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Commercial_Habit_923/r/seduction12/06/22 04:24 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationCommercial_Habit_923/r/seduction04/03/22 12:38 AM
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Not a priority
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:37 AM
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You might be taking too long
/r/seduction06/10/22 12:16 PM
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I agree with this. But probably not the best approach if your goal is just to get laid
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:12 PM
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Wonder why this is an issue in Toronto
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:18 AM
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Yes exactly
/r/seduction13/08/22 05:13 PM
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Not caring what others think of you or your actions
/r/seduction13/08/22 03:50 PM
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OP means conversation in person right?
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:58 AM
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Then where do you bone?
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:14 AM
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Kinda has to be in the moment.
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:18 AM
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What do women want? Idk man
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:20 PM
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+1
/r/seduction04/07/22 02:12 PM
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I agree. Maybe OP hasn’t gotten to know these women enough
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:51 AM
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Sex is not sex. Sex with a girl that wants to have sex with you is different, atleast in my opinion. Im just a guy on Reddit I can’t stop you, but if you do get a prostitute I want you to come back and tell me I was right
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:37 AM
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Realistically you only need like $20 bucks. Prostitution is never worth it, trust me
/r/seduction30/06/22 09:30 AM
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I think this has a lot to do with attractiveness of said man
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:10 AM
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I feel terrible for leaving her, and she doesn’t understand my reasons for leaving. But since then I have grown a lot more as a person and I’ve found out so much about myself. Now I can finally start addressing my issues and work on myself. In the seduction department so far I have had some success, but nothing consistent. The hardest part was having no one to talk to about stuff with and connect emotionally, but I think I’ve opened up more and now am much better at making connections. There’s a…
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:47 PM
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I haven’t experienced that. I’ve been friends with women who find me unattractive, I assume others have too
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:37 PM
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Pussy is the goal we are working towards. But don’t put any singular puss on the pedestal I’d say
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:58 PM
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Next day afternoon, if you dropped her off late night. If you dropped her off early, I would send a “had fun, blah blah” text later that day
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:23 AM
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You don’t need to text them non stop. Text them like twice a week. Adding them on insta can also help. Try to keep it warm, sometimes it’ll workout sometimes not
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:33 PM
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I have a feeling shes not giving mixed signals. It just seems like mixed signals because you Want her to like you. Move on
/r/seduction15/06/22 11:28 AM
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Smash and dash
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:26 PM
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Honestly OLD is such a waste of time, I just stopped giving a fuck. Seems to have helped lol
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:07 PM
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Raw feels so much better imo. But this was a ONS so I’d definitely wrap it
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:16 PM
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I lived in the same town Marshall and Lily bought their house in!
/r/seduction11/06/22 09:30 PM
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Well you need to make sure the pictures are good for tinder, just having professional photos won’t help
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:32 PM
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This is great advice and I think it will help me as well. Thanks
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:08 PM
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Just one, still working on that part of my game
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:53 AM
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Been there haha. Best advise I can give is, Just do it. That's it. Just do it. If you don't then you'll go home regretting it, so just make the move at some point. I'd much rather get blown off than have not gone for it. Some moments are better than others (prolonged eye contact), but really it doesn't matter if she likes you. You have to understand that she probably WANTS you to kiss her. Why else is she on a date with you? use this to boost your confidence. You don't need to say anything, sign…
/r/seduction31/05/22 05:48 PM
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Ive also struggled with this a lot in the past. I’m by no means an expert. But in the last year I’ve met 8 women from online dating. I kissed everyone Of them that I wanted to kiss 6/8. So I’d say if your on a date with someone, attraction is established and chances are she wants to kiss you. Of course not 100% but someone has to make the move and it’s not going to be the girl. I would never ask do you want to have sex, unless your already kissing, in each other’s pants, etc. I feel like the ver…
/r/seduction31/05/22 12:27 PM
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I have the opposite problem lol
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:29 PM
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Have you not used a condom with other women? Seems like the issue can only be psychological since this is physically the same situation as your 10+ other times
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:49 PM
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Yeah something like that is fine. Or “ I have some great wine at my house” , if she’s dtf or you met on tinder then the excuse doesn’t really matter. It’s likely she wants to get laid too
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:02 PM
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No that is the optimal approach if you want to get laid. Use an excuse to go back to your place, like wine, weed, pokemon cards, whatever. At some point when she’s at your place go in for the kiss and the rest is easy. But like just know she has to be comfortable enough to go to your place. If she’s not she’ll make an excuse to go home. Also just bc she comes over doesn’t mean she wants to bang. But most likely yea
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:50 PM
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I chose to end the relationship. It was my first, so I really needed to be single for a bit I think. And it’s been great being single and just having fun. But I do miss what I used to have.
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:25 PM
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Dude I was in the same situation. My advice is that if you really want to live your life and (fuck bitches get money) then just avoid the long term relationship altogether. If you do catch feeling or start dating it’s going to be so much more painful when you end it. I think your feelings are valid, I felt the same exact way. This is your life, live it how you want to. Your never going to get today back. Now if you really really really like her, then your wasting time not being with her. Basical…
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:38 PM
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Voice prompts on hinge maybe
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:11 PM
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Well you have to ask them out. I wouldn’t wait too long after you get their number. My go to is a bar a few blocks from my house. Invite them to your place for something, build sexual tension and just go for the kiss at some point. The rest should be pretty easy if she’s feeling you lol
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:22 PM
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Definitely can happen. But it won’t happen if your stuck on her. Move on, if she’s attracted to you she’ll come back
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:37 PM
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You left it in her panties??? Bro what? How? Huh?
