| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 96 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do? | Lifestyle | CommercialFig344 | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 12:42 PM |
| 71 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone else | Fundamentals | CommercialFig344 | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 12:02 PM |
| 10 | Just hit someone up on Instagram “so when are we having a drink” and she responds with “Whenever you invite me” what should I answer? | CommercialFig344 | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 10:05 PM | |
| 0 | Having trouble arranging a fuck | Escalation & Calibration | CommercialFig344 | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:18 PM |
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| 19 | Does anyone have any tips for overcoming a feeling of inadequacy due to not being physically attractive?You don’t have to say you’re straight when complimenting another man on his looks lol.. are you that insecure of your sexuality? Anyways, you’re probably fine. Others have it way worse. Just live, and date more women. The ones that left you weren’t the right fit: easy as that. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 05:33 PM |
| 7 | What made you fall in love?This is SO similar with my current girlfriend. Like I was reading my own experience. Slow love is the best love ♥️ She’s my best friend and lover. Thank you for the read :) | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Attractive guysNot true lol. Girls make moves on me all the time honestly. Not just looking but also coming up to me and giving me a compliment. “I love your blouse” “What’s on your shirt” “You dance so good!” “I love your vibe” And that’s also what I do when I want to talk to a girl who I’ve been checking out and is awesome. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Attractive guysGirls approach me honestly, I get a lot of attention from women in general. Stares, looks, talks. At a party they come to me and just start the conversation with: i love your blouse! Or you have such an awesome vibe! If you are just vibing, dancing, or in general just being you. You are an awesome person to be with. They want to be with you. You are irresisible. It makes YOU the treat, not the girls. In fact, my current girlfriend approached me first with “what is on your shirt, i can’t read it”… | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 08:32 AM |
| 0 | How can I get a deeper and nice soothing voice?Bro. Nobody cares about your voice. If you are a cool person and just have a nice vibe, you’ll keep girls engaged. It wasn’t your voice. They probably got bored of you and found somebody else to talk to. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Help seducing a guy!Wtf this is toxic as fuck. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 02:30 PM |
| -2 | Im back to school at 33, need tipsDon’t even hit on 18 year olds wtf. Stay a bit in your league c’mon… 24-25 at least. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 07:04 PM |
| 3 | I want to cheat on my girlDude this is so toxic, work on your issues wtf. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Help,I have done well so far but am stuckYeah. For you she is. Just go with the flow man. Don’t put her on a pedestal please. She is just a normal girl | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Is the 3 day wait rule irrelevant?Numbers in a club don’t mean anything. I always give my number or set a number in my phone just to end the conversation/after kissing smoothly, and move on and then just do nothing with that. If however, just text her the day after: “how are you feeling”, “was fun to meet you” had fun idk | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Help,I have done well so far but am stuckLook man. Everyone has something they’re insecure about. And then they start thinking “hey what if she doesn’t like that”. Ofcourse she noticed your teeth, but she didn’t mind. Get your head out of the gutter and be proud who you are. I struggle with it too sometimes but I know what I’m worth. If she doesn’t respond anymore or something then you know enough and you can move on. But always put a thought in your brain, she likes me, and pursue actions. :) | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble arranging a fuckThanks for the info legend! | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Having trouble arranging a fuckThanks mate! | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Having trouble arranging a fuckCould be. No we haven’t talked about it. I’ve only seen her in the bar that one night. But girls who are in for just sex, usually meet up sooner, or atleast make plans. She is really playing “hard to get” but still wanting to talk to me, curious about me etc. I don’t know if I want a relationship though. But I do feel like I start liking her more, we have had great conversations. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Having trouble arranging a fuckI’ve never experienced a girl who’s keeps talking to me and trying to set a date in the future. Mostly they agree to my plans and we meet up. Or she is not interested. But this girl is taking it slow. That’s why I’m asking mate. No need to be this rude lol. Isn’t a week long to set up a new meet? Idk. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble arranging a fuckJeezh. Desperate? You know what that even means? I’m not desperate. as I said, I want to meet her again.. I’m trying to see how other people view the situation and maybe offer some tips. Seems like you are just jealous, atleast your reactions make you look like it. If I would be desperate for a fuck, I wouldn’t try to meet a girl who’s making me wait. I would go to a club, and take a girl home who’s also in for a fuck. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Having trouble arranging a fuckNot necessarily a dep, just a meet, would like to see her again, which can be escalated ofcourse. Like I said, I like the girl more and more as I spend time talking to her. So she’s kind of passed the stage for just a quick fuck, which I can get elsewhere too…. You know what I mean..? