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DiscussionCommissionAny5421/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:05 PM
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Thats addressed in people, especially gen z, being lonelier in general I don't really know what you mean by this. They’re entitled assholes with victim complexes. Thats why “Male Loneliness Epidemic” isnt taken seriously. Your leaving out a part of my quote that I think is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:47 AM
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Because I do think there are societal reasons why men are increasing in loneliness. And that you can be lonely, even with people around. Yes the manosphere is amplifying it, but society is funneling them to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:11 AM
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Seems more like your hypersensitive when any man is criticized. My own comment history of arguing with red pillers, maga, and people who say dehumanizing things to women, would disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:39 AM
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All of your points eventually boil down to they deserve it. And only the good succeed. Basically man up. Its toxic, and its part of mindset creating the societal problems. Clearly you wont miss people like me when were gone, but when were gone the ratio of red pillers to normals just goes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:37 AM
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Its an easy way to blame victims. They dont have to be morally right in their actions if your a villian.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:33 AM
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You dont get it, you don't want to get it. Fuck it. Im not bothering with this anymore. Im killing myself 2 weeks tomorrow anyways. Cant say your posts were great at making me feel bad, even when I've never done anything wrong besides already feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:32 AM
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If they need to be careful, then they never were actually lonely. They wanted their dicks wet. See. You're intentionally misrepresenting me. If a genuinely lonely man, is genuinely lonely, but reads your comments, and thinks if he expresses his genuine feelings, people will now interpret it as him wanting his dick wet. As he does not want that, he now no longer expresses his genuine feelings of loneliness and sinks further into isolation. Why do you believe thats not possible? They're not genuin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:27 AM
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You’re misrepresenting what I said. When I wrote “maybe when males claim they’re lonely they should actually be lonely instead of whining,” I was talking specifically about the very common Manosphere pattern where “I’m lonely” actually means “I’m mad women won’t sleep with me,” even though the guy has friends, coworkers, family, and people who care about him. If im misrepresenting, its because I misinterpreted after many attempts at getting your clarification. You also didnt say maybe, you just …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 11:24 PM
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Then why are you claiming I dont care about truly lonely guys? Because you in those conversations, said men aren't lonely, they just want their dicks touched. When thats not what MOST men mean. Its a leap in logic to say that when men say they are lonely, they aren't. You're contradicting yourself. Funny enough that was my point about "its offensive when women say it about men, then be offended when men say the same thing” Where's the contradiction? not going to respond to the remaining addition…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:44 PM
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Where I have shown that I dont think men cant be legitimately lonely. Where? 3 months ago, post titled "its offensive when women say it about men, then be offended when men say the same thing. perhaps when males claim they're lonely they should "ACTUALLY BE LONELY instead of whining" You went on in our discussion to gatekeep loneliness, followed by saying "being horny isn't lonely" (duh), followed by a post "There should be gatekeeping". Presumably, because only you know if someone is legitimate…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:31 PM
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First of all, actually lonely men dont scoff at relying on friends and family. They dont go on rants bitching about feminists and how “not having sex is the worst thing to happen to a guy”. So, a page out of your book. Tell me where ive ever said that lonely men shouldn't rely on friends family. Show me where i have gone on a rant (or even supported a rant) against feminism, or said "not having sex is the worst thing to happen to a guy". I'll save you time, ive never agreed or supported those th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:37 PM
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To me, it sounded like a form of going through emotional manipulation. That if in the case she did actually care about this guy, and put all her effort in solving this one man's problems, it wouldn't have made a difference. I can get that she resents that man for all he took, and how she felt after realising it was futile. I dont agree with how broad the amount of people normally targeted (in general, as this post seems almost to be specificly almost describing a singular individual) deserve to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:04 PM
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What happens when someone doesnt fit the mold? I see the consistency in the person your describing, absolutely, red pill + anti feminist go hand in hand, not always but most of the time. Do you not believe there can be feminist, caring empathetic men, who feel shunned by society as a whole? I know many.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:53 PM
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This sounds like a very specific circumstance your applying broadly. Situationships seem to be more common than previous generations, so the occurrence of these murky situations will likely increase. I think I understand why you hate lonely men so much now. You hate one lonely man, who did wrong you and put you through somr shit, therefore anyone similar reminds you of the man you hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:06 PM
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Your being purposefully obtuse. Good work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:37 AM
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It was absolutely a diversion. Who brought up wet dicks? It certainly wasn't me, nor did I see anyone else. But oh well, this isn't productive and like you say i dont care about the context, I dont think you do either. I do want to say though, I really dont think your here for a good reason. I think your here because making others feel worse makes you feel good. I think you like creating more division, and i think your great, if not the best at, helping create a large gender war divide.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:48 AM
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The grander context is you fall back to the same hill castle fallacy on almost every post! How is the context relevant in this one, if it takes place in nearly every post thread you make regardless of the topics? And when you divert to, you like to mix in a black and white fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:37 AM
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🙄 This must be about my dick being too dry right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:00 PM
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I only responded once you brought up the wet dicks. Provided a small answer regarding your ultimatums to try to remind you what your post was about. I wouldn't really have engaged with your post if you hadn't tried to reduce a comment to wet dicks again, because the post itself isn't that interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:56 PM
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Well, do what the women here tell you to do. 1) either 'be better' 2) opt out, either mentally or physically. Either way, shut up about it because their tired of hearing about it and that equates to modern day oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:35 PM
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This post was about ultimatums, this thread alone, youve brought up wet dicks. I dunno what to say if you cant read your own post, only 2 higher than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:30 PM
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I mean, It's more about how often you bring it up as a strawman. Even when the conversation has nothing to do with sex, your the one constantly bringing it up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:09 PM
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I think its easy to interpret what you say as man bashing, by how you equate every issue to the moistness of mens genitals. The second reason would be the frequency of reducing every issue to mens genital moistness (or lack thereof). You must have typed it out over 1000 times this year alone. But, when it comes to ultimatums, Sure, if every person in your life requires giving you an ultimatum for you to listen, then the common denominator is there. Same as, if "no one" listens to you so you rout…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:02 PM
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Toxic love or not love? I guess id just opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:48 PM
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Honestly, I just choose what I already have. Which is someone who loves me, and doesnt show that love by being being "hot and cold" or disrespectful or by manufacturing drama. edit: The options you've presented are either toxic or not even love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:46 PM
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How is it love is shes hot cold and disrespectful. I'd say love should be more like peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:41 PM
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Well it sounded a lot like you were defending that people can touch people without consent, so long as its a joke, or women, or maybe only if its both?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:33 PM
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Are we talking about how it does work or how we think it should work based on our opinions? Like yes rape happens, but i dont go around defending it on the basis of "oh well"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:48 PM
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I'll just say, ive openly had multiple women in this subreddit encourage my suicide. Just an FYI. The comments get deleted, but it doesn't stop it from being funny to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:47 PM
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People shouldn't touch other people without consent. That also applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:42 PM
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I just mean they are even older, by your posts definition that means even wiser. Yet as a population, they're the most susceptible. Edit: You may not say older means wiser. I mean to say your post says as people age the threshold for grace diminishes. So as these people are even older, does the grace diminish more? Is there an age where we now have to start giving more grace?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:10 PM
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If my wife has problems with her iud, and didnt want to continue using it, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:53 PM
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Does this apply to seniors falling for romance scams?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:51 PM
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Seek help
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:07 AM
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Uh huh..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:07 PM
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Honestly, if you think women aren't humans, this says a lot about you, and really nothing about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:18 PM
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I think Humans should qualify as Human.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:54 PM
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All I can think of is the "single female lawyer" episode from futurama.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:01 PM
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I'd say the same is true for me. I'd say its the people who aren't being paid a living wage and working hard anyways. Example; Katie Porter questioning JP Chase on their teller salary; https://youtu.be/2WLuuCM6Ej0?si=ScqF6my9AYNzrO1N I know its a a bit outdated, but the affordability problems have only gotten worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:53 PM
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I know about a dozen female lawyers, all are married 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:31 AM
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I mean, your the one who suggested in a fun way to reference my suicide plans right? Think of the type of person that makes that joke and cant follow through with even the recommendation? Maybe dollorama wine suggestions wouldnt be that great anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:47 PM
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I have a fantastic collection, but I actually would like your wine recommendations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:44 PM
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Can't help but just find this dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:41 PM
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What a good person you come across as.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:40 PM
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Thats great. Happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:39 PM
