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Most traditionally minded women wouldn't have tattoos or be single mothers on dating apps at age 34. It seems like her decision to be a tradwife is quite recent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/23 10:51 AM
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Is that a face tat I see?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/23 09:06 AM
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If a man chose a career in prostitute testing, he may also struggle to find many high-quality ladies who would approve. Works both ways. Some of these people are simply being upset at reality itself. What made them think it would go any differently?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/23 07:57 AM
102

Funny how she probably wasn't looking for something serious or marriage, until she became pregnant. Her shouty block capitals scream a sense of urgency... I wonder what that could be?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/23 01:14 PM
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If a man did this to a female-oriented sub, they'd be called a sexual predator for cyber-flashing. The rules of this sub aside, you should stick to erotic subs, on ethical grounds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/23 11:20 AM
10

Maybe that's because she has nothing particularly interesting to offer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/23 09:53 PM
15

The fact that she has to put a hard deadline on engagement, before she even knows a guy, just screams desparation. She demands a man who is "not afraid of real work in a relationship", but this is her projecting. She's actually the one not willing to put in the work - she just wants to clamp a husband down, with her upfront engagement demands, without actually going through any of the effort to nurture a genuine engagement with a man who can actually be happy with her. She has nothing to say for…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/23 07:45 PM
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It's really quite baffling how little self awareness some people have. If she already knows that highly sought after good looking women can afford to be selective about things like height, humor and wealth of a man, then what on earth makes her think that that the reverse does not also apply for highly sought after wealthy men?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/23 03:50 PM
5

I think anyone who calls themselves a "queen" is immediately a left-swipe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/23 08:46 AM
7

Classy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/23 08:38 AM
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Slightly disagree - they mostly just claim to care, for narcissistic social media virtue signalling points. I wouldn't say all women do it, but definitely a hefty number do!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/23 10:07 AM
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3 kids before age 30, without having tied the knot with a long-term father figure. Also feels the need to specify "no fuck boys", as if that has been a problem in the relationship she has just come out of. Is asking for a "family man", while herself pregnant with another man's child. Yeah... this is why good parents teach their daughters to choose very carefully who they mate and procreate with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/23 04:10 AM
29

Her parents failed miserably.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/23 01:31 PM
6

At least she's being upfront about how delusional and vain she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/23 11:03 PM
6

Definitely a very viable explanation. My own go-to theory: "insecure narcissist wants social media attention, as well as to flex at someone else's expense".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/23 01:20 AM
11

And yet many ugly af guys date good looking women. It's also about confidence, physique etc. But yeah, this lady here clearly is toxic and probably very insecure. Even if you find a person in your DMs to be unattractive, why not just avoid them and move on?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/23 05:04 PM
12

Maybe, but it's unlikely. Most of these unhappy single mothers at age 21 just made questionable life choices.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/23 03:15 AM
7

Do you think that she found herself some solid father material, who agreed to carefully planning and forming a family with her, but then he "changed" just after the pregnancy and became an irresponsible absent father? I won't say that this doesn't happen, but I will say that it's the vast minority of these cases.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/23 09:46 PM
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r/ChoosingBeggars
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/23 09:19 PM
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Why isn't the biological father "mature enough to step up and be a father figure" to her children? Why wasn't she "mature enough" to establish a stable family unit, with a responsible man who actually wanted to be a father, before becoming a 21 year old mother?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/23 06:37 PM
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Having young kids is hard and very time consuming... which is why two parents will have an easier time than a single parent. And this is why you choose wisely who you reproduce with... they have to be a good and supportive future parent. This lady has a snowball in hell's chance of finding any man who wants to seriously be with her, before her kids are at least past their toddler years and in school / able to be with a babysitter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/23 01:45 PM
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What an absolute train wreck of a human being. It's not even that she was irresponsible a bit and wound up being a single mum to chad's kid... she actually intentionally and repeatedly makes very terrible life-altering decisions, over and over again. I cannot even fathom. She has been popping out kids for every year since she passed the age of consent, with a different man each time. What on earth?! Too high-risk, even for casual dealings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/23 11:09 PM
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This too!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/23 11:07 PM
