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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Why opinion of highly regarded academicians means almost nothing. (Read “insert feminist author”) Looking into feminist arguments: Part 1? If someone tells you to read bell hooks, tell them to read Tommy Curry. Hooks has bigoted opinions about Black men and Curry actually is a Black man.	/r/MensRights	06/03/26 06:59 AM
1	Theorhetical question - Can men just identify as women, and not change their appearance to gain some privileges? Experts have called the treatment of trans women in the United States genocide. The NAACP compared it to Jim Crow. It kind of sucks that both feminists and MRAs complain about trans women so much. Aren't you supposed to be enemies?	/r/MensRights	06/03/26 03:49 AM
32	When women complain about being invisible does it seem like its mostly white women? Why? When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression :)	/r/MensRights	26/02/26 02:40 AM
8	Why haven’t men revolted yet if there’s so much dissatisfaction? The wave of conservative politicians over the past 10 years is a type of revolt imo	/r/MensRights	22/02/26 05:27 PM
5	Feel really scared after reading what women wrote online. Yeah this seems like a bit	/r/MensRights	18/02/26 12:36 PM
5	English Wikipedia classifies men who avoid dating as misogynists Interestingly, there's ample scientific evidence that women are averse to dating outgroup males. One of those outgroups, particularly for white women, is Black men. The aversion to dating Black men increases during ovulation. So white women are more racist when they're ovulating. Here's a not very good article about it: https://www.yahoo.com/news/spotlight-women-may-evolved-avoid-rape-20110114-131339-676.html	/r/MensRights	17/02/26 11:14 PM
2	Look at how virtue signalling falls apart If a man can grab a nurse's ass when his arms don't even work, that's laudable medical breakthrough.	/r/MensRights	16/02/26 10:23 PM
0	Is Epstein Being Used to Replace Even More Men With Women? Siegal clearly had enough clout to get those tickets regardless of who she intended them for. But she didn't intend them for someone else. We're not talking about the Someone Else files. Contrary to your statement that Rowling isn't in the files. Just because I disagree with someones feminism doesn't mean they deserve to be accused of being involved in the sex trafficking of children. Nobody said she trafficked children, but she was definitely fine with helping Epstein after he was convicted.	/r/MensRights	10/02/26 09:49 AM
1	Is Epstein Being Used to Replace Even More Men With Women? Epstein's people requested and received tickets to her play. https://www.justice.gov/epstein/files/DataSet%2011/EFTA02240638.pdf https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peggy_Siegal Interesting that you're pushing back against any criticism of JKR. This isn't the first time I've noticed. By all means, keep defending the wealthiest feminist in the world.	/r/MensRights	10/02/26 08:27 AM
3	Is Epstein Being Used to Replace Even More Men With Women? Laurene Powell Jobs, Ariane de Rothschild, JK Rowling, and Kathryn Ruemmler are some of the high profile women implicated in the Epstein files. That's three billionaires and one of Obama's lawyers. Nobody, male or female, is being tried for any crime, other than Ghislaine Maxwell, but some of these people met with Epstein numerous times. I'm personally fine with cancelling anyone who was more than tangentially involved. I'm sympathetic to the plight of men in America, I promise, but that has mor…	/r/MensRights	10/02/26 06:17 AM
-16	Japan’s Conservatives Claim Landslide Victory > men's rights subreddit > look inside > Japan's first female prime minister	/r/MensRights	09/02/26 11:06 PM
-2	MRAs who lean right, what appeals to you in right ideology? Ppl say rMensRights is right wing, but as a left-leaning centrist, sub gives me more left vibe to me as it completely coincides with my views, but there's also some right wing opinions here I agree on. Can you expand on what right is about? Right. People with an advanced understanding of biology don't share her opinion, which she got from reading lesbian feminists. Feminists side with each other no matter what. They lie to protect each other. The reason MRAs can't defeat feminists is because you'll turn against minorities the moment a feminist tells you to. Edit: I received a notification of a reply (not visible) to this comment starting with "I don't understand what you're trying to say" and buddy, I have to tell you, that doesn't…	/r/MensRights	09/02/26 07:30 PM
