| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 84 | How come some guys become less cool as soon as they get a gf | Conversation | Common_Comedian2242 | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 04:42 AM |
| 0 | How do you know if she really thinks you're big | Conversation | Common_Comedian2242 | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 01:19 AM |
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| 10 | What I have learned from some of my player buddiesYou sure you're not lying to yourself and really want to bang your guy friends because that's what I feel this post conveys | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 01:40 PM |
| 5 | At what age did you find yourself pulling the most women?Iny early late teens/early twenties. I was lean and handsome AF. I still am but got a dad bod. I can't believe some of the girls that I pulled lol. | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Im an OG pua Demon. let me share some PUA historyBecause they're selling a lie. It's possible to meet plenty of beautiful women, but you just need to acknowledge you're not going to sleep with all of them, but if you keep at it you can fuck a decent number. Things like status, money, fame multiply this ability, even if you're a doughy goober. That said, there's nothing wrong with being friends with women, especially if you are actively meeting them. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Guitar: I have been playing and singing for years. What can I do within the 1st date to bring her home without making her uncomfortable?Either she's down or she isn't. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 04:45 PM |
| 2 | How do you ever talk to an ex? To me it's just weird.Only ex I talk to is because we have a daughter. We were together for a little over a decade. Sad thing is we get a long better as friends than through most of our relationship. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 06:06 PM |
| 2 | How to know if the girl you're texting not into you or just playing hard to get or do not wanna be perceived as despo?Ask her out, if she flakes or turns it down she isn't into you. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 06:03 PM |
| 11 | How do you deal with simps and white knights?Nah, it's all about respect bro. The way OP framed it I can understand if it was a mistake, but going at a woman that's clearly taken is just asking for a fight. But yes, there are weirdos out there that want to defend a woman's honor and all that crap and I agree...laugh at them lol | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Tips 4 Confidence?You have to be willing to take risks. You have to understand you will make mistakes but you need to learn from them. It's a process just like learning a new skill or doing something you've never tried before, and in the grand scheme of things, fucking up a pick up isn't life or death...maybe a bit embarrassing but it will go in time. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 08:02 PM |
| 10 | How do you deal with simps and white knights?I don't get it, how is that white knighting or simping? If I'm with someone and you're trying to get at them in front of me I have every right to tell you to fuck off. I'm a nice guy too but doesn't mean I won't piece you up if need be... But I guess it depends on how much I care about the chick too. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 07:59 PM |
| 18 | is she just being friendly or flirty ?It's possible. Some women are naturally flirty and touchy. If she is doing this with other guys than that is her baseline, it can give you an idea of how she operates. But those exchanges between the two of you definitely count as flirtatious. You won't know unless you try, just be careful as it's work and if you value your job. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 08:04 PM |
| 69 | Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating?I'm very much a leftist and never had any issues. Only time politics ever were an issue was when I briefly dated a conservative/maga chick, but in my defense I don't think she really knew what she was talking about because she hated Tate and that manosphere crap when the biggest consumer market are younger people. She was pretty hot but I don't think I could be with someone like that. And for the record I'm not one of those purple haired they them people either. I look like a normal dude and wor… | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 05:57 PM |
| 3 | No seriously, how do I find the most fulfilling experience of love? Help me.We were together for eleven years, had a child and she took the car, house and my favorite dog lol | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 05:12 PM |
| 6 | No seriously, how do I find the most fulfilling experience of love? Help me.You won't find it by looking. My most enduring relationship I met her completely by chance. | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 05:03 AM |
| 3 | pick up artist how do you do it?I wouldn't consider myself a pick up artist as my lifestyle isn't focused on women, but it's not difficult for me to meet them. The biggest thing to me is demeanor. If you're confident and happy with yourself, it reflects in how you carry yourself, the way you posture, how people reciprocate. I'm not particularly talkative and I hate bringing attention to myself - unless I want their attention, of course - but I'm not the brooding, dark and messy byronic hero in the corner either. Point is, if y… | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 01:07 AM |