12

This made me laugh! Upvote for you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/23 11:07 PM
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I mean... if your path will make your parents deeply ashamed of you, then you need to seriously consider not following that path. That's how any normal person would think. Sure, some parents are plain judgemental and toxic, but most are at least semi-reasonable. If they disapprove of something, there is usually a good reason for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/23 01:26 AM
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Isn't it interesting how many "conservative" women are single mothers, heavily tattooed and don't want to have kids with you even in the long-term? They think that "conservative" values are hating Democrats and wanting a ranch, lol. Politically moderate ladies, who are secure enough to have a good balance of conservative and liberal values, while also not making it their entire personalities, are the ultimate catch. I'm very lucky to have found one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/23 04:06 AM
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How very kind of her to demand certain financial requirements from a man, while not actually specifying anything about personality, hobbies, interests etc. How many men even own a house at age 24? Ridiculous. I'm sure the guys in their early 30s who do, won't exactly be queuing up to be step-dad to this lady's kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/23 08:47 AM
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Sounds like an excuse for less mature ladies out there to character assassinate / cyberbully men they don't like. If a man has actually done something that broke the law, then go to the police. Otherwise, leave them alone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/23 12:57 AM
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Isn't that Amy from Amy's Baking Company?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/23 12:34 AM
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If "bad decisions" was a person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/23 12:30 AM
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Wow what a coincidence, I am down to be a dad! ... ... to my own biological children. "If you like 2 for 1's, you've met your match" Wow, what a generous and tempting offer! I see that she's already sorted out all that non-fun impregnation stuff with another man, so it just leaves the fun child-raising stuff to the lucky match!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/23 12:23 AM
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Wow, she acts the same way as a younger old-money heiress I know, except much more obnoxiously and less subtly. Also the real spoiled rich daddy's girls that marry from other rich families, that this lady wants to be on-par with, do actually bring their own money and connections to the table, by the end of the day. This lady here is simply a parasite. "Pay for my shallow overly-materialistic worthless life, because I'm slightly pretty and have a vagina!" Well, honey, there's over 4 billion other…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/23 09:32 AM
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I agree that she's not bad looking, but do note the use of filters, makeup and probably airbrushing. Also she may have used an older photo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/23 09:23 AM
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You're right, but sadly they may face negative assumptions, as the majority of late bloomer men are not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:32 AM
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You do have a point. I can't remember if I've seen a widow profile before, but something rings a bell. Something like: "Mummy of 3. Their father was lost in Iraq 3 years ago. It's taken a lot of healing, but I think I'm open to sharing my life with someone again."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/23 09:21 AM
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So I'm just talking hetero dynamics here... Women usually get a lot of men trying their luck, whereas men have to be the door-to-door salesmen shooting their shots. If a woman is a late bloomer, it usually means that she was very assertive and self-controlled about who she let in. If a man is a late bloomer, it usually means that he was a terrible door-to-door salesman, usually due to a lack of confidence or some other undesirable disadvantage. I say this as someone who was a late bloomer myself…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:11 AM
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Awesome that you agree! And you're right that many impulsive, disagreeable and conniving ladies, who became single mothers via their own irresponsibility, try to catch themselves a "Billy beta-bucks" as one might say, also known as a "bailout". This case is extremely humiliating. You know it and I know it. People can argue with you here on this point, but the truth is that virtually any self-respecting hetero man would feel humiliated by this. It's our right to choose what our own boundaries are…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:23 PM
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Your points are quite valid, but just not for every case. Sure, plenty of toxic single mothers out there are looking to disingenuously exploit a man into being a stepfather and provider for her kids from another man. But how's about cases where a man and single mother genuinely fall in love? You speak of "babby daddy left for milk" type situations, but there's also situations where a mother becomes a widow, or where there's a divorce in their 30s and she keeps at least partial custody of the kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:13 PM
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There's a middle ground... On one hand, yes, there are some ladies out there who treat good men like dirt and only really get the tingles for high school bully types. They then start labelling any man who gets fed up with their behaviour as a niceguy. On the other hand, plenty of so-called "nice guys" are just spineless and pathetic. Many also have poor social skills, or perhaps low confidence, or perhaps they look or smell bad. Many also may have unrealistic dating standards. They then blame ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:17 PM