2	I was in McDonald's for literally only 20 minutes today and, in that time, they played 3 misandrist/gynocentric songs. You're telling me that I've passed judgement seems like projection. You showed up here to argue with me and with another user. You didn't ask any clarifying questions and you jumped straight into "clearly you don't know the 1st thing about therapy." If that was your therapist's response, There's no "if" about it. It was our first and last interaction. Being an argumentative jackass is not therapeutic. Perhaps you need to find a different therapist. Therapy does not work. Do you also think prayer…	/r/MensRights	09/02/26 03:02 AM
7	I was in McDonald's for literally only 20 minutes today and, in that time, they played 3 misandrist/gynocentric songs. I've been to therapy. It doesn't work. This is literally what therapy is like: Therapist: "So what happened this week?" Me: "My girlfriend broke up with me." Therapist: "You deserved that." The problem with therapists is they simply don't take the time to learn anything about you before they pass judgement (much like you're doing). Since you think you know so much, you should go read Popper's "Conjectures and Refutations," which describes how unscientific the entire process of psychotherapy is.	/r/MensRights	09/02/26 02:38 AM
5	I was in McDonald's for literally only 20 minutes today and, in that time, they played 3 misandrist/gynocentric songs. Feminists already do that. They prevented Tyler the Creator from touring in Australia. Funny how their outrage seems to be directed at minorities in particular.	/r/MensRights	09/02/26 02:27 AM
-2	I was in McDonald's for literally only 20 minutes today and, in that time, they played 3 misandrist/gynocentric songs. Therapy is cargo cult. It works on the placebo effect, like prayer or hypnosis. I don't think it can do anything for people who don't already believe in it.	/r/MensRights	09/02/26 02:25 AM
9	Could the Epstein files trigger a new #MeToo style backlash Unfortunately, given the number of very wealthy people involved with Epstein, it's more likely to lead to more widespread acceptance of pedophilia. As far as I can tell, conservatives cannot admit that the president was involved, so there won't be a bipartisan backlash.	/r/MensRights	08/02/26 02:15 AM
-4	MRAs who lean right, what appeals to you in right ideology? Ppl say rMensRights is right wing, but as a left-leaning centrist, sub gives me more left vibe to me as it completely coincides with my views, but there's also some right wing opinions here I agree on. Can you expand on what right is about? The main thing Rowling talks about is trans people, and she gets her opinions on that topic from right-wingers. A lot of what she says originated in America, from the Catholic right and Heritage Foundation. But more importantly, it says something that your comment, the second from the top, is defending the wealthiest feminist in the world. I assume you're doing this work for free too.	/r/MensRights	07/02/26 11:46 PM
22	"Man I wonder how feminist discourse is going now, it can't be that worse—" lmao twitter feminists use ai now	/r/MensRights	05/02/26 12:34 AM
-3	USA: Texas doctor who performs transgender surgeries on children falsely accused her co-worker of rape after he exposed disturbing procedures at hospital. You are choosing to believe absolute nonsense published by the daily mail, just because it's anti trans. This is despite the fact that feminists accuse trans women of rape constantly. Cis women outnumber us, and because of voter suppression, they vote more than anyone else. If you choose to be hostile to trans women instead of uniting against feminists, you will always lose.	/r/MensRights	24/01/26 07:23 AM
-16	USA: Texas doctor who performs transgender surgeries on children falsely accused her co-worker of rape after he exposed disturbing procedures at hospital. You guys are losing because you focus on anti-trans hoaxes instead of being pro-men.	/r/MensRights	24/01/26 05:34 AM
