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| 2 | My storyGood things are coming bro. Universe has always been fair. It removed an element that is detrimental to you. You are going to be alright. A second chance to start a new life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/26 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else experienced this sudden 180 from breadcrumbing to intense sex + emotional whiplash?Don't put your dick in crazy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 01:06 PM |
| 1 | 17 yrs Married 24.5 TogetherWith these circumstances, how do we as a father heal or build our children? I try to be available as much as I can. It's not their fault. I feel that I owe them for their predicament. No one want to be in a broken family. But, they sympathise with our situation. I don't want them to blame their mother and live with trauma. I did not go thru that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/25 12:08 AM |
| 5 | 17 yrs Married 24.5 Togetheri kept telling myself, to enjoy every moment because good thing will not last, based on her current pattern and trend. Be reserved, emotionally and financially. If the time comes, so be it. We are good men. Maybe the Devil want to test us, to see if we fall into oblivion. If we rise up again, God will reward us better than what we desired. I have faith in this. Pray for wisdom, the lesson will be harsh. Again, nothing good comes to those who wasted a good person. Not that she don't realized it. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/25 02:49 AM |
| 5 | Hello brothers - I think I am lonelyIt's normal bro. Just hang on there. It will go away after a while. Just sleep on it. Go for fun date to challenge status quo but don't go overboard. Your are the prized. The alpha. You got this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Feels like day 1 again…Take it a day a time. Years from now, you are going to think how silly this whole fiasco. Listen to me bud, you have potential, she has potential. Everyone has it. Chase for it. Move on from this crappy moment. Start small like rearrange your new house. Get rid of excess and go for minimalist. Trust me bud. You will see what is important and valuable in front of you. Of course, it is has always been you the center of your universe. Be well. Be grateful. Be happy that you still see another day to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/25 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Divorced and moving on... stuck between guilt and grief.You will be OK bro. Just try to move on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/25 09:44 AM |
| 8 | Two Years Later.Another 3 years and you will be fine. Let it burn and grief. Not all of us are the same. You are a tough nut to crack. Eventually, you will be grateful that you dodge a bullet. Life is good. Being alive is great. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/25 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Why did you get married in the first place?Church not the fault. The congregration who always take women side of the story. Women are abuser too nowadays. But Men are force to accept defeat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/25 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Why did you get married in the first place?Feminism at its peak. Not respecting the order of nature. Men should hunt for food. While women nurture the children. It's all going downhill with WOKE culture. Love and relationship are taken for granted. Men build houses just for women to tear it down. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/25 03:21 AM |
| 3 | She played me goodIt's all part of learning bro. As long as you don't lose more money on her. It is an emotional jungle out there. It will turn you into a cold hearted beast. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/25 01:10 AM |
| 2 | For those who *didn’t* choose this…sorry to hear that bro. i want to stop wondering why.. why why why.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Resentment and how the narrative solidifiesrelief to hear that. seriously turning into a monk in my marriage. zero or half hearted intimacy for more than 5 years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/25 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Resentment and how the narrative solidifiesyou're getting BJ? let me cry at the corner of my bathroom, while the tiny violin wept. like a captain, sinking with his ship. Its has been hell of a ride boys. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 11:58 PM |
| 7 | Resentment and how the narrative solidifiesExacto mundo. You can spend a million, still it's never enough. But a low level guy greets her every morning, becomes someone that can be relied on and trusted, for her to give affection and grateful. She yearns the street so much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Not good enough to WANT to stay, not bad enough to NEED to leave...I am like you too. But I love her so much that it hurts so bad to be treated like a garbage. I don't want to jump into seperation because it will be bad for both of us mentally and emotionally. Best for you to arrange and structures responsibiltiy, from parenting and budget. It has to be 50/50. I think a lot about the kids. In my case, my wife wants to break it off. She has checked out long time ago. I thank her for giving me the opportunity to assess and prepare for emotional wreckage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 11:07 PM |
| 5 | You might not be as appreciated as you think you are by your kidsI am very close with my 2 daughters and son. I always emphasized team work. If their parent is separated, but the 3 of them must stick together. And i want to be in their team. When my wife ditched us, to be with her friends, our bond grew stronger. We spent our time talking about our interests, about our friend, about our day. Can't wait to see them grow up to be a kind and honest people. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/25 12:07 AM |