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See, I want these things too... just that I also want to have my own kids and provide for them well. If you come to the table with multiple previous kids, that's already a huge drain on our time, money and resources for my future kids, if they ever even come. And this is why people need to choose very wisely who they have kids with - it's not one of those decisions you can just turn another page on. Maybe it isn't at all her fault, like maybe she's a widow or something... maybe... but it still d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/23 03:07 PM
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A balanced and reasonable take - based. We must never let the actual misogynists radicalise these spaces into their own echo chambers. Always worth being clear about the difference between sane women and entitled women. Also worth remembering the difference between based guys who aren't willing to put up with entitled kweens, vs misogynists who hate all women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/23 11:49 PM
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How can anyone even sleep at night, knowing that they wrote this on a dating profile? Not a shred of class, integrity or honour.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/23 08:27 AM
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WOW. How did that film even come to exist? Either she filmed it, or he did. In any case, it sounds like she was aware the film existed and consented to it existing. It almost certainly slipped from the guy's phone into someone else's hands, like when he likely shared it with his friends or something. Maybe he uploaded it to a porn site. In any case, it exists and is irreversibly circulating on the internet because she made a monumental set of bad decisions, with permanent consequences. It doesn'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/23 03:05 PM
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Be classy, not trashy. It doesn't matter how much education you have or how much money you make - plenty of poor girls can be classy, while plenty of rich girls can sure be trashy. Be kind, polite and courteous, while also open minded, yet have clear self-respect and boundaries that you politely enforce. Work on yourself and try to better your life, through your own hard work and determination. Take good care of your appearance, but be subtle and humble about it - because remember, classy not tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:29 AM
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Wow, she even demands "uncut" and "unvaccinated". I wouldn't qualify, even if I came begging for a Vegas wedding and a $1m honeymoon on me. (Which will never happen.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/23 01:24 AM
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LOL. The hypocrisy of her demanding weird restrictive conditions on men with kids... while she herself has kids! Also there's a strange clash between her making some alt-right sounding demands about being anti-vax and only homeschooling children, while also simultaneously ranting left-wing talking points about how the man must have a deep awareness of toxic masculinity and the patriarchy. She's excluding both right-wing and left-wing men!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/23 10:35 AM
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Wow, she actually wrote that the man needs to have enough money! She actually wrote it! I do know ladies from extremely rich families, who would also be upfront about wealth as a condition for men looking to date them, just because they want a man who can keep up with their luxury lifestyles. I think this is more understandable. ... but this washed up "single momma" making such ridiculous demands? How very amusing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/23 02:57 PM
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"I know my worth." That line is an instant left swipe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/23 10:04 AM
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Checks down there. Nope, still a male.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/23 09:25 PM
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Oh, poor thing. She really deserves better. Where are all the good men at? No takers? Who would have thought that ditching a decent man, and going for a drug dealer with 4 kids instead, would be a bad idea? Cry me a river.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/23 09:12 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/23 09:09 PM
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So wait, she has 6 kids if we count the twins on the way? Wtaf. It's so irresponsible to bring even more kids into the world, when in such a situation. She's 44 too! There's such a high risk of complications and genetic diseases, when at that age. Irresponsible. I am an easygoing person until you piss me off. ... so... not an easygoing person then? Also remind me, where in her profile does she talk about her hobbies, interests, quirks, what she brings to the table and what makes her think she's …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/23 09:04 PM
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Sure, but most of us will never become famous stars, even if we can be successful in other ways. No sane lady will ever enter a relationship with a man she doesn't like, just in case he becomes a star some day. The same can be said for anyone. If he does become a star, she may kick herself a bit, but she had no way of being able to predict it and anyway followed her own heart. Also we as men should never strive for success just to make women who rejected us feel bad. We should have healthier sou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:27 PM
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Even though this makes it sound bleak, the marriage material ladies out there also have a tough time. Plenty of men are Chads and Tyrones (which no competent or self-respecting lady goes for) or otherwise are men who are not looking to get into any serious relationship. Plenty of men are also too old, or perhaps unattractive, perhaps broke or perhaps have psychological issues that make them not fit as a long term partner. This is also before we exclude some great men who are gay and hence not ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/23 02:08 PM