2	why do women lie about rape? wait this is today? wtf? I think it's since Innocence Project started in the 90s. I'm pretty sure Centurion had a similar figure somewhere. So it includes cases before then, I think going back to the 70s or 60s, but yeah... this is all after the Civil Rights movement either way. During Jim Crow, there were a lot of white women who cheated on their husbands with black men, and then accused the black men of rape in order to get out of trouble. W.E.B. Dubois wrote about this but I don't remember wh…	/r/MensRights	05/10/25 09:59 PM
2	Female teacher who molested boy, 11, then blamed him for coming onto HER learns her fate \| Sentenced to 10 years with credit for time already served. 10 years is real progress imo. In the 80s or 90s she would have walked	/r/MensRights	04/10/25 10:42 PM
2	why do women lie about rape? The best way to catch them is with good old fashioned forensics. Alibis for suspects. DNA evidence. That sort of thing. False rape accusations are not automatically successful, and tend to succeed more against victims who cannot afford a good lawyer, or who are subject to other institutional biases. 60% of false accusations (ones that we can prove are false) are against black men1,2. As for why they do it, there seems to be some evolutionary conditioning to view outgroup males as rapists3. The c…	/r/MensRights	04/10/25 09:48 PM
2	Most White men don't feel discriminated against, according to 10 years of New Zealand data For all I know, it could really be a different story in NZ. I don't think this can be generalized outside of there either way.	/r/MensRights	01/10/25 11:00 PM
6	US to end preferential requirements for women in combat arms positions The only thing that should matter is ability to do the work. We need to learn to be more results-driven and not put arbitrary groups above the needs of the country as a whole. China is going to trounce us geopolitically in coming decades. They do a lot that I disagree with, but their economy isn't full of people who literally can't do their job, collecting a paycheck just for being a member of some gender or racial group.	/r/MensRights	01/10/25 10:58 PM
3	US to end preferential requirements for women in combat arms positions The military banned men in dresses some months ago btw	/r/MensRights	01/10/25 10:54 PM
2	Sister of boy, 17, who killed himself after being falsely accused of rape breaks down as she recalls the night he took his own life. OP: Of course the girl was not prosecuted. Man, I just don't believe that gang rape is common. You can't convince two guys to have a threesome, so how the fuck are there gangs of 5 men running around, all agreeing on a single target? All the famous examples I can think of (Central Park 5, UVA hoax, the recent accusations against Palestinians) have been debunked.	/r/MensRights	22/09/25 09:11 PM
19	Feminist sub debates the aptness of calling men trash, overwhelmingly agrees that REVENGE for the past 4000 years is a "fair and sensible" justification Feminism actually has all the markers of fascism, especially the victim mentality and mythologizing the past.	/r/MensRights	22/09/25 09:01 PM
2	who is your least favorite feminist and why? Stanton and Anthony also buried Ida B. Wells' contributions to feminism because she was black and they disagreed with her over allowing black people to vote. They were extremely racist, even called out for it back then.	/r/MensRights	22/09/25 08:56 PM
1	New subreddit against collective shout censorship of men's hobbies Liberal feminists say that they reject these misandrist, racist, and transphobic second-wave feminists, yet they don't. Not in any way that matters. I'd be elated if a feminist stood up and said "rape culture was invented in the 70s to throw minorities in jail," but instead it's only me and black guys who say that.	/r/MensRights	13/09/25 11:17 PM
1	New subreddit against collective shout censorship of men's hobbies Don't play word games with me. They're associated with Spinifex press, a radical feminist publisher. https://www.spinifexpress.com.au/caitlinroper https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caitlin_Roper	/r/MensRights	13/09/25 10:19 PM
2	Policeman questions father because he's sitting on a bench with his son. In the past I've read stories like this on this sub and this video exemplifies these events. Mary Daly is a direct influence on the people behind Collective Shout too	/r/MensRights	12/09/25 10:10 PM
7	New subreddit against collective shout censorship of men's hobbies They're a regressive lobbying group from Australia, with ties to both present day feminism and second-wave feminism, responsible for the lobbying that led to the recent incidents of Steam and Itch censoring games. Also they got Tyler the Creator to cancel a tour in Australia, for some reason.	/r/MensRights	12/09/25 10:09 PM
