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| – | Why specifically would you dislike the blackpill going mainstream? It's getting more popular.You. Sorry bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 10:41 PM |
| – | Why specifically would you dislike the blackpill going mainstream? It's getting more popular.Women aren’t denying shit. They’re denying that ONLY looks matter, you fucking dork. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 10:40 PM |
| – | Why specifically would you dislike the blackpill going mainstream? It's getting more popular.Legitimately some of the cringiest shit I’ve ever read on here. Well done, bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenYeah, I figured you were around that age. I had a hard time around ages 26-28 yo myself. And trust me — MANY people do. That’s why I’m saying, honestly, don’t take this all too seriously and enjoy the ride. What comes, will come. Work on yourself, keep working the apps (within reason), and be social when you can. If you have friends, do cool shit with them. Trust me — if you’re settled down in 5 years, you WILL miss these times even if they’re generally shittier than what comes later. I never ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenWell, some of us have different perspectives on what makes a “good friend”. It’s not that deep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenNope. I’m being completely serious. I’m 34 years old. How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenAight, dog lol. I really don’t think this is a big deal and I’m sure you’ll have a relationship sooner than later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenAnd what happens if we’ve had this conversation several times? Just endless validation, or perhaps some alternative perspective for someone in their 20s, for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenSure, and then what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenCorrect, I did say that. Because if you find yourself frequently lamenting not having a girlfriend, others might point out that there is more to life life than having a girlfriend. Which there is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenNever said that. The point is that there is more to life than having a girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenOr it’s both. Some people have “perspective”. It’s not that deep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenI know it’s a metaphor and I reject that metaphor. That’s my point. If I knew you in real life, perhaps we could have a longer conversation about this. Moving forward, I suggest you think of your lack of girlfriend as less of a problem than it is. Think of it more as an aspirational goal to move towards than a problem to defeat. Dating should be fun, with some work. It’s a mix of self-discovery, actualization, knowing how to find the right person and how the right person can find you, and also a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenI can assure you that your lack of girlfriend is not a “beast” or “dragon” to be slayed in your life. This is a mindset problem. Haven’t you considered that you’re single likely for a variety of reasons and that it’s perfectly normal and understandable why this is the case? Women aren’t a beast to be slayed, nor a problem to be defeated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenI’m very doubtful these people are telling you 1) relationships are of “no consequence”; 2) to not seek one. I highly suspect they are trying to give you perspective on relationships and how there is also more to life than being in one. Finally, I suspect that they notice your fixation on not having a relationship, recognize that this is counterproductive, and hope you stop fixating on the problem so that it can be addressed in more productive, grounded ways that may yield success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenSure. Right before I met my now fiance, I reached peak life single (for me) — I was finally living in the city I wanted to be in and reached a level of career and financial success that was satisfactory, as well as achieved certain travel goals and experiences with friends over the years. I wanted a girlfriend but was overall pretty thrilled and content with my life and enjoyed living alone. Relatedly, if others in your life are constantly downplaying the greatness of relationships, it’s possibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenWell, why do you think they are downplaying it to you? Perhaps some self reflection is in order. I love my fiance and my life absolutely is superior with her in, and there is no question about that. But you know what? At age 30, **right before** I met her and after being single for my entire life, **I also peaked then**, living alone and enjoying things on my own. That should give you a clue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 05:23 PM |
| – | Having female friends is absolutely a positive in datingOK? What are you confused about? Being friends with women is good (assuming you value friendships) and doing so sharpens social skills with women. It is undeniable dating advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:48 PM |
| – | Having female friends is absolutely a positive in datingYes, and being friends with women is a good thing so sounds like a win-win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:36 PM |
| – | Having female friends is absolutely a positive in datingIt will absolutely make a difference dating. Knowing how to talk and socialize and be enjoyable around women is step one for dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:23 PM |
| 9 | Question for blue pill: how come it's not considered "rape culture" when people complain that manosphere people have "issues" because they can't get laid?It’s absolutely a part of “rape culture.” The term is fine to me and this topic is a perfect example of why it exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 04:27 PM |
