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Good god wait till the divorce is finalized bro. Then let the guys wife know. Doing it beforehand can dramatically fk up what is looking to be a clean divorce. She can absolutely drag your finances through the mud and play for blood. Kinda at the mercy of her goodwill even though shes the one who couldn't help but rail people she wasnt married to. It wasnt the first time. The BJJ coach is just the first one you know about. Absolutely tell the wife. It'd be screwed up not to.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/26 04:43 PM
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Guess her boyfriend wasnt ready to be a stepdad and bailed out. Dont be her backup backup plan bro. This cycle will continue. Protect yourself Sir.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 03:44 AM
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Regardless of what is "right" we've seen pretty often judges rule in favor of the woman. You might find yourself wishing you'd taken her deal. I truly hope that isnt the case here though Sir. Best of luck in your battle. I can completely understand why you wouldnt accept her "bargain"
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 06:20 PM
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Man your son probably loved that time with you. Getting to hit the Walmart with dad and hangout? Sounds like an awesome time. Sure your kinda out of practice knowing what to shop for but you make it fun getting the boy involved and let him have goofy inputs. Maybe go with one of his wacky lunch/dinner ideas and let him help throw it together. Make a memory of it all. Hes going to remember this time of his life so do your best to make sure its something he can look back and smile. Hanging out wit…
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/26 03:31 PM
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Hey Sir. Can relate. Will never forget the half packed house and the crumbled ruins of a life we'd worked so hard to build. Forgetting that they arent there anymore and expecting to see them. Or looking for their reaction when something funny happens. What helped me the most was advice given from another bro vet. It was to find a skill. A hobby. A timesink that requires skill. Could be anything. Dancing. Video games. Art. GameDev. Piano. Woodworking. Welding. Powerlifting. Running. Literally any…
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 04:24 PM
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Itll be funny when she has to answer to god one day about this too. It'll be an interesting conversation.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 06:23 PM
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Lotta dudes in the same boat as you brother. Bo effort gets put in until just prior/after the divorce. Dont let anyone make you feel bad for not wanting to fuck someone who makes zero effort to be attractive to their partner. Maybe find a way to have some serious conversations about her habits and contributions to the marriage/relationship. Obviously dont be an asshole but theres gatta be a solution here. Even if that solution is yall are no longer for eachother
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 10:58 PM
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Lmao are you paying for the cruise? Cancel that asap. No freakin way. Shes giving you the heads up because her bf would be big upset if yall slept together while on vacation and she still wants to go so... here we are. Get it together and fast. Shes about to take you for a hell of a fight. Document everything starting yesterday. Record conversations if legal in your state/country. Dont believe any empty promises or assurances she makes. They never do this without a plan B and C dude already pini…
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 03:15 PM
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Please listen to this dude. You need to prepare for all out war. False accusations galore. Protect yourself and gather as much evidence as possible. When it blows up first thing she is going to do is try to spin some bs tale about how abusive you are etc etc. Even when faced with overwhelming evidence people are STILL likely to side with her. Im sad for your loss but happy you found our ahead of time and can prepare. Be safe brother im praying for you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 09:53 PM
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Not a fkin chance in hell bro. Id straight up just pretend like she was telling the funniest joke in the world and then when she follows up id compliment her on committing to the bit. Let her try to suck some other simp dry...... but it wont be you.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 06:50 PM
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You already arent exclusive. You just dont know it dawg. Shes got 3 separate dudes in her inbox begging her to come over again and tell you shes just "working late". Dont be her fool. Ain't no booty worth humiliating yourself over. No matter how good. Move on. You'll find someone worth your time and effort
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 02:55 PM
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In the most literal sense of the words man for real. Document everything. If your state is a one party state and you can record convos without notifying her they're being recorded then do that. What she says to you and what she tells court and the world are going to be drastically different. Everything you have that can show shes full of shit will help you but EVEN THEN its still ganna be an uphill battle. Im sorry I dont have any better advice to give you man. Im just another dude who got raile…
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/25 02:29 AM
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Oh. Your going to need those lawyers. Once reality sets in for her. Your ganna be in for a ride sir. Stay safe. Protect yourself and your kids. Document everything
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/25 01:58 AM
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Ah nah. Ex wife immediately begins to date an abusive brady list cop she "just met".
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/25 03:38 PM
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Lmao shes already spinning the narrative that you made her feel threatened so she had to leave the house. You should've called. Why not? If you'd acted half as belligerent you'd be in jail right now. She isnt going to show mercy or give you a pass. Protect yourself. Protect your kids. Get a game plan and execute it. Shes already working on hers
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 04:29 AM
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Four years? Dude. Its time. You already know yall are basically roommates. 45 pshhh. Not too old at all. Theres a woman out there for you man. Dont be scared to start a new chapter. You have one singular life and you deserve to be happy. Have some hard conversations with the wife. If no compromise can be found then its time to plan your exit.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 07:41 PM