1	Is finding a girlfriend improbable for gen z men? It's improbable, not because you're 5'8" specifically, it's just generally improbable for nearly everyone. You're right to worry about the indoctrination in schools. It has been going on since the 1970s here. There's not much to do about that other than try not to stand out too much, or otherwise make yourself an easy target for false accusations.	/r/MensRights	12/09/25 01:07 AM
30	Skittles argument I hear about Wow, yet another link between feminism and fascism! Thank you.	/r/MensRights	09/09/25 09:20 PM
18	I „dared“ to ask questions What I cannot understand, however, is how the situation has escalated to the point where unfounded accusations—some suggesting misogyny—are being directed at me Women use something called a "whisper network" to do this. When they don't have the type of formal complaint that can succeed in a courtroom, they will try to undermine you socially instead. Try to document everything you can. You probably did nothing wrong in your original "offense," but might have upset the female physicians' sense of …	/r/MensRights	09/09/25 04:59 PM
4	Question about feminist appropriation of historical figures Yes, this is a good description. A lot of the problems feminists complain of, abortion illegality for example, are solved by deciding they're not the government's business.	/r/MensRights	09/09/25 01:02 AM
4	Question about feminist appropriation of historical figures I mean, he was genuinely feminist for the day. He was a mega wifeguy and was crushed to lose her. The intro of On Liberty goes into this, in my version anyway. I agree that they might not appreciate him now because he's a white male libertarian techbro 😏 but feminism meant more than hating men back then.	/r/MensRights	09/09/25 12:59 AM
36	Why have a small segment men at the top let women run rampant in society? Western society is, broadly, three groups. At the top, you have the wealthy men who, for the most part, control everything. This group is relatively small, but their ancestors are the architects of our current system. In the middle, you have women. Women control education, and are more or less immune from criminal liability. For example, if a woman strikes you and you defend yourself, you will be imprisoned. She won't be, and it's not even likely that the police will examine your injuries. At th…	/r/MensRights	07/09/25 09:54 PM
12	This is awful The first link is probably referring to "transmisandry" which is bias against trans men (female to male). Trans men are a tiny minority that experiences genuine discrimination by being trans men, but the ones who started out as feminists have trouble reconciling their experience as men with their lifelong dogma that "misandry doesn't exist." Edit: so basically there's been debate over whether or not even that form of misandry exists, even though it's obvious. Anti-black misandry is also obvious,…	/r/MensRights	06/09/25 12:48 PM
16	Minnesota man leaves prison after serving 27 years for a murder he didn't commit When women can send innocent black men to prison based on a complete fantasy, that's what feminists call "patriarchy."	/r/MensRights	05/09/25 08:26 PM
5	Is it possible to be a men's right activist and a feminist at the same time? Feminists consider us to be anti-feminist, so it's not possible right now. If feminism improves, it will be possible to support both.	/r/MensRights	04/09/25 04:21 PM
8	A Dream Isn’t Evidence. It’s A Nightmare. Centurion Ministries and the Innocence Project are the two main organizations fighting this in America. I don't know what else to do other than support them, and always believe innocent until proven guilty.	/r/MensRights	04/09/25 12:11 AM
10	The ultimate logical conclusion of Feminism is Racism The same feminists will cry out, "No! It's not about race but socio-economical factors!" rightfully so. Then, why not think the same with criminal and even rapist men? The feminist idea, promoted by racist bigots btw, is that "culture" causes rape, most men are secretly rapists, and all we have to do is educate them. The reality is that rapists mostly fall into two broad categories: Older family members and their friends. Serial rapists, who are mentally ill. I don't even know that being poor in…	/r/MensRights	04/09/25 12:07 AM