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Edit: And if anything, I did grind in my 20s. And im financially successful now, but hey look, didnt stop the suicidal ideation anyways. So whos ideas are you really trying to discredit? If anything, im saying i succeed in that format, that i see others now have a far worse road of ahead. And even with all that success, I just feel bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:38 PM
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Eh, some of it works. By all means, feel free to find ways to discredit me (ad homenien) instead of actually addressing any of the merits of my discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:36 PM
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Nor should you. Lest you end up hanging like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:34 PM
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That's great for you. Personally, I would have hated being treated like my life amounted to what value I created for a faceless corporation. I am more than my job, because I know if I died tomorrow, my job would replace me in weeks or months. The people who would miss me, aren't my coworkers, boss, or anything related to my work. And at the end of the day, if one less burrito got wrapped, it wouldn't save a life or cost one. There are so many things more important than that to me. My job is pure…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:31 PM
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Have you ever worked at taco bell?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:21 PM
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It sounds a bit like your question is more "why dont men have disposable income anymore?" Nearly 1/3 Americans live pay cheque to pay cheque, and its not getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:20 PM
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Output what exactly? Are taco bell employees supposed to get satisfaction that they sold a couple more burritos today than yesterday? I absolutely think society needs people to contribute to function. But with stagnating wages, rising inflation, technology taking jobs while Ceo's take more and more at the expense of the labor that makes their business function, the motivation for the average person isn't about aspiration to doing something other than beyond surviving for another day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:15 PM
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Good for you! I have no doubt the immense work that was required to achieve that. Personally, it wouldn't be the life for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:30 PM
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I feel for this generation, both the men and women. Every generation calls the next lazy, but the work/reward dynamic has shifted. Grinding to one person is working 3 retail jobs barely making rent and results in burn out without any progress, while you watch some 6 year old unbox his free toys on YouTube for $3m/year. The 20's used to be about finding yourself, who you are, who you want to be. Challenging yourself and your beliefs. But for many without privileges, its just being sent into the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:10 PM
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And why do you think so poorly of the other poster? Reading your thread between you too, you sound like your here because enjoy rage baiting and trolling. Hard to do that without writing much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:53 PM
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And whats your reason for being on ppd?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:21 PM
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I feel like your describing pretty good intentions. Do you think that's what thr average ppd user is here for?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:57 PM
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I think your comment is one I find most interesting. I get the same negative reaction to some women on here that likely skews the percentages to fit the demographic of ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:54 PM
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Feel that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:37 AM
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I love why your here, I wish more people were here for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:36 AM
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I get what your saying when you say its debate for the audience/bystander. But with the repetive posts, it seems no one watching is learning anything either. I've mostly only seen that people learn to regurgitate versions of other people's insults. I came here in a similar situation to you, in that I am not someone in the dating pool, so I don't have as much skin in the game as some. I thought I'd come here with reasonable opinions and help others. But, as it goes, it just ended up being a subre…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:37 AM
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Your basing success as engagement. I guess I disagree when I see people in these subs devolving into worse people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:29 AM
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Nah I'm just suicidal and half way out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:38 PM
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Thanks for the chat. Even if your just here to feel better about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:33 PM
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Don't worry I wont be on the site much longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:31 PM
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ah from a place of superiority no doubt. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:27 PM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:23 PM
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Its conflicting when you say no one is doing what your doing at the exact moment of doing it. As you said, its within everyone rights to be wrong or stupid. I'll also put that its within their rights to feel whatever they feel. You can be angry at a driver for cutting you off in traffic, it doesnt justify bashing their head in with a tire iron. But being angry is just an emotional response. Dictating that how, when, and under what circumstances they are allowed to be angry, is dictating what is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:21 PM
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Say they direct their energy appropriately as you suggest, at themselves. What then? Self hate breeds until suicide? Is this ideal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:17 PM
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Um yes, I believe anger is a feeling. So when you say "no one is trying to dictate feelings" while also saying "men shouldn't be angry" Your kind of conflicting yourself here. By all means, feel free to dictate what feelings you think men are acceptably allowed to have or express, but why pretend your not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:02 PM
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Is anger not a feeling?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:55 PM
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I mean, 20% means 1 in every 5 guys. It's not a majority for sure. But we also see an ever smaller % of guys have a completely easy time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:35 PM
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I never said they were angry at women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:17 PM
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I mean, in my opinion im describing 3 pretty solid dudes that are kind, reliable, and successful in general life. I'll agree #1's problem is he doesn't try. 2/#3, they're solid dudes who are kind, competent, successful people, who would they themselves say they struggle with dating. I'm not saying anyone owes them anything, but if the problem is that they are average dudes with lots to give, i dont get the "problem"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:15 PM
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I mean, their entire lives lol. So both, high-school, university, through their professional lives. Each person is obviously unique; Gentleman 1: Complete introverted, and absolutely the only reason I can see for his lack of success. He's well read, intelligent and kind, but not a lot of ambition. Works for a warehouse, Caucasian, tall skinny, sort of Keanu reeves esq appearance. I'm honestly not sure if hes a virgin. His twin brother is slightly more muscular than him, and is an extrovert, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:59 PM
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Constantly years of rejection, mostly. Its a never ending battle of keeping your self worth above water. Of the three, I dont really anticipate them ever being in a relationship. Or at least, at this point, I'd be very very surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:44 PM
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Were mid 30s, but known each other since childhood. So im basing this on knowing them and their experiences over 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:24 PM
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I guess to me incel =/= struggle dating. I have a good group of friends. Id say 30-40% struggle with dating. Out of id say 8 people, 3 have never had a girlfriend. 1 guy who has been in a long term relationship with kids, but was the one all the girls fought over because he was attractive. Another that cheats on every girlfriend, but has no trouble finding another. And then 3 that barely had relationships, but are now in long term committed. I guess in my experience, all but 2 of my friends woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:22 PM
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I dont consider myself a red piller, really much at all. I definitely get bouts of anger (not specifically at women, maybe society). I don't take it out on anyone but myself though, because like you said its just screaming into to the void. Although, even just screaming into the void seems to upset people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:08 PM
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Where are you getting your stats from?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:05 PM
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Can you break down some of your prompts? I only somewhat tested #1, mostly as you've written on copilot, which said "leaning towards the father"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:28 PM
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I don't know if I agree with everything your saying, specifically the requirement to be a provider probably being outdated to some degree, but I absolutely think a lot of men are angry and miserable because many men have have no place in an ever changing world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:23 PM
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I had a girlfriend who broke up with me because i was jealous of a guy friend of hers. Less than 2 days later she was making out with him and had me outside to pick her up oblivious of the situation. Not exactly cheating, but since we did eventually get back together it does feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:58 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:08 AM
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I'm married. I just avoid all people unless I have a reason to interact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:58 PM
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I think some of us are very aware that, in general, women do not want to talk to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:38 PM
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The biggest thing to me would be trust and loyalty. Everything else is too much of a personal preference for me to assign it as a rule. By loyalty, I don't just mean that they don't betray you, but that everything they do is about progress for us. And I think it should go both ways. I don't care about body counts, poly/monogamy, esthetics or whatever. To me all of that is preferences and interchangeable depending on the people involved in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:12 PM
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When I say I'd like the ability to be more vulnerable in society, I'd just like to be able to voice my greviences with societies expectations without it it being turned into insults towards me and used as a moral barometer to judge me against. It has nothing to do with sex for me. Posts like this are why I'm shying away from voicing my opinion, because participating is just an excuse to be ridiculed more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:25 PM
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Honestly, I cant think of a reason someone would put up with being randomly bit. I wouldn't put up with that in dogs. I do believe witty and funny are good social skills, almost universally. Though not everyone shares the same sense of whats funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:53 PM
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I don't know how anyone on the internet would possibly be able to guess what social skills 'biter' had that made up for all the unwarranted biting. We'd all be guessing, because it's your example and how can we know more about that. But if you consider two nearly identical people, and one is socialable, chatty, witty, funny, and the other is mean, hostile, recluse. Which has better social skills and which is more likely to be successful in creating relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:46 PM
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I mean, your question was who does, not who doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:41 PM
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Eh I guess i was thinking who ever it was would need to be old enough to have grown up and influenced pre-social media. I don't remember when tinder and ect took over the dating market, but even in early Facebook or MySpace days, people were clubbing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:48 PM