| 6 | Flirty neighbor? Trying to seduce me?It sounds like she likes you bro. If a girl stays alone with you it's a good chance she likes you. | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Don't want to use dating apps, but it's lonely being singleDating apps should never be your primary way of meeting new people. It works best as a supplement to improving your social life due to the high probability of women ghosting and flaking. At least in the real world you can properly gauge where a girl stands; you can actively game. That said, I know how you feel. It took me two years before I felt comfortable enough to gain the proper confidence. But even in your downtime you should try your best to improve yourself, no matter how small it may be. | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Girl Stopped RespondingPretty much. Women are fickle creatures and the digital age has made it easier than ever before to simply ghost a person. Don't message her back. | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 01:45 PM |
| 6 | Cute girl at burger place - asking for her # or giving her mine in a natural way?Just get to know her over time. Ask her how her day is going, get her name, make small talk when she's ringing you up. From there you ask her out. | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 07:32 PM |
| 1 | When both are taking too long to reply?Then you're good. Seems like she likes you, but be mindful of the position she's in as your tutor and the dynamics that come with it. However it's probably easier to make small talk during class if you can rather than just dry texting as you can properly gauge her interest or investment in the conversation at hand. Other than that, in your free time have some fun in town. | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 04:15 PM |
| 5 | When both are taking too long to reply?As soon as you're back in town, take her out. The texting is boring because that's all it is...you have to move things along and ask her out. | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Getting both ears pierced with real diamonds to please a woman?As the legendary bun b once said, "you can't please everybody so might as well please you" Do something because you want to, not to impress a chick even if she's your wife. That's not to say don't do things to make her happy, but if you're not comfortable with the idea of piercing your ears with real diamonds you got to communicate that. | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 11:14 AM |
| 2 | I'm Not His Good GirlI lived that crap for 11 years. I still love the girl but I could never do it again. It took a long time to finally plant my feet on the ground but I'm infinitely happier alone. | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 02:35 AM |
| 51 | Called soft by girls i hook upI don't see how that's a diss, unless there is some subtext missing. Stop being insecure. | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 11:06 PM |
| 4 | Not a huge fan of the bar/club scene, am I shooting it down too quickly?Honestly, when I go to a bar it's just to let loose and have some fun shooting pool and vibing to the music. If I meet a woman, cool, if not it's no big deal cuz I'm still having fun | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 10:23 PM |
| 11 | How do you know when someone is their age?It's impossible to know. Some people look younger than they are, and some people look older than they are. I'm in my mid 30s and people often think I'm in my late 20s | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 02:52 PM |
| 7 | It hurts when girls act so into you… then ghost you. What do I do differently?If you're so confident and cool why are you giving this any serious thoughts? She's just some random chick you met, there was no real emotional investment from her side...so the same should be said of you. Your problem is that you are clinging to the outcome, and when you do this with women, it will invariably lead to heartbreak. Edit: I took a cursory glance through your profile and yikes...you definitely have major self esteem issues even though your OP indicates otherwise. You need to learn t… | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 12:54 AM |
| 3 | How much of a difference does money actually make?There's this one girl I know. She meets a guy, he's older, pudgy and not the type she would usually go for. But he has money. He cashapps her money regularly when she's out, buys her gifts, and takes care of things she needs. In this case, she is willing to overlook certain characteristics she doesn't find attractive because he makes good money. Might be a good guy for all I know, but for guys that wouldn't normally have a chance, money is the equalizer. I don't necessarily agree with it, but as… | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 11:02 PM |
| 26 | How much of a difference does money actually make?Money will definitely get a girl to notice you, but think about it: do you really want to be with someone predicated entirely on how much money you have and are willing to spend on her? If it's a strictly non-committal thing I could understand on some level, but there are plenty of girls that you can have fun with without breaking the bank. Further ore, what are you gonna do when the money dries up? She will drop your ass and not think twice about it because she never had feelings for you in the… | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Suggested Cologne to Supplement Our Seduction EffortsI'm a YSL fan and YSL Y has gotten me so many compliments from women. I can't suggest it enough. For an intimate date I would go with something like la Nuit de L'homme, it has a relatively weak projection but it smells excellent and works perfectly if you know you will be in very close proximity with women. I would also suggest Valentino born in Roma uomo intense. Just something about the scent that gives off the impression of being a don Juan. | /r/seduction | 03/07/25 03:27 PM |
| 11 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?Depends on the women. Good girls won't like it and the drama ones will be intrigued on some levels. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Who else feels less confident in shirts without ink?I don't hate my tattoos, I actually do them on the side. The ability to draw and tattoo kept me fed in jail lmao | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 03:04 PM |