3	The 'Shrekking' Dating Trend: When Women Date 'Down' in Hopes of Better Treatment They're sooo close to getting it.	/r/MensRights	31/08/25 06:03 PM
12	A high school football star had the rape charge against him dropped after a sixteen-year-old girl confessed that the rape never happened. He spent six years falsely imprisoned and broke down when the case was dismissed. It was a forced confession and his own lawyer betrayed him. Sadly really common. My advice to you is never confess no matter what deal they offer. They might get a jailhouse snitch to make up a confession instead, but you can flip that more easily than your own. Also I encourage everyone here to read FRAMED by Grisham and McCloskey. It's infuriating but it'll tell you how they do this kind of thing. What bothers me most isn't the money or the years they took, but which years they took. The oppor…	/r/MensRights	29/08/25 06:44 PM
8	“German Police Exposed: Court Finds Systematic Discrimination Against Male Officers in Promotions (Uelzen, Lower Saxony) The thread you're responding to is about a news article. I am not German but, heer, in the Unitedstatesen, we know how to read the article. The news article is about discrimination against men. This controlling attitude you have is not so good yeah? Hier, in the United States, we have the freedom of speechen. You might be surprised to learn this, but here, in das United States (I am not from Germany), we are allowed to purchase the video games where you shoot the Nazis. But in Germany, ach, you …	/r/MensRights	28/08/25 04:04 PM
3	Drunk woman who sexually assaulted man at upscale restaurant as he celebrated getting a cancer all-clear with his wife is spared jail Site says swipe to see the next article, and then loads the wrong article. Daily Mail is such shit	/r/MensRights	28/08/25 03:56 AM
22	Scary stuff Lesbians invented almost all the evils of feminism, and have had disproportionate influence on feminist theory since the 70s. They're actually who ruined it. Good on you for noticing and saying something.	/r/MensRights	28/08/25 03:02 AM
1	Feminism, the Left and Me Thanks for your interest! So, a few ways. You're not wrong that it discusses patriarchy, but it uses it in a way that isn't compatible with feminist thought, especially in later papers. Social dominance theory explains that discrimination against outgroup males varies by gender. For men, it's competition as a motivator, and for women, it's rape fear, or sexual uncertainty. I don't have it in front of me but there's an Oxford handbook of... I think it was called Evolutionary Biology and Society t…	/r/MensRights	28/08/25 01:36 AM
3	Feminism, the Left and Me I recently received a warning from the admins for saying that a lot of British feminists were fascists. They overturned it when I appealed, but I still think a longer post about this would be in order. The short version is that there are psychological predictors for authoritarian behavior. Hence feminist fascism. Mussolini also started as a communist. The OP, and my unfinished article, both approach this, but from different angles. I think OP might like Jim Sidanius and social dominance hierarch…	/r/MensRights	27/08/25 05:08 PM
61	Half of Young Men Would Rather Date an AI Girlfriend Than Face Loneliness or Rejection, New Report Reveals Cool imo. I suspect feminists hate this, like any other incompetent person who gets outperformed by AI	/r/MensRights	26/08/25 11:11 PM
1	The Equal Rights Amendment Maybe it would have in the 70s. I think it wouldn't be enforced evenly today, like anything else.	/r/MensRights	26/08/25 11:09 PM
73	Do feminists and women live in a bubble? It's bait, but feminists absolutely don't care about rape if their group isn't the victim. Simone de Beauvoir was a rapist.	/r/MensRights	26/08/25 08:09 PM
0	How do you even engage on leftism as a man? Okay. So what is the actual reason you guys hate gay and trans people?	/r/MensRights	26/08/25 05:28 PM
8	How do you even engage on leftism as a man? The only real problem with this framework isn't that everything is regarded as a product of oppression imo. It's actually simpler: misandry is not recognized by a large number of scholars. The feminists who came up with a lot of the modern theories in the 70s to 90s were anti-male, and they basically stayed in power long enough to teach the current generation. The feminist theologian Mary Daly, for example, believed that men and masculinity were inherently inferior. She wasn't fired until she tr…	/r/MensRights	26/08/25 01:18 AM