| 1 | She made a post on Facebook about her Narcissistic abusive husband.sorry cat. just like all kids from divorce parent, you are innocent. i hope the cat get over the traumatized incident. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/25 07:49 AM |
| 6 | She made a post on Facebook about her Narcissistic abusive husband.Narcissist, toxic, abusiveand all sort of terms these modern women coined nowadays. Worst, they band together and start podcast, reels, tiktok, socmed. Delusional bunch of beaches. One thing for sure, none of them take any accountability for their selfish decision. I seriously hope, player pump their cooch, dump them, and dies with their cats. Don't be bother by them bro. Video her every time she plays victim, play it back to her face. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/25 07:27 AM |
| 9 | Nobody knows the pain of divorceMen must support men. I know your pain. And it's OK to let it out. You have my support. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/25 02:35 PM |
| 7 | Should I tell my ex-wife’s family the truth about why we separated?Demm it bro, you still wanna be the nice guy after all she's done? Burn the bridge and show the world who's she really is. You deserve all the good karma in life. What a beech. Send her to the street. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/25 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Just another daythat is really suck bro. you need to be away often. nothing can cure that kinda of stress. we are here to support you. Buckle up, chin up. Lift that weight. Pray and be hopeful everyday. No men can be really prepared for this. Especially when we invested so much. Please work on yourself. You are important now. Be thankful for every breath you take. You still have the opportunity to be great again. Forget about her. She may be winning now, but we men are in the long game. Women like that will eve… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/25 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Are these enough reasons to divorce my wife?Yes you can. Do not let her affecting your emotions. Take it or leave. Cut everything off. Including her family. They will not be there for you when she plays victim. It's between you n her now. Great if she leaves. She should not be here in the first place. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Are these enough reasons to divorce my wife?I agree with this. Have boundaries. I would treat her like a queen if she respected me as the King. But these behaviours, need to be put on a leash. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/25 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Are these enough reasons to divorce my wife?Are you talking about my wife? After absent for 2 Christmas in a row, that's it. I am cutting off her family. No more holidays with her side again. Cutting off my money to her. Enjoy it as I earned it. And now, she goes crazy baloney. Well, enjoy the mirror girl. I am pretty OK if she wanna leaves. The house belongs to me. Kids are all grown up. And I am living my life to the fullest. Don't take harsh action bro. Just play dumb and enjoy your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/25 11:57 PM |
| 5 | Ex wife introducing boyfriend to kids. But thought she already did…Demm that beach. She still wanna mess with your head. What's her game anyway? Ignore her bro. Wish her well and thrive in your own life. It's great she is someone else problem now. Simp will be simping. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/25 11:28 PM |
| 3 | SpiralingSorry to hear that buddy. It is not easy. You are traumatised by this event. Gotta let her and the past go bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/25 09:55 AM |
| 1 | I loved my wife and the life we had, I’m doubtful I’ll find another woman like her.Hell yeah bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/25 11:59 PM |
| 3 | What are your 2025 goals post divorce?Achieved BMI, slightly ripped and in healthy conditions Settled debts and start living on cash deficit. Suited up and limit to 2 colors for working attire. Buy an easy rider, a knock off Harley version. Tweak and ride. Catch up with friend and family. Date, just to get to know her and set emotional boundaries. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/24 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Today I am feeling it. Frustrated AF.It will get better. 5 years. 10 years.. Who knows... Alive and breathing. Best shape of our life. And no one can take it from us. Especially her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | The little thingsMy exact goal. I am done with long term relationship. Modern problem requires modern solution. Gonna keep fit, have fun with the kids, and keep stbx out of it. She loves the street so much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/24 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Losing hope. How to rebound?I fear my stbx would do the same. For now, I grief in silence and stop hurling hurtful word to her, when arguments happened. I know she has mental issue from the way she behaves. If she wants to live, she better buckle up and stop being delulu. For a starter, be accountabled. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 12:33 AM |
| 6 | The little thingsCongrats bro. It will get better. Maintain your health, physically and mentally. We are in for the long game. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/24 04:47 PM |
| 11 | Losing hope. How to rebound?Grief. She is dead. Make best of this life. Always be hopeful. Time will heal. We are with you buddy. Blindsided. Unprepared. Unexpected. How I wish she is actually dead so that I can move on. But this is painful than mourning a dead love one. This was the death of the version of her when we tied the knot. Let's hope the universe be fair and kind to men like us. And rain misery to whom who belongs to the street. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/24 04:41 PM |