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It was the only place you were guaranteed to meet people out wanting to have fun. And when you want to meet new people, you want to meet fun people. I say this all in past tense; as I assume it's all changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:36 PM
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I have to think it stems from the timeframe of the original of the red pill getting traction. In that, pre-apps and social media, clubs were exactly where you went to meet new people. I'm feeling to old to go clubbing, so I haven't in 10 years with a few exceptions. And from the more recent times, we dont intreract with riff raff. I'm not sure if that's me being older or the scene changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:35 PM
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Probably like 75% of people born before 1995. Can't speak to the newer generations, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:29 PM
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How is not practical? Because there is no action to be taken that would alleviate or change it. Just "oh I learned my husband settled for me, cool"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:32 PM
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I mean, people will always take the best they can, women or men. In my scenario, my wife could easily do much better than me, likely in every way if she so chose. If we were trying to meet on an app now a days, it's unlikely she'd even swipe on me. I know I'd have a worse time off in the dating market. By all definitions, she settled for me. But what am I supposed to do with this knowledge other than feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:24 PM
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welcome to the abyss
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:19 PM
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Of course, by all means, share your opinion, but what are you expecting women to do with this knowledge? It feels like some sort of neg to try to bring women down with nothing practical to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:05 PM
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No, it's totally ominous, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:41 PM
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I think some of us are aware that we are Jerry Smith and not Patrick Bateman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:26 PM
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I don't really leave my comfort zone all that much, but learning is part of my comfort zone, so I dunno. I like to listen to a philosophy podcast on my commute. I take training courses and go to seminars through work. I meet enough new people through work, that I dont find the desire to try to meet new people when I'm not. Got pretty good at some knot tying, but mostly variations of nooses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:53 PM
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If only he was advocating for cruelty and apathy!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:11 PM
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Its been less than a day oh my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:02 PM
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I guess the whole, its better to cry in your Mercedes instead of on the bus. It wont solve this problem, but it'll help with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:03 PM
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No, by all means, be mean to them if you want. It's actually funny, because I genuinely enjoy watching you sometimes tear down the malicious men, the obvious misogynists, and I appreciate you have fierce conviction for what you believe in. But I hate when you punch down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:16 AM
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I appreciate your comment, as I assume it was meant with the best intent. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:09 AM
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I think it's one thing to say, hey, I'm done giving more to these people. I think it's a completely different thing to try to lump any man who has or currently feels the emotion of loneliness, and advocate the rest of the world treat them worse. (yeah, and men can only be lonely if you say so too!) One is probably good for you, the other is borderline psychotic with malicious intent. edit: The idea that you would work so hard to spread something between apathy and cruelty, is to me, psychotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:49 AM
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Because apparently the solution to bad (or sad) people is being meaner ourselves. Ground breaking psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:36 AM
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Your not against it, thats deflection though no? Say your against it, and it's used as a way to dismiss the double standard, yet your post history doesn't reflect it beyond its "obvious" they exist. Well its obvious bas guys exist, not ground breaking, but your response to it is spreading negativity as a solution. Your choice of course, just sad state of humanity for to me though. especially when you're the single loudest voice on this entire subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:35 AM
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It was in response to me months ago. So i really dont have the effort to go through hundreds of your comments to find it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:04 AM
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I never said I was against calling out shitty women. Its funny you say that, because normally your response is they exist! get over it! Of course im not in favour of bad behavior from men (and if you actually checked my post history, I do call it out) But i definitely take offense to lonely men = bad men. You hate lonely men, i get it. but maybe its time to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:59 PM
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I think they should do exactly what you say everytime someone brings up women doing bad stuff. "So bad women exist? duh, move on?" and not make post after post after post trying to get more people to hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:54 PM
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What does accountability mean in this sense? That people should ridicule them or treat people they dont like worse? As many people have done, they pick a group of people they dont like, and they advocate that others shouldn't either. Thats what your doing. Its not about accountability or coddling men, its about spreading negatively as a solution. If only we hate these men enough theyll disappear? I mean some will hang themselves, the rest i dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:50 PM
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My clarification questions were only to understand your motives of your original post. Youve done that, youve made it clear your intentions are akin to a version of hate. You want more people to hate, be cruel, or at the very minimum, to a strawman person youve created. You lump (without ever quantifying) how many people apply to this list, and say they deserve to be treated worse. Great, good job Your intentions are clear. They're gross, but they are yours
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:46 PM
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Let me quote you "bad people are bad. What ground breaking news. move on already" Go find another strawman, his was never about whether or not a man has cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:42 PM
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Do i expect you to feel compassion for made up people? I don't know, use your own humanity for your own examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:40 PM
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Well the alternative to compassion is apathy or cruelty. Sounds like youve confirmed your goal is to spread that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:34 PM
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When is say group youve created, I mean the category of people youve created form your post. I am not accusing you of causing the man loneliness epidemic, though i recall you saying it doesnt exist. Is this confirmation the post is, for the group of men youve described, less compassion is the goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:29 PM
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when is say class, I dont mean protected legal class, just the group youve created.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:18 PM
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I agree, I mostly wanted to point out that doing these things wont solve your problem with the caveat you should still do them regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:15 PM
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I've read your post and it sounds like the overall point is your advocating for people to show less compassion to a defined class of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:11 PM
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I dont find it so, i dont want to assume. Edit: is there a reason your unable to just confirm it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:46 PM
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How about just the last question then; Is this post to spark compassion, or argue that some people dont deserve any?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:05 PM
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What percentage of "lonely men" do you believe actually fit this mold? Is it 100%? 80%? 5%? Does a man who vents once become this archetype? As a lonely man, does this mean I should just be more aware that no one wants to hear about it? Should I get better at masking my depression so strangers feel more comfortable? If it’s only 5% of lonely men, is this really the most pressing issue worth spotlighting? If it’s all lonely men, then what’s the solution — shame them until they either end themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:37 PM
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Ah fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:19 PM
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Might have been with you on some of this until the last sentence. Are you suggesting we treat people who are sexless like they're not human? In what way would you like to treat them less than human?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:16 PM
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One thing I want to add to your post; If you're doing all the right things because you think it'll lead to sex, you'll be disappointed anyway. Once you get the six figure salary, and finish the degree, get the abs, buy the house. If you did each of those things in the hopes they'll get you laid, you'll be disappointed you wasted years, and it doesn't correlate. You should still do those things, because your life will be better than if you dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:53 PM
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Ah, fair enough. I don't normally consider anecdotes as evidence, so I made an assumption that you wouldn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:09 PM
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I think we all have anecdotal evidence, but this would be difficult to prove with an unlimited budget. Lemon_gecko wants evidence, which would require this to be done with proper scientific methods with clear measurable tangible and consistency applied methods ruling out biases and additional factors. Short of that, everything is just a thought experiment or hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:45 PM
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Ah, I was just thinking it's been a while since we had a lonely man = bad man thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:05 PM
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Eh the example was meant to keep one standard and flex the other, but could be more extreme as you said. Whether or not Red/sportscar is the unshakable standard depends on the person. If we want a more extreme version; Person says they want a red minivan, ends up with a yellow Ferrari. It's nothing the same to their original standard, but I get it, because a Ferrari is special.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:02 PM
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I'll just bow out because I dont have what you're looking for as far as scientific proof to that. I agree women like attractive men. I dont doubt people flex their standards for "more attractive" but in the same sense as any other compromise. People flex their standards on all sorts of things when they want something. (eg. I want a red sports car, but I'll take yellow because its a ferrarri. All the red miatas screaming into the void rn)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:48 PM
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I dont think i can prove or disprove that unfortunately. Unless there was an actual scientific study, and even if there was, I'm sure there would be gaps in methodology to point to call it inconclusive. I really do think there is a difference, but i dont think its gender specific and its more the halo affect. In that prettier people in general get treated better, including putting up less barriers and shit tests. In my more attractive friends scenarios, I dont think they're more successful becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:31 PM
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I want to preface, I'm not fully disagreeing with you. I think there is a lack of proof to the claim. I can only speak in anecdotes that I feel many men will say is common, even though each has drawbacks, 1) Dating apps; if a man has ever created an attractive catfish, the way women treat the attractive man is night and day to our experience. I think the obvious problem is the bias in sampling on those already on dating apps 2) Experience with attractive friends. I love my friends, I think they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:13 PM
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Can you prove that in court? Could, anyone ever win that battle in court? Harassment is illegal, if the court says what happened is legal, it wasn't harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:57 PM