-9	How do you even engage on leftism as a man? What uh, do hating gay men and "queer AMAB people" have to do with everything being a social construct? And what does that have to do with virtue signaling? It kind of looks like chatgpt didn't know what you were asking for here.	/r/MensRights	26/08/25 01:09 AM
7	Is male gender really a disposable gender? Yes, it is. What's the Instagram link saying? I don't use Facebook or its subsidiaries.	/r/MensRights	25/08/25 04:45 PM
-1	As a woman, what’s something I might not understand about the struggles men face? Bot	/r/MensRights	25/08/25 04:36 PM
13	Feminists who fail to regulate misandry and ableism within their online communities shall not complain about getting generalised by outsiders I like comparing them to police brutality. Even if only a small number of feminists are bigots, the rest of them form the permission structure to enable the bigotry.	/r/MensRights	24/08/25 11:13 PM
15	Feminists who fail to regulate misandry and ableism within their online communities shall not complain about getting generalised by outsiders Feminism is a secular religion. Any time you criticize it, they just say "oh those aren't true feminists. You need to be educated." By now I've really quite a few feminist authors and I still never saw a good one.	/r/MensRights	24/08/25 11:12 PM
29	Did anyone else have a mother who hates men My mother was physically abusive and had a bunch of really weird views about gender roles. She never had a real job because she insisted that was for men. This was in the early 00s, not 1960.	/r/MensRights	24/08/25 10:21 PM
2	One thing I've recently thought about: the notion of "women are more vulnerable" hurts both men and women. For one, it assumes that in a problem men should "man up", while women should get extra care. And it also hurts women because they are deemed "weak" by default, that they can't help themselves What makes this hard to break out of is the way that women benefit from it. They are never responsible but they're never culpable either. Feminism has an idea called "infantilization of women," but the greater danger is self-infantilizing behavior. Boys are considered responsible for their actions from a young age, for example not being permitted to defend themselves when attacked by girls, even if the girls are larger. This carries on into adulthood. If there's some kind of emergency and you as…	/r/MensRights	24/08/25 08:33 PM
12	"Women are just better" in everything, but it's still the male bodies that are expendable If women were more competent than men, they would have ruled over nearly every single civilization of any value. Instead, the opposite happened. If women were competent, they wouldn't spend so much time being afraid of trans women taking their jobs and so on.	/r/MensRights	24/08/25 07:27 PM
-5	In a non-platonic relationship it is wrong to lie whether you were originally a woman to a straight man and vice versa. And should this be illegal? I've always been bewildered by this question. How many times does her dick go into your ass before you figure out that she's trans?	/r/MensRights	24/08/25 06:17 PM
18	The Recording Culture sucks I record absolutely everyone who points their phone at me.	/r/MensRights	23/08/25 11:07 AM
2	What if women had to sign up for Selective Service in order to vote? It's basically a secular religion so they can't be reasoned out of it	/r/MensRights	23/08/25 04:17 AM
2	What if women had to sign up for Selective Service in order to vote? I mentioned this in another thread recently, but I don't think I've ever seen feminists rage at anyone more than they do with Dr. Tommy Curry, who basically brings the hard evidence that "patriarchy" harms black men more than it harms women.	/r/MensRights	23/08/25 03:09 AM
5	What if women had to sign up for Selective Service in order to vote? AskFeminists is a regressive subreddit, which is sad because they're the farthest left of any feminist community I can find. I was banned for asking about their transphobia, and also insulted quite a bit after the ban. I think most people (who aren't cis women anyway) share your opinion. It's just that the majority of voters are white women who oppose any change they don't benefit from. Please don't ban me for posting here. We are fighting the same hate movement.	/r/MensRights	23/08/25 12:36 AM