| 3 | I cannot move onI feel you brother. One day at a time. Keep the hate and grow stronger when the dust settle. We are made different. Some overcome it fast and some of us are tough nut to crack. Not only I hated her, but I hated myself for allowing and enabling all the lying, gaslighting and simping. I still hate myself for being stupid. I assume all these as an investment failure, a chance to grow and be more careful in the future. Some woman belong to the street. I hope they get railed and dumped by the Chad. L… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | So how many of you believe your ex wife is/was having a midlife crisis?Midlife crisis is OK. Not committed is not OK. We entered an agreement. She will be fired instantly if she suddenly create some drama at work. Yeah, she can change job like how she changes her life but commitment is still there to bugger her for the rest of her life. Or.. She can return to the street where she should be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the courage to leave when it's bad, but not that bad?same here. but the decision is in her hands. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/24 03:18 AM |
| 7 | A whine about datingBe thankful for that bro. You finish the trial period and it's a defective item. To the street where she belong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/24 03:09 AM |
| 6 | Wife is being treated to a vacation with another couple, sans MENo respect at all. In that case, I hope her wealthy friends take care of her in good time, bad, sickness,.. Hell, they should pay for her funeral as well. Forget her bro. Enjoy your life. Take that trip with your kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/24 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Badmouthing MeWe all been there bro. To sacrifice and to provide is seen as weak by woman's standards nowadays. Just another simp to be manipulated. They like all the drama of a bad boy persona. Pretend to be sad but actually proud to be knocked up by washout guys. I hope all these ladies return to the street, where they're belong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/24 08:59 AM |
| 8 | Separation = divorce?I did this and she got confused because her emotional outburst did not affect me. Infact, I was tired and numb over years of bickering. I asked her to leave when she smashed the plates. She left and spent a nigth at her mom's house and return another day to ask about our kids. I took her back. And then another final episode, she stone wailing for 2 weeks. Did not come back at all. I thought that's it. The marriage was failing but lo n behold, she apologised. I didn't really care if she with anot… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/24 11:12 PM |
| 6 | It’s looks like I’m being droppedSo sorry to hear this bud. Of all time, why it have to be before Christmas? Stay quiet and don't ask her back. Now it is not the time make any plan or to decide what to do next. Let the year end, and come back to this again. i have gone thru this last Christmas. We are still together but the dynamic changes. She still not spending Christmas as a family this year. It took me a year to realize that my marriage was somewhat over. That both of us don't have the potential to see each other grow old l… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/24 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Engagement ringTake it back. She doesnt deserve it. You should get back the wedding ring back as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/24 03:17 AM |
| 11 | Met the other guyYou should have wish him goodluck or give a heads up. She belongs to the street. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/24 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Anger at myself.i went thru this. Stop pleasing her. The more you please her, the more she feels that She will never be happy. Start doing things to yourself. Things that you put on hold in order please her. Things that going make u feel good and healthy, both mind and body. Get back that mojo and confidence. Dress nice, build your muscles, a great haircut. Ignore what she thinks of you. She don't deserve you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/24 08:54 AM |
| 4 | Who to talk to?You are not alone. We are here. And we are not going to judge you. We are going thru the same episode. Just another chapter. It is like an arc. This is the worst part. it is a build up for a better ending. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/24 06:36 AM |
| 8 | Another restless night almost 10 months after divorce. Longing for a woman I shouldn’t even want. Does it ever end?Hang on there buddy. Live the best you could. I am sure someone better will come along. Don't give up. This life is too precious to wallow in sadness. And stop seeing her. Replace that memory with a more memorable one. You can do it buddy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/24 10:11 AM |
| 4 | The Grief hits at weird timesi read till the end. i feel you brother. What a waste of time and effort for someone, who purposely destroys years of emotional investment. We will never get the time back. But, like you, I am looking forward what the future hold. might kick the bucket in 20 yers time. So, gonna make the best of it. You are lucky that she is responsibled for all the debts, acquired by her. i bet she's gonna pay that thru her ass. Good riddance. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/24 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Am I an asshole for saying this:Tell her that you gotta heal. Best to assume she is dead and start the grieving process. i would move on as soon as possible. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/24 07:08 AM |
| 2 | You know she’s not right, but you keep talking to her anywayPhysical attraction can be fatal. I am going to keep casual and none committed. Loneliness and yearning for intimacy is going f us up. I hope we can go beyond this. Just not our destine to grow old with a partner. At least we have kids to bury us, when the time comes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/24 11:13 PM |