| 1 | If you haven’t dated in the last 10-15 yrs you shouldn’t be giving dating adviceOh, so there’s no catching fish after all, then. It’s hot or not. Every single dude is just unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 09:41 PM |
| 8 | If you haven’t dated in the last 10-15 yrs you shouldn’t be giving dating adviceWhy would people who can’t catch fish lecture me about how to catch fish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 01:32 PM |
| 7 | Men and Women Often Fear Opposite Forms of RejectionI don’t understand these scenarios where **grown fucking men** are forced into being “dependable, comforting, and ‘such a good guy’” to women who aren’t their girlfriend. I was single my entire life until age 30. I was never in this situation and I was never a chad lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 01:13 PM |
| 8 | If you haven’t dated in the last 10-15 yrs you shouldn’t be giving dating adviceShould all the unsuccessful boys on this forum be lecturing everyone on what women “actually” want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 01:03 PM |
| 0 | You are not entitled to a relationshipYeah, in a sub dedicated to debating petty male grievances, why would I bring up the national consequences of bunch men with petty male grievances throwing a tantrum and electing a retarded pedophile? A majority of men in this country cited male grievances as a significant reason as to why they elected the retarded pedophile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 01:15 PM |
| 1 | You are not entitled to a relationshipOK, you, a majority of men due to cited “male issues”, and “almost” half of women all collectively elected that retarded pedophile — better now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:58 PM |
| 1 | You are not entitled to a relationshipWell, it was widely cited as a reason that Trump won, right? A bunch of dudes were polled and said that Democrats didn’t represent “men’s” interests, so they elected a retarded pedophile. If you want, we can discuss why a bunch of women helped elect a retarded pedophile too. Don’t want to be sexist lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:54 PM |
| -1 | You are not entitled to a relationship“Almost” half the women and you, right OP? Sexist lol. Sounds woke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:37 PM |
| 4 | You are not entitled to a relationshipReally? Cool opinion. From my point of view, a bunch of lonely bitter men elected Donald Trump, a retarded pedophile, for a second time in 2024 because of their entitlement and pathetic “grievances”. That’s just my “opinion” though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:29 PM |
| 14 | You are not entitled to a relationshipHaha, nah OP — you def had an axe to grind. “on both sides”, my ass. Men absolutely do act entitled about both sex and relationships, btw. Hence this sub. And that entitlement can be sniffed out miles away, drying up pussy instantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 12:22 PM |
| 0 | Nice guys should accept being aloneRight, and people do different things… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:33 PM |
| -1 | Nice guys should accept being aloneLuckily, you’re not dating “the other gender”. You’re actually dating “an individual woman”. Based on actual experience, they can vary in what they actually want. Best to proceed with the life you want and find a partner who wants to share that life with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:17 PM |
| 6 | I don’t agree with any of the pills but blue pill advice is far worse than red pillIf you have to “choose” to be less invested, I got news for you, kid — you’re already too invested. You talk stoicism and the like and have no understanding of what these concepts actually are in practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 07:00 PM |
| – | I don’t agree with any of the pills but blue pill advice is far worse than red pillWhat would you know about unhappy relationships? You sound like someone who is 24 that’s never had a GF, tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 06:53 PM |
| -1 | I don’t agree with any of the pills but blue pill advice is far worse than red pillITT: most likely an inexperienced young male ranting about “blue pill advice” to men who actually have multi year relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 06:08 PM |
| – | "The common denominator is you." No. There are multiple common denominators like being a man trying to date a woman in modern times.I’m not reading all that. If you wrote all that, then indeed I would assume the common denominator is in fact you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 04:34 PM |
| 9 | It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first dateAs a kind gesture — trivial amount of money, and I picked the place. It also removes uncertainty at the end, makes a good impression, ect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 03:31 PM |
| 8 | It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first dateThere was no burden. I didn’t have to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 03:27 PM |
| 13 | It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first dateFight against what? If you don’t want to, don’t do it. Of course, I myself did pay — I also picked out where we went (drinks, not dinner). The date was a trivial amount of money. If you’re bothered by such trivialities, perhaps you have bigger problems. I’m about to get married after four years. How’s your approach working? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 03:13 PM |
| – | From here on, the only occasion men should be giving women money is when they're availing of a hooker's service.It really is hilarious seeing inexperienced, unsuccessful men lecture experienced, successful men on relationships with women on this forum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 01:53 PM |
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