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God hes ganna get railed so hard the moment her single friends get in her ear and coach her on how to pull off this future robbery.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 01:53 PM
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Dont let her play you dawg. Its not about the kids. She just wants a nice spacious house for her new bf to move into before the ink dries on the paperwork. Dont let her rail you. Sorry your going through a tough time. Stay focused sir
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 02:15 AM
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Gets even more spicy when the court buys into her tactics and you get railed despite actual facts. Fight the good fight man and dont let it wear you down!
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/25 01:58 PM
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Step 1. Dude stop drinking. Literally no bad situation ever in the history of the fkin multiverse has ever been made better by getting drunk. Step 2. Start working out if you arent already. Get jacked or shredded. Or powerlift and look like a bull. Step 3. Find a hobby/something thats a skill you can hone with hours poured into it. Art. Running. Video games. Mechanics. Reading. Become a a pseudo master at some skill of your choosing. Fuck even dancing. Let it become an obsession and keep your mi…
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/25 03:02 PM
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She doesnt know how to soft launch her "new" bf she "just met" to her family yet. Its done and like the other dude above says. They arent your family anymore so dont care how or when she goes about telling them. Whatever story she spins wont be the truth anyway. Shes just gatta figure out to paint you as a horrible abuser. Not the end for you bro. Just a new beginning. Keep your mind busy and dont waste precious time getting blasted out of your mind.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 09:16 PM
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Yeah they treat that condition like a free pass to become soulless fucking monsters and we're supposed to just accept it. You have my sympathies man. Wishing you happiness.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 11:00 PM
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Air force should've also taught you not to warn your enemy of an impending attack. She is going to play along and even sleep with you to buy herself time to form a strategy before flanking your ass and burying her lawyers fist up your rectum. Go file dude.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 10:33 PM
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Bro I have no clue how to broach this subject tactfully without it absolutely setting off a nuke.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 06:25 PM
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Very legitimate. I cant imagine a good way to communicate this to her though without likely telling you to go fk yourself. Happens all the time man, post divorce she'll start putting in the effort to be healthier and attractive but right now she doesnt feel the need since your the safe bet right now. I do hope yall can fine a way to figure this out between you without divorce
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 05:43 PM
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amicable is just another word for - "giving her more time to plan out how shes going to dry fuck you for everything you've got" So many dudes swear its going to be amicable. They always think their wife is different and wont do them that way. Just for it to end the same way. Dont fall for that crap. Stay strong man. Theres a silver lining somewhere. Stay sober and focus. Rooting for you
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 04:29 PM
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The AP was a brady lister who had gotten away with putting a bullet in an old man during a traffic stop so I decided it wise to just let things lie rather than get ultra railed with bs assault charges/be put in an early grave.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 10:12 PM
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Got real into fitness and long kratom fueled walks.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 09:26 PM
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Shouldn't have given her the heads up
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 06:15 AM
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Look at it like this. 25k to never have to deal with her again. Your getting fucked, but atleast she has the decency to wear a condom. Dont fight this one. Let her have her little victory and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 11:04 PM
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Its the same story nearly 99% of the time. "Wife filed, no shes not getting blown out by someone else. I know her and she wouldn't do that". And then low and behold they magically start dating some guy they "just met" lmfaooo. Then the dude wallows in self pity being hung on a woman who is actively laughing at them and spreading lies to anyone who will listen. And yeah this chick is in her 50s and past her prime probably expecting to run into some alpha thundercock Chad who will tend to her ever…
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 09:40 PM
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Probably sleeping with another man and has prepared for this for a hot minute now dude. Don't let her put all the blame of this marriage failing squarely on your shoulders. It isnt just your fault and maybe not even mostly your fault. Theyre real good at manipulating the situation and making even you believe that they are the victim. Dont hang on. Understand that she isnt your ally anymore and will stab you in the back with a smile on her face and laugh with her friends about how you kept trying…
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 09:09 PM
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Lmao "dont put my abusive mom in jail :,(" Bro call the fking cops yesterday. Cmon. If you had accidentally even bumped into her, your ass wouldn't be able to post this cus you'd be in jail. File charges before she gets her shit together and files first with some false claim. Even with evidence its an uphill battle dude.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 03:22 PM
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50% of your military retirement? For how long? Indefinitely??!
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 09:08 PM
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She was spreading the narrative even before she pulled the trigger man. They plant seeds way ahead of time snd believe their own lies. Deep down she knows. She knows shes lying. And doesnt care. She'll laugh about screwing you over with her friends if shes able to pull some bs off. So glad you dont have kids. Makes this 100000x easier. You can fully seperate and never interact with that witch again.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 12:54 AM
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Yet when a woman posts about not wanting to fuck her husband because hes not as muscular as he used to be, or that hes got too much of a gut.. they get validated and told they're in the right and he shouldn't be such a slob. The double standard is fuckin wild. I put in alot of effort not to live like ass and stay in shape, its not wrong to want your partner to atleast try.