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Your making an assumption the police would care enough to even go through the paper work. And you know that no court would find favor of someone suing harassment over someone else saying "smile more".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:55 PM
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Also, if you cant file a police report over someone saying "smile more", you definitely cannot win a lawsuit for harassment over it. If you cant win a lawsuit for harassment, its hard to say its harassment at all. In that sense, the law disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:18 PM
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If you think basically every adult i encountered between ages 3-17, telling me I have a nice smile and need to smile more, is harassment, sure. I guess I don't consider it harassment, its never felt threatening. It also came more from women than men, but can probably attribute that to being around more women caretakers as a child. I also learned to smile more as a result, and with racism, i have to make sure to present myself as friendly lest someone get the wrong impression. edit: formatting an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:05 PM
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sample size is actually pretty important in science for experiments like this. With a sample of 2, its not even possible to see more than 2 possible outcomes to the experiment. But for the the actual question, if a woman told me to smile, I'd either do it if I feel like it, or on a really, really bad day, maybe refuse. My entire childhood strangers told me to smile. Male and female. It doesn't seem that weird to me because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:18 PM
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I understand the paradox, im trying to understand why your too stupid to figure it out. Probably coincides with the republican anti education mind set.. Anyways sweet dreams fascist snowflake
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:00 AM
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So your in favor of complete tolerance of all ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:29 AM
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Right. Either you have something else to say about why you disagree with the paradox of tolerance, or you dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:06 AM
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I've never seen it used racially. I dont know your race.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:05 PM
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I've only ever seen it used by right wingers against gen z and millennial students to make fun of them for wanting a just world, or for providing a positive spin on uniqueness, regardless of that person's color.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 10:58 PM
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Wow I thought snowflake was the preferred term for easily offended people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 10:55 PM
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Is snowflake a racial slur?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 10:49 PM
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Youve been calling me a leftist for 3 messages. Pretty sure you outed your alignment. quite the snowflake you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 10:39 PM
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So your only arguing against me? not the point or example. I think you're showing how the right argues... No facts, just feelings and insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 10:18 PM
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I agree. Im not the end all arbitrator of this, but imo, Speech that; 1)An intent to suppress another's freedoms (eg, religion, right to assembly, right to healthcare, can add in the standard western ones like, life liberty and persuit of happiness.) 2) discriminatory (eg, targets groups based on protected classes like race, religion, sexuality, gender) 3) Violent speech (inciting violence, justifies harm, or promotes hate) 4) anti-pluralist (me or them ideas. Ie, great replacement theory promot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:55 PM
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I agree. But its also why I said it in response to "so much for the tolerant left". Its not a gotcha, if left and right, we, can agree that being endlessly tolerant is not even a good thing. Both left and right need to be intolerant to the interlorent. This to me means all forms of racism, sexism, and authoritarianismism on either end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:22 PM
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My point was neither pro left or pro right. My point was that tolerance cannot not be unlimited. You can agree or disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:08 PM
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So I'm also not saying that all indian men agree with the culture that promotes honor killings. Im asking how far you think tolerance should extend to? Your also not making a clear point, Are you arguing against my example, are you arguing against the idea of a paradox of tolerance, or are you arguing against me unrelated to above?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:03 PM
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So an example; One person believe we should accept all cultures and aspects of their culture into our western society. The person whos society they are coming from believes honor killings are sometimes okay. Should we allow honor killings to be tolerant to their culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:24 PM
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what projection lol. Can you not understand concepts and use logic without it being spoon fed to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:15 PM
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Your welcome to clarify instead of being purposefully obtuse? im just explaining the concept of the paradox. Its fine if you hate the example. I can try with a more right wing friendly example if thats what irked you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:04 PM
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So you think the paradox of tolerance is a leftist propoganda?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:00 PM
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My original question, was whether or not someone understands the paradox of tolerance. Thats what you responded to. Do you understand the paradox of tolerance? How much tolerance do you feel should be extended to the intolerant?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:47 PM
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Were talking a concept here, no actual or any individual people. I am not attributing either stance to a party or person. You are projecting your own ideas and meanings based on the example provided, and i think its clouding your understanding of the concept itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:35 PM
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I didnt mention slavery as an issue i thought you were in favor of, but just a clear example where I hoped we could agree, because we are talking about a concept here. Your saying the concept is garbage, because people can misinterpret it and justify authoritarianism. Thats not an argument against the paradox of tolerance, thats an argument against how people use a valid concept in bad faith. I agree there can be false equivalence used, but thats not what im doing when I describe an example that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:31 PM
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May I ask what conservative values you've been attacked for?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:24 PM
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No its really not. One person thinks everyone should live happily without interference from the government. One other person thinks colored people should be slaves to serve cacausian people. Is being tolerant of both those ideas the same? In fact, being interolerant to some things is morally good. Being intolerant to murder, rape, or racism, is culturally, and morally acceptable. All things you agree should be a law, are things you are interolerrant to in a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:51 PM
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So what you said is you dont understand the paradox of tolerance. If you're tolerant to the intolerant, eventually intolerance takes over. Ie. I am tolerant to everyones religion, but if someone's religion says that they are superior based on their skin color, and they try to impose that as a systemic belief, it becomes a problem. Being tolerant to bigotry makes more bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:46 PM
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Ever heard of the paradox of tolerance?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:07 PM
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Women will not believe a man like jack can exist, without him having some huge flaw. They'll each pick a different flaw, but they'll make sure to assign him one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 07:36 PM
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The woman in the video says that the men who she encountered "are not the unethical creeps you typically think of, they're the normal men, who want basic affection" and you take this as they're cowards? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 07:32 PM
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I agree its misguided. Maybe not surprising, but extremely disappointing. Two things can be true at once; 1) there can be issues with government policy, inflation, and issues with vetting immigration standards 2) racists can use this as an opportunity to fuel hate and spread division.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:34 PM
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In the west there is a hierarchy of attractiveness based on race. individuals aren't stuck there, but there is an overall general consensus. There is also recently a large amplification of hate towards Indians (at least in canada, not sure of the states). Indians are blamed for all of the current economic problems of the country. Don't believe me? Just look at the Canada subreddit and there's a good chance the top comment is something about indian immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:44 PM
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I don't even think my wife is attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:39 PM
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lol if thats true I guess im even uglier than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:40 AM
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I mean, whats the advantage to someone telling you they settled for you? To make you feel bad or worse about yourself? I could even argue at the point that if a partner is telling you they settled for you, they are intentionally trying to harm you in some way. And settling or not, at that point why do you want to be with someone who would do that to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:50 PM
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Don't have to be, or cant be. lol. Most of us aren't working by choice to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:56 PM
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I've seen a few definitions of game in here, so it's context dependant. Only a bad salesman makes you feel like you're being sold, and to your point, there's a possibility because it's a product you dont want. But even products where people want that thing, sales people are still necessary. Especially with more complicated sales items. Tooth brush, salesperson is not really necessary. Customized software tailored to your company? Probably need a sales person to go through it. Some people are nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:33 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:32 PM
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I was hoping this was leading to giantess women. sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:28 PM
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Most religions are anti women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:25 PM
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Its basically idiocracy in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:23 PM
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I wouldn't worry about Erika. Those guys that call her a whore are probably still donating to her and turning point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:20 PM
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Mike Israetel is a red piller?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:18 PM
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These doctors are great. But is the implication if your not in gaza saving lives, you lack empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:13 PM
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I'm just saying as a man, we hear a lot of conflicting commentary, and it appears to be a small minority that is concerned with this. And a larger community of women that have the exact opposite opinion of this, in that not enough men haven't gotten the hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:29 PM
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You seem to be the only woman concerned about the "men being gone". A larger percentage of women seem to think not enough men have gotten the hint to leave women alone. Though, only the respectful ones get the hint to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:54 PM
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John Cena theme
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:53 PM
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What can I say, I wish them luck 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:26 PM
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I agree with the first part, they're mostly screaming into the void. But they would never be completely silent until they off themselves, and even then someone else takes their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:55 PM
