| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 32 | Reality. | Common-Aioli-6722 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 03:38 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Post Divorce First Failed Relationship (Freaked out when she said ILYThat’s hard line | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/25 07:53 AM |
| 1 | How to not internalize things she said to me towards the end?You could throw a dead cat and it would hit a narcissist. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/25 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Why the fuck would anyone get married again?Love. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/25 09:01 PM |
| 9 | Did you have sex with your wife after separating?Don’t do it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/25 03:38 PM |
| 8 | Did you have sex with your wife after separating?Who counts? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/25 03:38 PM |
| 1 | One Month Post-Affair Divorce and Feeling Lost. What Helped You?Anxiety guy on YouTube. Therapy. Zoloft. Hiking. Running. Yoga. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/25 07:53 AM |
| 3 | Just wanted to vent a little in this heat.Every day is a chance to turn it all around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 07:07 AM |
| 2 | She keeps surprising meI’m sorry. Stay strong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/25 09:01 PM |
| 6 | She keeps surprising meWhy are you parked there? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Be honest: how many of you were still attracted to your wife when you divorced?I also can’t physically look at mine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/25 11:13 PM |
| 5 | Be honest: how many of you were still attracted to your wife when you divorced?I was. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/25 11:11 PM |
| 6 | Post Divorce GuiltI acknowledged my wife’s issues with me, vowed to be better and got better. She noticed and thanked me. We still got divorced. Don’t let the guilt inside your new, clean house. Never apologize for getting better. People say sometimes “it’s too late” to get better for a marriage but it’s never too late to get better for yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | The “first time” after divorceI can’t cum. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/25 01:18 AM |
| 1 | How did you press on; when they rewrote truth and turned everyone against you?You’re wrong about “saying nothing”. It’s very powerful. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/25 12:28 PM |
| -2 | Picked up a college girl, as a late 40s guyJesus. I hope that wasn’t my daughter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else experienced this sudden 180 from breadcrumbing to intense sex + emotional whiplash?Run | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Having more kids?I had another kid with a new love after a divorce. The kids love her. No bad thing can come from another child | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Would you remarry and have more children in your 40's?Yeah. I was part of the problem but it was still a shock | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/25 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Would you remarry and have more children in your 40's?I did that. Told my new wife I didn’t want to have more kids. She burst into tears and I did it, cause I loved her. We just got divorced last month. I was 44 when she was born. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 05:41 AM |
| 3 | My marriage is overI still struggle with that, giving her the things she liked about me | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 12:10 PM |
| 1 | I am starting to lose hopeZoloft will shut those tears off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 11:58 AM |
| 7 | My marriage is overI’m sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Any of y’all relieved when wife filed for divorce?I filed on my first divorce. She filed on my second. It’ means nothing, outside of ego. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/25 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Talking to ex after divorceBlock her number for a week at a time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | I think I'm finally 'getting over the hump'.I can’t really look at my future ex wife. If I do, my brain blurs out her face. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/25 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Why couldn't I have a healthy life and marriage?This is why people get up at 4 am. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/25 12:49 PM |
| 6 | How many wives admitted they regret the divorce?Who cares. Live your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/25 05:53 PM |
| 3 | How did you handle your ex’s birthday every year (during and after divorce).You don’t. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/25 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Which would you choose: never to fall in love again or to be unrequited in love?You shall love, whether you like it or not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/25 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I loved my wife and the life we had, I’m doubtful I’ll find another woman like her.That’s a good thing. You want to find someone better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/25 03:08 AM |
| 4 | She wants a divorce after 40 yearsI’m sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Wants divorce but to think on it for 6 monthsI thought the same thing but there always something she wasn’t telling me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Wants divorce but to think on it for 6 monthsI thought the same thing but there always something she wasn’t telling me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/24 12:32 AM |
| 7 | Wants divorce but to think on it for 6 monthsI went through the 6 months and I’ll tell you, it’s most likely bullshit and it will be 6 months more you’ll have to wait to get your life started. Call an attorney today. Ask her for an actionable plan as to what those 6 months the would look like. Counseling? Date nights? Reconnection? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 01:10 PM |
| 4 | My ex wife found out I wrote poetry about her during divorce, now wants to talkNo. You weren’t harsh. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 01:36 PM |
| 2 | If she comes back.. I'll be the foolUnderstandable. The wife part will pass and you’ll have to be a new kind of father. You will handled it. It will get better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 02:28 AM |
| 2 | If she comes back.. I'll be the foolGod bless that friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Went looking for answers..Rock bottom.Amen. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Went looking for answers..Rock bottom.This is enlightening | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Went looking for answers..Rock bottom.Fact check: she said he was emotionally abusive. It doesn’t mean he was. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 09:02 AM |
| 6 | Went looking for answers..Rock bottom.Unfortunately, you shouldn’t have had that conversation | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/24 09:00 AM |
| 3 | “The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage.I think the spark leaving the marriage is a good reason. That means love. It means she’s no longer in love. I wouldn’t want to be married to someone who doesn’t love me and I truly don’t think you can ever get it back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How many of you who have daughters have trouble finding a new partner (gf and wife) ?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 12:44 PM |
| 4 | After schoolCan you get to school in time to pick them up? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 09:37 AM |
| 3 | If you could save it...would you?15 months is way too long. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Divorce Philosophy - Initial Shock and AcceptanceActions over everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/24 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What do you think people usually get wrong about you and your divorce?I will say this: women usually assume you’re a scumbag no matter what the story is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Reality.I know, at least partly, that you’re right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Reality.I don’t know if I have the mental energy to do that. I read some of her journals and while horrible, there was no mention of cheating. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | MaybeGood luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Reality.She suggested counseling but wasn’t honest in it and later said she didn’t like counselor. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Reality.Thanks. Thats tough to hear but true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Reality.I think she has but she’s denied it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 02:59 AM |
| 2 | How is your online dating experience after separation?lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 03:41 AM |
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