/r/MensRights17/06/25 01:53 PM
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Unfortunately men dont get justice except in rare occasions when it comes to divorces bro. Wishing you all the best
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 12:39 AM
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Bro talk about hitting the lotto. Fuck yes man
/r/MensRights22/05/25 03:17 PM
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Yep. Never had a panic attack in my life until the divorce started going down. Now its once in a blue moon but I wish I could be the me who wasn't phased by anxiety again.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/25 10:38 AM
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Bro. You're fucked. Record every single fucking interaction if legal in your state. Save every text. Print them out. Document times and dates for everything on paper. Phone calls. Videos. Whatever you can within the bounds of the law. EVEN THEN if you do all this you are still fighting an uphill battle. If you don't do this who knows what she's going to pull. She could accuse you of some heinous stuff.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 01:30 AM
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She'll probably get two weekends community service letting trainee massage therapists practice on her and some free cooking classes at the local university as punishment.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 08:44 PM
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If it was reversed the inmate would've gotten an absolutely disgustingly large payday after she sued. They would've burned the Male CO at the stake and slapped him with a rape charge. They'd also kill his dog. Burn down his childhood home. And pull out all his toenails. Women always get some crazy light sentence even for heinous crimes. No matter how disgusting the crime they still get a slap on the wrist and like 2 weeks community service.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 06:18 PM
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Ah so she's been planning this with whoever she was sleeping with on the side for a long time. Just waiting for you to buy the house that she's likely to get. I hope your ok man. Seriously. Avoid drinking and stay focused. Protect yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/25 05:33 PM
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She'll get a couple weekends of community service and some free science courses at her local college so she can mix up more effective acid
/r/MensRights10/05/25 11:10 AM
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Every single dude going through a divorce ever always says there's never another guy. "I know her she wouldn't do that" There's ALWAYS another guy. Shes fucking him and then laughing with him about your attempts to save the marriage. I wish you all the best man. Be safe and stay sober. Keep your mind sharp and on your toes cus the game is ganna get dirty af.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/25 04:03 PM
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Funny how its always amicable when the man has the cards in a divorce. If it was reversed she'd crush your soul and laugh about it with her friends as you squirmed in poverty. Go get paid dude. Sure you've earned it by this point. Glad to hear your in the trades. They were good to me post usmc and has set my life up with the 2nd wife quite nice.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 02:15 AM
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Tbh I agree. This same dude has probably screwed over so many men who deserved to know what he himself does now. The truth.
/r/MensRights01/05/25 12:56 AM
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This cant be fucking real. Dude.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 12:37 PM
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32% Jesus Christ. Funny how many divorces happen pretty soon after people retire from the service. Almost like they were planning for it
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/25 11:14 PM
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All planned. Hoping to catch you off guard at the last moment.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/25 04:25 PM
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She's found out that there's not a big market of high quality men seeking to blow the backs and pamper out of 50+yr old women and is setting you up as a plan Z fallback. Don't feed into it.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/25 11:40 AM
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She's got a plan and has been working on it for awhile. She doesn't want to work so she can get you on the hook for alimony money alongside the inevitable child support payments. Talk to a lawyer when you get. This is gonna get ugly. Be prepared for some wicked bs allegations. Don't leave the house. Don't engage. Just work on your own plan.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 07:46 PM
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Much easier playing the offensive instead of defensive. File first. Your still probably going to get absolutely Johnny sins styled railed in court but he might use lube. She is no longer the woman you married. She is no longer the woman you shared all those sweet private moments with. She doesn't love you and would spit on those memories and laugh about it. Protect yourself. Document. Check your laws and see if you can record yalls convos
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/25 10:44 AM
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She ain't getting ready for the phase. She's already been in it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 10:48 PM
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One child. Ended up paying the max allowed in my state. Lost my job and got stuck looking for work while unpaid child support built up. Climbing out of that hole now. But life is far better now than I ever thought possible. It was for the best
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 09:26 PM
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Her kids were grown and gone. She'd been in the Corps 20+ yrs. I'm not sure of the exact details but she crashed out hard. Probably mostly from a long marriage ending rather than having part of her retirement taken. The Corps fucking sucks. It's rough and I'd be devastated to put up with its bs for 20yrs with the light at the end of the tunnel being retirement just to have that light snuffed out right as you get to it yknow?
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 09:24 PM
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I got fucking murdalized in court. Had to defend against all sorts of made up allegations. That was four years ago and the financial ramifications are still very much felt. I never filed a complaint. I spiraled pretty hard in the fallout of the divorce and kinda stopped caring about anything for awhile.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 07:09 PM