| 8 | Does everyone agree this should be a dealbreaker?Entitled because you enabled it all these years. I hate these kind of woman. No empathy and appreciation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/24 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Lonely/ Desire companionship/ not sure the risk is worth itTry not to think about it. Eventually, we just gonna do what makes us happy. But to trust someone again, after your heart is shattered, going to take some time. I am surrendering myself to divine and see where it's going. God will be fair. Nice guys don't finish last. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/24 03:57 AM |
| 7 | As much as it hurts, it could end up being the best thing for youI am fighting for my life. I surrender my depression to God. May He ease my day and grant me inner peace. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/24 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Who here left due to a sexless marriage? Satisfiedizzit too late at 46? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/24 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Never Thought I Would Be Here, But Here I Am. Desperate For Advice.i am so sorry for this. please talk to someone you trust and grief it. this is not easy no matter how prepared a person is. Just remember God loves you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/24 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Moved on in 10 days after 10 years.Going thru it now. So hard to process. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/24 12:32 AM |
| 2 | I guess it's my turnWe are just unlucky bro. No matter what we do, she will never be happy. To her, we are just a dick to ride on and an atm to cash out. I hope both us will find that true happiness. Just another chapter in our life before we kick the bucket. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/24 12:16 AM |
| 9 | Who here left due to a sexless marriage? SatisfiedIt feels like cohabitating now. same situation. separate bed. Wife only come back weekend. she is working outstation. left me with 3 kids to handle over the week. i feel there is no point of marriage. i dunno man. so contemplating to let it all go. She has multiple time ask for divorce but never serve me the paper. not a Sexless marriage but pointless one. maybe got it once a month after so much simping and begging. how did i end up like this? so sad to think about it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/24 12:01 PM |
| 5 | Found out I am getting a divorcei am thinking the same brother. My wife threatens to leave and this time, its final. Just want to be positive and move forward. I am in the same position as you. 3 kids. 100% all the time with me. Potential x wife only comes on weekend. She also mentally ill. Put all the blame on me. She mismanaged her salary and couldn't pay the bill, blaming me for not providing. i pay everything, from the household to childcare. i don't spend much on myself because I am a simple person. Maybe its my fault for… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/24 07:39 AM |
| 4 | I guess it's my turni feel you brother. why does this type of woman exist? will there be any punishment from the universe for breaking up a family? i hope they die. At least I can grief of their passing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/24 01:48 AM |
| 5 | Hard mode : loneliness and celibacyI feel this way too. I am so desperate for that intimate and physical connection but i believe it should not be done carelessly. I fear God too. Screwing around is just going to mess my life further. But I don't want to marry again. Still looking for my purpose. What a lousy life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Completely stuck on the pastI have been in your shoe. But she still stays on after I beg her to stay. After countless times of threatening of divorce, I got really jaded. Maybe it was fated this way bro. Just stay put where you are now. See how far it goes but guard your heart and let it grief. It will become numb eventually, and then you are ready to let go of things that is not meant to be yours. But I promise you, that you get 10 folds happiness in the future because you did not ask for this now. I hold on to that belie… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/24 03:03 AM |
| 8 | AloneWe are all here buddy. Don't feel that way. You are not alone. You are just processing the grief. It will get by. Trust me. My wife just threatened to leave me. She manipulated me and ask me to let her go. I told her, if this what you want, then leave. All of us need to be ready. These women are just not our soulmate. They are so engrossed in looking for that elusive happiness. We are made to be their reason for unhappiness.. I did everything right as a man. So do you. You did nothing wrong. Let… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/24 02:05 PM |
| 0 | It’s been over 2 years and I still can’t seem to move onShe will never see herself wrong. I really hope God punish this type of women. Hang on there buddy. You were saved by God and it is not His plan for you to suffer with a person like that. No matter how beautiful she is or was, it will wither faster than she hold on to it. Live your life. March forward and enjoy every moment. Every breath is a blessing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | I can’t get over it.i am prepared. cutting off major financial expenditure when it comes to her need. I know it will not be appreciated in the future. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/24 06:02 AM |
| 4 | I can’t get over it.I feel you buddy. I got so depressed because my wife never cares. We are still together because I am so terrify to leave the marriage. Her, I guess she is holding on to financial support and child care. It affected me so much because deep down I still want her but she's has stop caring or bother. I am preparing myself if she decided to exit by building my confidence up. A day at a time. Any small achievement is a victory to me. I know I will be fine one day and get over it. We just have feel goo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/24 11:34 PM |
