you laugh. Baby steps to build up that confidence I dont know how stretching would help but you must be more active
/r/seduction28/02/25 09:36 PM
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Maybe. I'd send a message with a specific date/time and place for a reschedule and if she shoots that down or doesnt give an alternative, move on. Thats my 2 cents
/r/seduction28/02/25 09:31 PM
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Did she offer to reschedule? If not, she could just have lost interest for whatever reason. Move onto the next
/r/seduction28/02/25 09:06 PM
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I've visited and from my experiences its mostly men With a lot of industries and its politics leaning toward men, coupled influencers hyping up Miami, its not surprising to me
/r/seduction28/02/25 08:56 PM
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in my opinion, approaching a girl with other people in the vicinity. people are nosey and watch, feels awkward to do so when five people are staring you down
/r/seduction28/02/25 05:55 AM
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then why don't you go for the girls your age?
/r/seduction28/02/25 05:54 AM
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i think your putting too much focus on politics, it will rarely come into play when doing pick up and if it does, you've done something wrom i will say, there is an undercurrent of conservative traditonalism that is prevalent in my red state. it is not compatible with pick up or seduction in my view. id prefer the liberals. demographic wise, better to be a man in a big liberal city like New York than the sausage fest of Miami
/r/seduction28/02/25 05:50 AM
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You have to throw the ball in her court, if she responds then escalate. If she doesnt then well, "If she wanted to, she would."
/r/seduction27/02/25 09:34 PM
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the like minded is so imporant. going out with a group of guys to just drink or have fun means your focusing on that, not meeting women
/r/seduction27/02/25 09:32 PM
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Going out Solo honestly is the play. Or as you said with a really good wingman, but you have to make sure not to rely on them
/r/seduction27/02/25 09:32 PM
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honestly the only thing alcohol ever did was empty my wallet or have me babysit drunk friends, never helped with game
/r/seduction26/02/25 06:17 PM
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im not going to hookup or date someone I dont consider attractive. ask women and 99% of them will say the same. are women all incels by this logic?
/r/seduction26/02/25 06:12 PM
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Honestly to me, the play is to move to NYC. Even beyond game
/r/seduction21/02/25 03:47 PM
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I mean I can see what he means by these. Like ex: Ambiguity means you are spontaneous and mysterious, women like a mysterious sort of man. But on a much tamer level than what we all think 'mysterious' is
/r/seduction21/02/25 03:00 PM
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i need to move in nyc, not just for that but i heard its a fun city. you new yorkers have it good
/r/seduction21/02/25 05:58 AM
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i need this framed, listen to this OP
/r/seduction21/02/25 05:57 AM
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i saw speed dating became a big thing again. if your in a city, try those with the intention to just flirt. its already expected and a controlled environment but seems like a decent trial run. never done it myself but had a friend do it and he said it was an interesting experience
/r/seduction19/02/25 10:03 PM
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There are many very pretty women of good character who aren't taken and actively looking to hookup and/or get into relationships. Go for them my man
/r/seduction19/02/25 10:02 PM
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Im curious, how long between you starting talking with her and getting her gram did you talk with her for? And I assume you two were alone or were there others? Trying to learn as much from this field report as possible
/r/seduction19/02/25 05:09 AM
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Im in the South in a fairly big city
/r/seduction19/02/25 04:24 AM
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Id suggest not to Ethically for me I don't go for taken women. But if thats not an issue for you, then just know there there is no rational thought in a man's mind when he finds another man in bed with his wife
/r/seduction19/02/25 04:08 AM
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There are conservative women in big cities and liberal women in small towns. Id rather the big city simply because of gender ratio advantage I am in a big city right now, all types of women and to be honest, the amount of women my age (20s) compared to men was unthinkable to me coming from a small town
/r/seduction19/02/25 04:04 AM
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but what if your city has no barnes and nobles...