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I was all on her side, until I read that she has a kid with the deadbeat asshole, at age 22 (and judging by the fact she has been single for 4 years now, she probably had the kid at age 18, if not younger). She sure did notice niceguy's master's degree, huh? Why else would she feel the need to mention it? She has subsonciously revealled her true motivations - a bailout. When confronted, she even asserts how she does not "deserve" poverty, as she was "tricked by an asshole" - what an absolute jok…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/23 01:39 PM
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Choosing whether or not to have a relationship with someone depends on so much more than just some superficial checklist of appearance and personality related criteria. If a friend rejects you once, you should never try again. You also shouldn't try to change yourself, with the goal of convincing them to change their mind. Both of these things are creepy and desparate. Just accept the rejection and hope that they will be open-minded enough to not end the friendship over your attempt to hit on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:00 AM
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I had to Google what "passport bro" even was! It was quite interesting for me to read this. Now I never did it with any ulterior motive, but my wife is from overseas. We were dating long before anyway, while living in the same country. I confirm that she would be firmly against any organised "passport bro" movement, but would otherwise celebrate multinational dating, where it's done in a natural and non-fetishised way. I was raised in a strict, conservative European household, which is a rare th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:57 PM
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If anything, I think the inexperienced men are more likely to turn to the alt-right / redpill as a coping mechanism, which is how we get groups like incels, MGTOWs and so on. I really can't think of many guys who do engage in hardcore rad-fem social justice. I think plenty are part of LGBTQ+ communities, which would somewhat make sense; men who don't fall under the mainstream cisgender-hetero identity may naturally grow up looking for answers and belonging, naturally gravitating to safe-spaces o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:38 PM
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Sounds like she's been chasing chad. If I think about my good friends who are still single and doing casual things (but imo all are pretty desirable and don't have issues with attracting ladies), I don't think even the tallest, handsomest and coolest ones have multiple girls to booty call, or begging them for relationships. They have maybe one girl at a time, after a few weeks of dating app use / hitting the party scene. The kind of guy who has multiple ladies begging them for relationships and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/23 09:34 AM
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In other news, deranged self-centered tumblr activist moans about reality not bending to her will... yet again. She is used to complaining and yelling to get her way and enforce her distorted world view onto others, which works against agreeable humans, but somehow the very fabric of reality is a brick wall that just won't budge. Maybe she should try complaining about it some more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/23 01:14 PM
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Riddle me this... if the baby daddy is not respectful, then why did she mate with him?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/23 12:39 PM
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Why does she sound almost proud about these things? It's like one of those people who romanticises mental illness. It may in part be a self-fulfilling prophecy. Treatments like therapy don't really work, if a person doesn't actually want to change their life for the better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/23 06:59 AM
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I would be really curious to know why she's holding this man to such double standards, compared to chad. And why is she so confused at this outcome? If she were some tradwife type, then fair enough, but her history says otherwise and it probably shows. You can't just choose to be some clean-slate traditional values lady overnight, after you've had your hedonism spree - our actions define who we are and it shows. She wants to appear as some serious wife material and reap the benefits of it, witho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/23 09:02 PM
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I think one such thing could be exposing fuckboys, who say they want a relationship with an emotionally stable lady, but really go more for more trainwreck kind of ladies who they can exploit and manipulate. But it's pretty niche tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:17 PM
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It's not too late for her if she has enough money to maybe afford a surrogate mother. She has frozen eggs, after all. Men stay fertile for a very long time. If she finds some man a little older or whatever, it is totally possible. It entirely depends on what her standards are and how desirable she can make herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/23 09:58 PM
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I would love to have a daughter someday, if not multiple. If so, I would try to raise them to be decent, hard working, educated and compassionate human beings. I would probably also try and instill mildly conservative values. I would teach them very strongly that dressing modestly but elegantly is the true key to finding a good man (or other partner) someday, as well as generally being respected by society. I would also teach them that they need to have high standards for any men in their lives,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:55 AM
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I do disagree. Marriage is not a purely transactional thing, but a deeply emotional and personal thing. The majority of women are heterosexual and seek a male partner for general companionship, sex and building a family with. It's very hard to do any of those things in a meaningful way, without a husband. There's also considerable societal pressure in many countries, which adds to it. Most women want kids and wind up having at least one. No matter how much strong independent woman propaganda the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:59 AM