| 4 | Ex-wife’s “Rolodex of hurt”My wife still brings up the time I called her a bitch for being so irrational. She tried to remote controlled me and complains on how I manage our children. I am with the kids for months and she is somewhere 90km away for us due to her work assignment. Hell nah Im taking flake from a mother who is clearly absent to her children. I don't fucking care. She deserve it. She said she forgive but cant forget. Brought it all time during any argument. If a divorce happens because she feel entitled, wait… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/24 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Those who remarried after divorce…Sorry lady. I will never marry again. The dynamic change once there is a legal binding. It's like divorce a pretty effective tool to threaten the husband. He will lost everything that he has puts his blood n sweat. Women are empowered with that legal binding. The calamity is much worst than breaking up with a partner. I can't accept modern women point of view nowadays. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/24 09:16 AM |
| 6 | Checked her social mediaThere is always a guy who will simp to all these type of bitches. I hope he fail even worst. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/24 04:26 AM |
| 3 | My emotional rollercoasterI got these answers as well. I refuse to believe that she has someone else but this a major theme that kept on reoccurring in every story. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/24 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Things do get a lot better - if you put the work in itI am happy for you. I hope all of us here get the justice and love that we deserve. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 03:27 AM |
| 7 | What if I had just said "Sorry, I'm not getting divorced"I cannot forgive her and I will never forgive myself for degrading myself. I am not going to simp just to fuck a pussy. She is nothing but cum dumpster. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 02:46 AM |
| 4 | Deep grief has passed but….Agree to the core. I hate modern woman and to me, they just bring pussy to the table. Well, if that's all your worth bitch,I ain't gonna lay my life for that one and only. I have friends and family who lovee dearly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 01:49 AM |
| 9 | Did you regret getting divorce?Kinda regret for dragging it longer. Gaslighted everyday but I am gonna keep calm until she blow up herself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 01:46 AM |
| 12 | Deep grief has passed but….I will never be committed again. Social media has made a lot woman delulu. They have unrealistic expectations and most of them has the tendency to self destruct, along with their love one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/24 02:06 PM |
| 3 | The fallout..the shane, the guilt, the healing. At a loss for the trauma inflicted on me and my kids.Sorry to hear this bud. I feel you. Please let go of that toxic woman. The universe will see to her demise. Stay strong and fight for your well being. We are just unlucky to meet this kind of person in our lifetime. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/24 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Still strugglingTq brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/24 01:54 AM |
| 8 | My Story…a summary of 15 years. Can you relate?I am halfway thru hell right now. The resemblance of situation is uncanny. I will be more careful. Tq for sharing. Serve us men a reminder, not to love too much. Not to be a simp. Get back to our root. That men is the leader and we should not tolerate narcissist. I am heading the inevitable. I want to be prepared. My prayers goes to you bro. May God heal your heart and give you the peace that all good men deserve. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Soon to be divorce dad. Could use some honest advice. ThanksYes. My parent never divorce. I m not going to let my kids suffer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Soon to be divorce dad. Could use some honest advice. ThanksYou are a perfect husband. She was not a good wife. Hating is easy but to stop loving a person is hard. Best to grieve and assume she is dead. If you cannot ignore her, then try to avoid her. Seeing her will remind of all the pain she caused. i am as messed up as you as my wife is separated but not divorce yet. After more than 1 year, I decided to be the best version of myself and for myself. i am not going to win her anymore because the more I try to get her attention, the more she is stonewall… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/24 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Still strugglingYou are right. Separation without a proper divorce is the hardest. The endless looping of hopeful and heartbreak. i hope I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/24 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Saved marriageTq for this. I am exactly improving myself on daily basis. Excercise, meditating, journaling and eat healthy. Getting better every day. I don't need my wife assurance. She can be dead later but i already mourning her right now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/24 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Saved marriageSame situation. She said she wanted to coparent but still staying together for the sake of the kids. Once in a while we had sex even tho we still in separate bedroom. Been going on for 3 years and it made me miserable because of my emotion going up and down. Like I am stuck in an eternal misery loop. When she got transferred to other district, she holds a government job, she only comes back once a month to see the kids. I am left alone with 3 kids for weeks. I really want to file for divorce but… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/24 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Still strugglingI am crying too bro. I don't understand why this happened. I was a provider, loyal and attentive. I am just gonna cry until there is no more tears left. I want to mourn like how I did when my father died. I just want to believe that my alive wife is already dead in my heart and mind. And I don't care how long it takes. This too shall pass. And you too will stop missing her. I believe in you. Let's get thru this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/24 09:50 AM |