| 15 | Who else feels less confident in shirts without ink?Tattoos are played the fuck out, and this is coming from a guy that has his hands, face and neck tatted. They're just a fashion accessory nowadays. I mean, even officer friendly is fully sleeved out nowadays. Nothing taboo or wild about it anymore. I mean, thirty years ago you'd see Bam Bam Bigelow with flames on his head and you knew he was a bad motherfucker, but nowadays you have some douche that owns a craft beer pub in some gentrified part of shit hole, america with the same thing. | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Having some doubts regarding my social status compared to women. “She’s a social butterfly, I’m not” kinda thing. Anyone relate?Not at all. If you are happy and fulfilled with your personal life then it is no problem. I'm quiet and reserved, but I'm not shy. I don't even have social media. If a woman had a problem with that then we aren't compatible, simple as. | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 02:02 PM |
| 1 | RelationshipsThat's your job as a man to keep it casual. You need to let her know and understand this. | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 01:33 PM |
| 1 | How to get fubu or fwbIf you're so cool funny and smart you should know how. Unless you're young, then I understand. You got to be honest and upfront about it. Some women won't like it and leave so be aware | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Got ghosted need helpTalk to other girls bro, if she ain't down she ain't down | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Got ghosted need helpSo you just met her and she's ignoring you? Quit being needy and set something up. But it's too late for that. On to the next one. | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Got ghosted need helpIt's easier to meet a woman by pure chance, or at least make an effort to get to know someone. Think of all the hot chicks that have profiles on dating websites - I wonder why? Women by nature have robust social habits so it's not a lack of any social engagements, that's for sure. Online dating is shit. You can only tell so much from a dating profile, and these traits are almost always embarrassingly hollow: I like to travel, I talk a lot, I have a motorcycle. Then the date functions more like a… | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 03:20 AM |
| 7 | Booked a date, asked for number and got ghostedOnline dating apps make it easy to ghost. It's a huge numbers game. Most women are just using them to idly pass time by. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 06:35 PM |
| 9 | She attempted to ghost me after two great dates. But why?It's a chick you met through an app it wasn't organic or spontaneous, it was just some dangling fruit she decided to pick. I remember meeting this one girl - pretty redhead latina, short and nice body and no kids - and we instantly hit it off. We would exchange voice and video messages(ain't gonna lie, wish I had the pictures still lol) all the time and then we finally went out. Was good and at the end we made out and felt up. That was a precursor to an actual date I had planned a few days later… | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 04:01 PM |
| 14 | How many girls have you met in your life with whom you shared intense emotional connection with?Hmmm, maybe two. The first being my ex wife, the second being the one that got away. | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 04:31 PM |
| -2 | Is maintaining frame the only way to prevent your girl from cheating?I mean you're not wrong, and I told myself I wouldn't do shit like that, but ahh...it's a shame most of the women that like me are involved with others lol | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 05:15 AM |
| -2 | Is maintaining frame the only way to prevent your girl from cheating?Im just as flawed as anyone else. | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Is maintaining frame the only way to prevent your girl from cheating?A woman that wants to stray will stray. I'm kind of involved with an older woman I know and even she admits her dude does everything for her, buys her anything she wants, and I know this because he often packs her breakfast/lunch for work and she has nice clothes and what not. But you know what else she has told me? That I'm better equipped than her man. That I don't take things seriously and act needy. That when I see her with her man I'm smart enough to act like I don't even know her. There's … | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 05:05 AM |
| 7 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoeverI used to eat off bumble a few years ago. I redownloades it recently, got about seven matches, messaged these women, and not a single one messaged back. I have never had that happen before, but I used the app when women could message first - and they did. | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 01:46 PM |
| 5 | Hey, I’m thinking about approaching women at a coffee shop but I don’t know what to say. Does anyone have any suggestions?Don't bother people that don't want to be approached unless you look like prime John Stamos | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Are there many examples of looks taking a backseat?Only recent one I can think of was this super hot younger chick I worked with. She was pretty and I'm very good shape as she was a runner. Before I left that company she was dating one of the guys that invested money into it...he was older, fat and had a lazy eye. But he had money, lol. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 11:31 PM |