/r/seduction19/02/25 01:31 AM
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As a girl, your really more of the gatekeeper of dating so its really less of a case of 'How do I date' and more of 'How do I choose the best guy'. But thats besides what you want, you want to learn how to flirt: Research what the 'Push and Pull' method is. Guys do it alot but whenever women approached me, they'd tease me doing this. Its a good way to flirt and very learnable. Also, just hail mary ask a guy for drinks if you want to lock down a date. If your attractive, most men won't reject bei…
/r/seduction19/02/25 12:54 AM
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In my opinion, if you're trying to pull, you have to go out with the intent to pull. Unless your a 'natural' as they are called, though I'm not sure 'naturals' do it without thinking about pulling. There must be some sort of sexual tension/flirty vibes that makes it obvious to the girl what you're going for, that man to woman connection. As for having fun, go out with your boys to have fun but just pick your intent that night. Of course this is what works for me so take it with a grain of salt
/r/seduction19/02/25 12:51 AM
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have you been out in the field? sarging? to get experience, you have to put yourself out there. ex. I started game and decided, fuck it, trial by fire and hit up a club opening 9 sets. I crashed and burned most of them, but it eased me in. (I have a field report on it on my profile)
/r/seduction18/02/25 05:19 PM
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I think its the frame you start yourself off with. She's generally not thinking 'I am stronger than this guy, he should beg to be in my presence'. She's probably thinking 'Why is this guy so skittish around me?'. And heck, she also isnt thinking about 'I could have ten guys the next day', she may be thinking 'I want *the* guy that will sweep me off my feet' This is where i think inner game would be helpful. You shouldn't be thinking 'Why should she be with me?', you should adopt that abundance m…
/r/seduction18/02/25 04:27 PM
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I've heard dating apps tend to not have the best quality of people in terms of dating/romance/friends even. That the women you want to meet are in person. Does this ring true in your opinion?
/r/seduction18/02/25 04:18 PM
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If your international and a different race, you're already the odd one out so women will take notice. Capitalize on that, increase your game and of course clean up as best you can. Whether or not your friends are conventionally attractive does not matter, might even help you get interest in your group. Like the other commentator, you have to improve your social skills. Group dynamics tend to set fast, be the sledgehammer that disrupts and let the pieces fall where they may in my view
/r/seduction18/02/25 03:20 PM
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Dating apps appear to be on the decline if not dead by this year. For many reasons from what I've heard. I'd suggest if you really want to do dating apps, maximize all aspects on them. Go to a professional photographer to get dating app photos, ask people who aren't your friends but casual acquaintances that you can shoot the shit with for help. (Your friends will think its solid because they already like you) Maybe pay for the subscription (I still wouldn't recommend) if you really want to go t…
/r/seduction18/02/25 03:59 AM
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Mostly agree up until standing her up Why stand her up if you could maybe pull her that night? I can see this work if you cancel the day beforehand I guess? Or the morning of, but last minute seems too much
/r/seduction18/02/25 02:37 AM
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yeah she's into you. i think she's giving you opportunities to flirt back with that, take them and good luck
/r/seduction18/02/25 02:16 AM
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yeah, this right here OP. Saw that you asked her out two times already, she just wants attention
/r/seduction18/02/25 02:14 AM
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It's easy to say 'stop caring', but for some guys you have to build up to it. Better than just staying at home, we're all on our own journeys my man
/r/seduction17/02/25 05:42 PM
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Practice as in going up to girls and chatting them up with romantic intent, and eventually becoming confident enough where its not at the top of your mind and it just naturally happens I mean
/r/seduction17/02/25 05:32 PM
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This video has cured my approach anxiety, THESE are the guys I'm competing with? Bro
/r/seduction17/02/25 05:22 PM
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Ideally with enough practice this is what it turns into, approaching girls for fun. I hope to become that as well
/r/seduction17/02/25 05:18 PM
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I warm up by talking to a few dudes at a bar or club, then I start going for it. Some dudes see me approaching girls and they sort of pat me on the back for doing it, builds momentum for me. Or if you dont want to do that, do some warm up platonic sets like talking with the bartender or bouncer
/r/seduction17/02/25 05:16 PM
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It does happen, probably a littlemore than we think. But honestly dude its just easier with less headache going with romantic intent first. Don't be friends with a girl just to get in her pants, be upfront and shoot your shot
/r/seduction17/02/25 10:31 AM