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:12 PM
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And this works?
/r/seduction09/04/22 03:22 AM
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Usually I’m just myself and it works out. Silence can be comfortable and not awkward
/r/seduction09/04/22 03:21 AM
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Bar close to your place or your place (for wine)
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:44 PM
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If you keep this mindset you’ll always be a virgin. Sex will come when you focus on yourself. Ik it sounds counterintuitive, but it’s true. That Desperation is like a shit stain, repelling all vaginas away from you. Start working out, get shredded. Make friends, put yourself out there, make friends that are girls. Not for sex, but just to get to know them. Expand your social circle and your confidence and I promise you will get laid. Best of luck homie. I really hope you do follow the advice on …
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:47 PM
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Yes dude. Thats the past, it doesnt matter anymore. like others said work on yourself
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:35 PM
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If you start working out and lose weight it will help
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:08 AM
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Good job man
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:52 PM
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If she made a suggestion it would be best to go there. Some other ideas are bubble tea, wine at your place, etc
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:00 PM
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I guess it depends how much you want it. But in my experience the farther she is, the less she may want to go out with you. Risk to reward ratio is not great if shes 45 minutes away. If she’s within 30 minutes I’ll give it a shot
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:48 PM
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Just be you and don’t care what others think. Be confident. That’s what makes you attractive. If your always worried about what others think you’ll seem awkward
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:14 AM
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By practice, so you mean girls that you find borderline attractive?
/r/seduction19/03/22 04:00 PM
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Not necessarily. Maybe just forgot
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:18 PM
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Build some rapport, kindve depends how she’s responding. Then ask her out
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:18 PM
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I know. You just have to mentally believe that this one interaction doesn’t matter. Harder said than done. But you can do it
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:13 PM
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I know what you mean. You get this quick drop in your stomach as soon as you see the person and then your like fuck what should I say! I think best way to fix this is abundance mindset. Don’t invest too much emotionally in one person
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:10 PM
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Yes. It’s actually not that difficult because many times the girl just wants some dick lol They might not feel like spending the time to go out and talk to each other. Also if she agrees to come straight to your place the chances of getting laid are very high. I’ve done this twice
/r/seduction18/03/22 01:54 PM
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Yes I’ve got to start that. Not sure where to go for that kind of thing though
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:40 AM
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Tinder, if you can make a good profile
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:36 PM
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My hypothesis is the following: Women use looks as the first filter. Kinda like a requirement that they find you attractive enough. After you pass that filter, personality matters more
/r/seduction12/03/22 09:01 PM
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Too soon bro. At least talk to her first
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:20 PM
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Lmfao
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:19 AM
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Did you get these dates from Online dating? Or cold approaches?
/r/seduction05/03/22 02:50 PM
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1 for 1 Congrats
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:01 PM
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This man is spot on Girls don’t make moves, they make signs lol
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:07 AM
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Maybe she is just being friendly, and making conversation. Im not sure, I can tell you why I think she might be showing interest. Well she started conversation with me, was asking me questions and telling me about herself, when I didn’t ask her questions. It was early so I didn’t really want to talk. Maybe halfway through I engaged more and we had a nice conversation, I made prolonged eye contact which she reciprocated. She has also always said hello to me in the hallway, and introduced herself …
/r/seduction04/03/22 01:47 AM
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You should have asked for her number and ask her out there.
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:24 AM
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I have the same issue, atleast online. I can always get her to invest heavily and send long paragraphs getting deep into the convo, but then I eventually get ghosted. I think its because I havent been playful or funny enough.
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:06 PM
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Depends on her response
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:20 AM
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Yeah hope to be married before 43 lol
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:07 PM
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Yes it is. That’s why volume is important
/r/seduction26/02/22 03:52 AM
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Excuses
/r/seduction26/02/22 03:50 AM
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True
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:34 PM
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Lack of correlation does not imply lack of causation
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:58 PM
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It’s good that rejection doesn’t phase you anymore. That’s an achievement that I myself am still working on. You can keep cold approaching women, nothing to lose. But like others have said, working on your looks will definitely make a difference
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:02 PM
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What do you say?
/r/seduction17/02/22 03:20 PM
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The bane of my existence. On tinder getting the date is the hard part, piece of cake after that
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:30 PM
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I don’t know the answer, but she does. Why not just ask her? Seems like you’ve known her long enough to ask that without it being weird or presumptuous
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:33 PM
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True that
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:20 PM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:33 PM
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I agree 100%, she’ll let anyone follow here on insta. But only some people get her number
/r/seduction04/02/22 12:37 AM
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Good advice. Love yourself first
/r/seduction02/02/22 05:23 PM
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As an introvert. Most of my experiences with women have been through mutual friends and stuff. Much easier to open up in that environment
/r/seduction29/01/22 08:10 PM
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Seems like you might have some feelings for her bro
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:10 AM
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I think it’s definitely acceptable if it’s close enough to the end of the 2 weeks
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:07 PM
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