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Shared custody of their two kids. He kept the house, and she moved in with her affair partner. As far as I know she is still married to the new guy. The husband took a few years but is dating someone younger now and is clearly scared or at least avoiding any commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:48 PM
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Could you clarify this comment and the "see above". I could be misinterpreting, but I think your meaning to say that women forced these men away somehow? And is that meant to somehow be a direct implication that of something about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:31 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:56 PM
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I only know the information (probably not the whole story) on about 3 divorces. 1) He couldn't explain missing money. He was pulling out money from savings and won't say what for. Sketchy. 2) Possibly green card style marriage? he changed after the he got his citizenship. Not sure if he wanted the marriage or if he was using her. 3) She was sleeping with other men. She remarried with her affair partner immediately after the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:45 PM
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Same bro. same
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:33 PM
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And to clarify, opt out means peacefully exist but not burden others right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:35 PM
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Appreciate the positivity, this subreddit generally lacks that. I don't agree with calling myself high value (even then) but I'm also suicidal and clearly struggle with any positive feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:33 PM
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Your right, I shouldn't be increasing my value to women. I'm happily married 🤷.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:37 PM
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I think it's an interesting topic. I agree there is more social stigma to women who engage in casual sex than men. I wondered if there are any examples of flipping this that would indicate something similar: For women; if you find a man your interested in; would it affect you attraction moving forward if he slept with; 1) your best friend 2) Your cousin/sister This is a preference question, but I ask because if anyone would lose attraction over this, I assume it has nothing to do with disliking …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:14 PM
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Oh please elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:54 PM
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It's a really weird thing to say to a stranger online with little context of my appearance, lifestyle, etc. But sure. I'll look at it like I've got 4 more years on the upswing 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:49 PM
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Oh, you're saying that I'll peak when I hit 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:26 PM
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In 4 years, my age range of women will change beyond 15+/-?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:24 PM
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36
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:18 PM
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Cool cool
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:16 PM
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Are you in favor of the men who say, 'im opting out'?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:52 PM
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I find it interesting you chose the guy whose flair says depressionmaxed to make that response to? Has this user specifically said those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:50 PM
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Age range blinders definitely have an affect. I find for my age I can look up or down 15 years, and still find 50% of women in that age range reasonably attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:45 PM
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I can't speak for others, but I have no assumption that women would want to have casual sex with me. I can understand others being jealous of those having it, but i dont have a delusion that I'm entitled to it or the kind of man a woman would want to have casual sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:43 PM
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Most men I know put a lot of effort into their appearance between haircuts, time in the gym, clothing, cologne ect. I've heard plenty of men complain about lack of abs, or struggling to gain/lose weight. Or that their biceps/calf/insert muscle is too small. Along with the other things they cant change like penis size or height, color of skin ect. In general, it takes a long time for the gym to pay off, and they can easily sabotage that with an occasional bad diet. The other stuff only makes much…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:14 PM
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Uh, because my first name is Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:09 PM
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I've always heard it as the "arrogance of a mediocore white man." Edit: Actual quote is "Confidence of a mediocore white man" - The love hypothesis
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:56 PM
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I have heard many absurd takes on ppd, this isn't one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:24 PM
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I think maybe for older men who never had children but wanted children. I think it would be a second choice after they accepted reality of not having their own though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:22 PM
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Women not chosing to reproduce with someone, would probably fit the definition of natural selection in that he won't be able to pass on his genes. Most darwinists do not agree with natural selection as a moral stand point, but they acknowledge its force and effects on humanity. For example, if scientists and people who believed in darwinism thought it was moral, they would be against medical intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:15 PM
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Maybe true, but you dont generally become a billionare without being a ruthless greedy psychopath. So they probably love the pressure or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:47 PM
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What pressure? You dont even need a billion dollars to have "fuck you" money. At that point, it doesn't matter what anyone says or thinks, your money will solve most of your problems. A simple return of 3% annually gives you 30 million annually to spend. You can pretty much have, or do anything you want with that money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:40 PM
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I'll probably agree with the 'manosphere' being intentionally misleading and ect, but does that not apply to every man (person) on here then? What good is a debate sub if the premise is, everyone is lying in bad faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:08 PM
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Highest tax slabs? is that like tax brackets for the richest?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:22 PM
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I like the flavor of rib eye, but the tenderness of filet. I guess I just like all cuts for their respective qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:22 PM
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So is it me or have you latest points come down to that men aren't reliable narrators, and nothing they can say should be trusted, so we should defer to your judgment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:20 PM
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Probably not. Considering its just a fantasy, why wouldn't I just fantasize that I am the billionaire?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:16 PM
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People prefer Strong and Wrong to Weak and Right. Just look at the current president, people voted for stupidity and bravado.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:15 PM
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no problem, my previous comment was intended only as a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:00 PM
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Raja committed assault (maybe even attempted murder) because of a fragile ego. He was completely in the wrong, and any remorse I'd feel for him in this situation evaporated watching that video. Syko Stu deserves all the sympathy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:59 PM
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Probably not much different in philosophy than I would as a man, except that I'd likely have many more opportunities arise and I'd have more power in selection. The goal would be the same either way though, finding someone with like values, and vision for their life, that I enjoy being around/enjoys being around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:05 PM
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Plato (who were refrencing when we say platonic love) in his dialogue Symposium, tells about a myth how humans were originally whole beings, with two faces, four arms and four legs. According to the myth, Zues split all of these beings in half, and ever since we have been searching for our "other half" or soulmate, to feel complete. Obviously, I don't believe that Zues split us in half. But the search for that missing element is beyond a physical desire to have your 'dick wet'. We, collectively …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:57 PM
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I mean it is a feeling. That's not untrue. I can appreciate that if you haven't felt it, it's hard to understand, and not any easier to explain. Its really the difference from saying you love someone vs you're in love with someone. Not sure if that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:50 PM
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It also explains why bringing that up made her all of a sudden want to mute me. Before that it was all about wanting to bait me into more arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:41 PM
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I didnt know that (or remember it)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:38 PM
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Here's what AI thinks about fiftypoundpuppy and lillithofbabylon. " Conclusion: Same Mind Behind the Curtain? While we can’t confirm identity without backend data, the stylistic convergence is uncanny. If they’re not the same person, they’re either: Operating under a shared manifesto or ideological playbook. Or one is a sockpuppet or alt account of the other."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:37 PM
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Oh for sure if agree editing can do a lot. Im not sure if youve watched alone or not, but in my opinion it's one of the shows doing the best for not really creating a story at all. Editing is comes down to using what footage was interesting and in general chronological order for the most part, and adding in like facts at the bottom. Like "those snails jim ate totaled 113 calories" for example. They do add in scenery shots, or cut to animals or add in animal noises i think, but its generally if i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:33 PM
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if you look at their post histories they seem to alternate making posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:09 PM
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Just here to argue eh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:08 PM
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Please do!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:08 PM
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Are you, windmillflowers, and lillith just alternate accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:07 PM
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I mean, your really good at baiting it no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:06 PM
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You do you. But wow you must be fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:04 PM
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Just trying to be positive. Sorry if that came across like trying to piss in your cornflakes. I agree its a niche show, pulling in a niche experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:00 PM
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I don't think you needed to come out the gate at 100% anger. I think it would have been fine to just say, the niche show attracts niche people and doesn't represent the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:56 PM
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I get what you mean, but the weekly continuity is pretty good. They tell you the exact day. These people are all generally well versed survivalists. You see the struggles from them everyday, what they got to eat, or how long between meals it has been. days are common. They get weekly doctor check ups. Its not uncommon for people to lose 40+ lbs. People use the camera as their only companion, and talk to it like a friend. You see people get injured badly, cut badly, medically tapped frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:54 PM
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I do notice that as well. Keeping your mind busy is absolutely a skill necessary for the show. I think the show only attracts a very specific type of person, and as a result, you have a very biased sample that doesnt apply to the general population in a way you can extrapolate anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:41 PM