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Hey man, starting out as well. What worked for me, and i posted it as a field report, was a straight trial by fire of approaches. Go to a club, dont drink, and approach a woman about something she's wearing. You'll get comfortable talking to her and you keep that momentum going to other women After that, well I only got that far in my journey haha
/r/seduction17/02/25 04:38 AM
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These are good. Also like your work man, reading through your posts like mad right now haha But wouldn't the question "Are you {Indonesian}" be off putting? It deals with race and might raise a brow which kills vibes
/r/seduction17/02/25 04:32 AM
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Anything really. Whats worked for me even before I started game: If she's holding a drink: "Whats that drink?" If she's not holding a drink: "Those are cool earrings!" If she doesn't have cool earrings: "Do you know what song this is?" Just find an excuse to get into a conversation with her and go from there
/r/seduction17/02/25 04:31 AM
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You have to break into the groups. Make friends with the guys, make your way to the women. Also sometimes you get into slumps, it happens. Keep sarging
/r/seduction17/02/25 02:09 AM
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Go for it, audaces fortuna iuvat
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:57 PM
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Friendliness or wanting attention
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:56 PM
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She then told me she was emotionally chaotic Run dude. But also, if she was into you, none of this would stop her, she let you down slowly in my opinion (Take with a grain of salt of course)
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:38 PM
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They'll give you a shot, mostly because of the boldness. If you can grab there interest from there, you can pull and the height thing goes away It will be more difficult the shorter you are
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:36 PM
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Women are people, ask them what they do in their free time and build rapport. But be sure not to simp
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:59 PM
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As an average dude? Yes absolutely. There are objectively attractive women that we consider models but if you dont treat them as such and not pedestalize them, you find they're just average like you, models are still people. I can only speak from anecdotal experience so of course take my advice with a grain of salt, but on the internet I've always heard of leagues and the such but in person the amount of very attractive women with fairly ok-looking guys is too much for me to ignore and not have …
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:56 PM
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Pre-selection
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:54 AM
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If you have no interest, she will sense it. But also if your not satisfied with this, go for someone else who will satisfy you. Start that sarge
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:52 AM
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Fair points on the social group part Though on the blackpiller thing, I give a slight disagree here: Looks do matter but for an initial impression, beyond the approach it's sole game. There is just a certain threshold of non-unattractiveness you have to pass As for leagues, I can't disagree more unless some guy has a genuine physical deformity. A drop dead gorgeous women isn't thinking 'Why is this 4/10 guy talking to me, I'm a 9-10/10'. In my experience so take it with a grain of salt, even bef…
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:48 AM
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I think this advice rings true if he's going around to every woman in the group, but if he fires it off once and crashes then it won't be too terrible. He can build interest also, leagues aren't really real
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:04 AM
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it does sound too good to be true, be wary
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:57 AM
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I'm surprised there isnt many field reports in this subreddit. Just joined but i thought it'd be like dozens of them a day
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:54 AM
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best advice here, puts them on the spot, makes them think about it for a good moment man to woman, and could start something however maybe it'd need to be more, serious/direct? its a hail mary either way since it is the friendzone
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:52 AM
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this is great advice. you could be at a coffee shop and a stunner walks in, if you arent ready thats a chance you've lost
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:46 AM
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And yet in a year or two this will all be behind you, keep going my man
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:37 AM
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I heard the ratio is in men's favor by alot so i don't think that's the cause for OP. Something is going wrong if its after every 3rd date, maybe the latest he gets he should hyper analyze to figure it out
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:36 AM
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Probably yeah, but its good you've realized this and is an opportunity to self-correct. Will help in the long run
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:33 AM
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