| 25 | If you're gonna use AI for dating apps, at least feed it better prompts (here’s mine)Lol, we really delegating game to AI? What are you going to do when you're out on the field and/or have no access to the internet? Just be yourself, it's not that hard. Online dating is trash anyway, you can only gleam so much from a few pictures and a short bio. It's definitely good to have as a passive source for dating, but never should be anything more than a supplement to actually meeting and talking to women. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 11:27 PM |
| 17 | 7 signs a girl is not into you and that it's time to move onEither that or she's with somebody... | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 04:39 PM |
| 62 | Can you overcome her preferences?Not worth the trouble imo. Either she is down or not, and nothing wrong if she isn't choosing me, juat most dudes don't know how to move on | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 04:49 PM |
| 3 | It's mind-blowing the amount of double standards many women have—solutions?I just ignore it and laugh about it to myself. It's like the women that say they hate drama but are the ones always swimming in it. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How come some guys become less cool as soon as they get a gfNah he's a good dude and maybe I'm biased from my experiences being married. I would want him to be happy like anyone else, I just hate seeing when people change up like that | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 09:34 PM |
| -11 | How come some guys become less cool as soon as they get a gfIt has to do with women and relationships I don't see how it is not pertinent to the subreddits mission | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Should I try to reschedule dates with girls who flake?That's up to you if you want to give them a chance or not. The moment a woman rejects me I drop it and move on. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 03:28 PM |
| -1 | Why do fat chics always pose next to hotties in OLD and think that builds attractiveness?Why do you care? What did they do to you? | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Would it be better to limit how much I talk to my woman?At that point you're in the no strings attached category, which is a good thing. Keeping it non-committal and just having fun with a woman is great, so long as it's understood by both parties and taken for what it is. Just know that it will eventually end so always keep a roster. If you are serious with a woman you have to be there, though. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 08:00 PM |
| 37 | Being perceived as a player?It means you're attractive. Don't kill the mystery by admitting otherwise, but if you do so just be funny and playful about it. Girls like guys with options, even if you don't. I've taken a break from dating but a few women I know always assume I'm seeing multiple women even though I just work and stay home all day. | /r/seduction | 09/05/25 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Why do I get ghosted or flaked after moving convo to Instagram and trying to set up a date?Or better yet, get their phone number. Dude is hoping they are pleased with his specially curated social media profile, lol. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 02:21 PM |
| 53 | Have any of you ever pulled an influencer? How did you do it?I don't think I could stomach being around a person that does shit like that. I'm a low key individual and do not like to be in front of a camera and tend to look down on people like that, ergo we will invariably be incompatible. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Can you attract a girl fresh from a break up?Yes, but depending on her relationship it might not be worth it, or she will get back with him, or he will want to kick your ass. Just keep that in mind. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 03:29 PM |
| 6 | How to start caring about others?You're gonna die alone thinking like this dude. You don't have to care, but inject some charm into the conversation. Live in the moment and learn to enjoy the little things. I'm a loner but I don't have problems talking to people. I just prefer being alone. But I can make a funny observation or crack jokes or prattle on about things my company and I find mutually enjoyable. Maybe you should start there. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 07:29 PM |
| 18 | How do I seduce women in their 50s and above when I'm in my 20s?Look young. Seriously. I'm in my 30s but people always think I'm 20 something. I've noticed older women tend to gravitate towards me for that exact reason. Idk if it's my energy(I'm quiet but goofy when I'm comfortable) or what, but I think older women want to feel youthful and younger men kinda give them that satisfaction. There's an older woman I know that loves me lol, and she's quick to show it. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 07:47 PM |
| -17 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?I've never had a complaint, and I've been with a few girls who actually liked it. Sex, to me, is all about pleasure...you can't ignore her body and all its parts. Edit: except eating ass. That's gross | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 07:44 PM |
| 30 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?Suck her toes | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 06:46 PM |
| 30 | Any tips for seducing a cashier at a grocery store?You have to play the slow game. Become a regular, but stay mysterious and aloof and keep things brief. Over time, if she finds you interesting, she will begin opening up more and making an effort to get to know you. I'm cases like this the ball is primarily in her court because she's working and you are subject to external influences such as the store being busy or her having other obligations. At least that's how it worked in my case. I found her cute but never made a move until she started tal… | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 05:03 PM |
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