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This show is real, but it doesnt intend to make any claims about social society ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:36 PM
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Its not a documentary in that there is no agenda to the show, like there's no grand point being made. It is unscripted tv, that does provide tons of survival facts, but it has no intention of providing any commentary on men or women. Just which individual survivalist can survive alone in the chosen wilderness for the longest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:35 PM
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One thing I notice, independent of gender, is that a bit of struggle keeps people there longer. The person who wants to build a log cabin, as soon as they accomplish that task, they tap. The person getting lots of fish, comfortable, gets bored, makes a chess set, taps. The person catching one fish every week, for some reason cant move on. Not always, just see it a lot. Also age of the kids, the younger they are the more likely they tap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:29 PM
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Sounds like a fully functioning system.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:08 PM
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Yeah but that money is funneled into sweet sweet capitalist for profit prisons; so its "good for the economy."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:49 PM
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Lol i dunno tbh I find it a weird premise that I cant wrap my head around. I dont get why there's any correlation between the chocolate and the gift she fantasized about. Treat the chocolate gift as chocolate, react normally to that. If she wants to additionally fantasize about me giving her the bracelet, why one or the other. Take the chocolate, react as you like (and if you dont I should be finding gifts you would like at what i can afford), and you can still spend all night falling asleep ima…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:33 PM
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Oof, I dont know. I think it also depends on how severe the pretending is. Like is she walking around pretending she has the bracelet/telling her friends? Or is she opening the chocolates, mentally fantasizing for a few minutes, then going back and eating the chocolate and acknowledging it's chocolate. I think its how far are we disconnected from reality. I think id probably prefer she even just said she wants the bracelet but acknowledges we cant financially afford it right now vs pretending. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:22 PM
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I mean, she sounds a bit delusional in that situation and I guess I'd be worried about her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:02 PM
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Wouldnt you see it on her face when its chocolate and not a Tiffany's bracelet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:52 PM
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If you go out in public, people can and will look at you, regardless of how you dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:40 PM
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While I probably don't support it, I think this should be allowed if both parties agree. If the custodial parent feels they are properly compensated, and perhaps doesnt even want the other parent involved, this could be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:38 PM
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I definitely agree that there are some prominent figures in this community who seem to have the sole goal of gatekeeping the experience of lonely people and purposely invalidate their feelings for what seems to be the goal of "dunking on losers"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:29 PM
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I mean, you're still overall advocating that less people care about their kids, because presumably your target is women who do care about their kids who you believe should care less than they currently do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:09 PM
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Isn't your suggestion that women also stop caring about their kids? Instead of, men should care more?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:34 PM
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Anyone abandoning their kids is pathetic, gender aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:31 PM
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I'm just saying, if you personally think its a punishment to a husband to give them the kids, and because the trade off of being more attractive to men is better than being with your kids, your probably a bad mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:06 PM
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I mean if you want to abandon your children as some sort of weapon to the man that impregnated you so that you can be more attractive to other men in the dating scene, I fully agree. Because I think those children will be better off with the man who doesn't see his children like that than a mother who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:16 PM
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Hope you find what your looking for mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:04 AM
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Your name is almost implying the inverse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:49 PM
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What percentage of people are lonely, and what percentage are victim complexes? How harshly do you recommend we treat people with victim complexes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:25 PM
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What other emotions should we have verified by you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:45 PM
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So the male loneliness epidemic is a ridiculed joke, not particularly supported by general public, and you checks notes, need to make a weekly post to ridicule it further?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:37 PM
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You're gonna gatekeep colors now too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:29 PM
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Lol depression is a hell of a thing but ill take all as my own. I don't blame others, but apparently I'm also not allowed to feel whatever i feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:59 PM
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Wait so let's get this straight. The post is to say you believe too many people validate the feelings of lonely men. So the goal is, youd like to convince more people to ridicule, self proclaimed lonely men. Because they're not lonely in a way you agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:47 PM
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Apparently me, i called her the Gatekeeper. Let's take it it's logical conclusion. Let Lillith be the gate keeper. We must submit applications to lilith for approval of our feelings!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:44 PM
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I'm not a red piller, and was saying it for your peace of mind not theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:40 PM
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"So you just ignore people causing their own problems just because they pity themselves? Cool, but Im not doing that and neither are other people." Maybe you should? It seems occupies too much of your brain. I called you the Gatekeeper 2 days ago, and you stewed for days before coming to the conclusion that yes, you should be the Gatekeeper of feelings? Super weird conclusion for people you dont know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:00 PM
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I think at great question should be at what point do we defer to lillith for credibility. I petition we change the subreddit from purple pill to Lillith dictates. How about we have a form where lonely men (obviously lying) can submit a form for approval and get a certified acceptable loneliness badge upon written approval from "The Gatekeeper" Before you say it's logicistically impossible, you can just set it to autodeny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:51 PM
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Lol i also feel personally responsible for a few
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:34 PM
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I feel like your making posts to call out various things I've called you out on. Okay Lillith, you win. Feelings are only valid if you personally agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:31 PM
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Oh for sure. I just said it reminded me of that. I love ugly dogs as well. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:00 PM
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The attraction over time thing reminds me of the "ugly" dog thats so ugly it swings back around to being cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:40 PM
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I appreciate acts of kindness, including cooking and cleaning. I also like to cook for people, cleaning not as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:29 PM
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Or those guys are flawed in other ways. I'm sure the hot/crazy matrix applies to men as well. At least to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:51 PM
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They key to being lonely, is to be actually lonely...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:53 AM
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Thats great. But see how we found 3 different dictionary definitions and none of that miscommunication was related to emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:36 PM
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Well the Oxford dictionary definition of settling is "resolve or reach an agreement about argument or dispute". Mirriam Webster defines it settling as related to sediment in wine. In the dictionary definitions, neither definition is very relevant to concept were discussing. Which is why starting with a common foundation of definition is helpful. Have you ever read a complicated legal contract? There will always be a section of definitions of words used in the contract so that there is a clear un…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:25 PM
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I dont really understand what your saying. Are you saying women have a different definition due to their feelings on the word settling, and it's a different definition than yours? If so, can you define both?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:02 PM
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Yeah i disagree. Whether or not there is an emotion attached to the word is irrelevant to me, so long as both sides are speaking about the same thing. If we dont qualify and agree on the definition, were not even speaking about the same thing. I don't think women are incapable of being objective any more than I think men cant have emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:35 PM
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This is absolutely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:32 PM
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Insecurity and dogs chasing cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:14 PM
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If being in a relationship makes it impossible to be lonely, why is it a bad thing that lonely men want a relationship? According to your above comment, if it's a good relationship is a 100% guaranteed solve rate of loneliness. But dont dare a man say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:04 PM
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My argument would only be that the term settling should be defined as staying in a relationship with someone you will not be happy with long term. This means problems further down the relationship with resentment. In that scenario, no one, man or woman, should want to be settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:59 PM
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I actually think this is funny. Your saying that there is this magical uniquess that a man cannot replicate without a woman, and that his horniness cannot be satiated otherwise because nothing is the same. But on the flip side, you also scold men who say they want that. Funny how both are simultaneously true. Sure, some guys are lying for sympathy. But its bad faith to assume that of everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:32 PM
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This all stems from you saying you are the gatekeeper of the definition of loneliness. A man cannot be lonely, and want a relationship at the same time or he's a horny liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:18 PM
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People can spend their money however they want. And not wanting to kink shame either, i dont blame you for taking money by any means. If you don't take their money someone else will. But, I just know for a subsection of these men, it's like a gambling addiction, where they're spending their money to try to get a high, that leaves them worse off both financially and mentally. In this situation some of these men are giving more than they have for a desperate attempt at human connection, that is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:11 PM
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I'm for people doing whatever they want consensually, though many areas can blur lines. We talk about power dynamics in relationships as being an issue, rightfully so in many cases. I'd say the average man is against gold diggers because they cant afford them, for one, and women will defend the gold digger, but criticize men buying sex work. I'm iffy at best between sex work, but in an assumption all are legal, consensual, willing with no trafficking ect. To me the difference between gold diggin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:40 PM