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She has literally kissed you probably within a couple hours of blowing this dude behind your back. Even with solid evidence they will deny deny deny and then secretly laugh with her friends about how she's deceiving you. Get your stuff in order. Focus bro please and God don't start drinking heavy. Stay sharp. Grieve later. She's working on her plan as we type so you've gatta work on yours. Sorry this happened man. You deserve better and hopefully will find a woman one day who won't stab you in t…
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 03:49 PM
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Scares her? Sounds childish. What could possibly be scaring about that. It was a critical and defining moment (or at least should be) in both of yalls lives. I kept mine for my boy so he can see one day. The kids will at some point be interested to know the story. How did mom and dad meet etc shit like that. Keep the photos. Don't turn over jack shit. If she wants to bury it and pretend it didn't happen then too fking bad. It's not like your sitting there crying over the photos.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/25 01:44 PM
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So many dudes on here - "we haven't had sex in 10yrs. NO SHE ISNT CHEATING ON ME. I KNOW MY WIFE TRUST ME". Only then to post later about how she was getting trained at work. But he's still ganna pay all her bills and help her get back on her feet while she continued to rail various dudes on their marital bed.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/25 11:17 AM
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Yeah imagine if some dude had some part of a woman's reproductive system on full display like this on his dating profile. He'd be burned at the stake and have trouble ever finding work again. Probably some sort of legal action taken too
/r/MensRights06/03/25 08:14 PM
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Yeah my lawyer pulled the same shit. Didn't file jack and didn't even bother to show up for the initial hearing. Wouldn't answer and questions or calls. Everything was falling apart at the time so I didn't even know what I could do about it. Fuck lawyers. It's easy money for them to take the man's side in the case and spin their wheels telling us to just take the ass railing and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/25 03:44 PM
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Mine had that shit filed at lightspeed before the initial hearing even.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 01:44 PM
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That's a lot of words for her to say "I'm bored and want to fuck someone I've been testing the waters with for awhile" Don't waste your time bro. Wouldn't even bother replying. It'll just feed her more attention. The best thing you could do is go no contact and make her wonder if you even give af. Which you shouldn't. There's other women out there for you dude. Don't get hung up on this.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 06:06 PM
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A few weeks post divorce I can pinpoint the exact time I was on the highway just cruising wherever the fk I wanted with no obligation to let anyone know why or what I was doing at the time and a HUGE feeling of euphoria washed over me. And that's when I knew she had actually done me a favor. The divorce was brutal. She butchered me in court as she was part of local law enforcement and knew everyone personally. But goddamn. That feeling. The not giving a fuck anymore. It felt like picking up my d…
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/25 12:00 PM
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Lmao she won't pull the trigger while you've got those ace's up your sleeve bro. She's prepping for war and trying to clean up the loose ends. Please for the love of whatever God or spaghetti monster you believe in. Don't. Don't. Don't delete that shit. In fact. Make multiple copies.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/25 01:04 PM
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There is absolutely no way she would ever come back with your kids. Absolutely do not allow her to remove them from the country unless you don't want to see them until they're in HS. Rough spot dude but wishing you the best
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/25 02:55 PM
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Just run test and tren and really give your head hair a reason to disappear. You'll be so jacked tho nobody will say shit about it. Agree though. The double standard is messy
/r/MensRights05/02/25 06:52 PM
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Shit still hasn't recovered from the unlubed railing.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 07:47 PM
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Ex used to keep my balls empty while simultaneously moving about 700$ a week to a separate account that my dumbass didn't notice. Was making killer money for a few years and didn't even register the money leaving my account each week. By the time the divorce kicked off she had more than enough to go to war with and dammit I'm still paying the price 4ish years later. Sex is a legitimate tactic they can and will use to manipulate you dude. It's justified in their eyes to win the battle that's comi…
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 07:23 PM
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Got served the day before I left the hospital. Lost the job. Lived in my half ton truck for about 2 months thank god there was an essentially abandoned lake out in the boonies I could park off at and wander/sleep. Got a job in the same industry after two months. Snagged a shitbag apartment. Got on my feet. It's a long road bro. You just have to not suck-start a shotgun and be there for your kids when the judge says you can. Life gets better. Its been 4 years. You'll smash some randos. Watch some…
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 02:52 AM
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Praying for you bro. 20yrs just pissed away. Unreal. She's ganna find just how bad she fked up after she rides the cock carosale for a bit and ends up lonely wondering what life would be like if she'd not left. Good luck in your fight make sure to update us!
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 04:29 PM
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Yeah if you can possibly record her talking about her waiting/planning this for two years it'll be obvious to the judge she was just going after your retirement. Even then though hes likely to buy whatever story she spins. If legal in your state start recording conversations on the sly. This exact scenario happened to my unit's Master Sgt. Her husband played the game and waited till she retired then stabbed her in the back. She went off the rails drinking and it was sad af when she'd come and tr…
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 04:23 PM
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Let it go dude. Your putting too much energy into what she's got going on. She'll ride the carousel of dicks until she finds a sucker to provide.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 05:49 AM
