CommercialBadger303 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Taylor swift Bro, it’s shake it off, not… wait, wut? Um, I mean… Hey look, Meshuggah has Fall 2023 tour dates!	/r/Divorce_Men	17/10/23 02:31 PM
4	If you were to remarry, who would you look for? Don’t forget the cows taking shits in a field marked out with a grid of stock picks. https://www.ft.com/content/563d61dc-3b70-11ea-a01a-bae547046735	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/23 05:00 PM
27	If you were to remarry, who would you look for? Just staring into the abyss here, but let’s go with the 2/3. And the data that half of marriages end in divorce (so let’s say 75% of marriages are failures, since not all miserables go through with divorce). In that light, would it really matter the type to look for? The odds of being yet another statistical dumb fuck are high enough that picking randomly may be as useful as being intentional. We are hairless apes doing hairless ape shit, including our data-verifiable meticulous delusion coddlin…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/23 04:48 PM
1	What were things you thought wouldn't matter but eneded up being relevant in court? It’s very difficult to “learn the system” without having gone through it, because the people who know it (the lawyers) have no incentive to reveal the way it actually is.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/23 07:26 PM
2	STBXW introducing kid to affair partner, and we’re not even divorced. It’s midday on Sunday. “ranger69danger” may be in the throes of a church service withdrawal. I expect to see a return to danger tomorrow there Mr. Ranger69.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/23 06:36 PM
2	Grey rock strategies and advice needed That she feels entitled to an explanation she either already got many times or can deduce herself by connecting the dots as a direct participant for 28 years, is likely because she’s been working you over on your (unhealthy) tendency to feel like you have to explain yourself, also for 28 years. Let me guess, you tend to explain yourself to others without even being asked to. Anyone who has both gone to, and then refused to go to, couples counseling, knows the deal somewhere in their mind. With s…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/23 04:16 PM
2	Ex New Vehicle Depending on your state, there can be initial disclosures and/or full discovery requires, where she would have to provide all current and past accounts/statements/etc going back however many years. After stbxw demanded and got my discovery, then didn’t turn anything over herself after several extensions granted, my lawyer filed a motion to compel and sanction. Finally got her paychecks/salary info the day before the hearing.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/23 01:06 PM
2	Ex New Vehicle Have you not done discovery?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/23 04:01 AM
1	No peace for men without a wife Believe whatever you want. It’s the internet.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/23 07:19 PM
3	Better not bitter........time doesn't heal everything. Marriage is a contract that makes two people a single entity in the eyes of the law. It’s easy to enter and incredibly expensive to undo. That it’s conflated with love is a cultural artifact. When half of marriages end in divorce, it does not mean the other half is happily married. So what, a 75% chance of misery? The odds are terrible, and feeling this time is different is already baked into those odds, because no one says this time will mostly likely end up miserable too, and I’m here for it. …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/23 04:08 PM
1	Does your narcissistic ex-co-parent go in cycles of being nice and then nasty over and over? TBD, but the trial date has been set.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/23 02:43 PM
3	Does your narcissistic ex-co-parent go in cycles of being nice and then nasty over and over? It’s how it works. Every time there a nice episode, I know some BS/scheme is soon to drop. I had to have my therapist point it out to me after he picked up on the pattern from my discussions with him over a year. So I feel dumb for how many more years I thought the nice episodes were reason to, once again, be hopeful. Nope, it’s a loop. Also, I was not expecting to hear a description of the last 15 minutes of my failed mediation relayed by someone I don’t know on the internet. Mine was a full da…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/23 05:21 AM
1	If TRP is true, then there is no point to dating IF you're looking for love. (It may be worth it in other ways, i.e sex) Yeah, the truth is not one or the other; more like blurred and oscillating, and very noisy. Evolution works on the phenotype, not the individual gene. Humans have common ancestors with apes that are sexually transactional, but we also have evolved higher intelligence capable of love, that they haven’t. It’s both. We have the ape brain, which has the lizard brain, etc. and we have the human prefrontal cortex. These are our inseparable portions of gray matter. The ambivalence is baked in. A featur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 09:51 PM
11	Men should publicly shame and shun simps to gain back power in the dating world Why would you spend your energy on this? Do you really think some improvement in your own life is going to happen after a year of this performance? Or are you just going to volunteer your life to be a dick “for the team.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 06:27 PM
1	Why does comfort and familiarity kill attraction with women? There is a large evolutionary foundation to human sexual behavior. On the other hand, 2022 western society is an alien landscape of techno-cultural saturation compared to the environment we evolved in. I’d study the evolution of human sexuality before assuming negatives about someone’s character. Sarah Hrdy is one of the best you could read.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 05:49 PM