| 3 | Regret and Self-BlameSorry to hear that. It seem that she checked out quite a while and you did not notice it. It's very hard to control how others feel because it is beyond us. But too blame yourself for her action is not right. What she did is still wrong. I told my wife that I miss her but I never get the reciprocate feeling back. That's is when I blame myself for loving a person who doesn't love me. We have to learn how to stop missing them and eventually let a relationship dies a natural death. Mourning for liv… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/24 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Just feeling betrayed and heartbrokenshe had already expressed her intention to check out but I kept on pulling her back, as to fight for the marriage and family. I just can't move on beyond this. i will be worst if I just call it off while my heart is still hoping. like all the divorced dad stories here, I read how much they suffer, grieving for the loss of a future family. my strategy now is to find my own happiness and slowly accept that the wife I married is dead. when the time comes, I hope it won't be so hurtful to pull out t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/24 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Just feeling betrayed and heartbrokenTq brother. All I want in life is to love and grow together. Maybe God has a different plan for us. We did give all our best but nothing can tame and please these kinds of modern women. Sometimes, I just wish something bad happened to her. But she will always be my children's mother. I apologise to my children for marrying their mother. I know they sympathise with me but they are just kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/24 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Just feeling betrayed and heartbrokenI am 45, my wife is 39. 3 kids. I really want to move on but am too scared to pull the plug. Now, I just stop pleasing her and buying her gifts. She will never appreciate it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/24 11:02 AM |
| 3 | Just feeling betrayed and heartbrokenI am preparing myself to go thru what you are in right now. My wife is BPD too. She goes extreme when doing things and leaves my small family for weeks. I am grieving and trying to get thru it. I don't want to live like this and hope she will pull the trigger soon. I just can't do it myself as I still want this dead marriage. I wish the best for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/24 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Soon-to-be Ex-Wife Wasn't Honest About Our Separation with Her FamilyMine is not stbxw yet but it's impending by how she behave these couple of years. I tried to hold on but lately, I started to feel it is futile. I kinda knew the day would come and started my preparation. One of them, its not attending any of her family functions, anymore. She has stop going to my family gathering for years. But I just simp thru. Other than that, I stop spending money on her and start saving or settle my debts. I don't really want to think about it and be depressed so i just hid… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/24 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Soon-to-be Ex-Wife Wasn't Honest About Our Separation with Her FamilyThe reality of the day is that you will never be blood family. Over time, we are either outsider or merely just a biological father to their grandchildren, niece, nephew.. And the boundary becomes clear once you move on and pursuing your own happiness. I just imagine if my daughter make the same mistake, who will she turns to? Should I turn her away? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/24 11:51 PM |
| 13 | Soon-to-be Ex-Wife Wasn't Honest About Our Separation with Her FamilyJust be honest. Her family will never take your side because they have to support their daughter. We men will never understand why it will never be enough for woman and how they so willingly sacrifice their family for their own selfish happiness. Move on my brother. The earlier the better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/24 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Just something all you guys need to read.Tq brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/24 06:10 AM |
| 1 | I don't know if I can do it anymoreI feel you man. Hang on there. To be able to breathe and being healthy is already a blessing. So, take things at a time. Cherish the moment. Count that little achievement and be proud of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/24 11:33 AM |
| 4 | Happy birthday?It's good to be alive and well at 44. You have the best year ahead king. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/24 03:43 AM |
| 1 | What's it going to take to fix things?sometime i wonder if wife understand what are they doing. i would love to video record her toxic argument and play it back to her for review. simply no accountability. i blame myself for enabling it and hesitate to defend myself in order not to prolong her abusive behaviour. i would really love to leave her but i dont know if i could do it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Cheater STBXW is suddenly being nice to me 4 months after divorce filing 6 months after DDayBe strong and pray for your heart to be stubborn and forgiving to yourself only, for allowing her to manipulate your weaknesses. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/24 12:35 AM |
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