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If you look at my initial response, I am in favor of men (and women) calling out those men. This isn't a gotcha, were in agreement. Edit: were only not in agreement if you believe women should turn a blind eye to women doing or saying harmful things. I dunno for presumably reasons of hurting men is more important than helping people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:12 PM
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Its great you noticed that the things I said aren't women's specific traits! That's actually part of the point. I view women as human, therefore they are capable of everything a human is, both good and bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:55 PM
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emotional manipulation, playing victim, using affection as a weapon, jealousy and possessiveness, gaslighting, cheating, public shaming or humiliation, using sex as manipulation, weaponizing children or family, weaponizing insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:34 PM
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Are you saying women are incapable of bad behavior outside of gold digging?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:37 PM
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You might not be saying they shouldn't whine, but someone else is!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:21 PM
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There sure are men who do that! And I dont even have huge problem with it since being single is one of many multiple factors in being lonely. They could have social anxieties, were isolated by a partner and the relationship ended, moved to a new city, they could have lost a love one or the only people they had close relationships. They could have depression, or mental illness, or have been abused. There can be thousands of reasons each as unique as the person, that dont require reducing it to: m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:18 PM
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Its reductionary to say that everyone who says they're lonely is actually just horny, and that men can't tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:58 PM
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Then they can get a fleshlight, or find a no homo bro hole, if it's the hole that matters so much. Seriously though, let's be honest, Do you think you know the emotions of every man on this subreddit better than themselves. And every man on this subreddit cannot tell the difference between being horny and being lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:33 PM
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If loneliness was just about blue balls, jerking off would relieve them of feeling lonely. I know that jerking off doesn't make me feel less lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:15 PM
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I really think you make a huge jump assuming everyone here who says I'm lonely = blue balls. But I guess thats where we can agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:04 PM
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Okay, whats the correct way to "actually be lonely"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:32 PM
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We can be really specific and say that lonely men shouldn't complain about not having a girlfriend sure. Which I'll agree is only one possible factor in the overall emotion of being lonely. But there has to be about 2 dozen posts in the last months from OP that say men just want to whine they're lonely and its about X (insert choice topic of the moment. Only 'want their dicks wet', or 'only mad their not chads' or 'dont try hard enough' or 'are aiming too high' or ect') The common domininator is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:30 PM
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I agree with the second part, but OP is saying that lonely men should stop whining, presumably about being lonely at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:46 PM
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Please correct me if im wrong, I'm telling you this is what it sounds like to me. Your saying the problem isn't lonely men, it's hearing about and from lonely men. Let's take your idea to its conclusion, lonely men stop whining. What changes in this scenario? Men are still lonely, but everyone has avoided bothering you by posting about or talking about their feeling of loneliness. If thats the ideal outcome, why dont you petition the mods to ban any men who say they're lonely! Problem solved! it…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:44 PM
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I didn't even want to consider the logistics. Edit: I mean, at least without knowing the budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:06 PM
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I'm leaving it vague, since I think there are too many things to list that an individual person can do or say that I think is harmful or toxic, without it necessarily being a reflection on the gender as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:01 PM
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Checks notes; so what percentage of the government budget of funds received from taxes should go towards wife distribution?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:14 PM
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"Perhaps when males claim they're lonely, they should ACTUALLY BE LONELY, instead whining about not having a girlfriend" So please correct me if I'm wrong, because what I hear from this is; Its okay if men are lonely, but they can't whine. When does a complaint or airing a grievance become whining? In my opinion it becomes whining when someone doesn't want to hear it. I can fully appreciate you dont want to hear it, or that your tired of hearing it, but I don't agree that men shouldn't be allowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:03 PM
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Its actually just point one from your post. If men are lonely, be lonely, but don't be seen or heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:48 PM
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No, I don't agree with victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:32 PM
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I can appreciate saying men need to call out bad behavior from men. I can also appreciate the inverse of women should be calling out bad behavior amongst women. But it always seems like one of your major gripes is that men complain at all. Is it just your preferred outcome from this just that any lonely man or man with a complaint, just leave this forum entirely?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:22 PM
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Are women with small breasts, not female, because your not attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:23 PM
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If that's true, than OP is the wrong one stating the difference in genders comes from breasts. im aware there are more differences, breasts are a terrible standard to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:25 PM
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Of course, but i think really your nitpicking the hyperbole in the response to OP. If they had said it all comes down to jawline, or to lack of facial hair ect, the rebuttal would have been in line with that. The fact that many women can have small breasts, doesnt make them less of a woman, or stop them from being harassed by men, or prevent them from looking like a sexy presenting female. Really it's that boobs aren't what OP is claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:24 PM
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I think you missed the hyperbole. It doesnt matter if the biggest boobs on a woman are bigger than the biggest boobs on a man. The point was that boobs, no matter how big, are not the explanation for the entire divide of genders. Can you agree with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:11 PM
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Without getting into specifics, because we aren't really arguing the same topic, is that it's OP saying boobs make this huge a difference. Its me and the previous poster your disagreeing with saying, there's more to it than boobs, no matter how big they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:08 PM
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So your saying you agree with OP, in that boobs, or lack there of boobs, defines all the differences in the genders...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:05 PM
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The counter point to your point is, then putting boobs on the body of a man, would make him attractive. Or maybe the overall argument is, the boobs aren't everything OP is claiming?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:59 PM
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I dunno man, I like muscular women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:57 PM
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Thank you, wish you the best as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:07 PM
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Yes, my wife loves to travel so we usually do multiple trips per year. She will start planning vacations before we get home from the vacation were on. I enjoy them, I look forward to them, but as is everything they are only temporary and i only feel better temporarily. As far as my job, while it is a stressful position, the finances take away stress in other areas of my life, and this job is the best I could ever hope for with my skill set without taking on more responsibility. I guess the only …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:03 PM
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weed and alcohol... My mood instantly improves when drinking, im suddenly a pleasure to be around. When im high I cant focus on the negative thoughts, I get too distracted to keep a train of thought. I somehow manage to hold down a high profile job where the impacts of my work make local news frequently, but outside of my 9-5, or other obligations, I'm almost gauranteed to be high, drunk, or both. I dont drink/smoke and drive, so that i'm not danger to others, but the long term affects are just …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:56 PM
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I guess at least you know his reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:57 PM
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Thats only something someone says when they have enough money, so i guess good for you. Obviously it's a good thing you have enough, and that your haply your husband is putting aside a nest egg, but I'd be more worried about why your husband feels the need to hide it from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:51 PM
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She's aware of it, I've spoken to therapists, couples therapists with her present. She says it makes her sad. So I try and pretend it's not happening for her sake. No idea if I'll ever actually do it but most of the time, it seems like it's inevitable. Like, I'm here on borrowed time anyways. I planned to have done it over, I guess 8 years ago now, and without going into too many specifics, that day came and went. I didnt tell her until about 5 years after the event and she said she had no idea.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:52 PM
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Its been years, you get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:45 PM
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Came here to say something similar lol. Im not attracted to big breasts on a guy, and i am attracted to small breasts on a woman. My factor of attraction is not correlated to breasts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:44 PM
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Is this what women mean when they say the bar is in hell? (i assume if hell was real thats where ghengis khan would be)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:39 PM
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Hmm. I dont know if I have secrets of 'men' itself to share. I can only think of my own personal secrets that I dont share. Like I dont tell my spouse how often I think of killing myself, or how often I replay insecurities, cringe scenarios, ways she may have wronged me over the years that while I have forgiven her for its hard to forget. It's not generally productive to talk about, and it only makes her feel bad. So when she wants to know what im thinking about and I say nothing, I'm thinking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:35 PM
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I have a strong suspicion OP was caught cheating at some point, lost someone they regret losing as a result of it, or potentially now let that same boyfriend be other women as compensation for her infidelity? Not really healthy in my opinion but you do you. I think outside of cucks won't be okay with some form of "compensation" to make up for infidelity. You mention that this is for guys who have no other options, and won't have other options. What's to stop this person from cheating on you agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:24 PM
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He is a leukemia survivor. He was a self starter and independent business owner. More creative than he let on and always optimistic about his abilities. I think he was terrible with money, but in his mind he could always just earn more. He's a hoarder, and i think because he went through a bankruptcy he has a hard time throwing things out. He likes to spend money, he likes luxury, and he likes being the center of attention. He can hold a grudge. He worked a lot during my childhood and I spent mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:54 PM
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I just really doubt you've heard it 10 trillion times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:57 PM
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About to approach an attractive woman, just remember wwgkd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:04 PM