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It's fun when they're young, but less fun when they're loser adults with bad prospects and actual responsibilities they're failing to meet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/23 12:57 AM
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"I'm a full time mom to my youngest, but I have two boys." How on earth does that work?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/23 09:43 PM
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I've lived in various countries, but I went to one school in London that was free but by exam entry, but then decided to take a large number of kids from disadvantaged backgrounds, regardless of exam. I was taught to speak English in a standard BBC accent. I got made fun of plenty, by people who spoke in more "road" accents. I was also made fun of for having decent grades and doing piano and dance lessons, while these kids were out smoking underage, getting smashed on cheap vodka and losing thei…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/23 09:48 AM
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Wow, imagine needing a dating app to find friends... specifically male ones too... and with a highly appropriate revealling selfie on the profile to win them over. She's really unique too! Other than the fact that she likes smiling and laughing, just like any other normal human being, she's also passionate about adventuring (cough holidays you must pay for), language learning (cough probably an excuse for more holidays you must pay for) and food (cough restaurants you must pay for). Maybe we're …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/23 01:50 PM
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These ladies are quite simply lost causes. They come from a totally different universe to functional law-abiding tax-paying citizens.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/23 01:39 PM
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From the UK's National Health Service website: Liposuction is not a treatment for obesity, and it will not remove cellulite or stretch marks. It's only really suitable for people who have tried changing their lifestyle and found this has not helped. https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/cosmetic-procedures/cosmetic-surgery/liposuction/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/23 10:32 PM
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It gets punished, silently.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/23 09:12 PM
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Not really. I know so many middle aged divorced ladies who remarried / have long term partners. Usually it's with other divorcees and they respect eachother's original families. I even know grandmothers who have done this with other grandpas. None were looking for Brad Pitt or Leonardo DiCaprio.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/23 08:09 AM
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To be fair, plenty of mature ladies end up divorced for all sorts of reasons that are not always their own fault. But that said, divorced ladies in their 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond can and do find love again... usually by being realistic. You gotta have realistic standards in life. Is this lady considering men who are also divorcees? Is she open to trying a few dates with men who are visibly balding, have a couple of kids from a previous marriage (and pay child support payments) and maybe take a c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/23 05:59 AM
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Why does she feel the need to emphasize so much that she is not promiscuous? Count #1 "let alone [open] my legs to any man", count #2 "im not a woman who takes sex lightly", count #3 "i don't just fuck around"... and there's arguably even more examples in that bio. Would a person who is sure and secure about their non-promiscuity really feel the need to find so many ways to write that they are not promiscuous?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/23 01:10 AM
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My main issue with this is the naivety. If a guy booty calls you and refuses to even let you sleep over afterwards, then that alone means an immediate lost cause. For the record, I have friends who are going for casual things, but even they let the ladies sleep around and will be pretty friendily, with basic courtesy. If this lady is 30 years old and still naive enough to focus on guys who use her and hold such little respect for her like this, then I must say that it's a slow learning curve. Mo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/23 03:27 AM
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Definitely a strange profile, but where is she complaining about WAATGM?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/23 09:09 PM
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0-0-0-0-0 Zero kids Zero debt Size zero dress Zero tattoos Zero Only Fans pics
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/23 10:32 PM
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Although I find size zero to be a slightly excessive demand, the 0-0-0 rule has a nice ring to it and is hilarious!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/23 09:29 PM
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"Why is it so hard to find a tall man with a beard and a big dick and money who cooks and gives a good foot massage and worships the ground I walk on?" ... I'll tell you why. Tall = let's say top 10% of men by height. Big dick = let's say top 10% of men by length down there. Money = let's say top 10% of men by annual salary. And we're being somewhat reasonable here (she may be demanding top 1% for each of these things, but let's play ball for a second)... Assuming that the probabilities for each…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/23 06:42 PM
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For whatever reason, be it societally induced gender roles or biology or whatever, most hetero women expect men to make the first move. Women tend to be the gatekeepers for sex, whereas men tend to be the gatekeepers for relationships, in our world. But whenever you talk to a prospective female mate, you have already chosen to try to attract her as a mate and are now trying to get her to agree to choose you as a mate. This behaviour is commonplace throughout the animal kingdom, including among m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:57 AM