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She's just trying to hurt you. And can't be open about why she's wanting a divorce cus she hasn't locked it in fully with whoever she's sleeping with. Be there for you boy dude. Your doing what you should be doing. Her words mean nothing at this point. All just manipulation and lies.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 05:46 AM
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Best advice I got during mine was to get busy. Don't drink or lose yourself in drugs. Find a skill you can hone. Anything. Fking dancing. Piano. A video game. Running. Powerlifting. Art. Anything you can dump time into and get better at. Lose yourself in it and keep your mind busy.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 05:43 AM
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Your ganna have to cobra Kai this shit dude but make sure you've got the muscle to back it up when the unreal accusations come out. Record everything you can. Wishing you the best luck sir.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 05:38 AM
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Fbi sure af isn't about to help out on this one bro. This story plays out thousands of times each year across the us. She will likely suffer zero consequences from this but atleast you'll get your girls where they need to be. Safe. With you. And not with this fkin psycho or in the system. Best of luck dude I'll be praying for your cause
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 05:34 AM
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Writing a letter to all the neighbors containing lies to make herself look better definitely sounds like a panic mode/manic mode reaction on her part. If you feel like your wife of 17yrs didn't have a mental freak out when she's sending out letters (with lies) to all the neighbors about yalls situation then idk what to tell you.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 11:52 AM
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Agreed with what others have said. Play. The. Game. Until the ink is on the paper. 26yrs is a long fking time and she knows you and what could hurt you. Once the true reality of what she's done settles in and she's truly lonely. Realizing she burnt all those memories and best years of her life to the ground she's ganna go panic mode. Regardless man you have my deepest sympathies. I couldn't imagine being married for so long only for it just to end. I wish you all the best and hopefully your out …
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/25 04:13 AM
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Lmfaooooooo
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 01:49 AM
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Shits wild when they start putting in effort to draw in new cock. It's a process that'll repeat itself when they shack up with the new sucker. Shits played out like 4 or 5 separate times now I can't keep track anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 01:46 AM
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Probably like 2 weeks before I smashed someone new. Did actually date officially for maybe 8 months despite intense pressure to do so from a couple different women I was dealing with
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 02:19 PM
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So the other dude that was railing her decided he didn't want to commit so now she's desperately trying to salvage the situation and continue to use you to pay for her living. Atleast until she starts setting up another dude to monkey branch to. Don't fall for the games bro. You know deep down what's going on. It's tough of course and it hurts but you gatta end this before she wastes more years of your life. Whatever you decide to do I hope it brings you some peace.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/25 05:14 PM
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Once she realizes her dream is just a dream and will never actualize she's going to blow a fking gasket and you'll have so many crazy accusations and slander being thrown your way. Document everything you can in texts. Recordings and video if legal in your region. They're pretty good at making you believe things will be amicable until you get to court and have to convince a judge you actually aren't a horrifically abusive man who tried to make her fk other dudes to feed your own fetish. It will …
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 02:32 PM
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Well I'm dumb but I don't think there's much you actually can do short of continuing to do the chores. Maybe you'll get lucky and the next dude she deals with will be a clean freak. Atleast your kids will be able to see the night and day difference in how yall live when you get your weekends with them.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 12:47 PM
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You think* you guys are amicable until she pulls the trigger on some false bs accusations. Take photos and document. Feel bad for your kids being stuck in this situation since it'll only get worse as time goes on. Wish you the best dude in navigating the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 12:32 PM
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Get back out and slam some meat bro. She's probably not trying to lock you down for good. She knows you just got divorced and they aren't dumb. She's probably just been wanting some of that OP's booty for awhile. Give her what she wants. Get the sexual frustrations out if there are any. There is no rule book that says you gatta date her
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 12:53 AM
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God the fear that I could be married for 30+ yrs only for them to up and decide they wanna be single or get blown out by some Chad's.... also losing your forever home. Retirement ruined. Just ruined. Scary stuff. Praying for yall
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/24 06:38 PM
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Yeah the system is pretty fucked and the deck gets stacked so heavily in their favor it's unreal. There was nothing you could've done man and atleast your fuckin trying. You are still there for your kids and when they get old enough they'll be able to see through the bs. They'll appreciate you didn't suck start a shotgun and be glad your still around in the ways you can be. The dark tunnel won't last forever. You've just gatta rage against the dying of the light and eventually it'll pass. Will b…
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 11:46 PM
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"She said she doesn't want any of the house or assets" My brother. This is an outright lie and she's trying to set you up for a wicked dark souls styled backstab. Always. Always. ALWAYS. Assume that's exactly what they're going for. Because it is lol. Sorry for your struggles dude. You have my sympathies. She sounds unstable af and bro please protect yourself. Record all interactions through video and voice recordings if legal in your state/country. You never know what sort of insane claims she'…
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 02:03 AM
9