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Absolutely blew my chance of getting laid in a nightclubAre you attractive to those hoe-like girls? I flirt back but back off subtle when girls start touching me and being real intimate out of nowhere. Like in this situation you might have just been used. Her female friends cheering and her kissing you in no time is a big red flag. You want to seduce her, it needs some time. That’s what attract me. If girls show a bit of resistance. She is probably just wanting attention or lost a bet to her girl friends. Idk. | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Girls of reddit, is attracting male attention the primary reason why you dress sexy to the gym?Hmm. Funny. When I work out with my sister she dresses just loose clothes just as me. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | She wants to be in a relationship all of sudden. Should I commit?Like wtf, amazes me how stupid some are on Reddit | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Does refusing a drink an automatic failure?Mostly women buy drinks for me lol and then I can buy next one if I like it | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:49 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Wtf | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 11:23 AM |
| -2 | Is teasing women crazy a bad thing?Dude you did nothing wrong, some girls are just stupid | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I mean, just go for the kiss once you’ve have danced with the girl and have a connection with her. Not out of the blue mate! | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:38 PM |
| 6 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Go live 6 months or so in another country with random people. Like Portugal for example or Spain | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?How did you found out she was single | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 09:20 AM |
| 3 | What did I do wrong?Yeh lol | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 09:20 AM |
| 1 | How to reply if a girl says she thought you were gay?Well, a female friend of mine always says why is everyone gay here when she get approached because she dislikes many guys who approach her a certain way. She thinks they are gay then haha. Just ignore it and move on | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 12:31 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Aren’t parties also events where women wants to meet men and potentially get intimate with a man? What else would you suggest for me to meet and seduce women? | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Finally I'm at a good place after 1 year out of prison and back in the gameXD yeah some girls who are also totally crazy. i’d dodge them 😂. But trust me no girl who is normal would like a guy who has served years in prison XD get your head out of the gutter | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Good one. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah. I normally always have a condom in my wallet but used it and didn’t refill hahah. Totally didn’t thought I would end up having sex with someone that night. Learned something again to always be prepared haha! Where do you carry your condoms btw? Do you always carry a bag with you? Because 3 condoms in my wallet wouldn’t fit hahah. But in my defense normally girls have condoms in their room aswell. 😂 | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Pls helpLol. Everyone says this. Even girls about themselves back here in Holland. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Finally I'm at a good place after 1 year out of prison and back in the gameNever tell you were in prison and you should be fine lol | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | To what extent Is approach anxiety 'normal'?Yes I agree with the last sentence. But I never said it was “bad”. I just said I struggle with day game approaches. Not even generalizing or anything. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | To what extent Is approach anxiety 'normal'?Well. I rarely get nervous for job interviews or meetings. But I do have approach anxiety whenever I see a cute girl in the supermarket or so, hell no I won’t approach her. Approaching during day is just so damn hard. It’s easier when it’s night time / at a par/pub. But I still am too pussy to approach at day. Think about bus, train, supermarket, on the street. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 11:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol. Ofcourse you need to have your energy right, eye contact etc. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 10:57 PM |
| -4 | [deleted by user]Just dance alone, and then when somebody is walking past you say: come dance!! and grab her hand and voila. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Yeah exactly. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?True. Don’t think it is something like that but could be.. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 02:20 PM |
| 16 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?True true. She was really pretty though. But I will just be myself around her if I see her again like I did but won’t try anything unless I have some confirmation that her BF and she are done | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 02:04 PM |
| 20 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Gotcha | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Gotcha | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 02:00 PM |
| 19 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Yeah I mean that happened. Inner circle is that friend who invited her girl friend who I clicked with. I never seen her before, only heard some stories from my female friend inner circle. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Yeah, would you say? I mean, if she’s single it would have been different right? | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Oh really? Yeah I don’t think height is that key stone which attracts girls. It might help but it’s not the shit. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Idk like 5’7? | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:43 PM |