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So typical lol. Plenty of dudes have deep insecurities and like to constantly size other men up like this. Sometimes it can be a positive bro thing, other times it can be weird and judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:54 AM
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In real life? And how do they even know / come to this stage? It sounds like something that would take place in an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:47 AM
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Exactly. I mean, sure I've also met not so nice ones, but it depends on the person. They all have their own reasons for being promiscuous, ranging from happy reasons to sad reasons, but quite a few seem friendily and open minded to different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:45 AM
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Ouch, I was so invested in this successful flirting exchange. I felt so good for both of them, until that happened. What a bummer. She seemed like such a good vibe, until it all turned out to just be a wash. Her messaging guys is like a fisherman throwing out lines with bait on hooks... and she has perfected the art.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/23 07:47 PM
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I think it varies from person to person. Back when I was once an obvious virgin dude, one of the people who judged me the least was a promiscuous girl. She wanted to help set me up, then it ended up happening with her lol. The most judgy people I met were actually toxic alpha-male bullshit guys. They're the only ones who ever tried to make me feel insecure about it. It's a dick-measuring contest for some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:55 PM
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Very very true. As a true "purple pill", I have the following to say... Yes, the dating game is toxic. Yes, many women (and men) really really suck, especially when young and immature. Yes, many young ladies underappreciate young men who aren't high school jocks, are slightly shy or who are under 6ft. Yes, many young ladies make poor life decisions and reject young men who make good life decisions, but then try to turn to those same men they once rejected, in search of stable husband material. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:00 AM
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Disagree - dating is still very much alive. The world is a big place and there's many people with many different kinds of preferences. In many ways, dating has also evolved and is evolving. Developments such as the internet have actually made dating much easier and now you are much much more likely to eventually find someone who shares things in common with you. One night stands have been happening en-masse since the 60s, especially with the hippie movement. The generations before the 60s were a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:43 AM
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Even though she's pregnant and probanly about to go through a lot of growing up fast, something tells me that she isn't exactly looking for a college educated accountant even now. It may take a few more years of hard disappointment, for someone like this to eventually ask WAATGM.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/23 12:55 PM
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Even if so, that's pretty trivial as a demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:38 PM
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It is clearly much more taboo for women to have body hair than for men to. It is societally accepted that most men naturally have body hair, whereas it is almost seen as an abomination if women keep their natural body hair unshaven. I think most women are neutral towards slightly against male body hair, whereas the overwhelming majority of men are staunchly against any female body hair (myself included, for the record - I am a product of my environment).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:37 PM
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I disagree - I think women have actually been much more sexualised in the media than men have, over a much longer period of time. The result is less realistic beauty standards. This is why women now often feel the need to wear excessive makeup, under-eat and get into other anorexia / bulemia habits, in some cases do numerous cosmetic procedures etc. Think about how often women have to remove their body hair, when it is actually very natural for women to have body hair (and even I don't like it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:47 AM
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We can list her requests for Mr Right... Nice and hard working Good job White or hispanic Not a racist Not a druggie Notice how low this bar actually is? She's basically asking for anyone (from the white or hispanic demographics) who is "nice", works hard, has a good job, isn't racist and isn't a druggie. But notice how there's little about her or Mr Right's hobbies, interests, personality quirks etc? All of her requests are about the man's career, race, and not being a racist or drug-addicted b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/23 08:16 AM
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There are some good points here, but also some I disagree with. I say this as someone who married a "cute" lady. I have always prioritised cute, even when dating. I always tried to date marriage material (I approached dating quite conservatively - I mean, why risk the temporary satisfaction of putting my schlong in crazy, if it could royally screw over my life and leave me as a young dad?). Besides, I always found that my archetype as a man (studious, some nerdy traits, "nice", slightly conserva…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:40 AM
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If anyone ever admits that they feel the need to lie, run a mile. It's even more alarming that she sees her lying as justified and blames men, rather than herself. I wonder what other poor life decisions she will blame men for. I also wonder how this lady would respond if she were approached by a male pornstar who is also just looking for a serious relationship. That would be a fair equivalent, no?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/23 08:15 AM