This. Dudes get this idealized version of them in their heads. She's 1000% laughing about what's below you waist with her friends. Regardless of the truth. She's dogging on you to them about what a loser you were and how she's getting her back blown out by chads on the weekends while you've got the kids for visitation. They do not care about you dawg. Best you can do is not drink yourself to death. Hit the gym. And find some hot slam pieces of your own. And maybe down the road you'll run into a …
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/24 10:11 PM
14

Exactly man. Rediscover who tf YOU ARE and find someone who is aligned with that. Go get your fking blood work. Shits cheap. Hit the gym. And find some bunny who obsesses over you and likes to get bottomed out. On the real though man you have my sympathies in this time. It sucks. And it hurts. But. It's not the end. I know my little typed words on reddit don't count for much dude but I've been there. Your ganna come out the other side of this stronger emotionally and physically.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/24 07:35 AM
9

Best piece of advice I got during my brutal divorce - we were together from 15 to 26 - was to find some skill to obsess over. Something to keep the mind busy. Drinking won't help. Drugs won't help. Fking randos won't help. Find something that is a skill you can hone. Dancing. Piano. Woodworking. Fking PC Gaming. Gym. Anything that you can actively work towards being better at every single day. Find something new you've never done and go insane. Meet new people through this hobby. Friends. I was …
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/24 07:18 AM
8