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I think only to the degree that 'bad men' dont hide their toxicity from other men. I frequently hear comments from other men that gross me out or make me question their character, but they dont expose themselves to the women they're dating or sleeping unless some shit storm hits the fan. And if they're good with women, they can just jump to the next woman. The men i know with the highest body counts, are by far the most misogynistic and womanizing people i have ever met, but they know how 'play …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:46 PM
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I think each individual sets that bar of settling vs compromise, and not just on looks but on any factor you choose to judge a person. Settling is the point where you yourself won't be happy with this person, but you choose to stay there anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:56 PM
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I think everyone has a list, and should be willing to compromise, but settling is compromising somewhere below where you will be happy long term. Hence why most people shouldn't want to be 'settled' for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:06 PM
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What was proved? Im just trying to clarify your assertion, not agree or disagree with anything until I understand it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:56 PM
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I dont understand. Are you saying that 'nice guys' refuse to acknowledge there are women willing to settle for men they aren't attracted to, and that should be their goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:49 PM
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I think there's an assortment of reasons, one of the biggest not being dependant for survival on a man. But aren't you sort of speaking for 3.5 billion women kind of in a broad stroke to something id say 99.9% of heterosexual women would disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:13 PM
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Have you considered that maybe because your not attracted to men, you think no one else is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:09 PM
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I've found my own way, even if it's shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:26 PM
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Many of the things I hate are unchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:18 PM
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Eh, might be worse than that. I dont like who i am, and I won't ever, but im okay with that cause I won't be here forever. I appreciate the conversation but it likely won't be productive further. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:12 PM
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It's also the thing where we went from; Make your soup. Sell your soup. Maybe your soup sucks. Why would you keep trying to sell your soup if it sucks. Back to, keep trying to sell your (admitly sucky) soup. As someone who doesnt want to sell soup, and is content on not selling soup anymore, I still want to be able to acknowledge having a soup eater would be nice. Im actually really tired of saying soup. So what im saying is, if a man's lonely and goes through a rough existence he will be told t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:04 PM
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I think it's the repeated prolonged exposure where ones self is nothing but the culmination of their experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:56 PM
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You dont start out believing that. Time and experience tell you that. So then they do what you say, and you stop offering tomato soup. Im talking about the men opting out. Some men blame women, some men blame themselves, some try and change, but even the men opting out feel lonely. It's also much easier to say, tomato soup I make sucks and no one wants it vs I am the tomato soup and no one wants me. One is something detached from you, the other is your identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:28 PM
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Would it not be fair to say 'appearance' and 'moral goodness' are independent factors not generally associated? Or is this specific to introverted nerds for some reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:31 PM
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Maybe tomato soup does suck. We're not saying different things. And if you are tomato soup, and you believe it sucks, you have droves of depressed suicidal tomatoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:09 PM
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Imagine being a tomato farmer, and working your whole life to make a unique special tomato soup your proud of. But after years, everyone has said tomato soup is gross. Youve never met a woman who liked tomato soup. Pretty soon you think no one but you likes tomato soup. Pretty soon after that, you start disliking tomato soup too. Im not saying they should blame others for not liking tomato soup. But you can tell this has been an experience for a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:35 PM
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The headline of the post is "should we pressure men into TRT." Not "Should men discuss with their doctor the risks and benefits of taking testosterone".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:51 PM
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TRT is linked to increased rates of cancer. Let's not pretend this sub is for giving out medical advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:44 PM
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Yeah I didn't see anything that specifically stated I shouldn't be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:43 PM
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I agree. I don't know of 'tough love' or ridicule works on changing behavior on narcissist, but I know it's doesn't work on depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:15 PM
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So I see self pity as a possible indicator of a introverted narcissist. I also see it as a possible indicator of depression. I'm not really well versed in dealing with introverted narcissist, depression on the other hand is like a second home to me. I prefer to speak with empathy to those people, and I find it odd to make post after post to indiscriminately target both groups unless they get some sort of satisfaction from punching down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:59 PM
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Ah I see. Can't argue that they aren't here. I guess I'm not sure the relevance to my original question about why a particular user despises anyone with self pity. But I guess you can say you see anyone with self pity as a introverted narcissist and despise those.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:37 PM
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Okay what are you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:32 PM
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So far, you've said; self pity = bad because "abusive behaviour" = justified to despise people who have any self pity. Did I at least summarize it correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:30 PM
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I guess I was engaging in good faith discussion, hoping you'd be able to provide more information on your stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:27 PM
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I'm interested in hearing more. Like self pity can cause you to harm others? ie like mass shooters or did you have a different example in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:23 PM
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Sure, but is the existence of people with self pity enough to fuel a personal crusade against them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:12 PM
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You seem to really despise people with any ounce of self pity. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:19 PM
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I find whoever has the higher cleanliness standard ends up doing the work/or nagging. I'd say I do about 75% of the household chores, including cleaning, though we each have chores we prefer to do over the other. But my wife doesn't seem to care as much as I do, so I end up taking the initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:13 PM
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It would be difficult for me to really rate people im not attracted to, but I know which of my friends are more attractive by how women treat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:56 PM
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wait are you equating being indian to a disability? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:10 PM
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So something like, 60% of incels are indian men, because indian men are less desirable and should pair up better based on their race?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 06:26 PM
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What is the context or relevance of this statistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:01 PM
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I dont personally feel I would meet the minimum standards of most women, and I probably seek out posts/comments of the women here who like to punch down on mens insecurities. If I wasn't already with my partner, and we were both single, she would have abundant choice and i likely wouldn't have any. I dont think she would even give me a second look on an app. I get I'm supposed to be grateful for my situation then, but it kind of fuels my desire to end myself and let her go and be happy with some…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:36 PM
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Same for me tbh. Craziness is I am in a relationship and I also come here to be reminded how much better she deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:40 PM
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man same
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:39 PM
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I come here for the exact opposite reason you do. Im depressed and suicidal. I can guarantee that if I come to this subreddit, i'll see something that enrages me, makes me dislike people more, and fuels my depression and suicidalness, makes me and others feel worthless. i think this is a pretty toxic sub with a ton of toxic people saying toxic shit. And It's a great reminder how little I want to be on the planet with these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:23 PM
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Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:16 PM
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I don't follow. I can understand that blue = not red. And I can even understand black is a subsection of blue pill. But then not why one section of blue pill not allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:11 PM
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Doesn't the wiki say no black pill content? How is one allowed and the other not, if they're the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:08 PM
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I think it's jealousy and insecurity. I also mostly hear this over "she did all these things with previous people but doesn't want to with me" vs what I dont hear about very often is "we do this thing we both enjoy but she also did it with other people before"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:26 PM
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The thing I'm most surprised of in your response is knowing incels who are being approached at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:32 PM
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Firstly, no one should be expected fuck anyone they dont want. A 1 shouldnt be expected to fuck a 10, or anyone, they don't want. But secondly, how do you feel about the reverse gender? It's just giving me the same vibes of the fat incel in his mother's basement complaining that gal godot doesn't want to fuck them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:54 PM
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Love is the desire (and choice as others have said) to be together, support each other, and want the best for them, long after the lust has gone. "If soulmates do exist, they're not found, they're made. Two people meet, get a good feeling, and they work to build a relationship." Every day, they choose each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:45 PM
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So in your example a woman who is a 4, should have sex with 7's but date a 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:37 PM
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I think it would be hard long term. Pun not intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:14 PM
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I never "size up" another man unless the interaction had the possibility of a physical threat. This is very rare, and a weird thing for someone to default to. Not to mention, just because a guy is smaller or nerdy looking, it has absolutely no merit to their ability to destroy you in a fight. I think the only people who think like this have masculinity issues, and/or have never been in a fight and must be fantasizing about it. Anyone with fight training absolutely knows to avoid a fight, and tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:44 PM
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Wait, you read the post on the front page, where a girl crashed out on her boyfriend because he wanted to charge his phone while watching a 40 minute show with his dad, on his dad's birthday, and said his girlfriend could still reach him on his sister's phone, when he only sees his family once a month, and she threatens him with self harm/blames him for it after, and thought she was reasonable and the guy was just "too lazy" and its his fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:50 PM
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