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So much for female empowerment, if so-called progressives are now magically disregarding the freedom of 19 year old women to choose whichever partners they want. I'll admit, I don't think anyone would want their 19 year old daughter going for a wealthy man old enough to be their dad, but it is ultimately their choice huh. As for Leo, it's his choice too. Nobody is being hurt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/23 10:09 PM
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Perfect responses from the guy - he kept it kosher and nobody was hurt, but he still trolled her just the right amount, considering her toxic behaviour. It takes someone with genuine confidence in themselves, to be assertive yet respectful like this total chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/23 07:12 PM
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Because people like drama and care more about age gaps than the fact that 19 year olds are fully capable of consenting to sex with any adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:06 PM
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Dating as a heterosexual man is a bit like being a door to door salesman. Ladies usually hold the keys to sex, but then men tend to hold the keys to relationships and marriage. But none of this changes anything. Many guys give girls grief for all the stuff mentioned in my comment, at numerous stages of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:31 PM
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It is natural to be attracted to a combination of both. Some of our preferences are shallow things about appearance, but there is nothing wrong with that. Other preferences are more deep rooted about character. Nobody will be perfect, but some people may be good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:04 AM
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I am lucky to have a very kind and courteous s/o. That said, it took me quite a lot of dating around and disappointment to find someone like this. I was not even looking for perfection, but just someone good enough for a long term relationship to work out. Some examples of the typical bs I had to face during the dating game, from other ladies... Lying Starting drama for literally no reason Emotionally abusive and narcissistic behaviour Character assassinating me to friends, if things weren't goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:59 AM
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There's an element of truth in what you write, but similarly toxic things can also be said about women in relationships... Is she looking commit? Well, eww she's looking to marry and I don't wanna be tied down. Is she just looking to casually date around? Well, eww she's too promiscuous. Does she have a good job? Well, eww she's too busy and stressed all the time - she's also just trying to wear the trousers. Does she not have a good job? Well, eww she's just a gold digging parasite pursuing a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:40 AM
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She basically wants a perfect man to worship her, who lacks any serious imperfections. She has very little to say about herself, but a lot to demand from Mr Right. I think we can all better understand a young naive person treating a dating app like a wishing well for Prince Charming, but it's quite shocking to see a mature person acting like this. The entire fact that she feels the need to lie about her age (and likely posted younger photos) is a huge red flag. She's the perfect kind of candidat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/23 04:21 PM
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Call me a party pooper, but where in any of this is she complaining about a lack of good men? Edit: Also, asexual people absolutely do exist. There is nothing in this lady's profile to suggest that she isn't being genuine and seeking a partner with similar preferences.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/23 09:46 AM
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What exactly does "Bottom" refer to, in the Details section?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/23 12:37 AM
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Agreed - the dating profile and comments here are really funny, but gotta respect that she's just looking to date within her own community / culture. I don't see any complaining about a lack of good men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/23 03:29 PM
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On the plus side, this may be the first post today where no weird rude requests were made about personal finances.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/23 09:19 PM
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3 kids and an ongoing divorce at age 26, in a developed country, is certainly quite an interesting situation. Unless she has rich parents (which she probably doesn't), I wouldn't call the situation of 3 kids, an ongoing divorce and a likely underpaid elderly carer career (as respectful as that career is), at age 26, "financially stable". Notice how her only requests for a man are about his career and personal finances. No requests about personality, interests etc.? I think I'll have to politely …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/23 09:15 PM
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Tbh, probably a divorcee looking to get back into the dating game. Still, her requirements are very very high and specific. It's a dating app, not a food delivery service.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/23 09:09 PM
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"Open minded people only...." [Proceeds to then specify a hate list of entire political and religious demographics.]
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/23 06:52 AM
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Man, this weirdo really thinks she holds the keys to sex and that she can use it as a bargaining chip to enforce her political views. NEXT!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/23 10:24 AM
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