| 11 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?True true, but could be that it’s also just her way of doing things. Being touchy, flirty etc and then turn guys on and then “no i have a bf”. I know girls who do this | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Not sure btw how she thinks of me on that front. I really don’t know. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?I don’t think that matters as much, since I’m in Holland everyone here is quite large. There were 2 other guys who were as tall as me. But you could be right idk! Might also be because I know her neighborhood a bit. I surf and she lives like in the neighborhood near the beach where I always drive past to surf. But I really don’t know how her current relationship is going so I can’t really pin point. Her BF was friends with somebody I know too, so I don’t really want to “steal” his “gf” if I even… | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:37 PM |
| 0 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Yeah that for sure! Will try to meet her again through that female friend. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?I don’t know. Probably less taller but he wasn’t short either. I’ve only seen him from a picture. I’d say like 5’9/6 | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:23 PM |
| -1 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Ah I see. Yeah, I think I can get her instagram by searching her name but that would be weird aswell. Yeah. She knows I’m attractive though (so she might be defensive with her friend and I don’t really want to cause any drama if I ask her for the girls number.) But we click, I know her because she’s a good friend of my other flatmate. We had some great talks before and but she isn’t as pretty. Just a cool girl. But I pretty much get along with everybody if I’m honest. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:21 PM |
| 0 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?6’3 I’d say, why? | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?I sadly don’t have her number. I don’t have anything of her. Like I could ask since she’s friends with a female friend of mine but I think that would be awkward and weird. Since she’s pretty “defensive” with her girl friends so to say. What do you mean with feigning ignorance btw? | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseHahah love ur answers man. Have the same opinion as you.. giant penis chad 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseSame. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseHahah. You don’t know.. why do you think she came back asking for my attention? She craves me and what she sees of me on Instagram. She made the wrong decision to not date me and she regretted that. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 01:11 PM |
| -2 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseWell. Because it’s true. I was a second choice. We talked and then when we planned our date she was like “i’m currently dating someone else”. It was weird. And now she reaches out because it didn’t work out and wants to fuck me? Or try me? Nah. I’d rather not. I don’t go fucking around everyone. I turn girls down when I don’t feel a connection or vibe. Most guys just continue only to fuck and then done. I don’t want to do that to girls. I don’t have a big ego. I’m just stating the truth. But I r… | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseWell. Because it’s true. I was a second choice. We talked and then when we planned our date she was like “i’m currently dating someone else”. It was weird. And now she reaches out because it didn’t work out and wants to fuck me? Or try me? Nah. I’d rather not. I don’t go fucking around everyone. I turn girls down when I don’t feel a connection or vibe. Most guys just continue only to fuck and then done. I don’t want to do that to girls. I don’t have a big ego. I’m just stating the truth. But I r… | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 09:54 PM |
| 0 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseNo lol haha. I wasn’t even that attracted to her that much. She blocked me now because I didn’t respond | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseHahah. Yeah I’m not like that, but I do find it funny | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseYeah. I get your opinion. I just feel a bit nah.. and I don’t feel attracted to her that much. She blocked me now after not having responded after a week. So I’ll just leave it. But yeah. I also get your take. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseHahah | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseI mean I could, but I don’t want to. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseYeah. She probably regretted she didn’t just go out with me first time, and chose for the other guy cause she was already dating him.. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 01:39 PM |
| 28 | Girl messages me month later after she said she was dating someone elseExactly mate. I have no problem finding girls, plenty out there. just found this really funny that she actually messaged me again haha and wondered if people actually responded to that, turns out most also wouldn’t and some would just respond to fuck her. I’m not that person to just fuck girls. Need to feel some connection. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Fuckboy auraWhat’s the difference between a fuckboy and a honest nice guy who is good at seduction and also gets women? | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Connected a girl again who I had a ONS with (without sex).I kinda did all this, touching her thighs, boobs, slowly continuing.. she was enjoying it.. had trouble with opening her brah and we laughed it off and then continued. Kissed her everywhere but I think I went too fast with trying to give her head. That’s where she softly said no and kissed me again. Or she didn’t want to yet idk. I might be just overthinking and she did want sex just wanted to kiss a bit more. But I didn’t “try” anything after that anymore. Should I just ask her softly next time… | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Connected a girl again who I had a ONS with (without sex).Could you link me a few good ones? I genuine can’t seem to find them! | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 08:30 AM |
| 0 | Connected a girl again who I had a ONS with (without sex).I mean I can escalate good till kissing (when we’re on the couch for example) but how to escalate from kissing mouth, neck, brests etc to sex is where I struggle. Not really youtube videos about that part on the interweb. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 08:26 AM |
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