Holy god man half your retirement? She certainly has been plotting this for a good while. So sorry dude. Creating an alt social media account and letting the dudes wife know what's up could save her some pain since he's likely planning his split too. Let him go through this same bs and implode his life. I think it's absolutely fking insane they can take part of YOUR Military retirement. Same shit happened to my SgtMajor when they retired. He would get depressed and try to come back on base blown…
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 02:48 PM
3

Somewhere in the realm of 20-24k. And I still got absolutely fucked lmao. Best of luck to you brother.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 10:08 PM
9

Fuck yes bro.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/24 04:16 PM
10

She filed temp restraining orders based on bs "she feels in danger he could hurt me and has in the past" to paint you as a monster. It's pretty a standard card they pull initially during divorce. It's to make you unable to be be near her/force you out of yalls house.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/24 03:40 PM
3

Yeah not sure of UK legalities but it's not like the UK system hasn't favored women too. Just be careful dude and gather a case to justify you leaving. She could lose her shit and say you've been abusive and you'd have to prove you aren't. People do crazy shit when pushed into corners
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 05:27 PM
8

Your ganna end up paying through the nose since she was dependent on you for care. What you should do is document the abuse however possible. Texts. Videos. Recorded phone calls. All if legal in your state and then file for divorce and cite these reasons. Otherwise it's this poor disabled helpless woman's word against yours and the courts will eat you alive.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 04:06 PM
23

Extremely fked up you burned the prime of her life because you couldn't be honest with her or yourself. You legit wasted the best years of her life and should seriously feel shitty about that. Glad your out and feel free. But what you did to her is horrific dude and the stuff of absolute nightmares. Go live your best life. Find happiness again with a partner that is of your liking and maybe find peace. But dammit you better pray/whatever/send vibes hoping that she can find that same type of peac…
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/24 04:41 AM
5

Seeing a chick go the OF route thinking it'll be easy is hilarious when they fall flat on their face realizing no one is willing to pay 4.99 to see their naked body. Imagine it's extremely humbling be shown metrics that prove they aren't nearly as attractive as they wanna believe
/r/MensRights10/10/24 01:23 PM
4

Divorce court probably. Always heard the system was dramatically skewed in the woman's favor but that's when I found out how bad it was.
/r/MensRights20/09/24 03:19 PM
1

What country is that?
/r/MensRights13/09/24 05:16 PM
13

God I hope she got held over the fire and is in financial ruin.
/r/MensRights30/07/24 10:11 PM
1

Who would marry some women who was ran through by a couple of nasty rape happy pedo terrorists? She's probably been ran through by so much unwashed meat. Seriously wtf is this dude thinking lmfao what a joke
/r/MensRights24/07/24 06:24 PM
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